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Marcus and Amber Capone open up about their hardest seasons as parents—and the one thing that finally brought their family back together.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN- Why military families face unique parenting challenges during deployment cycles and transition to civilian life
- The moment Marcus realized he wasn't looking at anyone's perspective but his own
- How "rules without relationship equals rebellion" transformed their approach to their teenage son
- What consistency and presence actually look like when rebuilding trust with your kids
- The programs VETS offers to support families navigating similar struggles
Parenting is never easy—but when you're carrying pain, trauma, or just trying to survive, it can feel impossible. In this deeply honest conversation, Marcus and Amber Capone share what parenting looked like during their most difficult years, how healing changed their family dynamic, and what they'd tell any parent who feels like they're failing.
Amber reflects on raising two kids largely alone during Marcus's 250-300 days away each year, and how the children learned to rely solely on her. Marcus opens up about the frustration of feeling invisible in his own home—and the hard realization that he hadn't considered anyone's perspective but his own.
They discuss the crushing years when their son Caden was a teenager and the family was in crisis, the turning point when Marcus sought treatment in Mexico in 2017, and how that decision set an example that rippled through the entire family. As Caden says in their Netflix documentary "In Waves and War": "When my dad started working on himself, the whole family started to change."
The Capones also share how their completely different upbringings—Amber raised by a single mom with extended family, Marcus with two parents and constant activities—created confusion about parenting style. They never had conversations about how to parent because Marcus was gone so much. But they figured it out.
For parents listening who feel like they're barely holding it together: It's not too late. With consistency, presence, and a willingness to put on your own oxygen mask first, you can rebuild trust and connection with your kids—no matter how many walls have gone up.
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LINKS & RESOURCES- Learn more about VETS and family support programs: https://vetsolutions.org/
- "In Waves and War" documentary on Netflix: https://www.inwavesandwarfilm.com/
- Connect with Marcus and Amber: https://www.instagram.com/thecaponespodcast/
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