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Speaker 1: Let's bring in our guy Mason for a second date update. What's up, Mason? Good morning.
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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning.
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Speaker 1: How are you guys? I'm good, man. We're going to get right to it. We want to talk about your date. We want to talk about this lady.
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Speaker 3: And we're going to try to figure out, A, if she ghosted, and B, try to secure you a second date. Tell me about your date with Bianca.
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Speaker 2: So we went to downtown Campbell. We just went down there to get, like, dinners and drinks.
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Speaker 4: Sure.
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Speaker 1: It's cute there.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.
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Speaker 4: It was really nice.
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Speaker 2: And the conversation was even better. We were really hitting it off, got another round of drinks. And then at the end of everything, she told me, she said, I had a really good time.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 4: So I felt everything was good.
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Speaker 1: What has been the aftermath?
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Speaker 2: So I text her the next day and got nothing. And I knew she had to work, so I kept it cool. So I tried again a couple days later and still nothing.
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Speaker 3: All right, so you feel like it's been a reasonable amount of time.
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Speaker 1: You're not spamming her with the texts or the calls.
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Speaker 2: Nope.
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Speaker 3: All right, well, let's try it one more time. I'm going to have you mute your phone. We're going to call Bianca. I'll ask her a couple of questions, and let's try to figure out if we can get a second date.
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Speaker 1: Is that cool? Sounds good to me. All right, give me a couple songs. We'll get it done. It is second date update, star 1013. Hello? I'm looking for Bianca.
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Speaker 4: That's Bianca.
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Speaker 2: Who's this?
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Speaker 1: Bianca, it's Marcus calling from Star 101.3. Good morning.
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Speaker 4: Good morning.
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Speaker 1: How are you?
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Speaker 2: Confused, I guess. Okay.
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Speaker 4: Why are you calling?
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Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show in the morning?
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Speaker 3: Oh, God.
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Speaker 4: Is this a second date update?
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Speaker 1: It is.
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Speaker 4: And this must be about Mason then, right?
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Speaker 1: It is.
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Speaker 4: Right.
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Speaker 1: Hey, Mason. Mason, are you there?
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: All right.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I am.
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Speaker 1: It's on you guys. Bianca, Mason, Mason, Bianca. So Bianca, did you ghost Mason?
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Speaker 4: I guess you can call it that. Sure.
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Speaker 1: How was the date? Tell me everything.
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Speaker 4: The date was good until he like tested me.
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Speaker 1: What do you mean? Oh, come on. Tested you how?
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Speaker 4: So like about like halfway through our dinner, he like got up to use the bathroom. Uh-huh. And He put his phone down on the table, like right next to me unlocked. Okay.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 4: And I was just like, all right, like whatever. And I just left his phone there. And then he comes back from the bathroom. He picks up his phone. He looks at it. He goes, nice.
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Speaker 1: What does that even mean?
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Speaker 4: Right. I was kind of like, nice. What, like, what are you talking about? And he was just like, Oh, you didn't look at my phone.
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Speaker 1: Hold on, Mason. Hold on. What does this even mean?
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Speaker 4: I guess he was, like, testing me to see if I would, like, look through his phone.
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Speaker 1: Mason, is this legit?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I did.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I was wondering if she was going to try to snoop through my phone. You know, I just wanted to see what she'd do.
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Speaker 4: Right, but, like, on a first date, it's kind of crazy to do that, no?
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Speaker 2: I mean, it's not a big deal that she didn't even look at it.
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Speaker 4: She passed. Yeah, but that's the problem. Like, why am I being tested on a first date? That is so weird to me. Hey, not everybody passes. I don't think you're understanding that, like, nobody wants to be tested, especially on a first date, you know? And then I'm like, I'm like sitting there wondering, like. if he's testing me about that on the first time I'm meeting him, what's he going to test me about in the future? Is he going to like send a friend to flirt with me? Is he going to like leave money around to see what I do? Like, I don't know. I'm just like, I don't want to be tested for a relationship.
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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I mean, I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I've had trust issues in the past.
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Speaker 4: You know? And so it's like, okay.
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Speaker 2: I mean, but you're making me sound insane.
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Speaker 4: So I'm just telling you where my brain went. And that, I think, is valuable information for you to know moving forward.
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Speaker 1: Mason, you get how this feels manipulative, right?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I should have just told her that I had trust issues up top. Maybe I should have told her trust is a big deal to me.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe you should have done that.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 2: Now that we know that, and I'm sorry I acted that way, does that change anything?
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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, like, it really bothered me because I liked you. But I'm not about to date someone who's just going to, like, test me over and over and over again. And I don't know that I could trust you now. You know, you're saying you have trust issues, but, you know, that makes me not trust you. Fair enough.
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Speaker 1: Hold on. So no second date, Bianca?
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Speaker 4: Not from me, no.
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Speaker 2: Sure.
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Speaker 1: Okay, hang on.
Speaker 1: Let's bring in our guy Mason for a second date update. What's up, Mason? Good morning.
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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning.
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Speaker 1: How are you guys? I'm good, man. We're going to get right to it. We want to talk about your date. We want to talk about this lady.
00:00:11
Speaker 3: And we're going to try to figure out, A, if she ghosted, and B, try to secure you a second date. Tell me about your date with Bianca.
00:00:19
Speaker 2: So we went to downtown Campbell. We just went down there to get, like, dinners and drinks.
00:00:25
Speaker 4: Sure.
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Speaker 1: It's cute there.
00:00:27
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.
00:00:27
Speaker 4: It was really nice.
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Speaker 2: And the conversation was even better. We were really hitting it off, got another round of drinks. And then at the end of everything, she told me, she said, I had a really good time.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 4: So I felt everything was good.
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Speaker 1: What has been the aftermath?
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Speaker 2: So I text her the next day and got nothing. And I knew she had to work, so I kept it cool. So I tried again a couple days later and still nothing.
00:00:52
Speaker 3: All right, so you feel like it's been a reasonable amount of time.
00:00:55
Speaker 1: You're not spamming her with the texts or the calls.
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Speaker 2: Nope.
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Speaker 3: All right, well, let's try it one more time. I'm going to have you mute your phone. We're going to call Bianca. I'll ask her a couple of questions, and let's try to figure out if we can get a second date.
00:01:08
Speaker 1: Is that cool? Sounds good to me. All right, give me a couple songs. We'll get it done. It is second date update, star 1013. Hello? I'm looking for Bianca.
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Speaker 4: That's Bianca.
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Speaker 2: Who's this?
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Speaker 1: Bianca, it's Marcus calling from Star 101.3. Good morning.
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Speaker 4: Good morning.
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Speaker 1: How are you?
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Speaker 2: Confused, I guess. Okay.
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Speaker 4: Why are you calling?
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Speaker 1: Do you listen to the show in the morning?
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Speaker 3: Oh, God.
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Speaker 4: Is this a second date update?
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Speaker 1: It is.
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Speaker 4: And this must be about Mason then, right?
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Speaker 1: It is.
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Speaker 4: Right.
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Speaker 1: Hey, Mason. Mason, are you there?
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 1: All right.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I am.
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Speaker 1: It's on you guys. Bianca, Mason, Mason, Bianca. So Bianca, did you ghost Mason?
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Speaker 4: I guess you can call it that. Sure.
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Speaker 1: How was the date? Tell me everything.
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Speaker 4: The date was good until he like tested me.
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Speaker 1: What do you mean? Oh, come on. Tested you how?
00:02:15
Speaker 4: So like about like halfway through our dinner, he like got up to use the bathroom. Uh-huh. And He put his phone down on the table, like right next to me unlocked. Okay.
00:02:27
Speaker 1: Okay.
00:02:28
Speaker 4: And I was just like, all right, like whatever. And I just left his phone there. And then he comes back from the bathroom. He picks up his phone. He looks at it. He goes, nice.
00:02:38
Speaker 1: What does that even mean?
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Speaker 4: Right. I was kind of like, nice. What, like, what are you talking about? And he was just like, Oh, you didn't look at my phone.
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Speaker 1: Hold on, Mason. Hold on. What does this even mean?
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Speaker 4: I guess he was, like, testing me to see if I would, like, look through his phone.
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Speaker 1: Mason, is this legit?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I did.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I was wondering if she was going to try to snoop through my phone. You know, I just wanted to see what she'd do.
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Speaker 4: Right, but, like, on a first date, it's kind of crazy to do that, no?
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Speaker 2: I mean, it's not a big deal that she didn't even look at it.
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Speaker 4: She passed. Yeah, but that's the problem. Like, why am I being tested on a first date? That is so weird to me. Hey, not everybody passes. I don't think you're understanding that, like, nobody wants to be tested, especially on a first date, you know? And then I'm like, I'm like sitting there wondering, like. if he's testing me about that on the first time I'm meeting him, what's he going to test me about in the future? Is he going to like send a friend to flirt with me? Is he going to like leave money around to see what I do? Like, I don't know. I'm just like, I don't want to be tested for a relationship.
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Speaker 1: I mean, look, I mean, I don't know.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I've had trust issues in the past.
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Speaker 4: You know? And so it's like, okay.
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Speaker 2: I mean, but you're making me sound insane.
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Speaker 4: So I'm just telling you where my brain went. And that, I think, is valuable information for you to know moving forward.
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Speaker 1: Mason, you get how this feels manipulative, right?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I should have just told her that I had trust issues up top. Maybe I should have told her trust is a big deal to me.
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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe you should have done that.
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Speaker 1: Okay.
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Speaker 2: Now that we know that, and I'm sorry I acted that way, does that change anything?
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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, like, it really bothered me because I liked you. But I'm not about to date someone who's just going to, like, test me over and over and over again. And I don't know that I could trust you now. You know, you're saying you have trust issues, but, you know, that makes me not trust you. Fair enough.
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Speaker 1: Hold on. So no second date, Bianca?
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Speaker 4: Not from me, no.
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Speaker 2: Sure.
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Speaker 1: Okay, hang on.
