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Organizational psychologist Alison Fragale (author of Likable Badass) explains why hiring help is essential for your sanity, not a luxury. She breaks down how she outsources childcare, cleaning, and errands without the guilt, why she hires a "third parent" instead of a nanny, and how to give feedback to the people who help you.
In this episode:
- Why you should always go first in a negotiation (the $300 couch)
- Why going "in the red" on childcare can be an investment
- The market reframe: you're not exploiting anyone by hiring help
- How to hire a "third parent" and give feedback to people who work in your home
- Why 80% done by someone else is a win
- Why to keep a bench of five sitters, and overpay them
- Why earning your own income doesn't end the "why do we need this?" argument, and what it does change
Book of the week: Likable Badass by Alison Fragale [AMAZON LINK]
Connect with Alison: [LINKS]
Chapters
0:00 Welcome, Alison Fragale
3:02 What makes a likable badass
4:50 Always go first (the $300 couch)
9:16 It takes a village
12:17 It's not about money, it's a mindset
14:37 Why it's okay to go "in the red" on childcare
18:13 The guilt of outsourcing
21:35 You're not exploiting anyone: the market reframe
22:34 Care.com, TaskRabbit, and the contractor mindset
25:51 Hire a "third parent"
28:00 How to give feedback without the awkwardness
30:22 Ask what they love and hate doing
31:49 Skip the agency? Alison's hiring philosophy
35:14 "If you leave for another nanny job, I failed you"
36:11 Founder's mentality and the 80% rule
39:27 What else can you outsource?
43:14 Where does your husband fit in?
47:44 The day the movers changed his mind
50:36 Keep a bench of five sitters
53:03 Why you should overpay sitters
57:01 Book of the week: Likable Badass
1:01:50 Meme of the week
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