Flown Out

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Episode 156.
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What's in your cup?
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Another wonderful strawberry margarita.
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And today you got a little fancy with the garnishes.
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So I was inspired by Julia from Island Way Grill in Clearwater, Florida.
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Shout out to Julia.
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She made us a peach margarita that smoked, that fizzled, that had all the accoutrements.
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It did.
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And I was like, okay, Julia.
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I gotta set my shit up, girl.
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Thank you.
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So I took a little page at her book.
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I love it.
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And, you know, made it cute.
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I love it.
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We got a little strawberry, a little lime, and then a little piece of mint there because it's cute.
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Because it's cute.
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And you gotta, you know, romanticize your life.
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We are about to drop all the details from last week.
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And I wanted to do it with a cutie little thing on the side.
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I love it.
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Because it was amazing.
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It was an amazing time.
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It was the best fucking trip ever.
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Like it just, it was, it was amazing.
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And I'm excited to give all the juicy details because we were there for five days, and every single day was an adventure.
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And I think it truly unlocked something for us.
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Like, I want more of this.
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Please, and thank you.
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So we were asked to help plan a wedding that was out of state, which we have done before.
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Yeah.
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Um, but this time we went a little bit further and we planned it in Clearwater, Florida.
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Yeah.
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And we've been planning for a year now.
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I know.
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It has been like a year and a day to the wedding date.
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Yeah.
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And it wasn't until we landed in Tampa, Florida, where I was like, oh, that's what we're doing here.
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We just got flown out from Rochester, New York to Tampa, Florida to plan a wedding.
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Oh.
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To run a show.
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And that we did.
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I never once in a million cajillion years, quindillion years, ever had on my bucket list uh I want to host an event in a different city, in a different state, in a different country, maybe.
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I never, not one time, not when we started this business, not before we started this business.
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It just was never on the list.
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So when I get to cross off something from my list that I didn't even know that was like on the list, when we sat at the kitchen table five and a half years ago and really kind of we had that conversation of are we gonna do this?
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Is this gonna be a business?
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And what do we want should this business become successful?
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And I just remember us always wanting to keep it so small, so small and cute.
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I just want to be this little boutique planner, like something that's just so cute and little and home and everything was here.
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I never not once had the thought that I would plan events outside of Rochester, New York.
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Like, not even like Syracuse, not even Buffalo, right?
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Like, not even the surrounding areas did I think that our business was going to expand to.
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So to now know that our business has expanded all the way down the East Coast, all the way down to Clear Waterfold from Rochester, New York, I I am so full.
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I it's it's my golden arches, baby.
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It's just the golden arches.
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I can do this anywhere.
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And I think given how our week had gone, I needed that grounding.
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I needed to know that this was what I was meant to do.
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And I I would say Clearwater Florida delivered that a thousand percent.
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I am made to do this.
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I'm made to get on planes, I'm made to coordinate these magical moments.
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I'm I'm made to curate a core memory, unlike any other core memory you're going to experience from beginning to end, from from finding every single place, every single vendor, every single piece of this wedding to executing all of those pieces on one day.
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Like I'm blown away.
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I'm blown away by what we did, how we did it, and I want more.
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I want more of it.
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And because we want more, we're gonna get it because that's how the universe works.
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And let's get into it.
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Yeah, so we landed in Clearwater, Florida on a Tuesday because we like to give ourselves time, right?
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We needed time to do all the last-minute errands that we normally run up here.
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So we had the day, we had the time, and it was lovely.
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So grateful for that for building that in.
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Go us.
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Yeah.
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So the wedding was on Thursday.
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So it was a Thursday wedding.
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So yeah, we landed on Tuesday.
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We got there Tuesday morning.
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So plenty of time to do all the last minute things that we would normally do up here in the last couple of days before.
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And we made it a point to have dinner with our beautiful couple because we've done all of this virtually.
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Yeah.
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Every meeting, every planning session, everything has been done via text or the computer because they're out of state also.
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So we were none of us were actually in the state where the wedding was happening.
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We were all kind of spread throughout.
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And that was a magical night because it felt like, okay, now, now we begin this, these days to follow.
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Yeah.
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Well, I mean, we run this timeline a trillion times, right?
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Like the first half of wedding planning is truly just us finding the vendors and scouting and doing all these things.
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And so I would say it was probably not until we got about five, six months into planning where then we really started to drill into the timeline.
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And what does that look like?
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But from six months to 12 months, we talk about that timeline a lot, right?
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And then especially when it's a destination, uh, it's never just one day, it's never just one little event, it's never just the wedding, right?
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There's so many other things that go in it.
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So this was literally a three-day event.
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Um, so you know, we talked about this timeline incessantly.
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And therefore, we talked about having dinner with them finally, right?
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This virtual planning for 12 months was finally going to come to fruition.
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On this night, we were going to be together in person and be able to like break bread and celebrate the beginning of what was going to be the best time of their lives.
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And that's exactly how it went down.
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So it was it was crazy to like talk about it, talk about it, talk about it.
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You just we talked about it incessantly for so long, especially the last month of planning.
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We talk about it weekly.
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And now here we are, right?
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Now we get to that point where it's almost like our planning catches up with reality, and now is the time.
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We plan in the future.
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Everything is in the future, and then now time has caught up with us, and now we get to live everything that we've planned for.
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And that's like a lot of fun.
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It's almost like you finally got on the ride, right?
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Like you've been waiting in line to get on the ride, and now all of a sudden it's your turn, you're next, you're buckled in, and you're like, oh, here we go.
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And that's exactly what Tuesday felt like.
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Yeah.
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Because Wednesday, we had our welcome dinner in the evening.
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We had rehearsal in the afternoon, we had venue walkthrough because we've done this from afar.
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We've never seen this space in person with our own two eyeballs for our brains to do all of the crazy things that it needs to do in order to know, okay, I'm good, I'm solid.
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This plan is a go.
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Yeah.
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And that was a day in itself.
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A roller coaster, a mini roller coaster of right getting all this information and then putting into plan.
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Yeah.
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The rehearsal went amazing.
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The welcome dinner was a smash.
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That's where we met Julia.
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Shout out to Julia.
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Shout out to Julia and her peach margaritas because wow.
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I wanted to drink those, many, many of those.
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But you know, we got our limits.
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We know our bodies and we do the right thing.
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But wow, did my tongue want more peach margaritas?
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It was delicious.
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They were so fucking good.
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And then we went to sleep, and the next morning was wedding day.
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Oh, wedding day.
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And I love that we thought we were gonna have so much time on this day, waking up just so leisurely, just waking up with the sunrise, you know, and being able to kind of get things going.
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Um, it was amazing.
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I think what is different for us this time around is usually we're the ones who have to do everything.
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And that wasn't the case, right?
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Like we couldn't do all the things when we lived in New York and everything was happening in Florida.
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So, like, we had to get all Florida vendors um in order to like execute this.
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So when we kind of woke up that day, we were like, all right, this is where we would normally start doing everything, but there really wasn't anything for us to do.
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So we got to have a nice breakfast and fuel our bodies and like really get into the day.
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We checked on them, we made sure that they got their breakfast, that they were getting ready and going, and they were just having a blast.
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Like they were truly living their best lives the whole time.
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There was no stress, there was no panic, no worry.
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Like they were just so confident in the timeline, again, because we talk about it and talk about it and talk about it, that that they just felt good in what they were doing.
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They knew what they had to do, and they knew that this was their time to just chill, make a memory, live in the moment, do your thing.
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And that was pretty cool to just watch them be and start this day with such ease and relaxation and really just having fun and preparing for what they were about to do in the afternoon.
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Knowing that we delivered the peace of mind for you to fully live in this day.
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Yeah.
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Right.
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For you not to worry, oh, but this thing, oh, but that thing, oh, but this thing, oh, I just thought about that.
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You don't have you didn't think about it.
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I've already thought about it.
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Yeah, I've already handled it.
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It's been accounted for.
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To give them the gift of presence on the most important day of your life is something that makes me so fucking happy.
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Yeah.
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To gift someone that because I know how almost damn near impossible it is to be fully present because there's so much on the back end.
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There's so many things going on.
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And that is a gift that we give our clients.
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That is a gift that I want people to soak and cherish.
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Be present, be fully 100 present in this moment because it goes by like that.
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It really does.
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And if you don't soak it all in, we're not running it back wrong.
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We're not running it back, it's not happening again.
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So it really is that moment of like we have one shot, one opportunity to make sure that this is the best day of their lives.
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And we just woke up so prepared and to do that.
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And it was nice.
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We um we had a very like chill morning checking on them, making sure that everything was done.
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The vendors had done their thing.
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Um, the venue was pretty much set up.
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Like we were just waiting on other venue vendors to come in the afternoon.
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So we were just like, all right, I guess we'll just take this time to get ready, right?
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We had nothing else to do, it was so weird.
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Um, so we took our time getting ready, and we knew vendors were coming about one o'clock, so we wanted to make sure that that's when we were fully done.
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Um, and then we started to um greet vendors as they came in um about one o'clock, and our ceremony was set for four.
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So everybody was coming about three hours early.
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Um, so again, plenty of time to like get all the things done.
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Um, so we get in and our florist friend has arrived, and our DJ has arrived, and we're like, awesome, things are gonna go through.
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Woohoo! And then the venue coordinator came to us, and we had to look at the weather.
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Good old fashioned Mother Nature.
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Leave it to her to come in and just throw everything for a loop.
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Mother Nature gives zero fucks about our timeline.
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Mother Nature did not um accept any of our calls.
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She did not care to know when we had things planned.
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Um, and therefore, Mother Nature said, I'm gonna rain at 4 p.m.
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4 p.m.
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as in the time that our ceremony is supposed to start, the time that our bride walks down the aisle, and the outside is supposed to downpour.
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Um, so yeah, that's where true wedding planning, I feel like, came into play.
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That's where we turned it on for referral.
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I could have died in that very second, looking at the weather, like taking this all, right?
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We pow out.
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We had bitches yet.
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Let's go, phones out, all of us.
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Let's looking at radar.
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Looking at radar, looking when it's gonna pass, doing the timeline, all the things.
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Everybody's got a position to play, and we're all figuring out how we are going to make this dance work.
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So we throw out some options, they throw out some options, and obviously we lean on them.
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We lean on the venue coordinator for expertise for their venue, for their climate, for their weather, for all of the things.
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And we looked at them and said, keep it 100 with us.
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Like, what are we looking at?
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And they were like, No, we're probably looking at having to push it inside.
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Yeah.
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And then a zagger went straight through my heart because the only thing our beautiful bride wanted was to be outside.
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Our bride was so fucking amazing.
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Like our couple, period, was perfect.
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Like they were literally the ideal clients.
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They knew what they wanted without having to need every single detail to be accounted for.
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Like they just had a vision.
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Their vision was very simple.
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It was, I want to get married outside with the water behind me.
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Period.
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That's it.
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That's all she wanted.
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She just wanted the water to be behind her.
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And here we are looking at the weather app and it telling us that there is a 55% chance that it is going to rain at four o'clock.
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And then we have a venue coordinator looking at us and saying, usually if it's above 30%, we call it and we push it inside because we can't take the risk.
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And we have never moved so fast.
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We went our lives straight to our bride.
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We have to have the conversation, right?
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We have to say these things to you.
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It's the last thing that I want to do.
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I know that this is the last thing you want to hear.
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And so it was just, it was a dagger.
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It was a gut punch.
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Like, fuck, what are we gonna do?
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So we go upstairs, we take her aside, and we tell her, it's not looking good, girl.
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It's not looking good at all.
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And she was devastated.
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The way that it just shifted, she had to turn away from us.
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And I felt for her in that moment because she was so easy, she was so easygoing, she was so kind, she was she didn't care about anything except there not being a roof over her head when she said, I do.
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And it was really in that moment where it was like, What can we do?
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What can we do to not push this thing inside?
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And she looked at us and she said, I'm ready.
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I'll walk down the aisle right now.
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And we looked at our watches and we looked at the time, and it was like 1:30 at that point.
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Every vendor still needs at least an hour to get things ready, right?
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Like there were still pool chairs and lounge chairs all in this area that was supposed to be turned into the ceremony spot, and they had already started setting up inside because they were like, nah, we gotta move it in.
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Like that was their suggestion.
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So we looked at her, we saw how this was gonna go, and we said, we looked at the radar again, and everything showed that this rain was not gonna touch down until 4 p.m.
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So we were like, all right, well, if everyone needs an hour, that's 2:30.
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So looks like we're moving our ceremony up to three o'clock.
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Looks like we're moving our ceremony up to 3 p.m.
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Words I never thought I would have said the timeline, people.
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The timeline.
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You have no idea how much we drill this timeline into our heads, into our clients' heads, into our vendors' heads.
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Like we, this is our Bible.
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It's what we go by.
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And we said, throwing it out the window.
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Yeah.
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Hey, by the way, throwing it in the ocean.
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We need to move the ceremony up an hour.
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Everybody needs to move.
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It is done.
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We sent out all the messages.
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We sent out the SOS life raft emoji.
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Like, get ready now.
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You have one hour.
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You have one hour to be ready.
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We're moving the ceremony up one hour with only one hour's notice.
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And here we go.
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Here's the roller coaster.
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Here's that first tip, right?
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We got to the top.
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And we thought, we thought we were just gonna be done.
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And no, no, no.
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The roller coaster truly ensued at that point.
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We had to run downstairs.
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We had to tell the venue coordinator, we're like, no, our bride wants to move it up.
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And she was like, What?
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We were like, we weren't kidding.
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Like, this is all she wants.
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She wants to be outside.
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This shows that it's not gonna rain until four o'clock.
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So, like, if we can move this up an hour and still be outside, that's what we're gonna do.
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And she looked at us and she said, Okay, she stopped the people in their tracks, they stopped putting the things in the room, they all went outside and it was like go time.
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We went the same thing with the DJ.
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Hey, DJ, remember all the stuff you were doing inside?
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This is what we're doing.
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You have an hour.
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You need to get outside, you need to do all the things, blah, blah, blah.
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And we just went down the train.
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Like everyone was like, okay, let's go.
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Like the way that everyone just locked the fuck in was so beautiful, so seamless.
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It it made it all possible.
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It made it possible.
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So possible that we moved the ceremony up and we made it happen.
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And we got her down the aisle outside by like 3 15, I think, is when we like finally made it out.
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And amazing.
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Like I couldn't, we couldn't have asked for anything better.
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It was exactly what was gonna happen at four o'clock.
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Yeah, it just moved up a little, it just it just tended to be a little bit more of a panic in the beginning, but it was handled so well, so gracefully.
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Everybody, like I said, just locked in and got that shit done, and it was, dare I say, flawless.
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And this is the importance of having the right vendor team, right?
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A vendor team kind of sounds like a venger team, and that's exactly what the fuck we are.
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We are like we're the protectors of this day.
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We are here to run this map, the course, the timeline, whatever you want to call it, the play.
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Yeah, choosing vendors is something that we are very good at.
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And that's a to my own horn.
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To toot our own horn.
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We assemble the best team for each and every Every one of our clients.
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Yeah.
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Because without the team, the day can go awry very quickly.
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If we didn't pick confident people that are professionals at what they do that know how to pivot and know, okay, well, we're just gonna change course and this is what we're gonna do.
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And then later on in the evening, we're all gonna be like, holy shit, was that crazy or what?
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High five, you did it.
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Good job.
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Sure.
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But in this moment, you're gonna lock the fuck in and you're gonna show up because we have a job to do.
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Yeah, we have an event to put on.
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Yeah.
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And I love that superpower for us.
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I hope it never goes away and continue to foster it just even more because we as planners can only be as good as the people executing the plan.
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Exactly.
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So the fact that we always choose the right people to execute the plan just shows how amazing we are.
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Period.
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Two, two.
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So that was the first crazy.
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And I don't even want to say first crazy thing because once you move a ceremony up an hour with an only hour notice to the ceremony being moved up, I don't think anything else can really rock you the rest of the day because like you just stopped Dr.
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Doom, right?
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Like you did it.
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I literally had people holding people out of the pool.
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Hey, you guys need to go get ready.
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You need to go upstairs.
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And all those clothes that you were gonna wear an hour from now, you need to put them on right now.
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Right now.
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Thank you.
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Let's go.
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So once we eased our way into that drop of the roller coaster, the rest of the night was a breeze because look at how we started.
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Yeah, no, the hardest thing was already accomplished.
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Done.
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Yeah.
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And everybody showed up, everyone showed out, everyone walked down, pictures were taken, a time was had, kisses were had, and we got Mr.
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and Mrs.
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Gregory married.
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We did an hour early, seamlessly, beautifully, so that they could enjoy the rest of their evening.
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Yeah, knowing that they were being held.
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Yeah.
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The whole time.
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And and it was, right?
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Like after that, it really was just everything was according to plan.
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The timeline was done.
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Everything was built in.
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And at that point, it was just a domino, right?
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Like once you start these things, it's like a little domino effect.
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It doesn't stop.
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So we got that done, and everything just continued to flow out so beautifully throughout the entire night.
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It was amazing to see them.
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They got to enjoy their cocktail hour, right?
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Before they weren't going to be able to.
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And like this actually built more time in the timeline for them.
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And so they got to just hang out with their guests and do all the things.
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It was kind of funny, like towards the end of the night, I was kept trying to get like videos of them together.
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And it was like impossible.
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Like they were together for split seconds of time because they were just being pulled away by all of their friends and family, and everyone just like being in the moment and enjoying it and having like the best time.
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Um, and we just got to witness all of that, and like that shit just fills me up.
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It fills me up like nothing else does.
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And it really was.
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It was like this end of the night pat on the back and like conclusion to like this question of like, are we supposed to be doing this?
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Is this what we do?
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Is this what I want to continue to do with my life?
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And the answer was just an overarching hell, motherfucking yes.
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Like this is the life.
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Like, this is what I would do all day, every day, if I could.
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So if anyone else, all a destination wedding, I would love to do it again.
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Hello, our name is Bar Lisa.
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We are home main events, and we can travel literally anywhere, anywhere a plane can take us.
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This was definitely a level up, I feel, because we did accomplish something that we've never done before in circumstances that we have never had, we've never had to move a ceremony up an hour due to weather.
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We've always just planned accordingly for the weather.
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But in Florida, you know, it doesn't really matter your plan, as you said.
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Mother Nature can show up and show out when she wants to.
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We leveled up as event planners, as wedding planners.
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I showed myself that I am capable of much more than I thought I was capable of.
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Yeah.
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And this is not the first time, right?
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We continue to do this.
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I think every time we take a step forward and say yes to something that we've never done, on the other side of that is a new courage that you pick up and a new integration.
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And we definitely needed that at this very moment, right?
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Coming off of the retreat, having these two weddings, really looking at our business and asking ourselves, okay, what is gonna happen now?
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We hit the five-year hump.
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We passed it, right?
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We're we're on five and a half years, so like I'm closer to six than I am to not.
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And big girl questions were being asked, not only by each other, but by other people, by our team, yeah, by our coaches.
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Yeah, and it was definitely planting seeds of like, are are you?
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Are we?
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Is this it?
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Is there a pivot coming?
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Is there a change that needs to be made?
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And now I can sit on the mic and say no, with 100% certainty, this is it.
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And I'm just going to keep getting better and better and better at what I'm doing because this is what I love to do, and this is the good that we put out.
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There was so much love in that room that it there is no doubt in my mind, it had to magnify, it had to go out of those four walls because they were only so big that it touched other people in that hotel, it touched other people in clear water that is worth doing.
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But nothing else that I can think of that I can do would generate that much love and happiness at one single time.
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And when you feel called to do that, like how do you not answer that?
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How do you say, nah, that's okay, I'll let it go to voicemail?
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Like, that's that's just it's truly not an option.
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I want to serve.
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I want to serve in this way, and that was the biggest compliment, you know, that we were getting from our couple is they just they felt so taken care of.
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You guys thought of everything.
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You guys are taking care of everything, you know.
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Even the next day, they were like, I don't know where any of my stuff is.
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And I'm like, honey, I have your jacket and your shoes and all your cards, and like, you know, like, and and we went and put it up in their room for them, you know?
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Something that you don't have to worry about taking these things home from your wedding.
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Like, I'm gonna, I'm gonna handle that.
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Like, I I remember too, the on Wednesday for the before the welcome party, she was like, I really need a steamer, like my dress needs to get steamed, blah, blah, blah.
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And we're like, okay, no worries, like we'll take care of it.
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And we steamed her dress and we hung it back up in the closet.
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It was just ready and waiting for her.
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She couldn't figure out how to get her shoes on, right?
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We fixed the shoes and we put them there for her.
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Like, we set the day up for her to just live it and not have to worry about all the extra things.
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And she felt that she felt seen, she felt supported.
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And I think the most important thing to let everybody know is that it didn't rain after all of that.
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Not one drop of fucking rain fell from the sky the whole night.
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And I have no doubts in my mind that it was for her.
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It was because she is love, and she wanted that so much that when the universe saw her cry, they were like, Oh my god, my bad.
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I will not, I will divert just immediately.
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I will not bring this storm here.
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I will not bring it this way.
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And the weather changed, and I have no doubt that the weather changed for her because it should have rained.
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Everything on that weather app, everything on that radar said that the rain should have touched down, but that's not what she wanted.
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So it didn't happen, and it was literally the perfect day.
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I loved every second of it, and I would relive it over and over and over again.
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I can't wait for the pictures, I can't wait for the videos, right?
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I can't wait to get the things to relive it.
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Yeah, I can't wait to talk to them.
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They just got home and they're getting settled.
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And I'm just grateful.
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Yeah, I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to walk them through this journey.
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I am grateful that we really fucking care about what we do and we show up.
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Yeah.
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Because it's one thing to do it and not show up, but it's one thing to do it and show wholeheartedly the fuck up that this is how you feel after.
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Yeah.
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And we got to integrate that.
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Right.
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We we still had Friday after the wedding.
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So we that was fun.
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And like so many people came up to us and thanked us.
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And that has never happened before.
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We don't get contact with clients the day after, typically, our events, right?
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I'm I'm putting you in the car, I'm sending you home.
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Yeah, but I'm not home with you because that's weird.
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But since we were all staying on property, yeah, everybody was still there.
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They still had two more days ahead of them to like have fun and be merry and and do all of that.
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And because we stayed, we received love like we have never received before.
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And that was overwhelming in the best way.
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I mean, I low-key felt like a celebrity walking around this fucking resort.
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Like, let's be honest.
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Even on the plane.
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We had long, oh my god, my friends are on the plane.
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And just them all taking the moment, taking the time.
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Someone came up to us and was like, Can I buy you a drink?
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Like, I'm about to go.
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Like, they said they were about to close out their tab, but they noticed us and they were like, I'd love to buy you a drink before I head out.
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Like, just as a thank you, just because everyone just truly enjoyed their time.
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They were able to show up and be present and celebrate this couple that they also love.
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And you know, that that meant something to them.
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And they were, they were so receptive.
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Um, and it just it filled me up.
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It was like you said, it's not something that we get to do when it's here, because here it just ends.
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Wedding day is over, and like you don't really have a whole weekend event for it.
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But when you're doing these destination weddings, it's more of a vacation.
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That's a it's just you get married inside of your vacation.
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And so there were there were days afterwards to to still be in it and be immersed, and that was something else that does something to the heart and the ego, I will admit.
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I will admit so much so that we have now put on our vision board, and maybe not even vision board, maybe just like on our gonna happen list that yeah, no, I think I am a destiny, yeah, destination planner.
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I I know I am because I did it already and I had fun doing it.
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So, yeah, let's run that back.
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I think we've we've talked about it on this podcast before too, about we're different types of wedding planners.
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Like there, there are different types of wedding planners, and we are a little bit more non-traditional, and we tend to go into the micro, into the smaller field and all of that.
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And again, I think it's just because we really didn't have that full immersion into a destination wedding that I didn't realize that was an option, but like now I know, and now I'm in it.
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So you know, I'm there, I'm there for that destination wedding planner all the way.
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And on another note, destination weddings mean that we get to go away together, and that's my favorite five days, yeah, me and you, yeah, every day.
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I'm closing my eyes at nighttime, and I'm waking up and poof, you're there.
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And then I close them the best part, you're there.
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Um, I know I it was funny.
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We were having one of the nights, uh, was it Tuesday night or Wednesday night, and we were kind of like processing everything for the wedding.
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And uh I was thinking about that.
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Like when we do things at home, we normally have to do that part separately.
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Like we try to do as many things together.
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I know shocker, but there are certain things that just have to happen apart.
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And when we are home, it makes sense that we would do these things in our separate homes.
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And therefore, you know, we usually just kind of come together on game day and we knock that shit out.
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But to be able to prep for game day together, 100%, do all this part that we'd normally do separately together.
00:35:54.480 --> 00:35:57.039
And then again, for afterwards, right?
00:35:57.199 --> 00:36:01.519
Usually there's a couple days off afterwards because we need to recover and we do that separately.
00:36:01.599 --> 00:36:02.960
And like, that's just not fun.
00:36:03.119 --> 00:36:11.360
I found a funner way to do it, and it is to have a destination wedding where I get to be with you before and during and after.
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That was the shit.
00:36:14.480 --> 00:36:15.519
That was the shit.
00:36:15.599 --> 00:36:21.039
Because in true Bar Lisa form, we want to be together always, doing the thing that we love to do.
00:36:21.360 --> 00:36:24.239
So it makes it make sense.
00:36:24.400 --> 00:36:30.320
It it was one of those things where you have to think about how easy it was.
00:36:30.639 --> 00:36:36.079
And while I don't want to go around saying that planning this wedding was easy, it wasn't easy.
00:36:36.239 --> 00:36:42.559
It was there was nothing easy about getting people ready in an hour, you know, moving the ceremony up, all of those things.
00:36:42.880 --> 00:36:48.639
But there was such an ease of the day that I'm like, no, this is flow state.
00:36:48.719 --> 00:36:51.760
This is alignment, this is this is where we belong.
00:36:52.000 --> 00:36:57.440
Because if we didn't, this wouldn't be so joyful and so easy at the same time.
00:36:57.679 --> 00:37:06.079
So those are things that pieces of evidence that I now look for in the different things that we do to say, am I gonna continue to do this thing?
00:37:06.239 --> 00:37:09.760
You know, many little gains and drains, you know, pros and cons.
00:37:09.920 --> 00:37:13.760
And this one was a gain, a lot, a lot of gains.
00:37:13.920 --> 00:37:16.639
And so I feel like it just makes sense.
00:37:16.800 --> 00:37:18.639
It made us so happy.
00:37:18.960 --> 00:37:20.559
Why would we not keep doing that?
00:37:20.719 --> 00:37:21.360
Yeah.
00:37:21.679 --> 00:37:25.599
Uh, but for a minute, let's stop and talk about that many gains and drains.
00:37:25.840 --> 00:37:27.679
What a what a great little tool.
00:37:27.920 --> 00:37:28.400
Yeah.
00:37:29.039 --> 00:37:31.199
We have been bringing them over a long time.
00:37:31.360 --> 00:37:31.519
Yeah.
00:37:31.920 --> 00:37:37.119
And has led to us even being here, right?
00:37:37.199 --> 00:37:39.599
It does this bring me joy, yes or no?
00:37:39.760 --> 00:37:42.239
Okay, then I'm moving towards the yes or the no.
00:37:42.639 --> 00:37:43.760
Does this bring me joy?
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Yes or no?
00:37:45.360 --> 00:37:50.320
And I think that's how we have been able to elevate so quickly.
00:37:51.119 --> 00:37:53.280
There is a constant audit being made.
00:37:53.760 --> 00:37:55.199
Energy audit for sure.
00:37:55.360 --> 00:38:01.280
Is this going to drain my energy or is this going to help me gain energy?
00:38:01.440 --> 00:38:06.639
Is this something that's going to excite me, or is this something that I'm going to be really pissed off afterwards, right?
00:38:06.719 --> 00:38:13.840
Like those are, to me, those seem to be the simplest questions that I can ask myself to give myself that quick yes or no.
00:38:14.000 --> 00:38:15.599
I'm doing this, I'm not doing this.
00:38:15.920 --> 00:38:18.960
And at the end of the day, you always have to try something once, right?
00:38:19.039 --> 00:38:22.480
I'm always uh, you know, you got to try it once and just see.
00:38:22.639 --> 00:38:25.519
But sometimes you got to try it in order to answer those questions.
00:38:25.840 --> 00:38:29.679
But once you answer it, you know, then you have your answer.
00:38:29.920 --> 00:38:30.719
You have your answer.
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You tried it.
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Good job.
00:38:32.320 --> 00:38:35.360
And now, did that gain your energy or did that drain your energy?
00:38:35.440 --> 00:38:38.639
And then that's what you can help decide whether or not you're gonna keep doing that thing.
00:38:38.880 --> 00:38:47.840
Because that's definitely something that I know a lot of people struggle with, and we struggle with is like once we start something, we feel like we have to finish it, we have to keep doing it.
00:38:48.159 --> 00:38:54.480
And I think I'm okay now with being like, nah, I did that and I didn't like it, so I'm not doing that anymore.
00:38:54.800 --> 00:38:56.480
And this was something that I loved.
00:38:56.719 --> 00:38:57.440
Yeah, no one hoped.
00:38:57.679 --> 00:39:01.280
So I want to do it more percent.
00:39:01.679 --> 00:39:08.639
So now here we are, a week later, filled to what I would think is like max capacity.
00:39:08.800 --> 00:39:15.440
I don't know how much more I'm vibrating still off of love I could input into me.
00:39:16.400 --> 00:39:24.960
And so ready to take on this next chapter of business, knowing very clearly this is it.
00:39:25.199 --> 00:39:26.480
No, this is it.
00:39:27.039 --> 00:39:32.960
And I know that I have so many more places to go, and let's just fucking go there.
00:39:33.840 --> 00:39:34.719
I love it.
00:39:35.039 --> 00:39:40.079
Oh and the best part is that we get to take all of you guys with us.
00:39:40.400 --> 00:39:41.840
Something that I was thinking about.
00:39:42.000 --> 00:39:45.199
We're coming fresh off of our third birthday.
00:39:45.519 --> 00:39:54.239
And I was thinking about how in the beginning of the podcast, we kind of talked about our audience as being like a fly on the wall, right?
00:39:54.320 --> 00:40:01.920
Like this podcast is where me and you talk to each other and we have these conversations, and everyone else is just a fly on the wall and listening.
00:40:02.159 --> 00:40:08.159
And I feel like we have now learned how to have the conversation with you guys in the room.
00:40:08.719 --> 00:40:10.719
Now you're a part of the conversation.
00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:14.800
And like I I felt that even down there, right?
00:40:14.880 --> 00:40:20.880
Like talking about being excited to come back here and talk about on the podcast and to tell everyone what happened and what we did.
00:40:21.199 --> 00:40:25.519
And it was like that moment where I was like, well, that's not a fly on the wall situation.
00:40:25.679 --> 00:40:31.599
That's like they're here, they're in the room with us, and we're talking to them and telling them all the things that we did.
00:40:31.760 --> 00:40:34.000
So, like, thanks for being here, guys.
00:40:34.239 --> 00:40:37.280
Still feeling that birthday feels from last week.
00:40:37.599 --> 00:40:52.800
And just really grateful that we have this space that we can kind of that we can come back to and talk about all the things that we did for our event because I just I love doing them and I love processing them this way, and I love sharing them and getting the word out.
00:40:53.039 --> 00:40:57.599
So much so that we got the word out to a couple of flight attendants.
00:40:57.760 --> 00:41:04.079
We did on one of the flights where they were like, no, hell yeah, I'm gonna go, uh I'm gonna listen to that, but I'm gonna go listen.
00:41:04.239 --> 00:41:09.119
And that to me is always oh, yeah.
00:41:09.280 --> 00:41:10.239
Like you are.
00:41:10.400 --> 00:41:10.559
Yeah.
00:41:10.800 --> 00:41:11.599
You are gonna go listen.
00:41:11.679 --> 00:41:34.800
You are gonna, and even if you don't, if you do, it's just the fact that we're saying it out loud, yeah, the fact that we are three years in, the fact that we show up every week here to share a little bit of our story, a little bit of crazy shit that happened in the story, and some key points on how we maneuvered through that.
00:41:34.960 --> 00:41:37.519
Yeah, that's that's really cool.
00:41:37.760 --> 00:41:38.159
It is.
00:41:38.400 --> 00:41:43.440
And I want to give the flowers to our favorite creative Inca.
00:41:43.760 --> 00:41:49.519
Because at the end of the day, the people who ask those questions, the flight attendants, it's because of our branding.
00:41:49.760 --> 00:41:56.400
Because our branding is mad fucking sexy and wearing the sweaters, and everybody always wants to know what is that?
00:41:56.559 --> 00:42:03.840
Every time they see that M in that lime, every time they see that little margarita doodle that we wear, they're like, hey, what is that?
00:42:04.000 --> 00:42:05.039
I want to know more.
00:42:05.199 --> 00:42:06.719
And that is all her.
00:42:06.880 --> 00:42:18.159
And I am forever grateful for creating something that I love and now is getting so much recognition out there that everyone else is gonna love it too.
00:42:18.320 --> 00:42:18.800
Yeah.
00:42:19.119 --> 00:42:23.519
So much so that I think it is time for us to schedule our tattoos.
00:42:23.760 --> 00:42:24.320
We said tattoos.
00:42:25.599 --> 00:42:29.280
Marg's would get uh an official tattoo.
00:42:29.599 --> 00:42:32.719
We got our homemade tattoos when we turned three.
00:42:32.880 --> 00:42:33.039
Yeah.
00:42:33.280 --> 00:42:35.199
Something about turning three years old.
00:42:35.440 --> 00:42:36.639
It's like a big deal.
00:42:36.880 --> 00:42:37.679
It matters.
00:42:37.840 --> 00:42:44.880
I think it's it's one of those things where you can do anything for like a couple of years, but like three years feels like, oh, you've been doing like doing this.
00:42:44.960 --> 00:42:46.559
And then like you're not gonna stop now, right?
00:42:46.639 --> 00:42:47.519
It's already been three years.
00:42:47.599 --> 00:42:49.039
We might as well just kind of keep going.
00:42:49.280 --> 00:42:50.719
So yeah, no, I agree.
00:42:50.880 --> 00:42:51.760
But I'm excited.
00:42:51.840 --> 00:42:52.239
You're right.
00:42:52.320 --> 00:42:52.880
We do have to do that.
00:42:53.360 --> 00:42:54.559
So I guess we should get off here.
00:42:54.880 --> 00:42:55.599
Schedule that.
00:42:55.679 --> 00:42:56.719
So that's a good idea.
00:42:56.960 --> 00:42:57.199
All right.
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This is the part where we're gonna love and leave our friends.
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This is the part where you do all the things.
00:43:01.360 --> 00:43:02.800
You can like and follow and subscribe.
00:43:02.960 --> 00:43:05.760
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And if you're local to the ROC and you want to party with us at Home Made Events ROC.
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Until next time.
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Bye.
00:43:14.079 --> 00:43:15.199
Is it delicious or what?
00:43:15.360 --> 00:43:16.239
Yeah, no, it's like really good.
00:43:16.320 --> 00:43:17.360
I'm mad that we didn't talk about it.
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I'm the lover called Gangsta.