Breaking the Ice

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What's up everybody?
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Everything under the sun podcast season two, episode two.
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Yeah, we got the same shit on because we shot this in the same night.
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God damn it.
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We're here.
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We want to make that clear.
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Don't judge it.
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I have done that in the sweatsuit, I think.
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I don't give a flying fuck, okay?
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If I bought it, I'ma wash it and I I wear it.
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Like I'm trying to.
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This is my thing.
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I'm sorry.
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I got to see how you're talking about.
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We got Rocky B.
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Rocky B in the building.
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Of course.
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We didn't even do the intro yet.
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The homie.
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The homie B Gibson.
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That must be a shit.
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That's a sore topic.
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And we got Bear Brown here on time for this episode only because we shot the episode one already, and he was here for episode two, so he on time is.
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This nigga didn't have to tell y'all none of that.
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I could have just did the motherfucking intro and kept it moving.
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I don't know why he need y'all need to know about my goddamn personal schedule.
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Mo hate single women.
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Single mothers.
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Single mothers.
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No, no, no.
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If they got five kids and only ten dollars left.
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So motherfuckers.
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He said single mothers are poor.
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Sorry.
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Everything of the sun, motherfucker.
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How about that?
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Mr.
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Bills?
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They just gotta go get some food with that ten dollars on the truth.
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Anyways, let's go.
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Um, how y'all doing, man?
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Any the summer here.
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Anybody planning vacation?
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Yeah.
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Listen, vacation.
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So listen, I I this is what I do.
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I usually stop, stop all the crazy shit I do and grind for a little while.
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For like I took the year off last year.
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I ain't going vacation at all.
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So this year I'm out.
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I'm gone.
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Going to my same spot, eating at my same restaurants, sitting in my same beach chair, kicking the same sand, and I'll be back.
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So that's that's vacation now.
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Right, do you take vacation?
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After 30.
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Do you take vacation?
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Man, listen, what is that?
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I really don't want to picture out of town for you.
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I really don't take vacation.
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Until the job is done.
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I really don't, because I work so much.
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I work, I work so much, but I'm I want to.
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But for me, a vacation to me is just it could be right here in Rochester.
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Nah, really.
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If I don't got to work, you gotta go reset yourself.
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Like when you hit 30, you know, you want a vacation where you can actually lay on the beach and relax and sleep in, you know, and go to a club if you want to, right?
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Before 30 and you go on girls' trips, it's like you need a vacation from your vacation because they want to go out, they want to ain't no sleeping, we getting up, we getting drunk.
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I'm I'm past that age.
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Like my vacation is going to a spa, you know, under resort, all inclusive.
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That's why I go on solo vacations.
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Yeah, I was gonna say that.
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That's where I'm at on vacations.
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Like, if I go on vacation now, I want to experience the shit there.
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Yeah, like man, not for nothing.
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Like a club is a club.
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Yeah, it's a building that plays music with people in it.
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Only difference is I don't know what the fuck they're saying.
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Now at this particular case, now there are buildings with different people in them when you leave, but at the same time, it's the same thing.
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It's the same.
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So, like for me, like example, if if I go to DC, I want to go to the African-American museum.
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I don't want to go party.
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Right.
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Because I'm very likely here to say, This motherfucker take over the tour on the museum, like, no, here, she's wrong.
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He's gonna put the tour back aside, right?
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Frederick Douglass did use a hot comb.
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He'd be like, Frederick Douglass did use a hot comb.
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First of all, first of all, I mean, I was cool to Kente Grant, son.
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That is not his cousin.
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I would not, but um, but uh yeah, yeah, no, that's what it is for me.
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But uh yeah, excursions.
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I can I can respect that.
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Excursion, yeah.
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But when you go out with like the girls, and if you gotta wait, if you wake up in the morning, you gotta drink first.
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Like, I don't want to go on vacation with you.
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I want to be able to like sleep in, wake up, eat breakfast, you know, and just chill.
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Like no itinerary.
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I do what I want.
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That's something you go on vacation with me, I'm gonna sleep.
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Yeah, you you gonna have to sleep at times.
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I don't give a fuck about it.
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And it's for a little bit.
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Vacation.
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Get that beach chair, plateau, whatever the fuck they call it, go sit on the beach, we're gonna people watch.
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That's why I go by myself.
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You gonna get the maps and we're gonna eat good and we're gonna sleep good.
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Shit about this party.
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Exactly.
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Yeah, yeah.
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If you're busting in my room at nine o'clock in the morning with Don who get your hand talking about, wake up! This ain't I go on with it.
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You can't even bust in my because for real, man, because like for real.
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Like, like if you pass, I would say man, 19.3 years old, you shouldn't be sharing rooms with nobody on vacations.
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19.
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Well, you can't even bust in my room.
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We're not doing that.
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Right.
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Yeah, like you know one thing I thought.
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You know, one thing I thought I would like, and this is not a knock to anybody who does them, but I don't particularly care for them, cruises.
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I don't like it.
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And I the reason I say that because I went on I I went on my first vacation cruise a couple years ago, and I didn't enjoy it.
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Like, okay, now number one, as beautiful as the open water is, it's horrifyingly terrifying at night.
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I I have insomnia.
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I have insomnia.
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Now, during the daytime when all the music playing, all the stuff, all the music playing, all that shit, it's cool.
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Oh shit, this the open sea is beautiful.
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When you were a late night, when you uh late night overnight person like me, and you do all your thinking, and you walk back on them goddamn the decks and you see it's black, pitch black, black, and you don't know, damn, what if it's a monster over there?
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What if what if the motherfucker that's driving the boat drunk?
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You I'm like, yo, you start thinking like, oh, this shit is scary.
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Yo, I went on the the balcony of my room and you hear the engines, and you don't see nothing else.
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That's funny.
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And I've it got to the point where I say, damn, is this shit even sturdy?
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Like I was scared out of my mind.
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Like I said, that's it's an uncomfortable feeling.
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And when you get in the choppy waters, and that bitch starts swaying, I'm like, we had breakfast, and my first toast going to the left and to the right.
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I'm like, what the fuck is going on here?
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Check the goddamn captain's credentials.
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And like the shit, I'm just uh because you have absolutely zero control of the environment whatsoever.
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Like I said, I like I said, I'm not, I I'll do a cruise.
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I I can do it one day.
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A hundred half days, cool, but three to five days I like to do that.
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I like kids doing it.
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I like cruisers.
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You can't fuck with them no more.
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I mean good.
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I like cruises because you can.
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I mean, being on for if you really think about it, it's really stupid.
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Like to be out in the middle of the water on a boat where anything could happen is kind of crazy to think about, but I like I like cruisers.
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I go on, I go on.
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I've never been on one.
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Yeah, you never been on a cruise.
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Listen, when you go on, yeah, because you came on that boat.
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You don't know.
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I don't want to go back to the case.
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You don't want to go back to the cruise.
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You don't want to go back to the cruise.
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You don't want to go back to the cruise.
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Right.
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Everybody knows when you go on a cruise, go right to get a burger.
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Burger and fries be they good.
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Yeah, that uh see, I and I and you and it starts to the point after a few hours, I'm seeing the same motherfuckers, yeah, same shit.
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I'm like, I'm good.
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I don't want to go to the city.
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It's like being on Rochester, it's like Rochester on water.
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I feel like it's people, it's people that on the cruises that that live on the boat.
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Oh, yeah.
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Now see, here's my thing.
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It's people that live on the boat.
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But that reasoning behind it, like I met an old older lady on the cruise I was with, that her and her husband.
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Yeah, they're gonna be able to do it.
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They only go home to get clothes and they go the rest of the year they on the cruise.
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They live on the cruise.
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They live on the motherfucking cruise.
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I said when you think about the numbers, the money.
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Yeah, I get it.
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I completely understand it.
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I just I'm I'm I'm all set.
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Yeah, I can't do it.
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I've seen them cruises.
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I've had friends that worked on cruises that broke down.
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That uh gone for six months at a time.
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Yeah, exactly.
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Fuck all that.
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I'm not I'm good.
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I'm good.
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Yeah, what about it?
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One thing I ain't doing, I ain't getting in no pool on a cruise though.
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Because that water gotta be, you can't change the water.
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Like fuck shit dirty.
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I'm sure they filter.
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I'm sure they filter.
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That's out of all the shit that can happen, your one knot is the pool.
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Your one knot, I mean the ship couldn't sink, but I wanted to get a hold of unless you get stuck on the poop cruise where the sanitation shit stopped.
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I talked to the guys about what happens when somebody falls off the boat like at night.
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Yeah, he would they would when I tell you that might have been the shortest conversation.
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The motherfuckers was they was uh it was in the captain.
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I'm like, I was like, what y'all do if a motherfucker if I said I'm I'm I'm thinking I'm asking a profound question.
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So I say, say one of the the customers gets tipsy and they fall over.
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That motherfucker looked back from the thing, oh they dead.
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You think we about to turn this motherfucking big ass boat around to go find one person?
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He said, yo, from the first five, he said, if they catch it in time, they will throw the lifeboats out and use a signal.
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But he said, imagine somebody falling off the boat and pitch black.
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He said, We can't, you won't, he said we'll never find them.
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He said, We've had, I'm not gonna say the cruise line.
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He said we've had two accidents where we lost people.
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He said we recovered one and we lost the other.
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And the only reason we we recovered the other one because there it was a uh a worker who actually had a flare.
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Had a what?
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A flare.
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Yeah, actually he had like a one of the workers, and he had like a jacket with utilities and shit like that, and he had a flare.
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That's correct.
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I said he said that's the only reason we got the other one.
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He said, but you gotta imagine the trouble.
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He said, This shit is as long as a goddamn city block.
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And you turn this motherfucker around, you can't bust a Yui.
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Right.
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You know what I'm saying?
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That was a fair.
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Like, I said, God, you see that motherfucker, he I don't even think he looked back at me.
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Oh, they're dead.
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Like Kevin's delicious.
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I'm off.
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We gotta jump into this pod, man.
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Um yeah, but speaking of people that came back from vacation, go ahead.
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The homie Hove.
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Shout out to the GOAT.
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The GOAT himself, certified goat.
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For the roof pro.
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Yeah did you go?
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Anybody went?
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No.
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Okay.
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No, I sold my tickets.
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Hitting me, FaceTiming me right from there.
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Yeah, I saw the whole thing from the beginning from through a FaceTime.
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So but uh Hove came out and he he he he he he did a freestyle that's people got some buzz right now.
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Yeah, he uh got the internet, got the internet going crazy.
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Yeah, did a freestyle about a few different people, right?
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Um, which was unexpected.
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Nobody expected Hove to respond to a lot of people.
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See, I completely expected it.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And in some form or fashion, I completely I thought he was gonna do it at his Yankee Stadium show.
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Because he is so this I got a theory on that.
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So this is Hove saying that I am hip-hop.
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This is hip-hop.
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Somebody say something about me, I'm saying something back.
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Absolutely.
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Unlike these other dudes that say, I ain't gonna say nothing, or I ain't saying nothing to these.
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Like, no, I just think like that's his up.
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He's always done that.
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Yeah, right.
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Like literally always, and like and like welcome to smoke.
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Like, he will literally like respond when you're nobody.
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Like when he dissed 50 Cent, but 50 Cent was nobody.
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Right, right.
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Like, I remember he dissed the dude that was in Mace Holland World group.
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Like, 99.9% of people can't tell you who Mino is.
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Right, right, right.
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But like he pays attention to everything.
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Yeah.
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So like um, I honestly fully expected it.
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Especially, like man, from his interview earlier this year, he said the difference in this year is we're on offense this year.
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Yeah, yeah.
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In all ways.
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Right.
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Uh, hence the lawsuit going against the lawyer that tried to sue him.
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You know, so so that's one part of it.
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They tried to blackmail him.
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Um, yeah, and I just think it was just like, man, a part of what he was saying.
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And um, I thought it was good.
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You know, like a lot of people are like, it was mid he wasn't saying nothing, but I I don't think at this point he's in the mode of, oh, I want to say the most incredible bars.
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Right.
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No, I just want to tell you the truth.
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Right.
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And I think like a lot of people, like I see like the Drake fans, which actually goes back to something he said in the interview, where like, Stan culture has ruined hip hop.
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Like, where like when Jay-Z and Nas were going at it, we still listen to Jay-Z and Nas.
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Like Nas this bullshit to where if you like one, you gotta absolutely hate everything the other person do.
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And it's bullshit.
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So it's like, so when they say that, say that like the Drake stands and saying, like, oh well, Drake got him back outside.
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He meant to bother him.
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And it's like, he's literally done this for the past 30 years.
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You say his name, or eventually, now he won't respond when you do it.
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He'll wait two years from now on a random verse to tap your ass, then.
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Yeah.
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But now it happens to be clearly in a year that he's gonna drop something.
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Right.
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So it's like, oh, oh, okay, this prime time.
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Right.
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Now it's I obviously a lot of, well, he gotta be bothered because he's punching down.
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No, he's just punching.
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Like, and it's cool when when I mean these people are are, as they say, lower than him are just throwing rocks.
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It's cool.
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But then when he responds, it's wrong.
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Like, oh, oh, he must be that bothered because he's punching down if you know this is hip hop.
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Like, and not all that girly man tea shit.
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Like, like that's why I really didn't like the Drake and Kendrick battle.
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Cause like, oh, oh man, your kid not yours, or oh man, you beat your wife, or oh, oh man, you a sex offender.
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Like that shit corny.
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Like the Jay-Z shit, and I think man, like the Drake stands, they really be mad because like if you look at how many Drake battles, so to speak, his main angles are I likely got more money than you, I'm a bigger artist than you, I'm better than you.
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Jay-Z like the only artist that can little brother Drake.
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I'm bigger than you.
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I'm more successful than you.
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Yeah.
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So now it turns into, oh, oh, oh man, well, he's 58.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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He's 58, man, he's too old.
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But then those same people turn around when you say, well, Drake is 40 and he hasn't made any progress in his music.
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Right.
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Maturity-wise, it didn't say, Well, well, not everybody gotta grow up.
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So why 56-year-old Drake, he gotta grow up.
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Right, right.
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Don't really make it out.
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And um to piggyback off that, I'm a little bit more biased when it comes to this.
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And the reason I say that is because it's I don't know if I'm biased.
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It'll go both ways.
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First of all, I listened to uh I forgot the first the single where he Drake uh addressed everybody.
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Was it Shut the Hell Up?
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I forgot the name of the song.
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Uh the first, the one where he was talking slow over the beat and was addressing Jay and everybody else, Kanye, when he took a shot at LeBron and all that shit.
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No, man, I I think it was called Make Them Pay, Make Them Cry.
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Okay, yeah, okay.
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Whatever, yeah, Make Them Cry.
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I don't know where I got shut the hell up from, but whatever.
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Okay, yeah, okay.
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Maybe I was thinking that about him, but either way.
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Um the reason why I'm I I used to be a 100% Drake fan, but why I'm it's dwindling because number one when we okay, you take credibility as an artist.
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Whatever lane that you're going to be in, you know what I'm saying?
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Whatever, this is my take on it, this is nobody else's take.
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Whatever lane that you're gonna be in, celebrate that lane.
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When Will Smith dropped, I I celebr will I celebrated Will Smith for being Will Smith.
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Don't be gangster, don't try and be hardcore.
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Same thing with Ice Cube, you know what I'm saying?
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Same thing with any MC that like I've I follow.
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If you stay in your lane, master your lane, whatever, blah say blah.
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I like Drake because Drake mastered his lane, he mastered his craft.
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I don't like his music per se.
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I think he's the dopest elevator rap artist I've ever heard.
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But you it's the type of music like I listen to it while I'm in the elevator because I have no choice.
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Yeah, but once I'm out of the elevator, I want to hear that shit.
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Or Dennis office something.
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And I said that now that doesn't mean that he's not good.
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That doesn't mean that there's no Drake songs I don't like because there's some Drake songs I rock to this day.
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I just don't buy into the tough talk.
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Who he is, yeah.
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I don't, I don't, I don't buy into the like when you when you say certain things, like you ain't been in no wars, you ain't been in no trenches, but you talk like I'm big bro now.
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This bro, you do jingles, yeah.
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You don't you do your your your to me it his music doesn't weather the the the test of time, you know, like I like it, but like he everybody says good albums.
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To me, he's never done a classic album.
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I think the only thing he's ever done classic, which I gave him credit for, like I I was uh still a fan of his first one.
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Um the first song he did, the first album he did, because that album was a mixtape for free a year before.
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Okay, but then he dropped it, got behind, put out a couple more songs, dropped it, and the shit was like the number one selling album in the world.
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I said, yo, that was fucking amazing to me, and to this day it still is.
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Right.
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But we night and I respect the shit he's talking on that uh make them cry, whatever.
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I talk your shit.
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Because to me, statistically, he can say the things that he's saying.
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Like you can't take, regardless of how I feel about his music or him as an artist, you can't take away nothing that that cat has done.
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Right.
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Like I said, but uh to me, when you start looking at the the politics and how things play out and the music-wise and all that stuff, like the machine that he was suing against or with Kendrick and the whole lawsuit, he's using that machine now to propel his music.
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Yeah, yeah.
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The same thing that made everybody look at him crazy is helping them get these numbers when you're comparing himself to Mike Jackson and all that stuff like that, sales-wise, whatever.
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To me, when you start celebrating that stuff and you start drinking your own Kool-Aid versus the product of your the quality and product of your artistry, yeah, I like I said, I it's just questionable to me.
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But regardless, Drake is Drake, Drake is a machine, regardless.
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Now, when it comes to this Jay-Z thing, I like the fact that I 100% love the fact that he talk, Jake, Drake is talking this shit.
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I love it.
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He's like, yo, you can't big bro me no more.
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Like the Jigger's up and all this other stuff.
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But Jay-Z's a different animal.
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Yeah, you burger.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Like, like, like, you like I said, you you you this is a whole nother, you can't send shots at Jigger like that and not expect something.
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So the freestyle that Jay did, I love the fact that he even addressed the shit.
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Yeah, everybody was looking, like I said, you if you listen in this online, the entire freestyle is online, and if you dig into what he's saying, yeah, you know he's good for triple, double, and triple entendres and stuff.
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That shit was beautiful.
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Yeah, I say he, and like I said, and the fact that he addressed everything, he addressed Nicki Minaj, he addressed uh Kanye, he dressed Draguire White, he addressed uh uh Drake and all that stuff.
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Like I said, when we say he dropped the bar, yeah, Dave.
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I knew he was gonna say something about Dame, but and that was expected.
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Well, we're talking about uh Nikki being on the shit and about the kids.
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I said, Your husband can't even be around your own kids, and all kinds of like man, listen, like don't play with me.
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I'm I'm I'm I'm from the trenches, I'm from the battle culture.
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Right.
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Jay used to go around back in the days when they tell the story.
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Jay used to go around battling top-notch superstar MCs when this is what I do.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Like, so like I welcome all the smoke.
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And the the people excuses, oh, he back up.
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He don't need to do shit out.
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Right.
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He having fun.
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That boy has a smoke, but career.
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He's the first real, I think he's the first real billionaire MC active.
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He's active in the game.
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You know, like I said, he said it's gonna cost you to be to mention me.
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Like, come on, man.
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Right, stop playing.
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Talking to the wrong dude.
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Like you, when you like I said, it's you can't casually throw a shot at Jigger and think it's gonna stick without something happening.
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Right.
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And I like I said, I respect when you take away the sales, the the stands, like B said, and all that stuff, and you just go to the artistry, the credibility, and the status of these MCs.
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I love to see it.
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Yeah, I want to see what Drake says.
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I want to see what Jigger does and all that stuff.
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But stop acting like this man ain't been active and ran this shit and he ain't the GOAT the fuck out of here.
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All the dumb shit.
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Oh, he's too old.
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Too old for what?
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He the goat till he got.
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That nigga walked away on purpose.
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He ain't dropped the album since 2017.
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Right.
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And dropped the seven, eight-minute freestyle that shut the world, the internet down.
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Right, right.
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You know, that shows you the power and control and the and impact this man has had.
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For JV Jay-Z fans, we know better.
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Yeah, we know better to say to to listen to a Jay-Z freestyle the first time and say, I don't like it.
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Because we you you're gonna find a double, triple honor in there.
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And see here week and be like, oh shit.
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That's one thing I like about the internet because you got cats that broke that shit down immediately.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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You know what I'm saying?
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But so stuff like that, you can't, you can't really, you can't really play into it.
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For me, the freestyle, um I I felt like I felt like he put it out there, and you know he got this whole uh uh Mad uh uh Yankee Stadium thing coming up.
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I think he put a feeler out there.
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He dangled a carrot out there, and now everybody's gonna be waiting to see what he says at this at this concert.
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So I think he he's smart.
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We know he's smart.
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He playing the game like he wanna play it, and he gonna he gonna he gonna dictate it, and that's gonna be that.
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And and I'm I'm excited to see what he's gonna do.
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I'm excited, I'm I'm actually I'm looking forward to see if Drake says anything.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I think Drake, Drake, Drake did that on purpose.
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He did it on purpose.
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He gotta know you can't you can't send a shot like that and then not be ready to back it up.
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But he's done it before though.
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But for me, he done it before.
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It's like, I honestly, I don't want to hear no more from Drake.
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I don't want to hear no more because How you feeling about, okay, now that we're talking about Drake, how y'all feel about the albums?
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I didn't I I don't want to hear no more from Drake.
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I didn't even listen to it.
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I ain't gonna lie.
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I don't want to listen to it.
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Now I'm gonna be honest.
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I listened to the main album, the Iceman album.
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Those are the two albums, like one was House Music, one's called Habibi, and the other one's called Maid of Honor.
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And like those were pronounced wrong, I'm sorry.
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House music, and then the other one was like, oh man, RB.
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I don't really prefer my RB from a rapping RB singer.
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Right.
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So it's one of those things.
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But the Iceman album, um, you know a lot of people said, like, you had to digest it, man.
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You can't can't understand it in in uh a few days.
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Um, I'll say though, like the Iceman album, I would say the rollout was 10 out of 10.
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So yeah, the marketing behind that was 10 out of 10.
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Like the ice on the NBA seeds, the big giant ice cube, the final release date in the middle of Toronto.
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He spent like 20 million in the light up the CN Tower blue Mehforth album.
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It's crazy.
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And as somebody that had never listened to one complete Drake album, it had me listen to three at one time.
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So I think that rollout was great.
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Also, something else, I'm gonna be honest.
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Lyrically, you can't be a fan of real lyrics and not be a fan of him on the album.
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Like he has a lot of double and triple on like really creative witty bars.
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Like him crying later.
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That make him cry later.
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I listen to it.
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That's that point spit.
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Yo, that whole album, man.
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Like he was really, really like rapping, rapping, rapping.
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So like rollout 10 out of 10.
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I probably get a lyrics uh nine out of ten because it's like little parts where he just like gets into singing and shit and it's bullshit.
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But other than that, like lyrically, you're gonna get some melodies.
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Lyrically, you can't be a fan of real bars and say, oh, oh, man, this ass.
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I think the one thing that is like a one out of ten on the album is the substance.
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And part of that is damn near every song the topic is y'all traded on me, y'all didn't help me during the battle, and don't come back around now.
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Or all that, like that's redundant.
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And then the other side of all this is like then he keeps talking about like two years, bro.
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Nothing has happened to anybody.
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Right.
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Yeah, right.
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Like absolutely my city, but basically, we're gonna get him.
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I truthfully wish that I don't.
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If it wasn't Drake, a lot of the bars on the real.
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Yeah, you know, but if the redundance trade it don't come back around, it's annoying.
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And then like, like, and it started off dope, but he like, I'm a rumble nigga, and he's not, it's in my DNA.
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It's like you're you're not gonna do anything.
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And the pony is that the show is that is that the show.
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Yep.
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So when so right at the part that he's and the girl on the screen is the girl that LeBron for dancing at a show.
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That's whole shit in the man.
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Nice skin shit.
00:24:06.799 --> 00:24:13.200
That's the aspect that I just like like he because even the interviews and all that stuff, he alludes to certain things that'll have people question it.
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I'm like, where the fuck?
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Where's this couple, this exposed cook?
00:24:16.240 --> 00:24:19.279
Like, if you're gonna get back at him, get back at him with bars, that's one thing.
00:24:19.440 --> 00:24:26.000
But like, even I lost respect for BD Siegel when he put that shit about Jay in the rhyme, like, I know shit that makes Beyonce look at you different.
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Like, nigga, like we all when people get hurt, get butthurt, and start doing weird shit like that.
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Yeah, like I said, you take away all your credibility, all this toughness, and all that.
00:24:36.960 --> 00:24:38.000
Like, that's old shit, man.
00:24:38.079 --> 00:24:39.119
Yeah, like I don't talk, yeah, man.
00:24:39.119 --> 00:24:39.759
I don't condone weird.
00:24:40.160 --> 00:24:43.440
So, B, you said you said the lyrics was 10 out of 10, but the substance was one out of 10.
00:24:43.519 --> 00:24:45.200
Does nine out of 10 for the lyrics?
00:24:45.519 --> 00:24:48.240
Lyrics was nine out of ten, subjects, substance was one out of ten.
00:24:48.799 --> 00:24:51.680
Does that that's gotta diminish some of the lyrics though?
00:24:51.839 --> 00:24:55.599
Because if you don't, if if the lyrics is uh redundant, if you say him the substance.
00:24:56.480 --> 00:24:57.200
No, no, no, no.
00:24:57.279 --> 00:25:03.279
See, see man, what it reduces, redundancy reduces the replay value.
00:25:03.519 --> 00:25:06.880
So, like, I listen to it, but I don't want to hear it again.
00:25:06.960 --> 00:25:07.119
Right.
00:25:07.279 --> 00:25:12.880
But it's a lot of music I listen to that I think it's entirely lyrically, and I don't want to hear it again.
00:25:12.960 --> 00:25:13.119
Right.
00:25:13.440 --> 00:25:15.599
Like, like, I'll give y'all a prime example.
00:25:15.759 --> 00:25:18.160
I thought that cannabis was the greatest rapper of all time.
00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:19.119
Sweet Jesus Christ.
00:25:19.359 --> 00:25:22.400
But now listening to what he says, and then I'm not listening to that shit.
00:25:22.480 --> 00:25:22.559
Right.
00:25:22.640 --> 00:25:23.200
Right, right, right, right.
00:25:23.440 --> 00:25:26.960
The build just is very, it's very rabbity rappy.
00:25:27.119 --> 00:25:27.279
Right.
00:25:27.519 --> 00:25:33.920
And like Drake has like four songs where basically a beat comes on and he just going off for like four minutes and he's killing it.
00:25:34.000 --> 00:25:35.680
But it's like, I'm not about to listen to this shit no more.
00:25:36.400 --> 00:25:36.720
Yeah, I get it.
00:25:36.799 --> 00:25:36.960
I get it.
00:25:37.359 --> 00:25:38.480
Like, I'm not about to listen to this shit no more.
00:25:38.720 --> 00:25:39.839
Like I said, it's good lyrics, man.
00:25:39.920 --> 00:25:47.759
It's like I said, but the for me, for the I only listen to Iceman, I'm I listen to the beauty, yeah, but whatever the fuck, the other two.
00:25:48.079 --> 00:25:52.160
But I mean like, but one thing about Drake that I respect too, he knows his market.
00:25:52.319 --> 00:25:55.200
He's he knows I'm bigger than just being an MC, I'm a global artist.
00:25:55.279 --> 00:26:03.440
Right, yeah, you know, it's the same effect that Eminem had when he was at his, like, I remember 40 to 50 percent of the music being put out that was being sold was sold by Eminem.
00:26:03.680 --> 00:26:04.160
You know what I'm saying?
00:26:04.240 --> 00:26:08.240
Out of 100% of the music, 40-50% of what he was carrying it himself.
00:26:08.640 --> 00:26:09.920
The same thing with Drake, right?
00:26:10.000 --> 00:26:18.480
You know, like he has he does have a polarizing fan base, and he appeases them with these because he's he's celebrated globally.
00:26:18.720 --> 00:26:19.599
Like, let's just be real.
00:26:19.680 --> 00:26:24.079
Like, this dude, the the difference between him and Jay, Jay is a Brooklyn MC.
00:26:24.319 --> 00:26:26.720
Right, he's never changed from being a Brooklyn MC.
00:26:26.799 --> 00:26:26.880
Right.
00:26:27.680 --> 00:26:32.799
The New York, the the the the roughness, the trenches has been in every song he's ever made.
00:26:32.880 --> 00:26:33.680
Right, you know what I'm saying?
00:26:33.839 --> 00:26:35.599
Perfect example of that song Cry.
00:26:35.839 --> 00:26:36.799
Never seemed coming down my mind.
00:26:36.960 --> 00:26:38.400
I gotta make the song, like shit like that.
00:26:38.480 --> 00:26:40.160
Like, Drake gonna cry on the record.
00:26:40.240 --> 00:26:43.200
I mister He's gonna pause the music.
00:26:43.440 --> 00:26:45.200
It's gonna be some real tears.
00:26:45.839 --> 00:26:48.480
We're gonna have some real tears coming off like yeah, exactly.
00:26:48.640 --> 00:26:50.559
So every time you play that, you gotta wait for this pause.
00:26:50.720 --> 00:26:51.200
Hey, here we go.
00:26:51.440 --> 00:26:52.000
He's crying right now.
00:26:53.359 --> 00:26:54.960
I let the cigar, let me let the cigar burn.
00:26:55.279 --> 00:26:56.240
Okay, just like my heart burn.
00:26:58.720 --> 00:26:59.440
Just go back to rap.
00:27:00.079 --> 00:27:00.960
Like that's drinking.
00:27:01.359 --> 00:27:01.920
You know what I'm saying?
00:27:02.079 --> 00:27:03.680
So like I said, I'm not shit.
00:27:04.000 --> 00:27:04.240
Exactly.
00:27:05.839 --> 00:27:06.559
I don't, me neither.
00:27:06.880 --> 00:27:07.599
I can't do Hove.
00:27:07.759 --> 00:27:08.559
I can't do Jay-Z.
00:27:08.720 --> 00:27:11.279
I don't uh I can't listen to Crazy.
00:27:13.359 --> 00:27:15.759
It's just too thank you, yeah.
00:27:16.000 --> 00:27:18.240
I like I like melody, I like cadence, you know.
00:27:18.319 --> 00:27:18.960
I like it.
00:27:19.359 --> 00:27:20.640
We appreciate we appreciate Drake.
00:27:21.200 --> 00:27:23.119
Girly girls, Drake makes songs for girly girls.
00:27:24.000 --> 00:27:25.200
Drake is a girly girl.
00:27:25.599 --> 00:27:29.519
The nigga with the fucking duck lick pictures, the pink polish.
00:27:29.680 --> 00:27:30.400
That nigga is a girly girl.
00:27:33.200 --> 00:27:33.759
I hate it.
00:27:33.920 --> 00:27:39.759
I hate when I have to listen to rappers and I gotta think like, oh, okay, oh yeah, oh wait, oh yeah, that was a double, okay, and that metaphor.
00:27:40.240 --> 00:27:40.720
I respect that.
00:27:40.799 --> 00:27:41.119
I respect that.
00:27:42.079 --> 00:27:42.960
I want to enjoy the music.
00:27:43.039 --> 00:27:45.519
I don't want to have to be like, oh, hold on, let me listen to the lyrics.
00:27:45.680 --> 00:27:45.920
Yeah.
00:27:46.480 --> 00:27:48.000
I like a melody, I like a nice melody.
00:27:48.240 --> 00:27:49.599
So you're a simple but never mind.
00:27:49.839 --> 00:27:50.640
I'm a simple what?
00:27:51.119 --> 00:27:51.920
She's a basic B.
00:27:52.160 --> 00:27:52.720
I just think.
00:27:53.599 --> 00:27:55.920
Listen, I'm a reggae girl, so I don't really give a fuck about it.
00:27:56.000 --> 00:27:56.240
Oh yeah, yeah.
00:27:58.240 --> 00:27:59.200
But then you say you love Drake.
00:28:00.319 --> 00:28:00.880
You love Drake.
00:28:00.960 --> 00:28:01.680
You love Drake, then.
00:28:03.440 --> 00:28:04.799
Speaking of simple, though, hold on, man.
00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:07.119
Speaking of simple, though, we can make a segue.
00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:11.119
Um, we had a conversation kind of off camera or whatnot.
00:28:11.279 --> 00:28:17.039
And um, and about do men really like women with nothing.
00:28:18.240 --> 00:28:19.599
You know, like man, with nothing.
00:28:19.839 --> 00:28:21.519
Like, like honestly, like I see it a lot.
00:28:21.680 --> 00:28:23.920
Like, I see like a lot of women say, you know what, man?
00:28:24.000 --> 00:28:25.839
Maybe I should sell my carbon and quit my job.
00:28:26.000 --> 00:28:27.920
Because niggas love a bitch with nothing.
00:28:29.039 --> 00:28:33.359
One that was like really funny is when she was like, I should take my curtains down and put sheets up.
00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:33.599
Yeah.
00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:35.839
And maybe I died.
00:28:37.759 --> 00:28:38.240
She can get the band.
00:28:38.319 --> 00:28:39.440
She's gonna get your papers down and put sheets up.
00:28:39.680 --> 00:28:40.240
She won't be.
00:28:46.079 --> 00:28:47.279
Yeah, but let me go knock on her door.
00:28:47.440 --> 00:28:48.319
She clearly needs to be a little bit.
00:28:48.400 --> 00:28:48.799
She needs help.
00:28:49.599 --> 00:28:50.240
She needs assistance.
00:28:50.559 --> 00:28:52.079
But let me get there with this package.
00:28:52.480 --> 00:28:57.519
But that's that's I think that's just uh uh it's easy, right?
00:28:57.839 --> 00:29:05.039
Yeah, it makes it make it make it's easier for a man to please impress a woman that has nothing.
00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:11.680
The thing is, I think men are attracted to women that have their shit together, right?
00:29:11.759 --> 00:29:14.000
It's like, wow, that's like I'm attracted to that.
00:29:14.160 --> 00:29:20.400
But I feel like to actually like sit with it and deal with it, because there's a lot that comes with women that got their shit together.
00:29:20.480 --> 00:29:21.039
I ain't gonna lie.
00:29:21.200 --> 00:29:26.880
Like we don't, yeah, we ain't, we don't, we're less likely to really like submit, right?
00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:28.079
Our mouth, yeah.
00:29:28.160 --> 00:29:31.599
We we gonna answer back because we have that mentality, like, yo, I got my shit.
00:29:31.680 --> 00:29:32.400
I don't give a fuck.
00:29:32.559 --> 00:29:33.839
Move the fuck on, right?
00:29:34.079 --> 00:29:35.759
So you're gonna deal with some shit.
00:29:35.839 --> 00:29:39.599
But it's also women that got their shit together, also, we don't ask for much.
00:29:39.680 --> 00:29:41.200
So you got it's like a double-edged sword.
00:29:41.359 --> 00:29:43.599
You gotta take the good with the bad with everything.
00:29:43.680 --> 00:29:44.559
We don't ask for much.
00:29:44.720 --> 00:29:45.599
It's like we got it.
00:29:45.680 --> 00:29:52.319
So just show up, be supportive, dick me down, um, you know, and and listen to my problems.
00:29:52.640 --> 00:29:53.119
I got a question.
00:29:53.200 --> 00:29:59.599
When you leave that when you when you when you when you done with the dude that that pissed you off because whatever, right?
00:30:00.240 --> 00:30:01.279
Because you got your shit together.
00:30:01.359 --> 00:30:03.440
You say, I don't need this shit, I got my shit together.
00:30:03.680 --> 00:30:03.839
Yeah.
00:30:04.240 --> 00:30:04.559
Uh-huh.
00:30:04.640 --> 00:30:04.799
Yeah.
00:30:05.119 --> 00:30:05.359
Tell him.
00:30:05.680 --> 00:30:06.640
Uh yeah, what?
00:30:08.240 --> 00:30:09.359
And then you're gonna find it.
00:30:09.680 --> 00:30:09.759
Y'all.
00:30:10.319 --> 00:30:11.279
I need to blow your present.
00:30:11.359 --> 00:30:13.920
What you know how hard it is to find you got your shit together.
00:30:14.079 --> 00:30:17.440
He's giving you too much, he giving I got my shit together, and I don't need this.
00:30:18.160 --> 00:30:18.400
Exactly.
00:30:18.559 --> 00:30:23.680
But the problems that he had maybe is more tolerable than like I'm willing to deal with before you find that guy.
00:30:23.759 --> 00:30:25.039
How many times are you willing to go through that?
00:30:25.200 --> 00:30:26.480
Answer the fucking question.
00:30:26.720 --> 00:30:27.599
It depends.
00:30:28.240 --> 00:30:32.400
If I gotta start over 800 times, I'm gonna start over 800 times if I f if until I find the person.
00:30:32.720 --> 00:30:33.440
Is that the woman's mindset?
00:30:33.599 --> 00:30:34.160
Until the person's gonna be a good thing.
00:30:34.319 --> 00:30:37.440
So the woman's mindset means you're you're you're started over all these times.
00:30:37.519 --> 00:30:37.680
Yeah.
00:30:37.920 --> 00:30:38.640
Until you find him.
00:30:38.799 --> 00:30:40.880
Until you find the person that you're willing to deal with.
00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:41.440
Got it.
00:30:41.599 --> 00:30:42.640
That's that's just what it is.
00:30:43.759 --> 00:30:46.160
I'm gonna answer this, I'm gonna answer this question like I'm I'm B.
00:30:46.319 --> 00:30:46.720
Gibson.
00:30:46.960 --> 00:30:47.440
I'm I'm playing.
00:30:47.680 --> 00:30:48.160
I'm playing B.
00:30:48.240 --> 00:30:48.480
Gibson.
00:30:48.720 --> 00:30:50.000
And then I'll like I'm B Gibson.
00:30:52.240 --> 00:30:53.039
Let's let's look at the statistics.
00:30:53.440 --> 00:30:57.599
Let's just look at the statistical facts that present themselves in this situation.
00:30:58.000 --> 00:31:01.839
Um, bear with me as I take you on this literary journey.
00:31:02.079 --> 00:31:22.559
Uh first and foremost, uh, as you look at the evidence, you take a woman who has quote unquote nothing, whatever that may be, and you're dealing with a man, okay, less than less than me, and you deal with you deal with a man who has motion, finances in place, his own shit per se.
00:31:23.119 --> 00:31:31.839
Uh there are way more women out there like that than there are available men like us.
00:31:32.799 --> 00:31:54.000
So taking those numbers into account, you know, taking those numbers into account, I'm less likely to be what you want me to be versus what I want to be because I know there's way more women like you looking for men like me, and vice versa.
00:31:55.279 --> 00:32:12.480
So I'm saying this slightly joking, to be and to be honest, when you take everything else into account, when you put yourself in a situation where you're dealing with someone who Okay, for okay, let me talk about myself, for example.
00:32:13.680 --> 00:32:16.640
I like a little opposition in my relationships.
00:32:16.880 --> 00:32:18.400
And what I mean by opposition, I mean talent.
00:32:20.079 --> 00:32:21.200
I don't use I don't use toxic.
00:32:21.839 --> 00:32:24.400
Y'all ran that last season they ran that shit in the garage.
00:32:24.960 --> 00:32:29.759
And a lot of a lot of toxic women was inboxing me ready to beat me up, thinking that shit might turn me off.
00:32:33.039 --> 00:32:34.079
I got so many inboxes.
00:32:34.240 --> 00:32:36.240
Come over here, I'll feed you and fuck you up.
00:32:36.400 --> 00:32:39.039
No, no, no, I don't like fighting.
00:32:39.359 --> 00:32:43.039
No, like goddamn, I don't know what they made you I fade you and fucking.
00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:47.039
What I'm saying, what I'm saying is the fact that I like a challenge.
00:32:47.440 --> 00:32:47.680
Okay.
00:32:48.400 --> 00:32:54.559
And by challenge, I mean, yeah, I want you to talk back a little bit, you know, like chill out with the fat bitches, okay?
00:32:54.640 --> 00:32:55.519
Like let's relax.
00:32:56.160 --> 00:32:57.920
Respect comes into play somewhere.
00:32:58.880 --> 00:33:02.480
But what I'm saying is that I like a challenge, I like a little opposition.
00:33:02.640 --> 00:33:06.240
I want I want some, I want that a little bit aggressive feedback.
00:33:06.400 --> 00:33:09.359
Like, you know, I don't want to come in and thinking I'm gonna have my way.
00:33:09.519 --> 00:33:09.839
Yes.
00:33:10.079 --> 00:33:11.440
But there's a line.
00:33:12.079 --> 00:33:19.440
Now, I don't mind, like I said, I don't mind helping any woman I'm dealing with, I don't mind helping her out at all.
00:33:19.599 --> 00:33:22.079
Because I want you to shine and be the best you can be.
00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:24.319
And if I can help you with that, cool, you know.
00:33:24.720 --> 00:33:33.279
But when the one thing that Brandon preached last season that I'm big on, it has to be reciprocated in some way.
00:33:33.599 --> 00:33:37.440
You know, now it's not enough for you to like me or be attracted to me or be into me.
00:33:37.519 --> 00:33:42.880
It's not that I I love it, but there's gonna be times, there's gonna be opportunities where I'm gonna need you.
00:33:43.279 --> 00:33:54.240
Yeah, I know in whatever fashion that may, it probably won't be financial, but there's so there's I might need that emotional support, I might need uh the intimacy, whatever, because that's new for me.
00:33:54.880 --> 00:33:59.519
I'm learning through a therapeutic process that I'm kind of cold in that area.
00:33:59.599 --> 00:33:59.839
Yeah, yeah.
00:34:00.000 --> 00:34:04.480
Because when I get in my zone, I'm 95 to 98% of my life consists of work in motion.
00:34:04.559 --> 00:34:11.920
Yeah, so I'm sometimes I'll I'm a gift giver, I'm an acts of service type person, but the intimacy part, I lacked it.
00:34:12.320 --> 00:34:17.360
You know, and I I realized that through some some wins and losses, and I'm working on that.
00:34:17.440 --> 00:34:21.760
I'm working on it, be a uh a more caring person through my acts.
00:34:21.920 --> 00:34:24.800
But with that being said, I need you just as much.
00:34:25.039 --> 00:34:32.639
And a lot of women think that because a man got may have something going on or may have a lot going on, whatever, might be in a different position, that we don't need that.
00:34:32.800 --> 00:34:37.119
The other day, a female friend of mine just sent me a text out the blue, and I posted it.
00:34:37.280 --> 00:34:39.840
Said uh text out the blue, hey, just checking on you.
00:34:39.920 --> 00:34:41.119
You do so much for so many other people.
00:34:41.280 --> 00:34:42.239
So I'm checking your mental.
00:34:42.320 --> 00:34:42.800
How you doing?
00:34:42.880 --> 00:34:43.360
How you feel?
00:34:43.440 --> 00:34:43.840
You good?
00:34:44.000 --> 00:34:44.639
You want to you want me?
00:34:44.800 --> 00:34:46.239
I'm I'm sending a couple dollars for lunch.
00:34:47.039 --> 00:34:48.639
I thought that was the dopest shit in the world.
00:34:49.039 --> 00:34:52.960
Like all these people that I've interacted with, helped, assisted, whatever.
00:34:53.199 --> 00:34:55.920
She took the time out of her busy day to make sure I was good.
00:34:56.000 --> 00:34:56.400
Yeah, right.
00:34:56.559 --> 00:35:03.840
You know, and like I said, we might we me and her don't we haven't talked in a while, but she just made sure she just checked on me.
00:35:03.920 --> 00:35:04.000
Right.
00:35:04.159 --> 00:35:06.480
And that shit just activated something in me.
00:35:06.559 --> 00:35:08.000
I'm like, damn, it's women out here like that.
00:35:08.079 --> 00:35:09.440
Like they ain't never had that, exactly.
00:35:09.519 --> 00:35:16.800
And I did that, I could, and I so no recognizing how much that meant to me showed me that I'm I starve in that area.
00:35:16.960 --> 00:35:19.760
Now I'm not saying that I don't have female friends or anybody that check on me.
00:35:19.840 --> 00:35:22.719
I'm talking about from a place of care and the support, you know what I'm saying?
00:35:22.800 --> 00:35:27.119
Yeah, that where that intimate area may exist between you and the other person.
00:35:27.679 --> 00:35:29.119
It just matters, right?
00:35:29.280 --> 00:35:32.159
And a lot of women, not all women, please.
00:35:32.239 --> 00:35:34.000
I'm not, I will never pigeonhole women.
00:35:34.159 --> 00:35:37.039
A lot of women miss that when a busy man, right?
00:35:37.360 --> 00:35:39.760
They think just because he's emotion, he don't care.
00:35:39.840 --> 00:35:41.440
Or we may be getting that from someone else.
00:35:41.599 --> 00:35:48.559
Like, if you know I'm not I'm home, if I'm not home out of a 24-hour day, if I'm not home for 20 plus hours, I'm not cooking.
00:35:49.360 --> 00:35:49.440
Right.
00:35:49.599 --> 00:35:51.360
So if you come like, listen, hey, where you at?
00:35:51.440 --> 00:35:52.880
I'm about to drop this food off to you.
00:35:53.280 --> 00:35:54.480
That shit is huge.
00:35:55.440 --> 00:35:55.840
That's huge.
00:35:56.000 --> 00:35:57.119
I know you like spaghetti.
00:35:57.199 --> 00:36:00.800
So here, I made some spaghetti, I set some aside for you, I'm about to make sure you're good.
00:36:01.119 --> 00:36:01.920
Go on with your day.
00:36:02.079 --> 00:36:02.320
One.
00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:07.199
Like that shit like that, the check-ins, the pop-ups, certain pop-ups.
00:36:08.239 --> 00:36:12.800
Not all pop-ups, but certain pop-ups, just making sure you're okay to check-ins on us, it means something.
00:36:12.880 --> 00:36:23.920
So when you meet a woman who may not have as much as you, she could do she could she could uh cooperate in other areas, participate in other areas where you may be lacking it.
00:36:24.159 --> 00:36:25.199
Yeah, precipitate in other ways.
00:36:25.280 --> 00:36:28.639
So because the women with their own shit, shit, I didn't cook either, nigga.
00:36:28.719 --> 00:36:29.920
Like perfect.
00:36:30.559 --> 00:36:33.280
They could go way sooner because I have my own shit.
00:36:33.360 --> 00:36:34.800
I'm I could I could actually do that.
00:36:34.880 --> 00:36:39.280
I can actually afford to go get you something to eat and bring it to you, right?
00:36:39.440 --> 00:36:47.599
I'm talking about the women, I'm talking about the women that really don't have nothing, like you don't have nothing, depending on you for everything.
00:36:48.079 --> 00:36:48.880
We'll be honest, right?
00:36:49.519 --> 00:36:54.239
So I can just answer this like me, but not like me in the traditional me.
00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:59.440
This has always been one of the stupidest fucking things I've ever heard in my life.
00:36:59.840 --> 00:37:02.880
You've never heard a dude say, damn, man, that bitch ain't got nothing.
00:37:03.039 --> 00:37:05.360
The less she has, it just turned me on more.
00:37:05.519 --> 00:37:07.679
It doesn't make any goddamn sense.
00:37:07.840 --> 00:37:12.400
The only man that would aspire to have me that type of woman is a weak man.
00:37:12.480 --> 00:37:15.920
It doesn't matter how much money he has, it's a weak man.
00:37:16.159 --> 00:37:24.159
It's a weak man because at the end of the day, we're all striving for success in a relationship if that's what we're seeking.
00:37:24.880 --> 00:37:33.360
So, why would I want to have half the life that I could have doing everything myself when me and you can work together and have twice twice of it?
00:37:33.519 --> 00:37:34.800
It doesn't make any sense.
00:37:34.880 --> 00:37:37.199
I think honestly, I'm gonna be real.
00:37:40.079 --> 00:37:50.159
The notion that men like women with nothing came from women with something, not understanding why the man that they want that has something doesn't want them.
00:37:50.880 --> 00:38:01.039
Because the real thing is this women with something truthfully believe that having something just qualifies them and deserving of a man with something.
00:38:01.760 --> 00:38:03.760
And that's and that's a lot of what it.
00:38:03.840 --> 00:38:14.719
So instead of saying, damn, maybe I do act a certain way because because well, and this may be due to things like uh man, women happen to become alphas of households and things.
00:38:14.960 --> 00:38:29.519
So, because if you think when women take on the role of men or or anything else, when you take on an unnatural role, your only semblance of example of that role is the people that have always traditionally stood in it.
00:38:30.639 --> 00:38:40.320
Which means if their only example of an alpha is a man, they think, okay, well, if I'm thinking as a man, a man that has his own will never be womanless.
00:38:40.800 --> 00:38:41.199
Never.
00:38:41.360 --> 00:38:46.719
So they automatically think like, well, shit, I'm doing what he does, so where's my equal?
00:38:47.039 --> 00:38:48.400
Where's my my situation?
00:38:48.559 --> 00:38:54.000
So, but then they've turned it into, well, I have this and I do this, so I deserve this.
00:38:54.159 --> 00:38:56.800
And they don't realize that we don't run on the same things.
00:38:57.519 --> 00:39:01.840
Women are taught to seek stability, financial security, things like that.
00:39:02.079 --> 00:39:03.599
Men don't operate like that.
00:39:03.840 --> 00:39:06.960
We care about things like Bear said, how you make us feel.
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Yep.
00:39:07.599 --> 00:39:11.039
So you can have 87 fucking degrees and 28 properties.
00:39:11.280 --> 00:39:18.320
This girl can have 87 cents and an IQ of 28, but she makes him feel like gold and you make him feel like shit.
00:39:18.480 --> 00:39:20.000
He rocking with her all day.
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All day.
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Because that's what matters to me.
00:39:22.159 --> 00:39:22.960
Come on, little dummy.
00:39:23.360 --> 00:39:26.079
Yes, because as a man, fucking love my little dummy.
00:39:26.239 --> 00:39:33.599
If a woman doesn't have what you want her to have out of love and being a man, you're supposed to help her get to where you feel like she needs to be.
00:39:33.679 --> 00:39:34.559
That's a part of love.
00:39:34.719 --> 00:39:35.280
Elevation.
00:39:36.159 --> 00:39:39.519
So, in closing, this shit came from a woman.
00:39:39.599 --> 00:39:40.880
It didn't come from us.
00:39:41.119 --> 00:39:45.360
It came from women with shit, not being able to get the man they feel like they deserve.
00:39:45.519 --> 00:39:49.519
So they say, Oh my god, men like bitches with nothing.
00:39:51.119 --> 00:39:51.679
I agree 100%.
00:39:52.880 --> 00:39:53.199
You know what?
00:39:53.280 --> 00:39:54.239
I would say this, right?
00:39:54.320 --> 00:39:56.800
I might I'm going against the grain right now, right?
00:39:57.039 --> 00:39:58.159
I would say shocker.
00:39:59.360 --> 00:40:05.039
Because I'm learning a lot about myself as I'm as I'm dating, and I'm learning a lot about myself.
00:40:05.280 --> 00:40:10.559
And I know that because yeah, it's shit, this shit is hard when you got your own shit.
00:40:10.719 --> 00:40:11.199
You feel me?
00:40:11.360 --> 00:40:11.760
Here we go.
00:40:12.480 --> 00:40:13.039
This is the problem.
00:40:13.599 --> 00:40:14.159
This shit hard.
00:40:14.400 --> 00:40:16.800
But I I understand, like, because I do have my own shit.
00:40:16.880 --> 00:40:19.519
I operate, I operate in my masculinity.
00:40:19.760 --> 00:40:23.599
You know what everybody has masculine and feminine energy, right?
00:40:23.679 --> 00:40:24.800
That they operate in.
00:40:24.960 --> 00:40:27.360
I operate in my masculinity naturally.
00:40:27.599 --> 00:40:40.559
So I know that I could be a little bit tougher than you know, than a woman that would submit, or I could be a little bit more uh aggressive, or I could be a little bit more condescending in a way, right?
00:40:40.719 --> 00:40:45.599
Because I know like I operate in that energy because I had to operate in that energy.
00:40:45.920 --> 00:40:51.599
But I'm trying to, that's me noticing like I I need to change those things when I'm dealing with a masculine man.
00:40:52.320 --> 00:40:58.079
If you're dealing with a man that's operating his feminine that wants to be taken care of, you can operate in your masculine, right?
00:40:58.400 --> 00:41:02.239
And oftentimes when we're dealing with a man that's operating his feminine, he will use you.
00:41:02.480 --> 00:41:08.559
He wants to stay home and play his game while you go out, and he's okay with just being nothing.
00:41:08.719 --> 00:41:10.320
And a lot of times that's what we attract.
00:41:10.480 --> 00:41:14.559
Women that operate in their masculine energy attract the feminine man that don't want to do shit.
00:41:14.639 --> 00:41:18.639
So when I finally met a man that operated in his masculine, I was like, oh shit.
00:41:18.800 --> 00:41:21.039
Okay, maybe I am a bit too masculine.
00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:30.719
Maybe I need to, you know, chill a little bit so I can maybe he doesn't have as much as me, but he's operating in that energy, and I need to take my place as a feminine, right?
00:41:30.800 --> 00:41:31.840
And maybe I'm going too deep.
00:41:32.079 --> 00:41:40.400
Let me just say it made me sit my ass down, like oh yeah, maybe I am maybe I'm a little bit uh a little bit too much.
00:41:41.360 --> 00:41:42.800
That's probably why I don't, huh?
00:41:42.960 --> 00:41:44.159
What kind of man do you prefer?
00:41:44.320 --> 00:41:46.559
And it's masculine or in his feminine?
00:41:46.800 --> 00:41:51.679
I I I would I a woman naturally wants to be in her feminine, so I enjoy being in my feminine, right?
00:41:51.760 --> 00:41:57.679
But then I kind of like Okay, I'm a I'm a I'm just like nigga, but I don't want you to don't think I'm a sucker either.
00:41:58.000 --> 00:41:58.239
Next question.
00:41:59.920 --> 00:42:00.800
I would jump right back in.
00:42:01.599 --> 00:42:04.639
What do a man has to give me your short real quick?
00:42:04.960 --> 00:42:05.840
We on the elevator.
00:42:06.000 --> 00:42:09.920
What does a man have to come with for you to submit to him?
00:42:10.239 --> 00:42:11.119
Oh gosh.
00:42:11.440 --> 00:42:12.800
We on the elevator, hurry up.
00:42:13.280 --> 00:42:15.199
It's just and it's just his energy.
00:42:15.440 --> 00:42:16.159
It's just his energy.
00:42:16.480 --> 00:42:17.119
No, what does he have?
00:42:17.280 --> 00:42:18.000
And he can't be broke.
00:42:23.360 --> 00:42:23.679
Say it.
00:42:24.159 --> 00:42:24.719
Say it.
00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:26.320
Because that's exactly where I'm going.
00:42:26.480 --> 00:42:27.760
I knew it was coming out.
00:42:28.880 --> 00:42:30.159
What do you gotta come with?
00:42:30.480 --> 00:42:35.360
Uh it's harder to naturally submit to a broke man.
00:42:36.480 --> 00:42:41.840
And and by by me saying, by me saying broke is not saying like he doesn't get money.
00:42:42.000 --> 00:42:46.159
You know, he has a job, but if I'm making more than you, it's harder.
00:42:46.559 --> 00:42:47.199
It's harder.
00:42:48.000 --> 00:42:51.199
I can't say it's I can't say it's impossible, it's just harder.
00:42:51.360 --> 00:42:55.920
Because as a woman, you're looking for your man to like do the things, pay for things.
00:42:56.320 --> 00:42:58.079
That's how we naturally sit in our feminine.
00:42:58.400 --> 00:42:59.440
Like, no, baby, it's okay.
00:42:59.519 --> 00:42:59.920
I got it.
00:43:00.079 --> 00:43:04.639
No, but but if you can't do that for me, now I gotta step to the plate and be like, ah, I got it.
00:43:04.800 --> 00:43:05.840
And now I gotta be the man.
00:43:06.079 --> 00:43:08.800
So when that guy, so you gotta have some type of money.
00:43:08.880 --> 00:43:10.079
I'm sorry, that's just what it is.
00:43:10.159 --> 00:43:10.480
I'm sorry.
00:43:11.360 --> 00:43:13.119
I heard you that's making more than you.
00:43:13.280 --> 00:43:13.760
Uh-huh.
00:43:15.920 --> 00:43:16.719
That's gonna give you.
00:43:17.760 --> 00:43:18.159
I'm not mad.
00:43:18.239 --> 00:43:19.039
I'm gonna smoke.
00:43:19.840 --> 00:43:21.280
He really's making more than you.
00:43:21.360 --> 00:43:23.360
He told you everything is good.
00:43:24.159 --> 00:43:25.840
You you shutting down for him.
00:43:27.760 --> 00:43:29.679
I will be more inclined to.
00:43:31.039 --> 00:43:35.920
I'll be more inclined to because now you now I can actually sit and let you take care of shit.
00:43:36.079 --> 00:43:36.719
Yeah, I make it too.
00:43:36.880 --> 00:43:39.119
I can be a woman and sit and take let you take care of shit.
00:43:39.280 --> 00:43:47.679
If I gotta take care of most of the bills and all that stuff, you making me operate in my masculine, but that you still want me to cook, clean, and do all this up when I gotta take care of the bill.
00:43:47.920 --> 00:43:53.760
Like, I I can't honestly you need some bread, boy.
00:43:53.840 --> 00:43:54.960
You gotta need some money, man.
00:43:55.119 --> 00:43:55.599
You need some money.
00:43:55.679 --> 00:43:55.840
Sorry.
00:43:56.000 --> 00:43:56.880
So, like I got energy.
00:43:58.639 --> 00:43:59.519
You gotta have some money, man.
00:44:01.679 --> 00:44:07.360
Like, you don't, like, and this is not really a shot at you, but I don't think you really know what masculinity is.
00:44:07.519 --> 00:44:11.039
Because everything you listed, man, for masculinity, is a negative.
00:44:11.280 --> 00:44:12.480
I can be condescending.
00:44:12.639 --> 00:44:13.280
I can be rough.
00:44:13.360 --> 00:44:13.920
That's not masculine.
00:44:14.159 --> 00:44:17.119
No, I said I can operate in my masculine energy, right?
00:44:18.000 --> 00:44:20.639
Where which means that I can be a little bit more assertive, right?
00:44:20.719 --> 00:44:22.480
I could, I could operate as that man.
00:44:22.639 --> 00:44:26.880
Where I could be condescending to a man because I'm operating in my masculine.
00:44:27.119 --> 00:44:28.079
This is what I'm saying.
00:44:28.800 --> 00:44:30.719
You can't do that because you're not a man.
00:44:31.039 --> 00:44:31.519
What do you mean?
00:44:31.840 --> 00:44:35.440
There's there's just like me saying, I can't operate in femininity.
00:44:36.079 --> 00:44:38.400
There's no, there's no operation.
00:44:38.880 --> 00:44:45.519
We occupy, we, we, what we do is we do these things in human energy.
00:44:45.679 --> 00:44:51.199
And all this, oh man, I can operate in my masculine, it's either in you or it's not.
00:44:51.519 --> 00:44:53.760
There is no, oh, oh, oh, well, feminine.
00:44:54.480 --> 00:44:55.679
Well, I can press this button now.
00:44:55.760 --> 00:44:58.960
I'm masculine today, then I press this one and I'm feminine tomorrow.
00:44:59.199 --> 00:45:00.079
And I know that's what I'm saying.
00:45:00.800 --> 00:45:01.679
No, I disagree.
00:45:01.840 --> 00:45:02.400
I disagree.
00:45:02.559 --> 00:45:03.039
I disagree.
00:45:03.199 --> 00:45:05.039
But I'm gonna let you know from front, I disagree with that.
00:45:05.440 --> 00:45:06.079
Yeah, that's fine.
00:45:06.159 --> 00:45:06.320
Okay.
00:45:06.480 --> 00:45:07.199
You know what I'm saying?
00:45:07.280 --> 00:45:11.920
And and the thing you say, you have your own shit, but all you name is tangible things.
00:45:12.239 --> 00:45:16.320
When you refer to your own shit, all you're talking about is housing, shelter, and some money.
00:45:16.800 --> 00:45:19.679
You you're not talking about being understanding.
00:45:19.840 --> 00:45:21.679
You're not talking about being supportive.
00:45:21.760 --> 00:45:22.159
None of that.
00:45:22.480 --> 00:45:22.639
Bars.
00:45:23.119 --> 00:45:24.559
You're only talking about tangible things.
00:45:25.360 --> 00:45:26.000
That's what I'm talking about.
00:45:26.559 --> 00:45:31.280
But the thing is this, but this is where your disconnect comes with men that have their own shit.
00:45:31.519 --> 00:45:32.000
That's why I'm not gonna be able to do it.
00:45:32.159 --> 00:45:34.960
Because that man lives count you as okay, cool.
00:45:35.280 --> 00:45:36.960
That's why I asked you what a man gotta come with.
00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:38.480
You gotta count me too.
00:45:38.639 --> 00:45:39.519
I got money, me too.
00:45:39.840 --> 00:45:40.719
We're jumping you, Rocky.
00:45:40.800 --> 00:45:41.360
We're jumping you.
00:45:41.679 --> 00:45:46.320
So if that's what you're coming with and that's the flag you're flying, I'm saying somebody shit.
00:45:46.400 --> 00:45:46.559
Shit.
00:45:46.719 --> 00:45:50.480
Yeah, but if you if you got your own shit, then I could op I could be a woman.
00:45:50.559 --> 00:45:51.280
I could operate myself.
00:45:51.599 --> 00:45:53.519
What if I'm an abusive asshole with up my own shit?
00:45:53.599 --> 00:45:53.840
Huh?
00:45:53.920 --> 00:45:54.719
What if I'm gonna be able to do that?
00:45:56.400 --> 00:45:57.679
Yeah, we're jumping the shit out of you, Rocky.
00:45:59.280 --> 00:46:05.119
But I just asked you, I said, I said, I said, so when that man comes to you with more money, uh-huh.
00:46:05.199 --> 00:46:05.599
You shut down.
00:46:05.840 --> 00:46:06.400
With his own shit.
00:46:06.480 --> 00:46:07.280
With his own shit.
00:46:08.880 --> 00:46:09.840
With his own shit.
00:46:10.000 --> 00:46:14.159
If you've come in with his own shit, I'm not gonna shut down.
00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:15.360
No, like you gotta make it.
00:46:16.559 --> 00:46:18.000
You gotta make me feel safe enough.
00:46:18.079 --> 00:46:19.760
You gotta make me feel safe enough to do that.
00:46:19.840 --> 00:46:22.559
That's what the question was what do we have to come with?
00:46:22.719 --> 00:46:23.920
So money makes you feel safe.
00:46:24.159 --> 00:46:25.519
Money, not love, support.
00:46:26.000 --> 00:46:27.199
Money, I'm more inclined.
00:46:27.360 --> 00:46:28.880
I'm more inclined to be submissive.
00:46:29.840 --> 00:46:37.599
When a man, I'm more inclined, women are more inclined to be submissive if a man is taking care of the shit that we don't want to take care of.
00:46:37.920 --> 00:46:39.440
And again, that is the problem.
00:46:39.679 --> 00:46:40.400
That's why you're not gonna be able to do that.
00:46:40.480 --> 00:46:43.920
You are trying to deal with the intangible creature with tangibles.
00:46:44.159 --> 00:46:46.880
This is literally the disconnect between you and men.
00:46:46.960 --> 00:46:47.519
You are trying to.
00:46:47.840 --> 00:46:48.960
No, no, no, don't say her and men.
00:46:49.360 --> 00:46:49.920
Women and men.
00:46:50.079 --> 00:46:50.559
No, no, no.
00:46:51.039 --> 00:46:52.159
She's representing all women right now.
00:46:52.320 --> 00:46:52.800
No, in general.
00:46:52.960 --> 00:46:54.400
But there's women out here that feel that way.
00:46:55.360 --> 00:47:00.320
But again, and this is why most of those women are single and they're not ring fingers indie.
00:47:00.480 --> 00:47:02.239
Yeah, but that's what I just did.
00:47:02.400 --> 00:47:04.639
I just call, did I just take accountability from the jump?
00:47:04.719 --> 00:47:05.199
No, no, no.
00:47:05.360 --> 00:47:06.239
I took accountability.
00:47:06.400 --> 00:47:08.719
I said, listen, I know I naturally operate in this mask.
00:47:08.880 --> 00:47:09.920
You're not your friend right now, right?
00:47:10.079 --> 00:47:10.159
Right?
00:47:10.320 --> 00:47:12.880
I know I naturally operate this way, and I know I have to check that.
00:47:12.960 --> 00:47:16.400
I naturally operate in this masculine and I have to check that, right?
00:47:16.719 --> 00:47:26.800
But in order for me to really feel like I'm safe enough to let a man feed me, you gotta come with I just that's what I'm saying.
00:47:26.960 --> 00:47:27.360
You gotta date.
00:47:27.840 --> 00:47:33.440
And again, you are you are trying to deal with creatures that run on intangibles with tangibles.
00:47:33.599 --> 00:47:33.920
Oh well.
00:47:34.079 --> 00:47:38.960
That's why you're saying if I gotta try 800 times, and you may end up trying 800 more times.
00:47:39.599 --> 00:47:40.239
And that's fine.
00:47:40.400 --> 00:47:44.719
Because again, because again, a man, because don't get me wrong.
00:47:44.880 --> 00:47:46.800
Nobody wants a woman that don't got shit.
00:47:46.880 --> 00:47:47.119
Uh-huh.
00:47:47.280 --> 00:47:56.079
But if what you have is the flag you're flying, and you think that because you have shit, uh huh, that that meant you don't have to be the things that matter, we'll be good on you.
00:47:56.239 --> 00:47:57.920
No, but I know I could be the shit that matters.
00:47:58.079 --> 00:47:59.280
But again, but this is what I'm telling you.
00:47:59.360 --> 00:48:00.000
I know I could be the shit.
00:48:00.159 --> 00:48:01.119
Yeah, the guy you're flying.
00:48:01.440 --> 00:48:02.159
It's your own shit.
00:48:02.400 --> 00:48:02.880
I can be the shit.
00:48:04.079 --> 00:48:04.880
Because that's what we're talking.
00:48:05.199 --> 00:48:06.000
I do have my own shit.
00:48:06.159 --> 00:48:14.159
And it should, but we're talking about why do men tend to date women that don't have their own shit because you guys like that control.
00:48:14.800 --> 00:48:15.760
No, but you know what the difference is?
00:48:15.920 --> 00:48:16.480
You like that control.
00:48:16.559 --> 00:48:16.960
No, no, no.
00:48:17.199 --> 00:48:20.480
And I'm saying for you to control me, you gotta have more than me.
00:48:20.639 --> 00:48:21.199
This is the problem.
00:48:21.360 --> 00:48:22.639
You're trying to answer both sides of the question.
00:48:22.800 --> 00:48:23.599
You gotta have more than me.
00:48:23.760 --> 00:48:24.480
You're not a man.
00:48:24.559 --> 00:48:35.360
Men are telling you exactly what it is, and still, just like the rest of y'all, and I don't want to control you, y'all relationship coaches, and the rest of the fucking empty ring finger game.
00:48:35.519 --> 00:48:35.760
Uh-huh.
00:48:36.159 --> 00:48:39.920
Y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all literally will answer both sides of the question.
00:48:40.079 --> 00:48:41.039
Why are you so mad?
00:48:41.440 --> 00:48:43.440
No, I'm not saying it's fucking.
00:48:45.840 --> 00:48:47.199
I promise you, I'm not mad at all.
00:48:47.760 --> 00:48:49.039
I'm just saying, as an example.
00:48:49.199 --> 00:48:55.280
If I want to know something from women, or I want to know, I'm not gonna ask a like notice.
00:48:55.360 --> 00:48:58.960
When y'all make stats and say, fellas, why do y'all do this?
00:48:59.119 --> 00:49:00.639
The comments are filled with y'all.
00:49:01.599 --> 00:49:08.559
When we make, when we make those type of stats, the comments are filled with y'all because we let y'all go.
00:49:09.360 --> 00:49:10.000
Because we're reactive.
00:49:11.280 --> 00:49:14.880
If you notice, everything we do is reactive to what you're receptive to.
00:49:15.280 --> 00:49:22.320
For example, when y'all started liking my niggas with beards, every nigga that could grow three foot, grow three fucking chin hairs started growing a beard.
00:49:22.559 --> 00:49:24.159
Niggas started getting glue on beard.
00:49:24.400 --> 00:49:24.880
Niggas see it.
00:49:24.960 --> 00:49:25.440
Niggas see it.
00:49:25.920 --> 00:49:27.519
Niggas started getting glue on beards.
00:49:27.599 --> 00:49:28.239
I'm a line right.
00:49:28.719 --> 00:49:33.599
You ain't never seen so many niggas with beards until y'all started beard gang groups and all that.
00:49:33.920 --> 00:49:41.119
Every nigga, as I said, every nigga that could grow three fucking chin hairs, niggas is drawing their beard in, etch a sketching they fucking beard.
00:49:41.199 --> 00:49:41.920
We're reaction.
00:49:42.559 --> 00:49:49.280
So when y'all say something like something, like for example, I guarantee you, in the next nine months, sparkle jeans is gonna be gone.
00:49:49.360 --> 00:49:50.159
You wanna know why?
00:49:50.239 --> 00:49:52.480
Because women is on the internet saying, get rid of that shit.
00:49:52.559 --> 00:49:52.719
Yeah.
00:49:52.960 --> 00:49:57.679
V neck, I think I really think that goes to the V next time.
00:49:58.159 --> 00:49:59.039
I told dudes a long time ago.
00:49:59.280 --> 00:50:02.000
The topic was I told dudes a long time ago.
00:50:02.320 --> 00:50:03.440
Like he said, we reacted.
00:50:03.920 --> 00:50:05.760
We know we know women react to money.
00:50:06.079 --> 00:50:09.519
Don't chase, don't chase the chicks, shake them, chase the money, they come with it.
00:50:10.800 --> 00:50:11.679
Plain this up.
00:50:12.159 --> 00:50:20.239
Listen, as a woman that got I've dealt with, I've dealt with niggas that probably I I probably have more than.
00:50:20.320 --> 00:50:23.039
And I see what it does to that relationship dynamic.
00:50:23.199 --> 00:50:24.880
This shit is it's fucked.
00:50:24.960 --> 00:50:36.159
Like as a woman that has a lot, you you tend to deal with men that use you because y'all are the men that have it are dating the women that nurture and understand them and da-da-da-da-cause she don't got that much.
00:50:37.039 --> 00:50:40.960
So now we're gonna say quotes.
00:50:41.280 --> 00:50:44.719
Now we're stuck with the men that don't got it.
00:50:44.960 --> 00:50:45.519
You know what though?
00:50:45.920 --> 00:50:46.719
Because y'all are persuasive.
00:50:46.960 --> 00:50:51.280
I don't think it's the men that don't got it that you say you gotta come with the uh the energy.
00:50:51.440 --> 00:50:53.440
I think it's probably how you talk to them and treat them.
00:50:53.760 --> 00:50:55.840
Because you displayed just let me finish.
00:50:55.920 --> 00:50:58.000
Because I'm pretty sure people tell you how I like you.
00:50:58.159 --> 00:50:58.639
I'm great.
00:50:58.880 --> 00:51:02.800
I'm saying I'm pretty sure at some point during the conversation, hey, you hungry?
00:51:02.960 --> 00:51:03.280
Yep.
00:51:03.440 --> 00:51:04.719
Could you grab me some on the way here?
00:51:04.800 --> 00:51:07.039
Rocky be like, okay, what you want, broke ass nigga?
00:51:07.760 --> 00:51:11.119
What you you you probably want cheese on that, don't you, broke ass nigga?
00:51:11.280 --> 00:51:12.639
Hey, what your broke ass did today?
00:51:12.800 --> 00:51:14.719
Did you get a did you look for a fucking job?
00:51:14.880 --> 00:51:16.480
I love you, you fucking bum.
00:51:16.639 --> 00:51:17.840
Like, god damn.
00:51:18.159 --> 00:51:22.639
I'm not saying those words literally, but it comes to a point to where that energy.
00:51:22.719 --> 00:51:23.920
I I'll give a perfect example.
00:51:24.000 --> 00:51:25.840
I like I said, I always pull from my past.
00:51:26.000 --> 00:51:37.840
When I was dating an older woman and I wasn't stable on my feet, whenever we argue to let me know I was Leslie sent, what the fuck they got to do with me, the bunch of shit they took everyone.
00:51:38.800 --> 00:51:39.039
Exactly.
00:51:39.760 --> 00:51:42.559
I'm pretty sure the conversation with, like, oh, he's blocked your shit.
00:51:43.119 --> 00:51:47.519
Doesn't want herself to look bad if a door looking at everything you do piss her off.
00:51:47.679 --> 00:51:48.400
I had a life for you.
00:51:48.639 --> 00:51:49.440
How the fuck you got time?
00:51:49.679 --> 00:51:53.519
How you got time to laugh, but you ain't got time to find a motherfucking job, you motherfucking bum.
00:51:53.679 --> 00:51:56.639
But you over there watching comedy for ain't nothing funny about this situation.
00:51:56.880 --> 00:51:58.719
You over there getting dressed, what you get dressed for.
00:51:58.800 --> 00:51:59.679
You are laughing.
00:52:00.880 --> 00:52:01.920
What you taking the shower for?
00:52:02.000 --> 00:52:03.440
You ain't got no job, you ain't gotta be clean.
00:52:04.320 --> 00:52:04.800
God damn.
00:52:05.440 --> 00:52:07.280
But as a man, I'm pretty sure you had that energy with you.
00:52:07.679 --> 00:52:09.360
As a man, why would you even want to sit in that?
00:52:09.519 --> 00:52:13.360
Like, why would you even want to sit in like not being able to provide?
00:52:13.440 --> 00:52:14.320
Or why would you have to be able to do that?
00:52:15.519 --> 00:52:16.960
Like, why would you want to be things happen?
00:52:17.360 --> 00:52:18.719
Don't look at the other side of that, right?
00:52:19.360 --> 00:52:22.320
No, if I'm dating you, like let's say if we're dating, right?
00:52:22.400 --> 00:52:24.320
And you, you, you, everybody come equipped.
00:52:24.400 --> 00:52:26.079
We got, we both got our shit together.
00:52:26.239 --> 00:52:27.760
We we're we're a partners, right?
00:52:27.920 --> 00:52:28.400
We're partners.
00:52:28.480 --> 00:52:29.360
I'm looking for a partner.
00:52:29.519 --> 00:52:30.800
So we're partners, right?
00:52:31.119 --> 00:52:33.280
You fall on hard times, you know what?
00:52:33.360 --> 00:52:36.559
I'm definitely gonna help you out because I know, you know, I've been there with you.
00:52:36.639 --> 00:52:39.199
I know you you hold me down, I hold you down, whatever.
00:52:39.519 --> 00:52:47.360
If you you know you're you don't have the assets to be dating, just don't.
00:52:47.599 --> 00:52:48.320
Work on yourself.
00:52:48.559 --> 00:52:49.360
Or just be real about it.
00:52:50.000 --> 00:52:50.480
Work on yourself.
00:52:50.719 --> 00:52:51.599
No, I like that.
00:52:52.079 --> 00:52:52.400
I like that.
00:52:53.280 --> 00:52:53.920
But hold on, Mo.
00:52:54.239 --> 00:52:56.159
This is the dark side that they don't work on yourself.
00:52:56.480 --> 00:53:04.079
As a man, we fully know that when, man, what we have is the reason you're dealing with us, and that makes y'all far more disposable to us.
00:53:04.559 --> 00:53:06.239
Because you're just like a time warner building.
00:53:08.639 --> 00:53:15.039
Because I don't know if this bill bucket, this hybrid is gonna go, it's gonna go away, and it's not gonna bother me.
00:53:15.280 --> 00:53:16.400
Just like I'll say this.
00:53:16.559 --> 00:53:19.039
I know plenty of women that you know live just like that.
00:53:19.199 --> 00:53:20.639
Niggas do exactly what they want to them.
00:53:20.800 --> 00:53:22.800
So, like, shit, man, I got the money.
00:53:23.039 --> 00:53:30.320
I got money, so either, so either, and not only do I have money, I have money, and it's it's the reason you're here.
00:53:30.639 --> 00:53:32.320
It's the reason why you're about me.
00:53:32.639 --> 00:53:33.199
So you know what?
00:53:33.280 --> 00:53:35.199
I'm gonna do what the fuck I want to you, because why?
00:53:35.440 --> 00:53:36.239
What you gonna do?
00:53:36.400 --> 00:53:36.719
Leave?
00:53:36.880 --> 00:53:37.199
Cool.
00:53:37.280 --> 00:53:38.800
I'll just buy another you.
00:53:40.559 --> 00:53:43.519
So it ain't too many other me's out there.
00:53:43.679 --> 00:53:44.719
So like shit, not as much.
00:53:45.760 --> 00:53:46.320
Somebody put a post.
00:53:46.559 --> 00:53:48.400
A woman put a woman put a post up like that.
00:53:48.559 --> 00:53:49.440
She said, Sure did.
00:53:50.400 --> 00:53:50.800
You seen it?
00:53:50.880 --> 00:53:51.119
Yep.
00:53:51.280 --> 00:53:55.679
She said, uh, a man can find another you way faster than you can.
00:53:56.159 --> 00:53:56.639
And that's a fact.
00:53:57.679 --> 00:53:58.000
That's a fact.
00:53:58.239 --> 00:54:04.400
Nigga go, and the women have to settle, like we settle so much because we don't have no choice but to settle, right?
00:54:04.559 --> 00:54:07.119
Because there's so the pickings is fucking slim.
00:54:07.360 --> 00:54:12.239
And if you have to know how to treat the pickings better than a while, for real.
00:54:12.480 --> 00:54:14.719
Because y'all don't want to notice what you said.
00:54:15.599 --> 00:54:18.719
You can say that got what you have shit together.
00:54:18.800 --> 00:54:19.039
It's good.
00:54:19.280 --> 00:54:19.920
Because it comes with a lot.
00:54:20.719 --> 00:54:23.199
No man on here wants to wants a woman that don't got nothing.
00:54:23.280 --> 00:54:26.320
That's not nobody said that like the woman that got it.
00:54:26.719 --> 00:54:28.480
Do you want do you want a woman that has more than you?
00:54:28.559 --> 00:54:30.159
Would you deal with a woman that has more than you?
00:54:30.239 --> 00:54:31.840
I'm because I'm a team player.
00:54:32.159 --> 00:54:33.039
Okay, but what?
00:54:33.119 --> 00:54:34.719
Okay, so but do you know who that comes with?
00:54:35.920 --> 00:54:36.960
That comes with what I have.
00:54:37.119 --> 00:54:37.360
Okay.
00:54:37.519 --> 00:54:40.639
That's why like like my manhood isn't rooted in what I have.
00:54:40.880 --> 00:54:52.000
So, so yeah, so example, if what my woman is doing is making more way, way man more, I may say, yo, I need to contribute my time to help her man be the best she can be at this time.
00:54:52.239 --> 00:54:53.519
Because that's what teammates do.
00:54:53.920 --> 00:54:57.519
And instead of I have this and I have this, I have and you're not even a fucking teammate.
00:54:57.760 --> 00:55:00.800
And on the flip side, to go on what you're saying is you gotta understand something.
00:55:01.039 --> 00:55:10.719
If a man is dealing with a woman who happens not to have as much as him or nothing as we say, you gotta think about why am I leaving this I got this uh lawyer, a chick.
00:55:10.960 --> 00:55:16.000
$250,000 a year, uh pay vacations, credit excellent, blah say blah.
00:55:16.239 --> 00:55:22.400
I'm going to deal with a Chakwarda who lives around the corner, curtains, no curtains, sheets on this, that and the third.
00:55:22.719 --> 00:55:26.079
Not because she has less, but she appreciates me more.
00:55:26.239 --> 00:55:29.440
Yeah, she makes me feel like the king that I want to be.
00:55:29.840 --> 00:55:32.480
Now, for example, you eat steak all the time.
00:55:32.639 --> 00:55:36.159
Everybody, if you eat steak all the time, you'll go to different places that serve steak.
00:55:36.239 --> 00:55:38.079
You'll be like, uh, this steak is not as good as such and such.
00:55:38.480 --> 00:55:40.719
You take a chick down, baby.
00:55:40.800 --> 00:55:41.440
Oh, you mama.
00:55:41.920 --> 00:55:43.199
I gotta call you more.
00:55:45.039 --> 00:55:46.559
We are doing that male, we are doing.
00:55:46.719 --> 00:55:48.800
Yeah, but also check it, it's a shorter leash.
00:55:48.880 --> 00:55:52.639
You can't do a lot of stuff, and he established you're not you can't come out your mouth crazy.
00:55:52.800 --> 00:55:53.519
I did an energy set.
00:55:53.679 --> 00:55:54.159
I'll do another one.
00:55:54.559 --> 00:55:55.039
I gotta deal with that.
00:55:56.480 --> 00:56:00.880
You're not treating me a certain way in the dumbest fucking concepts in the world.
00:56:01.280 --> 00:56:04.800
And if yeah, and if a woman wishes I would a woman that that's not the guy you need to be with.
00:56:05.039 --> 00:56:07.119
Well, the year, so you can talk to me a certain way.
00:56:07.280 --> 00:56:08.239
You can lead it like everybody else.
00:56:08.559 --> 00:56:13.199
But like, but I like I said in the other operating their feminine energy, but she still has her own shit.
00:56:13.360 --> 00:56:16.800
What she really wants is you to be there too, right?
00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:18.000
We want the same shit.
00:56:18.159 --> 00:56:24.639
We want you to be supportive, we want you to be understanding, we want you to to be able to you gotta be my friend, right?
00:56:24.800 --> 00:56:26.079
Like we want that shit too.
00:56:26.239 --> 00:56:27.440
We want the validation too.
00:56:27.679 --> 00:56:28.480
You know what woman said?
00:56:28.559 --> 00:56:30.000
Um You don't ask for much.
00:56:30.239 --> 00:56:31.840
A woman told me just be there.
00:56:32.079 --> 00:56:37.440
A woman who's who's uh independent, like a few women who are independent do their own thing.
00:56:37.760 --> 00:56:44.880
One one one of them broke down and said one of them said that I want uh him to help me without me having to ask.
00:56:45.199 --> 00:56:53.360
Oh, that's the yeah, they say want him to help me, they want and I'm and I'm like, how the fuck if you if I'm thinking you got it all under control, I don't know what the fuck you need.
00:56:55.119 --> 00:57:00.159
And some women get they get okay, it's a flip side, well not a flip side, it's two sides of the same coin.
00:57:00.480 --> 00:57:04.800
Women who have their own shit, when you help them, I've seen, don't appreciate it.
00:57:05.039 --> 00:57:07.039
Because the first thing they'll say is, Oh, I could have done it myself.
00:57:07.440 --> 00:57:09.599
I don't need I don't want I don't want to ever feel beholden to you.
00:57:10.320 --> 00:57:15.599
But then when they get fucked up or they fucked up and you don't do anything, they say, Well, I shouldn't have to ask.
00:57:15.679 --> 00:57:16.880
You should know enough to do it.
00:57:17.119 --> 00:57:19.280
Like, are you out your fucking mind?
00:57:19.440 --> 00:57:21.679
They do, but that's about lacking accountability.
00:57:21.760 --> 00:57:23.679
That's like walking to a restaurant just sitting at the table.
00:57:23.760 --> 00:57:25.039
You don't get no waiter or nothing.
00:57:25.199 --> 00:57:25.760
Right, right, right.
00:57:25.920 --> 00:57:27.039
Oh, you don't know what I want to eat?
00:57:27.199 --> 00:57:27.599
Right, exactly.
00:57:28.800 --> 00:57:29.760
I gotta tell you what I want to eat.
00:57:32.079 --> 00:57:33.599
You should know what I want to eat.
00:57:33.920 --> 00:57:34.559
I'm getting the fuck up.
00:57:34.639 --> 00:57:37.119
Like, that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard in my life.
00:57:37.599 --> 00:57:38.960
It'd be the simplest things.
00:57:39.119 --> 00:57:44.960
For me, if you come get my car and get my gas filled up, if you come get my oil change for me, right?
00:57:45.119 --> 00:57:48.800
If you know, like you you drive, you bring me lunch, like we like that shit too.
00:57:48.880 --> 00:57:50.880
Like, show me that I show me that I need you.
00:57:50.960 --> 00:57:53.519
Show me that your presence in my life is needed, right?
00:57:53.679 --> 00:57:55.440
You know, my garbage comes every Thursday.
00:57:55.599 --> 00:57:57.519
You come, you just come to my house just to put my own.
00:57:57.760 --> 00:57:58.559
Some men don't quantify.
00:57:58.960 --> 00:58:08.639
Like, if just because if you've been hand, if you if you got a house, you've been living there 10 years, I'm I'm I may not be of the thought, let me go take our garbage out.
00:58:08.719 --> 00:58:10.480
Because I'm gonna think you got that shit handled.
00:58:10.559 --> 00:58:11.119
You've been successful.
00:58:11.760 --> 00:58:17.599
I'm not saying why would you not want to do a rock because why would you want to do that?
00:58:17.840 --> 00:58:20.480
Some women I I know they got their own houses don't need me to take out their garbage.
00:58:20.719 --> 00:58:23.039
Listen, it's a lot of why your lazy ass can't take out your own garbage.
00:58:24.400 --> 00:58:24.960
It's a lot of money.
00:58:25.280 --> 00:58:25.920
Why do you need help?
00:58:26.400 --> 00:58:27.599
She's been doing it good for 10 years.
00:58:28.239 --> 00:58:29.119
Not only I gotta take a woman.
00:58:29.840 --> 00:58:34.559
But you show you gotta show me why I think my life, what role would you play if you know I got my shit together?
00:58:34.880 --> 00:58:40.239
Look at the kind of woman that's that that that is that has to be that kind of woman.
00:58:40.400 --> 00:58:53.119
If a man is coming to take your car, fill up the gas tank, coming to take the garbage out, getting the grass cut, doing all that, it gotta be the woman that's not ever, ever, ever going to say he a sucker.
00:58:54.320 --> 00:58:55.920
And I I I can understand that.
00:58:56.320 --> 00:58:57.280
How many of those women are out there?
00:58:57.440 --> 00:58:58.960
I appreciate I can I can understand that.
00:58:59.199 --> 00:59:00.719
How many of those women are?
00:59:01.039 --> 00:59:01.920
It don't always start off that.
00:59:02.320 --> 00:59:04.320
Because if she said it one time, she's gonna take advantage of that.
00:59:04.559 --> 00:59:13.440
No, but it don't always, when a woman starts, when a woman starts belitting a man or being condescending, please believe that at one point she gave him that man could have his own.
00:59:13.760 --> 00:59:15.519
It was an even playing field at one point, right?
00:59:15.679 --> 00:59:17.039
That man could have his own complaint.
00:59:17.280 --> 00:59:18.079
That man can have more.
00:59:18.159 --> 00:59:19.599
That man could have more than her.
00:59:19.920 --> 00:59:24.480
How many women are are going to be out there and never ever think he's a sucker?
00:59:24.880 --> 00:59:26.480
Yo member and on top of that, man.
00:59:26.559 --> 00:59:28.400
Like you gotta look at it, man, from the aspect of this.
00:59:28.559 --> 00:59:30.159
All this shit be, well, da-da-da.
00:59:30.239 --> 00:59:30.800
This is a test.
00:59:30.960 --> 00:59:31.519
This is a test.
00:59:31.599 --> 00:59:32.159
I'ma see this.
00:59:32.880 --> 00:59:34.159
You know where them niggas is at?
00:59:34.320 --> 00:59:36.960
Them niggas is with women that's not playing games and giving tests.
00:59:37.039 --> 00:59:37.679
That's who them niggas.
00:59:38.079 --> 00:59:38.320
Exactly.
00:59:38.400 --> 00:59:38.960
It don't be a test.
00:59:41.360 --> 00:59:42.960
I test some tests right here.
00:59:43.840 --> 00:59:47.119
No, she not a lot of women that a lot of women that's been doing it on their own.
00:59:47.199 --> 00:59:49.679
Not even let's let's take away all the assets and shit, right?
00:59:49.760 --> 00:59:52.960
Like, even if you live in an apartment, whatever, you want Section A, whatever.
00:59:53.920 --> 00:59:56.480
No, but if you know a woman before you was here anyway.
00:59:56.639 --> 00:59:57.360
I don't think you do that.
00:59:57.599 --> 00:59:59.119
If she's been doing it on her own, right?
00:59:59.199 --> 01:00:04.559
And you wanna you you're a man and you're coming into her life, take some, take some shit, take some shit, take a load off of her.
01:00:04.719 --> 01:00:05.519
That's what we do, right?
01:00:05.599 --> 01:00:06.079
Take a load.
01:00:06.159 --> 01:00:07.280
Some men don't do that shit.
01:00:07.360 --> 01:00:08.079
Like, that's what I'm saying.
01:00:08.159 --> 01:00:13.119
Like, it'd be the little shit, like I'm gonna take, I'm gonna pick the kids up today, or I'm gonna take your car to get details.
01:00:14.079 --> 01:00:15.280
Or I'm gonna grocery shop.
01:00:15.760 --> 01:00:16.559
Oh, you're youngest.
01:00:18.159 --> 01:00:19.760
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, and all his movement.
01:00:21.440 --> 01:00:22.960
Everybody hand, everybody hand.
01:00:23.199 --> 01:00:25.679
Uh green crew.
01:00:25.840 --> 01:00:27.920
But complaining.
01:00:28.000 --> 01:00:28.079
Who?
01:00:28.239 --> 01:00:28.400
None.
01:00:28.719 --> 01:00:29.599
Whose kids are there?
01:00:29.920 --> 01:00:30.079
None.
01:00:30.880 --> 01:00:35.039
That means they're that means y'all ain't stepping, y'all ain't stepping up either.
01:00:35.360 --> 01:00:36.960
But you don't give away complaining.
01:00:37.119 --> 01:00:38.000
You're not stepping up either.
01:00:39.360 --> 01:00:42.480
My point is, we don't want to be.
01:00:44.719 --> 01:00:49.440
If you don't have as much as her, if you don't have the money that she has, you could contribute in other ways.
01:00:49.519 --> 01:00:52.480
You could reciprocate in other ways by taking a load off of her.
01:00:52.559 --> 01:00:53.119
You know what I'm saying?
01:00:53.280 --> 01:00:54.800
Like doing something nice that you know she needs.
01:00:58.800 --> 01:00:59.599
That's your fault.
01:00:59.679 --> 01:01:00.960
That's yes.
01:01:01.199 --> 01:01:01.679
That's your fault.
01:01:02.079 --> 01:01:02.960
I mean the word settling.
01:01:03.360 --> 01:01:04.719
Because it didn't start that way, though.
01:01:05.119 --> 01:01:06.480
It don't always start that way.
01:01:06.719 --> 01:01:09.360
Men get complacent and then you start like, oh, she got it.
01:01:09.519 --> 01:01:10.000
She got it.
01:01:10.159 --> 01:01:10.719
Yeah, remember that.
01:01:10.880 --> 01:01:12.239
That's how it never starts that way.
01:01:12.320 --> 01:01:14.880
I've had men love bomb the shit out of me.
01:01:15.119 --> 01:01:16.559
Love bomb the shit out of me.
01:01:16.639 --> 01:01:18.719
Okay, made me feel like that.
01:01:18.880 --> 01:01:21.119
And it's still it's not a green flag, hold on.
01:01:21.280 --> 01:01:24.559
And as soon as you find out that he love bombed you, you should be out.
01:01:26.000 --> 01:01:26.320
Hold on.
01:01:26.639 --> 01:01:27.199
It's your fault.
01:01:27.440 --> 01:01:27.760
Hold on.
01:01:27.920 --> 01:01:30.239
As soon as you find out he love bombs you gotta slap.
01:01:30.880 --> 01:01:32.239
She romanticizes that bullshit.
01:01:32.559 --> 01:01:38.559
Love bombers, love bombers go through their stuff where they they they're good, then they take a step back, then they're good again, and they take a step back.
01:01:38.639 --> 01:01:40.639
It's a game, it's a whole manipulative game, right?
01:01:40.719 --> 01:01:46.239
But my point is, it doesn't always your man is not gonna show you he ain't shit from the beginning.
01:01:46.480 --> 01:01:48.000
Like that should gradually happen.
01:01:50.000 --> 01:01:50.480
Gradually happen.
01:01:50.719 --> 01:01:53.039
As soon as you get rid of, and then you get rid of them.
01:01:53.280 --> 01:01:53.599
Yes.
01:01:54.079 --> 01:01:54.320
I agree.
01:01:54.480 --> 01:01:55.519
But the thing is this we agree.
01:01:55.679 --> 01:01:56.079
She the biggest.
01:01:57.440 --> 01:02:00.400
Why would you date a man that because they don't start off that way, baby?
01:02:00.639 --> 01:02:02.239
But y'all never start off that way.
01:02:02.400 --> 01:02:06.960
Especially if you're dealing with a woman of a certain caliber, you're not gonna show me you a bum from the beginning.
01:02:07.119 --> 01:02:09.199
You're gonna you putting your best fucking foot forward.
01:02:09.280 --> 01:02:10.960
You asking your homeboy for money.
01:02:11.119 --> 01:02:12.719
You putting that best foot forward.
01:02:12.880 --> 01:02:15.440
And then wait a minute for money, too.
01:02:15.599 --> 01:02:18.079
I'm just saying, spin on you about that shit happened.
01:02:18.320 --> 01:02:18.800
Yeah, you got to be.
01:02:19.840 --> 01:02:25.440
That was two bows your nigga when whoever float.
01:02:25.599 --> 01:02:26.480
Fellas, whoever did it.
01:02:28.000 --> 01:02:32.480
Whoever buy money from the homeboy, the tree Rocky, listen, she just called you out.
01:02:32.559 --> 01:02:33.199
You are the GOAT.
01:02:33.440 --> 01:02:33.840
Yes, yeah.
01:02:34.000 --> 01:02:34.800
You actually the goat.
01:02:34.960 --> 01:02:35.360
That's crazy.
01:02:35.519 --> 01:02:36.239
Fuck JZ.
01:02:36.559 --> 01:02:38.880
You need you ain't borrow money to fix your credit.
01:02:39.840 --> 01:02:40.480
You got a goat.
01:02:40.719 --> 01:02:45.440
You ain't borrowed money for the car, you borrow money to trick a rock to get a rock.
01:02:45.519 --> 01:02:45.840
That's it.
01:02:48.079 --> 01:02:51.039
She knows you borrowed money and she probably let you hit it again.
01:02:51.119 --> 01:02:51.199
No.
01:02:51.760 --> 01:02:52.000
Crazy.
01:02:52.400 --> 01:02:52.719
After that.
01:02:52.960 --> 01:02:53.599
She found out.
01:02:53.679 --> 01:02:54.159
She knows.
01:02:54.639 --> 01:02:55.280
You know what it came from?
01:02:55.760 --> 01:02:56.239
You know what it came from?
01:02:56.400 --> 01:02:57.440
That shit was too particular.
01:02:57.920 --> 01:02:58.639
I'm gonna tell you the moment.
01:02:58.800 --> 01:03:00.079
You know what the shady part about this is?
01:03:01.280 --> 01:03:01.760
That's easy work.
01:03:01.920 --> 01:03:02.400
You know what I mean?
01:03:02.719 --> 01:03:03.519
The shady part is though?
01:03:03.679 --> 01:03:09.119
The shady part is she only found out that he borrowed money because his shady ass homeboy told her.
01:03:13.199 --> 01:03:15.679
Yeah, you like them flowers at work last Thursday?
01:03:15.840 --> 01:03:18.320
Yeah, for nigga bearing.
01:03:19.039 --> 01:03:20.800
Your boy ain't give me my money back yet.
01:03:22.960 --> 01:03:24.239
You deserve that bum ass.
01:03:24.480 --> 01:03:25.039
You deserve that.
01:03:25.679 --> 01:03:26.639
Niggas ain't shit.
01:03:29.760 --> 01:03:31.039
How about that switched up back then?
01:03:31.440 --> 01:03:33.440
Baddies give you my money back.
01:03:33.679 --> 01:03:34.960
You get duped all the time.
01:03:35.199 --> 01:03:37.360
Baddies, a successful woman get duped all the time.
01:03:37.599 --> 01:03:41.119
Because men because men put men put their best for the forward.
01:03:41.280 --> 01:03:42.880
And then when they get complacent, then you like, oh.
01:03:43.119 --> 01:03:47.519
And you sting men is uh see the member, this is what y'all don't get.
01:03:47.679 --> 01:03:51.440
Those men are well aware that they're gonna turn into a pumpkin at 12 o'clock.
01:03:52.320 --> 01:03:54.159
They know they're not gonna turn into a pumpkin.
01:03:54.400 --> 01:03:54.960
You don't know.
01:03:55.440 --> 01:03:59.519
You think should I get me about three, four servings of pussy by the time I get kicked out of the kitchen?
01:03:59.920 --> 01:04:00.559
Then I'm good.
01:04:00.719 --> 01:04:04.480
So now by the time you find out your friend, all you gonna do, man, is call me a bum.
01:04:04.559 --> 01:04:06.639
And I and all I'm gonna say is you'll fuck the though.
01:04:06.800 --> 01:04:08.159
You wanna say that when you screaming?
01:04:09.039 --> 01:04:15.360
You just break it down and it's because the women go for the dudes that's gonna pull the knot out instead of the dudes that's just swiping his cop.
01:04:15.760 --> 01:04:16.480
Oh man.
01:04:16.880 --> 01:04:17.920
That's why they go for that.
01:04:18.079 --> 01:04:18.320
I like it.
01:04:18.400 --> 01:04:18.719
I like that.
01:04:18.960 --> 01:04:19.679
Pull that nigga a lot.
01:04:19.840 --> 01:04:20.480
You pull that knot out.
01:04:21.920 --> 01:04:22.559
I'm a hoodie rag.
01:04:22.880 --> 01:04:24.639
I love seeing when they pull that thing out and then.
01:04:24.960 --> 01:04:26.559
That's why you ask on this podcast now.
01:04:26.880 --> 01:04:28.400
Tell me how these niggas do you filthy.
01:04:28.639 --> 01:04:31.519
That's exactly what you ask on this podcast now.
01:04:31.760 --> 01:04:33.360
Talk about how these niggas do you filter.
01:04:33.679 --> 01:04:37.119
Because you watching the nigga pocket instead of watching this fucking heart.
01:04:37.440 --> 01:04:42.400
You think it motherfucker, you know exactly what you're doing, and you get what you deserve.
01:04:43.039 --> 01:04:44.079
Watch this nigga pull out a knot.
01:04:44.239 --> 01:04:44.480
Fuck out.
01:04:44.639 --> 01:04:47.440
He better take this citizen car and shut the fuck up.
01:04:57.599 --> 01:04:59.519
That deal costs 200, he probably got 250.
01:05:01.440 --> 01:05:02.000
I need to be able to see.
01:05:05.280 --> 01:05:06.000
Oh shit.
01:05:06.079 --> 01:05:07.280
He got he got his shit.
01:05:07.360 --> 01:05:07.679
What do you got?
01:05:11.360 --> 01:05:15.760
925 of it is his homeboy that you're holding for.
01:05:15.920 --> 01:05:16.480
I pull it out.
01:05:22.320 --> 01:05:24.639
The struggle is real for a bitch that got her shit together.
01:05:24.719 --> 01:05:25.360
I'm gonna just say that.
01:05:27.519 --> 01:05:28.239
I feel you do it right.
01:05:30.320 --> 01:05:32.239
You intimidate niggas.
01:05:32.480 --> 01:05:32.960
The struggle is real.
01:05:33.199 --> 01:05:34.239
We gotta get at you again.
01:05:34.400 --> 01:05:34.800
Sorry.
01:05:35.039 --> 01:05:36.000
We gotta double the shit up.
01:05:36.079 --> 01:05:36.800
What is going on?
01:05:39.760 --> 01:05:40.480
Didn't you post it?
01:05:40.719 --> 01:05:44.079
Didn't you put the post up about you had some Yans on your bucket list?
01:05:44.239 --> 01:05:47.119
Yes, she's the Yans.
01:05:47.280 --> 01:05:48.480
The Yans come in with that.
01:05:49.360 --> 01:05:50.159
We got a few minutes.
01:05:50.320 --> 01:05:54.639
We got a few minutes, and I'm just gonna trickle it to the next episode.
01:05:59.280 --> 01:05:59.840
Kick the topic off.
01:06:00.880 --> 01:06:02.320
Okay, so I made a post.
01:06:02.480 --> 01:06:11.119
Well, actually, this this people don't know it actually stemmed from uh a situation that happened between an older woman and a younger guy.
01:06:11.360 --> 01:06:15.599
The guy was started dating a younger girl, but he had an older woman as a side chick.
01:06:15.679 --> 01:06:20.800
So it became, it was just this battle between old old old women and younger women.
01:06:21.760 --> 01:06:22.719
Oh, that's not bucket.
01:06:23.440 --> 01:06:25.519
And then I just made a stat that was like, you know what?
01:06:25.599 --> 01:06:31.679
As an old bitch, you know, I got a couple YNs, you know, that I could, that's on my bucket list.
01:06:31.840 --> 01:06:33.199
And it went crazy.
01:06:33.280 --> 01:06:36.880
Because then now women are just saying, like, yeah, I got some too, right?
01:06:36.960 --> 01:06:41.119
So now the older men are like, Oh, y'all washed up, da-da-da-da-da.
01:06:41.760 --> 01:06:44.079
You know, it was a bunch of like, oh, you a pedophile.
01:06:44.159 --> 01:06:46.559
I got called a pedophile, um, all types of stuff.
01:06:46.639 --> 01:06:48.719
They people was taking it way too far.
01:06:48.880 --> 01:06:53.199
But um it was just it was just me just, but that's the thing now though.
01:06:53.360 --> 01:06:58.719
Like, the the the young men that's really a thing are coming, like they're they come on strong with older women.
01:06:59.039 --> 01:07:01.360
So y'all don't really want the man that got his shit together.
01:07:01.519 --> 01:07:02.559
No, but this some of them do.
01:07:02.719 --> 01:07:09.039
It's the same way with young women, like the young bitches, they got some of them got the motion, they got their shit together more than uh more than other bitches.
01:07:09.199 --> 01:07:14.480
It's just that they they more willing to spend, you know, older men be more responsible.
01:07:15.119 --> 01:07:16.719
Like, I gotta pay my bills.
01:07:16.800 --> 01:07:18.800
When the YNs is like, man, what you need?
01:07:18.960 --> 01:07:19.519
You know what I'm saying?
01:07:19.679 --> 01:07:22.400
They sleep on they sleeping on them the futon.
01:07:26.880 --> 01:07:28.320
They probably deadbeats, you know what I'm saying?
01:07:28.400 --> 01:07:29.280
So you get all the money.
01:07:29.679 --> 01:07:31.360
But no, it's it's it's some real shit.
01:07:31.440 --> 01:07:35.679
Like Yans got more time, they got more money because they have less responsibilities, right?
01:07:35.920 --> 01:07:43.599
And so it's more fun for us because when when women hit a certain age, we're our what is it, libido or whatever?
01:07:43.760 --> 01:07:46.480
Kind of like we're we're more, we're more, we're more sexually.
01:07:46.719 --> 01:07:51.039
We want more, we're more sensual, we we're more horny, you know what I'm saying?
01:07:51.360 --> 01:07:52.079
Very menopause.
01:07:52.239 --> 01:08:00.159
And then, but and we want younger men have the stem, and it's just a lot of little things that happen to us biologically too that we appreciate the younger men.
01:08:00.800 --> 01:08:03.440
But again, what what happened?
01:08:03.679 --> 01:08:08.719
I said, he said, he said, well, you said the menopause probably like you said, you get more horny towards later nation.
01:08:09.039 --> 01:08:12.159
I say a comet shines at its brightest just before it burns out.
01:08:12.400 --> 01:08:14.079
That shit's crazy.
01:08:14.239 --> 01:08:14.480
That's it.
01:08:14.559 --> 01:08:15.119
You dry it up.
01:08:15.840 --> 01:08:16.399
That dry it up.
01:08:16.560 --> 01:08:19.920
He's like, listen, I'm taking whatever, wherever, however, let's get it.
01:08:20.079 --> 01:08:20.640
Blah shit.
01:08:21.199 --> 01:08:21.600
Shut the hair.
01:08:22.399 --> 01:08:23.119
The clock ticket.
01:08:23.359 --> 01:08:24.159
That clock, that shit.
01:08:25.520 --> 01:08:27.520
The comet shines its brightest.
01:08:27.680 --> 01:08:32.640
No, but you can have fun, you know.
01:08:32.800 --> 01:08:34.239
The Y-Ns, you can I'm gonna say this.
01:08:34.399 --> 01:08:35.680
The Yans, you can have more fun.
01:08:35.760 --> 01:08:38.079
They they're willing to go, you know, go have a good time.
01:08:38.159 --> 01:08:40.000
And sometimes what you're just looking for, a good time.
01:08:40.239 --> 01:08:44.399
And then the older men is like, you know, I got my kids today.
01:08:45.520 --> 01:08:53.439
I gotta pay my bills, I gotta, you know, it's like by the time I by the time you're looking to have a good time, he ain't got no money for you.
01:08:53.600 --> 01:08:56.159
So it's like, it's just it's just a different experience.
01:08:56.880 --> 01:08:57.680
But that's what we like.
01:08:58.560 --> 01:09:01.760
At a certain point in our life, when we go into our midlife crisis.
01:09:02.159 --> 01:09:04.560
So now as our midlife crisis.
01:09:04.880 --> 01:09:10.960
So now, so now to the man that's your age that has the money requirement or whatever's going on.
01:09:11.279 --> 01:09:12.079
The man that's my age?
01:09:12.239 --> 01:09:12.399
Yeah.
01:09:12.960 --> 01:09:16.960
That that that that's in your age range, like your actual age range.
01:09:18.479 --> 01:09:26.000
Why would he make that commitment and he sees you with a nigga that's his little brother age, and you just having fun, and you come like, oh, oh, dude, I want to marry you.
01:09:26.079 --> 01:09:26.720
No, you don't.
01:09:27.119 --> 01:09:28.000
You need to go marry that little.
01:09:28.319 --> 01:09:30.640
I just saw you in the Bahamas on the back of a jet ski.
01:09:30.880 --> 01:09:30.960
Wow.
01:09:31.520 --> 01:09:32.239
No, no, no.
01:09:33.920 --> 01:09:36.399
No, my boo say this though.
01:09:36.640 --> 01:09:38.239
Niggas shouldn't be mad though.
01:09:38.399 --> 01:09:39.279
That's the as part.
01:09:39.520 --> 01:09:40.720
Like, man, not for nothing, bro.
01:09:41.039 --> 01:09:47.680
It is too many women on the earth for you to be mad that a woman doesn't like who you are or what you have to offer.
01:09:48.079 --> 01:09:48.560
That's true.
01:09:48.960 --> 01:09:50.159
You don't like Nick's hurry?
01:09:50.560 --> 01:09:50.800
Cool.
01:09:50.960 --> 01:09:51.520
Why are you mad?
01:09:51.600 --> 01:09:52.000
Find someone.
01:09:52.399 --> 01:09:52.800
Find somebody.
01:09:53.359 --> 01:09:56.479
Like, you're like, that's one thing that always like keeps me even about it.
01:09:56.640 --> 01:09:59.359
If a woman ain't knowing what I'm on, another woman is.
01:09:59.600 --> 01:10:00.079
It's a fact.
01:10:00.479 --> 01:10:03.760
So I'm not gonna be mad and cut you out or do no.
01:10:04.239 --> 01:10:06.239
I can't start over 8,000 times, but it's okay for it.
01:10:06.399 --> 01:10:07.439
This is a very sexy show.
01:10:08.079 --> 01:10:09.199
We're not the ones complaining.
01:10:09.439 --> 01:10:11.520
Okay, we're not the ones complaining.
01:10:11.680 --> 01:10:12.479
Yeah, we're not.
01:10:12.640 --> 01:10:13.840
Like, there's no crisis for us.
01:10:14.239 --> 01:10:14.800
Listen, hang on a second.
01:10:14.880 --> 01:10:17.920
And I'm gonna summ it up what we're saying, Rock, and y'all correct me if I'm wrong.
01:10:18.239 --> 01:10:27.359
Like I said, I I touched on it when I was talking earlier, and this is uh I don't like this is not being sarcastic, this is not being chauvinistic, it's just a real ass thing.
01:10:28.079 --> 01:10:30.880
Women outnumber us 20 to 30 to 1.
01:10:31.439 --> 01:10:43.199
So when you understand when you got some men out there who understand that and they they become less less agitated with your actions, they understand, okay, I don't care.
01:10:43.520 --> 01:10:48.560
Because tomorrow's Tuesday, tomorrow's Monday, and Monday I'm gonna have 10 or 15 Rockies.
01:10:48.800 --> 01:10:49.920
No, no, I don't want to have 10 or 15.
01:10:50.159 --> 01:10:51.439
No, no, no, I'm saying, but no, the Locke.
01:10:52.159 --> 01:10:53.119
No, no, here's a rocky.
01:10:54.560 --> 01:11:00.319
When I say when I say Rockies, I'm saying I'm talking about, I'm talking about general.
01:11:01.279 --> 01:11:05.359
Like I said, I you you want to go out have fun with the Y's peace.
01:11:06.000 --> 01:11:13.680
But you know, and the thing because it is 11 statistically, it's 11 to 19 more of you than there is in me.
01:11:13.760 --> 01:11:15.760
Yeah, so I don't have to do that the struggle.
01:11:15.840 --> 01:11:16.640
That's why we're not coming.
01:11:16.720 --> 01:11:20.079
I'm God, I hate saying it like this, but that's why we're not complaining.
01:11:20.560 --> 01:11:23.680
Because we understand the the metrics.
01:11:24.159 --> 01:11:30.079
So you when you when you y'all go on these platforms, these podcasts, and make these stats and all that stuff, and we respond.
01:11:30.239 --> 01:11:31.279
You know who responding?
01:11:31.359 --> 01:11:32.399
The tender niggas.
01:11:32.479 --> 01:11:40.000
Yeah, the ones that that your typed words, like Jiggly said in his freestyle, you niggas using your thumbs on it, they hurt by and bothered by it.
01:11:40.239 --> 01:11:43.680
But the ones that understand, I'm I could give a fuck less.
01:11:44.399 --> 01:11:45.520
Work out, do your thing.
01:11:46.239 --> 01:11:57.039
Because in that in your in your in your group, your female group, there's two or three of them that want that want that experience with that dude versus that you don't.
01:11:57.439 --> 01:12:05.039
Now, if I'm if I if we've had some dealings before and I generally like you and we got rapport and I'm emotionally involved, yeah, that might bother me.
01:12:05.279 --> 01:12:11.520
But nine times out of ten, if it's just somebody I like, I like and it's random and you feel a certain kind of way, so pretty much.
01:12:15.680 --> 01:12:23.199
Like, like, like when we're doing raw numbers, we about even men to women, but see, like, example, like our pool is way different.
01:12:23.359 --> 01:12:28.880
Like, example, y'all's pool gets drained by shit that don't even got nothing to do with money.
01:12:29.039 --> 01:12:32.640
Like, for example, it's way less women in jail than us.
01:12:32.800 --> 01:12:34.479
So that'll take away from y'all pool.
01:12:35.279 --> 01:12:36.319
There's women in jail.
01:12:36.560 --> 01:12:38.239
Men get killed way more than y'all do.
01:12:38.319 --> 01:12:39.199
So that'll take away from y'all.
01:12:39.439 --> 01:12:40.079
We die earlier.
01:12:40.319 --> 01:12:43.119
And then another thing, like not even being funny.
01:12:43.279 --> 01:12:46.159
If y'all go gay, that'll take y'all out of our pool.
01:12:46.399 --> 01:12:46.800
Show yours.
01:12:47.279 --> 01:12:50.479
Like, if you came up today and you was like, oh, oh man, I got a girlfriend.
01:12:50.560 --> 01:12:52.079
If I want you, I'm gonna still try you.
01:12:52.319 --> 01:12:54.560
Because I'm gonna bully because that don't take you out of our pool.
01:12:54.720 --> 01:12:55.520
That might increase your value.
01:12:56.720 --> 01:12:57.840
That might increase your value.
01:12:58.560 --> 01:12:58.800
Smart.
01:12:59.039 --> 01:13:00.319
Yeah, you you gotta see right.
01:13:00.800 --> 01:13:01.199
You see what I'm saying?
01:13:01.520 --> 01:13:06.319
So all these things then take out your pool, so it's like, look, like, like, look, like so.
01:13:08.399 --> 01:13:08.720
Uh-huh.
01:13:08.960 --> 01:13:11.279
And we're gonna shut it down there and set the sun after this.
01:13:11.359 --> 01:13:11.520
Yeah.
01:13:11.680 --> 01:13:20.159
So basically, what we're trying to say is to quote to go, men lie, women lie, numbers for us, men don't.
01:13:20.640 --> 01:13:21.039
Shut up.
01:13:21.199 --> 01:13:21.600
We are not.
01:13:22.159 --> 01:13:26.960
Okay, to sum it up, ladies, if you ain't find your man yet, you probably ain't born yet.
01:13:27.119 --> 01:13:27.520
You feel me?
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Numbers for us.
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Block out, baby.
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Yo, we need saxophones.
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Go get that sound effect, bro.
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Sum it up.
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Like I said, and it's not, and like I said, shout out to the ladies out there that's doing their thing, handling.
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Keep doing it.
01:13:48.479 --> 01:13:49.760
Yeah, like we're not taking away that.
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We're gonna do that.
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Don't please don't take yeah, don't please.
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Like I said, what they say, the number one growing class uh uh in the America is young independent black women.
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Like, keep doing that shit.
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Not young, just independent black women, entrepreneurs, keep doing y'all thing, man.
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But just know the more successful you become, the harder it is for you to date.
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That's a that's oh damn.
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You can keep on anyways.
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I don't know, just understand that women, okay?
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The more degrees you got, the harder it is gonna be for you to be for you to find that one.
01:14:19.920 --> 01:14:22.479
Um, because they're busy chasing Shanequa on section eight.
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Um chasing my own.
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Would you rather pay a$2,000 mortgage or a$12 rent?
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That's doing numbers.
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So Shanik was on section eight.
01:14:43.760 --> 01:14:49.039
Shanik was on section eight, but she's in Shanika's side room and with her little brother.
01:14:49.199 --> 01:14:49.520
Right.
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Right, right.
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Right, right.
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But her little brother.
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Anyways.
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All right, y'all.
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Thank you for tuning in.
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Thank you for tuning in to another episode of Everything Under the Sun podcast.
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My boy Bear Brown, B.
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Gibson, Mo Jackson, your girl Rocky B, and now the sun is set.
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Peace.
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Hey, y'all.