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Welcome to Build for Confidence, the podcast where kingdom builders rebuild identity, sharpen clarity, and lead with conviction.
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I am your host, Coach Paul Ibarra, and every week we're cutting through the noise to help you stop second guessing, start deciding, and build with confidence right where God has placed you.
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So listen, drop a review, drop a comment, hit that like, subscribe, all the things, and let's get started.
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Number one.
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And number two, thank you for serving God the way that you do, because confidence in Christ is everything that we need.
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So as I was on my walk this morning, I was sitting and had no AirPods in, just me, the breeze, and my dog.
00:01:10.159 --> 00:01:11.599
How many of you have ever done that?
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You just go, you don't want to hear any noise, you don't want to hear any clutter, you don't want to hear anything, you don't you don't want to scroll on social media, you don't want to do videos, you don't want to do any kind of b-roll for my content creators.
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You don't want to do any of that.
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You just want to listen to nothing.
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And sometimes God will speak, sometimes he won't.
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Sometimes he'll allow you to speak, sometimes he wants you to speak, right?
00:01:33.120 --> 00:01:43.359
And so in that moment, these last two hours have been just relaxing and just being able to reflect on my new season, the new season that's coming up.
00:01:43.439 --> 00:01:51.920
There's things that I can't really disclose right now because I honestly don't have a hundred percent clarity on the direction God has taken me through it all.
00:01:52.000 --> 00:01:59.120
But I do know this that there are a few things that God is showing me right now, and he's preparing me to release.
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What does that mean?
00:02:00.480 --> 00:02:05.359
He's preparing me that at some point the things that I've built, I will have to release.
00:02:05.599 --> 00:02:12.479
I will have to throw in a campfire and just be like that season's gone, or that ship has sailed.
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Right?
00:02:14.240 --> 00:02:18.000
And to be honest, I'm totally 100% okay with it.
00:02:18.400 --> 00:02:23.520
I am literally okay with burning it.
00:02:24.960 --> 00:02:35.919
Because if my identity lies on the areas of life because of what I've built, then I'm missing the whole entire story.
00:02:36.400 --> 00:02:52.639
You know, there was something that was told to me years ago when I first started in recovery ministry and all the things, one of the leaders was training us and said, Hey, I want you guys to understand something.
00:02:53.280 --> 00:02:59.280
That if you are what you have and you lose it, then who are you?
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And so once again, that statement rings in my spirit as I'm thinking about this new season, this new place that God has me.
00:03:09.280 --> 00:03:14.000
If I am what I have and I lose it, then who am I?
00:03:14.879 --> 00:03:22.159
If I am the next level mindset coach and that's what I identify myself as and I lose that, then who am I?
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If I am forged ministry and I lose it, then who am I?
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If I am Built for Confidence podcast and I lose it, then who am I?
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And this is where I want to speak to you today.
00:03:38.400 --> 00:03:49.520
If you are your business and you lose it, if you are your tagline and you lose it, if you are your ministry and you lose it, then who are you?
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Who are you?
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Because this is where confidence, built for confidence, comes in, and this is where it's imperative that you understand that I'm not Paul the podcaster, I'm not Paul the next level mindset coach, I'm not Paul the CEO of Forged, I am Paul who podcasts.
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See the difference?
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I am Paul who helps run a ministry called Forged.
00:04:24.240 --> 00:04:29.839
I am Paul that helps people achieve the next level mindset.
00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:34.079
But I'm not the thing that people say that I am.
00:04:34.240 --> 00:04:48.079
But see, what happens so many times is especially in this influencer world this last 10 years, that once we put something out, someone creates an image based off the perspective that they have about us.
00:04:48.319 --> 00:04:59.120
They see the A side of the tape, they see the good reels, they see the what they say is success, and they want to mold that around me as the image.
00:04:59.279 --> 00:05:04.000
And then when I show up in a different way, they're like, oh, well, he was just being fake.
00:05:04.319 --> 00:05:13.120
No, your perception, the way you perceive who I was or am, that's the own image that you've created for yourself.
00:05:13.439 --> 00:05:20.160
So coming back to the area of your life where if you are what you have and you lose it, then who are you?
00:05:20.319 --> 00:05:24.160
It always comes back to Genesis 126 through 28.
00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:33.839
Let us create man in our image and in our likeness, and let's give them dominion over the birds of the air, the fish of the sea, all the things.
00:05:34.079 --> 00:05:36.959
That is our identity in Christ.
00:05:37.519 --> 00:05:43.040
If we go into the New Testament, you are now a new creation in Christ Jesus.
00:05:43.279 --> 00:05:44.240
So, what does that mean?
00:05:44.399 --> 00:05:51.040
The old is gone, it's a new identity in who you are already built upon.
00:05:51.759 --> 00:05:55.920
Now, this is an area that I didn't even think I was gonna tap into today.
00:05:56.079 --> 00:06:00.959
I was just gonna share my experience, walking my dog, and seeing how you were.
00:06:01.839 --> 00:06:03.439
But here's the truth.
00:06:04.959 --> 00:06:08.879
This new season that I'm entering in, you are part of that season.
00:06:09.439 --> 00:06:13.759
And I'm blessed to know that you're walking it out with me.
00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:16.800
And how do I know that you're walking it out with me?
00:06:17.120 --> 00:06:27.839
Receiving pictures from people that are saying, Hey, I've got this plan in my store, or I've got this plan on a speakerphone and I'm listening in and I'm just soaking it all in.
00:06:27.920 --> 00:06:29.600
That's what blesses me.
00:06:31.279 --> 00:06:42.480
What also blesses me, and to know that you can comment or you can send me a text, you can email me all the things to let me know how this podcast is reigning true in your life.
00:06:42.560 --> 00:06:45.279
I would definitely love to do life with you as well.
00:06:45.759 --> 00:06:56.399
If you want to stay connected with me via text, via mobile, text a word, text me to 719-509-1005.
00:06:56.879 --> 00:07:01.519
You're gonna get text throughout the month, you're locked in, you're good to go.
00:07:01.680 --> 00:07:15.759
Because here's the thing anytime that you are walking a life out with somebody, the accountability in that is gonna help you elevate to your next level.
00:07:16.240 --> 00:07:19.199
It's gonna help you elevate to your next season.
00:07:19.759 --> 00:07:21.120
And that's what this is all about.
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That's what Built for Confidence is all about.
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So, where is your identity today?
00:07:26.959 --> 00:07:28.879
What is your action plan this week?
00:07:29.040 --> 00:07:33.839
What is your end result that you would like to see by Friday, 6 a.m.
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this week?
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What is that execution that you're going to be a part of?
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What's the result that you're looking for?
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Do me a huge favor, drop it in the comments.
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Or again, shoot the word, text me to 719-509-1005.
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And now you're part of my text blast.
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So listen, that's all I got for you today.
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If you need me to come speak to your people, let me know.
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Hit me up at coachpolybarra at lifecoachpaul.com and we'll catch you on our Tuesday turnup.
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All right, peace.
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I want to thank you once again for tuning in to the Built for Confidence podcast.
00:08:16.879 --> 00:08:26.399
If you have found value in any of these episodes, do me a huge favor, drop me a review, and also let me know which episode has touched your life.
00:08:26.639 --> 00:08:32.799
My passion is to help business owners grow, scale, and expand for the kingdom of God.
00:08:33.039 --> 00:08:40.960
So let's get out there, let's build our businesses, share this style, hit that like, all the things, and we'll catch you on our next episode.
00:08:41.120 --> 00:08:42.080
God bless.
00:00:04.959 --> 00:00:13.839
Welcome to Build for Confidence, the podcast where kingdom builders rebuild identity, sharpen clarity, and lead with conviction.
00:00:14.880 --> 00:00:25.679
I am your host, Coach Paul Ibarra, and every week we're cutting through the noise to help you stop second guessing, start deciding, and build with confidence right where God has placed you.
00:00:25.839 --> 00:00:33.439
So listen, drop a review, drop a comment, hit that like, subscribe, all the things, and let's get started.
00:00:52.240 --> 00:00:52.560
Number one.
00:00:52.719 --> 00:01:01.200
And number two, thank you for serving God the way that you do, because confidence in Christ is everything that we need.
00:01:02.000 --> 00:01:10.000
So as I was on my walk this morning, I was sitting and had no AirPods in, just me, the breeze, and my dog.
00:01:10.159 --> 00:01:11.599
How many of you have ever done that?
00:01:11.760 --> 00:01:22.239
You just go, you don't want to hear any noise, you don't want to hear any clutter, you don't want to hear anything, you don't you don't want to scroll on social media, you don't want to do videos, you don't want to do any kind of b-roll for my content creators.
00:01:22.400 --> 00:01:23.760
You don't want to do any of that.
00:01:23.840 --> 00:01:26.879
You just want to listen to nothing.
00:01:27.040 --> 00:01:29.359
And sometimes God will speak, sometimes he won't.
00:01:29.439 --> 00:01:32.799
Sometimes he'll allow you to speak, sometimes he wants you to speak, right?
00:01:33.120 --> 00:01:43.359
And so in that moment, these last two hours have been just relaxing and just being able to reflect on my new season, the new season that's coming up.
00:01:43.439 --> 00:01:51.920
There's things that I can't really disclose right now because I honestly don't have a hundred percent clarity on the direction God has taken me through it all.
00:01:52.000 --> 00:01:59.120
But I do know this that there are a few things that God is showing me right now, and he's preparing me to release.
00:01:59.280 --> 00:02:00.239
What does that mean?
00:02:00.480 --> 00:02:05.359
He's preparing me that at some point the things that I've built, I will have to release.
00:02:05.599 --> 00:02:12.479
I will have to throw in a campfire and just be like that season's gone, or that ship has sailed.
00:02:13.360 --> 00:02:13.919
Right?
00:02:14.240 --> 00:02:18.000
And to be honest, I'm totally 100% okay with it.
00:02:18.400 --> 00:02:23.520
I am literally okay with burning it.
00:02:24.960 --> 00:02:35.919
Because if my identity lies on the areas of life because of what I've built, then I'm missing the whole entire story.
00:02:36.400 --> 00:02:52.639
You know, there was something that was told to me years ago when I first started in recovery ministry and all the things, one of the leaders was training us and said, Hey, I want you guys to understand something.
00:02:53.280 --> 00:02:59.280
That if you are what you have and you lose it, then who are you?
00:03:00.960 --> 00:03:08.879
And so once again, that statement rings in my spirit as I'm thinking about this new season, this new place that God has me.
00:03:09.280 --> 00:03:14.000
If I am what I have and I lose it, then who am I?
00:03:14.879 --> 00:03:22.159
If I am the next level mindset coach and that's what I identify myself as and I lose that, then who am I?
00:03:23.199 --> 00:03:28.000
If I am forged ministry and I lose it, then who am I?
00:03:28.319 --> 00:03:34.960
If I am Built for Confidence podcast and I lose it, then who am I?
00:03:36.159 --> 00:03:38.240
And this is where I want to speak to you today.
00:03:38.400 --> 00:03:49.520
If you are your business and you lose it, if you are your tagline and you lose it, if you are your ministry and you lose it, then who are you?
00:03:51.120 --> 00:03:52.000
Who are you?
00:03:54.560 --> 00:04:15.840
Because this is where confidence, built for confidence, comes in, and this is where it's imperative that you understand that I'm not Paul the podcaster, I'm not Paul the next level mindset coach, I'm not Paul the CEO of Forged, I am Paul who podcasts.
00:04:17.040 --> 00:04:18.000
See the difference?
00:04:18.240 --> 00:04:22.959
I am Paul who helps run a ministry called Forged.
00:04:24.240 --> 00:04:29.839
I am Paul that helps people achieve the next level mindset.
00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:34.079
But I'm not the thing that people say that I am.
00:04:34.240 --> 00:04:48.079
But see, what happens so many times is especially in this influencer world this last 10 years, that once we put something out, someone creates an image based off the perspective that they have about us.
00:04:48.319 --> 00:04:59.120
They see the A side of the tape, they see the good reels, they see the what they say is success, and they want to mold that around me as the image.
00:04:59.279 --> 00:05:04.000
And then when I show up in a different way, they're like, oh, well, he was just being fake.
00:05:04.319 --> 00:05:13.120
No, your perception, the way you perceive who I was or am, that's the own image that you've created for yourself.
00:05:13.439 --> 00:05:20.160
So coming back to the area of your life where if you are what you have and you lose it, then who are you?
00:05:20.319 --> 00:05:24.160
It always comes back to Genesis 126 through 28.
00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:33.839
Let us create man in our image and in our likeness, and let's give them dominion over the birds of the air, the fish of the sea, all the things.
00:05:34.079 --> 00:05:36.959
That is our identity in Christ.
00:05:37.519 --> 00:05:43.040
If we go into the New Testament, you are now a new creation in Christ Jesus.
00:05:43.279 --> 00:05:44.240
So, what does that mean?
00:05:44.399 --> 00:05:51.040
The old is gone, it's a new identity in who you are already built upon.
00:05:51.759 --> 00:05:55.920
Now, this is an area that I didn't even think I was gonna tap into today.
00:05:56.079 --> 00:06:00.959
I was just gonna share my experience, walking my dog, and seeing how you were.
00:06:01.839 --> 00:06:03.439
But here's the truth.
00:06:04.959 --> 00:06:08.879
This new season that I'm entering in, you are part of that season.
00:06:09.439 --> 00:06:13.759
And I'm blessed to know that you're walking it out with me.
00:06:14.399 --> 00:06:16.800
And how do I know that you're walking it out with me?
00:06:17.120 --> 00:06:27.839
Receiving pictures from people that are saying, Hey, I've got this plan in my store, or I've got this plan on a speakerphone and I'm listening in and I'm just soaking it all in.
00:06:27.920 --> 00:06:29.600
That's what blesses me.
00:06:31.279 --> 00:06:42.480
What also blesses me, and to know that you can comment or you can send me a text, you can email me all the things to let me know how this podcast is reigning true in your life.
00:06:42.560 --> 00:06:45.279
I would definitely love to do life with you as well.
00:06:45.759 --> 00:06:56.399
If you want to stay connected with me via text, via mobile, text a word, text me to 719-509-1005.
00:06:56.879 --> 00:07:01.519
You're gonna get text throughout the month, you're locked in, you're good to go.
00:07:01.680 --> 00:07:15.759
Because here's the thing anytime that you are walking a life out with somebody, the accountability in that is gonna help you elevate to your next level.
00:07:16.240 --> 00:07:19.199
It's gonna help you elevate to your next season.
00:07:19.759 --> 00:07:21.120
And that's what this is all about.
00:07:21.199 --> 00:07:23.600
That's what Built for Confidence is all about.
00:07:23.839 --> 00:07:26.240
So, where is your identity today?
00:07:26.959 --> 00:07:28.879
What is your action plan this week?
00:07:29.040 --> 00:07:33.839
What is your end result that you would like to see by Friday, 6 a.m.
00:07:34.160 --> 00:07:34.720
this week?
00:07:34.879 --> 00:07:39.279
What is that execution that you're going to be a part of?
00:07:39.839 --> 00:07:41.759
What's the result that you're looking for?
00:07:43.519 --> 00:07:45.839
Do me a huge favor, drop it in the comments.
00:07:46.480 --> 00:07:51.680
Or again, shoot the word, text me to 719-509-1005.
00:07:52.000 --> 00:07:54.879
And now you're part of my text blast.
00:07:55.759 --> 00:07:57.439
So listen, that's all I got for you today.
00:07:57.519 --> 00:07:59.439
If you need me to come speak to your people, let me know.
00:07:59.600 --> 00:08:05.120
Hit me up at coachpolybarra at lifecoachpaul.com and we'll catch you on our Tuesday turnup.
00:08:05.360 --> 00:08:06.480
All right, peace.
00:08:12.480 --> 00:08:16.720
I want to thank you once again for tuning in to the Built for Confidence podcast.
00:08:16.879 --> 00:08:26.399
If you have found value in any of these episodes, do me a huge favor, drop me a review, and also let me know which episode has touched your life.
00:08:26.639 --> 00:08:32.799
My passion is to help business owners grow, scale, and expand for the kingdom of God.
00:08:33.039 --> 00:08:40.960
So let's get out there, let's build our businesses, share this style, hit that like, all the things, and we'll catch you on our next episode.
00:08:41.120 --> 00:08:42.080
God bless.
