OVER DEZE AFLEVERING
This series is about what God actually says about doing relationships well. Not opinions. Not advice from someone who has it all figured out. God's Word — applied to the marriages, friendships, families, and workplaces we actually live in.
This week we go to one of the most misread, most misused, most avoided passages in the New Testament: Ephesians 5:22-33.
Wives, submit to your husbands.
Before you close the tab — read verse 21 first.
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
That's the verse most people skip. And it changes everything that follows.
The Greek word for submit here is hypotassō — to voluntarily place yourself under another for their good. Not passivity. Not silence. Not a power imbalance dressed up in religious language. It's a posture of strength, rooted in knowing you've already been radically loved and served by Jesus, who submitted himself for us first.
And the call isn't just to wives. Paul calls husbands to love their wives the way Christ loved the church — a love that gave everything, held nothing back, and laid down its life. That's not a soft ask. That's the highest standard of love that exists.
When both people in a relationship choose that posture — not "what do I get out of this" but "how do I get to serve" — something entirely different becomes possible.
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