# Pat Millea

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Ep89 Family from 30,000 Feet w/ Mike & Alicia Hernon

“Where there is no vision, the people perish."~ Proverbs 29:18 Why do my spouse and I fight over such trivial things?How can we be more connected in our marriage?How do we create a vision of hope for our family? In episode 89 of This Whole Life, hosts Kenna & Pat Millea welcome Mike & Alicia Hernon…

299 Lent with Crux Ambassadors Pat & Kenna Millea

AMDG. As Lent begins, Pat and Kenna Millea of the Martin Center for Integration and the This Whole Life podcast return to the Kolbecast – together this time! -- and talk about making Lent a fruitful season, even if it isn’t always pleasant. They also talk to us about their participation as particip…

Ep100 How to Actually Pray Together as a Couple (Without It Being Weird)

"Being connected to your spouse in prayer, even when things are hard, maybe especially when things are hard, is one of the best ways to know that person." ~ Pat Millea Why do so many couples want to pray together but never actually do it? What do you do when you feel too vulnerable, too proud, or …

Ep104 You Are Good: Even When You Don't Feel Like It

"You, friend, listening to this, watching this right now, you are good. Period." ~ Pat Millea What's the real difference between failing at something and believing you are a failure? Why does the world have a vested interest in convincing you your worth is something you have to go earn? What happe…

Ep105 How to Survive (and Actually Thrive) in the Early Years of Parenthood

"Day after day after day, you and I would just wake up and feel like we were underwater. Could not get our head above water, could barely breathe." ~ Pat Millea What does it actually take to survive the "fog of war" years of early parenthood without losing yourself or your marriage? Why might lett…

Ep108 What "Offering It Up" Actually Means (And When It Isn't Healthy)

"Getting help and offering it up are not mutually exclusive." ~ Pat Millea Does "offering it up" mean you're not allowed to also go to the doctor, take medication, or see a therapist? Is it possible to chase suffering in a way that's actually about proving something to yourself instead of uniting …

Ep109 I’m Married to a Marriage Therapist: Here’s What I’ve Learned

"There is always, always hope in any marriage, and I mean any marriage." ~ Pat Millea Is it actually okay for a Catholic couple, even ones who work in mental health, to go to marriage counseling? Why might your spouse asking to talk about feelings not be a criticism of who you are? Does having a s…

Ep110 Is Self-Care Christian?

"When you throw in the idea of self-care, that makes a lot of Christian people cringe and run away, because what it sounds like is self-interest, self-indulgence, and pride." ~ Pat Millea Is wanting rest actually a form of pride, or is refusing rest the real problem? What does the prophet Elijah, …

Ep111 Understanding the States of Grief Through Faith

"He's the perfect image of grief, in the sense of accepting, embracing, expressing the emotional sadness, and also having full trust and hope in the resurrection." ~ Pat Millea Why do grief "stages" set people up to feel like they're doing it wrong? Is it okay to be angry with God after a loss? Wha…

Ep112 What Does Mental Health Actually Mean?

"The point of mental health, the whole thrust of it, is not just to be at peace alone in a vacuum. It's to be in connection with the people and the God that I'm related to." ~ Pat Millea Why can't 100 mental health professionals agree on what mental health is? Why is the goal of mental health care …