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The following podcast is part of the Mind, Body, Spirit
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dot fm podcast network. Welcome to Intuitive Connection, where spirituality
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and psychology meet to help you be your best and
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brightest self. I'm your host, Victoria Shaw, and in each episode,
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I'll help you to awaken your own inner wisdom, step
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into your power, and live a more divinely inspired life.
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You're here to let your interlight shine. Are you ready?
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Let's do this? So hello and welcome to Intuitive Connection.
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I'm your host, intuitive counselor and spiritual guide, Victoria Shaw.
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And today, oh my god, the inspiration is just pouring in.
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There are so many topics that I wanted to talk
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about and a roof upon on the podcast, but I'm
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going to start with this one because it's super duper cool.
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And if you can hear a little bit of a
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frog in my throat, I apologize for that. I don't
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know what it is, but I woke up this way.
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But anyway, I was thinking today. I had two clients
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this past week, and similar stories for both of them.
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One was a mom who was seeking advice for her daughter.
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She had actually already applied to college, but she'd gotten
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into one school. That school had given her a lot
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of money, and she was, you know, kind of thinking
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she was going to go there, even though it wasn't
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like a top, top, top choice. And then she was
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also waiting to hear from another school, kind of a
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big name school, but nothing had really happened with that yet.
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She was just in that waiting period, and the guides
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came in and gave her a lot of information, and
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they also gave her the mom a lot of information
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about that brand name school and saying, you know, how
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this might be a beneficial choice, and you know, maybe
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nudge this person, you know that the daughter knew at
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that school or whatever. It was a few actions steps,
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but a lot of it had to do with the
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way they were understanding the situation and understanding what might
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be best in service of her daughter's needs moving forward, right,
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And she'd kind of set her hopes on one school,
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you know, maybe because it felt like the safe and
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familiar choice, and the guides were like, oh, look here too.
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So I got a call from the mom about ten
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days two weeks later saying, oh my god, oh my god,
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she got into the brand name school and now you know,
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we have to decide. And she also said something and
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that is one of the reasons why I'm sitting in
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front of this microphone today. She also said, you know,
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I feel like that conversation shifted something. I feel that
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conversation shifted something, and that is why she got in
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And I want to talk about that a little bit
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because it is really really true. Remember, from the perspective
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of the law of attraction, right, what we focus on grows, right,
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and how we understand things is how we set our intention,
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and that's a moving target. It's always adjusting and changing.
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And so at that moment that I and my client
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and probably to some extent, her daughter, started thinking about
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the situation just a little bit differently, right, it kind
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of can sometimes move the dial to allow different things
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to come through and to manifest and to occur. Right,
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Because we are always creating our path. We're co creating
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our path with others who are, you know, thinking for
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us and with us, but you know, we are also
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our own primary point of attraction. And so I really
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do think that part of that conversation that I had
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with the mom is what moved the dial for her
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to get into this other school. And that looks like
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where she's going to go. And it does feel like
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the beneficial choice, So yay, and congratulations to her. And
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then I had a call with another client and it
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was a similar situation. This was an adult business person
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and they had an offer to sell one of their businesses,
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and the guides you know, came in and there was
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a lot of back and forth in this conversation, and
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both of them actually, you know, it wasn't just the
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guides telling them what to do, but the guides you know,
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in the process of sort of reading this person's energy
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and getting them oriented to what they wanted. It sounded
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like they might want to sell the company, but they
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didn't necessarily want to sell it for the price that
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it was being offered, right, And there was actually two
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situations in this There was another one too, where they'd
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be clarifying of the situation and both the action steps,
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Like one was a negotiation and sort of how to
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negotiate something with someone or I guess they're both the negotiations,
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and the other was some getting clear on what they
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really wanted as the next step for their business and
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what they would settle for. Like in both cases, things
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unfolded in a particular way. And in the case of
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the selling of the business. On the basis of the conversation,
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they were like, they decided to decline the initial offer,
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and then the offering party came back and offered them
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a whole lot more and that was in their range
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of what they wanted, right. But if they hadn't had
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the conversation, if they hadn't sort of tuned in and
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gotten clear about what they wanted, that manifestation might not
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have come through because they might have thought, you know,
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as our minds sometimes do, oh, it's not worth it
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to sell for that amount, and maybe we're not really
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ready to let go of it, and you know, this
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doesn't feel good and boom boom boom, boom boom. That
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would have constricted forward motion. But by getting really clear
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and what they didn't like about that offer, right, it
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helps them to manifest the offer that they're looking for.
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And that is actually how things flow. And the guys
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are hopping in now because they want to share, and
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what they're saying is, oftentimes you, sweet humans will sort
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through the information presented to you from living your life right,
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the things that are happening, the way things are flowing like,
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and the way you interpret them right, and it's okay
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to want things. It's okay for some things to feel
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good and some things not to feel good. But they say,
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sometimes after that place of discernment, this feels good, this
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doesn't feel good, we go into overthinking. And that process
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of overthinking, right, can actually take you away for your
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goals because sometimes we don't really know what we want
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from that overthinking lens, and in the process of overthinking it,
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we muddy the water of our manifestation. And I'm checking
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with the guides because I took over the microphone. Did
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I get it right? And I'm getting mostly thumbs up,
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But there might be a little more they want to
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share as we move on. But the basic idea is,
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if I'm hearing them correctly, is that the more present
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we can be, the more we can be tapped into
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our intuition and interpreting and experiencing and responding to life
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from there, the more we're going to be in the
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flow with what we want, and the more we're going
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to be able to create things sort of effortlessly and beautifully.
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They are going to be aligned with our highest desires, right,
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And so you know you'll get there either way. Maybe
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you turn down, you know, one offer for your business
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and then you go back and you're like, Okay, well,
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you know it's not worth enough to sell it yet,
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and we're going to do this, and we're going to
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do that. And then you get really tired, you know,
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and then you know, you start thinking, well, it'd be
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worth it enough to sell it for that number, okay,
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and you start moving your energy towards that. So you
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very well may get there eventually. But when we can
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really be clear with ourselves, when we can tap into
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the part of ourselves that really truly knows, that sees
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all the options, that's tabulating all the things that we want,
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that will bring us joy, that even understands all the
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other energies of the co creators that we're doing this with,
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and tabulates all of that beautifulness in real time because
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the only time that is real is now and gives
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us the download the four one one, even if it's
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just in like the next tiny microstep, because sometimes it's
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not the full answer. Right. When we can learn to
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trust in tune into that, magical things and miraculous things happened.
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And I think this is what happened for both of
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my clients, right in receiving that information from their guides
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and kind of taking it in and clarifying what they
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wanted and what felt like the right path, and letting
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go of some of the mind made restrictions that might
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have otherwise held them back. They were able to manifest
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these amazing things in pretty rapid time. And I would
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love to be able to take credit for that, because
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I want you all calling me to help you improve
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your lives, right, because you know that's fun for me
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and fun for you and great for my business. So
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do that if you want. I'm not holding you back.
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But it's more than that, right, It's more than that.
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It's understanding, right, that whatever it takes to really get
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us in the flow. And sometimes that's somebody else's lips
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like mine, right, And I have people that I talked
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to too for the very same reason, because sometimes when
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we're in our own lives, we're kind of wearing the blinders,
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we're kind of in the blinders, or we're seeing the
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tunnel vision because we have all these belief systems swirling
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around that are taking us away from that deeper knowing. Right.
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But really, for you, what you need to recognize is
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when you have these options, when you have these choices,
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you do have this built in you know, GPS system,
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You do have this built in knowing, And when you
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learn to still the mind and start to see the
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possibilities from there, magical and miraculous things will happen. Because
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we are always co creating a reality, right, and we
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want to start doing that from the highest, clearest, and
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most fulfilling possible lens, because honestly, why not. So I
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want to pause here and you know, kind of loop
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back to what we are saying, right, Because in both
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of those examples, it was people who called me to
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get you know, what are the guides thinks I should
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do about this? But in so doing, it was a
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supercharge for their manifestation, right because when they shift their
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mindset and shift their understanding of a situation, the situation
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was more easily able to align with their highest call.
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And that's so fricking cool. And the guides chime in
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and say they don't want you to take this information
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as a way to hack the system to be like,
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all right, like tell me the five steps to get
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what I want. It's not that they won't do that.
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They absolutely will, you know, to some degree, if you're
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ready to receive it. But this is something deeper than that, right,
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this is something, This is manifesting, co creating with soul
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rather than trying to hack in control from the level
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of ego. And those are different things, and they're coming
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in right now and saying the egoic approach is not wrong.
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In fact, it's very right. It's giving you information about
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what feels good, what feels bad, what you like, what
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you don't like, within a particular framework, right that you
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have been taught to understand and what you've been taught
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to identify as your very own self. And there's nothing
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wrong with this. So that last little bit tanked my
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energy a little bit, so I want to ask the
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guides about it, and what they're saying is, yes, if
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you start to understand who you are as a co
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creation between your human lens and your higher lens, that's
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when things get really exciting. But many human beings they
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get stuck in that egoic lens, and that one is
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a little more fear based. It's a little bit more
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wanting to control. It's wanting to get what it wants
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because it feels if it doesn't get what it wants,
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something's wrong with it, or something's wrong with life, and
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none of that can be true. And the path to
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inspiration and the path to joy, and the path to
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abundance and all of the things that you really want,
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and the path to feeling loved and lovable, because we
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all want that too, and that always starts, my friends,
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as much as you can with loving yourself. So I'm
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going to give myself a because if you've been listening
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to the show for a while, you know how much
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I love to do that. Got to do the kissy
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thing too. Oh, I feel so good. No, it really
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really does. But what they're saying is the more we
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learn that cooperation between the ego lens, you know, the
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human self and the soul self, that's when it gets
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really delightful. And they say, that's what Victoria is talking
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about today. She's talking about people that came in for
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a reading or a coaching session because they had an inkling.
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They wanted to know there's something more here, there's something
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more here, And I want to make sure that I'm
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tabulating the whole picture rather than just navigating from you know,
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that limited human lens, right, And that's what we can
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all all do. So I want to end this episode
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with a couple of pointers or tips about how to
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do that or what that might look like and how
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that might look like to you. Number one, the first
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step they say is love yourself. Love yourself and love
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that human part. And I'm thinking about a friend right
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now who is a very powerful manifestor but is ridiculously
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hard on themselves. And all of these things are streaming
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into their world right now, things that I would love
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in their mind, they keep playing over and over again
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these old scarcity stories, you know, and not enough to stories,
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bigger lens, that's when everything's going to flow in the
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direction that they want it to. That's when they're going
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to be able to sort of let go and say, like, oh,
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these things that I thought were limiting factors, these are
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you know, is to go this path when the universe
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over there is blossoming for this dear friend of mine.
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around trust, it's around honoring and loving ourselves, and it's
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around being open to listen. And again you'll hear it
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when you hear it. I'm sure this friend came into
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my mind because I want to shake them really, really,
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really hard and say, are you not seeing what's happening here?
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listen to this episode like the rest of you. But anyhow,
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but sometimes that's how it flows, right, We just get
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constricted that it's hard for us to see how miraculous
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our lives are already flowing. So one thing that you
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flowing for you, right, tap into that, because that will
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limiting beliefs they're not things that we have to destroy,
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front of one of the many roots, but there are many,
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many more, and sometimes that boulders are redract and sometimes
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was the case for some of my clients that I
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talked about too, and sometimes too that for two rock
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in our path, right, that stone in our path, that
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that little perceived obstacle, or all the different obstacles that
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we're perceiving, because everything hasn't come together yet, and we
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haven't gotten the full answer that says, oh friend, this
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us know more what we want, what we desire, and
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they're helping us, you know, create our cosmic vision board
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that the universe is fulfilling for us all the time,
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and then we can just you know, step forward, trust
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and perceive that. But it's really all the guides say.
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I think they say. They're laughing at me right now,
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them to chime in. But it's all about being present.
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by these thoughts, but becoming aware of both the perceived
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limits but also our desires, what we really want, because
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the guides say, and this one I know is coming
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from them. Oftentimes, when we don't believe something is possible,
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we didn't light. We did the light and more, you know.
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believe that the school was possible and that they could
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be happy and successful there, so they had prepared themselves
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to settle for something else. Right, So I'm going to
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wind this one down right now and say, the more
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we can tap into that intuition, And you have over
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three hundred episodes to choose from if you haven't listen
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to them all already around that topic, for sure, The
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more we can tap into our intuition, the more we
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can follow that flow, the more we can trust in ourselves,
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love ourselves, and trust in the process of life. The
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more this thing is going to work for us. And
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sometimes it's through that expanded awareness, right, softening the mind,
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letting go of some of the obstacles, tuning in from
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that higher lens, and allowing that to enrich and guide us. Right,
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not only do we know the next best steps, but
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the road in front of us literally changes, and the
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options in the things that we have been longing for
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materialize right in front of our eyes. And it can
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be as easy as that and is joyous too, all right.
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The following podcast is part of the Mind, Body, Spirit
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dot fm podcast network. Welcome to Intuitive Connection, where spirituality
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and psychology meet to help you be your best and
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brightest self. I'm your host, Victoria Shaw, and in each episode,
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I'll help you to awaken your own inner wisdom, step
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into your power, and live a more divinely inspired life.
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You're here to let your interlight shine. Are you ready?
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Let's do this? So hello and welcome to Intuitive Connection.
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I'm your host, intuitive counselor and spiritual guide, Victoria Shaw.
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And today, oh my god, the inspiration is just pouring in.
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There are so many topics that I wanted to talk
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about and a roof upon on the podcast, but I'm
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going to start with this one because it's super duper cool.
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And if you can hear a little bit of a
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frog in my throat, I apologize for that. I don't
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know what it is, but I woke up this way.
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this past week, and similar stories for both of them.
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She had actually already applied to college, but she'd gotten
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into one school. That school had given her a lot
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of money, and she was, you know, kind of thinking
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she was going to go there, even though it wasn't
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like a top, top, top choice. And then she was
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also waiting to hear from another school, kind of a
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big name school, but nothing had really happened with that yet.
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about that brand name school and saying, you know, how
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this might be a beneficial choice, and you know, maybe
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nudge this person, you know that the daughter knew at
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that school or whatever. It was a few actions steps,
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way they were understanding the situation and understanding what might
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familiar choice, and the guides were like, oh, look here too.
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she got into the brand name school and now you know,
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we have to decide. And she also said something and
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that is one of the reasons why I'm sitting in
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of the law of attraction, right, what we focus on grows, right,
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the situation just a little bit differently, right, it kind
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of can sometimes move the dial to allow different things
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to come through and to manifest and to occur. Right,
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where she's going to go. And it does feel like
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the beneficial choice, So yay, and congratulations to her. And
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what they would settle for. Like in both cases, things
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unfolded in a particular way. And in the case of
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the selling of the business. On the basis of the conversation,
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they were like, they decided to decline the initial offer,
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a whole lot more and that was in their range
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of what they wanted, right. But if they hadn't had
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gotten clear about what they wanted, that manifestation might not
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have come through because they might have thought, you know,
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as our minds sometimes do, oh, it's not worth it
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to sell for that amount, and maybe we're not really
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doesn't feel good and boom boom boom, boom boom. That
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would have constricted forward motion. But by getting really clear
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and what they didn't like about that offer, right, it
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helps them to manifest the offer that they're looking for.
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are hopping in now because they want to share, and
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what they're saying is, oftentimes you, sweet humans will sort
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through the information presented to you from living your life right,
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the things that are happening, the way things are flowing like,
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and the way you interpret them right, and it's okay
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to want things. It's okay for some things to feel
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good and some things not to feel good. But they say,
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sometimes after that place of discernment, this feels good, this
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doesn't feel good, we go into overthinking. And that process
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of overthinking, right, can actually take you away for your
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goals because sometimes we don't really know what we want
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from that overthinking lens, and in the process of overthinking it,
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we muddy the water of our manifestation. And I'm checking
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I get it right? And I'm getting mostly thumbs up,
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if I'm hearing them correctly, is that the more present
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our intuition and interpreting and experiencing and responding to life
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flow with what we want, and the more we're going
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to be able to create things sort of effortlessly and beautifully.
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and you start moving your energy towards that. So you
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very well may get there eventually. But when we can
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really be clear with ourselves, when we can tap into
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the part of ourselves that really truly knows, that sees
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all the options, that's tabulating all the things that we want,
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that will bring us joy, that even understands all the
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other energies of the co creators that we're doing this with,
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the only time that is real is now and gives
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just in like the next tiny microstep, because sometimes it's
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not the full answer. Right. When we can learn to
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trust in tune into that, magical things and miraculous things happened.
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my clients, right in receiving that information from their guides
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go of some of the mind made restrictions that might
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have otherwise held them back. They were able to manifest
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these amazing things in pretty rapid time. And I would
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I want you all calling me to help you improve
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your lives, right, because you know that's fun for me
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do that if you want. I'm not holding you back.
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like mine, right, And I have people that I talked
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we're in our own lives, we're kind of wearing the blinders,
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we're kind of in the blinders, or we're seeing the
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tunnel vision because we have all these belief systems swirling
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around that are taking us away from that deeper knowing. Right.
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you do have this built in you know, GPS system,
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possibilities from there, magical and miraculous things will happen. Because
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we are always co creating a reality, right, and we
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want to start doing that from the highest, clearest, and
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most fulfilling possible lens, because honestly, why not. So I
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back to what we are saying, right, Because in both
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of those examples, it was people who called me to
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get you know, what are the guides thinks I should
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do about this? But in so doing, it was a
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supercharge for their manifestation, right because when they shift their
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mindset and shift their understanding of a situation, the situation
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as a way to hack the system to be like,
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all right, like tell me the five steps to get
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what I want. It's not that they won't do that.
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ready to receive it. But this is something deeper than that, right,
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this is something, This is manifesting, co creating with soul
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rather than trying to hack in control from the level
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of ego. And those are different things, and they're coming
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in right now and saying the egoic approach is not wrong.
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what feels good, what feels bad, what you like, what
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you don't like, within a particular framework, right that you
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have been taught to understand and what you've been taught
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to identify as your very own self. And there's nothing
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wrong with this. So that last little bit tanked my
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energy a little bit, so I want to ask the
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guides about it, and what they're saying is, yes, if
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you start to understand who you are as a co
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creation between your human lens and your higher lens, that's
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when things get really exciting. But many human beings they
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get stuck in that egoic lens, and that one is
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a little more fear based. It's a little bit more
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wanting to control. It's wanting to get what it wants
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something's wrong with it, or something's wrong with life, and
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none of that can be true. And the path to
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inspiration and the path to joy, and the path to
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abundance and all of the things that you really want,
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and the path to feeling loved and lovable, because we
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all want that too, and that always starts, my friends,
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as much as you can with loving yourself. So I'm
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going to give myself a because if you've been listening
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to the show for a while, you know how much
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I love to do that. Got to do the kissy
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thing too. Oh, I feel so good. No, it really
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really does. But what they're saying is the more we
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learn that cooperation between the ego lens, you know, the
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human self and the soul self, that's when it gets
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really delightful. And they say, that's what Victoria is talking
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about today. She's talking about people that came in for
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a reading or a coaching session because they had an inkling.
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more here, And I want to make sure that I'm
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tabulating the whole picture rather than just navigating from you know,
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that limited human lens, right, And that's what we can
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all all do. So I want to end this episode
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with a couple of pointers or tips about how to
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do that or what that might look like and how
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that might look like to you. Number one, the first
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step they say is love yourself. Love yourself and love
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that human part. And I'm thinking about a friend right
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now who is a very powerful manifestor but is ridiculously
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hard on themselves. And all of these things are streaming
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into their world right now, things that I would love
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to have streaming into mine, to be honest, right But
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in their mind, they keep playing over and over again
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these old scarcity stories, you know, and not enough to stories,
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and so they're not even appreciating all the things that
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are flowing, right And the guys are telling me, and
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maybe I will, you know, tell them too that when
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they are ready to really, you know, tap into this
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bigger lens, that's when everything's going to flow in the
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direction that they want it to. That's when they're going
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to be able to sort of let go and say, like, oh,
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these things that I thought were limiting factors, these are
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just these thoughts in my head. And if I am
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willing to have a little bit of skepticism and distance
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from these thoughts, that this is the way it has
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to be. Or this is the limit of who I am,
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or this is the only way to feel secure in life,
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you know, is to go this path when the universe
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is pushing me over there, and you know the path
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over there is blossoming for this dear friend of mine.
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around trust, it's around honoring and loving ourselves, and it's
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around being open to listen. And again you'll hear it
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when you hear it. I'm sure this friend came into
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my mind because I want to shake them really, really,
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really hard and say, are you not seeing what's happening here?
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And I'm gonna let their sweet energy go. They can
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listen to this episode like the rest of you. But anyhow,
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but sometimes that's how it flows, right, We just get
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the blinders are on, or the tunnel vision is so
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constricted that it's hard for us to see how miraculous
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our lives are already flowing. So one thing that you
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can do is start to look at where things are
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flowing for you, right, tap into that, because that will
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help you find more of that. And then the second
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thing is, you know, start to become aware of those
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limiting beliefs they're not things that we have to destroy,
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you know, or root out or dumpster dive for. And
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sometimes we can bypass them all together. But every once
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in a while they are, you know, that boulder that
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we have stuck in our path and we think there's
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no way around it, and sometimes just by exploring it
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and having little skepticism there or at least knowing, you
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know that there's just so many paths to where we
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want to go, and that boulder might be standing in
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front of one of the many roots, but there are many,
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many more, and sometimes that boulders are redract and sometimes
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that boulder is a pebble, and you know, we have
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case for my friend for sure, and I think that
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was the case for some of my clients that I
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talked about too, and sometimes too that for two rock
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in our path, right, that stone in our path, that
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that little perceived obstacle, or all the different obstacles that
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we're perceiving, because everything hasn't come together yet, and we
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haven't gotten the full answer that says, oh friend, this
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sometimes those are just good information, they're pointers. They're letting
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us know more what we want, what we desire, and
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they're helping us, you know, create our cosmic vision board
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that the universe is fulfilling for us all the time,
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and then we can just you know, step forward, trust
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and perceive that. But it's really all the guides say.
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I think they say. They're laughing at me right now,
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so I'm just going to keep talking and wait for
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them to chime in. But it's all about being present.
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by these thoughts, but becoming aware of both the perceived
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limits but also our desires, what we really want, because
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the guides say, and this one I know is coming
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from them. Oftentimes, when we don't believe something is possible,
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we didn't light. We did the light and more, you know.
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believe that the school was possible and that they could
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be happy and successful there, so they had prepared themselves
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to settle for something else. Right, So I'm going to
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wind this one down right now and say, the more
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we can tap into that intuition, And you have over
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three hundred episodes to choose from if you haven't listen
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to them all already around that topic, for sure, The
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more we can tap into our intuition, the more we
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can follow that flow, the more we can trust in ourselves,
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love ourselves, and trust in the process of life. The
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more this thing is going to work for us. And
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sometimes it's through that expanded awareness, right, softening the mind,
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letting go of some of the obstacles, tuning in from
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that higher lens, and allowing that to enrich and guide us. Right,
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not only do we know the next best steps, but
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the road in front of us literally changes, and the
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options in the things that we have been longing for
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materialize right in front of our eyes. And it can
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be as easy as that and is joyous too, all right.
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So that's all I got. If you are intrigued and
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you do want to do a reading with yours, truly,
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that is always an option. I work with folks all
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over the world via zoom and phone, and folks in
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southern California here in my office in San Diego, so
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if any of that speaks to you, you can go
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to Victoria Shaw Intuitive sahaw is how you spell the
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last name victoriashotintuitive dot com and check out my offerings
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there and keep listening to the show. Because all of
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these episodes cross pollinate. They all lead you to the
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same place, but they all do so through different voices,
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sometimes different guests, different people, different lenses. But is my
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sincere hope that everything I offer is helpful for you
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in guidance on your very own path home, because that's
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that's what we do, right, We're all just walking each
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other home, all right, Love you all. Hope you enjoy
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