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Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me?
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! These Sunday afternoons we've been looking at Psalm 42 and Psalm 43, that refrain that we see three times in that psalm.
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And the psalmist is downcast, he's disturbed, he's not at rest, his heart is like the ocean.
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He says, the waves and the breakers have crashed over my soul.
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And we've all been there.
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We're talking to our brother John this afternoon.
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They live a very different kind of life in Arizona.
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But people get discouraged and downcast no matter where you live, no matter how hot it gets or how cold it gets.
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We've all been there.
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And maybe it happens all of a sudden, a sudden jolt, sudden tragedy, and we're downcast.
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Or maybe it's a slow build.
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It's one thing after another, after another.
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Each in their turn wouldn't be so bad.
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But yet when you build them on top of each other, when you stack them on top of each other, it becomes very discouraging.
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Or maybe it's just the same thing again and again and again.
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And we're downcast.
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We're discouraged.
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Now, we've seen several reasons for discouragement.
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Seen those.
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And today we want to talk about one more.
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One more door into this gloomy room of downcast discouragement.
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And today we want to talk about afflictions.
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Afflictions.
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And I use that word rather than trial or difficulty or obstacle.
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Not because those are bad words, but because affliction carries with it the idea of pain.
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Pain.
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So Paul had a thorn in his flesh.
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It was a trial.
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It was a difficulty.
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But he doesn't talk about obstacles.
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He doesn't talk about trials.
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He talks about a thorn.
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And a thorn means a sharp pain.
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Pain.
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We know what a thorn feels like.
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It's a sharp pain.
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And I don't only use that word because it carries the idea of pain.
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I use affliction because very often the idea carries, or that word carries the idea of an afflictor.
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Someone is afflicting us.
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It's not just something we ran into.
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It is now something that is done to us.
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In Paul's case, it was a messenger of Satan.
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Yes, it was under the Lord's control, but it was a messenger from Satan.
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But oftentimes, and I think ultimately we have to say, it's God himself.
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He allows it.
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He actively brings it into our life, or he merely allows it to happen.
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But it's God himself.
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Amos, the prophet said, when disaster comes to a city, has not the Lord caused it?
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Yes, there could be enemies.
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There could be other nations that we could say.
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Yes, they did this.
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But Amos says, no, no, we have to draw up our attention and we have to realize that the Lord has done it.
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Psalm 42.
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It's all your waves and all your breakers have swept over me.
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The Lord had done something to the psalmist.
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That's the book of Lamentations.
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Jerusalem is the city afflicted.
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He says, look, O Lord, on my affliction.
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But it was the Lord who did it.
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The Lord who had done it.
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How the Lord has covered the daughter of Zion with a cloud of his anger.
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In his wrath, he has torn down the strongholds of the daughter of Judah.
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The city was in agony.
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It was in pain.
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And it was the Lord who had done it.
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We remember Hebrews.
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The Lord disciplines his sons.
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He afflicts, punishes his sons.
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And maybe you say, see, the Lord has afflicted me.
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He's brought this pain into my life and it hurts.
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And the Lord has done it.
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Shouldn't I be discouraged?
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That's why I'm discouraged.
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That's why I'm downcast.
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And shouldn't I be?
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My life hurts.
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I'm walking through life and I'm getting smacked on one side.
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And I'm getting smacked on the other.
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And my very heart is hurting.
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My heart is bleeding.
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And so shouldn't I be discouraged?
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It's not just my soul.
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It's my body.
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It's in pain.
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And it seems like it will never get better.
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I'm afflicted.
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Shouldn't I be discouraged?
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The pain.
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Well, shouldn't I be discouraged?
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The answer is no.
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No.
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No one likes pain.
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And yes.
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Yes, yes, yes.
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I know that that hurts.
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And I know that there are all sorts of things in this world to tempt us to be discouraged.
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That tempt us.
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That invite us to be downcast.
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And I hate hurting.
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I hate affliction.
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I don't like being sick.
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And many of you know greater pain than I've ever experienced.
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I know that.
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But even then, I would say, no.
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There's no reason to be discouraged.
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And why do I say that?
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Why do I say there's no reason yet to be discouraged and despair?
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Well, I want to give you just four reasons.
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And the first is I want you to consider the source of your afflictions.
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The source of your afflictions.
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It is one of the difficult things that the Lord that is often the one who is disciplining us.
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The Lord who is afflicting us.
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The Lord who is allowing this pain into our lives.
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And yet, we know that that comes from God's love.
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It's God's love that is the source.
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Your afflictions are painful, but why have they come to you?
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Why have they come to you?
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We can name all sorts of sub-reasons.
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What good they do you?
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We can name all sorts of reasons why the Lord has brought them in.
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But over it all, sort of on the title page, on the first line, is the Lord saying, I love you.
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I love you.
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Listen to Charles Spurgeon here.
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It would be a very sharp and trying experience to me to think that I have an affliction which God never sent me.
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It would be bad.
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It's bad to have to be afflicted.
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But he's saying what would be worse is to think that it doesn't come from him.
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That the bitter cup was never filled by his hand.
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That my trials were never measured out by him, nor sent to me by his arrangement of their weight and quantity.
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See, over all of our afflictions, over all of our pain, they're all measured.
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They're all weighed by God's heart, by God's love.
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And so why shouldn't you be discouraged?
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Because where do your afflictions come from?
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They come from his love.
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He has plans for you.
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He's preparing for you an eternal weight of glory.
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And on the other hand, he is preparing you for an eternal weight of glory.
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And he's preparing that eternal weight of glory for you.
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He has plans for you.
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And so you must be ready for them.
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Now, no bride likes to be pinched and prodded and poked and squeezed to get into her wedding dress.
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I don't think they do.
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But she's happy when she's in it.
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No bride likes to work out really hard and watch your diet really close so that you look really good on your wedding day.
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No bride enjoys that kind of pain.
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And yet, when she is walking down the aisle, when she is ready for her groom, she's happy.
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The pain did what it was supposed to do.
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And so our trials get us ready to be the bride of Christ.
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We have to think that our God in love is preparing us to be the bride of Christ forever and ever.
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And he's preparing us for his son.
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And so he isn't.
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He isn't out to hurt you.
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He isn't out to hurt you.
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It's painful.
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It's painful.
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But he promises it won't do you any harm.
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It hurts.
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But it will not do you any harm.
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It's sort of like getting a vaccine.
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I remember.
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I remember how I hated getting vaccines.
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I hated it.
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I didn't like getting the shot.
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But my parents took me anyway.
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Why?
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Why?
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Well, because those shots could save my life.
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Measles, mumps, polio, rubella, whatever else.
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Those things could kill me.
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The shot only hurt.
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The shot only hurt a little bit.
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God loves you.
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And so you know very well Hebrews 12.5.
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The Lord disciplines the sons he loves.
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And he punishes everyone he accepts as a son.
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Now, my mom was not such a glutton for punishment that she was taking other children that didn't belong to her to the doctor to get the shot.
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She took me.
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And she spanked me.
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And the reason that she took me and spanked me and put up with my crying and my complaining was because she cared about me.
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She loved me.
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I was hers.
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And so she punished me.
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And I didn't like that either.
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I didn't like shots.
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I didn't like spankings.
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But it was good.
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And I see that now.
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There was no harm.
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There was no harm in the shots.
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There was no harm in the spankings.
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There was pain.
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But no harm.
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So love brought the pain in order to save me from the harm.
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Love brings the pain to spare us from the harm.
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That's our afflictions.
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And so if our father, if us, if our father's being evil and our mother's being evil, know how to do good to their children, know how to discipline and punish their children.
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And Hebrews says our father's.
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Our father's disciplined us for a little while in the way that they thought best.
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It wasn't perfect, but they were trying.
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But our God doesn't merely try.
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He is a God of infinite wisdom, infinite love.
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And his heart is poured out upon us and he will do us good so that we can share in his holiness.
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And so is there any reason to be discouraged?
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Well, if we detached our afflictions from God's loving heart, yeah, there would be a reason to be discouraged.
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But the Bible everywhere tells us, no, the Lord is at it, in it, and he loves us.
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So there's no reason to be discouraged.
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So look at the source.
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It's the father's love.
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It's a parent's affection.
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We have to.
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There's such a art.
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There's such a wisdom that we need to gain of looking past the surface of things and reading God's heart.
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Of looking past the surface of things and looking at our trials through the cross.
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A God who would not spare his own son, but gave him up for us all.
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He's not going to harm us, no matter how painful the affliction is.
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We need to not look at the immediate and then judge and calculate God's heart based on that.
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We sing that song, don't judge the Lord by feeble sense.
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And everything, everything he does to us is controlled by his love.
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It's controlled by his love, measured by his love, and his love guides.
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And so God might be disciplining you, but you're his child.
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So trust him.
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It's so hard sometimes for children to trust their parents.
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But I think so often our parents prove to be trustworthy.
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Not always, but on the whole, I think they prove to be trustworthy.
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And yet our God is of so much greater heart and love and wisdom than they are.
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So we need to trust him.
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Now, secondly, why shouldn't you be downcast or discouraged?
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Well, second, I want you to consider the alternative.
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Consider the alternative.
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Because there is an alternative to having no, there is an alternative to the pain,
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to the punishment, to the affliction, to the discipline.
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There is an alternative.
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Hebrews says we would be illegitimate children if he didn't punish us.
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The alternative is to be illegitimate.
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Or turn in your Bibles to 1 Corinthians 11.
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1 Corinthians 11.32.
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And I want you to see what Paul says here.
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Because he clearly lays out the alternatives.
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And I think we need to understand and see our afflictions from God's perspective.
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And Paul is showing us how that is and what that looks like.
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So 1 Corinthians 11.32.
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And Paul says there,
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When we are judged by the Lord,
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we are being disciplined
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so that we will not be condemned with the world.
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So what is the alternative to discipline?
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What is the alternative to affliction?
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Well, it's being judged, condemned, with the world.
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I know this might not seem supremely comforting,
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but I think this gives us perspective.
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Because it's either pain now for a little time,
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or pain forever.
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Yes, it hurts.
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But it saves us from a greater pain.
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I just read this week
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of a young man growing up in inner city Baltimore.
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He was six,
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and he ran away from his parents
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on the playground one time,
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as children do.
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And his father pulled out his belt
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and spanked his kid really hard,
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spanked him really hard.
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And he said,
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It's either me or the police.
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It's either me or the police.
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There was this fear in that father's mind
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of,
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I want to do everything I can
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to spare my son from something worse.
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And I think there's something
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of God's own heart in that,
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that he will afflict us now
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to spare us later.
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So judgment begins with the family of God.
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Judgment fell on our elder brother.
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It fell on the cross.
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That last day,
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the last day of gloom
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and darkness,
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of separation,
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of judgment,
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the day of wrath
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came to the cross.
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Judgment began with the family of God,
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but so judgment also now begins with us.
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The Lord judges and disciplines us.
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And he was making some of the Corinthians
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to get sick
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and some of them to even die.
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And Paul says,
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Now let me explain what God is doing.
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He was killing them for their sin.
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Some of them had fallen asleep.
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And what was going on?
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Well, God was judging them,
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afflicting them,
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but it was so they wouldn't be judged
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and condemned with the world.
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Listen to William Bridge,
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the Puritan.
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The truth is,
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the day of affliction
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and tribulation
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is a godly man's day of judgment.
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It is his only judgment day.
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He shall never be judged again
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so as to be condemned
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at the day of judgment.
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And when the godly man's affliction day comes,
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he may say,
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Now is my judgment day
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and I shall never be judged again.
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Now, I hope you understand
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what he's saying.
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He's not saying
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we're never going to appear,
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we're never going to give account.
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He's not saying that.
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He's saying judgment
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in the sense of condemnation,
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the sense of dealing with our sin.
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And so,
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if today is your day of tribulation,
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now is your judgment
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so that you might be spared
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from the fire.
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And so,
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should you be discouraged?
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Well, it is tough love.
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It's severe mercy.
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It's severe grace.
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But it will all seem so light
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and fleeting
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when that day comes.
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And you will say,
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I got off easy.
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Jesus Christ took my sin on the cross.
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And even when I was being disciplined,
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it was so that he would not
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have to condemn me.
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And so,
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whatever happened to me
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in that brief little life
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is nothing compared to
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what has now befallen
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all of these people.
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And so,
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don't be discouraged.
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God is afflicting you, yes.
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But it's so that he will not
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condemn you later.
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So,
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that's the source
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and the alternative.
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Now, third,
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consider the new calling.
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The new calling.
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Why is it so difficult?
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Why are days of affliction
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so painful?
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Well,
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one reason is
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they feel,
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we can feel so useless.
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We can feel like
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these things are hampering us.
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These things are stopping us.
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And now I'm washed up.
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And I'm used up.
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And is God done with me?
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Because I can't do the things
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that I used to do.
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Because now I'm afflicted.
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Now I'm in pain.
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And the pain keeps me
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from doing what I want to do
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or doing what I'm accustomed to doing.
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And so,
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shouldn't I be discouraged?
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And the answer is no.
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No.
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We think,
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because I am suffering,
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I can't do
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what I would like.
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But that doesn't mean
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that we can't do
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what God wants us to do
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in that moment.
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When God leads you
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into affliction,
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when He leads you
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into pain,
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He isn't putting you
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on the shelf.
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He isn't,
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He isn't putting you
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on the shelf
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like some sort of
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empty,
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used up laundry soap
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or something like that.
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Like,
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no good here.
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He's putting you on,
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He's calling you,
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rather,
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He's calling you,
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He's leading you
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to another work.
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There's other ways
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of obeying God's will
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than doing.
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Let me repeat that.
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There are other ways
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of God's will,
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of obeying God's will
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than doing.
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We do God's will
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sometimes,
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and sometimes we bear
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God's will.
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We suffer God's will.
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We sing a song
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occasionally that says,
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there is something
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still to do
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or bear.
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Sometimes the Lord
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has a clear agenda
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for us to do.
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But other times,
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He says,
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now I want you
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to suffer this.
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I want you
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to bear this.
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And so in your health,
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you leave your house,
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you go to work,
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and you serve the Lord
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that way.
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But now you're sick
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and you can't go.
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And does that mean
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that there's nothing
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to do?
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There's no way
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to serve God.
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There's no way
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to please Him.
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Are you all washed up?
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And the answer is no.
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God is now giving you
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a different calling.
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He's telling you
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to do something else,
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a new calling.
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He says,
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now be patient.
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Be quiet.
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Submit.
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And that is the harder.
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That is the harder work
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sometimes.
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That is the harder work.
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Self can easily
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get into the doing.
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Self has a hard time
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getting into the suffering
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and in the being patient
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and being quiet.
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But it's still
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God's calling.
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It's still a way
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to serve Him.
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And so God
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doesn't blame you
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because you can't do
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the things that you
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used to do.
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He doesn't expect you
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to do them.
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He doesn't want you
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to do them right now.
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Now He has something
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else for you to do.
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So there's no reason
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to be discouraged.
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If a master
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tells a servant
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to stop doing
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the dishes
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and go outside
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and weed the garden.
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Or if a mom
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or dad tells a child
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stop doing the dishes
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and take out
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the garbage.
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Are mom and dad
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upset
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because you walked
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away from the sink
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and went outside?
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No.
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No.
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God has something
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else for you to do
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and so there's no reason
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to be discouraged.
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He'll glorify Himself
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through your suffering.
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Not just your doing
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but your suffering.
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And so
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we also
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need to learn
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to not be so
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inflexible.
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The Lord doesn't lead us
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in straight lines.
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And so we follow Him.
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We follow Him
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when His will
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takes us around the corner
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and away from what
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we used to do
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and away into something else.
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And if He just sits us
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in a chair
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and says now suffer here
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for a while
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that is still
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doing His will
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and we can still
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please Him
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in that way.
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And so don't be discouraged.
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So we've seen
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the source.
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We've seen the alternative.
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We've seen the new
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calling now forth.
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You don't need
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to be discouraged
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because of the companion.
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Of the companion.
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We sang it this morning.
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When you go through
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the waters
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God says
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I will be with you.
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I will be with you.
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So who
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is with us
00:24:12.019 --> 00:24:12.759
in our affliction?
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Who is with us
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in our affliction?
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And this makes
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all the difference.
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Our afflictions
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aren't only sent
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down from heaven.
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It's not like
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our afflictions
00:24:21.960 --> 00:24:23.059
are put into an envelope
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and sent from
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Wyoming to us.
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No.
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God puts our afflictions
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in the envelope
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and He delivers them
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and then He is there
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while we open it up
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and as we endure it.
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He never sends us
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afflictions without
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coming near to us Himself.
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So He's like
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the father
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or He's like the mother
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that puts the child
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on his or her lap
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while the child
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is getting the shot.
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And so when Shadrach,
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Meshach,
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and Abednego
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were in the furnace
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Nebuchadnezzar
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had to rub his eyes
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and says,
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you know,
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I'm not good at counting,
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but wasn't there
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three of them?
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But now there's a fourth.
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And if we had
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those kind of eyes,
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we would see
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in all of our affliction
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there is someone
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beside us.
00:25:15.000 --> 00:25:17.160
Nothing draws God
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close to us
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like affliction.
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He said to Saul of Tarsus,
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why are you
00:25:22.019 --> 00:25:23.180
persecuting me?
00:25:23.180 --> 00:25:27.160
Every painful thing
00:25:27.160 --> 00:25:28.420
that Saul was doing
00:25:28.420 --> 00:25:29.120
to the church,
00:25:29.240 --> 00:25:30.400
that painful thing
00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:32.000
was felt by God's people,
00:25:32.480 --> 00:25:34.240
but yet Jesus is saying,
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I felt it all.
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In all their afflictions,
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He was afflicted.
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And Peter says,
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are you insulted
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and persecuted?
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Then the Spirit of glory
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in God rests on you.
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Pain draws God to us.
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Our affliction draws
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the Father.
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Our affliction draws
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the Son.
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Our affliction draws
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the Holy Spirit
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to our side.
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And we're always afraid
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that we're going to come
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to a place,
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we're going to come
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to a time,
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we're going to come
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to a space
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where we are facing
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our afflictions
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and we're going
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to lean upon Him
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or we're going to reach out
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for Him
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and He's going to be gone.
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And yet He says,
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even if you feel like
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I'm gone,
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I am there.
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I'll never leave you.
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I will never forsake you.
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Now you know as a parent
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that your child's pain
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pulls you towards them.
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It's this magnet,
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isn't it?
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You would do anything
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to spare them
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and you yourself
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feel in their pain.
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And if that's true
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for teaspoon-sized hearts
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like ours,
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how much more true
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is that of God
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who says,
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I am love.
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So should you be discouraged?
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No, God is with you.
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God is close to you.
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God loves you.
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You have a friend
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that sticks closer
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than a brother.
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And David said it here
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in Psalm 42.
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He says,
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In the night,
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in the night,
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all alone,
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with the darkness
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pressing in upon
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my eyes,
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he says,
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By day the Lord
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directs His love
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and at night
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His song is with me.
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And so the Lord is near.
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He's near at the night.
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He's near in the loneliness.
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And His love
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is doing you good.
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And in all of this,
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He is preparing for you
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an eternal weight
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of glory.
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But He's also preparing you
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for that eternal weight
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of glory.
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He's preparing you.
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He's sanctifying you.
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He's up to good.
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He's praying for you.
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He's praying for you.
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We began this day with,
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I know the plans
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I have for you.
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And that's where we'll end.
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Yes, His plans
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sometimes have pain
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written in them,
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but they all end up
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with this,
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this eternal
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weight
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of glory
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that far outweighs
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all of our
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little afflictions
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for this day.
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And so don't be discouraged.
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Hold on.
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Look at Jesus.
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Trust in Him.
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Don't be discouraged.
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Let's pray.
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Our God,
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these things are easier
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to say than to do.
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These things are easier
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to say,
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yes,
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I believe
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when you're sitting
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in a comfortable
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church pew.
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They're much more difficult
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when you're at home
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and alone.
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They're much more difficult
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when you are in pain.
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Holy Spirit,
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thank you
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that you work patience
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and self-control
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and love
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and joy
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into believers.
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And so for my
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suffering brothers
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and sisters,
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I pray,
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Holy Spirit,
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come and
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pour out your love
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and your grace
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and your fruitfulness
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into their lives
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that they might bear fruit
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to the honor of God.
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Thank you that
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we not only can glorify you
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in doing,
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but we can also glorify you
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in bearing
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and suffering.
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Well,
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please give us that
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bigger perspective.
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It's so easy for us
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to attach
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ourselves
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to joy
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and pleasure
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and not know
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what to do with pain.
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Please give us
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that wisdom.
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And Lord Jesus,
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I pray that you would
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draw close to all of us
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that as we do
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walk through
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this veil of tears,
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this veil of crying
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and death
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and pain,
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please Lord Jesus,
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keep lifting up
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our chins
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and showing us
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that there is coming
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a day
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when there will be
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no more death
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or crying
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or mourning
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or pain
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or suffering
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or any of those things
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for the old order
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has passed away.
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Thank you
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that you are leading us
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to an eternal day
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where there is
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no more night.
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Please help us
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to hold on
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until that day.
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Glorify yourself
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in us.
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I ask this in Jesus' name.
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Amen.
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Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me?
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! These Sunday afternoons we've been looking at Psalm 42 and Psalm 43, that refrain that we see three times in that psalm.
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And the psalmist is downcast, he's disturbed, he's not at rest, his heart is like the ocean.
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He says, the waves and the breakers have crashed over my soul.
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And we've all been there.
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We're talking to our brother John this afternoon.
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They live a very different kind of life in Arizona.
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But people get discouraged and downcast no matter where you live, no matter how hot it gets or how cold it gets.
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We've all been there.
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And maybe it happens all of a sudden, a sudden jolt, sudden tragedy, and we're downcast.
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Or maybe it's a slow build.
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It's one thing after another, after another.
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Each in their turn wouldn't be so bad.
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But yet when you build them on top of each other, when you stack them on top of each other, it becomes very discouraging.
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Or maybe it's just the same thing again and again and again.
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And we're downcast.
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We're discouraged.
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Now, we've seen several reasons for discouragement.
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Seen those.
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And today we want to talk about one more.
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One more door into this gloomy room of downcast discouragement.
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And today we want to talk about afflictions.
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Afflictions.
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And I use that word rather than trial or difficulty or obstacle.
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Not because those are bad words, but because affliction carries with it the idea of pain.
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Pain.
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So Paul had a thorn in his flesh.
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It was a trial.
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It was a difficulty.
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But he doesn't talk about obstacles.
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He doesn't talk about trials.
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He talks about a thorn.
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And a thorn means a sharp pain.
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Pain.
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We know what a thorn feels like.
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It's a sharp pain.
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And I don't only use that word because it carries the idea of pain.
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I use affliction because very often the idea carries, or that word carries the idea of an afflictor.
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Someone is afflicting us.
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It's not just something we ran into.
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It is now something that is done to us.
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In Paul's case, it was a messenger of Satan.
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Yes, it was under the Lord's control, but it was a messenger from Satan.
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But oftentimes, and I think ultimately we have to say, it's God himself.
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He allows it.
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He actively brings it into our life, or he merely allows it to happen.
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But it's God himself.
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Amos, the prophet said, when disaster comes to a city, has not the Lord caused it?
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Yes, there could be enemies.
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There could be other nations that we could say.
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Yes, they did this.
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But Amos says, no, no, we have to draw up our attention and we have to realize that the Lord has done it.
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Psalm 42.
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It's all your waves and all your breakers have swept over me.
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The Lord had done something to the psalmist.
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That's the book of Lamentations.
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Jerusalem is the city afflicted.
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He says, look, O Lord, on my affliction.
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But it was the Lord who did it.
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The Lord who had done it.
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How the Lord has covered the daughter of Zion with a cloud of his anger.
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In his wrath, he has torn down the strongholds of the daughter of Judah.
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The city was in agony.
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It was in pain.
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And it was the Lord who had done it.
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We remember Hebrews.
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The Lord disciplines his sons.
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He afflicts, punishes his sons.
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And maybe you say, see, the Lord has afflicted me.
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He's brought this pain into my life and it hurts.
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And the Lord has done it.
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Shouldn't I be discouraged?
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That's why I'm discouraged.
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That's why I'm downcast.
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And shouldn't I be?
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My life hurts.
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I'm walking through life and I'm getting smacked on one side.
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And I'm getting smacked on the other.
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And my very heart is hurting.
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My heart is bleeding.
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And so shouldn't I be discouraged?
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It's not just my soul.
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It's my body.
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It's in pain.
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And it seems like it will never get better.
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I'm afflicted.
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Shouldn't I be discouraged?
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The pain.
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Well, shouldn't I be discouraged?
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The answer is no.
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No.
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No one likes pain.
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And yes.
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Yes, yes, yes.
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I know that that hurts.
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And I know that there are all sorts of things in this world to tempt us to be discouraged.
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That tempt us.
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That invite us to be downcast.
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And I hate hurting.
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I hate affliction.
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I don't like being sick.
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And many of you know greater pain than I've ever experienced.
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I know that.
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But even then, I would say, no.
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There's no reason to be discouraged.
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And why do I say that?
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Why do I say there's no reason yet to be discouraged and despair?
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Well, I want to give you just four reasons.
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And the first is I want you to consider the source of your afflictions.
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The source of your afflictions.
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It is one of the difficult things that the Lord that is often the one who is disciplining us.
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The Lord who is afflicting us.
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The Lord who is allowing this pain into our lives.
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And yet, we know that that comes from God's love.
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It's God's love that is the source.
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Your afflictions are painful, but why have they come to you?
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Why have they come to you?
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We can name all sorts of sub-reasons.
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What good they do you?
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We can name all sorts of reasons why the Lord has brought them in.
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But over it all, sort of on the title page, on the first line, is the Lord saying, I love you.
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I love you.
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Listen to Charles Spurgeon here.
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It would be a very sharp and trying experience to me to think that I have an affliction which God never sent me.
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It would be bad.
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It's bad to have to be afflicted.
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But he's saying what would be worse is to think that it doesn't come from him.
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That the bitter cup was never filled by his hand.
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That my trials were never measured out by him, nor sent to me by his arrangement of their weight and quantity.
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See, over all of our afflictions, over all of our pain, they're all measured.
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They're all weighed by God's heart, by God's love.
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And so why shouldn't you be discouraged?
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Because where do your afflictions come from?
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They come from his love.
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He has plans for you.
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He's preparing for you an eternal weight of glory.
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And on the other hand, he is preparing you for an eternal weight of glory.
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And he's preparing that eternal weight of glory for you.
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He has plans for you.
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And so you must be ready for them.
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Now, no bride likes to be pinched and prodded and poked and squeezed to get into her wedding dress.
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I don't think they do.
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But she's happy when she's in it.
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No bride likes to work out really hard and watch your diet really close so that you look really good on your wedding day.
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No bride enjoys that kind of pain.
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And yet, when she is walking down the aisle, when she is ready for her groom, she's happy.
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The pain did what it was supposed to do.
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And so our trials get us ready to be the bride of Christ.
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We have to think that our God in love is preparing us to be the bride of Christ forever and ever.
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And he's preparing us for his son.
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And so he isn't.
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He isn't out to hurt you.
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He isn't out to hurt you.
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It's painful.
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It's painful.
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But he promises it won't do you any harm.
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It hurts.
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But it will not do you any harm.
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It's sort of like getting a vaccine.
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I remember.
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I remember how I hated getting vaccines.
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I hated it.
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I didn't like getting the shot.
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But my parents took me anyway.
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Why?
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Why?
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Well, because those shots could save my life.
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Measles, mumps, polio, rubella, whatever else.
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Those things could kill me.
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The shot only hurt.
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The shot only hurt a little bit.
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God loves you.
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And so you know very well Hebrews 12.5.
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The Lord disciplines the sons he loves.
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And he punishes everyone he accepts as a son.
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Now, my mom was not such a glutton for punishment that she was taking other children that didn't belong to her to the doctor to get the shot.
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She took me.
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And she spanked me.
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And the reason that she took me and spanked me and put up with my crying and my complaining was because she cared about me.
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She loved me.
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I was hers.
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And so she punished me.
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And I didn't like that either.
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I didn't like shots.
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I didn't like spankings.
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But it was good.
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And I see that now.
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There was no harm.
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There was no harm in the shots.
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There was no harm in the spankings.
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There was pain.
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But no harm.
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So love brought the pain in order to save me from the harm.
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Love brings the pain to spare us from the harm.
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That's our afflictions.
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And so if our father, if us, if our father's being evil and our mother's being evil, know how to do good to their children, know how to discipline and punish their children.
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And Hebrews says our father's.
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Our father's disciplined us for a little while in the way that they thought best.
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It wasn't perfect, but they were trying.
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But our God doesn't merely try.
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He is a God of infinite wisdom, infinite love.
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And his heart is poured out upon us and he will do us good so that we can share in his holiness.
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And so is there any reason to be discouraged?
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Well, if we detached our afflictions from God's loving heart, yeah, there would be a reason to be discouraged.
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But the Bible everywhere tells us, no, the Lord is at it, in it, and he loves us.
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So there's no reason to be discouraged.
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So look at the source.
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It's the father's love.
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It's a parent's affection.
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We have to.
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There's such a art.
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There's such a wisdom that we need to gain of looking past the surface of things and reading God's heart.
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Of looking past the surface of things and looking at our trials through the cross.
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A God who would not spare his own son, but gave him up for us all.
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He's not going to harm us, no matter how painful the affliction is.
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We need to not look at the immediate and then judge and calculate God's heart based on that.
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We sing that song, don't judge the Lord by feeble sense.
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And everything, everything he does to us is controlled by his love.
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It's controlled by his love, measured by his love, and his love guides.
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And so God might be disciplining you, but you're his child.
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So trust him.
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It's so hard sometimes for children to trust their parents.
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But I think so often our parents prove to be trustworthy.
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Not always, but on the whole, I think they prove to be trustworthy.
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And yet our God is of so much greater heart and love and wisdom than they are.
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So we need to trust him.
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Now, secondly, why shouldn't you be downcast or discouraged?
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Well, second, I want you to consider the alternative.
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Consider the alternative.
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Because there is an alternative to having no, there is an alternative to the pain,
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to the punishment, to the affliction, to the discipline.
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There is an alternative.
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Hebrews says we would be illegitimate children if he didn't punish us.
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The alternative is to be illegitimate.
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Or turn in your Bibles to 1 Corinthians 11.
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1 Corinthians 11.32.
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And I want you to see what Paul says here.
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Because he clearly lays out the alternatives.
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And I think we need to understand and see our afflictions from God's perspective.
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And Paul is showing us how that is and what that looks like.
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So 1 Corinthians 11.32.
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And Paul says there,
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When we are judged by the Lord,
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we are being disciplined
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so that we will not be condemned with the world.
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So what is the alternative to discipline?
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What is the alternative to affliction?
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Well, it's being judged, condemned, with the world.
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I know this might not seem supremely comforting,
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but I think this gives us perspective.
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Because it's either pain now for a little time,
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or pain forever.
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Yes, it hurts.
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But it saves us from a greater pain.
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I just read this week
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of a young man growing up in inner city Baltimore.
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He was six,
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and he ran away from his parents
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on the playground one time,
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as children do.
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And his father pulled out his belt
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and spanked his kid really hard,
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spanked him really hard.
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And he said,
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It's either me or the police.
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It's either me or the police.
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There was this fear in that father's mind
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of,
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I want to do everything I can
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to spare my son from something worse.
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And I think there's something
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of God's own heart in that,
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that he will afflict us now
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to spare us later.
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So judgment begins with the family of God.
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Judgment fell on our elder brother.
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It fell on the cross.
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That last day,
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the last day of gloom
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and darkness,
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of separation,
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of judgment,
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the day of wrath
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came to the cross.
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Judgment began with the family of God,
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but so judgment also now begins with us.
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The Lord judges and disciplines us.
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And he was making some of the Corinthians
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to get sick
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and some of them to even die.
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And Paul says,
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Now let me explain what God is doing.
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He was killing them for their sin.
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Some of them had fallen asleep.
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And what was going on?
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Well, God was judging them,
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afflicting them,
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but it was so they wouldn't be judged
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and condemned with the world.
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Listen to William Bridge,
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the Puritan.
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The truth is,
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the day of affliction
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and tribulation
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is a godly man's day of judgment.
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It is his only judgment day.
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He shall never be judged again
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so as to be condemned
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at the day of judgment.
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And when the godly man's affliction day comes,
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he may say,
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Now is my judgment day
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and I shall never be judged again.
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Now, I hope you understand
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what he's saying.
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He's not saying
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we're never going to appear,
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we're never going to give account.
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He's not saying that.
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He's saying judgment
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in the sense of condemnation,
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the sense of dealing with our sin.
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And so,
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if today is your day of tribulation,
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now is your judgment
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so that you might be spared
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from the fire.
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And so,
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should you be discouraged?
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Well, it is tough love.
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It's severe mercy.
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It's severe grace.
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But it will all seem so light
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and fleeting
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when that day comes.
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And you will say,
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I got off easy.
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Jesus Christ took my sin on the cross.
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And even when I was being disciplined,
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it was so that he would not
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have to condemn me.
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And so,
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whatever happened to me
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in that brief little life
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is nothing compared to
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what has now befallen
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all of these people.
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And so,
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don't be discouraged.
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God is afflicting you, yes.
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But it's so that he will not
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condemn you later.
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So,
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that's the source
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and the alternative.
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Now, third,
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consider the new calling.
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The new calling.
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Why is it so difficult?
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Why are days of affliction
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so painful?
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Well,
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one reason is
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they feel,
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we can feel so useless.
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We can feel like
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these things are hampering us.
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These things are stopping us.
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And now I'm washed up.
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And I'm used up.
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And is God done with me?
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Because I can't do the things
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that I used to do.
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Because now I'm afflicted.
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Now I'm in pain.
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And the pain keeps me
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from doing what I want to do
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or doing what I'm accustomed to doing.
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And so,
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shouldn't I be discouraged?
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And the answer is no.
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No.
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We think,
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because I am suffering,
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I can't do
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what I would like.
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But that doesn't mean
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that we can't do
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what God wants us to do
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in that moment.
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When God leads you
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into affliction,
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when He leads you
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into pain,
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He isn't putting you
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on the shelf.
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He isn't,
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He isn't putting you
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on the shelf
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like some sort of
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empty,
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used up laundry soap
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or something like that.
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Like,
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no good here.
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He's putting you on,
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He's calling you,
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rather,
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He's calling you,
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He's leading you
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to another work.
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There's other ways
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of obeying God's will
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than doing.
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Let me repeat that.
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There are other ways
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of God's will,
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of obeying God's will
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than doing.
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We do God's will
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sometimes,
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and sometimes we bear
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God's will.
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We suffer God's will.
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We sing a song
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occasionally that says,
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there is something
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still to do
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or bear.
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Sometimes the Lord
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has a clear agenda
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for us to do.
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But other times,
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He says,
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now I want you
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to suffer this.
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I want you
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to bear this.
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And so in your health,
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you leave your house,
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you go to work,
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and you serve the Lord
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that way.
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But now you're sick
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and you can't go.
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And does that mean
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that there's nothing
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to do?
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There's no way
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to serve God.
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There's no way
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to please Him.
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Are you all washed up?
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And the answer is no.
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God is now giving you
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a different calling.
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He's telling you
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to do something else,
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a new calling.
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He says,
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now be patient.
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Be quiet.
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Submit.
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And that is the harder.
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That is the harder work
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sometimes.
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That is the harder work.
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Self can easily
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get into the doing.
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Self has a hard time
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getting into the suffering
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and in the being patient
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and being quiet.
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But it's still
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God's calling.
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It's still a way
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to serve Him.
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And so God
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doesn't blame you
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because you can't do
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the things that you
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used to do.
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He doesn't expect you
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to do them.
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He doesn't want you
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to do them right now.
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Now He has something
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else for you to do.
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So there's no reason
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to be discouraged.
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If a master
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tells a servant
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to stop doing
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the dishes
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and go outside
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and weed the garden.
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Or if a mom
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or dad tells a child
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stop doing the dishes
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and take out
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the garbage.
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Are mom and dad
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upset
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because you walked
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away from the sink
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and went outside?
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No.
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No.
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God has something
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else for you to do
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and so there's no reason
00:23:09.899 --> 00:23:11.019
to be discouraged.
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He'll glorify Himself
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through your suffering.
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Not just your doing
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but your suffering.
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And so
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we also
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need to learn
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to not be so
00:23:21.899 --> 00:23:22.819
inflexible.
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The Lord doesn't lead us
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in straight lines.
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And so we follow Him.
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We follow Him
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when His will
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takes us around the corner
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and away from what
00:23:35.720 --> 00:23:36.600
we used to do
00:23:36.600 --> 00:23:38.420
and away into something else.
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And if He just sits us
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in a chair
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and says now suffer here
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for a while
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that is still
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doing His will
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and we can still
00:23:45.860 --> 00:23:46.440
please Him
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in that way.
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And so don't be discouraged.
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So we've seen
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the source.
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We've seen the alternative.
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We've seen the new
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calling now forth.
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You don't need
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to be discouraged
00:23:57.220 --> 00:23:58.660
because of the companion.
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Of the companion.
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We sang it this morning.
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When you go through
00:24:03.860 --> 00:24:04.620
the waters
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God says
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I will be with you.
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I will be with you.
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So who
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is with us
00:24:12.019 --> 00:24:12.759
in our affliction?
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Who is with us
00:24:14.720 --> 00:24:15.380
in our affliction?
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And this makes
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all the difference.
00:24:17.079 --> 00:24:17.660
Our afflictions
00:24:17.660 --> 00:24:18.339
aren't only sent
00:24:18.339 --> 00:24:20.180
down from heaven.
00:24:20.839 --> 00:24:21.460
It's not like
00:24:21.460 --> 00:24:21.960
our afflictions
00:24:21.960 --> 00:24:23.059
are put into an envelope
00:24:23.059 --> 00:24:24.100
and sent from
00:24:24.100 --> 00:24:25.779
Wyoming to us.
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No.
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God puts our afflictions
00:24:28.420 --> 00:24:28.960
in the envelope
00:24:28.960 --> 00:24:30.339
and He delivers them
00:24:30.339 --> 00:24:31.660
and then He is there
00:24:31.660 --> 00:24:33.180
while we open it up
00:24:33.180 --> 00:24:35.099
and as we endure it.
00:24:35.539 --> 00:24:36.759
He never sends us
00:24:36.759 --> 00:24:38.279
afflictions without
00:24:38.279 --> 00:24:40.000
coming near to us Himself.
00:24:41.039 --> 00:24:41.680
So He's like
00:24:41.680 --> 00:24:43.079
the father
00:24:43.079 --> 00:24:44.440
or He's like the mother
00:24:44.440 --> 00:24:45.819
that puts the child
00:24:45.819 --> 00:24:47.859
on his or her lap
00:24:47.859 --> 00:24:48.619
while the child
00:24:48.619 --> 00:24:49.559
is getting the shot.
00:24:51.220 --> 00:24:52.480
And so when Shadrach,
00:24:52.579 --> 00:24:52.980
Meshach,
00:24:53.079 --> 00:24:53.539
and Abednego
00:24:53.539 --> 00:24:54.920
were in the furnace
00:24:54.920 --> 00:24:57.259
Nebuchadnezzar
00:24:57.259 --> 00:24:58.220
had to rub his eyes
00:24:58.220 --> 00:24:58.700
and says,
00:24:59.019 --> 00:24:59.320
you know,
00:24:59.380 --> 00:25:00.360
I'm not good at counting,
00:25:00.480 --> 00:25:01.120
but wasn't there
00:25:01.120 --> 00:25:02.140
three of them?
00:25:03.100 --> 00:25:04.320
But now there's a fourth.
00:25:06.519 --> 00:25:07.759
And if we had
00:25:07.759 --> 00:25:08.880
those kind of eyes,
00:25:09.000 --> 00:25:09.660
we would see
00:25:09.660 --> 00:25:10.660
in all of our affliction
00:25:10.660 --> 00:25:11.420
there is someone
00:25:11.420 --> 00:25:12.440
beside us.
00:25:15.000 --> 00:25:17.160
Nothing draws God
00:25:17.160 --> 00:25:18.480
close to us
00:25:18.480 --> 00:25:19.340
like affliction.
00:25:19.340 --> 00:25:21.120
He said to Saul of Tarsus,
00:25:21.279 --> 00:25:22.019
why are you
00:25:22.019 --> 00:25:23.180
persecuting me?
00:25:23.180 --> 00:25:27.160
Every painful thing
00:25:27.160 --> 00:25:28.420
that Saul was doing
00:25:28.420 --> 00:25:29.120
to the church,
00:25:29.240 --> 00:25:30.400
that painful thing
00:25:30.400 --> 00:25:32.000
was felt by God's people,
00:25:32.480 --> 00:25:34.240
but yet Jesus is saying,
00:25:34.580 --> 00:25:35.860
I felt it all.
00:25:37.200 --> 00:25:38.840
In all their afflictions,
00:25:39.259 --> 00:25:40.460
He was afflicted.
00:25:41.500 --> 00:25:42.240
And Peter says,
00:25:42.779 --> 00:25:43.860
are you insulted
00:25:43.860 --> 00:25:44.600
and persecuted?
00:25:46.180 --> 00:25:47.820
Then the Spirit of glory
00:25:47.820 --> 00:25:49.100
in God rests on you.
00:25:49.099 --> 00:25:55.759
Pain draws God to us.
00:25:57.259 --> 00:25:58.459
Our affliction draws
00:25:58.459 --> 00:25:59.099
the Father.
00:25:59.659 --> 00:26:00.919
Our affliction draws
00:26:00.919 --> 00:26:01.579
the Son.
00:26:01.740 --> 00:26:02.939
Our affliction draws
00:26:02.939 --> 00:26:03.719
the Holy Spirit
00:26:03.719 --> 00:26:04.439
to our side.
00:26:04.759 --> 00:26:05.879
And we're always afraid
00:26:05.879 --> 00:26:06.619
that we're going to come
00:26:06.619 --> 00:26:07.179
to a place,
00:26:07.259 --> 00:26:07.740
we're going to come
00:26:07.740 --> 00:26:08.259
to a time,
00:26:08.319 --> 00:26:08.799
we're going to come
00:26:08.799 --> 00:26:09.399
to a space
00:26:09.399 --> 00:26:11.039
where we are facing
00:26:11.039 --> 00:26:11.859
our afflictions
00:26:11.859 --> 00:26:12.740
and we're going
00:26:12.740 --> 00:26:13.719
to lean upon Him
00:26:13.719 --> 00:26:14.659
or we're going to reach out
00:26:14.659 --> 00:26:14.919
for Him
00:26:14.919 --> 00:26:15.939
and He's going to be gone.
00:26:16.740 --> 00:26:17.719
And yet He says,
00:26:17.720 --> 00:26:18.839
even if you feel like
00:26:18.839 --> 00:26:19.259
I'm gone,
00:26:19.360 --> 00:26:19.960
I am there.
00:26:21.819 --> 00:26:23.000
I'll never leave you.
00:26:23.420 --> 00:26:25.000
I will never forsake you.
00:26:26.779 --> 00:26:28.039
Now you know as a parent
00:26:28.039 --> 00:26:30.180
that your child's pain
00:26:30.180 --> 00:26:31.799
pulls you towards them.
00:26:31.880 --> 00:26:32.700
It's this magnet,
00:26:32.860 --> 00:26:33.360
isn't it?
00:26:34.360 --> 00:26:35.380
You would do anything
00:26:35.380 --> 00:26:36.339
to spare them
00:26:36.339 --> 00:26:38.860
and you yourself
00:26:38.860 --> 00:26:40.940
feel in their pain.
00:26:40.940 --> 00:26:42.220
And if that's true
00:26:42.220 --> 00:26:44.100
for teaspoon-sized hearts
00:26:44.100 --> 00:26:45.000
like ours,
00:26:45.880 --> 00:26:47.380
how much more true
00:26:47.380 --> 00:26:48.740
is that of God
00:26:48.740 --> 00:26:49.080
who says,
00:26:49.220 --> 00:26:50.220
I am love.
00:26:53.400 --> 00:26:54.799
So should you be discouraged?
00:26:56.539 --> 00:26:58.019
No, God is with you.
00:26:59.559 --> 00:27:00.960
God is close to you.
00:27:02.200 --> 00:27:03.259
God loves you.
00:27:04.460 --> 00:27:05.460
You have a friend
00:27:05.460 --> 00:27:06.420
that sticks closer
00:27:06.420 --> 00:27:07.180
than a brother.
00:27:07.180 --> 00:27:09.279
And David said it here
00:27:09.279 --> 00:27:10.160
in Psalm 42.
00:27:11.120 --> 00:27:11.500
He says,
00:27:11.640 --> 00:27:12.240
In the night,
00:27:12.759 --> 00:27:14.580
in the night,
00:27:15.640 --> 00:27:16.720
all alone,
00:27:17.960 --> 00:27:18.860
with the darkness
00:27:18.860 --> 00:27:20.360
pressing in upon
00:27:20.360 --> 00:27:21.799
my eyes,
00:27:22.299 --> 00:27:22.900
he says,
00:27:23.360 --> 00:27:24.259
By day the Lord
00:27:24.259 --> 00:27:25.320
directs His love
00:27:25.320 --> 00:27:26.320
and at night
00:27:26.320 --> 00:27:27.700
His song is with me.
00:27:32.120 --> 00:27:33.480
And so the Lord is near.
00:27:34.759 --> 00:27:35.940
He's near at the night.
00:27:37.180 --> 00:27:38.759
He's near in the loneliness.
00:27:39.500 --> 00:27:40.140
And His love
00:27:40.140 --> 00:27:41.060
is doing you good.
00:27:41.700 --> 00:27:42.620
And in all of this,
00:27:42.700 --> 00:27:44.539
He is preparing for you
00:27:44.539 --> 00:27:47.180
an eternal weight
00:27:47.180 --> 00:27:48.620
of glory.
00:27:52.759 --> 00:27:54.640
But He's also preparing you
00:27:54.640 --> 00:27:57.080
for that eternal weight
00:27:57.080 --> 00:27:57.580
of glory.
00:27:59.200 --> 00:28:00.500
He's preparing you.
00:28:01.400 --> 00:28:02.720
He's sanctifying you.
00:28:03.320 --> 00:28:04.299
He's up to good.
00:28:04.299 --> 00:28:05.299
He's praying for you.
00:28:05.299 --> 00:28:05.619
He's praying for you.
00:28:05.619 --> 00:28:07.259
We began this day with,
00:28:07.720 --> 00:28:08.480
I know the plans
00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:09.319
I have for you.
00:28:10.859 --> 00:28:12.279
And that's where we'll end.
00:28:13.680 --> 00:28:14.639
Yes, His plans
00:28:14.639 --> 00:28:15.919
sometimes have pain
00:28:15.919 --> 00:28:17.159
written in them,
00:28:17.319 --> 00:28:18.759
but they all end up
00:28:18.759 --> 00:28:19.539
with this,
00:28:19.599 --> 00:28:20.440
this eternal
00:28:20.440 --> 00:28:21.579
weight
00:28:21.579 --> 00:28:22.619
of glory
00:28:22.619 --> 00:28:23.899
that far outweighs
00:28:23.899 --> 00:28:24.539
all of our
00:28:24.539 --> 00:28:25.299
little afflictions
00:28:25.919 --> 00:28:26.619
for this day.
00:28:26.740 --> 00:28:28.000
And so don't be discouraged.
00:28:29.119 --> 00:28:30.019
Hold on.
00:28:30.019 --> 00:28:32.619
Look at Jesus.
00:28:34.480 --> 00:28:35.400
Trust in Him.
00:28:36.000 --> 00:28:37.039
Don't be discouraged.
00:28:37.619 --> 00:28:38.119
Let's pray.
00:28:41.839 --> 00:28:42.539
Our God,
00:28:42.619 --> 00:28:43.480
these things are easier
00:28:43.480 --> 00:28:44.660
to say than to do.
00:28:46.599 --> 00:28:47.819
These things are easier
00:28:47.819 --> 00:28:48.420
to say,
00:28:48.579 --> 00:28:48.839
yes,
00:28:48.900 --> 00:28:49.660
I believe
00:28:49.660 --> 00:28:51.039
when you're sitting
00:28:51.039 --> 00:28:53.039
in a comfortable
00:28:53.039 --> 00:28:54.740
church pew.
00:28:56.059 --> 00:28:57.440
They're much more difficult
00:28:57.440 --> 00:28:58.480
when you're at home
00:28:58.480 --> 00:28:59.099
and alone.
00:29:00.319 --> 00:29:01.500
They're much more difficult
00:29:01.500 --> 00:29:03.240
when you are in pain.
00:29:04.579 --> 00:29:05.519
Holy Spirit,
00:29:05.640 --> 00:29:06.039
thank you
00:29:06.039 --> 00:29:07.759
that you work patience
00:29:07.759 --> 00:29:09.880
and self-control
00:29:09.880 --> 00:29:10.799
and love
00:29:10.799 --> 00:29:11.500
and joy
00:29:11.500 --> 00:29:13.339
into believers.
00:29:15.259 --> 00:29:16.140
And so for my
00:29:16.140 --> 00:29:17.140
suffering brothers
00:29:17.140 --> 00:29:17.839
and sisters,
00:29:18.019 --> 00:29:18.380
I pray,
00:29:18.539 --> 00:29:19.140
Holy Spirit,
00:29:19.319 --> 00:29:20.480
come and
00:29:20.480 --> 00:29:23.360
pour out your love
00:29:23.360 --> 00:29:24.180
and your grace
00:29:24.180 --> 00:29:25.240
and your fruitfulness
00:29:25.240 --> 00:29:26.240
into their lives
00:29:26.240 --> 00:29:27.519
that they might bear fruit
00:29:27.519 --> 00:29:28.660
to the honor of God.
00:29:28.779 --> 00:29:29.319
Thank you that
00:29:29.319 --> 00:29:31.539
we not only can glorify you
00:29:31.539 --> 00:29:32.079
in doing,
00:29:32.259 --> 00:29:34.039
but we can also glorify you
00:29:34.039 --> 00:29:34.639
in bearing
00:29:34.639 --> 00:29:36.160
and suffering.
00:29:37.559 --> 00:29:37.779
Well,
00:29:37.819 --> 00:29:38.700
please give us that
00:29:38.700 --> 00:29:39.819
bigger perspective.
00:29:41.180 --> 00:29:42.500
It's so easy for us
00:29:42.500 --> 00:29:43.240
to attach
00:29:43.240 --> 00:29:44.480
ourselves
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to joy
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and pleasure
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and not know
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what to do with pain.
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Please give us
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that wisdom.
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And Lord Jesus,
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I pray that you would
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draw close to all of us
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that as we do
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walk through
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this veil of tears,
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this veil of crying
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and death
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and pain,
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please Lord Jesus,
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keep lifting up
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our chins
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and showing us
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that there is coming
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a day
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when there will be
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no more death
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or crying
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or mourning
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or pain
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or suffering
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or any of those things
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for the old order
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has passed away.
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Thank you
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that you are leading us
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to an eternal day
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where there is
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no more night.
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Please help us
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to hold on
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until that day.
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Glorify yourself
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in us.
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I ask this in Jesus' name.
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Amen.