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From the cast on stage and cruise behind the curtain, two community partners supporting efforts to bring professional Broadway performances to West Michigan.
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Plus, all things in between, this is BGR's Backstage Buzz.
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Hey friends, I'm Jennifer Pasqua, Vice President of Marketing and Community Engagement at Broadway Grand Rapids.
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And I'm Steve Stecketty, producer, Broadway fan, and proud BGR ambassador.
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So there are stories, Steve, that stay with us long after we first experienced them and for generations.
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The Outsiders remember that book?
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I do.
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Do you remember the movie?
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I do actually.
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I remember the movie better than the book.
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Okay, okay.
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Well, of course, this beloved novel that many of us read in school has now been transformed into a Broadway musical that's capturing audiences across the country.
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And with a powerful score, breathtaking choreography, and an emotional story about family, friendship, and finding where you belong.
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The Outsiders has quickly become one of Broadway's most talked-about new musicals.
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You bet.
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Winner of four Tony Awards, including Best Musical, The Outsiders, brings the world of Pony Boy, Johnny, Soda Pop, and Curtis Brothers to life in a way that's both deeply moving and visually stunning.
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And I need to mention one of the producers, Angelina Jolie.
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Did you know that?
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I well, not to go into a long story, but as I was getting music for this, I saw this thing and Angelina Jolie was talking, and I was like, wow, okay.
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Whether you're a lifelong fan of S.C.
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Hinton's classic novel or discovering this story for the very first time, this production delivers an unforgettable theatrical experience.
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And today we are going behind the scenes with uh one of the cast members of the National Touring Company to talk about the show and how it's landing here in West Michigan.
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So joining us right now, we have Nolan White.
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And Nolan, we love it when we have some Michigan friends that are part of a tour.
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So tell me a little bit about your background.
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Well, I started performing in sixth grade.
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I was in a production of Your Good Man Carly Brown, and it took about everything in me to get over the audition nerves.
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I've been doing it ever since.
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So um that's sort of how I got started.
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But through high school, I just kept doing it, and eventually I decided, like, hey, this is what I want to do with my life.
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I uh went through the whole college audition process.
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I went to see the University of Michigan for a year, studying musical theater.
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And uh one weekend in January, I went to an outsider's open call with my mom, waited in line for like four hours with the chance to sing 16 bars of a song, and got really lucky.
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And here I am, I'm on tour.
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Awesome.
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Well, that is okay.
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That is lovely, though.
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Again, to have a Michigander, if you will, uh back into town.
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So let's just jump in with a couple questions about the show itself, if that's all right.
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Okay, so you play Pony Boy in what is a boy, about 60 or 70 year old, uh very famous show started off as a book, turned into a movie, and now a musical.
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And you, as Pony Boy, spend much of this story trying to understand where you belong in the world.
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Why do you think audiences nearly like 60 years after this originally came out still see themselves in this character?
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Oh, I think it's just a timeless story, first of all.
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I mean, it's a story that pretty much everyone reads in middle school and in the earlier years of high school.
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But the character of Pony Boy specifically and filmed is really I think it resonates with a lot of people because you know it's easy when you're growing up to feel cast aside and feel a little bit different and um not really know what your place is amongst your peers, um, especially at the age of 14, which is where Pony Boy is um in the story.
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So I think that's a a big point that a lot of people resonate with is just that finding that sense of belonging and it it's a really it's a fun character development.
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Yeah, speaking of character development, Nolan, I understand this is a very young show.
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Um how old are you?
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And how much of yourself did you bring into this role?
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I'm 20 and I uh I brought a lot of myself into this role.
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I think I um I definitely my humor airs on the on the dumber side.
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So um it's fun to get to tap back into that 14-year-old humor mindset.
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And uh I actually got a lot of my my dad and how I perceived my dad into the role because he grew up um in Oklahoma with not the strongest family structure ever.
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So pretty similar to Pony Boy.
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You know, he kind of just had to make it on his own and with his friends in a way, and he had an older brother who's the youngest.
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So I talked to my dad about his experience growing up and based a lot of how I see Pony Boy off of that.
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I said I think that's pretty cool that you were speaking with your father.
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Obviously, kind of grew up in a time, a simpler time that was a little closer to you know the lifestyle of these boys were.
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And you know, Pony Boy has always been, he's kind of a dreamer, right?
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He's kind of the one who sees beauty even in the difficult circumstances.
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He's kind of an anchor, you know, for characters.
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Uh in today's world of social media, constant distraction and things like that.
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Do you think there's something special and uh and relevant about that perspective?
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Absolutely.
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I think it's important for not just my generation, but all generations in this time of you know, this big technical technological social media boom to just get back to you know simpler times and spend some time off the screen and with your friends, because that's some of the most like you know, some of the times that I've cherished the most are you know with my friends and making memories in the real world.
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And I I think that's very important.
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And I think seeing, you know, young young people on stage doing that, portraying how you know friends back in the day used to just you know hang out until the sun goes down and come home late and just be kids.
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Like I think it's important.
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And it you know what it's similar to a lot of coming of age stories from you know all different time periods.
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Like it wouldn't be any it wouldn't be an interesting story if it was you know completely inside on a screen.
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That's what makes life special.
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Absolutely.
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So this is I'm not gonna give too much away, Nolan, because I think this is like the moment of the show that wows people.
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So you probably know what I'm talking about.
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But there is a moment in the show that uh incorporates some wonderful staging and people are going to be so impressed.
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I just want to know from you what is your dance experience background?
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Because when they yeah, because when they see this moment on you know, stage with all of you, uh, the choreography is just spectacular.
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That was a highlight for me when I saw this on the road.
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So um tell me a little bit more about you, Nolan, and what skill sets you had to really work on in order to get this role.
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That's a great question.
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Well, um, my mom is actually a dance teacher and has been a dancer all her whole life.
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She uh actually went on tour when she was around my age with uh country artist um Jody Jody Nathina.
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Um so she was one of her backup dancers back in the day.
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And uh I I grew up, you know, learning certain steps from her, and I always found it really fun to get up and dance.
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And I uh I remember this Michael Jackson Wii game I used to have that I just loved.
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So I took a lot of inspiration from him.
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I love it.
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I mean, yeah, I I was never a dancer at first, but as I've grown up, I've you know started to love it more and more.
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Yeah.
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And uh especially um stage combat.
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I I've been a huge you know fan of learning new stage combats and acrobatics.
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When I was a competitive humanist growing up, so I travel all over doing that when I was younger.
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Okay, so all that combined.
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Yeah, yeah.
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All that combined leads up to this moment.
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That's all I'm gonna say about it, because darn, it's good.
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It's good stuff.
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You know, at its heart, the outsiders uh you know wants people to kind of look past labels like Greaser and Soche.
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Obviously, today the you know, political climate, things are getting kind of divided and kind of polarized in the world, almost you know, similar to this show.
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If Pony Boy could speak directly to a teenager right now, an audience member, what do you what do you think he'd want them to understand about facing a world that's kind of getting increasingly divided?
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I think it's a great question.
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I think he doesn't really know the answer until the end of the show.
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And I think he learns a lot of that from Johnny throughout the story, because Johnny is such a resilient character.
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I mean, both Pony Boy and Johnny go through so much throughout the finish of the story.
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Um I think by the end of the show, what Pony Boy would give to someone who's wondering what to do is you know, just find that beauty in the fold.
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Um I mean there's a lyric in the show, finding beauty in the fold is the only way to keep them going on.
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So just be in the simple things and just take a moment to breathe every once in a while and um center yourself.
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And even though the world can feel like it's going 100 miles an hour 24-7, there are always moments that you can take to just be still and breathe.
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Oh, I love that.
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And that's gonna lead into my my one last question for you.
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I'm gonna keep it a little bit vague for anybody who hasn't seen any aspect of the show or the book or the movie, but there is a phrase uttered somewhere in the show that is uh stay gold.
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And that's all I'm gonna say about that, or the reasons why we're there.
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It's one of the most recognizable lines in American literature and soon to be in musical history, I'm guessing.
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Uh, after living with this character for so long, though, what does that mean to you personally?
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Again, if you can say it without getting into the minutia of the show.
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I I think the meaning changes for me a lot.
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You know, saying the line every single night for almost a year now, it's it's picked up so many different meanings.
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And honor honestly, for me, it has a sort of universal meaning.
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That it makes sense.
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Like it it means so many different things.
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But right now, and I think the core of it for me is um as I've been on the road, sometimes the time feels like it's just this amorphous thing where like sometimes it's at a standstill, and sometimes weeks fly by and it feels like minutes and it's crazy.
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So staying gold for me on the road has been just savoring every second, even if it's not a second that I necessarily want to be in, and realizing that time itself is really valuable.
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And yeah, just taking every moment and really living in it as much as possible.
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Because you know, sometimes, as Andy from the office said, you don't know you're in the good old days until you've left them.
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Absolutely.
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Nolan White, we so appreciate you taking the time, but we can't get you to leave us yet before we play a little game.
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Are you up for that?
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Oh, I'm always down for a game.
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All right, hang on, we'll be right back with Nolan after the break.
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I've never been out of Tosa before.
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I wonder what it would be like.
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I've never known anybody to leave.
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Most people get stuck for life.
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Welcome back, everyone.
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Now it is time for some game time.
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I think it's time for some game time.
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I don't know what we're gonna call this game.
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We're gonna call it uh vague plot points of our season this year.
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So, Nolan, if you're ready for it.
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That's a long title, Steve.
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Vague plot points of our season.
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And for anybody listening at home, if you're familiar with our season this year, we have The Lion King and Juliet, Kimberly Akimbo, The Great Gatsby, The Outsiders, Book of Mormon, and Water for Elephants.
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That's our season this year.
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You got all that, Nolan?
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Got it.
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Great.
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All right.
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We're gonna give you a vague sentence that's a plot of one of those shows and ask to see if you can identify each show from the sentence we give you.
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Does that sound all right?
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Sounds good to me.
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Here we go, Steve.
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Go first.
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I'll take the first one.
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Okay.
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A kingdom collapses because a child believes a lie.
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Oh, crud, I heard the kingdom, and I was like, oh, Shakespeare.
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Uh is it why again?
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Boom.
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There you go.
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Ding ding ding.
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Question number two an entire life is spent trying to arrive at a moment that has already passed.
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I'm gonna say this is about a gentleman who throws a lot of parties.
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Oh, Greg Gatsby.
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Yes.
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Boom.
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You got it.
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You got it.
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Gatsby.
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Okay.
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All right.
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Two boys witness the same sunset and accidentally dismantle a social hierarchy.
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Outsiders.
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Yes.
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I was gonna say, if you didn't get that one, we have to have a lot of time.
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We'd have to have a talk.
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A traveling illusion becomes more honest than the world outside it.
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Very good.
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Very good, sir.
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And I'm actually amazed at your memory just for the names of the shows because I think I probably forgot.
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All right.
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A fabricated story succeeds where sincere certainty fails.
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This is about a bunch of uh young people who knock on doors trying to quote unquote sell something.
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Yeah.
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Book of Mormon.
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There you go.
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Book of Mormon.
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Book of Mormon.
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Do we get them all, Steve?
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Nope.
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We have we have two more.
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History changes when a character stops cooperating with her author.
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I feel like you've been waiting for this one.
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Yes, it is.
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This is your moment.
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And last but not least, the the person most aware of mortality is the youngest person in the room.
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Now that's that's uh Kimberly Campbell.
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There you go.
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Oh, nice job, Nolan.
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Nolan, very well.
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We realize that's a little bit difficult.
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We absolutely did get there.
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And again, I'm amazed at your memory just for the names of the shows.
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For sure.
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Well, we we look forward to hanging out with you when you are here in West Michigan.
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You're coming home to Michigan.
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Coming home.
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All right.
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Awesome.
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We cannot wait to see you at the show, and uh, we look forward to the performance.
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So I'm really a mess.
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Every night I worry myself to sleep while you're watching cartoons.
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There ain't nothing I can do for you.
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I know that pony boy's really got a damn good heart.
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Something about him that really could take him far, but I keep holding him down.
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I've run this family right into the ground.
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One of the most memorable lines in The Outsiders is stay gold.
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To many people, that phrase represents holding on to hope and kindness in a difficult world.
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Yeah, and today joining us right here at the table, we've got Christy Buck, CEO and founder of Mental Health Foundation of West Michigan, Be Nice.
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And Christy, I'm so excited that we are working together to promote not only the show, but promoting Be Nice.
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Amen.
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If there was any musical that would go along with what Be Nice is, it is the outsiders in so many ways.
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So we're honored to be part of this and looking forward to that whole big week of sharing the message of what the outsiders brings, stay gold, along with the Mental Health Foundation.
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Be nice.
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Would you be able to elaborate a little bit on that?
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Some of those parallels that you're talking about, because that is a wonderful way to start the uh conversation.
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Sure.
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Um, it's been interesting because when I saw that the outsiders was coming, um, a good friend of our family is actually in the show.
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Oh, so he is Luke Sabracos.
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So immediately I knew I was going to go to the show.
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But then I know that the outsiders is used in many classrooms, especially in eighth grade, to bring about the discussion about how to stay gold.
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So our message with Be Nice is four simple steps, and it's notice, invite, challenge, and empower.
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And when I look at the show, and I know I've read the book, I've seen the movie, excited about the musical, um, the action plan is in throughout the outsiders.
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And so a lot of it has to do with the struggles, what were what was happening with the boys, what was happening in their lives at the time.
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And so many times kids go through similar experiences.
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And it doesn't matter what socioeconomic class you are, because we're going to get that view in the outsiders with both views, um, that there are struggles and there are challenges that kids face.
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And many times it's noticing and and be nice, those struggles and moving into invite myself into good conversations when I see folks struggling with these situations.
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So there's grief and there's stress, there's feelings of isolation on Pony Boy's sense where he has the loss of his parents.
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Um, Johnny shows signs of trauma and fear and low self-worth, do abuse at home.
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And so we might be entertained by this musical, but when you look deep within it, and I know I'll be bawling during the singing of so many of the songs because they touch on so many different things and challenges that kids go through.
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There's anger, there's risks, a lot of risk-taking behaviors, and then there's just emotional withdrawal after years of you know, kids really facing hard times.
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And then there's the conflict, right?
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The conflict of the greasers and the socias and um people who are judged often by their appearances and the stigma that goes along with that, also, that the kids with money must not be experiencing any difficulties in their life.
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And we know that that's not true.
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So, you know, in addition, I could go on and on the lessons to be learned in the show.
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And I hope that we get the opportunity at our table there to have open discussions.
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And, you know, who knows the collab might go after this.
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But I think that this message of be nice would resonate with the entire cast and the crew and the producers and directors of the show.
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So well, and I think the beauty of what we do as Broadway is we try to kind of open up this space that is welcoming to whether or not you're a greaser or a soche.
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But what we want to do is have that engagement.
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We want people to stop at your table and we're gonna do some cool things.
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Yeah, we are.
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Tell me a little more about what we're gonna do.
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So we're gonna have the opportunity to recreate a little bit of the set.
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It's gonna be our set, right?
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Yeah, Ken.
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Yeah.
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It is.
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So we've got some large tires that are gonna be on display that makes it look like a little bit of an alleyway.
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And um, we have already had two totally covered with signatures and ideas of how to stay gold.
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Oh, I love that.
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So those were amazing.
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So we passed it around to a few schools that were in.
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It wasn't our idea, how to stay gold.
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Kids weighed in on that, so we'll have one on display and with gold markers.
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Yeah.
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And we'll do that again and then move them to the Broadway, to the offices of our gals, right?
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I love that.
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Yeah.
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You know, the whole idea is to kind of just showcase that there are so many different ways to be nice.
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And I just I just love the idea that we we collectively came up with.
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You know, we were getting so excited just talking about how do we really spread that message so that when people leave the venue, they're gonna keep that in mind as they're heading out into the real world.
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Forever, you know, it just resonates.
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You see a good show, you get moved, and you go, wow, I want to listen to the music for the next four weeks.
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And then suddenly you're going, how can I take it one step further?
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And we hope people will click on and take the pledge, learn what the action plan is.
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I went through the notice stage, right?
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Um, but everybody could learn the plan.
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That is wonderful.
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Can I ask how you obviously light up when you're talking about this?
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And you know, I've talked to a lot of people, so obviously this is very special to you.
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Can you talk a little bit about why this started, why you started this organization, and why this is so important?
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I mean, besides the obvious, there's something personal to you though.
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Yeah, you know, a lot was personal.
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So I lived in a home with a mother that struggled with clinical depression, you know, very, very depressed depression, um, to the point she had actually psychotic features with her illness.
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So that was my high school, those years of growing up.
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Um, my sisters were off to college, so I really had to adjust.
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And, you know, I I might start to cry, but you know, I didn't know the philosophy or stay gold, but I had to do that because I could have gone in any direction at that point.
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I really had my freedom while my mom was in the hospital.
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Um, my grandmother would come in and stay with me while my mom was in the hospital.
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And um, I could have done anything I wanted to, but somehow I stayed true to who I was, um, a lot being my faith, a lot being my nationality, which I'm Greek.
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Um, so that was my story.
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And so when I was able and I began my work with the foundation, I worked line staff, and that's when I discovered what was going on in my house.
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And I was very comfortable then talking about it because we didn't talk about it as kids.
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But then I became in this field.
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I'm like, I'm talking about it.
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So we went out, we started creating that conversation of where other people could feel comfortable to talk about mental health, mental illness, and ultimately suicide.
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So 2010 is when Be Nice was created, and then nine months later, the action plan.
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And that's what makes it so unique and different, you know, that it's got this thing like go out and do this.
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And I am very passionate about it because just this morning I was writing letters of thanks to people who donated in memory of a loved one that died by suicide.
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I honestly don't want to write those.
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I don't want.
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I'm gonna thank people, but I don't want, I want to end that.
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And I think we all can take part in recognizing when somebody is at the at the start of struggling, and sometimes that's what it is, and not just depression.
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So, you know, we need to take that into consideration, the vulnerability.
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And thank you for that answer.
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That was very personal and very well constructed.
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You know what?
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And Chrissy, I've known you for years now.
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And every time I hear this story, and like Steve said, your passion for this and what you've done here in West Michigan to create a program early on for students to realize that yeah, the first step is just be nice, people.
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Be nice.
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It really is.
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If people want to learn more about your organization, they want to get involved, they want to volunteer.
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How do they do that?
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It's so easy.
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Be nice.org.
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Got it.
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It's easy.
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You can go on and take the pledge, which it doesn't mean a donation of pledging, it means to learn the plan and it takes 12 minutes.
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Love it.
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That's how cool it is.
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It's like CPR, right?
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Chrissy, thank you so much.
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Thank you for this.
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Appreciate it.
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I'm so excited.
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We're excited to have you here.
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Really, really, really pumped.
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Obviously, I show that in a lot of different ways, but I sure do.
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Thank you so much, my friend.
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The Outsiders makes its way to the stage on Tuesday, June 9th at DeVos Performance Hall.
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We also want to give a huge shout out to our season sponsor Meyer and our title sponsor, Fitzherbank, for making it all possible.
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Show sponsors AHC Hospitality, Barnes and Thornberg LLP, Crow, Harvey Automotive, Independent Bank, and Blacks Enterprises Inc.
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Thank you for joining us, and we'll see you at the show.