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In our last episode, we met Omar, a Director of Talent Acquisition struggling with self-doubt and uncertainty. Julian Placino joined to unpack how to lead with curiosity and build inner resilience. That conversation inspired Jay to share a practical mental model based on a story he told at Columbia University, one that starts with a young girl named Aria, standing alone in the rain.
In this solo episode, Jay breaks down a four-step framework for cultivating resilience in the face of adversity. Using Aria as a metaphor, Jay walks through how to:
- Accept what’s happening without resistance.
- Reflect on your past resilience.
- Inspect the situation from new angles.
- Act with small, intentional steps forward.
If you’ve been feeling stuck in a storm of frustration, change, or stress, this episode gives you a roadmap for responding with strength, clarity, and growth.
Notable Quotes
“Acceptance doesn’t mean resignation. It just means recognizing what’s already here.” — Jay Abbasi
“You’ve overcome so much more than whatever adversity you’re facing right now.” — Jay Abbasi
“When you ask better questions, you see better possibilities.” — Jay Abbasi
Resources and Links
Jay Abbasi
Website: https://jayabbasi.me/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jayabbasi/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayabbasi_/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thejayabbasi/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jayabbasipodcast
Join Us Next Time
On Monday’s episode, you’ll meet Sunny, a senior risk manager facing major organizational change after a merger. Sunny’s intensity and blunt communication style are causing friction and making change even harder. Jay is joined by Cassandra Worthy, founder of Change Enthusiasm and one of the world’s leading experts on emotional intelligence during transformation. Together, they explore how to stop resisting change and instead work with it, emotionally, strategically, and humanely.
Don’t miss this powerful conversation on how to not just survive change but thrive through it.
