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Hello everybody. My name is miss Krista and you have
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found Kinks and Drinks Welcome. You can find us live
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here every Saturday night at nine pm Eastern on the
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podbean server, but you must be twenty one to to join.
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You can listen to the replay every Sunday on your
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favorite podcast platform or on my site Phone Sex Fetish
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Blog under the Kinks and Drinks tab. So, how is
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everybody tonight? You all ready for a fun show? This
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is going to be all about sensation play and believe me,
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there is a lot of fun things to deal with that,
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and it's more than just the sensation of touch. Hello Jeannie,
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how are you tonight? Demi owns me mott oh, Hi, Bianca,
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how are you? Thanks for joining? If you would like,
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just to send me a message if you would like
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to join. If not, you can stay in the room
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and nobody's gonna harass you. So, like I said, tonight
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is all about sensation anorogenous zones, and there's a lot
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of people that don't realize that sensation play encompasses a
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ton of things. Hello Addie, how are you glad to
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have you? So? With all that said, I think that
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Kelli welcome. I think the best way to start is
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by maybe defining what sensation play is. Sensation play or
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sensory play involves using various techniques to engage the senses touch, sight, sound, smell,
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and taste to heighten eurotic pleasure, built ten and increase
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in arousal. It focuses on sensations beyond typical touching, ranging
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from light, gentle, or tickless sensations and more intense sharp
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sensations like pain play or impact play. Yay, you can
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hear outstanding, I love that. Don't like it when you
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can't hear. So with that definition, let's go into a
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few of these. It's not just touch, its sight, it's taste,
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its smell, All of those things go into sensation play.
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If you're just doing the touch, you're missing out on
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so much of it. And I do not want you
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to miss out on a thing. Trust me. I want
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you to enjoy every last thing, every last detail that
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you can enjoy. So I like that aim into that.
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So when you first start with sensation play, I am
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a firm believer. In order to get the full effect,
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if you are the one in control of the sensation play,
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your partner really needs to be well tied down. I
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am a firm believer that sensation play is best started
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with a little bit of bondage. Now, once you get going,
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you can have a lot of fun with sensation play
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doing other things like yeah, untying them and tell the
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telling them that if they move, it all stops. And
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when you're the one in control, well I'm sure they're
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not going to want it to stop. I've never had
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anybody tell me okay, no problem. They usually they're going
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to obey. So now when we're talking about sensation play,
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and you know all the touchy feely, smelly, tasty, all
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that good stuff, well we want to we want to discuss,
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you know, some of the other aspects to this as well.
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Where to touch, how to stimulate smell, how to stimulate
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the taste, all of those things. So now smell, that's
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when a lot of different things come into play. Candles,
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the aroma in the air for us ladies, the perfume
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that we choose, and all of that is a very
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very important aspect to the sensation play. So pick your perfumes,
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pick your candles, and well make sure that you're cognizant
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of what your partner enjoys. As well. And I guess
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before we go any further on that topic, you need
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to set ground rules. Whenever you're doing any kind of
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play with your partner, you have to know, you have
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to know what their boundaries are. You also need to
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set safe words, especially with when you're back, when you're
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putting somebody in bondage to do it, you need to
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make sure that they are completely okay with all of
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that you're going to be doing. That is super super important.
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It's paramount. Then once you have the permission that you've
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been granted, well then then you proceed. Now the purpose
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let's go into a little bit of that. With sensation play,
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the goal is focused on bodily sensations rather than just
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penetration and orgasms. It's going to make the orgasm usually
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way more intense when you do this. Now techniques common
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methods include like feathers, tickling ice, wax, silk, vibrating toys, blindfolds,
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and I even like to do like a sensory deprivation
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of your hearing sometimes too so. And of course you
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want full consent for anything that you're going to do,
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and make sure that you do talk to your partner
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about that and Sensory play can be anything that deals
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with your senses. Like I said, all of them, including
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over stimulation. Yes, that's going to come up. Wattenbird wheels
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will come up. That is something that we will talk about.
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Matter of fact, that's going to be in one of
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my little in real life stories that we're going to
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talk about. So we have delved into what sensation play
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is and you know, kind of the goals and that
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kind of thing. I think at this point we need
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to discuss the erogenous zones and what it is. An
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erogenous zone is a part of the body, part of
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the body with heightened sensitivity where touch can trigger sexual,
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arousal pleasure, and other physical and emotional responses, daring greatly
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by individual, including your genitals, your neck, ears, lips, nipples
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functioning as key areas for for play and intimacy. Yes,
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the E zone and trust me, when you hit that
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erogena zone, it is a score feet, yes feet, basically
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any place that you can focus on that is going
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to get your partner squirming. That's really what you want
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to do. And what is an erogenous zone on me
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or Cali or Mott or Genie may not be the
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same on miss Bianca or somebody else. So you need
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to experiment. This is not just a technical thing that
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you go about doing. This is fun. This is play.
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That's why they call it sensation play. So take your
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time and figure out what is going to be the
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best for you. And once you do that, trust me,
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Oh you're your partner and you're going to have a
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ton of fun. So now let's dive into some of
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the orogena zones. Let's get a little bit more in
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depth with that. You know, I have sight here and
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I will share it with you because it is it's
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kind of neat how to identify and stimulate the fourteen
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orogenous zones that are pretty much keyed to sexual play.
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According to the experts, for play is one of the
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keys to maintaining a healthy, lively sex life. Anybody disagree
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with that. Oh, if you're ticklish, I want to have
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a ball with you. Oh, especially if I've got you
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tied up. We're going to see just how far we
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can push it. So we've already talked about most of them,
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but here are the ones that the Master Class in
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Erogenous zone play identifies armpits, lower abdomen, mouth, neck, breast, buttocks, shoulders,
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lower back, and there are more behind the knee. Oh
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that's a real fun one too. Yes, Demi, DEMI owns me.
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I would have to agree. My nipples are the key
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to the floodgates, if you know what I mean. If
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you want to get me hot and bothered and play
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with my nipples, get them all excited, you make my
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nipples hard. You make everything else work really good. So
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when you start, I always love to have before I
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take away any of your senses and make you focus
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on the ones I let you have. I like to
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start off with some candles, something that we both agree
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smells really good, and get the room scented. I wear
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my perfume, and just so everybody knows, I wear Coco Chanel.
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That is my brand, That's what I wear, so I
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will have that on as well, something light. As far
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as music, I love. Whenever I'm going to have a
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really good buck session, I like things like Yanni Live
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at the Acropolis playing lightly in the background, or maybe
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an Evan essence, something that's not going to overpower the mood,
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but is really good for the background and kind of
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gets you relaxing. Everybody has their own. You can if
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prisoner If Black Sabbath is your thing, knock yourself out. Now.
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I'm just saying what gets the mood set. I am
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a big author. Everybody knows it. I love the man.
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I was devastated when he died. So yes, I am
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Ozzy all the way. Matter of fact, if you were
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at last week's Jim Do on Friday, that was one
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of my songs. So so yes, I am a big
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So it's really whatever music gets you turned on and
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your partner. But it's not you can't have your way.
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It's got to be both parties or you're already fighting
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a losing battle. Then touch that is so much fun.
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You have to really embrace the whole touch part of it.
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And touch can also be you know, the oh, let's
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just say that touch can be with so many different things.
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It can be from silk, it can be ice, it
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could be candlewax. All of that is touch. Pick and
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don't just concentrate on one thing. If you're going to
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do this, make it an event for the night. This
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is not something you rush into. This is something that
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you take all night doing. I usually start off with silk.
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That's my go to. Everybody knows how I feel about
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lingerie and my silk play. I love satin, I love silk.
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I love the soft nylons, the poly the polytricd, all
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of that to me, that is the amazing. Oh, it
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just feels so good. So now with all of that,
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let's get into some of the different kinds of touches.
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I kind of touched upon, you know, the sensation of
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temperature that would be with the eyes and the candles.
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You can also use the silk, but you also can
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turn them over or have their legs raised up above
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their head exposing that bot that backside, and you can
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actually we use a little bit of pain play, whipping, spanking,
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that's sensation play as well. So now with sensation play,
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you have to have say fords, because if somebody is
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tied down hair brushes with hair brushes my legs while
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getting a blowjob. Okay, if that's something you're into, Yeah,
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blue jobs are sensation play. It really is, because the
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genitals are part of the erogenous zones. But that's just
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too easy, that's just too obvious. You don't want to
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just jump right into something like that. You got to
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make that, you got to make it work, you got
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to make it last. That's the last place I'm touching you.
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A matter of fact, I am going to tease every
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part of your body around, your genitals, your cock, your pussy,
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your titties, whatever. Ah, that's going to be the last
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place that I'm going to focus on. Now, if you
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want to dive right in, I said, each to their own.
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But I am going to give you some advice not
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to do that. Well, yeah, guys, go for the obvious always.
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It's it's a matter of you know, Oh I'm being
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tied down. I want my dick sucked. No, you might
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get it sucked later, but not right away. Start with
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crazy trade. Well, trust me, when I get done with you,
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Oh it's coming off the rails. You don't need to
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worry about that. Oh it's coming off the rails. So
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once you start with your sensation play, I am a
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big fan of having my hair pulled. So I like
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to pull hair. Get your attention. I like to nibble,
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I like to bite, I like to pinch, I like
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to pull, and then I like to caress. All these
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different sensations. You don't want to focus on just one.
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Dripping cold ice on them, rubbing cold ice on them,
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putting parts of their anatomy in cold ice and then
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dripping some hot wax on that same area. Lots of
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fun now smells. We've already talked about that, but it is,
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it is very, very important. And when you can mix
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the two. Take a nice soft slip, for instance, and
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you spray a little bit of your perfume on that slip,
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and as you're dragging it across their bare bodies, across
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their nipples, across their necks, bring it up to their
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face and let them cheeks feel that silk. Drag it
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across their lips, and when they do, when you do that,
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they're going to smell that perfume. Those are the little
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things that people forget that you can incorporate the smell
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in the things that you're actually using for touch. Don't
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forget that super important taste while you're touching. Have a
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really sweet snack. Chocolates are wonderful if you are into that, strawberries, pineapple,
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anything that gets your mouth watering. Now, of course you
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don't want a steak and potatoes. That's not going to work,
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but little finger foods that you and your partner both enjoy,
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especially blindfolded. Blindfold them and give them a little taste
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of whatever it is that they enjoy. If it's strawberries
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and chocolate, any kind of berry, any kind of fruit, caramel,
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whatever it is, it doesn't matter, but something that you
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can just feed them a little bit and then climb
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on top of them, maybe even stimulate that obvious erogenous
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zone and put whatever it is that you're going to
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be using for taste in your mouth and kiss them
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and let them have a taste of what you've been
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eating as well. Yes, and that is always hot. And
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now what you have done is you have combined smell, touch,
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and taste all in one little sensory. I'm trying to
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think of the word. Basically, you have encapsolated three different
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things with one act. Now I am going to tell
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you a little story. Yeah, no lies. I'm all about
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the truth and information and well making it hot. And
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that's where this little story comes in. No secret. I
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love playing with women as much as I do guys,
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but I really love playing with both at the same
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time usually, so this story revolves around a I think
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it is like the third or fourth time that I
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was with this couple, and we tied him down, me
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and and the lady tied him down first, and we
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blindfolded him, and we took away his sense of hearing
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as well, so he was sensory deprived with sight and hearing.
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And if you want something that really works good for
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the hearing shooting range, muffs work really good. Just put
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them over his ears. And blindfolds are hoods, whichever you decide,
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since yes, sensory deprivation is so erotic. And then we
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took turns, and here's where it really becomes fun. Her
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sense of her smell was different than mine, so he
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would pick up on it pretty quick who was who
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If we got up close to his face and his nose. However,
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he could not tell by his sense of smell, which
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is heightened when you take away the other two. Believe
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it or not, it is certainly heightened. And when you
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have that, you pick up on things. You can smell
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the snack or the little morsel that we're going to
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bring to you. You can smell the chocolate, you can
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smell the sweet, you can smell the pineapple, you know,
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things like that. So we would take turns feeding him,
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kissing him, touching him, and this went on for over
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an hour, finding his tickles bots the smell of Crown Apple.
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That's another you know, like tonight. Oh I haven't brought
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that up yet either, have I. Well, we will get
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to that here in a little bit. But the smells
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of taking it a drink of whatever drink you're drinking,
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and then kissing him and then well, we took turns
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on that erogenous zone that is very obvious. But we
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would make him guess who was who Yes or Crown Royal.
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I love both. I am a big fan of Crown
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Apple and Crown Royal. In my opinion, you really can't
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go wrong with Crown Royal. Even the Crown Royal Black
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is delicious. And that's another sensory play that you can do.
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Take your finger and dip in your drink and put
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it across his lips. Let him taste that. Not only that,
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but now you're stimulating his lips with your touch. So
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tons of different things you can do. We went about
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every sense that we could. The Wartenberg Will we used,
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but not just on his nipples. I used it on
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the bottom of his feet. I used it. I ran
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it up and down his hard, throbbing manhood. I run
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it up his sides, on his neck, on the back
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of his neck, there's all kinds of be creative. Find
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where they jerk, Find where they move the most, because
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that's the erogenous zone that you're looking for when he
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is struggling against those restraints. You found what you're looking for,
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and that's what you're after. You're after that response. If
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you're not getting a response, move try something else, because
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you are failing miserably. If he's just laying there or
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she let's go ahead and say they If they are
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just laying there, you are failing as the one that's
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in control of this situation. You want them almost miserable.
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You want them at one point if you're into the
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tickling part of it, you want them so excited that
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they're struggling with everything they have because they cannot stand it. Exactly.
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If somebody's just laying there, you're doing it wrong. And
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that goes for sex too. Guys. If she's just laying there,
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guess what, you're not hitting it. You might as well
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just go ahead and put your pants back on, give
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her her toy, and move on, because well, you're just
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not doing it. The sex shivers. Yes, that's a good word.
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I like that way to go mot sex shivers. Yeah,
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you want to give them that. All right, now, let's
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move from that to maybe something along the lines of
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different kinds of sensory play, like overstimulating. Does everybody know
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what overstimulation is? Overstimulation is when you go ahead and attack,
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and that's the best word for it. Attack the obvious
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rogen his own. Bring your partner to an orgasm, I mean,
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do it immediately, make him or her come, But instead
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of allowing them to recover. Oh no, no, no, you
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immediately yeah, continue and well you continue and you do
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not give them that break. And do you want to
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talk about somebody squirming? Oh? Guys, guys are really they're
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the funnest to do that too, because they do get
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so aroused and when they do well, they get that,
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they get that sensation to where they if they were untied,
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they would push you off, but being tied up, they can't.
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And you don't just do it for one orgasm, Oh no,
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you make them go three, four, as many times as
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you can. And but that is I usually save that
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for the like the grand finale. I don't start off
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with that. What about the use of vampire gloves or
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a Wartenberger or Wartenberg wheel on freshly spanked areas. Does
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that count? Of course it does, yes, and there's other
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things you can do to that as well. A freshly
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spanked area is very sensitive. So the silk comes in,
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feathers come in, hot wax, lots of different things that
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you can do. Be creative. Don't ever put yourself in
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a box. I am not a box fan, don't like it,
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probably will never do a be in a box. So
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that is what overstimulation is. But like I said, I
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usually use that for a finale, and I have done
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that with other things instead of just sucking. Here's another
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piece of equipment that you can use. Vacuums. You can
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use those and they are fun too. Toys, You know
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how I feel about toys, But you have to have
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consent of your partner if you're gonna use toys. That
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is another very fun sensual thing is to take a
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vibrating toy and move it around his body or her body.
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I have not prisoner. I have never been spanked by
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anybody wearing vampire gloves. Do you love us banking? But
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I do have limits. Yes, Genie, several different kinds you
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can use, you know, just your basic you know whatever,
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but they also make they also make sex toy vacuums.
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You just do a little search and you'll find them
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and they can be They actually have control apps that
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you can control remotely, so that can be a fun
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little way to go about it. I've actually played with
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some remote app vacuum and it. It can be a
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lot of fun. The problem with a lot of sensory
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play remotely is the level of commitment of the person
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on the other end. They have to be willing to
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do what you tell them to do. If they're not,
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they will not get the full experience. I'm cleaning my room,
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leave me alone. Okay, that's that's a good one. That
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is a good one. Ah well, so that's over stimulation.
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We've talked about sensory deprivation. Another form of sensory play
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is what you see but can't touch, strip teases, making
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your partner watch you with another person, any kind of
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visual erotic stimulation is sensory play as well. But we
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have them out here. What are you using? What do
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you mean? I don't understand the question. If you have it,
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that's what you're using. Now you have to be somewhat
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careful because you don't want to, you know, cause any damage.
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That's the big thing. You always go more gentle than harsh.
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You don't want to Oh you're replying to Mott, Well,
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good luck with that. If you're not bending over stretching
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the skin, the vampire glove does not break the skin. Okay,
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well that's my thing. I don't want any permanent marks.
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I don't mind a good spanking with the right person.
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I very rarely switch. I do switch, but the person
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that I switch with has to be, without question, an
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alpha male if he has ever put on a pair
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of panties or is not aggressive or alpha. I have
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a really hard time. I usually take control and I
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don't relinquish. But I do switch, and I do enjoy it.
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Now women, I switch with women really easy. I have
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no problem if a woman wants to take control of me. Sweetye,
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do it? Have at it? Knock yourself out? Love having
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a woman control my body? Oh? Love it. I don't
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know any better way to say it than that. So,
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and as far as the switching, sensation play is a
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lot of fun when you know what you're doing to
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that person is going to be done to you. If
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not more, just keep in mind almost all sensation play
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is reciprocal. What you do to them they're going to
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do to you, because very rarely do you just do
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it to them unless you're into a extreme submissive domin rolls.
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But for most couples, most couples, there is a dom
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and a submissive role in most couples, but they usually
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will experiment and let the other have a little bit
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of that sensory play as well, because as the reciproc
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as the recipient of the sensual play, it is very
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erotic and it does increase your the power of your orgasms.
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So to deny your partner of that because you want
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to say, well, I'm the submissive and she's the dom
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and I don't think we should cross those boundaries, well,
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that's that's really selfish. Don't be a selfish brat both.
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Let both people experience this, and like I said, what's
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good for the goose, it's good for the gander. So
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if you do something to your partner, expect it to
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be done to you. And that goes for the tickling,
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that goes for the over stimulation, which I tell you what,
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when I get over stimulated, watch out because when you
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do finally untie me, I'm not done. I am a
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very multi orgasmic woman, and I am going to do
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everything in my power to fuck you unconscious. So yes,
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now we have talked about overstimulation, We've talked about sensory deprivation.
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Another really really fun sensory play, sensual mustages with essential oils.
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Now you're talking about smells and touches again, and it's
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very relaxing. And then after you get them really relaxed
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and they're just enjoying just being touched with that oil
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all over you, then you can do some tickling, you
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can do some spanking, you can do some hot wax,
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you can do some eyes, do all kinds of things,
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because once you get them really relaxed, well, that's when
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it becomes even more fun. So don't forget everything that
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you do to your partner is sensual. It is a sensation.
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I was told once back when I was in the
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Air Force, and I I kind of say this to
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to people that are being little busses crying about little
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little injuries or crying about this hurts or that hurts.
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I was told once there's no such thing as pain,
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It's only sensation. I guess it goes for pleasure too.
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There's no such thing as pleasure. It's only sensation. But
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I will argue that one to the death because I
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love pleasure. Nothing more erotic than good pleasure. Now, does
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anybody have anything that they want to add? Planetary motion,
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walking the world around? I believe this brain may is astrophysicist. Okay,
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does anybody have something they would like to add? Anything
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that they have used in the past. It would be
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a lot of fun things that get you going. Oh,
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outdoor sex, that's fun. That's another way to have sensory
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play because outside there's so many different things happening. The breeze,
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the cool, the warm, the noises, do it in the rain.
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All of those kind of things could be fun, and
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being out doors makes it. You know, get one of
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those little cheap airbeds and put yourself on that, and
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then you can use all kinds of oils, get everything nasty,
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and you got to clean it up in the house.
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So that can be a lot of fun. Taking showers together,
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that is a lot of fun. And now let's get
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to the point where I said, you know, tying them
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down at the beginning. Yes, And oh, Jennie, I would
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love to play that game with you because I know
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the beginning of that game would be a sight. It
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would be something visual for me, wouldn't it. Genie knows.
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Genie knows exactly what I'm talking about, that wonderful sight
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and she blushes. I love that. That's another visual watching
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you blush. I love it. Anybody else, you have something
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you would like to share, I would love to hear,
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because here in jest a second, I am going to
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tell us another story about sensation play emotional stimulation exactly.
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Oh that is a great one, Genie, because I am
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that's another one of my fetishes. Is I absolutely am
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a praise whore. I love praise and I love that.
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So yes, that is definitely a wonderful sensation as well.
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Now time up, tell him all the things you intend
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to do to him, and then sit back and wait
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an hour before starting. Oh yeah, oh definitely, m definitely
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you don't. And you know another thing it's fun is
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you don't have to wait to touch him. You can
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go and just do a little teases. Now here's here's
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the story I was going to tell you. That is
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one of my favorite sensation plays. I have a very
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good friend. She is a irl dominatrix dungeon type, very
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very strict almost a lucy low like in payback type
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of woman. She is like that. She had me come
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over and we had a playmate and we tied her
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to the table. She has what she calls a punishment table.
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It is a custom table, and this thing is beautiful.
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It is made out of hard wood stained beautifully. It's
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got the Corinthian padded leather and all that, but it
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also has the medieval shackles and a pulley system to
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where you can actually attached her legs to this pole
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type deal and then a polley will pull them up
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to where it exposes all the goodies. And the shackles
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are the half moons that have the bolts to go
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in them. But anyway, we tied our playmate up and
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put the put the mask on her to where she
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couldn't see, and then left for two hours. We sat
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upstairs and drink wine and just basically they're just sit
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down there and stewing her own juices. And that alone
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caused her anticipation levels to be through the roof. And
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all she could hear is the client clicking of our
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high heels as we come down the stairs. And we'd
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come down, she couldn't see anything she could hear, and
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we would tease, and we would play, and we would torment,
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and we would spank, and then we would leave again.
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This went on for almost seven and a half hours.
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Like I said, well, two of the hours were just
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letting her stew in her own juices, and then we
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would take little ten to fifteen minute breaks, go back upstairs,
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leave her in her own devices, not knowing you know
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when we're coming back down, and by doing that inenhanced
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her senses not knowing. So every time you'd touch her.
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And then what we started doing is taking our high
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heels off, so there wasn't that clicking. It was just
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us coming down the stairs real quietly. She could almost hear,
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but she wasn't sure what she was hearing and stimulating her,
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touching her, oiling her, waxing her, all of these different things.
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So this, don't ever underestimate sound, don't ever underestimate sensory deprivision.
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Those things are super super intense and you just can't
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replace that feeling. And then once you do bring them
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to an orgasm, which we did, we took the pulley,
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pulled her legs up, and we took turns with our
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strap onds that vibrate, and like I said, we said boundaries,
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so she knew what we could and couldn't do. And
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we would bring her really close to organ and then stop,
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and then we would leave the room again. We'd come
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down and then we'd tease her nipples, put nipple clamps on. Hey, George, tacacas,
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get a love if I love that guy? Oh my oh.
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So once we did take the mask off of her
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George she could see. Then it was even funner when
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we would leave, because she would you could actually hear
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her go oh ah, and you'd hear just groan and moan.
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But ultimately, all of this is about the ultimate pleasure,
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and that pleasure is only heightened by all of the
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sensor replay that you do. Ultimately, you want this, This
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is what you're ultimately after. So let's talk a little
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bit about that, because I'm going to include this into
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your sensor replay. No Tonight's drink is called the O
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face because ultimately that's what you want to achieve. You
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want to get your partner to that O face. You
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want to make them have that unbelievable orgasm. You want
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them to have that unbelievable oh just orgasmic bliss, and
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I asked a question a couple of nights ago. You
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want a little Captain in you. That's one of my
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favorite lines of that drink. But this one here has
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a couple of different kinds of Roman, and it's got
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a dark Roman, spiced orange juice, pineapple juice, lime juice.
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It's always best to use fresh juice. And then you
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drizzle a little bit of grenadine down the side in
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a dash of agostre bitters. You shake well, you pour
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into a highball glass. Now what I was going to
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say about the alcohol is it can be another form
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of sensory play, enjoying the the little buzz. Don't get drunk.
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I do not advocate drinking to getting drunk, but it
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can lower your inhibitions, and lowering your inhibitions is usually
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something that is a good thing. So once you lower
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those inhibitions and you start playing, and when you have
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like one of my mixed drinks, it is another sensory
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explosion in your mouth. I will view a taste orgasm
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with some of my drinks. They taste that good. M H.
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And I hope that this was educational and fun and
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somewhat erotic for you. That's all I could ever ask
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of any of my shows, is that you enjoy it.
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Didn't did it? Yes, my drinks I do enjoy and
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I don't make anything that is usually overpowering. It's just
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that's not my style. I do enjoy being able to
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taste all the ingredients instead of it just being a
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a I don't know, instead of it just being a
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alcohol fest. Well, thank you, Kelly. I really enjoy doing this.
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This is something that I love doing. I really enjoy
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my show, and it's because of you, and it's because
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of the reactions that I get. I absolutely love doing
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this and I really love when you tell me what
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you want to listen, what kind of show you want
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me to do, so my suggestions. When you give me suggestions,
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I love that. I love being able to create a
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show around something that you are interested in. So if
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you can actually send in suggestions, I would really greatly
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appreciate it. And yeah, thank you Matt for posting that.
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And that goes for the for the mistresses too. Any
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mistresses in here I'm still listening or want to check
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out my suggestion page, I would love to hear from you.
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It is a very it is a very wonderful thing
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to hear from you and to be able to plan
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a show for you. I love that now. It has
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has been a lot of fun, but we are just
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about to the end of our time tonight. If you
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have any further questions on this subject, I am almost
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always around. You can ask around. I am on discord
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most of the time, so just send me a message.
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And if you don't want to go through the trouble
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of doing the suggestion page, well you can always just
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go ahead and send me a message and I will gladly,
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gladly use that as my suggestions as well. And Mott
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just posted all my pertinence. You can find me pretty easily.
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I really do appreciate every one of you. I love
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the way that you came to my show and I
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really appreciate it. You are all all wonderful and I
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think the world of all of you. Thank you. You
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have been listening to Kinks and Drinks. You can find
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us live every Saturday night at nine pm Eastern on
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the podbean server, but you must be twenty one or
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older to join. You can listen to the replay on
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Sunday on your favorite podcast platform or on my site.
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Phone Sex fetish blog dot com under the kinks and
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Drinks tab. Also, if you go to my site and
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check it out, I also do the transcripts of the
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chat so you can actually look back and see that.
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And on my site I always put links of things
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that we talk about. I may not touch completely on
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some of the things that I get some information out
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that you can clean a lot of information from. So again,
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thank each and every one of you, and then until
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next week you all stay safe, stay warm, and stay fun.
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The tap and taken home
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Hello everybody. My name is miss Krista and you have
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found Kinks and Drinks Welcome. You can find us live
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here every Saturday night at nine pm Eastern on the
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podbean server, but you must be twenty one to to join.
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You can listen to the replay every Sunday on your
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favorite podcast platform or on my site Phone Sex Fetish
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Blog under the Kinks and Drinks tab. So, how is
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everybody tonight? You all ready for a fun show? This
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is going to be all about sensation play and believe me,
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there is a lot of fun things to deal with that,
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and it's more than just the sensation of touch. Hello Jeannie,
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how are you tonight? Demi owns me mott oh, Hi, Bianca,
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how are you? Thanks for joining? If you would like,
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just to send me a message if you would like
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to join. If not, you can stay in the room
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and nobody's gonna harass you. So, like I said, tonight
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is all about sensation anorogenous zones, and there's a lot
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of people that don't realize that sensation play encompasses a
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ton of things. Hello Addie, how are you glad to
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have you? So? With all that said, I think that
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Kelli welcome. I think the best way to start is
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by maybe defining what sensation play is. Sensation play or
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sensory play involves using various techniques to engage the senses touch, sight, sound, smell,
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and taste to heighten eurotic pleasure, built ten and increase
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in arousal. It focuses on sensations beyond typical touching, ranging
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from light, gentle, or tickless sensations and more intense sharp
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sensations like pain play or impact play. Yay, you can
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hear outstanding, I love that. Don't like it when you
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can't hear. So with that definition, let's go into a
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few of these. It's not just touch, its sight, it's taste,
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its smell, All of those things go into sensation play.
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If you're just doing the touch, you're missing out on
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so much of it. And I do not want you
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to miss out on a thing. Trust me. I want
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you to enjoy every last thing, every last detail that
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you can enjoy. So I like that aim into that.
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So when you first start with sensation play, I am
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a firm believer. In order to get the full effect,
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if you are the one in control of the sensation play,
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your partner really needs to be well tied down. I
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am a firm believer that sensation play is best started
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with a little bit of bondage. Now, once you get going,
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you can have a lot of fun with sensation play
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doing other things like yeah, untying them and tell the
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telling them that if they move, it all stops. And
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when you're the one in control, well I'm sure they're
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not going to want it to stop. I've never had
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anybody tell me okay, no problem. They usually they're going
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to obey. So now when we're talking about sensation play,
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and you know all the touchy feely, smelly, tasty, all
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that good stuff, well we want to we want to discuss,
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you know, some of the other aspects to this as well.
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Where to touch, how to stimulate smell, how to stimulate
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the taste, all of those things. So now smell, that's
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when a lot of different things come into play. Candles,
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the aroma in the air for us ladies, the perfume
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that we choose, and all of that is a very
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very important aspect to the sensation play. So pick your perfumes,
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pick your candles, and well make sure that you're cognizant
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of what your partner enjoys. As well. And I guess
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before we go any further on that topic, you need
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to set ground rules. Whenever you're doing any kind of
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play with your partner, you have to know, you have
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to know what their boundaries are. You also need to
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set safe words, especially with when you're back, when you're
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putting somebody in bondage to do it, you need to
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make sure that they are completely okay with all of
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that you're going to be doing. That is super super important.
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It's paramount. Then once you have the permission that you've
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been granted, well then then you proceed. Now the purpose
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let's go into a little bit of that. With sensation play,
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the goal is focused on bodily sensations rather than just
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penetration and orgasms. It's going to make the orgasm usually
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way more intense when you do this. Now techniques common
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methods include like feathers, tickling ice, wax, silk, vibrating toys, blindfolds,
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and I even like to do like a sensory deprivation
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of your hearing sometimes too so. And of course you
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want full consent for anything that you're going to do,
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and make sure that you do talk to your partner
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about that and Sensory play can be anything that deals
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with your senses. Like I said, all of them, including
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over stimulation. Yes, that's going to come up. Wattenbird wheels
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will come up. That is something that we will talk about.
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Matter of fact, that's going to be in one of
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my little in real life stories that we're going to
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talk about. So we have delved into what sensation play
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is and you know, kind of the goals and that
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kind of thing. I think at this point we need
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to discuss the erogenous zones and what it is. An
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erogenous zone is a part of the body, part of
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the body with heightened sensitivity where touch can trigger sexual,
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arousal pleasure, and other physical and emotional responses, daring greatly
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by individual, including your genitals, your neck, ears, lips, nipples
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functioning as key areas for for play and intimacy. Yes,
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the E zone and trust me, when you hit that
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erogena zone, it is a score feet, yes feet, basically
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any place that you can focus on that is going
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to get your partner squirming. That's really what you want
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to do. And what is an erogenous zone on me
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or Cali or Mott or Genie may not be the
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same on miss Bianca or somebody else. So you need
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to experiment. This is not just a technical thing that
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you go about doing. This is fun. This is play.
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That's why they call it sensation play. So take your
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time and figure out what is going to be the
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best for you. And once you do that, trust me,
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Oh you're your partner and you're going to have a
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ton of fun. So now let's dive into some of
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the orogena zones. Let's get a little bit more in
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depth with that. You know, I have sight here and
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I will share it with you because it is it's
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kind of neat how to identify and stimulate the fourteen
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orogenous zones that are pretty much keyed to sexual play.
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According to the experts, for play is one of the
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keys to maintaining a healthy, lively sex life. Anybody disagree
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with that. Oh, if you're ticklish, I want to have
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a ball with you. Oh, especially if I've got you
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tied up. We're going to see just how far we
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can push it. So we've already talked about most of them,
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but here are the ones that the Master Class in
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Erogenous zone play identifies armpits, lower abdomen, mouth, neck, breast, buttocks, shoulders,
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lower back, and there are more behind the knee. Oh
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that's a real fun one too. Yes, Demi, DEMI owns me.
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I would have to agree. My nipples are the key
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to the floodgates, if you know what I mean. If
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you want to get me hot and bothered and play
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with my nipples, get them all excited, you make my
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nipples hard. You make everything else work really good. So
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when you start, I always love to have before I
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take away any of your senses and make you focus
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on the ones I let you have. I like to
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start off with some candles, something that we both agree
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smells really good, and get the room scented. I wear
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my perfume, and just so everybody knows, I wear Coco Chanel.
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That is my brand, That's what I wear, so I
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will have that on as well, something light. As far
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as music, I love. Whenever I'm going to have a
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really good buck session, I like things like Yanni Live
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at the Acropolis playing lightly in the background, or maybe
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an Evan essence, something that's not going to overpower the mood,
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but is really good for the background and kind of
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gets you relaxing. Everybody has their own. You can if
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prisoner If Black Sabbath is your thing, knock yourself out. Now.
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I'm just saying what gets the mood set. I am
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a big author. Everybody knows it. I love the man.
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I was devastated when he died. So yes, I am
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Ozzy all the way. Matter of fact, if you were
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at last week's Jim Do on Friday, that was one
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of my songs. So so yes, I am a big
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So it's really whatever music gets you turned on and
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your partner. But it's not you can't have your way.
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It's got to be both parties or you're already fighting
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a losing battle. Then touch that is so much fun.
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You have to really embrace the whole touch part of it.
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And touch can also be you know, the oh, let's
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just say that touch can be with so many different things.
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It can be from silk, it can be ice, it
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could be candlewax. All of that is touch. Pick and
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don't just concentrate on one thing. If you're going to
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do this, make it an event for the night. This
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is not something you rush into. This is something that
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you take all night doing. I usually start off with silk.
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That's my go to. Everybody knows how I feel about
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lingerie and my silk play. I love satin, I love silk.
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I love the soft nylons, the poly the polytricd, all
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of that to me, that is the amazing. Oh, it
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just feels so good. So now with all of that,
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let's get into some of the different kinds of touches.
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I kind of touched upon, you know, the sensation of
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temperature that would be with the eyes and the candles.
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You can also use the silk, but you also can
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turn them over or have their legs raised up above
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their head exposing that bot that backside, and you can
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actually we use a little bit of pain play, whipping, spanking,
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that's sensation play as well. So now with sensation play,
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you have to have say fords, because if somebody is
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tied down hair brushes with hair brushes my legs while
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getting a blowjob. Okay, if that's something you're into, Yeah,
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blue jobs are sensation play. It really is, because the
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genitals are part of the erogenous zones. But that's just
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too easy, that's just too obvious. You don't want to
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just jump right into something like that. You got to
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make that, you got to make it work, you got
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to make it last. That's the last place I'm touching you.
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A matter of fact, I am going to tease every
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part of your body around, your genitals, your cock, your pussy,
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your titties, whatever. Ah, that's going to be the last
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place that I'm going to focus on. Now, if you
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want to dive right in, I said, each to their own.
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But I am going to give you some advice not
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to do that. Well, yeah, guys, go for the obvious always.
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It's it's a matter of you know, Oh I'm being
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tied down. I want my dick sucked. No, you might
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get it sucked later, but not right away. Start with
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crazy trade. Well, trust me, when I get done with you,
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Oh it's coming off the rails. You don't need to
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worry about that. Oh it's coming off the rails. So
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once you start with your sensation play, I am a
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big fan of having my hair pulled. So I like
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to pull hair. Get your attention. I like to nibble,
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I like to bite, I like to pinch, I like
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to pull, and then I like to caress. All these
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different sensations. You don't want to focus on just one.
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Dripping cold ice on them, rubbing cold ice on them,
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putting parts of their anatomy in cold ice and then
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dripping some hot wax on that same area. Lots of
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fun now smells. We've already talked about that, but it is,
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it is very, very important. And when you can mix
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the two. Take a nice soft slip, for instance, and
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you spray a little bit of your perfume on that slip,
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and as you're dragging it across their bare bodies, across
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their nipples, across their necks, bring it up to their
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face and let them cheeks feel that silk. Drag it
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across their lips, and when they do, when you do that,
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they're going to smell that perfume. Those are the little
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things that people forget that you can incorporate the smell
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in the things that you're actually using for touch. Don't
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forget that super important taste while you're touching. Have a
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really sweet snack. Chocolates are wonderful if you are into that, strawberries, pineapple,
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anything that gets your mouth watering. Now, of course you
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don't want a steak and potatoes. That's not going to work,
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but little finger foods that you and your partner both enjoy,
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especially blindfolded. Blindfold them and give them a little taste
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of whatever it is that they enjoy. If it's strawberries
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and chocolate, any kind of berry, any kind of fruit, caramel,
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whatever it is, it doesn't matter, but something that you
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can just feed them a little bit and then climb
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on top of them, maybe even stimulate that obvious erogenous
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zone and put whatever it is that you're going to
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be using for taste in your mouth and kiss them
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and let them have a taste of what you've been
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eating as well. Yes, and that is always hot. And
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now what you have done is you have combined smell, touch,
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and taste all in one little sensory. I'm trying to
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think of the word. Basically, you have encapsolated three different
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things with one act. Now I am going to tell
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you a little story. Yeah, no lies. I'm all about
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the truth and information and well making it hot. And
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that's where this little story comes in. No secret. I
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love playing with women as much as I do guys,
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but I really love playing with both at the same
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time usually, so this story revolves around a I think
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it is like the third or fourth time that I
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was with this couple, and we tied him down, me
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and and the lady tied him down first, and we
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blindfolded him, and we took away his sense of hearing
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as well, so he was sensory deprived with sight and hearing.
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And if you want something that really works good for
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the hearing shooting range, muffs work really good. Just put
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them over his ears. And blindfolds are hoods, whichever you decide,
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since yes, sensory deprivation is so erotic. And then we
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took turns, and here's where it really becomes fun. Her
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sense of her smell was different than mine, so he
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would pick up on it pretty quick who was who
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If we got up close to his face and his nose. However,
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he could not tell by his sense of smell, which
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is heightened when you take away the other two. Believe
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it or not, it is certainly heightened. And when you
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have that, you pick up on things. You can smell
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the snack or the little morsel that we're going to
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bring to you. You can smell the chocolate, you can
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smell the sweet, you can smell the pineapple, you know,
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things like that. So we would take turns feeding him,
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kissing him, touching him, and this went on for over
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an hour, finding his tickles bots the smell of Crown Apple.
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That's another you know, like tonight. Oh I haven't brought
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that up yet either, have I. Well, we will get
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to that here in a little bit. But the smells
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of taking it a drink of whatever drink you're drinking,
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and then kissing him and then well, we took turns
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on that erogenous zone that is very obvious. But we
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would make him guess who was who Yes or Crown Royal.
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I love both. I am a big fan of Crown
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Apple and Crown Royal. In my opinion, you really can't
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go wrong with Crown Royal. Even the Crown Royal Black
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is delicious. And that's another sensory play that you can do.
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Take your finger and dip in your drink and put
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it across his lips. Let him taste that. Not only that,
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but now you're stimulating his lips with your touch. So
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tons of different things you can do. We went about
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every sense that we could. The Wartenberg Will we used,
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but not just on his nipples. I used it on
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the bottom of his feet. I used it. I ran
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it up and down his hard, throbbing manhood. I run
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it up his sides, on his neck, on the back
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of his neck, there's all kinds of be creative. Find
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where they jerk, Find where they move the most, because
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that's the erogenous zone that you're looking for when he
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is struggling against those restraints. You found what you're looking for,
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and that's what you're after. You're after that response. If
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you're not getting a response, move try something else, because
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you are failing miserably. If he's just laying there or
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she let's go ahead and say they If they are
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just laying there, you are failing as the one that's
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in control of this situation. You want them almost miserable.
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You want them at one point if you're into the
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tickling part of it, you want them so excited that
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they're struggling with everything they have because they cannot stand it. Exactly.
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If somebody's just laying there, you're doing it wrong. And
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that goes for sex too. Guys. If she's just laying there,
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guess what, you're not hitting it. You might as well
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just go ahead and put your pants back on, give
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her her toy, and move on, because well, you're just
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not doing it. The sex shivers. Yes, that's a good word.
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I like that way to go mot sex shivers. Yeah,
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you want to give them that. All right, now, let's
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move from that to maybe something along the lines of
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different kinds of sensory play, like overstimulating. Does everybody know
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what overstimulation is? Overstimulation is when you go ahead and attack,
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and that's the best word for it. Attack the obvious
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rogen his own. Bring your partner to an orgasm, I mean,
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do it immediately, make him or her come, But instead
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of allowing them to recover. Oh no, no, no, you
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immediately yeah, continue and well you continue and you do
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not give them that break. And do you want to
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talk about somebody squirming? Oh? Guys, guys are really they're
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the funnest to do that too, because they do get
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so aroused and when they do well, they get that,
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they get that sensation to where they if they were untied,
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they would push you off, but being tied up, they can't.
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And you don't just do it for one orgasm, Oh no,
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you make them go three, four, as many times as
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you can. And but that is I usually save that
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for the like the grand finale. I don't start off
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with that. What about the use of vampire gloves or
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a Wartenberger or Wartenberg wheel on freshly spanked areas. Does
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that count? Of course it does, yes, and there's other
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things you can do to that as well. A freshly
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spanked area is very sensitive. So the silk comes in,
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feathers come in, hot wax, lots of different things that
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you can do. Be creative. Don't ever put yourself in
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a box. I am not a box fan, don't like it,
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probably will never do a be in a box. So
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that is what overstimulation is. But like I said, I
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usually use that for a finale, and I have done
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that with other things instead of just sucking. Here's another
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piece of equipment that you can use. Vacuums. You can
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use those and they are fun too. Toys, You know
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how I feel about toys, But you have to have
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consent of your partner if you're gonna use toys. That
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is another very fun sensual thing is to take a
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vibrating toy and move it around his body or her body.
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I have not prisoner. I have never been spanked by
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anybody wearing vampire gloves. Do you love us banking? But
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I do have limits. Yes, Genie, several different kinds you
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can use, you know, just your basic you know whatever,
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but they also make they also make sex toy vacuums.
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You just do a little search and you'll find them
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and they can be They actually have control apps that
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you can control remotely, so that can be a fun
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little way to go about it. I've actually played with
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some remote app vacuum and it. It can be a
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lot of fun. The problem with a lot of sensory
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play remotely is the level of commitment of the person
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on the other end. They have to be willing to
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do what you tell them to do. If they're not,
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they will not get the full experience. I'm cleaning my room,
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leave me alone. Okay, that's that's a good one. That
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is a good one. Ah well, so that's over stimulation.
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We've talked about sensory deprivation. Another form of sensory play
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is what you see but can't touch, strip teases, making
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your partner watch you with another person, any kind of
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visual erotic stimulation is sensory play as well. But we
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have them out here. What are you using? What do
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you mean? I don't understand the question. If you have it,
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that's what you're using. Now you have to be somewhat
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careful because you don't want to, you know, cause any damage.
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That's the big thing. You always go more gentle than harsh.
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You don't want to Oh you're replying to Mott, Well,
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good luck with that. If you're not bending over stretching
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the skin, the vampire glove does not break the skin. Okay,
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well that's my thing. I don't want any permanent marks.
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I don't mind a good spanking with the right person.
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I very rarely switch. I do switch, but the person
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that I switch with has to be, without question, an
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alpha male if he has ever put on a pair
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of panties or is not aggressive or alpha. I have
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a really hard time. I usually take control and I
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don't relinquish. But I do switch, and I do enjoy it.
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Now women, I switch with women really easy. I have
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no problem if a woman wants to take control of me. Sweetye,
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do it? Have at it? Knock yourself out? Love having
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a woman control my body? Oh? Love it. I don't
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know any better way to say it than that. So,
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and as far as the switching, sensation play is a
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lot of fun when you know what you're doing to
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that person is going to be done to you. If
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not more, just keep in mind almost all sensation play
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is reciprocal. What you do to them they're going to
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do to you, because very rarely do you just do
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it to them unless you're into a extreme submissive domin rolls.
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But for most couples, most couples, there is a dom
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and a submissive role in most couples, but they usually
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will experiment and let the other have a little bit
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of that sensory play as well, because as the reciproc
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as the recipient of the sensual play, it is very
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erotic and it does increase your the power of your orgasms.
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So to deny your partner of that because you want
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to say, well, I'm the submissive and she's the dom
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and I don't think we should cross those boundaries, well,
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that's that's really selfish. Don't be a selfish brat both.
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Let both people experience this, and like I said, what's
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good for the goose, it's good for the gander. So
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if you do something to your partner, expect it to
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be done to you. And that goes for the tickling,
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that goes for the over stimulation, which I tell you what,
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when I get over stimulated, watch out because when you
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do finally untie me, I'm not done. I am a
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very multi orgasmic woman, and I am going to do
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everything in my power to fuck you unconscious. So yes,
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now we have talked about overstimulation, We've talked about sensory deprivation.
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Another really really fun sensory play, sensual mustages with essential oils.
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Now you're talking about smells and touches again, and it's
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very relaxing. And then after you get them really relaxed
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and they're just enjoying just being touched with that oil
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all over you, then you can do some tickling, you
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can do some spanking, you can do some hot wax,
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you can do some eyes, do all kinds of things,
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because once you get them really relaxed, well, that's when
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it becomes even more fun. So don't forget everything that
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you do to your partner is sensual. It is a sensation.
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I was told once back when I was in the
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Air Force, and I I kind of say this to
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to people that are being little busses crying about little
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little injuries or crying about this hurts or that hurts.
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I was told once there's no such thing as pain,
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It's only sensation. I guess it goes for pleasure too.
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There's no such thing as pleasure. It's only sensation. But
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I will argue that one to the death because I
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love pleasure. Nothing more erotic than good pleasure. Now, does
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anybody have anything that they want to add? Planetary motion,
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walking the world around? I believe this brain may is astrophysicist. Okay,
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does anybody have something they would like to add? Anything
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that they have used in the past. It would be
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a lot of fun things that get you going. Oh,
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outdoor sex, that's fun. That's another way to have sensory
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play because outside there's so many different things happening. The breeze,
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the cool, the warm, the noises, do it in the rain.
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All of those kind of things could be fun, and
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being out doors makes it. You know, get one of
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those little cheap airbeds and put yourself on that, and
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then you can use all kinds of oils, get everything nasty,
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and you got to clean it up in the house.
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So that can be a lot of fun. Taking showers together,
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that is a lot of fun. And now let's get
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to the point where I said, you know, tying them
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down at the beginning. Yes, And oh, Jennie, I would
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love to play that game with you because I know
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the beginning of that game would be a sight. It
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would be something visual for me, wouldn't it. Genie knows.
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Genie knows exactly what I'm talking about, that wonderful sight
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and she blushes. I love that. That's another visual watching
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you blush. I love it. Anybody else, you have something
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you would like to share, I would love to hear,
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because here in jest a second, I am going to
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tell us another story about sensation play emotional stimulation exactly.
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Oh that is a great one, Genie, because I am
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that's another one of my fetishes. Is I absolutely am
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a praise whore. I love praise and I love that.
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So yes, that is definitely a wonderful sensation as well.
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Now time up, tell him all the things you intend
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to do to him, and then sit back and wait
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an hour before starting. Oh yeah, oh definitely, m definitely
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you don't. And you know another thing it's fun is
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you don't have to wait to touch him. You can
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go and just do a little teases. Now here's here's
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the story I was going to tell you. That is
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one of my favorite sensation plays. I have a very
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good friend. She is a irl dominatrix dungeon type, very
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very strict almost a lucy low like in payback type
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of woman. She is like that. She had me come
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over and we had a playmate and we tied her
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to the table. She has what she calls a punishment table.
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It is a custom table, and this thing is beautiful.
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It is made out of hard wood stained beautifully. It's
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got the Corinthian padded leather and all that, but it
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also has the medieval shackles and a pulley system to
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where you can actually attached her legs to this pole
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type deal and then a polley will pull them up
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to where it exposes all the goodies. And the shackles
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are the half moons that have the bolts to go
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in them. But anyway, we tied our playmate up and
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put the put the mask on her to where she
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couldn't see, and then left for two hours. We sat
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upstairs and drink wine and just basically they're just sit
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down there and stewing her own juices. And that alone
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caused her anticipation levels to be through the roof. And
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all she could hear is the client clicking of our
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high heels as we come down the stairs. And we'd
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come down, she couldn't see anything she could hear, and
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we would tease, and we would play, and we would torment,
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and we would spank, and then we would leave again.
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This went on for almost seven and a half hours.
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Like I said, well, two of the hours were just
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letting her stew in her own juices, and then we
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would take little ten to fifteen minute breaks, go back upstairs,
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leave her in her own devices, not knowing you know
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when we're coming back down, and by doing that inenhanced
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her senses not knowing. So every time you'd touch her.
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And then what we started doing is taking our high
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heels off, so there wasn't that clicking. It was just
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us coming down the stairs real quietly. She could almost hear,
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but she wasn't sure what she was hearing and stimulating her,
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touching her, oiling her, waxing her, all of these different things.
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So this, don't ever underestimate sound, don't ever underestimate sensory deprivision.
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Those things are super super intense and you just can't
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replace that feeling. And then once you do bring them
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to an orgasm, which we did, we took the pulley,
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pulled her legs up, and we took turns with our
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strap onds that vibrate, and like I said, we said boundaries,
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so she knew what we could and couldn't do. And
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we would bring her really close to organ and then stop,
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and then we would leave the room again. We'd come
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down and then we'd tease her nipples, put nipple clamps on. Hey, George, tacacas,
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get a love if I love that guy? Oh my oh.
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So once we did take the mask off of her
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George she could see. Then it was even funner when
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we would leave, because she would you could actually hear
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her go oh ah, and you'd hear just groan and moan.
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But ultimately, all of this is about the ultimate pleasure,
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and that pleasure is only heightened by all of the
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sensor replay that you do. Ultimately, you want this, This
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is what you're ultimately after. So let's talk a little
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bit about that, because I'm going to include this into
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your sensor replay. No Tonight's drink is called the O
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face because ultimately that's what you want to achieve. You
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want to get your partner to that O face. You
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want to make them have that unbelievable orgasm. You want
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them to have that unbelievable oh just orgasmic bliss, and
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I asked a question a couple of nights ago. You
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want a little Captain in you. That's one of my
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favorite lines of that drink. But this one here has
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a couple of different kinds of Roman, and it's got
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a dark Roman, spiced orange juice, pineapple juice, lime juice.
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It's always best to use fresh juice. And then you
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drizzle a little bit of grenadine down the side in
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a dash of agostre bitters. You shake well, you pour
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into a highball glass. Now what I was going to
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say about the alcohol is it can be another form
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of sensory play, enjoying the the little buzz. Don't get drunk.
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I do not advocate drinking to getting drunk, but it
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can lower your inhibitions, and lowering your inhibitions is usually
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something that is a good thing. So once you lower
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those inhibitions and you start playing, and when you have
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like one of my mixed drinks, it is another sensory
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explosion in your mouth. I will view a taste orgasm
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with some of my drinks. They taste that good. M H.
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And I hope that this was educational and fun and
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somewhat erotic for you. That's all I could ever ask
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of any of my shows, is that you enjoy it.
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Didn't did it? Yes, my drinks I do enjoy and
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I don't make anything that is usually overpowering. It's just
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that's not my style. I do enjoy being able to
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taste all the ingredients instead of it just being a
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a I don't know, instead of it just being a
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alcohol fest. Well, thank you, Kelly. I really enjoy doing this.
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This is something that I love doing. I really enjoy
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my show, and it's because of you, and it's because
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of the reactions that I get. I absolutely love doing
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this and I really love when you tell me what
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you want to listen, what kind of show you want
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me to do, so my suggestions. When you give me suggestions,
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I love that. I love being able to create a
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show around something that you are interested in. So if
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you can actually send in suggestions, I would really greatly
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appreciate it. And yeah, thank you Matt for posting that.
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And that goes for the for the mistresses too. Any
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mistresses in here I'm still listening or want to check
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out my suggestion page, I would love to hear from you.
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It is a very it is a very wonderful thing
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to hear from you and to be able to plan
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a show for you. I love that now. It has
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has been a lot of fun, but we are just
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about to the end of our time tonight. If you
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have any further questions on this subject, I am almost
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always around. You can ask around. I am on discord
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most of the time, so just send me a message.
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And if you don't want to go through the trouble
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of doing the suggestion page, well you can always just
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go ahead and send me a message and I will gladly,
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gladly use that as my suggestions as well. And Mott
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just posted all my pertinence. You can find me pretty easily.
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I really do appreciate every one of you. I love
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the way that you came to my show and I
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really appreciate it. You are all all wonderful and I
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think the world of all of you. Thank you. You
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have been listening to Kinks and Drinks. You can find
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us live every Saturday night at nine pm Eastern on
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the podbean server, but you must be twenty one or
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older to join. You can listen to the replay on
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Sunday on your favorite podcast platform or on my site.
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Phone Sex fetish blog dot com under the kinks and
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Drinks tab. Also, if you go to my site and
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check it out, I also do the transcripts of the
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chat so you can actually look back and see that.
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And on my site I always put links of things
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that we talk about. I may not touch completely on
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some of the things that I get some information out
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that you can clean a lot of information from. So again,
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thank each and every one of you, and then until
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next week you all stay safe, stay warm, and stay fun.
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