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[SPEAKER_05]: I get happier about the harder it is because I know that no one else will follow.
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[SPEAKER_22]: It's a selection effect.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And I think if you can shift from this is hard to no one else will be able to do this, then it flips from being this thing that you're like, oh poor me, to oh poor everyone else who's going to have to try.
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[SPEAKER_20]: Listen, every day when you get out of bed, life's down right there to kick you in the face, man.
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[SPEAKER_20]: And you have to be ready for it and you got to deal with it.
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[SPEAKER_20]: Can't curl up a new ball, you can't run away from it, you can't hide, you have to take all this shit head on.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You've got to work harder, you've got to commit more responsibility, you've got to deal with more ups and downs.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And if we can deal with that question, how much you want it to suffer?
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[SPEAKER_01]: I work with gold medal champions and they suffer every day.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They work enormously hard.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They sacrifice enormous things in those who get in that success.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You might think that life is unfair.
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[SPEAKER_02]: The life dealt you a bad hand, but I'm here to tell you life will give you exactly what you tolerate.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And if you've been tolerating mediocrity, you've been tolerating average.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You've been tolerating this victim mentality that you're caring.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't deserve to be that man.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But I can still do the things that can create it.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And that also means that I have to go through the circumstances that that would create that man.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Which means that if I have unbelievable big dreams and big goals then I have to go through hard times.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like hate, the hard times are a requisite for success.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And so if you're going through hard times right now, it means that you're on the path to success and it's not that you're on the wrong path, it's the feeling of being on the right path.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can believe you're not worthy of a thing and still attain it.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can be adamant that your efforts are going to go badly and still succeed.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can grip and grasp and fear and it ruin the enjoyment and be totally unwarranted and things still go well.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can have no self-belief and show up anyway.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can want more for yourself without knowing exactly what that looks like.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can doubt the process, question your talent, be uncertain that you're making progress, disparage your accomplishments, permanently feel like you're not working hard enough no matter how hard you work, never give yourself a break, fail to fully feel gratitude, be terrified of never reaching your goals.
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[SPEAKER_22]: and still end up in a place that a twenty-year-old self could not imagine you'd ever get to.
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[SPEAKER_05]: If you're going through that right now and like I promise you, every single person who wants to do something with their life and has done something with their life has gone through the exact chapter that you're going through and it's the lonely chapter.
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[SPEAKER_05]: is the chapter where you don't fit in with your own friends, but you don't have the outcomes yet to fit into a new group of friends.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And you're doing this thing, you're consuming content on the internet, you're doing these fruit tutorials online to try and figure out how to set up a podcast and what do I host this thing and then you're going through this and you're like, is this even worth it because you have no signs of success, right?
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[SPEAKER_05]: But if there's anything that you can take away from what we're saying right now, is that the sign of success is the hate that you get along the way.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And what you can't do is bend the knee to their heat and fit back into the conformity because it's comfortable and it's warm because like in the Matrix, when Trinity opens the door, when Neos about to go take the red pill and he wants to get out of the car, she says, Neo, you've been down that road and you know exactly where it leads and I know that's not where you want to be.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And then he closes the door.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like right now, this moment that you're going through is Trinity opening the door and being like, you could go back.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But then you'd have to remember exactly what the reason was that you decided not to go out to begin with, just because you listen to this podcast and you consume this constantly like I can.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You're more than this.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Ninety-nine percent of people in the world are convinced that they're incapable of achieving great things so they aim for the mediocre.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The level of competition is thus fiercest for realistic goals, paradoxically making them the most time and energy consuming.
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[SPEAKER_22]: If you are insecure, guess what?
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[SPEAKER_22]: The rest of the world is too.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You are better than you think.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I became the most obsessed person on the planet Earth, after invent a guy that didn't exist.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Had to invent a guy that can take any pain, any suffering, any kind of judgment, had to build this callous mind, and I built it through suffering.
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[SPEAKER_07]: You keep going to the next level.
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[SPEAKER_07]: You suck at the next level.
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[SPEAKER_07]: You're not doing anything at the next level.
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[SPEAKER_07]: So here's what that example is.
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[SPEAKER_07]: Here's a human being.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They've reached here.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They're beating most people.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They think they've reached it.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They have no idea that there's that level there because there's fear.
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[SPEAKER_07]: People that tell you, oh my gosh, you're so amazing, you're so this, you're so great, wow Patrick, wow Johnny, wow Steve, wow Bobby, oh, you believe it, but you're not there yet, because you have a richer capacity yet.
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[SPEAKER_17]: The only true test of intelligence is if you get what you want out of life.
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[SPEAKER_17]: And there are two parts to that.
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[SPEAKER_17]: One is getting what you want.
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[SPEAKER_17]: So you know how to get it.
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[SPEAKER_17]: And the second is wanting the right things, knowing what to want in the first place.
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[SPEAKER_16]: There is no backpack to grow that thing.
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[SPEAKER_16]: How do you grow it?
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[SPEAKER_16]: Do it, and do it, and do it.
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[SPEAKER_16]: That's the hack.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I'm a winner.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I'm going to win.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It will be more difficult.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It will require more effort on your part.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But you know what I can tell you about that?
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[SPEAKER_02]: When you do the hard things, you will have a happy and easy life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But if you constantly choose to take the path of easy and negotiate and compromise, you will have a hard life.
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[SPEAKER_19]: This body is great as you are, and sharp as you make the arsenal.
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[SPEAKER_19]: It can't do anything.
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[SPEAKER_19]: If you don't confidence in yourself, we all fall down in light.
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[SPEAKER_19]: The question is, who gets back up?
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[SPEAKER_07]: People want the flame, but they don't want to touch the fire.
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[SPEAKER_16]: You have to want it.
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[SPEAKER_16]: You have to want to be better.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And it starts off with you have to have pride in yourselves.
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[SPEAKER_23]: understand that you want it bad so you're willing to put in a work and do things you don't want to do.
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[SPEAKER_23]: It's what makes you have that confidence that you know how to push through and the the mentality that I'm the type of dude to get shit done.
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[SPEAKER_14]: Failure is a wonderful teacher.
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[SPEAKER_14]: It's the only way to learn.
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[SPEAKER_14]: You have to fail.
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[SPEAKER_13]: Failure is a part of the process to become successful.
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[SPEAKER_13]: The bird lands on the branch.
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[SPEAKER_13]: Does the bird trust the branch or does it trust his wings?
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[SPEAKER_13]: In the clue, I've seen many birds land on branches, but what I've never seen is a branch break in the bird fall and I trust your wings.
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[SPEAKER_23]: If you get out of high school, you don't want to do, and then you start playing video games and you're on social media.
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[SPEAKER_23]: A day can slip by like that.
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[SPEAKER_23]: A day becomes a week, becomes a month, becomes a year before you know it, you're a thirties.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Yeah, right.
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[SPEAKER_23]: You have to be sure.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I decision was to be the best person I could.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And I basically, a lot more as I wake up and say, feelings.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And that doesn't mean like, you know, don't take it literally feelings, but sometimes you have to go beyond what you're feeling.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And my knees were, but guess what, I wanted to run.
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[SPEAKER_09]: There's ten thousand times more going on inside the head of a man than you have any idea.
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[SPEAKER_09]: He's carrying burdens that you don't have a clue about.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And he don't know how to express him.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And he don't know what to do about it.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And he figures if he puts it out there and communicates it, he's just going to be shot down, call it a fool, call it a week.
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[SPEAKER_09]: So he carries inside and you have no clue.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The burdens and the hell that most men are carrying inside and not even showing you.
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[SPEAKER_09]: I wish more women understood that.
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[SPEAKER_04]: My father could have been a great comedian, but he didn't believe that that was possible for him.
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[SPEAKER_04]: And so he made a conservative choice.
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[SPEAKER_04]: Instead, he got a safe job as an accountant.
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[SPEAKER_04]: And when I was twelve years old,
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[SPEAKER_04]: He was let go from that safe job, and our family had to do whatever we could to survive.
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[SPEAKER_04]: I learned many great lessons from my father, not the least of which, was that you can fail at what you don't want.
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[SPEAKER_04]: So you might as well take a chance on doing what you love.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I guess what happened that long clock goes off before I am.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's training.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I want to be a seal today, but I don't want to be whatever today.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I start tomorrow.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And that's the usual pattern of people's lives.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Until you really want to do something, you always give me a talker.
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[SPEAKER_09]: You won't find confidence in yourself if you're so busy trying to figure out what everybody around you thinks you want to be and then match that because
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[SPEAKER_09]: You're not gonna make people around you happy.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Instead of spending time getting in the mood to work, just start working, confront the work.
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[SPEAKER_22]: People think they need perfect conditions to start when in reality, starting is the perfect condition.
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[SPEAKER_02]: People who don't have a sense of purpose, a mission, and don't have a consistent routine, end up digging holes in their life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And it's not always viking in or some drug addiction.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It could come as something benign as, porn, gambling, over drinking, too much television, things that slowly chip away at humanity, things that people use to escape, vaping,
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[SPEAKER_02]: Thank you watching television.
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[SPEAKER_02]: All of these things are digging holes in your life that ultimately you look back and you realize there's such a chasm between you and your spouse that you and your kids barely know each other.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Even though you live on the same roof that you've got this dad bod with a pot belly and pointy titties and pear-shaped.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And you're like, well, where does come from?
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[SPEAKER_02]: It was the absence of purpose, and it was absence of routine.
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[SPEAKER_02]: We needed, otherwise humans dig their, the holes in their lives too, no different than a German Shepherd would.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The emotionally immature man seeks out motivation to do something hard one time.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The emotionally mature man uses discipline to do something hot a thousand times.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Have emotional maturity you realize that some days are not going to sleep well.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Some days are going to wake up and you've got your schedule and everything's planned out and the poop hits the fan.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Got to eat those shit sandwiches, right?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And whether things go well or not that day, the emotionally mature man will still do what he has to do to stack his winds.
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[SPEAKER_02]: to focus on his purpose.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Where is the emotionally immature man?
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[SPEAKER_02]: We'll say, well, I didn't sleep well.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I had nightmares while staying bed.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I didn't sleep well.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Or it's raining outside.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It's cold outside.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't feel good.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I just woke up in the airplanes hit the World Trade Center.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So I guess I have to change my pattern of life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You have to stay the course no matter what.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And it takes a high level of emotional maturity because you're emotions.
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[SPEAKER_21]: dictate your motion.
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[SPEAKER_21]: This next generation is coming up and I don't mean to smash all of them, but they seem like a bunch of pussy's to me, you know?
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[SPEAKER_21]: So, because of that, there's never been more opportunity than there is right now.
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[SPEAKER_21]: If you're a savage and you get out there and you grind hard and you want it bad enough, you can run all these guys overman.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You can have what you want in five years.
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[SPEAKER_11]: But there's two conditions.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You have to know what it is.
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[SPEAKER_11]: and you have to aim up.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay, so let's say you're willing to play that game.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Might be wrong, because who knows you're gonna get run over by a bus tomorrow, but you know, you're gonna play the game.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay, now the next step is, all right, figure out what you want.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Write it down.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Figure out what you could do to start moving towards that.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay, do that with your family relationships.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do that with your friendships.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do that with your career.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do that with your education.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Think about your misuse of alcohol and drugs and other things that might drag you down.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You have to discipline yourself.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And the issue is, well, how?
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[SPEAKER_11]: That's not really the relevant question.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You can pick a disciplinary path.
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[SPEAKER_11]: It's why I often tell my clients, especially young people, they say, well, I don't know what to do.
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[SPEAKER_11]: It's like, that's okay.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Nobody does.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Go do something.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do the best thing that you can think of.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Put the best plan you have into practice.
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[SPEAKER_11]: It's not going to be perfect.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And it will change along the way.
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[SPEAKER_11]: But it will change partly because you become disciplined pursuing the path.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And as you become disciplined, you become wiser.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And as you become wiser, you become able to formulate better and better plans.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who never failed.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who never failed has no glory.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who failed and got back up.
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[SPEAKER_09]: That's where his glory is.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who failed twenty times.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And got up twenty one times.
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[SPEAKER_09]: That man has even greater glory.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Wow.
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[SPEAKER_09]: That man has more courage.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Way more cursed than the guy who was so strong from birth that he never failed.
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[SPEAKER_09]: There's no glory in that.
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[SPEAKER_03]: What most people do is they back away from adversity.
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[SPEAKER_03]: But he want to see if you're a brave person.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Wait, when things go completely to pieces.
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[SPEAKER_03]: When things are the worst, when you're very best deal falls apart and your rent is late and you're tired and you're sick and everybody is mad at you and your car doesn't work.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Then it's the person that picks themselves up and says nothing is going to stop me.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Thoughts aren't true.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Feelings don't require actions.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Things aren't good about they just are.
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[SPEAKER_22]: How great a enemy is ignorance.
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[SPEAKER_22]: To change your life, change your surroundings.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Our actions, not our pasts, define who we are.
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[SPEAKER_05]: I think what makes life more difficult for people is the judgment they have on themselves about what they believe they're supposed to do or supposed to have achieved.
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[SPEAKER_15]: If you believe it, if you really believe that you could be something, if you have that little voice in your head saying, hey, you got talent, you could do this.
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[SPEAKER_15]: Then follow that voice.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Life isn't fair.
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[SPEAKER_16]: We have to understand that.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It shouldn't be fair.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's a trial ground.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's a testing ground.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's built to make us harder.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's built to make us as strong as we can to test us to drive us.
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[SPEAKER_16]: So, mentality is the only thing that gets us through life.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I was an underdog.
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[SPEAKER_16]: We are all underdogs in life.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Even the best person to worse to think that way.
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[SPEAKER_16]: She always have our never-rived mentality.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Isn't that where you come from the sewer or wherever you think you're from?
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[SPEAKER_16]: Nothing should be able to hurt you.
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[SPEAKER_16]: If you believe that, it's ours to become true.
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[SPEAKER_14]: Why would you not go for it?
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[SPEAKER_14]: Why would you not take a chance at one point in time?
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[SPEAKER_14]: You got to take a chance on you?
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's the what if I can pull off a miracle.
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[SPEAKER_16]: What if I can become someone that no one thinks I can be?
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[SPEAKER_10]: There's no losing, only learning.
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[SPEAKER_10]: There's no failure, only opportunities, and there's no problems, only solutions.
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[SPEAKER_10]: So to me what failure is, failure is the mother of all success.
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[SPEAKER_10]: If it wasn't for Michael Jordan getting cut from his ninth grade basketball team, he wouldn't have became Michael Jordan.
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[SPEAKER_10]: I seen an article there today where they were talking about Oprah Winfrey and how she got fired, because she wasn't good for television.
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[SPEAKER_10]: While Disney, who got fired, if I'm not mistaken, from a newspaper saying he had no imagination.
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[SPEAKER_10]: You gotta take those losses.
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[SPEAKER_10]: You gotta take those hits.
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[SPEAKER_10]: It's gotta be the values, the peaks, the ups, the downs.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Once you change, one thing, your mindset.
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[SPEAKER_18]: You can attack everything.
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[SPEAKER_18]: Don't be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking.
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[SPEAKER_18]: Don't let the noise of others' opinions drowned out your own inner voice.
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[SPEAKER_18]: And most important have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
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[SPEAKER_18]: They somehow already know what you truly want to become.
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[SPEAKER_18]: Everything else is secondary.
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[SPEAKER_06]: Being a winner is a curse.
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[SPEAKER_06]: It doesn't matter how much you've won before.
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[SPEAKER_06]: You're not a winner.
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[SPEAKER_06]: And two win again.
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[SPEAKER_06]: And again, and again.
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[SPEAKER_06]: Nothing is enough.
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[SPEAKER_06]: No one understands.
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[SPEAKER_06]: and you never wanted to stop.
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[SPEAKER_12]: If you want to be good, you really don't have a lot of choices.
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[SPEAKER_12]: Because it takes what it takes.
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[SPEAKER_12]: You have to do what you have to do to be successful.
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[SPEAKER_12]: So you have to make the choices and decisions to
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[SPEAKER_00]: have the discipline and the focus to the process of what you need to do to accomplish your goals.
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[SPEAKER_05]: I think a hopeful message that anyone who's in that hard period or in that start period is that it won't get harder.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like this is the hardest part.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And so if you can just make it through this, everything else is downhill.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It's not that the things that the dragons are gonna slay are gonna get bigger.
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[SPEAKER_05]: They are, but you become so much more equipped to slay them back.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And you have so many more allies.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You have people in the stands cheering for you.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You have the audience.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You have all of these other things that are behind you.
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[SPEAKER_03]: If you decide to go for the goal in your life, you're going to get knocked down over and over and over and over again.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Every single week, you're going to have heartaches and disappointments and frustrations and setbacks and obstacles.
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[SPEAKER_03]: But without those obstacles, no success is possible.
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[SPEAKER_15]: You cannot change your life unless you change something.
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[SPEAKER_15]: If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got.
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[SPEAKER_15]: No matter what it is, many times you say to yourself, I gotta lose weight, I gotta lose weight, I'm too fat.
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[SPEAKER_15]: And then you know what?
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[SPEAKER_15]: During the day you eat, you eat at night, and the next day you get married to yourself.
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[SPEAKER_15]: Well, what do you want?
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[SPEAKER_15]: What do you want?
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[SPEAKER_15]: You got to change something.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I had big dreams.
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[SPEAKER_16]: A lot of us have big dreams, big goals.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And when you have goals that are maybe outside your reach, you have to know that getting to that goal.
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[SPEAKER_16]: You can have a lot of bad days.
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[SPEAKER_16]: A lot of setbacks.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The biggest risk to your future isn't your competition.
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[SPEAKER_22]: It's the distractions you insist on keeping in your life rather than doing the things you know you should be doing but aren't.
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[SPEAKER_22]: People delay doing things they don't like for longer than it takes to do them.
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[SPEAKER_05]: The world belongs to optimists.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Because if you're going to do anything big you have to believe that it can happen.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Otherwise it never will.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Ninety-nine percent right in a hundred percent wrong.
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[SPEAKER_05]: So like they're right ninety-nine percent of the time.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But they're wrong a hundred percent because the only thing that matters is the big one at the end.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like your family and friends will say that every girl that you ever date is not good enough.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Except for the one time you find the girl that you're actually going to marry.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And then it doesn't matter, or like this won't last, or like this business idea.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It's not going to work.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And you might have nine failures.
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[SPEAKER_05]: My first nine businesses didn't really amount to anything.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Nine.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Nine has in the first one spent time in failed.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Second one, this one will be different.
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[SPEAKER_05]: failed.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Third one, this one, this is the one and then seven, six more after that.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It's painful as shit because the whole time everyone is telling you I told you so and they're right.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Today.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But not for it.
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[SPEAKER_03]: If you're not falling your face over and over again, if you're not trembling when you go to sleep with your heart pounding, if then what is happening is you're not trying hard enough.
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[SPEAKER_03]: You're living too far within your potential that all really successful people live on the outside edge of what they're capable of.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And it's always a little bit scary on the outside edge because we all have feelings of uncertainty.
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[SPEAKER_03]: We all have fears.
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[SPEAKER_03]: We all have doubts that hold us back.
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[SPEAKER_03]: but the brave person is simply the person who moves forward and keeps taking the chance.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And you can not imagine a successful person without courage.
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[SPEAKER_03]: You can not imagine a successful person without the courage to face and confront their fears and to move forward.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You always have to be the person who roots for you before I learn all this stuff.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And it's usually a single clap in the auditorium for a very long period of time.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It is a slow clap that's just you rooting for you.
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[SPEAKER_05]: People struggle to do things alone.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And the path of the exceptional person is one of an exception, which means that you are not with other people.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And rather than fighting that or bemoaning it, see it as an indicator that you're on the right path, because if everyone else were cheering you on, then it means you're not in the right place, because it means you're just like everyone else, and that's not where you want to be.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Successful people see opportunity in every failure, normal people see failure in every opportunity, both the right, only one gets rich.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You know, people don't know how to manage their emotions.
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[SPEAKER_05]: I think the more, at least for me, the more I've tried to create space between how I feel and what I do, the more consistent my outcomes have been.
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[SPEAKER_08]: Starting tomorrow, what are you going to do?
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[SPEAKER_08]: That'll make a change in your life's direction.
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[SPEAKER_08]: Good question, what are you going to do starting tomorrow that'll make a difference?
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[SPEAKER_08]: Now see if you don't do something starting tomorrow that'll make a difference, guess what?
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[SPEAKER_08]: It's going to be the same.
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[SPEAKER_09]: A blade, a blade does not become strong and does not become tempered.
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[SPEAKER_09]: until it's been through the fire until it's been through the fire several times and this is just your first or second time to the fire and there's a lot of hammerwork that has to take place and then you're going to have to go back in the forge again and it's hot and it melts you down and you're uncomfortable and then life is going to pull you out and it's going to put you on the handle and it's going to hammer on you some more and you're going to say what am I done yet?
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[SPEAKER_09]: Am I soared for the ages?
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[SPEAKER_09]: No, no, you're not.
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[SPEAKER_09]: You're not done yet.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Embrace the journey and the process of life.
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[SPEAKER_09]: You only get stronger hiking by going uphill.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Nobody gets stronger hiking by just going downhill.
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[SPEAKER_05]: I get happier about the harder it is because I know that no one else will follow.
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[SPEAKER_22]: It's a selection effect.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And I think if you can shift from this is hard to no one else will be able to do this, then it flips from being this thing that you're like, oh poor me, to oh poor everyone else who's going to have to try.
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[SPEAKER_20]: Listen, every day when you get out of bed, life's down right there to kick you in the face, man.
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[SPEAKER_20]: And you have to be ready for it and you got to deal with it.
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[SPEAKER_20]: Can't curl up a new ball, you can't run away from it, you can't hide, you have to take all this shit head on.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You've got to work harder, you've got to commit more responsibility, you've got to deal with more ups and downs.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And if we can deal with that question, how much you want it to suffer?
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[SPEAKER_01]: I work with gold medal champions and they suffer every day.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They work enormously hard.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They sacrifice enormous things in those who get in that success.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You might think that life is unfair.
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[SPEAKER_02]: The life dealt you a bad hand, but I'm here to tell you life will give you exactly what you tolerate.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And if you've been tolerating mediocrity, you've been tolerating average.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You've been tolerating this victim mentality that you're caring.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't deserve to be that man.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But I can still do the things that can create it.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And that also means that I have to go through the circumstances that that would create that man.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Which means that if I have unbelievable big dreams and big goals then I have to go through hard times.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like hate, the hard times are a requisite for success.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And so if you're going through hard times right now, it means that you're on the path to success and it's not that you're on the wrong path, it's the feeling of being on the right path.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can believe you're not worthy of a thing and still attain it.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can be adamant that your efforts are going to go badly and still succeed.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can grip and grasp and fear and it ruin the enjoyment and be totally unwarranted and things still go well.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can have no self-belief and show up anyway.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can want more for yourself without knowing exactly what that looks like.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You can doubt the process, question your talent, be uncertain that you're making progress, disparage your accomplishments, permanently feel like you're not working hard enough no matter how hard you work, never give yourself a break, fail to fully feel gratitude, be terrified of never reaching your goals.
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[SPEAKER_22]: and still end up in a place that a twenty-year-old self could not imagine you'd ever get to.
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[SPEAKER_05]: If you're going through that right now and like I promise you, every single person who wants to do something with their life and has done something with their life has gone through the exact chapter that you're going through and it's the lonely chapter.
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[SPEAKER_05]: is the chapter where you don't fit in with your own friends, but you don't have the outcomes yet to fit into a new group of friends.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And you're doing this thing, you're consuming content on the internet, you're doing these fruit tutorials online to try and figure out how to set up a podcast and what do I host this thing and then you're going through this and you're like, is this even worth it because you have no signs of success, right?
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[SPEAKER_05]: But if there's anything that you can take away from what we're saying right now, is that the sign of success is the hate that you get along the way.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And what you can't do is bend the knee to their heat and fit back into the conformity because it's comfortable and it's warm because like in the Matrix, when Trinity opens the door, when Neos about to go take the red pill and he wants to get out of the car, she says, Neo, you've been down that road and you know exactly where it leads and I know that's not where you want to be.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And then he closes the door.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like right now, this moment that you're going through is Trinity opening the door and being like, you could go back.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But then you'd have to remember exactly what the reason was that you decided not to go out to begin with, just because you listen to this podcast and you consume this constantly like I can.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You're more than this.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Ninety-nine percent of people in the world are convinced that they're incapable of achieving great things so they aim for the mediocre.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The level of competition is thus fiercest for realistic goals, paradoxically making them the most time and energy consuming.
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[SPEAKER_22]: If you are insecure, guess what?
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[SPEAKER_22]: The rest of the world is too.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself.
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[SPEAKER_22]: You are better than you think.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I became the most obsessed person on the planet Earth, after invent a guy that didn't exist.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Had to invent a guy that can take any pain, any suffering, any kind of judgment, had to build this callous mind, and I built it through suffering.
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[SPEAKER_07]: You keep going to the next level.
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[SPEAKER_07]: You suck at the next level.
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[SPEAKER_07]: You're not doing anything at the next level.
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[SPEAKER_07]: So here's what that example is.
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[SPEAKER_07]: Here's a human being.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They've reached here.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They're beating most people.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They think they've reached it.
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[SPEAKER_07]: They have no idea that there's that level there because there's fear.
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[SPEAKER_07]: People that tell you, oh my gosh, you're so amazing, you're so this, you're so great, wow Patrick, wow Johnny, wow Steve, wow Bobby, oh, you believe it, but you're not there yet, because you have a richer capacity yet.
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[SPEAKER_17]: The only true test of intelligence is if you get what you want out of life.
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[SPEAKER_17]: And there are two parts to that.
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[SPEAKER_17]: One is getting what you want.
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[SPEAKER_17]: So you know how to get it.
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[SPEAKER_17]: And the second is wanting the right things, knowing what to want in the first place.
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[SPEAKER_16]: There is no backpack to grow that thing.
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[SPEAKER_16]: How do you grow it?
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[SPEAKER_16]: Do it, and do it, and do it.
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[SPEAKER_16]: That's the hack.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I'm a winner.
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[SPEAKER_03]: I'm going to win.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It will be more difficult.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It will require more effort on your part.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But you know what I can tell you about that?
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[SPEAKER_02]: When you do the hard things, you will have a happy and easy life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: But if you constantly choose to take the path of easy and negotiate and compromise, you will have a hard life.
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[SPEAKER_19]: This body is great as you are, and sharp as you make the arsenal.
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[SPEAKER_19]: It can't do anything.
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[SPEAKER_19]: If you don't confidence in yourself, we all fall down in light.
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[SPEAKER_19]: The question is, who gets back up?
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[SPEAKER_07]: People want the flame, but they don't want to touch the fire.
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[SPEAKER_16]: You have to want it.
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[SPEAKER_16]: You have to want to be better.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And it starts off with you have to have pride in yourselves.
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[SPEAKER_23]: understand that you want it bad so you're willing to put in a work and do things you don't want to do.
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[SPEAKER_23]: It's what makes you have that confidence that you know how to push through and the the mentality that I'm the type of dude to get shit done.
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[SPEAKER_14]: Failure is a wonderful teacher.
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[SPEAKER_14]: It's the only way to learn.
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[SPEAKER_14]: You have to fail.
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[SPEAKER_13]: Failure is a part of the process to become successful.
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[SPEAKER_13]: The bird lands on the branch.
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[SPEAKER_13]: Does the bird trust the branch or does it trust his wings?
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[SPEAKER_13]: In the clue, I've seen many birds land on branches, but what I've never seen is a branch break in the bird fall and I trust your wings.
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[SPEAKER_23]: If you get out of high school, you don't want to do, and then you start playing video games and you're on social media.
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[SPEAKER_23]: A day can slip by like that.
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[SPEAKER_23]: A day becomes a week, becomes a month, becomes a year before you know it, you're a thirties.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Yeah, right.
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[SPEAKER_23]: You have to be sure.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I decision was to be the best person I could.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And I basically, a lot more as I wake up and say, feelings.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And that doesn't mean like, you know, don't take it literally feelings, but sometimes you have to go beyond what you're feeling.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And my knees were, but guess what, I wanted to run.
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[SPEAKER_09]: There's ten thousand times more going on inside the head of a man than you have any idea.
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[SPEAKER_09]: He's carrying burdens that you don't have a clue about.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And he don't know how to express him.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And he don't know what to do about it.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And he figures if he puts it out there and communicates it, he's just going to be shot down, call it a fool, call it a week.
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[SPEAKER_09]: So he carries inside and you have no clue.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The burdens and the hell that most men are carrying inside and not even showing you.
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[SPEAKER_09]: I wish more women understood that.
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[SPEAKER_04]: My father could have been a great comedian, but he didn't believe that that was possible for him.
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[SPEAKER_04]: And so he made a conservative choice.
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[SPEAKER_04]: Instead, he got a safe job as an accountant.
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[SPEAKER_04]: And when I was twelve years old,
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[SPEAKER_04]: He was let go from that safe job, and our family had to do whatever we could to survive.
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[SPEAKER_04]: I learned many great lessons from my father, not the least of which, was that you can fail at what you don't want.
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[SPEAKER_04]: So you might as well take a chance on doing what you love.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I guess what happened that long clock goes off before I am.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's training.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I want to be a seal today, but I don't want to be whatever today.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I start tomorrow.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And that's the usual pattern of people's lives.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Until you really want to do something, you always give me a talker.
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[SPEAKER_09]: You won't find confidence in yourself if you're so busy trying to figure out what everybody around you thinks you want to be and then match that because
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[SPEAKER_09]: You're not gonna make people around you happy.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Instead of spending time getting in the mood to work, just start working, confront the work.
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[SPEAKER_22]: People think they need perfect conditions to start when in reality, starting is the perfect condition.
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[SPEAKER_02]: People who don't have a sense of purpose, a mission, and don't have a consistent routine, end up digging holes in their life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And it's not always viking in or some drug addiction.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It could come as something benign as, porn, gambling, over drinking, too much television, things that slowly chip away at humanity, things that people use to escape, vaping,
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[SPEAKER_02]: Thank you watching television.
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[SPEAKER_02]: All of these things are digging holes in your life that ultimately you look back and you realize there's such a chasm between you and your spouse that you and your kids barely know each other.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Even though you live on the same roof that you've got this dad bod with a pot belly and pointy titties and pear-shaped.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And you're like, well, where does come from?
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[SPEAKER_02]: It was the absence of purpose, and it was absence of routine.
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[SPEAKER_02]: We needed, otherwise humans dig their, the holes in their lives too, no different than a German Shepherd would.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The emotionally immature man seeks out motivation to do something hard one time.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The emotionally mature man uses discipline to do something hot a thousand times.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Have emotional maturity you realize that some days are not going to sleep well.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Some days are going to wake up and you've got your schedule and everything's planned out and the poop hits the fan.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Got to eat those shit sandwiches, right?
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[SPEAKER_02]: And whether things go well or not that day, the emotionally mature man will still do what he has to do to stack his winds.
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[SPEAKER_02]: to focus on his purpose.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Where is the emotionally immature man?
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[SPEAKER_02]: We'll say, well, I didn't sleep well.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I had nightmares while staying bed.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I didn't sleep well.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Or it's raining outside.
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[SPEAKER_02]: It's cold outside.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I don't feel good.
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[SPEAKER_02]: I just woke up in the airplanes hit the World Trade Center.
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[SPEAKER_02]: So I guess I have to change my pattern of life.
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[SPEAKER_02]: You have to stay the course no matter what.
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[SPEAKER_02]: And it takes a high level of emotional maturity because you're emotions.
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[SPEAKER_21]: dictate your motion.
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[SPEAKER_21]: This next generation is coming up and I don't mean to smash all of them, but they seem like a bunch of pussy's to me, you know?
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[SPEAKER_21]: So, because of that, there's never been more opportunity than there is right now.
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[SPEAKER_21]: If you're a savage and you get out there and you grind hard and you want it bad enough, you can run all these guys overman.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You can have what you want in five years.
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[SPEAKER_11]: But there's two conditions.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You have to know what it is.
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[SPEAKER_11]: and you have to aim up.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay, so let's say you're willing to play that game.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Might be wrong, because who knows you're gonna get run over by a bus tomorrow, but you know, you're gonna play the game.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay, now the next step is, all right, figure out what you want.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Write it down.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Figure out what you could do to start moving towards that.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Okay, do that with your family relationships.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do that with your friendships.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do that with your career.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do that with your education.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Think about your misuse of alcohol and drugs and other things that might drag you down.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You have to discipline yourself.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And the issue is, well, how?
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[SPEAKER_11]: That's not really the relevant question.
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[SPEAKER_11]: You can pick a disciplinary path.
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[SPEAKER_11]: It's why I often tell my clients, especially young people, they say, well, I don't know what to do.
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[SPEAKER_11]: It's like, that's okay.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Nobody does.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Go do something.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Do the best thing that you can think of.
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[SPEAKER_11]: Put the best plan you have into practice.
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[SPEAKER_11]: It's not going to be perfect.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And it will change along the way.
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[SPEAKER_11]: But it will change partly because you become disciplined pursuing the path.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And as you become disciplined, you become wiser.
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[SPEAKER_11]: And as you become wiser, you become able to formulate better and better plans.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who never failed.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who never failed has no glory.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who failed and got back up.
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[SPEAKER_09]: That's where his glory is.
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[SPEAKER_09]: The man who failed twenty times.
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[SPEAKER_09]: And got up twenty one times.
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[SPEAKER_09]: That man has even greater glory.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Wow.
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[SPEAKER_09]: That man has more courage.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Way more cursed than the guy who was so strong from birth that he never failed.
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[SPEAKER_09]: There's no glory in that.
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[SPEAKER_03]: What most people do is they back away from adversity.
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[SPEAKER_03]: But he want to see if you're a brave person.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Wait, when things go completely to pieces.
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[SPEAKER_03]: When things are the worst, when you're very best deal falls apart and your rent is late and you're tired and you're sick and everybody is mad at you and your car doesn't work.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Then it's the person that picks themselves up and says nothing is going to stop me.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Thoughts aren't true.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Feelings don't require actions.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Things aren't good about they just are.
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[SPEAKER_22]: How great a enemy is ignorance.
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[SPEAKER_22]: To change your life, change your surroundings.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Our actions, not our pasts, define who we are.
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[SPEAKER_05]: I think what makes life more difficult for people is the judgment they have on themselves about what they believe they're supposed to do or supposed to have achieved.
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[SPEAKER_15]: If you believe it, if you really believe that you could be something, if you have that little voice in your head saying, hey, you got talent, you could do this.
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[SPEAKER_15]: Then follow that voice.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Life isn't fair.
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[SPEAKER_16]: We have to understand that.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It shouldn't be fair.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's a trial ground.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's a testing ground.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's built to make us harder.
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's built to make us as strong as we can to test us to drive us.
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[SPEAKER_16]: So, mentality is the only thing that gets us through life.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I was an underdog.
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[SPEAKER_16]: We are all underdogs in life.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Even the best person to worse to think that way.
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[SPEAKER_16]: She always have our never-rived mentality.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Isn't that where you come from the sewer or wherever you think you're from?
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[SPEAKER_16]: Nothing should be able to hurt you.
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[SPEAKER_16]: If you believe that, it's ours to become true.
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[SPEAKER_14]: Why would you not go for it?
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[SPEAKER_14]: Why would you not take a chance at one point in time?
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[SPEAKER_14]: You got to take a chance on you?
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[SPEAKER_16]: It's the what if I can pull off a miracle.
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[SPEAKER_16]: What if I can become someone that no one thinks I can be?
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[SPEAKER_10]: There's no losing, only learning.
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[SPEAKER_10]: There's no failure, only opportunities, and there's no problems, only solutions.
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[SPEAKER_10]: So to me what failure is, failure is the mother of all success.
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[SPEAKER_10]: If it wasn't for Michael Jordan getting cut from his ninth grade basketball team, he wouldn't have became Michael Jordan.
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[SPEAKER_10]: I seen an article there today where they were talking about Oprah Winfrey and how she got fired, because she wasn't good for television.
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[SPEAKER_10]: While Disney, who got fired, if I'm not mistaken, from a newspaper saying he had no imagination.
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[SPEAKER_10]: You gotta take those losses.
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[SPEAKER_10]: You gotta take those hits.
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[SPEAKER_10]: It's gotta be the values, the peaks, the ups, the downs.
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[SPEAKER_16]: Once you change, one thing, your mindset.
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[SPEAKER_18]: You can attack everything.
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[SPEAKER_18]: Don't be trapped by dogma, which is living with the results of other people's thinking.
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[SPEAKER_18]: Don't let the noise of others' opinions drowned out your own inner voice.
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[SPEAKER_18]: And most important have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.
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[SPEAKER_18]: They somehow already know what you truly want to become.
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[SPEAKER_18]: Everything else is secondary.
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[SPEAKER_06]: Being a winner is a curse.
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[SPEAKER_06]: It doesn't matter how much you've won before.
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[SPEAKER_06]: You're not a winner.
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[SPEAKER_06]: And two win again.
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[SPEAKER_06]: And again, and again.
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[SPEAKER_06]: Nothing is enough.
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[SPEAKER_06]: No one understands.
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[SPEAKER_06]: and you never wanted to stop.
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[SPEAKER_12]: If you want to be good, you really don't have a lot of choices.
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[SPEAKER_12]: Because it takes what it takes.
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[SPEAKER_12]: You have to do what you have to do to be successful.
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[SPEAKER_12]: So you have to make the choices and decisions to
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[SPEAKER_00]: have the discipline and the focus to the process of what you need to do to accomplish your goals.
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[SPEAKER_05]: I think a hopeful message that anyone who's in that hard period or in that start period is that it won't get harder.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like this is the hardest part.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And so if you can just make it through this, everything else is downhill.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It's not that the things that the dragons are gonna slay are gonna get bigger.
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[SPEAKER_05]: They are, but you become so much more equipped to slay them back.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And you have so many more allies.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You have people in the stands cheering for you.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You have the audience.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You have all of these other things that are behind you.
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[SPEAKER_03]: If you decide to go for the goal in your life, you're going to get knocked down over and over and over and over again.
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[SPEAKER_03]: Every single week, you're going to have heartaches and disappointments and frustrations and setbacks and obstacles.
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[SPEAKER_03]: But without those obstacles, no success is possible.
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[SPEAKER_15]: You cannot change your life unless you change something.
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[SPEAKER_15]: If you always do what you always did, you'll always get what you always got.
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[SPEAKER_15]: No matter what it is, many times you say to yourself, I gotta lose weight, I gotta lose weight, I'm too fat.
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[SPEAKER_15]: And then you know what?
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[SPEAKER_15]: During the day you eat, you eat at night, and the next day you get married to yourself.
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[SPEAKER_15]: Well, what do you want?
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[SPEAKER_15]: What do you want?
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[SPEAKER_15]: You got to change something.
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[SPEAKER_16]: I had big dreams.
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[SPEAKER_16]: A lot of us have big dreams, big goals.
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[SPEAKER_16]: And when you have goals that are maybe outside your reach, you have to know that getting to that goal.
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[SPEAKER_16]: You can have a lot of bad days.
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[SPEAKER_16]: A lot of setbacks.
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[SPEAKER_22]: The biggest risk to your future isn't your competition.
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[SPEAKER_22]: It's the distractions you insist on keeping in your life rather than doing the things you know you should be doing but aren't.
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[SPEAKER_22]: People delay doing things they don't like for longer than it takes to do them.
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[SPEAKER_05]: The world belongs to optimists.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Because if you're going to do anything big you have to believe that it can happen.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Otherwise it never will.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Ninety-nine percent right in a hundred percent wrong.
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[SPEAKER_05]: So like they're right ninety-nine percent of the time.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But they're wrong a hundred percent because the only thing that matters is the big one at the end.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Like your family and friends will say that every girl that you ever date is not good enough.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Except for the one time you find the girl that you're actually going to marry.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And then it doesn't matter, or like this won't last, or like this business idea.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It's not going to work.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And you might have nine failures.
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[SPEAKER_05]: My first nine businesses didn't really amount to anything.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Nine.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Nine has in the first one spent time in failed.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Second one, this one will be different.
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[SPEAKER_05]: failed.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Third one, this one, this is the one and then seven, six more after that.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It's painful as shit because the whole time everyone is telling you I told you so and they're right.
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[SPEAKER_05]: Today.
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[SPEAKER_05]: But not for it.
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[SPEAKER_03]: If you're not falling your face over and over again, if you're not trembling when you go to sleep with your heart pounding, if then what is happening is you're not trying hard enough.
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[SPEAKER_03]: You're living too far within your potential that all really successful people live on the outside edge of what they're capable of.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And it's always a little bit scary on the outside edge because we all have feelings of uncertainty.
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[SPEAKER_03]: We all have fears.
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[SPEAKER_03]: We all have doubts that hold us back.
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[SPEAKER_03]: but the brave person is simply the person who moves forward and keeps taking the chance.
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[SPEAKER_03]: And you can not imagine a successful person without courage.
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[SPEAKER_03]: You can not imagine a successful person without the courage to face and confront their fears and to move forward.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You always have to be the person who roots for you before I learn all this stuff.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And it's usually a single clap in the auditorium for a very long period of time.
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[SPEAKER_05]: It is a slow clap that's just you rooting for you.
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[SPEAKER_05]: People struggle to do things alone.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And the path of the exceptional person is one of an exception, which means that you are not with other people.
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[SPEAKER_05]: And rather than fighting that or bemoaning it, see it as an indicator that you're on the right path, because if everyone else were cheering you on, then it means you're not in the right place, because it means you're just like everyone else, and that's not where you want to be.
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[SPEAKER_22]: Successful people see opportunity in every failure, normal people see failure in every opportunity, both the right, only one gets rich.
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[SPEAKER_05]: You know, people don't know how to manage their emotions.
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[SPEAKER_05]: I think the more, at least for me, the more I've tried to create space between how I feel and what I do, the more consistent my outcomes have been.
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[SPEAKER_08]: Starting tomorrow, what are you going to do?
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[SPEAKER_08]: That'll make a change in your life's direction.
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[SPEAKER_08]: Good question, what are you going to do starting tomorrow that'll make a difference?
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[SPEAKER_08]: Now see if you don't do something starting tomorrow that'll make a difference, guess what?
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[SPEAKER_08]: It's going to be the same.
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[SPEAKER_09]: A blade, a blade does not become strong and does not become tempered.
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[SPEAKER_09]: until it's been through the fire until it's been through the fire several times and this is just your first or second time to the fire and there's a lot of hammerwork that has to take place and then you're going to have to go back in the forge again and it's hot and it melts you down and you're uncomfortable and then life is going to pull you out and it's going to put you on the handle and it's going to hammer on you some more and you're going to say what am I done yet?
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[SPEAKER_09]: Am I soared for the ages?
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[SPEAKER_09]: No, no, you're not.
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[SPEAKER_09]: You're not done yet.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Embrace the journey and the process of life.
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[SPEAKER_09]: You only get stronger hiking by going uphill.
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[SPEAKER_09]: Nobody gets stronger hiking by just going downhill.
