Side note... less about rich people, more about catfighting

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Hi lovy.
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How are you?
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We're back.
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We're back.
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I know everybody missed us so much.
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I missed us.
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We did get an outpouring that they were surprised.
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We weren't gonna be We actually heard from people we did not think were listening who said they were loving us.
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They asked.
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Random people.
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I mean, people I would have never thought.
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I know it's so fantastic.
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The shout out to Robert.
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Shout out to our fishmonger.
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Shout out to Robert at Smallworld for listening.
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Fantastic.
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Who would have thunk it?
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Who would have well, you know what?
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We should.
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We should have more confidence in ourselves.
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A hundred percent.
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I completely.
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Obviously, everyone is listening to this podcast.
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Obviously.
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We just have to figure out how to get certain people listening, but that's okay.
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Meanwhile, I just went to Target.
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I was gonna ask how your target run was.
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It was good.
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I mean, it's you know, so where I live, there is a target that's like three minutes down the street, and it's the worst target in the world.
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But like you can go there for the you know, quick target y things.
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If you want like a target run, there's one that's like 10, 12 minutes away from me.
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We went to the close one.
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Oh, you went to the close one, yes, because Peter was come had come just come from the gym, right?
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So he was like, I'm not gonna turn back.
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I mean, he would have if I asked, but I didn't, I knew what I needed was at this the bad target, but it definitely wasn't like a fun target.
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Target experience.
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But I will say they put that um like fragrance brand, dossier.
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Do you know it?
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They like yes, it's the dupe.
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The dupe of the high-end fragrances, and I was like the Mesa Margella and all that.
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And it's like I have one.
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I think I'm like gonna pass out.
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Like, I have such a headache because I must have hit my nose too hard with it, and it's like literally, I didn't even spray it.
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It's like inside of my nose.
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So that was fun.
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It's in your nostril, yeah.
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But the two things that I did get because I just heard I'm like a good patch person, but I just heard that the good molecules influence pimple patches are apparently all the rage.
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And then I do have to re-up on my Sophie Povitt Mandelic serum at Sephora.
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They don't sell that at Target, but I got, I used to use this, the not the Nuturium niacinamide serum.
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And it's good for like I'm having some, as you know, I'm having some like congestion breakouts in like the bottom half of my face, which like says hormones to me.
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I'm just like unclear because it's not really tracking accurately with where that should happen in my cycle.
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So I don't know what's going on, but I had a tough skin week last week.
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It looks so much better.
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It does, but I'm trying to get it like under control, and I'm hoping that this is gonna be like because all of I like what is in there, so it's niacinamide and zinc plus hyaluronic acid and vitamin E.
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I mean, all of that is great.
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I'm just saying that is obviously not taking the place of your soapy pot.
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That is all brightening.
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Well, it's niacinamide's great for brightening.
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Niacinamide's like uneven texture.
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Yeah, there's like glycerin for hydration in here.
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Yeah, no, it's gonna be very I think it's gonna make your skin feel really good.
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It does say on the front though, reduces congested pores.
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Oh that must be the zinc.
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I was gonna say maybe that's a cinamide.
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I don't think so.
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I know.
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I thought that was hydration too, but what do I know?
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Anyway, that's what I got at Target.
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And it was a quick More to come.
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More to come, I'll let you know how the serum is.
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But I I used to use it and like it a lot.
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Okay, well.
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I think that both that brand is very good.
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Me trying to love her, Susan Yara.
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She's great.
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Okay.
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Um, so we have a lot to discuss today.
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Obviously, we missed last very much week, which we're so apologetic for.
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Yeah.
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Um, where do you want to begin?
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I mean, do you want to just go housewives and see what happens?
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Okay, yeah, let's go housewives.
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So my mom started her housewives.
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Well, I mean, I guess you've always been like relatively like a Yeah, but I've never like I have never watched like consistently.
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I've watched here and there.
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Right.
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Like when we were living together, I watched a little bit more.
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Every once in a while I pick it up, but I've never watched like a full.
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So what made what was the conversation that we had that got you to start Salt Lake?
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I think because everyone was talking about it and you were like, you have to start watching it.
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And then it was it's such a good I find that all the reality stuff is really good for me when I'm traveling because I can just download, you know, 10 episodes, and um actually I I find that type of well, watching anything as opposed to like reading or listening to music, but specifically that reality stuff for whatever reason, I am I don't think I'm like a not relaxed flyer, but I am such a more relaxed flyer.
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You have like a mindless something 100%.
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And it just passes the time, it's just easy.
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Um I started trains and planes a lot.
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Yes.
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So I started Salt Lake with the intention, because you I think when last season was starting, you were like, you need to get held.
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I was like, get caught up.
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So you basically watched seasons one through five between when five was maybe in the middle last season until like maybe a month ago you finished or two months ago.
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I think that's right.
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Um, so you watched five seasons quickly, yes, and now season six just premiered.
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Is it six or seven?
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Is it six?
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I think we're in six right now.
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I could be wrong.
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Doesn't matter.
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Anyway, anyway, um, so anyway, as for those of you.
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Oh with seven, so I watched six.
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So you watch seven seasons.
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So um as people who watch Housewives know, Salt Lake City premiered two weeks ago.
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Yes, and there's now been a special cast.
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What does that mean?
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Like it's a special.
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It's not just like any Housewives, like Real Housewives of Salt Lake City really came.
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I mean, I guess now seven seasons, but like it's a relatively new franchise and it does not feel that way at all.
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Yeah, no, they're they're killing it.
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Yes.
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Um but anyway, so season seven premiered.
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But there are now two episodes.
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We have not discussed either.
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We have not.
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And even outside of this podcast, we tried to not discuss as much as possible because we wanted our thoughts to be so my thoughts are well, first my thoughts on the first episode were it was just tragically sad.
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Tragically sad.
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Now, spoiler alert if you're not caught up, although everybody who follows it knows that Mary's son, who had been struggling with addiction and had just was recently or recently under the episodes, like released from jail, um, overdose and died.
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Yes.
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So the first episode was basically um all of them sort of getting together to support her, and then you don't see the memorial service or whatever you want to call it.
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No, which I actually really liked.
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Yeah, I don't think she would have ever allowed that.
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I don't know though.
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You just never know.
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Like I actually think it was incredible, whoever made that decision, it was the right decision.
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I completely agree.
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And like they all spoke incredibly highly of what the service was, and we kind of got like, I mean, we've seen Mary's church on the show, so we kind of know what the vibe was, right?
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But I think obviously there was probably a conversation about it, right?
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And that the decision was to not allow cameras there was the absolutely the correct decision.
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And I'm I was like a little worried that we were going to see it, and that just there's just a line.
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Right.
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And I'm gonna we're gonna circle back to that line because uh I am also now trying to get into New Jersey.
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Right.
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And there was an episode I watched the other day, and I remember thinking to myself, actually, Mark was sitting in the room, not that he was like watching, he's like, What is happening right now?
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And I was like, I can't believe they're showing this.
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It was just horribly awkward.
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Teresa's parents died, mom died, dad died.
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No, we haven't gotten there yet, but uh, not like a shocker.
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Um, when uh I hate to even speak her name because I hate her so much.
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When Danielle took her daughter to the gynecologist.
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I don't have like concrete memory of that.
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It's not like you're seeing an exam, but like there's a line.
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Yeah, she's 16 years old.
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Like, I mean, she just will do anything to just shill.
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And I find her fucking revolting.
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Like, I I I can't, I it I am trying hard to get through.
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I have started like speeding through the episodes where she is because I just know what she's gonna do.
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And then like I'll see if something looks like there's a confrontation that's worth like watching.
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I I I like literally loathe her.
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I I I find it almost difficult to watch that what season are you in?
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I'm only I'm just finishing two.
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Oh, okay.
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I mean you have a lot of time.
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I know, I know, and it feels overwhelming because she's so fricking gross, and I just hate her so much.
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Yeah, I it's and she just the way that she, I mean, I hate to use this word, but it's so like prostitutes her children is disgusting to me.
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Exploits.
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Exploits, that's a better word, thank you.
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Because I don't think her children are prostitutes.
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No, I I just it's she's just willing to do anything to be in front of the camera.
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Yeah, I mean, well, what obviously like you know about her.
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Have her and Teresa had their big fight yet?
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Oh, yeah.
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That's season one.
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Oh, that's season one, okay.
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Um, prostitution for engaged crimes.
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Right.
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Anyway, that we won't go to New Jersey, but I did have a comment about the the watching the two is very interesting.
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But that I think was a line, and I I think it it's in New Jersey, like I they're so in the people's lives, so much more so.
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That was the thing that I was gonna say.
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Well, what I'm saying.
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It's very different.
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Like, I first of all, and I don't care.
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I don't want to see those freaking kids and all the bullshit with the kids and like the rest of the family, and everybody, you know, even Caroline talking to her sons.
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I don't care about that.
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The shit that I want to see is like the women.
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Here's the thing, let me just say I think that maybe because Salt Lake was your foray into Housewives, like that's what you're expecting from Housewives.
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But what makes New Jersey so special is that these people like actually know each other.
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Like the Salt Lake women, they they do have relation, but like New Jersey was so like familial and well, they're all in the family except for like an extra friend or two that it's New Jersey.
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Like everyone who's Italian who lives in New Jersey is related.
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Like it tells it first of all, it depicts like such a good, it has such a good picture of like where they are in New Jersey, it's so accurate.
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Agree.
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And it is just like they are so in the weeds that when these things happen, I mean, like when the huge thing happens with Teresa, do you know?
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Well, I do know, yes, just because it was in the news.
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Like, right, but like with Joe.
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You watch them like get arrested and like you know her children, like you feel like you know her children.
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Whereas like if that happened.
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Well, that happened with Jen a little bit, but you don't know her case, like you didn't know her kids really.
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Like, we know who they were, but we like people felt like they grew up with like Gia and Melania, and like now Melania is like get out getting arrested, like beating people up, and like people feel like they know her, right?
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So they feel like a very close connection to what's going on.
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That I can see that's what made New Jersey so special, but I understand like you're in it for the drama, which I would recommend than Potomac.
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Okay, it's less family life, like Atlanta is still pretty family, especially like at the beginning.
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You see all of Kim's kids, which like have you heard about what's going on with her son?
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Yes, despicable, deplorable, disgusting.
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But like when you're raised in circumstances, like not to say I don't know anything about her circumstances, but no, I'm just saying like they're growing, like talk about exploiting your children, like they've been on television for whatever.
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But I don't know, I do think he's just like a bad egg, obviously.
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Right, like at his point that's inside of you.
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What am I talking about?
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Oh, her, so Kim Zolsiak Beerman, and her now ex-husband Croy Bierman have like four or five kids, and one of their middle boys, KJ, who's like Croy Jr., I think, or I guess he would have been like the oldest boy, um, was accused of sexual assault, and then it came out that he had like sealed records from a previous issue, and one was like with a family member.
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I haven't read it in it because like that's kind of stuff like I have to stay away from it.
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Makes me so sick to my stomach.
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Correct.
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So, but anyway, all to say, Salt Lake is back.
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We did not see Robert Jr.'s memorial service.
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Here were my notes from the first episode.
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I don't know if you know this because you're not fully immersed in like every single housewives, but basically, you know, they have like their intros and their taglines, and then it shows you them all holding like the sign of their city.
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So for Salt Lake, it's the snowflake.
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Bronwyn is in the middle this season, which is a really big deal.
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Like, whoever's in the middle, it means like the season is kind of about them, and they're like the front runner of the season.
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Okay, we did not pick that up, but okay.
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So when I saw Bronwyn in the first of all, not for nothing, but like not an original cast member, and they're only seven seasons in.
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So, like, for her to be in the center is kind of a big deal, and that just makes me think like we're we're kind of in for it with Bronwyn this season because Well, you can tell already, because from what I can see, she was with that guy Brandon Married.
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And now she's with somebody else, married restaurateur in New York.
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Yeah.
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So she's obviously gonna be a lot of the, you know, whether it's drama or whatever, but you know, she's there.
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Okay, so let's have your notes.
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Okay.
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Well, that was one of my notes.
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Um, so I'm watching the scene where Meredith and Lisa go to lunch, and I'm like Because first of all, pause.
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Meredith looks.
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No, so this was my note that I write down.
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I go, Did Meredith have a nose job?
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I'm like looking at her because she had not yet spoken about what happened, what happened to her face.
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And I'm like, what looks so different about her?
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She looks fantastic.
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Fantastic.
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And then I write, is she wearing a wig?
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question mark.
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Like I was so confused.
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And then it is then revealed that she had a sick facelift.
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And you and I discussed that she's probably wearing a wig to cover the scars, but like it looks, she looks like she lives around me with that wig on.
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Like it really looks like a yetti with the wig.
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It's a bad.
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I mean, it was like sliding in a couple pictures, it looked good, a couple places it looked really bad.
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Somebody needs to be not doing a good job because she has like a bump in the back.
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It's so bad.
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But she looks fantastic.
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I want to know who her surgeon is.
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I'm sure that that will come out in due time.
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I wanted to discuss the John and Lisa moment.
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That I what do you think?
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Well, so like it can't possibly be that that was the first time that they had that conversation, right?
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I don't know.
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It seemed like it was.
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I know, but like how it's been a year and you haven't discussed like the way that you two were speaking to each other.
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I don't know.
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Maybe they just all along just went along.
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I mean, look, people do, as we know, so then I'll people live talk about coming back to exploitation.
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Like, okay, so John, you're gonna like cry on camera and apologize to your wife.
00:17:03.519 --> 00:17:08.400
Like it's well, I guarantee you, they are all so invested in that franchise.
00:17:08.640 --> 00:17:16.960
I guarantee, even if they had that conversation private, let's I guarantee you, Lisa said, I love you, honey.
00:17:17.279 --> 00:17:19.920
We need to put that on camera because that's good.
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Like, John was literally like in tears.
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I'm like, he can't possibly have said it that many times if he's still that emotional about it.
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No, I agree, I agree.
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I thought it was really, really interesting.
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Although it's funny because when he gave her shit last season, yeah, I was totally in agreement with him.
00:17:37.519 --> 00:17:40.240
Well, I was like, you don't, yeah, she's tough.
00:17:40.559 --> 00:17:45.839
I can't imagine being married to her, but whatever.
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Um, Heather Gay reminds me so much of you.
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Oh my god.
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Meanwhile, what the fuck with her boyfriend?
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Trip.
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Love him.
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Okay, but like what is it's so like did you see like when he's like riding up on the motorcycle?
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And with like he almost kind of like fell.
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It was like and they do like the kickstand dance.
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Well, I'm sure they're gonna be like, I'm like, am I watching a movie or am I watching reality?
00:18:11.519 --> 00:18:17.039
I'm sure they asked him to do that like multiple times, but I think it's really sweet.
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He's obviously like a team player.
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Yeah.
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I'm so happy for her.
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Yeah, no, look, I hope she looks amazing.
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She looks incredible.
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I love her.
00:18:27.519 --> 00:18:29.680
She looks like she has too much work done.
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I don't know.
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You know what?
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I saw uh Chloe Kardashian the other day on Instagram, and I was like, I every time I see her, I'm stuck.
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I don't see her that often.
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And I was like, oh my god.
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Like, I mean, yeah, she looks amazing, but every time I see her, I'm like, who is that?
00:18:42.880 --> 00:18:43.599
Oh, that's Chloe?
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Like, yeah, she's unrecognizable.
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She's definitely had, I mean, she had a nose job very openly.
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She's incredibly thin.
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Right.
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But I mean, her face, like proportionally, just doesn't look the same.
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It doesn't.
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Well, she's had a lot of work done.
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Yeah, it's crazy.
00:19:01.759 --> 00:19:06.319
Um sorry.
00:19:06.880 --> 00:19:08.559
I'm a little bit under the weather.
00:19:08.799 --> 00:19:10.960
Um, and then my notes get to the second episode.
00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:12.960
So did you ever episode?
00:19:13.279 --> 00:19:19.759
One final thought on the first episode, and it's a sort of a bigger conversation, so we didn't, we don't have to get into it right now.
00:19:20.319 --> 00:19:25.279
So, you know, they were talking about um Robert Jr.'s memorial.
00:19:25.519 --> 00:19:25.759
Right.
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And they're all talking about it, you know, it was a homecoming.
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Yes.
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And I just thought I just, I was just sort of, it's not surprising to me, but I was just sort of so struck by that and struck by the things that Mary said.
00:19:40.799 --> 00:20:09.680
And my only thought on that was, and I I know that she is, you know, she believes it, and she's not it's it's real, of strong faith, to have such comfort in that your son is like with God and in a better place, not struggling, and as sad as it is the loss for you that he's okay, and that like you'll be reunited with him.
00:20:09.759 --> 00:20:28.880
I just it it made me think back to years and years ago when I was a very young lawyer, somebody that I worked with at Stradley's um father, a good friend of mine's father passed away of cancer, and she was a I think she was like a it doesn't matter, she was very religious, a seventh day at Venice.
00:20:28.960 --> 00:20:29.839
I don't remember what.
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And I remember she just said to me, she goes, I really miss him so much, but I know he's with God and I know I'll see him again.
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And I was like, wow.
00:20:41.119 --> 00:20:55.680
And we've talked about this type of stuff before in different contexts, but it just struck me, and I have my beliefs about like, you know, soul reuniting and whatever, yeah, but it just struck me the way she said that.
00:20:56.240 --> 00:20:59.440
You know, there's a little part of me it's like, wow, I wish I had that.
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Well, I always say that.
00:21:00.799 --> 00:21:14.079
Like I, you know, my whole life I've always been like steadfast, and you know, that I I wouldn't say I'm like an atheist, but I'm agnostic, like I don't know.
00:21:14.480 --> 00:21:14.960
Right.
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But I have a hard part of your logic of but I have always said, I'm so jealous.
00:21:23.039 --> 00:21:39.519
Like I wish more than anything that I had this like unwavering, undeniable belief that, like, you know, someone's looking out for me, and when it's my time or my loved ones' time, like they will go to a like a better.
00:21:39.599 --> 00:21:41.680
I always used to talk about this with one of my best friends.
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Like, she always had such a belief and like a knowing, like would pray to God.
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And I just I was always so jealous.
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I think that that's so unbelievable and beautiful.
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Yeah.
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Well, it is interesting because I was listening, and I have listened before to various people talk about this.
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Like scientists because I remember we did that actually.
00:22:02.319 --> 00:22:19.279
I don't know if you remember, I don't know whether it was your maybe it was Jake's Hebrew school, yours, where um it was a thing where the parents came to do like something at the school, and we were talking about God, and you had to go each side of the room was like strong belief.
00:22:19.680 --> 00:22:21.279
I remember this, right?
00:22:21.519 --> 00:22:29.920
It was and then it was like, and I was the the non-believers, it was me in a corner with like another lawyer and like two scientists or something.
00:22:30.960 --> 00:22:31.920
Yeah, right, something like that.
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And I was like, Yeah, well, that tracks, right?
00:22:34.640 --> 00:22:36.480
And I found this so interesting.
00:22:36.720 --> 00:22:45.839
So Andrew Huberman, podcaster, also neuroscientist, and then there are a couple other guys whose names I can't quite remember at this exact moment.
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Serious scientists, okay, also like hugely faith-based people.
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Like Andrew Huberman gets down on his knees every night and prays.
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And I was like, I heard him on a podcast like a week or two ago talking about it.
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And he's like, Yeah, I prayed before this podcast.
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Like, I asked God to give me humility and blah, blah, blah.
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And I was like, huh.
00:23:14.240 --> 00:23:15.680
So it is an interesting.
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I mean, we're obviously not going to solve like the question of like the meaning of the world and God today, but it is a very interesting thing to me to because I I think that is an interesting concept of being able to accept and like really live in a science-based world, but yet bring that like into your life.
00:23:41.119 --> 00:23:48.799
It's like something where you extend he and he, I'm not saying he wasn't raised in it, but he did not have it for many, many, many years.
00:23:49.200 --> 00:23:52.480
It is like he recently brought it into his life.
00:23:53.039 --> 00:23:59.440
Maybe you need like a grounding of something that feels like you're not solving it logistically.
00:23:59.759 --> 00:24:00.480
Yeah, I don't know.
00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:02.079
I just I think it was fascinating to me.
00:24:02.400 --> 00:24:04.960
Well, that's amazing, and it's good to know that you can have both.
00:24:05.200 --> 00:24:05.599
Yeah.
00:24:05.759 --> 00:24:13.440
So anyway, but I was just thinking about Mary and like wow, like I mean, obviously, I am sure she is hurting horribly, but that would be such a coverful.
00:24:15.440 --> 00:24:16.880
Yeah, what's happening?
00:24:17.119 --> 00:24:18.000
Yes, agreed.
00:24:18.079 --> 00:24:20.799
And I'm sure every day is different, probably for her.
00:24:21.039 --> 00:24:21.680
Yeah.
00:24:22.240 --> 00:24:26.160
Um, what is going on with Justin Whitney?
00:24:27.519 --> 00:24:29.759
I think that is a bunch of bullshit.
00:24:30.160 --> 00:24:30.720
All a play.
00:24:30.799 --> 00:24:34.480
I apparently they're like legally separated now in real life, in like real time.
00:24:34.720 --> 00:24:34.960
Right.
00:24:35.039 --> 00:24:37.440
So it's possible that I'm completely wrong.
00:24:37.680 --> 00:24:38.079
I don't know.
00:24:38.240 --> 00:24:42.079
But I mean, they they obviously love each other.
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Yeah.
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And I mean, I think she's a fucking train wreck half the time.
00:24:48.319 --> 00:24:48.480
She is.
00:24:48.720 --> 00:24:51.440
I mean, I like I she just, you know, whatever.
00:24:51.759 --> 00:24:59.039
Um, but I just think, you know, the whole thing where like, you know, I have you, I'm gonna move upstairs to the other bedroom.
00:24:59.200 --> 00:25:10.960
Yeah, the guest bedroom thing is like very I mean, I guess the idea being like we're not gonna uproot our lives completely, but then she he's like, we're gonna have to tell the kids, and she's like, Do we?
00:25:11.119 --> 00:25:16.480
Like, I think they would know if you're like not sleeping in your marital bed.
00:25:16.880 --> 00:25:18.720
Yeah, I just I don't get it.
00:25:18.880 --> 00:25:24.880
I mean, I know there's whatever there is between the two of us, the two of them, and then obviously it's like disappointment.
00:25:25.039 --> 00:25:28.559
Although I don't understand why why is she blaming him?
00:25:29.039 --> 00:25:38.880
He went, he made the move to go into business with whoever they went into business with that like fucked them.
00:25:39.599 --> 00:25:44.720
Oh that was his call, that was his like meet, his whatever.
00:25:44.960 --> 00:25:47.920
She like says in this episode, but she talked more about it last season.
00:25:48.000 --> 00:25:55.279
Like, she wanted to go this way, and he was like, it makes more sense for us to go this way, and she trusted him and it fucked them.
00:25:56.079 --> 00:26:05.039
I'm not sure that that's exactly the reason that they were like buying things off of Alibaba and selling them, but I'm not sure that's the reason why her business didn't make it either.
00:26:05.119 --> 00:26:08.559
Because but something that he did was not good, right?
00:26:09.359 --> 00:26:11.279
Right, and their business went on.
00:26:11.680 --> 00:26:13.119
How much money do you think they make?
00:26:13.839 --> 00:26:14.799
On an episode.
00:26:14.880 --> 00:26:18.160
Well, that's like what's so funny when they all talk about like how poor they are.
00:26:18.559 --> 00:26:19.200
Yeah.
00:26:19.599 --> 00:26:23.759
I mean, I would assume per se you it's like we can find this out.
00:26:23.920 --> 00:26:25.039
How much does I mean?
00:26:25.119 --> 00:26:26.960
I feel like they're all making money.
00:26:27.119 --> 00:26:30.640
Well, also they're like in like they make money on Instagram.
00:26:31.039 --> 00:26:31.359
Right.
00:26:31.519 --> 00:26:34.799
I mean, like, not like Lee Saving, because they obviously have their businesses.
00:26:34.880 --> 00:26:36.319
And even Heather has a pretty strong.
00:26:36.559 --> 00:26:40.160
I mean, her businesses are a real business, Heather.
00:26:40.480 --> 00:26:41.119
Yeah.
00:26:42.160 --> 00:26:49.440
This says Whitney Rose makes about$15,000 an episode.
00:26:51.599 --> 00:26:52.079
Right.
00:26:52.240 --> 00:26:53.920
Well, that's not that much money.
00:26:54.160 --> 00:26:56.480
I mean, but then you get all the extra stuff.
00:26:56.720 --> 00:27:04.160
You know, she goes to do Watch What Happen, she goes to whatever, she goes to a to do watch what happens or uh the fan things.
00:27:04.640 --> 00:27:05.200
Yeah, like Bravo.
00:27:05.599 --> 00:27:12.559
I don't think they get paid to do that, but they do Instagram ads, they're on commercials, like they're fine.
00:27:13.200 --> 00:27:22.000
Right, because I'm just saying if there's 10 episodes in a season and that's$15,000, well, there's way more than 10 episodes in a season, there's like 20, there's like 17 to 20.
00:27:22.240 --> 00:27:24.240
Okay, but still, like the way they live their life.
00:27:24.480 --> 00:27:27.119
Well, yes,$300,000 a year isn't going to cover it.
00:27:27.839 --> 00:27:41.200
What's so annoying about all the, I mean, not Salt Lake 100%, but like what's annoying about some of these new franchises is like the idea of the real housewives was that these people were independently wealthy.
00:27:41.359 --> 00:27:43.680
That's why we wanted to know what they were doing.
00:27:44.319 --> 00:27:44.720
Right.
00:27:45.039 --> 00:27:46.559
Like, look at Beverly Hills.
00:27:46.720 --> 00:27:57.839
Like, those people are actually, they don't give a fuck about I mean now you have people like Darique coming in here who like are having their homes foreclosed on them, but like Lisa, um, Vanderkopp, wealthy.
00:27:58.240 --> 00:27:59.759
Kyle Richards, wealthy.
00:28:00.240 --> 00:28:01.519
Rina, wealthy.
00:28:01.680 --> 00:28:04.480
Like, right there, they're not, they'll cash the check or they won't.
00:28:04.559 --> 00:28:06.480
Like, their lives aren't changing.
00:28:06.799 --> 00:28:09.359
That's the point of housewives.
00:28:09.519 --> 00:28:14.559
I don't want to see people who who are struggling to make money.
00:28:14.720 --> 00:28:15.599
No offense.
00:28:15.839 --> 00:28:17.200
Like, I don't want to fucking see them.
00:28:17.279 --> 00:28:18.720
I don't give a fuck what you're doing.
00:28:19.039 --> 00:28:19.759
I agree.
00:28:19.920 --> 00:28:20.880
What's the fun in it?
00:28:21.119 --> 00:28:21.599
What's the fun?
00:28:21.680 --> 00:28:22.960
Well, I'm I can just live my own.
00:28:23.839 --> 00:28:24.160
Right.
00:28:24.240 --> 00:28:26.000
Well, because it's a fine line.
00:28:26.160 --> 00:28:32.720
Because it's people that are independently wealthy, but it also has to be people who want to put themselves in front of the camera.
00:28:32.799 --> 00:28:37.440
Like But don't you remember the story about they tried to find uh they wanted to do like a real housewise of the main line.
00:28:37.680 --> 00:28:37.920
I know.
00:28:38.079 --> 00:28:39.519
And everybody was like, no.
00:28:40.160 --> 00:28:44.319
The rich people don't want to be seen, they don't want to know people to know them.
00:28:44.720 --> 00:28:44.880
Right.
00:28:44.960 --> 00:28:50.079
It's very they're wealthy in the way that I want to be wealthy, which is I don't want anyone to know me.
00:28:50.319 --> 00:28:50.960
Right.
00:28:51.759 --> 00:28:52.240
Right.
00:28:52.559 --> 00:28:57.359
But it's very interesting because these like new, we're just kind of like welcoming, which I understand.
00:28:57.440 --> 00:29:03.759
Like at a certain point you have a cast of people and you kind of just have to like they're trying to see what they got what they can put together.
00:29:04.000 --> 00:29:15.039
And the drama is what is the most important, obviously, but like it really started as like a showing, like a show of wealth, and we've definitely moved a little bit away from that.
00:29:15.279 --> 00:29:19.599
Well, yeah, I mean, look, Rhode Island is just like all about like how much shit can happen.
00:29:19.839 --> 00:29:20.160
Right.
00:29:20.319 --> 00:29:30.000
Well, there are some of them that have like I think not to say some of them don't have money, but I'm just saying it's it's less about kids rich right.
00:29:30.480 --> 00:29:34.319
She's a rich boyfriend, but she didn't, she wasn't actually rich, clearly.
00:29:34.640 --> 00:29:37.920
It's less about rich people and more about cat fighting.
00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:39.200
I mean, I hate to say that exactly.
00:29:39.519 --> 00:29:46.559
Which look, that is obviously what's interesting, but we also watch it for the bags and the shoes and the cars and the houses.
00:29:46.880 --> 00:29:47.039
Right.
00:29:47.200 --> 00:30:01.519
I mean, when Teresa's buying furniture and she's just like with the cash, I'm just so I mean, I realize I mean it's obviously I know what happened to her, but I mean, it's literally insane watching her spend money.
00:30:01.839 --> 00:30:03.359
It's fantastic.
00:30:03.680 --> 00:30:05.440
Like, that's the joy.
00:30:06.000 --> 00:30:07.200
Yeah, yeah.
00:30:07.920 --> 00:30:16.799
I will say, like, even OC, like I'm watching, I'm watching current OC, like these women are rich.
00:30:17.119 --> 00:30:17.440
Right.
00:30:17.599 --> 00:30:19.519
Like, I that's what I want to see.
00:30:19.920 --> 00:30:21.119
I want to see people with the city.
00:30:21.279 --> 00:30:22.640
Well, Bronwyn's rich.
00:30:23.759 --> 00:30:25.440
Bronwyn's rich.
00:30:26.000 --> 00:30:28.559
I guess depending on what happens with time, she'll get a piece of it.
00:30:28.720 --> 00:30:39.039
I mean, like I said, but also who knows what level like I don't know what it is to live in like Park City.
00:30:39.519 --> 00:30:40.640
Well, it's not inexpensive.
00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:46.960
I'm not saying it's inexpensive, I'm just saying like they don't live in Beverly Hills, like there's a different level of whatever.
00:30:47.279 --> 00:30:49.920
And are they all in Park City or are they in Salt Lake?
00:30:50.160 --> 00:30:51.759
I meant Salt Lake.
00:30:52.160 --> 00:30:53.920
Cheaper in Salt Lake than Park City.
00:30:54.160 --> 00:31:02.079
Well, meanwhile, speaking of Salt Lake, the new girl, Ashley Quai, Quay, whatever her fucking name is.
00:31:02.240 --> 00:31:02.400
Right.
00:31:02.559 --> 00:31:04.079
She apparently hit it.
00:31:04.319 --> 00:31:06.480
Well, she has no idea what her husband does.
00:31:07.119 --> 00:31:08.079
She's so dumb.
00:31:08.319 --> 00:31:10.640
I looked at wait, meanwhile, I'm Googling it.
00:31:10.799 --> 00:31:12.559
No one can tell me what this man does.
00:31:12.720 --> 00:31:13.680
Like, Google.
00:31:14.160 --> 00:31:16.319
They don't even know his last name.
00:31:16.880 --> 00:31:17.680
That's insane.
00:31:17.839 --> 00:31:18.559
Wait, I don't understand.
00:31:18.880 --> 00:31:19.839
It's very confusing.
00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:21.680
I cannot figure it out.
00:31:22.160 --> 00:31:25.200
I the she's not gonna like.
00:31:26.720 --> 00:31:30.160
I loved when Bronwyn was like, why is she wearing that?
00:31:30.319 --> 00:31:32.640
Because, like, literally, why is she wearing that?
00:31:33.200 --> 00:31:36.799
It was I can already tell that I'm not gonna like her.
00:31:37.039 --> 00:31:37.279
Yeah.
00:31:37.440 --> 00:31:38.240
She's I don't know.
00:31:38.319 --> 00:31:39.599
They just, you know, they're just like that.
00:31:39.680 --> 00:31:43.839
I'm sure the showrunners are like, we need somebody to bring some action in here.
00:31:44.079 --> 00:31:48.400
Well, and I like the connection between like her and Whitney, that it's Whitney.
00:31:48.799 --> 00:31:50.240
Do you remember when Sherry died?
00:31:50.400 --> 00:31:50.880
The friend?
00:31:51.039 --> 00:31:51.279
Yes.
00:31:51.359 --> 00:31:52.079
It's her sister-in-law.
00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:53.680
That's her sister-in-law, right?
00:31:53.920 --> 00:31:54.559
Sister-in-law.
00:31:54.880 --> 00:31:58.400
I like that there's a connection because I hate when they just bring random ass fucking.
00:31:58.720 --> 00:31:59.200
Random people.
00:31:59.920 --> 00:32:03.680
But she seems very annoying and not someone that I'm gonna like.
00:32:03.839 --> 00:32:04.000
Yeah.
00:32:04.319 --> 00:32:04.720
But we'll see.
00:32:05.440 --> 00:32:05.759
We'll see.
00:32:05.920 --> 00:32:12.640
So anyway, that's our little housewives, yes, whatever side note and side note and side note that we have there.
00:32:13.359 --> 00:32:16.480
Um, a couple other things that I wanted to discuss.
00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:19.039
My birthday's coming up.
00:32:19.359 --> 00:32:19.680
It is.
00:32:20.079 --> 00:32:20.720
I'm turning 30.
00:32:21.680 --> 00:32:22.559
I love that video.
00:32:22.880 --> 00:32:44.160
So it's a big birthday, and I had this like whole big idea for like what I was gonna do for a gift and all this stuff, and I've just found that like I hate like pressure around buying something, like that I feel like it needs to be a big thing.
00:32:44.240 --> 00:33:00.480
So I'm like trying to make it this thing that I don't actually want because I had this whole idea that I was gonna make this charm necklace and I was gonna buy the base necklace, and then I was gonna have everyone who wanted to buy me a gift, not like everyone had to, but anyone who wanted to buy me a gift, like I was gonna say, I'm building this charm necklace for my 30th birthday.
00:33:00.799 --> 00:33:03.920
Two weeks into the research of like what necklace I'm buying, and blah blah blah.
00:33:04.000 --> 00:33:05.920
I'm like, I don't even fucking like charm necklaces.
00:33:06.559 --> 00:33:13.200
I was just I mean, I I was just like trying to make I found the I found the idea interesting because you don't seem like a charm girl.
00:33:13.440 --> 00:33:21.519
I'm just like, I'm and I like the adornment of it, but I'm just like I'm not gonna wear that every day, like in my sweatpants, and like what I'm gonna take it on.
00:33:21.759 --> 00:33:23.839
Like, it's just it's so not me.
00:33:24.319 --> 00:33:24.640
Yeah.
00:33:24.799 --> 00:33:27.920
And it got me thinking, and then I'm like, okay, so like what do I want for my birthday?
00:33:28.079 --> 00:33:32.640
And I'm like, I don't want, I don't think I want like one thing for my birthday.
00:33:32.799 --> 00:33:42.799
I guess I could want like a tennis necklace or like but I maybe in my I was gonna buy myself a Chanel bag, like a classic flap.
00:33:42.960 --> 00:33:45.200
I'm like, where the fuck am I carrying that?
00:33:45.359 --> 00:33:47.519
I don't even carry a bag, period.
00:33:48.559 --> 00:33:50.319
I grab my keys and my phone.
00:33:50.559 --> 00:33:51.680
Yeah, I hear you.
00:33:51.920 --> 00:33:56.640
And I'm just like, not that I need to eat, uh eat.
00:33:56.799 --> 00:34:01.119
Not that I need I'm like my cake in my head because that was gonna be my next comment.
00:34:01.279 --> 00:34:02.319
Well, that is important.
00:34:02.640 --> 00:34:07.839
Not that I need to have like some big gift, but I also wanted to be able to say, like, this is my 30th birthday.
00:34:07.920 --> 00:34:09.039
I've bought my something, my brother.
00:34:09.280 --> 00:34:12.960
I was trying to remember what I got for my 30th.
00:34:13.199 --> 00:34:14.159
I don't think.
00:34:18.320 --> 00:34:19.119
Did you get it?
00:34:19.280 --> 00:34:26.239
That would have been I did for you, not for Jake.
00:34:26.800 --> 00:34:27.039
Right?
00:34:27.360 --> 00:34:34.719
No, I got the necklace that I eventually took and changed into well, it's the silver, now it's silver.
00:34:35.199 --> 00:34:35.519
Where is that?
00:34:35.679 --> 00:34:37.679
But I took it off that it's in my drawer.
00:34:37.840 --> 00:34:38.320
How do you know?
00:34:38.559 --> 00:34:41.519
I should find a way to because now I wear gold.
00:34:41.760 --> 00:34:43.039
But you can mix and match.
00:34:43.119 --> 00:34:44.320
It's a beautiful glitch.
00:34:44.559 --> 00:34:45.039
I should add it.
00:34:45.119 --> 00:34:46.960
It is, it's beautiful, or give it to me.
00:34:49.679 --> 00:34:56.719
Anyway, um, so I don't know what I'm gonna do, and maybe it's just gonna be nothing.
00:34:56.960 --> 00:34:58.800
But I am throwing myself a birthday party.
00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:00.159
I mean throwing myself a birthday party.
00:35:00.480 --> 00:35:01.039
It's dramatic.
00:35:01.119 --> 00:35:02.480
We're gonna have a party at my house.
00:35:02.719 --> 00:35:03.599
You have a party!
00:35:04.079 --> 00:35:11.280
Yes, and Peter had this like amazing idea because obviously I'm gonna get a birthday cake, but I'm like a huge please ignore.
00:35:11.840 --> 00:35:13.679
I just outed myself by turning.
00:35:13.760 --> 00:35:15.360
I'm cleaning out my closets.
00:35:15.599 --> 00:35:17.199
I'm gonna do that later, but nobody saw it.
00:35:18.960 --> 00:35:20.000
Okay, whatever.
00:35:20.079 --> 00:35:21.119
I'm letting like my mom.
00:35:21.519 --> 00:35:23.119
Nobody could see anything through it.
00:35:23.519 --> 00:35:24.079
Anyway.
00:35:24.400 --> 00:35:25.440
Is there anything I want?
00:35:27.360 --> 00:35:28.559
Come take a look.
00:35:28.800 --> 00:35:29.840
What is it?
00:35:30.079 --> 00:35:31.840
It's like a lot of random stuff.
00:35:31.920 --> 00:35:35.360
There's some sweatshirts, there's some shoes, there's some sweaters.
00:35:36.320 --> 00:35:37.920
I definitely don't need sweatshirts.
00:35:38.000 --> 00:35:46.000
Since I went to, I started looking at because I'm gonna move my stuff, my you know, winter stuff up and get rid of all my shorts and my t-shirts.
00:35:46.079 --> 00:35:46.719
Yeah.
00:35:47.119 --> 00:35:57.280
And I have in like the bathroom closet, because there's no room in my closet in my room, a whole um shelf of sweatshirts.
00:35:57.360 --> 00:36:01.760
And in my bath, and in my closet in my bedroom, I have a whole shelf of sweatpants.
00:36:02.000 --> 00:36:07.599
And in the closet downstairs, I have another shelf of sweatpants and sweatshirts.
00:36:07.760 --> 00:36:11.360
So it's pretty clear to me I don't need any more sweatshirts and sweatpants.
00:36:11.599 --> 00:36:12.000
I know.
00:36:12.159 --> 00:36:16.800
Well, that's why it was like funny over the summer when we went to LBI.
00:36:17.199 --> 00:36:19.440
I'm all every year I want to buy a sweatshirt.
00:36:19.519 --> 00:36:21.679
And Peter's like, you have to get rid of two.
00:36:22.559 --> 00:36:24.159
In fact, I need to travel today.
00:36:24.559 --> 00:36:24.719
Oh.
00:36:24.880 --> 00:36:31.199
He was like, if we buy two sweatshirts, we have to get rid of two because like they just sit and collect dust.
00:36:31.760 --> 00:36:33.360
So whatever, we bought a sweatshirt.
00:36:33.440 --> 00:36:34.320
I never got rid of them.
00:36:34.400 --> 00:36:37.119
But I literally have you worn that yet?
00:36:37.440 --> 00:36:37.760
No.
00:36:38.559 --> 00:36:41.360
That is that sweatshirt that he gave you a hard time.
00:36:41.679 --> 00:36:42.000
Right.
00:36:42.239 --> 00:36:43.519
No, he didn't give me a hard time.
00:36:43.599 --> 00:36:46.639
He would he just didn't want to go to the store with me.
00:36:46.800 --> 00:36:50.000
Well, right, but then he put it on and I never saw him take it off the rest of the time.
00:36:50.239 --> 00:36:51.199
Yeah, because it was the best sweatshirt.
00:36:51.280 --> 00:36:51.519
It's the best.
00:36:51.840 --> 00:36:53.599
It's a great sweatshirt I had to bring in.
00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:56.239
I wish I'd gotten it, but I wanted to get a new LBI.
00:36:56.400 --> 00:36:56.559
Yeah.
00:36:56.800 --> 00:36:58.559
Because I hadn't had one in a long time.
00:36:58.880 --> 00:37:08.800
Which meanwhile, like I have a couple that I kept, but I have in our room upstairs two shelves of sweatshirts.
00:37:09.039 --> 00:37:16.480
And then downstairs in our extra closet, I have two shelves of sweatshirts and a bin of sweatshirts.
00:37:16.639 --> 00:37:18.320
I have so many fucking sweatshirts.
00:37:18.480 --> 00:37:19.039
How many sweatshirts?
00:37:19.119 --> 00:37:20.559
I see, I think you might have more than me.
00:37:20.719 --> 00:37:23.920
I genuinely think when we moved into this house, I had 150 sweatshirts.
00:37:24.079 --> 00:37:26.559
Peter was like, what is happening here?
00:37:26.639 --> 00:37:27.599
Like, what is going on?
00:37:27.760 --> 00:37:29.920
And I go through these phases where I wear one.
00:37:30.400 --> 00:37:30.639
Right.
00:37:30.800 --> 00:37:33.039
Like that's what I do, I wear one a million times.
00:37:33.519 --> 00:37:36.320
Or like I have like a rotation of three through the week.
00:37:36.559 --> 00:37:36.800
Right.
00:37:36.960 --> 00:37:39.440
And then I wash them all and then I just wear them all again.
00:37:39.679 --> 00:37:47.039
So these sweatshirts that I haven't touched since we moved into our home two years ago, I decided it was okay if I got rid of them.
00:37:47.360 --> 00:37:48.239
Okay, that's fair.
00:37:48.320 --> 00:37:49.519
I need no sweatshirts.
00:37:49.760 --> 00:37:50.320
Right.
00:37:50.639 --> 00:37:55.760
So all to say, that is why I have a collection of things behind me.
00:37:56.320 --> 00:37:57.039
That's totally fine.
00:37:57.440 --> 00:38:02.320
I was looking at birthday cake inspiration.
00:38:02.639 --> 00:38:06.960
Oh, Peter had this great idea of like what we're gonna do for the food for the party.
00:38:07.360 --> 00:38:07.679
Okay.
00:38:08.079 --> 00:38:13.360
I'm going to make, because those of you who know me know I love a charcuterie board.
00:38:14.400 --> 00:38:17.360
I'm going to make a table-sized charcuterie board.
00:38:17.760 --> 00:38:18.480
Oh, fun.
00:38:18.639 --> 00:38:19.440
I love that idea.
00:38:19.760 --> 00:38:22.480
And then we're going to do a dessert charcuterie board.
00:38:22.800 --> 00:38:23.599
Love that.
00:38:23.840 --> 00:38:31.840
And then I would like to do like easy, snacky things and obviously a birthday cake.
00:38:32.079 --> 00:38:35.280
I just don't know what I want to do for my birthday cake design.
00:38:35.599 --> 00:38:41.599
So just not like I don't know that she's like a design person, but she is an incredible baker.
00:38:41.840 --> 00:38:51.119
We should make a note to talk to my best friend Jill's friend Kristen, who bakes and did bakes for a lot of things.
00:38:52.000 --> 00:38:53.519
Oh, you are going to get it from Bakery House.
00:38:53.599 --> 00:38:53.679
Okay.
00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:54.159
Well, there you go.
00:38:54.880 --> 00:38:55.360
I just had to decide.
00:38:55.519 --> 00:38:58.960
I'm just saying if you right, if you were looking for something else.
00:38:59.760 --> 00:39:02.320
Well, they do they do designs.
00:39:02.719 --> 00:39:03.519
Yeah, no, no, no, no.
00:39:03.760 --> 00:39:04.000
Instagram.
00:39:04.400 --> 00:39:05.039
I know they do.
00:39:05.199 --> 00:39:08.480
I meant if you were looking for like something not their care.
00:39:08.880 --> 00:39:11.039
Definitely I'm looking for a bakery house cake, always.
00:39:11.360 --> 00:39:19.519
Although it is interesting, I will say, the last couple times, I would say the chocolate cake is better.
00:39:20.159 --> 00:39:24.320
I still don't want that, but it's chocolate cake is way moister.
00:39:27.119 --> 00:39:29.760
But I assume we're getting a vanilla cake with chocolate icing.
00:39:29.920 --> 00:39:37.840
I don't know if I'm gonna do chocolate icing because depending on what I want it to look like, it might have to be vanilla icing and then like chocolate on the inside.
00:39:38.000 --> 00:39:40.079
But I love their vanilla icing.
00:39:40.480 --> 00:39:41.280
Yeah, I do too.
00:39:41.360 --> 00:39:42.559
I just I love everything there.
00:39:42.719 --> 00:39:45.280
It could be it could literally be chocolate cake with vanilla icing.
00:39:45.360 --> 00:39:47.280
I would still love it, but it's not going to be.
00:39:47.760 --> 00:39:55.199
Um, anywho, so those are my thoughts on my upcoming birthday, and maybe I just won't get a present.
00:39:56.400 --> 00:39:59.199
I think you should wait until you see something that you love.
00:39:59.599 --> 00:40:00.239
That's what I'm gonna do.
00:40:00.320 --> 00:40:01.199
That's what I'm gonna do.
00:40:01.519 --> 00:40:01.679
Right.
00:40:02.000 --> 00:40:05.840
Also, um, we have started renovation on our basement.
00:40:06.320 --> 00:40:06.719
Fantastic.
00:40:06.960 --> 00:40:07.920
I wanted to update everyone.
00:40:08.000 --> 00:40:08.719
We're very excited.
00:40:08.800 --> 00:40:11.840
So hopefully my basement will be complete before my birthday party.
00:40:12.719 --> 00:40:14.000
Oh, do you think it will be?
00:40:14.159 --> 00:40:14.480
Yeah.
00:40:14.960 --> 00:40:15.920
Oh, that's exciting.
00:40:16.079 --> 00:40:17.360
Rug will be in and everything?
00:40:17.599 --> 00:40:18.960
I'm praying.
00:40:19.599 --> 00:40:20.400
Okay, all right.
00:40:20.960 --> 00:40:29.280
All right, the last thing that I wanted to discuss was my niche experience of losing a favorite artist.
00:40:31.440 --> 00:40:36.639
So if you know me, you know I love Beyonce and like she's the queen of my world, and that will never change.
00:40:36.800 --> 00:40:41.920
But I did used to have a second favorite artist, Drake.
00:40:42.719 --> 00:40:43.119
Right.
00:40:45.039 --> 00:40:58.719
And I will say, influenced greatly by my husband, who literally thinks Drake is like the corniest, losuriest person that has like ever lived on the planet, which unfortunately he is.
00:40:59.280 --> 00:40:59.840
You think?
00:41:01.039 --> 00:41:02.719
Yeah, I I think so.
00:41:02.800 --> 00:41:07.199
I I'm trying to I used to see Drake twice every tour.
00:41:07.440 --> 00:41:17.280
I saw him for the first time at Union Trance, oh no, at the TLA with dad doing Thank Me Later tour.
00:41:17.440 --> 00:41:21.760
Like, I I've seen Drake in concert so many times I like don't even couldn't even count.
00:41:22.400 --> 00:41:29.199
The last album of his that like really I still listen to today's honestly never mind.
00:41:29.440 --> 00:41:31.440
Every album before that I absolutely loved.
00:41:31.599 --> 00:41:35.840
Since then, he has turned into such a cornball loser.
00:41:36.159 --> 00:41:40.559
Yeah, he makes me like cringe more life.
00:41:40.719 --> 00:41:41.199
I love it.
00:41:41.599 --> 00:41:42.639
Fantastic album.
00:41:43.119 --> 00:41:44.480
He literally makes me cringe.
00:41:44.960 --> 00:41:56.880
And I just saw he put out like this video with Sexy Red for an a song that came out on one of his three albums that he dropped on the same day, all of which suck.
00:41:58.000 --> 00:41:59.119
Oh, that's bad.
00:41:59.360 --> 00:42:03.760
Um and it was literally like it was making my skin crawl.
00:42:03.840 --> 00:42:07.199
That's how corny he was, and it's just devastating to lose a favorite.
00:42:07.679 --> 00:42:10.079
He's just kind of like, yeah, he's desperately trying.
00:42:10.320 --> 00:42:14.159
He's and like I don't think everyone feels that way, but I really do.
00:42:14.320 --> 00:42:18.480
And it's really sad that I can't enjoy him the way that I used to.
00:42:18.719 --> 00:42:20.400
Well, you can still listen to the older albums.
00:42:20.639 --> 00:42:30.079
I do, it just it doesn't quite hit the same because I just Well, we talked it because of how you feel about him now.
00:42:30.159 --> 00:42:33.280
I mean, like, that's like the conversation we have about like, are you allowed to?
00:42:33.360 --> 00:42:38.079
I mean, very different, but like, are you allowed to listen to Ryan Adams anymore?
00:42:38.719 --> 00:42:41.360
No, different, not the same.
00:42:41.679 --> 00:42:45.280
And dad would always say you have to set the art separate the artist from the art.
00:42:45.679 --> 00:42:48.960
Yeah, but like I I loved Drake.
00:42:49.440 --> 00:42:51.280
I loved his music, but I loved him.
00:42:51.440 --> 00:42:56.800
Like my cake and my 21st birthday cake was said Drake is my baby daddy on it.
00:42:56.960 --> 00:42:58.480
Like I loved him.
00:42:58.880 --> 00:43:00.960
Yeah, so it's a tough loss for me.
00:43:01.119 --> 00:43:07.840
And I was just thinking about how much that has changed and how I'll probably never see him in concert again.
00:43:10.000 --> 00:43:10.880
Probably not.
00:43:11.840 --> 00:43:12.480
So yeah.
00:43:13.280 --> 00:43:13.920
R.I.P.
00:43:14.800 --> 00:43:16.559
Even though he's well and alive.
00:43:17.119 --> 00:43:17.360
Yeah.
00:43:17.760 --> 00:43:19.519
Just rest in peace to my love for him.
00:43:20.079 --> 00:43:21.199
Rest in peace to my love.
00:43:21.599 --> 00:43:22.159
So sorry.
00:43:22.719 --> 00:43:23.679
I'm sorry for Drake.
00:43:23.840 --> 00:43:24.800
He's his loss.
00:43:25.280 --> 00:43:26.400
That's a fact.
00:43:26.639 --> 00:43:27.039
Right?
00:43:27.280 --> 00:43:27.920
Yeah.
00:43:28.320 --> 00:43:33.760
Um do you wanna comment further?
00:43:34.079 --> 00:43:34.320
No.
00:43:34.559 --> 00:43:36.800
Since we haven't, you're done with Ed Sheeran.
00:43:37.119 --> 00:43:39.199
I can't talk about anything that we've talked about in the past.
00:43:39.280 --> 00:43:41.039
So, like, please don't bring up Sydney Sweeney.
00:43:41.119 --> 00:43:41.840
Please don't bring up Sweet Sweet.
00:43:42.000 --> 00:43:44.639
I'm not talking, I'm just Okay, I'm done with that.
00:43:44.960 --> 00:43:52.079
Um I did have a whole there's a lot of shit going on, which I don't know if anybody cares about.
00:43:52.159 --> 00:43:55.360
And we could actually talk about like a real thing that I wanted to talk about.
00:43:55.440 --> 00:43:59.679
But I did, you know, there's so much stuff going on in like all that beauty stuff that went.
00:44:00.079 --> 00:44:03.199
On in like the last week or so, which I thought was completely fascinating.
00:44:03.599 --> 00:44:04.239
Right.
00:44:04.639 --> 00:44:06.960
So which of the things?
00:44:07.280 --> 00:44:16.880
Well, there's the Wise, Jones Road, YSL, Dominique thing, where they all basically copied each other except for YSL.
00:44:17.280 --> 00:44:20.480
And um, you know, Molly Sims, who I actually really like.
00:44:20.800 --> 00:44:21.199
Me too.
00:44:21.440 --> 00:44:23.599
Like, did this, I was pissed.
00:44:23.679 --> 00:44:26.719
I so Wise Beauty is a brand.
00:44:26.960 --> 00:44:40.719
She has, just for anybody who doesn't listen to the ridiculous podcast that I listen to, um, has a like concealer that's whatever the hell it's called, like wake up or something like that.
00:44:40.960 --> 00:44:43.599
Wise Beauty line is Molly Sims beauty line.
00:44:43.840 --> 00:44:44.719
Correct.
00:44:45.039 --> 00:44:59.440
Um, and then Jones Road, which is Bobby Brown's new beauty brand since she sold Bobby Brown, came out with a you know skin concealer or something called like wide awake, named the same thing.
00:44:59.519 --> 00:45:01.280
But like it wasn't trademarked.
00:45:01.440 --> 00:45:01.760
Right.
00:45:02.000 --> 00:45:07.280
And she says her her people did a search and didn't see anything.
00:45:07.760 --> 00:45:17.679
Um so the thing that bothered me about that whole thing, so obviously Wise Booty got like all bent out of shape and you're copying and yada yada.
00:45:18.559 --> 00:45:19.599
And two things.
00:45:19.679 --> 00:45:23.519
One, Molly Sims, I'm sorry, you're like an adult ass woman.
00:45:23.760 --> 00:45:34.639
If you actually have a problem with Bobby Brown, like a fucking icon in the beauty industry, and you think they copied, you I mean, that's why I think it's such bullshit PR.
00:45:34.880 --> 00:45:39.840
You get your people on the phone with her people and say, hey, what the fuck?
00:45:40.079 --> 00:45:42.079
You just launched this, it's our product.
00:45:42.159 --> 00:45:55.280
We have instead, she did this very like tearful, overwrought like Instagram story where she was like practically crying, and I can't believe this icon, this legend, somebody I looked up to stole our shit, and yada yada yada.
00:45:55.760 --> 00:45:56.639
And I was like, really?
00:45:56.719 --> 00:46:00.000
Like that's how it reminded me of something that I can't quite remember.
00:46:00.320 --> 00:46:06.400
And I I was like, that's not how we do business, that's how we create more story about ourselves.
00:46:06.719 --> 00:46:06.960
Yeah.
00:46:07.280 --> 00:46:07.679
Right.
00:46:07.920 --> 00:46:09.440
And I mean, that's fine.
00:46:09.519 --> 00:46:10.880
That's what people do these days, right?
00:46:10.960 --> 00:46:11.840
I get it.
00:46:12.079 --> 00:46:14.400
Um, but then was very funny.
00:46:14.559 --> 00:46:20.320
What came out after that was Y's Beauty number one used to just be Y-S-E.
00:46:21.119 --> 00:46:29.679
And Y S L basically said to them, uh, we're gonna sue you because you're you're and the the way they do their letters is very similar.
00:46:30.000 --> 00:46:32.000
Y S L like serif.
00:46:32.639 --> 00:46:33.280
Yeah.
00:46:33.840 --> 00:46:39.760
So they've now changed Y S E beauty to Y-I-S E beauty.
00:46:40.000 --> 00:46:41.760
Because that's like how you say it.
00:46:42.079 --> 00:46:42.719
Right.
00:46:43.039 --> 00:46:46.159
So little pot kettle.
00:46:46.480 --> 00:46:59.360
And then when everybody started digging into the concealers, they realized that there was not only does Wise Beauty's concealer pen look exactly like the YSL Touche Clot concealer.
00:46:59.599 --> 00:47:02.480
Not that there aren't a million of them that are like that.
00:47:02.639 --> 00:47:04.559
There are, and it's not trademark and anybody.
00:47:04.960 --> 00:47:06.000
There are a million.
00:47:06.320 --> 00:47:09.920
Well, everybody sort of does, maybe not that click click, right?
00:47:10.079 --> 00:47:11.119
Like anyway.
00:47:11.360 --> 00:47:13.199
Did Wise one have a click?
00:47:13.519 --> 00:47:14.639
I don't know.
00:47:14.960 --> 00:47:16.880
But it looks almost exactly the same.
00:47:16.960 --> 00:47:18.960
I think it's even in a gold package.
00:47:19.119 --> 00:47:20.159
I could be wrong about that.
00:47:20.239 --> 00:47:22.639
Maybe it's in the white because that's all of her packaging is white.
00:47:22.719 --> 00:47:23.440
And I love her products.
00:47:23.519 --> 00:47:24.559
I'm not knocking her stuff.
00:47:24.639 --> 00:47:26.400
I think they're fantastic.
00:47:26.639 --> 00:47:40.400
Um, and then it turned out somebody else was like, oh no, there's this Dominic Beauty or something like that, who also previously, like three years ago, before Wise got in the business, launched a concealer called Wide Awake.
00:47:40.480 --> 00:47:42.880
So they're all copying each other, which whatever.
00:47:42.960 --> 00:47:44.239
That's what happens, right?
00:47:44.480 --> 00:47:52.719
But then on the heels of that, Fenty, Huda Booty, Beauty, and uh who else was it?
00:47:53.039 --> 00:47:58.239
I think was like the original and Glow Recipe, and then apparently also now Bubble, which is another one, which I didn't know.
00:47:58.480 --> 00:47:58.960
I don't even know.
00:47:59.199 --> 00:48:04.719
They're all launching this new iPad thing, by the way.
00:48:05.039 --> 00:48:12.960
Well, I'll tell you, it's very funny because I watched the woman who owns oh, what skincare brand does she own?
00:48:13.360 --> 00:48:16.480
Charlotte Porter, maybe is her name.
00:48:16.639 --> 00:48:17.039
I don't know.
00:48:17.119 --> 00:48:18.320
She owns a skincare brand.
00:48:18.400 --> 00:48:18.480
Okay.
00:48:18.639 --> 00:48:22.559
And she was basically explaining how so basically what they do is they all land a thing.
00:48:22.639 --> 00:48:44.880
If anybody buys um eye like daily eye mask things, you usually get them in a pot and you have to like stick your finger in and sort of like pull it out of like all the jelly, and it's very messy and they're all folding in on each other, and you end up with like half of the stuff all over your hands while you're trying to pull the iPad out, unless if they're like the drier, like adhesive y ones, right?
00:48:46.239 --> 00:48:54.639
So they all came up with this formulation where it's like you sort of turn the pot and it dispenses like one at a time.
00:48:54.800 --> 00:48:55.280
Yeah.
00:48:55.519 --> 00:49:04.639
Um, but they all literally launched this same new innovative packaging, like within like not minutes, but on the heels of each other.
00:49:05.039 --> 00:49:24.000
And what somebody is saying is that whoever the manufacturer is who's doing that or packager or whatever, nobody ever said, Oh, by the way, like it must be one manufacturer, like oh, two other it's not Rihanna coming to the table going, I had this amazing idea for an iPad.
00:49:24.400 --> 00:49:33.039
Let's it's the manufacturer says, Oh, we just got this new type of packaging, or they're doing the innovating.
00:49:33.280 --> 00:49:33.599
Right.
00:49:33.760 --> 00:49:39.920
So they clearly sold it to all these different brands, not saying, like, oh, by the way, we're selling it to this other brand too, because why would they do that?
00:49:40.079 --> 00:49:41.280
I think that's how it worked then.
00:49:41.920 --> 00:49:42.159
Right.
00:49:42.320 --> 00:49:58.239
The woman that I was talking about, and I at some point it came back to me what brand she has, basically said, doing it like that, because then it all has to sort of like go into like a sliceable block that can be peeled off when you burn the thing.
00:49:58.800 --> 00:50:03.280
Yeah, it you're basically it's like I don't know whether it's saying it doesn't have as much stuff in it.
00:50:03.519 --> 00:50:06.400
It's saying like it you end up deactivating all the product by doing that.
00:50:06.719 --> 00:50:08.159
Now I don't know if that's true or not.
00:50:08.719 --> 00:50:23.440
So basically, what you're saying is they have to figure out how to do that without it being in a block, it has to be in its own sheet because every time you open up your little tin, you're releasing like it's all right.
00:50:23.519 --> 00:50:31.679
But if it's sitting in right, but if it's sitting in the glop, the eye eye patches, then it's that's why it stays active.
00:50:31.920 --> 00:50:33.199
Yeah, yeah, whatever.
00:50:33.360 --> 00:50:35.280
I just thought like that was it's just like very interesting.
00:50:35.360 --> 00:50:37.280
I'm apparently my algorithm has switched.
00:50:37.840 --> 00:50:43.840
I haven't been working out because I haven't been working out because my back isn't bothering me so much, so I'm not getting which mean.
00:50:44.400 --> 00:50:47.119
I'm gonna take a week off of working out this week because my back is not.
00:50:47.280 --> 00:50:48.000
That's probably a good idea.
00:50:48.559 --> 00:50:49.679
Yeah, well, you should.
00:50:49.840 --> 00:50:51.280
It's like time to back off.
00:50:51.599 --> 00:50:52.800
It's so hard.
00:50:53.039 --> 00:50:53.360
I know.
00:50:53.519 --> 00:50:54.639
Take care of your body though.
00:50:55.280 --> 00:50:55.760
Look at me.
00:50:55.920 --> 00:50:57.199
I'm a fucking cripple.
00:50:57.440 --> 00:50:57.679
I know.
00:50:57.840 --> 00:50:58.880
It's really upsetting to me.
00:50:59.119 --> 00:51:00.320
I just need to be upsetting to me.
00:51:00.639 --> 00:51:01.920
Just not for one week.
00:51:02.239 --> 00:51:02.559
Yeah.
00:51:02.719 --> 00:51:04.559
Well, you the minute you start feeling better.
00:51:04.800 --> 00:51:11.840
Um so the other two things that were sort of on my mind as we approach 51 minutes into this podcast.
00:51:12.159 --> 00:51:16.400
Okay, but I don't want to talk about the rape.
00:51:16.639 --> 00:51:16.960
What?
00:51:17.119 --> 00:51:18.639
No, we're not talking about that.
00:51:19.760 --> 00:51:21.440
There were two things.
00:51:22.239 --> 00:51:24.400
And I the one I think is an interesting thing.
00:51:24.559 --> 00:51:26.000
We could talk about it for a little bit.
00:51:26.639 --> 00:51:44.000
We were talking about, and we won't disclose why we are talking about it, whether or not men are more or need to be more obsessed with women than women are with men.
00:51:44.800 --> 00:51:47.679
Well, like in terms of inside of a relationship.
00:51:48.320 --> 00:51:51.679
Yes, I don't I don't mean like out out there on the streets.
00:51:52.079 --> 00:51:54.079
No, inside of a relationship.
00:51:56.000 --> 00:51:57.599
Yeah, it's an interesting conversation.
00:51:57.760 --> 00:52:10.239
Here's the thing I think by nature, women are like and I'm not saying the first like three to six months of a relationship where everybody's like gaga.
00:52:11.119 --> 00:52:11.599
Right.
00:52:12.159 --> 00:52:14.639
Because I think everybody's gaga, or you should be gaga.
00:52:14.880 --> 00:52:15.840
I agreed.
00:52:16.639 --> 00:52:22.960
It's funny because I do kind of think that, but like I think I'm equally as obsessed with Peter as he is with me.
00:52:23.519 --> 00:52:28.559
Maybe we're still in the earlier, like maybe this is like for 10 years down the line.
00:52:28.639 --> 00:52:48.320
I just think like unfortunately, women are by nature, I'm not saying this is of every single, you know, this is a stereotype, like we're more loyal and we crave, you know, stability and like settling down and family and whatever.
00:52:48.480 --> 00:52:49.679
Like that's what we're searching for.
00:52:49.760 --> 00:52:56.159
So like when we find a partner, we we're not like straying left, right, and center.
00:52:56.320 --> 00:52:57.840
We're not like looking for the next best thing.
00:52:57.920 --> 00:53:02.800
Whereas I think like the male persona is more like that.
00:53:03.199 --> 00:53:12.719
So there has to be a little bit of an edge of like the man being a little bit more obsessed with the woman, otherwise they would just go stray.
00:53:13.679 --> 00:53:14.079
Yeah.
00:53:14.159 --> 00:53:14.639
I don't know.
00:53:14.719 --> 00:53:18.079
I like, I don't, I I think that it is true.
00:53:18.239 --> 00:53:24.079
I also wonder if any part of that, and I realize you're not in this place yet, so maybe that's why you're still obsessed.
00:53:24.159 --> 00:53:30.320
And obviously, in my current relationship, it's not like I have like kids and like a whole like family situation going on.
00:53:30.639 --> 00:53:33.760
I just think that I don't know.
00:53:34.000 --> 00:53:40.559
I think that women tend to like prioritize and whatever their life, it's like their partner.
00:53:40.719 --> 00:54:07.199
I'm not saying they're not like in love with them and love them, whatever, but they they manage and juggle other things that maybe they don't re- I don't know why it is, but I feel like they can sometimes like men retain their singular focus on like their wife or girlfriend or whoever, where women end up like I mean, I don't want to say like multitasking.
00:54:07.280 --> 00:54:11.360
I don't know what exactly it is, but I feel like there's something to that part of it as well.
00:54:11.599 --> 00:54:22.159
Okay, and maybe that's just like I don't know whether it's like physical attraction, because I think, and I'm not saying women are not like physically attracted to their partners.
00:54:22.400 --> 00:54:26.880
I'm saying I think men tend to operate more from a physical attraction standpoint.
00:54:27.039 --> 00:54:45.119
So it's like that becomes like more of like a well, and I also think unfortunately, and I love women, I'm just saying, like we unfortunately, I mean, our bodies go through a lot of change when we, God willing, have children.
00:54:45.599 --> 00:54:48.639
We, you know, we age differently than men.
00:54:49.280 --> 00:54:49.920
Right.
00:54:50.320 --> 00:54:59.760
And, you know, we need men to be obsessed with us so that when we're going through all of those changes, they're not like see ya.
00:55:00.880 --> 00:55:02.239
No, which is terrible.
00:55:02.480 --> 00:55:03.440
I don't like that.
00:55:03.599 --> 00:55:04.159
I don't like that.
00:55:04.559 --> 00:55:33.199
But I do think from like a biological standpoint, I just think it's like a male, I just think it it like goes back to my idea of like I feel like a I don't know, I feel like a guy can like date, date, date, and then it's like in somewhere, it's not saying they decide to like fall in love with somebody, but like it clicks, and then it's like they're like in.
00:55:34.079 --> 00:55:35.519
Now maybe that doesn't make sense.
00:55:35.599 --> 00:55:36.800
You don't think that that's true?
00:55:37.119 --> 00:55:37.360
No.
00:55:38.639 --> 00:55:39.920
I don't.
00:55:41.760 --> 00:55:48.320
I mean, look, everybody always says, like, oh, it's better for the I agree with this statement, it's better for the guy to be.
00:55:49.280 --> 00:55:58.559
Well, all I said, the conversation that we were having specifically was that if you're early on in your relationship Well, that I agree with across the board.
00:55:58.719 --> 00:56:02.719
If you're not obsessed with someone, and you're not obsessed with someone, what do you mean?
00:56:03.280 --> 00:56:03.679
Be done.
00:56:03.760 --> 00:56:05.119
Right, be done.
00:56:05.679 --> 00:56:09.519
And clearly, look, like in the scheme of life, Peter and I are five years into our relationship.
00:56:09.679 --> 00:56:19.199
Like, it's not like we're we don't have 20 years of marriage behind us, but like we're kind of still in that you guys kind of do because you spend so much.
00:56:19.440 --> 00:56:20.719
I've never met two people.
00:56:20.880 --> 00:56:22.719
I mean, Mark and I spent a lot of time together too much.
00:56:22.960 --> 00:56:32.079
I was we literally did actually counting inside the house together yesterday, and I was going to sleep last night, going like it's like insane.
00:56:32.239 --> 00:56:33.920
We just had like a joy of a day.
00:56:34.719 --> 00:56:35.440
I'm so happy.
00:56:36.079 --> 00:56:46.960
I mean, it's amazing, and I'm not like trying to be annoying, I'm just saying, like I do think probably the most like I think about Don and Randy all the time.
00:56:47.119 --> 00:56:53.599
This is my childhood best friend Hannah's parents, like just so in love with each other.
00:56:54.320 --> 00:56:59.360
Always my whole life, and I always saw it and like loved that.
00:56:59.440 --> 00:57:06.480
Like, I thought that that was so I don't like when like people like rag on each like I get that there's a banter to it.
00:57:06.880 --> 00:57:07.840
I completely understand.
00:57:08.079 --> 00:57:10.800
And I'm sure they have banter like sure, I'm sure.
00:57:10.960 --> 00:57:18.639
But I'm just saying, like, I think it's like lovely to be obsessed with like outwardly in love with your partner.
00:57:18.800 --> 00:57:20.639
Like, otherwise, what are you doing?
00:57:20.960 --> 00:57:23.039
Yes, what's in life?
00:57:23.360 --> 00:57:24.320
I think they are.
00:57:24.960 --> 00:57:25.119
Right.
00:57:25.280 --> 00:57:34.320
I think as time goes by, I'm gonna say I feel like maybe this is more my generation than yours.
00:57:34.400 --> 00:57:35.039
I don't know.
00:57:35.280 --> 00:57:42.960
I feel like assuming the guy stays, he's I guess technically assuming as in love.
00:57:44.400 --> 00:57:45.840
Women do cheat on men.
00:57:46.079 --> 00:57:46.400
Right.
00:57:46.480 --> 00:58:10.639
But if that guy, if they if you're in a 20-plus-year relationship, I'm not saying the woman isn't in love with her husband, of course they are, but I think sometimes that like after you've you know raised a family, maybe done more than you what you thought your share of that, which is I'm saying this may be a generational thing, maybe a different question.
00:58:11.360 --> 00:58:15.119
Like the man kind of comes to like, wow, like my wife did that.
00:58:15.440 --> 00:58:15.679
Right.
00:58:15.760 --> 00:58:22.880
That's and it's or it's just like I like as in love with you her as the day that you know they first fell in love.
00:58:23.039 --> 00:58:30.079
Whereas like the wife sometimes can be like, oh my god, like I love you, but you know, I don't know.
00:58:30.159 --> 00:58:32.960
I mean, maybe that's not true, and maybe everybody has the I love you.
00:58:33.519 --> 00:58:36.960
I mean, I do think that you specifically were raised.
00:58:37.360 --> 00:58:47.280
I mean, I don't know what grandmom and grandpa Steve's relationship was like at all, but grandmom and pop up's relationship was very that was very pop-up.
00:58:47.599 --> 00:58:50.480
He was very critical at him.
00:58:50.960 --> 00:58:55.119
And my pop-up was like, I couldn't live a day on this earth without your mother.
00:58:55.199 --> 00:58:56.400
Like literally, yeah.
00:58:56.559 --> 00:59:00.480
I asked him, she was being miserable to him one day as she could be.
00:59:00.559 --> 00:59:02.079
She just sniffed and snapped at him on.
00:59:02.480 --> 00:59:04.079
You said can't live with them, right, Bobby?
00:59:04.480 --> 00:59:05.679
He goes, Oh no, I couldn't have to be able to get them.
00:59:05.760 --> 00:59:06.960
Oh no, I couldn't be your mother.
00:59:07.199 --> 00:59:07.440
Right.
00:59:07.519 --> 00:59:08.000
I made a joke.
00:59:08.079 --> 00:59:10.400
I was like, you know what they say, Bob, you can't live with them, can't live without the other.
00:59:10.480 --> 00:59:11.119
So that's what I'm saying.
00:59:11.199 --> 00:59:16.559
I think that you were like raised with that example, and you saw that you've seen that example.
00:59:16.880 --> 00:59:31.840
But I will say, with my mom and my dad, it was she was, I mean, look, she did a lot, he didn't do a whole lot, she took care of everything, and she worked, she was like and she was always him.
00:59:31.920 --> 00:59:32.400
It was different.
00:59:32.559 --> 00:59:35.760
Well, but I didn't see there was a power struggle, right?
00:59:35.920 --> 00:59:45.760
But I didn't see in my eyes growing up, I did not see her enamored, but I saw him enamored with her.
00:59:46.239 --> 00:59:47.199
No way.
00:59:47.599 --> 00:59:48.320
Oh yeah.
00:59:48.559 --> 00:59:50.079
Oh yeah, which is weird.
00:59:50.400 --> 00:59:53.679
He had no eyes for us, he only had eyes for my mom.
00:59:53.920 --> 00:59:58.239
So you're saying in but what I'm saying, your dad did exactly what I'm saying.
00:59:58.880 --> 01:00:02.639
Your dad was bitching a blue streak every day about whatever the hell she did.
01:00:02.960 --> 01:00:08.639
This is why men need to be more obsessed with women, because your dad did exactly Grandpa Steve did exactly what I'm saying.
01:00:10.639 --> 01:00:12.000
Well, right, but then he strayed.
01:00:12.239 --> 01:00:12.960
He strayed.
01:00:13.119 --> 01:00:17.599
So he was not more obsessed with like grandma would have stayed with him until she died.
01:00:18.000 --> 01:00:18.639
Yes.
01:00:18.880 --> 01:00:26.079
Yes, and I but I think situationally also I think he he also I think is very like cliche in a way.
01:00:26.159 --> 01:00:32.480
Like, I think he got tired of her, frankly, bitching at him all the time.
01:00:32.800 --> 01:00:35.679
And kind of look, I I I give it to her.
01:00:35.840 --> 01:00:39.039
She raised four kids, triplets, and an older son.
01:00:39.199 --> 01:00:48.000
Yeah, she did everything, and she worked, and he like you could barely get him to spend an afternoon with a kid.
01:00:48.159 --> 01:00:50.800
We had to like have like a special child of the week.
01:00:51.119 --> 01:00:53.679
I was like, special child of the week, it's not like spend the afternoon.
01:00:54.320 --> 01:00:54.960
That's what I'm saying.
01:00:55.039 --> 01:00:56.239
That's a very generational thing.
01:00:56.480 --> 01:01:03.199
Very, and so I think that there's probably like more, and that's not everybody in my generation, right?
01:01:03.599 --> 01:01:08.639
But I think that, you know, she, you know, there was a laundry list of shit she was annoyed about.
01:01:08.800 --> 01:01:13.920
Although you're right, she was completely just like thought he was the smartest and the whatever.
01:01:14.719 --> 01:01:14.960
Yeah.
01:01:15.199 --> 01:01:15.440
Right.
01:01:15.599 --> 01:01:19.519
But I think she was also like really impressed by him, and that meant a lot to my mom.
01:01:20.800 --> 01:01:29.199
Like it was, it was less like obsession in like uh the way that like I'm obsessed with Peter, like, because we have such a we have so much fun.
01:01:29.280 --> 01:01:47.760
Like, I never thought I would like love hanging out with like a straight man the way that I do with my husband, but like she was obsessed with him in like a the way you're like obsessed with like a teacher, like the way that you think someone is like so smart and impressive and fantastic, and that is not good.
01:01:48.239 --> 01:01:48.559
Right.
01:01:48.800 --> 01:01:49.760
I agree.
01:01:50.239 --> 01:01:58.559
I agree, and and then she, I think he ended up, which again is something that happens, I think, a lot with uh men, especially of that generation.
01:01:58.719 --> 01:02:08.320
He became somewhat successful and was talking about and everybody around him, everybody around him professionally was like, you know, bowing and scraping.
01:02:08.400 --> 01:02:15.360
Yeah, and he would go home and his uh for good reason his wife was like giving him shit.
01:02:15.599 --> 01:02:18.400
Yeah, and he was like, ah, I'm not interested in this.
01:02:18.559 --> 01:02:19.199
Yeah.
01:02:19.679 --> 01:02:23.840
So I I mean, you know, it but it it's an interesting thing.
01:02:23.920 --> 01:02:25.519
I mean, I think I do at the end of the day.
01:02:25.840 --> 01:02:26.480
Things are different.
01:02:26.719 --> 01:02:27.679
Things are very different.
01:02:27.840 --> 01:02:45.119
So like I think that that specific situation, or it doesn't, I'm not saying it doesn't happen because I'm sure it does, but I think it happens less because like it happened very long when I was much there is much more emphasis on like the paternal involvement in the family home now.
01:02:45.280 --> 01:02:51.360
It's just like societally, it's like an expectation, whereas it obviously was not like that.
01:02:52.800 --> 01:03:00.320
But all of this to say, like, try to be obsessed with your partner for as long as humanly possible.
01:03:00.960 --> 01:03:06.000
It is true, and like find you reasons to be obsessed.
01:03:06.320 --> 01:03:07.840
That's a good thought.
01:03:08.000 --> 01:03:08.559
I like that.
01:03:08.719 --> 01:03:09.920
Find reasons to be obsessed.
01:03:10.000 --> 01:03:11.280
Look, I'm obsessed right now.
01:03:11.360 --> 01:03:17.360
I mean, not obsessed, but like I've been talking about this is so stupid, but I I have to say it was so wonderful.
01:03:17.599 --> 01:03:20.480
I've been talking about needing to descale my Nespresso.
01:03:20.880 --> 01:03:27.199
I take the that there's like a package that you get from Nespresso and you have to like put the chemical in and whatever.
01:03:27.440 --> 01:03:29.679
I I mean, I'm very bad about doing it.
01:03:29.760 --> 01:03:35.679
And I've taken it out on every every weekend for like the last three weekends and then not done it and put it away.
01:03:35.840 --> 01:03:42.079
And every weekend I say to Mark, please don't let me get through the weekend without scaling.
01:03:42.320 --> 01:03:43.119
Descaling.
01:03:43.199 --> 01:03:46.159
And I didn't do it yesterday, even though I was literally home all day.
01:03:46.400 --> 01:03:46.719
Right.
01:03:46.880 --> 01:03:50.559
And I came upstairs to go into the office to to pod.
01:03:50.880 --> 01:03:52.719
And I was like, he was upstairs in the bedroom.
01:03:52.800 --> 01:03:54.400
And I'm like, what are you doing up there?
01:03:55.039 --> 01:03:56.480
And he's like, Oh, I'm just doing some things.
01:03:56.639 --> 01:03:57.679
I said, What are you doing?
01:03:57.920 --> 01:04:01.599
He's like, Well, I de-scaled an espresso, which I use.
01:04:01.840 --> 01:04:02.880
He doesn't even use it.
01:04:03.039 --> 01:04:05.599
Yeah, he gets his, he drinks his stoke out of the fridge.
01:04:05.760 --> 01:04:09.920
Yeah, and I was like, Oh my gosh, thank you so much.
01:04:10.079 --> 01:04:15.199
I mean, that was weird big acts of service, people.
01:04:15.519 --> 01:04:17.599
Yeah, he's he's a big act of service.
01:04:17.679 --> 01:04:18.880
He's he's a big act of service.
01:04:19.119 --> 01:04:22.400
That's not his love language, but he does do everything for me.
01:04:22.559 --> 01:04:23.440
I'm bad at that.
01:04:23.599 --> 01:04:24.960
Like he was sick this weekend.
01:04:25.039 --> 01:04:27.280
I don't think I even made him a meal.
01:04:27.519 --> 01:04:29.760
Oh, well, that's terribly horrible.
01:04:30.239 --> 01:04:33.039
Well, we had soup, we heated it up in the in the stove.
01:04:33.119 --> 01:04:37.280
And I the one night I probably could have offered to cook him his eggs, and I did not even.
01:04:37.360 --> 01:04:38.880
He made his and I made mine.
01:04:39.119 --> 01:04:40.320
Wasn't very nice of me.
01:04:40.480 --> 01:04:42.559
I'm I think I'm not good at that.
01:04:42.719 --> 01:04:52.480
I guess I'm lucky because he would, I mean, even on a random Sunday or Saturday or whatever day, if he'll bring me like my food on a tray up onto the third floor.
01:04:52.880 --> 01:04:54.000
Don't I know it?
01:04:54.480 --> 01:04:56.320
And I do not do that.
01:04:56.800 --> 01:04:57.519
So I'm very lucky.
01:04:57.920 --> 01:04:58.960
Don't I know it?
01:05:02.320 --> 01:05:03.760
You are thank you, honey.
01:05:04.159 --> 01:05:05.519
But he's very lucky as well.
01:05:06.239 --> 01:05:12.079
Yes, he is, but he I but as you said, I should find new reasons to be obsessed with him.
01:05:12.400 --> 01:05:15.519
That's the answer to a happy life.
01:05:16.639 --> 01:05:17.280
What's that mean?
01:05:17.679 --> 01:05:20.159
I don't have like all the other things like boggin' weed.
01:05:20.239 --> 01:05:21.039
Like you're obsessed with me.
01:05:21.119 --> 01:05:23.199
You have a lot of like obsession already.
01:05:23.280 --> 01:05:23.840
Yeah.
01:05:24.559 --> 01:05:26.400
I am obsessed with you and Jake.
01:05:26.639 --> 01:05:27.039
I know.
01:05:27.199 --> 01:05:29.760
And my dogs, but that's not gonna change.
01:05:30.239 --> 01:05:31.360
Right, exactly.
01:05:31.760 --> 01:05:34.400
But you know, maybe you like it should be I should be, I don't know.
01:05:34.480 --> 01:05:35.840
I should find reasons to be obsessed.
01:05:35.920 --> 01:05:37.840
I'm gonna go with the D scaler today.
01:05:38.239 --> 01:05:39.519
I love that.
01:05:40.639 --> 01:05:43.039
I think that's a great idea.
01:05:44.880 --> 01:05:49.119
Um, so I'm I'm curious about what other people think about the whole obsession.
01:05:49.519 --> 01:05:52.079
I kind of feel like I've come around now and I feel differently.
01:05:52.159 --> 01:05:58.400
Like I used to be like, yes, the man needs to be the most obsessed, but now I'm like, I think there needs to be an equal share of obsession.
01:05:58.800 --> 01:06:01.679
It could be it could Look and feel different.
01:06:02.079 --> 01:06:05.599
I'm trying to think about relationships of people that I know.
01:06:05.920 --> 01:06:15.039
And I would say that on the whole well, there's a couple that go either way that I can't tell.
01:06:15.360 --> 01:06:18.480
But like think about your friends.
01:06:18.800 --> 01:06:20.000
Even obsession?
01:06:21.840 --> 01:06:23.119
I feel like no.
01:06:23.519 --> 01:06:26.719
You mean like my friends who are in relationships right now?
01:06:27.199 --> 01:06:27.760
Yes.
01:06:28.400 --> 01:06:32.480
You seem to be thinking of someone specific because my answer wants to be yes.
01:06:32.880 --> 01:06:33.599
Equal?
01:06:33.840 --> 01:06:34.719
Equal.
01:06:35.039 --> 01:06:37.039
Oh, that's interesting.
01:06:37.519 --> 01:06:39.599
I won't name names because I think that's weird.
01:06:43.360 --> 01:06:44.400
Um, no, I don't know.
01:06:44.880 --> 01:06:46.000
I mean, I think it's beautiful.
01:06:46.079 --> 01:06:49.840
Like, you look at Uncle Paul, he like cries anytime he talks about Eileen.
01:06:49.920 --> 01:06:56.719
Like he thinks that she like walks the earth, but like her obsession is shown in the fact that she runs that shit.
01:06:56.880 --> 01:06:57.280
Yes.
01:06:57.519 --> 01:06:59.039
She takes care of it all.
01:06:59.280 --> 01:07:00.000
Yes, she does.
01:07:00.400 --> 01:07:02.000
And she doesn't really complain about it.
01:07:02.239 --> 01:07:04.079
So like that's her level of obsession.
01:07:04.159 --> 01:07:04.719
You know what I'm saying?
01:07:04.880 --> 01:07:06.800
That's her, she's very, very active service.
01:07:07.039 --> 01:07:07.280
Right.
01:07:07.360 --> 01:07:09.679
So I'm just saying, I'm not saying that they have to look the same.
01:07:09.840 --> 01:07:18.079
I'm just saying, like, you have to be both be at the same level, I think, for a long-standing relationship.
01:07:18.960 --> 01:07:19.599
Yeah.
01:07:20.239 --> 01:07:25.920
And it's lovely if it stays at the height the whole time.
01:07:26.159 --> 01:07:28.559
I'm not sure if that's realistic.
01:07:28.800 --> 01:07:30.400
Oh, you'll but that changes.
01:07:30.559 --> 01:07:31.679
That'll change over time.
01:07:31.840 --> 01:07:36.239
I mean, there's different, you know, when you have kids, you'll both be obsessed with your kids.
01:07:36.480 --> 01:07:37.280
But like, right.
01:07:37.440 --> 01:07:46.000
You know, so it the focus is a little bit less on you, but it's your partner and and in their part in the case.
01:07:46.159 --> 01:07:46.719
Whatever.
01:07:47.039 --> 01:07:49.119
All to say, be obsessed with your partner.
01:07:49.280 --> 01:07:50.239
That's the Okay.
01:07:50.400 --> 01:07:51.599
That's the watchword of the day.
01:07:51.920 --> 01:07:52.400
Obsession.
01:07:52.960 --> 01:07:53.679
Yes, seriously.
01:07:53.760 --> 01:07:58.320
I don't really know where that came from, but um, okay.
01:08:00.320 --> 01:08:00.800
Are you really?
01:08:01.360 --> 01:08:02.639
One last oh, yeah.
01:08:02.800 --> 01:08:04.000
One last question for you.
01:08:04.079 --> 01:08:09.679
Because I heard somebody say something, and this is not a serious topic, but we'll close out with this silly little tidbit.
01:08:09.840 --> 01:08:10.079
Okay.
01:08:10.320 --> 01:08:13.840
How often, and you know you rarely wear makeup, so I guess it's a bad question.
01:08:14.079 --> 01:08:14.239
Correct.
01:08:14.480 --> 01:08:16.399
How often do you clean your makeup brushes?
01:08:16.960 --> 01:08:26.560
When I was regularly wearing makeup, I was washing my makeup brushes probably twice a month.
01:08:27.199 --> 01:08:27.840
Wow.
01:08:28.239 --> 01:08:32.479
But like a quick wash, not like going through the whole process.
01:08:32.800 --> 01:08:34.800
Well, what does that mean, a quick wash?
01:08:35.119 --> 01:08:38.079
Just like an underwater with some soap.
01:08:38.880 --> 01:08:42.079
Like you use the sp like the makeup brush soap type of thing?
01:08:42.319 --> 01:08:45.199
I never use the makeup brush soap because my face is so sensitive.
01:08:45.279 --> 01:08:48.880
So I was always using my face cleanser on my brushes.
01:08:49.199 --> 01:08:50.239
Oh, interesting.
01:08:50.479 --> 01:08:54.800
Because I was like, if I'm gonna clean them, I might as well be getting some skincare in there as well.
01:08:55.119 --> 01:08:56.960
So, what's the next step to doing that?
01:08:57.199 --> 01:08:59.680
What else would you do in terms of cleaning them?
01:08:59.920 --> 01:09:03.439
Well, people get like the pad out and they brush them.
01:09:03.520 --> 01:09:07.279
Like I was just doing it like on my hand, like until the water ran clear.
01:09:07.600 --> 01:09:08.319
Oh, okay.
01:09:08.479 --> 01:09:08.960
I got it.
01:09:09.199 --> 01:09:14.159
And I had like a total of like seven to ten makeups on like so many different things.
01:09:14.239 --> 01:09:17.279
I had like my bra and I think I do it like once a year.
01:09:17.439 --> 01:09:19.359
Oh, well, that's disgusting.
01:09:20.079 --> 01:09:28.239
So I'd suggest somebody said, I mean, this person wears makeup, is somebody I see on Instagram, she wears a lot of makeup all the time.
01:09:28.560 --> 01:09:32.560
And she was saying that it was gross of her to only wash her brushes once a week.
01:09:32.720 --> 01:09:41.760
And I was like, and I I don't use them really during the week very much because whatever makeup I put on is right just my fingers.
01:09:42.079 --> 01:09:42.319
Right.
01:09:42.479 --> 01:09:44.880
But I definitely use them once a week, like if I'm going out on some.
01:09:45.119 --> 01:09:48.960
I'll probably say you could benefit from washing your brushes once a month.
01:09:49.600 --> 01:09:49.920
Okay.
01:09:50.159 --> 01:09:51.920
I'll just take that under advisement.
01:09:52.000 --> 01:09:53.439
I doubt for sure.
01:09:53.760 --> 01:09:56.399
Clearly, given that you just said you did it maybe once a year.
01:09:56.479 --> 01:09:57.279
Have you ever washed them?
01:09:57.600 --> 01:10:05.840
I just yes, I have like the Sephora stuff, and I like take them all and I soak them in the sink, and then I do what the house is.
01:10:06.000 --> 01:10:06.560
That's what I'm saying.
01:10:06.960 --> 01:10:08.720
That's I wasn't doing that whole thing.
01:10:08.880 --> 01:10:12.720
I was literally running them clear with a cleanser and then like leaving them on the sink.
01:10:12.800 --> 01:10:16.880
I would do it typically like on a Thursday night if I knew I was going out for the weekend.
01:10:17.199 --> 01:10:18.079
Oh, that's smart idea.
01:10:18.319 --> 01:10:22.960
Let them dry, and then by whatever Friday night or Saturday, they were clean.
01:10:23.359 --> 01:10:24.960
What do you think of it, yadum?
01:10:26.640 --> 01:10:27.520
Love it.
01:10:28.319 --> 01:10:29.680
I think it's eat them.
01:10:30.079 --> 01:10:30.479
Eat them?
01:10:30.720 --> 01:10:31.199
Yadum.
01:10:31.279 --> 01:10:32.159
I guess it's eat them.
01:10:32.479 --> 01:10:33.039
Yadum.
01:10:33.279 --> 01:10:33.520
Yeah.
01:10:33.760 --> 01:10:34.880
I don't know why I said that.
01:10:34.960 --> 01:10:35.279
I don't know.
01:10:35.359 --> 01:10:37.439
I've never heard them say Camille told me to get it.
01:10:37.600 --> 01:10:38.079
Is it great?
01:10:38.479 --> 01:10:39.760
No, it's supposed to be fantastic.
01:10:39.920 --> 01:10:48.560
It's like the new I have the butter mochi, and Kelly got the like a colored one, and it looks really cute on her.
01:10:48.880 --> 01:10:51.119
I want to get a one that's like a mauve.
01:10:51.520 --> 01:10:52.560
Get it on Amazon.
01:10:52.640 --> 01:10:53.680
That's where I got it.
01:10:53.920 --> 01:10:54.960
I like this one too.
01:10:55.039 --> 01:10:56.159
This is supposed to be really good.
01:10:56.399 --> 01:10:57.359
What is it?
01:10:57.840 --> 01:11:00.000
It's the um, it's for old people.
01:11:00.159 --> 01:11:00.960
The revision.
01:11:01.199 --> 01:11:02.560
It's for old people.
01:11:03.600 --> 01:11:08.560
It's got um, I think it's got like peptides and stuff in it.
01:11:10.000 --> 01:11:11.760
Oh, you know, we do them.
01:11:12.880 --> 01:11:15.600
Their stuff is supposed to be great on deals sometimes.
01:11:15.920 --> 01:11:16.159
Yeah.
01:11:16.479 --> 01:11:18.239
I've spent enough money on your deals lately.
01:11:18.479 --> 01:11:23.119
But like, why wouldn't you if we have them coming up, why wouldn't you buy it on sale?
01:11:23.359 --> 01:11:27.199
I think I I think I I missed it and I got this on Amazon.
01:11:28.319 --> 01:11:30.159
Well, next time I'll let you know.
01:11:33.359 --> 01:11:35.680
I did make some good purchases last past week though.
01:11:37.199 --> 01:11:37.439
You did?
01:11:37.840 --> 01:11:38.239
Just saying.
01:11:38.640 --> 01:11:38.800
Yeah.
01:11:39.439 --> 01:11:42.079
So anyway, that's all I have, sweetheart.
01:11:42.319 --> 01:11:42.640
Okay.
01:11:43.439 --> 01:11:44.640
I'm gonna go.
01:11:46.000 --> 01:11:48.479
I'm gonna go do my closets and see how many sweatshirts I have.
01:11:48.720 --> 01:11:49.359
Yeah, count.
01:11:49.439 --> 01:11:49.840
Let me know.
01:11:50.000 --> 01:11:51.920
I'll let you know how many I'm throwing away.
01:11:54.000 --> 01:11:55.359
It's pretty crazy.
01:11:56.560 --> 01:12:00.880
I did throw away basically my entire like dressy clothing collection.
01:12:01.840 --> 01:12:06.159
That has not been revamped more recent, like in in recent enough future.
01:12:06.560 --> 01:12:11.520
No, considering I have dresses that are 25 years old.
01:12:11.760 --> 01:12:14.000
Yeah, and like my prom dress.
01:12:14.720 --> 01:12:17.760
So I don't know why I was holding on to that.
01:12:18.000 --> 01:12:20.239
Someone recently asked me what I did like with my wedding dress.
01:12:20.319 --> 01:12:24.079
Obviously, I didn't have a dress, I wore pants, but I was like, oh, it's in my closet.
01:12:24.720 --> 01:12:29.680
Well, because when you have a wedding dress, I know you have to preserve box it up and preserve.
01:12:30.000 --> 01:12:33.600
Me, mom, like I would love you to find an opportunity to wear that outfit again.
01:12:33.760 --> 01:12:35.920
I don't know if I'll wear the outfit.
01:12:37.039 --> 01:12:38.960
I could definitely wear the pants.
01:12:39.520 --> 01:12:40.159
Yeah.
01:12:40.399 --> 01:12:43.119
You could wear the top with like jeans.
01:12:43.520 --> 01:12:45.119
Jeans, black silk pants.
01:12:45.359 --> 01:12:45.840
Agreed.
01:12:45.920 --> 01:12:46.960
Maybe I just will.
01:12:47.119 --> 01:12:48.000
I'll go cook it.
01:12:48.159 --> 01:12:49.920
I mean, you know what you should do?
01:12:50.159 --> 01:12:50.479
No.
01:12:50.720 --> 01:12:53.119
Wear it for your party! Absolutely not.
01:12:53.600 --> 01:12:56.560
Oh, honey, I think that'll be so great and fun.
01:12:56.800 --> 01:12:57.199
First of all.
01:12:57.439 --> 01:12:58.640
Are you gonna dress?
01:12:58.880 --> 01:13:00.960
Am I gonna wear my wedding?
01:13:01.439 --> 01:13:04.239
No, are you going are you going to be dressed up for your party?
01:13:04.640 --> 01:13:06.079
I'm gonna look cute.
01:13:06.399 --> 01:13:08.560
Don't worry about my outfit.
01:13:08.800 --> 01:13:09.520
I'm just curious.
01:13:09.760 --> 01:13:13.199
I need to go to the cobbler and get my boots fixed.
01:13:13.520 --> 01:13:15.439
I have like three pairs of shoes that needs to go there.
01:13:15.520 --> 01:13:16.800
You know where you're going, right?
01:13:17.199 --> 01:13:18.640
Oh, I figured you'd tell me.
01:13:18.880 --> 01:13:21.439
It's the one over in Ardmore down the road from.
01:13:21.760 --> 01:13:26.000
I think there's a good one in like by my old apartment.
01:13:27.520 --> 01:13:28.720
By your old apartment?
01:13:28.880 --> 01:13:29.520
Downtown?
01:13:29.760 --> 01:13:30.399
Yeah.
01:13:31.920 --> 01:13:32.560
Really?
01:13:32.800 --> 01:13:33.520
Is he still there?
01:13:33.600 --> 01:13:35.439
There used to be a guy on 19th or 20th Street.
01:13:35.520 --> 01:13:36.239
He's gone.
01:13:36.880 --> 01:13:38.640
He's on 20th.
01:13:40.079 --> 01:13:41.439
Oh, I don't know if he's still there.
01:13:41.760 --> 01:13:44.800
No, like next to the parking lot, you know where I'm talking about?
01:13:45.039 --> 01:13:46.640
Oh, is Oh, really?
01:13:46.800 --> 01:13:47.039
Yeah.
01:13:47.199 --> 01:13:48.399
Is that guy still there?
01:13:48.640 --> 01:13:49.840
Yeah, and he's good apparently.
01:13:49.920 --> 01:13:52.000
But if there's someone in Ardmore, obviously I'll go there.
01:13:52.319 --> 01:13:56.000
It it there I didn't I tell you the story where the I watched I was in there one day.
01:13:56.159 --> 01:13:56.800
It's it's the best.
01:13:57.039 --> 01:14:01.439
Because what whoever did your your Gucci loafers hate.
01:14:01.600 --> 01:14:02.640
Is that who did them?
01:14:02.880 --> 01:14:03.680
Why do you hate?
01:14:03.920 --> 01:14:05.680
There's like tap shoes on your shoes.
01:14:05.840 --> 01:14:09.039
Well, they put tap shoes on the bottom to get because I scuffed my front.
01:14:09.119 --> 01:14:10.000
There's no other way around them.
01:14:10.159 --> 01:14:11.520
It's definitely a better way to do that.
01:14:11.760 --> 01:14:17.279
Well, they could put like build up the entire bottom, but that's very expensive, so they just put taps on.
01:14:17.359 --> 01:14:22.000
I'm gonna have to go in there again because now there's to fix my zipper on my boot.
01:14:22.319 --> 01:14:26.399
Yeah, what I'm saying to you is I was there and a woman came in.
01:14:26.720 --> 01:14:30.720
She had obviously had smaller feet at some point.
01:14:30.880 --> 01:14:31.680
I don't know.
01:14:31.920 --> 01:14:39.199
She came in with her pair of boots, and her foot did not even begin to fit in the shoe.
01:14:39.760 --> 01:14:41.760
I mean, it wasn't even just a stretch.
01:14:42.000 --> 01:14:43.279
They brought out the guy.
01:14:43.439 --> 01:14:44.720
She's like, I love these.
01:14:44.800 --> 01:14:46.000
I need to be able to wear them.
01:14:46.159 --> 01:14:51.439
And I was like looking at her, I mean, she obviously had something going on, like some sort of like maybe diabetes-related condition.
01:14:51.520 --> 01:14:53.039
Like her feet were like swollen.
01:14:53.279 --> 01:14:53.600
Okay.
01:14:54.159 --> 01:14:55.359
I need to be able to wear these.
01:14:55.439 --> 01:14:56.720
You need to be able to get them in that.
01:14:57.039 --> 01:15:04.560
And literally, they got the guy to come out, and he's like bending down, and he's like, Okay, we can do it.
01:15:04.640 --> 01:15:05.439
And I was like, What?
01:15:05.600 --> 01:15:12.640
Now, obviously, I didn't see the finished product, but like they were literally gonna add like elastic panels to the sides of her shoes so she could get in them again.
01:15:12.720 --> 01:15:13.039
I know.
01:15:15.439 --> 01:15:16.960
They're great, yeah.
01:15:17.359 --> 01:15:20.560
Okay, sounds good.
01:15:20.880 --> 01:15:22.720
Love you, love you.