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Hello everybody and welcome to the twenty twenty-sixth podcast on Ask the Answer with myself Adele Cobain and today bringing in topics all things to do with love, relationships, boundaries and energetic intimacy which I'm very intrigued to know more about.
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Let's welcome back Sherry everybody.
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Hi Adele.
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Hi everybody.
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Thank you for having me back.
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I'm so excited.
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Happy New Year.
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Yes, Happy New Year in the Gregarian calendar.
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But the new year doesn't quite start yet, Adele.
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The astrological new year starts around end of March, which is the beginning of the zodiac sign of Aries.
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That's why it's the leader.
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It's the beginning, right?
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So a lot of things are going to be wrapping up.
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As you notice, you just started to share with me before we got on here about how you're feeling a little bit more earthy, more laid back and grounded and everything.
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You want to share real quick?
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Yeah, no, I'm definitely pretty happy that the new year hasn't started astrologically.
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And I'm sure lots of people are as well, because it's sometimes a bit of a slow burner into January.
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It's a longer month.
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People are still recovering from Christmas and New Year.
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Kids are going back to school.
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You're trying to find your flow again.
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And very much the same.
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I almost feel like the rug's being pulled beneath me for me to literally stop, get grounded, sort your...
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bits out and just to yeah I've had so much car problems internet problems printer problems but because of that and because I haven't been able to do anything I've been going out for more walks I've been doing more exercise I've been prepping more for my work doing you know prepping for my classes that I teach and then also just enjoying some downtime going to the spa because my car was in the garage and I couldn't go anywhere so I thought I'll just go to the spa for a and just really taking stock of looking after myself, getting my vitamins in, water, and I feel more grounded than I have in weeks.
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So yes, there's definitely been lots of sorting out, even within the home, just still getting on top of things.
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So then I'm ready just to kickstart my year.
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Well, thank you for sharing.
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That makes total sense because Capricorn is an earth sign, so it's groundedness.
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And a lot of the Capricorn season, we're closing up.
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It's ending next week, so it's coming to a close.
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So it's basically about laying the foundation of your next cycle.
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So the universe, God's source, is asking you to go in and take on these new habits because it's going to be required now.
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for you to relax into your new phase to be grounded symbolically today it's pouring down with rain i had my raincoat on and i'm clearing out all the leaves from all the flower beds i'm like the the new flowers are going to come through for spring if i don't clear it all away i need to get rid of everything that's blocking it boy got the chills from my from my shoulders down to my arms i went i need to clear it it's not going to grow Yes, it's also like reflective in your physical reality.
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That is how I also take the signs and you reading out and getting clear to start that new foundation one brick at a time, because we're in it for the long game.
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if something's going to be successful, same thing in a relationship, right?
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Or a business or a passion projects, creativity, humanitarian projects, you have to think long-term and the universe is setting you up for that.
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It sounds like Adele, you're getting your ducks in a row and the universe is literally showing you, um, how to come into this new cycle as we approach the new year, end of March and Aries season with a regulated nervous system and getting grounded, getting your feet and bare feet and the ground and the dirt like that.
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Oh my gosh.
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You just said about the nervous system.
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I've literally been reading all about that the last few days.
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I've been having things come on my phone saying about I need to take care of my nervous system because I'm always in fight mode and I need to get out of the danger zone and have more of the calming and grounding.
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And that's what I've been doing.
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I've been trying to not be on edge all the time.
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I've got to do this.
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I've got to do that.
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I've got to do this.
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And I've been resetting my nervous system and resetting things in life.
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Yes.
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Because that's the old that's the old version of you.
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You are you are exploring a whole new version of Adele right now in energy form and universe guides us every step of the way.
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So the calmer you are, the quicker you're going to be able to read the sign synchronicities and the messages coming through as you are on your phone.
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Oh, my God.
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Do this.
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Do that.
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Like spirit is starting to lead you.
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I don't want people to think I'm making this up.
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I'm literally going to show you a screen grab of me looking at your nervous system.
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So there you go.
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What was one on the clock?
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That was one about the nervous system.
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That was just like a meditation.
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It was just like a thing that I was tuning into.
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But I was screen grabbing all the things about your nervous system.
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So when you just sit there, I'm like...
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I've been reading more about that.
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And this is one of my specialties that I do with my clients on Ask the Answer on one-on-one sessions, Adele.
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So come for a session sometime.
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I do a lot of sound healing and energetic healing over the phone.
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Of course, it's not the same as in person, but a lot gets done.
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A lot of breathing techniques that I share and different tools, ancient tools of regulating the nervous system.
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And that's going to lead me into Adele.
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I'm just going to go ahead and start with Venus.
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We are going to head into Venus and Aquarius, right?
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We have the Venus is again, just reminding the audience is the planet of love, the planet of beauty, friendships and, and harmony.
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And it's going to, you know, start, you're going to start to feel this Venus and Aquarius energy.
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If some of you might have Aquarius placements, it's going to be amplified.
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A lot of people have Venus and Aquarius placements.
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their being their love language in Aquarius.
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So it's going to make sense.
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So and if you need further guidance on it, I can help you plug into your chart and, and tune in with in your reading with some tarot or whatever else spirit needs me to use.
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So In Aquarius, in body astrology, right, in anatomy, it goes beyond the muscles and the bones and the tendons.
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I think the parts of the body governed by Aquarius have to do with less bits and pieces, but more like fields of potential.
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Meaning, you know, these like magic impulses that you might feel, you might feel flashes of aliveness, like you're kind of feeling that electricity.
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Aquarius is a future electric energy that that's how I resonate with it.
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Right.
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And it's this aliveness, this awareness that makes us human.
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It's like.
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And you could feel it a lot.
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There are the primary rulership of Aquarius energy astrologically in the body deal with the ankles, the shins and the calves.
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And you can't make this up because my friend yesterday just texted me.
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I do some work for him and his wife.
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And they said that her husband, you know, strained his calf muscle.
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As we're entering, you know...
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My son said it last night.
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Mum, my calves hurt.
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I kid you not.
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I kid you not.
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And he did.
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He said, oh, my calves are really tight.
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Yes.
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So you can't make this stuff up.
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It's like that you feel, especially sensitive beings, we're going to feel it in our bodies in different ways.
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And, you know, this is where...
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It's also like Aquarius is associated with the circulatory and nervous system as you are experiencing with that text, right?
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So it's in the bodies.
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It's about oxygenation, circulation.
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And sometimes it could be associated with extremities, impulses.
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Like I said, electric signaling and reflexes occur in our body, astrologically in the body.
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It's amazing.
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Like you can't make this stuff up.
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So yeah.
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I want to talk a little bit real quick about Venus and Aquarius in its unconscious expression in a lower frequency, right?
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It could have certain energies function on a lower self-defeating habit, meaning like this desire to want to make things so exciting, like overstimulating in that, that could result in a tendency to withhold your true gift of Aquarius, of Venus in Aquarius, which objectively you can use your understanding of the way you function in love and relationships with loving acceptance.
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So if it's indulged in that lower unconscious expression, what happens is you could end up in a series of shallow relationships chaotic and scattered relationships, whether this be love, business, work, right?
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So you have to kind of tweak this.
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And eventually, this path, if you use the pretext of universal love, which is the expression of Venus and Aquarius for humankind as an excuse to neglect the closeness, going beyond surface level in relationships, it's going to lead to a haunting realization of why you detach.
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It's going to show you until you wake up from it, the inability and the unwillingness to relate to anyone on a deeper personal level.
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Does that make sense, Adele?
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Yeah, absolutely.
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Yeah, so, but I want to talk on the other hand, in its conscious expression is where one can experience the joy and the exhilaration of coming into contact with others when you're willing to show and share love of your unique gifts, especially if you have Venus and Aquarius of loving in an impartial way, no matter how intimate or personal a relationship may be, you have the ability to retain your sense of individual freedom.
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And that's what Aquarius likes.
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It needs to be able to be free, like a Venus and Aquarius.
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If people have that in their chart as their love, primary love language, they they want to marry their bestie.
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They want to be sure they could talk to you about all areas of life.
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And I've always heard that expression for myself.
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You know, throughout my life, periodically, I would get messages like that.
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You're going to marry your best friend.
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Right.
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Like and I said, oh, that sounds amazing.
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You know, you want to be able to be your authentic selves with one another and be able to hang out.
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If you could become besties and you're going to make the best lovers.
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I just truly personally believe in that.
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But that's like with my husband.
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And I mean, we sometimes say it about other people that.
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you know, without obviously, you know, judging other people.
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But there are lots of couples that we know that won't go out together or do things together, do things very separately.
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And if they are on their home, they're always inviting people around all the time.
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Whereas, you know, me and my husband were like, we're going out, we want to go out together because we enjoy one another's company.
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And we're quite happy just being on our own.
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We don't have to invite friends to come out with us.
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We have a good time just as it is, you know, years on.
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And we just say that's always been quite nice that we were friends first before we got into a relationship.
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So, We had that grounding and that foundation first.
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And I mean, exactly like that's eleven eleven on the clock when you said that it's yours.
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You're so.
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So when one doesn't abuse their freedom, you know, through this eccentric as Aquarius is eccentric, you know, energy, it's it could cut.
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You could guarantee your independence and attract people that are more equal, that are willing to be your equal.
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Right.
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So you can eliminate the possible possibility of your dependency through that person's independence.
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So you want to, on a higher expression, you want to attract, you will attract more independent, sovereign energy to you and they will respect your freedom.
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They will respect your ability as air.
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Air is free.
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It can't be contained.
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Yeah, it can't be contained.
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They cannot be told what to do or where to go.
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They need to be free, right?
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So those with Venus and Aquarius in the next three weeks, Adele, you could notice that not just in relationships, but apply this energy to opportunities, right?
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You could receive more compliments in what you do or in relation, again, in love, home, whatever this is for everybody on an individual level, more dating opportunities.
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as we also approach Valentine's Day.
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So that makes total sense, right?
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In the, in the matrix three, the world, right.
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And it's just going to amplify Venus in Aquarius is going to amplify the ability to connect with more people.
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And for the rest of us that are not in relationships, we're going to experience more certain transformation in our desires, such as whether it's relationships or our pursuits, what we're working on that generally feel things that generally feel attractive to us might change.
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Right.
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So that's something to take note of.
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So pay attention to that.
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Do you do you are you getting that with the Aquarius yet?
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Because we tend to feel things a little earlier before the transit starts to take place.
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And it doesn't necessarily have to be with your loved one.
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That could just be in your friendship group and stuff like that.
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Because funny enough, I made a post yesterday about one of my school mum's.
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and she also comes to the gym where i work and i did a post say about how she made me laugh and i called her my friend and she she posted thank you so much for calling me your friend and i was like what you are like you're not you're not just an associate you know like we talk and like we say hello and we message you of course you're my friend See, I'm so curious where your chart is.
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So moving forward, I'm going to pull your chart and like refer to it during our podcast sessions because I want to know because it's reflecting for you, right?
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So you're just going to, there's going to be also this Saturnian, Saturn planet of discipline and structure, right?
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And routine.
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There's going to be a little bit of aloofness because Venus and Aquarius is aloof.
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You know, it's, It's like it's hot and cold almost like and people in my readings this week are noticing that and their partner is like, what's up?
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You know, he or she was so gung ho and communicative and all of a sudden pulling back.
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Like I cause that type of energy within connections, whether it's platonic, romantic or other.
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Right.
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So we could become a little bit more detached, a little bit more cautious when we express our feelings at this time, because Saturn is the ruler of Aquarius, and Aquarius is the sign that changes this planet, this world for the better.
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It's here to Saturn's here going to aid us in using the Aquarius energy to destroy old structures, belief systems like you're going through right now in what to pursue what you love.
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Right.
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So think of it in terms of energy and archetype.
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Right.
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Before I get into some, I pulled some, meditated over some cards, and I'll talk about that in a minute, but I want to talk a little bit about some dates.
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On January So, which could increase passion in healthier relationships, but in weaker relationships, it could bring on challenges, right?
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And it needs to happen for it to evolve.
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So, it could bring up, in weaker relationships, it could bring up power struggles, obsessiveness, jealousy, and there's this tendency to be...
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uh, to fall for more toxic people.
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So be aware of this energy, um, starting tomorrow, to be honest.
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So three days before and three days after, right.
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And then on the twenty nine, something to pay attention to Mercury conjoins Venus, helping us communicate better to whatever, what we're creating in our relationships, partnerships, friendships, uh, coworkers, conversations are, you know, are going to enhance in a creative way, whatever you're pursuing, this is like the best time to bring that forth.
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But again, in, in, in weaker relationships, connections, shakeups could happen, right?
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Where it's going to force the toxic, patterns to for you to look at and end and and it's gonna how i say this it's going to upgrade it so that it becomes healthier or you're just going to cut it off until you feel that that person is ready to align with you on a higher frequency so the best advice to handle venus and aquarius is to stay open-minded be embody that aquarius energy of being open-minded you know, flexible and future oriented, it could be really helpful for us at this time.
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I'm ready to go down.
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Right.
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So now I'm going to get into the cars.
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And the best way to do this was to, I kind of asked Spirit to show me For singles, right?
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I pulled a card, a row for singles, clarifiers as well.
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For singles, those in a relationship, starting a relationship, in a fuzzy relationship, right?
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And those in a healthy relationship and that are thriving in the direction of that.
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So when people whenever people listen to this, hopefully this will come in handy at that time that you're needing to hear it because time is doesn't exist in energetic and spirit world.
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Right.
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This you'll hear this message exactly when you need to hear it.
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And hopefully this reading will help you plug in the energy.
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and help you advance or evolve your energy so that it could influence your relationship to the highest expression in love.
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That's my dream when people hear this.
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So for people that are single, there's a lot of like earth energy with the...
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And earth and water with the chariot, we're moving past the water energy and earth.
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We're moving more towards air, which is expression, movement, right?
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The past couple months, I'm going to say seven months for people that are single, you're starting to take more control.
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And even if you are in a relationship, I'm talking about your independent self.
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adults so it could apply to you as well like you started moving forward you started becoming more decisive these past seven months you're not feeling rushed anymore you don't want to be rushed your nervous system is not allowing you to and you're heading towards adventure you're finding peace When you're driving, you're finding peace when you're weeding, when you're finding peace, when you're in your joy, when you're baking, like there's a lot of uploads, downloads and transmissions that are coming through for you that cause you to be more passionate about life.
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Right.
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And you're transmuting, transmuting a lot of possessiveness.
00:19:12.046 --> 00:19:20.789
You're being practical and anything Aquarius on a lower frequency can be stubborn energy, just like the, I, I, with the body, right.
00:19:20.931 --> 00:19:32.579
astrology, as I said, it can, you could, you could be strained, you could be, it's your body, like reminding you, hey, stretch a little bit more, be a little bit more flexible, be a little bit more limber, right?
00:19:32.601 --> 00:19:34.883
Because Aquarius is air, it needs to flow.
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Yes.
00:19:36.144 --> 00:19:51.252
So I think this for independent energy, whether you're in a relationship or not, but mostly for people that are single in relationships, that silence, you know, I even pulled the card of silence.
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That's crazy, right?
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Twenty-two is a master number.
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So you could be seeing that number at this time.
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Some of you could be moving to a new address that is twenty-two.
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And that's my address, twenty-two, right now.
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So...
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You're able to think more before you respond and not reacting.
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A lot of people are noticing this.
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Like, I could overcome this difficulty.
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I don't have to respond right now to this toxic person or energy around me.
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I could think about it or ignore or just, you know, Space it out.
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Yeah.
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You know, like just there's a lot of more.
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I'm going to tune this energy of frustration that I have towards this person or this situation or this job or this relationship or or just you in general and how you relate to the world if you're independent and single.
00:20:47.111 --> 00:20:47.391
Right.
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It's like I'm going to I'm going to move forward and take the energy and use it towards my inspirations.
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Kind of like what you're doing.
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You're like you.
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It's almost like you don't have time for it.
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The drama.
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Because things are going to start to move quick and elevate.
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For those that have been planting the seeds like you have, Adele, in the past seven months, the sprouting is going to start to bloom just like the season of spring coming in, right?
00:21:18.601 --> 00:21:20.881
So it's all reflected.
00:21:20.921 --> 00:21:50.655
Whatever is inside is going to reflect on the outside and you're going to be able to appreciate the beauty of of of that silence of the building of of how you you have been dealing with adversity um and not taking vengeance and and and not feeling you have to do things to to fix things just more allowing universe to show you and allow what's falling away to fall away yeah so that's for singles Did you resonate with any of that or have any questions?
00:21:51.277 --> 00:21:52.298
Yeah, no, absolutely.
00:21:52.317 --> 00:21:54.278
No, it's all making sense.
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You know, and just symbolically as well, as I was mentioning, obviously lots of things have been stopping me from being in that fast lane all the time.
00:22:03.742 --> 00:22:08.046
And even just with relationships with, you know, I set up the clothing range.
00:22:08.326 --> 00:22:13.127
Well, last year I set the foundations and then the person that I've been in contact has gone, I don't know.
00:22:14.328 --> 00:22:15.131
You know, they've gone quiet.
00:22:15.151 --> 00:22:16.332
They haven't been getting back to me.
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But then I'm also thinking, well, actually, that's quite good because I haven't got time for it at the moment.
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I've set the foundations.
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I'll come back to it when I'm ready.
00:22:23.160 --> 00:22:53.067
And now when you mentioned about that January the twenty ninth Mercury and Venus might be the time then I reach out and get back in touch and say, hey, let's just reconnect i'm now in a good place i've cleared out what i need to we're now good to go because christmas new year and now i haven't had time for it but i still want to keep going with it but yes and again maybe he's stepped away and maybe that's been the right thing for it to do because i wouldn't have had time and i wouldn't have had the money and i wouldn't have had the energy so maybe again that's a blessing in disguise Yes, exactly.
00:22:53.086 --> 00:22:53.625
There's time.
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I believe in timing for everything.
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I just, I just believe in that.
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And I, you know, it's good that you take note, put it on your calendar.
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It's like, or that person might reach out to you.
00:23:02.511 --> 00:23:03.732
You may not have to initiate.
00:23:03.772 --> 00:23:05.634
It's just like an organically flow.
00:23:06.095 --> 00:23:06.336
Okay.
00:23:06.375 --> 00:23:14.361
So I'm going to move more towards, um, begin those that are beginning of a relationship, friendship, a passion project.
00:23:14.381 --> 00:23:20.683
It doesn't have to just be love, but because we're talking about relationship, um, it's Apply it to your situation.
00:23:20.703 --> 00:23:22.027
We've got the Page of Cups.
00:23:22.467 --> 00:23:28.152
So Page of Cups is the most immature energy in tarot, right?
00:23:28.172 --> 00:23:29.491
It's the beginner's mind.
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It's somebody who is almost like a teenager, the way they look at life and love through the lens of a teenager, like just more...
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youthful, more creative, like always looking for the positive, right.
00:23:45.644 --> 00:23:49.366
But not really having the experience to ground and back it up yet.
00:23:49.488 --> 00:23:52.068
Like they lack experience and wisdom still.
00:23:52.450 --> 00:24:11.501
So that approach, that energy is going to help relationships goals at, you know, during this time, if you use it, if you, if you start to get curious about it or suggest something page of cups, sometimes as an offer, someone can say, Hey, love, let's, Let's go try sound bath healing.
00:24:11.541 --> 00:24:14.505
Let's go for that ceramic class.
00:24:14.565 --> 00:24:18.106
Let's go for whatever it may be, aerial class.
00:24:18.847 --> 00:24:20.150
Let's try this together.
00:24:20.528 --> 00:24:21.730
Or let's take an art class.
00:24:22.049 --> 00:24:24.093
It could be something like that where...
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The introverts could be becoming a little bit more extroverted with the Page of Cups energy and doing more of what you enjoyed when you were younger, when you were in high school, those projects, those daily habits of whatever, journaling, keeping a calendar.
00:24:43.467 --> 00:24:45.708
Maybe make a vision board together, right?
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It's artistic.
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It's intuitive.
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It's focused.
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It's more creativity you're bringing into your passion project if you're single, into your relationship if it's new.
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If it's a toxic relationship, maybe explore that part of yourself and take space from the connection and do a weekend staycation.
00:25:06.459 --> 00:25:12.903
Lock yourself in the room and make yourself a little spiritual spa for the weekend and do all things.
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That can nourish your soul.
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And if you need support with that.
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You know where to find me.
00:25:17.846 --> 00:25:18.766
And ask the answer.
00:25:19.405 --> 00:25:21.428
So witness.
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I got the card witness.
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And it's forty four.
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It's also another magical number.
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Anything that comes in doubles and triples.
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Is pretty powerful.
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And we'll talk about that on another podcast sometime.
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But being the witness.
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Start to observe.
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You know.
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Like.
00:25:42.082 --> 00:25:46.228
in that sacred space of your inner world, it starts that way.
00:25:46.307 --> 00:26:23.307
Like you'll be able to, through silence, witness what's going on on an internal level and you'll heal, you'll be able to heal things that you didn't know were, were, were repressed because they'll start to come up when you start to sit in silence and and a lot of your your questions could be you could answer your own questions as you become the observer um and just allow like sacred witnessing i want to i want to call it right sacred witnessing like okay, this is happening in my relationship right now.
00:26:23.326 --> 00:26:24.326
I'm going to pull back.
00:26:24.385 --> 00:26:27.970
I'm going to express my frustrations, my sadness, my loneliness.
00:26:28.410 --> 00:26:35.615
And before I speak, I'm going to start to tune into whatever the things that we just talked about as a page of cups would do, right?
00:26:36.115 --> 00:26:40.240
Maybe some of you, I feel, might start to change your wardrobe.
00:26:40.339 --> 00:26:42.544
Some of you might want to start making your own clothes.
00:26:42.564 --> 00:26:45.528
Some people might want to spend time by the water.
00:26:45.548 --> 00:26:47.028
Some people might want to go fishing.
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However that is, nurture those things and focus on those things.
00:26:52.478 --> 00:26:58.778
those things that bring you joy, because that's where gratitude and miracles and opportunities you start to see.
00:26:59.097 --> 00:27:01.000
It's not that opportunities come in.
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It's because you start to align with that frequency of joy and you start to see what's always been there for you on a higher expression.
00:27:08.759 --> 00:27:17.363
But when you're in a lower expression, you know, when you're in your doubts, fears, anxiety, and insecurities, it's very hard to see those opportunities.
00:27:17.623 --> 00:27:17.863
Yeah.
00:27:19.662 --> 00:27:24.483
Any questions on that energy or did anything hit?
00:27:24.545 --> 00:27:25.125
Yeah, no, absolutely.
00:27:25.163 --> 00:27:48.076
I think it's good, again, you know, even by just listening to you to make you aware because with that energy around you, if you are quite busy and you're like shifts in the night, you don't have time for one another and then you're suppressing how you're feeling and not communicating, just making it more important, the fact to take that time out to do the things that you love and the things that you do, you know, enjoy together to keep that bond and to keep that connection.
00:27:48.547 --> 00:27:54.949
through some maybe busy times or challenging times or if you're both working lots, you know, just home in on that.
00:27:55.367 --> 00:28:00.631
Again, just listening to you, being aware of maybe, OK, just take some time out for one another and have that time.
00:28:00.769 --> 00:28:02.372
It might not be, you know, hours.
00:28:02.632 --> 00:28:05.731
It might just be an hour of lunch or an hour walk or a twenty minute walk.
00:28:05.751 --> 00:28:08.334
It could be the smallest thing that could make a difference.
00:28:08.554 --> 00:28:10.355
Just keeping you together, not together.
00:28:10.375 --> 00:28:10.855
Exactly.
00:28:12.673 --> 00:28:15.615
I agree a hundred percent there, Adele.
00:28:15.694 --> 00:28:30.637
It's a page of cups is about enhancing your self-expression in the world, transmute the energy and, and write about it, write about what you're going through, do some poetry, do some reading, embrace these quirks because people don't pay attention to them enough.
00:28:30.659 --> 00:28:33.857
They think that it's actually a weakness when it's not, those are your gifts.
00:28:34.038 --> 00:28:38.558
You know, those, those little quirks that, that make you a unique person.
00:28:39.182 --> 00:28:41.767
invite a vital force in this world.
00:28:41.826 --> 00:28:43.269
People need to tune into that.
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Right.
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And go, if it needs to, if it calls you to go down the rabbit hole, then go down it.
00:28:48.816 --> 00:28:49.135
Right.
00:28:49.217 --> 00:28:50.298
Like take that time.
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And, and that's where you activate your guys, your, your spirit team, your angels, your galactic guides, is stepping more up into our truths and who we are.
00:29:01.001 --> 00:29:08.207
And in that space, you tend to activate a creative potential that was always there, but you're just turning it on.
00:29:08.307 --> 00:29:17.772
You start to see the pieces and how it fits into this one whole big picture of what can I offer to the world?
00:29:18.134 --> 00:29:19.315
How can I be of service?
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How can I serve?
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How can I use my quirks?
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to bring truth, to bring order, to bring love into the world more like that.
00:29:29.521 --> 00:29:32.923
I feel, you know, it's subtle.
00:29:33.204 --> 00:29:36.008
These are like nuances.
00:29:36.028 --> 00:29:47.396
These are intuitive hits and working, not just, not just like allowing people to influence our goals, but like more of an internal take space for yourself.
00:29:47.438 --> 00:29:48.699
So that's why I'm going to leave that.
00:29:49.372 --> 00:29:49.730
Yeah.
00:29:49.770 --> 00:29:53.275
Now I'm going to move on finally to people in relationships.
00:29:53.693 --> 00:30:01.720
And if this could be if you're not in a romantic relationship, this could be for people who are co-creating with other people, other, you know, or it could be both.
00:30:01.778 --> 00:30:02.901
Apply the energies.
00:30:03.079 --> 00:30:03.980
This is just energy.
00:30:04.642 --> 00:30:08.585
So four of pentacles in the reverse is a great card to have in the reverse.
00:30:08.644 --> 00:30:09.105
Why?
00:30:09.486 --> 00:30:19.031
Because it means that you're letting go of control of what was once stable and really didn't bring in much anymore.
00:30:19.073 --> 00:30:21.795
Like maybe at one point you built your...
00:30:22.575 --> 00:30:25.861
Um, success and, and, and it got stagnant.
00:30:25.901 --> 00:30:31.269
So that's move it like these blocks are, are, are starting to lift within yourself.
00:30:31.308 --> 00:30:34.355
You're because you're moving forward through any rigidity.
00:30:34.375 --> 00:30:35.938
You're not holding on too tightly.
00:30:36.646 --> 00:30:42.612
to where you are, you're allowing yourself to expand in these next four months, right, in your relationships.
00:30:42.632 --> 00:30:47.535
You're becoming more adaptable, more flexible, analytical in a grounded way.
00:30:47.555 --> 00:30:49.194
You're becoming more communicative.
00:30:49.214 --> 00:30:51.498
You're becoming more intellectual, fluid.
00:30:51.856 --> 00:30:53.397
You're educating yourself more.
00:30:53.499 --> 00:31:04.066
Opportunities and resources are going to open up, right, in these next four months with the, you know, in the upright, it's like he's holding on tight to what he's built.
00:31:04.144 --> 00:31:04.807
You see?
00:31:05.027 --> 00:31:05.267
Mm-hmm.
00:31:05.836 --> 00:31:15.304
Like greedy materialism and like it keeps you stuck because then you're just running the day to day routine of the rat race and paying your mortgage.
00:31:15.324 --> 00:31:16.766
You're working just to pay your bills.
00:31:16.786 --> 00:31:17.586
That's not living.
00:31:17.605 --> 00:31:20.469
You know, some may may feel trapped.
00:31:20.489 --> 00:31:21.608
They don't know any other way.
00:31:21.650 --> 00:31:25.833
So that's going to be coming to the forefront for people who are more open minded.
00:31:25.873 --> 00:31:30.616
If you use the Venus and Aquarius energy and embody that archetype, it'll help you.
00:31:32.038 --> 00:31:41.260
So, yeah, a lot of a lot of like just things flowing, a lot of things adjusting better to circumstances.
00:31:41.582 --> 00:31:46.762
And then I pulled an astrology card, the House of Gemini, the lover's card in tarot.
00:31:46.804 --> 00:31:48.903
This has a lot to do with your childhood.
00:31:49.525 --> 00:31:54.945
What you learned, what did you learn in childhood about relationships with people in general?
00:31:55.488 --> 00:31:57.106
Not not specifically romantic.
00:31:57.208 --> 00:31:57.428
Right.
00:31:57.468 --> 00:31:58.409
Like it's.
00:31:59.528 --> 00:32:14.864
You're going to want to listen inside to what you believed in before a lot of the ingraining, a lot of the indoctrination came through, through school, community, you know, family expectations, societal, all of that stuff.
00:32:14.884 --> 00:32:18.468
You're going to start to, you know, like step more into individuation.
00:32:19.626 --> 00:32:21.189
You know, what part do you play?
00:32:21.209 --> 00:32:34.113
This is aligning with what it is that you love the most and starting to take those and transmit those things and to apply it into how you can serve humanity.
00:32:34.432 --> 00:32:45.615
So I chose, you know, the path of the esoteric arts and healing through healing my own trauma as I went through death and rebirths in the past couple of years.
00:32:46.174 --> 00:32:48.076
And I chose the path to do healing.
00:32:48.701 --> 00:32:50.461
Psychic reading, spiritual work.
00:32:50.740 --> 00:33:00.544
This is the path of how I know I'm in alignment with one of my soul contracts to help people through this platform here.
00:33:00.584 --> 00:33:03.644
And I work a few others and I do other things.
00:33:03.683 --> 00:33:04.605
I wear many hats.
00:33:06.486 --> 00:33:58.452
and that's what aquarius energy is the aquarius energy is in the tarot is depicted in the star card it's a beautiful card i i i would love to see if i could quickly find it for you while i'm talking but it's it's us like expressing ourselves in our multi-faceted like a diamond like we we're not just here to work one job for the rest of our lives we're here to take our god-given gifts and and and x thirty three thirty three on the clock as i said that so and express that into the world right like and it start and you some people are gonna feel a little bit like closed off with it they may do it behind the scenes because it's uncomfortable like people are you're not used to your creativity coming through because you've been in the the robotic life you've been living that day-to-day You know, just to maintain your status quo.
00:33:58.574 --> 00:33:58.814
Right.
00:33:58.913 --> 00:34:11.001
And the universe is not going to allow that anymore for people that have been fixed in their ways and their ways of thinking, living and being in the next four months.
00:34:11.041 --> 00:34:11.202
So.
00:34:12.143 --> 00:34:14.005
Expect relationships to upgrade.
00:34:14.085 --> 00:34:16.688
Expect power couple dynamics to come through.
00:34:16.809 --> 00:34:21.313
Expect creative ventures both individually and as a couple.
00:34:21.672 --> 00:34:30.402
Like expect these things to start coming through as you open up your mind a little bit more and end those old cycles and one thing at a time.
00:34:31.065 --> 00:34:32.746
One thing at a time or two things.
00:34:32.766 --> 00:34:34.588
People are good at balancing two things.
00:34:34.668 --> 00:34:47.155
You're good at two things that you know are paving the way to bring you natural abundance and stepping into that creative power, Adele, which you keep enhancing through your podcast.
00:34:47.436 --> 00:34:48.277
I mean, you're growing.
00:34:49.797 --> 00:35:04.628
And you're going to be so in alignment with your purpose as a humanitarian worker, helping other lightworkers and giving us that confidence to speak and share our gifts is a gift in itself.
00:35:04.748 --> 00:35:10.693
And that's how the universe is going to continuously build that for a one K for you by helping.
00:35:10.773 --> 00:35:12.014
It's using your life.
00:35:12.893 --> 00:35:57.699
right and the perks the perks of being able to be independent be with your your children your husband be there run the household still have um you know space to to follow your passions like you know what is that like for you as a as you build yourself um using creativity yeah no absolutely i mean it's you know it's why i've always really enjoyed and i feel that you know maybe you last sort of few months, I've been spinning so many plates because I've been planting so many seeds that like everything you've been mentioning today, I've now had that point where it's actually, you know, trying to stop and make me have a bit of time to myself and nurture myself and have that space to think, you know, and, and, Yeah, just to have that nice balance.
00:35:57.840 --> 00:35:59.721
And I found that sort of the last few weeks.
00:35:59.739 --> 00:36:01.563
I mean, wake up every morning, I feel so good.
00:36:01.802 --> 00:36:03.422
I was like, what's got into you?
00:36:03.483 --> 00:36:03.985
I don't know.
00:36:04.045 --> 00:36:04.744
It's not really good.
00:36:04.764 --> 00:36:09.289
I mean, well, you know, I just I just feel really charged up.
00:36:09.568 --> 00:36:12.652
And there's been lots of things around that haven't been going smoothly.
00:36:12.672 --> 00:36:14.293
Like I said, my car's been broken down.
00:36:14.313 --> 00:36:16.114
I've had to jumpstart it most days.
00:36:16.815 --> 00:36:19.978
And the printer hasn't been working, but it's all things that.
00:36:20.538 --> 00:36:21.418
It can wait.
00:36:21.577 --> 00:36:22.518
It can get sorted.
00:36:22.659 --> 00:36:28.059
But by things aren't working, it's stopping me from spending money, going shopping, doing the chores.
00:36:28.119 --> 00:36:32.981
I've had to just be grounded and just do things that are making me feel a bit more wholesome.
00:36:33.061 --> 00:36:34.862
So it's had that knock-on effect.
00:36:35.143 --> 00:36:37.063
But all the creativity sides come through.
00:36:37.083 --> 00:36:41.445
This week, I did a whole disco diva theme in my spin class.
00:36:41.485 --> 00:36:41.724
They went...
00:36:42.344 --> 00:36:43.346
My boss said, why are you doing that?
00:36:43.867 --> 00:36:46.409
It's a longer month and I want to keep people upbeat.
00:36:46.429 --> 00:36:47.090
It's January.
00:36:47.130 --> 00:36:47.590
Why not?
00:36:47.610 --> 00:36:48.951
Let's bring in some disco diva.
00:36:50.452 --> 00:36:51.934
I love it.
00:36:51.954 --> 00:36:52.353
I love it.
00:36:52.373 --> 00:36:55.056
For no reason, but I just want to express myself.
00:36:55.077 --> 00:36:55.737
Just want to have fun.
00:36:55.757 --> 00:36:59.481
You know, that's like coming through just to lift that energy.
00:36:59.521 --> 00:37:01.382
If people are feeling a little bit flat at the moment.
00:37:02.023 --> 00:37:04.643
So just sharing my energy with people.
00:37:05.126 --> 00:37:05.626
Exactly.
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And the advice card I pulled was mystery.
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So it's you trusting the mystery of life to be able to transform any darkness in our minds that could manifest as doubt, fears, anxiety.
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What if, you know, what if you were to, you know, leave this all behind and start fresh?
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And that's where you have...
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to work on trusting the mystery of life and that you will be provided for as we're both exhibiting in our own personal lives.
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We're leading by example, right?
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I never panic.
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I never worry.
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I just think it's happening for a reason.
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And when you look at life in that way, and that's not being, you know...
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you know, silly or stupid about things.
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Of course, you're still, you know, clued up on what's going on around.
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But if you look at things so differently, life can be so much more smoother and gentle.
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And, you know, I could be getting really stressed out and worked out that, you know, I can't print off a form for something or that I can't get my car started.
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But I'll be like, oh, but it is what it is, you know, and just going with it.
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And as I mentioned, because I've been feeling so energetic, I'm passing on my energy to other people.
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And I just feel that it's just been a massive big reset for you know, coming into January.
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It's a big reset.
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Yeah.
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And just trusting in the universe that these things that are happening that are blocking me or stopping me are all meant to be for me to sort out other things.
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Yes.
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And I mean, I'm a little bit more extreme in the way that I live my life where I take I take a lot of risks and something just tells me to not go backwards, you know, keep going.
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Like I've built this.
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I just, I cannot really describe and I don't need to explain to, to people who project their fears into the way I'm living my life.
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Like, That's not stable.
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Well, if you really think about it, nothing life in life is stable, it could feel stable when you're doing the same thing every day and going to the same job every day.
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But when you're, you know, especially with me, recovering from a dysregulated nervous system, adrenal fatigue, I, you know, I've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, I've I'm on another trajectory where i'm healing from all of those things and recovering from it um holistically that is you know and and of course i integrate some scientific methods as well but you know i believe that the body heals itself and especially if you regulate your learn to regulate your nervous system which controls all the other systems you're good And it's a daily maintenance.
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This is not something you do once a week.
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This is where I choose to live my life so that I can make time to pray in the morning, work on my affirmations, work on yoga, work on breath work, work on meditation, and then prepare my breakfast, prepare for my talks.
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I own my time in that sense.
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And the more I notice that I heal my nervous system, um the more i feel god source universe keeps showing me signs to just keep relaxing every time i every time i start to stress adele or worry what happens is i get an invite for a weekend I get an invite to come for lunch, go off to eat, or I get invited to a spa.
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Like, everything just says no.
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Like, have fun.
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Even with all the stuff going on, where the old me would be like, oh, I can't right now.
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I'm going through so much stuff.
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I'm not in the mood.
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I would let my mood affect me where now I'm able to discern and detach from a situation where people are caught up in their own loops and I'm not going to let their energy affect my moments of joy and miracles that are pouring in through invites.
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I'm going to go on that weekend trip or that vacation or that retreat.
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I'm going to take the invite to go and try a new class.
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Or that spa.
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I literally got a a gift card to a spa, you know?
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So I said, okay, ooh, that's what I'm meant to be doing soon.
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And I plan on using that.
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The better we feel, the better we perform, the better person we are.
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So absolutely, you're always looking after ourselves and what we need.
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And then if you're not...
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The universe will do that for you in some way.
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Or make you in some way.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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I don't want to share before we wrap this up.
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I know we don't have much time.
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But on a personal note, my brother got into a pretty major freak accident.
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And he was untouched.
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He is alive and well.
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nothing broken.
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And he was at the gym the next day or same day.
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Cause when he showed me the video, what happened was he was heading southbound and the big truck on the opposite side was heading northbound.
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So that big truck was in the acceleration lane and hit a big, big sign.
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And that big, big sign destroyed my brother's totaled my brother's car.
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And he was in that, he was, he doesn't even know how he got into the, the curb because he said all i i don't know how i got there because there were so many cars around me so if he was in the acceleration lane he was forced to go into that lane yeah and his i don't know how he saw if that thing hit his car i don't even know i can't i'm that's where we're able to trust the mystery and now my brother is being forced to go within and reassess Yes.
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This is not working anymore.
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Something's not working, you know?
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Yes, that's exactly what it is.
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And I hope, I pray for him that he gets it, you know, this introvert period for him to, he's a Virgo, so he does that pretty well on his own.
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And I pray that bigger opportunities come where he doesn't have to be so on the go anymore.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Oh, bless him.
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I'm glad he's okay.
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Well, it's been so lovely speaking to you, Sherry, as always.
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And so much synchronicity and just so much alignment all in that podcast.
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But great knowledge as well to everyone else that's listening about relationships and boundaries and looking at specific dates that are coming up that we can work with that energy so things can, you know, run smoothly or we can hopefully bring new things in.
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It all sounds very exciting.
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Oh, my God.
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I'm so excited.
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And ourselves.
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Yes.
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Thank you so much, Adele.
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Yes.
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I love it.
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Now, Sherry, if people want to come through and speak to you on their phone lines for a more personal reading, what's your pin number?
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Sure.
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It's five hundred six four.
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Oh, and I'm looking forward to to to hearing from new and old clients.
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Amazing.
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Thank you very much, Sherry.
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Thank you very much, listeners.
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Thank you.
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Bye.
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Hello everybody and welcome to the twenty twenty-sixth podcast on Ask the Answer with myself Adele Cobain and today bringing in topics all things to do with love, relationships, boundaries and energetic intimacy which I'm very intrigued to know more about.
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Let's welcome back Sherry everybody.
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Hi Adele.
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Hi everybody.
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Thank you for having me back.
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I'm so excited.
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Happy New Year.
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Yes, Happy New Year in the Gregarian calendar.
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But the new year doesn't quite start yet, Adele.
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The astrological new year starts around end of March, which is the beginning of the zodiac sign of Aries.
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That's why it's the leader.
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It's the beginning, right?
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So a lot of things are going to be wrapping up.
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As you notice, you just started to share with me before we got on here about how you're feeling a little bit more earthy, more laid back and grounded and everything.
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You want to share real quick?
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Yeah, no, I'm definitely pretty happy that the new year hasn't started astrologically.
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And I'm sure lots of people are as well, because it's sometimes a bit of a slow burner into January.
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It's a longer month.
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People are still recovering from Christmas and New Year.
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Kids are going back to school.
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You're trying to find your flow again.
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And very much the same.
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I almost feel like the rug's being pulled beneath me for me to literally stop, get grounded, sort your...
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bits out and just to yeah I've had so much car problems internet problems printer problems but because of that and because I haven't been able to do anything I've been going out for more walks I've been doing more exercise I've been prepping more for my work doing you know prepping for my classes that I teach and then also just enjoying some downtime going to the spa because my car was in the garage and I couldn't go anywhere so I thought I'll just go to the spa for a and just really taking stock of looking after myself, getting my vitamins in, water, and I feel more grounded than I have in weeks.
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So yes, there's definitely been lots of sorting out, even within the home, just still getting on top of things.
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So then I'm ready just to kickstart my year.
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Well, thank you for sharing.
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That makes total sense because Capricorn is an earth sign, so it's groundedness.
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And a lot of the Capricorn season, we're closing up.
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It's ending next week, so it's coming to a close.
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So it's basically about laying the foundation of your next cycle.
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So the universe, God's source, is asking you to go in and take on these new habits because it's going to be required now.
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for you to relax into your new phase to be grounded symbolically today it's pouring down with rain i had my raincoat on and i'm clearing out all the leaves from all the flower beds i'm like the the new flowers are going to come through for spring if i don't clear it all away i need to get rid of everything that's blocking it boy got the chills from my from my shoulders down to my arms i went i need to clear it it's not going to grow Yes, it's also like reflective in your physical reality.
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That is how I also take the signs and you reading out and getting clear to start that new foundation one brick at a time, because we're in it for the long game.
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if something's going to be successful, same thing in a relationship, right?
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Or a business or a passion projects, creativity, humanitarian projects, you have to think long-term and the universe is setting you up for that.
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It sounds like Adele, you're getting your ducks in a row and the universe is literally showing you, um, how to come into this new cycle as we approach the new year, end of March and Aries season with a regulated nervous system and getting grounded, getting your feet and bare feet and the ground and the dirt like that.
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Oh my gosh.
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You just said about the nervous system.
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I've literally been reading all about that the last few days.
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I've been having things come on my phone saying about I need to take care of my nervous system because I'm always in fight mode and I need to get out of the danger zone and have more of the calming and grounding.
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And that's what I've been doing.
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I've been trying to not be on edge all the time.
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I've got to do this.
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I've got to do that.
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I've got to do this.
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And I've been resetting my nervous system and resetting things in life.
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Yes.
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Because that's the old that's the old version of you.
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You are you are exploring a whole new version of Adele right now in energy form and universe guides us every step of the way.
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So the calmer you are, the quicker you're going to be able to read the sign synchronicities and the messages coming through as you are on your phone.
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Oh, my God.
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Do this.
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Do that.
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Like spirit is starting to lead you.
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I don't want people to think I'm making this up.
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I'm literally going to show you a screen grab of me looking at your nervous system.
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So there you go.
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What was one on the clock?
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That was one about the nervous system.
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That was just like a meditation.
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It was just like a thing that I was tuning into.
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But I was screen grabbing all the things about your nervous system.
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So when you just sit there, I'm like...
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I've been reading more about that.
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And this is one of my specialties that I do with my clients on Ask the Answer on one-on-one sessions, Adele.
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So come for a session sometime.
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I do a lot of sound healing and energetic healing over the phone.
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Of course, it's not the same as in person, but a lot gets done.
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A lot of breathing techniques that I share and different tools, ancient tools of regulating the nervous system.
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And that's going to lead me into Adele.
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I'm just going to go ahead and start with Venus.
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We are going to head into Venus and Aquarius, right?
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We have the Venus is again, just reminding the audience is the planet of love, the planet of beauty, friendships and, and harmony.
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And it's going to, you know, start, you're going to start to feel this Venus and Aquarius energy.
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If some of you might have Aquarius placements, it's going to be amplified.
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A lot of people have Venus and Aquarius placements.
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their being their love language in Aquarius.
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So it's going to make sense.
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So and if you need further guidance on it, I can help you plug into your chart and, and tune in with in your reading with some tarot or whatever else spirit needs me to use.
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So In Aquarius, in body astrology, right, in anatomy, it goes beyond the muscles and the bones and the tendons.
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I think the parts of the body governed by Aquarius have to do with less bits and pieces, but more like fields of potential.
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Meaning, you know, these like magic impulses that you might feel, you might feel flashes of aliveness, like you're kind of feeling that electricity.
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Aquarius is a future electric energy that that's how I resonate with it.
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Right.
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And it's this aliveness, this awareness that makes us human.
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It's like.
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And you could feel it a lot.
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There are the primary rulership of Aquarius energy astrologically in the body deal with the ankles, the shins and the calves.
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And you can't make this up because my friend yesterday just texted me.
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I do some work for him and his wife.
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And they said that her husband, you know, strained his calf muscle.
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As we're entering, you know...
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My son said it last night.
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Mum, my calves hurt.
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I kid you not.
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I kid you not.
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And he did.
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He said, oh, my calves are really tight.
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Yes.
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So you can't make this stuff up.
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It's like that you feel, especially sensitive beings, we're going to feel it in our bodies in different ways.
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And, you know, this is where...
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It's also like Aquarius is associated with the circulatory and nervous system as you are experiencing with that text, right?
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So it's in the bodies.
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It's about oxygenation, circulation.
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And sometimes it could be associated with extremities, impulses.
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Like I said, electric signaling and reflexes occur in our body, astrologically in the body.
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It's amazing.
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Like you can't make this stuff up.
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So yeah.
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I want to talk a little bit real quick about Venus and Aquarius in its unconscious expression in a lower frequency, right?
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It could have certain energies function on a lower self-defeating habit, meaning like this desire to want to make things so exciting, like overstimulating in that, that could result in a tendency to withhold your true gift of Aquarius, of Venus in Aquarius, which objectively you can use your understanding of the way you function in love and relationships with loving acceptance.
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So if it's indulged in that lower unconscious expression, what happens is you could end up in a series of shallow relationships chaotic and scattered relationships, whether this be love, business, work, right?
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So you have to kind of tweak this.
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And eventually, this path, if you use the pretext of universal love, which is the expression of Venus and Aquarius for humankind as an excuse to neglect the closeness, going beyond surface level in relationships, it's going to lead to a haunting realization of why you detach.
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It's going to show you until you wake up from it, the inability and the unwillingness to relate to anyone on a deeper personal level.
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Does that make sense, Adele?
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Yeah, absolutely.
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Yeah, so, but I want to talk on the other hand, in its conscious expression is where one can experience the joy and the exhilaration of coming into contact with others when you're willing to show and share love of your unique gifts, especially if you have Venus and Aquarius of loving in an impartial way, no matter how intimate or personal a relationship may be, you have the ability to retain your sense of individual freedom.
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And that's what Aquarius likes.
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It needs to be able to be free, like a Venus and Aquarius.
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If people have that in their chart as their love, primary love language, they they want to marry their bestie.
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They want to be sure they could talk to you about all areas of life.
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And I've always heard that expression for myself.
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You know, throughout my life, periodically, I would get messages like that.
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You're going to marry your best friend.
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Right.
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Like and I said, oh, that sounds amazing.
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You know, you want to be able to be your authentic selves with one another and be able to hang out.
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If you could become besties and you're going to make the best lovers.
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I just truly personally believe in that.
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But that's like with my husband.
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And I mean, we sometimes say it about other people that.
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you know, without obviously, you know, judging other people.
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But there are lots of couples that we know that won't go out together or do things together, do things very separately.
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And if they are on their home, they're always inviting people around all the time.
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Whereas, you know, me and my husband were like, we're going out, we want to go out together because we enjoy one another's company.
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And we're quite happy just being on our own.
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We don't have to invite friends to come out with us.
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We have a good time just as it is, you know, years on.
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And we just say that's always been quite nice that we were friends first before we got into a relationship.
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So, We had that grounding and that foundation first.
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And I mean, exactly like that's eleven eleven on the clock when you said that it's yours.
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You're so.
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So when one doesn't abuse their freedom, you know, through this eccentric as Aquarius is eccentric, you know, energy, it's it could cut.
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You could guarantee your independence and attract people that are more equal, that are willing to be your equal.
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Right.
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So you can eliminate the possible possibility of your dependency through that person's independence.
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So you want to, on a higher expression, you want to attract, you will attract more independent, sovereign energy to you and they will respect your freedom.
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They will respect your ability as air.
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Air is free.
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It can't be contained.
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Yeah, it can't be contained.
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They cannot be told what to do or where to go.
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They need to be free, right?
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So those with Venus and Aquarius in the next three weeks, Adele, you could notice that not just in relationships, but apply this energy to opportunities, right?
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You could receive more compliments in what you do or in relation, again, in love, home, whatever this is for everybody on an individual level, more dating opportunities.
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as we also approach Valentine's Day.
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So that makes total sense, right?
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In the, in the matrix three, the world, right.
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And it's just going to amplify Venus in Aquarius is going to amplify the ability to connect with more people.
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And for the rest of us that are not in relationships, we're going to experience more certain transformation in our desires, such as whether it's relationships or our pursuits, what we're working on that generally feel things that generally feel attractive to us might change.
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Right.
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So that's something to take note of.
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So pay attention to that.
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Do you do you are you getting that with the Aquarius yet?
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Because we tend to feel things a little earlier before the transit starts to take place.
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And it doesn't necessarily have to be with your loved one.
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That could just be in your friendship group and stuff like that.
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Because funny enough, I made a post yesterday about one of my school mum's.
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and she also comes to the gym where i work and i did a post say about how she made me laugh and i called her my friend and she she posted thank you so much for calling me your friend and i was like what you are like you're not you're not just an associate you know like we talk and like we say hello and we message you of course you're my friend See, I'm so curious where your chart is.
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So moving forward, I'm going to pull your chart and like refer to it during our podcast sessions because I want to know because it's reflecting for you, right?
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So you're just going to, there's going to be also this Saturnian, Saturn planet of discipline and structure, right?
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And routine.
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There's going to be a little bit of aloofness because Venus and Aquarius is aloof.
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You know, it's, It's like it's hot and cold almost like and people in my readings this week are noticing that and their partner is like, what's up?
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You know, he or she was so gung ho and communicative and all of a sudden pulling back.
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Like I cause that type of energy within connections, whether it's platonic, romantic or other.
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Right.
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So we could become a little bit more detached, a little bit more cautious when we express our feelings at this time, because Saturn is the ruler of Aquarius, and Aquarius is the sign that changes this planet, this world for the better.
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It's here to Saturn's here going to aid us in using the Aquarius energy to destroy old structures, belief systems like you're going through right now in what to pursue what you love.
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Right.
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So think of it in terms of energy and archetype.
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Right.
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Before I get into some, I pulled some, meditated over some cards, and I'll talk about that in a minute, but I want to talk a little bit about some dates.
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On January So, which could increase passion in healthier relationships, but in weaker relationships, it could bring on challenges, right?
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And it needs to happen for it to evolve.
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So, it could bring up, in weaker relationships, it could bring up power struggles, obsessiveness, jealousy, and there's this tendency to be...
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uh, to fall for more toxic people.
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So be aware of this energy, um, starting tomorrow, to be honest.
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So three days before and three days after, right.
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And then on the twenty nine, something to pay attention to Mercury conjoins Venus, helping us communicate better to whatever, what we're creating in our relationships, partnerships, friendships, uh, coworkers, conversations are, you know, are going to enhance in a creative way, whatever you're pursuing, this is like the best time to bring that forth.
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But again, in, in, in weaker relationships, connections, shakeups could happen, right?
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Where it's going to force the toxic, patterns to for you to look at and end and and it's gonna how i say this it's going to upgrade it so that it becomes healthier or you're just going to cut it off until you feel that that person is ready to align with you on a higher frequency so the best advice to handle venus and aquarius is to stay open-minded be embody that aquarius energy of being open-minded you know, flexible and future oriented, it could be really helpful for us at this time.
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I'm ready to go down.
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Right.
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So now I'm going to get into the cars.
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And the best way to do this was to, I kind of asked Spirit to show me For singles, right?
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I pulled a card, a row for singles, clarifiers as well.
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For singles, those in a relationship, starting a relationship, in a fuzzy relationship, right?
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And those in a healthy relationship and that are thriving in the direction of that.
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So when people whenever people listen to this, hopefully this will come in handy at that time that you're needing to hear it because time is doesn't exist in energetic and spirit world.
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Right.
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This you'll hear this message exactly when you need to hear it.
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And hopefully this reading will help you plug in the energy.
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and help you advance or evolve your energy so that it could influence your relationship to the highest expression in love.
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That's my dream when people hear this.
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So for people that are single, there's a lot of like earth energy with the...
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And earth and water with the chariot, we're moving past the water energy and earth.
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We're moving more towards air, which is expression, movement, right?
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The past couple months, I'm going to say seven months for people that are single, you're starting to take more control.
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And even if you are in a relationship, I'm talking about your independent self.
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adults so it could apply to you as well like you started moving forward you started becoming more decisive these past seven months you're not feeling rushed anymore you don't want to be rushed your nervous system is not allowing you to and you're heading towards adventure you're finding peace When you're driving, you're finding peace when you're weeding, when you're finding peace, when you're in your joy, when you're baking, like there's a lot of uploads, downloads and transmissions that are coming through for you that cause you to be more passionate about life.
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Right.
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And you're transmuting, transmuting a lot of possessiveness.
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You're being practical and anything Aquarius on a lower frequency can be stubborn energy, just like the, I, I, with the body, right.
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astrology, as I said, it can, you could, you could be strained, you could be, it's your body, like reminding you, hey, stretch a little bit more, be a little bit more flexible, be a little bit more limber, right?
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Because Aquarius is air, it needs to flow.
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Yes.
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So I think this for independent energy, whether you're in a relationship or not, but mostly for people that are single in relationships, that silence, you know, I even pulled the card of silence.
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That's crazy, right?
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Twenty-two is a master number.
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So you could be seeing that number at this time.
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Some of you could be moving to a new address that is twenty-two.
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And that's my address, twenty-two, right now.
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So...
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You're able to think more before you respond and not reacting.
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A lot of people are noticing this.
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Like, I could overcome this difficulty.
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I don't have to respond right now to this toxic person or energy around me.
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I could think about it or ignore or just, you know, Space it out.
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Yeah.
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You know, like just there's a lot of more.
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I'm going to tune this energy of frustration that I have towards this person or this situation or this job or this relationship or or just you in general and how you relate to the world if you're independent and single.
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Right.
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It's like I'm going to I'm going to move forward and take the energy and use it towards my inspirations.
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Kind of like what you're doing.
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You're like you.
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It's almost like you don't have time for it.
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The drama.
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Because things are going to start to move quick and elevate.
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For those that have been planting the seeds like you have, Adele, in the past seven months, the sprouting is going to start to bloom just like the season of spring coming in, right?
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So it's all reflected.
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Whatever is inside is going to reflect on the outside and you're going to be able to appreciate the beauty of of of that silence of the building of of how you you have been dealing with adversity um and not taking vengeance and and and not feeling you have to do things to to fix things just more allowing universe to show you and allow what's falling away to fall away yeah so that's for singles Did you resonate with any of that or have any questions?
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Yeah, no, absolutely.
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No, it's all making sense.
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You know, and just symbolically as well, as I was mentioning, obviously lots of things have been stopping me from being in that fast lane all the time.
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And even just with relationships with, you know, I set up the clothing range.
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Well, last year I set the foundations and then the person that I've been in contact has gone, I don't know.
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You know, they've gone quiet.
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They haven't been getting back to me.
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But then I'm also thinking, well, actually, that's quite good because I haven't got time for it at the moment.
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I've set the foundations.
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I'll come back to it when I'm ready.
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And now when you mentioned about that January the twenty ninth Mercury and Venus might be the time then I reach out and get back in touch and say, hey, let's just reconnect i'm now in a good place i've cleared out what i need to we're now good to go because christmas new year and now i haven't had time for it but i still want to keep going with it but yes and again maybe he's stepped away and maybe that's been the right thing for it to do because i wouldn't have had time and i wouldn't have had the money and i wouldn't have had the energy so maybe again that's a blessing in disguise Yes, exactly.
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There's time.
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I believe in timing for everything.
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I just, I just believe in that.
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And I, you know, it's good that you take note, put it on your calendar.
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It's like, or that person might reach out to you.
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You may not have to initiate.
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It's just like an organically flow.
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Okay.
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So I'm going to move more towards, um, begin those that are beginning of a relationship, friendship, a passion project.
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It doesn't have to just be love, but because we're talking about relationship, um, it's Apply it to your situation.
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We've got the Page of Cups.
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So Page of Cups is the most immature energy in tarot, right?
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It's the beginner's mind.
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It's somebody who is almost like a teenager, the way they look at life and love through the lens of a teenager, like just more...
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youthful, more creative, like always looking for the positive, right.
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But not really having the experience to ground and back it up yet.
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Like they lack experience and wisdom still.
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So that approach, that energy is going to help relationships goals at, you know, during this time, if you use it, if you, if you start to get curious about it or suggest something page of cups, sometimes as an offer, someone can say, Hey, love, let's, Let's go try sound bath healing.
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Let's go for that ceramic class.
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Let's go for whatever it may be, aerial class.
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Let's try this together.
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Or let's take an art class.
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It could be something like that where...
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The introverts could be becoming a little bit more extroverted with the Page of Cups energy and doing more of what you enjoyed when you were younger, when you were in high school, those projects, those daily habits of whatever, journaling, keeping a calendar.
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Maybe make a vision board together, right?
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It's artistic.
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It's intuitive.
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It's focused.
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It's more creativity you're bringing into your passion project if you're single, into your relationship if it's new.
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If it's a toxic relationship, maybe explore that part of yourself and take space from the connection and do a weekend staycation.
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Lock yourself in the room and make yourself a little spiritual spa for the weekend and do all things.
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That can nourish your soul.
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And if you need support with that.
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You know where to find me.
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And ask the answer.
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So witness.
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I got the card witness.
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And it's forty four.
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It's also another magical number.
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Anything that comes in doubles and triples.
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Is pretty powerful.
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And we'll talk about that on another podcast sometime.
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But being the witness.
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Start to observe.
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You know.
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Like.
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in that sacred space of your inner world, it starts that way.
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Like you'll be able to, through silence, witness what's going on on an internal level and you'll heal, you'll be able to heal things that you didn't know were, were, were repressed because they'll start to come up when you start to sit in silence and and a lot of your your questions could be you could answer your own questions as you become the observer um and just allow like sacred witnessing i want to i want to call it right sacred witnessing like okay, this is happening in my relationship right now.
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I'm going to pull back.
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I'm going to express my frustrations, my sadness, my loneliness.
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And before I speak, I'm going to start to tune into whatever the things that we just talked about as a page of cups would do, right?
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Maybe some of you, I feel, might start to change your wardrobe.
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Some of you might want to start making your own clothes.
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Some people might want to spend time by the water.
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Some people might want to go fishing.
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However that is, nurture those things and focus on those things.
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those things that bring you joy, because that's where gratitude and miracles and opportunities you start to see.
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It's not that opportunities come in.
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It's because you start to align with that frequency of joy and you start to see what's always been there for you on a higher expression.
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But when you're in a lower expression, you know, when you're in your doubts, fears, anxiety, and insecurities, it's very hard to see those opportunities.
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Yeah.
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Any questions on that energy or did anything hit?
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Yeah, no, absolutely.
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I think it's good, again, you know, even by just listening to you to make you aware because with that energy around you, if you are quite busy and you're like shifts in the night, you don't have time for one another and then you're suppressing how you're feeling and not communicating, just making it more important, the fact to take that time out to do the things that you love and the things that you do, you know, enjoy together to keep that bond and to keep that connection.
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through some maybe busy times or challenging times or if you're both working lots, you know, just home in on that.
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Again, just listening to you, being aware of maybe, OK, just take some time out for one another and have that time.
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It might not be, you know, hours.
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It might just be an hour of lunch or an hour walk or a twenty minute walk.
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It could be the smallest thing that could make a difference.
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Just keeping you together, not together.
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Exactly.
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I agree a hundred percent there, Adele.
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It's a page of cups is about enhancing your self-expression in the world, transmute the energy and, and write about it, write about what you're going through, do some poetry, do some reading, embrace these quirks because people don't pay attention to them enough.
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They think that it's actually a weakness when it's not, those are your gifts.
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You know, those, those little quirks that, that make you a unique person.
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invite a vital force in this world.
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People need to tune into that.
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Right.
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And go, if it needs to, if it calls you to go down the rabbit hole, then go down it.
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Right.
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Like take that time.
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And, and that's where you activate your guys, your, your spirit team, your angels, your galactic guides, is stepping more up into our truths and who we are.
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And in that space, you tend to activate a creative potential that was always there, but you're just turning it on.
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You start to see the pieces and how it fits into this one whole big picture of what can I offer to the world?
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How can I be of service?
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How can I serve?
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How can I use my quirks?
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to bring truth, to bring order, to bring love into the world more like that.
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I feel, you know, it's subtle.
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These are like nuances.
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These are intuitive hits and working, not just, not just like allowing people to influence our goals, but like more of an internal take space for yourself.
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So that's why I'm going to leave that.
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Yeah.
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Now I'm going to move on finally to people in relationships.
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And if this could be if you're not in a romantic relationship, this could be for people who are co-creating with other people, other, you know, or it could be both.
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Apply the energies.
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This is just energy.
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So four of pentacles in the reverse is a great card to have in the reverse.
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Why?
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Because it means that you're letting go of control of what was once stable and really didn't bring in much anymore.
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Like maybe at one point you built your...
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Um, success and, and, and it got stagnant.
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So that's move it like these blocks are, are, are starting to lift within yourself.
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You're because you're moving forward through any rigidity.
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You're not holding on too tightly.
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to where you are, you're allowing yourself to expand in these next four months, right, in your relationships.
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You're becoming more adaptable, more flexible, analytical in a grounded way.
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You're becoming more communicative.
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You're becoming more intellectual, fluid.
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You're educating yourself more.
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Opportunities and resources are going to open up, right, in these next four months with the, you know, in the upright, it's like he's holding on tight to what he's built.
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You see?
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Mm-hmm.
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Like greedy materialism and like it keeps you stuck because then you're just running the day to day routine of the rat race and paying your mortgage.
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You're working just to pay your bills.
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That's not living.
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You know, some may may feel trapped.
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They don't know any other way.
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So that's going to be coming to the forefront for people who are more open minded.
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If you use the Venus and Aquarius energy and embody that archetype, it'll help you.
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So, yeah, a lot of a lot of like just things flowing, a lot of things adjusting better to circumstances.
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And then I pulled an astrology card, the House of Gemini, the lover's card in tarot.
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This has a lot to do with your childhood.
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What you learned, what did you learn in childhood about relationships with people in general?
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Not not specifically romantic.
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Right.
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Like it's.
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You're going to want to listen inside to what you believed in before a lot of the ingraining, a lot of the indoctrination came through, through school, community, you know, family expectations, societal, all of that stuff.
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You're going to start to, you know, like step more into individuation.
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You know, what part do you play?
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This is aligning with what it is that you love the most and starting to take those and transmit those things and to apply it into how you can serve humanity.
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So I chose, you know, the path of the esoteric arts and healing through healing my own trauma as I went through death and rebirths in the past couple of years.
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And I chose the path to do healing.
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Psychic reading, spiritual work.
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This is the path of how I know I'm in alignment with one of my soul contracts to help people through this platform here.
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And I work a few others and I do other things.
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I wear many hats.
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and that's what aquarius energy is the aquarius energy is in the tarot is depicted in the star card it's a beautiful card i i i would love to see if i could quickly find it for you while i'm talking but it's it's us like expressing ourselves in our multi-faceted like a diamond like we we're not just here to work one job for the rest of our lives we're here to take our god-given gifts and and and x thirty three thirty three on the clock as i said that so and express that into the world right like and it start and you some people are gonna feel a little bit like closed off with it they may do it behind the scenes because it's uncomfortable like people are you're not used to your creativity coming through because you've been in the the robotic life you've been living that day-to-day You know, just to maintain your status quo.
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Right.
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And the universe is not going to allow that anymore for people that have been fixed in their ways and their ways of thinking, living and being in the next four months.
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So.
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Expect relationships to upgrade.
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Expect power couple dynamics to come through.
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Expect creative ventures both individually and as a couple.
00:34:21.672 --> 00:34:30.402
Like expect these things to start coming through as you open up your mind a little bit more and end those old cycles and one thing at a time.
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One thing at a time or two things.
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People are good at balancing two things.
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You're good at two things that you know are paving the way to bring you natural abundance and stepping into that creative power, Adele, which you keep enhancing through your podcast.
00:34:47.436 --> 00:34:48.277
I mean, you're growing.
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And you're going to be so in alignment with your purpose as a humanitarian worker, helping other lightworkers and giving us that confidence to speak and share our gifts is a gift in itself.
00:35:04.748 --> 00:35:10.693
And that's how the universe is going to continuously build that for a one K for you by helping.
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It's using your life.
00:35:12.893 --> 00:35:57.699
right and the perks the perks of being able to be independent be with your your children your husband be there run the household still have um you know space to to follow your passions like you know what is that like for you as a as you build yourself um using creativity yeah no absolutely i mean it's you know it's why i've always really enjoyed and i feel that you know maybe you last sort of few months, I've been spinning so many plates because I've been planting so many seeds that like everything you've been mentioning today, I've now had that point where it's actually, you know, trying to stop and make me have a bit of time to myself and nurture myself and have that space to think, you know, and, and, Yeah, just to have that nice balance.
00:35:57.840 --> 00:35:59.721
And I found that sort of the last few weeks.
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I mean, wake up every morning, I feel so good.
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I was like, what's got into you?
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I don't know.
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It's not really good.
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I mean, well, you know, I just I just feel really charged up.
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And there's been lots of things around that haven't been going smoothly.
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Like I said, my car's been broken down.
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I've had to jumpstart it most days.
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And the printer hasn't been working, but it's all things that.
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It can wait.
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It can get sorted.
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But by things aren't working, it's stopping me from spending money, going shopping, doing the chores.
00:36:28.119 --> 00:36:32.981
I've had to just be grounded and just do things that are making me feel a bit more wholesome.
00:36:33.061 --> 00:36:34.862
So it's had that knock-on effect.
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But all the creativity sides come through.
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This week, I did a whole disco diva theme in my spin class.
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They went...
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My boss said, why are you doing that?
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It's a longer month and I want to keep people upbeat.
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It's January.
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Why not?
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Let's bring in some disco diva.
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I love it.
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I love it.
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For no reason, but I just want to express myself.
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Just want to have fun.
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You know, that's like coming through just to lift that energy.
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If people are feeling a little bit flat at the moment.
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So just sharing my energy with people.
00:37:05.126 --> 00:37:05.626
Exactly.
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And the advice card I pulled was mystery.
00:37:08.969 --> 00:37:19.896
So it's you trusting the mystery of life to be able to transform any darkness in our minds that could manifest as doubt, fears, anxiety.
00:37:19.996 --> 00:37:25.101
What if, you know, what if you were to, you know, leave this all behind and start fresh?
00:37:25.501 --> 00:37:27.322
And that's where you have...
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to work on trusting the mystery of life and that you will be provided for as we're both exhibiting in our own personal lives.
00:37:36.233 --> 00:37:39.356
We're leading by example, right?
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I never panic.
00:37:39.918 --> 00:37:40.599
I never worry.
00:37:40.639 --> 00:37:42.541
I just think it's happening for a reason.
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And when you look at life in that way, and that's not being, you know...
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you know, silly or stupid about things.
00:37:49.418 --> 00:37:51.840
Of course, you're still, you know, clued up on what's going on around.
00:37:51.860 --> 00:37:56.304
But if you look at things so differently, life can be so much more smoother and gentle.
00:37:56.384 --> 00:38:04.630
And, you know, I could be getting really stressed out and worked out that, you know, I can't print off a form for something or that I can't get my car started.
00:38:04.670 --> 00:38:08.672
But I'll be like, oh, but it is what it is, you know, and just going with it.
00:38:08.773 --> 00:38:12.978
And as I mentioned, because I've been feeling so energetic, I'm passing on my energy to other people.
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And I just feel that it's just been a massive big reset for you know, coming into January.
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It's a big reset.
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Yeah.
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And just trusting in the universe that these things that are happening that are blocking me or stopping me are all meant to be for me to sort out other things.
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Yes.
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And I mean, I'm a little bit more extreme in the way that I live my life where I take I take a lot of risks and something just tells me to not go backwards, you know, keep going.
00:38:42.405 --> 00:38:43.367
Like I've built this.
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I just, I cannot really describe and I don't need to explain to, to people who project their fears into the way I'm living my life.
00:38:52.094 --> 00:38:53.934
Like, That's not stable.
00:38:54.275 --> 00:39:02.344
Well, if you really think about it, nothing life in life is stable, it could feel stable when you're doing the same thing every day and going to the same job every day.
00:39:02.664 --> 00:39:38.452
But when you're, you know, especially with me, recovering from a dysregulated nervous system, adrenal fatigue, I, you know, I've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, I've I'm on another trajectory where i'm healing from all of those things and recovering from it um holistically that is you know and and of course i integrate some scientific methods as well but you know i believe that the body heals itself and especially if you regulate your learn to regulate your nervous system which controls all the other systems you're good And it's a daily maintenance.
00:39:38.713 --> 00:39:40.554
This is not something you do once a week.
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This is where I choose to live my life so that I can make time to pray in the morning, work on my affirmations, work on yoga, work on breath work, work on meditation, and then prepare my breakfast, prepare for my talks.
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I own my time in that sense.
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And the more I notice that I heal my nervous system, um the more i feel god source universe keeps showing me signs to just keep relaxing every time i every time i start to stress adele or worry what happens is i get an invite for a weekend I get an invite to come for lunch, go off to eat, or I get invited to a spa.
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Like, everything just says no.
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Like, have fun.
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Even with all the stuff going on, where the old me would be like, oh, I can't right now.
00:40:39.099 --> 00:40:40.139
I'm going through so much stuff.
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I'm not in the mood.
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I would let my mood affect me where now I'm able to discern and detach from a situation where people are caught up in their own loops and I'm not going to let their energy affect my moments of joy and miracles that are pouring in through invites.
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I'm going to go on that weekend trip or that vacation or that retreat.
00:41:02.885 --> 00:41:05.965
I'm going to take the invite to go and try a new class.
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Or that spa.
00:41:06.925 --> 00:41:11.208
I literally got a a gift card to a spa, you know?
00:41:12.688 --> 00:41:15.592
So I said, okay, ooh, that's what I'm meant to be doing soon.
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And I plan on using that.
00:41:17.913 --> 00:41:21.114
The better we feel, the better we perform, the better person we are.
00:41:21.155 --> 00:41:24.918
So absolutely, you're always looking after ourselves and what we need.
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And then if you're not...
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The universe will do that for you in some way.
00:41:29.101 --> 00:41:30.603
Or make you in some way.
00:41:30.623 --> 00:41:32.724
Yes.
00:41:32.804 --> 00:41:33.186
Yes.
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I don't want to share before we wrap this up.
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I know we don't have much time.
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But on a personal note, my brother got into a pretty major freak accident.
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And he was untouched.
00:41:48.139 --> 00:41:49.501
He is alive and well.
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nothing broken.
00:41:51.340 --> 00:41:53.641
And he was at the gym the next day or same day.
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Cause when he showed me the video, what happened was he was heading southbound and the big truck on the opposite side was heading northbound.
00:42:01.443 --> 00:42:05.864
So that big truck was in the acceleration lane and hit a big, big sign.
00:42:06.143 --> 00:42:10.244
And that big, big sign destroyed my brother's totaled my brother's car.
00:42:10.664 --> 00:42:40.034
And he was in that, he was, he doesn't even know how he got into the, the curb because he said all i i don't know how i got there because there were so many cars around me so if he was in the acceleration lane he was forced to go into that lane yeah and his i don't know how he saw if that thing hit his car i don't even know i can't i'm that's where we're able to trust the mystery and now my brother is being forced to go within and reassess Yes.
00:42:41.016 --> 00:42:42.376
This is not working anymore.
00:42:42.516 --> 00:42:44.498
Something's not working, you know?
00:42:45.780 --> 00:42:47.282
Yes, that's exactly what it is.
00:42:47.302 --> 00:42:55.610
And I hope, I pray for him that he gets it, you know, this introvert period for him to, he's a Virgo, so he does that pretty well on his own.
00:42:56.170 --> 00:43:03.335
And I pray that bigger opportunities come where he doesn't have to be so on the go anymore.
00:43:03.496 --> 00:43:04.197
Yeah, yeah.
00:43:04.840 --> 00:43:05.400
Oh, bless him.
00:43:05.460 --> 00:43:06.481
I'm glad he's okay.
00:43:06.940 --> 00:43:10.222
Well, it's been so lovely speaking to you, Sherry, as always.
00:43:10.282 --> 00:43:14.722
And so much synchronicity and just so much alignment all in that podcast.
00:43:14.742 --> 00:43:26.505
But great knowledge as well to everyone else that's listening about relationships and boundaries and looking at specific dates that are coming up that we can work with that energy so things can, you know, run smoothly or we can hopefully bring new things in.
00:43:26.804 --> 00:43:27.985
It all sounds very exciting.
00:43:29.344 --> 00:43:29.824
Oh, my God.
00:43:29.844 --> 00:43:30.164
I'm so excited.
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And ourselves.
00:43:31.885 --> 00:43:32.766
Yes.
00:43:32.786 --> 00:43:33.606
Thank you so much, Adele.
00:43:35.025 --> 00:43:36.646
Yes.
00:43:37.666 --> 00:43:37.907
I love it.
00:43:37.927 --> 00:43:42.329
Now, Sherry, if people want to come through and speak to you on their phone lines for a more personal reading, what's your pin number?
00:43:42.789 --> 00:43:43.050
Sure.
00:43:43.070 --> 00:43:44.771
It's five hundred six four.
00:43:44.951 --> 00:43:50.652
Oh, and I'm looking forward to to to hearing from new and old clients.
00:43:51.494 --> 00:43:51.954
Amazing.
00:43:52.014 --> 00:43:52.775
Thank you very much, Sherry.
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Thank you very much, listeners.
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Thank you.
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Bye.
