Expert Psychologist: This Is Why You Keep Repeating The Same Mistakes

After 45 years of helping families, couples, and individuals, Dr. Larry Waldman has seen the same patterns repeat themselves again and again.

Fear of failure. Avoiding help. Self-sabotage. And the powerful ways childhood shapes the adults we become.

In this conversation, Dr. Waldman shares lessons from nearly half a century in clinical psychology, working with marriages on the brink, struggling parents, high performers battling imposter syndrome, and individuals trying to break free from the stories they tell themselves.

We talk about why people resist getting help even when they desperately need it, how early childhood experiences quietly shape our mindset for decades, and why fear of failure keeps so many people stuck in careers, relationships, and situations they know aren't right.

Dr. Waldman also shares deeply personal reflections about his own upbringing, his father's struggles in business, and the lessons that shaped his life and career.

This episode is full of practical wisdom about parenting, relationships, personal responsibility, and the mindset shifts that allow people to move forward, even when life feels uncertain.

Dr. Larry F. Waldman, Ph.D., ABPP is a Phoenix, Arizona licensed clinical and forensic psychologist who recently became semi-retired after a 45-year private practice.

Over the course of his career, he worked with children, teens, parents, couples, and adults, and consulted with attorneys in areas including family law, personal injury, immigration, and estate planning—all while navigating the life of a successful entrepreneur and raising two sons.

He earned degrees from the University of Wisconsin and the University of Wisconsin–Milwaukee, completed his Ph.D. at Arizona State University, and received Diplomate status (ABPP) in 2003.

Dr. Waldman has served in leadership and advisory roles across the profession, including:

• Past President of the Maricopa Psychological Society

• Director of Psychological Services at Charter Psychiatric Hospital of Glendale

• Adjunct graduate professor in counseling

He is also certified as an ACE senior fitness specialist and a certified yoga instructor.

Dr. Waldman is the author of eight books and a seasoned speaker who brings practical, engaging "edutainment" to topics like parenting, marriage, stress, business psychology, and personal development.

• Why many people still avoid seeking mental health help—even when they clearly need it

• The stigma around mental health and how it prevents people from improving their lives

• The fine line between coaching and therapy—and why having someone to talk to is critical for growth

• Why imposter syndrome and fear of failure often hold people back in their careers

• How childhood experiences and parenting styles shape confidence, resilience, and independence

• The powerful role parents play in shaping their children through everyday behavior—not just words

• Why trying—even when you fail—is always better than staying stuck in fear