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Today, the man is back again.
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Justin Brown, aka Jay Snow.
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He's back in the building.
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Thanks for coming in, man.
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How's it going, everybody?
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It was good to be back.
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Like always, you're the boy, you're the brother.
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Yeah.
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I need some of that wine too.
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Okay, yeah, yeah.
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Some of that wine for sure.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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We're gonna definitely get you that, man.
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So, first of all, before we jump into these questions, tell us about insurance.
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Why do people need insurance and how can you help them?
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First and foremost, if anything was to happen, are you ready for it?
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Or are you creating GoFundMe's?
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Ask yourself that question.
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If something happened today, do you have a hundred thousand cash sitting in the safe?
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And if you do, why would you even want to go into that money when you could have had more?
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Think about that.
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Most families aren't covered.
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There was a young lady that lost her mom like four days ago.
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I didn't know her directly, but I know her through a friend.
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And she's left to handle all of that by herself.
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Her mom's debt, the house, the mortgage, all of that.
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So whenever you think, oh, life insurance is not important, investing is not important.
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Think about what your situation can be if you don't just take care of it now.
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And it's not that expensive.
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This plan is as low as 40 bucks a month, especially if you start young.
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So talk to your boy Will.
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Will would talk to me.
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We will get you guys right.
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Cool.
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So let's let's jump into these questions.
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As always, we're we're talking modern dating.
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First question How big is professionalism in a woman?
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And by professionalism, I mean texting back fast, showing up on time, telling the truth, things of that nature.
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Professionalism is everything, it's everything because like it really shows you how people really move, you know, and some things you can't hide.
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So, like, if you're making excuses like, oh, I didn't see your text, like 10 hours go by, like, dude, if a girl is telling you she did not see your text, just stop talking to her.
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Because I know millionaires who text back as soon as possible.
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Quick, yeah, quick.
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Because people with that kind of status, they they love problem solving and they like things happening quick.
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Why do we got to wait till next week when we could get this done now?
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Yeah, you feel me?
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Yeah.
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So yeah, that's just an excuse.
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It's a coping mechanism.
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They're not really interested in you because trust me, I got some people interested in me.
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I'm not even interested in them.
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And they're like, if I throw them a piece of meat, they're they're on it.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I I definitely agree.
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And I'm valuing that more and more as I in this stage of my life.
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Because I'm really like, come on, man, people, you have your phone.
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And it's like for you to not be able to get back to me in a reasonable time frame, there's either like a lack of respect or you're just not a person that I want to deal with.
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Business-wise, personal wise, I don't want to deal with that at all.
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So at this point, I'm really starting to like cut people off if I can't get that level of respect by like, okay, if you can't respond in a respectable amount of time, I'm good.
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Right.
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Because that's, bro, that's a mirror that shows how much they value you.
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Yeah.
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Now I guarantee if Chris Brown's text it, like people are on it.
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Yeah, they'd be on it.
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And they're they they probably won't get anything out of it, especially if it's a girl.
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You already know what he probably wants if he if you're an attractive girl.
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Yeah.
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Or, you know, it's just it's just unhealthy.
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But people learn in the long run.
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These people that are doing these things, doing people dirty, taking advantage of good people, you're gonna learn.
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Yeah.
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You're gonna learn.
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Especially in a city like Las Vegas.
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You're gonna learn.
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Yeah, for sure.
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For sure.
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So when it comes to phones, how transparent are you with your phone?
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Would you let a woman you're dating have your phone go through it?
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And vice versa, would you expect her to let you to let you go through her phone?
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Wait, wait, you mean like relationship or like dating?
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No, relation relationship.
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Like relationship, not like talking or dating.
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Uh yeah.
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Because when you when you're when you're just talking, no, I think that's out of balance.
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Right.
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You haven't earned that right yet.
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Right.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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So if you're just talking and like even if y'all seriously talking and it's understood like y'all just talking to each other, yeah, I still don't think it's warranted because there's no concrete foundation.
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Yeah.
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But if you're in a relationship and like you're a grown man, let her go through your phone.
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Yeah.
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And if he asks, let him go through your phone.
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Me personally, I don't like asking to go through anybody's stuff.
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And I, if someone asks me, I mean, I mean, if it's my girl and I care about her and I love her, I'll let her see the phone.
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Yeah.
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But that gotta be like y'all got some real emotion going on.
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Like you guys see each other in the future.
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If this is something you're not too sure on, why are you asking these questions?
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Unless you're doing something.
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Usually when people ask to like see stuff, they got something that they just, they just want to make sure whatever they got going on in the woodwork that they can feel good about it.
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So let me see what they're doing so I can feel good about this.
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Yeah, it's an interesting topic.
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Like I've heard women that are like, oh, I'll go out on a date with a guy and while we're at dinner or whatever, he has his phone face down, and I don't like that.
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I was like, well, well, hold on.
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Like, if if if y'all are just talking, you shouldn't be worried about what his phone is doing.
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You you that's not your concern.
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But when y'all make it official and you guys are in an actual relationship, I think, yeah, like there's it should be an open book, like on both sides, is my my opinion.
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Like, uh, you know, if if you um want to build that equity, yeah, you know, with with the other person, I think, okay, hey, look, you know, I'll I'll put you at ease here.
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You know, go go through it, whatever.
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Um, and I I think that's just part of trusting each other and and putting putting uh both sides um at ease.
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Right.
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Right.
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I agree.
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I agree 1000%.
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Yeah.
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Does it trigger you when you see an attractive woman dating a man that's way older than her?
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No, it don't.
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You know, that doesn't have anything to do with me.
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She's attractive, he's older.
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Most older men like younger women.
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Now, there are certain thresholds that I feel like are overboard.
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Like, bro, if you're like 63 and you're talking to a 21, like if that's what you're into, she's legal, but it's not really my style.
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But I'm I'm 28, so he's grown, he's probably a rich dude.
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She wants the money, he wants a younger woman, everyone's happy, right?
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But uh, would I take a woman like that serious?
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I don't know.
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I never really dealt with girls that dated that much older.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Do you do you believe that generally people should date like within their age range?
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Um at what point, just in just in your opinion, like if there's a 10-year radius up or down, like, is that normal?
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Seven years, maybe like seven years, you know, seven to ten years.
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Yeah.
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But like who are we to make the rules?
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Like, you know, people back in biblical days, they were kings were dating, they had arranged marriages.
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Yeah, I do think like women could get away with it more than men because they're gonna always look at the man and be like, oh, he's uh he's a uh groomer or he's a he he wants to manipulate her or he's a child, whatever.
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So women could get away with it because it's like you go, girl, like he's a young dude.
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Yeah, but men, you got a certain threshold before it starts to look a little weird.
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Like, why are you dating that yeah, 21-year-old?
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I I think that typically, in my uh opinion, I I think that it can draw more criticism from women because of what you just said.
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Like women see it as okay, you're manipulating this inexperienced young, young girl, um, you're grooming her for something, you have that bad intentions, right?
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But I I kind of feel like a lot of men never really get the chance to be with like a young, attractive woman until they get older.
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Yeah.
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Because they don't have the resources to get her attention.
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You know, a lot of times when when a guy is in his, you know, his early 20s, you know, he he can't get a girl his his age's attention, or he may not have the resources to get her on a date because she's getting offers from, yeah, that guy her age.
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She's also getting offers from guys older than her.
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That want to fly them out to Miami, New York.
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Exactly.
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And that's not her fault.
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But she's gonna take the best option at that time, right?
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Right.
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Right.
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So, as men, you know, you you have to work, you have to there's there's a self-improvement journey that a lot of men have to go on.
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You have to learn how to be successful, learn how to make money, learn how to talk to women, get in shape.
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There, there's a lot of things that have to happen, right?
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For women, women, if you're attractive and you're 23, I mean, you pretty much got it.
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Like if you know how to play your cards, for sure.
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Yeah.
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For sure.
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And so that's why I personally don't think it's fair to criticize older men for finally trying to get the experience of talking to, you know, the prototypical woman that they've always wanted.
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With and typically that's gonna be a younger, attractive woman if he never had that opportunity earlier in his life.
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Right.
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I don't think it's like manipulative or anything like that.
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Right.
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I just think he's like, okay, he's finally gotten to the point where they'll give him, they'll take him seriously.
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And he and he wants to experience that.
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Yeah, I kind of pity those guys, you know, because I've been able to have a lot of experiences early, you know, because of my hustle and because of like my chances.
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Yeah.
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And I'm still learning about myself because, you know, we're young.
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Yeah, you know, we're around the same age.
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But I mean, yeah, let him have fun.
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He worked hard.
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And if if if she's entertaining it, then whatever.
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As long as she's over, as long as she's old enough, like once it gets like 18, like that's where shit starts to get worse.
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Because she can't even, she can't even drink alcohol.
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Yeah, that's different.
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That's different.
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But yeah, I mean, once you I see when, you know, you're you're 22, 23, 24.
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You want to date a guy in his 40s?
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I'm always like, listen, shout out to that guy, man.
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You you've worked worked your way up.
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Right.
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Because, you know, the young attractive woman, you know, in a way, they kind of hold the cards in like the the dating marketplace until they can't have it no more.
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Right, right.
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So they they're calling the shots.
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And I always say that, like, anything that women have a problem with, with men, if all women would lock arms and say, we're not accepting whatever, everything will stop.
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It would stop.
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Yeah, it would stop.
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But there's there's women out there that accept the same things that you're complaining about, and that's why it continues to happen, right?
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So I think to the to that point, like if you're a young, attractive woman, you you should take the best available offer that's that's given to you, right?
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Whether it's a guy.
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It's about survival, it's about survival.
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Like, realistically, guys, viewers, listen, women, we get it.
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I have three sisters, like I want my sister with the best man possible.
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The best guy, yeah.
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I want my mom with the best guy possible.
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For sure.
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Unfortunately, I've been around a lot of dudes who I didn't feel like were the best for my the women in my life.
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So I get it.
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Do what's best for you.
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Just do it because it's genuinely good for you instead of doing it for certain other reasons, because those other reasons could come back and bite you on the back end, then you're blaming men.
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No, you really got to do what's best for you, but really do it because you want to, not because you just want the purse or you want the car, the Mercedes, or whatever.
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Do it for you and yours.
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Yeah.
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Do you think what women say they want in a man matches up with who they actually date?
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No.
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Hell no.
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Okay.
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I mean, look, actions speak a lot in words.
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Women know what they want.
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Women are very smart.
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And I have to say this because a lot of men underestimate how smart women are.
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So, like, she might say it because it sounds good, but let's say she does get it, right?
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And it's, you know, it's not practical.
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So, uh, uh, he's too nice or it's cringe.
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Like, she wants something to feel fun.
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Like, I'm not gonna lie, I don't categorize myself as a toxic person.
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I got my flaws, but you just gotta, you know, you gotta have some sauce.
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You gotta be able to mix things up.
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If you're so vanilla all the time, you know, things do kind of get like, okay, this is there's no roller coaster, there's nothing.
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You gotta keep things, and it's not all about money because there's guys of money getting played too.
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For sure.
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I see it every day.
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For sure.
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Yeah.
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I I could be on the side of the street and I could still pull a girl like because I know how to conversate.
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Like, I actually adore and respect women.
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Yeah.
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So yeah, like, yeah.
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Yeah.
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So what what do you think about this though?
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On that point.
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So I think that a lot of men and women, there's a disconnect, right?
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I think it's like, you know how sometimes you have like art and people can look at the same painting and see two completely different things.
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I think that's kind of what happens with with this, right?
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Where I think that when men are asking women, what do you want a man?
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I think men are asking what makes you attracted to a man.
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I think that's really the the main question.
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I think women hear what do you want?
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And their response is traits that they would like from a guy that they're already attracted to.
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And I think that's the difference.
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I think that when when women answer or when women tell you, hey, like, I want a man that's emotionally available and you know, caring or whatever, she's leaving out that like and it should be obvious, but she's leaving out that, yeah, I want an emotionally available man that I'm attracted to.
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Right.
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Should be obvious.
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But like I think that's the major disconnect.
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So I think that men sometimes they don't realize that, and they they're like, oh, I'm emotionally available.
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I'm I'm chivalrous.
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She's not talking about you, bro.
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She's not talking about you.
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Right.
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Right.
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Because she's not attracted to you.
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That's why she's not talking about you.
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So I think that men need to focus on building attraction first.
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Right.
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If you want to know what a woman wants, she wants a man that she's attracted to.
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Right, 1000%.
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That's what she wants.
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And look, bro, get in the gym.
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Like, get in the gym.
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Yeah.
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Get in the gym.
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Be aspirational.
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Get in the gym, learn how to speak.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Hang around other men that stop going to the club every day.
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Yeah.
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Hang out with men more successful than you.
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Right.
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So you can learn.
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Don't be a hater.
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Yeah.
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And just become better.
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Yeah.
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Like, I don't I don't get a lot of these dudes in Vegas.
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Look, I'm from Florida, bro.
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I don't know what this where are you from?
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Where are you from?
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I'm from here.
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You're from Vegas?
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You dope.
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Like you're an outlier, but most of these West Coast dudes, they're, you know, it's weird.
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It's weird energy.
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And women pay attention to that too.
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So you gotta move like there's FBI agents all around you in plain clothes.
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Yeah.
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You gotta make sure you're on your Ps and Q's in this dating life and business, everything you do.
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Because women know what they want.
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Oh, well, I want a guy that does this.
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You could do the same thing, and another guy does the same thing, and there's two different results.
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Exactly.
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Two different results.
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Great point.
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Two different results.
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You know why?
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Because maybe he's more in shape.
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Maybe he smells good.
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Maybe his breath don't stink.
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Maybe he's ambitious.
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But one thing about women, bro, they love ambitious women.
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I mean men.
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And men, yeah, yeah.
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Men.
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Yeah.
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I like ambitious women.
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Yeah.
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Okay, so this is a great point by you.
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So, like, and and you you make content about this earlier today.
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Life is not fair.
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Okay.
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So a lot of men think, oh, well, this guy did that.
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So I'm gonna do what he did, and I should get the same result.
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No, no, that's not how the world works.
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You could try and copy and you can try to listen to like what women tell you, and you can try and buy flowers or whatever it is, open doors, whatever.
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If she's not attracted to you, it's not gonna go anywhere.
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So I think that that's a major disconnect in modern dating because men start to resent women, I feel like.
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Yeah, because men are like, oh, well, I bought her flowers, I took her to a nice dinner, and nothing happens.
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And all these girls just want, you know, whatever, money or whatever it is.
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And it's like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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Like, there's so many great women out here, but and again, it should be obvious, but women, the answers that you hear from women, they want all that stuff from a guy that they're attracted to.
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So, like you said, if you're not in the gym, if you're not aspirational, if you're not trying to better yourself in every way as a man, then don't even expect for like your flowers or whatever you're doing to go anywhere because you have to build attraction first.
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Yeah, and look, do this for you, man.
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Like, look at yourself in the mirror, do it for you because you want to be great.
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Yeah.
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Because if you're doing this just for women, you're gonna lose still.
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You could get in shape and get the money.
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But if you're not doing it because you love yourself and you just want the best for yourself, whether that's the best house, the best car, the best career, the best woman, you're gonna get lost in the sauce.
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And you don't want to be lost in the sauce.
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Yeah.
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So we're in a world where it's not fair.
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You know, you could do the same exact thing someone else does.
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You got to find your own sauce and take off, hit, you know, hit the home run, and you're good to go.
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Yeah.
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And that's another great point by you.
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If if you chase your passion and your purpose and try to be your best self, typically your dream woman will come along with that, as opposed to just chasing your dream woman and not trying to better yourself.
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So I think that's that's great uh advice by you.
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Okay, what about this?
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Do you think that a woman could be labeled as crazy with one guy, leave him, go to another guy, and be perfectly normal?
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Of course.
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Some guys make women feel a lot more safer.
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And one guy might be trying to gaslight or you know, or manipulate her.
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Look, I know the game, man.
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Look, the game is the game.
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We all like people, no one could get over on me.
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I will play dumb for as long as I need to.
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But like some women, like, oh, you're crazy.
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Like, he's probably saying that because he really is doing some stuff and he's just trying to gaslight her to think he's not doing anything.
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And then she could meet a man who's like very grounded, chill vibes.
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Yeah.
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He's not doing certain things.
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He might be a little bit more uh boring, or but he makes her feel more confident about herself.
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Yeah.
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And he probably don't even ask her the questions that she asked the other guy she was with.
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Yeah.
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So it's it's tailored to different situations.
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You feel me?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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You know, and I agree with that too.
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Like there, there's been women that I've dealt with where I've heard that they, you know, they're psychotic, they're crazy, or whatever.
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I had no issues.
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So I I really feel that like whatever you hear about person, you gotta judge people based on like your experience with them too.
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People are gonna talk, people are gonna say a whole bunch of stuff, both good and and bad.
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Right.
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Like, you gotta get out there and make your your own decisions and view things through your own eyes.
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And that that actually isn't just with relationships, that's with everything.
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Like, don't just believe what's on your phone, don't just believe what people say.
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Go out there and look at it for for yourself and create your own uh decisions from it.
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Yeah, 1000%.
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Like, look, I'm not perfect, you know.
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I'm a good-hearted person, I'm genuine.
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Yeah, but I have my flaws, you know.
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You know, there's been a few uh instances that has happened recently where out in public, I don't know if it's God testing me or the universe, but it's been things trying to get me out of my character.
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Right.
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And like I'm a very chill grounded person, but if someone does something, another dude does something, like I'm gonna be like, yo, what's up?
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Like, but you gotta really be able to channel that.
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Yeah.
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But like loving-wise, loving is hell.
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If I got it, you got it.
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Yeah.
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If I don't got it, you probably won't know I don't got it, but I'ma still do something.
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That's just how genuine I am.
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And a lot of people, you gotta be genuine.
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If you want good results, don't be genuine to everybody.
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You still gotta tailor, you know, your life, but just be genuine, love yourself, and just do your best.
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Like, that's the best thing I could say in this climate.
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We're in a weird time.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Do you find any correlation between a woman's level of attractiveness and her attitude?
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Do you feel like, okay, the more attractive the woman, her attitude is better, worse?
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Maybe if she's, you know, on the proverbial one to ten scale, if she's a seven, what kind of attitude can you expect?
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Versus whether she's a nine or a ten, what can you expect?
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I'm not gonna lie to you, bro.
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There's ones are they're the delusional as hell.
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There's ones out here who are delusional as hell.
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Okay, but wait, so how how do you think that happens?
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Do you do you think because the market is cooked, bro?
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These dudes are so desperate.
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I heard story, I had a girl tell me she had a dude send her$5,000 for a pick of her feet.
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He bought her uh a Louis Vuitton for a pick of her feet.
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Wow, okay.
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And he didn't even, they didn't even have intimate relations.
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Okay, that makes sense.
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The the level of men out here has gone down into the toilet.
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Yeah.
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Uh there's ones out here acting like they are Beyonce, which is crazy.
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Yeah.
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And I'm the kind of man like if I will.
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Approach you.
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Like, I will approach you.
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Yeah.
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You know, and I've done my like throughout the years, I've seen it.
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And I'm like, I'm humble.
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I got a level of humility, but I'm like, baby, girl, like I'm doing you a favor.
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Who the fuck are you?
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Yeah.
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You feel me?
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Yeah.
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You know, what you make a great point.
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I haven't really considered this.
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But like in general, just like in absolute general, most women aren't interested in most men.
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But I think that most men, if given the opportunity, would probably hook up with most women.
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Yeah, because they are desperate.
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Yeah.
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So then I think that dynamic causes women lower on you know the one to ten scale to sometimes have an inflated sense of self because they're like, well, this dude just give me five five thousand dollars.
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That's crazy.
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I'm not a one, I'm a I'm an eight.
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And then she starts to act like she starts and then the world, listen, the world's gonna treat you how you are.
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Yeah.
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You're what are you, like six, four?
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Yeah.
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Six three?
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Yeah, sure.
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Six three, right?
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Yeah, sure.
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Six three.
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All right.
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You're tall.
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Yeah.
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If if you were going, if you were not six, three and you were saying, hey, I'm six three, and you're really like five's six, yeah, that's crazy.
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Yeah.
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And there's girls out here say, Oh, I'm a baddie, and like, look, I love people.
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I love that for you.
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Like, if you're confident, I love it because I'm confident too.
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Yeah.
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But am I a super rich man yet?
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No, I'm not.
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I'm still on the come up.
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Yeah.
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And I'm not gonna go out here flaunting like I am because eventually people are gonna see, like, damn, yeah.
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Damn, he's bogus, he looks crazy.
00:23:36.640 --> 00:23:38.400
Okay, that's a great point by you.
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Whereas men, men can't live in kind of like that fantasy world of just saying, hey, I'm this or that.
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You you will have a realization real fast in the real world as a man.
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Like, no, like you're you're not what you say you are.
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With women, it's a little different.
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Like with women, you can just call yourself, hey, I'm I'm bad, I'm amazing, and there's they're gonna be like, Yeah, you know, you're gonna get that encouragement.
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And that could go to your head, and now you believe that you that you're a lot more than what you actually are.
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Right.
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And look, like I said, I'm all for the confidence.
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Like I'm all for like people being confident, but like you gotta be realistic.
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Yeah, like I know how to sing.
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Am I the best singer?
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No, I'm not.
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There's a certain level of singing that I'm on, I'm ride my own wave.
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Yeah, am I like Michael Jackson good?
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No, I'm not.
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And you gotta be able to look at yourself.
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When I played football, I was playing wide receiver.
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I was pretty good and quick and I was fast, but was football for me?
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Hell no.
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I was too much of a pretty boy.
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Yeah, so like women, like kind of just I love the confidence and there's someone for everybody.
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Yeah, but let's keep it real.
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Yeah, are you that bad to be acting the way you do?
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Because I'll tolerate, I'll tolerate some behavior from a baddie.
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Yeah.
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Like from a good looking woman.
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Like, you know, I'm talking to a woman now, she's cute as hell.
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Like, there's certain shit she could get away with.
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Get away with it.
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No other girl could get away with it.
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Like some other girl tried.
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I'm like, who the fuck are you talking to?
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Yeah, yeah.
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And it's so interesting because like you have some women that, like you said, are like a one and think they're great, but you have some women that are like nine.
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They don't even know that they don't, they don't know that they're not.
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No, because you know why?
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Because guys are scared to approach them.
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That's why that's probably I don't give a look.
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Yeah, I could get curves, I could get curved, which you know, it doesn't happen too often, but I'm not exempt from getting curved.
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So I'll still approach because I'll be able to say I did.
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I'll still be like, Hey, you pretty as hell.
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It's because I could say I did.
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But most men, but oh bro, damn, bro, she bad.
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Well, go talk to her then.
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Yeah, uh, sorry.
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They're scared.
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So, all right, if they and if you do it, they get mad at you because you did it.
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Like that that is that that's been my my experience.
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Like, the the more, the more attractive the woman, like the better the attitude.
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And I I think like it goes, there's something to be said for what you just mentioned.
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Maybe they don't really get approach as much because guys are nervous and scared.
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Yeah, they're scared, and they don't know.
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But women, I'm telling you, it's like a biological thing.
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Women know that other men, like men are looking and they could tell.
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So, like, even if she thinks you're attractive, just man up, go talk to her and just chill.
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Like, all these pickup lines, it's like, hey, how you doing what you know?
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Yeah, because women can see see through that too.
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Yeah, if you come up with a corny pick pickup line, if you if if you're not acting authentic, I think that women are more calibrated because they're you know, they're being hit on way more than like any guy is, right?
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Right.
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So even the most attractive guy does not get that hit on.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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So women just have more experience from from that um standpoint than than men do, so they can tell when you're genuine or not.
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You want to hear a funny uh pickup line I heard some dude say?
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Yeah, yeah, definitely.
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So it was actually good.
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I got a lot of this shit was good.
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So he was like, he was like, hey, he walked up to some girls and I was like, I was listening.
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Yeah, he was like, hey, like if you were to go back into a period of time, like the 80s, 90s, 70s, which period of time would you go back to?
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Uh-huh.
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And then the girl was like, uh, probably like the 90s, because the music was good, fashion was good.
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He was like, All right, let's go then.
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Let's go back together.
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Let's go back to my house.
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Like, I was like, did it work?
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Did it bro?
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She he got the number.
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I was like, wow.
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Listen, that's all you can ask for.
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Damn, motherfucker.
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Yeah, that's all you can ask for, man.
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But then, you know, no, you know, I'm a straight man, but like he was a good looking dude.
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Yeah, he was an attractive guy.
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It makes it which helps, which always helps you, yeah.
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But I'm like, okay, bro, all right.
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Yeah.
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I might, I might have to use Yeah, yeah.
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This is never her just keeping it in the back pocket, you know, you never know.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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Um, yeah, man, I love it, man.
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That's that's all I have for you.
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Is there anything else you want to uh to touch on before we get out of here, man?
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Yes, listen, we're all human, we're all going through things we don't talk to people about, including myself.
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Um, I'm at the point of life where I'm getting quieter and quieter and quieter.
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And um, man, this life is something else, man.
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You like things are coming from left to right.
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You win in here, you lose here, you win here, you lose here.
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And I'm a person who's lost.
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So if you're out here, you're confused, and you're just trying to figure out who you are.
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Give yourself some grace, love yourself and love your people, give your mom a hug more.
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Just let's try to go back to being wholesome.
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Because like everything's so transactional.
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If if if your friend does something for you, whether that's monetarily or just whatever it may be, return the favor in a some some kind of way.
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Stop taking more than you give.
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Yeah.
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And that's pretty much it.
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Get insurance.
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If you don't have life insurance, hit up your boy.
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It's not that expensive.
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If you can't, if you cannot pay for a funeral without having to worry about anything, you are in trouble.
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If if you have to create a GoFundMe for insurance after something happens for$10,000,$15,000 when you could have had$500,000 or a million, that's a problem.
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And that is all I gotta say, folks.
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Thanks for having me.
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Yeah, yes, sir, man.
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Appreciate you coming in.
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Yeah.
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How's it going, everybody?
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It was good to be back.
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Like always, you're the boy, you're the brother.
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Yeah.
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I need some of that wine too.
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Okay, yeah, yeah.
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Some of that wine for sure.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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We're gonna definitely get you that, man.
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So, first of all, before we jump into these questions, tell us about insurance.
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Why do people need insurance and how can you help them?
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First and foremost, if anything was to happen, are you ready for it?
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Or are you creating GoFundMe's?
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Ask yourself that question.
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If something happened today, do you have a hundred thousand cash sitting in the safe?
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And if you do, why would you even want to go into that money when you could have had more?
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Think about that.
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Most families aren't covered.
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There was a young lady that lost her mom like four days ago.
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I didn't know her directly, but I know her through a friend.
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And she's left to handle all of that by herself.
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Her mom's debt, the house, the mortgage, all of that.
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So whenever you think, oh, life insurance is not important, investing is not important.
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Think about what your situation can be if you don't just take care of it now.
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And it's not that expensive.
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This plan is as low as 40 bucks a month, especially if you start young.
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So talk to your boy Will.
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Will would talk to me.
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We will get you guys right.
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Cool.
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So let's let's jump into these questions.
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As always, we're we're talking modern dating.
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First question How big is professionalism in a woman?
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And by professionalism, I mean texting back fast, showing up on time, telling the truth, things of that nature.
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Professionalism is everything, it's everything because like it really shows you how people really move, you know, and some things you can't hide.
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So, like, if you're making excuses like, oh, I didn't see your text, like 10 hours go by, like, dude, if a girl is telling you she did not see your text, just stop talking to her.
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Because I know millionaires who text back as soon as possible.
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Quick, yeah, quick.
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Because people with that kind of status, they they love problem solving and they like things happening quick.
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Why do we got to wait till next week when we could get this done now?
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Yeah, you feel me?
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Yeah.
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So yeah, that's just an excuse.
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It's a coping mechanism.
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They're not really interested in you because trust me, I got some people interested in me.
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I'm not even interested in them.
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And they're like, if I throw them a piece of meat, they're they're on it.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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And I I definitely agree.
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And I'm valuing that more and more as I in this stage of my life.
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Because I'm really like, come on, man, people, you have your phone.
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And it's like for you to not be able to get back to me in a reasonable time frame, there's either like a lack of respect or you're just not a person that I want to deal with.
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Business-wise, personal wise, I don't want to deal with that at all.
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So at this point, I'm really starting to like cut people off if I can't get that level of respect by like, okay, if you can't respond in a respectable amount of time, I'm good.
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Right.
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Because that's, bro, that's a mirror that shows how much they value you.
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Yeah.
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Now I guarantee if Chris Brown's text it, like people are on it.
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Yeah, they'd be on it.
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And they're they they probably won't get anything out of it, especially if it's a girl.
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You already know what he probably wants if he if you're an attractive girl.
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Yeah.
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Or, you know, it's just it's just unhealthy.
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But people learn in the long run.
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These people that are doing these things, doing people dirty, taking advantage of good people, you're gonna learn.
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Yeah.
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You're gonna learn.
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Especially in a city like Las Vegas.
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You're gonna learn.
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Yeah, for sure.
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For sure.
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So when it comes to phones, how transparent are you with your phone?
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Would you let a woman you're dating have your phone go through it?
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And vice versa, would you expect her to let you to let you go through her phone?
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Wait, wait, you mean like relationship or like dating?
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No, relation relationship.
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Like relationship, not like talking or dating.
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Uh yeah.
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Because when you when you're when you're just talking, no, I think that's out of balance.
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Right.
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You haven't earned that right yet.
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Right.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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So if you're just talking and like even if y'all seriously talking and it's understood like y'all just talking to each other, yeah, I still don't think it's warranted because there's no concrete foundation.
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Yeah.
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But if you're in a relationship and like you're a grown man, let her go through your phone.
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Yeah.
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And if he asks, let him go through your phone.
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Me personally, I don't like asking to go through anybody's stuff.
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And I, if someone asks me, I mean, I mean, if it's my girl and I care about her and I love her, I'll let her see the phone.
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Yeah.
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But that gotta be like y'all got some real emotion going on.
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Like you guys see each other in the future.
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If this is something you're not too sure on, why are you asking these questions?
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Unless you're doing something.
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Usually when people ask to like see stuff, they got something that they just, they just want to make sure whatever they got going on in the woodwork that they can feel good about it.
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So let me see what they're doing so I can feel good about this.
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Yeah, it's an interesting topic.
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Like I've heard women that are like, oh, I'll go out on a date with a guy and while we're at dinner or whatever, he has his phone face down, and I don't like that.
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I was like, well, well, hold on.
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Like, if if if y'all are just talking, you shouldn't be worried about what his phone is doing.
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You you that's not your concern.
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But when y'all make it official and you guys are in an actual relationship, I think, yeah, like there's it should be an open book, like on both sides, is my my opinion.
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Like, uh, you know, if if you um want to build that equity, yeah, you know, with with the other person, I think, okay, hey, look, you know, I'll I'll put you at ease here.
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You know, go go through it, whatever.
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Um, and I I think that's just part of trusting each other and and putting putting uh both sides um at ease.
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Right.
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Right.
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I agree.
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I agree 1000%.
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Yeah.
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Does it trigger you when you see an attractive woman dating a man that's way older than her?
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No, it don't.
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You know, that doesn't have anything to do with me.
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She's attractive, he's older.
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Most older men like younger women.
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Now, there are certain thresholds that I feel like are overboard.
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Like, bro, if you're like 63 and you're talking to a 21, like if that's what you're into, she's legal, but it's not really my style.
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But I'm I'm 28, so he's grown, he's probably a rich dude.
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She wants the money, he wants a younger woman, everyone's happy, right?
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But uh, would I take a woman like that serious?
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I don't know.
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I never really dealt with girls that dated that much older.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Do you do you believe that generally people should date like within their age range?
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Um at what point, just in just in your opinion, like if there's a 10-year radius up or down, like, is that normal?
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Seven years, maybe like seven years, you know, seven to ten years.
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Yeah.
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But like who are we to make the rules?
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Like, you know, people back in biblical days, they were kings were dating, they had arranged marriages.
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Yeah, I do think like women could get away with it more than men because they're gonna always look at the man and be like, oh, he's uh he's a uh groomer or he's a he he wants to manipulate her or he's a child, whatever.
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So women could get away with it because it's like you go, girl, like he's a young dude.
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Yeah, but men, you got a certain threshold before it starts to look a little weird.
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Like, why are you dating that yeah, 21-year-old?
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I I think that typically, in my uh opinion, I I think that it can draw more criticism from women because of what you just said.
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Like women see it as okay, you're manipulating this inexperienced young, young girl, um, you're grooming her for something, you have that bad intentions, right?
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But I I kind of feel like a lot of men never really get the chance to be with like a young, attractive woman until they get older.
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Yeah.
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Because they don't have the resources to get her attention.
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You know, a lot of times when when a guy is in his, you know, his early 20s, you know, he he can't get a girl his his age's attention, or he may not have the resources to get her on a date because she's getting offers from, yeah, that guy her age.
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She's also getting offers from guys older than her.
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That want to fly them out to Miami, New York.
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Exactly.
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And that's not her fault.
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But she's gonna take the best option at that time, right?
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Right.
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Right.
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So, as men, you know, you you have to work, you have to there's there's a self-improvement journey that a lot of men have to go on.
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You have to learn how to be successful, learn how to make money, learn how to talk to women, get in shape.
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There, there's a lot of things that have to happen, right?
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For women, women, if you're attractive and you're 23, I mean, you pretty much got it.
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Like if you know how to play your cards, for sure.
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Yeah.
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For sure.
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And so that's why I personally don't think it's fair to criticize older men for finally trying to get the experience of talking to, you know, the prototypical woman that they've always wanted.
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With and typically that's gonna be a younger, attractive woman if he never had that opportunity earlier in his life.
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Right.
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I don't think it's like manipulative or anything like that.
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Right.
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I just think he's like, okay, he's finally gotten to the point where they'll give him, they'll take him seriously.
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And he and he wants to experience that.
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Yeah, I kind of pity those guys, you know, because I've been able to have a lot of experiences early, you know, because of my hustle and because of like my chances.
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Yeah.
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And I'm still learning about myself because, you know, we're young.
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Yeah, you know, we're around the same age.
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But I mean, yeah, let him have fun.
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He worked hard.
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And if if if she's entertaining it, then whatever.
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As long as she's over, as long as she's old enough, like once it gets like 18, like that's where shit starts to get worse.
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Because she can't even, she can't even drink alcohol.
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Yeah, that's different.
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That's different.
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But yeah, I mean, once you I see when, you know, you're you're 22, 23, 24.
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You want to date a guy in his 40s?
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I'm always like, listen, shout out to that guy, man.
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You you've worked worked your way up.
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Right.
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Because, you know, the young attractive woman, you know, in a way, they kind of hold the cards in like the the dating marketplace until they can't have it no more.
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Right, right.
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So they they're calling the shots.
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And I always say that, like, anything that women have a problem with, with men, if all women would lock arms and say, we're not accepting whatever, everything will stop.
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It would stop.
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Yeah, it would stop.
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But there's there's women out there that accept the same things that you're complaining about, and that's why it continues to happen, right?
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So I think to the to that point, like if you're a young, attractive woman, you you should take the best available offer that's that's given to you, right?
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Whether it's a guy.
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It's about survival, it's about survival.
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Like, realistically, guys, viewers, listen, women, we get it.
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I have three sisters, like I want my sister with the best man possible.
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The best guy, yeah.
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I want my mom with the best guy possible.
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For sure.
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Unfortunately, I've been around a lot of dudes who I didn't feel like were the best for my the women in my life.
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So I get it.
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Do what's best for you.
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Just do it because it's genuinely good for you instead of doing it for certain other reasons, because those other reasons could come back and bite you on the back end, then you're blaming men.
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No, you really got to do what's best for you, but really do it because you want to, not because you just want the purse or you want the car, the Mercedes, or whatever.
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Do it for you and yours.
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Yeah.
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Do you think what women say they want in a man matches up with who they actually date?
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No.
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Hell no.
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Okay.
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I mean, look, actions speak a lot in words.
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Women know what they want.
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Women are very smart.
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And I have to say this because a lot of men underestimate how smart women are.
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So, like, she might say it because it sounds good, but let's say she does get it, right?
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And it's, you know, it's not practical.
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So, uh, uh, he's too nice or it's cringe.
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Like, she wants something to feel fun.
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Like, I'm not gonna lie, I don't categorize myself as a toxic person.
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I got my flaws, but you just gotta, you know, you gotta have some sauce.
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You gotta be able to mix things up.
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If you're so vanilla all the time, you know, things do kind of get like, okay, this is there's no roller coaster, there's nothing.
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You gotta keep things, and it's not all about money because there's guys of money getting played too.
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For sure.
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I see it every day.
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For sure.
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Yeah.
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I I could be on the side of the street and I could still pull a girl like because I know how to conversate.
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Like, I actually adore and respect women.
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Yeah.
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So yeah, like, yeah.
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Yeah.
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So what what do you think about this though?
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On that point.
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So I think that a lot of men and women, there's a disconnect, right?
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I think it's like, you know how sometimes you have like art and people can look at the same painting and see two completely different things.
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I think that's kind of what happens with with this, right?
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Where I think that when men are asking women, what do you want a man?
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I think men are asking what makes you attracted to a man.
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I think that's really the the main question.
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I think women hear what do you want?
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And their response is traits that they would like from a guy that they're already attracted to.
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And I think that's the difference.
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I think that when when women answer or when women tell you, hey, like, I want a man that's emotionally available and you know, caring or whatever, she's leaving out that like and it should be obvious, but she's leaving out that, yeah, I want an emotionally available man that I'm attracted to.
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Right.
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Should be obvious.
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But like I think that's the major disconnect.
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So I think that men sometimes they don't realize that, and they they're like, oh, I'm emotionally available.
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I'm I'm chivalrous.
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She's not talking about you, bro.
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She's not talking about you.
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Right.
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Right.
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Because she's not attracted to you.
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That's why she's not talking about you.
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So I think that men need to focus on building attraction first.
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Right.
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If you want to know what a woman wants, she wants a man that she's attracted to.
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Right, 1000%.
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That's what she wants.
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And look, bro, get in the gym.
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Like, get in the gym.
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Yeah.
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Get in the gym.
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Be aspirational.
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Get in the gym, learn how to speak.
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Right.
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Yeah.
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Hang around other men that stop going to the club every day.
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Yeah.
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Hang out with men more successful than you.
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Right.
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So you can learn.
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Don't be a hater.
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Yeah.
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And just become better.
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Yeah.
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Like, I don't I don't get a lot of these dudes in Vegas.
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Look, I'm from Florida, bro.
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I don't know what this where are you from?
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Where are you from?
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I'm from here.
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You're from Vegas?
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You dope.
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Like you're an outlier, but most of these West Coast dudes, they're, you know, it's weird.
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It's weird energy.
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And women pay attention to that too.
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So you gotta move like there's FBI agents all around you in plain clothes.
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Yeah.
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You gotta make sure you're on your Ps and Q's in this dating life and business, everything you do.
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Because women know what they want.
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Oh, well, I want a guy that does this.
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You could do the same thing, and another guy does the same thing, and there's two different results.
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Exactly.
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Two different results.
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Great point.
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Two different results.
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You know why?
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Because maybe he's more in shape.
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Maybe he smells good.
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Maybe his breath don't stink.
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Maybe he's ambitious.
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But one thing about women, bro, they love ambitious women.
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I mean men.
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And men, yeah, yeah.
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Men.
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Yeah.
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I like ambitious women.
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Yeah.
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Okay, so this is a great point by you.
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So, like, and and you you make content about this earlier today.
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Life is not fair.
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Okay.
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So a lot of men think, oh, well, this guy did that.
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So I'm gonna do what he did, and I should get the same result.
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No, no, that's not how the world works.
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You could try and copy and you can try to listen to like what women tell you, and you can try and buy flowers or whatever it is, open doors, whatever.
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If she's not attracted to you, it's not gonna go anywhere.
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So I think that that's a major disconnect in modern dating because men start to resent women, I feel like.
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Yeah, because men are like, oh, well, I bought her flowers, I took her to a nice dinner, and nothing happens.
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And all these girls just want, you know, whatever, money or whatever it is.
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And it's like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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Like, there's so many great women out here, but and again, it should be obvious, but women, the answers that you hear from women, they want all that stuff from a guy that they're attracted to.
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So, like you said, if you're not in the gym, if you're not aspirational, if you're not trying to better yourself in every way as a man, then don't even expect for like your flowers or whatever you're doing to go anywhere because you have to build attraction first.
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Yeah, and look, do this for you, man.
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Like, look at yourself in the mirror, do it for you because you want to be great.
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Yeah.
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Because if you're doing this just for women, you're gonna lose still.
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You could get in shape and get the money.
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But if you're not doing it because you love yourself and you just want the best for yourself, whether that's the best house, the best car, the best career, the best woman, you're gonna get lost in the sauce.
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And you don't want to be lost in the sauce.
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Yeah.
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So we're in a world where it's not fair.
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You know, you could do the same exact thing someone else does.
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You got to find your own sauce and take off, hit, you know, hit the home run, and you're good to go.
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Yeah.
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And that's another great point by you.
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If if you chase your passion and your purpose and try to be your best self, typically your dream woman will come along with that, as opposed to just chasing your dream woman and not trying to better yourself.
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So I think that's that's great uh advice by you.
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Okay, what about this?
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Do you think that a woman could be labeled as crazy with one guy, leave him, go to another guy, and be perfectly normal?
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Of course.
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Some guys make women feel a lot more safer.
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And one guy might be trying to gaslight or you know, or manipulate her.
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Look, I know the game, man.
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Look, the game is the game.
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We all like people, no one could get over on me.
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I will play dumb for as long as I need to.
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But like some women, like, oh, you're crazy.
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Like, he's probably saying that because he really is doing some stuff and he's just trying to gaslight her to think he's not doing anything.
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And then she could meet a man who's like very grounded, chill vibes.
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Yeah.
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He's not doing certain things.
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He might be a little bit more uh boring, or but he makes her feel more confident about herself.
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Yeah.
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And he probably don't even ask her the questions that she asked the other guy she was with.
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Yeah.
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So it's it's tailored to different situations.
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You feel me?
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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You know, and I agree with that too.
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Like there, there's been women that I've dealt with where I've heard that they, you know, they're psychotic, they're crazy, or whatever.
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I had no issues.
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So I I really feel that like whatever you hear about person, you gotta judge people based on like your experience with them too.
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People are gonna talk, people are gonna say a whole bunch of stuff, both good and and bad.
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Right.
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Like, you gotta get out there and make your your own decisions and view things through your own eyes.
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And that that actually isn't just with relationships, that's with everything.
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Like, don't just believe what's on your phone, don't just believe what people say.
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Go out there and look at it for for yourself and create your own uh decisions from it.
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Yeah, 1000%.
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Like, look, I'm not perfect, you know.
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I'm a good-hearted person, I'm genuine.
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Yeah, but I have my flaws, you know.
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You know, there's been a few uh instances that has happened recently where out in public, I don't know if it's God testing me or the universe, but it's been things trying to get me out of my character.
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Right.
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And like I'm a very chill grounded person, but if someone does something, another dude does something, like I'm gonna be like, yo, what's up?
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Like, but you gotta really be able to channel that.
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Yeah.
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But like loving-wise, loving is hell.
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If I got it, you got it.
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Yeah.
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If I don't got it, you probably won't know I don't got it, but I'ma still do something.
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That's just how genuine I am.
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And a lot of people, you gotta be genuine.
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If you want good results, don't be genuine to everybody.
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You still gotta tailor, you know, your life, but just be genuine, love yourself, and just do your best.
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Like, that's the best thing I could say in this climate.
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We're in a weird time.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Do you find any correlation between a woman's level of attractiveness and her attitude?
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Do you feel like, okay, the more attractive the woman, her attitude is better, worse?
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Maybe if she's, you know, on the proverbial one to ten scale, if she's a seven, what kind of attitude can you expect?
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Versus whether she's a nine or a ten, what can you expect?
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I'm not gonna lie to you, bro.
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There's ones are they're the delusional as hell.
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There's ones out here who are delusional as hell.
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Okay, but wait, so how how do you think that happens?
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Do you do you think because the market is cooked, bro?
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These dudes are so desperate.
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I heard story, I had a girl tell me she had a dude send her$5,000 for a pick of her feet.
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He bought her uh a Louis Vuitton for a pick of her feet.
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Wow, okay.
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And he didn't even, they didn't even have intimate relations.
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Okay, that makes sense.
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The the level of men out here has gone down into the toilet.
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Yeah.
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Uh there's ones out here acting like they are Beyonce, which is crazy.
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Yeah.
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And I'm the kind of man like if I will.
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Approach you.
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Like, I will approach you.
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Yeah.
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You know, and I've done my like throughout the years, I've seen it.
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And I'm like, I'm humble.
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I got a level of humility, but I'm like, baby, girl, like I'm doing you a favor.
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Who the fuck are you?
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Yeah.
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You feel me?
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Yeah.
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You know, what you make a great point.
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I haven't really considered this.
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But like in general, just like in absolute general, most women aren't interested in most men.
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But I think that most men, if given the opportunity, would probably hook up with most women.
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Yeah, because they are desperate.
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Yeah.
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So then I think that dynamic causes women lower on you know the one to ten scale to sometimes have an inflated sense of self because they're like, well, this dude just give me five five thousand dollars.
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That's crazy.
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I'm not a one, I'm a I'm an eight.
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And then she starts to act like she starts and then the world, listen, the world's gonna treat you how you are.
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Yeah.
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You're what are you, like six, four?
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Yeah.
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Six three?
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Yeah, sure.
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Six three, right?
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Yeah, sure.
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Six three.
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All right.
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You're tall.
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Yeah.
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If if you were going, if you were not six, three and you were saying, hey, I'm six three, and you're really like five's six, yeah, that's crazy.
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Yeah.
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And there's girls out here say, Oh, I'm a baddie, and like, look, I love people.
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I love that for you.
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Like, if you're confident, I love it because I'm confident too.
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Yeah.
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But am I a super rich man yet?
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No, I'm not.
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I'm still on the come up.
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Yeah.
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And I'm not gonna go out here flaunting like I am because eventually people are gonna see, like, damn, yeah.
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Damn, he's bogus, he looks crazy.
00:23:36.640 --> 00:23:38.400
Okay, that's a great point by you.
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Whereas men, men can't live in kind of like that fantasy world of just saying, hey, I'm this or that.
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You you will have a realization real fast in the real world as a man.
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Like, no, like you're you're not what you say you are.
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With women, it's a little different.
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Like with women, you can just call yourself, hey, I'm I'm bad, I'm amazing, and there's they're gonna be like, Yeah, you know, you're gonna get that encouragement.
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And that could go to your head, and now you believe that you that you're a lot more than what you actually are.
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Right.
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And look, like I said, I'm all for the confidence.
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Like I'm all for like people being confident, but like you gotta be realistic.
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Yeah, like I know how to sing.
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Am I the best singer?
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No, I'm not.
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There's a certain level of singing that I'm on, I'm ride my own wave.
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Yeah, am I like Michael Jackson good?
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No, I'm not.
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And you gotta be able to look at yourself.
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When I played football, I was playing wide receiver.
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I was pretty good and quick and I was fast, but was football for me?
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Hell no.
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I was too much of a pretty boy.
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Yeah, so like women, like kind of just I love the confidence and there's someone for everybody.
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Yeah, but let's keep it real.
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Yeah, are you that bad to be acting the way you do?
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Because I'll tolerate, I'll tolerate some behavior from a baddie.
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Yeah.
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Like from a good looking woman.
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Like, you know, I'm talking to a woman now, she's cute as hell.
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Like, there's certain shit she could get away with.
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Get away with it.
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No other girl could get away with it.
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Like some other girl tried.
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I'm like, who the fuck are you talking to?
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Yeah, yeah.
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And it's so interesting because like you have some women that, like you said, are like a one and think they're great, but you have some women that are like nine.
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They don't even know that they don't, they don't know that they're not.
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No, because you know why?
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Because guys are scared to approach them.
00:25:09.519 --> 00:25:11.440
That's why that's probably I don't give a look.
00:25:11.519 --> 00:25:17.279
Yeah, I could get curves, I could get curved, which you know, it doesn't happen too often, but I'm not exempt from getting curved.
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So I'll still approach because I'll be able to say I did.
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I'll still be like, Hey, you pretty as hell.
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It's because I could say I did.
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But most men, but oh bro, damn, bro, she bad.
00:25:26.799 --> 00:25:27.759
Well, go talk to her then.
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Yeah, uh, sorry.
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They're scared.
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So, all right, if they and if you do it, they get mad at you because you did it.
00:25:32.559 --> 00:25:35.599
Like that that is that that's been my my experience.
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Like, the the more, the more attractive the woman, like the better the attitude.
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And I I think like it goes, there's something to be said for what you just mentioned.
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Maybe they don't really get approach as much because guys are nervous and scared.
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Yeah, they're scared, and they don't know.
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But women, I'm telling you, it's like a biological thing.
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Women know that other men, like men are looking and they could tell.
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So, like, even if she thinks you're attractive, just man up, go talk to her and just chill.
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Like, all these pickup lines, it's like, hey, how you doing what you know?
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Yeah, because women can see see through that too.
00:26:05.839 --> 00:26:15.839
Yeah, if you come up with a corny pick pickup line, if you if if you're not acting authentic, I think that women are more calibrated because they're you know, they're being hit on way more than like any guy is, right?
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Right.
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So even the most attractive guy does not get that hit on.
00:26:18.799 --> 00:26:19.359
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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So women just have more experience from from that um standpoint than than men do, so they can tell when you're genuine or not.
00:26:26.079 --> 00:26:28.559
You want to hear a funny uh pickup line I heard some dude say?
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Yeah, yeah, definitely.
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So it was actually good.
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I got a lot of this shit was good.
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So he was like, he was like, hey, he walked up to some girls and I was like, I was listening.
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Yeah, he was like, hey, like if you were to go back into a period of time, like the 80s, 90s, 70s, which period of time would you go back to?
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Uh-huh.
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And then the girl was like, uh, probably like the 90s, because the music was good, fashion was good.
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He was like, All right, let's go then.
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Let's go back together.
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Let's go back to my house.
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Like, I was like, did it work?
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Did it bro?
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She he got the number.
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I was like, wow.
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Listen, that's all you can ask for.
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Damn, motherfucker.
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Yeah, that's all you can ask for, man.
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But then, you know, no, you know, I'm a straight man, but like he was a good looking dude.
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Yeah, he was an attractive guy.
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It makes it which helps, which always helps you, yeah.
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But I'm like, okay, bro, all right.
00:27:14.160 --> 00:27:14.319
Yeah.
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I might, I might have to use Yeah, yeah.
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This is never her just keeping it in the back pocket, you know, you never know.
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Yeah.
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All right.
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Um, yeah, man, I love it, man.
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That's that's all I have for you.
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Is there anything else you want to uh to touch on before we get out of here, man?
00:27:26.160 --> 00:27:32.079
Yes, listen, we're all human, we're all going through things we don't talk to people about, including myself.
00:27:32.400 --> 00:27:38.240
Um, I'm at the point of life where I'm getting quieter and quieter and quieter.
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And um, man, this life is something else, man.
00:27:41.440 --> 00:27:43.039
You like things are coming from left to right.
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You win in here, you lose here, you win here, you lose here.
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And I'm a person who's lost.
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So if you're out here, you're confused, and you're just trying to figure out who you are.
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Give yourself some grace, love yourself and love your people, give your mom a hug more.
00:27:55.519 --> 00:27:58.799
Just let's try to go back to being wholesome.
00:27:59.039 --> 00:28:01.039
Because like everything's so transactional.
00:28:01.119 --> 00:28:08.559
If if if your friend does something for you, whether that's monetarily or just whatever it may be, return the favor in a some some kind of way.
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Stop taking more than you give.
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Yeah.
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And that's pretty much it.
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Get insurance.
00:28:12.960 --> 00:28:15.519
If you don't have life insurance, hit up your boy.
00:28:15.599 --> 00:28:16.880
It's not that expensive.
00:28:17.039 --> 00:28:22.640
If you can't, if you cannot pay for a funeral without having to worry about anything, you are in trouble.
00:28:23.200 --> 00:28:33.279
If if you have to create a GoFundMe for insurance after something happens for$10,000,$15,000 when you could have had$500,000 or a million, that's a problem.
00:28:33.440 --> 00:28:35.119
And that is all I gotta say, folks.
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Thanks for having me.
00:28:36.400 --> 00:28:37.359
Yeah, yes, sir, man.
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Appreciate you coming in.
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Yeah.
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