Stop Looking Back & Start Designing Your Future -Haim Ohayon, H.A.Ps.M

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is a new show. It's called Own the Mic, and
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I'm your host, Cece Schatz. And I am delighted to
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be here with you today. I've been fondly called the
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Doyenne of relationship building. And that I feel like is
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such an honor to be able to build relationships with
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people each and every day. I am also a media coach.
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Really.
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Strategy, production, and exposure, and really start your media journey.
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I want to help you with it. And so that's
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what our show's about today. We're really talking to experts
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in their field, and we want to bring them forward
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so that you can also understand that you do have
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a helping hand in your business. So that's what it's
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all about. So let's get on with our show today
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because we've really got a lot going on. We have
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our wonderful guest, Haim, here. And we're going to talk
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about stop looking back and start designing your future. Haim
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is a life business coach, a speaker. He's the founder
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of InMotionCoach.com. He actually helps attorneys, business owners, real estate brokers,
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mortgage professionals, and startups, really anyone that needs a helping hand.
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So you definitely want to reach out to him. If
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you're looking to really move forward in your career, You know, again, InMotionCoach.com.
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That's what it's all about. So, Haim, welcome to the show.
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Good morning, Cece, and thank you for having me on
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your show.
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Wow, it is great having you.
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It's an honor.
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You are a delight. You are an absolute delight. And
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we've met a little while ago through a networking meeting,
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and you're always so helpful with people. You're so kind,
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and you really try to, you know, really push them forward,
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help them with whatever situation they have. So I thought
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you would be awesome to be on the mic. So
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tell us a little bit about your journey, because I
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believe it's quite interesting.
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I came to New York. In 1996. When I came here,
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I was over 40. I was homeless and I didn't
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speak English. So now I need to start my life
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when I'm in the middle of my life and I
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need to start all over again. But I realized in
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the English alphabet, we have the letter F. How we
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use it? Do you live in fear or you have
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a fate? I have a fate. So I was able
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to turn everything around. And it's a kind of side
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story to that, but it's very interesting about our capability
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as a human being. When I came, because I didn't
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speak the language, I was looking for a bilingual guy
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that can support me and show me around and correct
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me when I speak the language. Because what I knew,
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it was funny. If I want you to come here,
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I know how to say it. I say, come here.
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If I want you to go over there, I'm stuck.
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I don't know how to say it. So I used
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to go over there and tell you, come here. That's
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the English I know. But this guy that kind of
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helped me in the beginning, he would like to go dancing.
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So I say, whatever, you go take me with you
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because I don't know anything. So I would go dancing
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with him. I don't know how to dance. I never
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danced in my life. And I was embarrassed to go
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to the dance floor because I don't know what I'm doing.
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And I don't want to be the joker there. But
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I said, well, if that's the destination, I will try
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to do something. See, today, I'm after 25 years ballroom dancing,
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which means if you want to learn something, there is
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no power in the world that can stop you. Hmm.
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You just put your head down and go to learn.
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And that's what happened. So I realized I can learn
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anything I want. I just need to want it. That's
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the key. You need to want it and go for it.
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Right. Oh, I think that's so true. That's so true. Well,
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you know, I started my business when I was 50
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and I was broke. I mean, I had nothing. Coming
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out of a really bad divorce and didn't know what
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I was going to do. So I can totally relate
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to you. And I think there's many, many people out
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there that can also relate to the same things, trying
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to figure out. Where are they now? How are they
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going to get going forward? And sometimes we have to,
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and that's what our, our show is about today is
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sometimes we have to stop looking back and we have
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to really start designing our future. Like you did, you decide,
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you decided I'm going to learn how to dance, right?
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I'm going to learn how to do this ballroom dancing.
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I look at you now, you can do ballroom dancing.
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That's pretty awesome. Pretty awesome. Yeah.
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And what, what holds people hostage? It's, Many people will
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say money. It's not money. It's the first thing, the
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willing to learn. Because everything is learnable. We born in
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the same way, all of us. Some people go further
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in life, some people not. So what's stopping you to
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go further in life? I figured out there is three
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way that if you play with that or look at
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that in a different way, you will be very successful. Yeah.
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And that's, it's imagination, belief, and habit. And let me
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break it down. We think in picture. We have image
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in our head. When we talk to ourselves, or we
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talk to other people, or other people talking to us,
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we think in picture. We see picture in our mind
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all the time. So, when you with yourself, We have
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image about what we want to have, be, or do
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in our life. What we do to make that happen,
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that's a different story, but we have that image. So
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we play with that a little bit. That's the person
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I want to be. And then we look for reference
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in the past, how we try to do things that
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didn't work for us. And that's what the past is.
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It's a record of the history of Europe. So we
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go back, we start to think about things that we
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did that didn't work for us for some reason, and
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we're stuck there. We're not coming back to the future
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or the present. So now here is the first rule
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in the universe. It said, everything in the universe created twice.
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The first time in a person's mind, the second time
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in a physical reality. Take the chair that you're sitting
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now on. If we go back in time, it was
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a chair. Someone has to think about that and build it.
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So that's the way the universe is work. It starts
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with the image that you have in your head and
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how you take it further. That's the first rule that's
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available to every person. Doesn't matter who you are. Now
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let's go to the belief. The second part, your belief
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system is not your from the get go. It's your
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parent belief. Until the age of five, six and seven,
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We copy and imitate what our parents say, think, and do.
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Because we don't know anything different. We are at home,
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we are with them 24-7. Now they ignore us. They say,
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what do you know? You're five years old, you're six
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years old, you don't know anything in your life. So
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they talk among themselves what's going on in their life.
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We don't know anything, that's what we see, that's what
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we copy and imitate. I see the funny part. If
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your parents came from corporate, All what you know, what
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you learn is corporate. If your parent was a business owner,
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all what you hear in house is about business. So
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you see how people step out in the direction that
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they go in life. Later on, when we start to
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go to school and interact with other people outside of
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our house, we adapt all kind of false belief and superstitious.
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That shapes all your belief system. Now, your job in
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life is to challenge every belief that you have because
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it's not yours from the get-go. How to challenge your belief?
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You need to look at your habit. What is habit?
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It's two things. It's time and activity. So now we
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need to learn about time. We need to learn how
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to use time. We need to learn how to work
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with time. What we need to control is activity. Now,
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when you decide on new activity into your life, the
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first thing that you're searching for is time. When I'm
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going to do this activity, morning or evening? Now you
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take the time from activity that no longer serving you.
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You replace the activity. You start to do the activity
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for three, four, five, five times. Now you're searching for
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belief to support that. If you don't believe in what
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you do, you're not going to do it. Now you see,
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you start to challenge your belief. When you add a
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few more new activity into your life, you replace activity
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that no longer serving you. Now you search for belief
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to support all those activity. So what you do, you
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press down all the new belief that you have, because
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now you have no one in the top. You have
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no activity. And here is the kicker. There is other
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principle in the world that said, if you want to
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have something that you never had before, you need to
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do something that you never did before. And here is
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the magic. You will never fail. It's impossible to make
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mistake and nothing will go wrong. Let me explain. You
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do something for the first time in your life. You
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have no clue. You have no idea. You don't know
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what you're doing, how you can fail. You have no experience,
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how you can do it wrong.
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That's true.
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You do it for the first time in your life.
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how you can make mistake. What will happen is three
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different thing. No matter what you do, for example, you
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do scrambled egg. The first thing that it's result. You
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get result, scrambled egg. Yeah. Now, let's give you experience.
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If you want to do it better, now you know
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you can add all kind of stuff to make it better.
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But that's experience. The question is different. How does that
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make you feel? If it makes you feel good, great.
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You're going to put more time on this activity. You
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develop that. If it does not make you feel good,
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it's even better. Because now you have something to learn.
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If you're not learning, you're like the other monkey in
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a marketplace that nobody knows, nobody sees. You never stick out.
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But when you learn something new, you innovate. You have
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no idea. You have ideas. no product, you have no concept,
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you have something that nobody saw before. Marketplace like that,
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appreciate that, and you will be compensated. Yeah.
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I love that. I love that. I know that like
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when I started, right, in doing the podcast, right, my
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very first podcast, I had not a clue, not a
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clue what I was going to, even being interviewed as
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a guest, I had not a clue what was going
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to happen. But one thing I remember them telling me
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is that when I was doing it, I was like,
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You know, I would do research and I had notes
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and I had all of this kind of stuff. And
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I remember the guy telling me, one of the owners,
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and he said to me, he said, Cece, the audience
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that's listening, they have no idea. what you're going to
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say or what you prepared or what you thought so
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they have no idea that if something went you know
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helter-skeltered and and it didn't you know the thought didn't
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get processed or whatever you didn't get out everything that
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you wanted to say or or you wanted to say
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it differently they don't know that all they know is
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the end result of what you do so just focus
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on doing what you do and and enjoying what you
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do and the rest will come later the rest will
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come And I thought that was really great advice. It's
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very similar to what you're saying. You've got to enjoy
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what you what you like doing and you have to
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keep learning. I mean, I learn every day with this job.
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I learn something new every single day. I thought, oh,
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I think I never heard about this or this technology
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or new person that I'm interviewing. I haven't heard about that.
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And it's a. You know, it really, truly is enlightening.
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So you are so right, Haim. You're so right.
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It's very simple. I mean, I didn't discover anything here.
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I just use it in a different way.
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Yeah.
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I mean, basically, people have fear in them to do
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something that they never did before. And they didn't calculate
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it right, which means people talk about fear of failure
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and fear of success. That does not exist. That's a
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talking point. What exists is different kind of fear, different
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way to handle that. Which is mean, nobody wanna be bullied,
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nobody wanna be embarrassed or shame or guilty. So how
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to get over that? You need to search, search for
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someone in your life that will assist and support you
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without judgment. When you have that, Nobody can bully you
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and you will never feel embarrassed. Think about it. That's
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come from your inner circle. When you talk to strangers,
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you have no problem to say whatever it is that
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you want because they don't know me. They can bully me.
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I can feel embarrassed. Where do we have that in
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our circle? Our friend and family. So we say that
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there is the phrase that said, behind every successful person,
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there is a significant other. The significant other can be
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your wife, can be your brother, can be your father.
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It can be close friend, can be good friend, can
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be colleague, can be coach, can be mentor, can be
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anybody that trusts in you. That's give you the power
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to do whatever it is that you want to do.
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True. That's very true. And sometimes even, you know, like
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with us, with the, it's the audience, right? So our
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audience is very supporting and very, you know, really want
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to hear and, They never, you know, they really like
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it when it's just off the cuff talking and not
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something that's so, you know, rigid in the planning. So, yeah,
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I totally get that. I think you have to have
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someone behind you pushing you forward, moving you, saying, yeah,
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you can do this. You can do this. And it's amazing,
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especially when you're stepping out of the box and you're
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doing something totally different you've never done before. And you're
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learning as you go, right? You're learning everything. I mean,
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I always think I learn by my mistakes. Like, oh,
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I'm not going to do that one again.
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about what is that you want to achieve. So that
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image first guide you. Say, let me try this. Let
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me see how does that work. And nobody have 100%
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from the get-go. Nobody. You have 10%, you have 20%,
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you have 5%, which means you get something. When you do,
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you never fail, you never make mistake, you didn't do
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anything wrong. You did something that didn't work 100%. That's
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what it is. But he worked for some percentage, you
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got some result. Like the example with the scrambled egg.
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That's not going to come like the way the diner
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is serving you. But you learn how to do it.
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When you learn how to do it, now you can
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do it better and better each time. Right, right. Everything
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in life is the same thing. It's no matter what
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you try to do, it starts. Take, for instance, baby.
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Baby have over 250 attempt just to stand. But we
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never disencourage the baby. Don't try because you're failing all
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the time. We're not going to say it. We're not
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going to do it. Yeah, go ahead. Go ahead, try again,
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try again. When we grow up, we forgot that. Now
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we criticize people.
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Why?
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And the people that criticize, those people that never achieve
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anything in their life, they know what not to do,
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but they don't go anywhere. Why we listen to them,
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I don't know. But that's the world that we live in.
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You know, often too, Haim, I think about it. I
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think about like things in my past, you know, what
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has happened to me that didn't work out, you know,
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and I think, oh gosh, this didn't work out. But
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what it's really done, it's directed me into a different path.
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don't quite work out so that we can be directed
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into the path that we're truly supposed to be on.
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So it's amazing when that happens.
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Yeah, that's the life that we live in. I didn't
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know how to dance. And today I'm 25 years after
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ballroom dancing. I mean, it was a lot of error
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when I started. I can tell you in the beginning,
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there was no female want to practice with me. I
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was practicing with men. Yeah, but I didn't stop that.
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I said, well, if I want to learn, I need
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to do whatever it takes to learn that. So later on,
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when I started to dance right, All of a sudden,
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all the females want to come to dance with me.
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And that's the way it works.
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That's very good. Very good. Well, we're going to have
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to take a break. Excuse me. I might lose my
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voice there. And so when we come back, we'll talk
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a little bit more about what you were mentioning. But
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before we do, let's make sure that we give all
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your contact information. So if you want to reach Haim,
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if you're looking to really excel yourself, you're a little
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bit stuck, you want to move forward, He's there for you.
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So you can just call him if you'd like at 516-424-6289.
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You can give him a call. Again, that's 516-424-6289. If
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you give him a call, leave a message if he
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doesn't answer. And I'm sure he'll give you a call back,
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tell him briefly what you're looking for. If you want
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to send him an email, it's Haim, H-A-I-M at InMotionCoach.com.
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And again, his name is H-A-I-M at InMotionCoach.com. And check
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out his website, InMotionCoach.com. And yeah, if you're looking to
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be able to move your business forward or move something
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forward in your life, I think Haim is there to
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be able to help you be able to do that.
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So make sure that you reach out to him. So
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much for listening to us on all the wonderful different
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a difference for us. So let's get on with our
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topic today because we've got a big topic. Stop looking
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back and start designing your future. Our wonderful guest here, Haim,
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he's a life of business coach. He's a speaker and
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he's the founder of InMotionCoach.com. And he truly helps like lawyers,
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business owners, real estate individuals, brokers, mortgage professionals, and really
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those that want to start up a business. So if
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you've thought about starting up a business and you're kind
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of trying to figure out how to go, how to
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go about doing it. Haim is the person for you.
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He'll be able to help direct you and move you
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forward into that. And so we've been talking about really
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our dreams, right? Start designing your future. And so, you know,
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beginning of the show, you were talking about really having
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like the desire to do something really, truly wanting that
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for ourselves. And then figuring out what do I need
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to do to be able to do it, you know,
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get our habits and in place to be able to
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do that. Is there something else? Is there another level
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to that that we need to think about?
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Well, it's all the time. We need to think in
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a different way than the average person thinks. I will
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tell you, before the pandemic, I used to have my
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own TV show, and I was the organizer of a
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meetup group. I had over 1,400 members that I used
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to speak to twice a month. It was about how
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to raise your confidence, how to build your self-esteem. And
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the corona came and shut it down, shut both of them.
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There is no social distance, so the TV closed the studio,
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and I couldn't get any place that I can make
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a meeting with people. So the meeting was about how
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to be a leader in your life. And I figured
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out there is four ways that we need to think
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in a different way. Which means the first step is
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to be uncomfortable. Which means when we're comfortable, we are passive.
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We're not active. Because we're sitting and we're observing what's
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going on. We're comfortable. Yeah. Now, you want to catch up.
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So you get up and start to run. You're all
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the time going to be in the back because someone
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else is in the front. Someone else has been there,
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take the place. So we can see it. We need
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to be running all the time. That's life. The second
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area is to be unsecure, which means when we secure,
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we take things for granted. It's good for the day.
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It's good for the week. But after that, the tendency
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is to be different. It's not the same. So we
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need to be on our toes all the time. Don't
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take anything for granted. because it's not going to be
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the same after a while. We don't know how long.
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It can be a day, a week. The third thing
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is to be selfish. We need to take care of
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ourselves first before anything else. And this is something I
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recently talk a lot about, which is when I say
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something like that. You're the most important person on the
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face of the earth. The world exists for you all
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the time that you're here. When you're not here, the
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world stops to exist. for you, but it exists for
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everybody else. So when you're here, you need to take
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care of yourself first before anything else. When you do that,
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now you have something to give, now you have something
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to share. That's the world that we're living in. Now,
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when you do that, you get out from survival mode
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and you go to awareness mode. I will explain later
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on about that. It's about the book that I wrote.
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And so that's the third place to be selfish. The
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Four place, I think is the most important one, is
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to be abnormal person.
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Abnormal. Okay.
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Abnormal. Yeah. Normal people develop pleasing personality. They go with
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the norm. They want to please anyone. When you abnormal,
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you just step out from the crowd and you want
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to live the life that you want to live for yourself.
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The life that you designed for yourself. Most of the people,
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like a hair, they follow you. That's the way I
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want to live. That's the way I want to do
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in my life. So you're not normal. You're abnormal. When
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you do that, people do that all the time.
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Let's go a little bit back about the book that
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I wrote. I wrote the book. I didn't publish that
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for different reasons. I will say later why. But it's
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a five chapter. When you follow, it's how to succeed
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in life when you have only yourself. You don't have
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anybody else. So the first chapter, I'm talking about awareness,
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which means we live in two places. We live inside
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and we live outside. Right. Now, what's the ratio of
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time that we spend in each place? Most of our
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time go outside of us. We react and respond what's
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going on, something that we have no control, and we
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can't do enough. I mean, we can't change anything. Yeah,
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we just follow what's going on. We follow the news,
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we follow the media, social media, we follow friends, we
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follow neighbors. We have something to say about everything else,
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but it's just, it's a talking point. It's your opinion.
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When you change the ratio, when you start to invest
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more in yourself, you educate yourself. What is life? What
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is it about? What is your purpose in life? What
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is it that you love to do in your life?
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Now you get out. You get out from that. You
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get out from that. I don't know how to start.
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No one wants you until you're busy.
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That's how I look at it. No one wants me
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until I'm busy.
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I'm going to put it on the side.
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No worries. So....
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Now they cut my thought. Mm-hmm. So when you spend
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more time on yourself.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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Now you know how life works. Mm-hmm. So you start
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to react to respond what you love to do.
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Mm-hmm.
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What make you happy, what make you feel your life
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in many different way. Now you go to awareness. When
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you aware what's going on and where is your place
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in that, your life look totally different.
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Mm-hmm.
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Now you start to pay attention how you feel and
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how you behave and how you run your life day
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by day. Yeah? The second thing that I'm, it's your belief.
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What your belief said. Belief said you have no limitation.
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You can do whatever it is that you want. Yeah,
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there is no stop sign. Nobody can tell you what
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to do or how to do it. That's your decision. Yeah?
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And I improved. I mean, I came here. I didn't
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speak the language. And I achieved all those things because
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I believe that I can do it. I didn't wait
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for approval from anybody else in this world. I just
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go ahead and did.
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It.
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People can talk all the time. They won't stop talking.
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But I'm doing it. I'm doing for myself. The third chapter,
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I'm talking about.
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Health.
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We need to be healthy. And when you're healthy, it's time.
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Because when you're not feeling well, how long it take
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you to be well? That's the time that go, we
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wasting on something that we have no power over. So
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we need to learn how to take care of ourself
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And basically stay away from pharmaceutical product. Pharmaceutical product, I mean,
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it's like balloon. You press from one side, the air
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go to the other side. That's what all side effect.
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And think about that. When you have an appointment with
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your doctor, at least half of the day gone. And
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sometimes the whole day is gone. If you have the
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meeting in the middle of the day, yeah? So you
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prepare in the morning to go to the doctor. By
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the time you get there and you're in a waiting
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room until it takes you and do whatever you do.
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And now is the time to go home. The day
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is already gone. And if you have some treatment that
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you have to do, seven days, seven. So the week
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is gone.
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I know. Yeah, it's true. Very, very true.
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Yeah, that's it.
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Because I've often said, I'm not retired. I need to
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get going.
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So when you learn what the nature gives you that
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can solve a lot of problems that pharmaceuticals don't, your
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life looks different. Now you have more time in your life. Yeah, yeah.
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Now see the result. You're aware. Your belief is in place.
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You're a healthy person. Basically, you're a happy person. Now,
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to be happy, it's at least two things that you
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need to treat differently in your life, which means the
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word if, eliminate it from your life. The word if
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is condition. Every time you say if, you make condition.
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If that's going to happen, if that's going to, eliminate that.
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Right.
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The second thing, lower to maximum. lower as well as
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you can the expectation. Try to stay away from any
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expectation because when you have expectation, see what happens. In
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our mind, we have an image about what we expect
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to get. Now you ask for someone else to deliver,
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he has his own picture in his mind. It's not yours.
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It's his.
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That's true.
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He brings it the way he knows the best. For you,
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it's not what you're looking for. I didn't expect that.
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I expect something different because the picture is not the
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same in our head. So when you lower your expectation
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to the maximum that you can, your intention go high.
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When your intention go high, this is something that you do.
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You're not depend on anybody else. Now, when you do,
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you get results. When you do, your life look different.
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That's something that you do. That's make you feel good
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about it. I did it. You can say to yourself,
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you have your show. I did it. I have support
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in the beginning, but I did it. I took it
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over to the stage that is this now. Yeah. As
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a result of all that, you're going to be wealthy. Now, wealth,
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it's two things. It's the first thing is people. How
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many people you interact with? And the second thing is
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the income that's come from those people. Let me explain.
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We belong to the marketplace. Marketplace is like a huge,
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huge tree. All the people in the world inside this tree.
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These three have three branches. Ideal, service, and product. People
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will join your ideal. People are going to use your service.
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People are going to buy your product.
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Right.
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Now you either sit on a branch or the branch
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using you. You're using the branches. That's the marketplace data.
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So you have the option to sit on all three branches. Yeah?
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And that's what I call multiple sources of income. Take
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all the big guys. Take Bill Gates. Take Elon Musk.
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They have a million different businesses. And people have one,
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and they say, well, there's too much. I need to
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be focused to master that before I move to the
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second thing. No, you don't have to master that. You
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just need to open another channel in your life. Now,
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for each branch to be prosper in the life, we
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need to communicate first, build relationship, now present the branch
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that we're sitting on. Because the only product that we
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have is people. Without people, nothing happen in your life.
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You're not gonna create wealth. So that's what we need
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to learn. We learn how to communicate with people, how
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to build relationship, and now present. That's the book that
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I wrote, which is when you learn those principles, here
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you go. You have the blueprint. Just go ahead and
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do it. There's no secret here.
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Well, thank you so much. I mean, that is so
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much information. that we've got today. You're just wonderful. It's
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absolutely wonderful. We're going to have to probably close out
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the show here in a few minutes. But before we do,
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I want to make sure that we give everyone all
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the information that they can contact you, Haim. Because, I mean,
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if those out there are looking to really excel in
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their business or trying to move forward, maybe thinking about
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a business and trying to move forward, you certainly can
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help them with that. So you can give Haim a
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call at 516-424-6289. That's 516-424-6289. Just leave a message if
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he doesn't answer. And then again, because he could be
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busy with another interview, right? So Haim, you can reach
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him at an email and it's Haim, H-A-I-M at InMotionCoach.com.
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That's InMotionCoach.com. That's his website. So again, it's H-A-I-M at InMotionCoach.com.
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So check out his website, give him a call, you know,
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really connect with him if you're looking to be able
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to move forward. Because I think that so often, you know,
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we just need some help along the way, you know,
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and we sometimes we just can't do it all by ourselves.
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And so we just need that little push. We need
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that help along the way. So our subject today was
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stop looking back and start designing your future. You most
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certainly can do that with Haim. He is a life
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business coach, a speaker, and he's the founder of InMotionCoach.com.
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So are there any last words you'd like to leave
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us today, Haim?
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I would say start to search for people that believe
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in you and willing to support you with no judgment.
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That's what you want in your life. That's the beginning
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for everything.
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Yeah, you're so right. You are so right with that.
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So again, everyone, just reach out to Haim. His phone
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number is 516-424-6289. His email is haim.com. at inmotion.com, and
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his website is inmotion.com. If you guys like to reach me,
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I would love to hear from you. We do have
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a new email. Of course, you can reach me at
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the old one, goingsolonetwork at gmail.com, but check out our
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new one, which is newstreamingnetwork at gmail.com. And then check
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out all that we have to offer right here on
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the newstreamingnetwork.com. We have a bunch of hosts that really
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share a lot of wonderful content that can help you
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each and every day of your life. So we hope
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that you will continue to listen to us and all
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the other shows that are out there. This show is
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called Own the Mic. I am your host, Cece Schatz,
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and it is a delight to be here with you today.
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So we want you to really step out, step into
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the spotlight, and really be yourself and move forward in
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your life as you choose. So thank you so much
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for being with us here today. And I want to
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thank Haim again for being with us. We truly appreciate
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your time and all of your knowledge. And thank you
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so much for joining us.
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Thank you for having me.
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All right. Goodbye, everyone. Have a wonderful day.
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