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You are listening to the Confronting Christianity podcast, and I'm
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here with my recently acquired just this past summer friend
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at Brie Stensrud. Brie is an author, human dignity advocate
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and the director of Women of Welcome. Her passion is
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to equip the church to engage more consistently and tangibly
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in holistic human dignity issues. Bree holds a Masters of
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Biblical and Theological Studies from Dallas Theological Seminary.
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She serves on the Board of Directors for.
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The National Association of Evangelicals, and she's authored two books,
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Start with Welcome, The Journey Toward a Confident and Compassionate
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Immigration Conversation, and a children's book, The Biggest Best Light,
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Shining God's Light in the world around You. Thank you
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so much for joining me, Brie.
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Oh, I'm so happy to be with you. Thanks for
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having me.
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Folks listening to us cannot see you right now, and
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so they don't know that you are wearing a baseball
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cap which says choosing proximity. And I'm just curious. I
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can imagine what that might be, what that might mean
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to you, But I'm kind.
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Of curious what that does mean to you, oh man, Well,
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when we do that, things get personal, and proximity is
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incredibly powerful for any human being, regardless of your religious
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or political affiliation. Proximity to people makes things really personal
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and you start to learn things that you never knew before,
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never thought possible. You hear stories, you see things you
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can't unsee. And so in my line of work, getting
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people close to others that they think are very different
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than them is important. It's essential to the work because
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we want to get people out of these comfortable and
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curated spaces, which is where a lot of the American
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church is is they're in comfortable and curated spaces that
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distance themselves from things that are hard, hurtful, and different.
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And so I have this belief that our comfort is
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crippling us, and so we have to choose something different.
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We have to we have to choose proximity. And so
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this is this is a hat that we wear on
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our immersion trips that we take our community on. We
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might talk about that a little bit later, but everyone's
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given a choosing proximity ball cap because that's what they're doing.
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That's so interesting.
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I was chatting with a friend recently who's studying at
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Harvard Law School, and she was recounting that in one
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of her classes, a fellow classmate had said something along
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the lines of, you know, she'd referred to Christians being
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raised in small towns in America who never had their
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ideas challenged about anything. And she sort of slightly raised
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a hand in this context and said, you know, I'm
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a Christian, i was raised in a small town in America,
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and I've actually had my ideas challenged quite a bit
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because I've spent a bunch of time with people who
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have very different background than I do. And she said,
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I've actually found not infrequently that people who have only
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kind of been born and raised and lived in various
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sort of progressive spaces also never had their ideas challenged.
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And lib yes, regactually of where we come from kind
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of culturally, the likelihood is we may well not have
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been exposed to people who think very differently from us,
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depending what our background. Isn't that that you know that
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that question kind of flows both both ways.
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It totally goes both ways, because when you actually get
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in proximity to people, you realize that people that you
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are now getting in close proximity to have not necessarily
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had proximity to you either. Yeah, and so it's but
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I'm speaking from I'm a conservative evangelical so when I
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talk about these things, I'm usually talking about it from
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that perspective of I can see my community being crippled
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by the level of comfort and convenience that they chase
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after so very often right now in this present day.
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So you and I just chatting before we went on
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on air.
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I don't know if on air is the right term
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when we pre recorded this, but I ledless pretend that
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it does.
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It sounds good.
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We were telling about the fact that we were actually
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raised in very.
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Different kind of environments.
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So broadly speaking, from what you've shared with me, you
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were raised in a kind of culturally Christian environment where
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your Christian beliefs sort of in many ways fitting quite well,
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and where many people around you would have shared a
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whole lot of kind of political convictions, some sort of
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springing out of that, some springing from some other places.
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I was raised in the UK, in London, with the
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large majority of my friends and a lot of my
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family members kind of having very different beliefs than me,
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and the way that that has then kind of shaped
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how how I've thought and how I've even I guess
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the relational costs that have come to me for holding
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certain positions have been sort of similar to yours, but
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in opposite in opposite directions.
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Yeah.
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So, as one example, I have been very strongly pro
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life for as long as I can remember. I mean
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as a teenager, I was involved in sort of some
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pro life campaigning, and it's something that's sort of very
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clear to my heart and always always has been, and
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for many of my friends from brad School, from you know,
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even where I live in Cambridge, Massachusetts, the fact that
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I believe that life begins at conception and that abortion
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is proundly morally wrong is deeply kind of morally troubling
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to them, and so holding that position is really kind
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of puts me at odds with many in my community,
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just in terms of the people I'm in proximity with.
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And when we met that last summer, you were sharing
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that actually for you, you've had a little bit of
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a different journey there where the people around you in
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terms of proximity were very much on board with being
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pro life when it came to the unborn, but then
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had real questions and concerns when you started applying that
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to questions of care for refugees and immigrants, I'd love
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for you to just like share a bit more about
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that experience of not, I guess, not shifting your ground,
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but actually kind of extending the reach of your pro
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life convictions.
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I started out in the traditional pro life movement, the
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traditional pro life movement, and so that what I mean
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by that is I was working at Folks on a
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Family that is a major, huge evangelical institution here in
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the US, and I was the director of Sacty of
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Human Life. So I was overseeing pregnancy resource centers and
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medical clinics all around the country, knowing what they were
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doing and supplying them resources, helping them get ultrasounds and
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high risk abortion communities. I was traveling around the country
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advocating for kids who were in foster care and trying
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to recruit families for those kids who had no parental
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rights attached to them. And so I went into that space.
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I adopted one of my children in my family and myself,
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and so I was very much operating that space professionally
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and personally. And then I had a mentor who really
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challenged me to say all right, I know, your pro
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life for the preborn, for the orphan, for those who
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are being trafficked. Where are you in maybe continuing that
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ethic in a consistent way across the whole spectrum of
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life from womb to tomb. And I said, well, I mean,
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I'm for all people.
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Like what do you mean by that, you know?
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And she was like, what I mean is do you
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want to move beyond a dictionary definition of what it
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means to be pro life and move really into a
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Biblical definition of a consistent Christian ethic about each and
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every person made in the image of God. And so
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when I entered into the immigration space, I was invited
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on a trip to cross the border to go into Wahaca, Mexico,
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southern Mexico to meet with migrants. And I thought, I
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was like going on this immigration journey, this refugee resettlement
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migration journey, And everywhere I went on this immersion trip,
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my pro life convictions just were everywhere. It was like
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I was meeting child mothers like age eleven and thirteen
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who had become mothers because they were victims of violence
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in their home country and that's why they were migrating.
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They had no health care, and there was so much
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shame and stigma attached to that. And they were eleven
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and thirteen. And then I met with mothers who were
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holding babies and toddlers and children and traveling themselves to
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get out of corruption and violence and talking about how
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they didn't have healthcare and talking about how they just
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wanted their babies to survive and they wanted their children
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to be born in a safe place. I mean, everywhere
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I went was like women and children talking about flourishing
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of during pregnancy and post pregnancy. And I was like, Lord,
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I'm here to learn about immigration. What is all of
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this pro life stuff? And really, what you start to
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learn when you choose proximity in different human dignity spaces
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is that the same things that anchor you in your
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preborn convictions biblically about the dignity and sanctity of every
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human life, all of those verses that give you such
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passion for the preborn are the same exact verses that
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would anchor you in every other human dignity area. So
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this isn't a redefinition of what it means to be
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pro life. It's actually more of a revival of what
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Scripture says that Christians are called to So if we
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really are following Christ and we're reading the Bible holistically,
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we're very hard pressed to find scriptural justification for prioritizing
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one vulnerable population over another. And we can talk about
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that later. But I had a lot of people kind
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of give me the side eye and also just say,
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wait a minute, where are you going. I don't I'm
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not tracking with you, and it feels like you're on
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some kind of progressive, slippery slope that's just really unorthodox,
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that's really theological squishy, theologically swishy, and I'm just like, no, actually,
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that's kind of what brought me. That's the very thing
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that brought me into this space, So stick with me.
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I mean, I'm not a bleeding heart here, but I
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am dedicated to biblical consistency in my life. And hopefully
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you're interested in that too. Like that this peaks more
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curiosity in you than it does a negative reaction towards me.
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You know.
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Yeah, that's how I kind of got into it. I
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got invited into proximity from a mentor who wanted me
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to get closer to the scriptures holistically, and then I
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also got invited to get in closer proximity to people,
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which definitely changed everything.
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Yeah, My guess is there'll be some people listening to
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us now who for them, the idea of being pro
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life is actually like offensive and dangerous in their minds,
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that it's sort of anti women. Yes, I mean even
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the example that you gave of the child mothers who
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you encountered as they were migrating, it triggers in a
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lot of people's minds like, well, how can you possibly
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be dogmatic about life beginning at conception and like imposing
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that on other people when we know there are kids
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who get raped and end up pregnant like that, the
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horrifying stories. What would you say to someone who was
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kind of coming from that perspective of really being concerned
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about pro life rhetoric or like activism as being ultimately
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anti women.
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What I would say is, Man, I want to sit
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down and talk with you for hours, And it's not
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because I want you to hear what I have to say.
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It's because I actually really want to listen to what
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you're seeing and what you're hearing and what concerns you most.
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Because I guarantee you we are concerned about so many
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of the same things. I am so very concerned about
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how we handle an eleven year old who has been
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raped and if her her body can handle a pregnancy,
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if if she should go through an abortion. I mean,
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do we know what we're while something has it's hard
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for me to talk about without getting weepy, but like
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what that child has gone through, And then people would say, well,
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the worst thing we could do is make her carry
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that criminal's child to life, you know, and go through
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that pregnancy. And I guess what I would say is,
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have you ever entertained the idea that maybe the worst
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thing we could do is inflict a really violent procedure?
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And I'm not saying that like that. I'm trying to
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be dramatic, Like if you watch what an abortion procedure
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is medically with an abortion doctor, it is a violent
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practice of ripping a life apart in order to be
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able to expel that life, and doing so in ways
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that are poisoning that life. And I mean, we don't
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need to get into all of that, because I feel
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like there's lots of questions that come with that, like
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the question that we both want to answers, what is
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the most compassionate response to take care of that child,
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and we might disagree that that child should have to
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become a parent at that time or not. I mean,
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I think they're but what we both care about is
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what happens to that child now, and I think we
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could probably have some really honest conversations about Okay, health
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and life stability of the mother versus health and life
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stability of a preborn child, and what is less traumatic
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for her to go through in that sense. You know,
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I after roe Vwade like I had, and I'll just
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be very serious, like and transparent. When roe V Wade
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was overturned, I was like elated, and then I was
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deeply afraid. And I wasn't afraid because I was like,
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oh man, now all this, all these pro life legislations
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are going to happen. I was like very happy about
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that because I was like, this will save lives. And
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yet I knew that in the rush to do some
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of that pro life legislation, because we didn't have the
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pro life movement has not been an advocate for traditionally
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an advocate for post birth support systems in this country,
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like paid family leave and health care and affordable living
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and wages, and you know, some of the very policies
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that support life after birth are the first things on
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our legislative chopping block for conservatives, Like, I was like,
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we are not ready. I don't feel like we're ready
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to handle the influx of what is needed to actually
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have a life flourge post birth. Now, to me, that
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doesn't take away the fact that I'm like, life, lives
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will be saved. But then you have people who are
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on the other side of this issue who are per
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choice and will say lives are actually being taken because
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of poor legislation and doctors not being able to translate,
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you know, medical laws and all of these things they
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don't want to get sued, and people are dying in
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parking lots and all these So you get into all
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of this kind of stuff and you're like, man, yeah,
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women's healthcare in this country is disastrous, and we absolutely
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absolutely have to get better about this, and we cannot
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discount the testimonies and accounts of women who are not
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getting the health care that they need because doctors are
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afraid to do the kind of health care that's needed.
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So I just would say, come sit with me, because
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I bet you we have a lot that we're kind
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of ticked about together. And then also I would say,
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I'm not going to compromise what I believe about life
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being at conception and that life is intended by our
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creator for all of the complic caid stuff that happens afterwards,
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because that's not honoring the dignity and sanctive human life
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in the womb. But it's also you can't pick one
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or the other. It's like, well we you know. Sometimes
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the other argument is, well, we have to have all
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these things set in place in order for our life
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to really be pro life. And I'm like, it's got
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to be a both. It has to be a both,
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and because you're not honoring life if you take the life,
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but you're not honoring life if you don't provide what
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life needs to actually live, you know. So to me,
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I'm like, we probably have way more in common than
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you think, but these things are difficult and they have
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to be handled with sober and sober mindset and conversation
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and charitable conversation, because at the end of the day,
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what a pro choice person or pro life person have
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in common is they want good women's health care and
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they want women to flourish and be successful. Man, can
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we start there? Instead of pointing fingers and saying you're
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the enemy and you have no clues, like I guarantee
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or all those women who work in pregnancy resource centers
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and medical clinics know what they're asking about there because
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they're meeting with those women, you know. And so that's
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what I would say. I'd say, come sit with me.
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We'd probably be ticked about a lot of things together,
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and then we could actually maybe do some things together.
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I remember when I was a teenager and the first
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time I was involved in a sort of pro life demonstration,
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and it was it was a silent demonstration, and it
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was actually about the destruction of a bunch of members
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that was about to kind of happen in the UK because.
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Of a sudden year passing.
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And I remember sort of standing there and on the
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other side of the line, as it were, you know,
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we were standing in silence. On the other side were
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people who were chanting at us, pro life, that's a lie,
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you don't care if women die. And I remember standing
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there thinking that couldn't be further from what I believe.
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Of course, of course I.
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Care that women die. And it's precisely as you were
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saying it springs from the same place in terms of
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my christianvictions that I care about especially vulnerable women, and
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that I care about unborn babies like that, that's actually
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coming from the same source.
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Right, And women's rights start in the womb, you know,
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that's what we believe. We believe women's rights start in
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the womb, right, So I absolutely fundamentally that's why I'm
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in this work care about women.
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For folks who are maybe listening to us who are
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coming from the other side, I mean, I think often
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these things that are made into two different sides politically
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when they may actually kind of have a big reshuffle
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if we actually thought sort of holistically from the scriptures up.
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But that there may be some who are listening to
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us who think, you know what, I'm so completely on
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board with everything you've said that's been in favor of
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care for the unborn, and I deeply lament the millions
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of babies who are killed every year. And this is
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you know, this is top of my agenda when I'm
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thinking in political terms or in activism terms. But when
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you start to talk to me, like when I'm hearing
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you talk about caring for immigrants, you're sounding to me
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like you're actually on the other side of this of
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this equation, and that you're wanting to Yeah, I mean,
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I guess having similar concerns to some of the friends
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that you mentioned who thought like you're on some sort
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of slippery slope toward a liberal agenda or a leftist
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sort of views of these questions. What would you say
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to someone who was kind of coming from that side.
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Sure, I mean, you're talking about so many people in
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my community who had these questions. When I first started
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this journey, it was just high skepticism, right, And I
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just go back to if we truly are pro life
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people and we care about the dignity and sanctity of
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every human life, we have to be consistent in order
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for people to actually believe us. And so I remember
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when I first started speaking out about immigrants and refugees,
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and I was speaking at this conference and an unbeliever
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came up to me afterwards, and I was talking about
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how I felt like caring about immigrants and refugees was
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a pro life issue because it's a life and death issue,
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and because I care about the dignity and sanctity of
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every human life. This person came up to me and said,
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I don't understand your Christians. I really don't. You guys
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will advocate for the heartbeat of the child in the womb,
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but you will not advocate for the child the heartbeat
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of the child at the border. Can you explain that
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to me? And I didn't have a good answer for him.
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You know, I said, I feel like my community has
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a lot of blind spots, and they've been told that
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their compassion, which is God given, is political instead of prophetic,
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and that has changed the trajectory of what we feel
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like is in scope for us to care about, and
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what is controversial and what is not and what I
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want to challenge people, and what I challenge our women
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of Welcome community, which is a community of Christian women
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who want to enter into the space of immigrants and
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refugees from a biblical perspective instead of a politically partisan perspective.
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As I say, your compassion is not meant to be
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political and it's not supposed to be unlimited supply either.
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You know, Jesus was wrung out. You just see him
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being so weary that he's got to take time away,
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and when he sees the crowds continuing to come, the
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first thing you know his disciples do is we got
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to get away. We got to get you fed, We
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got to get and Jesus has compassion on them and
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he says, let them come. They are weary in need.
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Of a shepherd.
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And I guess what I would say is if someone
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is telling you that your compassion is political, they're not
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speaking and thinking about people and human beings from a
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kingdom mindset. So much of our rhetoric about who is
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acceptable to care about and invest in and get close
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to all has to do with things that we're afraid
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of and things that might shift power or shift perspective.
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And as Christian, we're constantly supposed to be growing and
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renewing our mind in the scriptures and getting and doing
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the work of Jesus, which is being the hands and
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feet of Jesus to people as he did. And that
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is what That proximity and that conviction is what is,
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and that reading of scripture is what is renewing our mind.
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It's not because I've adopted some kind of new agenda.
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It's because I actually am trying to live in this
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world prophetically because of the compassion that God has given me.
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So I don't want to look at people as a
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political issue. I want to look at people as image
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bearers of the Creator. And when I start doing that,
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I'm thinking from a kingdom mindset. So so much of
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what we're told is like, all right, so this needs
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to line up on this platform, and this needs to
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line up here, and that is like all earthly kind
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of empire ways of thinking, like what are we building,
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what kind of culture, what kind of country do we want,
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and how do we want it to fit into kind
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of like our liver of conservatism in this world. And
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I feel like the scriptures keep saying Jesus keeps saying
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to his disciples because they were like, when are we
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going to take over the Roman Empire? When are we
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going to re establish our rule and our reign? Like
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we're following you because you're about to take over and
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you have power, And Jesus says, please stop worrying about that.
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I'm not in it for a political take. Oh, I'm
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here to seek and save the lost. So could you
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please take off that empire mindset and put on the
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kingdom mindset and go be a neighbor. Well, who is
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my neighbor? And then he tells the story of the
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good Samaritan who you know, all of you know Israel people.
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Israel like had all of these decades and generations of
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hate towards Samaritans, and Jesus makes Samaritans the hero and
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not his own chosen people. And so it's like Jesus
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is constantly telling us, please don't get wrapped up in
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the political hooplaw that has no eternal value. Please put
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on the kingdom mindset of that people are made in
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My image and have something to contribute in this world
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that is different and unique than the next person. So
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me entering into this space, and when you start having
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compassion in this space where people, it does not mean
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that you are now taking on and adopting extreme liberal
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policies of open borders and unconditional welfare and you're starting
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to progressively read the scriptures. I have not compromised on
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any of my convictions. And I've never even heard a progressive.
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And I've been in a lot of rooms. I've talked
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with the Trump administration, I've talked with my administration. I've
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been in a lot of rooms where I'm the only evangelical.
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I have never once, not once heard anybody even whisper
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the mention of the solution and the most compassionate thing
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we could do about immigration is to have open borders.
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It's just not realistic. It's like the booky man that
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never exists. I'm like always looking for it. I'm like
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someone has co opted me to be in this space
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because they want me to have these extreme liberal policies
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and kind of like really kind of that into conservatism
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and get people to feel prey on people's compassion that
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this is the most it's not even a viable option
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post nine eleven, you know, so nobody thinks that. So
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you get again, this goes back to the proximity. You
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get into these into proximity with people who are very
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different than you, and you realize you do have things
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that are different. You don't agree on everything, but these
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these things that you thought about them are not actually
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always true.
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One of the things that I love, actually when I
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travel around a fair bit speaking at churches and different
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places and comforences and whatnot. And I was just earlier
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this week in Cincinnati speaking at a church, and one
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of the things that I always notice is that as
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I get to know people within a church, you know,
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as I just kind of meet a whole bunch of people.
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Almost always at least one person and usually two or
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three people will introduce me to or mention their adopted
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children or the children that they're fostering. And it's just
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interesting as I'm hearing you talk some of the ways
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in which I think folks, perhaps especially in the US
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political climate, who are deeply pro life, aren't necessarily thinking
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kind of holistically in terms of policies that would support that.
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I think that's often true. I think at the same time,
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I often hear from kind of progressive folks that are
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you Christians? You only care about kids before they're born
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and then after when it comes to fostering and adopting, like,
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where are you? And it seems to me, both anecdotally
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and sort of statistically, the answer is Christians are the
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first in life like when it comes to adopting and
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fostering kids who don't have parents to care for them,
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Christians are absolutely the first in line. Now, are we
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doing that as much as we could and should surely not,
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but that there is, you know, massive swell among among
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Christians to be to be caring for the kids who've
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been you know, either lost their parents to death or
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been abandoned, or just have parents you who aren't able
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to care.
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So I'd love to hear more.
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I know that's been part of your story, and I'd
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love to just kind of hear more of your thoughts
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on that, like the ways in which we're seeing some
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of that practical care expressing itself in personal terms, even
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when maybe some of the kind of policy terms getting
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complicated by political affiliations.
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Yeah, I mean, I think I think the best thing
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you can do is really be honest about what the
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true landscape is of the needs of people. If we're
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talking about modern day orphans, if we're talking about kids
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who need forever homes. I mean, if you look at
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the landscape of America, you know, our foster care system
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is bursting at the themes. And while I believe the
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church has in Christians in general are have a they
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show up in higher numbers. I mean, you look across
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the board. This is why the government still invests in
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and enlist the faith community. Because people are Christians have
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A you know, they're showing up in higher droves than
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the rest of the general population. Right to show up
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for orphans. I mean, the reality is we kind of
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go back to what's comfortable for us. So a lot
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of us, you know, exist in these these churches and
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these echo chambers and these curated communities of friends and
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whatnot that are very much like us and talk like
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us and think like us. And so then we all
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start patting each other on the back and we become
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everybody as yes men. You know, meanwhile, you know you've
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got still so much need out there that we're not necessary.
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We've become kind of out of practice. You have, on
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one hand, you have Christians, who I think are disproportionately
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higher in adopting kids. But then you also know the reality,
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so that can be true. It can also be true
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that there are three hundred thousand Christian churches in the US,
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and there are four hundred thousand kids in foster care,
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one hundred thousand of which don't have parental rights attached
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to them and are not working through you a reunification
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plan and need a forever home. And so you say,
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all right, well we have three hundred thousand churches and
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we have one hundred thousand waiting kids. One family from
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every third church could eliminate that backlog of kids waiting
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for families and why is that? Why is that still
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a number? That number has been around for at least
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a decade, and so why is that still Why are
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their kids still waiting? So it's like, yes, Christians are
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doing the work, but not enough Christians are doing the work.
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And I feel like we've become so out of practice
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with long suffering with people and entering into hard spaces
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because it will be inconvenient to do so. So when
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you start getting into these issues of proximity and closer
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with people, you start to realize that pro life issues
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are not like linear, they're actually a web because when
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you get into the preborn space and you're like, all right,
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so if women carry de term and they choose to parent,
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but they don't have all of the things that they
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need around them as far as like housing, relational, educational,
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you know, professional support and work, those those very children
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that we have just saved from abortion become prey to
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the vulnerability of going into foster care. Okay, so then
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you're in foster care. Okay, So then what happens when
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Christians don't show up and enter into the foster care space. Well,
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we know that there's twenty thousand kids who enter out
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of foster care every single year, and where do they go. Well,
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there's a pipeline for these kids. They end up in
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homeless they have negative encounters and repeated stays in prisons
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and in our judicial system of that becomes like a
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second home. It's like create an offense, you have a
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place to stay, you have a meal. They handle mental
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health issues all by themselves. They become very vulnerable to
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human trafficking. And so it's like, Okay, now I got
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to care about like prison ministry, I got to care
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about human trafficking, homelessness, mental health care. Okay, so if
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these kids, if I'm not going to show up for
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these kids then and they become a part of any
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of these human dignity areas and vulnerable populations, then my
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pro life conviction starts to carry me into these things.
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And man, what a web that is, right, Because then
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you get if you're in prison ministry, you start learning
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about biases and sentencing and whatnot. It's just like racial
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reconciliation issues of going on there. And then you enter
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into human trafficking and you realize all the immoral corruption
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that's happening, even just with Christians who are viewing and
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accessing porn along with the rest of American citizens and
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what vulnerabilities they have. So you kind of enter into
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a space and then you start to realize how deeply
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connected all these other issues are, and you're like, man,
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this is why caring about life holistically is so important.
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When we adopted my son, my son's family was working
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through homelessness and poverty, and that was their challenge and
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they would have been if they would have had the
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support that they needed, they would have chosen to parent themselves.
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And that is a reality that hangs incredibly heavy on
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my heart every day when I look at my child
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and realize I was given the gift of parenting him.
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My relationship with his birth mom is as open as
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it can be, but it's also incredibly burdensome. And the
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fact that I realized that if circumstances would have been
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different for her, if there had been more support systems
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for her, she would have been parenting this beautiful boy herself.
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So I don't come into these spaces, especially into immigrant
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and refugee issues, from this bleeding heart, and I'm just like,
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I'm so naive to all of the challenges as far
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as vetting and security and economics, and like, I've been
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immersed in this about seven years, and I had to
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do my homework when I wrote this book that I
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just wrote. Start with welcome you. Just as a Christian,
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you cannot unsee what you start to see. And then
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it really changes the way you read scripture. You start
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to read scripture. It's not a reinterpretation of scripture. It's
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like a revisiting of scripture. And you start to read
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stories you've read your entire life with new meaning and say, man,
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that is a deeply human, complex story. How on earth
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did Ruth and Naomi survive? Because this is the greatest
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love story that's ever been in the Bible, but because
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those two immigrant women who are figuring out how to
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survive in Old Testament times, It's like this is an
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immigration story. This is a migration story. And how they
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survived was by the laws that the Lord put in
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place for his people to follow about kinship and about
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gleaning the fields and about treating those who are sojourning
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as natives. And you just see this throughout the whole
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of Scripture, that these really kind of quote cute stories
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that we would read and be like, oh, I'll take
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this application for myself, you start to think, Wow, what
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is the Lord actually really telling me about how what
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he cares about vulnerable people from Genesis to Revelation. And
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it has nothing to do with politics and has nothing
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to do with me being naive. It has everything to
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do with me trying to see people as God does
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and how the scripture tells me, you know, how they're struggling,
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what they need, and what the Lord does to provide
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for them through his people.
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Yea. For those who are familiar with with reading the Bible,
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one of the repeated kind of refrains that we see
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in the Old Testament scriptures is that the Lord's concerned
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for widows, orphans, and sojournists as often how it's trying.
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Yeah, the quartet of the vulnerable as Tim Killer described
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it right in the Old Testament.
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Yeah, and that we see that from throughout the Old Testament.
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We see that particular concern because those in those contacts
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would have been the most vulnerable people. And then we
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see it like double down on or travel down on
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all you know, ten thousand times more in Jesus's teaching
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and his ministry and his profound love and care, especially
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for those who are struggling financially, socially on the edges
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of things, struggling with health, and how Jesus radically put
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the the weakest and most vulnerable at the center of
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our kind of moral concern, and that how that now
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actually shapes how people think actually across the West, regardless
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of how they identify religiously. That you know your friends
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you've mentioned or you've had contact with who may have
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come to completely different conclusions than you when it comes
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to pro life issues.
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The care that they have actually.
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Springs out of beliefs that have come to us from
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the Bible. You know, these ideas about human equality and
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care for the poor and vulnerable, and the equality of
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men and women, et cetera. The fact that rape is wrong,
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the fact that you know women have been sexually be
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is like all of these, if we look historically, have
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come from Christianity, and when we take Christianity out of
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that system, we not only have sort of we don't
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have a moral ground to stand on, but we also
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It was sort of interesting hearing you reflecting on how, yes,
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Christians are doing more than others when it comes to
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fostering and adopting, but we aren't doing half enough that
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that actually what we need is not less Christianity but
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more like both.
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Well in consistency, right, because I mean, here's the truth
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is that traditional pro lifers, people who are are big
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time advocates just really kind of in the preborn and
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adoption space, will have criticism towards those who are more
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holistic in their pro life and they'll say, well, you,
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you who advocate for immigrants or refugees, You who advocate
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for you know, the prevention of preventable diseases and things
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like you know, hunger and all these other kind of
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like humanitarian social justice causes over here, don't ever advocate
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for preborn lives. And yet you have these kind of
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more holistic pro lifers who will say to the preborn
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traditional space, well, you guys don't advocate for life after
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the will, so it's like you have. And it's true,
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traditional pro lifers feel like going to this kind of
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holistic conversation at the ethic is out of scope, and
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some will say that it really waters down the pro
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life conversation to be talking about all of these human
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dignity issues. And then you have these whole life pro
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lifers who are saying, okay, well, you're not being consistent then,
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you know, so that what I would say is, I
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see a lot of people who care about immigrants or
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refugees not caring about the preborn. And I see a
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lot of people who are in the preborn space who
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think that immigrants' refugees are just too political of an issue.
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I'm like, hey, surprise, surprise, abortion is the most political
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issue apart from immigration. So like, it's not that you're
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afraid of politics, it's about the right kind of and
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the acceptable politics that you want to put into place.
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And I will say is, as you you know, we're
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in a political season, so let's just like not you know,
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the elephant in the room is like, okay, well, how
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do you really kind of vote your convictions? If you're
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a whole life pro lifer and you want to be
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consistent across the board, I hope that this frees you
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up a little bit. Like, no matter who you vote for,
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your vote is going to be imperfect. It's not going
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to encompass the entirety of the Gospel. It's your vote
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on any Republican, Republican or Democrats that's going to be
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elected for the next four to eight years is not
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going to bring the Kingdom of Heaven to earth. That's
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our job as Christians in partnership with the Holy Spirit,
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is to do that. You know, it's not this political
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candidate that we need to be putting our faith in.
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The thing is, no matter how you vote, I don't
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care which way you vote, actually, because you need people
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who are holistic pro lifers on both sides of whatever
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platform you want to attach yourself to. The point is
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is that you do your civic duty. It's not a
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spiritual duty, it's a civic duty. It's a civic privilege.
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And then you advocate. You use your voice, as Proverbs says,
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speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves in
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the years in between. It's so important. Let's say, let's
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say you vote for Trump, you actually have so much
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more power in the years in between to say, hey,
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I see you doing well on this issue, but I've
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voted for you. I'm a Christian and I need you
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to I need to see you do better on these things.
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These things matter to me and I care about them,
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and I should be important to you in your campaign too.
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Same thing. You know, if you vote for Kamala or
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you know whatever, it's like, Hey, I've voted for you,
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and I really love what you're saying about here, and
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I love your inspiration to congress about this, But what
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I don't see is this, and I need to. So
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it's truly, honestly, the years in between that matter. And
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it's not the president that has a ton of power,
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it's actually Congress. So the local level proximity to issues
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and advocacy and issues is vastly important because those are
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people who are making laws, But it's the years in between,
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it's the speaking up for those who cannot speak for
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themselves to the people who hold the power, who create
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policies that affect people. That is massively important for you
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to understand. We're not talking about partis and politics here,
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We're talking about public policy, and I think people don't
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always understand that those two things are very different.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, And to sort of take that even
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down one further step to what you and I can
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do in our local communities, Like maybe it's participating. Perhaps
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you're a member of a church that has a ministry
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to refugees, like the church that I'm part of does,
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Like maybe if that's something that we could volunteer for,
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maybe you're someone who is in a position to think
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about adoption or to think about volunteering at a center
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that's that's giving options to young women who may be
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facing an unexpected pregnancy and desperate to know what they
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should do and need or help that there are very
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they're on the ground things that you and I can do.
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And I'm speaking to a law listeners as well to
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make a difference in the lives of those with him.
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We also have sort of that physical proximity.
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And if you don't know in your community, if you're
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listening to Rebecca and you're like, yeah, I care about
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all these issues. Like a lot of times I hear
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people say, you know, like, oh, you care about immigrants
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or refues, Well what about homeless veterans? What about and
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then fill in the blank whatever other vulnerable population is
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out there, usually having to do with kind of someone
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who is absolutely definitely a US citizen or whatnot. What
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I would say is the Lord's love and welcome is
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for everybody, And a lot of times people say that
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as a cop out. So when I say, man, I
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love that you care about homeless veterans, what are you
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doing to help alleviate the suffering? And help continue the
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flourishing of their lives in your community. It's like dead silence, right,
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or if I say, oh, man, I love that you're
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in the preborn space, I love that you're in this
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space or whatever, I'm like, what are you doing to
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really kind of like get close in your own community?
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There's like crickets, so a lot of there's just like
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a lot of talking points out there, and there's not
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a lot of people who are willing to carve out
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margin to actually be in those issues and to make
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a difference in a change with their own lives. So
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they're they're frustrated that other people care about other things
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and want to make change for other people, but a
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lot of times there's not an outpouring in their own lives.
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There's an anger, but there's not necessarily like a prioritization
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in their own lives to care about people that God
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says are made in His image and likeness, regardless of
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citizenship or status.
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You know, yeah, yeah, a privilege. A few episodes ago,
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well now maybe it was the end of Lost Losses,
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and I was talking with a friend at our church who,
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as part of being involved in the welcome of refugees,
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at our church had noticed that one of the big
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problems that refugee families have when they shot up in
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Boston is that they don't have childcare, so they can't
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find work because they actually don't have anybody to care
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for their kids they're working. And so she, with her
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particular sort of professional background and areas of expertise, she's
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been thinking about, Okay, how can we figure out a
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way to provide daycare for especially for these families, and
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that might also be opportunities for employment for some of
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some of these families. And so she's been kind of
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using the gifts and background that God has given her
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to start piloting a project like that that is enabling
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people to sort of flourish in the place where they've
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they've found themselves. And I'm willing to bet everyone who
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is listening to this podcast, well, we all have very
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different giftings, we have different skill sets, we have different
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amounts of resources in one area the other, and we're
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not all called to do the exact same things, but
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all of us can make a tangible contribution in one
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of the areas or several of the areas that Brian
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and I have been talking about. So I guess it's easy.
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It can be easy, I think for people to feel
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just like overwhelmed. You've done a great job for us,
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Bree of kind of pointing us to the complexity and
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the web of issues that are tangled up and the
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the difficulties that come with you know, anytime we actually
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step meaningfully into any of these spaces, none of it's easy.
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None of it can be oversimplified. It's going to come
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with like a personal and emotional cost. And I love
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how you've modeled that for us as well, and that
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can can result in us feelings just sort of crippled
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of like, well, I'm not going to dip my turn
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to anything because it's too much for me. I just
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would I just would encourage people to take that first
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step and to think, you know, what.
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Can I do?
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How can I contribute and recognize at the same time
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that Jesus is the savior of the world. I think
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that's something that as a Christian I can sometimes in
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these spaces start to think, Oh, it feels so overwhelming,
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what can I do? Like I can only do this
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small thing? And that's okay, because actually you and I
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individually are not the savior of the world, that's Jesus.
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But at the same time, if you're a follower of Jesus,
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you're a part of his body on the earth today.
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And so between us, it is our job to show
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up in all of these different spaces.
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We're all not everyone's supposed to be a hand, not
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everyone's supposed to be a foot.
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But this is why we are the body.
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We're supposed to function in different ways, but in unity together.
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And I think it was I think it was Mother
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Teresa who said, you might not be able to solve
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global starvation, but you can feed a child.
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Yeah.
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And also I would just encourage you, you know, getting
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into these spaces human dignity issues, whether that's the preborn
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or whether that's adoption, or no matter what it is, immigrants, refugees,
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human trafficking, no matter what it is, you're going to
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have to show up and be able to hold the
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tension of that. More things can be true at the
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same time, and to show up well means you're going
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to have to hold that and you're gonna have to
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do that in a charitable and a christ like way.
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So you might not agree with everything, you might not
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even understand everything, but you're not looking for an outcome. Necessarily,
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you're looking for the posture of your heart to be
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aligned with Christ in whatever it is that you're doing.
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So you know, for me, I don't always understand why
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why things are the way that they are in immigration,
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but what I do know is that I can care
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about safe and secure borders and thorough vetting and also
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the humane treatment of people who are arriving at the border. Right,
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I can hold both of those things together and not
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have to compromise on what I think about policy and
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legislation but also about people. There's no compromise there. There's
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conviction in that, and there's also charitability in that, and
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there is a Hopefully what that communicates is that I'm
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trying to show up and stand kind of in the middle,
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not because of a lack of conviction, but because there is.
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There are too many complicating factors to make this just
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a slam dunk, so you know, easy solution. Human dignity
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issues are complicated. So Christians should be the ones that
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are standing in the gap and saying these are the
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realities that we face and they can't be controversial. People's
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flourishing shouldn't be too political for us to care about. Yeah, yeah,
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let's let's enter into this as Christ would, because everything
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he entered into was super controversial to the Pharisees and
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even to his own disciples. They didn't understand. And Sheila Walsh,
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who I love, she said this quote that I repeat
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all the time, and she said, people will not always
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understand what the love of Christ compels you to do,
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but you should do it anyway. And that's what I guess.
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You know, when you're saying we all have a part
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to play, I agree with you, and not everyone's going
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to understand what parts of the body the Lord is
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calling you the flex But that's okay because you're not
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going after it because of some kind of earthly recognition.
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You're doing it because you have compassion and conviction from Christ.
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Yeah, that's a great place for us.
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And thank you so much, Brief for sharing your thoughts
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and experience and challenging us. I think I feel challenged,
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and I guess is that all of us listening to
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this conversation will feel challenged to what extent If we
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are followers of Jesus, are we thinking holistically? Are we
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acting holistically? Are we only focusing on talking points? Or
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are we kind of putting our money on our lives
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where our mouths are on these questions. And perhaps you're
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listening to this and you would not call yourself follower
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of Jesus, and you've been confused or concerned by some
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of the things that we've been saying.
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I would encourage you.
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To actually open up a Bible and to look at
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the ways in which the love for and concern for
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the mostvulnerable that you may well feel deep in your
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heart has actually come to you from the Bible and
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not from you know, a sort of secular well view
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out there, or from a sort of progressive view or whatever.
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It's actually come to you historically from the Bible. It's
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something that we've covered in other episodes, and it may
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just be that going back to that source will help
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make a whole lot of other things make sense in
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your life. So you guys have been listening to the
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com Friendly Christianity Podcast. You can follow us on Twitter,
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slash x, or Instagram. You can leave a review on
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iTunes and mention there a conversation or a topic you'd
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like to see pursued on a future episode. And thank
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you for listening today, And I hope to speak into
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your earphones or your carst area or whatever it is
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that you listen through again next week.
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You are listening to the Confronting Christianity podcast, and I'm
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here with my recently acquired just this past summer friend
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at Brie Stensrud. Brie is an author, human dignity advocate
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and the director of Women of Welcome. Her passion is
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to equip the church to engage more consistently and tangibly
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in holistic human dignity issues. Bree holds a Masters of
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Biblical and Theological Studies from Dallas Theological Seminary.
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She serves on the Board of Directors for.
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The National Association of Evangelicals, and she's authored two books,
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Start with Welcome, The Journey Toward a Confident and Compassionate
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Immigration Conversation, and a children's book, The Biggest Best Light,
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Shining God's Light in the world around You. Thank you
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so much for joining me, Brie.
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Oh, I'm so happy to be with you. Thanks for
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having me.
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Folks listening to us cannot see you right now, and
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so they don't know that you are wearing a baseball
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cap which says choosing proximity. And I'm just curious. I
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can imagine what that might be, what that might mean
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to you, But I'm kind.
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Of curious what that does mean to you, oh man, Well,
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when we do that, things get personal, and proximity is
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incredibly powerful for any human being, regardless of your religious
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or political affiliation. Proximity to people makes things really personal
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and you start to learn things that you never knew before,
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never thought possible. You hear stories, you see things you
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can't unsee. And so in my line of work, getting
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people close to others that they think are very different
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than them is important. It's essential to the work because
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we want to get people out of these comfortable and
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curated spaces, which is where a lot of the American
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church is is they're in comfortable and curated spaces that
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distance themselves from things that are hard, hurtful, and different.
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And so I have this belief that our comfort is
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crippling us, and so we have to choose something different.
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We have to we have to choose proximity. And so
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this is this is a hat that we wear on
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our immersion trips that we take our community on. We
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might talk about that a little bit later, but everyone's
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given a choosing proximity ball cap because that's what they're doing.
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That's so interesting.
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I was chatting with a friend recently who's studying at
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Harvard Law School, and she was recounting that in one
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of her classes, a fellow classmate had said something along
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the lines of, you know, she'd referred to Christians being
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raised in small towns in America who never had their
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ideas challenged about anything. And she sort of slightly raised
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a hand in this context and said, you know, I'm
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a Christian, i was raised in a small town in America,
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because I've spent a bunch of time with people who
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have very different background than I do. And she said,
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kind of been born and raised and lived in various
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sort of progressive spaces also never had their ideas challenged.
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of culturally, the likelihood is we may well not have
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been exposed to people who think very differently from us,
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depending what our background. Isn't that that you know that
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that question kind of flows both both ways.
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in proximity to people, you realize that people that you
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are now getting in close proximity to have not necessarily
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had proximity to you either. Yeah, and so it's but
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I'm speaking from I'm a conservative evangelical so when I
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talk about these things, I'm usually talking about it from
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that perspective of I can see my community being crippled
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by the level of comfort and convenience that they chase
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after so very often right now in this present day.
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So you and I just chatting before we went on
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I don't know if on air is the right term
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when we pre recorded this, but I ledless pretend that
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We were telling about the fact that we were actually
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your Christian beliefs sort of in many ways fitting quite well,
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and where many people around you would have shared a
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whole lot of kind of political convictions, some sort of
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springing out of that, some springing from some other places.
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large majority of my friends and a lot of my
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family members kind of having very different beliefs than me,
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and the way that that has then kind of shaped
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how how I've thought and how I've even I guess
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the relational costs that have come to me for holding
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certain positions have been sort of similar to yours, but
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life for as long as I can remember. I mean
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pro life campaigning, and it's something that's sort of very
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clear to my heart and always always has been, and
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for many of my friends from brad School, from you know,
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even where I live in Cambridge, Massachusetts, the fact that
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I believe that life begins at conception and that abortion
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is proundly morally wrong is deeply kind of morally troubling
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to them, and so holding that position is really kind
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of puts me at odds with many in my community,
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just in terms of the people I'm in proximity with.
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that actually for you, you've had a little bit of
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a different journey there where the people around you in
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terms of proximity were very much on board with being
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pro life when it came to the unborn, but then
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had real questions and concerns when you started applying that
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to questions of care for refugees and immigrants, I'd love
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for you to just like share a bit more about
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that experience of not, I guess, not shifting your ground,
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but actually kind of extending the reach of your pro
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I started out in the traditional pro life movement, the
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traditional pro life movement, and so that what I mean
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by that is I was working at Folks on a
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the US, and I was the director of Sacty of
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Human Life. So I was overseeing pregnancy resource centers and
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medical clinics all around the country, knowing what they were
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doing and supplying them resources, helping them get ultrasounds and
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high risk abortion communities. I was traveling around the country
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advocating for kids who were in foster care and trying
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to recruit families for those kids who had no parental
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rights attached to them. And so I went into that space.
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I adopted one of my children in my family and myself,
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and so I was very much operating that space professionally
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and personally. And then I had a mentor who really
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challenged me to say all right, I know, your pro
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life for the preborn, for the orphan, for those who
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are being trafficked. Where are you in maybe continuing that
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ethic in a consistent way across the whole spectrum of
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life from womb to tomb. And I said, well, I mean,
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Like what do you mean by that, you know?
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want to move beyond a dictionary definition of what it
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means to be pro life and move really into a
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Biblical definition of a consistent Christian ethic about each and
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every person made in the image of God. And so
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when I entered into the immigration space, I was invited
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on a trip to cross the border to go into Wahaca, Mexico,
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southern Mexico to meet with migrants. And I thought, I
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was like going on this immigration journey, this refugee resettlement
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migration journey, And everywhere I went on this immersion trip,
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my pro life convictions just were everywhere. It was like
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who had become mothers because they were victims of violence
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in their home country and that's why they were migrating.
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shame and stigma attached to that. And they were eleven
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and thirteen. And then I met with mothers who were
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holding babies and toddlers and children and traveling themselves to
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get out of corruption and violence and talking about how
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they didn't have healthcare and talking about how they just
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wanted their babies to survive and they wanted their children
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to be born in a safe place. I mean, everywhere
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of during pregnancy and post pregnancy. And I was like, Lord,
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I'm here to learn about immigration. What is all of
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this pro life stuff? And really, what you start to
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learn when you choose proximity in different human dignity spaces
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is that the same things that anchor you in your
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preborn convictions biblically about the dignity and sanctity of every
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human life, all of those verses that give you such
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passion for the preborn are the same exact verses that
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would anchor you in every other human dignity area. So
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this isn't a redefinition of what it means to be
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pro life. It's actually more of a revival of what
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Scripture says that Christians are called to So if we
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really are following Christ and we're reading the Bible holistically,
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we're very hard pressed to find scriptural justification for prioritizing
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one vulnerable population over another. And we can talk about
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that later. But I had a lot of people kind
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of give me the side eye and also just say,
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wait a minute, where are you going. I don't I'm
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not tracking with you, and it feels like you're on
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some kind of progressive, slippery slope that's just really unorthodox,
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that's really theological squishy, theologically swishy, and I'm just like, no, actually,
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that's kind of what brought me. That's the very thing
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that brought me into this space, So stick with me.
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am dedicated to biblical consistency in my life. And hopefully
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you're interested in that too. Like that this peaks more
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curiosity in you than it does a negative reaction towards me.
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got invited into proximity from a mentor who wanted me
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to get closer to the scriptures holistically, and then I
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also got invited to get in closer proximity to people,
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which definitely changed everything.
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us now who for them, the idea of being pro
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life is actually like offensive and dangerous in their minds,
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that it's sort of anti women. Yes, I mean even
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the example that you gave of the child mothers who
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you encountered as they were migrating, it triggers in a
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lot of people's minds like, well, how can you possibly
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be dogmatic about life beginning at conception and like imposing
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that on other people when we know there are kids
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who get raped and end up pregnant like that, the
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horrifying stories. What would you say to someone who was
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kind of coming from that perspective of really being concerned
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about pro life rhetoric or like activism as being ultimately
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anti women.
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What I would say is, Man, I want to sit
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down and talk with you for hours, And it's not
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because I want you to hear what I have to say.
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It's because I actually really want to listen to what
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you're seeing and what you're hearing and what concerns you most.
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of the same things. I am so very concerned about
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how we handle an eleven year old who has been
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raped and if her her body can handle a pregnancy,
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if if she should go through an abortion. I mean,
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do we know what we're while something has it's hard
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for me to talk about without getting weepy, but like
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what that child has gone through, And then people would say, well,
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the worst thing we could do is make her carry
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that criminal's child to life, you know, and go through
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that pregnancy. And I guess what I would say is,
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have you ever entertained the idea that maybe the worst
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thing we could do is inflict a really violent procedure?
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be dramatic, Like if you watch what an abortion procedure
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is medically with an abortion doctor, it is a violent
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practice of ripping a life apart in order to be
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able to expel that life, and doing so in ways
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that are poisoning that life. And I mean, we don't
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need to get into all of that, because I feel
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like there's lots of questions that come with that, like
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the question that we both want to answers, what is
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the most compassionate response to take care of that child,
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and we might disagree that that child should have to
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become a parent at that time or not. I mean,
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what happens to that child now, and I think we
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could probably have some really honest conversations about Okay, health
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and life stability of the mother versus health and life
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stability of a preborn child, and what is less traumatic
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for her to go through in that sense. You know,
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I after roe Vwade like I had, and I'll just
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be very serious, like and transparent. When roe V Wade
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was overturned, I was like elated, and then I was
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deeply afraid. And I wasn't afraid because I was like,
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oh man, now all this, all these pro life legislations
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are going to happen. I was like very happy about
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that because I was like, this will save lives. And
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yet I knew that in the rush to do some
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of that pro life legislation, because we didn't have the
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pro life movement has not been an advocate for traditionally
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an advocate for post birth support systems in this country,
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like paid family leave and health care and affordable living
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and wages, and you know, some of the very policies
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that support life after birth are the first things on
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our legislative chopping block for conservatives, Like, I was like,
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we are not ready. I don't feel like we're ready
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to handle the influx of what is needed to actually
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have a life flourge post birth. Now, to me, that
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doesn't take away the fact that I'm like, life, lives
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will be saved. But then you have people who are
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on the other side of this issue who are per
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choice and will say lives are actually being taken because
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of poor legislation and doctors not being able to translate,
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you know, medical laws and all of these things they
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don't want to get sued, and people are dying in
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parking lots and all these So you get into all
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of this kind of stuff and you're like, man, yeah,
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women's healthcare in this country is disastrous, and we absolutely
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absolutely have to get better about this, and we cannot
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discount the testimonies and accounts of women who are not
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getting the health care that they need because doctors are
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afraid to do the kind of health care that's needed.
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being at conception and that life is intended by our
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creator for all of the complic caid stuff that happens afterwards,
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because that's not honoring the dignity and sanctive human life
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in the womb. But it's also you can't pick one
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the other argument is, well, we have to have all
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these things set in place in order for our life
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to really be pro life. And I'm like, it's got
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to be a both. It has to be a both,
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and because you're not honoring life if you take the life,
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but you're not honoring life if you don't provide what
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life needs to actually live, you know. So to me,
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you think, but these things are difficult and they have
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to be handled with sober and sober mindset and conversation
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and charitable conversation, because at the end of the day,
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what a pro choice person or pro life person have
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in common is they want good women's health care and
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they want women to flourish and be successful. Man, can
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we start there? Instead of pointing fingers and saying you're
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the enemy and you have no clues, like I guarantee
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or all those women who work in pregnancy resource centers
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and medical clinics know what they're asking about there because
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they're meeting with those women, you know. And so that's
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what I would say. I'd say, come sit with me.
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We'd probably be ticked about a lot of things together,
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and then we could actually maybe do some things together.
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I remember when I was a teenager and the first
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time I was involved in a sort of pro life demonstration,
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and it was it was a silent demonstration, and it
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was actually about the destruction of a bunch of members
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that was about to kind of happen in the UK because.
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Of a sudden year passing.
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And I remember sort of standing there and on the
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other side of the line, as it were, you know,
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we were standing in silence. On the other side were
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people who were chanting at us, pro life, that's a lie,
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you don't care if women die. And I remember standing
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there thinking that couldn't be further from what I believe.
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Of course, of course I.
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Care that women die. And it's precisely as you were
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saying it springs from the same place in terms of
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my christianvictions that I care about especially vulnerable women, and
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that I care about unborn babies like that, that's actually
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coming from the same source.
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Right, And women's rights start in the womb, you know,
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that's what we believe. We believe women's rights start in
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the womb, right, So I absolutely fundamentally that's why I'm
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in this work care about women.
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For folks who are maybe listening to us who are
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coming from the other side, I mean, I think often
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these things that are made into two different sides politically
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when they may actually kind of have a big reshuffle
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if we actually thought sort of holistically from the scriptures up.
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But that there may be some who are listening to
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us who think, you know what, I'm so completely on
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board with everything you've said that's been in favor of
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care for the unborn, and I deeply lament the millions
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of babies who are killed every year. And this is
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you know, this is top of my agenda when I'm
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thinking in political terms or in activism terms. But when
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you start to talk to me, like when I'm hearing
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you talk about caring for immigrants, you're sounding to me
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like you're actually on the other side of this of
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this equation, and that you're wanting to Yeah, I mean,
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I guess having similar concerns to some of the friends
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that you mentioned who thought like you're on some sort
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of slippery slope toward a liberal agenda or a leftist
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sort of views of these questions. What would you say
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to someone who was kind of coming from that side.
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Sure, I mean, you're talking about so many people in
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my community who had these questions. When I first started
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this journey, it was just high skepticism, right, And I
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just go back to if we truly are pro life
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people and we care about the dignity and sanctity of
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every human life, we have to be consistent in order
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for people to actually believe us. And so I remember
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when I first started speaking out about immigrants and refugees,
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and I was speaking at this conference and an unbeliever
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came up to me afterwards, and I was talking about
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how I felt like caring about immigrants and refugees was
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a pro life issue because it's a life and death issue,
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and because I care about the dignity and sanctity of
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every human life. This person came up to me and said,
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I don't understand your Christians. I really don't. You guys
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will advocate for the heartbeat of the child in the womb,
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but you will not advocate for the child the heartbeat
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of the child at the border. Can you explain that
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to me? And I didn't have a good answer for him.
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You know, I said, I feel like my community has
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a lot of blind spots, and they've been told that
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their compassion, which is God given, is political instead of prophetic,
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and that has changed the trajectory of what we feel
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like is in scope for us to care about, and
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what is controversial and what is not and what I
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want to challenge people, and what I challenge our women
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of Welcome community, which is a community of Christian women
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who want to enter into the space of immigrants and
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refugees from a biblical perspective instead of a politically partisan perspective.
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As I say, your compassion is not meant to be
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political and it's not supposed to be unlimited supply either.
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You know, Jesus was wrung out. You just see him
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being so weary that he's got to take time away,
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and when he sees the crowds continuing to come, the
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first thing you know his disciples do is we got
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to get away. We got to get you fed, We
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got to get and Jesus has compassion on them and
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he says, let them come. They are weary in need.
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Of a shepherd.
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And I guess what I would say is if someone
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is telling you that your compassion is political, they're not
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speaking and thinking about people and human beings from a
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kingdom mindset. So much of our rhetoric about who is
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acceptable to care about and invest in and get close
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to all has to do with things that we're afraid
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of and things that might shift power or shift perspective.
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And as Christian, we're constantly supposed to be growing and
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renewing our mind in the scriptures and getting and doing
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the work of Jesus, which is being the hands and
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feet of Jesus to people as he did. And that
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is what That proximity and that conviction is what is,
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and that reading of scripture is what is renewing our mind.
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It's not because I've adopted some kind of new agenda.
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It's because I actually am trying to live in this
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world prophetically because of the compassion that God has given me.
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So I don't want to look at people as a
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political issue. I want to look at people as image
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bearers of the Creator. And when I start doing that,
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I'm thinking from a kingdom mindset. So so much of
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what we're told is like, all right, so this needs
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to line up on this platform, and this needs to
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line up here, and that is like all earthly kind
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of empire ways of thinking, like what are we building,
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what kind of culture, what kind of country do we want,
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and how do we want it to fit into kind
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of like our liver of conservatism in this world. And
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I feel like the scriptures keep saying Jesus keeps saying
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to his disciples because they were like, when are we
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going to take over the Roman Empire? When are we
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going to re establish our rule and our reign? Like
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we're following you because you're about to take over and
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you have power, And Jesus says, please stop worrying about that.
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I'm not in it for a political take. Oh, I'm
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here to seek and save the lost. So could you
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please take off that empire mindset and put on the
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kingdom mindset and go be a neighbor. Well, who is
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my neighbor? And then he tells the story of the
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good Samaritan who you know, all of you know Israel people.
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Israel like had all of these decades and generations of
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hate towards Samaritans, and Jesus makes Samaritans the hero and
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not his own chosen people. And so it's like Jesus
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is constantly telling us, please don't get wrapped up in
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the political hooplaw that has no eternal value. Please put
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on the kingdom mindset of that people are made in
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My image and have something to contribute in this world
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that is different and unique than the next person. So
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me entering into this space, and when you start having
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compassion in this space where people, it does not mean
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that you are now taking on and adopting extreme liberal
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policies of open borders and unconditional welfare and you're starting
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to progressively read the scriptures. I have not compromised on
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any of my convictions. And I've never even heard a progressive.
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And I've been in a lot of rooms. I've talked
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with the Trump administration, I've talked with my administration. I've
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been in a lot of rooms where I'm the only evangelical.
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I have never once, not once heard anybody even whisper
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the mention of the solution and the most compassionate thing
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we could do about immigration is to have open borders.
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It's just not realistic. It's like the booky man that
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never exists. I'm like always looking for it. I'm like
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someone has co opted me to be in this space
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because they want me to have these extreme liberal policies
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and kind of like really kind of that into conservatism
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and get people to feel prey on people's compassion that
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this is the most it's not even a viable option
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post nine eleven, you know, so nobody thinks that. So
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you get again, this goes back to the proximity. You
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get into these into proximity with people who are very
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different than you, and you realize you do have things
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that are different. You don't agree on everything, but these
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these things that you thought about them are not actually
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always true.
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One of the things that I love, actually when I
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travel around a fair bit speaking at churches and different
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places and comforences and whatnot. And I was just earlier
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this week in Cincinnati speaking at a church, and one
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of the things that I always notice is that as
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I get to know people within a church, you know,
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as I just kind of meet a whole bunch of people.
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In any church community.
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Almost always at least one person and usually two or
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three people will introduce me to or mention their adopted
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children or the children that they're fostering. And it's just
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interesting as I'm hearing you talk some of the ways
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in which I think folks, perhaps especially in the US
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political climate, who are deeply pro life, aren't necessarily thinking
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kind of holistically in terms of policies that would support that.
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I think.
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I think that's often true. I think at the same time,
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I often hear from kind of progressive folks that are
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you Christians? You only care about kids before they're born
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and then after when it comes to fostering and adopting, like,
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where are you? And it seems to me, both anecdotally
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and sort of statistically, the answer is Christians are the
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first in life like when it comes to adopting and
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fostering kids who don't have parents to care for them,
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Christians are absolutely the first in line. Now, are we
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doing that as much as we could and should surely not,
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but that there is, you know, massive swell among among
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Christians to be to be caring for the kids who've
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been you know, either lost their parents to death or
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been abandoned, or just have parents you who aren't able
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to care.
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So I'd love to hear more.
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I know that's been part of your story, and I'd
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love to just kind of hear more of your thoughts
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on that, like the ways in which we're seeing some
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of that practical care expressing itself in personal terms, even
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when maybe some of the kind of policy terms getting
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complicated by political affiliations.
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Yeah, I mean, I think I think the best thing
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you can do is really be honest about what the
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true landscape is of the needs of people. If we're
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talking about modern day orphans, if we're talking about kids
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who need forever homes. I mean, if you look at
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the landscape of America, you know, our foster care system
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is bursting at the themes. And while I believe the
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church has in Christians in general are have a they
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show up in higher numbers. I mean, you look across
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the board. This is why the government still invests in
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and enlist the faith community. Because people are Christians have
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A you know, they're showing up in higher droves than
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the rest of the general population. Right to show up
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for orphans. I mean, the reality is we kind of
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go back to what's comfortable for us. So a lot
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of us, you know, exist in these these churches and
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these echo chambers and these curated communities of friends and
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whatnot that are very much like us and talk like
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us and think like us. And so then we all
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start patting each other on the back and we become
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everybody as yes men. You know, meanwhile, you know you've
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got still so much need out there that we're not necessary.
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We've become kind of out of practice. You have, on
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one hand, you have Christians, who I think are disproportionately
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higher in adopting kids. But then you also know the reality,
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so that can be true. It can also be true
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that there are three hundred thousand Christian churches in the US,
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and there are four hundred thousand kids in foster care,
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one hundred thousand of which don't have parental rights attached
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to them and are not working through you a reunification
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plan and need a forever home. And so you say,
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all right, well we have three hundred thousand churches and
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we have one hundred thousand waiting kids. One family from
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every third church could eliminate that backlog of kids waiting
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for families and why is that? Why is that still
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a number? That number has been around for at least
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a decade, and so why is that still Why are
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their kids still waiting? So it's like, yes, Christians are
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doing the work, but not enough Christians are doing the work.
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And I feel like we've become so out of practice
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with long suffering with people and entering into hard spaces
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because it will be inconvenient to do so. So when
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you start getting into these issues of proximity and closer
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with people, you start to realize that pro life issues
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are not like linear, they're actually a web because when
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you get into the preborn space and you're like, all right,
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so if women carry de term and they choose to parent,
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but they don't have all of the things that they
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need around them as far as like housing, relational, educational,
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you know, professional support and work, those those very children
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that we have just saved from abortion become prey to
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the vulnerability of going into foster care. Okay, so then
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you're in foster care. Okay, So then what happens when
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Christians don't show up and enter into the foster care space. Well,
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we know that there's twenty thousand kids who enter out
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of foster care every single year, and where do they go. Well,
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there's a pipeline for these kids. They end up in
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homeless they have negative encounters and repeated stays in prisons
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and in our judicial system of that becomes like a
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second home. It's like create an offense, you have a
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place to stay, you have a meal. They handle mental
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health issues all by themselves. They become very vulnerable to
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human trafficking. And so it's like, Okay, now I got
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to care about like prison ministry, I got to care
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about human trafficking, homelessness, mental health care. Okay, so if
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these kids, if I'm not going to show up for
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these kids then and they become a part of any
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of these human dignity areas and vulnerable populations, then my
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pro life conviction starts to carry me into these things.
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And man, what a web that is, right, Because then
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you get if you're in prison ministry, you start learning
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about biases and sentencing and whatnot. It's just like racial
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reconciliation issues of going on there. And then you enter
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into human trafficking and you realize all the immoral corruption
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that's happening, even just with Christians who are viewing and
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accessing porn along with the rest of American citizens and
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what vulnerabilities they have. So you kind of enter into
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a space and then you start to realize how deeply
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connected all these other issues are, and you're like, man,
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this is why caring about life holistically is so important.
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When we adopted my son, my son's family was working
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through homelessness and poverty, and that was their challenge and
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they would have been if they would have had the
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support that they needed, they would have chosen to parent themselves.
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And that is a reality that hangs incredibly heavy on
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my heart every day when I look at my child
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and realize I was given the gift of parenting him.
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My relationship with his birth mom is as open as
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it can be, but it's also incredibly burdensome. And the
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fact that I realized that if circumstances would have been
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different for her, if there had been more support systems
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for her, she would have been parenting this beautiful boy herself.
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So I don't come into these spaces, especially into immigrant
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and refugee issues, from this bleeding heart, and I'm just like,
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I'm so naive to all of the challenges as far
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as vetting and security and economics, and like, I've been
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immersed in this about seven years, and I had to
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do my homework when I wrote this book that I
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just wrote. Start with welcome you. Just as a Christian,
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you cannot unsee what you start to see. And then
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it really changes the way you read scripture. You start
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to read scripture. It's not a reinterpretation of scripture. It's
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like a revisiting of scripture. And you start to read
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stories you've read your entire life with new meaning and say, man,
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that is a deeply human, complex story. How on earth
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did Ruth and Naomi survive? Because this is the greatest
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love story that's ever been in the Bible, but because
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those two immigrant women who are figuring out how to
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survive in Old Testament times, It's like this is an
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immigration story. This is a migration story. And how they
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survived was by the laws that the Lord put in
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place for his people to follow about kinship and about
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gleaning the fields and about treating those who are sojourning
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as natives. And you just see this throughout the whole
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of Scripture, that these really kind of quote cute stories
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that we would read and be like, oh, I'll take
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this application for myself, you start to think, Wow, what
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is the Lord actually really telling me about how what
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he cares about vulnerable people from Genesis to Revelation. And
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it has nothing to do with politics and has nothing
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to do with me being naive. It has everything to
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do with me trying to see people as God does
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and how the scripture tells me, you know, how they're struggling,
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what they need, and what the Lord does to provide
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for them through his people.
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Yea. For those who are familiar with with reading the Bible,
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one of the repeated kind of refrains that we see
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in the Old Testament scriptures is that the Lord's concerned
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for widows, orphans, and sojournists as often how it's trying.
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Yeah, the quartet of the vulnerable as Tim Killer described
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it right in the Old Testament.
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Yeah, and that we see that from throughout the Old Testament.
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We see that particular concern because those in those contacts
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would have been the most vulnerable people. And then we
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see it like double down on or travel down on
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all you know, ten thousand times more in Jesus's teaching
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and his ministry and his profound love and care, especially
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for those who are struggling financially, socially on the edges
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of things, struggling with health, and how Jesus radically put
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the the weakest and most vulnerable at the center of
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our kind of moral concern, and that how that now
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actually shapes how people think actually across the West, regardless
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of how they identify religiously. That you know your friends
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you've mentioned or you've had contact with who may have
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come to completely different conclusions than you when it comes
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to pro life issues.
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The care that they have actually.
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Springs out of beliefs that have come to us from
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the Bible. You know, these ideas about human equality and
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care for the poor and vulnerable, and the equality of
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men and women, et cetera. The fact that rape is wrong,
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the fact that you know women have been sexually be
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is like all of these, if we look historically, have
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come from Christianity, and when we take Christianity out of
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that system, we not only have sort of we don't
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have a moral ground to stand on, but we also
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It was sort of interesting hearing you reflecting on how, yes,
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Christians are doing more than others when it comes to
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fostering and adopting, but we aren't doing half enough that
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that actually what we need is not less Christianity but
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more like both.
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Well in consistency, right, because I mean, here's the truth
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is that traditional pro lifers, people who are are big
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time advocates just really kind of in the preborn and
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adoption space, will have criticism towards those who are more
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holistic in their pro life and they'll say, well, you,
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you who advocate for immigrants or refugees, You who advocate
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for you know, the prevention of preventable diseases and things
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like you know, hunger and all these other kind of
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like humanitarian social justice causes over here, don't ever advocate
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for preborn lives. And yet you have these kind of
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more holistic pro lifers who will say to the preborn
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traditional space, well, you guys don't advocate for life after
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the will, so it's like you have. And it's true,
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traditional pro lifers feel like going to this kind of
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holistic conversation at the ethic is out of scope, and
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some will say that it really waters down the pro
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life conversation to be talking about all of these human
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dignity issues. And then you have these whole life pro
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lifers who are saying, okay, well, you're not being consistent then,
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you know, so that what I would say is, I
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see a lot of people who care about immigrants or
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refugees not caring about the preborn. And I see a
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lot of people who are in the preborn space who
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think that immigrants' refugees are just too political of an issue.
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I'm like, hey, surprise, surprise, abortion is the most political
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issue apart from immigration. So like, it's not that you're
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afraid of politics, it's about the right kind of and
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the acceptable politics that you want to put into place.
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And I will say is, as you you know, we're
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in a political season, so let's just like not you know,
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the elephant in the room is like, okay, well, how
696
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do you really kind of vote your convictions? If you're
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a whole life pro lifer and you want to be
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consistent across the board, I hope that this frees you
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up a little bit. Like, no matter who you vote for,
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your vote is going to be imperfect. It's not going
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to encompass the entirety of the Gospel. It's your vote
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on any Republican, Republican or Democrats that's going to be
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elected for the next four to eight years is not
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going to bring the Kingdom of Heaven to earth. That's
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our job as Christians in partnership with the Holy Spirit,
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is to do that. You know, it's not this political
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candidate that we need to be putting our faith in.
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The thing is, no matter how you vote, I don't
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care which way you vote, actually, because you need people
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who are holistic pro lifers on both sides of whatever
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platform you want to attach yourself to. The point is
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is that you do your civic duty. It's not a
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spiritual duty, it's a civic duty. It's a civic privilege.
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And then you advocate. You use your voice, as Proverbs says,
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speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves in
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the years in between. It's so important. Let's say, let's
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say you vote for Trump, you actually have so much
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more power in the years in between to say, hey,
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I see you doing well on this issue, but I've
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voted for you. I'm a Christian and I need you
721
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to I need to see you do better on these things.
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These things matter to me and I care about them,
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and I should be important to you in your campaign too.
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Same thing. You know, if you vote for Kamala or
725
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you know whatever, it's like, Hey, I've voted for you,
726
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and I really love what you're saying about here, and
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I love your inspiration to congress about this, But what
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I don't see is this, and I need to. So
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it's truly, honestly, the years in between that matter. And
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it's not the president that has a ton of power,
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it's actually Congress. So the local level proximity to issues
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and advocacy and issues is vastly important because those are
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people who are making laws, But it's the years in between,
734
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it's the speaking up for those who cannot speak for
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themselves to the people who hold the power, who create
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policies that affect people. That is massively important for you
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to understand. We're not talking about partis and politics here,
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We're talking about public policy, and I think people don't
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always understand that those two things are very different.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, And to sort of take that even
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down one further step to what you and I can
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do in our local communities, Like maybe it's participating. Perhaps
743
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you're a member of a church that has a ministry
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to refugees, like the church that I'm part of does,
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Like maybe if that's something that we could volunteer for,
746
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maybe you're someone who is in a position to think
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about adoption or to think about volunteering at a center
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that's that's giving options to young women who may be
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facing an unexpected pregnancy and desperate to know what they
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should do and need or help that there are very
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they're on the ground things that you and I can do.
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And I'm speaking to a law listeners as well to
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make a difference in the lives of those with him.
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We also have sort of that physical proximity.
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And if you don't know in your community, if you're
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listening to Rebecca and you're like, yeah, I care about
757
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all these issues. Like a lot of times I hear
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people say, you know, like, oh, you care about immigrants
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or refues, Well what about homeless veterans? What about and
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then fill in the blank whatever other vulnerable population is
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out there, usually having to do with kind of someone
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who is absolutely definitely a US citizen or whatnot. What
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I would say is the Lord's love and welcome is
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for everybody, And a lot of times people say that
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as a cop out. So when I say, man, I
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love that you care about homeless veterans, what are you
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doing to help alleviate the suffering? And help continue the
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flourishing of their lives in your community. It's like dead silence, right,
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or if I say, oh, man, I love that you're
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in the preborn space, I love that you're in this
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space or whatever, I'm like, what are you doing to
772
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really kind of like get close in your own community?
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There's like crickets, so a lot of there's just like
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a lot of talking points out there, and there's not
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a lot of people who are willing to carve out
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margin to actually be in those issues and to make
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a difference in a change with their own lives. So
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they're they're frustrated that other people care about other things
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and want to make change for other people, but a
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lot of times there's not an outpouring in their own lives.
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There's an anger, but there's not necessarily like a prioritization
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in their own lives to care about people that God
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says are made in His image and likeness, regardless of
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citizenship or status.
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You know, yeah, yeah, a privilege. A few episodes ago,
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well now maybe it was the end of Lost Losses,
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and I was talking with a friend at our church who,
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as part of being involved in the welcome of refugees,
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at our church had noticed that one of the big
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problems that refugee families have when they shot up in
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Boston is that they don't have childcare, so they can't
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find work because they actually don't have anybody to care
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for their kids they're working. And so she, with her
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particular sort of professional background and areas of expertise, she's
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been thinking about, Okay, how can we figure out a
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way to provide daycare for especially for these families, and
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that might also be opportunities for employment for some of
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some of these families. And so she's been kind of
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using the gifts and background that God has given her
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to start piloting a project like that that is enabling
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people to sort of flourish in the place where they've
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they've found themselves. And I'm willing to bet everyone who
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is listening to this podcast, well, we all have very
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different giftings, we have different skill sets, we have different
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amounts of resources in one area the other, and we're
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not all called to do the exact same things, but
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all of us can make a tangible contribution in one
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of the areas or several of the areas that Brian
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and I have been talking about. So I guess it's easy.
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It can be easy, I think for people to feel
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just like overwhelmed. You've done a great job for us,
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Bree of kind of pointing us to the complexity and
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the web of issues that are tangled up and the
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the difficulties that come with you know, anytime we actually
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step meaningfully into any of these spaces, none of it's easy.
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None of it can be oversimplified. It's going to come
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with like a personal and emotional cost. And I love
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how you've modeled that for us as well, and that
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can can result in us feelings just sort of crippled
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of like, well, I'm not going to dip my turn
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to anything because it's too much for me. I just
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would I just would encourage people to take that first
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step and to think, you know, what.
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Can I do?
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How can I contribute and recognize at the same time
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that Jesus is the savior of the world. I think
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that's something that as a Christian I can sometimes in
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these spaces start to think, Oh, it feels so overwhelming,
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what can I do? Like I can only do this
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small thing? And that's okay, because actually you and I
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individually are not the savior of the world, that's Jesus.
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But at the same time, if you're a follower of Jesus,
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you're a part of his body on the earth today.
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And so between us, it is our job to show
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up in all of these different spaces.
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We're all not everyone's supposed to be a hand, not
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everyone's supposed to be a foot.
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But this is why we are the body.
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We're supposed to function in different ways, but in unity together.
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And I think it was I think it was Mother
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Teresa who said, you might not be able to solve
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global starvation, but you can feed a child.
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Yeah.
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And also I would just encourage you, you know, getting
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into these spaces human dignity issues, whether that's the preborn
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or whether that's adoption, or no matter what it is, immigrants, refugees,
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human trafficking, no matter what it is, you're going to
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have to show up and be able to hold the
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tension of that. More things can be true at the
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same time, and to show up well means you're going
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to have to hold that and you're gonna have to
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do that in a charitable and a christ like way.
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So you might not agree with everything, you might not
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even understand everything, but you're not looking for an outcome. Necessarily,
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you're looking for the posture of your heart to be
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aligned with Christ in whatever it is that you're doing.
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So you know, for me, I don't always understand why
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why things are the way that they are in immigration,
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but what I do know is that I can care
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about safe and secure borders and thorough vetting and also
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the humane treatment of people who are arriving at the border. Right,
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I can hold both of those things together and not
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have to compromise on what I think about policy and
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legislation but also about people. There's no compromise there. There's
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conviction in that, and there's also charitability in that, and
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there is a Hopefully what that communicates is that I'm
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trying to show up and stand kind of in the middle,
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not because of a lack of conviction, but because there is.
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There are too many complicating factors to make this just
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a slam dunk, so you know, easy solution. Human dignity
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issues are complicated. So Christians should be the ones that
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are standing in the gap and saying these are the
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realities that we face and they can't be controversial. People's
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flourishing shouldn't be too political for us to care about. Yeah, yeah,
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let's let's enter into this as Christ would, because everything
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he entered into was super controversial to the Pharisees and
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even to his own disciples. They didn't understand. And Sheila Walsh,
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who I love, she said this quote that I repeat
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all the time, and she said, people will not always
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understand what the love of Christ compels you to do,
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but you should do it anyway. And that's what I guess.
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You know, when you're saying we all have a part
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to play, I agree with you, and not everyone's going
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to understand what parts of the body the Lord is
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calling you the flex But that's okay because you're not
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going after it because of some kind of earthly recognition.
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You're doing it because you have compassion and conviction from Christ.
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Yeah, that's a great place for us.
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And thank you so much, Brief for sharing your thoughts
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and experience and challenging us. I think I feel challenged,
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and I guess is that all of us listening to
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this conversation will feel challenged to what extent If we
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are followers of Jesus, are we thinking holistically? Are we
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acting holistically? Are we only focusing on talking points? Or
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are we kind of putting our money on our lives
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where our mouths are on these questions. And perhaps you're
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listening to this and you would not call yourself follower
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of Jesus, and you've been confused or concerned by some
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of the things that we've been saying.
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I would encourage you.
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To actually open up a Bible and to look at
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the ways in which the love for and concern for
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the mostvulnerable that you may well feel deep in your
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heart has actually come to you from the Bible and
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not from you know, a sort of secular well view
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out there, or from a sort of progressive view or whatever.
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It's actually come to you historically from the Bible. It's
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something that we've covered in other episodes, and it may
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just be that going back to that source will help
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make a whole lot of other things make sense in
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your life. So you guys have been listening to the
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com Friendly Christianity Podcast. You can follow us on Twitter,
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like to see pursued on a future episode. And thank
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you for listening today, And I hope to speak into
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your earphones or your carst area or whatever it is
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that you listen through again next week.