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A job offer can feel like a miracle when you’ve spent a year grinding, doubting, and still showing up anyway. We’re talking about the real-life chain reaction that starts with CPR certification, turns into a last-minute interview, and ends with a new elementary PE teaching job that actually fits. We also get honest about what it costs to chase opportunities when time is tight and you’re trying to protect your marriage, your health, and your peace.
From there, we jump into a boundary question that hits a nerve: what do you do when you’re 18, paying rent to your parents, and they still treat your room like community property? We react to an “Am I the A**hole” story about moving out with zero notice after being told to give up a paid-for space, and we break down family power dynamics, fairness, and what respect should look like when money is involved.
Then it’s “Believe It, Sister” time with two headline stories that sound like a movie but aren’t: a fatal patio umbrella accident during sudden severe weather and a dog accidentally firing a shotgun in a vehicle. We pull out the lessons, talk summer safety, and end with side-eye moments, gratitude, and a reminder to check yourself and refill your own cup before you try to carry everybody else. If you enjoy real marriage talk, faith-driven perspective, and funny stories with a point, press play, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave us a review.
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The Refreshingly Normal Podcast.
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Okay.
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Round two.
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Two more years.
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I'll be able to say anything I want to say.
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Ain't worried about nothing, goddamn.
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Two more?
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Yeah, I'm winning the lottery because it's obviously something in my body said two more years.
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Okay.
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So we're gonna claim it.
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Those on yours.
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We're gonna claim it.
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Ladies and gentlemen.
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Here we go.
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Refreshingly normal podcast.
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That's our new music.
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We're back.
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The Refreshingly Normal Podcast.
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Ladies and gentlemen, thank you for joining us.
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I did not sign.
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You ain't have to, child.
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You ain't gotta sign.
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I did not sign off on that.
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That's all right.
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You ain't gotta sign off.
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You just a background singer in the intro.
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Not in the podcast, just in the intro.
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Okay.
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Yeah, you just uh uh the video vixen.
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Okay, video vixen.
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Yeah, the Melissa Ford in the in the podcast.
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No.
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She was a video vixen back in the day.
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Remember we listened to her book?
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No, that was Superhead.
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That was different.
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And who you say?
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Melissa Ford.
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Isn't that the same person?
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No, Melissa Ford is the one that's on that podcast with like uh she was on that one with Joe Budd and them.
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She's the one that had an accident and she got real, um, she had a bad, bad accident.
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I think those are the things.
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No, it's not that's not the same person.
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All right, ladies and gentlemen.
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While she looks up the video vixens to find out that she is wrong on, I wish it was live TV, but uh, it's gonna be live because anytime y'all see it, it's live.
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All right.
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Um, we are the Refreshly Normal podcast, consisting of myself, Kefla, and my wife, Lou Crisha.
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I love the writer.
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Okay, go ahead.
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Melissa Savannah Ford is a Canadian media personality actress and former video vixen.
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That's what I said, video vixing, but you're talking about the one that was doing all the other stuff.
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That's superhead.
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Okay, let me click that.
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That's not her name.
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Her name is Korean Stephens.
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Oh.
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I love when she's wrong.
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I love when she's wrong.
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Why did you done say her name before?
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You just thought of it.
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You didn't say Korean.
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But I never mind.
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It don't even matter.
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It don't even matter.
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You know what?
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You want me to be wrong?
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No, be wrong.
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You're right.
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But ain't no buts.
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It's either right or wrong.
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I never seen but as a multiple choice question.
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Is it a yes or no, true or false, A, B, C or D?
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Move it along.
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Never seen but on there.
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Move it along.
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Let's go.
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Yeah.
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This is starting off great for this episode.
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Anyway.
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So how was your week?
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Let's recap.
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My this was the last, well, almost the last week.
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My official last day is this coming Monday.
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However, it won't be.
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Last week in the building, though, right?
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But my last day in the building was pride.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Um, and so this week was just really finishing up things, closing out the year, finishing up um presentations that I will need when we come back in July.
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So finishing up those for approval.
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So I was doing that this week and closing out all of that kind of stuff.
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Um, last run throughs for our presentation at the conference next week or this coming week.
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How many days is the conference?
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The conference is two and a half days.
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Well, maybe more than that.
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If you do, you know how people pay to do the pre-conference.
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Like they like Sunday, we get there.
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And some people, like there's some a couple of pre-sessions on Sunday?
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Mm-hmm.
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Uh there might be.
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I don't know.
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Oh, but sometimes they have pre-sessions.
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But we are set to attend our session, first session Monday.
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So Monday's a full day, Tuesday's a full day, and then Wednesday there are a couple of sessions, a half a day.
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Do you have to present Wednesday also?
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No.
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We are our presentation is Tuesday.
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Okay.
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So we just we're presenting once.
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And you stay until Wednesday?
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Yeah.
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And so we get leave Wednesday morning.
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About 11.
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Okay.
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11.
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Once when checkout is, is when um heading one.
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So that gives you and you don't have to report back to the office?
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Done.
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Hey, so do you get this leap?
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Yeah, so Wednesday, I'm sorry, yeah, just Thursday and Friday.
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And Saturday because my flight is later on Saturday.
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Okay, you cancel.
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Yeah, you can't.
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My flight is later on uh in the afternoon on Saturday.
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So then, anywho, so that was my week.
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Um, have clients all week.
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Um, everybody made it except for just one little person, forgot about their appointment.
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So that was about it, but everybody else made it and had I had two new clients this week.
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So I got two new clients this week.
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So in total, what's your load?
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Three, six, nine, eleven, fifteen.
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What did you start with that first week?
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Oh, that first week not many.
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I probably started the first week.
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I'm trying to think of the ones I just did updated their things.
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Uh five.
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Five to fifteen.
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And so, and of my clients You talking about that check was nice.
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Yeah.
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So of my clients, only um it it actually is more than I count my new because well it's still I I got if that's not correct, you guys.
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Because some of them I have to see bi-weekly.
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Okay.
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So I actually have I see some of them bi-weekly.
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So really, if I counted all of them up, I have eighteen.
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All right.
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I have eighteen, but three of them I see bi-weekly.
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All right, therapy?
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Four of them I see bi-weekly.
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Well, that's wrong too.
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That's 19.
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I don't know.
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You got 19.
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I don't know.
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I have 19.
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Four of them I see uh biweekly.
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And then what I think, I don't know, I'm just gonna toot my own horn.
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Two to two.
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Alright, two to two.
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Um most of all of my clients I have seen for a great amount of time.
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Um from my start to now, I've only had uh well, I never saw her.
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Three of them that started, but for whatever reasons didn't continue.
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Whether it was we weren't in a good match or they weren't ready for therapy, whatever the reasons um may be.
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I know one of them because he they didn't want to do it, and they were parents were making them do it, and I guess they won that, they won that battle.
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Um, but the other two, I'm not quite sure why they stopped, but anywho, so I think that's a pretty good percentage going.
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So, yeah, I feel good about that.
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So maybe I'm doing a pretty good job.
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I think you are.
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Yeah.
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So how was your week?
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My week was pretty good.
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It it uh ended on a high note.
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Um, it started with me getting uh CPR certification.
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Yeah, yeah, CPR certification for my internship.
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Um And you know, I used to be I used to be the CPR instructive.
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You were the instructor, yeah.
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When I was in Clayton County, I used to I used to do the very same thing I was sitting down having that guy do.
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And then he was like, Man, you're very knowledgeable with this because you ask us questions and I would hit things.
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Boom, boom, boom, boom.
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Oh, it's on your knowledge.
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I said, Well, I used to be a CPR instructor back.
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He said, Well, hey, if you're we always need people here at the Red Cross.
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And you know, we can for if you look for a part-time, I said, I might not have to think about that because I could do some Saturdays, you know, whatnot.
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Um, so I I I I honestly think I might think about that.
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But right now, we already don't have no time together, you and I.
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So it's like, and once I start interning, it's gonna be, we're gonna be strangers.
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And I'm not trying to have that.
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There's a stranger in my heart.
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It's gonna be one in mine.
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Took some time to figure out.
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Ain't gotta figure it out.
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I already know.
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There's no way it could be.
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Yeah, she is who she says she is.
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Gotta be someone else.
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Nope, I know who she is.
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She better start touching me like that.
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All right.
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Oh.
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I was ready.
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But anyway, um, and then I went on an interview, last-minute interview for an elementary PE position that I saw.
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As soon as I sent the stuff out, boom, got a phone call.
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Uh was it shortly thereafter?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Or email or something.
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It was a call.
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It was a call.
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Oh, they called.
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They called, said, um, the secretary.
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Yeah, the secretary called and said, uh, would you be willing to do an interview?
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So I said, yes.
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Because you know, I was supposed to have been going from high school special ed to middle school special ed.
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And uh, you know, this time in my life I want to do elementary PE because I'm approaching the retirement side of education.
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And then PE, that's one of the spots people do.
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You know, elementary.
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They either die in that position, retire, or look, they just push them out because they're too old.
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And so I was like, I need an elementary PE.
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And I want to get that youthfulness um spirit of education back.
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Not of myself, but the reason why we came in it was the why.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Because you started in Started in it, full circle, yeah.
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And it was P-I.
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I mean P-E.
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P-E-P-I-E.
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And so um I the lady says, so we have an 8:30.
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I said, yes.
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Nine, um, 10 o'clock.
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And I said, no, 8:30.
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I mean, I was just trying to give you, I said, no, ma'am.
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You don't have to give me no other time.
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I'm gonna take that first one.
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She started laughing, and I did the interview, and I went in there, and I was just my unique self.
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Um, just being who Kefla Hare is.
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Um nailed it.
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Yeah, I nailed the interview, thank God.
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Um, and then the next day, they wanted, well, that same day they told me I update some things and I update.
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I said, Oh, this is a good sign, it's a good sign.
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I didn't want to get too excited, but then also I didn't want to not get too excited because I didn't want to feel like I didn't have faith that this was for me.
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Yeah.
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And so I stopped myself instantly and said, no, let's go.
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Feel it.
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God, this everything that all the no's that you've had, you know, the interviews that you uh knocked out the park, but they say you was inexperienced for, you know, other jobs, other things you were inexperienced for, and they gave it to an inexperienced person.
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All of this was to lead you to this role.
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And um, I had to do a Teams interview online with the uh department that I would be working with, and I knocked that out the box.
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They answered all their questions, I gave them some great questions, and then was at the gym, got that call that they would like to offer me the job, and I took it.
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Yes, Lord.
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I was so excited.
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Can I say something?
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Okay, yeah, say what you want to say.
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The interview was Thursday, Wednesday.
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I think you had called me that afternoon and said that the job had posted or something like that.
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So that morning, because I know you had been having last week was a rough week, but for whatever reason, I said I'm gonna do my prayer is all for you.
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Like I always pray for you and the boys, but that prayer was solely extra focused on you.
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Get y'all a praying woman.
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That's the key.
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Get you a praying woman.
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It was just for you.
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And um I know that we don't always know.
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Well, I know we don't.
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Ain't no, we don't know what's best for us.
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Right.
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But it was scary sometimes, we didn't.
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Yeah, yeah.
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And we don't know what's best for us, but in order to fulfill the will that God has for our life, um, sometimes there are certain things and places things that we maybe are like, why am I here?
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Why am I doing this?
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Why didn't I get this?
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Why didn't they choose me?
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Why didn't they and that's what I said because yeah, so it does, you know, for whatever reason, which we don't know, it doesn't fulfill, you know, the will that God has over your life or whatever.
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But anywho-to-do, I did that super prayer.
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I appreciate it.
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And then when you call and said teasy and they did an interview, I was like, man, Lord, you work fast.
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I just said that super prayer this morning.
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Yeah.
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And it it was super fast.
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Um, I don't know.
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I was like, what's that?
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You know, maybe I was like, sometimes I think you gotta be, you know how they say you gotta be very specific in what your prayer is.
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And sometimes I do know in the morning, sometimes I'm praying in the morning, I'm like, I'm rushing, and my prayer may be a rush.
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Or a repetitive prayer.
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Repetitive verbiage that you've always said to say I'm it's a it's a uh what do they call it?
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It's just something I check, I check my box, yeah.
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Yeah, a check mark, or sometimes in the morning I have to use the bathroom.
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So then I gotta be doing it.
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Sometimes I'm like, no.
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I think even that morning I said, no, I'm gonna go use the bathroom and then I'm gonna come back and do the prayer.
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So, anyways, um, yeah, so I'm so happy for you that you thank you.
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I'm happy that you prayed for me.
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That you get to I did good picking you.
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Oh Lord.
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So I'm happy that you really got something that you wanted.
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Yeah, it really wasn't you settling or thinking maybe this is where you ought to be next.
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But I know this is something you talked about prior to, but it's so hard to come by.
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Um Yeah, it's something that you can't say, are you you think you might be settling?
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Because I know you've said that before.
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Yeah, I'm always asking that, like thinking about that.
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Do you think this may be something you're settling on?
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This I know you're not.
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Yeah, because even think about it, the week prior when something else came up, AP position came up, and you said, Are you gonna you said, are you gonna apply for any more APs or are you gonna let that boat sail?
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And I said, I'm gonna let it sell.
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I said, I'm not applying for anything else unless it's a what?
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Uh elementary PE job.
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That's exactly what I said, and that was like a few days.
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I don't know how many days, it probably wasn't that many days, but I I really said that.
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And that's And what is so crazy about it is like a couple years ago, that's when PE was like really cut.
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Like the positions were cut.
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Yeah.
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Um, and for this to just open up, um yeah, it definitely divine intervention.
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Your new principal, what the even how she fit what she wrote in her email to you to me just solidifies the divine intervention.
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Yeah, God showed us, He's He showed Himself today.
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I mean I mean, even to speak through her.
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Yeah, Charlie's move.
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I'm gonna start crying on that.
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Okay, I'm sorry, but even for him to speak through her, yeah, just that makes you feel like that's the place because there's not many admins where that is spoken through them and feeling comfortable to speak it to you.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Yeah, and it's and you know, I I thought I said it's not any pressure on me.
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You know, because oh, she said this.
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I better make sure I do what I need because I'm always gonna do what I supposed to do.
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No, but they want you.
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That's what I'm saying.
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And so that's why it's not any pressure to do.
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It's not any pressure.
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I'm gonna do what I'm supposed to do.
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I always try to do what I'm doing.
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You are, yes.
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We both are that way.
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We're just made that way.
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Yeah, yeah.
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That's like you say, the the one of the worst things you can do to me is lie on me or say that I'm something that I'm not.
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That's I'd rather you hit me.
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But and to than to do that.
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Yeah.
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Because I work hard daily on being the the best, throwing up as the best person.
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Yes.
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Somebody you could trust, somebody that you could count on.
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Yeah, you know, being a just I I just my name and my likeness is all I have.
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You know what I mean?
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Well, it's important to you.
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Yeah, it is.
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So, yeah, and so I'm I'm I'm so grateful.
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So that's my week, man.
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Um Summer can officially start now.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Um I'm so just grateful, thankful, and deserving.
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And deserving, because this was a physical, not a physical, but it was the mental, mental, the mental uh strain that I went through this year took a big hit, um, or or caused a big hit and dip to my physical.
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You know what I'm saying?
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But guess what?
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What's that?
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What I will say about you is there are lots of things that happened, and of course, naturally to respond to them the way that your natural response would be.
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However, you showed up in a way like you weren't bothered by how things were.
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You still showed up for those babies, you still have to kept connecting with your students, you still went into that school every single day.
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Yeah, like you loved what you did.
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Not to say that you don't, but I can't say that you necessarily did not want to be in that role, yeah, right?
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But you just sort of like, you know what, I'm here and I'm gonna not, I'm gonna rock it out, I'm gonna do the best, and that's what you showed up in that, and that's what you did.
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Um, and I feel like that's like when we talk about tests, like I think like that's tests.
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Like, yeah, what do you do when you get placed in a space where you don't necessarily like how do you show up as a person?
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And you stepped in that building every day showing we're supposed to be like God.
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Yeah, you showed up every day with goodness, yeah, with goodness, with mercy, with joy, with purpose, with care, um, all of those things you showed up every day like, even to even though you didn't necessarily like what role you had to play and didn't have a choice in that.
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But I feel like like that is the test.
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And from the start of the year to the end, like the fact that you knew you weren't going back, and like you said, some of those teachers didn't that weren't coming back, didn't go through the graduation.
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But for you, you still showed up for those babies till the last day.
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Still reported to my duty station.
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Yep, still came to work on time Friday when it was time to turn our keys in.
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Yes, yeah, still did everything, paid.
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All the things, things that people who have a position in that school did not do.
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Did not do, yeah.
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So people who are able to stay in their role and do whatever, things that they didn't even do, and you knowing that you were not gonna be there, and then also being in a role that was kind of like, could somebody have done a little something, something to make sure I stay, you know.
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So, even with that, that you showed up in such a godly purposeful way.
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Yeah, you did.
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I showed up so God could show out.
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That's right, and there you go.
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And here's your gift.
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Wait a minute, kids.
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You so you making me feel all mushy over here.
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You better be quiet.
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Sorry, but that's the truth.
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That's the truth.
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About to make me shit a tour.
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Okay, a two.
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But I thank you.
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But that has been my week, man.
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So summer is starting.
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Um and you're coming with me.
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Yep, coming with you.
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I'm excited to the uh to the coming to be on my work.
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To the festival.
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Oh, to I'm gonna have a festival.
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Y'all at the meeting, I'm gonna be eating it.
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I'm putting on about 30 pounds, get all fat and sand sick.
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He's coming on my workshop with me.
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And the ladies on my team, um, they were so excited in regards to you having the interview and So the day that you have the interview, they were like, Kree, what time is Keith Food's interview?
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I said 8:30.
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And so um Alexa's like, it's 8:34.
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Okay, I'm praying right now.
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And so all of them went into prayer.
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Appreciate it.
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I hope that one word went into prayer.
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Yeah.
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And um they all did.
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And uh Jen was like, check it in.
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Has he heard anything?
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Has he heard anything?
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Has he heard anything?
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And she's like, because I know my birthday's Monday, but we're gonna celebrate Kiva Jeff.
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I know he's gonna get that.
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So yeah, thank you.
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A shout out to the ladies on my team that got it put in special little prayers and were just as excited for you as we were.
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So yeah.
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The only problem is the school colors are them omega colors.
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Oh no, yeah, they're purple and gold.
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Shout out to all my omega homies.
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Yeah.
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But yeah, I gotta, I'm like, dang, I gotta get some purple and gold stuff.
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But I wear any color.
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Yeah.
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I remember I had in Troy, I had a shirt.
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It had um A5A in like blue, red, and I think purple.
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Oh.
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Oh, because it was like representing all of the organizations.
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But what I said, I said on the bottom, I said first in any color.
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Oh.
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And they was like, what?
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I had it made because I used to, you know, this place in Troy, she used to make custom all my stuff.
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Anything I wanted, she would custom.
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And I used to sport that sweatshirt, and everybody would look at me crazy.
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But all the bros looked at me like, oh, bruh, I love that shirt.
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I love that shirt.
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You know, so uh it was risky, but you know, old heads were never defame the name of Alpha in any other color, but old gold and black.
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Oh, gold and you know, those old guys.
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But anyway.
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All right, so uh let's move on to uh some good stories of the week.
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All right.
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So which one you want?
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Well, you told me I'm doing the moving out of the parents.
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Is that yeah, I like the buttons actually just read the Reddit part.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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Read it.
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You want to read it on that or your phone?
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I mean, on your phone and your laptop.
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You can read it right here.
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All right, you got them little eyes, some good eyes.
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I have those, um, what's the names in my eyes?
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Oh, that's right.
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My readers are in my contact lenses.
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That's right.
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Y'all need to get those progressive contact lenses.
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All right.
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What is A-I-T-A?
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Am I the asshole?
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Oh!
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A-I-T-A.
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Am I the asshole?
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For moving out of my parents' house where I was paying rent and without any notice when I was told to give up my room again.
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So this is a male.
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He's 18, he has three younger brothers.
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They're 16, 13, and 12.
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Our parents were always a little harder on me than them.
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And I know that that can be normal sometimes.
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But some something that always drove me crazy is when they were hosting people from my dad's family, I would be the only one asked to give up my room to keep to keep them.
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People from dad's family stayed over a lot too.
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So there were a lot of times I had to sleep on the couch for them.
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And sometimes I didn't even get much notice.
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My brothers never had to give up their rooms.
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In fact, if there were more than more than usual, if there, if there were more than usual, my parents would blow, oh, okay, so if there are more guests than usual, my parents would add blow-up beds to my room for them, and the and the guest room would get a mattress or two depending on the situation.
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It always bothered me, and I spoke to my parents about it several times.
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I thought we had a breakthrough last year when they told me they had not wanted me to feel that way, and they would do better.
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After I turned 18, I started working full-time and started paying rent.
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One of the agreements we came to was there was no more me giving up my room.
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I told them since I was paying for that room now, the least they could do was respect that.
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This was never formally implemented and it was all just very between family.
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But what happened?
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A bunch of family visited a month ago, and my parents told me to give up my room for them to have space.
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When I tried to stand my ground and also talk to them about it, they told me it was their decision and it was their house.
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Instead of just accepting it, I called my grandparents on my mom's side and I asked if they had a room for me and were okay with me moving in.
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And they said yes immediately.
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And they came over to pack me up and move me in.
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My parents thought it was a joke until they saw all my stuff being brought out to my grandparents' car.
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My parents told me I couldn't just leave and I was paying rent, so I need to give them real notice.
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I told them if I was kicked out of the space I was renting, then I was just going to leave.
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And ever since my parents have been telling me to move back in, and they said it was childish to move out in such an overdramatic way.
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They told me I left the family members who were visiting feeling awkward and like they were intruding.
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Am I the asshole?
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First of all, baby, your parents are wrong.
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If there are three other brothers, and I'm assuming all of them have a room or some maybe two-share room, somebody got another room.
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And to me, to make it fair, if I were the parent, it would be a rotation.
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We tried to do that with the boys.
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Yeah, yeah.
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That um, if when they were little, if somebody came and it was more than just the guest room, like we needed another room, they would one of them would give up their room.
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Yeah.
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Um, but we tried to rotate it.
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And if we mess up the rotation, they always let us know.
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They always say, Last time, that'll be.
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Last time they slept in my room.
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Yeah, they would say it and we go, oh, okay.
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So then we would swap it or skitch it out.
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But we did that.
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But then when the boys got of a certain age, they didn't have to share their room.
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Um air mattress.
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Yeah, we there were air mattresses for extra guests that stayed past the guest room.
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That's what we did.
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Personally, for me, I mean, if I were visiting someone's home and the only room left was the 13, 15-year-olds room.
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I don't think I ain't gonna see no matter.
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No, especially little boys.
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I just don't think I want to do that.
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Especially little boys.
00:28:36.319 --> 00:28:38.480
Um, yeah, I just no.
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I think I'd rather have the air mattress personally.
00:28:41.759 --> 00:28:42.240
Yeah.
00:28:42.480 --> 00:28:54.799
Um, so um that's I feel like he whatever what he did, it may have seemed um to the extreme for his parents, but they were wrong.
00:28:54.960 --> 00:28:56.640
I don't care if he is the oldest.
00:28:56.960 --> 00:29:02.160
He said they never they never put booted the uh like that makes zero sense.
00:29:02.640 --> 00:29:04.480
My only how do they never have to share their room?
00:29:04.640 --> 00:29:07.680
My only thing is maybe his room was larger since he was the oldest child.
00:29:08.000 --> 00:29:11.039
So, you know, of course, you know, like Kurtz had the room had the better room.
00:29:11.200 --> 00:29:11.440
Yeah.
00:29:11.759 --> 00:29:17.200
Um De Nova and I had to share, well, we had the big bedroom that Sponky sleeps in now a lot.
00:29:18.160 --> 00:29:21.440
We had that room because it was smaller than the one that the boys sleep in.
00:29:21.759 --> 00:29:23.759
Well, Kimone or whoever was sleeping in that one room.
00:29:24.160 --> 00:29:26.319
So, but because we had two beds in there though.
00:29:26.400 --> 00:29:26.640
Yeah.
00:29:26.880 --> 00:29:27.759
You know what I'm saying?
00:29:27.920 --> 00:29:33.279
But when we were um when we had guests, we had to give up our space.
00:29:33.759 --> 00:29:40.160
You know, um we slept in the floor, but it was never to any guests that didn't have children.
00:29:40.880 --> 00:29:41.359
You know what I mean?
00:29:41.440 --> 00:29:45.279
So, like when Aunt Evelyn came, well, all of us slept in the living room, all the kids.
00:29:45.599 --> 00:29:46.720
That was fun, we didn't care.
00:29:46.799 --> 00:29:55.279
Yeah, you know, um, but it was never to the point where we, you know, we actually just like, yo, why am I constantly giving up my room where people can't?
00:29:55.440 --> 00:29:56.640
And that was only during the summertime.
00:29:56.720 --> 00:29:58.960
We didn't have many people visit us, you know, then.
00:29:59.200 --> 00:30:02.079
Um, but And then people that come all the time to visit.
00:30:02.240 --> 00:30:03.359
And that's what the kid was saying.
00:30:03.440 --> 00:30:10.720
He's like, they're coming a lot, and it's always my dad's side of the family, and they're coming more frequently than they normally do.
00:30:10.960 --> 00:30:11.119
Yeah.
00:30:11.359 --> 00:30:15.759
And so for him to have to give up his room all the time, I understand that.
00:30:15.839 --> 00:30:17.839
That is, especially now since I'm paying for it.
00:30:17.920 --> 00:30:18.880
Yo, bro, I'm paying for it.
00:30:19.039 --> 00:30:23.279
Yeah, once I start paying for it, hey, you need to kick X, Y, and Z out of their room, not me.
00:30:23.839 --> 00:30:28.960
But then I also thought how the grandparents were so eager to help him out.
00:30:29.599 --> 00:30:31.920
Because normally grandparents be like, Well, that's your mama.
00:30:33.039 --> 00:30:34.000
Then your family.
00:30:34.400 --> 00:30:36.160
You need to make space for your family.
00:30:36.319 --> 00:30:40.799
But they was, I thought when the grandparents did that, I said, Oh, they see that there's some wrong in this stuff too.
00:30:41.359 --> 00:30:42.240
Baby, come on.
00:30:42.720 --> 00:30:44.960
You ain't they ain't say nothing about no rent, they ain't say nothing.
00:30:45.039 --> 00:30:47.599
He's like, baby, come on, you you come on, move over here.
00:30:47.759 --> 00:30:53.599
And then what also upset me, well, not upset me, but when the relative said, We feel uneasy.
00:30:53.759 --> 00:30:54.960
He moved out.
00:30:56.400 --> 00:30:57.519
Why do you feel uneasy?
00:30:57.680 --> 00:30:58.720
Why do you feel uneasy?
00:30:58.960 --> 00:31:04.400
First of all, if you know every time you come, he has to give up your room.
00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:07.039
At some point, I'd be like, please don't make him give up his room.
00:31:07.200 --> 00:31:07.359
Yeah.
00:31:07.519 --> 00:31:09.039
I know we've come to visit a lot.
00:31:09.200 --> 00:31:11.759
We are more than happy to sleep on the air mattress.
00:31:11.920 --> 00:31:18.799
If you broke out air mattresses some other times, then you can bring breakout air mattresses other times.
00:31:18.960 --> 00:31:24.240
If you're traveling that often, you would have your own air mattress knowing that somebody, you know, is giving up the room.
00:31:24.400 --> 00:31:24.960
You know what I'm saying?
00:31:25.039 --> 00:31:27.599
If I'm coming to your crib all the time, I'm bringing my own.
00:31:27.920 --> 00:31:30.640
Why can't sometimes they get a hotel room?
00:31:30.799 --> 00:31:32.880
Yeah, but they may they may live so far.
00:31:33.119 --> 00:31:34.240
This thing about you go to Tuscan.
00:31:34.400 --> 00:31:35.359
They come in so often.
00:31:35.680 --> 00:31:36.640
You go to Tuskegee.
00:31:36.799 --> 00:31:37.599
They come in so often.
00:31:37.839 --> 00:31:38.400
Think about this now.
00:31:38.480 --> 00:31:39.119
Tuskegee.
00:31:39.200 --> 00:31:40.160
I'm trying to be close to you.
00:31:40.400 --> 00:31:41.519
Oh, yeah.
00:31:42.960 --> 00:31:44.160
Where are you gonna stay?
00:31:44.640 --> 00:31:45.200
Where?
00:31:45.440 --> 00:31:46.559
Where are we staying?
00:31:46.720 --> 00:31:47.119
Hey.
00:31:47.359 --> 00:31:47.839
That is true.
00:31:48.000 --> 00:31:51.519
I just think none of them little moat tails.
00:31:51.920 --> 00:31:55.279
They also need to be considerate um of him.
00:31:55.440 --> 00:32:03.200
And like I get it with the because his brothers' ages, um, 16, 13, and 12.
00:32:03.440 --> 00:32:07.519
I mean, maybe he could have gone in the room with this with his 16-year-old brother.
00:32:07.839 --> 00:32:10.160
Maybe they could have, you know, been in a room.
00:32:10.880 --> 00:32:12.000
Somebody, somebody sharing.
00:32:12.160 --> 00:32:13.359
Yeah, something sharing.
00:32:13.680 --> 00:32:14.640
Something like that.
00:32:14.799 --> 00:32:16.960
Um, and then they got the 13 and 12-year-old.
00:32:17.200 --> 00:32:18.559
I just think there could have been something.
00:32:18.960 --> 00:32:19.839
There's some shifting going on.
00:32:20.880 --> 00:32:23.359
Shifting or something that could have been a bit different.
00:32:23.599 --> 00:32:25.200
Maybe he had a bedroom with a bathroom.
00:32:25.359 --> 00:32:28.319
And that was that was why the you know, the whole the full bathroom.
00:32:28.480 --> 00:32:32.160
So they was like, yo, you gotta, you know, your uncle Joe gotta stay in the bathroom.
00:32:32.400 --> 00:32:32.720
I get it.
00:32:32.960 --> 00:32:33.599
Uncle Joe got bad.
00:32:34.400 --> 00:32:41.519
Like for the boys, we were like, at some point, we were like, listen, yeah, they they need their own space.
00:32:41.680 --> 00:32:42.000
Correct.
00:32:42.160 --> 00:32:49.279
And personally, for me, I don't like for people to be all sleep on my sofa for days on end.
00:32:49.359 --> 00:32:51.680
And like, that's just uncomfortable.
00:32:51.839 --> 00:32:54.799
There's no privacy there, but then people, I don't know.
00:32:54.960 --> 00:33:02.079
I just don't want people sleeping and sweating and doing all the things on the sofa that everybody sits on to watch TV.
00:33:02.319 --> 00:33:03.839
You know the difference between us and the sofa?
00:33:04.160 --> 00:33:05.839
I just, I just don't, I don't know.
00:33:06.079 --> 00:33:11.759
If somebody's sleeping, you know, because when we have a big gathering and they have to, you know, because but it's never like for a long time.
00:33:11.920 --> 00:33:12.160
No.
00:33:12.319 --> 00:33:16.480
And they sleep, because we got one of them sofas that is to really get some good sleep.
00:33:17.359 --> 00:33:22.319
But what we what would we do if somebody, we know somebody had to sleep on a sofa.
00:33:22.400 --> 00:33:25.519
Even when people had to sleep in here, what do we do when we come get up in the morning?
00:33:25.680 --> 00:33:26.480
We're very quiet.
00:33:26.640 --> 00:33:27.279
Come on now.
00:33:27.440 --> 00:33:29.839
But when we gotta sleep on somebody else's sofa.
00:33:30.000 --> 00:33:31.279
Oh, ain't nobody quiet.
00:33:31.519 --> 00:33:31.759
Oh.
00:33:32.079 --> 00:33:33.519
Let me tell you how my parents.
00:33:33.759 --> 00:33:34.799
Oh, ooh.
00:33:35.279 --> 00:33:36.480
They so loud.
00:33:38.720 --> 00:33:39.599
They so loud.
00:33:39.839 --> 00:33:41.920
I love them though, but they so loud.
00:33:42.000 --> 00:33:42.799
They don't get up quiet.
00:33:43.039 --> 00:33:43.839
They don't get up quiet.
00:33:43.920 --> 00:33:44.720
You ain't getting no sleep.
00:33:44.960 --> 00:33:49.839
First of all, you're not even gonna be able to go to sleep because all the TVs are on in the house.
00:33:50.079 --> 00:33:51.039
Hey, what did I do?
00:33:51.119 --> 00:33:51.759
What did I do?
00:33:51.920 --> 00:33:53.279
Remember, I went down there that one time.
00:33:53.440 --> 00:33:54.880
They got the they just had the stereo on.
00:33:55.119 --> 00:33:59.519
I turned the T with the stereo, the when she had the big stereo by the window in the kitchen, by the dining room.
00:33:59.599 --> 00:34:00.559
I turned it off.
00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:01.599
What happened?
00:34:01.759 --> 00:34:02.799
She woke up.
00:34:03.759 --> 00:34:04.640
That's when she woke up.
00:34:04.799 --> 00:34:05.359
Turn it back on.
00:34:05.519 --> 00:34:06.160
And turn it back on.
00:34:06.319 --> 00:34:07.119
And I went back down there.
00:34:07.200 --> 00:34:09.039
I said, dang, I thought I thought I turned it off.
00:34:09.440 --> 00:34:13.360
Because it's not, it's not on, like, you know, just you know, how you got ambient music.
00:34:13.519 --> 00:34:13.840
Oh, no.
00:34:14.079 --> 00:34:16.880
It's on as if, oh yeah.
00:34:19.199 --> 00:34:20.239
No, that ain't what she listening to.
00:34:20.400 --> 00:34:21.840
No, but I'm saying that's how loud it sounds.
00:34:22.079 --> 00:34:22.960
What she listening to.
00:34:23.679 --> 00:34:26.400
I wanna know what turds you are.
00:34:29.119 --> 00:34:30.400
I like to know.
00:34:30.639 --> 00:34:31.519
I like to know.
00:34:31.760 --> 00:34:33.199
That's how loud it sounds.
00:34:33.519 --> 00:34:35.039
And we in there trying to sleep.
00:34:35.199 --> 00:34:35.599
Yes.
00:34:35.920 --> 00:34:38.639
That's downstairs, and she's upstairs in the room next to us.
00:34:38.800 --> 00:34:39.760
With the TV on.
00:34:39.920 --> 00:34:42.800
And then Paw Paul downstairs, he done fell asleep.
00:34:43.039 --> 00:34:43.599
TV on.
00:34:48.320 --> 00:34:49.199
Hunting on.
00:34:49.440 --> 00:34:51.199
Yep, yep, yep, yep.
00:34:53.679 --> 00:34:54.719
That's what we hear all that.
00:34:54.800 --> 00:34:56.960
He listened, he watches YouTube hunting videos.
00:34:57.360 --> 00:34:58.559
So we can't sleep it out.
00:34:58.800 --> 00:34:59.199
You can't.
00:34:59.360 --> 00:35:00.079
You can't sleep it out.
00:35:00.320 --> 00:35:00.960
You can't sleep it out.
00:35:01.039 --> 00:35:02.159
So then they got that on.
00:35:02.320 --> 00:35:04.320
Then they get they sleep good through it.
00:35:04.400 --> 00:35:04.639
Oh, yeah.
00:35:04.960 --> 00:35:05.519
They used to it.
00:35:05.679 --> 00:35:06.159
They gone.
00:35:06.320 --> 00:35:06.880
They gone.
00:35:06.960 --> 00:35:07.440
They sleep.
00:35:07.760 --> 00:35:09.119
Get up in the morning.
00:35:09.920 --> 00:35:11.360
They down there cooking.
00:35:11.519 --> 00:35:11.920
Ow.
00:35:12.480 --> 00:35:12.719
Ow.
00:35:13.199 --> 00:35:13.519
Ow.
00:35:17.440 --> 00:35:19.599
And they just going and they just talking.
00:35:19.679 --> 00:35:20.880
And they just so loud.
00:35:21.440 --> 00:35:26.639
And I remember when I was, I think I was in college.
00:35:27.519 --> 00:35:29.599
And they were just so loud.
00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:31.679
And I was just got so frustrated.
00:35:31.760 --> 00:35:33.360
And I opened up that door.
00:35:34.000 --> 00:35:37.360
And I said, some people in here trying to sleep.
00:35:37.599 --> 00:35:39.840
And I slammed the door back in my chair.
00:35:39.920 --> 00:35:42.639
I was like, oh, she'd have lost her goddamn mind.
00:35:44.079 --> 00:35:46.239
I said, who she talking to?
00:35:46.639 --> 00:35:48.480
But they do, but that's just them.
00:35:48.639 --> 00:35:50.960
It's just so, and so it's just so funny.
00:35:51.039 --> 00:35:52.800
Like, I was raised with that.
00:35:53.760 --> 00:35:58.480
But then when you live on your own and you're like, wait.
00:35:58.960 --> 00:36:00.079
It don't have to be like this.
00:36:00.320 --> 00:36:01.840
It don't have to be like this.
00:36:02.079 --> 00:36:10.719
Like, wow, going to sleep without the TV on, and it's just quiet, and you can wake up to the birds chirping.
00:36:11.519 --> 00:36:13.920
Oh, this feels so much calmer.
00:36:14.159 --> 00:36:14.400
Yeah.
00:36:14.559 --> 00:36:16.559
My mama says she'll come in.
00:36:17.119 --> 00:36:17.519
Oh, God.
00:36:17.840 --> 00:36:18.960
She'll knock on the door.
00:36:20.079 --> 00:36:20.559
Y'all sleep?
00:36:20.639 --> 00:36:22.000
I said, Mama Chris, sleep.
00:36:22.159 --> 00:36:23.840
Okay, well, I just wanted to ask her.
00:36:24.000 --> 00:36:25.199
I said, Mama, she sleep.
00:36:25.280 --> 00:36:26.719
Well, I just want Ma.
00:36:28.639 --> 00:36:28.960
Okay.
00:36:29.519 --> 00:36:30.239
And then she leaves.
00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:35.679
Now she's mad at me because I didn't want her to wake up my wife from sleep for something that she really didn't.
00:36:35.760 --> 00:36:37.760
Like, it could be like, what y'all want to do today?
00:36:37.840 --> 00:36:38.000
Yeah.
00:36:38.239 --> 00:36:39.360
Something that can wait.
00:36:39.440 --> 00:36:39.599
Yeah.
00:36:39.920 --> 00:36:47.760
Or she'll come down there and she'll try to open her the door to get something out of the closet that she really ain't going to wear.
00:36:47.840 --> 00:36:50.000
And I don't know what she just in there.
00:36:51.119 --> 00:36:52.800
And clanking everything in the closet.
00:36:53.119 --> 00:36:53.440
Clank it.
00:36:53.519 --> 00:36:53.760
Clank it.
00:36:54.159 --> 00:36:55.119
Clank it, clank it.
00:36:55.440 --> 00:36:58.079
And I be like, you really don't need nothing.
00:36:58.239 --> 00:37:03.440
But now that makes sense to me why you like to lock your doors.
00:37:03.679 --> 00:37:04.000
Yeah.
00:37:04.159 --> 00:37:05.519
I gotta have my privacy.
00:37:05.760 --> 00:37:06.239
Yes.
00:37:06.480 --> 00:37:07.280
Ah now.
00:37:07.599 --> 00:37:09.760
Come in and just be like, so this is what we're gonna do.
00:37:09.920 --> 00:37:13.199
No, you're gonna you're gonna knock at the door, and I'm gonna be acting like I'm asleep.
00:37:13.280 --> 00:37:14.000
Like I don't hear you.
00:37:14.159 --> 00:37:17.840
And you have to because even when she was here, it was in the morning.
00:37:17.920 --> 00:37:18.559
We was getting dressed.
00:37:18.639 --> 00:37:19.360
I was in the shower.
00:37:19.440 --> 00:37:22.880
You was sitting, you get dressed, and I'll I think I came out the shower next.
00:37:23.119 --> 00:37:24.960
And she knocked at our door, but we didn't answer.
00:37:25.280 --> 00:37:28.079
We were we were having, we were really talking, we talk all the time.
00:37:28.239 --> 00:37:33.360
Yeah we were really in a deep discussion about something, and we were just talking, talking.
00:37:33.440 --> 00:37:34.480
He said, I think that's mama.
00:37:34.719 --> 00:37:36.000
And she just walked on in.
00:37:36.159 --> 00:37:37.199
I said, Well, I'm naked.
00:37:37.440 --> 00:37:38.880
Oh, I know you was naked.
00:37:41.360 --> 00:37:42.239
Come on now.
00:37:42.639 --> 00:37:42.960
My house.
00:37:43.280 --> 00:37:43.760
Pay the bills.
00:37:45.440 --> 00:37:47.519
So I can see down, like, well, I locked the door.
00:37:47.679 --> 00:37:49.920
You must have gone and came back.
00:37:50.400 --> 00:37:51.599
You know, I locked the door all the time.
00:37:51.760 --> 00:37:52.880
I locked the door so much.
00:37:52.960 --> 00:37:54.960
Sometimes she'll be right behind me.
00:37:55.119 --> 00:37:56.239
And then I locked the door.
00:37:56.320 --> 00:37:57.760
She'd be like, why you locked the door?
00:37:57.840 --> 00:37:58.320
I said, My bad.
00:37:58.400 --> 00:37:58.960
It's a habit.
00:37:59.039 --> 00:37:59.599
It's a habit.
00:37:59.760 --> 00:38:01.760
I lock the doors all the time.
00:38:02.079 --> 00:38:02.719
The doors.
00:38:02.960 --> 00:38:03.679
All the doors.
00:38:03.840 --> 00:38:04.159
Yes.
00:38:04.400 --> 00:38:10.000
I'm just now getting to the point where I don't lock the garage door until late at night.
00:38:10.239 --> 00:38:10.400
Yeah.
00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:14.400
And but I'm so used to just locking it because if you come in, you should have a key.
00:38:14.559 --> 00:38:15.920
You know, but I just, yeah.
00:38:16.239 --> 00:38:17.519
That privacy is something.
00:38:17.760 --> 00:38:20.000
And I understand little man getting upset, man.
00:38:20.079 --> 00:38:20.559
You know what I mean?
00:38:21.199 --> 00:38:23.199
Um, and I, you know what?
00:38:23.519 --> 00:38:24.960
You did the right thing.
00:38:25.119 --> 00:38:25.360
Yep.
00:38:25.440 --> 00:38:28.000
I would have I would have done the same.
00:38:28.320 --> 00:38:29.679
I'd have moved out so quick too.
00:38:29.920 --> 00:38:30.559
Yes, I'm still.
00:38:30.719 --> 00:38:32.800
You paying rent, can't even enjoy the yeah.
00:38:33.519 --> 00:38:46.000
I mean, that's literally like if you were renting an apartment and the landlord came and said, Hey, I need you to uh move out your place for a couple days because I got somebody else that's gonna be staying in your place for a minute.
00:38:46.159 --> 00:38:47.760
No prorate on your on your amount.
00:38:47.920 --> 00:38:48.880
No, keep on paying.
00:38:49.039 --> 00:38:49.840
Just get on up out of here.
00:38:50.079 --> 00:38:51.280
Get on up out of here for a couple days.
00:38:52.159 --> 00:38:53.119
I got some guests coming in.
00:38:53.360 --> 00:38:54.880
Matter of fact, you can sleep in the laundry room.
00:38:55.199 --> 00:38:56.400
Yes, that's what you can do.
00:38:56.880 --> 00:38:58.480
Yeah, no, I don't think so.
00:38:58.719 --> 00:38:59.840
I do not think so.
00:39:00.159 --> 00:39:01.599
So, sweet pea.
00:39:02.559 --> 00:39:05.440
You are not the eyehole.
00:39:07.199 --> 00:39:14.159
All right, so let's go to our Believe It Sister of the Week.
00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:15.599
Now we had a few.
00:39:15.760 --> 00:39:17.360
We had two stories to choose from.
00:39:17.519 --> 00:39:17.840
Yeah.
00:39:18.079 --> 00:39:19.519
Which one are we actually gonna choose?
00:39:19.679 --> 00:39:20.159
It don't matter.
00:39:20.239 --> 00:39:21.679
We either short.
00:39:21.760 --> 00:39:22.960
I they're both a pretty short.
00:39:23.039 --> 00:39:23.519
That's okay.
00:39:23.599 --> 00:39:25.440
So you want to do two Believe It Sisters?
00:39:25.760 --> 00:39:27.119
Okay, let's do two.
00:39:27.519 --> 00:39:28.800
Believe it sister.
00:39:29.199 --> 00:39:30.000
Oh, how do you want to do it?
00:39:30.079 --> 00:39:30.639
Which gonna be two?
00:39:31.840 --> 00:39:32.239
Believe it.
00:39:32.400 --> 00:39:33.920
Leave it sister.
00:39:34.880 --> 00:39:35.440
All right.
00:39:35.679 --> 00:39:37.360
So the first one, you got it ready?
00:39:37.519 --> 00:39:38.000
Pulled up.
00:39:38.159 --> 00:39:41.679
I don't because you didn't tell me to, but I can find it real fast.
00:39:42.000 --> 00:39:44.800
Well, hey, I got some victory points in this episode.
00:39:44.880 --> 00:39:45.280
Don't I do that?
00:39:45.440 --> 00:39:45.840
You didn't tell me.
00:39:45.920 --> 00:39:46.320
You said it.
00:39:46.400 --> 00:39:47.599
It don't matter, but y'all know.
00:39:47.760 --> 00:39:48.239
Y'all know.
00:39:48.639 --> 00:39:50.639
Y'all can chime in anytime y'all want to.
00:39:50.960 --> 00:39:51.440
You know what I mean?
00:39:51.519 --> 00:39:53.840
Y'all can throw me one of them life rafts on the if you got an iPhone.
00:39:53.920 --> 00:39:54.880
I don't know if it's a little bit more.
00:39:55.039 --> 00:39:55.519
Okay, got it.
00:39:56.000 --> 00:39:56.320
I'm ready.
00:39:56.639 --> 00:40:00.000
Put a life raft in the comments if you throwing me some help.
00:40:00.320 --> 00:40:00.639
All right.
00:40:01.360 --> 00:40:02.159
Believe it, sister.
00:40:02.239 --> 00:40:03.039
Guess what, guys?
00:40:03.840 --> 00:40:06.800
There was a woman in South Carolina restaurant.
00:40:06.960 --> 00:40:07.360
Come on out.
00:40:07.599 --> 00:40:11.679
She was just sitting there, child, just finishing her eating her meal.
00:40:12.320 --> 00:40:25.039
And all of a sudden, she was struck in the head and the neck by a flying patio umbrella.
00:40:25.920 --> 00:40:33.679
Authorities were called to the Driftwood Grill in Somerton around seven around 7 40 p.m.
00:40:34.400 --> 00:40:41.760
and found the woman identified as Dana Winger, unresponsive with a laceration wound.
00:40:42.079 --> 00:40:46.159
The Clarendon County Coroner's Office said in a statement.
00:40:46.480 --> 00:40:55.519
Winger and her husband were eating at the restaurant when a gust of wind blew the umbrella from a table.
00:40:55.679 --> 00:40:59.440
The umbrella hit her in the head and the neck area.
00:41:00.239 --> 00:41:06.480
The case is being investigated as an accident, and an autopsy is scheduled for Wednesday.
00:41:06.639 --> 00:41:14.800
The Driftwood Grill said Monday in a statement on Facebook that there was a sudden severe weather event in the area Friday night.
00:41:15.039 --> 00:41:20.800
And they said this has deeply affected many people in our community, including guests, staff, first responders, and everyone involved.
00:41:21.119 --> 00:41:21.760
Stabbed them.
00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:29.440
Out of the respect of the family and those impacted, we asked for continued prayers, compassion, and privacy during this incredibly difficult time.
00:41:29.840 --> 00:41:34.400
So imagine you're outside having eating food outside.
00:41:34.480 --> 00:41:36.079
They probably have to listen out.
00:41:36.639 --> 00:41:37.280
Ooh, a little storm.
00:41:37.679 --> 00:41:38.800
It's windy out here.
00:41:38.960 --> 00:41:42.400
But some people okay, I'm gonna keep going because the lady has lost her life.
00:41:42.719 --> 00:41:46.719
But sometimes you gotta really look and say, whoo this wind is really.
00:41:47.119 --> 00:41:48.239
I might need to get inside.
00:41:48.480 --> 00:41:50.559
I might need to get inside.
00:41:50.880 --> 00:41:52.880
And that gust of wind came.
00:41:53.039 --> 00:41:57.039
So when they say her head and neck, I wonder what happened.
00:41:57.119 --> 00:41:58.800
How do you think it killed her?
00:41:59.119 --> 00:42:02.159
So it blew off one table.
00:42:02.400 --> 00:42:02.800
Yeah.
00:42:03.039 --> 00:42:07.519
It probably, or it could have just bent and said, like on fatal, what's it not fatal attraction?
00:42:07.679 --> 00:42:08.079
What's that thing?
00:42:08.159 --> 00:42:09.519
That show called with all the deaths before.
00:42:09.760 --> 00:42:10.400
It said laceration.
00:42:10.480 --> 00:42:11.760
When they say laceration, that means it could have.
00:42:12.880 --> 00:42:13.280
Whoa!
00:42:13.519 --> 00:42:14.239
What's that show called?
00:42:14.320 --> 00:42:16.559
That movie came with all those crazy deaths.
00:42:16.880 --> 00:42:18.079
How traumatic.
00:42:18.320 --> 00:42:19.199
What's that movie called?
00:42:19.360 --> 00:42:20.719
Total recall, no.
00:42:21.039 --> 00:42:22.559
Um, total destination.
00:42:22.719 --> 00:42:22.960
No.
00:42:23.199 --> 00:42:23.920
Final destination.
00:42:24.079 --> 00:42:24.719
Final destination.
00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:25.679
There you go.
00:42:26.079 --> 00:42:26.960
Total recall.
00:42:27.039 --> 00:42:27.440
That's honest.
00:42:27.519 --> 00:42:27.920
What's that?
00:42:28.159 --> 00:42:29.519
Okay, well, I was just blowing them out.
00:42:29.599 --> 00:42:30.559
That's how you get ideas.
00:42:30.719 --> 00:42:30.960
Yeah.
00:42:31.599 --> 00:42:38.159
So yeah, I mean, but I understand because you know, you see videos when uh umbrellas like blow off tables and they float around.
00:42:38.480 --> 00:42:41.039
Y'all need to find that little girl.
00:42:42.000 --> 00:42:42.639
What you think?
00:42:42.719 --> 00:42:43.519
How you say her name?
00:42:44.239 --> 00:42:44.800
Chanias?
00:42:45.119 --> 00:42:46.320
Yeah, that's what's going on.
00:42:46.480 --> 00:42:48.239
We keep getting this Chanias is missing.
00:42:48.559 --> 00:42:49.360
She's a little runaway.
00:42:49.440 --> 00:42:56.639
So if y'all see this, she's uh 11 years old, light skinned black female, short brown afro, afro with a bonnet on.
00:42:56.960 --> 00:42:59.039
Four nine, and she got a pink bonnet on.
00:42:59.119 --> 00:43:00.079
How they know she got an afro?
00:43:00.239 --> 00:43:00.880
She got a pink bonnet.
00:43:01.199 --> 00:43:02.159
But the parents told her.
00:43:02.239 --> 00:43:02.559
Oh yeah.
00:43:03.039 --> 00:43:10.159
Blue shorts with ducks on it, and mismatched black and white socks, possible cream color backpack.
00:43:10.400 --> 00:43:12.639
And she is in the Pauldon County area.
00:43:12.880 --> 00:43:13.440
Real talk.
00:43:13.599 --> 00:43:14.880
Somebody called 911.
00:43:15.280 --> 00:43:19.199
And y'all know, y'all say, we say, because oftentimes they don't look for us.
00:43:19.360 --> 00:43:19.679
Yeah.
00:43:19.840 --> 00:43:23.280
And somebody's actually looking for this um young lady.
00:43:23.360 --> 00:43:27.840
So if y'all see, we this is our time to take care of this baby.
00:43:28.079 --> 00:43:30.480
So they looking for her, so let's help.
00:43:30.639 --> 00:43:30.960
All right.
00:43:31.119 --> 00:43:32.880
By the time y'all see it, might be.
00:43:33.199 --> 00:43:34.159
See, this is live.
00:43:34.239 --> 00:43:35.360
This is refreshingly normal.
00:43:36.000 --> 00:43:37.360
This is normal, normal.
00:43:37.519 --> 00:43:38.239
We normal.
00:43:38.480 --> 00:43:38.880
Anywho.
00:43:39.119 --> 00:43:40.559
That's what happened when you're normal.
00:43:40.719 --> 00:43:45.840
So that can you imagine though, being at the restaurant and that you think that.
00:43:45.920 --> 00:43:46.320
Just seeing it.
00:43:46.559 --> 00:43:48.079
Oh man, that's so traumatic.
00:43:48.320 --> 00:43:50.239
You'd be scared to not even go out to eat.
00:43:50.480 --> 00:43:52.639
I wouldn't be that's better than old Zimbabwe.
00:43:52.719 --> 00:43:53.440
Oh my what?
00:43:53.760 --> 00:43:54.639
Oh, child.
00:43:58.239 --> 00:43:59.519
That's for people that eat out all the time.
00:44:00.159 --> 00:44:00.960
The next believers.
00:44:02.960 --> 00:44:03.360
Alright.
00:44:03.519 --> 00:44:08.239
This one here is uh I don't know what the believer sister is about that, but believe it.
00:44:08.719 --> 00:44:10.079
She died from an umbrella.
00:44:10.320 --> 00:44:11.039
Umbrella killed her.
00:44:11.199 --> 00:44:11.840
That's believable.
00:44:12.239 --> 00:44:15.039
The only umbrella I known to kill people was the one from the penguin off bad.
00:44:15.280 --> 00:44:19.519
That is totally a final destination freak accident sort of thing.
00:44:19.840 --> 00:44:23.280
Which, where they say life, what do they say?
00:44:23.440 --> 00:44:28.320
Life is is the word thing.
00:44:29.599 --> 00:44:31.519
Life is fragile, but that's not what I was thinking about.
00:44:31.679 --> 00:44:32.000
Oh, yeah.
00:44:32.559 --> 00:44:32.960
But it is.
00:44:33.039 --> 00:44:38.000
So that I mean, just the idea of appreciating everybody every day.
00:44:40.079 --> 00:44:42.800
La, la, fly.
00:44:43.039 --> 00:44:45.920
I was gonna, I don't, I was gonna say, is it flight?
00:44:46.079 --> 00:44:46.639
No, that's wrong.
00:44:47.199 --> 00:44:47.760
Don't worry about it.
00:44:47.920 --> 00:44:49.039
I don't wanna say the wrong thing.
00:44:49.199 --> 00:44:50.960
I can't figure out the phrase I was trying to say.
00:44:51.360 --> 00:44:52.000
Life be life.
00:44:52.400 --> 00:44:52.880
Life does.
00:44:53.599 --> 00:44:59.360
But it just kind of shows to appreciate you know the people in your life because you never know.
00:44:59.519 --> 00:45:12.639
Like who would ever say, how do you, you know, think that that their death would be an umbrella from an outdoor restaurant line up, slicing your neck.
00:45:12.880 --> 00:45:15.840
Slicing your neck, that that would be your cause of death.
00:45:16.079 --> 00:45:18.159
Like, who would ever imagine that?
00:45:18.320 --> 00:45:21.440
Like, I would never Yeah, you couldn't write that script.
00:45:21.599 --> 00:45:22.320
You couldn't even write that.
00:45:22.400 --> 00:45:24.400
That's just unless you're writing a horror movie.
00:45:24.480 --> 00:45:25.119
You know what I'm saying?
00:45:25.199 --> 00:45:25.360
Yeah.
00:45:25.840 --> 00:45:28.000
Or yeah, that that's just really crazy.
00:45:28.239 --> 00:45:30.960
And speaking of something you couldn't write, what couldn't you write?
00:45:31.199 --> 00:45:31.840
This story here.
00:45:32.079 --> 00:45:33.039
There's another one.
00:45:33.519 --> 00:45:40.000
So the story is called Police Respond to Gunfire at a convenience store.
00:45:41.039 --> 00:45:42.320
That's all I'm gonna say.
00:45:42.880 --> 00:45:45.920
After this person was shot with a shotgun.
00:45:46.639 --> 00:45:47.920
So they come in there ready.
00:45:48.159 --> 00:45:48.960
How did they even do it?
00:45:49.199 --> 00:45:50.159
They come in there ready.
00:45:50.239 --> 00:46:02.480
So in Scotts Bluff, Nebraska, the Scotts Bluff Police Department was called to a convenience store on Saturday after a dog accidentally shot a person with a shotgun.
00:46:02.960 --> 00:46:06.079
A dog, four-legged dog, old dirty dog.
00:46:06.320 --> 00:46:07.280
Oh dirty dog.
00:46:07.679 --> 00:46:13.679
Officers were called to a shortstop at 202th Avenue after receiving What's a short stop?
00:46:13.840 --> 00:46:15.440
It's like a gas station little thing.
00:46:15.599 --> 00:46:16.400
Like convenience store.
00:46:17.840 --> 00:46:19.199
Who calls something a short stop?
00:46:19.360 --> 00:46:19.840
What do people say?
00:46:19.920 --> 00:46:21.440
Oh, think about country for where you going?
00:46:21.599 --> 00:46:23.519
I'm finna make a little short stop right here and get something.
00:46:24.239 --> 00:46:24.639
You know what I mean?
00:46:24.719 --> 00:46:25.440
I'm gonna pick this up.
00:46:25.599 --> 00:46:27.599
Here we go, back a little short stop, get some.
00:46:27.840 --> 00:46:29.199
Here we go back to Foley Light.
00:46:29.280 --> 00:46:42.400
Yeah, because yeah, I keep forgetting in Wichita, y'all don't do y'all just hear Hey little house on prairie, y'all got any more milk and eggs for us?
00:46:42.719 --> 00:46:44.639
That's y'all convenience store.
00:46:44.960 --> 00:46:52.079
All right, so anyway, so they made after this receiving a report that a person has been shot by a gun.
00:46:52.239 --> 00:46:55.920
So while on the way, they were informed that the incident involved a shotgun.
00:46:56.079 --> 00:46:59.679
Upon arrival, officers found a truck with an attached camper.
00:46:59.920 --> 00:47:03.920
The passenger side door panel of the vehicle had been had taken damage.
00:47:04.000 --> 00:47:09.360
So when it shot, the shotgun blast blew the uh side door panel off.
00:47:10.000 --> 00:47:18.639
All right, according to the Scotts Bluff police, the owner of the truck had pulled into the convenience store while the passenger was standing near the front passenger side door.
00:47:18.800 --> 00:47:23.760
A dog in the back seat moved from one side of the vehicle to the other.
00:47:24.079 --> 00:47:29.360
The dog triggered a shotgun that had a live shell in the chamber.
00:47:29.519 --> 00:47:30.960
Oh, it should be against the law.
00:47:31.199 --> 00:47:33.679
The firearm to discharge in some places.
00:47:34.079 --> 00:47:35.280
Maybe not, maybe not there.
00:47:35.599 --> 00:47:37.039
Why was there a gun in the chamber?
00:47:37.280 --> 00:47:38.639
Hey, in the country, that's how you travel.
00:47:38.719 --> 00:47:42.079
You gotta be ready to shoot that thing, that that raccoon coming across the road.
00:47:42.159 --> 00:47:43.360
Oh gotta get it.
00:47:43.519 --> 00:47:44.639
That's dinner.
00:47:45.199 --> 00:47:46.400
That's supper.
00:47:47.840 --> 00:47:58.480
At the same time, I mean, at the time of the gunfire, um, a woman was stopped at the traffic light on Aven, on the edge road, with her arm resting out the window.
00:47:58.800 --> 00:48:03.840
One um actual Yeah, so she she was just somebody, a passenger.
00:48:03.920 --> 00:48:05.360
I mean, uh innocent bystander.
00:48:06.320 --> 00:48:07.920
Yeah, she just chilling, had her arm out the window.
00:48:08.000 --> 00:48:09.519
You know how people hold their arm out the window?
00:48:10.159 --> 00:48:13.760
And one of the uh buckshots hit her in the arm.
00:48:14.639 --> 00:48:17.679
Yeah, her injury was not believed to be life-threatening or anything.
00:48:17.920 --> 00:48:18.719
It's just a buckshot.
00:48:18.880 --> 00:48:22.880
Yeah, and a family member transported her to the uh hospital for treatment.
00:48:23.039 --> 00:48:31.039
So they still investigating the matter and whether or not to uh charge the dog with uh aggravated assault.
00:48:31.440 --> 00:48:33.840
She could have pulled out herself.
00:48:34.159 --> 00:48:36.239
Yeah, sometimes you can, but that'd be on TV.
00:48:36.320 --> 00:48:36.800
You see that.
00:48:36.960 --> 00:48:38.400
Pull dig up in there and pull it out.
00:48:38.480 --> 00:48:39.440
Depends on how deep it is.
00:48:39.840 --> 00:48:41.280
You would have pulled it out yourself.
00:48:41.599 --> 00:48:42.079
Lies.
00:48:42.480 --> 00:48:43.039
Exactly.
00:48:43.280 --> 00:48:46.320
So those are our two stories of the day.
00:48:46.559 --> 00:48:48.880
Um What did you learn from these two stories?
00:48:49.039 --> 00:48:52.719
I learned one, I learned that when when you see the weather getting bad, get up out of there.
00:48:52.800 --> 00:48:55.840
Don't be sent to, ooh, it's I hey, I'm okay.
00:48:55.920 --> 00:48:57.199
No, get up out of there.
00:48:57.920 --> 00:48:58.239
All right.
00:48:58.400 --> 00:49:02.239
And the other thing is, one, don't have a loaded gun in the car.
00:49:02.800 --> 00:49:04.639
Especially that shotgun when you got dogs.
00:49:04.800 --> 00:49:08.559
If it's not secure, it wasn't even secure because the dog was all around it.
00:49:08.719 --> 00:49:09.039
No.
00:49:09.280 --> 00:49:17.840
I understand now because some people could probably have a you know, a pistol, they have it loaded just in case, you know, somebody comes, boom, they ain't got time to, oh, let me get my clip, put it in and chit-chick, you know.
00:49:18.079 --> 00:49:23.679
But it should have been somewhere where somebody could touch or step on it or oh, Rufus was back there.
00:49:23.840 --> 00:49:24.079
Yeah.
00:49:24.320 --> 00:49:30.480
Saying, you know, oh, so you you talk about you, you gonna take my nuts so that I can't hump no other dogs.
00:49:30.719 --> 00:49:31.760
I got something for you.
00:49:33.039 --> 00:49:33.920
Shot in the arm.
00:49:34.800 --> 00:49:35.679
That's what he did.
00:49:35.920 --> 00:49:37.519
So it was the lady in their car?
00:49:37.679 --> 00:49:43.679
Yeah, those that shot the passenger, shot the lady, the owner, and shot the when it went through, it shot the other lady.
00:49:44.079 --> 00:49:45.599
Oh, damn.
00:49:45.840 --> 00:49:47.039
Yeah, he got two of them.
00:49:47.199 --> 00:49:47.599
He did.
00:49:48.079 --> 00:49:49.039
He got two of them.
00:49:49.280 --> 00:49:49.599
Uh-huh.
00:49:50.079 --> 00:49:50.960
Lord, having buried.
00:49:51.119 --> 00:49:53.440
He's and and then it was two ladies.
00:49:53.679 --> 00:49:55.199
Because he said he tried to make a point.
00:49:55.280 --> 00:49:57.199
He said, How does hot lead feel?
00:49:57.440 --> 00:50:00.400
I don't know, because I can't use hot lead no more.
00:50:00.559 --> 00:50:03.519
The women that I'm messing with can't feel hot lead.
00:50:03.679 --> 00:50:04.800
That's what he was saying.
00:50:05.039 --> 00:50:06.559
So that's what's hot lead?
00:50:06.800 --> 00:50:08.559
Hot lead, what he called that thing.
00:50:08.800 --> 00:50:09.840
Oh my god.
00:50:10.159 --> 00:50:12.320
That's what they call that little dog thing.
00:50:13.199 --> 00:50:16.000
Hey, Sparky, where's that hot lead?
00:50:17.199 --> 00:50:17.920
But he ain't got it.
00:50:18.000 --> 00:50:19.840
So he said, I'm gonna get his hot lead to deal.
00:50:20.079 --> 00:50:22.400
And he gave it to him in the arm.
00:50:23.519 --> 00:50:24.320
Both of them.
00:50:24.480 --> 00:50:24.960
Mm-hmm.
00:50:26.159 --> 00:50:26.719
Yep.
00:50:27.360 --> 00:50:28.159
I'll say.
00:50:28.320 --> 00:50:29.199
Because he was mad.
00:50:29.360 --> 00:50:30.639
You know, dogs like to hunch.
00:50:30.800 --> 00:50:32.320
You ever been hunched by a dog?
00:50:32.559 --> 00:50:33.039
Yes.
00:50:33.280 --> 00:50:36.800
See, they that's the as a kid, that's the most embarrassing thing.
00:50:36.880 --> 00:50:38.159
It's so embarrassing.
00:50:38.880 --> 00:50:41.599
And if he's somebody else's dog, you be wanting to kick them across the room.
00:50:41.760 --> 00:50:42.079
Plenty of dog.
00:50:42.239 --> 00:50:47.920
But it's somebody else's dog, so you be trying to be nice, and they won't even come get their little stanky dogs.
00:50:48.000 --> 00:50:49.519
They be like, oh yeah, you bet.
00:50:50.639 --> 00:50:51.599
That ain't funny.
00:50:51.920 --> 00:50:54.239
Nobody wants your dog hunching on their leg.
00:50:54.639 --> 00:50:57.920
Plenty of fights in my neighborhood started because somebody dog was punching them.
00:50:58.480 --> 00:51:03.119
I remember that one time we said that boy in my neighborhood said he had sex with a dog.
00:51:03.360 --> 00:51:03.679
What?
00:51:03.840 --> 00:51:04.079
Yeah.
00:51:04.239 --> 00:51:05.599
Oh, because the dog was hunching his leg?
00:51:05.840 --> 00:51:07.119
No, we because the dog had.
00:51:07.519 --> 00:51:09.280
No, I don't even want to hear this story.
00:51:11.119 --> 00:51:12.800
The boy had a big head, right?
00:51:12.960 --> 00:51:15.440
And so his dog had puppies.
00:51:15.599 --> 00:51:19.519
And the puppies' heads were like they were not normal.
00:51:19.760 --> 00:51:22.559
And so some of them had to be, well, we didn't put them to sleep.
00:51:22.639 --> 00:51:23.519
They just probably just died.
00:51:23.599 --> 00:51:25.039
But they had real big heads.
00:51:25.199 --> 00:51:27.039
And so it's like, oh, he slept with that.
00:51:27.280 --> 00:51:28.000
Well, he didn't say, sleep.
00:51:28.159 --> 00:51:28.960
He f that dog.
00:51:29.039 --> 00:51:31.440
That's why the dog heads, the baby big.
00:51:31.599 --> 00:51:34.159
And everybody, the whole neighborhood went over that.
00:51:34.480 --> 00:51:35.440
So that was a lie.
00:51:35.599 --> 00:51:38.079
The whole neighborhood went over there to see the dog's heads.
00:51:38.159 --> 00:51:40.559
And everybody was like, oh yeah, he did.
00:51:40.639 --> 00:51:41.599
You know how little kids are.
00:51:41.760 --> 00:51:43.360
Once somebody said it, everybody rolled with it.
00:51:43.679 --> 00:51:44.159
Poor baby.
00:51:44.400 --> 00:51:45.760
So for a minute, he was known as the.
00:51:46.159 --> 00:51:48.239
Did you spread that lie with everybody?
00:51:48.559 --> 00:51:49.119
No, look.
00:51:49.440 --> 00:51:50.079
Did I go?
00:51:50.159 --> 00:51:51.440
I think I did go over there.
00:51:51.599 --> 00:51:52.800
And I said, oh wow.
00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:54.880
Hey, hey.
00:51:55.440 --> 00:51:56.079
You know?
00:51:56.639 --> 00:51:57.519
Oh no.
00:51:57.840 --> 00:51:58.559
That's terrible.
00:51:58.880 --> 00:52:06.000
But we thought he, we thought he had beastality going on because the dog, when she had her puppies, the heads were big.
00:52:06.079 --> 00:52:07.440
And he had a real big head.
00:52:07.599 --> 00:52:07.920
Oh no.
00:52:08.159 --> 00:52:08.400
Too.
00:52:08.639 --> 00:52:10.239
So you know, um, yeah.
00:52:10.400 --> 00:52:11.519
And that's what the story.
00:52:11.760 --> 00:52:13.840
Everybody in my neighborhood, y'all know what I'm talking about.
00:52:13.920 --> 00:52:24.159
That dude that had, they said he impregnated that dog, and then dog had babies.
00:52:24.239 --> 00:52:25.519
And then it was his kids.
00:52:25.760 --> 00:52:27.760
He probably never was able to live that day.
00:52:27.920 --> 00:52:28.960
How does he feel today?
00:52:29.840 --> 00:52:32.320
Oh, they had that that family had a lot of other stuff going on.
00:52:32.400 --> 00:52:33.840
Oh, so it wasn't just that.
00:52:34.559 --> 00:52:36.079
They had a lot of stuff going on.
00:52:36.480 --> 00:52:37.519
In my neighborhood, boys.
00:52:37.760 --> 00:52:38.960
We got stories for days.
00:52:39.199 --> 00:52:39.440
Let me.
00:52:39.679 --> 00:52:46.719
We had this family in our neighborhood, and they came over and they was talking about um the sister had got laid.
00:52:47.440 --> 00:52:50.400
And so I was, I didn't know what laid meant.
00:52:51.840 --> 00:52:55.119
And then I told my mom, I said, Yeah, they came over here talking about this.
00:52:55.199 --> 00:52:56.400
Such and such got laid.
00:52:57.519 --> 00:53:00.480
So my mom said, She did what?
00:53:00.960 --> 00:53:03.760
And I was like, Well, what's wrong with the word laid?
00:53:04.320 --> 00:53:05.840
Who talked who said that?
00:53:06.000 --> 00:53:06.719
Who was the word?
00:53:07.039 --> 00:53:09.280
And then finally, it's like I got older.
00:53:10.000 --> 00:53:11.119
You started learning what laid mean.
00:53:11.360 --> 00:53:12.239
What laid meant.
00:53:12.320 --> 00:53:17.920
And I was like, oh, I didn't know I was saying that, but yeah, she got laid.
00:53:18.239 --> 00:53:20.639
I thought, oh Lord, I didn't even know what that meant.
00:53:20.880 --> 00:53:24.559
I remember one time, it's about me.
00:53:24.880 --> 00:53:25.360
Oh Lord.
00:53:25.599 --> 00:53:27.039
Me and one of my close friends.
00:53:27.199 --> 00:53:27.599
Yes.
00:53:27.840 --> 00:53:31.039
My older brother, these idiots.
00:53:31.199 --> 00:53:32.559
Well, I guess we the idiots.
00:53:32.719 --> 00:53:32.880
Okay.
00:53:33.119 --> 00:53:33.760
But we were young.
00:53:33.840 --> 00:53:33.920
Yeah.
00:53:34.159 --> 00:53:34.480
We didn't know.
00:53:34.559 --> 00:53:38.559
You do you listen to your older brothers and older cousins are gold.
00:53:38.719 --> 00:53:38.960
Yeah.
00:53:39.199 --> 00:53:40.880
You know, they teach you about manhood.
00:53:40.960 --> 00:53:43.599
They let you see your first porno magazine.
00:53:44.000 --> 00:53:46.400
You know, you play boy, and let me show you this.
00:53:46.559 --> 00:53:47.039
Watch this.
00:53:47.199 --> 00:53:49.840
And you like, oh my God, come here and listen to this.
00:53:49.920 --> 00:53:53.199
And you in the hallway listen to them make out with their girl.
00:53:53.519 --> 00:53:57.039
And you were like, oh, that's amazing, you know, as a little kid.
00:53:57.199 --> 00:54:11.599
They told us in order to make our little manhood grow, we had to go in the cornfield and you put dig a hole and put the corn, you pull the corn shucks in the hole, and you had to put your thing in there and hunch it.
00:54:11.679 --> 00:54:13.920
And it's something in the corn shucks.
00:54:14.079 --> 00:54:16.800
That's why corn grows and it's so hard.
00:54:16.960 --> 00:54:19.440
If you do that, your thing will grow hard.
00:54:19.519 --> 00:54:22.719
And how about me and my friend actually did that?
00:54:22.960 --> 00:54:23.840
Oh my god.
00:54:24.000 --> 00:54:25.039
But we had no idea.
00:54:25.119 --> 00:54:29.119
And we said, man, we're gonna, them thing gonna be hard like that corn.
00:54:33.280 --> 00:54:35.679
I can't believe you said that out loud.
00:54:35.920 --> 00:54:38.320
Hey, look, it's a lot of stuff.
00:54:38.400 --> 00:54:40.079
I ain't look, I'm not extending.
00:54:40.320 --> 00:54:41.760
Look, you need to write a funny story.
00:54:41.920 --> 00:54:42.239
I'm telling you.
00:54:42.559 --> 00:54:43.360
You can write a sitcom.
00:54:43.679 --> 00:54:46.320
It's so much that happened in our life that my brother.
00:54:47.039 --> 00:54:48.000
We could write a sitcom.
00:54:48.559 --> 00:54:51.360
So look, that's just one of the things that my brother made us do.
00:54:51.679 --> 00:54:52.800
You call your sitcom.
00:54:53.039 --> 00:54:53.840
I don't know.
00:54:54.079 --> 00:55:02.000
Look, but but my my older brother and his friends told us, and we did that, and uh we was just knowing.
00:55:02.079 --> 00:55:03.119
And then you be checking.
00:55:03.199 --> 00:55:05.039
Yep, I think it got in let the next morning.
00:55:05.280 --> 00:55:05.679
What about you?
00:55:05.920 --> 00:55:07.760
Because you know you wake up well, guys wake up in the morning.
00:55:07.840 --> 00:55:08.239
Oh my god.
00:55:08.320 --> 00:55:11.920
You wake up in the morning, and you, but you had a we used to have a little ruler we used to measure.
00:55:12.000 --> 00:55:12.400
Oh my god.
00:55:12.480 --> 00:55:13.679
Yeah, I think it did get long.
00:55:13.760 --> 00:55:15.920
Mine got like a little extra centimeter longer.
00:55:16.079 --> 00:55:17.920
So if we keep doing this, it's gonna get long.
00:55:18.159 --> 00:55:20.000
So y'all kept on doing it.
00:55:23.360 --> 00:55:24.159
Oh my gosh.
00:55:24.239 --> 00:55:26.719
And I bet cursing them and just laughing at y'all.
00:55:28.000 --> 00:55:28.480
Oh my god.
00:55:29.599 --> 00:55:32.960
I think like after a week, they was like, man, we know we we've tricked y'all.
00:55:33.119 --> 00:55:33.440
What?
00:55:33.519 --> 00:55:34.800
And you know, here we go.
00:55:34.960 --> 00:55:35.440
Woo!
00:55:35.920 --> 00:55:37.199
Trying to fight them mad.
00:55:37.280 --> 00:55:41.840
And you know, that's when they used to put their hands like this, and you couldn't even fight them, you know, because they was bigger and stronger.
00:55:42.079 --> 00:55:43.360
Yeah, that's my brother used to do that too.
00:55:43.760 --> 00:55:49.760
And so, but yep, being my homeboy, you know, to save the name, because I got a lot of homeboys to save the piece.
00:55:49.840 --> 00:55:51.119
I ain't gonna say what homeboy.
00:55:51.199 --> 00:55:51.760
But he knows who it is.
00:55:52.639 --> 00:55:53.840
You talk to your homeboy.
00:55:54.000 --> 00:55:56.800
Oh, I'm gonna tell my speak my truth.
00:55:56.880 --> 00:56:00.239
Look, that was that was uh hilarious.
00:56:00.400 --> 00:56:00.800
Oh my god.
00:56:00.880 --> 00:56:05.679
And as I got older, like, and when I got old, I was like, man, I can't believe them fools, man.
00:56:05.840 --> 00:56:08.159
You know, you know, they told us to do that, we did that.
00:56:08.320 --> 00:56:11.920
But it was stuff like that happening when we grew up.
00:56:12.159 --> 00:56:15.039
Like they would tell kids to do this, tell us to do that.
00:56:15.199 --> 00:56:20.639
And we did it because we trusted our older siblings and cousins and stuff, man.
00:56:20.719 --> 00:56:23.599
Because but they would, it wouldn't be nothing that would take your life.
00:56:24.000 --> 00:56:28.000
You sometimes I think somebody obviously probably did them that way, so maybe you're gonna be able to do that.
00:56:28.159 --> 00:56:28.320
Of course.
00:56:29.599 --> 00:56:30.079
Of course.
00:56:30.239 --> 00:56:35.840
I'm telling you, because you think about it, you know, with Kurtz, you had Vince and our other older cousins, you know.
00:56:36.159 --> 00:56:37.920
And they probably couldn't wait to get somebody else.
00:56:38.159 --> 00:56:42.559
And think about it, there's nothing else to do in the country but creative stuff like that.
00:56:42.719 --> 00:56:43.360
You know what I mean?
00:56:43.760 --> 00:56:49.119
There's like that's why all our stories are so crazy because there was nothing else for us to do.
00:56:49.360 --> 00:56:56.239
All of my injuries are so funny because it's like it was me climbing trees, dropping out of trees, and doing all kinds of craziness.
00:56:56.559 --> 00:56:57.440
You know what I'm saying?
00:56:57.599 --> 00:57:02.960
So, yeah, that was one that that story there is for the uh yeah, it's for the books there.
00:57:03.199 --> 00:57:03.840
For the books.
00:57:04.079 --> 00:57:06.960
Definitely gonna be, it's gonna be in my um chapter book.
00:57:07.119 --> 00:57:07.760
Okay, chapter.
00:57:08.079 --> 00:57:08.800
That will come out.
00:57:08.880 --> 00:57:11.039
Um, I would say, what's this, 26?
00:57:11.280 --> 00:57:11.840
Yeah.
00:57:12.079 --> 00:57:12.800
28.
00:57:13.280 --> 00:57:14.639
It comes out 28.
00:57:15.440 --> 00:57:15.920
Yeah.
00:57:16.559 --> 00:57:19.760
So um, side eye of the week.
00:57:20.079 --> 00:57:22.320
That could be a side eye if I was back then.
00:57:22.719 --> 00:57:24.159
I had a side eye.
00:57:24.559 --> 00:57:25.280
Yeah, you thought about it.
00:57:25.360 --> 00:57:26.880
You said, oh, I know it's gonna be sort of a little bit.
00:57:27.199 --> 00:57:30.960
And it was something that happened either Sunday or Monday.
00:57:31.679 --> 00:57:34.239
Was it something we ate that was terrible?
00:57:34.559 --> 00:57:36.000
Where did we eat?
00:57:36.639 --> 00:57:37.599
Sunday.
00:57:37.840 --> 00:57:41.280
Sunday we did with with uh Noli.
00:57:41.920 --> 00:57:43.519
So that was okay.
00:57:43.920 --> 00:57:45.039
Yeah, that was good.
00:57:45.199 --> 00:57:46.880
Um and then Monday.
00:57:47.199 --> 00:57:48.719
Did we do anything Monday?
00:57:48.960 --> 00:57:55.119
No, Monday you you um, yeah, Monday we didn't because you made um the lamb chops for dinner and everything.
00:57:55.599 --> 00:57:57.280
Okay, that was Monday, yeah.
00:57:57.840 --> 00:57:59.519
Um I don't know.
00:57:59.840 --> 00:58:03.280
I know, I just really can't think of what it is.
00:58:03.599 --> 00:58:07.199
So, what would my side eye of the week be?
00:58:07.519 --> 00:58:17.920
Um, I would say my side eye of the week was probably and I probably shared this already once before, but it it uh came up again in the gym.
00:58:18.639 --> 00:58:26.719
Um there was somebody in there with uh very bad, very, very bad odor.
00:58:27.679 --> 00:58:30.719
I mean very bad odor, but it was the clothes.
00:58:30.800 --> 00:58:32.639
You know how the clothes smell real spoil?
00:58:33.440 --> 00:58:35.760
And it got to the point where I was like, I'm smelling myself.
00:58:36.079 --> 00:58:37.760
I'm like, Oh, yeah, it ain't me.
00:58:37.920 --> 00:58:40.639
And then I saw other people doing that, like smelling themselves.
00:58:40.880 --> 00:58:46.960
And so, and I was like, we looked at each other, we said, we was like, because it ain't me, it ain't me.
00:58:47.199 --> 00:58:55.039
And so, and then the guy came back around and we was like, and he looked at me and I looked at him, and he and so I was like, we knew like that's who it was.
00:58:55.440 --> 00:59:01.519
Um, and and the thing about it, it wouldn't be so bad if he didn't have an arrogant attitude, like while he was doing the weights and stuff.
00:59:01.599 --> 00:59:03.760
He's like, you know, just being trying to be arrogant at first.
00:59:04.000 --> 00:59:05.119
Yeah, just doing all this and stuff.
00:59:05.280 --> 00:59:08.320
And so I was like, bro, you just you flexing, all right.
00:59:08.480 --> 00:59:09.599
Yeah, you ripped.
00:59:09.760 --> 00:59:12.239
You need to take them clothes and rip them up.
00:59:12.400 --> 00:59:17.039
But you know, so that was one, and and then um I do, I know what it is.
00:59:17.360 --> 00:59:19.519
And and he he went into the sauna.
00:59:19.679 --> 00:59:20.480
I was just getting ready to go.
00:59:20.719 --> 00:59:23.039
No, we did not take his little funky self and nobody's sauna.
00:59:23.199 --> 00:59:26.800
I was getting ready because I as soon as I finished working out, I always wash my hands.
00:59:27.119 --> 00:59:30.960
And then I he walked past me and I was getting ready to go in the song.
00:59:31.039 --> 00:59:32.159
I saw him growing up.
00:59:32.239 --> 00:59:33.440
I said, ooh, all right, time to go.
00:59:33.599 --> 00:59:34.000
I left.
00:59:34.159 --> 00:59:34.719
Oh, yeah.
00:59:34.880 --> 00:59:36.239
I said, nope, not me.
00:59:36.320 --> 00:59:37.119
I'm not going in there.
00:59:37.280 --> 00:59:43.519
So that was my side eye of the week for was for uh stinky people in the gym acting as if they don't stink.
00:59:43.840 --> 00:59:48.400
Okay, I do know who my side eye is, and it really is for Ray J.
00:59:49.039 --> 00:59:59.280
Why did Ray J take his little not in shape heart conditioned self in that ring to get knocked out?
00:59:59.360 --> 01:00:01.039
Why Ray J do that?
01:00:02.000 --> 01:00:04.559
I had to side eye on him because he needs it.
01:00:06.000 --> 01:00:09.360
It had to be some uh some money that came along with him.
01:00:09.519 --> 01:00:11.840
He said he he trained for one week.
01:00:12.239 --> 01:00:14.239
And Ray J's out of train because he's been sick.
01:00:14.400 --> 01:00:15.119
He's been sick, yeah.
01:00:15.280 --> 01:00:16.000
Because he's been sick.
01:00:16.159 --> 01:00:18.800
Up and his mama was so upset with him.
01:00:18.960 --> 01:00:20.000
I think Ray James.
01:00:21.519 --> 01:00:22.159
He got some.
01:00:22.239 --> 01:00:26.159
I think maybe some of the drugs he took um starting to take effect on him.
01:00:27.039 --> 01:00:29.440
Oh my gosh, he is losing it.
01:00:29.599 --> 01:00:32.880
And and he doesn't see, he doesn't listen to anybody.
01:00:33.039 --> 01:00:33.360
Nah.
01:00:33.519 --> 01:00:34.400
He's gonna do his thing.
01:00:34.800 --> 01:00:35.920
He's gonna do his thing.
01:00:36.079 --> 01:00:37.199
He's not gonna listen to anybody.
01:00:37.360 --> 01:00:41.679
Chris Brown told him, don't go in there and get yourself knocked out, and he's showing up dead.
01:00:41.840 --> 01:00:43.280
And everybody laughing now, too.
01:00:43.360 --> 01:00:44.880
Oh, everybody laughing at him.
01:00:45.039 --> 01:00:45.920
Just, oh, Paul.
01:00:46.480 --> 01:00:48.400
He fell into the little ropes and everything.
01:00:48.639 --> 01:00:50.000
That big old knot on his head.
01:00:50.239 --> 01:00:51.679
Oh, poor Ray J.
01:00:52.400 --> 01:00:56.079
And I and I know knowing Ray J, he'll probably get in there again to prove a point.
01:00:56.400 --> 01:00:59.679
He needs to fight somebody uh both of them was out of shape.
01:00:59.840 --> 01:01:01.599
He need to fight Shamar, somebody like that.
01:01:01.840 --> 01:01:03.039
No, Shamar can be like Shamar.
01:01:03.199 --> 01:01:03.760
Shamar can fight.
01:01:03.840 --> 01:01:05.199
Yeah, Shamar be windmilling too.
01:01:05.440 --> 01:01:06.559
Wow, Shamar can fight.
01:01:06.719 --> 01:01:12.000
Because Shamar, the reason why Shamar can fight is like, cause you know, a boxers you gotta move.
01:01:12.159 --> 01:01:21.679
And if you try to, if you try to like do a kidney blow, Shamar, he just do it one extra, and then that his back already bent, and you try to kidney punch him, that back even more.
01:01:21.760 --> 01:01:22.400
You're gonna miss.
01:01:22.559 --> 01:01:23.280
You gonna miss.
01:01:23.440 --> 01:01:24.960
Yeah, so that's one thing about Shamar.
01:01:25.920 --> 01:01:28.000
You can't really get no good body blows on him.
01:01:28.719 --> 01:01:30.239
You can't, not for Shamar.
01:01:30.719 --> 01:01:38.079
Yeah, and Shamar seeing when he cross-eyed, he he already sees like two spots he can hit you at with being cross-side.
01:01:38.480 --> 01:01:40.639
Big Marco, I'm not gonna talk about you like that.
01:01:40.800 --> 01:01:41.519
I like Shamar.
01:01:41.679 --> 01:01:42.320
You know what I'm saying?
01:01:42.400 --> 01:01:44.239
But I am not gonna deny the truth.
01:01:44.400 --> 01:01:44.719
Okay.
01:01:45.360 --> 01:01:48.480
You know, I'm just saying that's his, that's that's his uh advantage.
01:01:48.960 --> 01:01:49.199
Interesting.
01:01:49.519 --> 01:01:50.079
How do you think?
01:01:50.239 --> 01:01:55.440
I wonder people that are cross-side, how the how the how their vision is.
01:01:55.679 --> 01:01:58.320
I know when I cross my eyes, I see two things.
01:01:58.480 --> 01:02:00.480
So I'm sure they probably see two things too.
01:02:01.280 --> 01:02:02.000
They probably do.
01:02:02.159 --> 01:02:04.800
Unless somebody that's cross-side want to speak up, go ahead.
01:02:04.880 --> 01:02:06.320
I don't, you know, don't mind.
01:02:07.039 --> 01:02:08.480
But how do they know what's different?
01:02:08.559 --> 01:02:10.079
Because they've only seen that way.
01:02:10.320 --> 01:02:12.079
But they know it ain't two people.
01:02:12.320 --> 01:02:15.199
They know they got one mama and they sitting in at home.
01:02:16.000 --> 01:02:17.039
They see two mamas.
01:02:17.599 --> 01:02:19.360
You know, you only came out one of them things.
01:02:19.599 --> 01:02:20.559
Oh my god.
01:02:20.960 --> 01:02:25.599
You know, Lord, Lord, so they know they know there's a problem.
01:02:26.000 --> 01:02:27.840
Lord, anyways.
01:02:31.920 --> 01:02:33.039
You would hope so.
01:02:33.280 --> 01:02:34.960
All right, what are you grateful for?
01:02:35.199 --> 01:02:36.800
Grateful I ain't cross-eyed.
01:02:37.039 --> 01:02:37.760
Oh no.
01:02:38.000 --> 01:02:42.239
Because you know, you better be quiet because you know if you sneeze and they hit you on the back.
01:02:44.639 --> 01:02:46.000
You're gonna be stuck like that.
01:02:46.639 --> 01:02:47.599
Oh my god.
01:02:47.760 --> 01:02:49.599
So uh, what are you grateful for?
01:02:49.920 --> 01:03:01.840
I am grateful that summer is approaching in uh Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and four more days.
01:03:02.159 --> 01:03:06.800
Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, yeah.
01:03:08.400 --> 01:03:10.320
Yeah, so I'm looking forward to that.
01:03:10.480 --> 01:03:14.079
Although, you know, I'm not going on vacation quite yet.
01:03:15.280 --> 01:03:21.920
But um, I get to go and help my mama after her surgery, and so, but even it's gonna be amazing.
01:03:22.239 --> 01:03:26.079
Even amazing, still they got to get on me.
01:03:26.400 --> 01:03:27.119
Y'all gonna say I'm crazy.
01:03:28.159 --> 01:03:29.360
Y'all gonna say I'm crazy.
01:03:29.519 --> 01:03:32.000
But they but I do have a summer schedule.
01:03:32.400 --> 01:03:35.199
Um, we all are gonna adhere to the summer schedule.
01:03:35.519 --> 01:03:35.840
Get them.
01:03:36.320 --> 01:03:38.960
Um, so for three weeks, get them.
01:03:39.440 --> 01:03:40.639
I'm in charge.
01:03:40.960 --> 01:03:41.920
Three weeks.
01:03:42.480 --> 01:03:43.920
It's real sergeant.
01:03:44.079 --> 01:03:44.800
It's me.
01:03:45.280 --> 01:03:46.079
I'm in charge.
01:03:46.239 --> 01:03:47.039
Ella May.
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Come on.
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Curtis Cat Daddy.
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Come on.
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Y'all need to know.
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That's right.
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I'm in charge.
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Y'all got us to listen.
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The big kahuna right there.
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Right here.
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Yes, ma'am.
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Just know it.
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Anyways, I'm looking forward to summer approaching and taking myself on the cans to take care of my peoples.
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All right.
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I'm grateful, of course, for the opportunity.
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It's looked over with the interview and the um the job offer that I accepted.
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Um I am so grateful for that.
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Um, no need to say anything else, but I'm grateful that I have grateful what I wanted.
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Thank you, Lord.
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All right.
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What are you looking forward to?
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And you know what song I was listening to?
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Grateful grave.
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Um deliver me.
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It's hurt me.
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Yeah, I listened to that.
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Leandria, you you caught you brought me through.
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And you should have, because I taught your children.
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Your children.
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They was they was good to me.
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Um I love them kids.
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Yeah.
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I'm looking forward to not having to get up at 5 a.m.
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for six weeks.
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Yeah.
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So I look forward not to getting up at 5 a.m.
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for six weeks.
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That'll be my reset, rejuvenate.
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Um, so yeah, I'm looking forward to that.
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Not getting up at 5 a.m.
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And you know what too?
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I was thinking I said, you know, when you're taking care of your mom and stuff, y'all are really gonna have some bonding time y'all haven't had in a while.
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If she don't be acting crazy.
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But you just put on a movie and tell her to watch this movie.
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Because you know your mom, she's I don't do that.
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But as soon as she does something, ooh, that was pretty good.
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You know what I mean?
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Yeah.
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So you're gonna be able to, okay, you're gonna sit down and watch this movie with me.
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Because you're gonna catch up on a lot of shows.
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I know you are.
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And it's gonna be you're gonna kind of open her eyes to some different things.
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And it's just, I think in in this time in our lives, the connection.
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Between the parents is good.
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You know what I'm saying?
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So um, and your mom.
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I'm gonna take a bell and tell her.
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She your mom is is uh she'll have some restraint at the beginning, but after a while she she settles.
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Yeah.
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She ain't got no choice.
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My folks different.
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They they if they don't if they don't know they're gonna fight to the end.
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Yeah, so it's they should they shut it down.
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You know what I'm saying?
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And um, and you know me, I'm I'm I'm like, all right then, cool.
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Well, you don't know.
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Three weeks of you, they might you might get them.
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If you had three consecutive weeks with them.
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I probably could.
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You could.
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In my yeah, when they when they actually had to rely on me.
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That ain't gonna happen.
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But if you had three weeks and they had to rely on me.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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You could.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Yeah.
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Oh, if I know I could.
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Yeah.
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I know I could, yeah.
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But a weekend, yeah, I definitely could.
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Weekend ain't gonna do it.
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Yeah.
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So, all right.
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So um it's time to go.
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It's been a great episode.
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This is episode 45.
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40.
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45.
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45.
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Yeah.
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45.
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Um, we gotta figure out what we're gonna do.
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How we're gonna record when you're gone.
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I know.
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We're gonna be zooming.
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You're gonna record Zoom?
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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I'm gonna hook it up on the script and I just I'll be in Kansas, but I'll still be seeing some of my clients.
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Some are taking a break while I'm away.
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Yeah.
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And then some want because some don't want to do Zoom.
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You're gonna have to log in.
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So I'll be I'll be logging in for some sessions, and then um I can log in for you.
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Yeah, might take your little that little microphone you couldn't return back that you were mad at.
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So mad.
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Uh and so take that and hook it up to your computer, or your phone is gonna be the best bet.
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So we'll figure it out.
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We'll figure it out.
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But we're gonna make sure we do what we do.
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You know what I'm saying?
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Do what we do so that we stay consistent because consistency is key.
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Is key.
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Fluff.
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That's right.
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So, ladies and gentlemen, thank you so much for rocking with us.
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Gracias.
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Um, we hope that y'all have a safe summer.
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Be safe out there.
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You act like we ain't gonna see him the rest of the summer.
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No, I'm just saying to start it off.
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Some of them, some of them may not lock in with us.
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Okay, because they got different things that they do.
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You know, some people they roll with us on Mondays to work.
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Okay.
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Some people that educate us, they're not, you know, so it's like everything's different for them now.
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Okay, you know what I'm saying?
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Um, so we asked you to be safe this summer.
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Be safe.
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Um, do not go to Lake Lanier.
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Don't.
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Um, do not get in the Chattahoochee, got E.
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coli in there.
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Oh gosh, y'all saw those dead fish?
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Yeah.
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And um just love on each other a little more than than usual.
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Communicate a little more than usual.
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Check in a little more than usual.
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And um check yourself a little more than usual.
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Check in on think that it's everybody else in the world.
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Yeah.
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You know, really check yourself and say, am I um responding well in this scenario or situation?
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Or am I well enough myself to be putting in so much effort and care into somebody else?
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Am I neglecting myself in order to care for others?
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Because it's like the air, the airplane thing, you gotta put on your oxygen mask before you can pour it.
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Before you can put it on someone else.
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Yep, do that.
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That's right.
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You gotta do that.
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Pour into yourself before you can pour into others.
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That's right.
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Can't pour from an empty cup.
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No, you can't.
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From an empty cup.
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No, you can't.
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And when the cup is empty, you can't get no more wine.
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Oh.
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Then you won't be feeling good.
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It says you cannot pour from an empty cup, so I need to fill the cup so that I can pour it.
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So you can pour more.
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See how I am?
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I'm consistent.
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So, ladies and gentlemen, thank you again for rocking with us.
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We would love to see you uh every week.
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Hopefully, we've given you what you were looking for: some laughter, some entertainment, some knowledge, and just something refreshingly normal.
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I am Keflo.
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I'm free.
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And we are out.
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Peace.
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The Refreshingly Normal Podcast.