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Jessie Cruickshank: Well,
welcome to the ordinary
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discipleship Podcast. I'm Jesse
Cruikshank, and today I have
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with me my dear friend Daniel
Yang. Daniel and I have known
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each other. Gosh, I don't know.
I think we're going on 1112,
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years. I'm not
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Unknown: sure. Yeah,
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Jessie Cruickshank: but Daniel
and I knew each other three
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careers ago, and we have both
changed different seasons of
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life in the time. And for me,
Daniel has been one of those
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people in my life that is like a
spiritual brother to me. It
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doesn't matter what my season
is, what his season is. I always
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Daniel. I always feel connected
to you. You're always the Lord
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brings you to my mind. I pray
for you regularly, and so I
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don't know what that means in
the grand scheme of things,
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maybe, maybe we live in the same
cul de sac, although I don't
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think that we're like cul de sac
people, but in heaven, like
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maybe we live in the same
housing development. It's
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probably something cooler than a
cul de sac. But just feel like
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you, you've been part of my life
the last decade or so in this
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very spiritual brother kind of
way. And I'm so excited to
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introduce my audience to you and
the amazing work that you're
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doing with World Relief these
days. So welcome to the ordinary
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discipleship
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Daniel Yang: podcast that's so
cool, so special. Thanks. Jesse,
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yeah, I feel the same way. I'm
just scrolling through our text
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right now. I'm like, wow, you
know, it's just the the range of
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experiences and processing and
prayer in seasons that we've
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been through together, you know?
So that that is makes this
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conversation even, even more
special. And you know, the work
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that you're doing your gift mix
like, I feel like I'm always
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connected to people that have
like this, this, like, eclectic
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convergence of skill and life
story. So I think that's part of
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the reason why I was gonna say
quirky. But it's not a quirky
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thing. It's a eclectic, that's
my word eclectic. So
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Jessie Cruickshank: which could
also mean quirky,
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Daniel Yang: which? Well, I
mean, who else does wilderness
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experience in neuroscience and
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Jessie Cruickshank: not a lot of
people, but exactly. But will
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you introduce, introduce
yourself to our audience and
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share a little bit about the
work that you do with World
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Relief, and whatever backstory
you feel like you want to add to
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that. Yeah,
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Daniel Yang: yeah, yeah. So, as
you mentioned, I work for an
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organization World Relief as a
Senior Director of Global
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Mission and church movements.
And World Relief has been an
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organization that has been on
the front lines for over 80
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years, front lines of the result
of consequences of war,
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catastrophe, disaster. It's an
NGO. It's a humanitarian
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organization, but it's it's much
more than that. It is really the
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church being in the places that
is hardest in the world and in
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the United States for nearly
five decades, World Relief has
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helped churches work with
vulnerable immigrants, refugees,
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traumatized people who have come
to this country and then are
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trying to restart their life,
and I never had envisioned
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myself working for a
humanitarian mission
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organization like World Relief,
but it's always, it has sort of
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always been, I think, I guess, a
natural place for me to end up,
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because of my own family. Story
is former refugees from Laos and
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came to this country in the late
70s, 1979 and really just taking
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on multiple layers of identity,
whether that's a national
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identity as an American, we
became Christians through this
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process of refugee resettlement.
So there's a religious,
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spiritual, you know, shaping and
formation that happened in our
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refugee experience and then the
different contexts that I've
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lived in. You know, my parents
were resettled in East Moline,
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Illinois, which is kind of
rural, small town, cornfields
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Illinois, but very quickly moved
us into inner city, Detroit. If
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you all have seen the movie Gran
Torino, that gives you a good
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sense of, sort of how I grew up
ethnically I'm Hmong. And so
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that movie was about the Hmong
refugee immigrants that have
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kind of restarted their lives in
inner city, Detroit. So for me,
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I feel like my work. You know,
they say this about PhD
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research, that sometimes
research is me search, and maybe
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it's sort of kind of true that I
now work for World of leave
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because I'm I'm trying to, like,
make meaning of my story, if
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that makes sense, and this gives
me proximity to other people's
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stories to help me understand my
own story as well. So along the
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way, my wife and I, we got.
Married at 19. So that's
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another, you know, interesting
layer. We have five kids. I had
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my first career as an engineer,
and then eventually pastored,
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planted churches, missiology, so
all that, yeah,
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Jessie Cruickshank: you have
five beautiful children who what
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the oldest is in college, right?
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Daniel Yang: Oldest is now just
working, 24
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Jessie Cruickshank: Okay,
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Daniel Yang: and then my
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Jessie Cruickshank: dude, it's
it's a huge range. You're gonna
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be a parent forever.
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Daniel Yang: I know isn't that
crazy we were because the first
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three were like 2422 and 20 and
then there's a nine year gap
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between the third and fourth. So
we thought we were going to be
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empty nesters at 45
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Jessie Cruickshank: Yeah. What
happened to that plan?
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Daniel Yang: Well, you know, God
has his own way of writing your
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story. So, so I often joke with
people like I have two sets of
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children with the same spouse,
because it feels that way.
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Jessie Cruickshank: Well, yeah,
but your wife, Linda, is
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amazing. She's crazy. She at
least this time last year,
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worked also in refugee
resettlement,
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Daniel Yang: yes and Yep. She
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And so she also works for World
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has her there. So she works
directly with refugees looking
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for work. It's amazing. Like
her, she literally is helping to
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save lives by helping people
find work. And so, yeah, it's, I
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really love the work that she's
doing.
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Jessie Cruickshank: So it's so
beautiful. Like I remember we
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met being nerds trying to help
the church on a missiologist
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Council, and like trying to help
the church in North America see
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its neighbor, reach out to its
neighborhoods, reach out to the
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next generations. We nerded off
around Gen Z and church planting
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for a while, and now it seems
like life has taken us in this
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direction where we're not
trying. We're not only trying to
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help people love their neighbor,
but also love their enemy, love
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their friend, see who they're
called to even more broadly. And
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I remember, you remember Boston,
I'm sure, I'm sure you remember
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right? Like Boston gathering,
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Daniel Yang: yeah,
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Jessie Cruickshank: forge Ford
Foster was, was, I think it was
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pivotal in a lot of different in
multiple ways, but one of which
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is that your story actually
helped me understand my story
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and helped me and helped me name
some things that I couldn't have
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articulated before without you.
And you were sharing, and I know
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you, you know this, but, but you
were sharing the different
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perspectives and the different
narratives that exist in people
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groups in in America. So there's
the everything is getting worse.
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Narrative, like, like, of course
the rapture is going to come.
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It's so bad, and it's just
getting worse, and so Jesus has
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to come get us. So there's that
narrative. There's a narrative
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of, hey, the world is getting
better. It's growing and who God
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is for me in this this time. And
as you were naming these
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different narratives of these
different populations, and I'll
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have you share that
specifically, because I'm
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already screwing it up, what I
remember the most clear is that
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you shared what an immigrant and
a refugee narrative is. So an
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immigrant and a refugee coming
to America, how God has saved
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them, how God has helped them,
and of course, of course, God's
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for them. Of course, God's with
them. Coming out of these
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terrible circumstances that
causes somebody to be a migrant
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and a refugee that God is the
author of that story. For them,
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and the way that you described
it really named some things for
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me, because coming from a middle
of nowhere, Wyoming, and not
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feeling very connected to the
evangelical Christian
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establishment that I was serving
in vocationally like I didn't
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understand why they always
thought the world was ending. I
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didn't understand why they
always thought things were bad,
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because God saved me from my
life, and and and I, and growing
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up next to the reservation of
the Indian Reservation, I felt,
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I'd always felt like an
immigrant into evangelical
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Christianity, and so you named
some of those things for me, and
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I, I really appreciate that. So
so maybe kind of if you could
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share just a little bit of those
different narratives for our
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audience and and help us
understand the way that a
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migrant and a refugee actually
experiences God and and that
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story that they're living in
that God is that God is writing
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for them?
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Daniel Yang: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Thanks. Thanks for setting that
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up, because I do remember us
having those conversations and
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how, in some ways, the the
immigrant. Narrative, although
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comes from a particular kind of
life experience, there is a
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shared experience of like, you
know, trying to make meaning of
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our trauma, trying to make
meaning of our not just personal
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story, but sort of like, what
led up to those moments of
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trauma in our lives. And so
that's a human activity. You
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know, it's not, it's not
relegated to the immigrant or
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refugee experience, but
immigrants and refugees do
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experience that in a very unique
way. What I shared in Boston,
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and also have been spending a
lot of time, you know, even in
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the last it's probably been
three or four years since Boston
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thinking through this. I at that
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some of this in terms of what
sometimes is called the arrival
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narrative. At times have used
the term fulfillment narrative.
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displacement. That's probably
the larger word for the
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different categories of people
that have had to leave home,
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displacement is a disruptor, and
it causes a very traumatic life
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experience. And then for those
who have felt like they've had
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to force leave home, like they
were forced to leave home, they
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can't return. How do they make
meaning of that? You know, how
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do I? How do I make meaning of
the war catastrophe, the
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killing, the lost lives and and
then to then restart your life
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here in America in the 21st
Century, and the arrival
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narrative really has an
imagination for well, God, you,
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you, you don't author war or
catastrophe. You, you surely did
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not cause these things to
happen, but you are sovereign
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enough to direct and to and to
make good. And so the arrival
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narrative is discovering God
amid that, you know, and asking,
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God, where are you in my
family's experience? And this is
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goes on to the second and the
third generation, and it begins
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to give a bit of like meaning
and purpose to the pain. And
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part of the reason why I've
often often talked about it as a
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fulfillment narrative as well is
that there becomes a full circle
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moment when you begin realizing
that, Oh, wow. Like as somebody
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who is once a part of a
community that was highly
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traumatized, I now am also a
part of what God is doing to
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bring healing to others, right?
And so there's sort of a full
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circle fulfillment concept
there. And again, I don't think
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this is unique to the immigrant
and refugee experience. I think
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it's a human project, but the
way that we've experienced it,
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and it takes, it's generate, it
takes generations, right? It's
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not something that you can
experience within five to 10
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years or even 40 years. You
know, it takes, you know, my
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parents, in my generation, and
my children, and we're still
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asking that question, Jesus has
been the lens through which
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we've tried to understand our
experience and our trauma and
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tried to reimagine our
experiences. And it's not
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simple, like it's not as easy as
saying, Well, Jesus is on the
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throne. That's not what I'm
saying. Although he is on the
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throne, thank God. And it's not
as simple as saying, Well, now
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that I'm a believer now and I'm
saved, then at least I'm going
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to heaven. Because it's not that
simple either, although that is
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a beautiful fact, it's this
reimagining of like Jesus in the
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project of war. And like you
were saying earlier, when you
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are othered, and you see people
as enemies, and you see people
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as you know, causing harm and
violence, and you're asking the
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question, Jesus, how do you it's
very much what Miroslav both
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wrote about back in the 90s. I'm
drawing a blank on his name, on
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the book of his name, but he
talks about, essentially, how do
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you find Jesus amid conflict and
tension and even violence? And I
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feel like immigrants and
refugees are the embodiment of
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of what that looks like.
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Jessie Cruickshank: What do you
think is the reason that God is
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asking us, as the body of
Christ, always in Scripture, to
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like be a safe place for them,
to receive them, to show
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hospitality, to welcome them, to
feed them, to take care of the
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foreigner, the widow, the
orphan, the immigrant, the
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person who is homeless or and
country less and things like
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that. Like, what do you think
the Lord's plan is, and why he
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challenges us to do that?
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Daniel Yang: It's his nature. I
mean, it is. It is his nature to
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to give of yourself to find a
greater sense of life and
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completion. I think it all flows
from the character of God, who
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he is, and what it means to
instill in a people his nature
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and his character, and so I
think that's kind of like the
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big the big idea, you know, I
think when it comes to the
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experiential aspect, what? So,
you know, just to kind of, what
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does it mean for the church to
create welcome for those that
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are we would consider vulnerable
in society? Because in some
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ways, that is acting according
to our nature. We're we're in
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the image of God. We're
especially as as followers of
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Jesus. We're modeling, you know,
our life after Jesus, which is
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an incarnational, sacrificial,
other oriented lifestyle. And
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it's in, in some ways, you know,
Jesus said this himself. It's in
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losing yourself that you sort of
find yourself right. There is no
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indication from the Bible where,
if you accumulate a lot of
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things, and if you, if you pack
your storehouses, then you are
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more like God, you know, like
there's no teaching in the
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Bible, and that says, If you
fill up your storehouses and if
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you relish yourselves in the
most comfortable places, then
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you will find more of God,
right? It's sort of the
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opposite. In Zechariah, when God
is speaking to His people. He's
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saying, hey, you know, if you
turn your ear away from the
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orphans, the poor, the widow and
the foreigner, the way that you
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turn your ear away from them,
that's exactly what I'll do to
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you. In some ways, a part of it
is to reveal to us again that
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that is his nature to to empty
yourselves. I mean, it's, it's
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what Paul writes about Jesus in
Philippians. He, he, he divests
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himself. The practical, you
know, aspect of that is when I
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love somebody who almost,
virtually impossible, can't give
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to me what I've given to them,
then there is a beautiful
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exchange of life that that
happens that is close to the
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Divine Right. That's what Jesus
is saying at the parable of the
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banquet. You know, you invite
those who can repay you. What's
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the point? And so there is
something almost divine about
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reaching out to those who can't
repay you. And so I think in
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some ways, having seen this
happen in my life, having this,
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seen this happen over and over
in churches and everyday
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Christians, you know, you know
the saying, you know, I received
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more than I've given like that
is certainly true. And I think
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the only self preserving thing
about that, because I think
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there's some, some, some some
self preservation involved in
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doing this kind of work is that
you realize that this is some
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eschatology here for your
listeners. But you know, when
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you get to the end of
everything, when you get to the
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end of like, all the pain and
the suffering, Revelation
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Chapter 22 and you see Jesus
face to face, like the intensity
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in which we believe that we
should love those that are most
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different from us, like that
will be given back to us, and
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it'll it'll be revealed to us,
like how important that was,
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like that level of Like giving
and so and that that's why the
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Bible talks about like having
crowns and treasure in heaven
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and stuff like that, which I
don't think is necessarily like
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physical, material wealth. It is
the intensity in which you give
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out and pour out your life on
this side of his coming that's
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going to be translated into
meaningful wealth on the other
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side,
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Jessie Cruickshank: yeah, I like
to say that we're not
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accountable for what we know,
but we're accountable for how we
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love. And
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Unknown: you
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Jessie Cruickshank: know what I
what I love about what you're
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saying, If I can connect some
dots that are that are happening
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in my head, is that the the
person who's been on this
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journey, the refugee, the
immigrant, the migrant, because
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of the trauma they've
experienced, which is why
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they're moving, right? They're
not just moving because they're
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trying to take advantage of
something. They're moving
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because they cannot live where
they are like something terrible
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is happening, right? It is. It
is a migration born out of
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trauma and trial and horrific
circumstances and suffering and
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all of that. And so they,
because of that journey, they
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have asked questions of God.
They've experienced God in ways.
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And then they come, you know,
if, if I'm sitting in my church
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in North America, in Denver,
they're coming to my door, and
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there's an. Understanding they
have of God in a way that they
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process their trauma, or a way
that they're talking with God
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about that that I don't know,
right? I might have trauma in my
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background, but I don't
necessarily know how to process
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it, because maybe I haven't seen
it, maybe I haven't asked those
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questions, but, but when I think
about the gift that migrants and
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refugees are because of their
experience, because of the way
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that they have encountered God.
There's an understanding they
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have of God that is a gift to
everyone else. So like to reject
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them is like rejecting the
Prophet. It's like turning out
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the you know, rejecting Jesus
even because you're like, Oh,
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you have a thing, but I don't
actually need it. And so we
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don't see that they have
something that we need. Because
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I think we often think about
taking care of migrants and
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foreigners and refugees as a
charity, not as a gift of God to
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us to teach us something about
his nature and his character
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that we wouldn't necessarily
understand otherwise. And so
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when we reject them, we're
actually rejecting this gift of
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God, this part of his nature,
this messenger, this missionary
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I know, I know some of the
people that we know are
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literally missionaries to North
America that are being, you
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know, removed or a danger for
things like that, and, and so
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we're saying, Hey, we don't need
your message. We're fine. And,
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and so even more than an act of
charity, which I think on some
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level, it is, but it's actually
a gift to be received, you know,
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these these people and their
stories, and it makes me think
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about what Jim Wilder teaches
about enemy mode, where, you
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know, enemy mode is the state of
the brain, where we perceive
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that what the person in front of
us is an enemy. And there,
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there's lots of reasons, and
we're all different, so whatever
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triggers us, and we're like,
wait a minute, I don't know if
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this person is safe. And so we
go, our brain goes into enemy
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mode. So it goes, like, into
this lockdown, right? It's like
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we put up a force field while we
assess the risk and we figure
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out what to do. The problem is
that when we're in enemy mode,
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and it could be it's it's for
protection, it's in order to
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strategize. But the problem of
it is that if we stay there, we
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cannot receive from that which
is other than us. We cannot
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receive from that which is
outside of us, which includes
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not only that person in front of
us, but also the Holy Spirit. We
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literally cannot hear the Holy
Spirit when we're in enemy mode
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and we're perceiving that who is
in front of us as an enemy. So
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not only can we not receive from
them? We can't receive from God.
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We are not receiving God through
them, and we're not hearing God
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on our own anyway. And so I
just, I just think about how God
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is always challenging us to love
our enemy, to receive from that
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which is other than us, and just
how much we're failing at that
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right now, and I and I feel like
that's a strategy of the demonic
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that is the spiritual warfare of
our day. Because I don't think
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that at least the people that I
talk to are not that prone to
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thinking of other people as
enemies, right? I think, I think
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we're being encouraged in that.
I think we're being
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propagandized into that. I think
the algorithms on our phones and
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all of these things are are
pushing that, because then we
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click and we do things. But how
is that experience landing with
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the people that you work with?
You know, if, if we think about
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the person who's come from a
place, maybe they're Christian,
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and then they came from a
country where there's
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persecution, and now they're
here, and now they're
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experiencing persecution. Like,
like, what is? How is this
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posture of enemy mode landing
with the people that you serve,
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and in now they're going to be a
refugee twice. I don't I mean,
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like, what are, how are they
experiencing this and and what
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is that like for for people,
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Daniel Yang: yeah, yeah. I mean,
and some of maybe what you're
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alluding to is the change in
posture and policies in in the
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United States right now, towards
certain categories of
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immigrants, and especially those
who losing protected status,
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legal status. And then those
which announced as of the
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recording on this particular
podcast a little bit over a week
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ago, even refugees that were
admitted during Biden, even all
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of them 230,000 and will be
reinvestigated. So breaking the
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enemy mode. I mean, that is,
that's a huge summing block,
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because I don't think we quite
know how socialized we are into
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categorizing certain kinds of
immigrants as as enemies and so
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and this is. Always been a
challenge for every generation,
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throughout not just Western
history, but world history, the
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language that a particular group
of people will drain your
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economy, will threaten the
security of your country, and
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then are taking resources from
another you know, demographic.
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This is sort of old hat language
and rhetoric, and it gets
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rehashed in different ways, and
certainly in some cases like
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those, things have happened
before. So I don't want to say
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that, that that all of that is
completely untrue. You know, we
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have seen it in nations where
there are times where security
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is being threatened and stuff
like that, but usually not by
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refugees. You know, it's usually
by, like, actual military force
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where, where I've seen this
happen that is disturbing to me
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is where it used to be that,
let's say refugees, which is a
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very classified group of people.
It used to be that, like,
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Americans weren't afraid of
refugees, you know. But almost
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within a few years, there's now
this layer and veneer of like
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skepticism, you know. And the
average American in the world
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might, they might have not
thought this before, but now
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there's a check, you know. And I
think enemy making starts with
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that, you know, that suspicion
where it's just kind of like,
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Yeah, but do I really know
everything about that person?
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And do I, you know? And so, and
it's that, that tussle between
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that, that check, that's, you
know, and then all of a sudden,
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there are reasons for you to
then give in to that suspicion,
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and then, and then, usually it
becomes almost conspiracy,
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spiritorial, or you actually
have a negative experience, like
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you experience a negative
experience, and and and then,
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which justifies your suspicion.
And then, you know, and then you
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turn, turn into enemy mode. And
I feel like that is something
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that has always been a threat.
And I think Jesus's words, the
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Sermon on the Mount, you know,
to love your enemy, that is sort
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of the the ethic in the morality
of what it means to be a
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follower of Jesus like that is a
constant, like tension that is a
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our move towards our enemy, for
the sake of reconciliation and
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for the sake of love, is a
discipline. It is a spiritual
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discipline, you know, just like
reading your Bible, just like
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going into church, you know,
being in spaces, you know, not
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saying, like every space should
be this, but being in spaces
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where you often feel
uncomfortable and you might
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suspect something about a group
of people and they might suspect
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something about you, like that
is a discipline to be in, and in
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some ways, that's always been
where the church grew, and the
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church has been like, awesome,
and that's part of the reason
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why we understand the persecuted
church. It often grows under
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adversarial context, because the
church begins to love beyond its
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limit and and then that breaks
the walls, and it breaks the
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barriers, right? And so we see
that all the time, Jesse and I
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think that institutionally,
we're at a point now where
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institutions have felt like I'm
seeing institutions like other,
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you know, other categories of
people. It's not just
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individuals, but it's
institutions. And so I feel like
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we're in a moment now where we
have to really reimagine like
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loving your enemy as a basic
discipline of what it means to
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be a follower of Jesus.
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Jessie Cruickshank: Yeah, I
can't agree more. I mean, I've
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studied some other religions,
and I'm not not super
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comprehensive, but I have not
encountered another faith that
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where, where the people are told
it is a command to love your
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enemy in the other other faiths
that I've looked at, it's
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transactional. It's like, you
know, if they're your enemy, tax
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them or, you know, put them
outside the camp and and the
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faith of Jesus says, invite them
into your home. Bring them in,
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bless them, keep them warm,
which is what putting coals on
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their head is to like, like,
like, send them with warmth and
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blessing, you know, take care of
them. And as I I just can't find
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another religion that asks and
commands its followers to do
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that. So, so not only does Jesus
say love your neighbor, but then
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you also have to love your enemy
and treat them as if they're
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family. And sometimes are, you
know, sometimes those are
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synonymous. But the requirement
is always there. So there's
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like, there's literally no one
we're allowed to be mean. To,
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there's literally no one we're
allowed to dehumanize. There's
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literally no one like even go to
the people who are in prison,
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you know, so, so regardless of
of deserve merit. You know,
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we're, we are required and
commanded by Jesus to go to to
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love, to bless, to take care of
and we and we're because we're
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supposed to just let God manage
the what we deserve and what we
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don't deserve in this in this
world.
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Daniel Yang: Yeah, and a part of
that, and the reason why, again,
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if you go back to that part in
Matthew five, when Jesus is
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talking about this, you know, he
says, You heard him say that,
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you know, love your enemy and
then hate your or love your
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neighbor and hate your enemy. I
think he I mean, you know this
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more than I do, but Jesus has
mastered the human experience
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like he knows how the body is
programmed, like he knows why
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our bodies tense up. He knows
why our bodies go into fight or
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flight mode, and he knows how a
body can release tension and
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heal itself. And, you know,
maybe he doesn't know in the way
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that a medical doctor knows it.
I don't know, but I think he's
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introducing, reintroducing into
the human experience, in that
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mandate that like the only way
to really overcome fear in
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situations where you're going to
fight all the time, or you're
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going to you know, because
hating and fighting and violence
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are all sort of part of the same
spectrum, Right, is to disable
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that mechanism in in your soul,
your, you know? I mean,
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sometimes you will will locate
it to the amygdala, right? But
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it's probably broader than just
that, that that place in our
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brainstem. See, I'm going into
your field of expertise now.
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Unknown: Keep
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Jessie Cruickshank: going. Keep
going.
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Daniel Yang: But, but, um, and I
feel like, you know, Jesus is
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being very He's helping us to
identify like our seed of fear
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and deface our fear. And the way
to you have to cross a
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threshold, and the threshold is
going from like fearing and
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hating to love. Now I don't
think he is saying, like,
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necessarily, have, you know,
tremendous feelings for the
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person who's murdered your
parents, like, I mean, and maybe
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he's saying some version of
that, but I think what he's
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generally saying is that, like,
there are categories of people
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that society have told you, has
told you to be suspicious of, to
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not love. You know, if you're a
Jew, it's the Gentile, right?
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And he's saying, we have, we
have to overcome that. And one
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of the markers of you being a
part of the kingdom is that you
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know that a marker of being a
part of the kingdom is that you
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press into that fear and that
hate until it becomes love,
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right? And that's how you
actually bring the kingdom.
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That's how you actually usher it
about. And I think it's a
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strategic It's experiential, and
it's a part of what Christians
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are called to do in order to
usher the kingdom,
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Jessie Cruickshank: I mean, and
to be, to be a little nerdy like
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it's not only necessary for our
spiritual development, but it's
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also necessary for our
biological development. Because,
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as I've been looking at and
leaning into loving this idea of
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loving your enemy for the last
year, and looking at how the
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first, the first person that we
decide is our enemy is actually
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our parent. So as an infant, you
are crying and you need stuff,
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and the parent doesn't fast
enough, or they get it wrong,
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right? You actually are hungry
and they're changing your
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diaper, or vice versa, or
whatever. And like, if you've
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ever seen an angry baby, like
babies get angry, it's one of
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the core emotions that we're
born with. And so the first
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enemy that we have is our
caregiver. And so the first
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enemy we have to overcome that
anger and that othering is is
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our caregiver, so we can receive
from them. So we're so we have
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to repair, we have to reconnect
with the caregiver in order to
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receive from them in order to,
like, receive food and warmth
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and love and, you know,
nurturing. And so as an infant,
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it's a parent, and then it
becomes like a sibling or a
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playmate who has the toy that we
don't have, or has the cookie we
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don't have. Or, in my house, it
was growing up as the bathroom,
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you know, we had one bathroom
and three kids. So there was,
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there was a fight over bathroom
time because it was a limited
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resource and and so you have to
learn how to forgive, repent,
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reconnect with your enemy, you
know, sibling or playmate. And
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then we go to school and we
experience people who don't like
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us, teachers and and. If we
haven't figured out how to
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repair with our enemy, we
actually then take that on in
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order to be identify with the
person that we're trying to
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connect with. And we make
ourself our enemy. And so we
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take on the posture of an our
enemy towards us. So if you have
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a parent who you can't earn
their affection, then you end up
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like over identifying with them
and hating yourself. And so we
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turn that enemy on ourself in
order, because we're created for
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connection and and, and when
we're in enemy mode, we're not
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connected, we're not connected
to God, and we're not connected
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to each other. And so, so if we
don't learn how to repair with a
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parent or a sibling, a playmate,
a schoolmate, then we get
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stunted biologically, and then
that, I think that remains with
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us spiritually. So so for me,
loving your enemy, repairing,
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reconciling is is the core of
what we're supposed to do in
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this life. It's how we receive
from Jesus, it's how we hear
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God. It's how like so for me,
even my definition of sin is
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separation. So it is the the
death that sin brings, while
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that reconnection brings life.
So, so when we treat the
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vulnerable like this. We are
operating in sin, not not
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idealistically, because loving
our enemy is a command at every
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age of our life, at every stage
of our development, it's not a
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thing to aspire to. It's
actually necessary. And so I
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just my heart for the body of
Christ right now is to is that
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we would discover this and we
would be like, Oh no, that's
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actually more important than
attending a church event. Is
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learning how to love the the
person who I feel other than
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right now, learning how to bless
them, learning how to go to
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them, learning how to be open to
connection and and moving
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through because, because unity
is a choice. Right, moving
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through that you actually have
to choose to move through that
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you have to choose to forgive.
You have to choose to repent.
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And I just, I don't know how we
experience the kingdom without
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that. I don't know where the
kingdom exists without that. So
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my body, my heart hurts for the
body of Christ right now,
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because we're not experiencing
the kingdom. And so I'm just,
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I'm just wondering if, if you
could, you could maybe give us
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some sort of like hope. Because
right now I'm like, Ah, you know
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the kingdom, the kingdom
continues to come in our midst
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as we do this. What is, what is
something that the people of of
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the Body of Christ, the people
who are like, I'm not okay. I
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know this isn't the kingdom, but
I don't I don't know what's
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going on. You don't feel okay.
Like, how? How would you
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encourage them right now? Or,
what? What might you say to them
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in this, in this moment, in our
in our culture and in our
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history?
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Daniel Yang: Yeah, I'm gonna try
to make this as sort of
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practical and as relatable,
because I'm realized that
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everybody listening is probably
not necessarily a church leader
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or institutional leader, and
you're, you're you're just a
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everyday follower of Jesus, and
you just really want to bring
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the kingdom to wherever you're
at. I think it is important to
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to continue to have a strong
sense of like biblical identity,
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because the pull away towards
that in, you know, whether it's
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national or ethnic or racial
identity, which are all really
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important categories, but
rooting ourselves in Scripture
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and allowing the scripture to
confront biases is so important.
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And so that begins with a work
of like the Holy Spirit.
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Because, you know, I mean, I'll
be honest, there are a lot of
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Christians. Of Christians out
there that are speaking on this
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issue, and they're not informed
by a conviction of the Holy
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Spirit. They're informed by the
other side of the political
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spectrum, right? So I'm just,
I'm and maybe there's nothing
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wrong with that in particular,
but when my advice is to be in
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the Scripture so that your
conviction comes from the Holy
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Spirit and your quiet times. And
then don't be afraid to exercise
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your voice. And it may be scary,
you know, it may be scary to to
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say, you know, to correct your
pastor and say, Hey, I think
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what you said from the pulpit is
not consistent with the ethic
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that Jesus presents in Matthew
in, Matthew five. And I'm not
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asking anybody to to send email
complaints to the pastor, but
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what, what I'm saying is that
sometimes people feel like my
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pastor is not being vocal, or
he's he's actually perpetuating,
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you know, othering other people.
And so exercising your voice is
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in the right, in the right, you
know, approach. Is really
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important, and then finding
healthy coalitions of people to
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be a sounding board so that you
can have a outlet to release,
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you know, the pent up negativity
that often we might feel
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because, you know, for those of
us who especially feel like
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advocates. We always take on
through empathy and sympathy,
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you know, the energy of other
people. And so you need places
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to release that, to process
that, and to be reminded that
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it's not all you know, your own
work. And then the fourth thing
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I would say is, for most of us,
we're not going to save the
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world, but be in proximity to
people in places where you can
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create impact and so and it's
probably as simple as finding
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somebody at the school where
your kids go to school that feel
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most threatened right now by the
recent policies, and being a
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friend to them and loving them
and caring for them and letting
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them know that they have the
image of God. And because for
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most of us, paralysis becomes
apathy. And so the way to kind
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of break out of apathy is to not
be paralyzed. And way to not be
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paralyzed is to find the little,
small things where the kingdom
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can break in, and that is as
simple as finding a person who
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feels most threatened right now
in being present in their life,
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and that that human connection
of being present in someone's
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life where they feel like
they're a vulnerable immigrant
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right now, that's something that
even if they get removed from
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this country, like that
experience that they had with
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you, they'll take with them. But
what we're seeing is that when
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you're willing to be in
proximate spaces with them and
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your family with them, that
reduces the chance of them
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actually, you know, feeling like
they're going to be, you know,
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removed, right? So I think
proximity is so important, both
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for the people that you're
trying to help and it's
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important for
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Jessie Cruickshank: yourself.
That's so good Daniel, and I
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think if I would just, if I
could just add one thing to it,
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because I know some people who
may not have kids in school or
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or they live in places where
they're like, I don't actually
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know how to be proximal to
someone. I think about having
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prayer meetings, because even
even if someone's listening to
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this, this podcast five years in
the future, and some of that the
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on the ground situation is has
changed, like praying for with
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other people praying for whoever
is the outsider or the enemy in
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your community or or that your
Lord, the Lord is moving on your
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heart for like, I think that we
can always do that in every
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season, because this isn't, this
isn't a New situation. I mean,
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I'm, I'm, I'm the third
generation child of Irish
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immigrants, and the reason why
they were in the West is because
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they weren't allowed to live
anywhere else, because
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Unknown: they were,
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Jessie Cruickshank: they were
dirty, and all those things that
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are being said about immigrants
right now, we're set about the
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Irish and the Italians, right?
So like sea gangs in New York,
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right? It's, it's a, it's a
thing that reoccurs so it never
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goes away, which means we can
always, I think, join with other
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people and pray and say, God,
you know your kingdom come, Your
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will be done in these, in lives,
in our community, as it is on
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heaven. And I think that can
keep us that can keep us open
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and receiving for however, the
Lord would lead, Daniel, if
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people want to donate to World
Relief or get involved, is
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there, is there a place that
they can go? How can if, if
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they're in one of those
situations where they can, they
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are proximal to individuals and
they want to, they want to
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connect with the work that
you're doing. How would they
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find you?
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Daniel Yang: Yeah, absolutely.
Worldrelief.org worldrelief.org
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you can find out sort of how to,
how to connect. If your church
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in particular wants to be a
place where you create belonging
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and welcoming for others, you
can also go to churches of
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welcome.com which is also a
World Relief website, so
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worldly.org for our work. And
then if you want to be involved
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and take action, churches of
welcome.com.
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Jessie Cruickshank: Well, it's
so been, it's been so good to
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have you. Thank you for joining
me on this conversation today. I
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appreciate you. I appreciate
your heart. I appreciate your
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family. Yeah, just beautiful. So
thank you for joining us on the
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ordinary discipleship podcast.
You can hear this and other
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podcasts wherever you get your
podcasts, and you can always
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visit hoology.co that's W, H, O,
o, l, o, G, y.co, to find out
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how to be. Be an ordinary
disciple maker, and have
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communities that make disciples.