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Have you ever found yourself having the exact same argument over and over again? One day it's about money, the next it's about chores, parenting, sex, or deployment communication. But even though the topic changes, the emotional pattern stays the same—with the exact same frustrations and the exact same painful ending.
If you've ever wondered why solving the topic never seems to fix the issue, please know that you are not alone and you are not broken. The truth is, the content often isn't the real problem. Most couples aren't having dozens of different fights; they're having the same fight over and over, just wearing different clothes.
In this episode of the Communicate & Connect Podcast, Dr. Elizabeth Polinsky breaks down the hidden patterns beneath conflict—like pursue-withdraw and criticize-defend—and explains why trying harder inside a pattern often makes the spiral worse.
>>> Read the show notes for this episode here.
Are you having the same conversation over and over? Many couples assume they have a communication problem when they're actually stuck in a relationship pattern that keeps creating the same conflict.
>>> Take the free Relationship Pattern Assessment to identify the pattern that may be keeping you disconnected and learn what to focus on next.