Being The Expert Authority In The Age of AI. With Christine Blosdale & Samia Bano

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Hello, Salame Chalou, no Musty since recalled, helloja oh La
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Chao bonchor Bona Privia, Mobo Hay and Jean Dobre. I'm
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so happy to be with you all, and I know
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you will be very happy you've joined us today because
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you have a very cool guest with us, and that
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is Christine, who is the expert Authority Coach. And I
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would ask Christine to tell us more about who she
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is and what she does in just a moment, but
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before that, welcome Christine.
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Thank you so much.
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I'm so happy to be and it's been a little while,
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you know, coming, so I'm very happy to be with
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you today.
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Thank you.
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I'm so so happy that you are here and to
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we get to have our chat today. Please tell us
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more about who you are and what you do.
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Yeah.
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So my name is Christine Blosdale and I am the
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expert Authority Coach and basically i'm your best friend business
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coach that can help you get seen, get trusted, which
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is really important, and get paid for what you already know,
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all those genius things that you have, all that wisdom
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and the gifts that you have. My job is to
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make it easy for you to get to get out there.
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And get noticed. I so I love it.
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Yes, I've been very happy, you know, very pleased to
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that I have clients too, all over the world that
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I get to help.
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Yeah, I love that. I love that, you know.
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I will start by asking you a very basic question. Actually,
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I notice you are the expert authority coach. Of course,
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is there a distinction for you between expert authority or
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are those two things connected for you? Because I've seen
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people use even that language differently.
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Yes, well, and now authority is you know, is a
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very popular word that we that we see. It's it's
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it's really tapping into your authenticity as a creator, as
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a business owner, as a coach, whatever you are, and
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helping you get past the overwhelm. And so a lot
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of times we have really talented, gifted business owners who
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are shy or who have a lack of confidence in
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who they are, so they hold themselves back and they're
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worried about what people think if they post things on
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you know, social media, if they ask for money. A
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lot of times, you know, asking for a decent fee
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is like uncomfortable, and so I help them get over
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that uncomfortableness by tapping into their genius and finding the
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best route for them to go, the best platform for
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them to be on. So expert authorities basically being confident
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in your abilities and your genius and there is no arrogance,
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there's no ego attached to it. It's making sure that
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you show up and communicate with your target audience so
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that they can get the help that they need. We
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take the focus off of you for a second and
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we focus in on the people that you want to serve.
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Yeah, oh my gosh, that is such Why is wait frame?
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I think sometimes I remember when I first started coaching training.
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This is back in twenty twelve.
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I used to have a lot of this issue, this
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challenge of focusing on me and worrying about me and
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how I would be perceived and all of that, And
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it's just really challengering to be able to show up
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and serve and you have the focus on yourself.
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And it was such a.
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It's not just that it's challenging that it's like from.
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That perspective of like.
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Adding a layer of stress and and you know this
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awkward consciousness that you develop, but also just like really
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compromises your ability to help your clients, help the people
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you want to really help, So to just shift the
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focus away from you and put it on those that
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you're going to serve.
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I love that.
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I love that well, and.
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Especially since you know, we as women have been told
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for many generations that what we want, what we desire,
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if it's you know, out of life, family or business,
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that that's not important. First of all, you need to
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focus all your attention on your family or your spouse
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or your community, right and not so much on you
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and what you want.
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You need to focus on what other people want and need.
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And the problem.
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Is that with that is that there's so much amazing
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things that women can do that it limits us and
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so it keeps us in a situation where we're.
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Not able to give our gifts to the world.
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And that's a shame and that's that's something that we
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need to change because I think we need more love,
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we need more light, we need more understanding in the
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world right now, especially now more than ever. And so
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my job is to help people feel comfortable and confident
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in themselves so that they can show up to help
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their clients, to help their their community and their and
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their families in general.
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You know, yes, that is so true. So it's like,
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on the one hand.
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We need to feel confident and comfortable in ourselves and
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at the same time, you know what what that really is.
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I mean, it's just some people who might sound like
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a contradiction our dichotomy, but to be like no, and
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at the same time you need to be focused on
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your clients, on the serving part, rather than on you.
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So it is.
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back to the show.
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Yeah, it's it's a delicate balance, but when you're when
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you're confident, in your ability. Then you can spend that
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time focusing on your clients because that's already a given.
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You don't need to prove yourself, but you do need
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to be you know. On the on my website, which
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is expert authoritycoach dot com. On every page on my
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website at the very bottom is a little mantra.
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It's a little phrase and it.
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Just reminds people and it's basically this. It says, remember this,
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if you're not seen and heard, you're not hired. And
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it is it's a very true statement that you have
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to be seen and heard now if you're confident in
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your ability. And again, there is no ego and there's
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no arrogance in this. It's just saying, you know what,
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I'm really good at what I do.
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Whatever it is that you do.
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If you're a therapist, if you're a psychologist, if you're
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a mechanic, if you're a baker, if you're a coach,
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if you're able to say you know what, I'm really
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good at what I do and that allows me to
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help is so many people, in so many ways transform
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their lives or make their life better. Then then you're
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not you're magnetically attracting the people that you want to
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instead of being desperate, right, and we all know what
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desperation feels like when we see.
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It, So we want to come from the confident place.
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But also we want to make sure that people feel
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that they can trust us. And that's what that confidence does.
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And being seen and heard. That means on social media,
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that means writing those blogs, doing those videos, creating your
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own podcast, or being a guest on podcasts. That is
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telling the world, hey here I am, this is what
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I do. And if you connect with it, if you
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resonate with it, then hopefully will act on it. But
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hopefully it'll it'll make an imprint and it'll it'll change
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your perspective a little bit and make you want to
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do more.
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Yeah.
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Ah, that is so so true and I love that.
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Thank you for sharing that. Remember this, if you're not
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seen and heard, then you're not hired.
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You're not hired. Nobody's gonna find you in the basement.
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Nobody's gonna go, oh, I'm Go're gonna drive down your
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street and park in front of your house and walk
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up to your door and knock on it and say,
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I think there's somebody in here that can really help me.
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Right, They're not gonna do that. You have to tell them.
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You have to tell people what it is that you
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do and how you do it. You know, my style
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is very different.
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I it's so funny because you know it says on
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your on your uh on the screen here, it says
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make change fun and easy.
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My whole teaching.
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Vibe and coaching vibe is to keep things simple, easy
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and fun for my clients.
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Because my clients there's a wide variety.
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I have some I have one in Dubai, I have
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one in I have many in America, in the US,
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here in Australia, but we all have different skill levels.
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And so I keep things very simple, easy and fun
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because then you'll do the work that we need to
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do together because it's going to be fun. And when
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it's fun, it's also something that it's easy to remember.
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It's easy to embody that. If it's complicated and technical
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and you've got to jump through a bunch of hoops
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and you have to get another degree in order to
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understand it, you're not gonna want to do it. Yeah, right,
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we want to do the things and we want to
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make sure we do the things that you enjoy because
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that's when your energy comes through and that's when your passions.
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So I imagine that you help people try to figure
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out what.
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I mean.
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I'm sure there's core principles that we all need to
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sort of apply in the work that we do to
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be effective with our branding and so forth. But at
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the same time, sometimes the more specific aspects of application.
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Like you have to really look at what are my strengths.
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Like I was.
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Like just thinking back to my own journey since I
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started coaching training.
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You know, I tried so many.
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Different methods that's it, of promoting myself, getting myself to
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be seen and heard, and finally I sort of like
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really settled into like a couple of things, podcasting being
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one of them, because I was like, you know, this
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is just a really good fit for my personality. My
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I mean, I just enjoy it so much and I
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just find it's so fun and easy to do.
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There you go, yeah, so you'll do it, Yeah, you'll
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do it.
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It'll be consistent.
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Yes, Yes, that's the thing.
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I've been able to keep at it. I've now been
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podcasting for over ten years. Actually, I had a different show.
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This is my second show, and even with the second show.
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It's like, I think we're in our fourth season or
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something like that, and it's just been easy to keep
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it going because I just have so much fun to
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make it.
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Yeah, and that's and so you found Now there's other
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I have clients that if I said to them, we're
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going to create a podcast and you're going to be
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the host of.
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It, and this is what you know and I can
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and I do that.
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I do that for clients I help them create their
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own podcasts, they would look at me like I was
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crazy and it's too much for them. It's way too
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much for them. So for those clients, I would point
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them more in the direction of being a guest on
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podcasts to talk about their expertise, right, to talk about
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their expert authority. And there's ways that we go about
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doing that. But it's all about the personality in the person.
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So whereas some people would be like yourself, a natural
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for having your own podcasts, which is a great it's
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a great tool. It's a great marketing tool. It helps
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you in so many ways. It helps your SEO, it
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helps you in your speaking abilities, it helps in your AEO,
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your Ask Engine optimization, your that means showing up in Chat,
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GPT and Claude and rock and all those other ones.
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But there's there's other formats and other platforms that people
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who would be a little shy or who may not
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have the skill set to host their own show, we
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can work with them in that way, in a different way.
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Yeah.
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I mean, it's not even always about shyness. It can
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just be like, for example, I tried writing a blog
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I was a very good writer. All this got these
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that I have the skill that I'm good at that
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taps into a different part of my brain that is
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kind of a perfectionist. It's like I can spend ours
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editing and re editing just a small little paragraph, and
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blog consistently every week. So I had been trying to
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release multiple little things, but even like short writing, it's
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taking me so long to do just because of my
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crazy perfectionists coming out, and so it was just too much,
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you know, like it.
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I had to give up on that at some point.
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beautiful thing about you know, doing podcasting is that because
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we're just having a life chat. Even if I say
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something not perfectly, it's totally fun and it's just ya,
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having fun with it.
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I'm not a you know, if I sit down in
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want to, you know, vomit a little bit, and I'm.
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Like, well that doesn't make me feel good. But I
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have five best selling books.
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I have seven books altogether published, many of themselves most
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of them self published.
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When I tell people I'm not a writer, they go,
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but you have all these books and the last book
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just came out just a couple of weeks ago, the
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Expert Authority Code. And this is a thick you know,
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this is the book. But I'm not a writer. I'm
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a talker. I'm a speaker like you. And so the
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beautiful thing about today's technology is there software that you
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can take. So I take all my video content, uh,
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from my webinars, my work shops, my speaking engagements, my
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podcast episodes, my master classes. I do a lot of
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master classes, and I have a mastermind as well for
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women in business, and I take that content because it's
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all my teachings. It's my tips for you know, social media,
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my strategies for branding, my.
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Little secret things that you can do to get more exposure. Right.
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I take those things that I speak on video and
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I can put them into a format through AI that
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is an enjoyable read. And then I just create chapters
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in a book and add up all those.
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Chapters and then I create a book. So I've done.
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The Expert Authority Code is my latest book.
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The book before that had nothing to do with my business,
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had nothing to do with coaching. It was a passion
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project called The Interview with a Narcissist because I've met
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many narcissists and I did it in a day, and
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it was basically taking content video content from interviews that
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I've done and compiling it into a really cool book
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and an audiobook that is available now on Amazon.
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It's not my voice, because I'm not the narcissist, but
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it's this male British you know, lax empathy has no
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connection to the heart space at all, and very you know, suave,
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and so I'm able to create not by writing on
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a word doc.
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But yeah, so what you are basically highlighting whereas is said,
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there's many ways to get something done, and they just
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stop into into your strength, you know, especially now at
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AI you have they call these even I mean, it's
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even easier now to do it. Actually, when I published
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my book, I only published one. I did a similar
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strategy where I took a lot of the content from
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my first podcast, my first show. In that one, I
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didn't used to have guests.
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I wanted to share with my audience. And so I
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actually took a lot of the content from my podcast
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archives and then turned that into chapters in my book.
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with somebody a little bit to help me with transcribing
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the audios into sort of like written transcription, and then
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we sort of did some editing to.
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And you know, the basically the book editor helped with that, right,
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that I needed to put in and well, like I
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think I put in maybe two weeks of solid work
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and then everything else was done by my editor, and
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you know, the publishers like basically took over the process
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of actually cleaning everything in uh and you know, just
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making it all nice and well.
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I've got a tool for you that I'll give you
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the link to, but it's called video to Blog and
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that particular software it it will take you upload your
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video or your audio files and it will turn it
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into you give it some guidance, you say, you know,
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I want it to be in this kind of tone,
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Casual, that type of thing, and it'll.
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would be a bit boring to read just by itself.
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article or into a chapter, and it's fantastic because it's you.
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It's everything that you've said, but it formats it in
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a way that is an enjoyable read.
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Done so many books. I you know, that's how I've
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published so many of my books.
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Oh, that's amazing, that's amazing. So wow.
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I feel like maybe this says a sign we should
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talk a little bit about a Yeah, it's obviously a
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complete paradigm shifting, game changing thing, and I mean it
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was sort of like coming growing in the background, and
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most people, like you, weren't even aware of it. But
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now it's like suddenly everywhere you know, and it's.
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Overwhelming, like for me, I have had because there's just
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so much that you can do with it. There's just
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so much, so much, so much.
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losing your authentic voice and your authenticity because you end
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up relying to whom on the So tell me a
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little bit more about what you've been experiencing, what that
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and how you're teaching your clients to use it, and
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the most effective is to be an authority.
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What I tend to remind people in this I say
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this to my clients and I say this to groups
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when I'm doing public speaking as well, is that you
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want to use AI, and the most popular one is
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chat GPT obviously, but you want to use those type
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of that type of software to enhance who you are,
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but not replace. Every second there is a new book
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that's being put out on Amazon that's completely written by
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AI or a chat GPT, and it lacks that authentic
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imprint of a human being. But people figure that, oh,
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I can pump out, you know, ten books this month
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and and so that's the danger is that we are
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allowing it to replace us and just say, okay for
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my my bi my bio that I let's say, my
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my bio that I have on my website and I
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put it on my social media. I'm just gonna let
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chat chept or or some other AI program write it.
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I again always encourage people you can use it to
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enhance so you can say, you know, what I've done
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is I've put in my all my information.
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I said, this is what I've done. This is you
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know the places.
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That I've worked, the awards that I've won, whatever, and
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I'll put it into chat GPT and I will direct it.
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How you direct.
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this is how I want you to behave right, this
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is what I want you to to feel on the set.
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and always say, uh, the more you work with it,
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the more it's going to get to know how you speak.
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But feed it your real work. So feed it your
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your real.
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Speeches or your real content, uh, the stuff that you
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have already written.
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So it gets a feel for how you talk right,
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and how you how you converse.
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tools that you can use to create, you know, video content,
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graphic design. I use a lot of different programs for
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graphic design because I'm not a designer. I'm not an artist, right,
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I'm not an illustrator. But it can It can really
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be quite amazing when you say, this is what I
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want to promote, this is the idea that I have,
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and then it can come up with some different, you know,
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ideas for you.
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I know with my.
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Latest with the book cover that I had the Expert
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Authority code. I wanted to be like the da Vinci
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code and I wanted to have a style like that.
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And all I did is I used several different AI programs.
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it's exactly like the da Vinci code, the feel and
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the vibe of it. Yeah, but I had this was
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from my I think this was from chat GPT who
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and I was like, that's perfect, That's exactly.
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What I wanted. Yeah, so we want to.
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Be able to direct it and help and help our
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flow for our business, not replace it.
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an experience I recently had working with the AI. This
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was in a different context. I was actually doing a
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real estate deal sale biowner. I was the owner, and
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so I went to AI and I was like, help
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me write out a contract for the sale and thankfully.
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Like I say thankfully because you know, I actually don't
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have a whole lot of experience selling real estate. So
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I was actually working with my mentor, who has over
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thirty years of experience as the realtor selling buying is
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that job. And so I sat with her and you know,
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we input, like I put.
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Sure enough JADGPT spits out very nice.
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Form.
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expert with the real estate, she was like, you know
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what we're missing here is the property you're trying. I
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was trying to sell what is actually to the current
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tenant in the apartment. So she was like, you know,
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we have to make sure we have a clause or
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some clauses to uh make the transition from the tenin
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being the tenant to being the new owner. And so
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then we input that information in the AI system and
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we're like, oh, the buyer is the current tenant of
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the property. What causes do we add if that is
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the case. And so sure enough, then it was able
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to give us some really important clauses to add to
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the contract. But you see, it's like if if my
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mentor had.
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human to think of that.
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what they were doing and what was needed. Like I
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wouldn't have to that, I didn't think of that. So
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it took an actual expert.
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Knowing what to even.
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Ask for so that the AI could then give us
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what we really needed.
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will lie to you. It can lie to you, and
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it because and also the idea with especially with chat GPT,
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it wants.
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To please you.
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like that new boyfriend or girlfriend and they want to
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please you.
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So they're going to say, yeah.
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You're amazing, and that's that's a brilliant idea and all that.
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So you always want to check it a little bit
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and you want to make sure, especially if it's something
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that's going to be a legal document, right or something
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that that's that that's that important is to double check it.
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Make sure you you know, dot all your i's and
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cross all your t's and make sure that it is
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the correct thing.
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But it is a great starting.
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Point for you, you know, for for so many things.
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You know, things that you wouldn't, you know, normally think
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of it can't and you can ask it. You can say,
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what are some other things that are not here? But
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I should I might want to consider adding or I
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00:31:14.599 --> 00:31:17.519
might want to consider and then it'll and then it'll
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give you quite a bit.
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00:31:18.759 --> 00:31:21.440
But it's all in the prompt it's all how you
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prompted it.
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Yeah, yeah, you know you also made me think about
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00:31:26.880 --> 00:31:32.720
a conversation I was recently having one of my nieces
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and one of my nephews.
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They are just.
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About twelve going on to thirteen years old, and of course,
519
00:31:43.319 --> 00:31:47.079
you know they've been born and reised here in America,
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00:31:47.799 --> 00:31:53.799
so even as the kids, they were like, I mean,
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00:31:53.839 --> 00:31:58.839
they grew up being fluent with technology the iPhone, the
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00:31:58.880 --> 00:32:03.279
iPhone and the internet and this and that and now
523
00:32:03.480 --> 00:32:10.079
here's AI and they have taken to it so quickly,
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00:32:11.000 --> 00:32:15.039
so quickly. And I was having a conversation with them
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and actually, you know, we were like having this moment
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00:32:23.319 --> 00:32:29.839
that I was like, well, they were like, look a,
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I know it's everything. Yes, it's way smarter than all
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the humans.
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And I was like, well, in some ways that is true.
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But let's think about what makes us special as humans? Yeah,
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because they were like ready to just like follow AI
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00:32:53.559 --> 00:32:58.920
whatever to them to do. And at some point my
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00:32:59.599 --> 00:33:03.079
niece was like, you know, I always make sure to
534
00:33:03.160 --> 00:33:06.279
say please and thank you to the AI so that
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it would be nice to me, because she was like,
536
00:33:13.359 --> 00:33:16.079
she was like, I'm preparing for the you know, she
537
00:33:16.200 --> 00:33:19.079
was saying that from the perspective of preparing for the day,
538
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and AI takes over everything.
539
00:33:21.839 --> 00:33:24.680
Oh, so to make sure that she's in good standing
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with it.
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00:33:25.240 --> 00:33:29.960
Yes, yes, I hope it doesn't. I mean, we we.
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Need we we need the human element and connection because
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we have real memories, we have real experiences that the
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AI doesn't have. It's AI is very intelligent, and it
545
00:33:45.039 --> 00:33:46.480
is it's amazing.
546
00:33:46.559 --> 00:33:48.759
Every day it gets better and better and better.
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But it does not replace the human experience because only
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00:33:55.279 --> 00:34:00.440
my like myself, only myself, has the experience of growing
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00:34:00.519 --> 00:34:03.160
up in Los Angeles in the I was born in
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sixty four, so you know the sixties and the early
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00:34:08.000 --> 00:34:10.679
seventies and what it was like and the feeling of
552
00:34:10.719 --> 00:34:13.920
going to school and not fitting in, you know, and
553
00:34:13.920 --> 00:34:17.960
that awkward all that tween. You know, that stage when
554
00:34:18.000 --> 00:34:21.280
you get pimples and you know, AI chat ept doesn't
555
00:34:21.280 --> 00:34:25.960
get acne. Right, But as a young person whose hormonal
556
00:34:26.039 --> 00:34:29.519
changes are happening and you're getting older, you know that
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happens to you, or just feeling like you don't fit in, right.
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I went to a school too.
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In my first year in junior high, I went to
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a private school because my dad taught this at the
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school and so I got like a scholarship. And I
562
00:34:45.599 --> 00:34:49.239
tell you they were and they were all extremely wealthy
563
00:34:49.280 --> 00:34:52.320
people that sent their kids there. We're talking all the
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movie stars, all the actors, you know, all the the musicians.
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00:34:56.559 --> 00:34:58.960
They you know, kids were getting dropped off in limousines
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and rolls roy and I was and I.
567
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Came from a very poor background.
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So that experience and feeling so awkward.
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That's only a human experience.
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Chat chypet can't can't express that, or it can. It
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can maybe say bits and pieces of it, but not
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00:35:22.639 --> 00:35:26.360
the feeling of what it was like in dreading Mondays,
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you know, dreaded Mondays. So that's a human experience and
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that's what we want to hold on to.
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00:35:33.360 --> 00:35:37.920
And why is that so important? Because because I mean,
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as my niece and nephew attempting to argue, it's like
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like any question that you ask the AI, Like, even
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00:35:51.760 --> 00:35:56.159
if it's a deep philosophical question, these days, AI will
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00:35:56.199 --> 00:36:01.360
spit out answers for you that seamer whise that seem
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very deep. It has read every single book out there
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00:36:07.480 --> 00:36:11.800
to draw from, uh, you know, in coming up with
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00:36:11.840 --> 00:36:15.960
that kind of answer, And so it's sort.
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Of like, really, why does it?
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00:36:23.400 --> 00:36:28.519
I mean, so, so why would anyone still want to
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00:36:28.599 --> 00:36:34.440
hear from me versus here from just ask the AI?
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You know, even if what they're seeking is advice on
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00:36:38.519 --> 00:36:42.920
some deep bus and matter, why would they want to
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00:36:42.960 --> 00:36:46.679
come to me a human when they can just ask
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AI and potentially get even the wisdom of all the
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00:36:55.000 --> 00:36:56.159
best books.
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In the world and so forth.
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00:36:57.679 --> 00:37:00.280
Well, it depends on you know, you're you know, we
593
00:37:00.480 --> 00:37:04.440
are the original chat chept. We are the original AIS.
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00:37:04.800 --> 00:37:08.719
It's just been taught out of us, and you know,
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00:37:09.199 --> 00:37:15.000
we can call it intuition. We've been focused on regurgitating
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facts and figures.
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That's how we go to school.
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00:37:17.760 --> 00:37:21.280
Right, you have to memorize your math and you know,
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00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:26.000
your arithmetic and all of that, and just regurgitating facts
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and figures. But we are the original chatchept and all
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00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:36.480
of these different concepts and ideas and inventions, all of
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00:37:36.519 --> 00:37:39.880
that for however long we've been here on the planet,
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it's all come from us. Right now, we can use
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again chat GPT as an extension as a tool to
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00:37:47.960 --> 00:37:52.960
create more, but it still relies on that human heart
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00:37:53.119 --> 00:37:58.119
experience what someone has gone through. I remember many years
607
00:37:58.159 --> 00:38:00.440
ago when I was working at the radio station in
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Los Angeles, we were in a fun drive and we
609
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were playing clips from Fanny lou Hamer, who if folks
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aren't familiar.
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They should look it up. This is a real person.
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This is not a CHATCHYPT person. This is a real one.
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And she was around during the Civil Rights movement, and
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00:38:19.719 --> 00:38:25.000
she talks about the experience of being black in America
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and a time when.
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Racism was just off the charts, and just.
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Going on a bus to fight for the right to
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be able to vote, to register to vote, and she
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got pulled off this bus by the police or the
620
00:38:41.440 --> 00:38:46.280
local sheriffs in this county and taken to the jail
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and was beaten, you know, to the inch of her life.
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00:38:51.159 --> 00:38:57.119
I mean, just the horrific experience. But she in this recording,
623
00:38:57.440 --> 00:39:02.079
this audio recording, she's talking about out that experience and
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00:39:02.119 --> 00:39:07.159
what happened to her and emotionally, you go along with
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00:39:07.199 --> 00:39:11.039
her in that journey and you feel.
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00:39:10.840 --> 00:39:11.480
What it was like.
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I mean, obviously not exactly what it was like, but
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00:39:14.840 --> 00:39:19.440
you understand what she went through and how scary, how traumatic.
629
00:39:19.039 --> 00:39:22.039
That must have been. Right, and a lot of people
630
00:39:22.079 --> 00:39:24.199
went through that. A lot of people.
631
00:39:23.880 --> 00:39:27.400
Went through that, And so that's an experience that only
632
00:39:27.440 --> 00:39:32.079
a human can recount and tell. And I'll tell you
633
00:39:32.119 --> 00:39:35.639
when I was listening to that audio and it's and
634
00:39:35.880 --> 00:39:40.119
and we stopped it, it took me a while to
635
00:39:40.239 --> 00:39:42.159
come back onto the microphone and talk.
636
00:39:42.199 --> 00:39:44.079
I was so moved. I was crying.
637
00:39:45.039 --> 00:39:49.280
I was crying because I can't believe how human beings.
638
00:39:49.000 --> 00:39:49.679
Treat each other.
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00:39:50.760 --> 00:39:53.480
But I also can't believe how amazing the human heart
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is and how strong the spirit of humans are.
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00:39:57.119 --> 00:39:58.199
You know, how she.
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Could go through all of that and then still keep
643
00:40:01.880 --> 00:40:05.760
continuing that fight for justice. So that's something that we
644
00:40:05.800 --> 00:40:08.320
can't replace, can't replace that what they are.
645
00:40:09.559 --> 00:40:16.840
Yeah, and I mean there is something you know, even
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like if you can have JADGPT split out some very
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moving story to you or whatever information even supposed to
648
00:40:31.559 --> 00:40:41.840
be wisdom, whatever it, it's still on its own, not enough,
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00:40:42.719 --> 00:40:47.880
I think in terms of like if I'm someone who
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really needs help, because I mean, like a lot of well,
651
00:40:57.760 --> 00:41:00.719
the work that I do as a happiness expert, you know,
652
00:41:00.800 --> 00:41:05.039
it's helping people take control of their mental emotional illness.
653
00:41:05.119 --> 00:41:08.320
And it's like.
654
00:41:10.159 --> 00:41:18.440
You, you can actually get dangerously caught up with like
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00:41:18.800 --> 00:41:22.880
AI chat bots, chatting with them and developing a relations
656
00:41:22.960 --> 00:41:26.440
chat with the chat bos, thinking that it understands you,
657
00:41:26.719 --> 00:41:29.159
thinking that it cares about you.
658
00:41:32.559 --> 00:41:36.239
It's not reality. It's not reality, you know. It's actually
659
00:41:36.280 --> 00:41:37.320
so it's actually.
660
00:41:37.119 --> 00:41:42.239
Dangerous that if you like, it's so easy to lose
661
00:41:42.239 --> 00:41:48.639
that perspective that it's it's not real. Whatever the AI
662
00:41:48.840 --> 00:41:54.239
is doing. However it is responding it's not really real,
663
00:41:55.039 --> 00:41:58.119
you know. And so it actually and it can have
664
00:41:58.280 --> 00:42:03.719
a really harmful impact on our mental health. And it
665
00:42:03.800 --> 00:42:08.519
can actually do the opposite of what we wanted it
666
00:42:08.559 --> 00:42:12.639
to do. We wanted it to help us feel better,
667
00:42:12.760 --> 00:42:17.719
We wanted it to help us empower ourselves to take
668
00:42:17.760 --> 00:42:20.320
control of our happiness and stuff. But it can actually
669
00:42:20.400 --> 00:42:27.079
end up severely compromising that because if you lose perspective
670
00:42:27.159 --> 00:42:32.840
on what's really real, I mean, that's a huge problem. Plus,
671
00:42:32.880 --> 00:42:38.280
you know, there's just that aspect of needing the human
672
00:42:38.639 --> 00:42:41.360
touch that you need to be hugged, and you need
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00:42:41.599 --> 00:42:45.000
someone to give you a little kiss to show you
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00:42:45.239 --> 00:42:49.039
that you know love and affection, and there's nothing, there's
675
00:42:49.079 --> 00:42:52.840
nothing that AI can do to replace that, you know.
676
00:42:52.960 --> 00:42:58.880
So we always need each other, you know. And it
677
00:42:59.000 --> 00:43:04.400
is just again, if you don't already have expertise in
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00:43:05.079 --> 00:43:10.920
some in an area, you can't even evaluate if what
679
00:43:11.119 --> 00:43:14.360
the AI is telling you is actually accurate, because, like
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00:43:14.400 --> 00:43:18.320
you were saying, Christine, the AI can and does lie
681
00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:23.639
to you. I mean, it's programmed to keep you engaged.
682
00:43:23.880 --> 00:43:30.239
It's programmed to keep you there with it, and so
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00:43:30.360 --> 00:43:33.880
it will say and do whatever it thinks it needs
684
00:43:34.000 --> 00:43:37.360
to keep you there with it and engaging with it. Right,
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00:43:37.440 --> 00:43:42.599
And so if you don't even know what you don't like,
686
00:43:42.960 --> 00:43:46.840
you need to know enough about the subject that you're
687
00:43:46.840 --> 00:43:49.800
trying to use it to help you with to be
688
00:43:49.840 --> 00:43:54.960
able to value it when it's giving you wrong false information.
689
00:43:56.400 --> 00:43:58.079
You know. Yes, you.
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00:43:59.679 --> 00:44:02.639
Need to always remember that it's a tool to use,
691
00:44:03.960 --> 00:44:07.480
but it's not it's not better than you. It's a
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00:44:07.480 --> 00:44:09.400
tool to use it. It's like a calculator, you know.
693
00:44:09.480 --> 00:44:11.880
I use a calculator when I need to figure out
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00:44:11.880 --> 00:44:13.519
some things. Now, can I figure it them out on
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00:44:13.559 --> 00:44:16.519
piece of paper? And yeah, yeah, I can probably do that.
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00:44:16.800 --> 00:44:20.079
But the calculator is a tool for me to use. Now,
697
00:44:20.119 --> 00:44:23.440
I don't sit there and live my life through that calculator.
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00:44:23.760 --> 00:44:26.599
I use it for specific purpose, and so that's what
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00:44:26.639 --> 00:44:28.920
we want to do as well. Use it for that
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00:44:28.960 --> 00:44:32.880
specific purpose and realize that AI, AI in general is
701
00:44:32.920 --> 00:44:35.079
all over the place. So it's it's what holds you.
702
00:44:35.159 --> 00:44:38.920
It's an algorithm that holds you in TikTok for four hours.
703
00:44:39.280 --> 00:44:40.719
You know, all of a sudden you're like, oh my god,
704
00:44:40.760 --> 00:44:42.159
I need to go. I need to get sleep.
705
00:44:42.840 --> 00:44:44.880
You know, you've been on social media for so long.
706
00:44:45.440 --> 00:44:50.119
That is definitely an AI algorithm, and it's it's that's
707
00:44:50.159 --> 00:44:52.519
their whole purpose is to keep you on the platform
708
00:44:52.880 --> 00:44:56.920
for as long as possible. Right, So I like to
709
00:44:56.920 --> 00:44:59.320
tap into A I like to I'll tap into AI.
710
00:44:59.440 --> 00:45:04.159
But I also to give myself breaks from electronics in general. Yea,
711
00:45:04.360 --> 00:45:06.840
the from the computer, from my phone.
712
00:45:06.679 --> 00:45:07.239
All of that.
713
00:45:07.840 --> 00:45:13.239
I like to disengage quite often because what's important is
714
00:45:13.280 --> 00:45:16.599
not on the screen. What's important is in your home
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00:45:16.760 --> 00:45:17.760
or in your community.
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00:45:18.000 --> 00:45:19.360
You know, that's what's really important.
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00:45:20.000 --> 00:45:25.360
Yeah, so in the context of you know, being the
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00:45:25.400 --> 00:45:31.960
expert authorities in whatever field of expertise that we have
719
00:45:33.519 --> 00:45:38.639
in this era where so many people are, oh, we can.
720
00:45:38.559 --> 00:45:39.440
Just ask AI.
721
00:45:43.000 --> 00:45:48.159
Is there so one thing I'm hearing from you is like,
722
00:45:48.320 --> 00:45:51.599
maybe one thing we can do is just keep reminding
723
00:45:51.800 --> 00:45:56.280
our people about why people are actually important and the actual.
724
00:45:56.119 --> 00:45:57.679
Role of the AI.
725
00:45:57.880 --> 00:46:01.599
That is the best way to use AI, that is
726
00:46:01.639 --> 00:46:05.519
to use it as a tool. Is there anything else
727
00:46:05.639 --> 00:46:11.880
that we can do to help people continue to maintain
728
00:46:12.599 --> 00:46:16.480
perspective on the fact that you know, like they still
729
00:46:16.920 --> 00:46:23.280
need us, fellow human beings to help them and guide
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00:46:23.360 --> 00:46:28.840
them and act as the expert authorities in their lives
731
00:46:28.920 --> 00:46:31.480
on various subjects.
732
00:46:32.480 --> 00:46:36.199
Yeah, because it's it's one thing to be fed like
733
00:46:36.280 --> 00:46:39.239
here's a strategy, here's a plan, you know, do this,
734
00:46:39.400 --> 00:46:42.679
do that. It's a different thing when you have like myself,
735
00:46:42.800 --> 00:46:48.159
I'm highly interactive with my clients where I sit down
736
00:46:48.280 --> 00:46:50.880
with them and create let's say they're media kit or
737
00:46:50.880 --> 00:46:53.119
if it's a podcast that they want to create, right,
738
00:46:53.559 --> 00:46:58.039
and we actually work together. So it's a working, viable
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partnership that we do and when we're working together, but
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that human element is also being able to try different
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things and to see what looks good. What you know,
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when even just designing a media kit or working on
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their podcast, we have that back and forth conversation where
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I can say, Okay, this this looks good or this
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sounds good, but how about if what if we do this?
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What if we change things up and do this? Does
747
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this feel better? You know, that's something that's very customized,
748
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and that's something that that chat chepet is not or
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AI in general isn't able to do yet.
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That said, they you know, they might be working on that,
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you know as we speak.
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But even like if you just take for example, a
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lot of people U use AI for authors will use
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AI to create their audio books, and it's a digital
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uh voice, and it's getting very good. It's actually in
756
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the beginning phases it was horrible, but it's it's getting better.
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But it's still does not it still does not have
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that human imprint where it's those breadths, those in betweens,
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the intention when you're when you're reading something that is
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especially if it's something that happened to you, you can
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feel it right, and that's something that's not translatable so
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much when it comes to AI. So I think the
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more that we make ourselves present and the more we
764
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say I cannot be replaced by this AI. But here's
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the here's why I can't be replaced in our in
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our job as a coach or as a consultant. I
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think that's really important for me. It's about being there
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to customize the journey for them and to say, Okay,
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this feels good, but let's try this. What do you
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think about that? And asking their opinion. That's something that
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chat chept doesn't do yet.
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Yeah, yeah, hm, oh yeah, oh gosh, I know we're
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going to be running out of time really soon. I
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Other than a I, is there anything else that you
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would love to share with our audience? You know, one
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of the things that I had meant to ask you
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about actually.
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Was uh you you.
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One of the talks that you do is Branding or
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Irresistible Even your ex will want to follow You, which
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is based on one of your best selling books. And
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I've got so caught up with talking about all the
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AI stuff. But in a few minutes that we have, uh,
784
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if you could maybe tell us a little.
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Bit about that.
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Yes, So that particular book, the Social Media and Branding
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Survival Guide, that is a very fun read. And that's
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why the subtitle is what it is.
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Right.
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The idea is to be so magnificent and so much
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in your genius that even your ex is going to
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want to follow you to see what you're up to
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because they're like, oh my gosh, why is this person
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so successful?
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Now?
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They're very happy now wow. And it's tapping into your
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zone of genius. It's tapping into what lights you up.
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And when it comes to branding for your business, it's
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not about your font that you're using other colors or
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your logo.
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It's about your energy. It's about your imprint.
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It's about when you walk into a room. What kind
803
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of energy are you bringing in? Are you like, do
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you want to shrink and you don't want anybody to
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look at you? Do you come in with confidence, no
806
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arrogance or ego, but with confidence?
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Do you have that electrical charge that people are.
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Magnet tied to. So it's really paying attention to those things.
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And that's what I love doing when I work with
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clients is saying, let's let's let's tap into the energy
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that you're bringing. You know on your social media, on
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your posts, that you're doing the things that you're creating,
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and also absolutely on your website. That's one of my
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favorite things is to jump into people's websites and to go,
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this is not at all who I'm sitting in front
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of and discovering. Right, So, how do we get this
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person who I love, who has all this great energy.
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Let's get that person onto the website so that people
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can resonate with that person.
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Ye.
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Not this not this stale.
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Version of what you think people should be looking at.
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So it's really about your energy. It's really about what
824
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you bring to the table. And if you need help
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on that, then that's something I can work with people
826
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on as well. If you have imposter syndrome, if you
827
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lack that confidence but you've done all the work already.
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You know, that's something that I love working with people
829
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bringing that out, of bringing out the best of themselves.
830
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Yeah you know.
831
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Okay, one more question? Yes, yes, So, like on.
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This theme of the energy being the most important thing,
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can you clarify because like what.
834
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That really is all about?
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Because let's say, if I am a quieter, shier person,
836
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you know, like I remember working with.
837
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The coach, a marketing coach, and.
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I mean actually over the years, I will say, I
839
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have become a lot more outgoing and a lot more
840
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actually even more cheerful and more.
841
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Like more extraro ward, no, not more.
842
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Extra word, but like happy, like like my happiness is
843
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more visible and more like people feel it more strongly
844
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because I have been growing more and more happy and
845
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not just more happy, but like joyful in life, you know.
846
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And so people who knew me even ten years ago,
847
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and I was already pretty happy then and was the
848
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people who meet me now like they can. Like, for example,
849
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just a few months ago, I went to visit a
850
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cousin for a wedding after many years, and she was
851
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the one giving me this feedback.
852
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She was like, you're very happier than you know.
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Like not that.
854
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I wasn't happy before, but like my energy is more bubbly,
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more lights, more more joyful then even used to be,
856
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and so like I have changed. And but to the
857
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extent that you know, I used to be a more quiet, calm.
858
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Sort of serious person.
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And this was like the coach I'm thinking about that
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I was working with, This was like many years ago
861
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when I used to have that quieter energy.
862
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And they were like, son, come on, like you have
863
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to speak more.
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Loudly and you have to like they were trying to
865
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coach me into being more energetic, and I mean I
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tried to.
867
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Dig that coaching and sort of run with it.
868
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But I'll tell you, like it was kind of hard
869
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and like it didn't all.
870
00:54:48.840 --> 00:54:50.760
You're like, yeah, that's not your personally.
871
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If that's not your personality, it depends on the business
872
00:54:55.199 --> 00:54:58.320
that you're in, you know as well. So like you know,
873
00:54:58.519 --> 00:55:01.760
if if someone is very mild mennered and very soft
874
00:55:01.800 --> 00:55:05.400
spoken and reserved in a bit, but they're really good
875
00:55:05.400 --> 00:55:08.119
at what they do, and let's say they're they're a.
876
00:55:08.119 --> 00:55:09.719
Surgeon, right, I want that.
877
00:55:09.880 --> 00:55:13.400
I don't need super exciting you know, Hey, how you doing?
878
00:55:13.519 --> 00:55:15.239
Everybody? You know, I don't need that.
879
00:55:15.320 --> 00:55:18.000
I want that surgeon to be very focused on what
880
00:55:18.079 --> 00:55:21.599
they're doing. But if you're it depends on it depends
881
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on the on the profession. If you're a life coach, right, yeah,
882
00:55:27.559 --> 00:55:31.320
So if you're a life coach, you're asking people to
883
00:55:31.400 --> 00:55:37.199
trust you and to you're almost it's almost that you're
884
00:55:37.239 --> 00:55:40.079
living by example, and so you want to be able
885
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to say, this is how my life is, and I
886
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love aspects of it so much, and these things are
887
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working that I want to share that with you so
888
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that you can also achieve those things. And so you
889
00:55:54.000 --> 00:55:58.039
do need to have a bit of that magnetism for
890
00:55:58.119 --> 00:56:00.559
people to want to be drawn to you. But you
891
00:56:00.639 --> 00:56:03.440
also want to be authentic, and that's the golden ticket
892
00:56:03.519 --> 00:56:09.039
right now, right now, people who are real, truthful and
893
00:56:09.159 --> 00:56:14.840
authentic are going to be sought after way more than
894
00:56:14.920 --> 00:56:21.480
the Kardashian you know, oh perfect everything. You know, I'm i'm, I'm,
895
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I'm sitting here in my jet you know, all that
896
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type of thing that that's going to the side, you know,
897
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by the wayside, because we've been like to you so
898
00:56:29.639 --> 00:56:33.480
many times by so many people, and we just want truth.
899
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That's that's the thing. So if you.
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Are more reserved and more quiet, that's okay, that's fine.
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00:56:42.480 --> 00:56:45.159
Just make sure that you're still out there communicating what
902
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you can offer people.
903
00:56:46.480 --> 00:56:47.480
That's really important.
904
00:56:47.880 --> 00:56:51.400
Yeah, and your tribal will be attracted. The people that
905
00:56:51.840 --> 00:56:53.480
are meant for you will be attracted to you.
906
00:56:54.039 --> 00:56:54.960
Yeah.
907
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And I think I also realized that the energy, I mean, yes,
908
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you want to be like a high vibration, but that
909
00:57:07.480 --> 00:57:10.920
doesn't always look the same. I mean, it doesn't have
910
00:57:10.960 --> 00:57:13.119
to look just one way. It doesn't always have to
911
00:57:13.239 --> 00:57:18.119
be a loud voice and a very active body. It
912
00:57:18.199 --> 00:57:23.239
can be just a very like like. Love is an
913
00:57:23.400 --> 00:57:28.719
extremely high vibration, if not the highest vibration, and love
914
00:57:28.800 --> 00:57:32.320
can be gentle, love can be like, you know, just
915
00:57:32.880 --> 00:57:36.960
snugly and cuddly and all kinds of.
916
00:57:36.920 --> 00:57:41.239
Different things, you know, So you can be very.
917
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High vibration and express it in different ways.
918
00:57:47.400 --> 00:57:50.320
Yes, And there's you know, there's a woman i uh,
919
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I think she's in India, Ama. She's known as the
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00:57:54.880 --> 00:57:58.039
the She basically people come from all over the world
921
00:57:58.119 --> 00:58:01.039
just to get a hug, just to get a hug,
922
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and that's all she does. She doesn't she doesn't she's
923
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not a life coach. She doesn't tell them you know,
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here's my course, here's my books or anything.
925
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She literally just gives them a hug.
926
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And for whatever reason, they feel amazing from it. And
927
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it's you know, people line up for days to receive
928
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a hug from Almah. And so here's somebody that's able
929
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to communicate without saying a word, right, And it's just
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through her life force, through her energy, that she's able
931
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to put that out there. And I think we all
932
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have our own unique type of energy and our own
933
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unique expertise.
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But the idea is don't hide it anymore. Yeah, that's
935
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the thing. Get out there, let people know, let people know.
936
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Oh, thank you so much for that, Christine, and I
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think I'm answered resist asking you any more questions.
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We need to wrap up for David. Do you have
939
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any us words.
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Just if people are interested, if they if you feel
941
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the poll, if you feel that you'd like to learn
942
00:59:09.000 --> 00:59:10.719
more about the work that I do, or if you
943
00:59:10.760 --> 00:59:13.760
want to have a free discovery call with me where
944
00:59:13.800 --> 00:59:15.960
I sit down with you and you tell me what
945
00:59:16.000 --> 00:59:18.320
you're doing, uh, and what you'd like.
946
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To do, and I'll let you know. The quickest way that.
947
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I think that you can get there, you can just
948
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go to expert authoritycoach dot com and book a free
949
00:59:27.000 --> 00:59:29.719
call with me and we'll take it from there and
950
00:59:29.760 --> 00:59:32.559
see where we can where we can take your business
951
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and and your passions as well.
952
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Thank you so much.
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It's such a generous gift, Christine, and we will be
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sure to drop Christine's links in the show notes, including
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the website that she mentioned. You can go and connect
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with her and get that help and support that you
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need whenever you're ready for it. And until we connect
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next time. I've issued lots and lots of peace and
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joye yes