Red Flags, Green Flags and Balances

In Episode 58 of the PolySoCal Podcast, Alonzo Banx is joined by Noah and Kim for a lighter, blunt, and practical conversation about the red flags and green flags people notice when meeting someone new. From hygiene, authenticity, bragging, and money to consent, sobriety, communication, indecision, and learning how to read the room, the conversation looks at the small behaviors that can tell you a lot about someone very quickly. Kim brings a monogamous, poly-adjacent woman’s perspective, while Noah and Alonzo talk about what they have seen in poly, ENM, and play spaces. The result is less of a checklist and more of a conversation about being a decent adult: know what you want, be honest about who you are, respect consent, communicate clearly, and please, for everyone’s sake, wash your butt.

  Alonzo Banx, Noah, Kim