OVER DEZE AFLEVERING
What if the behavior that makes absolutely no sense from theoutside makes perfect sense from the inside? In today’s episode, Michelle explores what happens when a recurring problem meets the Transformational Coach. Instead of asking, “Why do you keep doing this?” we become curious aboutthe beliefs underneath the pattern.
Sometimes accountability and care have been placed onopposite sides of the equation. Sometimes helping, rescuing, waiting, or avoiding feels completely logical because of what we believe about leadership, relationships, or ourselves. Transformational coaching helps someone discover anew way of seeing, because sometimes the recurring problem doesn’t need another solution. It needs new awareness.
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Reflection Questions
What might a person believe that makes a recurring behaviorcompletely logical from within their current awareness?
When I see behavior that appears ineffective, can I remaincurious instead of wondering why the person has not changed it yet?
What assumptions about leadership, relationships, conflict,responsibility, or identity might be underneath the pattern I am hearing?
Am I helping the coachee discover a new way of seeing, or amI trying to give them my interpretation?
What recurring problem might no longer need anothersolution, but instead a new awareness?
