INFORMAZIONI SU QUESTO EPISODIO
What happens when our desire to protect our kids starts getting in the way of preparing them?
In this episode, Suzanne sits down with bestselling authors and counselors Sissy Goff and David Thomas to talk about what it really takes to raise capable kids — children who can face discomfort, navigate hard emotions, solve problems, take healthy risks, and grow through adversity.
Drawing from more than 30 years of counseling kids and families, Sissy and David unpack some of the cultural and parenting patterns that may unintentionally be weakening resilience. They talk about empathy without emotionalism, the language we use around trauma and triggers, the limits of constantly rescuing our kids, and why capability is built through experience — not simply explained.
And if you're realizing you may have over-helped, over-protected, or created patterns you want to change, this conversation offers plenty of hope. Parents can shift the environment at home and begin giving kids the opportunity to discover just how capable they really are.
In This Episode→ Why resilience and capability matter more than constant comfort → How rescuing, overprotecting, and some parenting trends can unintentionally hold kids back → The difference between healthy empathy and allowing emotions to lead everything → How words like trauma, trigger, and toxic can shape the way kids understand difficulty → Practical ways to help kids build confidence, coping skills, and independence → How parents can change course — even after years of doing things differently
Meet Sissy + DavidSissy Goff, M.Ed., LPC-MHSP, and David Thomas, LMSW, are New York Times, Publishers Weekly, and USA Today bestselling authors and the Executive Directors of Daystar Counseling Ministries in Nashville.
For more than 30 years, they've helped children, teens, and families navigate the challenges of growing up. Together, they've written 25 bestselling books and co-host the Raising Boys and Girls podcast, which has been downloaded more than 15 million times.
Their newest book, Capable: How to Teach Your Kids the Strengths, Skills, and Strategies to Build Resilience, equips parents with practical ways to help children discover their strength, courage, and capability.
Connect with Sissy + David📲 Instagram → @sissygoff 📲 Instagram → @raisingboysandgirls 🌐 Learn more about Capable → www.raisingboysandgirls.com/capablebook 📚 Capable: How to Teach Your Kids the Strengths, Skills, and Strategies to Build Resilience → Buy Here
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