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What happens when your greatest strength in Law Enforcement isn’t force, but the power of conversation?
Retired Police Officer, SWAT Team Member, and veteran crisis negotiator Patty McConnell joins The Crisis Cop, Pat Doering, to reflect on her decades-long journey breaking barriers and saving lives across Northern Illinois. Patty’s unique path - from the only woman on her department to a central figure training the next generation - reveals how empathy, curiosity, and active listening are true superpowers at the heart of crisis negotiation.
Ready to discover why the right words can be mightier than any weapon, and how understanding and human connection can change - maybe even save - a life? It’s all here in this episode of The Crisis Cop Podcast.
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The Detailed Shownotes for This Episode of The Crisis Cop Podcast:
Looking for the detailed links, information and references used inside this episode? Read on below to find them all and remember to reach out to ask if there's something else you'd like to see from this episode!
Timestamps for This Episode of The Crisis Cop Podcast:
00:00 Feeling like Benjamin Button
10:01 The influence of Harvey Schlossberg
13:04 Encouraging students to speak naturally
17:33 Negotiation mindset shift
24:44 Using silence in interrogation
31:15 Handling sensitive third-party situations
35:10 Join Two Guys Talking: Be a Reviewer
41:07 Comforting a distraught friend
49:34 Night shift stakeout experience
52:56 Psychological resilience in SWAT teams
59:37 Supporting teammates and recognizing trauma
01:06:57 Advice for aspiring law enforcement officers
01:08:09 Practicing crisis communication skills
01:13:48 Misconceptions about negotiation tactics
01:19:33 Podcast closing and call to action
Questions Answered Inside This Episode of Cops and Robbers Talk:
The conversation focused on the evolution of career paths in law enforcement, especially for women in the late 1970s. What challenges and opportunities were discussed regarding being one of the few women in policing at that time?
One concept discussed was the dual-track nature of police work: investigative versus tactical (SWAT/negotiations). How did these different tracks shape professional development and skill sets?
A key theme that emerged was the importance of curiosity and genuine interest in others for effective negotiations. How can cultivating curiosity improve outcomes in high-stress crisis situations?
The discussion explored the process of transitioning from street patrol to becoming a crisis negotiator. What fears and misconceptions did new negotiators tend to have, and how were these addressed?
Several points were raised, including the idea that being a good negotiator is more about listening than talking. What active listening skills were highlighted, and how can they be applied both in law enforcement and everyday life?
The episode described a critical incident where assumptions about an individual’s concerns (e.g., fear of more medical bills) affected negotiation tactics. How can law enforcement better gather and utilize intelligence to avoid missteps?
One concept discussed was the use of emotion labeling and effective pauses as negotiation techniques. Why are these approaches particularly effective in crisis negotiation scenarios?
A key theme that emerged was the impact of cumulative trauma and the need for psychological resilience in policing. What strategies were suggested for managing trauma and stress both individually and organizationally?
The discussion explored the “triad of command” model during critical incidents. How does integrating incident, tactical, and negotiations leadership improve decision-making and outcomes?
Several points were raised about advice for future negotiators, including pursuing diverse education and practicing skills outside traditional law enforcement roles. What benefits are associated with broadening one’s background, and how can prospective negotiators prepare for the unique demands of the field?
Links from this Episode:
-- Get All of Pat's Books via Amazon Now!
- Crisis Cops: The Evolution of Crisis Negotiation in America
- Crisis Cop 2: More Stories from the Front Lines of Crisis Negotiation
- Calming the Chaos: My Life as a Crisis Negotiator in the St. Louis Area
2GuysTalking Podcast Network
Link to the Network's homepage to provide listeners with more background.
2GuysTalking Podcast Network
Books & Training Materials
Compliance Surrender by Geno Dorough - Retired Crisis Negotiator: The foundational book on negotiation tactics – find it on Amazon or inquire to the hosts for a fair price.
Pat Doering - CrisisCop.Com’s newest negotiation book: For more content and practical advice, reach out via the podcast or website.
Relevant Techniques & Philosophies
The "Four Rs" of Negotiation: Recognize, Respect, Reduce, and Remove barriers – as discussed by Geno Dorough - Retired Crisis Negotiator
Active Listening Skills: Essential for both negotiations and day-to-day policing – and featured throughout the episode.
Professional Communication in Law Enforcement: Why avoiding yelling and profanity matters for de-escalation and public image.
Topics Covered in This Episode
The evolution of crisis negotiation in police work and CIT (Crisis Intervention Team) training.
Handling emotionally charged situations, and the effects of PTSD in law enforcement.
Building trust and rapport—even through difficult or traumatic incidents.
Why mentorship matters: Advice for new negotiators from Pat Doering - CrisisCop.Com and Meghan Taft - Limited License Psychologist & Crisis Negotiator.
The importance of preserving dignity and respecting emotional barriers during crisis calls.
Be sure to Like, Subscribe & Share Everywhere!
==== Connect with Pat Doering - The Crisis Cop Today!
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— Pat Doering on LinkedIn
— Pat Doering on Instagram
— Crisis Cop on the Web
-- Crisis Cop on YouTube
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Calls to the Audience Inside this Episode:
— Did you know that it ALL STARTED with John & Al's Sporting Goods? What was your favorite light bulb moment that YOU discovered in this episode? Tell us Your Perspective About This Episode Now!
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Tell us what you think and we’ll use your comments in a future ALL-FAN-INPUT Episode! Educating the public is what we’ve based all of our programming on and we’re eager to connect with others who are doing it! Know about another podcast , YouTuber or other media generator making a difference in the way of perspective when it comes to law enforcement? Tell us about them now and we’ll link to them and have them on a future episode of CrisisCop.Com!
The Host of this Program:
Pat Doering
Pat Doering began his career as a police officer in 1996 and has served as a Police Hostage Negotiator since 2004. He has received formal negotiation training from the FBI, the London Metropolitan Police (Scotland Yard), and the Negotiation Program at Harvard University....
Retired Police Officer, SWAT Team Member, and veteran crisis negotiator Patty McConnell joins The Crisis Cop, Pat Doering, to reflect on her decades-long journey breaking barriers and saving lives across Northern Illinois. Patty’s unique path - from the only woman on her department to a central figure training the next generation - reveals how empathy, curiosity, and active listening are true superpowers at the heart of crisis negotiation.
Ready to discover why the right words can be mightier than any weapon, and how understanding and human connection can change - maybe even save - a life? It’s all here in this episode of The Crisis Cop Podcast.
Don’t forget to Like, Subscribe, and Share this episode of The Crisis Cop Podcast on The 2GuysTalking Podcast Network via WhatCopsWatch.Com…
The Crisis Cop Podcast Podcast Links Bar:
Connect with The Host!
Subscribe to This Podcast Now!
This program is one of the many parts of The
WhatCopsWatch.Com
Effort! Rate this podcast on Apple Podcasts. the Ultimate success for every podcaster is FEEDBACK!
Not an Apple Podcasts user? No problem! Be sure to cherck out any of the other many growing podcast directories online to find this and many other podcasts on The 2GuysTalking Podcast Network!
Housekeeping
-- The Editor Corps - Make Your Podcast Soar: There's only one question to ask: Why are YOU still editing your podcast? Reclaim the time you spend on editing (easily at least twice the time you spend on capturing the program) to make more great content by enlisting "The Editor Corps" who will "Make Your Podcast Soar!" http://EditorCorps.Com
-- The Voice Farm: Fred Wilkerson, Mike's Father that died in the first few days of 2018, always dreamed of a place that those interested in Voiceover could go to learn more about the industry and experience - without all the BS that goes with it. We build it four and a half years go and it continues to provide new voiceover artists and businesses looking for voiceover talent a place to go and secure great voiceover artists. http://VoiceFarmers.Com
Two Great Ways to Listen/Watch!
We are proud to provide you both a dedicated AUDIO and VIDEO presentation for this program!
To Listen Now: Hit the play button in the player on this page or hit the Subscribe button on your favorite Podcast Directory to instantly get these episodes when they release!
To Watch Now: Visit this program on YouTube, or hit the window located below to see the hosts, guests and light bulb moments that make this program special!
https://youtu.be/8mF1yGLz_6Q
The Detailed Shownotes for This Episode of The Crisis Cop Podcast:
Looking for the detailed links, information and references used inside this episode? Read on below to find them all and remember to reach out to ask if there's something else you'd like to see from this episode!
Timestamps for This Episode of The Crisis Cop Podcast:
00:00 Feeling like Benjamin Button
10:01 The influence of Harvey Schlossberg
13:04 Encouraging students to speak naturally
17:33 Negotiation mindset shift
24:44 Using silence in interrogation
31:15 Handling sensitive third-party situations
35:10 Join Two Guys Talking: Be a Reviewer
41:07 Comforting a distraught friend
49:34 Night shift stakeout experience
52:56 Psychological resilience in SWAT teams
59:37 Supporting teammates and recognizing trauma
01:06:57 Advice for aspiring law enforcement officers
01:08:09 Practicing crisis communication skills
01:13:48 Misconceptions about negotiation tactics
01:19:33 Podcast closing and call to action
Questions Answered Inside This Episode of Cops and Robbers Talk:
The conversation focused on the evolution of career paths in law enforcement, especially for women in the late 1970s. What challenges and opportunities were discussed regarding being one of the few women in policing at that time?
One concept discussed was the dual-track nature of police work: investigative versus tactical (SWAT/negotiations). How did these different tracks shape professional development and skill sets?
A key theme that emerged was the importance of curiosity and genuine interest in others for effective negotiations. How can cultivating curiosity improve outcomes in high-stress crisis situations?
The discussion explored the process of transitioning from street patrol to becoming a crisis negotiator. What fears and misconceptions did new negotiators tend to have, and how were these addressed?
Several points were raised, including the idea that being a good negotiator is more about listening than talking. What active listening skills were highlighted, and how can they be applied both in law enforcement and everyday life?
The episode described a critical incident where assumptions about an individual’s concerns (e.g., fear of more medical bills) affected negotiation tactics. How can law enforcement better gather and utilize intelligence to avoid missteps?
One concept discussed was the use of emotion labeling and effective pauses as negotiation techniques. Why are these approaches particularly effective in crisis negotiation scenarios?
A key theme that emerged was the impact of cumulative trauma and the need for psychological resilience in policing. What strategies were suggested for managing trauma and stress both individually and organizationally?
The discussion explored the “triad of command” model during critical incidents. How does integrating incident, tactical, and negotiations leadership improve decision-making and outcomes?
Several points were raised about advice for future negotiators, including pursuing diverse education and practicing skills outside traditional law enforcement roles. What benefits are associated with broadening one’s background, and how can prospective negotiators prepare for the unique demands of the field?
Links from this Episode:
-- Get All of Pat's Books via Amazon Now!
- Crisis Cops: The Evolution of Crisis Negotiation in America
- Crisis Cop 2: More Stories from the Front Lines of Crisis Negotiation
- Calming the Chaos: My Life as a Crisis Negotiator in the St. Louis Area
2GuysTalking Podcast Network
Link to the Network's homepage to provide listeners with more background.
2GuysTalking Podcast Network
Books & Training Materials
Compliance Surrender by Geno Dorough - Retired Crisis Negotiator: The foundational book on negotiation tactics – find it on Amazon or inquire to the hosts for a fair price.
Pat Doering - CrisisCop.Com’s newest negotiation book: For more content and practical advice, reach out via the podcast or website.
Relevant Techniques & Philosophies
The "Four Rs" of Negotiation: Recognize, Respect, Reduce, and Remove barriers – as discussed by Geno Dorough - Retired Crisis Negotiator
Active Listening Skills: Essential for both negotiations and day-to-day policing – and featured throughout the episode.
Professional Communication in Law Enforcement: Why avoiding yelling and profanity matters for de-escalation and public image.
Topics Covered in This Episode
The evolution of crisis negotiation in police work and CIT (Crisis Intervention Team) training.
Handling emotionally charged situations, and the effects of PTSD in law enforcement.
Building trust and rapport—even through difficult or traumatic incidents.
Why mentorship matters: Advice for new negotiators from Pat Doering - CrisisCop.Com and Meghan Taft - Limited License Psychologist & Crisis Negotiator.
The importance of preserving dignity and respecting emotional barriers during crisis calls.
Be sure to Like, Subscribe & Share Everywhere!
==== Connect with Pat Doering - The Crisis Cop Today!
— Pat Doering on Facebook
— Pat Doering on LinkedIn
— Pat Doering on Instagram
— Crisis Cop on the Web
-- Crisis Cop on YouTube
==== Help Us Tell People About 10+ Years of WhatCopsWatch.Com:
On the Web: https://whatcopswatch.com/
At Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast....
At Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VV1HL9....
On Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b46....
On Facebook: / whatcopswatch
Calls to the Audience Inside this Episode:
— Did you know that it ALL STARTED with John & Al's Sporting Goods? What was your favorite light bulb moment that YOU discovered in this episode? Tell us Your Perspective About This Episode Now!
Be an Advertiser/Sponsor for This Program!
Tell us what you think! It’s never too late to be an advertiser in this podcast, thanks to Perpetual Advertising! Contact CrisisCop.Com now and learn more about why podcasting allows your advertising dollar to live across millions of future listeners – FOREVER!
Tell Us What You Think About The Crisis Cop Podcast:
Tell us what you think and we’ll use your comments in a future ALL-FAN-INPUT Episode! Educating the public is what we’ve based all of our programming on and we’re eager to connect with others who are doing it! Know about another podcast , YouTuber or other media generator making a difference in the way of perspective when it comes to law enforcement? Tell us about them now and we’ll link to them and have them on a future episode of CrisisCop.Com!
The Host of this Program:
Pat Doering
Pat Doering began his career as a police officer in 1996 and has served as a Police Hostage Negotiator since 2004. He has received formal negotiation training from the FBI, the London Metropolitan Police (Scotland Yard), and the Negotiation Program at Harvard University....
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