Your Authentic SELF Collective with Guest Angela Lee Otto

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Angela Lee Otto. I am your co-host, Judy Porter, and
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I am here with my co-host in peace, Miss.
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Hey, hi everybody.
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We have a wonderful guest today. Hope you enjoy it.
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We're here, as you know, Judy and I do this
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every week. And we're just trying to find peace, find love,
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find our authentic selves, live in our authentic selves. At
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least fear and be in the moment, be able to
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Magdalena Rosa, who is coming back for part five of
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Oh.
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Angela. Welcome back to the show.
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Hello. How are you?
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The last time you were here. We talked about mediumship.
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And there's been a big shift.
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Oh there has.
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Would you like to read. Angela's bio?
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Oh yeah.
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Oh wait a minute.
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Time out. Okay.
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What did we forget? Oh, I forgot. We'd like to
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have everybody take a deep breath as Janice rings us in.
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Hmm.
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Alrighty. We'll start that all over again. Angela, welcome back
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to the show.
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Hi guys. I'm so happy to be here today with you.
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Yes.
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I was so glad when you reached out, you're like,
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I've been doing something new. I'd like to come back
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to the show. Absolutely. The last time you were here,
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you talked about mediumship. There's been a big shift in
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the work you're putting out into the world. So We're
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going to go through the bio because that'll give people
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a good idea of what it is we're going to
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be talking about today. And then the floor is yours.
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Wonderful.
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Your authentic self-collective. That's what Angela Lee Otto is working on, developing, growing, transforming.
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Angela Lee is an angelic medium, spiritual transformation guide, teacher,
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and founder of Your Authentic Self Collective, which is a
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spiritual growth community created for people who are ready to
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quiet the outside noise, deepen their trust in their own
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inner guidance, and live more fully from the truth of
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who they are.
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Oh, boy.
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That's great. At the heart of Angela's work is a
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simple belief. And I just scrolled to page two soon
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because it's in bold, so I got to pay really
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attention to that one. We are not here to become
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someone else. We are remembering who we are beneath the fear, conditioning,
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and survival patterns, outside authority, and self-abandonment. The words and
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the phrasings, that's why I've been writing notes, because it's
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just perfect for what we want to do, we all
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want to do, and it's beautiful. Through years of personal healing,
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spiritual exploration, mediumship, and working with others, Angela's teachings, have
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grown into a larger body of work centered around the
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journey of remember, release, reconnect, and rise. Oh, I love that, Angela.
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It's beautiful. All right.
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And then there's more.
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You want me to keep going?
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Yeah.
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Okay. Yeah.
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She's been doing a lot of work since she was
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last here.
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Yes. Let's see.
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This thing, I don't know what to call it. This
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collective you're doing is just amazing. Your Authentic Self Collective
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with Angela Lee Otto. Her work explores the many layers
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of becoming your authentic self. Learning recognized patterns that once
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protected you. Developing discernment and spiritual authority. Understanding signs and dreams.
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healing self-abandonment, reconnecting with the body, releasing control, learning to receive,
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trusting your choices, finding your voice, and allowing yourself to
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become an active participant in the life you created. Through
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your authentic self, collective, Angela brings these teachings together through
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live conversations, spiritual guidance, meditation, reflection, meditation, practical tools, and community.
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Rather than telling people what to believe or asking them
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to give their authority away, she encourages them to develop
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a deeper relationship with their own knowing. Angela's work is
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ultimately an invitation to move from outside authority to inner authority,
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fear to discernment, control to co-creation, self-abandonment to self-trust, scarcity
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to receiving, and private awakening to awareness. to embodied participation
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in life. Quiet the noise, hear your truth, become who
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you came here to be. Wow.
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That's just a little bit. That's just a little bit
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of work you've been doing, Angela.
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Just a little bit. A little bit of work.
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Wow.
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Okay.
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So big question. From the last time you were here
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to you being here today, we were talking in the pre-show.
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that there's been a huge shift in you energetically and
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what you're putting out in the world. How did this
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unfold for you?
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It is funny how everything unfolds. It unfolds through quiet
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in myself to listen to the guidance that's coming through.
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And through that guidance, I can make clear choices on
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what the next step is. So I don't always know
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where the next steps lead in me, but I trust
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that if I take action on what feels right, that
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the next step will come and the next step will come.
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And I kept taking each step as they came and.
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We're here now.
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Yes, could the collective be more built out and more
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this or that?
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Absolutely.
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But the point is, it grows, and it's going to
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develop and continue to fill out with the people that
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fill the collective, because this, the needs today are may
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not be the needs that are a week from now
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or two weeks from now. So it's going to be
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a constant body of work that has a place where
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you can come browse around, see what you need to
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see in the moment. But it also has like a
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built-in mentorship or coaching program in it too, that there's
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live Zooms every two weeks that we one, do teaching
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about teachings on one of them. And then the other
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one in the month, we do question and answers. So
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you don't get stuck in what you're taking in and
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what you're processing. And the lessons are kind of built
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off of what the group is talking about in the
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moment and that type of stuff. So it's not a
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set in stone, rigid structure that I'm creating. I'm creating
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a moving body of work that grows and evolves with
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the people that are in the collective and with where
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we're at in the collective. So it's really about meeting
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ourselves and the group where we're at in this moment.
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And the beautiful part about working in a group is
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that you can have somebody who's very far along on
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this spiritual journey and you can have somebody who's just started.
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And each one brings the same amount of value to
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this group because the person who's very far along on
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this journey might forget the basics, the basics. I need
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to take this breath. I need to come back into
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this moment to fully understand because it's become so autopilot
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for them. And the person that just started, everything brings
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out something within them. So, and their curiosity, you know,
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brings us forward as well. But each person that's in
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the collective shows a different viewpoint, a different perspective of
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what we're working on. So you not only get me
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helping guide you there, you get all these viewpoints from
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all the other beautiful people that are in the collective.
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And it's just a beautiful place to be, to learn
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with others, to support others, to find a sense of
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home that we don't always feel in this world that's
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so chaotic around us.
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That's beautiful. So the question I'm hearing is you're moving
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and grooving with your one-on-ones and doing your thing. And
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then all of a sudden you get this, Angela. You're
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going to build an online community. How did that land?
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I was like, well, they told me a long, long
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time ago, I'd be building a school of some sort.
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And I was like, that is crazy, crazy, crazy.
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I'm like, that is no way. How do you build
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a school? What is that even about? And so I
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was like, I just put it in the back of
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my head and I kept, it kept coming up over
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and over, over the years. And I was like, and
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then all of a sudden we were here and I
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was like, all right, I guess.
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We're building a school.
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And I actually somehow stumbled into somebody who was like
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a community that was on the school platform. I don't
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even know how I stumbled into that. And I was like,
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this is a great platform. I didn't understand why I
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was guided to go there. It wasn't really exactly what
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I needed for, you know, my journey forward, but I
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was very drawn to be in.
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This, participate in this school platform. And I was like,
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this is a great platform.
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I was like, I can see how it's simplistic enough
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for me to navigate putting everything in, but it was
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complex enough and big enough to hold what I want
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to put into it as well. So it kind of,
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I just stumbled into finding an example of how I
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could bring this together. And so I found the foundation
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and I started with that. And it's just kind of
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been in this kind of, um, next phase of the
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development of how do I bring all my knowledge together
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and organize that? Because like when you're doing one-on-ones, it
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just comes through what you need in the moment. So
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it's like you access that information, but how do you
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put this into something that in the container is usable
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for people to come in and browse through and get
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what they need in between the live sessions and that
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type of stuff. And, that took a minute, because it
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was like, I was thinking from a rat, you know,
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my rational, like, okay, I got to start going back
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through everything.
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this comes through, sit and write this down.
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the four pillar or the four concepts, and then all
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these pillars that kind of went underneath it. And I
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was like, Oh, I got all these headings. So I
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was like, Oh my God. And I was like, I
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know how to talk about that. And oh my God,
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I do talk about that. And I was like, oh
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my God, I do know that. And I was like,
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when you have all this stuff that you do know
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in front of you, you're like, wow, that's kind of crazy.
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That's all come through me.
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but I was like, this is so cool. So since
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then I've been putting the pieces together and I'm starting
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to put it all into the container, which takes some time,
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but it's, the foundations are there and that type of stuff,
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but it left a lot that I just need to
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put into, you know, some kind of structure, you know,
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examples and understandings through each one of those pillars, but
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it was beautiful how it came through, but it was
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also funny to remind myself how that human side is
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does have a tendency to sneak in and get in
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the way because I was thinking, okay, a school, I
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got to do this from my old viewpoint of what
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school looks like. And no, that's not, I'm building a
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school that's for what new looks like.
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And there's a new way to do that.
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went back to, okay, we got to do it, this, this,
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and this, I got to think my way through it.
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And no, I have to trust my way through it.
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Oh, wow.
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Yes.
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That deserves repeating.
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I have to trust my way through it. Wow.
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Not think my way through, trust my way through. That
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gave me goosebumps.
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And you know, no matter how long you're on this path,
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some things that are so simple and you know, you know,
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and they're ingrained in you to do, but when you get,
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you step into something new that you're creating and you're
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stepping into this new place, It's so easy for those
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old behavior patterns to sneak in because that's where you
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get nervous and a little, oh, this is scary. I'm
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stepping outside my comfort zone. So now you're in this
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place of uncertainty, beautiful uncertainty, but it's still uncertain because
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we're still on this human journey. And uncertainty is trusting
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that it will all lead you where you want to go.
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But I find when I get into those uncertain moments,
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that's when those little behaviors creep back in. And I
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have to still remind myself that we're not doing this
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the old way.
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This is all new.
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It only works if we allow it to work. If
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we allow ourselves to fully be present in the moment
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and be part of the journey, just like the people
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that come into my community, I'm asking them to trust
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that this is the right community for them, trust themselves
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that they feel this is the right community for them.
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And when they step in to trust, they're just, you know,
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start learning how to trust all these, their discernment, their
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inner knowing and that type of stuff, that not everything
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that's in this collective will be 100%, you must do
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it this way. That's not what this collective is all
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about at all. It's about these are different ways to
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expand your awareness. So you can start picking the pieces
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that resonate with you. So you can start figuring out
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how to expand those pieces and really make it your own.
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Because the point is that we're all so uniquely different.
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And as unique as we are, our paths forward are
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just as unique. And I want to help you find
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your way to your unique path forward in your, on
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your own terms, on your own way. I just want
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to provide the support and the structure and the place
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where you can do that from.
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That's beautiful.
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That's so beautiful. You talked about feel right for them
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align with it. We had a discussion in the pregame.
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Why is it so difficult for people to trust their gut,
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their intuition? Hmm.
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I've just recently came to such a simple understanding of
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how very early on this starts. I had a realization
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that when I was young, I didn't like hugging certain people,
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goodbye and stuff. And everything in me says, no, I
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don't want to do this. But then your parents go,
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now don't be rude. Say goodbye, give hugs and kisses.
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So in that moment, your parents don't understand what they
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did and you don't really understand what has happened. But
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in that moment, what happens is you have just been overrided.
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Your inner authority has been overridden. So you are now
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told to not trust yourself because it would be rude
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or impolite to not to do something so in all
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these little moments that we don't realize are something our
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belief systems are being created and a lot of these
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belief systems are in direct conflict with our inner trust
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and our inner guidance and So when we start on
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this path, we really need to start understanding how deeply
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rooted it is in our being to not trust our
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inner guidance, to look outside and look for the answers
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everywhere but within us.
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And what my.
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Goal is to help other people like I have navigated
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myself to start to really start to build that relationship
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with And it starts out like, you know, you have
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this moment where somebody asks you to go to lunch
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or something and you go, ooh, I don't, everything in
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you says, I don't want to do that. But then,
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then you say, yes. Well, we've just right there went
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against it, our inner guidance. Yes.
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But we know that our inner guidance exists.
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So when we start to bring that awareness of what's
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actually happening in those moments, we can start to, you know,
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build the foundation to understand trust in our intuition.
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And then we, then we have space for our guidance.
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And then we start to shift from being this ping
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pong ball in life. That's bouncing around into making these
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decisions from a place of authority, our inner authority. And
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we create this foundation of strength to move forward in
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this life. And from there, everything builds from, we find
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our voice, we find our authentic self, we find who
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we truly came here to be in this world. And
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we can shine that light outward and then start to
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even in our own way, help others find their way
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forward because.
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It's not always gonna be a.
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Collective about finding your inner guidance. It might be that
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somebody just needs that seed planted and you have done
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the work and you say exactly what that person needs to.
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And it sets that spark in motion that that person
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starts finding themselves. So we never truly know our impact
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in this world as we're going through it. We, we
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learn to have that trust that we will impact this
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world in the exact way that we were supposed to
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when we're in alignment with ourselves.
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Excellent.
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I loved the example that you gave about going to,
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you know, grabbing lunch with a friend when you were
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planning to spend time with yourself. And then you give the,
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you could, instead of going against your intuition and saying, no,
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I need to spend time with myself and doing it,
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it builds resentment. So you could simply say, oh, I
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would love to go to lunch with you. Can we
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schedule it for another time?
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Yes.
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Easy enough.
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And you honor, you honor both sides of it. You
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honor your friend and you honor yourself, but you honor
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it in a way that's aligned with you, not in
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a way that makes it feel like an obligation because
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obligations are where we separate ourselves from the joy of life.
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When we feel obligated to do stuff, we are doing
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it out of, we're doing it for somebody else. When
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we're doing it for ourselves, yes, Yes, we show up
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for other people. But when we do what we truly
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find joy in, we show up in a way that
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brings and lifts our experiences up. We show up in
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a way that shines light in this world. When we
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do it out of obligatory reasons, a lot of times
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we bring all those low vibrational frequencies with us into
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the situation.
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And we.
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Probably have on our mind where we want to be,
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what we want to do, and we're not present in
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the moment. And that disconnects us from self as much
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as everything else. So allowing ourselves to bring these things
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into alignment allows ourselves to stay and live in the
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present moment and live in the present moment with these
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things that we search for joy and happiness and peace
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and We don't feel smothered by the chaos of the
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chaotic world around us. We find that we can exist
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within anything, but we bring the peace that we need
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into the chaos. So we don't feel the same as
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other people that are still stuck in the 3D matrix
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with the blinders on. We see it. We understand what's
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going on. We see ourselves where other people have been,
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which creates the empathy and the compassion that we have
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for those other people. And we also see in those
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moments sometimes where we want to go in others. So
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we get to see from the different people that we
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interact with or even just see in an environment like
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a grocery store or something like that. We get to
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see ourselves from different viewpoints in the people that are there.
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And it's beautiful when you start seeing life like this. Yes,
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you're in life, but you're also observing it. You're observing
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yourself in it, which creates that peace because everything becomes
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an experience that you can learn and grow and expand in.
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And it seems like such a simple way to say that.
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but it is like one of the most complex things
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you can start to navigate to in your life. And
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each time you get there, you're like, oh my God,
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I get it, I get it. And then you step
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back and away from it and you're like, oh, today's
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not that day. And then it becomes more and more regular.
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So understanding realistic expectations too are a really big part
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of this journey because just because we understand where we're
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going doesn't always mean we understand the path and the
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journey to get there yet.
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We understand that as we're ready.
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I love that.
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Okay.
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We're going to take a quick commercial break here. And
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when we get back, you have an exercise you'd like
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to take us through.
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Yes. That'll be wonderful. Awesome.
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We will be right back.
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Welcome back to Be Here Now, the Peaceful Empowerment Work Show,
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where presence invites perspective and allows peace. We are here
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with Angela Lee Alto talking about your authentic self-collectives. And
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she's going to take us on a little journey. She
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has an exercise she would like to run us through.
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So it's all yours, Angela.
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Well, we kind of touched base a little bit on
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it before the break, but nobody knew that. So it's
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called the pause, learning to hear yourself again. So, and
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it stems a good example because I want you to understand,
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you know, the process that we're walking through. It is
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about like if somebody asks you to lunch and that
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type of stuff.
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And do you say yes? Don't you say yes? Why
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do you?
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But it starts to make us think about like when
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we're asked something, whose voice am I listening to? Is
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it my own or I'm anticipating what someone else wants,
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expects or thinks? So, It's really about starting to discern that.
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So I want everybody to take just a moment to
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think about some choice in your life that you make
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on a regular basis. Maybe it's what you eat for
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dinner or where you might go to a restaurant. And
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think about how you interact.
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With that choice. Now let's use....
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What food we're gonna make for dinner as an example
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for this one, because it's real basic.
493
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Everybody eats all the time.
494
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So I'm the mom and I'm preparing food for the
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family tonight.
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So, okay.
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Well, I say, well, Johnny likes chicken tenders and Susie
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likes mashed potatoes and Ron likes, I don't know.
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00:29:12.339 --> 00:29:12.940
Fried chicken.
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00:29:13.589 --> 00:29:17.690
Okay, well, you got three different things here, okay? And,
501
00:29:19.750 --> 00:29:25.299
but you really want a salad. But you decide, okay,
502
00:29:25.359 --> 00:29:27.940
I'm going to make fried chicken and mashed potatoes and corn.
503
00:29:29.720 --> 00:29:33.569
Because that would, why do you make that decision? You
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00:29:33.589 --> 00:29:36.190
didn't make it because it's anything that you want to make.
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You made it because it satisfied everybody else's else's needs
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00:29:40.740 --> 00:29:44.619
except for your own. Now that's where I want you
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00:29:44.640 --> 00:29:47.900
to start to tune into that when we're making a decision,
508
00:29:47.920 --> 00:29:55.160
is it because of somebody else and making them happy
509
00:29:56.690 --> 00:30:01.490
or does it include you? And when we have that
510
00:30:01.529 --> 00:30:04.750
awareness and we take that pause before we say or
511
00:30:04.789 --> 00:30:09.250
decide to do anything, we can start to understand how
512
00:30:09.329 --> 00:30:13.250
we make our decisions. Not that we'll make the decision
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00:30:13.869 --> 00:30:16.329
to just make a salad and make everybody eat it.
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00:30:17.410 --> 00:30:19.630
Or not that we'll just make what everybody else wants.
515
00:30:19.730 --> 00:30:22.250
But in that moment, we start to consider what we want.
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00:30:23.380 --> 00:30:29.539
So then now we have this awareness of why I
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00:30:29.579 --> 00:30:32.789
made it. but we also have this awareness of what
518
00:30:32.950 --> 00:30:36.430
pressure or obligation we feel or who we need to please.
519
00:30:36.509 --> 00:30:39.569
So now we know why we're kind of making this decision.
520
00:30:40.450 --> 00:30:45.160
So then we can kind of go into, okay, what
521
00:30:45.359 --> 00:30:49.539
might work to make this good for everybody or at
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00:30:49.579 --> 00:30:52.220
least include myself? So maybe we end up making a
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00:30:52.299 --> 00:30:56.069
salad and put in fried chicken on the salad and
524
00:30:56.119 --> 00:30:57.869
have in some kind.
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00:30:57.710 --> 00:31:01.039
Of roll with it. It's not mashed potatoes.
526
00:31:01.779 --> 00:31:03.519
Like I forget what the names of the kids I
527
00:31:03.539 --> 00:31:06.460
made up because I just like randomly picked them, but
528
00:31:07.829 --> 00:31:10.549
it's not potatoes, but bread bread is a doughy kind
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00:31:10.589 --> 00:31:12.670
of thing. So kind of similar, but you also got
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00:31:12.690 --> 00:31:15.309
your salad and there's chicken, you know, so you kind
531
00:31:15.369 --> 00:31:19.329
of met everybody's needs without excluding your own. And, you know,
532
00:31:19.349 --> 00:31:21.690
there might be days where you're like, okay, well, yeah,
533
00:31:21.750 --> 00:31:23.650
I kind of feel like that too, but you kind
534
00:31:23.690 --> 00:31:26.920
of add your feeling into it. So you find, you know,
535
00:31:27.730 --> 00:31:29.950
That maybe two nights out of a week, you have
536
00:31:29.990 --> 00:31:31.910
a salad because that's what you really like. But you
537
00:31:31.950 --> 00:31:34.730
find that before that, you've never had a salad because
538
00:31:34.819 --> 00:31:38.059
everybody turns their nose up. But in making that decision,
539
00:31:38.099 --> 00:31:42.220
you now taught healthy behaviors to your children and your
540
00:31:42.279 --> 00:31:47.789
husband that creates health within your family. So you find
541
00:31:47.829 --> 00:31:52.049
when you find yourself, you start to find a healthy
542
00:31:52.089 --> 00:31:55.490
path forward in general. So when we start to look
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00:31:55.549 --> 00:31:59.960
at each step, of these simple choices, we start to
544
00:32:00.000 --> 00:32:03.420
find out and get a clear view of how easy
545
00:32:03.480 --> 00:32:09.029
it is to ignore our inner guidance and focus on
546
00:32:09.430 --> 00:32:11.390
the external, everybody else.
547
00:32:11.549 --> 00:32:13.690
And we kind of give all of our energy to
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00:32:13.750 --> 00:32:14.930
everybody else.
549
00:32:15.150 --> 00:32:19.150
So when we're done with the day, we're completely exhausted
550
00:32:19.410 --> 00:32:23.119
because there's nothing left for us. When we switch this
551
00:32:23.380 --> 00:32:27.509
one little switch and we start including ourselves we find
552
00:32:27.849 --> 00:32:31.690
that we don't go through the day like an exhausted zombie.
553
00:32:32.730 --> 00:32:36.329
We find that we have more energy. We have more self-worth.
554
00:32:36.509 --> 00:32:40.150
We are part of the whole that we're engaging with.
555
00:32:40.769 --> 00:32:48.369
And that's like the first biggest step I find in
556
00:32:48.410 --> 00:32:52.849
this process of reclaiming our authentic self is is they
557
00:32:52.910 --> 00:32:57.089
just become in part of the life we're experiencing because
558
00:32:57.349 --> 00:33:02.730
for so long we've been like invisible passenger that just
559
00:33:02.930 --> 00:33:07.430
is here to please everybody else. And we don't need
560
00:33:07.470 --> 00:33:09.890
to cut ourself out of the equation. We can be
561
00:33:09.950 --> 00:33:12.230
part of the equation and still honor the people that
562
00:33:12.269 --> 00:33:16.549
we love around us. So it's just such a simple shift,
563
00:33:16.710 --> 00:33:17.930
but such a powerful one.
564
00:33:18.609 --> 00:33:20.279
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
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00:33:20.390 --> 00:33:23.130
That that's, Janice and I were just saying on the
566
00:33:23.170 --> 00:33:27.049
show last week that one of the biggest messages, there's
567
00:33:27.089 --> 00:33:29.569
a lot of messages that are coming through consistently, but
568
00:33:29.730 --> 00:33:34.559
is we serve from the overflow, you know, because in
569
00:33:34.930 --> 00:33:39.460
the old, you ran your cup dry because you took
570
00:33:39.500 --> 00:33:42.259
care of everybody else before you took care of yourself.
571
00:33:42.900 --> 00:33:45.500
I love your dinner analogy. That's perfect visual.
572
00:33:46.220 --> 00:33:49.000
And just so people know, we pause and we recognize,
573
00:33:49.099 --> 00:33:49.859
we've recognized.
574
00:33:50.380 --> 00:33:55.039
The choice that's before us, we notice.
575
00:33:54.940 --> 00:33:58.779
Why we're making the initial choice that we're making that gut.
576
00:33:58.819 --> 00:34:00.619
That's like, okay, this is what we're going to do
577
00:34:00.660 --> 00:34:02.799
because this is the way we always do it. We
578
00:34:02.859 --> 00:34:07.319
recognize that, you know, why we're making it. And then
579
00:34:07.539 --> 00:34:11.969
we kind of inquire, you know, what other options we have.
580
00:34:12.190 --> 00:34:14.730
And then we move forward with the choice. So we
581
00:34:14.769 --> 00:34:17.389
kind of, if we keep doing this, that we, um,
582
00:34:18.949 --> 00:34:22.269
take that pause. We notice what's going on. We see
583
00:34:22.309 --> 00:34:24.550
where we fit into it and then we make an
584
00:34:24.610 --> 00:34:28.760
informed choice and we keep doing that. We keep stepping
585
00:34:28.780 --> 00:34:32.159
a little more and more into our authentic self without
586
00:34:32.340 --> 00:34:35.719
even applying much effort in our life. So it's a
587
00:34:35.800 --> 00:34:39.840
really good foundational tool to have to move forward in life,
588
00:34:39.940 --> 00:34:42.900
to take that pause, to take that second to understand
589
00:34:42.980 --> 00:34:46.340
where we are within the decisions we're making.
590
00:34:47.730 --> 00:34:51.909
Yeah, that's perfect. That's all empowerment, you know, because like
591
00:34:51.929 --> 00:34:55.150
you said, we've given that authority away. Well, I have
592
00:34:55.170 --> 00:34:57.730
to do this or it's going to be rude. I
593
00:34:57.789 --> 00:34:59.630
have to do this because I've been taught to take
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00:34:59.670 --> 00:35:01.869
care of others before I take care of myself. Otherwise
595
00:35:01.909 --> 00:35:06.900
that's selfish. So these little steps, one step at a time,
596
00:35:07.039 --> 00:35:09.320
one shift at a time, the fact that you're pausing
597
00:35:09.719 --> 00:35:13.360
and looking at your options, you've made the choice. So
598
00:35:13.400 --> 00:35:18.329
whatever it is you choose, you made that choice. So
599
00:35:18.969 --> 00:35:23.389
the possibility of resentment toward another person is gone. If
600
00:35:23.409 --> 00:35:26.510
you're holding resentment, that's towards yourself because you didn't make
601
00:35:26.550 --> 00:35:29.570
the decision that was best and in alignment for you.
602
00:35:31.349 --> 00:35:34.869
Yeah, and it's such a simple thing, but it also
603
00:35:35.369 --> 00:35:37.429
takes into consideration we don't always have to say yes
604
00:35:37.469 --> 00:35:39.099
to everything and we don't always have to say no
605
00:35:39.119 --> 00:35:42.800
to everything. It's about finding the right combination that works
606
00:35:42.860 --> 00:35:46.179
in the moment that really starts to place you first.
607
00:35:46.670 --> 00:35:49.429
In a place of your own internal power.
608
00:35:49.550 --> 00:35:51.730
And I don't mean that from an egotistical, it's just
609
00:35:51.789 --> 00:35:56.070
bringing you, you back into the equation that, you know,
610
00:35:56.090 --> 00:36:00.639
that you stand on this solid foundation to have the
611
00:36:00.780 --> 00:36:06.860
strength and the knowledge and the quiet to make the
612
00:36:06.900 --> 00:36:10.739
decision that is right for you instead of just continuing
613
00:36:10.780 --> 00:36:13.480
to show up in a way that no longer works
614
00:36:13.559 --> 00:36:13.880
for you.
615
00:36:13.900 --> 00:36:18.340
Yeah. And it, Without the pause, you never take the
616
00:36:18.380 --> 00:36:20.699
time to realize the fact that you're making decisions that
617
00:36:20.739 --> 00:36:22.800
don't work for you. You're just kind of living in
618
00:36:22.840 --> 00:36:23.519
the pain of it all.
619
00:36:24.340 --> 00:36:25.079
Oh, yeah, the noise.
620
00:36:25.139 --> 00:36:27.360
You just exist in the noise because that's where the
621
00:36:27.420 --> 00:36:30.239
comfort has lied for so long.
622
00:36:31.480 --> 00:36:33.750
Yes, and just because it's comfortable doesn't mean it's good
623
00:36:33.769 --> 00:36:34.010
for you.
624
00:36:34.809 --> 00:36:35.530
No, it does not.
625
00:36:36.449 --> 00:36:40.530
People can have such traumas and stuff and exist within
626
00:36:40.690 --> 00:36:43.369
the pains of their trauma for their whole life. but
627
00:36:43.409 --> 00:36:45.750
that does not mean it's healthy or good for them.
628
00:36:45.969 --> 00:36:49.630
You know, when they start to deal with the traumas
629
00:36:49.829 --> 00:36:53.010
and the experiences in their life, then, and only then
630
00:36:53.369 --> 00:37:01.059
can they start separating themselves from the trauma itself that,
631
00:37:01.159 --> 00:37:05.239
you know, we keep, we understand that it existed, but
632
00:37:05.820 --> 00:37:09.260
we don't have to live in it for the rest
633
00:37:09.300 --> 00:37:09.920
of our lives.
634
00:37:10.139 --> 00:37:11.760
And that's a very big shift.
635
00:37:11.840 --> 00:37:15.280
And this is kind of like, without the trauma part.
636
00:37:15.559 --> 00:37:18.750
But this is essentially the same thing. You keep going
637
00:37:18.809 --> 00:37:23.010
back to something that has a hold over you that
638
00:37:23.170 --> 00:37:27.010
keeps you stuck where you're at. And as you go back,
639
00:37:27.789 --> 00:37:30.409
as it feels right, you understand more and more of
640
00:37:30.650 --> 00:37:35.559
why you hold that pain. And that pain allows you
641
00:37:35.579 --> 00:37:41.699
to transmute that pain into what propels you forward. It
642
00:37:41.780 --> 00:37:44.579
becomes the catalyst that when you start to heal it,
643
00:37:44.900 --> 00:37:48.880
it becomes the catalyst that allows you to step into
644
00:37:48.940 --> 00:37:52.860
your full potential, into the person you have always been,
645
00:37:52.940 --> 00:37:56.699
the person that that trauma has separated from yourself or that,
646
00:37:57.449 --> 00:38:01.869
that whatever that moment was that created a belief system
647
00:38:01.909 --> 00:38:04.449
that created you to put up the walls that separated
648
00:38:04.530 --> 00:38:09.630
you from that little tiny child, um, like version of
649
00:38:09.690 --> 00:38:13.409
yourself that didn't understand that there was any negativity in
650
00:38:13.449 --> 00:38:13.889
this world.
651
00:38:14.190 --> 00:38:16.369
We start to remove those walls and we start to.
652
00:38:16.309 --> 00:38:20.280
Step back into that child version of ourselves that has
653
00:38:20.400 --> 00:38:23.920
play and joy and love and carefree and peace in
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their life.
655
00:38:25.239 --> 00:38:29.000
And we bring her or him into the present.
656
00:38:29.679 --> 00:38:33.159
And we live as a whole, we live as a
657
00:38:33.199 --> 00:38:35.809
whole where we know what we know now, but we
658
00:38:35.889 --> 00:38:37.530
also remember that.
659
00:38:38.579 --> 00:38:40.719
All the fun and peace and.
660
00:38:43.320 --> 00:38:47.199
Freedom we had before we learned to become all of this.
661
00:38:49.380 --> 00:38:49.599
Yeah.
662
00:38:49.619 --> 00:38:53.699
We talk a lot about survival techniques and I, you know,
663
00:38:53.719 --> 00:38:55.840
was living in survival and didn't even know it until
664
00:38:55.880 --> 00:39:02.789
I experienced something different. So, and then once experiencing something different,
665
00:39:03.030 --> 00:39:06.929
it's just like you said, it's, it's reflecting back. What,
666
00:39:07.280 --> 00:39:10.280
when something is triggered, like, why do I hold this belief?
667
00:39:10.539 --> 00:39:14.750
And taking that time, that pause, to really question, do
668
00:39:14.809 --> 00:39:16.269
I even believe this anymore?
669
00:39:17.289 --> 00:39:17.690
Oh, yeah.
670
00:39:18.269 --> 00:39:21.889
It's kind of comes into, oh, this is done to me,
671
00:39:21.949 --> 00:39:24.690
this is done to me. And then you stop and
672
00:39:24.710 --> 00:39:30.739
you say, okay, this happened. What is it showing me
673
00:39:30.820 --> 00:39:34.039
right now? What do I need to see now? What
674
00:39:34.059 --> 00:39:36.480
do I need to understand? Because that's how we start
675
00:39:36.639 --> 00:39:42.340
to place, take pain and trauma and sadness and turn
676
00:39:42.389 --> 00:39:45.610
it into the catalyst that really do move us forward.
677
00:39:46.050 --> 00:39:49.280
because we understand what we held, then we understand why
678
00:39:49.320 --> 00:39:52.539
we no longer need it. And then we understand how
679
00:39:52.599 --> 00:39:56.300
we start to come out on the other side. And again,
680
00:39:56.320 --> 00:39:59.079
it doesn't have to be trauma related. It can just be,
681
00:39:59.139 --> 00:40:01.460
you know, as simple as, you know, wanting to give
682
00:40:01.519 --> 00:40:03.699
somebody a, not wanting to give somebody.
683
00:40:03.420 --> 00:40:08.760
A hug and then being told, no, that's rude. Go
684
00:40:08.800 --> 00:40:09.199
do that.
685
00:40:09.619 --> 00:40:12.239
And the parents, parents have no idea that they're even
686
00:40:12.260 --> 00:40:15.179
doing this is just how it's been done forever and
687
00:40:15.380 --> 00:40:18.500
you know the kid doesn't understand what they're giving away
688
00:40:18.599 --> 00:40:22.340
in that moment because they're just a kid but that's
689
00:40:22.699 --> 00:40:27.989
how our belief systems created by how we are interacted
690
00:40:28.050 --> 00:40:30.789
with in this life and what we choose to bring
691
00:40:30.909 --> 00:40:34.170
along with us in this life and when we start
692
00:40:34.230 --> 00:40:37.579
to see things for what they are we start to
693
00:40:37.659 --> 00:40:40.869
set those things down and we start to step into
694
00:40:40.929 --> 00:40:43.949
a world that doesn't have the same limitations that we
695
00:40:44.050 --> 00:40:44.630
once saw.
696
00:40:47.010 --> 00:40:47.429
Excellent.
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00:40:48.110 --> 00:40:52.059
I'm just trying to incorporate that all into like right now,
698
00:40:52.500 --> 00:40:55.599
you know, like the, all the crisis or drama, I
699
00:40:55.639 --> 00:40:56.940
don't know, that's going on in my life.
700
00:40:57.199 --> 00:40:57.340
Okay.
701
00:40:57.380 --> 00:40:59.280
How can I do that? How can I do that?
702
00:41:02.300 --> 00:41:04.510
And that's what the collective is here for.
703
00:41:05.630 --> 00:41:08.110
These things I can put into words and I can
704
00:41:08.150 --> 00:41:11.550
have 40 minutes to talk about something, but these things
705
00:41:11.590 --> 00:41:15.190
have taken me years to kind of navigate and come
706
00:41:15.250 --> 00:41:17.309
up with ways to navigate it.
707
00:41:18.010 --> 00:41:20.539
So with the collective, these are all.
708
00:41:20.440 --> 00:41:23.900
Things that we address on how to move from point
709
00:41:23.920 --> 00:41:27.579
A to point B. And again, not every single person
710
00:41:28.179 --> 00:41:32.719
navigates the same way. We give you awareness of different
711
00:41:32.760 --> 00:41:35.510
ways to navigate. And we give you a place to
712
00:41:35.590 --> 00:41:38.670
speak about them. And we give you people to interact
713
00:41:38.730 --> 00:41:42.670
with to really find your way to apply different techniques
714
00:41:43.170 --> 00:41:46.090
that work for you. And hopefully, my hope is that
715
00:41:46.469 --> 00:41:48.989
you apply them in a unique new way and you
716
00:41:49.030 --> 00:41:52.860
find a voice to share them. Because my voice isn't
717
00:41:52.880 --> 00:41:56.880
the voice everybody's going to resonate with. We need many,
718
00:41:56.980 --> 00:42:01.800
many voices to step into their place of authenticity and
719
00:42:01.860 --> 00:42:06.360
authority so they can share their experiences. So there's all
720
00:42:06.420 --> 00:42:10.449
these different ways out there for people to find their
721
00:42:10.469 --> 00:42:13.570
way and find different pieces. And I tell people all
722
00:42:13.590 --> 00:42:16.630
the time, take something here from this person, take something
723
00:42:16.670 --> 00:42:19.050
here from this person, take something from me, you know,
724
00:42:19.150 --> 00:42:22.940
take what feels right and the rest, let it be.
725
00:42:23.239 --> 00:42:25.920
It's not yours and it's okay that it's not yours,
726
00:42:26.400 --> 00:42:29.239
but those pieces that are yours are they're going to
727
00:42:29.260 --> 00:42:32.039
be like the little keys that start to unlock your
728
00:42:32.239 --> 00:42:36.340
unique way forward. And that is the beautiful part of
729
00:42:37.130 --> 00:42:39.309
all the different people that are out there, you know,
730
00:42:39.570 --> 00:42:43.429
trying to share different ways to do things. I say,
731
00:42:43.469 --> 00:42:46.510
the only thing is use your discernment. If it feels right,
732
00:42:47.329 --> 00:42:50.630
follow it. If it doesn't, then find something that does
733
00:42:50.710 --> 00:42:54.739
because there is so much wonderful information out there that, um,
734
00:42:56.380 --> 00:42:58.469
we can all find our way to exactly where we
735
00:42:58.489 --> 00:42:59.010
need to be.
736
00:43:00.710 --> 00:43:03.389
You just summed up beautifully exactly why Janice and I
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do this show.
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Yeah.
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We provide a platform for amazing people like you to
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come out and share your offerings. And we say the
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same thing, take what aligns with you, throw the rest away.
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There's a million different ways to get to it. We're
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here to try to provide you with as many opportunities
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as we can for you to find what aligns with you.
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Yeah.
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When you do it any other way, you just find
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yourself trying to fit like a round peg into or
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a square peg into a round hole. You try to
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be somebody else. And that's what we're trying so hard
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to step away from. We have been conditioned to try
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and emulate and be and do and please and all
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these things through our whole entire life.
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It's the time to just learn to.
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Love being you. Love being you. And that's that if
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you do nothing else in this lifetime, loving being you
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is just beautiful.
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Absolutely. Absolutely.
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Okay.
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Angela, if people wanted to get in contact with you,
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we have a beautiful slide with all your contacts, but
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what is the best way to contact you? So very,
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if you could go to that next slide, that'd be great.
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Um, I like to tell people to just go to
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my website. There's a link on there right to my collective.
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But if somebody wanted to contact me directly, they could
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just email me.
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Okay.
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And your email is angelicmedium333 at gmail.com. Your website is www.yourauthenticselfcollective.com.
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And you are on all the socials.
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Yes, I try to be, I usually focus a little
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more on Facebook and Instagram, but I'm trying to, um,
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trying to start figuring out.
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Yes. Sometimes I have longer content.
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So I put it on YouTube because long form content
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doesn't work as well on Facebook and Instagram. Um, so
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you'll find a little stuff on all of them, but
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I try to, um, I'm trying to expand my ability
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with social media.
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Not that's not my forte yet.
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Um, Okay. Um, but I, I am working on, um, um,
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using those, um, platforms to share.
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Um, so people get to know me a little bit better.
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All right.
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Perfect. Facebook, Instagram, Tik TOK, and YouTube. It's all at
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angelic medium three, three, three. So Angela, we want to
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thank you so much for coming back on the show
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and sharing what beautiful school and community you are creating
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for people.
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Awesome.
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Yeah. Fantastic. Timing is divine.
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It's been a pleasure. I always love talking to you guys.
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It's just been such a great morning.
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We look forward to having you back again to tell
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us how things are rolling.
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I will totally be in touch. All right.
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We want to thank Silverio and Janice. Thank you. And
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thank all our viewers for choosing to be here now
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with us. Please always remember.
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You are not alone.
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And don't ever forget.
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You are awesome.
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We'll see you next time.
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Bye, everybody. Thanks so much, Angela. Thanks for being here.
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You're listening to WGSN-DB, Going Solo Network, singles talk radio channel,
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