OVER DEZE AFLEVERING
Guest: Anomie Atkins, Fertility Coach & Founder of NEST Coaching Club
In this raw, radically honest episode, fertility coach Anomie Atkins joins Nicole for a sacred conversation on unconventional paths to parenthood, self-compassion during uncertainty, and leadership through authenticity.
A solo-mum-by-choice and guide for women and LGBTQIA+ folks navigating IVF and complex family building, Anomie shares how grief became her greatest teacher—and how doing less can lead to more joy, healing, and even conception.
Recorded on October 15th, National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day, this episode is both an act of remembrance and a roadmap for renewal.
In this conversation, Anomie shows us how to:
- Transform comparison into compassion
- Use judgment as discernment, not condemnation
- Embrace "the soft life" as a strategic advantage
- Move from isolation to understanding
- Practice self-compassion when life doesn't go as planned
Because healing isn't about trying harder. It's about allowing yourself to be.
Mic-drop moment: Anomie shares the story of a client who paused trying to conceive, took a holiday, and got pregnant—not because of the trip, but because she finally took the pressure off. Sometimes success comes when we exhale.
If you've ever felt stuck in a season of waiting—whether in fertility, business, or life—this conversation will meet you where you are and remind you: you're not broken. You're becoming.
This episode is dedicated to all who have loved and lost. You are remembered. Join the Wave of Light by lighting a candle at 7pm in your time zone.
Connect with Anomie:
Website: anomieatkins.com
Instagram: @anomieatkins
Connect with Nicole: payyourselffirstweekly.substack.com
Website: cpa-coaching.com
Instagram: @NicoleRichards718
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