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That's when you're made. Your biggest mistake is when you're not.
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Have you ever reached a point in your life where
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you realize you can't keep doing things the same way
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and expect a different outcome? At some point, something has
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to change. And sometimes that change Does it begin with
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your circumstances? It begins with you. Welcome to Purpose Before Performance.
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I'm your host, Zivia. And this is where we put
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purpose before performance. In our last episode, we talked about
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The release. Because sometimes moving forward requires letting go. But
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here's the thing about letting go. Once you release what's
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been holding you back, you have to decide what comes next.
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And that's where the shift begins. The shift isn't always loud.
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It doesn't always come with an announcement, a celebration or
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people cheering you on. Sometimes the shift happens quietly. It's
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the moment you stop reacting to everything around you and
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start responding with intention. It's when you stop making excuses
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for the things you know you need to change. It's
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when your decisions begin to reflect the person you're becoming.
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Not just the person you've been. And that takes responsibility.
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Because you can't keep asking for a different life while
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remaining committed to the same patterns. At some point, your
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mindset has to shift. Your priorities have to shift. Your
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actions have to shift. Not because you're trying to prove
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something to the world, but because... you finally decided to
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honor what's within you. And let's be honest, change can
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feel uncomfortable. Even when you know you're ready for something different,
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familiar patterns can pull you back. The old habits, the
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old thinking, the old version of you that knows how
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to survive but may not know how to grow. But
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growth requires more than recognizing what needs to change. It
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requires the discipline, to do something about it. That's the
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difference between wanting change and becoming the change. You don't
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have to transform your entire life overnight. You just have
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to become intentional about your next move. One decision. One action.
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One shift at a time. Because the goal isn't to
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perform a new version of yourself for everybody else. The
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goal is to become aligned with who you're meant to be.
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And that begins when your purpose starts directing your choices. So,
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here's something to reflect on. What needs to shift in
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you for your life to move forward? Not in somebody else.
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Not In your circumstances. In you. Take responsibility for the answer. Move.
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With intention. And have the discipline. To follow through. Because
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when you shift. Internally. Your actions. Begin to tell a
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different story. And eventually, the life you're building starts to
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reflect the person you've chosen to become. This is Purpose
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Before Performance. And remember, your purpose is your power. That's
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when you make your biggest mistake.
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That's when you're made. Your biggest mistake is when you're not.
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00:00:41.380 --> 00:00:45.820
Have you ever reached a point in your life where
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00:00:45.869 --> 00:00:52.450
you realize you can't keep doing things the same way
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00:00:52.469 --> 00:01:03.159
and expect a different outcome? At some point, something has
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00:01:03.200 --> 00:01:11.390
to change. And sometimes that change Does it begin with
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your circumstances? It begins with you. Welcome to Purpose Before Performance.
7
00:01:24.780 --> 00:01:30.900
I'm your host, Zivia. And this is where we put
8
00:01:30.980 --> 00:01:40.010
purpose before performance. In our last episode, we talked about
9
00:01:41.489 --> 00:01:55.969
The release. Because sometimes moving forward requires letting go. But
10
00:01:56.010 --> 00:02:03.930
here's the thing about letting go. Once you release what's
11
00:02:03.969 --> 00:02:12.129
been holding you back, you have to decide what comes next.
12
00:02:14.750 --> 00:02:22.719
And that's where the shift begins. The shift isn't always loud.
13
00:02:25.039 --> 00:02:32.599
It doesn't always come with an announcement, a celebration or
14
00:02:32.639 --> 00:02:44.710
people cheering you on. Sometimes the shift happens quietly. It's
15
00:02:44.770 --> 00:02:53.030
the moment you stop reacting to everything around you and
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00:02:53.050 --> 00:03:01.319
start responding with intention. It's when you stop making excuses
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00:03:02.979 --> 00:03:10.979
for the things you know you need to change. It's
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00:03:11.039 --> 00:03:17.150
when your decisions begin to reflect the person you're becoming.
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Not just the person you've been. And that takes responsibility.
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Because you can't keep asking for a different life while
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remaining committed to the same patterns. At some point, your
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mindset has to shift. Your priorities have to shift. Your
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actions have to shift. Not because you're trying to prove
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something to the world, but because... you finally decided to
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honor what's within you. And let's be honest, change can
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00:04:24.519 --> 00:04:32.069
feel uncomfortable. Even when you know you're ready for something different,
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00:04:34.689 --> 00:04:43.790
familiar patterns can pull you back. The old habits, the
28
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old thinking, the old version of you that knows how
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to survive but may not know how to grow. But
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00:05:01.319 --> 00:05:08.189
growth requires more than recognizing what needs to change. It
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requires the discipline, to do something about it. That's the
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difference between wanting change and becoming the change. You don't
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have to transform your entire life overnight. You just have
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00:05:33.949 --> 00:05:47.170
to become intentional about your next move. One decision. One action.
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One shift at a time. Because the goal isn't to
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perform a new version of yourself for everybody else. The
37
00:06:05.379 --> 00:06:12.139
goal is to become aligned with who you're meant to be.
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00:06:14.699 --> 00:06:24.779
And that begins when your purpose starts directing your choices. So,
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here's something to reflect on. What needs to shift in
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you for your life to move forward? Not in somebody else.
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Not In your circumstances. In you. Take responsibility for the answer. Move.
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With intention. And have the discipline. To follow through. Because
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00:07:06.089 --> 00:07:13.089
when you shift. Internally. Your actions. Begin to tell a
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00:07:13.129 --> 00:07:22.620
different story. And eventually, the life you're building starts to
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00:07:22.689 --> 00:07:31.529
reflect the person you've chosen to become. This is Purpose
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Before Performance. And remember, your purpose is your power. That's
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when you make your biggest mistake.
