TENTANG EPISODE INI
Why do so many relationships fail?
Why do so many settle for a relationship that does not truly make them happy?
What if the key to a thriving relationship isn't only about finding the perfect partner, but becoming the right person?
Today I am back with Tym, the man by my side, to talk about all the ways to get relationship right and to understand what is causing them to break down.
Tym shares his "Relationship is Everything" framework, revealing how most people unknowingly sabotage their connections through misunderstood needs, unexamined expectations, and the relentless pursuit of being understood rather than understanding.
From the engineered breakdown of modern relationships to practical tools for building unshakeable bonds, this conversation offers key to finding the ease, flow, and fulfillment you've been seeking.
Whether you're single, dating, or decades into a partnership, this episode will fundamentally shift how you approach every relationship in your life. But willingness is key:)
4:00 - Introduction to Tymothy Roy and the episode topic
4:48 - Sascha and Tym's 20-year relationship journey
5:30 - How Tym became a student of relationships
8:19 - Why people are being trained to fail in relationships
10:00 - The shift from "getting" to "giving" in relationships
12:37 - Understanding the masculine and feminine dance
13:45 - The problem with expectations in relationships
17:20 - How to be a "mind reader" through presence
20:36 - Misunderstanding needs vs. wants
23:03 - The six human needs: certainty, uncertainty, significance, love/connection, growth, and contribution
28:03 - Why people settle for connection through commiserating
30:10 - The importance of seeking to understand vs. being understood
33:20 - Why relationships should be the priority over children
35:45 - Following the money: who benefits from broken relationships?
42:21 - The masculine and feminine response to feeling unsafe
46:08 - "I'm not upset for the reason I think"
50:00 - The danger of identity attachment
54:00 - Perception vs. perspective: the key shift
58:20 - The myth of compromise in healthy relationships
63:00 - How to "earn your exit" from a relationship
70:00 - The engineering of relationship breakdown through social media
78:00 - The power of presence in communication
82:03 - Gift giving and the act vs. the outcome
86:30 - Taking 100% responsibility as the foundation
94:00 - The tetrahedron model: you, other, relationship, and consciousness
98:40 - Understanding willingness in the art of relationship
104:20 - Why some people give up too soon
106:30 - Final thoughts on rebuilding healthy relationships
I hope you enjoy this conversation! When we build stronger relationships, we build stronger families, raise healthier children and have healthier societies. Literally we can change the world in one generation if we focus on ourselves and our families.
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Find Tym:
He is an amazing coach and can offer insight and transformation in your life on many levels.
https://www.tymothyroy.com/ - check him out and book a discovery session
https://gettingrelationshipright.com/ - current and future offerings here
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