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Things take a lot of time, right? And then we
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get to the end of our day and we think,
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oh my gosh, I didn't accomplish anything. But you really
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did because there is nothing easy, right? So everything takes
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time and give yourself some grace. I can tell you
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right now I'm giving myself some grace, especially now that
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I'm done with the audio book piece. I have two
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other big things going on that I need to get done. And,
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you know, slowly but surely I get them done. I
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make the list. I lose the list. I find the
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list again. And then I'm like, oh, I finished that.
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I can check it off. So there we go. What
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does your quote tell us?
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Nothing will hold you back if you want it enough
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and act on it enough. Yeah.
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Even in the hard things, do them anyways.
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Yeah, because you'll get them done. And it's okay to
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complain about it. Just don't make it your whole personality.
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Yeah.
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Again, we can complain a little bit and then move on.
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I complained. I'm done for the day. Welcome to Her
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Unshakable Confidence. I'm Simone Canego.
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And I'm Olivia Canego.
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Each week, we have honest conversations about confidence, self-doubt, and
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the moments in life that shape who we become.
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Some weeks, we talk with inspiring guests.
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And other weeks, it's just the two of us sharing
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what we're learning.
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Along the way. So pull up a chair.
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And join the conversation.
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This is Her Unshakable Confidence.
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Welcome to Her Unshakable Confidence. I'm Simone Canego.
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And I'm Olivia Canego.
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So have you ever had a moment where you're like, oh,
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this isn't going to be so bad. And then it
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was really bad, like really hard, much harder than you
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ever thought. I think we've all had those moments. And
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so we kind of wanted to break some of them down.
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What's something that comes to mind for you at first?
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Boiling eggs. Wait, it's just because I made egg salad
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this morning because I was like super craving egg salad.
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And my big hesitation was boiling eggs. And that's hard.
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And boiling rice or making rice.
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It's really funny. I did not think you were going
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to go in that direction. Oh, okay.
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I can do other directions too. I have more things.
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No, this is good. Boiling eggs is hard to get
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it just right, right? And to get it so that
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it actually peels. And I know people say try putting,
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I forget if it's baking soda or baking powder in
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the water. Or put it in ice right away. I
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don't know. I feel like it doesn't always work no
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matter what you do.
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I just literally feel like it's whatever the eggs decide
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that day. Okay.
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We've had some pretty ugly deviled eggs in our past,
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you know, where... Yeah.
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I mean, it's fine because I was making egg salad.
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They didn't need to be pretty.
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But I get it. You think it's... And then one time,
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this is very important. So one time I left, I
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forgot that I was boiling eggs and all the water
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evaporated out of the pan. And then literally the eggs
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were like missiles.
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Oh, yeah.
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They exploded and they hit... um, all the way to
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the wine cellar door. They hit all the way back
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to the, um, past the fridge. Like they literally exploded.
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If you would have gotten hit, it would have been
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like a flaming missile because.
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Yeah, there was a trend on social media for a
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bit of people microwaving hard boiled eggs to like prank their,
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their people, whoever they were pranking. And it literally is
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like an explosive device. Yeah. It's, it blows up.
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So eggs, who knew, who knew? Um, What was the
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second thing you said?
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Making rice. But I've circumvented that by getting a rice cooker.
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Yeah, me too.
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Yeah, that is life. Like actually game changing.
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Yeah, because you don't know.
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You know what was– this is a completely different side topic. Okay, go.
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You see all these Instagram videos of people like stripping
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the paint and wood stain off their furniture. And I
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was like, oh, I'm going to do that and it's
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going to be so easy because they make it seem
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so easy online. That I will never do anything like
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that again. I am not a DIY girl. Oh my God.
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And it looks like it looks pretty good. It's not
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perfect by any means, but it was so stressful to do.
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I was like covered in goop. I was like covered
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in toxic chemicals. I'm going to get some sort of
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drain damage from this.
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Literally.
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And they, that's like a Instagram versus reality thing that
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I don't really think happens to me that often, but
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I was like sucked in the trap of like, Oh,
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I don't like the stain of my coffee table. Let
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me just fix it. It took me like three weeks
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to do it too. But that's like an ADHD, like
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set it and forget it kind of moment.
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But how does it look now?
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Good. But was it worth the effort that I went
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to and like kind of the cost? Absolutely not. Yeah.
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Absolutely not.
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I always think that, yeah, I'm going to do this
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thing and it's going to be so easy and I'm
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saving myself money. And in the end I spend a fortune.
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Yeah. It's, I should have just got a new coffee table.
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Like- But now you can be proud of it.
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Yeah, I am proud of it. And I looked at
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Jack and I said, I'm never doing anything like this again.
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There's no need to keep any of these supplies.
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That's funny.
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Yeah.
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So right now I'm in the middle or I'm actually
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just finished. Like I finished all of my pickup lines today.
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That sounds weird, but I'm finished recording my audio book. Oh, awesome.
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Oh my gosh. That is so hard. It is so hard.
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And I'm used to hearing my voice now because of
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doing the podcast and speaking all the time. So it
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has nothing to do with my voice. It has to
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do with the way your brain sees a word and
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what you actually say. So how many times I added
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on a word, I took away a bunch of words.
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I made something completely different.
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Yeah. I mean, I learned that in theater, like the
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way that you would actually end up saying a script
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is like the gist is there, but sometimes the words
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are not the exact same. Or like I was telling
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you on the phone yesterday, that guy in class who
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was reading a problem off the board and he said
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resurrected instead of resuscitated. It was really good. It was
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a really good moment.
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Yeah. I mean, so the– it's the way your brain
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works and it's fascinating. So when I listen back now
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and– because they mark like what– because they go through
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word by word on the script, on the manuscript and
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make sure that you keep true to the form because–
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you have like a 4% leniency. So if you mess
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up more than 4% of the words or change them,
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then it's not true to its original form. So it's
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not protected by the same copyright that your book would
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be because it's not the same words. So because it's
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an audio book, if you're less than 4%, then it's
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protected by the copyright. So it really makes you think
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about as you read and the pace of how you
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read I know even some of the lines that I
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did today, so like they find a mistake, I go
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back and fix it. I speak very fast. Yeah, me too.
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And I feel like some of the ones I did
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today are probably still too fast. So we'll see. But
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it's just fascinating. So did I think it was going
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to be that hard? No, I knew writing a book
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would be hard. Did I think marketing a book would
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be that hard? Oh, my gosh. That is the hardest
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part of the book. And now doing the audio book
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is really seeing– how difficult it is for people to
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be voice actors. Not that I'm a voice actor, but
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during COVID, so many people said, oh, I could be
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a voice actor because they were at home. Why not
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do it? And it's really hard to be able to enunciate.
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I have a really hard time with saying the word strengths.
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That's not too bad. Strengths.
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Yeah, I have a lot of words I can't say.
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So It was funny because like a few times and
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he's like, don't get frustrated because when you're frustrated, it
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comes out in your voice. So a lot of things
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that I wouldn't have thought would have been so difficult,
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but was very, very difficult, but it's done or almost.
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I got to go through and listen to it like
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cover to cover, however you say it for an audio
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book and see how it sounds. What else is something hard? Um,
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Getting oil stains out. Why are oil stains so hard?
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Yeah. And it's just like all of the above in
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terms of stains. Like you think it's that easy. It's
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just throwing your clothes into the machine and press and go.
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But no. There's like an art to laundry and that's
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something they definitely don't teach you. Yes.
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And you got to check pockets for pens.
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Yes. That's never happened to me.
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Okay, well, in our house we do because your dad
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always has a pen and we've ruined multiple loads because.
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I don't check the pockets. I've owned the same, like,
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two pens for the last two years, so I really
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can't leave them in my pockets or else I'm, like,
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writing utensil-less.
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That's a smart way to do it.
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I would think a lot of people at my school
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would be like, you're actually insane. I'm heavily disorganized, I
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think is the right word.
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You are. Hmm. Interesting. Yeah.
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It works well for my system. My system works well
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for me. It works well for nobody else. And that's okay.
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Yeah, exactly. You should be you. Folding a fitted sheet.
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Oh, I don't do that.
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That just gets shoved. Like, there's no way.
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I have had people teach me, and mine still looks ugly.
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And I see some people, like my mom can do it,
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and it's like exact.
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Dude, I don't understand grandma. Like, she's too multifaceted. She's
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too good at a lot of things, and that's not fair.
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Well, you work at it.
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Yeah, I know. I guess she's been around for a
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couple more years than I have.
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And she had to do everything herself. It wasn't like
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other people were doing it for her. If she didn't
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do it, it didn't get done.
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Right, but I'm the only one that's folding my sheets,
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and I'm still not folding them.
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Well, because you're not trying. I mean, you know, that's
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a choice.
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That's a good point. If I had a choice in life,
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I would hang up all of my clothes, including my underwear.
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You would hang up your underwear?
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Just so I didn't have to fold them. Oh. What?
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Underwear? You don't really have to fold.
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No, I don't fold them.
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I mean, grandma does, but... Yeah.
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I do... Like, if I'm doing someone else's laundry, I'll
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fold them, but if it's mine.
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I don't even match my own socks.
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No, you don't. I don't match socks. That actually drives
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me crazy.
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I don't know why it drives you crazy. Nobody's looking
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at my feet, and if they are, shame on you.
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But I like the organization of having things match.
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Mom, nothing about my life is organized. Like.
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So if you had at least your socks organized, then
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you would feel good about it. No, okay, never mind.
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Let's get over that.
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It would just be one more stress on my shoulders
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of like, oh my God, now I have to sit
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there and match my socks. And I don't know where
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my socks go. I swear that my socks go missing.
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Only mine though.
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Only yours, yeah. No, socks do go missing. We have
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like so many extras downstairs.
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Where do they go?
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I don't know. I think if you took the dryer apart,
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you'd find a whole load of them there.
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I think about that with our dryer here, like how
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much stuff. Um, it's just like missing.
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Um, uh, making a bed with a fitted, with a
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flat sheet.
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I don't do that either.
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That top sheet changes everything. You got to tuck it
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in and crisp corners. And I remember when I was
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a kid, I don't use a top sheet either now.
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I think I, and I hope, and maybe people will
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disagree with this. I think top sheets are dying. Like
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I think it's dying. And I'm okay with that. Well,
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also like even if I could, they were easy to
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put on and like whatever. I don't like the way
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it feels. Like it's just too much.
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I don't like the way it feels either.
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Yeah, it's too much for me.
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Yeah. I sleep with a soft blanket.
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Oh, speaking of laundry. And your dad takes the comforter. Yes.
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I have a comforter right now, thank God. But putting
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the like filler into the duvet when you have like
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a duvet instead of a comforter. That is the hardest
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thing in the world. Every time I had to do
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it in college, I would like get inside the duvet
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cover and like pull it inside. It is ridiculously hard
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for absolutely no reason. And that's why I buy comforters.
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Well, what you're supposed to do is actually put the
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duvet cover inside out.
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Okay. I have done all of these. It's like a
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magic trick. Okay. It seems easier than it actually is.
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Like hello Instagram v reality. Yeah. The people that are
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doing that are wizards.
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It's funny how. things should be really simple, but they're
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not like, okay. Also, um, what's your pan, the pan, the, uh,
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the black pan.
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No, the, Oh, my cast irons.
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The cast iron, like keeping that properly like oils and
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then cleaning it afterwards with salt.
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It's a joy to have, but I rarely use it
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because of how painful it is to use.
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Well, I use it and then your dad cleans it
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because I still pretend I don't know how to do it.
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I would say pretend, but I actually really don't know
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how to clean it properly. I in theory.
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Know how to. In theory, I know how to do it.
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I feel like when I execute it and I go
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to season it, something always ends up wrong and I
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don't know what I'm doing. And that's okay. You know what?
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It's okay.
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Keeping knives sharp.
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Yeah. I also feel like that's just like a fallacy
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that you can do that at home.
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Well, so it's interesting because we took our knives somewhere
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before Thanksgiving last year, I think to like this special
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machine that sharpens them. And yeah, that was great for
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like two days.
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And you use them and then they're dull again. And
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so I was like, well, that's a waste of money.
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Right. And I like, we have not only the knife
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sharpener in the block, which I don't think works the best,
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but we have an actual knife sharpener and I feel
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like it does nothing.
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I don't know. I mean, I feel like our knife
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sharpener does work.
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I'm too worried about like damaging my knives, I guess.
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Like in breaking- Yeah.
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You got it.
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I also, I don't really have like super nice knives
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in the end of the day. I don't like, they're
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like a Walmart, I think. So I mean, mine are okay.
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They're not like super fancy, but, um, you know, I,
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I never thought that would be so difficult.
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Washing your hydro flask.
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I don't do that either.
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She'll bring it home. I'm like, Olivia, there's like organisms
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living in here. This is disgusting.
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It's good for my immune system, I think. Maybe not.
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I don't know. I'm not dying yet.
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Although I will say one time I had a very traumatic.
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I don't have a straw like cleaner, which is like
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that's on me. Like I really could just like easily
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go and order one. But it's like I never think
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about it until I actually need it. And then I
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don't know. Recently, Jack's been on my case about he's
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like making a list of things on Amazon that I
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always say I need, but I never get. And he's like, okay,
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like one day we're going to sit down. And we're
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going to order all of this. I was like, okay, fine.
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I'm still going to forget to order it though.
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A straw cleaner is like $ 5.
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Yeah.
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Actually, that's one of the things your sister asked me
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to bring with me to Wales for her as a
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straw cleaner. So I have a straw cleaner on its way.
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If there's two, I'll send one to you. But I
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think it's just one.
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Yeah. I had an experience though, which is why I
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don't use a lot of reusable straws now, where a
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huge chunk of mold came up in one of them.
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And that was pretty traumatic. Yeah. Not that it like
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obviously caused me to buy a straw cleaner or anything.
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I still don't have one. I just don't use straws
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that often except for my.
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Going back to laundry, you probably don't have this in
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your place because you have like an old school washing machine.
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But the amount of mold that grows in a washing
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machine on the rubber ring and you got to leave
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all the parts open so that it dries out.
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I guess that's like the nice part. But the old
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school machines are just like– we've advanced in laundry and
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sometimes I feel like my clothes are not coming out
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as clean because I have an old school machine.
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Yeah.
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Well, the mold thing is gross and I've tried all
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the different cleaners and I still scrub it out. But
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supposedly they have nuance.
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Well, yeah, mold in general.
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Getting rid of it.
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Yeah. Just like because, you know, like everyone gets mold
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in their shower eventually. It's just like part of the
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process unless you're actually cleaning your shower every single time
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after you shower. And honestly, good for you. Like good
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for you. I wish I had that.
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Time well you have that just the tylex spray you
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can just spray spray spray.
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No yeah but like that doesn't like you know in
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the drain or anything.
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Oh yeah in the drain oh yeah talk about that geez.
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That was disgusting jack cleaned our sink drain oh my
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god it was so disgusting the stuff that came out
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of it it looked like an animal we had tried
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cleaning before speaking of something that was hard we had
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tried the drain out which i know you're not supposed
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to do but we don't own the building so i
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don't really care Um, we had done like the stick
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down the thing and pull stuff up and it was
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never good enough. And so finally he literally took apart
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the whole sink, which don't ask me how you do.
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And it works. And it's like his, his claim to
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fame right now. I went into the bathroom today and
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he just turned the sink on. He goes, look, it's draining.
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I was like, you did this like a week ago.
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I've used the sink since then. I know it's draining.
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He's going to keep showing you.
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Yeah. But it was gross. It was like a, like a,
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something a cat would throw up. Gross.
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It wasn't.
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It was just your hair. No, not even mine. His
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shaving for sure.
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Yeah.
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But it's been like that. Okay. This is a quick tangent.
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I don't think apartment complexes really clean in between tenants.
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I don't think so either. I think you have to
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do it yourself.
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That's disgusting. But then they charge this massive fee when
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you move out for all of the above. So you're like, oh,
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they must be fixing it, right? They must be doing
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this and that. And they're not.
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Maybe they do like a basic, but I don't. I
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don't even think they do the basic.
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Yeah.
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I know every time, like, your sisters move somewhere, I'm like, okay,
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this is gross.
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Yeah.
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Millie's dorm was really clean.
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So that was good. Well, that's nice. But, like, I just, like, ugh.
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Ugh.
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Okay, let's end on a high note here.
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So, yeah.
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We think... So.
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Things take a lot of time, right? And then we
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get to the end of our day and we think,
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oh my gosh, I didn't accomplish anything. But you really
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did because there is nothing easy, right? So everything takes
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time and give yourself some grace. I can tell you
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right now I'm giving myself some grace, especially now that
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I'm done with the audio book piece. I have two
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other big things going on that I need to get done. And,
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you know, slowly but surely I get them done. I
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make the list. I lose the list. I find the
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list again. And then I'm like, oh, I finished that.
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I can check it off. So there we go. What's
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your story for the day? What does your quote tell us?
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Nothing will hold you back if you want it enough
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and act on it enough.
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Yeah. Even the hard things. Do them anyways.
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Yeah, because you'll get them done. And it's okay to
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complain about it. Just don't make it your whole personality.
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Yeah.
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Again, we can complain a little bit and then move on.
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I complained. I'm done for the day.
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Yep.
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Thank you so much for joining us on this week's
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episode of Her Unshakable Confidence. Don't forget to rate, review,
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share it with your friends, share it with your mom,
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Bye guys.
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You are unshakable.
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See you next week.
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Things take a lot of time, right? And then we
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get to the end of our day and we think,
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oh my gosh, I didn't accomplish anything. But you really
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did because there is nothing easy, right? So everything takes
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time and give yourself some grace. I can tell you
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right now I'm giving myself some grace, especially now that
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I'm done with the audio book piece. I have two
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other big things going on that I need to get done. And,
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you know, slowly but surely I get them done. I
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make the list. I lose the list. I find the
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list again. And then I'm like, oh, I finished that.
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I can check it off. So there we go. What
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does your quote tell us?
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Nothing will hold you back if you want it enough
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and act on it enough. Yeah.
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Even in the hard things, do them anyways.
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Yeah, because you'll get them done. And it's okay to
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complain about it. Just don't make it your whole personality.
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Again, we can complain a little bit and then move on.
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I complained. I'm done for the day. Welcome to Her
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Unshakable Confidence. I'm Simone Canego.
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the moments in life that shape who we become.
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Welcome to Her Unshakable Confidence. I'm Simone Canego.
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So have you ever had a moment where you're like, oh,
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this isn't going to be so bad. And then it
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was really bad, like really hard, much harder than you
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ever thought. I think we've all had those moments. And
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so we kind of wanted to break some of them down.
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What's something that comes to mind for you at first?
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Boiling eggs. Wait, it's just because I made egg salad
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this morning because I was like super craving egg salad.
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And my big hesitation was boiling eggs. And that's hard.
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And boiling rice or making rice.
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It's really funny. I did not think you were going
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to go in that direction. Oh, okay.
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I can do other directions too. I have more things.
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No, this is good. Boiling eggs is hard to get
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it just right, right? And to get it so that
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it actually peels. And I know people say try putting,
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I forget if it's baking soda or baking powder in
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the water. Or put it in ice right away. I
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don't know. I feel like it doesn't always work no
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matter what you do.
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I just literally feel like it's whatever the eggs decide
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that day. Okay.
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We've had some pretty ugly deviled eggs in our past,
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you know, where... Yeah.
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I mean, it's fine because I was making egg salad.
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They didn't need to be pretty.
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But I get it. You think it's... And then one time,
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this is very important. So one time I left, I
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forgot that I was boiling eggs and all the water
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evaporated out of the pan. And then literally the eggs
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were like missiles.
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Oh, yeah.
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They exploded and they hit... um, all the way to
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the wine cellar door. They hit all the way back
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to the, um, past the fridge. Like they literally exploded.
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If you would have gotten hit, it would have been
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like a flaming missile because.
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Yeah, there was a trend on social media for a
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bit of people microwaving hard boiled eggs to like prank their,
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their people, whoever they were pranking. And it literally is
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like an explosive device. Yeah. It's, it blows up.
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So eggs, who knew, who knew? Um, What was the
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second thing you said?
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Making rice. But I've circumvented that by getting a rice cooker.
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Yeah, me too.
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Yeah, that is life. Like actually game changing.
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Yeah, because you don't know.
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You know what was– this is a completely different side topic. Okay, go.
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You see all these Instagram videos of people like stripping
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the paint and wood stain off their furniture. And I
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was like, oh, I'm going to do that and it's
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going to be so easy because they make it seem
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so easy online. That I will never do anything like
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that again. I am not a DIY girl. Oh my God.
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And it looks like it looks pretty good. It's not
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perfect by any means, but it was so stressful to do.
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I was like covered in goop. I was like covered
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in toxic chemicals. I'm going to get some sort of
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drain damage from this.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Literally.
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And they, that's like a Instagram versus reality thing that
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I don't really think happens to me that often, but
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I was like sucked in the trap of like, Oh,
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I don't like the stain of my coffee table. Let
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me just fix it. It took me like three weeks
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to do it too. But that's like an ADHD, like
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set it and forget it kind of moment.
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But how does it look now?
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Good. But was it worth the effort that I went
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to and like kind of the cost? Absolutely not. Yeah.
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Absolutely not.
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I always think that, yeah, I'm going to do this
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thing and it's going to be so easy and I'm
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saving myself money. And in the end I spend a fortune.
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Yeah. It's, I should have just got a new coffee table.
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Like- But now you can be proud of it.
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Yeah, I am proud of it. And I looked at
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Jack and I said, I'm never doing anything like this again.
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There's no need to keep any of these supplies.
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That's funny.
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Yeah.
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So right now I'm in the middle or I'm actually
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just finished. Like I finished all of my pickup lines today.
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That sounds weird, but I'm finished recording my audio book. Oh, awesome.
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Oh my gosh. That is so hard. It is so hard.
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And I'm used to hearing my voice now because of
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doing the podcast and speaking all the time. So it
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has nothing to do with my voice. It has to
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do with the way your brain sees a word and
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what you actually say. So how many times I added
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on a word, I took away a bunch of words.
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I made something completely different.
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Yeah. I mean, I learned that in theater, like the
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way that you would actually end up saying a script
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is like the gist is there, but sometimes the words
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are not the exact same. Or like I was telling
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you on the phone yesterday, that guy in class who
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was reading a problem off the board and he said
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resurrected instead of resuscitated. It was really good. It was
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a really good moment.
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Yeah. I mean, so the– it's the way your brain
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works and it's fascinating. So when I listen back now
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and– because they mark like what– because they go through
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word by word on the script, on the manuscript and
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make sure that you keep true to the form because–
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you have like a 4% leniency. So if you mess
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up more than 4% of the words or change them,
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then it's not true to its original form. So it's
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not protected by the same copyright that your book would
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be because it's not the same words. So because it's
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an audio book, if you're less than 4%, then it's
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protected by the copyright. So it really makes you think
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about as you read and the pace of how you
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read I know even some of the lines that I
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did today, so like they find a mistake, I go
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back and fix it. I speak very fast. Yeah, me too.
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And I feel like some of the ones I did
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today are probably still too fast. So we'll see. But
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it's just fascinating. So did I think it was going
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to be that hard? No, I knew writing a book
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would be hard. Did I think marketing a book would
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be that hard? Oh, my gosh. That is the hardest
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part of the book. And now doing the audio book
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is really seeing– how difficult it is for people to
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be voice actors. Not that I'm a voice actor, but
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during COVID, so many people said, oh, I could be
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a voice actor because they were at home. Why not
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do it? And it's really hard to be able to enunciate.
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I have a really hard time with saying the word strengths.
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That's not too bad. Strengths.
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Yeah, I have a lot of words I can't say.
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So It was funny because like a few times and
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he's like, don't get frustrated because when you're frustrated, it
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comes out in your voice. So a lot of things
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that I wouldn't have thought would have been so difficult,
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but was very, very difficult, but it's done or almost.
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I got to go through and listen to it like
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cover to cover, however you say it for an audio
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book and see how it sounds. What else is something hard? Um,
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Getting oil stains out. Why are oil stains so hard?
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Yeah. And it's just like all of the above in
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terms of stains. Like you think it's that easy. It's
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just throwing your clothes into the machine and press and go.
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But no. There's like an art to laundry and that's
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something they definitely don't teach you. Yes.
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And you got to check pockets for pens.
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Yes. That's never happened to me.
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Okay, well, in our house we do because your dad
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always has a pen and we've ruined multiple loads because.
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I don't check the pockets. I've owned the same, like,
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two pens for the last two years, so I really
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can't leave them in my pockets or else I'm, like,
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writing utensil-less.
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That's a smart way to do it.
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I would think a lot of people at my school
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would be like, you're actually insane. I'm heavily disorganized, I
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think is the right word.
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You are. Hmm. Interesting. Yeah.
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It works well for my system. My system works well
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for me. It works well for nobody else. And that's okay.
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Yeah, exactly. You should be you. Folding a fitted sheet.
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Oh, I don't do that.
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That just gets shoved. Like, there's no way.
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I have had people teach me, and mine still looks ugly.
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And I see some people, like my mom can do it,
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and it's like exact.
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Dude, I don't understand grandma. Like, she's too multifaceted. She's
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too good at a lot of things, and that's not fair.
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Well, you work at it.
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Yeah, I know. I guess she's been around for a
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couple more years than I have.
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And she had to do everything herself. It wasn't like
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other people were doing it for her. If she didn't
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do it, it didn't get done.
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Right, but I'm the only one that's folding my sheets,
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and I'm still not folding them.
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Well, because you're not trying. I mean, you know, that's
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a choice.
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That's a good point. If I had a choice in life,
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I would hang up all of my clothes, including my underwear.
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You would hang up your underwear?
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Just so I didn't have to fold them. Oh. What?
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Underwear? You don't really have to fold.
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No, I don't fold them.
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I mean, grandma does, but... Yeah.
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I do... Like, if I'm doing someone else's laundry, I'll
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fold them, but if it's mine.
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I don't even match my own socks.
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No, you don't. I don't match socks. That actually drives
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me crazy.
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I don't know why it drives you crazy. Nobody's looking
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at my feet, and if they are, shame on you.
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But I like the organization of having things match.
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Mom, nothing about my life is organized. Like.
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you would feel good about it. No, okay, never mind.
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Let's get over that.
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It would just be one more stress on my shoulders
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of like, oh my God, now I have to sit
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there and match my socks. And I don't know where
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my socks go. I swear that my socks go missing.
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Only mine though.
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Only yours, yeah. No, socks do go missing. We have
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like so many extras downstairs.
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Where do they go?
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I don't know. I think if you took the dryer apart,
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you'd find a whole load of them there.
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I think about that with our dryer here, like how
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much stuff. Um, it's just like missing.
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Um, uh, making a bed with a fitted, with a
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flat sheet.
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I don't do that either.
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That top sheet changes everything. You got to tuck it
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in and crisp corners. And I remember when I was
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a kid, I don't use a top sheet either now.
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I think I, and I hope, and maybe people will
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disagree with this. I think top sheets are dying. Like
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I think it's dying. And I'm okay with that. Well,
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also like even if I could, they were easy to
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put on and like whatever. I don't like the way
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it feels. Like it's just too much.
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I don't like the way it feels either.
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Yeah, it's too much for me.
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Yeah. I sleep with a soft blanket.
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Oh, speaking of laundry. And your dad takes the comforter. Yes.
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I have a comforter right now, thank God. But putting
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the like filler into the duvet when you have like
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a duvet instead of a comforter. That is the hardest
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thing in the world. Every time I had to do
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it in college, I would like get inside the duvet
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cover and like pull it inside. It is ridiculously hard
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for absolutely no reason. And that's why I buy comforters.
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Well, what you're supposed to do is actually put the
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duvet cover inside out.
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Okay. I have done all of these. It's like a
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magic trick. Okay. It seems easier than it actually is.
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Like hello Instagram v reality. Yeah. The people that are
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doing that are wizards.
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It's funny how. things should be really simple, but they're
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not like, okay. Also, um, what's your pan, the pan, the, uh,
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the black pan.
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No, the, Oh, my cast irons.
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The cast iron, like keeping that properly like oils and
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then cleaning it afterwards with salt.
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It's a joy to have, but I rarely use it
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because of how painful it is to use.
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Well, I use it and then your dad cleans it
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because I still pretend I don't know how to do it.
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I would say pretend, but I actually really don't know
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how to clean it properly. I in theory.
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Know how to. In theory, I know how to do it.
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I feel like when I execute it and I go
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to season it, something always ends up wrong and I
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don't know what I'm doing. And that's okay. You know what?
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It's okay.
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Keeping knives sharp.
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Yeah. I also feel like that's just like a fallacy
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that you can do that at home.
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Well, so it's interesting because we took our knives somewhere
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before Thanksgiving last year, I think to like this special
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machine that sharpens them. And yeah, that was great for
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like two days.
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Yeah.
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And you use them and then they're dull again. And
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so I was like, well, that's a waste of money.
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Right. And I like, we have not only the knife
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sharpener in the block, which I don't think works the best,
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but we have an actual knife sharpener and I feel
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like it does nothing.
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Yeah.
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I don't know. I mean, I feel like our knife
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sharpener does work.
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I'm too worried about like damaging my knives, I guess.
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Like in breaking- Yeah.
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Yeah.
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You got it.
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I also, I don't really have like super nice knives
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in the end of the day. I don't like, they're
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like a Walmart, I think. So I mean, mine are okay.
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They're not like super fancy, but, um, you know, I,
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I never thought that would be so difficult.
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Yeah.
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Washing your hydro flask.
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I don't do that either.
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She'll bring it home. I'm like, Olivia, there's like organisms
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living in here. This is disgusting.
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It's good for my immune system, I think. Maybe not.
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I don't know. I'm not dying yet.
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Okay.
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Although I will say one time I had a very traumatic.
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I don't have a straw like cleaner, which is like
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that's on me. Like I really could just like easily
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go and order one. But it's like I never think
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about it until I actually need it. And then I
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don't know. Recently, Jack's been on my case about he's
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like making a list of things on Amazon that I
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always say I need, but I never get. And he's like, okay,
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like one day we're going to sit down. And we're
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going to order all of this. I was like, okay, fine.
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I'm still going to forget to order it though.
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A straw cleaner is like $ 5.
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Yeah.
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Actually, that's one of the things your sister asked me
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to bring with me to Wales for her as a
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straw cleaner. So I have a straw cleaner on its way.
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If there's two, I'll send one to you. But I
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think it's just one.
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Yeah. I had an experience though, which is why I
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don't use a lot of reusable straws now, where a
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huge chunk of mold came up in one of them.
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And that was pretty traumatic. Yeah. Not that it like
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obviously caused me to buy a straw cleaner or anything.
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I still don't have one. I just don't use straws
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that often except for my.
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Going back to laundry, you probably don't have this in
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your place because you have like an old school washing machine.
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Yeah.
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But the amount of mold that grows in a washing
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machine on the rubber ring and you got to leave
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all the parts open so that it dries out.
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I guess that's like the nice part. But the old
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school machines are just like– we've advanced in laundry and
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sometimes I feel like my clothes are not coming out
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as clean because I have an old school machine.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Well, the mold thing is gross and I've tried all
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the different cleaners and I still scrub it out. But
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supposedly they have nuance.
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Well, yeah, mold in general.
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Getting rid of it.
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Yeah. Just like because, you know, like everyone gets mold
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in their shower eventually. It's just like part of the
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process unless you're actually cleaning your shower every single time
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after you shower. And honestly, good for you. Like good
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for you. I wish I had that.
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Time well you have that just the tylex spray you
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can just spray spray spray.
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No yeah but like that doesn't like you know in
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the drain or anything.
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Oh yeah in the drain oh yeah talk about that geez.
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That was disgusting jack cleaned our sink drain oh my
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god it was so disgusting the stuff that came out
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of it it looked like an animal we had tried
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cleaning before speaking of something that was hard we had
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tried the drain out which i know you're not supposed
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to do but we don't own the building so i
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don't really care Um, we had done like the stick
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down the thing and pull stuff up and it was
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never good enough. And so finally he literally took apart
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the whole sink, which don't ask me how you do.
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And it works. And it's like his, his claim to
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fame right now. I went into the bathroom today and
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he just turned the sink on. He goes, look, it's draining.
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I was like, you did this like a week ago.
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I've used the sink since then. I know it's draining.
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He's going to keep showing you.
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Yeah. But it was gross. It was like a, like a,
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something a cat would throw up. Gross.
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It wasn't.
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It was just your hair. No, not even mine. His
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shaving for sure.
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Yeah.
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But it's been like that. Okay. This is a quick tangent.
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I don't think apartment complexes really clean in between tenants.
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I don't think so either. I think you have to
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do it yourself.
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That's disgusting. But then they charge this massive fee when
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you move out for all of the above. So you're like, oh,
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they must be fixing it, right? They must be doing
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this and that. And they're not.
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Maybe they do like a basic, but I don't. I
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don't even think they do the basic.
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Yeah.
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I know every time, like, your sisters move somewhere, I'm like, okay,
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this is gross.
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Yeah.
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Millie's dorm was really clean.
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So that was good. Well, that's nice. But, like, I just, like, ugh.
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Ugh.
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Okay, let's end on a high note here.
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So, yeah.
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We think... So.
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Things take a lot of time, right? And then we
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get to the end of our day and we think,
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oh my gosh, I didn't accomplish anything. But you really
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did because there is nothing easy, right? So everything takes
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time and give yourself some grace. I can tell you
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right now I'm giving myself some grace, especially now that
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I'm done with the audio book piece. I have two
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other big things going on that I need to get done. And,
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you know, slowly but surely I get them done. I
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make the list. I lose the list. I find the
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list again. And then I'm like, oh, I finished that.
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I can check it off. So there we go. What's
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your story for the day? What does your quote tell us?
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Nothing will hold you back if you want it enough
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and act on it enough.
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Yeah. Even the hard things. Do them anyways.
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Yeah, because you'll get them done. And it's okay to
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complain about it. Just don't make it your whole personality.
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Yeah.
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Again, we can complain a little bit and then move on.
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I complained. I'm done for the day.
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Yep.
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Thank you so much for joining us on this week's
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episode of Her Unshakable Confidence. Don't forget to rate, review,
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