Between Random And Real Podcast EP 55 I Get Active

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What it do, what it is, how you feel, y'all now.
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Tune in between random and real.
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It's your boy Just Kyle.
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And it's your girl, TJ.
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We back with another episode, man.
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Just like that.
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Back with another one.
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Uh-uh-uh.
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Back with another one.
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A.
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Yeah, man.
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We've been gone for a minute.
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Sorry.
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I know, I know.
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We say that every single time.
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It's like, how many times does somebody get a pass when they say sorry?
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It's like, stop being sorry.
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Yeah, stop being sorry.
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You sound like an abusive husband.
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Um, you know, never know.
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Like, sorry.
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Slap your face on the wall.
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I don't got my wife beater on right now, so I'm chilling right now.
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Oh my goodness.
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Is that where wife beater came from?
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Yep.
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For real?
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No, I don't know, but Why do they call that wife beater?
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They call it fit though.
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Like, that do look like something that somebody would beat their wife in.
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No, it don't.
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Most of those guys aren't even married.
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It sounds like something a bully in the uh no, like a a guy that sits in his yard and has the weights in his yard, and he just lifts the dumbbells.
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Yeah, that dude.
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That could be a wife beater indeed.
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Yeah, that's a wife beater dude.
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Yeah.
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That's wearing a wife beater.
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Yeah, he just sitting in his yard, got the dumbbells just curling in the middle of 97 degrees heat.
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Where did wife beater come from?
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Let's see.
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Let's see if Google has an answer.
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Honestly, it's probably came from the white supremacists.
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Not gonna lie.
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It didn't come from us.
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They try to make things seem a little seem day more dangerous than it is.
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We can't just wear no tank top.
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When black people wear tank tops, it's white beaters.
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It says, um Damn, the AI is funny as hell.
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This is what AI said.
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A white ribbed tank top became known as a wife beater due to pop culture stereotypes from the from mid to late 20th century media linking the undershirt to abusive working class male characters.
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I told you it came from the white supremacist who was just one to the make fun and and put stereotypes on us.
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That's interesting.
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I didn't even have to Google that.
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I already knew.
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You wouldn't know where the N-word comes from?
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You want to know where that comes from next?
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Because I know half of y'all kids don't even know because y'all don't even be teaching y'all kids.
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Y'all be calling y'all kids the N-word, but don't even teach y'all kids where the N-word comes from.
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Ain't that wild.
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Ain't that wild.
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But they putting them in the schools where they calling them the N-word.
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They call them themselves the N-word.
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And then the parents is calling them the N-word too.
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Yeah, yeah.
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I ain't gonna lie to y'all.
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I there's no bigger pet peeve than hearing a parent call their child the N-word.
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That is my pet peeve.
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Call me what you want.
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But I do not like hearing when a parent call their child, and I don't even got kids, but I'm judging you.
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Does it does it matter like how old the kid is?
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Like what if it's a grown kid?
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Like you grown and you're your parents said, come here, Looney.
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Like why why you grown and you talking to your child like that?
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I don't know.
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I mean I'm saying like they child grown.
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Like they child grown.
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Yeah.
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I mean, maybe I don't like the word in general.
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I'm not acting like I don't use the word.
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Yes, I've used the word.
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I'm about to say you didn't call me Negro, please.
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Didn't anybody tell you this was an all-white party?
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Somebody get this jigaboo away from me.
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Oh man God.
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I forgot your question.
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It's all good.
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It's all good.
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That was a random topic for today.
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But um, it's crazy though, because like like I said, we've been gone for a minute.
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I mean, we was uh we was prepping for that for that 10K.
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We did the um the around the crown drone.
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Yes, we did the around the crown here in Charlotte, Uptown Charlotte.
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How did you feel?
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Because that was hard.
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Yeah, that ain't gonna lie, bro.
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I no amount of training I did would have prepared me for that race.
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For real?
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I I underestimated, I underestimated it a little bit.
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I mean, we ran faster that that race though.
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Um, but yeah, man, that jump was uh yeah, that jump was a killer.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Nah, that that was the race.
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That's a that's real.
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That race was probably the hardest run I've ran.
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Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying.
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That was the hardest.
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Not gonna lie, I don't think we trained hard enough.
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That's what I'm saying.
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That's what I'm saying.
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I don't think uh the training that I did prepared me for that.
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Me either.
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But um we should have done more heels.
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Yeah, I probably should have done more heels.
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I told you we should have switched up heat, but honestly though, I I feel like I feel like we mean well, we're gonna go Google like heels.
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No, but I'm just saying different terrains.
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I feel like we did we have some different terrains.
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All right, let me let me let's be honest to our audience.
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Jesska is a grandpa, he liked things to be the same how he's used to it.
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He don't want no change, right?
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It's like your grandpa.
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He he wants his cigarettes right next to his beer.
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And he wants his peanut butter jelly sandwich.
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I do eat peanut butter sounds, but not too close.
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They don't want to touch.
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He's just like that.
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Like when it comes to running, I'm like, yo, let's try a different trail.
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Let's let's challenge ourselves because we run the same trail over and over and over again, which is cool.
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But also, one, I get bored, I'm a Gemini.
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But two, it's just like I want some different scenery, and we gotta challenge ourselves on like something that we don't expect that's coming.
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Because we running the same thing.
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I know when the hill is coming.
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It depends.
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Like, if I'm trying to measure my success, then I want to run that trail.
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Cause I'm trying to see, like, okay, am I getting better?
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Am I getting faster on this trail?
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Okay, all right, getting faster.
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Oh no, I'm regressing.
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Why am I going slower on this trail?
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Like, I'm trying to if I'm trying to measure my success, I'm gonna run that, I'm gonna run the same, I'm gonna run the same trail just because I'm trying to like measure my success.
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But if you run in races, but I ain't running races.
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That'd be my other thing.
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Like, I don't, I don't, I look, I don't care for running like that, to be honest.
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I be getting tired.
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You know, running is cool just for the exercise, but like when you say you're trying to change up the scenery, I'm not thinking about the scenery.
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I'm thinking about getting a run over with.
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So I really don't care where we run.
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We can run in the damn parking lot if we want to run a circle, run a circle, but that ain't that don't be my interest.
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I just want to go get the run over with, go home.
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Yeah, that's the difference.
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I like running.
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Yes, you are.
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It is but there's an extent I don't like run, like I like a good two miles.
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Two miles, good.
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I could do that.
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A good we just run too casual, a casual two miles.
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Why did we just run 6.3 miles on the damn highway if all you like do is two miles?
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Because I also like to challenge myself, and I also like doing things I ain't never done before.
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So when something I ain't never done before comes in my uh per perception, I couldn't find the right one.
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Your perception, yeah.
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It's something that comes in in my windshield, then I'ma try it.
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You ain't gotta pin press me.
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How'd you feel about it, right?
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Man, man, it was hard.
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It was hard.
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But ask me, ask me when I do it again.
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You said you, I mean, I would do it again because I want to measure my success.
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So we get we running that same route measuring my success.
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See, okay, I'm doing better on this hill this time compared to last week.
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You're gonna do the same hill for three years.
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I think I'm doing better on this hill.
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I mean, I know I ran this hill three times this week.
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Amen.
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But uh I'm just saying, I was point zero zero zero two facts.
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I'm talking about the race.
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Like the that race is gonna be the same course, the same road, with the same map.
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So measuring my success on that highway.
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Yeah, unless I sign you up for another race.
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Yeah, yeah.
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You say you're not going over uh 10k, so right this year.
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I don't know what's my I don't know what I'm gonna be on next year.
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Next year I might want to be an astronaut.
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Who knows?
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I might give up on that.
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You ain't finna be no astronaut each other.
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I know I can't, I know I can't be what I wanna be what I wanna be.
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If I work harder, if I work hard at it, I be where I wanna be.
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I be I know nobody was speaking life to you as a chap.
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I'm just saying, you was not you were not finna go to no doggone space.
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You you scared to swim.
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You ain't finna go to no space.
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I would go to space.
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No, you wouldn't, bro.
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Yes, I would.
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Yes, I would.
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That's too far from the city lights.
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That's way too far from the city lights.
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Listen, I will go camping.
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I don't care about the city lights.
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I don't need the city lights.
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You already know me.
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I'd be in the middle of the woods by myself.
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Some some one of my um one of my co-workers had told me, um, like I didn't even know you can do this, but you can rent private like campground space.
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So like people just buy land and they rent that shit out as campground space.
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Yeah, some, some, some, and it's like private, so like it may be like fenced off or something like that.
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Um, but I never knew you could do that.
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Yeah, why not?
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She said sometimes it it could be like you know, the the owners may have like they they crib or something on there, but it's like a lot of acres, so it's kind of far.
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And then some it just don't be nothing, it just be the land.
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Yeah, I said, Wow, you didn't think that?
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Yeah, why can't we just we just need to go buy some land and rent it out?
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Yeah, but you gotta buy land in the right spot, yeah.
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Yeah, you can't like just buy land in the city and then think somebody gonna be a couple of things.
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Of course, who's camping in the city?
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Who's camping right next to sugar cookie?
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You might because you that's what I'm saying.
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Like you be you be saying you're trying to go camping, but as soon as a little bug fly on you was a small bug, too.
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Uh, the smallest bug, I don't even know what it was.
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Like it might have been a little net.
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Started acting like it was a damn snake.
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Okay, wrapped around your leg.
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What do you think is gonna happen when you camping?
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Okay, listen, I will go camping and still scream when a bug touched my leg.
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Too big.
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You better be screaming, you gotta be screaming on that.
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Things can exist, you gotta adapt.
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It's a challenge.
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It's a challenge.
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I don't mind screaming on that.
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If we're gonna go on fear factor, God gave life.
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If we're gonna go on fear factor, who's gonna be able to do that?
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You need to prepare yourself for that.
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We say we're gonna sign up for that.
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That's one reality show that you said we're gonna do together.
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I've never said that.
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Okay.
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If anything, already sign us up, so it doesn't matter.
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If anything, we're doing like wife swap.
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Hell no.
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Hell no.
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They don't even do that.
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They shouldn't bring that show back.
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They should bring that show back, though.
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They shouldn't.
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I would not do that.
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They should bring that show back.
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I would not do that show.
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First off, I don't like staying in other people's houses.
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They should bring that show back.
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That was a good show.
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Like, what if it's like because it always shows like nine times out of ten, like the wife was the problem.
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Huh?
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It always showed like the wife was a problem.
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You you repeated yourself.
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You didn't have to.
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It did.
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The wife was always trying to come in and use her tactic like off rip.
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Like didn't even get to know the fam, didn't adjust, adapt to they should just go in straight off of what she used to do instead of adapting.
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No, the kids are just lazy, and the husband is lazy.
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Doesn't listen to his wife.
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That is that's listen to his wife.
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I'm not listening to no random ass girl that came in my house.
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But he ignores his real wife, and then with a new wife comes in, he's like, Oh, there's a new person in here.
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Let me talk to her and get to know her.
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Oh, I didn't see that one.
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Yeah, I don't know.
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I just made that uh okay.
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She's probably making it up anyway.
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Back to the running.
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Back to the running.
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Um, I I do like seeing like a lot of a lot more people running, more run clubs coming up.
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I don't know why they're trying to sexualize these run clubs as if they're like, you know, sex clubs, but um Yeah, they're wherever you want it to be.
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If you go in there with the thought process of I'm trying to find a somebody for tonight, then of course you're gonna find that.
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Seek it, you shall find.
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But people, people are blaming clubs on their own thoughts.
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They blame it, what you and your own actions.
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You went to a run club and you met somebody and you and you did what you did with them, and now you got an issue with the run club because he done moved on.
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That's useless.
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They're gonna give any excuse not to work out.
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Get it off your ass and work out because it did all these blackouts.
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I really want to know what these people that's like, and I love all my people, all different shapes and sizes, but like it gets to a point where your health gotta be a well.
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What you gonna do when when it's the end of the world?
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Because you can't you can't run, you ain't no flight.
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I really want to know, like, what is your what are you gonna do?
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You said ain't no flight.
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Ain't no flight, ain't no running.
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You can't run.
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Cause I'm trying, I'm trying to figure out like even, but even like on a serious note, like even when it comes to like, you know, your little kids, like I I saw a video where this where this stroller was rolling into a street, and the lady was so out of shape, she couldn't even chase her stroller.
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Somebody had to go go get it.
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If it wasn't for that person, her kid would have got hit by a car.
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Stroller was rolling and rolling, just rolling, but I gotta get y'all gotta get y'all shape in check.
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So damn.
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Y'all helping check.
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She had to get somebody else to get the stroller.
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Somebody else, because she she was too big and she ended up falling, trying to chase after the stroller.
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Damn.
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Not even fit to be p.
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Uh-uh.
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Don't say it.
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Literally.
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It's a real, it's just something to think about, man.
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I do like seeing more people get active though, and and you know, starting and running and stuff like that.
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And running, that's a that's a sport where it's like literally no judgment.
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Like you, you it's literally just a competition with yourself.
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So bro, just get off your ass and do that shit, bro.
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Facts.
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I saw somebody on social media say running is expensive.
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No, it's not.
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No, just run.
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Run if running to me is the least expensive sport, low-key.
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I mean, maybe yoga's kind of not that expensive.
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No, yoga's expensive.
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Running, you do that on your own.
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Yeah, just walk out, go outside.
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Go outside, grab the most expensive thing, is your shoes.
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Yeah, and I ran in regular Nikes for a long time before I actually ran in actual specific running shoes, yeah.
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Like Air Maxes and ran.
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I feel like that's the most least expensive sport.
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Go out there and just do it.
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It takes nothing but you to step outside your house and hit the ground.
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You can run in front of your house, you can run in your neighborhood.
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Or if you just want to start by walking, then start by walking until you can make it, until you can get to a little, a little fast walk, the fast little white woman walk, you know, the older white woman walk like this.
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And then once you get past that level, you move to a little slight jog.
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And once you pass that level, you can run.
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Yeah, I agree.
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You can run.
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I agree.
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That's real tall.
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So, man, we got we gotta get y'all fitness in check.
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Um, proud of us though, we did that around the crown 10k.
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I think, like I said, that was the fastest 10k we ever did.
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The only that was the second 10k we only we ever did.
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Um, because we only ran like 6.0 mile or some change, like 6.5 or something like that.
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We only did that once before the race.
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Yeah.
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I think we finished, I think we averaged like 10, 10 minutes a mile.
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We finished like an hour and three minutes.
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Yeah, we finished in an hour and three minutes.
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I'm part of myself.
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Yeah, I'm proud of myself too.
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Yeah, woohoo!
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No, you did, you did, you did do use my motivation on that run for you.
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Audience, we challenge you to go for a walk or go for a run.
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Yeah, yeah.
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When you hear this, tomorrow, go for a walk or go for a run.
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Whatever you feel like you're capable of doing, do it.
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And if you in a chair and you can't walk or run, go for a stroll.
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And I I get it.
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Some people, you know, they might have bad ankles and stuff like that, and bad knees, they can't do something.
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But you know, you you gotta find something.
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Well, your health as well.
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Exactly.
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You gotta find something, and whatever that that is could be contributing to that.
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You know what I mean?
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Well, I mean, if hopefully, but hopefully you're not there yet.
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Hopefully you're not there yet.
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If you have the ability to be able to walk or be able to run, you should do it while you still can.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Because it's harder when you when you cannot.
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And I understand that things are real.
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Yeah, you know, issues are real.
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So switching to switching the subject a little bit, like what's what are some things, and since we're on this, like, you know, health, and that this may be something that you know people would call this, but what is something that would make you feel like more confident uh in yourself, or what's something that you do to to make yourself feel more confident?
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Oh wow, that's a deep question.
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You can be you can be running, maybe running and being being fit.
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Yeah, things that make me feel more confident.
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I realized today.
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Next year I will be a 30-year-old woman.
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Damn, you old.
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I know.
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You auntie now.
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I am auntie now.
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Wait, what?
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You was low-key kind of like auntie before that, though.
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Yeah, I'm auntie.
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Wait, what, what?
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Why you say that?
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What you mean by that?
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What what you mean?
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Because like whenever I be bringing up like the lingo and stuff like that.
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Oh, you think you're the cool one?
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I don't think I'm not saying I'm the cool.
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I'm just saying, like, I'll be bringing it up.
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You be like, what does that mean?
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What?
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Oh, that's what they say now?
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Is that my voice?
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Yeah, that's your voice.
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Well, your voice is like anywho.
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Yeah.
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Anywho.
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As a okay.
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I don't know if you guys can relate to this, but like I'm turning 30 next year and I'm still learning myself.
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Whoa.
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Whoa.
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I'm still learning myself.
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I don't know what the heck that means.
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But you know what?
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It means we're constantly evolving and changing and learning, and that's a blessing.
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You know what I thought to myself last week?
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You know, I put on some of my, I put on my favorite pair of one of my favorite pair of heels, and I thought to myself, I love wearing heels.
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I really like, really thought deep about it.
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It was like I instantly put on those heels, and I instantly had a confident boost.
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Confidence boost.
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Like it felt really, really good.
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And I realized I've been wearing heels since high school.
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Yes, I was one of those girls.
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Yes, I was that girl.
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Yeah.
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I wasn't wearing like a skinny hair, but I wear like a little boot heel in high school, a little wedge.
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Yes.
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That'd be fast, boy.
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Wearing heels in high school.
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First of all, wearing heels is not fast, and not in my opinion.
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My nana had me in little little girl heel, like the little shoes with the little heels in them.
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When I was four, going to to church and going to the doctor's office, she would dress me up and put my little heels on.
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I've been wearing heels since I was a baby.
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She taught me, she knew I was gonna be a baddie.
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Ain't that something?
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Anywho, I think I realized I was like, wow, I really love wearing heels.
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And this is what I should do more often when I feel like I need a confidence booster.
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I should wear heels.
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More ladies should wear heels.
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I'm just saying.
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I'm not saying it gotta be a tall heel.
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I'm not saying it gotta be a stiletto.
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It could be a little kid heel if that's yo speed.
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But I do think heels is an instant confidence booster.
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When I put them on, I feel like Tyra.
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I feel like Tyra Banks.
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You feel like when you feel like Tyra, you feel like dehumanizing, you know, people and shaming them because of their weight and stuff like that.
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Oh my goodness.
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That's what she was known for on America's model.
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You you young folks are just so sensitive.
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That is how you built tough skin, okay?
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Back in the day, that is But they was paying her out to be a monster, boy.
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Yeah, they were.
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Well, shout out to Tower Banks.
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I mean, what do you do?
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What's something that you do or say or anything that makes you feel more confident?
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Uh I th I think I just gotta be like, as long as I'm prepared.
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Like, it ain't really necessarily like what I got on or nothing like that.
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It's more so like before I left the house, was I was I prepared?
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Was I rushing?
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Yeah.
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Like if I if I'm rushing out the house, then I ain't gonna lie, I'm I'm probably not gonna be put together.
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I might have forgot to use the lamp roll.
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I might have forgot.
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I just I just feel less confident initially, just because I'm like, damn, like I was rushing.
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But when I'm when I'm like prepped, I'm on time, like, you know, I'm because I I I don't know if I said this before, but like I'm real, like, I be trying to be real particular and real real calculated before I do whatever I do.
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So, but as long as I'm like prepared, and you know, I'm I'm I'm more confident.
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Yeah, yeah.
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That's all I am.
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Alright, I can see that for you.
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Yeah, yeah.
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You gotta be paired.
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You don't like that spontaneous on the fly type of stuff.
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Nah, nah.
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Absolutely not.
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Yeah, no.
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I'm trying to think.
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Have we done some spontaneous though?
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You didn't I mean, probably not.
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Not with you.
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I ain't doing.
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I ain't doing.
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But you know, that may be something for y'all to think about.
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So like I wanna want y'all to go home, do y'all do some homework.
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Um, what are some things to help you, you know, be more confident?
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It can be anything.
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Yeah, it doesn't have to be about what you wear or or how you look.
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I mean, another thing is my affirmations.
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Yeah.
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I do my affirmations in the morning, and it instantly gives me a spiritual boost.
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Yeah.
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But yeah, y'all, it's okay if you're like me that you're in your late 20s or going on your 30s or in your 30s, and you're still learning yourself.
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Because guess what?
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We will always continue to learn ourselves and evolve and continue to grow.
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Yeah, and that's the exciting uh part about life.
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Yeah.
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And about you.
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Nobody's you.
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All right, now she she troll, she's trolling now.
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She's doing too much.
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Nobody's you.
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Doing too much.
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All right, um, yeah, we ain't we ain't here to speak life into these people.
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We here to give them some entertainment.
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Okay, well that entertain us then.
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Yeah, she's talking about some.
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Entertain us.
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We don't do nothing for y'all.
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I'm just playing.
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I'm just playing.
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Appreciate appreciate you for speaking life into these people.
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Some people need that.
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And I want to say it's Suicide Awareness Month, too.
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So oh wow.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Uh so yeah.
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Check on your people.
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When we go pick up food, why are they asking for a tip?
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I think it's a carry out order.
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I'm confused by that.
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Yeah.
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I think everyone is asking for tips now.
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Is that new?
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Yes.
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I don't remember that.
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I think it's new.
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So can y'all give us or explain to us what is tipping culture in America now?
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Because I I think we lost the plot.
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Well, at least in the beginning, I thought tipping culture was for, you know, our waitresses or other um other service uh providers who don't make minimum wage and are given like what, two, three, whatever, less than minimum wage, and they make most of their money from tips, the people that they provide service to.
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That's what I thought.
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That was the beginning, right?
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But now everybody asking for a tip.
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I pick up my own pizza, I go to the register, it's$17.89.
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Would you like to provide us a 15%, 20%, or 25% tip?
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Who is the tip going to?
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Is it going to the cashier?
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Is it going to the person who made the pizza?
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I came and picked up my own.
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Should be going back to the customer.
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If I'm coming to pick it up.
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I mean, I'm coming to pick it up.
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Yeah, I don't know.
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I don't, I don't get that.
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I definitely don't get giving a tip on carry out.
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I I don't understand.
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But depending on like how how nice the person is, I might, you know, just put like$2,$3 on it.
00:25:27.119 --> 00:25:28.880
But I don't be nothing egregious, you know.
00:25:29.039 --> 00:25:30.000
Ain't nothing crazy.
00:25:30.319 --> 00:25:32.799
You got something wrong.
00:25:35.519 --> 00:25:36.640
I don't understand.
00:25:36.799 --> 00:25:46.960
I mean, I feel like I'm starting to see tips like I requested in places that aren't even restaurants.
00:25:48.160 --> 00:25:48.480
Yeah.
00:25:48.720 --> 00:25:53.119
You haven't seen like a tip like in like the grocery store?
00:25:53.279 --> 00:25:55.680
Or like a tip in like a regular tip.
00:25:55.839 --> 00:25:59.119
Or like a regular, like you go to a boutique and they ask for a tip.
00:25:59.759 --> 00:26:06.960
I've never seen no you never seen a tip at outside places, or also like hear me out, hear me out.
00:26:08.319 --> 00:26:10.400
Don't get mad at me, ladies.
00:26:11.039 --> 00:26:26.000
But if I'm going to your suite and you a hair professional and you charge me, let's say$200 for my braids, all that$200 go straight to you, right?
00:26:26.960 --> 00:26:29.279
Am I supposed to give you a 25% tip?
00:26:29.599 --> 00:26:31.599
Am I supposed to give you a 20% tip?
00:26:35.039 --> 00:26:36.480
But they ask for tips.
00:26:36.640 --> 00:26:48.559
I mean, not all of them, but some of them on their like whatever device they might use, whether it's like a square or style seat or whatever.
00:26:48.960 --> 00:26:54.240
It's like, oh, would you like to give a 25, 30, 15 to it?
00:26:54.640 --> 00:27:03.920
Is that is that the new norm now that we add on another extra$20,$30 to the service?
00:27:04.000 --> 00:27:06.160
Because the service was already$250.
00:27:06.319 --> 00:27:07.519
So that tip ain't chip.
00:27:07.599 --> 00:27:11.359
It ain't it a 15% tip, ain't it ain't$10.
00:27:12.480 --> 00:27:17.759
So so maybe maybe the businesses need to consider like their prices before they ask you.
00:27:18.000 --> 00:27:19.839
Yeah, just put the tip in the price.
00:27:20.079 --> 00:27:24.400
And if I feel in generous, I give you an extra five, ten dollars.
00:27:24.640 --> 00:27:27.279
Maybe fifteen if I really fucked with you.
00:27:27.519 --> 00:27:28.079
So what's the right?
00:27:28.640 --> 00:27:31.519
I feel like if you work for yourself, you're setting those prices.
00:27:31.839 --> 00:27:38.000
So So what's the right, what's the right amount of tip to give for those different services?
00:27:38.079 --> 00:27:45.920
Whether it's like, you know, you eating at a restaurant, getting your hair, you're getting your hair done, what's a what's a what's the right percentage?
00:27:46.160 --> 00:27:49.680
I was always told 15, 18, 20.
00:27:51.039 --> 00:27:52.480
That's what I was always told.
00:27:52.640 --> 00:27:57.200
15, you know, that's like, okay, you did what you were supposed to do.
00:27:57.359 --> 00:27:58.240
18, 20.
00:27:58.400 --> 00:27:59.680
Ooh, you spectacular.
00:27:59.920 --> 00:28:00.400
Right.
00:28:01.200 --> 00:28:02.240
I liked you.
00:28:02.559 --> 00:28:04.319
You did everything and more.
00:28:04.960 --> 00:28:06.400
That's what I was always told.
00:28:06.480 --> 00:28:15.359
But y'all tell me if if the tip rules have changed, because everybody's asking for it.
00:28:15.519 --> 00:28:19.440
Do you do you think it's right to not leave anything, regardless of?
00:28:19.680 --> 00:28:22.160
I feel like I have to leave it now that I see it.
00:28:22.400 --> 00:28:24.079
Well, some some people don't leave nothing.
00:28:24.160 --> 00:28:25.599
Like some people don't even tip.
00:28:26.640 --> 00:28:28.160
I be looking at them like they're crazy.
00:28:29.200 --> 00:28:31.359
If you don't tip, I'll be looking at you folks like they crazy.
00:28:31.519 --> 00:28:32.480
We eating up.
00:28:32.720 --> 00:28:34.079
I ain't gonna tip, bruh.
00:28:34.400 --> 00:28:36.640
Bruh, if you're eating, okay, restaurant.
00:28:36.880 --> 00:28:47.119
If we're talking about just specifically a restaurant, then yes, if you have a waiter, you're supposed to tip your waiter or you know, your restaurant, yes.
00:28:47.440 --> 00:28:53.039
But if I'm carrying out, I don't understand what service you provide.
00:28:53.599 --> 00:28:55.680
Yeah, I think what restaurants need to explain that.
00:28:55.759 --> 00:28:56.960
Like, why are y'all asking for tips?
00:28:57.440 --> 00:28:59.519
And who is the tip going to?
00:28:59.759 --> 00:29:02.319
Yeah, I never understood that.
00:29:02.559 --> 00:29:07.440
All you all the person asked me was my name, and then they gave me the bag.
00:29:08.400 --> 00:29:10.880
So why am I giving a tip?
00:29:12.720 --> 00:29:23.440
But if you're like a beauty professional or you know, whatever, and you're like a nail tech and you work in a nail salon, I know like you have to pay a certain like all the money is not going to you.
00:29:23.519 --> 00:29:24.880
So yeah, I'm gonna tip.
00:29:25.200 --> 00:29:25.839
Yeah.
00:29:26.400 --> 00:29:27.039
Yeah.
00:29:28.240 --> 00:29:29.039
I don't know.
00:29:29.200 --> 00:29:31.519
Maybe maybe it's because of inflation.
00:29:31.599 --> 00:29:33.039
Maybe they're just trying to get some extra bread.
00:29:33.200 --> 00:29:33.519
Yeah.
00:29:33.680 --> 00:29:43.039
They because that it's crazy though, because the the the prices on a on the on the thing, items on their on their menu is going up, and they still asking for tips.
00:29:43.279 --> 00:29:44.240
And they still ask a tip.
00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:45.759
Bro, this food.
00:29:45.920 --> 00:29:48.000
I remember when this sandwich was$12.
00:29:48.480 --> 00:29:49.839
Now it's 19.
00:29:50.400 --> 00:29:51.200
That's crazy.
00:29:51.440 --> 00:29:53.039
And you're asking for a tip.
00:29:53.440 --> 00:29:54.640
That's crazy.
00:29:55.680 --> 00:30:01.519
But you know, people who provide a service, waiters, they deserve your tip.
00:30:01.680 --> 00:30:03.759
Nail techs, you work in a nail salon.
00:30:04.400 --> 00:30:10.400
If you're, you know, a hairstylist and you work in a hair salon and I know all this money is not going to you, of course I'm gonna give you that tip.
00:30:10.559 --> 00:30:18.319
But if you're like setting your own prices, am I obligated to give that 25-35% tip?
00:30:20.640 --> 00:30:24.559
I mean, the braids, you told me the braids was already 260.
00:30:26.079 --> 00:30:28.640
I gotta give you an extra 30 floating.
00:30:31.839 --> 00:30:32.960
It's a little confusing.
00:30:33.119 --> 00:30:39.680
So y'all, y'all let us know what what are y'all's tips rules that you abide by?
00:30:42.240 --> 00:30:43.359
Because I need to know.
00:30:43.440 --> 00:30:51.359
I don't want to be the brokey in the back that y'all talk about because I ain't getting the tip when I came and got my pizza.
00:30:52.880 --> 00:30:54.480
Y'all let me know.
00:30:55.440 --> 00:30:57.920
Well, yeah, but I guess that's your tip.
00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:02.160
Well, um, guys, moving right along.
00:31:02.240 --> 00:31:05.200
I guess we can go ahead and jump into uh just got a news guy.
00:31:05.519 --> 00:31:09.519
Just got it a news guy.
00:31:15.920 --> 00:31:16.559
All right.
00:31:16.799 --> 00:31:20.400
So man, I know it's not October yet, but I thought this was pretty interesting.
00:31:20.559 --> 00:31:23.119
Um, you know, we are gonna be getting into spooky season.
00:31:23.200 --> 00:31:25.119
So I was like, man, why not bring this up?
00:31:25.200 --> 00:31:25.920
Why not bring this up?
00:31:26.000 --> 00:31:28.880
So I got a couple topics, a couple little spooky topics for you.
00:31:28.960 --> 00:31:30.000
Just a little bit.
00:31:30.480 --> 00:31:34.799
First one, how haunted is your state?
00:31:35.440 --> 00:31:37.519
Okay, how haunted is your state?
00:31:37.680 --> 00:31:51.359
So it was this um this uh this group that that did uh some research and they went around determining, you know, what's the what state has like the most paranormal sightings or stories or occurrences and things like that?
00:31:51.599 --> 00:31:53.759
Can you guess what was number one?
00:31:56.880 --> 00:32:03.599
I am going to assume that it is New Mexico.
00:32:07.440 --> 00:32:09.039
Did you want to try again?
00:32:09.279 --> 00:32:11.519
Or are you done giving guesses?
00:32:12.799 --> 00:32:13.519
Las Vegas.
00:32:14.160 --> 00:32:14.640
Nevada.
00:32:15.440 --> 00:32:17.920
Sorry, Las Vegas and not States, so I said Nevada.
00:32:18.079 --> 00:32:18.400
Uh-uh.
00:32:18.640 --> 00:32:20.720
Okay, okay, I get it.
00:32:21.039 --> 00:32:22.880
I get it, I got it wrong.
00:32:24.000 --> 00:32:24.880
Are you ready?
00:32:25.119 --> 00:32:25.680
Yeah.
00:32:25.920 --> 00:32:27.920
Number one is actually New York.
00:32:28.319 --> 00:32:29.759
I thought New York.
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:33.759
I literally thought New York because we watched that whole documentary about old girl.
00:32:34.160 --> 00:32:39.119
She was living in New York, and she got abducted by the aliens.
00:32:40.720 --> 00:32:42.400
What that gotta do with ghosts?
00:32:42.640 --> 00:32:44.000
Oh, we talk about ghosts.
00:32:44.079 --> 00:32:45.519
I thought we were talking about paranormal.
00:32:45.599 --> 00:32:48.240
I put ghosts and paranormal and all that in the same.
00:32:48.559 --> 00:32:49.440
I get it, I get it.
00:32:49.519 --> 00:32:50.880
Yeah, we're talking about ghosts.
00:32:51.119 --> 00:32:52.799
So it says New York racked up.
00:32:53.039 --> 00:32:54.400
I was talking about aliens the whole time.
00:32:54.480 --> 00:32:56.880
That's why I said New Mexico and Nevada, duh.
00:32:57.200 --> 00:33:06.480
It says New York had they have, I don't even know how they can confirm this, but it they have 160,198 spirit encounters.
00:33:06.960 --> 00:33:14.000
And it's about 81 run-ins with spirits per 10,000 residents over the last 100 years, based off of what researchers now.
00:33:14.160 --> 00:33:19.039
I mean, it kind of makes sense because New York probably has what the highest population?
00:33:19.359 --> 00:33:20.559
Yes, other people in New York.
00:33:20.640 --> 00:33:20.880
Yeah, yeah.
00:33:20.880 --> 00:33:26.400
But I mean, New York, so they would have probably the most ghosts, right?
00:33:26.960 --> 00:33:27.519
Right?
00:33:27.839 --> 00:33:28.640
I guess so.
00:33:28.799 --> 00:33:30.079
I guess it makes sense.
00:33:30.319 --> 00:33:31.599
You know who comes in second?
00:33:31.759 --> 00:33:33.279
I'll give you another chance, I guess.
00:33:33.599 --> 00:33:34.000
Cali?
00:33:35.599 --> 00:33:35.920
No.
00:33:37.839 --> 00:33:40.079
What no, it's not Cali.
00:33:40.319 --> 00:33:41.920
Is it a state that I wouldn't think of?
00:33:42.240 --> 00:33:42.799
I don't know.
00:33:43.119 --> 00:33:46.000
Uh I think I feel like it's Pennsylvania.
00:33:46.240 --> 00:33:48.400
I will say Cali is on the list though.
00:33:49.359 --> 00:33:50.559
It's not Pennsylvania.
00:33:50.880 --> 00:33:51.440
Nah.
00:33:53.440 --> 00:33:54.720
Okay, Texas.
00:33:55.039 --> 00:33:55.599
Yeah.
00:33:55.920 --> 00:33:57.440
Texas is second.
00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:04.240
Texas is second, and they have their spirit sightings is about 77 per 10,000 people.
00:34:05.759 --> 00:34:08.400
And then third, you have Louisiana.
00:34:08.719 --> 00:34:09.840
Louisiana?
00:34:10.320 --> 00:34:11.280
That kind of makes sense.
00:34:11.519 --> 00:34:12.239
Not gonna lie.
00:34:13.280 --> 00:34:14.239
Don't say too much now.
00:34:14.400 --> 00:34:16.320
I ain't gonna lie, that kind of makes sense.
00:34:16.559 --> 00:34:25.920
Um, and then I wanna say fourth is California, and then fifth, I think, is might be Florida.
00:34:27.679 --> 00:34:28.639
No, Florida.
00:34:29.679 --> 00:34:31.199
It's not Florida, it's Utah.
00:34:31.360 --> 00:34:33.119
I think Utah is filled.
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:34.719
Yeah, yeah.
00:34:34.960 --> 00:34:37.360
I feel like the ghost would be hot in Florida.
00:34:37.599 --> 00:34:38.880
Yeah, it'd be humid.
00:34:38.960 --> 00:34:40.320
I don't think they'd like Florida a lot.
00:34:40.480 --> 00:34:41.519
They're not really feeling it.
00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:42.719
But look in North Carolina though.
00:34:42.800 --> 00:34:44.079
What North Carolina got?
00:34:44.239 --> 00:34:44.800
Not much.
00:34:45.039 --> 00:34:47.039
That North Carolina, and I'm surprised.
00:34:47.280 --> 00:34:48.559
Why are you surprised by that?
00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:51.360
Because it's a southern, you know, it's a southern state.
00:34:51.440 --> 00:34:52.079
I just be assuming like.
00:34:52.480 --> 00:34:54.480
Ghost is not associated with suts.
00:34:55.039 --> 00:34:56.400
I'm just thinking about slavery.
00:34:56.559 --> 00:35:02.000
I'm just thinking about like all the all the deaths, like, but I'm thinking like all the south is gonna be.
00:35:02.239 --> 00:35:05.119
Our ancestors, let our ancestors rest in peace.
00:35:05.599 --> 00:35:06.159
Anyway.
00:35:06.400 --> 00:35:08.719
They're not here trying to ghost.
00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:09.280
They should.
00:35:09.519 --> 00:35:11.840
They should be hunting the fuck out of these racist ass.
00:35:12.000 --> 00:35:13.679
But we need them more now than ever.
00:35:14.719 --> 00:35:16.880
We need y'all to hunt these mugs, man.
00:35:17.039 --> 00:35:17.360
For real.
00:35:18.159 --> 00:35:20.719
We need them, what?
00:35:21.280 --> 00:35:27.199
But North Carolina, uh, they only have 46 sightings per 10,000 people.
00:35:27.360 --> 00:35:30.719
Um, which is still not not I think it's fine.
00:35:30.880 --> 00:35:32.079
Yeah, it's not too crazy.
00:35:32.239 --> 00:35:33.599
But yeah, I just thought that was interesting.
00:35:33.679 --> 00:35:34.320
I'm like, damn.
00:35:34.559 --> 00:35:35.679
Yeah, that is kind of crazy.
00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:41.199
So so if you want to go on, you know, any ghost hunting tours, it sounds like New York is the best place to do it.
00:35:41.519 --> 00:35:43.840
Because they crazy in New York.
00:35:44.159 --> 00:35:45.280
Yeah, that ain't gonna lie.
00:35:45.440 --> 00:35:52.079
Probably every other building, empty building, that's got about 1511 ghosts just chilling in there.
00:35:52.320 --> 00:35:53.920
New York crazy as hell.
00:35:55.599 --> 00:36:00.079
Ghosts and rats, they just this it's chilling in abandoned buildings.
00:36:01.360 --> 00:36:02.960
Alright, and then this next one though.
00:36:03.039 --> 00:36:03.760
This next one.
00:36:04.000 --> 00:36:13.679
So they actually went and um they went and found the most scariest roads to ever to ever drive on.
00:36:15.760 --> 00:36:18.400
Top ten, top ten scariest roads.
00:36:18.880 --> 00:36:19.360
Ooh.
00:36:20.000 --> 00:36:21.840
First one, Route 9.
00:36:22.239 --> 00:36:23.280
Guess where it's at?
00:36:23.840 --> 00:36:25.519
Oregon, New York.
00:36:26.400 --> 00:36:29.760
I just told you what to say got the most.
00:36:31.519 --> 00:36:33.360
I literally just told you.
00:36:34.000 --> 00:36:35.039
Oh my gosh.
00:36:35.199 --> 00:36:36.960
It's Sleepy Hollow, New York.
00:36:37.360 --> 00:36:40.239
Um, so it's called Route 9.
00:36:40.320 --> 00:36:52.320
So, Route 9, it says uh the stretch was voted the most scary role in America because it takes motorists through Sleepy Hollow, the clomping grounds of the headless horseman from Washington Irving's 1820 short story, The Legend of Sleepy Hollow.
00:36:52.400 --> 00:37:01.920
According to the legend, this phantom uh cavalryman is the ghost of a Heisen mercenary who got decapitated during the Revolutionary War and now haunts the Hudson Valley.
00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:09.119
So um, I guess people have said that they they have reported seeing this headless horseman.
00:37:09.199 --> 00:37:17.280
And what's also crazy is the Route 9 4445 interchange is reportedly the site of 460 crashes per year.
00:37:18.159 --> 00:37:19.840
Maybe the ghost is causing those crashes.
00:37:20.079 --> 00:37:20.639
Never know.
00:37:23.840 --> 00:37:28.000
Coming up in second, old ghost road in Brooklyn, Georgia.
00:37:28.239 --> 00:37:37.840
Um, so this road is is basically says that there's wandering spirits and inexplicit inexplicable occurrences.
00:37:38.000 --> 00:37:46.079
Um and basically passing through it is is quiet, it's an eerie landscape, and drivers often report an overwhelming sense of being watched.
00:37:46.320 --> 00:37:49.679
Um they will see lights flickering um among the trees.
00:37:49.840 --> 00:37:54.320
Uh they would see shadowy figures that just vanish um when when you approach them.
00:37:54.559 --> 00:38:00.000
Um, so and again, this is called Old Ghost Road in Brooklyn, Georgia.
00:38:00.159 --> 00:38:02.960
Um the reason I'm saying it twice because we're gonna go on all these roles.
00:38:03.119 --> 00:38:05.440
I'm gonna record it and we're gonna see what happens for sure.
00:38:05.760 --> 00:38:06.880
Alright, next one.
00:38:07.119 --> 00:38:08.159
I ain't gonna name all of them.
00:38:08.320 --> 00:38:10.159
I might go through like the top five or something.
00:38:10.320 --> 00:38:12.800
Uh uh I don't even know how if I'm pronouncing this right.
00:38:12.880 --> 00:38:13.440
Uh Apache trail.
00:38:13.679 --> 00:38:14.000
Find it out.
00:38:14.079 --> 00:38:16.400
Apache trail, Apache Trail, Apache Trail.
00:38:16.480 --> 00:38:16.719
I don't know.
00:38:16.960 --> 00:38:17.440
You didn't get it.
00:38:17.599 --> 00:38:18.719
Uh it's in Arizona, though.
00:38:18.800 --> 00:38:20.800
Superstition Mountains, Arizona.
00:38:22.079 --> 00:38:32.960
So it says this was a gold mine for ghost hunters due to the so-called sightings of spectral prospectors and shadowy forms that seem to emerge from the desert itself.
00:38:33.039 --> 00:38:37.920
Uh, the region was notably featured on the travel channel uh reality show Ghost Adventures.
00:38:38.000 --> 00:38:39.519
That used to be my shit growing up.
00:38:39.760 --> 00:38:50.960
And um, the subject to ghost tours, but the reason for its uh special name, Superstition Mountains, is because they believe this was a literal portal to hell.
00:38:52.559 --> 00:38:53.840
That don't sound fun.
00:38:56.639 --> 00:38:57.599
Going to four.
00:38:57.679 --> 00:38:59.119
Can you guess where this one is?
00:38:59.440 --> 00:39:00.480
Okay, alright.
00:39:00.639 --> 00:39:02.079
It's my turn.
00:39:02.239 --> 00:39:05.840
I'm gonna guess Texas.
00:39:06.079 --> 00:39:07.599
No, Louisiana.
00:39:07.840 --> 00:39:10.639
Haunted Highway 359, Louisiana.
00:39:12.000 --> 00:39:20.719
So drivers have reported spotting a young woman in a vintage dress silently pointing toward the wood towards the woods as if they're trying to convey a message.
00:39:21.280 --> 00:39:24.239
Um hell nah.
00:39:24.320 --> 00:39:26.719
If I ever drive past somebody, I think we just talked about that.
00:39:26.800 --> 00:39:29.519
If I ever drove past somebody, I don't give a damn who it is.
00:39:29.760 --> 00:39:31.840
Listen, y'all, I'm not stopping.
00:39:32.159 --> 00:39:33.679
I don't pick up hitchhikers.
00:39:34.159 --> 00:39:35.360
I don't care who you are.
00:39:35.599 --> 00:39:36.159
Hell no.
00:39:36.480 --> 00:39:38.320
I called 911 for you.
00:39:39.199 --> 00:39:44.079
But um this this uh this this lady she gave her a story was her and her mother-in-law.
00:39:44.159 --> 00:39:50.559
They were driving home from the casino one night and they saw something dark blocking the road about the size of a trash can.
00:39:51.199 --> 00:39:59.280
And um it was too late to switch lanes or swerve away, so they just braced for the impact because they were certain that they were gonna hit it, but they just went right through it.
00:40:00.159 --> 00:40:09.360
If I ever saw something in the middle of the road that looked like a human, I would swerve.
00:40:09.920 --> 00:40:12.960
Then you erect your car, and it's probably flipped.
00:40:13.760 --> 00:40:17.119
And then after it flipped, just to find out that it went in nobody there.
00:40:18.400 --> 00:40:18.800
Damn.
00:40:19.119 --> 00:40:23.840
So now you stuck in the middle of this ghost, this haunted ass road under a flip car.
00:40:24.480 --> 00:40:25.119
No help.
00:40:25.360 --> 00:40:26.719
Three in the morning.
00:40:27.039 --> 00:40:27.440
Dang.
00:40:27.760 --> 00:40:28.400
You know what?
00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:36.480
I always talk junk about the people in the movies, they on the road and they like they either swerve or they go through it, and it's like, what would you do in that situation?
00:40:36.639 --> 00:40:37.360
Nobody knows.
00:40:37.440 --> 00:40:38.480
Oh, you getting hit.
00:40:38.719 --> 00:40:40.960
You would hit them, but what if it's a real person?
00:40:41.679 --> 00:40:44.639
Why the hell is you in the middle of the road on the highway at 3 a.m.
00:40:44.800 --> 00:40:45.599
in the morning?
00:40:46.159 --> 00:40:47.360
It's gonna mess up your car.
00:40:47.440 --> 00:40:48.880
You're gonna end up wrecking anyways.
00:40:48.960 --> 00:40:51.360
It ain't gonna hurt somebody on the I mean if they film.
00:40:51.920 --> 00:40:52.960
At least my car won't flip.
00:40:53.119 --> 00:40:54.239
It's gonna go straight through.
00:40:54.320 --> 00:40:56.400
They they might hit the windshield, but it would.
00:40:59.199 --> 00:40:59.360
Wow.
00:40:59.519 --> 00:41:00.000
That's a good thing.
00:41:00.639 --> 00:41:01.679
Where's the empathy?
00:41:01.920 --> 00:41:02.880
What you mean?
00:41:03.039 --> 00:41:09.280
I I'm not finna, I'm not finna jeopardize myself or other people in the car just because your ass wanna stay in the middle of the road at three in the morning.
00:41:09.440 --> 00:41:14.719
I mean, I guess that sounds logical, but it's not emotionally like nice.
00:41:15.280 --> 00:41:16.559
That's a people problem.
00:41:16.719 --> 00:41:18.000
Thinking with emotions.
00:41:18.320 --> 00:41:19.360
You think logically.
00:41:19.519 --> 00:41:20.159
Okay, thanks.
00:41:20.239 --> 00:41:21.840
Well, how do you feel about me?
00:41:23.519 --> 00:41:25.360
You sound really emotional right now.
00:41:26.639 --> 00:41:29.760
All right, this is the last one I'm gonna read, but it's it's the fifth one.
00:41:30.159 --> 00:41:31.679
You guess where this one is?
00:41:34.239 --> 00:41:40.320
She discouraged from guessing about it.
00:41:40.639 --> 00:41:41.280
Oregon.
00:41:41.519 --> 00:41:42.960
No, man, Louisiana.
00:41:44.800 --> 00:41:48.639
They call it Bayou Sail Road in Franklin, Louisiana.
00:41:48.800 --> 00:41:50.639
Um, so it's crazy.
00:41:51.039 --> 00:41:53.840
I told you, I'm not surprised by Louisiana, for real.
00:41:54.079 --> 00:42:03.599
But um, it says drivers have reported seeing ghostly apparitions emerging from the swamp and eerie fog rolling across the road, um obscuring their path.
00:42:03.920 --> 00:42:12.159
And it also says that uh the dense vegetation and isolation of the area make this stretch of road particularly, you know, really scary.
00:42:12.800 --> 00:42:15.599
But um, they don't dive into all the stories.
00:42:15.679 --> 00:42:24.480
They do list all 10 of the haunted roads, and I just like I know we went through you know, New York, Georgia, Arizona, Louisiana, Louisiana.
00:42:24.639 --> 00:42:26.079
But New Mexico is on this list.
00:42:26.239 --> 00:42:28.079
State road 14, New Mexico.
00:42:28.239 --> 00:42:34.639
You got Burlington, Iowa, you got Salem, Oregon, you got uh God here, Mississippi, and another one in Arizona.
00:42:35.280 --> 00:42:36.159
Oh, Mississippi.
00:42:36.239 --> 00:42:38.480
Oh, yeah, I know that's right, crazy.
00:42:39.599 --> 00:42:43.760
But yeah, um, but and in October, I got something special for the news.
00:42:43.840 --> 00:42:45.679
Uh just got news, got topics.
00:42:45.760 --> 00:42:49.599
But I know we we're not in spooky season yet, but I just thought some of those stories was interesting.
00:42:49.840 --> 00:42:50.960
They are interesting.
00:42:51.119 --> 00:42:52.400
Keep them coming.
00:42:52.719 --> 00:42:53.440
I like that.
00:42:53.519 --> 00:42:54.079
I like that.
00:42:54.159 --> 00:42:57.519
That's crazy, but it's good that North Carolina won't really on the list for me.
00:42:58.079 --> 00:42:58.960
North Carolina not.
00:42:59.039 --> 00:43:05.119
Um just saying, I'm surprised, but we we good over her in the car, Carolinas.
00:43:05.760 --> 00:43:07.679
That's all I have for just got news, go though.
00:43:07.840 --> 00:43:08.320
All right.
00:43:08.480 --> 00:43:09.840
Well, guess what, guys?
00:43:10.000 --> 00:43:12.320
It's time for your favorite part of the show.
00:43:12.480 --> 00:43:14.719
It's time for your favorite part of the show.
00:43:14.880 --> 00:43:17.280
It's yay, or nay, with T J.
00:43:17.679 --> 00:43:19.760
Yay, or nay with T J.
00:43:20.000 --> 00:43:22.639
I gotta bone to pick with you because why you didn't do my beat?
00:43:22.719 --> 00:43:23.039
Oh, yeah.
00:43:23.119 --> 00:43:24.239
Why you didn't do my beat?
00:43:24.400 --> 00:43:24.880
I forgot.
00:43:24.960 --> 00:43:25.360
Yeah, okay.
00:43:26.239 --> 00:43:28.079
Usually you do the outro for just kind of news down.
00:43:28.239 --> 00:43:29.440
I think it threw me off.
00:43:30.239 --> 00:43:31.760
No, I do an intro.
00:43:31.840 --> 00:43:33.679
I don't outro.
00:43:33.840 --> 00:43:35.199
I don't do an outro.
00:43:35.440 --> 00:43:36.880
Oh, my fault.
00:43:37.119 --> 00:43:37.760
Do I?
00:43:38.079 --> 00:43:38.639
I don't know.
00:43:38.800 --> 00:43:40.239
I think I just do the beginning.
00:43:40.400 --> 00:43:44.000
Yeah, you just made it up just because you make it up excuses.
00:43:44.239 --> 00:43:46.480
I don't make up excuses, I make up solutions.
00:43:46.800 --> 00:43:47.119
Okay.
00:43:47.440 --> 00:43:48.639
There goes the logical.
00:43:48.719 --> 00:43:49.920
I'm logical.
00:43:51.119 --> 00:43:59.840
Anywho, and for this Y segment with TJ, we are going to talk about lending money to your friends.
00:44:01.920 --> 00:44:06.480
Listen, I feel like we all like I'm in my late 20s.
00:44:06.639 --> 00:44:10.320
You're in what 40s, 50s, 60s, you're up there, right?
00:44:11.360 --> 00:44:11.679
Okay.
00:44:12.239 --> 00:44:16.719
I'm pretty sure we've all in the past lended money to our friends.
00:44:17.039 --> 00:44:20.960
Or shit, maybe our friends lent money to me.
00:44:21.119 --> 00:44:21.920
I ain't gonna lie.
00:44:22.000 --> 00:44:23.119
I've never asked money.
00:44:23.280 --> 00:44:25.440
I asked for money from my friends, for real.
00:44:25.679 --> 00:44:26.719
Yeah, I can't, I can't recall.
00:44:27.199 --> 00:44:30.159
I can't recall, but you know, never say never.
00:44:30.320 --> 00:44:31.840
Because maybe I have in the past.
00:44:32.400 --> 00:44:33.440
Who knows?
00:44:33.760 --> 00:44:38.559
But I'm pretty sure we've we've we know we've lent money to friends before.
00:44:38.880 --> 00:44:46.719
And um that just led me to the question like, is it okay to lend money to your friends?
00:44:46.960 --> 00:44:49.760
Like, do you have an issue with that?
00:44:50.079 --> 00:44:51.760
Do you think people should?
00:44:52.000 --> 00:45:00.079
Some people talk about like, oh, I don't like lending money because people don't pay me back and I need my money.
00:45:00.639 --> 00:45:02.559
And then others is like, you know what?
00:45:02.719 --> 00:45:07.119
Like me, I when I I don't lend anything that I know I need.
00:45:07.440 --> 00:45:08.079
Yeah, exactly.
00:45:08.400 --> 00:45:11.119
Once I learn something, I already know it's gone.
00:45:11.360 --> 00:45:13.920
Like, I'm not even expecting it back.
00:45:14.239 --> 00:45:18.719
If you give it back to me, I'm like, damn, that was really nice.
00:45:18.880 --> 00:45:19.760
She really gave it to it.
00:45:20.320 --> 00:45:22.079
I'm surprised when I get my money back.
00:45:22.239 --> 00:45:22.880
Yeah, yeah.
00:45:23.119 --> 00:45:24.960
Surprised more than anything.
00:45:25.280 --> 00:45:25.920
Yeah, same.
00:45:26.000 --> 00:45:27.119
Yeah, I don't expect it.
00:45:27.440 --> 00:45:33.679
I be telling folks, like, if they say, hey man, I'm gonna get this back to you, I'll be like, bruh, you know, it's all good.
00:45:33.760 --> 00:45:35.760
You know, yeah.
00:45:36.000 --> 00:45:42.800
Um, I mean, I don't really see no see no problem with it uh unless it's like a unless it's like a pattern.
00:45:43.280 --> 00:45:49.280
Like, you know, if it's like an every month type of thing, like, it's alright, nah, game, like, you know.
00:45:49.840 --> 00:45:54.800
Because I mean, there are people that will try to take advantage.
00:45:55.039 --> 00:45:56.719
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:45:57.360 --> 00:45:59.760
But I mean, I don't see no I don't see no issue with it for real.
00:45:59.840 --> 00:46:06.800
I feel like I'm the type I'm not the type of friend to like usually I feel like most of my friends wouldn't even ask me.
00:46:06.960 --> 00:46:08.159
I wouldn't be first on their list.
00:46:08.239 --> 00:46:11.039
Cause I'm not like the give free money friend.
00:46:11.280 --> 00:46:14.800
Yeah, I feel like I feel like you're I think you would ask to be honest.
00:46:15.039 --> 00:46:16.639
You probably ask questions like what you need it for.
00:46:16.719 --> 00:46:17.840
Yeah, that's what you give.
00:46:18.000 --> 00:46:18.559
Yeah, yeah.
00:46:18.960 --> 00:46:20.800
What you need it for about all them questions.
00:46:20.960 --> 00:46:25.679
Oh, they're trying to get some shit for you asking me for my money, but you're not about to tell me where what you needed for.
00:46:27.519 --> 00:46:31.039
And that, yeah, I'll ask you, I'll probably ask you what you need it for.
00:46:31.280 --> 00:46:35.199
And then based off your answer, I'm be like, Well, why didn't you do this?
00:46:35.679 --> 00:46:36.480
Or did you do this?
00:46:36.639 --> 00:46:39.360
So now you want to ask you questions.
00:46:39.519 --> 00:46:40.320
Now you want to think logically.
00:46:40.559 --> 00:46:46.159
Then I'm like, yeah, yeah, because yeah, if you ask me I logically, now I gotta think financially.
00:46:46.800 --> 00:46:50.639
So if you make me think financially, I'm gonna make you think a little logically.
00:46:52.559 --> 00:46:53.039
So okay.
00:46:53.199 --> 00:46:57.199
So now she wanna does she pick and choose when she wants to go based off emotion and logic.
00:46:57.280 --> 00:46:57.440
Okay.
00:46:58.000 --> 00:47:04.880
I see no problem with lending money to your friends or or gifting money to your friends, as long as people don't try to take advantage of you.
00:47:04.960 --> 00:47:09.679
And if somebody's taking advantage and they asking over and over again, they're not really your friend.
00:47:09.920 --> 00:47:11.840
I mean, it's a pattern, you'll be able to see it.
00:47:11.920 --> 00:47:15.119
You can probably go look at your transactions or whatever.
00:47:15.760 --> 00:47:18.079
Someone sell$20 last week.
00:47:18.960 --> 00:47:19.360
$30.
00:47:19.840 --> 00:47:22.000
Oh man, y'all seen that shit on Venmo.
00:47:22.079 --> 00:47:26.960
Boy, they telling you, especially if you send it, you send it in and it ain't uh private.
00:47:27.119 --> 00:47:28.719
You can see what everybody's saying.
00:47:28.880 --> 00:47:34.559
Like you can see, you can see people sending money for rent, you can see people sending money for like just random.
00:47:34.800 --> 00:47:38.320
It lists with it what it's for, but people don't be be hiding it.
00:47:38.400 --> 00:47:40.400
So they business out there.
00:47:41.440 --> 00:47:42.320
I thought that was interesting.
00:47:42.400 --> 00:47:42.880
Like, damn.
00:47:42.960 --> 00:47:50.400
I when I go in there sometimes, I be seeing like the same like patterns, like, damn, this they done got this money sent to them for the same thing.
00:47:50.480 --> 00:47:51.920
Like, damn.
00:47:52.239 --> 00:47:53.280
So you be nosy.
00:47:53.519 --> 00:47:55.679
Don't let hey, hey, don't let them tell on you.
00:47:56.000 --> 00:47:56.880
Oh man.
00:47:57.280 --> 00:48:10.000
Honestly, another way I look at it too is I be so sometimes I am like when people ask me for things, or when I'm able to help somebody, I feel so blessed.
00:48:10.239 --> 00:48:13.840
Cause I'm like, dang, thank you, God, that I'm able to help this person.
00:48:14.079 --> 00:48:21.360
I'm like the fact that I'm even in a position to be to be able to help you makes me feel good.
00:48:21.599 --> 00:48:23.760
It makes me think makes me thank God.
00:48:23.920 --> 00:48:29.840
So I think that often too, because I'll be like, dang, thank you, God, for putting me in this position where I can help others.
00:48:30.079 --> 00:48:31.679
It's a good way to think about it.
00:48:32.000 --> 00:48:32.480
Yeah.
00:48:32.639 --> 00:48:32.960
Yeah.
00:48:33.280 --> 00:48:34.079
I'm not mad at that.
00:48:34.320 --> 00:48:36.239
Yeah, I think that all the time.
00:48:36.480 --> 00:48:39.039
Um, because I'm just like, dang.
00:48:39.519 --> 00:48:42.159
The fact that you even know that you can come to me.
00:48:42.239 --> 00:48:42.400
Yeah.
00:48:42.639 --> 00:48:44.400
Thank you, God, for putting me, blessing me with that.
00:48:44.559 --> 00:48:46.960
Yeah, man, that that that that that shows your character, right?
00:48:47.039 --> 00:48:47.760
Like, you know what I mean?
00:48:47.840 --> 00:48:49.840
They know you, they know you're a stand-up individual.
00:48:50.000 --> 00:48:55.280
Like, you know, they know you ain't finna like not, you know, look down on nobody.
00:48:55.599 --> 00:49:02.559
I mean, everybody being everybody go through go through hard times, and that's I think that's where you really find out who they're for you is when you're going through the most.
00:49:02.719 --> 00:49:03.440
So right.
00:49:03.599 --> 00:49:05.280
But um, but yeah, I don't got no problem with it.
00:49:05.519 --> 00:49:05.679
Right.
00:49:05.760 --> 00:49:07.679
And do it to others as you want done to you.
00:49:07.760 --> 00:49:09.760
Like, we've all shit.
00:49:10.000 --> 00:49:13.199
I done treat people like you want to be treated, bro.
00:49:13.360 --> 00:49:13.679
Facts.
00:49:13.760 --> 00:49:15.199
I look better than what I've been through.
00:49:15.280 --> 00:49:16.559
I tell y'all that now.
00:49:17.760 --> 00:49:18.800
Like, damn.
00:49:19.119 --> 00:49:23.360
So, listen, I would want somebody to to lean on.
00:49:23.519 --> 00:49:25.840
Especially there's a lot of people who don't have others.
00:49:25.920 --> 00:49:28.880
They don't, they, they really don't have the support to lean on.
00:49:29.039 --> 00:49:29.440
Yeah, yeah.
00:49:29.760 --> 00:49:35.679
So, yeah, I'm also blessed enough to not be able to go to my friends if I need something.
00:49:35.840 --> 00:49:40.000
If I need something, I got my husband or I got family.
00:49:40.239 --> 00:49:41.519
Who say you got me?
00:49:41.840 --> 00:49:43.599
Babe, don't do that on the pie.
00:49:44.960 --> 00:49:45.920
Don't do that on the pie.
00:49:46.159 --> 00:49:47.599
You embarrassing me.
00:49:49.280 --> 00:49:49.840
Twin.
00:49:50.960 --> 00:49:51.440
My fault.
00:49:51.679 --> 00:49:53.599
My father, hey, we can go get the V.
00:49:54.639 --> 00:49:55.679
Divorcee?
00:49:56.880 --> 00:49:59.519
Is that the V in the divorce?
00:50:00.159 --> 00:50:01.280
I'm just kidding.
00:50:01.519 --> 00:50:02.800
I never say that word.
00:50:02.960 --> 00:50:05.519
Y'all, I hope y'all know we just be joking on the pie.
00:50:06.239 --> 00:50:08.400
We don't talk like this in real life.
00:50:08.639 --> 00:50:10.000
What V were you talking about?
00:50:10.159 --> 00:50:11.039
Virginity.
00:50:11.360 --> 00:50:16.079
So you remember I say she don't be knowing the terms, like she don't be knowing the terms.
00:50:16.639 --> 00:50:16.800
No.
00:50:17.280 --> 00:50:18.960
You don't know the bruh.
00:50:19.199 --> 00:50:22.639
What young is you hanging out with that think you you cook so cool?
00:50:23.760 --> 00:50:25.039
Oh, the V hit cool.
00:50:28.480 --> 00:50:32.800
At first I was talking, think you was talking about generation Gen Z.
00:50:33.039 --> 00:50:33.599
Oh my god.
00:50:33.760 --> 00:50:36.480
Oh Gen X, that's the show, and they got the V in the show.
00:50:36.559 --> 00:50:38.559
When they got the V that goes in their body.
00:50:38.800 --> 00:50:40.480
Yeah, I was like, oh no.
00:50:40.719 --> 00:50:42.320
We're about to be doing drugs.
00:50:42.639 --> 00:50:43.840
You'll get the V.
00:50:44.719 --> 00:50:46.639
Okay, sign me up.
00:50:46.880 --> 00:50:48.800
Yeah, she's Sign me up.
00:50:49.519 --> 00:50:52.880
Listen, I told you I'm down for trying something new.
00:50:53.360 --> 00:50:55.039
I told you, I get boy, you ain't got a lot of people.
00:50:55.599 --> 00:50:57.360
I know how you'll be in the 80s.
00:50:57.519 --> 00:50:59.519
With that with that book of sugar.
00:51:00.079 --> 00:51:01.119
You'll be in the club.
00:51:05.039 --> 00:51:06.559
No, that's the techno music.
00:51:06.800 --> 00:51:08.159
Yeah, dun it, dun it.
00:51:08.400 --> 00:51:09.199
What's the 80s music?
00:51:14.000 --> 00:51:15.519
Sweating in the club.
00:51:15.920 --> 00:51:18.079
Sweating dripping off my face.
00:51:19.039 --> 00:51:20.960
Well, I got two big pigtails.
00:51:23.199 --> 00:51:28.639
And just white powder all in the kids at home, no babysitter.
00:51:31.440 --> 00:51:32.000
Damn.
00:51:32.400 --> 00:51:33.840
Yeah, I'm cool with it.
00:51:35.599 --> 00:51:36.960
Cool with what the mother should be.
00:51:38.559 --> 00:51:39.840
She put it on right there, too.
00:51:39.920 --> 00:51:41.039
Y'all didn't see that okay.
00:51:42.559 --> 00:51:43.280
Don't do drugs.
00:51:46.079 --> 00:51:47.360
What you cool with, the booger shoe?
00:51:47.519 --> 00:51:50.320
I feel like do unto others as you want done to you.
00:51:51.519 --> 00:51:56.239
And yeah, when you put good things out in the universe, it comes back at you.
00:51:56.320 --> 00:51:58.800
So you never know when you're gonna need help and support.
00:51:58.880 --> 00:52:01.679
So why not lend money to your friends if you have money?
00:52:01.920 --> 00:52:02.320
Yeah, yeah.
00:52:03.039 --> 00:52:03.840
Money come and go, bro.
00:52:04.000 --> 00:52:04.559
Money come and go.
00:52:05.760 --> 00:52:06.880
You can't take it when you die.
00:52:07.039 --> 00:52:07.360
Exactly.
00:52:07.679 --> 00:52:10.800
Honestly, shit, in a few years, that shit ain't gonna be worth a damn thing anyway.
00:52:11.039 --> 00:52:11.360
Anyway.
00:52:11.599 --> 00:52:14.079
All these blackouts and shit, world end and shit, crashing.
00:52:14.320 --> 00:52:17.280
The only shit that's gonna be worth some is that canned soup, some water.
00:52:17.360 --> 00:52:18.880
Y'all gonna have to start trading goods.
00:52:19.039 --> 00:52:20.800
But that money ain't gonna that shit ain't gonna work.
00:52:20.960 --> 00:52:22.639
Oh, I thought we was talking about Bitcoin.
00:52:22.800 --> 00:52:23.199
You went down.
00:52:23.599 --> 00:52:24.320
Oh, that shit damn shit.
00:52:25.760 --> 00:52:26.639
You went down this shit.
00:52:26.960 --> 00:52:28.000
Damn shit ain't about to be worth it.
00:52:28.239 --> 00:52:28.719
Hell no.
00:52:29.119 --> 00:52:30.880
Bitcoin, crypto, all that shit.
00:52:31.039 --> 00:52:31.840
Throw it out the window.
00:52:32.000 --> 00:52:32.639
Throw it out the window.
00:52:33.199 --> 00:52:40.000
Get your good, get your goods right, get your generators, get your water filtration system that you can put outside so the rain filter, all that bullshit.
00:52:40.159 --> 00:52:42.320
Because hey, bro, money comes and go, bro.
00:52:42.719 --> 00:52:43.440
It does.
00:52:43.679 --> 00:52:47.760
Well, for this yay and a segment, should you lend money to your friends?
00:52:47.920 --> 00:52:48.800
Yay, why not?
00:52:48.880 --> 00:52:51.360
If you got the money, why not?
00:52:51.519 --> 00:52:52.159
Why not, gang?
00:52:52.559 --> 00:52:56.320
Maybe one day someone's gonna need to lend money to you.
00:52:56.559 --> 00:52:58.480
And just be kind.
00:52:58.559 --> 00:53:00.559
If they're your friends, what's the issue with it?
00:53:00.880 --> 00:53:02.639
Even your family, what's the issue with it?
00:53:02.719 --> 00:53:12.559
If you got it now, if you ain't got the money to lend and you really need that money, don't be lending it because then you're gonna end up beefing with so-and-so because you needed the money back by Friday so you could pay your rent.
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Now you ain't got your money.
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Don't give no money that you don't have, but if you have the money, do unto others.
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Why not?
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Come on, fam.
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There's so many bad things happening in the world.
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If you could just do one positive thing, shit.
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Why not?
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The only positive thing, because your your life ain't filled with nothing but negative shit anyway.
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Oh wow.
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Do something positive.
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Oh wow.
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Slow down.
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I'm sorry.
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That was unnecessary, but you let it out.
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Anywho, thank y'all.
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Well, yeah, that's all I have for this for this episode.
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I know um next episode we got some got some special for show for show.
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So definitely tap in for the next episode.
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I think it's gonna be real funny.
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But um, did you have anything else?
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