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Every organization you will ever work with inside is running an invisible operating system, a set of rules that nobody hands you from day one.
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Rules that determine who gets ahead, who gets stuck, and why two people with the same talent end up in completely different places.
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My guest today has spent his career inside that invisible system focused on culture.
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Nick Holmes is a PhD researcher in organizational behavior, edX speaker, and the founder of Culture Nova, a cultural diagnostic and research firm.
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Nick, before we get into anything else, one I want to say thank you because since we met, I think we have a lot of really interesting alignment and I just find everything that you're doing fascinating.
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So I'm excited to really unpack more.
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Yes, so excited to be here and talk all of this stuff.
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I know that on it.
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So you have to slow me down at times or aim me off the rails.
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But no, excited to be here.
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Amazing, amazing.
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So love for you to share with the audience a little bit more about you, your background, a little bit more perspective on all things you.
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Oh my goodness, how long have you got?
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No, I have such a squiggly career, which is like part of the reason I guess I am who I am.
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I went to university to study performing art, so I wanted to be a TV presenter, of course.
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And then I got uh into film school in Los Angeles and I budgeted myself to stay there for a year.
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I ran out of money after six months, but I managed to finish the like briefly get through a bit of the course.
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Came back to London, was an actor for a bit with air.
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I need to put air quotes in this, by the way.
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Actor with air quotes.
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I had a million jobs to live in London whilst trying to pursue this dream.
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One of those was working at an aquarium selling photos of people of themselves, like literally as you walk into an aquarium, take a picture of yourself, and then try and sell that photo back to you, you know, in the days of printing photos out and putting them in books and all sorts of stuff, which is quite funny.
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Turns out I was really good at selling stuff.
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And then I was still like 21 early, you know, at this point.
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And I said to my managers, like week one, I was like, why can't everyone sell this amount of money?
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And then we could all make more money.
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That makes sense.
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And they're like, You're like, you've been here a week, but sure.
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Try.
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Like a literally, yeah, go for it.
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So I was like, okay, fine.
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And so literally, I was two weeks in or something, and I ran a training session for 40 members of retail staff, a London Aquarium, and the backdrop was the shark tank about sales.
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And all I was teaching, I'd write them all scripts, and I was like Googling Muhammad Ali clips and all this kind of thing.
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So that was sort of like part one, and then that was amazing.
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I got to travel the world at that point to Barcelona, Dubar, Australia, New Zealand, all over to train and all across the states to train staff and sales and changing their behaviours.
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I then wanted to take on more of the people landscape as I grew in that role and that career.
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That's why I got my CIBD qualifications.
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I was the head of HR and tech firm, and then I wanted a bit more purpose in my life.
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So I moved to a healthcare firm to become the VP of learning and culture.
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I got a master's in employment law and on that journey.
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I did a lot of thought leadership and tech and well-being.
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And yeah, and now I'm on this really incredible journey through the PhD.
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I founded a cultural intelligence and research firm called Culture Nova.
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And I'm also the CLO, the chief learning officer at a firm called Unthink, who are one of the most, the most amazing L and D behavior change consultancies on this planet because they're challenging the status quo.
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Normal wasn't working.
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So yeah, we're changing behaviors in a really cool, unique, and novel way.
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So it's a very squeaky.
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There's lots of moments in there, lots of stories in there, of course.
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But yeah, that was a pretty whistle stop tour of me of the last, what, 14 years or so.
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My goodness.
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I think that what's really cool is you've gone after everything.
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And I think that also everyone that moves to LA runs out of money.
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So it's not just you know, RGB.
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I was 21, my my third day there, and I've quickly realized there's a whole lot of things.
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So I went to university in Middlesbrough in the UK.
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It was a lovely town.
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Like, honestly, it's like one of those places you adopted your own.
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But then you go from Middlesbrough to Los Angeles.
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It's quite a funny.
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So yeah, no, but I had a great time.
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I had a great time.
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That's amazing.
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And I love your story and I love the squiggly career.
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It's like we've all had it for sure, and it's definitely not what you think about when you start at the beginning.
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So tell me a little bit more on your field of practice for those that don't have any idea around organizational behavior, organizational culture.
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Let's start there.
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What is that for the listener?
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Yeah, really good, really good, good question.
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So, organizational behavioral studies is looking at why organizations work the way they do and how people show up within those organizations.
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And when we think about work, we think about the thing that we do most in our life after sleep.
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Yeah.
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It takes up uh the majority of our adult life and can impact everything from the relationships that we have to the mindset and wellness that we feel every single day.
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So organizational behavioral studies and my field of research specifically is about culture, is really understanding why organizations make the decisions they do every single day, why some organizations grow, why some constrain.
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And what drove me to this is I've worked in organizations where I've sat and I've listened to founders and CEOs and managing directors and leaders talk about how exciting the future is through growth, through opportunity.
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And with that, those simple words, a sentence, 30 seconds, it can impact an entire organization of hundreds to thousands of people instantly in a feel-good way.
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So if you're sat there going, This is great, I want to be a part of this, the energy that you then feel that you take into your life, your relationships is wild.
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It's so big and powerful.
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I've also sat on the other side where leaders and CEOs and MDs have said, we have to make cuts.
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We are being sold.
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We haven't hit what we've needed to hit.
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And I felt the very real reaction of that the other way, where the intense anxiety feeds into a person, to a family, to a livelihood.
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So what I want to do is really crack the nut on how and why organizations grow.
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And what is it?
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What's the secret behind it?
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And for me, that has to be culture.
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A really good way that brings us alive is my mum is a foster carer in Kent.
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So what that means is in the UK is she looks after kids that don't have anywhere else to go.
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And these boys and girls can come from all over from the UK, but all over the world as well.
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And she looks after the age group between sort of 13, 14 and up.
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And she's had a few years ago now, it was amazing, right?
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So she's got these two boys who are about 16, 17, wanting to get them jobs.
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There's a road just down from my mum's, has two car washers on the road, right?
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Literally one either side of the street.
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And both the boys managed to get jobs at each of the car washers.
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And I'm over for dinner and we're talking about this one day, and I'm talking about how's the work going?
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And one of them's like, I was really slow, like, no cars.
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And the other one's like, I don't understand how you have no cars.
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He's always backed up.
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And I'm like, this is interesting, tell me more.
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Anyway, long story short, the one who works at the firm with the car wash with the where cars that keep coming in, is like, I met the owner on the first day.
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He told me this story, he asked every new customer.
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He says, before he washes a car or asked someone to wash their car, he asked, like, why are they getting their car washed?
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And they would always say, I'm going to a wedding or I need to pick me up, I'm going on holiday.
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And they kept coming back for that.
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And I said, Oh, what happens for you?
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And the boy who doesn't have any customers to say, Oh, I just got shown how to use the tools and then said wash the cars.
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And each one had the exact same look and feel, they have the exact same tools, one's growing, one's not.
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That's culture.
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And for me, that started me on this thread that I kept pulling.
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So yeah, and it's just when you see it play out, no market conditions are the same, the finance is the, you know, the investment looks exactly the same look and feel, but but something's happening there that isn't the other one.
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And what we need to do as a society is understand why we behave the way we do.
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And culture is the system that produces organizational behavior.
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It's so, so interesting because you know, anyone that you speak with and you give advice to people and you say, the culture is so important that you step into, but it's so hard to define what that actually means.
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And for me, that culture is a feeling.
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I just kind of know that when I enter an organization or a client that it's a jive for me, or if it's not.
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Tell me more on like how you describe culture to people, because I find such a hard time talking about what that means.
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Yeah.
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Well, you're not, you, Lori, you're not alone.
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We've been studying this thing for about 150 plus years.
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1800s is when the first sort of scripture, the text, the literature came out about organizational culture.
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And since then, we've got over 164 academically defined versions of this thing that we all know is important.
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It sits in boardroom discussions from Major League Baseball teams to healthcare firms and the schools and everywhere in between, right?
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It's everywhere.
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The most common definition is very similar to what we've just said.
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It's the way things are done around here.
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It is a set of behaviors or values.
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The problem is when we treat something like a set of something, it becomes quite static.
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And we know that culture, as you mentioned, it kind of does change and it moves, it's live, it's alive every single day.
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The reverse of that is if we just leave it alone as a state of feeling, of vibe, of being, and you treat it like the weather, it becomes nearly impossible to measure.
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And so the issue that we have as an entire industry is we tend to gauge the effectiveness or the strength or the health of our culture on a metric like engagement.
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So we measure how people feel.
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And there's nothing wrong with measuring how people feel.
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Knowing how people feel is important in organizations.
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But asking how you feel isn't asking why the system is behaving the way it is or why culture is behaving the way it is.
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So I define culture through my research as a living operating system, as an OS, much like you'd see on your phone, right?
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So you think about your iPhone, it's probably running on iOS 2 million and four or whatever the latest iOS.
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And within the system, there are four specific domains that determine the health of that system.
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So the first one, we call that maps.
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And maps is the intention, the integrity between what you say as a business and what you actually do, how your purpose shapes your priorities, is strategic clarity, it's the values that you state making action happen in your business.
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And there's the rules that are written and unwritten.
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The second domain, we call this wires, right?
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And this is how information flows through teams, it's how incentives take place in the business, it's decision rights and decision power in the organization.
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The third domain is really important.
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We call this patterns, that's behavioral memory, it's psychological safety, it's that deliberate action of inclusion in your organization, it's being able to be direct and candid.
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And the final domain, that's sparks.
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We call that BARS because it's all about how learning happens in the business, how failure gets approached, how leaders model and managers practice and adapt.
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All of those different domains compound and produce behavior.
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And your organizational behavior then determines whether or not you grow, whether you constrain as a business or you're contracting and shrinking.
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What we want to do, and what we need to do is measure the system, not the sentiment.
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Because we can ask how you feel, like do you trust your business?
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Do you like your leaders?
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Do you align to the vision?
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Yeah, I feel all that.
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But we would need to measure why the system's behaving the way it is.
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And when you know how a system behaves, you can focus on the constraint that's slowing it down the most.
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And when you know what's slowing your system down, you know what to change.
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A little bit like your phone.
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If you're running iOS 4 and you've got 20,000 apps, it's gonna be slow.
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It's not gonna load properly, it's gonna be fatigued, you're gonna get frustrated.
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You've got to delete the apps, rewire the system, upgrade the system, and add the apps back in after that.
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Yeah, that's so interesting.
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You know, it makes me think about the question of is there good culture and bad culture, or is there just misaligned people to the right organizations?
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Good question.
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First of all, everyone has a culture, whether you think or not.
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It's like the essence of fish to ocean, right?
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That's kind of like a thing I heard recently, which I like.
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So you have a culture.
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In terms of good or bad, I think remember that no one will ever have a purely bad culture everywhere.
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There'll be pockets, and culture is made up of sub-teams and sub-cultures.
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Your system isn't just everyone doing one thing all the time, it's multiple teams interacting and work in different ways.
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I like to treat culture as health.
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So when we think about cultural health, then we can talk about how healthy or not your culture is.
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So there'll be parts of the system that are operating fine, parts that are unhealthy that we need to go in and address in order to improve the overall health of the system.
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So I like to think about it as the we produce what's called a cultural health index through the field work coming up, right?
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So when we go to an organization and we run a diagnostic and we say, like, here's your cultural health on the cultural health index from critical of health.
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If you think about that, when you've got like, okay, I need to see a doctor and I'm really poorly, I need to go in now and get an op, to thriving because you're in your 90s and going on marathons.
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Yeah, that's where we want people to go.
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So when we talk about culture and we align it to health, I think that's really important place.
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Yeah, you're right, because there also is a very real alignment to that in terms of your workplace, does affect your health, right?
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So there is certainly a bigger picture in that.
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Yeah, absolutely.
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And it's not just the cultural health, as you mentioned, all of that rolls up to the individuals, then feedback into the system.
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So all of these things can pound.
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But people don't realize.
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I was thinking about this other day, I appreciate it as a slight tandem.
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Most people associate burnout and high levels of stress.
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So burnout is a result of chronic stress at work.
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More stress you feel, the burnout, the symptoms that come with that.
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Most people associate that with overwork, too much work.
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But the reality is the biggest factor in workplace, high stress to which leads to burnout, is role misalignment.
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So if you have problem ambiguity and anxiety about what it is you're supposed to be doing and where your value truly lies in the organization, it causes burnout faster and it compounds quicker than overwork that ever does.
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So, like when we talk about cultural health as a system, that's why we start at the map space, strategic clarity, unwritten rules, making sure you know what's expected.
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That's got to start there.
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That can ease you into then information, decision flow incentives, etc.
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So they all flow.
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Yeah, it's so interesting because a big part of what I talk about in real work, Greddy, is about all those unwritten rules as well that you just kind of learn over time.
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And I think there's the standard in professionalism and corporate, right?
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And then there's the cultural per organization.
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But how do you work with the organizations that you help on defining what their own unwritten rules are and like pulling that out of them?
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So the written rules are the ones that dictate the unwritten rules, right?
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So, you know, one of the things I was fascinated about is law.
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And I thought when I went, I did my master's in employment law, it was a little bit like when you build an organization, you're building a city, right?
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And so you're putting in the pipe works, the schematics, the planning, the roots.
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Law is a bit like that in organizations.
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It's the, you know, we don't rise the level of our expectations, we do fall to the level of our systems and process.
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So when it comes to the written rules in the organization, are they contradictory to what you're trying to achieve as a business?
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And so what I mean by that is you have a policy that says one thing, but the business is saying something else.
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So you don't have enhanced parental leave, but you're saying that we want to be a great place for mums or working parents to come and work for us.
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The two don't match.
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So you're misaligned on the unwritten rules, etc.
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So when it comes to finite in the unwritten and then seeing what is, it's like, how do you set standards in the business?
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And how are people held accountable to those standards that you're setting?
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And that people know what's expected of them and their roles.
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Is it what was what they're hired for?
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Or is it actually something how how you know your integrity between what you say and what you do, we keep this in maps, but it also stems in the attraction process.
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If I'm bringing a candidate in and saying, you're gonna have autonomy, you're gonna have freedom to shape the department, and you come in and you're like, No, you have to stick within this process, you're going like, Well, your written rule is say one thing, your unwritten rule will say something completely different, and you're giving me a difficult, conflicting message, compounding culture.
00:15:05.360 --> 00:15:13.039
And it's so interesting because even if the cultural of the whole organization might be with that intent, right?
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It even goes down to the small team level of who your manager is and how they translate those written and unwritten roles into their own small operation.
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And at the end of the day, that's usually your world, is that small team that you're operating on.
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100%.
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Managerial practice is the factor, it's such a huge factor.
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You know, if you think about feeling in an organization, managers can determine up to 70% of the variable in that, right?
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And what's brilliant, like Simon Sinek talks about this from a pilot perspective.
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Do you want a pilot who sticks to the rules all the time, or do you want a pilot that's gonna get you to your destination as safely as possible?
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And sometimes in order to get to your destination as safely as possible, you might have to break a couple of the rules.
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I want the pilot that's gonna get me there safely versus the pilot that's gonna follow all the rules.
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And managers conflicted, you have managers who have high levels of EQ, who have been brought up, educated, and gone through learning experiences, so they are ready to act in the safest way possible for your people versus following all the rules.
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And you have managers who either manage the way they've always been managed, which might be follow the book or get gone, in which case they just relay that down.
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They relay the message down versus nuancing it and flexing it.
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And when you're new into an organization or new into your career, you need someone who's gonna tell you this is what the book says, but this is how we're gonna operate and this is why.
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And if there's a conflict, this is why.
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And we're gonna help your career and I'm gonna get you to your destination because ultimately the business succeeds if I can get you there.
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So it's just about being able to have managers who have that level of adaptability in EQ.
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But they place you in how the organization succeeds.
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So, what advice would you give to someone that is looking to join an organization is going through the process of saying, is this organization the right fit for me?
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I think there's questions you can ask at interview if you know you're this is a place where you're excited to go.
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Two things before I get there though, don't jump to an organization because the brand is shiny, right?
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Because quite often, more than not, you go, I want to go and work for an IBM, I want to go and work for a JP Morgan, I want these names.
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And whilst they offer quite enhanced benefits in packages, they will be potentially just at detriment to the culture health.
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Whereas smaller firms, more nimble firms, firms that really want you to come and are desperate for you to join will help nurture you at the early stage of your career or the next stage of your career much better.
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And you'll have autonomy, you'll have connectedness, relatedness, self-determination theory, we know matters.
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So, first of all, just be really clear what you're jumping into and don't just jump to the shiniest brand.
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Make sure you're being really selective.
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Do your research.
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We've never lived in a more accessible to information age.
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So get into Claude and do it, give me a holistic view of what this company's done and stands for over the last three years.
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Ask Claude how have their actions externally mapped their purpose that they say.
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So, for example, if you've got a firm that says we prioritize our people, our well-being is really important, you can do a really deep scan to see all of the initiatives that have actually taken place.
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And if they're jumping back one or two things in three years, big red flag for me, right?
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And you can ask the same thing in the interview process.
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And when you go into the interview process, if you're asking about culture, don't ask what's the culture like.
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Because 95% of times people will return back, oh, it's really great, it's supportive, we go on socials, the office is brilliant.
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You know, I'd be asking slightly different questions.
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Like this says, within my first 90 days, how are you gonna make sure that I'm set up for success?
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What is the process that I'm walking into in the early days of my career?
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What does progression really look like?
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What does it mean?
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Have you got a clear set of standard expectations for me to walk into as I start my new role?
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When pressure is on, how do the leaders behave in the organization?
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So powerful, such a cool question that people really struggle with.
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And then just read, use your EQ to read on their responses, note that down and come prepared with good questions, is what I would say.
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Yeah, that's that's really good advice.
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And I think that your practice, your focus, and culture nova is so timely right now.
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My big focus is on the Gen Z population because that's where most early professionals sit right now.
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And they are the generation that is the forerunner in terms of the importance of value and aligning with cultures on that.
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So I love that your advice that you give.
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And you're right, there's so much available at our disposal, and it's about asking those right questions when you have the opportunity to do so.
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It's powerful.
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I spoke about this in my TED talk, but we have seemed, and this is why this generation is so much stronger in many ways.
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And we need to really focus on this though, is curiosity.
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Like we do not lose your ability to be curious.
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Curiosity is one of the most powerful skills that is gonna come forward in 26 over the next five years.
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And what I mean by curiosity is the ability not just to agree with everything you hear and say yes to everything that's given to you.
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It's the ability to say, I'd like to find out more about that.
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I'm gonna go deeper in this area.
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I'm gonna research this.
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Like the power of research, the joy of academia, and people think of this thing as this like stale institution of I have to do my exams or have to get educated.
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The power in academia is curiosity.
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Without a shadow of a doubt, it makes you get curious over areas that you're passionate about as you go further in higher education.
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Or if you're not so passionate about, you can draw links to this.
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And where technology and curiosity come together is a way to, like, for example, I'm using Claude Cowork right now to run daily briefs for me in all the latest in neuroscience, experiential learning, memory, organizational behavior, and any cool fun stuff and stories from over the last, you know, thousand years that brings to life these things.
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So every morning I get a daily brief of all this cool stuff.
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So I read it with my coffee, and that's my start of my day.
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So the ability to get curious, this generation, Gen Z have got that power.
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They can go and drive that, and then they can shine the light to the rest of the organization of what curiosity really means because they're so fresh out of that area, that bubble of curiosity, that they can they need to keep that curiosity mowing through in their next steps, basically.
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Yeah, no, it's super interesting.
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And I think it's even more interesting that there's four generations now in the workplace at the same time.
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And it's also this balance of being cognizant of the company culture that you're walking into and coming in with this curiosity idea is how do you deliver that in a way that resonates with the culture that you stepped into, right?
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And I do think that that's a balance to strike in terms of how effective you are in the organization.
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100%.
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Like you're never as more influential as you are in your first 90 days.
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So you've got to use it, right?
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Because you're new, you have fresh energy.
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The same time, curiosity is your power to build relationships across the business.
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If you come in like a bulldozer and go, it's not very good, this is rubbish.
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You remember people who have spent their time and their livelihoods building things that you're stepping into.
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And I haven't met any leader whose intent isn't wanting to build something great and do something brilliant for their people.
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The problem is that their system has been compounding over time without diagnosis and left to cause issues in different places.
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Come in in the time and get curious straight away.
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And curiosity.
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For me, early career means meet as many people as you can.
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Say yes to absolutely everything.
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If I didn't say yes, the opportunities, the relationships, the meetings, and just instead of when you go into a meeting a new person, don't go in with the same agenda.
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Don't go in and say, Who are you?
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Where's your role?
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Where are you from?
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What'd you go to the office?
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Go in and be like, what have you learned over the last three years about working here?
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What do you think, you know, what is the thing that, you know, you shouldn't tell me, but tell me.
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Like all of these kinds of questions you should ask and get curious around.
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He only needs three or four really interesting questions to ask to build a brand new relationship in a much more deeper, more meaningful way.
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Yeah.
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The skills moving forward, AI literacy, yes, but the ability to really build a cool relationship internally, to make trust happen fast, so that when you need something, whether it's a next step, whether it's a partner to someone to come with you on a project, whether it's the change journey, people will trust you more if they believe in you, if you have a connection.
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That is what it all boiled down to.
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I think that with everything related to AI, I don't know about you as great as it is, but I get nauseous hearing the word every day as well in every sort of tea.
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I was like, when I did my TEDx, they were like anything but AI.
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And I was like, thank you, to be honest with you.
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Yeah.
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I was like, it's great.
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I get to talk about joy instead.
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So yeah, I'm Yeah.
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Well, I think that the part that makes all the difference is how you form those human connections with people.
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To your point on culture, how do you develop an organization that people understand, believe in, want to be at, want to contribute to?
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So yeah, I think that's where like we're overdoing the AI.
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And I think it's a huge opportunity for people to really focus on the human elements of making themselves professional, present, and all those good things.
00:23:41.200 --> 00:24:00.960
I want to briefly move into Culture Nova in terms of what you've seen and what has surprised you through the research and findings that you have, because you were able to show me your product, your company the last time that we spoke, and I was like, oh my goodness, why don't I have this?
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So tell me a little bit more of what you've learned, what you built.
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Yeah, so what we built is, and it all sits on our side, there's no tech burden in the organization, but it's a diagnostic tool.
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So essentially what we do through three data points.
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So we have a behavioral instrument, which is 48 behavioral statements that the team, the organization with diagnostic, will answer truthfully through a strong agree, disagree.
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And it's very observed what we're looking at.
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So I want to pivot for a second and go a little bit deeper into culture and over itself.
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You were able to show me your company, your product last time, and I was completely astonished with what you've built, all the research, dedication that went into it.
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So tell me, what have you learned by putting tooling, capability, and technology to a culture problem?
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Yeah, I know, right?
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Well, I think first of all, we're going after the traditional engagement survey industry because I don't think that what we're getting as a world is moving the needle on performance enough and not, you know, growing an organization grows your people.
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There is not one before the other.
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You have to grow, if you grow a business, you set the conditions for success, people can flourish in that.
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So what we do is we've built a really cool diagnostic uh tool, which essentially the all the tech sits on our side, but we diagnose organizations through three data points.
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We start with a behavioral instrument, which is 48 behavioral statements, and they're very observed.
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So we're asking people, for example, in the last six weeks, I've seen a leader make a decision that's directly linked to a strategy that's been communicated with me.
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Agree, not agree.
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So we're talking about the observe, what's being seen.
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The second data point is we do what's called gap listening sessions.
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And what these are is we talk to different cohorts in the business and managers, leaders, new starters, or functions like procurement, sales, IT, customer service.
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And we ask them a series of really challenging questions, but the same questions.
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And then we play that mirror back.
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So we see the fault lines between what two groups are saying about the same thing.
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The final thing then we do is we use a triangulation, so either external data to see what they're saying is matching up with what they're saying in the world, or strategy data as well.
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So strategy decks and KPIs to make sure that what we're playing back is linked and talking the business language.
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What's produced is a live, living diagnostic and a scroll.
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We have this stunning domain breakdowns, we tell you the cultural health of your organization, we pinpoint the specific constraint that's holding you back and give you the 90-day sprint to fix it.
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We've built Nova, she is a cultural diagnostician that lives inside this as well, so she can guide you through every single interaction too.
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It's been pretty powerful.
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We've got live diagnostics signing up all the time at the moment, which is really, really cool.
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That adds to the research, but also just helps organizations find their formidable.
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I think that the thing that has surprised me the most about this process is how poorly articulated what the business believes or businesses believes to their people.
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And what you're selling in is not what's lived when you're in.
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And so this mismatch of expectation and in some ways integrity is actually detrimental to culture and cultural health.
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So the first thing that organizations just need to do is ground themselves in why they are here and then make sure that everyone in the business sees their role in that.
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If you can start at that point, a very strict strict campaign on that, you'll start to move.
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And then there's some nuance, there's some surgical action.
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Managers, and this is where Umthink just it lights up the room because leadership development, manager behavior, organizational change through those behaviors to leaders and managers, it comes alive in there.
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And that's why I'm so passionate about that work as well, because we see managers ill-equipped to actually deal with the nuance and the challenges that organizations face.
00:27:24.640 --> 00:27:29.920
Well, and it's so interesting because you just had said the managers are really the biggest piece of this.
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Like they are the ones that are executing on this culture assigned by the executive team.
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Exactly.
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Yeah, exactly.
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They play such a role to educating them and giving them investment and experiential learning is going to be the way that saves organizations for sure.
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Yeah, yeah.
00:27:46.400 --> 00:27:47.759
It's so, so interesting.
00:27:47.920 --> 00:27:54.480
So for those coming in that maybe they're not as open to the culture discussion, right?
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It doesn't matter, not irrelevant, my people are happy, that sort of thing.
00:27:58.799 --> 00:28:02.480
What is the business results that they're missing out on?
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Because I imagine that there is a lot of financial impact in having a culture that's not working for them.
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100%.
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We built an ROI calculator.
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So we can send this afterwards that shows you the cost of poor culture.
00:28:15.039 --> 00:28:15.920
Yeah, I'd like to see that.
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Yeah.
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It's putting on your and it's very, very real, very relevant, and it's conservative.
00:28:19.839 --> 00:28:21.119
There is a financial gap.
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And even if the research proves it, and the reason why we've built a domain is that way we've done is back through the research.
00:28:27.839 --> 00:28:34.799
And so we know organizations that have attained purpose to people's roles, outperform their peers by two times at least.
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We know organizations who have quote unquote healthy or culture have about six times EBITDA, five times revenue on share price.
00:28:42.079 --> 00:28:43.680
I mean, all of these things compound.
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We know that happens.
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And this is two things.
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A, we need to equip people professionals better with ammo as they work, walk into a boardroom.
00:28:50.480 --> 00:28:52.559
And the CHI, the culture health index, will do that.
00:28:52.720 --> 00:28:57.759
But also, for execs, they need to know that in order for growth to take place, right?
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In order for performance of organizations to outperform their peers, you're going to have to understand why your culture is behaving the way it is.
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Because you spend millions on transformation that will never get realized if the way that teams work together is broken.
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And that's it.
00:29:13.039 --> 00:29:18.559
So before you spend a million in investment, spend a tiny fraction of that and diagnose what's actually happening.
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Mm-hmm.
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Mm-hmm.
00:29:19.839 --> 00:29:22.799
Yeah, it's just starting with the basics, right?
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Know what's behaving, know where the problems are, fix the problems and then transform.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I think too often we're trying to say, you know, how to cut costs here, how to diminish uh diversify.
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Start with the basics.
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What are you after?
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What is your culture all about?
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I love it.
00:29:37.839 --> 00:29:42.400
So we're gonna do a quick little rapid fire so folks can get to know you.
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All right.
00:29:43.279 --> 00:29:46.240
So this has not been prepared, obviously.
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So are you ready?
00:29:47.920 --> 00:29:48.799
Yeah, fire up.
00:29:48.880 --> 00:29:49.279
That's good.
00:29:49.599 --> 00:29:50.720
Okay, let's do it.
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Best piece of career advice that you were ever given.
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I'm not allowed to swear on this, am I?
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I won't swear.
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Yeah, go for it.
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We swear here.
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Don't be a dick.
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Okay.
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So straightforward, right?
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So honestly, don't be a dick.
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Be great to work with.
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Like, be great to work.
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If you're great to work with and you're kind and you're a good human and you put the energy in, you will get the rewards in your workplace.
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I love it.
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It's spot on, too.
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One word that describes what bad culture feels like.
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Anxiety.
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Good one.
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Joy or purpose.
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Which one do you chase?
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Joy.
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Always.
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A book that changed the way that you think about your work.
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Culture Code by Dan Coyle.
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Finally, last one.
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What was your first job and what'd you get paid?
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My first job was I was worked at a leisure center.
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So in the UK, they're like where they big swimming pools and like tennis courts and stuff like that I was running kids' parties and working in the gym.
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I was on£5.20 an hour.
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Wow.
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Yeah.
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Hopefully, hopefully a big change.
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I know.
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Hopefully a big change for where you are now.
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It's funny.
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Like, I love there is so much joy in working early.
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Like, work early because you learn so many things.
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I then I worked at Nando's, I worked at nightclub uh throughout my career.
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I've worked at all over cool places.
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I worked at Hamley's Toy Store.
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All of these were minimal pay jobs.
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But without them, there's no way I would have learned the skills that I've got today.
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All of them were customer focused and facing.
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But work with people and around people as soon as you can.
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It gives you so many cool skills.
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Yeah, I love that.
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I love all my early jobs.
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They were the best.
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I go back to them, honestly.
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If I needed to, I would go back to like waitress saying or something like it.
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It's that shot in the arm that sometimes you need.
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I've never laughed so hard in my life as I have in moments working like frontline sales.
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Like we used to at London Aquarium, we used to deal with people from all over the world and trying to sell people's photos of themselves back to them.
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At one point, I sold someone else's picture to someone else's family.
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I'm sure it broke all sorts of GDPR.
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The poor family had no idea what was going on.
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I grabbed a photo, put it in their hand, and said, It's 20 pounds.
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Should we take that one home?
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And they just said me 20 pounds.
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They walked out with someone else's photo.
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Like honestly, that was just one example of like a thousand examples.
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But like when we talk about chasing joy, it's the moments to be able to sit back and like laugh your face off in moments.
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Exactly.
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Genuinely, like it's my issue is like seriousness and work is a big, big issue.
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Like, you know, when the pressure is always on, you just suck out those, you know, suck out the joys.
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You've got to inject it through humor and just moments, just like this is just so fun and different.
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So I know.
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No, I I'm with you.
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So the final question that I asked all of my guests before they sign off is nobody told me this, but once I found it out, it changed everything for me.
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Wow, nobody told me this.
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But once I found it out, it changed everything for me.
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You will always catastrophize your failures more than anyone else.
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And you will fail a shit ton.
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And that is beautiful and wonderful.
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But remember, oh my God, people get over it really quickly.
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And you know, and you can yourself just use it to make yourself better.
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Don't catastrophize the moments that go against you.
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Use them as moments that just can make you so much more powerful.
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So that's so powerful and a healthy reminder for everyone, including myself.
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So thank you.
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So, Nick, thank you so much for joining.
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Where can folks find you?
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Check out getting a diagnostic, all that good stuff.
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Yeah, and all good.
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Hit me up on LinkedIn is the best place to start.
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Um, Nick Holmes dash HR.
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I'm on there.
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You can check me out at cultural.co.uk and weunthink.com.
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And we can change your life and your organization in so many different ways.
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I'm on TikTok at the Culture Doctor Nick Holmes as well.
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If you want to see some video content, then please do.
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But yeah, come out come along, say hi.
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So cool.
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Well, thank you again.
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We'll put everything in the show notes, Nick.
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It was such a pleasure.
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You are inspiring and teaching me something different too, and I'm sure everyone else listening.
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So thank you so much for your time.
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Thank you, Laura.
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Lovely, lovely to be here.
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It's great conversation.
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Take care.
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Thanks, everyone.