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talking to himself. 00:06:27.199 --> 00:06:37.600 Like you can kind of even though my music's going, you can kind of read lips and stuff, and he wasn't on the phone, like I don't see no phone out, and I don't know. 00:06:37.839 --> 00:06:51.600 It was also he was like running around in a way that it's like it's not your typical of like high energy like running around, but it's not I don't know how to describe this, but if you understand what I'm talking about, you'll understand what I'm talking about. 00:06:51.839 --> 00:07:23.199 But yeah, and then I thought for a fat second he was about to run into the street, so I had to like not slam on my brakes, but be hyper aware that like this guy has a stick, and I'm driving a car that is not my car, and so I'd rather not have to um explain to the owner of my car or the owner of the car that I'm driving, aka my father, that a random stick man hit it. 00:07:23.439 --> 00:07:31.600 So no, it did not hit it, but yeah, just being hyper aware of my situation, hyper aware of what's going on. 00:07:31.839 --> 00:07:40.879 But yeah, I didn't end up running in the street, but it was just something so interesting to witness at 2 50 in the morning. 00:07:41.279 --> 00:07:57.439 Like, I know I see some crazy stuff, but around my area specific, I've never seen a man with a giant stick, like six foot stick, running around going in circles, three in the morning activities, right? 00:07:58.800 --> 00:08:09.040 I had this thought in my head too, um, as I was driving, and I think that's why I decided, yeah, it's 3.20 in the morning when I started this podcast. 00:08:09.120 --> 00:08:18.240 But there's this thought I had this morning, yes, even at 3.20 this morning, it kind of sparked me wanting to do this episode so late at night. 00:08:18.399 --> 00:08:21.759 Especially when I got home, I could have just hopped into bed, called it a day. 00:08:21.920 --> 00:08:53.039 But I was reflecting on friendships and my personal experience in trio friendships specifically, where you know, three people, whether it be all girls, all guys, one guy, two girls, or you know, the latter, you know, all these mix of gendered friendships and girl friendships and guy friendships. 00:08:53.120 --> 00:09:07.120 And obviously I can't speak for the guys because I am not a guy, but hopefully soon I'll have a guy on this podcast to help me navigate the guy brain, or at least one guy's brain one day. 00:09:07.600 --> 00:09:52.639 But anyways, yes, I was thinking about trios and my experience in trio friendships and diving into that conversation with nobody but listening to other podcasts and other TikToks and other YouTube videos and just coming across and eavesdropping, shouldn't be eavesdropping, but it's kind of hard to do when people yap so loudly in public and are gossiping and it's hard not to eavesdrop because you you try not to, but it's just that type of volume where they're just like talking super loud and you can't help but be like, oh my

gosh, I can't believe that happened. 00:09:53.200 --> 00:09:55.360 Anyways, trio friendships. 00:09:56.080 --> 00:10:24.720 I personally have realized going through so many friendships and learning to abandon the old and replace them with people who inspire you, replace friendships that seem to drag you down rather than lift you up, and also just remove friendships that no longer are serving you this year, but also that you are no longer serving them, right? 00:10:24.879 --> 00:10:29.039 Friendships are a two-way street in this narcissistic world that we live in. 00:10:29.200 --> 00:10:41.120 Everything seems like a me-me-me and friendships, but truly the same goes for if they are not serving you and you're not serving them, what is the purpose of that friendship? 00:10:41.279 --> 00:10:44.159 And it's just time to ease it out and just let it go. 00:10:44.399 --> 00:10:57.200 Yes, I keep going around in circles with this trio friendship thing, but I've been in a lot of trio friendships in my life, not only just because those are the type of environments I thrive in. 00:10:57.360 --> 00:11:02.480 I thrive in very small conversations in large groups. 00:11:02.639 --> 00:11:05.440 I tend to lose myself a little bit more. 00:11:05.519 --> 00:11:14.080 I get very overstimulated, which leads to me being a little bit frustrated, which leads to me not wanting to be in the situation that I'm in. 00:11:14.320 --> 00:11:26.879 And especially in my introverted nature, I tend to want to build proper connection and proper love for another person through smaller groups. 00:11:27.039 --> 00:11:28.000 And that's okay. 00:11:28.159 --> 00:11:29.440 There's nothing wrong with that. 00:11:29.600 --> 00:11:32.480 And I've accepted that it's just part of me. 00:11:32.720 --> 00:11:36.080 I just don't thrive in an environment that has a lot of people in it. 00:11:36.240 --> 00:11:40.799 I can love all these people, but I cannot handle a lot of people all at once. 00:11:40.960 --> 00:11:54.639 My brain wants to focus on one to I think the max I could do is probably like four before I kind of lose my brain cell and I just I can't do it. 00:11:55.279 --> 00:12:01.440 But anyways, I keep drifting from what I'm talking about. 00:12:01.600 --> 00:12:36.559 But trio friendships, I've been in a lot of them, and let's just say I've survived a lot of trio friendships, I've also left a lot of trio friendships, but my honest opinion about them, I think they work for a certain amount of time before one or two become very secure within each other and just get along better, and one person ends up feeling left out, or one person ends up feeling hurt or something, or it just equally works out, right? 00:12:36.960 --> 00:12:40.080 But in my personal opinion, I don't think trios work. 00:12:40.480 --> 00:12:49.120 I truly I think they work if you got the mixed personalities and everyone has mutual respect for one another. 00:12:49.279 --> 00:13:10.320 But I can fully say that sometimes trios within friendships can kind of feel backstabby because if one person has a bad experience with one of the members within your trio, then the other person is kind of taking the brunt of the argument and being the middle person for it and all that fun stuff. 00:13:10.639 --> 00:13:15.440 And I'm just starting to realize I've been through that position. 00:13:15.600 --> 00:13:28.879 I've also put another person in that situation, and again, I'd rather be honest about my flaws and all than hide it and pretend that I'm a victim in every single circumstance that I've lived in in my life because that's just not true. 00:13:29.120 --> 00:14:02.320 Because I know I got my flaws, and I've definitely done that to somebody where I've had an issue with another person in this in quote trio friendship, and they ended up taking the brunt of it all, or I've ended up telling them I'm leaving this friendship, I'm leaving this friendship in whatever year this friendship was formed because it is not good for me and it's not good for the other person, and it's just better to move forward than hold on to something that makes me feel like garbage, you know? 00:14:02.960 --> 00:14:16.240 Because that's the thing about friendships, you don't want to keep a friend who makes you feel like garbage, you don't want to be around people that make you feel like garbage, but you also don't want to lose yourself within a friendship either. 00:14:16.399 --> 00:14:20.559 It's the same way in a relationship too with your significant other. 00:14:20.720 --> 00:14:37.679 You don't want to lose yourself, and then when you start end up being catty about it, it's one thing to have like, you know, certain disagreements and certain things that, you know, change your perspective and are supposed to be eye-opening canon events, if you will. 00:14:37.840 --> 00:14:43.200 But it's another if every single day you're arguing with your friend or your significant other. 00:14:43.279 --> 00:14:50.480 It's another thing if every single conversation leads to tension and not in a playful way. 00:14:50.720 --> 00:14:57.600 And in my experience with it, I always wanted to be a best friend to someone. 00:14:57.840 --> 00:15:02.960 And it's funny because I was having this conversation with um uh who was I having a conversation with? 00:15:03.120 --> 00:15:04.639 I was having a conversation with somebody. 00:15:04.879 --> 00:15:21.519 They were talking about how they were very fortunate that within their life, they have naturally always had this positive attitude in their life, and that will be another episode that will be coming soon where I talk about gratitude or bad attitude about life. 00:15:21.759 --> 00:15:26.240 But this example will also be brought up in that episode, so stay tuned for that. 00:15:26.399 --> 00:15:49.840 But anyways, they were talking about how they just have had a very positive experience when it comes to making friends in a very positive where they don't have to try so hard

in order to be liked or in order to feel loved or in order to gain friends or in order to, you know, do anything within friendships. 00:15:49.919 --> 00:15:56.159 They never had to beg for friendship, they never had to try really hard for a friendship, right? 00:15:56.559 --> 00:16:10.000 And something that they said really stood out to me was that I've never been in a position where I had to pray for a best friend or I had to try to persuade someone to be my friend. 00:16:10.159 --> 00:16:48.399 And I don't know why that line really hit me, because I felt like a lot of the things this person was saying, yes, I think comes from a genuine place that is good, but in a lot of different ways, it just hit me, and I was just trying to digest it because I was the type of person that in school I bounced around a lot, whether it be actually being moved to different schools or moving between friend groups and just trying to see who I vibe with, all these things. 00:16:48.720 --> 00:16:56.240 But one thing I always wanted in my soul and in my nature is I always wanted one person to lean on. 00:16:56.720 --> 00:17:03.919 And I always wanted to have that person I could be like, oh, that's my bestie, you know, that's my best friend. 00:17:04.079 --> 00:17:11.920 And that was my whole mindset growing up because it felt like as long as I had somebody, I I wouldn't have to deal with it by myself. 00:17:12.079 --> 00:17:14.799 And obviously at this point I was a godless person. 00:17:15.119 --> 00:17:19.839 I didn't I didn't believe that I had someone walking with me every step of the way. 00:17:20.079 --> 00:17:41.359 But around that time I truly craved friendship, I truly craved connection, and I didn't know that every time I craved heavily craved connection with another human being, I'd end up in a trio, and those two people would always end up becoming the quote unquote best friends, the pairing. 00:17:41.680 --> 00:17:43.440 And I just be there. 00:17:43.599 --> 00:18:04.799 It was so hard for me to digest because what made me in quote undesirable to be a best friend, or what made me not be special enough to be someone's best friend, or worthy enough, or XYZ enough, you know, like all these lists of reasons why I could hate on myself and be like, why wasn't it me? 00:18:04.960 --> 00:18:06.400 I could have been petty about it. 00:18:06.559 --> 00:18:09.599 I could have said, Oh, it's the best season, the plus one. 00:18:10.079 --> 00:18:16.640 You know, like I could have been petty about it, but I started to realize maybe it's not me. 00:18:16.880 --> 00:18:19.680 Maybe it's just I hadn't found my person yet. 00:18:19.920 --> 00:18:23.839 I hadn't found someone I could truly say that's my best friend. 00:18:23.920 --> 00:18:25.519 They know me from the inside out. 00:18:25.680 --> 00:18:27.839 I know them and they know me. 00:18:28.160 --> 00:18:34.240 But I just found that in these trio dynamics, it was just so hard for me to be close. 00:18:34.400 --> 00:18:50.240 You are close, but then when fallouts happen, obviously two, two out of the three end up being together, and the one who is the one who leaves ends up, you know, leaving, going off on their own adventure and finding new friends and things like that. 00:18:50.480 --> 00:18:55.119 And I think with my experience with it, I've just gone through enough. 00:18:55.359 --> 00:18:59.119 Enough to know that I don't think I belong in a trio friendship. 00:18:59.279 --> 00:19:14.559 I think with my experience in life, I think I've gone through my fair share of hurting within trio friendships, but also I've realized how much perspective I can gain from trio friendships as well. 00:19:14.880 --> 00:19:18.799 And I don't get hurt anymore compared to how I used to. 00:19:18.960 --> 00:19:24.079 I used to be like, uh, I don't really want to do this, I don't want to be here. 00:19:24.319 --> 00:19:26.480 To now being like, you know what? 00:19:26.640 --> 00:19:29.119 If you guys are best friends, cool. 00:19:29.599 --> 00:19:39.680 You know, like I think I found the contentment in being okay if I I end up not having a best friend in my whole life. 00:19:39.839 --> 00:19:46.559 And obviously, I do have very close friends, I have people I can just truly love upon. 00:19:46.799 --> 00:19:55.680 I would say the closest to being the top tier of the best friend list of like knowing everything about me would probably be jazz for sure. 00:19:55.920 --> 00:20:08.079 But yeah, when I'm not around that girly and I have all these other very important people in my life, I'm trying not to put anyone on a pedestal. 00:20:08.319 --> 00:20:21.359 I'm trying not to say, oh, this friendship is better than another person, or oh, they're going there without me, and I'm feeling sad, or I'm feeling like, why did they leave me out? 00:20:21.519 --> 00:20:22.480 Why do they do this? 00:20:22.640 --> 00:20:37.279 I'm learning right now, in this current moment, to be okay with being alone and okay that I'm not someone's first choice because that's a hard pill to swallow, too. 00:20:37.440 --> 00:20:39.440 Like, because that's the whole premise, right? 00:20:39.599 --> 00:20:52.480 That means if you have a best friend, that means you're their first choice and they're your first choice, and you will always go and seek them, and no matter what the circumstances, and that's a beautiful, beautiful thing. 00:20:52.720 --> 00:21:02.559 But when you don't have that and you're kind of relying on yourself and you're going through this life, you have to become your own best friend, you know. 00:21:02.640 --> 00:21:06.640 You have to love on yourself the way that you love on someone else. 00:21:06.960 --> 00:21:21.359 And it's a tough pill to swallow when you think that, especially in trio friendships, that you're the second choice, that you are only important because you know something or you can offer something in that area, and that's all they view you as? 00:21:21.440 --> 00:21:23.519

That's a tough pill to swallow. 00:21:23.839 --> 00:21:30.400 That you're potentially being used, but you're also being loved, and that's a confusing feeling to have. 00:21:30.640 --> 00:21:35.680 Like, how do you distinguish like within a friendship if you're being loved or used? 00:21:35.920 --> 00:21:41.759 And then where is that line where you finally draw the boundary and say, Okay, that's enough? 00:21:42.400 --> 00:21:50.480 Because if you're a hardcore lover, lover for your friends, lover for life, you will do anything. 00:21:50.720 --> 00:21:53.839 I know I would do anything for my friends. 00:21:54.079 --> 00:21:59.759 If I get close enough to you, I'll think of you as my second family, and like I won't let you let go. 00:22:00.319 --> 00:22:01.920 You'll have to be the one to let go. 00:22:02.000 --> 00:22:22.559 And then when I finally realized I I don't need that type of feeling in my life, that hard burden feeling where I don't know whether you love me or whether you hate me or whether you're using me or whether you just need me because I'm a good person to talk to or give advice to, or I don't know. 00:22:22.799 --> 00:22:30.000 I've just been having that thought a lot where I don't quite know if I'm good enough. 00:22:30.480 --> 00:22:32.319 That one hit actually. 00:22:32.720 --> 00:22:37.839 Sometimes I don't know if I'm good enough to be friends with another person. 00:22:38.799 --> 00:22:45.920 And so that's why I also feel so I feel so out of place too. 00:22:46.240 --> 00:22:57.039 Because as much as I want to love on other people and these walls are up, I think learning to be okay with yourself is also learning that you're gonna be flawed. 00:22:57.359 --> 00:23:01.759 And it's about who do you want to see you at your worst? 00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:06.960 Who do you want to see you while you're going through your own struggle? 00:23:07.200 --> 00:23:22.799 And that honestly, that right there just kind of opened a lot about myself because a lot of the people in my life, I don't think I want them to see me struggle, which means I'm not comfortable enough to let someone else in. 00:23:23.279 --> 00:23:26.400 And again, it looks so different to everyone else. 00:23:26.480 --> 00:23:43.119 But for me, I'm finding it hard to allow people to see me at my worst, or when I feel like I'm losing faith in myself or in my life or in my financial status or anything. 00:23:43.279 --> 00:23:55.279 I don't like having to tell someone that I'm struggling, especially a friend, because in my life, I don't know a lot of my family, I'm not extremely close to a lot of my family. 00:23:55.519 --> 00:24:04.160 So, like I said, my friends are like my second family, and so when I have to be honest about what I'm going through, I don't like doing that. 00:24:04.400 --> 00:24:20.960 I like helping people, I don't like being the one who has to be helped because being the one who has to be helped constantly makes me feel like I am a burden, and I know too. 00:24:21.279 --> 00:24:28.400 Certain people listening to this, they may relate to it, they may not, and they may just be like, dang, that is a sad thought to have. 00:24:28.720 --> 00:24:43.920 But I've been processing my friendships a lot because I've been in a place where I've been staying away because I don't want them to hear or see me struggle or judge who I am. 00:24:44.160 --> 00:24:46.160 Because that's the thing with friendships, too. 00:24:46.319 --> 00:24:49.119 As much as you can judge them, they will also judge you. 00:24:49.279 --> 00:25:02.480 And if you have the right person, like your quote-unquote best friend that chooses you through thick and thin, they can accept those things that are flawed about you that you don't want to open up about. 00:25:02.720 --> 00:25:08.079 Even if you don't know how to explain it, they understand how your brain works and they get it. 00:25:08.799 --> 00:25:13.200 They just there's something about it that just clicks. 00:25:13.440 --> 00:25:32.880 But if you are trying to explain it to a friend who's really just watching you struggle and just asking you how you are, and you're just you don't want to say you're good, but at the same time, you don't want to say you're bad, because if you say you're bad, then you have to go into the depth of why you're bad. 00:25:32.960 --> 00:25:44.240 And then once you're in the role of explaining why things are end quote bad or why you're feeling a certain way, then it feels like a burden because they asked you just how are you? 00:25:44.400 --> 00:25:50.880 And I don't know what it is within society either that we automatically have to just say, Oh, how are you? 00:25:50.960 --> 00:25:51.519 I'm good. 00:25:51.680 --> 00:25:54.960 What happened to building conversations with people? 00:25:55.359 --> 00:25:58.799 You know, what happened to people just saying, like, oh, how are you? 00:25:58.960 --> 00:26:03.839 Oh, I've you know, I've I've been better, and this is why. 00:26:04.000 --> 00:26:11.200 Like, what happened to basic human connection and being able to relate to one another? 00:26:11.359 --> 00:26:18.079 That even if we're saying we're good, we're actually thinking something completely opposite or something that needs to be unloaded. 00:26:18.160 --> 00:26:24.079 We don't want to load unload it because we don't want the other person to think you're crazy. 00:26:24.319 --> 00:26:28.720 I've been there, I understand it, I truly get that. 00:26:29.119 --> 00:26:38.720 So we shorten our answers and we say we're good because we don't want to bother them, we don't want them to see our flaws, we don't have to explain things that we're going through. 00:26:38.880 --> 00:26:40.160 That's okay. 00:26:40.960 --> 00:26:51.920 Genuinely, it's okay to feel flawed and scared to open up because once you open up, what happens with that information? 00:26:52.480 --> 00:26:54.079 Who knows where it's gonna go? 00:26:54.319 --> 00:27:09.680 Especially in this world, you

have to be so careful with your words because you can get canceled so fast, you can get rejected so fast, and it's just a place that is frightening to open up. 00:27:10.079 --> 00:27:17.039 But that's why I also created the space for myself and for everyone who wants to open up. 00:27:17.200 --> 00:27:25.839 I create this as a safe space because honestly, if we can't be vulnerable with one another, what's the point of even doing this? 00:27:26.480 --> 00:27:44.160 What's the point of even living properly if we can't be vulnerable about the things that are bothering us, about the things that we are going through, about the things we've experienced, about the perceptions or the judgments or the hate or the love that we've experienced in this life that we were given. 00:27:44.400 --> 00:27:52.480 Who yeah, friendships, they are something I've never ever thought I would be open about. 00:27:52.559 --> 00:28:01.759 Because I have so many perceptions when it comes to friendships, but yeah, I think trios specifically back to that. 00:28:02.079 --> 00:28:05.519 If you are the odd person out in a trio, don't feel bad. 00:28:05.839 --> 00:28:14.160 Don't don't think that you're less than because you're the outer person rather than the inner inner to the group. 00:28:14.480 --> 00:28:15.519 Does that make sense? 00:28:16.079 --> 00:28:17.680 You're not in the best friends list. 00:28:18.079 --> 00:28:19.119 That sounds dark. 00:28:19.359 --> 00:28:21.359 Sorry, that's not what I meant. 00:28:21.519 --> 00:28:24.799 I mean decay. 00:28:25.759 --> 00:28:27.839 Sorry, my brain is starting to malfunction. 00:28:27.920 --> 00:28:29.279 It's almost four in the morning. 00:28:29.920 --> 00:28:32.079 But you know, don't feel bad. 00:28:32.400 --> 00:28:37.279 Don't feel bad if you're not the number one pick within a three-person team. 00:28:37.519 --> 00:28:46.960 Just know that you have your own strengths, you have your own weaknesses, and I'm glad that you are on the outside. 00:28:47.680 --> 00:28:49.920 Because you're definitely stronger. 00:28:50.079 --> 00:29:02.160 You're definitely walking through this life where even if there's two other people who claim that they're best friends, you get to know both of the sides of the best friends, you know? 00:29:02.640 --> 00:29:05.119 You still get to be the middleman, you still get to know that T. 00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:07.279 You still get to have fun. 00:29:07.599 --> 00:29:14.799 And I think that's the whole premise that I want to get at now as I come towards this end of this episode. 00:29:15.599 --> 00:29:18.240 Just have fun within your friendships. 00:29:18.799 --> 00:29:27.279 Don't take it too seriously because the only way you're gonna learn how to overcome the struggles you're facing is one. 00:29:27.440 --> 00:29:38.079 It starts with you, it starts by recognizing that you need the help, starts by recognizing that you may need to cut off some people or you may need to add certain people back into your life. 00:29:38.960 --> 00:29:47.440 It starts with your awareness, and then it goes into how do I come into friendships? 00:29:47.599 --> 00:29:53.440 How do I overcome, how do I overcome these walls that I've built? 00:29:53.759 --> 00:30:01.599 All these different things as we come into society and we start opening up to one another and we start being vulnerable. 00:30:01.759 --> 00:30:18.079 All it takes is one person, all it takes is someone on the internet, or someone in your neighborhood, or at work, or your church, or I don't know, a function, truly. 00:30:18.319 --> 00:30:29.839 Any type of function, it only takes one person to change the trajectory of how you feel and also change the trajectory of your perspective on how you should live life. 00:30:30.480 --> 00:30:38.799 And as you gain all these little perceptions, don't forget to add them to your life. 00:30:39.359 --> 00:30:56.000 As you gain all these perspectives, don't forget that when you're talking to a new person that they may also have that perspective, that they may also have been going through what you went through, that they have their own friend traumas and all those things. 00:30:56.640 --> 00:31:05.599 Don't forget that you're not the only one, and that we all deserve that love, that we all deserve to be together. 00:31:05.920 --> 00:31:10.720 As human beings, we are all friends in one way or another. 00:31:11.039 --> 00:31:12.960 And I'm gonna end it with this. 00:31:13.119 --> 00:31:23.279 Even if someone becomes your enemy, like a friend becomes an enemy, in the Bible, it literally has a verse that says that we must love one another. 00:31:23.440 --> 00:31:25.519 It's one of the many, many commandments. 00:31:25.839 --> 00:31:30.960 As we are commanded to love one another, that also includes your enemy. 00:31:31.359 --> 00:31:42.640 That includes not just loving your brother, your sister, your mom, your dad, your friends, your coworkers, it also involves the people who did you dirty. 00:31:42.880 --> 00:31:48.960 It involves the people that as much as you want an apology from them, they also need that forgiveness too. 00:31:49.200 --> 00:31:56.240 You know, that even if you hate them, and hate is such a strong word, and it can build, and it can build and build and build. 00:31:56.559 --> 00:31:59.039 Do not hate on your enemy. 00:31:59.440 --> 00:32:11.680 Choose to love because when you see them again and you're approaching them happily, they'll be confused, and it will allow them to take a step back of why they were acting a certain way. 00:32:11.839 --> 00:32:12.960 But love one another. 00:32:13.119 --> 00:32:15.680 It's simple, but it's hard for some people. 00:32:15.839 --> 00:32:22.400 But yeah, I want to end it with that to love one another, to be aware, and be content. 00:32:22.880 --> 00:32:24.480 Gain perspectives. 00:32:24.799 --> 00:32:28.000 Always, always gain perspective. 00:32:28.240 --> 00:32:29.119 It's worth it. 00:32:29.359 --> 00:32:33.920 But

yeah, that is everything I have for you at four in the morning. 00:32:34.240 --> 00:32:36.400 I hope you guys like this um episode. 00:32:36.480 --> 00:32:42.240 I just kind of hopped on here and just wanted to rant about something that popped up in the car. 00:32:42.400 --> 00:32:46.559 But I sincerely thank you so much for listening to subconsciously. 00:32:46.640 --> 00:32:50.400 I thank you so much for spending this uh time with me. 00:32:50.559 --> 00:32:52.640 Currently, my timer says 40 minutes. 00:32:52.720 --> 00:32:54.000 It might be shorter than that. 00:32:54.160 --> 00:33:10.720 But I thank you so much for listening and choosing subconsciously today, no matter where you are, whether it's a late night, whether it is an early morning, whether you're on a commute, whether you are grinding it out, it is midweek, it is Wednesday when you hear this. 00:33:10.960 --> 00:33:14.799 I truly, truly pray that you have an amazing day. 00:33:14.960 --> 00:33:17.039 I pray that you are protected. 00:33:17.279 --> 00:33:23.359 I pray that you find something to gain and add to your life today. 00:33:23.680 --> 00:33:29.680 And where can you find me when I'm not bothering you on a Wednesday? 00:33:30.160 --> 00:33:40.319 You can find me on Scoop Subconsciously, S-C O O P S-E-V-C-O-N-S-C-I-O-U-S-L-Y. 00:33:40.880 --> 00:33:44.400 Scoop subconsciously on Instagram. 00:33:44.559 --> 00:34:05.039 I haven't been as active on there, no one has told me to post otherwise, so you're just gonna get updates of when the next episode comes out on there, and sometimes I do some fun little Instagram things, and I am going to probably start incorporating each week. 00:34:05.279 --> 00:34:09.599 You get to decide what I go on a subconscious rant about. 00:34:09.840 --> 00:34:17.440 Because again, if you've listened to this podcast enough times, you know I have a leading topic, and the rest is just my brain. 00:34:17.760 --> 00:34:26.800 So I think on there I'm gonna start doing polls for each episode, and you get to decide what the episode is about. 00:34:27.039 --> 00:34:33.519 So, yeah, please feel free to rate this on any of the places that you listen to podcasts. 00:34:33.679 --> 00:34:34.960 It really does help me out. 00:34:35.199 --> 00:34:48.800 And I looked at my last thing, I looked at my stats for this pod, and I'm realizing how far it's going and who's listening. 00:34:48.960 --> 00:34:54.159 And I just want to say hi to all of you guys all over the world, and thank you guys so much for supporting. 00:34:54.320 --> 00:35:04.239 I never thought it would go as far as it did, but wherever you are in this world, I thank you so much for listening, and I love you a lot. 00:35:05.280 --> 00:35:10.639 And that is all I have for you guys on Subconsciously Today. 00:35:10.719 --> 00:35:15.519 I will see you guys on the next episode, on the next following Wednesday. 00:35:15.840 --> 00:35:22.639 Take care of yourself, and I will see you next time where my subconscious thoughts do the talking. 00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:24.239 Bye, guys.