SUPER EASY Techniques to Unlock Your Intuition

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Karen. Yes, you ever get that feeling in your gut
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like something's off, yes, or maybe that something's really really right, Yes, yes,
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but you just can't put your finger on it. Yes,
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all right. Well, people will usually just kind of brush
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it off, like they're overthinking, or they get so caught
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up worrying about the future that sometimes we miss these
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clues entirely.
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Right.
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That is where our guest today comes in. She's an
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evidential based psychic medium, reiki master, and best selling author.
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But what she's really passionate about is helping people like
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us connect with something we all have our intuition. Oh yeah,
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and if there's one thing I know about you, my love,
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is that you are all about learning how to trust
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that inner voice, especially when life throws us curve.
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Boss, We're juggling.
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All this.
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Well, and get ready, because our guest today is going
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to show us how to stop stressing about the future,
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whether it's about a dream job or dream relationship, and
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start listening to the guidance that we've already got inside
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of us. It's all about tuning into the present moment,
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feeling those intuitive hits in our bodies, and trusting our
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truth in a way that's practical and real. No more
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projecting into the future, just realigning with where we are
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right now. You know where The best part is. She's
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got some seriously cool techniques to help us feel those
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intuitive messages in real time. Chakra by chakra.
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Nice.
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So you're gonna want to stick around for this one
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and may just change how you connect your inner guidance.
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This is the skeptic metaphysicians. My name is Will and I'marus,
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and unlike moulderin Scully, both want to believe. So we've
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embarked in a journey of discovery.
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We've talked to people deeply entrenched in the spiritual and
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metaphysical world.
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We've thrown ourselves into weird and wonderful experiences. I even
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joined a coven.
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Of witches and wait, you joined a coven.
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Yep, all in the interest of finding something, anything that
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will prove that there's something beyond this physical.
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Three dimensional world we all live in.
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This is the skeptic physicians. Hey there, I Will, i'en
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and today we're diving into the world of intuition, healing
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and connecting with the unseen. Our guest, Crystal Perry, is
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an evidential bas psychic medium a best selling author and
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ariki master who's worked with thousands of clients around the world.
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Whether it's delivering heartfelt messages from loved ones across the
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veil or helping people like us tune into their own
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inner guidance. Crystal's passion is all about empowering others to
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trust their intuition. Well, today, she's here to help us
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understand how we can get out of our heads, stop
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worrying about the future.
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Yes, she got a job for her and tap.
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Into the wisdom of the present moment, using our own
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bodies as a guide. So get ready to learn how
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to realign with your intuition and find the answers you've
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been searching for. Crystal, welcome to the show.
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Thank you will, Thank you, Karen. Pleasure to be here.
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Well, we're thrilled that you hear with us today.
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Yes, yes, the pleasure is absolutely all ours. There's a
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lot of areas we need to go into, we need
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to touch on, but let's just set the table first
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and foremost intuition. Can you define that for someone?
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The Dictionary says it's a gift of knowing without reason,
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So you just know things without any reason. I think
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from birth we're blessed with this wisdom and our soul
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that we either tune out or tune into. It just
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comes on board once we take our first breath.
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Some of us more than others.
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I think I just trust my intuition more than you do.
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I just ignore it completely. Well, it's ignored only a
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little bit.
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It's not that I ignored, it's like I'm just completely
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oblivious to it.
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Well, I think you just want he wants someone to
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tell him what to.
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Do, But don't you Most people do right, right.
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But then you're like, I don't want you to tell
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me what to do.
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Well, I don't, but I do, But I don't.
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But I do exactly. So there's the rough I.
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Don't but because they might tell you the wrong thing
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or what you don't want to hear.
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Right. So the obvious question, then the follow up is
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how can you a feel the intuition? How can you
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get like, how can you know that you're intuition talking?
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And b how do you know it's not you just
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making stuff up in your head?
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Well, I like to give people tips on so they
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can physically fill it and then they'll have the answer
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to know what is truth for them. I like to
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say that intuition is your superpower. Your ego is your kryptonite.
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So if you're thinking of superheroes, your ego that gets
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in there and tells you what's right and what's wrong,
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that's going to be your kryptonite that tear's away your power.
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So I I just pictured my ego with that twirling
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mustache and a big hat top of that.
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Right, you got a pocket full of kryptonite.
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Oh yeah, way better does than I am.
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I just like that song.
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And he's tucking himself out of it exactly.
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I know, I know. Okay, so how how could I
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go around? Okay, le, let's take a real world, practical
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thing that happened just a couple of days ago. We
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have to make a massive decision, like massive decision altering. Yeah,
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and we and we tried so hard. We sat, we meditated,
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and we felt, how do you feel that you do this?
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I was just like no, no, no.
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But you weren't. At first. We came to this decision
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and we're like, okay, this is what we're doing. And
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then the next day all the factors changed, like literally yeah,
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and so we're like, wow, this still is a good decision,
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but now this is a good decision too, So that's
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where you were just like, I don't.
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Know right, So in a case like that, how could
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I have tapped into my intuition and learned which direction
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I really was supposed to go in?
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So I'll start right out the gate on. One of
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the techniques that I teach people is really if you've
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heard of muscle testing, it's an internal muscle testing that
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I teach people to find out your truth for you.
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So once you know what your truth is, then you
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can ask the bigger questions like should I marry this person,
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or should I move to Europe or whatever? And it's
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really simple in a matter of minutes, and we can
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do it here now with your guests. If everyone wants to,
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just take a breath, close your eyes, and what you're
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going to do to yourself is state a truth to yourself.
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So you can say something like your name, my name
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is Will. In that silence, in that quiet, in that stillness,
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how does your body feel? Hey, state your name? How
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does it feel out loud to yourself? Okay, it shouldn't
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take more than ten seconds just to get that feeling. Now,
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the next thing is you're going to state a faults
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to yourself. My name is George Washington, and you're going
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to feel in your body where you feel the faults.
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Okay, I'm not the most sensitive of guys out there,
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so I'm not sure if I'm just making this stuff
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up right, But what I'm feeling is like a tightness
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around the solar plaque? Is that?
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Absolutely? It's either heart or soular that most people feel it.
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There's a tent tightness or a clenching. Okay, it's not
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so now you are doing it right, So now you
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ask the bigger question when you're still okay, Now I
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know my truth barometer. I call it, Should I take
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this new job or this endeavor? How does that feel?
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Do I get that tightness in that clench? That would
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be your truth?
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I don't want to ask it now because it's too late.
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I don't want to let him make the right decision.
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Did you feel like Karen?
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I mean I felt something in my hands and feet,
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but I felt like that's the right.
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But usually it's from the chest to the belly, as
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I will feel it.
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Like when I said my name, I didn't feel anything,
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like nothing right, And then when I said a different name,
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like my hands and feet.
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That's just your fight or flight symptoms.
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Maybe your barometer is really strong.
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Well, you know what, I wouldn't doubt that she's actually
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very strong.
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And if she's an energy healer of any way, most
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people can feel it in their hands.
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So, oh, I'm a raki practitioner, and I don't think
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I didn't really know what to say.
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Your fingers didn't tingle.
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I didn't. I didn't. I wasn't paying attention to that.
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Do it again now and see you if knowing now
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we're well, Now we're supposed to feel.
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I think I might like make up something like, oh
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I'm feeling.
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That's that's why I said I might be making it up.
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But just be still and you can do it tonight.
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My name is and then feel where you feel. And
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if you go over ten seconds, you're doing it too much.
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It's too too hard for your body. And this, the
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second one is state of faults. And it doesn't have
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to be your name. You can say I have ten kids,
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or you know, if you don't have ten kids, whatever
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your truth is, I live in Manhattan. Whatever isn't your truth,
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your body will tell you it should be really slight
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and really subtle. And that's how intuition works. Most people
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overlook it because they expect lightning from God to say
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this is what you're supposed to do, So.
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Here comes will right. So bear with the question because
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I'm sure a lot of people out there probably are
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asking the same thing as themselves, and that would be
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remiss if I didn't voice it out loud. Could this
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be my own biases rather than my intuition? This example
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that we were talking about had something to do with
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staying at my current job or going elsewhere, and there's
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a fear with taking that leap, with going elsewhere that
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comes into play. So could that not be what I'm feeling?
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Is that fear that bias?
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I think what you're failing is anxiety because that's mixed
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in with fear of that's going to change my future.
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Right when we feel intuition, it is very still and
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it is very calm. So we get the answers that
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will always be calm even if it's right for you.
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But you have fear, your body will be still. So
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as we go through this today and we go through
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the steps of your chakras where you're going to feel it,
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it should always be still and calm, even in a chaos.
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If this is right for me, it's going to be still.
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So the right decision will be still. The wrong decision
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won't be big.
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Yes, it'll be fear based. You'll have anxiety. You're staying
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up at night, you're stressing out about it, and you
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can't get it out of your mind. That's your ego,
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it's your brain. I tell people your intuition is from
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your neck down. You're going to fill it in your body,
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not your neck up.
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Okay, well, what if you get that weird feeling for
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both options? Then what you're kind of out of lot?
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They both have problems.
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Really, Yeah, there should be one that's a little stronger,
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that's a little more I feel more comfortable with this
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when I think about this, I'm more still, I can
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sleep through the night. I think this is okay. And
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then you're not getting in your head. You have to
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ask your body, how does my body feel with this?
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Do you have to be relaxed? We are agitated, right,
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It's been weeks and weeks of this kind of thing,
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to the point where even meditations that we do it's
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difficult to drop in because we're so on edge about everything. Yeah,
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so could that affect our feeling.
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Could but you're still going to get your answer. Go
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to a different place than you normally would. Go sit
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in your car in the garage, go to a park
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and sit under a tree, and then try it, just
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because it's a different environment and your brain's like, what
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is going on here? I don't know, this isn't familiar,
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and then you can tap in and you should feel
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something different.
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Right.
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So when I was asking you the other day just
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just to close your eyes and kind of go through
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the thing, and I didn't know that, you know, it
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sounds like I was doing what she was doing right right,
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unknowing you are which And I said, well, how did
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you feel with this? And how did you feel with that?
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Like did you feel a difference?
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I mean, I don't know. What I was picturing myself
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in that moment is how it felt going out into
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the world versus how I felt staying where I was.
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That's what I was going through and what felt to
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me is like the I guess it.
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Was actually which made you feel calmer? Yeah?
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Which one made me? Which one made me freak out? More? Right?
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To your point, it was a little bit of both.
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So because they were pros and constant, both so well,
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this is interesting, Okay.
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How do you how do you trust it? That's that's
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my problem. Yeah, you know, because it's kind of like
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when you, you know, you have the three cups of
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the little you know whatever underneath and you're picking and
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I'll be like, oh, it's that one. But since I
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think it's that one, I means it's probably this one.
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So then should I go for this one? Or maybe
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it's that One's like a second, third, fourth, fifth, guess myself.
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Yeah, you say, like your first guess is always the
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right one.
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Yes, in a split second. And that's why I said
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that the longer you're doing this, the more you're getting
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in your head. It should just take a minute to
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feel that feeling. I also teach people when you're tapping
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into your intuition, stop pushing the elevator button. You know
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how you're pushing and when's it coming? When's it coming?
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And someone else walks up to the elevator and they're pushing, pushing, waiting,
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and someone's crossed their arms, they're waiting and pushing. That
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is not how you get your intuition. That's adding more fear,
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more anxiety to the mix. That's just pushing it into
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the future. Our body sits in present time. We truly
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are here in this moment, in this breath, and our
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bodies will give us the answer in this moment, so
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it is still moment to moment. Here's an example of
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intuition that I love to share. You're driving down the
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freeway and suddenly you say, I should slow down. There's
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a cop. You see the cop you pass. You're good,
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but you didn't get that intuitive hit till two seconds before. Right.
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Intuition works moment by moment, and maybe the answer you
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seek isn't even here yet. Will there could be another
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possibility that pops up and you're just like, why isn't
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it working? Why isn't it working because the answer is
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not here yet?
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Oh, what kind of one did?
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You're right? You're right?
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And then we were anxious about that too. We're just
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there has been so much.
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Yeah, like it's going to cause chaos to your life.
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But the ripple effect feels beautiful whatever you choose, it
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does feel beautiful. It feels like you're making the right
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choice anyway, and you're kind of leaving the past behind.
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Just unsolicit advice.
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No, I appreciate that you mentioned that there are different chakras,
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Like you activated chakra by chakras, So yeah, what's the next.
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Or how you will feel it in your body. The
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other thing I like to tell people about intuition is
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think of a garden hose. When you turn it on,
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it's literally coming from source. You were born with it, right,
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the divine God, whatever you believe, is coming one way
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down the garden hose to you. Even when you shut
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it off, it's still in the hose or in the
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you know, it's still flowing. You don't. It doesn't go reversed,
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it doesn't go backwards. So whatever's come for you is
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coming down the pipe for only you. So it's just
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a little visual.
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Some people love visuals, right.
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Sometimes I feel like I'm drinking from ten of those
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garden houses at one time, and.
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They're cold blasts at the fire station.
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That's the one that sits you on your ass.
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Well, I like to work from the bottom up, So
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the bottom root chakra is right kind of where your
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legs meet, right, it's your you know, the top of
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your hips, and this is called your root chakra where
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you're going to feel intuitive hits here in this chakra
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is something that's going to make you want to move.
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I want to get up, I want to go towards it,
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or I'm going to be really still and go just
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doesn't feel right every time I think about it, I
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don't want to go there. It doesn't feel like I
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want to move now. Again, most people always say it's
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in your gut. That's where I feel. Intuitive hits in
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your gut, and we'll talk about that one, but it
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actually runs through your whole body. So again, think of
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your head, your body, from your neck down. This is
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where you're going to receive your intuitive hits. Okay, So
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with your root, Chokra, it's your foundation. It's the moving
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along in life. It's going towards. So if you're going
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to marry someone or take a job, you're like really eager,
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I can't wait to get this job. You're feeling really good,
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your body wants to go towards it. If it's something
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that you're pulling away from, I don't know that wasn't good,
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that don't feel good. Start to pay attention what your
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body does. Sometimes we'll even turn away. You know, we're
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talking to someone in that interview didn't go well, and
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I want to turn my body away to kind of
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move away. You'll know action needs to be taken now
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in this chakra. It's a movement of some sort in
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this area. So how's your root Chokra been feeling with
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these choices.
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Like it's getting something shoved up there?
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So or liken, Well, now there's a diamond in there.
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What do you wants? Yeah, I don't know. I've not
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so this is great because in the future we can
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use these tips. But I was oblivious, unfortunately, and one
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of those guys that doesn't pay attention. And I need
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to be more in the present moment one hundred percent.
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I realized that because had I known to look to
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see where my hips were moving, I would have had
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an idea. But now you're asking me, and don't I
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don't know on them?
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Yeah, and the other thing here in this area, if
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we don't know the answer, we freeze. It's your fight
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or flight zone. Most people think it's all through about it.
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It's it's literally, I don't know. I'm frozen. I can't
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make a decision. So then we have to come back
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to what is my body? Say? Does it feel calm
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or does it feel anxious? Thinking about this? You know
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that truth barometer.
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Would you feel it in both places at the same time,
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where it's either you can.
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You can you can feel in all of them at
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the same time. And this is where people get confused.
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They only think it's their stomach right, or yeah, I
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just got that gut instinct, or it's a mother's intuition. No,
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it's throughout your body. You're born with this at birth
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to have all the senses in your physical form. That's
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what the universe turned on for us. We never shut
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it off. Really, we tune it out, but we don't
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really shut it off.
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Yeah, story my life tuning it out.
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So then how do you, I don't know, wade through
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the So like we were saying, we had these two options,
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and both of them had something really good and both
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of them had something really bad, and it was just
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so equal. It was like hard to like even thinking now,
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like going back and remembering, it'd be hard to kind
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of even have any sort of peaceful thing while we're
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thinking about those because just thinking about either one of those,
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we're like, oh, you're crap, you know, what do we do?
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So how do you get beyond that to really be
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able to focus and listen to your body?
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If you were my client, I would sit in front
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of you and say, put your hand on your heart
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and tell yourself, I'm looking for the best case scenario,
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and you're asking your guides and angels to step in
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and give me something better than I can imagine. And
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look at one scenario and sit and be still. What's
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the best thing, and you know, give me something better
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than I can imagine, and then let that go. Do
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a few deep breaths, let it go. Now, think of
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the other case scenario and one of those, even though
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you're telling me that the weight on them was both,
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they were very evenly weighted, and you couldn't choose one
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would feel different one would you would have something that
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is a trigger for you. But if this one offers more,
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or when you've given it to the universe and say
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give me something better than I can imagine, maybe there's
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a perk on the other end of one of them.
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You know, maybe now you're getting insurance or benefits or
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you know, I'm just saying a perk that you might
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not have had before.
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The ironic thing is like, okay, we're going to make
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this choice, and we're just we're surrendering whatever will happen.
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Because there was one of the choices was they choose
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for what wasn't Yeah, basically they're going to choose for you,
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and so we thought, okay, well, then that way we'll
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know where the universe's leading is. We're going to let
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this happen. And then that choice. Now it's like, well
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you can have that choice, you can have the other choice,
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and it just was Yeah, it was tough.
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Man, And sometimes the universe puts a path before you
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that just all the options are right and you just
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got to go with it. The other thing, when I
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talk to my clients, I say, we're never on the
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wrong path. There's a river that we flow in. We
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think we're on the wrong path, and what if I
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made this choice, where would I be? It doesn't matter,
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you're on the wrong path of whatever you choose. Spirit
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has a way of keeping you there, bringing the right
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people into your life and doing everything you need right.
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And that's something that you said, you said, because I'm like,
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well what if you know? So we've been saying this
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is what we want, and Alison, here it is, here's
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the opportunity. But then oh but then there's this too. Now,
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but now what do we do? The universe is giving
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us this thing that we've wanted, but this might be
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a better option for us. So is it like snubbing
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the universe? And was like, no, universe isn't petty, it's
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not going to be like, well, screen, you didn't take it,
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So that's it.
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That was your one chance.
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Yeah, you get door number three now.
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And sometimes because you don't make a choice now, you
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get a better option later, right, because the universe is like,
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oh no, we're still going to make that happen for you.
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But here's something bigger and better than you can't even imagine, right,
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here's something great.
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So yeah, and ultimately, just I know people are on
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pins and needles, wondering what did we decide? What do
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we decide? Rest assured, I think we made the right decision.
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I think after thinking this thing's too because now it's
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giving us more time. We're staying by the way, this
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is what we're just having.
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You slept through the night, I did Your body kind
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of responded.
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Yeah, that's true. Yeah, so well good.
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Only we had spoken with her that day before yesterday, I.
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Know you would have relieved a lot of pressure. Okay, right, well,
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now we know anytime we got a big decision Crystal,
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how does it feel. I don't think. We won't do it.
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We are those people. We will knock on your door.
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How did you come to trust in this and and
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really learn to trust your intuition?
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Oh? My goodness, trial and error, don't we all? Don't
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we all? We have to stumble and fall and most people,
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Let's say, for example, you're at the altar and this
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is my person and I'm I don't know, it's just
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not right. And then a year or two later, you
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get divorced or you know, you take a job. You're like, oh,
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this is going to be so great. It's harder than
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you anticipate. The hours suck, and boss is horrible. We
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don't go into these things blindly. There's a part of
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us that knows that this might not work out. You know,
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that little sliver that we're overlooking, That will says I,
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I don't know that he's overlooking because it's so subtle.
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It is so quiet. It's like a feather touched you,
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but there's this chaos and noise in the background, so
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you can't tell that the feather touched you. Right, spirit
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is so quiet, so calm and reassuring, even in a
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car accident spirit saying get out of the way, Get
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out of the way, Get out of the way. It's
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nudging you. It's never gonna yell. You know this, this
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intuitive knowledge that we have at birth is here on
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purpose for us. We have to tune in.
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Does it have to be that way? What if we
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really want them to yell?
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I think you're going to have to do a bunch
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of talking because I haven't one person that it yells
484
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to them well with the megaphone.
485
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Yeah, actually, I would say probably. There have been times
486
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when it's yelled at me. Yeah, I get two by
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four to the head, kind of like okay, I got you,
488
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like breaking your ankle in your kind of thing.
489
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Yeah, anyway that after you've made the wrong choice, he
490
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will work himself to the bone and just kind of
491
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rush from one thing to the next to the next
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to the next.
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And he's been needing to slow down, and so he's
494
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been I think these very strong signals to slow down,
495
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and it did it. It took a broken leg the
496
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first day of our three week vacation in Europe to
497
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finally hit go, oh, yeah, maybe I need to slow down.
498
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Maybe the universe is telling me something like yeah, and
499
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enjoy it.
500
00:22:15.160 --> 00:22:17.440
Yeah, yeah, I just wish I wasn't so stubborn.
501
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I do too, for lots of reasons, but that's a
502
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different interview.
503
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Time will help that. So let's move up to the
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sacral chakra as we're doing chakras. So your sacral chokra
505
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is your creativity center. If you think about this area,
506
00:22:30.359 --> 00:22:32.559
it's your pelvic region where you want to give birth
507
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to something. This is your creativity center. What do I
508
00:22:35.079 --> 00:22:36.680
want to create in the world?
509
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Right?
510
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I mean this is literally where we have babies, this center.
511
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So you're going to have an idea that just comes
512
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to you, just pops in in your mind where you're
513
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not really thinking of something. That's when you know it's
514
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intuition instead of forcing it and cramming it and what's
515
00:22:50.160 --> 00:22:52.440
my anxiety telling me? And what's going on here? And
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00:22:52.480 --> 00:22:55.319
pushing and pushing your intuition is never something that you
517
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have to push against. It just pops in, just pops in.
518
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The idea is just or you'll get an inspiration out
519
00:23:01.880 --> 00:23:04.839
of nowhere. And this is your creativity center. Now, if
520
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you're not listening to it and you're repressing and holding,
521
00:23:08.519 --> 00:23:11.160
you're not going to get the answers there in your body. Right,
522
00:23:11.240 --> 00:23:13.200
you're not going to pay attention to that, but it
523
00:23:13.240 --> 00:23:15.319
is something that just will just come out of the blue,
524
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something you just create. Some people want to be an artist.
525
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Suddenly they hit a certain age and go buy a
526
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red Corvette or whatever. There's my inspiration and that's what's
527
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right for me. Oh maybe not right your will right now? Now?
528
00:23:28.680 --> 00:23:35.559
Oh, come on the tuya, the duya. It sounds great,
529
00:23:35.599 --> 00:23:40.079
and I guess it could maybe explain the with midlife
530
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crisis things that people do some of.
531
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Them or they're not listening to their intuition and they're
532
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doing it anyway. Now there's I won't say a dark
533
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side to your intuition, but if this is the area
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in your body, because we're talking about our body, if
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you're not listening and things get stuck and repressed, you
536
00:23:54.759 --> 00:23:58.279
could have some you know, UTIs, some bladder issues, some
537
00:23:59.240 --> 00:24:02.039
low libido, whatever it is in this center or as
538
00:24:02.079 --> 00:24:04.799
we go through the centers, other blocks because you're just
539
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not listening to what the world wants you to create.
540
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This is where you're supposed to be doing things. Instead
541
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of having someone say, oh you can't do that, that's
542
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not good enough. You're never gonna make it, and they
543
00:24:14.920 --> 00:24:19.200
start to chip away at your intuitive feelings of creating,
544
00:24:20.240 --> 00:24:22.400
and we suck that in, we take that in, and
545
00:24:22.440 --> 00:24:25.480
then we have health problems along the way. But yeah,
546
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there's always a shadow side to it.
547
00:24:27.559 --> 00:24:30.640
Would this also be responsible for those aha moments?
548
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Absolutely? Some people wake up in the morning and have
549
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that idea. Some people get them in the shower because
550
00:24:36.599 --> 00:24:39.599
it just usually intuitive hits happen when you're not thinking
551
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about the deal. I tell people, get your body busy.
552
00:24:43.480 --> 00:24:45.880
Ask the bigger question. Here it is. I'm going to
553
00:24:45.960 --> 00:24:47.839
use an example. Should I marry this person or get
554
00:24:47.920 --> 00:24:50.240
take this job? Right? Here's the bigger question. Your body
555
00:24:50.240 --> 00:24:52.359
knows the question. We don't have to keep pushing that
556
00:24:52.400 --> 00:24:54.359
elevator button. Well what about this? What about that? We
557
00:24:54.440 --> 00:24:56.559
leave the question out there. Now, go take the dog
558
00:24:56.599 --> 00:24:58.680
for a walk, Go do a load of laundry, go
559
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cook a pot of soup. And in the meantime, if
560
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you're really paying attention to what I'm doing in the body,
561
00:25:03.359 --> 00:25:05.839
I'm taking this walk in the woods, I'm cooking and
562
00:25:05.880 --> 00:25:08.200
cutting the carrots, and I'm here in this moment, and
563
00:25:08.240 --> 00:25:10.720
you'll get a download of Oh, that's what I'm supposed
564
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to do. You have to check out of the question
565
00:25:13.599 --> 00:25:15.880
and the problem and the issue. You have to completely
566
00:25:15.960 --> 00:25:18.400
check out and let your body physically be doing something
567
00:25:18.720 --> 00:25:20.559
so you can get the downloads and the ideas.
568
00:25:21.200 --> 00:25:23.680
Wow, maybe that's why I like cooking so much. My
569
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toes like zen for me. I'll just sit there and
570
00:25:25.279 --> 00:25:26.839
just chop and I just kind of zone out.
571
00:25:27.359 --> 00:25:28.519
And you know, I've been meaning to get some of
572
00:25:28.599 --> 00:25:32.319
those adult coloring books, Yeah, because those do really well
573
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for me.
574
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You needed that two days ago before you made your decision.
575
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I blame our own scheduling system. Yeah, had I known, though, You.
576
00:25:48.680 --> 00:25:51.000
Can just create your own coloring books now out of
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this creative center and say, when you're really stressed out
578
00:25:53.559 --> 00:25:56.119
for a being decision, color in these books designed by
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Will and Carrot.
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Skeptic Metaphysician Coloring Books.
581
00:25:59.799 --> 00:26:00.519
That's amazing.
582
00:26:00.720 --> 00:26:02.640
Thank you for the business idea that's ahead.
583
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You always get something better than you can imagine, right,
584
00:26:06.880 --> 00:26:08.559
little side, hustle on the side for you.
585
00:26:09.559 --> 00:26:20.880
Let's take a break and we'll be right back and
586
00:26:20.960 --> 00:26:23.359
now back to the skeptic metaphysicians.
587
00:26:27.160 --> 00:26:29.319
Spirit will push you on the places that you are
588
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excited for, whether they bring you money or not. It's
589
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we're here for the joy. What brings you joy, and
590
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follow that and then money follows.
591
00:26:38.680 --> 00:26:41.079
And that's the thing, right, it doesn't have to go
592
00:26:41.519 --> 00:26:44.519
in that order, the money and then it'll bring you joy. Right,
593
00:26:44.599 --> 00:26:46.799
if you're doing it for the right reasons, like you said,
594
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your joy, the universe will give you what you need.
595
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So if we do go follow our path, if something
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has happened and we had to go, as long as
597
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we're enjoying what we're doing and not worried about it,
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not adding stress and causing block, we will have everything
599
00:27:01.640 --> 00:27:05.279
that we need. But that's hard to internalize, you know.
600
00:27:05.519 --> 00:27:08.759
Most of the times, will it's because of generational patterning
601
00:27:09.200 --> 00:27:11.319
what your parents do and they say you should have this,
602
00:27:11.559 --> 00:27:13.559
for example, like a nine to five Monday through Friday.
603
00:27:13.559 --> 00:27:15.160
Once you quit and you get out of the corporate world,
604
00:27:15.279 --> 00:27:17.279
all the whole world's going to end because they were
605
00:27:17.319 --> 00:27:19.920
programmed and that was their safety zone. And it's kind
606
00:27:19.960 --> 00:27:22.480
of impressed upon you to do it a certain way.
607
00:27:22.480 --> 00:27:24.359
And if you're not and you're going outside the box,
608
00:27:24.720 --> 00:27:28.960
that fear is not just yours. It's generational. That's laying
609
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on your shoulders.
610
00:27:30.200 --> 00:27:32.279
No, that's so right, Yes, it's so right, because that
611
00:27:32.680 --> 00:27:34.720
was the big fear is and I can't. I sat
612
00:27:34.759 --> 00:27:37.720
to Karen. It's a way to need to provide and
613
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the way that I know. I've got the security of
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00:27:39.839 --> 00:27:42.039
a paycheck every two weeks. I get the benefits I
615
00:27:42.039 --> 00:27:45.720
can provide. But the other side, where it's not as
616
00:27:45.759 --> 00:27:51.279
steady anything it is, it is Yeah, that is crazy, scary.
617
00:27:51.400 --> 00:27:54.400
So take the leap. That's where our biggest growth is
618
00:27:54.440 --> 00:27:56.000
truly is taking leaps.
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I know I know that too, and I okay, we're
620
00:28:00.119 --> 00:28:03.640
taking the leap conservatively. Good, Okay, right, we're taking the
621
00:28:03.680 --> 00:28:07.000
leap conservatively. We're not resting in our laurels. We have
622
00:28:07.079 --> 00:28:08.960
decided to move in one direction, but we know we're
623
00:28:08.960 --> 00:28:12.079
going to use this direction in order to launch pad
624
00:28:12.200 --> 00:28:14.400
into the other direction. They'll take a little bit more
625
00:28:14.400 --> 00:28:15.880
effort on our part, but it will be worth it
626
00:28:15.920 --> 00:28:18.000
at the end because then it won't matter what happens here.
627
00:28:18.200 --> 00:28:21.839
We'll have here, this already laid out in front of us. Wow,
628
00:28:21.880 --> 00:28:23.319
we are looking at us. We are working out our
629
00:28:23.359 --> 00:28:25.640
problems right on the air, right here. We keep your crystal.
630
00:28:27.440 --> 00:28:28.640
You know you got this.
631
00:28:29.400 --> 00:28:31.519
No, no, you are the catalyst for this. We'd really
632
00:28:31.559 --> 00:28:34.240
appreciate that. This has really started the conversation going in
633
00:28:34.640 --> 00:28:37.400
into hyperdrive, which is great. So we talked about several
634
00:28:37.440 --> 00:28:38.839
different chakras. Are there are there more?
635
00:28:38.920 --> 00:28:42.000
Hey, yeah, let's go to the gut instinct, the solar plexus.
636
00:28:42.039 --> 00:28:44.119
Everybody talks about this is where I fill it, am
637
00:28:44.160 --> 00:28:47.000
I up because that's it's almost the chakra that's biggest
638
00:28:47.039 --> 00:28:49.359
and open most all the time. You walk into a
639
00:28:49.440 --> 00:28:53.240
room and you're like, ooh, something's off here. Your chakras
640
00:28:53.279 --> 00:28:56.119
look like funnels. They're big on the outside and they're
641
00:28:56.160 --> 00:28:58.920
really fine tuned right next to your body. So when
642
00:28:58.920 --> 00:29:01.200
you walk into a room here, you've got like megaphone
643
00:29:01.480 --> 00:29:03.359
to walking into the room or the job or the
644
00:29:03.440 --> 00:29:05.599
career or the choices. Right it's it's huge, and it's
645
00:29:05.640 --> 00:29:09.559
amplified and you're picking things up. So your solar plexus
646
00:29:09.640 --> 00:29:13.400
is your control center, your empowerment center. Where do I feel,
647
00:29:13.440 --> 00:29:15.000
do I have self confidence?
648
00:29:15.079 --> 00:29:15.599
Do I have?
649
00:29:16.160 --> 00:29:19.000
You know? Self esteem? In this area, this is where
650
00:29:19.039 --> 00:29:21.920
you get the butterflies and your prickols on your skin.
651
00:29:22.519 --> 00:29:25.400
It's just one of the most intense chakras that you're
652
00:29:25.440 --> 00:29:29.079
picking up. So on the opposite side, for those that
653
00:29:29.240 --> 00:29:32.000
don't listen to their intuition, You're going to get digestive
654
00:29:32.079 --> 00:29:36.880
issues or stomach issues or problems related to your digestion
655
00:29:37.559 --> 00:29:40.039
because you're not paying attention to what's the world telling
656
00:29:40.079 --> 00:29:42.400
me or am I not following it?
657
00:29:42.880 --> 00:29:44.720
That makes a lot of sense for me, because I
658
00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:47.240
do have some stomach issues whenever I get stressed. But
659
00:29:48.119 --> 00:29:51.519
you say, if you are not tuning into it, you're
660
00:29:51.519 --> 00:29:53.920
going to have these issues. So how do you prevent
661
00:29:54.039 --> 00:29:57.240
that from happening, whether it's your stomach issues or your
662
00:29:57.279 --> 00:30:00.440
solar plexus or your root chakra. How do you How
663
00:30:00.480 --> 00:30:04.079
does will get beyond and finding get out of all
664
00:30:04.119 --> 00:30:05.119
the medical bills?
665
00:30:05.400 --> 00:30:08.000
Okay, well again you're gonna have to sit with yourself
666
00:30:08.000 --> 00:30:10.480
well and think neck down. How does my body feel
667
00:30:10.559 --> 00:30:12.720
right now? I always have people check in with your
668
00:30:12.720 --> 00:30:15.279
body first and then ask I want to get rid
669
00:30:15.279 --> 00:30:17.480
of my stomach issues? How does my body feel? My
670
00:30:17.480 --> 00:30:19.759
body feels like I need to stop drinking black coffee
671
00:30:19.839 --> 00:30:21.799
or black tea. Okay, that's what my body's telling me.
672
00:30:22.079 --> 00:30:25.160
Random thoughts, you know, and it will come out of
673
00:30:25.160 --> 00:30:27.000
the moment, out of the blue. Maybe I need to
674
00:30:27.000 --> 00:30:29.519
not take the supplement anymore. That's just what it's telling me.
675
00:30:29.559 --> 00:30:31.480
I'm going to take it out for a minute. Just
676
00:30:31.519 --> 00:30:33.480
start to pay attention to what your body's saying.
677
00:30:34.039 --> 00:30:37.000
Okay, so you are flipping it from the way that
678
00:30:37.039 --> 00:30:40.200
I thought. I thought you were saying that your body's
679
00:30:40.240 --> 00:30:42.519
constantly giving you messages and if you don't listen to it,
680
00:30:42.519 --> 00:30:43.839
it'll give you the stomach.
681
00:30:43.519 --> 00:30:46.599
Issues if you're not. For example, if you're supposed to
682
00:30:46.599 --> 00:30:48.799
be creative and be an artist and do all these things,
683
00:30:48.799 --> 00:30:51.000
but you're afraid of the family, and they're like, that's stupid.
684
00:30:51.079 --> 00:30:53.119
You need a nine to five, don't do that right,
685
00:30:53.160 --> 00:30:56.000
And you're tuning that out. Your intuition keeps talking to
686
00:30:56.039 --> 00:30:57.680
you and you're tuning it out, so you're going to
687
00:30:57.720 --> 00:30:59.359
continue to have those health problems.
688
00:31:00.279 --> 00:31:03.079
It okay, so I was right? Then, Okay, do people
689
00:31:03.160 --> 00:31:07.079
feel one over another or can you train yourself to
690
00:31:07.119 --> 00:31:10.480
feel them all? Or is there one specific we're supposed
691
00:31:10.519 --> 00:31:11.440
to be listening to.
692
00:31:11.880 --> 00:31:14.200
It's whatever's coming in for you. Some people get them
693
00:31:14.240 --> 00:31:17.039
stronger in the heart or the throat than the rest
694
00:31:17.039 --> 00:31:19.240
of them. It's just I'm just giving you tips of
695
00:31:19.279 --> 00:31:21.160
where you might feel it and go, oh, this is
696
00:31:21.200 --> 00:31:24.559
my intuition telling me, right, Okay, that's oh, that's what
697
00:31:24.599 --> 00:31:27.640
that means. Most people just think intuition and it's one feeling,
698
00:31:27.720 --> 00:31:30.720
and that's fine, covers it all. But it does sit
699
00:31:30.759 --> 00:31:33.359
in your body. You're going to have a reaction viscerally
700
00:31:33.480 --> 00:31:35.480
in your body of some sort when you're picking up
701
00:31:35.519 --> 00:31:36.440
intuitive hits.
702
00:31:36.799 --> 00:31:40.119
Is this close to people talk about the clear cognizant,
703
00:31:40.279 --> 00:31:44.039
where people who are psychic in that sense that they
704
00:31:44.119 --> 00:31:46.079
just have a knowing. Is that the same thing? Are
705
00:31:46.119 --> 00:31:47.000
we talking about? Same thing?
706
00:31:47.359 --> 00:31:50.200
A little more clear sentient? Is what we're talking Because.
707
00:31:49.920 --> 00:31:52.079
You're feeling it, Ah, feeling got it?
708
00:31:52.279 --> 00:31:54.359
You're feeling it like you're getting the goosebumps, and why
709
00:31:54.440 --> 00:31:56.799
is my heart racing? And why am I getting sweaty?
710
00:31:56.799 --> 00:31:59.920
And you know, it's a feeling, it's a physical feeling.
711
00:32:00.839 --> 00:32:04.519
But yes, but yes, Let's say you just met someone
712
00:32:04.519 --> 00:32:06.160
for the first time, in your heart starts speaking, You're like,
713
00:32:06.440 --> 00:32:08.279
I know this person, we're supposed to be together, this
714
00:32:08.359 --> 00:32:11.599
is my soulmate. Like there's a visceral feeling that sort
715
00:32:11.640 --> 00:32:11.920
of thing.
716
00:32:12.319 --> 00:32:14.559
If we're talking about chakras, like is there a crown
717
00:32:14.640 --> 00:32:16.640
chakra one or or third eye chakra one?
718
00:32:16.680 --> 00:32:20.319
No, it's below the neck and I stop at the heart,
719
00:32:20.400 --> 00:32:23.000
but when I get to the throat, it's about speaking
720
00:32:23.079 --> 00:32:25.400
your tooth. So your heart chakra is the one on
721
00:32:25.400 --> 00:32:28.559
one connections. Let's say you're in a relationship and suddenly
722
00:32:28.559 --> 00:32:30.440
you're just like, I don't know, I'm feeling something's off.
723
00:32:30.680 --> 00:32:33.480
If nothing's even changed, but you're just feeling that's off.
724
00:32:33.599 --> 00:32:35.519
You could be a friend, it could be a coworker.
725
00:32:35.759 --> 00:32:38.200
You could go to work and go, how you doing today, Sally,
726
00:32:38.240 --> 00:32:40.559
and she's like, I'm fine, but you know instantly something's
727
00:32:40.559 --> 00:32:43.119
not right. That's the one on one connection. Your heart
728
00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:46.240
chakra is telling you that that's your intuition picking that up. Okay,
729
00:32:46.839 --> 00:32:48.759
that's just an example of the heart chakra. When we
730
00:32:48.799 --> 00:32:51.160
get to the throat chakra, it's about speaking your truth.
731
00:32:51.799 --> 00:32:54.759
Most people don't. Ninety nine percent of the people that
732
00:32:54.799 --> 00:32:57.519
I work on with reiki and energy work are closed
733
00:32:57.519 --> 00:33:01.759
off on their throat chakra. Again, generational program of don't
734
00:33:01.759 --> 00:33:04.559
speak you know, that's a bad attitude. Don't say that
735
00:33:04.599 --> 00:33:08.319
to your sister data. We just tuned out, tuned out.
736
00:33:08.559 --> 00:33:10.200
So in order to open that up, we have to
737
00:33:10.200 --> 00:33:12.920
speak our truth to ourself. Get in the car and sing.
738
00:33:13.079 --> 00:33:14.599
Get in the car, and yell it out, get in
739
00:33:14.640 --> 00:33:16.440
the car and tell your truth whatever it is. But
740
00:33:16.480 --> 00:33:20.079
you have to start talking truth to yourself or we
741
00:33:20.119 --> 00:33:23.519
get on the opposite that thyroid problems, laryngitis, you know,
742
00:33:24.240 --> 00:33:27.440
it's throat problems because you're not trusting your own voice.
743
00:33:28.640 --> 00:33:31.039
I've heard that you're supposed to be to speak your
744
00:33:31.039 --> 00:33:33.079
truth to people like you're not like what it was
745
00:33:33.079 --> 00:33:36.079
a Conversations with Godbook four, I think is one that
746
00:33:36.160 --> 00:33:41.119
says highly evolved beings don't not speak the truth at
747
00:33:41.119 --> 00:33:45.279
all times? Right? Is that better? Or is it really.
748
00:33:45.200 --> 00:33:48.799
Just someone who hasn't spoke them truth their whole life?
749
00:33:49.200 --> 00:33:51.160
And now baby steps? Maybe I just need to start
750
00:33:51.240 --> 00:33:53.880
humming because it's breaking up the throat. Maybe I need
751
00:33:53.880 --> 00:33:56.079
to start singing. Maybe in the car, I'm singing. Maybe
752
00:33:56.079 --> 00:33:57.680
in the car. I'm just like, I can't believe you
753
00:33:57.720 --> 00:34:00.440
did that to me, x y Z. I don't like that,
754
00:34:00.480 --> 00:34:02.400
and I want to tell my boss off right. I'm
755
00:34:02.440 --> 00:34:04.359
starting to get it out, and now I'm a little braver.
756
00:34:04.480 --> 00:34:07.039
I can hear my own voice. When we're born, the
757
00:34:07.079 --> 00:34:10.400
only voices rerecognize first are usually our parents and our own.
758
00:34:10.760 --> 00:34:13.480
That's why babies will make sounds googo, go go, little
759
00:34:13.559 --> 00:34:17.840
noises because it's reverberating in their lungs, in their bronchial
760
00:34:18.000 --> 00:34:20.360
system and up through their ears. They recognize your own
761
00:34:20.440 --> 00:34:24.239
You recognize your own voice first. So when you hum
762
00:34:24.280 --> 00:34:26.840
and it's breaking that up, when you meditate and you chant,
763
00:34:27.199 --> 00:34:29.639
it's your own voice. It's calming, it's bringing you to
764
00:34:29.800 --> 00:34:33.280
an awareness of oh, my truth. And sometimes it'll crackle
765
00:34:33.320 --> 00:34:36.000
when it's not, and you'll go, where did that come from?
766
00:34:36.280 --> 00:34:39.199
This makes me sad though, for all the people that
767
00:34:39.599 --> 00:34:42.639
have no idea about any of this. Yeah, you know
768
00:34:42.679 --> 00:34:46.719
that are dealing with indigestion or you know, even worse
769
00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:49.280
cancers or whatever, because they've got their body kind of
770
00:34:49.280 --> 00:34:52.679
turning against them. It's we kind of just keep getting
771
00:34:52.840 --> 00:34:53.480
these words out.
772
00:34:53.559 --> 00:34:56.519
Yeah, it really comes down to awareness and who are
773
00:34:56.519 --> 00:34:58.960
we sharing that with? And where is my truth? And
774
00:34:59.039 --> 00:35:00.920
even if I can't speak it to my family because
775
00:35:00.960 --> 00:35:03.639
they won't understand, maybe I write it down then it
776
00:35:03.679 --> 00:35:05.920
still comes out of my body. You know, there's just
777
00:35:06.280 --> 00:35:09.119
you can work on these things. I do go up
778
00:35:09.199 --> 00:35:11.519
on the up to the eye, the third eye chakra,
779
00:35:12.159 --> 00:35:14.760
but it's not because it's a physical thing. Your third
780
00:35:14.800 --> 00:35:17.639
eye is seeing other realms or other dreams and other
781
00:35:17.679 --> 00:35:21.800
realities and other perceptions. But your physical eyes can also
782
00:35:21.840 --> 00:35:24.119
be used for your intuition. Like you're going to see
783
00:35:24.199 --> 00:35:26.920
someone lying to you, they'll have shifty eyes or they'll
784
00:35:26.920 --> 00:35:31.159
turn away. You'll just see something's not right. Your physical
785
00:35:31.159 --> 00:35:33.320
eyes can pick up your intuition there as well.
786
00:35:33.639 --> 00:35:36.800
I think the police actually detectives or whatever they're trained
787
00:35:36.920 --> 00:35:40.280
on lie detection, right, they can tell with body subtle
788
00:35:40.280 --> 00:35:43.760
body cues. There's specific people that can actually call that out.
789
00:35:43.920 --> 00:35:46.440
Yeah, like they'll like the pulse and stuff, and they
790
00:35:46.480 --> 00:35:48.079
they'll hold their hands and talk to them.
791
00:35:48.199 --> 00:35:50.360
But not even that they're just when they're talking to them,
792
00:35:50.360 --> 00:35:52.760
they'll actually they'll they'll just know. And maybe that's the
793
00:35:53.280 --> 00:35:54.239
tips that she's giving us.
794
00:35:54.480 --> 00:35:56.599
I was just thinking. So, we interviewed a light detector,
795
00:35:56.599 --> 00:35:58.679
not on this show, but on the show that we
796
00:35:58.760 --> 00:36:00.800
work on, and that was he has like the thing
797
00:36:00.800 --> 00:36:02.079
where he sets them all up and then they also
798
00:36:02.280 --> 00:36:04.360
hold on to their hand or their wrist and like
799
00:36:04.400 --> 00:36:06.719
you'll feel subtle changes impulse or like a little bit
800
00:36:06.760 --> 00:36:09.760
of hands starting to sweat or right. Right, it's very interesting,
801
00:36:10.199 --> 00:36:10.960
really interesting.
802
00:36:11.320 --> 00:36:13.760
Well, if you've I think it's on Netflix. So it
803
00:36:13.800 --> 00:36:16.440
could be another show, but it's called light to me
804
00:36:16.880 --> 00:36:18.719
where he just looks at him and they're twitching on
805
00:36:18.760 --> 00:36:20.760
the left side or they're rubbing their knee on the
806
00:36:20.840 --> 00:36:22.880
right side or something, and it's like, Oh, this happened
807
00:36:22.880 --> 00:36:25.079
because of that, you know, right. I love it. I
808
00:36:25.119 --> 00:36:25.800
love watching that.
809
00:36:26.239 --> 00:36:28.599
I heard somewhere that if you look up into the left,
810
00:36:28.599 --> 00:36:30.119
it's you're trying to make up a story, but if
811
00:36:30.159 --> 00:36:32.119
you looked up to your right, you're trying to remember
812
00:36:32.199 --> 00:36:32.719
or something.
813
00:36:32.599 --> 00:36:34.000
Like retrieving information.
814
00:36:34.519 --> 00:36:37.039
Right, So I keep forgetting which one it is. But
815
00:36:37.320 --> 00:36:39.320
every time I talk to someone and they start going
816
00:36:39.360 --> 00:36:40.840
this like, oh, is that is that a liar or
817
00:36:40.840 --> 00:36:43.519
the retraining, I'm trying to second guess, but I need
818
00:36:43.559 --> 00:36:45.119
to do more research on them before you can actually
819
00:36:45.880 --> 00:36:48.800
be sure about you're a liar. No, I'm just I'm
820
00:36:49.239 --> 00:36:52.960
trying to remember something. From now on, I'm going to
821
00:36:53.000 --> 00:36:55.920
start taking a moment and trying to figure out in
822
00:36:56.000 --> 00:36:58.960
my body where I'm feeling it. I'm assuming there is
823
00:36:59.000 --> 00:37:02.119
a way, by practice, you can enhance that or make
824
00:37:02.119 --> 00:37:02.559
it fall.
825
00:37:02.760 --> 00:37:05.360
I practice, and I tell people make it fun. For example,
826
00:37:05.400 --> 00:37:07.119
when you're trying to find a parking spot, okay, I'm
827
00:37:07.119 --> 00:37:09.039
going to get that parking spot up front, and maybe
828
00:37:09.039 --> 00:37:10.559
you don't get it, but the next day do. You
829
00:37:10.639 --> 00:37:13.320
have to build the muscle that your intuition is just
830
00:37:13.320 --> 00:37:15.239
like anything else. You have to keep practicing and keep
831
00:37:15.280 --> 00:37:17.880
building that muscle. Like Karen said earlier, you got the
832
00:37:17.920 --> 00:37:20.559
three cups with the rock inside or whatever. You're like, okay,
833
00:37:20.559 --> 00:37:23.400
what one is it? Right? And practice. The more fun
834
00:37:23.440 --> 00:37:26.199
you make it, use your children, use your friends, the
835
00:37:26.199 --> 00:37:29.360
more you're going to retain. And remember. I go through
836
00:37:29.400 --> 00:37:31.599
a lot of different tips when I teach this for people.
837
00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:35.280
The number one thing is stop right then and listen.
838
00:37:35.360 --> 00:37:37.639
When you get an intuitive hit, you have to stop
839
00:37:37.719 --> 00:37:40.159
right then. For example, like driving down the road, Oh,
840
00:37:40.239 --> 00:37:42.360
I should slow down. There's a cop that happened in
841
00:37:42.400 --> 00:37:45.559
a moment and I need to slow down and listen. Okay,
842
00:37:45.800 --> 00:37:47.840
Now you're like, okay, pass the cop, turn up the radio,
843
00:37:47.920 --> 00:37:51.119
start singing again. It's over. But in that moment you
844
00:37:51.239 --> 00:37:53.880
must take two seconds and pause what just happened to me.
845
00:37:54.280 --> 00:37:56.599
You might not make any sense of it. I don't
846
00:37:56.599 --> 00:37:59.159
know why I need to call my aunt in Carolina
847
00:37:59.400 --> 00:38:02.800
right now, but that came to me. There's people that
848
00:38:02.880 --> 00:38:05.199
regret things because they don't like, I got to call
849
00:38:05.239 --> 00:38:07.159
my mom and this happens at four o'clock and I'm
850
00:38:07.159 --> 00:38:09.079
taking my kid to soccer and I'll call her later
851
00:38:09.159 --> 00:38:11.159
and da da da da da. Like the next day
852
00:38:11.199 --> 00:38:13.079
she calls and says, oh, I filled off the ladder
853
00:38:13.079 --> 00:38:15.880
and broke my ankle at about four o'clock yesterday. Do
854
00:38:15.960 --> 00:38:17.960
you know what I mean? We know after the fact
855
00:38:18.119 --> 00:38:20.880
and we beat ourselves up, but stop in that moment
856
00:38:20.960 --> 00:38:24.159
when it's like that was an intuitive hit. Wow, that's cool,
857
00:38:24.199 --> 00:38:24.639
I got it.
858
00:38:24.760 --> 00:38:27.320
Make it fun and it's interesting because you know, you
859
00:38:27.320 --> 00:38:29.760
hear the term women's intuition a lot, and I think women,
860
00:38:30.199 --> 00:38:31.840
I don't know if that we tend to be more
861
00:38:31.840 --> 00:38:35.760
intuitive or it's to learn things. Well, I'm thinking about
862
00:38:36.000 --> 00:38:38.960
as a young woman growing up and like going out
863
00:38:38.960 --> 00:38:40.840
and all the stuff. You have to be aware of
864
00:38:40.880 --> 00:38:42.840
your surroundings and you meet someone, you get a vibe
865
00:38:42.840 --> 00:38:45.920
and you have to trust that vibe. And we're taught that,
866
00:38:46.480 --> 00:38:49.159
I think, at least by our mothers and by you know, trust.
867
00:38:49.239 --> 00:38:51.360
If you feel, you know, this guy feels creepy, just
868
00:38:51.400 --> 00:38:53.679
you know, cut and run. So I think in that,
869
00:38:53.719 --> 00:38:56.039
at least in that regard, I think my intuition is good.
870
00:38:56.400 --> 00:38:57.760
Job choices not so much.
871
00:38:57.840 --> 00:38:59.440
But I think that falls in one with the crystal
872
00:38:59.480 --> 00:39:02.760
saying is that you've developed it. You know, you've had
873
00:39:02.760 --> 00:39:04.920
a chance to develop that. For someone like me who
874
00:39:05.079 --> 00:39:08.559
hasn't had that thought process my entire life, I think
875
00:39:08.559 --> 00:39:10.559
it's difficult for me because I don't necessarily think. I
876
00:39:10.599 --> 00:39:12.960
live in the moment, so I might have a passing
877
00:39:13.000 --> 00:39:14.920
thought like there's a cop ole here, but it doesn't
878
00:39:15.000 --> 00:39:16.599
hit me like it's an intuitive hit. It's like, oh,
879
00:39:16.599 --> 00:39:18.400
it's a passing thought, and oh damn it, I went
880
00:39:18.440 --> 00:39:23.199
too fast. Right, Other than sitting going through every day,
881
00:39:23.480 --> 00:39:28.360
every second of every day, just like super vigilant, is
882
00:39:28.400 --> 00:39:31.119
there a way to someone like me who's pretty thick
883
00:39:31.280 --> 00:39:32.159
to pay attention.
884
00:39:33.119 --> 00:39:35.119
There's things you can do to start getting better and
885
00:39:35.159 --> 00:39:38.639
better when you can ask yourself, like check your own vibration,
886
00:39:38.880 --> 00:39:40.480
like what is going on? Am I in a bad mood?
887
00:39:40.679 --> 00:39:42.360
Did I just have a fight with someone? Or did
888
00:39:42.440 --> 00:39:44.159
I not get sleep last night? Why am I cranky?
889
00:39:44.199 --> 00:39:46.159
What's going on? You're not going to get your intuitive
890
00:39:46.239 --> 00:39:49.000
hits clearly if you're off right, if you're hungry, if
891
00:39:49.039 --> 00:39:51.360
you're angry, if you're cranky. None of that's going to happen.
892
00:39:51.360 --> 00:39:53.480
If you know that you have a big decision to make,
893
00:39:53.719 --> 00:39:55.199
you have to be in tune. So you have to
894
00:39:55.239 --> 00:39:57.480
have that. I tell people you have to drink plenty
895
00:39:57.480 --> 00:40:01.519
of water. Focusing on a computer. Focusing on a computer
896
00:40:01.599 --> 00:40:04.599
for just fifteen minutes can make you very dehydrated. I
897
00:40:04.599 --> 00:40:06.760
mean there's some studies on this that just focusing on
898
00:40:06.800 --> 00:40:09.519
my computer and doing my work and I'm dehydrated. And
899
00:40:10.039 --> 00:40:12.440
the brain uses the most right, So we need to
900
00:40:12.679 --> 00:40:15.280
hydrate our brain if we want our intuitive hits to
901
00:40:15.320 --> 00:40:17.760
come in. So being hydrated, eating clear foods and not
902
00:40:17.880 --> 00:40:21.519
junk food and not garbage and not processed, and know
903
00:40:21.679 --> 00:40:25.400
things that are going to give you that. Again, energy
904
00:40:25.440 --> 00:40:28.760
is very subtle. You almost miss it every time. So
905
00:40:28.880 --> 00:40:31.480
start paying attention to the very subtle things. Was that
906
00:40:31.559 --> 00:40:34.159
something Maybe it was, Maybe it wasn't, But I'm starting
907
00:40:34.239 --> 00:40:37.800
to pay attention. And just keeping yourself clear, keeping your
908
00:40:37.880 --> 00:40:41.920
vibration clear, shifting your breathing exhaling longer than you inhale
909
00:40:42.000 --> 00:40:43.679
will always help. It takes you out of fight or
910
00:40:43.679 --> 00:40:46.760
flight mode. Oh yeah, if you can do it three times,
911
00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:49.079
you're pushing against that vagus nerve in your body. That
912
00:40:49.119 --> 00:40:51.559
tells your body you're safe and you're calm, even if
913
00:40:51.599 --> 00:40:54.559
the house is on fire. Right, if you exhale longer
914
00:40:54.599 --> 00:40:57.360
then you inhale, it will tell your body you're safe.
915
00:40:58.079 --> 00:40:59.960
Your body will naturally do it. When you're stressed out
916
00:41:00.039 --> 00:41:04.079
and you're fighting or you're frustrated something, you'll just sigh. Right.
917
00:41:04.360 --> 00:41:07.679
Your body is like, oh, reset, this person's going crazy. Reset.
918
00:41:08.280 --> 00:41:12.239
I'm constantly sighing, and now you can take control of that.
919
00:41:12.360 --> 00:41:13.920
Now I'm just like, oh yeah, deep breath then and
920
00:41:13.920 --> 00:41:17.320
I'm going to really push that exhale. Do it three times,
921
00:41:17.519 --> 00:41:19.679
you know, after this call, See how you feel tonight
922
00:41:20.400 --> 00:41:21.559
if it starts to reset you.
923
00:41:21.880 --> 00:41:23.920
Yeah, And I like that, you know, having more water
924
00:41:24.000 --> 00:41:25.880
and really, you know, thinking about what you eat, because
925
00:41:25.880 --> 00:41:28.400
it is hard when you're rushing around and then you're
926
00:41:28.440 --> 00:41:30.079
eating crap and you're feeling bad about that, and then
927
00:41:30.079 --> 00:41:31.920
you're getting anxious about that. Then you're not sleeping, and
928
00:41:31.960 --> 00:41:34.159
then you're anxious about not sleeping. It's like it becomes
929
00:41:34.159 --> 00:41:36.760
aspicious cycle. So how can you listen to your body?
930
00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:40.639
Yeah? Yeah, just tuning in and waiting for the whispers.
931
00:41:41.000 --> 00:41:43.920
Mainly keeping your body busy I like, I say, I
932
00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:46.639
tell people, ask your question and leave it alone. Stop
933
00:41:46.679 --> 00:41:50.000
pushing that elevator button, walk away for twenty minutes, thirty
934
00:41:50.000 --> 00:41:51.760
minutes a day if you have to, and then come
935
00:41:51.760 --> 00:41:53.599
back to you. You're not allowed to repeat the question.
936
00:41:53.760 --> 00:41:55.280
You have to let it go and go make that
937
00:41:55.320 --> 00:41:56.760
soup and go fold clothes.
938
00:41:57.320 --> 00:41:59.880
But you have to actually ask it right now, just thinking.
939
00:42:00.119 --> 00:42:04.000
You can do it internally, because the universe knows your desires.
940
00:42:03.719 --> 00:42:06.760
But nothing like it does a passing glance question like ask.
941
00:42:06.840 --> 00:42:08.280
It's like, you got to actually make a point of
942
00:42:08.320 --> 00:42:12.760
asking the quest. I wonder releasing Yes. What if weeks
943
00:42:12.800 --> 00:42:15.199
go by and you don't get a psychic or intuitive
944
00:42:15.239 --> 00:42:17.400
hit and you're like, I can't how's the question again?
945
00:42:17.440 --> 00:42:17.920
Oh my god?
946
00:42:17.960 --> 00:42:21.440
Yeah, Usually that doesn't happen. You have some sort of inclination.
947
00:42:21.639 --> 00:42:23.239
And this is where you have to pay attention to
948
00:42:23.239 --> 00:42:25.360
the subtle hits because sometimes it's an answer you don't
949
00:42:25.360 --> 00:42:28.000
want to hear. You might get a know of something
950
00:42:28.000 --> 00:42:30.719
that you really want and go, oh that was a note.
951
00:42:30.760 --> 00:42:32.719
Now I got to sit with myself. Now now I
952
00:42:32.719 --> 00:42:35.039
got to go back to that truth parometer. Okay, I
953
00:42:35.079 --> 00:42:37.400
got to know on this. So how does this feel
954
00:42:37.400 --> 00:42:39.599
and your brain will want to check you out again,
955
00:42:39.639 --> 00:42:41.440
so always come back to Okay, yeah, what's my truth?
956
00:42:41.559 --> 00:42:44.159
My name is blank? My name is blank? Right for
957
00:42:44.239 --> 00:42:46.880
my truth? That's how it feels. Now I've got this hit.
958
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Is it true that I should not do this or
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I should? You know, whatever it feels like, and if
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your body goes still and calm, like there is no
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pressure in your body, that's your answer and you just
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have to go with it. We see.
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Maybe that's why my name didn't really work, because I've
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never liked my name, and now it's pretty much a
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bad word. I don't feel like my name right to
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put questions.
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So let's say, and I don't know really about you.
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You could say I have two kids and that would
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be your truth. Or if that's your truth, right, or
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or I live in Manhattan or I live whatever. There's
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a truth, and then give yourself a false and you'll
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still have the same results.
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Okay, I'm the king of the world.
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False faults.
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I feel very calm.
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Actually, maybe his is reversed.
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Dang, it's like you know me like her. We did
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start with the opposite day right before we started recording.
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So oh, that's funny.
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All right, Why do you think people have such a
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hard time trusting their intuition.
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I think it's twofold. I think it's generational that we've
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been taught to believe to make the right choices to
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do a thing, and everyone wants what's right for us.
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Your parents want you to make the right choices, and
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so than we do when we fumble. But we're meant
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to live our own life. We're in our own body,
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we're in our own soul, so we're meant to fumble
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and fall on our face. Number one, I think it's generational.
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Number two, I think we've ignored it. When I teach
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intuition classes, I say about five or six years old,
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we start to tune it out. We get into the
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societal norm of going to school and the teachers saying, hey,
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little Johnny, you're so good at math. Right, you're so good.
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Look how good you are. And you're little Johnny and
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you're playing with your truck and you're coloring, and that's
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what you love to do. They're telling you something, but
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your intuition's like I loved color and I love the trucks.
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But pretty soon now you take your report card home
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and your parents are saying, oh, litle Johnny, you're so
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good at math, Look how good you are, And they
1002
00:44:39.880 --> 00:44:42.480
start telling you what you are and what you're not,
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So you start tuning out what you believe. Usually about
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eighteen to twenty we go, I don't know. Am I
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going to college? Am I not? Am I getting a job?
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You're trying to check back in, right, And then usually
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I see clients again. By twenty five, that's like, I
1008
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don't know anything. I got married, I got divorced. I
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thought it was right. I have no idea. We start
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00:44:59.840 --> 00:45:02.639
to tune it back in because we've forgotten it's other
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00:45:02.679 --> 00:45:06.480
people's programmings around us to fit in the norm. I mean,
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it's everywhere. It's not just your parents did this to you, right,
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They don't know any better if they had that done
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to them.
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We just need to change the world, is what it is. Yeah,
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absolutely pretty much one hundred changed it and.
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Just allow our little ones. And when they feel inspired
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and they see, you know, their play friends and invisible
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00:45:22.400 --> 00:45:26.159
play friends, and they feel just so creative and they're
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just so in love with life, that's where we need
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to keep them and support them. And what else do
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you see? What else do you want? And they would
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never shut off their intuition. It would just keep growing
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and growing and better our world.
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Well, speaking of intuition, I have an intuition hit. I
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think I get the feeling that you. Wait, second, you
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wrote a bestseller that released in July, didn't you.
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It's like your psychic look at that.
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I'm just I'm feeling very still. I'm very very calm.
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So tell us about your book.
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They did.
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Yeah, it's called trusting your intuition and listening to the
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spirit with it. And it's really just kind of so
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you can fine tune all the things we've went over today,
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giving examples, giving different opportunities, and just learning to trust
1036
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that flow. It feels awkward at first if you haven't
1037
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practiced it because it's so subtle. We want to ignore it,
1038
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we want to forget it. But it keeps pushing and pushing,
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and if something's not right for you, it's going to
1040
00:46:20.599 --> 00:46:23.079
push you right out the door to say no, this
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00:46:23.199 --> 00:46:24.360
is right for you. Get going.
1042
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It starts with a whisper and then with a two
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by four of the head. We say it all the
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time on the show. Right, Yeah, you should see that,
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you got a listened it no matter what. So where
1046
00:46:32.639 --> 00:46:35.199
can someone get the book if they want right.
1047
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They can get it on Amazon, they can order it
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on my website and I can ship it to them.
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Blossoming medium dot com is my website. I offer a
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bunch of different classes, usually on zoom, so people can
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get a recording afterwards. I think I have an upcoming
1052
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class teaching you how to connect to your spirit guides
1053
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and angels coming up, so there's just a lot of opportunity.
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I also have an oracle card deck that I published
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when I published this book. They kind of go with
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each other, but not. I mean, they're just fun their
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nature scenes. They got the little sayings on there, Like
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I was saying, intuition works moment to moment, just little
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cards and reminders that we can we can do this ourselves.
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We can have this muscle back even if the world
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is saying no and it's decisions that the family's saying
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this isn't going to fit, that's not going to work.
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But you are so calm inside that you are just
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that I in the middle of the storm. That's your
1065
00:47:25.360 --> 00:47:28.400
intuitive hit, that's so strong going. I know this is
1066
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right for me. I don't care what everyone else thinks,
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and usually you'll act on that and you'll see later
1068
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on that that was right for you.
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Got it now, all right? So we're going to add
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a direct link in our show notes to your website.
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If you didn't happen to have a pen when she
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mentioned it really quickly, you only need to do those
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skeptic meposition dot com go to her episode page. You
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will find that link directly laid in there, so it's
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easy for you to connect with her. I'm really curious
1076
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about your book, so you've got at least one sale
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out of this. So it's been really great talking to you.
1078
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You have opened up my eyes to a lot of
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things that I just took for granted. So thank you
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for taking the time and teaching me.
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How to and the tips. I love when you give
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us actual tips and make it just seem She has
1083
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a very practical way of explaining it.
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Which is perfect for our audience. Right we are the
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skeptical physicians, right. This is practical tips for to move
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it forward. And the best thing about it is that
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it wasn't all huge wore though it is rooted in
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WU the intuition, but it was very pragmatic and I
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love that so Thank you so much for sharing your
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wisdom with us. This is wonderful.
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Thank you for having me.
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It's all for now. We will see you on the
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next episode of The Skeptic Metaphysician. Until then, take care,