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Sometimes the next move isn't about making another move. Sometimes
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It's about realizing the move you're making is the reason
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you're still in the same position. You can keep playing
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the same game, making the same choices, repeating the same patterns,
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and hoping the outcome will somehow change. But eventually, you
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have to recognize the position you're in. Because sometimes the
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game isn't asking you to move forward. It's asking you
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to let go. Welcome back to Purpose Before Performance. I'm Zivia.
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And today, we're talking about the release. We spend so
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much time talking about the next move. What's next? Where
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do I go? What do I choose? What's my decision?
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But sometimes, The next move begins with releasing the one
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thing that keeps you from making it. A mindset. A fear.
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A habit. A relationship. An expectation. Or even a version
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of yourself that you've already outgrown. And here's the thing
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about patterns. They can feel comfortable simply because they're familiar.
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You know the position. You know the reaction. You know
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the outcome. But knowing the outcome doesn't mean you have
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to keep chasing it. At some point, awareness has to
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become action. Think about a game of chess. You can
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have several pieces on the board. You can have several
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possible moves. But if you keep responding the same way,
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eventually your options become limited. And that's where many of
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us get stuck. Not because there's no way forward, but
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because we're unwilling to release the way we've always played.
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Release doesn't mean failure. It doesn't mean What happened didn't matter.
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It means you're no longer allowing what happened to determine
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what happens next. You can honor the past without remaining
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attached to it. You can appreciate where you've been without
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staying there. You can love someone and still understand that
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they aren't part of your next move. You can forgive
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yourself and still choose differently. So ask yourself, what am
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I still holding on to that keeps me in the
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same position What pattern keeps repeating? What am I afraid
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will happen if I finally let it go? And most importantly,
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what could become possible if I released it? Because sometimes
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what looks like an ending is actually the opening you've
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been waiting for. Sometimes you don't need another answer. You
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need the courage to stop repeating the question. And sometimes
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you don't need another move. You need to release the
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position you're in. Your life is not a game you
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have to win against everyone else. But you do have
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to be honest about the moves you're making. Because purpose
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requires awareness. And awareness gives you a choice. You can
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keep playing the same patterns. Or you can release it.
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Make room. Change your position. And choose your next move
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with intention. Because sometimes checkmate isn't about losing the game.
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It's about realizing You can no longer keep playing it
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the same way. Your purpose is your power. I'm Zivia.
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This is Purpose Before Performance. And I'll see you in
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the next episode. I woke up this morning, a beautiful day,
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had money on my mind, had everything straight, no worries,
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no pain, that's when you're made, your biggest mistake is
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when you lie to me.
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Sometimes the next move isn't about making another move. Sometimes
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It's about realizing the move you're making is the reason
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you're still in the same position. You can keep playing
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00:00:56.090 --> 00:01:04.969
the same game, making the same choices, repeating the same patterns,
5
00:01:06.590 --> 00:01:16.170
and hoping the outcome will somehow change. But eventually, you
6
00:01:16.209 --> 00:01:24.849
have to recognize the position you're in. Because sometimes the
7
00:01:24.890 --> 00:01:30.849
game isn't asking you to move forward. It's asking you
8
00:01:30.870 --> 00:01:42.120
to let go. Welcome back to Purpose Before Performance. I'm Zivia.
9
00:01:43.620 --> 00:01:51.579
And today, we're talking about the release. We spend so
10
00:01:51.620 --> 00:01:59.230
much time talking about the next move. What's next? Where
11
00:01:59.250 --> 00:02:07.879
do I go? What do I choose? What's my decision?
12
00:02:09.860 --> 00:02:15.310
But sometimes, The next move begins with releasing the one
13
00:02:15.389 --> 00:02:24.509
thing that keeps you from making it. A mindset. A fear.
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00:02:27.009 --> 00:02:37.800
A habit. A relationship. An expectation. Or even a version
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00:02:37.819 --> 00:02:44.930
of yourself that you've already outgrown. And here's the thing
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about patterns. They can feel comfortable simply because they're familiar.
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00:02:55.000 --> 00:03:02.219
You know the position. You know the reaction. You know
18
00:03:02.659 --> 00:03:10.060
the outcome. But knowing the outcome doesn't mean you have
19
00:03:10.099 --> 00:03:17.930
to keep chasing it. At some point, awareness has to
20
00:03:17.969 --> 00:03:26.569
become action. Think about a game of chess. You can
21
00:03:26.610 --> 00:03:31.620
have several pieces on the board. You can have several
22
00:03:31.939 --> 00:03:39.180
possible moves. But if you keep responding the same way,
23
00:03:41.560 --> 00:03:49.099
eventually your options become limited. And that's where many of
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00:03:49.199 --> 00:03:57.400
us get stuck. Not because there's no way forward, but
25
00:03:57.460 --> 00:04:04.189
because we're unwilling to release the way we've always played.
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00:04:07.169 --> 00:04:15.620
Release doesn't mean failure. It doesn't mean What happened didn't matter.
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00:04:18.120 --> 00:04:23.980
It means you're no longer allowing what happened to determine
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00:04:25.279 --> 00:04:32.589
what happens next. You can honor the past without remaining
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00:04:32.649 --> 00:04:40.629
attached to it. You can appreciate where you've been without
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00:04:41.050 --> 00:04:50.220
staying there. You can love someone and still understand that
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they aren't part of your next move. You can forgive
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yourself and still choose differently. So ask yourself, what am
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I still holding on to that keeps me in the
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same position What pattern keeps repeating? What am I afraid
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00:05:23.000 --> 00:05:32.000
will happen if I finally let it go? And most importantly,
36
00:05:34.110 --> 00:05:42.709
what could become possible if I released it? Because sometimes
37
00:05:44.189 --> 00:05:50.040
what looks like an ending is actually the opening you've
38
00:05:50.060 --> 00:05:58.370
been waiting for. Sometimes you don't need another answer. You
39
00:05:58.430 --> 00:06:06.410
need the courage to stop repeating the question. And sometimes
40
00:06:08.410 --> 00:06:13.790
you don't need another move. You need to release the
41
00:06:13.829 --> 00:06:21.439
position you're in. Your life is not a game you
42
00:06:21.480 --> 00:06:28.199
have to win against everyone else. But you do have
43
00:06:28.240 --> 00:06:35.550
to be honest about the moves you're making. Because purpose
44
00:06:36.769 --> 00:06:45.850
requires awareness. And awareness gives you a choice. You can
45
00:06:45.910 --> 00:06:51.769
keep playing the same patterns. Or you can release it.
46
00:06:53.699 --> 00:07:02.439
Make room. Change your position. And choose your next move
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00:07:03.220 --> 00:07:12.810
with intention. Because sometimes checkmate isn't about losing the game.
48
00:07:14.790 --> 00:07:21.009
It's about realizing You can no longer keep playing it
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the same way. Your purpose is your power. I'm Zivia.
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This is Purpose Before Performance. And I'll see you in
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the next episode. I woke up this morning, a beautiful day,
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00:07:57.660 --> 00:08:02.370
had money on my mind, had everything straight, no worries,
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00:08:02.389 --> 00:08:06.509
no pain, that's when you're made, your biggest mistake is
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when you lie to me.
