Why Do We Do This?

Episode 62 is both a celebration and a look at the reason PolySoCal exists in the first place. With Polyam Radio and the mobile apps now fully live, Alonzo Banx brings together Michael, Bev, Jon, Heather, Double D, Dante, Lana, Blake, and Noah to answer one question: Why do we do this? The answers are as different as the relationships around the table. For some, polyamory means freedom, exploration, autonomy, and the ability to love more than one person. For others, it means finally finding a relationship structure that feels natural, discovering community after years of feeling different, or having the freedom to explore emotional and sexual needs without asking one person to be everything. The conversation also gets into jealousy, sex, mistakes, transitioning from monogamy, learning through the “oopsies and ouchies,” and why communication and honest motivation matter when opening a relationship.

Alonzo Banx, Michael, Bev, Jon, Heather, Double D, Dante, Lana, Blake, Noah