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Do you watch some brand new faces.
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I'm your host, Matt, and I'm joined tonight by a
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very special guest, a girl I kept on hold for
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an hour, and we'll get into that bullshit later because
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it is never happened before, and I am shocked to death.
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She's still here. You find her on Twitter and only fans.
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I love when the name's magic gets me excited at
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tempting Tina with two a's on the end. So it's
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t I N A A. Ladies and gentlemen, My guests
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for the evening, the very lovely Tempting Tina. Do you
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go by Tina or tempting Tina.
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Tim or Tina's fine, Sorry.
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Tina's fine, Tina Tina. I have to start with the
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third RUTEUS question you can ask a woman. I apologize
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for it. The first RUDEUS question you can ask a woman.
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Don't answer the first. I had pitched it to a
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woman one time and she starts to answer, and I go, no, no, no,
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I don't want you to ask to answer all the
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rude questions. First route this is are you pregnant? Second
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one is how much do you weigh? Third question is
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and I hope this is not rough for you. Can
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I ask you how old you are?
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Thirty two?
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You look phenomenal for thirty two, Not that thirty two
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is anywhere near old, but I was gonna I was
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thinking twenty four to twenty five personally.
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Oh my gosh, we can't get married now if you want,
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that's fine, trust me. I thought I was like dying
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when I hit my thirties. I was like petrified. And
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I'm having more fun in my thirties than I did
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my twenties.
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So that's what I want to talk about, definitely, for sure.
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Let me ask you when did you make the crossover
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from vanilla world into whatever form of the adult entered
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aertainment industry you went into. Was it dancing? Was it camming?
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Was it what?
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Was it?
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Swinger parties?
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Like? When did you crossover? Not at all in a
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negative way. It almost sounds bad, like I'm going when
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did you lose your soul? But more more or less,
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when did you cross over into this world out of
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the vanilla world? And how did you decide to do it?
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And I want to delve deeper into that, but I
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don't want to cut you off on your story here.
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How did you decide to jump in.
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I don't know if I was ever vanilla in my life,
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but I definitely like started only fans, probably like the
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ending of the pandemic, so probably like twenty one ish. God,
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I can't believe it's been that long, but I I
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don't know. I was. I was not working because it
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was a shit time in the world, and I was like,
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you know what, I have a nice ass, let's post
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pictures on the internet. And it went well. And then
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I met my husband in twenty two and he was like,
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I love that you do this, like how I'm powering.
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I was sexy and like his ex wife kind of
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dabbled it in a little bit, but not to the
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not to the realm that we're in currently. And he
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had always like the hot wife scene and he's like, well, hey,
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you can go sleep with other people, and I'm like,
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sounds great to me. And then he's like, well, if
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you're doing it, you might as well record it. And
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then it kind of just stemmed from there. And then
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we found a group in Saint Louis that is called
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Life and Style and they're a swingers group. It's a
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huge community here. I was really surprised and like, we
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just it kind of just progressed from then. So we
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started out as kind of like a hot wife dynamic,
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and then we went into swingers probably like last year
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or the year before, and now I feel like we're
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like twenty one Olliver again, like discovering the world this season.
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All the interviews I've been doing this season have a
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really great theme where I've spoken to a lot of
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hot wive swingers, like the full gamut of that spectrum,
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and I have really learned so much about it from
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that now, not enough to convince my wife to ever
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do any of that, but I will say I have
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learned a lot of stuff about it that I had
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no idea about before work. Can we ask if you're
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comfortable with it? Can I ask what the dynamic of
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your relationship was when you first got into this. So
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it sounded like it was pitched like, hey, if you
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want to go do this, you're more than welcome to
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and you went say no more, boss, I'll go take
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care of it. But like were there were there were
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there boundaries set up in the beginning? Was it was
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there anything you guys maybe had to not push back on,
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But did either of you ever push back on anything?
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If you're comfortable talking about.
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Yeah.
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Absolutely. So my husband is like cool as a cucumber.
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That man is, like so he's so confident in our
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marriage and like who he is as a person. And
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you know, I've I've met a lot of people that
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are like monogamous. I mean, we're not polyamorous, but like
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we like I've met people that are like, how could
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you ever do that? Like how are you sure she's
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coming back? And he's like, we're best friends, Like I'm
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not concerned about that, and he's like, she just you know,
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likes to do certain things sexually that I might like
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or I might like something that she's not, you know,
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the biggest fan of and so and I was really
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surprised at that because you know, he was married before
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and I'm just like, how do you trust me so much?
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But it put a lot of trust to myself, like
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knowing that like he knows that I'm coming back. I
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know that I'm coming back, like I'm not doing anything wrong.
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And I mean we met on set life, so I
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mean we kind of knew that we were both freaks
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in the beginning, so we just kind of went with that.
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And now, like I said, he's kind of filmed with
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other people too, so he he definitely has his page,
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and like, if somebody needs a guy that you know
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they can trust, Like, I love that that's my husband,
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you know it, Like it turns me on even more
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and looks at him in such a different light, knowing that,
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like we are doing something that's harder for couples, and
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like you add content creation and swinging and all of
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this on top of it, and like we're we were
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both damaged when we came into the marriage, like we've
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been burned before, and we're just so comfortable with each other,
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and I I think it just makes us that much stronger.
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It really does.
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Funny, the outside stigma would look at this again, the
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same outside sigma that goes.
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Oh, these girls are so lazy. They just get up
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and fuck and go home and collect all their millions
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and millions of dollars. They're such a dumbess.
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Fuck yeah, do you understand what I would allow to
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happen to my ass if fucking it was as easy
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as that. Okay, my wife comes home, I'm limping. I
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just got to look a look, we can get the
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new patio. Okay, just let me sleep a little while.
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But what I am gathering information wise from this season
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is I am in the same boat, not negatively on
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the stigma side, but the thoughts would come into my mind,
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like if I let my wife go do something, she'll
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find something better.
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She'll leave me, she'll do this.
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What real love is and what I'm hearing from this
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community is there is such an immense trust there. Yeah,
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and that isn't that what love really is based on
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to begin with?
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Like if you hard though, how are you going to
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marry someone and do this and that?
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But in your head you go, well, I don't trust
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her to go talk to those guys over there, just
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in case it's like, well, I don't know that you
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fully one hundred percent love. Then now if you say
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I don't want my wife getting gang banged over there
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or dpe'ed, I go, you know what, I understand that.
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I'm not saying every man that doesn't want their wife
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in this lifestyle is a bad person. I just I
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don't like when dispersions are cast that, oh, this must
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mean these people feel this way, think this way, do this.
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No, No, it's a very you know.
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It's it's for the ones that are positive that I've
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seen and I've experienced and interviewed and talked to. It
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is kind of one of the most beautiful things in
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the world. It is an absolute trust where, yes, physically
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you might enjoy this person.
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Physically you might have one of the best nights of
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your life.
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Right I'm in the top three and the next who
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are you know the times you had over here? But
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I know at the end of the day you can
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come home, you can give me a kiss. We're gonna
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watch the same show as we always watch. We're gonna
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fucking rip on the people on TV. We're gonna talk
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about how dumb everyone is and how bad this writing is,
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and then we're gonna go to bed. And there is
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something that needs to be admired, at least for the
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level of love it seems like people in this community
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have for each.
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Other and for other people.
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Like I'm sure there's negatives and nasty stuff that goes
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on in this and behind the scenes and this and that,
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because there isn't anything but with this it almost sounds like, Hey,
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we're all just being open and honest and we're just
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telling you exactly what we want and how we feel.
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I think it's beautiful personally.
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Yeah, I mean, I was not a big communicator before. Before,
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like I was in a really abusive relationship, and like
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it was just like kind of the total opposite, Like
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how dare you wear leggings? You have a nice ass.
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I'm like that doesn't make any sense to me, but
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you know, and now, like we didn't talk, so now
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it's like I went through trauma. I mean, I went
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through trauma obviously for my last relationship, but I went
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through therapy. And like I realize now how much swinging
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and like the lifestyle and just content creation and stuff
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in general is so much communication. Like you have to
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be so honest with like yourself and others. Like conversations
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might be awkward, conversations might be like tense, but you
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have to have things you know, and it's it's like
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to the point that you know, going to parties, I'm like,
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when were you last tested? Like that's always my first question,
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and people are like, are you saying that I'm dirty?
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I'm like, no, this is my life, Like, this is
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my job, this is kind of like my livelihood, and
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you have to be safe and like you have to
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feel you have to know that everybody's comfortable in the
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same room or else, like it's going to be a
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bad experience and like that got that took me a
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long time to get there. Like I was just like, Okay,
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this is how I feel. I don't know how to
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say it correctly, but you know.
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I interviewed Jade Green, who is an author, which, by
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the way, folks, that was why I was late, not
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Jade's fault at all. I don't know time zones whatsoever.
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So tempting Tina. Hear two a's at the end, and
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that's where you can find her across all social media
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linked everything in the episode of description, but she was
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willing to stick it out and deal with my dumb
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face for a little bit. But the term I love
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that she used was cordially firm. Okay, I'm gonna be
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kind to you. I'm going to sweep, but I don't
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do this. It's just that I don't.
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I'm not gonna scream it. Yeah, I don't. Why would
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you even ask me that?
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It is all about communication, it feels like, and I
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find it so interesting. So the first time you decide,
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you both decide, hey, you're going to go do this?
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How is that set up? Do you are you.
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On fat life at that point, are you on another site?
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Are you looking for work? Are you looking for a
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guide that you can hook up with? Like what is
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the problem that?
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So I feel like obviously, you know, when I met
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my husband, I was on OnlyFans. It wasn't like a
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bunch of platforms. I think it was just only Fans
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at that point. And like I thought at first, you know,
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I was like, oh, I'm just gonna post pictures of
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my butts and nudes and stuff. And I never knew
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it was going to be like this full, you know,
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porn scene. But how things transform as well. But he
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was just like, you know, I had a really good
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guy friend, and like we had been hooking up while
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we were both single, and like I we you know,
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when you get in a relationship you kind of talk
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about like flings and things. And he's like, well, if
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you want to go film with him? Like he's he's
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a black guy. You guys get a lot of like
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you get a lot of requests for black men, Like,
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no matter how hard I try, I'm not going to
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be black. So I might as well go find him,
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you know. And so we filmed and they're actually pretty
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good friends now, and like I just I I love
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you know how I came from a relationship that was
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like so much jealous, like I would spiral for days.
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If he's like, Wow, that girl's sexy as hell, I'd
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fuck the shit out of her. And I'm like, cool,
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I'm right here. But you know, with my husband, he
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very much is like he's just kind to everybody, Like
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it almost drives me crazy how like kind he is.
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I'm like, can't you just be like screwed?
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No?
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But he he really like he's like we have something
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in common. You think my wife's sexy as shit and
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want to sleep with her, and so do I Like
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there's a basis for a friendship, you know, Like it's
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it's just crazy. So I mean, I don't think that
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we ever had any like blips or anything, like we
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just kind of I was a hot wife for a
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long time. He loves to see, you know, the content.
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He loves to see me live in my best life.
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And then when we got into invited to the Life
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and Style party, he was like, so do you want
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am I allowed to? I'm like, yeah, you know whatever, like,
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and we've never had an issue, like We've been very
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fortunate to never have like a I can't believe you
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did that kind of situation.
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Can I ask, are there any hard boundaries set up?
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Or is everything in discussion, like as long as you're
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have you ever brought anything to him or has he
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ever brought anything to you where one or the other
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goes kind of like, I mean, let me think on that.
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I mean, I I think that I trust him so
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much because he's really transparent with things. You know, like
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my ex had a fet life, but like I didn't
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know about it, like it was so secret. And then
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you know, like my husband, he's he's like, if you
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need to see any conversation, like he always provides me
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that information up front. He's like, hey, I sent this
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other creator their stuff because he knows that I've been
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burned really bad and that I was, you know, that
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person that was like constantly checking phones and things because
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like I was put into that situation. So he's like,
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I never want you to feel inferior to another like
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woman or creator or whatever when it comes to me,
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like he's my biggest fan, and I think that's just incredible.
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Honestly, that's awesome. All Right, let's talk about some of
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the content.
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So, like you said earlier, you you know, people you
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get requests, Oh, we want to see you with black guys,
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or this and that. What are some of the other
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kinds of requests you've gotten that you know, I'm sure
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you could accomplish anything, but is there anything that you're
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looking to do where maybe you're thinking, oh, we have
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to just upgrade a little bit, either in terms of
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equipment or scheduling or this and that. Is there anything
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you're like, there's a plateau I want to hit. I
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want to hit this type of thing.
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Or are you good? Are you solid?
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Do you do everything within your means or do you
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guys learn things when you need to learn them. If
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you're like I really want to do this interesting camera shot,
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and husband's like, let me go watch some cinematography videos
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real quick and figure this shit out.
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Like I just where I think you live with us,
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I'm like, you know everything already. I'm like, you're spot
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on with the shows and spot on with this.
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I'm like, no, no, I think him and I are
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the same probably type of guy where I don't know
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for sure, but I know mine comes from being so
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exhausted with the world that you just start.
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Going, you know what, let it roll off my back, I'm.
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Gonna be cool about it. We'll jump into it whatever.
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And then privately with my wife it's a lot of
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fuck this. I hate this shit. This guy over here,
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fuck him, fuck her, blah blah blah.
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So uh yeah, yeah, yeah, all right.
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Is there is there anything like, are you guys moving
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towards something first? Something asks this, Let me let me
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recenter myself here. Is this currently your main career?
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It is? Yeah, I went full time last year last June. Okay,
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and it's been Oh my gosh, it's literally lit a here, gummy,
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that's exciting. But uh yeah, so it is, like you said,
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I think that I do try to, you know, if
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people have customs, I try to always like incorporate them
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because I'm like, it's something different, Like clearly somebody's telling
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me that they like, so, you know, it's something that
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I didn't think of. My husband is very People are
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probably gonna be so sick of hearing that at the
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end step as well. But he's very He's very excited
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when he like he's always looking for like new equipment.
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He just bought like a professional camera a couple months ago,
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and he's just he's so excited to learn about things
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like lighting and you know this, that and the other.
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Like he very much is the reason for like as
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good of content as I have, because I can't understand
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that side of things. I'm like, you just buy a
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trip on, throw your phone up, and you take pictures.
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But like he's he's so excited. He's also an engineer,
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so like that that explains a lot of it. But
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he's just always trying to learn new things. He's like,
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you know, writing this app for me about like how
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to how to manage my content on like my devices,
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and I'm just like I would have zero clue, like
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probably negative ideas on how to do something like that.
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So I mean, I really do feel like it's a
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joint effort for sure.
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You know, it's funny. It'd be funny.
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It'd be funny if he just always wished he went
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to film school. And he's like, I just gotta find
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one hot girl that'll fuck other guys block her in
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and then I can buy all the equipment I need
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to live through my dream.
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It's kind of crazy because he was married for sixteen
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years and I was his first aid after he got divorced,
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and like here we are, and I'm just like, I
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am very surprised that you were ready to have this
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much of a hot mess in your life.
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Not let me run through some of the likes and
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dislikes so we can give the people a little idea
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of maybe things they'll see they won't see. Can I ask,
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are you into girls? And have you always been into girls?
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If you are?
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Yeah, I think I was. I would think I was
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more into girls when I was younger than I than
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boys were. I was like, they're disgusting, they stink and
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they barely like I. I don't want them. I want
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this girl that has the beaded bracelets and all these
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colors on. Like it was just so there was so
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much more intriguing. Still love females, and like, I think
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that was another thing for my husband. He's like, I'm
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not a woman, Go sleep with all the women you want.
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I'm like, that is how I've always described it with
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a wife. Look with my wife.
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Look, I'm an apple. If you want a red apple,
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that's great, I'm a red apple. If you want to
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go fuck a green apple, I don't love that. You
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want to fuck an orange, I don't give a shit.
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I'm not an orange. By this term, women are oranges
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and men or apples.
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Here I go.
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I can't fulfill your citric needs in that sense, so
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please don't have your orange. Has there been any scenes
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or anything that you've walked in have they been pretty tame?
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And by that I mean you knew what you were
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coming into as you were doing it. My real question
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is has there been anything that when you've gotten to set,
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or you've been in the act or anything where it's
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like a little overwhelming You're where you maybe question yourself like,
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oh shit, was this a mistake?
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Oh no, Oh my gosh.
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It's really crazy that you ask me that, because I literally,
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at the end of May, I just had my first
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pro porn chewed and I'm really excited for it to
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come out. It was in Vegas, but like I kind
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of walked in and I, like you said, I had
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the oh shit, what is happening moment because like I
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don't know if I was, you know, that ready for
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like all the cameras and the lights and like you know,
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they're like I walk in and they're like, this is
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the scene, this is this is how you act. Like
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I don't know how to act at all. Like this
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is terrifying. I mean I know that porn is super cheesy,
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so when it comes out, I'm really cheesy in it.
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But yeah, it was just it was a lot, and
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you know, after after being on set for six and
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a half hours to get over a little over forty
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minutes of content is exhausting. I thought I was going
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to die the next day, Like I was like my
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thighs her jinas sore. I'm like, I am exhausted, and
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I'm like, you know, that's why it made me mad
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when all these people are like, oh, they don't do much,
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and it's like you have no idea, Like I'm ready
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to hire employees. I wish that I could do, Like
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it is a lot of work, like have four hundred
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people all need you at one time, and you're just like.
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Ah, going back to that outside stigma thing. It's always
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so funny they look, you know, and we're talking about
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the angry people, not all men. We're talking about the
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guys who will see a porn starn't immediately think local
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fook her da da da. But the idea is they're like, oh,
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she just doesn't feel like working. Now you quit an
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eight hour job most likely so you can start a
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sixteen hour job like where it's all about your personal
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brand and how much of yourself you're gonna put out
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there and how open and willing you'll be. Yeah, sure,
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lazy you go do it? Then, Okay, you go do
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it as you sit under your fluorescent lights in an office.
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If if that's what, Yeah, I just I wish I
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could have somebody to tell me what to do all
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the time, because I'm like with doing this, it's like, well,
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what do you think is best? And like we've had
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a couple of those scenarios where we're like, oh gosh,
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we don't know, and I'm like, let me pull out
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the Only Fans Handbook, Like no, you have to figure
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it out. And it's just like I'm very much like
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I am a people pleaser, so it is hard for
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me sometimes to be like no, I can't do that
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right now, or like I need to step away or
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you know whatever, and it's just it's extremely difficult.
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It's it's it's funny, that's the job.
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The job isn't fucking and having fun and you know
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gang the job, Yeah, the job. What you get paid
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for is the structuring things, the branding, how often you
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post communicating with people. It's not even about sex. It's
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about you are running a brand that is not Coca Cola.
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It is tempting Tina. You know, adi, you are the
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whole brand. Guess what tempting Tina is sick for a
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month and she's got a bad sinus infection. No tempting Tina.
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All right, there's no new content coming. See how terrible
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that would be. You are the brand, you are the company,
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you are everything. So I just always find it very,
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very impressive what you performers do. And again it might
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seem from the outside some guy being like, oh, he
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just wants to talk to porn stories about how they
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get fucked. Sure, I do want to hear about how
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you get fucked, But I also love diving into the
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personal aspect as well as much as people are willing
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to share about why this is so intriguing, why it
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draws them in. So let me ask you that we
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know the sex is fun you say you said in
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there too, not overwhelmed to the point where you can't
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do it, But you get hit with questions where you're
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kind of like, I don't I'm not positive on that.
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I gotta think on that, I gotta do whatever is
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this like I don't know how to word this properly.
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Is this the job you always want it at the
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end of the day, is there anything else If you
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could make the same money or better money doing other things,
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would you then pick up and do those other things instead?
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Or is this the thing that you're building because you
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realized deep down they is a passion of yours.
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I do love to do it. Uh So my main thing,
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Like when I was growing up and everything, I really
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wanted to be like a psychiatrist or like I wanted
482
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to do studies on people's brains and kind of find
483
00:23:33.440 --> 00:23:36.839
out why people do certain things or why why they
484
00:23:36.880 --> 00:23:40.240
turn out certain ways, you know. So I feel like
485
00:23:40.400 --> 00:23:43.440
this kind of creates still creates the space for me
486
00:23:43.519 --> 00:23:46.599
to find out things about people. Like you know, when
487
00:23:46.640 --> 00:23:48.400
you're standing in an elevator with somebody, you're not going
488
00:23:48.480 --> 00:23:52.160
to be like, so, what made you like BDSM? You know,
489
00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:54.640
like they're like, what the fuck are you talking about? Lady?
490
00:23:55.440 --> 00:23:58.680
But no, I mean like it's very intriguing because you
491
00:23:58.720 --> 00:24:00.480
don't have all the fluff of like like well, what's
492
00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:04.720
your favorite color, what's your favorite number, what's your dog's name?
493
00:24:04.759 --> 00:24:07.359
You know, like it's like, hey, this is what I like,
494
00:24:07.519 --> 00:24:10.240
and most people are like, oh, you're interested in why
495
00:24:10.279 --> 00:24:12.519
I like these things or you know, so I still
496
00:24:12.559 --> 00:24:14.559
get to pick people's brains. I mean, I get to
497
00:24:15.039 --> 00:24:18.000
talk to a bunch of people. It's I get to
498
00:24:18.160 --> 00:24:19.480
I get to sleep with a lot of people.
499
00:24:19.480 --> 00:24:19.920
I love that.
500
00:24:21.480 --> 00:24:25.200
And but I realized that it's it is a lot
501
00:24:25.240 --> 00:24:29.119
of things that weren't technically my strengths also, like you know,
502
00:24:29.160 --> 00:24:32.480
the decision making and like what do we do and
503
00:24:32.839 --> 00:24:35.079
you know, editing and things like that, and that's where
504
00:24:35.200 --> 00:24:37.559
like I am really grateful that I have my husband
505
00:24:37.640 --> 00:24:40.880
to do that those things also. But yes, I absolutely
506
00:24:40.880 --> 00:24:44.720
love doing this and I want to do it for
507
00:24:44.759 --> 00:24:45.519
as long as I can.
508
00:24:45.759 --> 00:24:48.400
Sure, do you have a release date on that mainstream
509
00:24:48.440 --> 00:24:53.640
scene yet or is that already? You said you shot.
510
00:24:53.759 --> 00:24:55.920
What is a Yeah, it'll be ready. I think they
511
00:24:55.920 --> 00:24:58.359
said it takes out two months to release it, but.
512
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:02.279
I won't announce it then. But can I ask what
513
00:25:02.319 --> 00:25:03.200
type of scene it was?
514
00:25:04.400 --> 00:25:06.559
It was just it was a BBC bord girl.
515
00:25:07.000 --> 00:25:09.480
Okay, all right, So I will ask you after the
516
00:25:09.519 --> 00:25:12.440
show who it is for so I can purchase a membership.
517
00:25:12.480 --> 00:25:15.839
Obviously, need to make sure to see that.
518
00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:21.480
I'll send it to you free. You're right, you're my people.
519
00:25:21.559 --> 00:25:25.559
Now, Oh, what are some Well, first question, what's your
520
00:25:25.599 --> 00:25:28.200
favorite color? No, I'm just kidding, going back to what
521
00:25:28.200 --> 00:25:30.119
he said about boring questions, I was gonna say, you
522
00:25:30.200 --> 00:25:32.000
fucking ruined my lightning round.
523
00:25:32.039 --> 00:25:34.920
Thank you? Favorite color go, favorite number go.
524
00:25:36.519 --> 00:25:39.599
But what are some of the requests you do get
525
00:25:39.799 --> 00:25:44.720
on only fans in terms of customs and how comfortable
526
00:25:44.799 --> 00:25:47.839
are you doing them? Like, what is your most requested
527
00:25:47.960 --> 00:25:48.839
type of custom?
528
00:25:49.000 --> 00:25:49.400
Do you know?
529
00:25:50.519 --> 00:25:54.799
I would say it's probably just like me solo masturating
530
00:25:54.880 --> 00:25:59.039
and like saying certain things or like using a certain
531
00:25:59.079 --> 00:26:01.400
toy or something that I want to see. So my
532
00:26:01.440 --> 00:26:06.799
customs right now, fingers crossed. They they're they're pretty easy
533
00:26:06.839 --> 00:26:09.440
as far as like how if I'm completing them or not.
534
00:26:10.119 --> 00:26:13.119
I do have certain people that are very particular about,
535
00:26:13.160 --> 00:26:14.920
you know, different things of like I want you to
536
00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:17.240
do this position for this long and then you switch
537
00:26:17.319 --> 00:26:19.799
to this and I'm like, okay, that's a lot. Let
538
00:26:19.839 --> 00:26:23.839
me try to remember. But I definitely, we definitely do
539
00:26:24.079 --> 00:26:27.119
try to do most people's requests. I mean, obviously there's
540
00:26:27.160 --> 00:26:30.759
things like I've had people ask me to do certain
541
00:26:30.759 --> 00:26:32.960
things with like animals, and I'm like, I'm not doing that.
542
00:26:33.079 --> 00:26:36.200
I'm not you know, we're not I love animals, not
543
00:26:36.279 --> 00:26:37.119
in that way like.
544
00:26:37.119 --> 00:26:39.400
I used to on the show.
545
00:26:39.480 --> 00:26:42.279
I used to call it sack And anytime I would ask,
546
00:26:42.319 --> 00:26:44.279
you would be like, what's a niche or a fetish?
547
00:26:44.319 --> 00:26:45.880
You just have no interest in pursuing.
548
00:26:46.440 --> 00:26:49.720
And every time, inevitably, and like the first season, people
549
00:26:49.759 --> 00:26:52.359
would go, well, like I don't want to fuck any animals.
550
00:26:52.480 --> 00:26:54.279
I go, oh, I know that, Like if you're on
551
00:26:54.400 --> 00:26:58.000
air with you, I'm gonna have to go if you
552
00:26:58.240 --> 00:27:00.920
if you are into that, so right, But a sack
553
00:27:01.039 --> 00:27:07.160
is my dog shit, animals and kids those obviously way off.
554
00:27:07.559 --> 00:27:10.839
Is there anything else sexually that maybe you're just not
555
00:27:10.880 --> 00:27:13.039
that you won't do it or but you're just like
556
00:27:13.240 --> 00:27:17.400
not into whatever this niche is, whatever this trend is,
557
00:27:17.519 --> 00:27:18.319
like it's not your.
558
00:27:18.200 --> 00:27:21.559
Favorite, but you know, are you are you in defeat
559
00:27:21.599 --> 00:27:23.400
at all? Do you mind doing foot stuff?
560
00:27:23.920 --> 00:27:29.440
I don't, ironically though I've had I've had six ankle surgeries,
561
00:27:29.480 --> 00:27:31.640
so feet stuff is not always the easiest for me.
562
00:27:33.319 --> 00:27:35.799
But other than that, I mean not that I really
563
00:27:35.880 --> 00:27:38.240
know of. I mean I'm not super big and like
564
00:27:38.799 --> 00:27:41.880
you know, urinating or videos. But like, I'm not going
565
00:27:41.920 --> 00:27:43.839
to yuck someone deal. If that's what you're into, I'll
566
00:27:43.880 --> 00:27:46.079
do it. It's just not something that I can really
567
00:27:46.160 --> 00:27:50.039
like relate to. So I'm like, am I doing this correctly? Like?
568
00:27:50.240 --> 00:27:51.319
Am I? You know?
569
00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:51.559
So?
570
00:27:51.920 --> 00:27:53.680
I always want to make sure that you know they
571
00:27:54.559 --> 00:27:57.799
they get what they pay for and that they are pleased, because,
572
00:27:57.839 --> 00:27:59.839
like I said, I'm definitely a people pleaser when you
573
00:27:59.920 --> 00:28:02.880
go to things, and I think that's why I'm very
574
00:28:02.960 --> 00:28:05.480
much you know why I do have some really loyal
575
00:28:05.519 --> 00:28:08.559
fans because they know that, like I really care to
576
00:28:08.640 --> 00:28:09.400
do a good job.
577
00:28:09.680 --> 00:28:13.400
Yeah, is there anything you turned down custom wise? Again,
578
00:28:13.720 --> 00:28:17.759
not anything illegal, but just because it makes you uncomfortable,
579
00:28:17.839 --> 00:28:20.559
like if someone if someone wants you to play like
580
00:28:20.599 --> 00:28:24.400
their mother or something, or their daughter or something like that.
581
00:28:24.880 --> 00:28:25.799
I have a.
582
00:28:25.759 --> 00:28:29.119
Great story the episode I did with brayavon Doom. She
583
00:28:29.319 --> 00:28:33.559
told the most insane fucking request I've ever heard, and
584
00:28:33.599 --> 00:28:35.960
I posted it as a short on YouTube and it
585
00:28:36.039 --> 00:28:39.400
got like one hundred and fifty views. She told me
586
00:28:40.039 --> 00:28:43.640
that she had a politician which she would not name on.
587
00:28:43.599 --> 00:28:45.720
Air, and she didn't name it off air. If I'm
588
00:28:45.720 --> 00:28:46.480
being honest with you.
589
00:28:46.400 --> 00:28:49.400
Either, but she had a politician who reached out and
590
00:28:49.680 --> 00:28:53.599
wanted her to pretend to be his daughter.
591
00:28:54.359 --> 00:28:58.799
Okay, but also to pretend to be drowning out in
592
00:28:58.880 --> 00:29:08.279
the pool. YO. First off, Fuck, I have questions, what
593
00:29:09.000 --> 00:29:12.000
is there anything you get that you are right?
594
00:29:12.079 --> 00:29:13.960
I understand what you're saying there, But is there do
595
00:29:14.039 --> 00:29:16.759
you think there would be anything again within the legal
596
00:29:16.799 --> 00:29:19.759
realm where you go, I'm not.
597
00:29:19.720 --> 00:29:22.279
Comfortable playing a mom. I'm not comfortable.
598
00:29:22.519 --> 00:29:26.279
Uncomfortable play your stepdaughter, but I'm not comfortable playing your daughter.
599
00:29:26.480 --> 00:29:29.160
Like is there any line you would draw in that sense?
600
00:29:30.400 --> 00:29:33.279
Yeah? I mean I definitely think there's there's things like
601
00:29:33.319 --> 00:29:35.599
that that, like, you know, I don't think of until
602
00:29:35.680 --> 00:29:37.160
something comes up and I'm like, oh, I don't. I
603
00:29:37.160 --> 00:29:40.880
don't think that I'm cool with that obviously, like age
604
00:29:40.880 --> 00:29:44.279
play with like pass fires and diapers. I'm just not
605
00:29:44.400 --> 00:29:48.279
comfortable doing because there is you know, a lot of
606
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:50.880
panos and stuff out there and I'm just not, No,
607
00:29:51.000 --> 00:29:52.839
I don't want to be a part of that. But
608
00:29:53.519 --> 00:29:57.279
I think that, you know, some I think I've had
609
00:29:57.319 --> 00:30:00.759
people request me to like be rac and like say
610
00:30:00.759 --> 00:30:02.640
the N word. I'm like, I'm not going to do that,
611
00:30:02.960 --> 00:30:06.559
Like no. I just my thought is just be a
612
00:30:06.599 --> 00:30:09.759
decent human and like just roll with that, you know,
613
00:30:09.880 --> 00:30:12.119
if it makes you uncomfy, like the answer is now.
614
00:30:12.440 --> 00:30:12.880
Yeah.
615
00:30:12.960 --> 00:30:17.200
I've spoken to black male performers who have no issue
616
00:30:17.240 --> 00:30:18.799
with it. They're like, yeah, the race play that, I
617
00:30:18.799 --> 00:30:20.519
don't give a shit, I'm fucking I'm doing this and that.
618
00:30:20.640 --> 00:30:23.000
And then I've spoken to other black performers who are
619
00:30:23.039 --> 00:30:26.039
just like, yo, I'll swing on you like it's gonna
620
00:30:26.039 --> 00:30:28.119
be a fist bite, just so you know one side
621
00:30:28.200 --> 00:30:30.720
or the other. I totally get it, and I make
622
00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:34.839
no I cast no dispersions on women that do want
623
00:30:34.880 --> 00:30:38.079
to do that in private, because I don't. Maybe I'm wrong,
624
00:30:38.119 --> 00:30:40.279
maybe that maybe they have a racist thing to them,
625
00:30:40.559 --> 00:30:44.799
But my view is you're performing, you know you're performing.
626
00:30:44.880 --> 00:30:47.359
These people aren't actually bank roppers when you watch them
627
00:30:47.359 --> 00:30:50.440
in movies. This guy's not actually in the clan when
628
00:30:50.440 --> 00:30:53.599
you watch it in movies, like they are performing. So
629
00:30:54.559 --> 00:30:56.680
I never come down hard on people for that. But
630
00:30:56.720 --> 00:30:59.759
I totally and completely understand why you want't want to
631
00:30:59.839 --> 00:31:03.519
it of you out there topless saying certain words, right,
632
00:31:03.599 --> 00:31:10.640
it's just never great, all right, all right? So man,
633
00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:14.079
it's just I don't know. I have so much running
634
00:31:14.079 --> 00:31:17.680
through my head right now about this. It may be
635
00:31:17.720 --> 00:31:19.400
too personal and cut me off.
636
00:31:19.400 --> 00:31:19.880
If it is.
637
00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:22.880
I totally understand that, because I want to dive back
638
00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:27.039
into the lifestyle question real fast. But your husband and
639
00:31:27.200 --> 00:31:30.799
what you've experienced through this and that I am just
640
00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:33.319
learning for the first time, not during this episode, but
641
00:31:33.400 --> 00:31:34.200
during this season.
642
00:31:34.880 --> 00:31:36.119
Is your husband.
643
00:31:35.839 --> 00:31:39.599
Into any of the humiliation part or is it purely
644
00:31:39.680 --> 00:31:43.319
about watching not of your obviously, but like, does he
645
00:31:43.440 --> 00:31:46.160
ever like to be insulted by the guy or anything
646
00:31:46.200 --> 00:31:50.279
like that? You from the outside stigma, right, you need
647
00:31:50.359 --> 00:31:53.279
the term cuck again. Someone who has no concept of
648
00:31:53.319 --> 00:31:56.839
it would go cook, and you would go he probably
649
00:31:56.880 --> 00:31:59.160
likes to get kurs edad and.
650
00:31:59.240 --> 00:32:00.680
Told he sucked and this and that.
651
00:32:01.880 --> 00:32:04.200
Everyone I've interviewed this season goes, No, my husband's not
652
00:32:04.200 --> 00:32:06.119
a cook, Like he smiles in the corner as I'm
653
00:32:06.119 --> 00:32:08.200
getting fucked and blah blah blah and this and that.
654
00:32:08.480 --> 00:32:11.200
Is your husband that way or does he have specific
655
00:32:11.240 --> 00:32:12.319
things he liked?
656
00:32:12.960 --> 00:32:15.640
He definitely is that way. Like I said, he he's
657
00:32:15.720 --> 00:32:19.079
not a cook and like it kind of not necessarily
658
00:32:19.079 --> 00:32:22.319
like makes me mad, but I'm very quick to correct
659
00:32:22.400 --> 00:32:24.519
somebody if they say that, I'm like, no, no, he's not.
660
00:32:25.839 --> 00:32:29.079
But he just he loves to see me live my
661
00:32:29.119 --> 00:32:31.799
best life. And he's like, you know, we when we
662
00:32:31.880 --> 00:32:35.000
experience certain things, he's like, who the hell did I marry?
663
00:32:35.160 --> 00:32:38.759
Like wait a minute, I'm learning about her just and
664
00:32:38.880 --> 00:32:43.000
so I think that he's just like, you know, why
665
00:32:43.160 --> 00:32:44.960
eat this one ice cream for the rest of your
666
00:32:44.960 --> 00:32:48.039
life when your favorite flavor is like four of them?
667
00:32:48.279 --> 00:32:51.359
You know, He's just like you you live your best life.
668
00:32:51.359 --> 00:32:53.000
And most of the time he films for me, so
669
00:32:53.519 --> 00:32:57.119
like he's very much he did like watching stuff, and
670
00:32:57.160 --> 00:32:59.240
he's still like he tells me all the time that
671
00:32:59.240 --> 00:33:01.599
I'm his favorite porn sorry, and I'm like stop stop
672
00:33:01.640 --> 00:33:02.119
it right now.
673
00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:03.319
But like he.
674
00:33:03.279 --> 00:33:05.599
Loves to watch the videos. But now he's very much
675
00:33:05.720 --> 00:33:07.839
like I think he sees it as more of like
676
00:33:08.519 --> 00:33:11.480
I want to deliver great content to her fans, and
677
00:33:11.519 --> 00:33:13.319
like he that's more of what's going on his head
678
00:33:13.319 --> 00:33:15.720
than like, oh my god, she looks so sexy. Like
679
00:33:16.119 --> 00:33:18.039
he's just like, let me get this angle. I'm like,
680
00:33:19.480 --> 00:33:20.000
I love it.
681
00:33:20.519 --> 00:33:23.279
You're wrong. He's a secret film school boy. He went
682
00:33:23.319 --> 00:33:26.599
to engineering school. And ask him, I'm gonna be like he.
683
00:33:26.480 --> 00:33:29.359
Did engineering, because he goes, I gotta make some money somewhere.
684
00:33:29.480 --> 00:33:31.880
I gotta do something. People with film degrees probably just
685
00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:34.920
end up doing podcasts ten years later they do.
686
00:33:36.400 --> 00:33:39.519
But uh, he's a secret film guy. I can tell.
687
00:33:39.559 --> 00:33:41.599
I can. I can feel it on him that.
688
00:33:41.519 --> 00:33:45.279
He gets I I think so because he'll always like
689
00:33:45.720 --> 00:33:48.680
he's really good at quoting movies and stuff. And I
690
00:33:48.759 --> 00:33:50.799
people laugh when they find this out, But I'm really
691
00:33:50.839 --> 00:33:53.880
bad at like watching movies. Like when I was growing up,
692
00:33:53.920 --> 00:33:56.839
couldn't sit still long enough now can't sit so long enough.
693
00:33:56.880 --> 00:33:58.079
So like he'll like.
694
00:33:58.119 --> 00:34:00.160
Quote a movie or like be like, is this what's
695
00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:03.640
this actor? I'm like, I don't know if it's not
696
00:34:03.680 --> 00:34:07.839
like Mean Girls, Jurassic Park. I don't know if it's
697
00:34:07.839 --> 00:34:09.480
not these three movies. I got nothing.
698
00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:13.920
I'm so, oh God, maybe you do live in our
699
00:34:13.920 --> 00:34:15.039
house with us, you guys.
700
00:34:15.079 --> 00:34:17.039
I don't know. I need to go downstairs because I.
701
00:34:17.079 --> 00:34:19.400
Sit here with my wife and we'll watch a movie,
702
00:34:19.719 --> 00:34:22.039
and the whole time, I just go, is that that
703
00:34:22.079 --> 00:34:22.920
guy from that thing?
704
00:34:23.280 --> 00:34:23.760
How about this?
705
00:34:23.840 --> 00:34:25.559
I'll look it up, I'll pull it up, and the
706
00:34:25.639 --> 00:34:28.159
whole time we're watching a movie, I'm just going you see,
707
00:34:28.199 --> 00:34:30.119
so that was the guy he was in that other thing.
708
00:34:30.199 --> 00:34:32.559
We watch it and she's just sitting there going shut
709
00:34:32.679 --> 00:34:35.320
shut the fuck in her head. She's just quietly going
710
00:34:35.480 --> 00:34:38.360
shut the fuck up, please. So I get it.
711
00:34:38.760 --> 00:34:41.480
I literally just watched like Sandlot for the first time
712
00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:45.400
like three years ago. Like, okay, I'm I'm about like
713
00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:47.039
thirty years behind on movies.
714
00:34:47.199 --> 00:34:48.800
No, I understand, I understand.
715
00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:52.039
It's I interviewed a younger girl at some point who
716
00:34:52.119 --> 00:34:54.079
is a film person, and I was ready to dive
717
00:34:54.159 --> 00:34:56.000
into film, and I go, what are some of your
718
00:34:56.000 --> 00:34:58.199
favorite movies? And she names shit of the last like
719
00:34:58.360 --> 00:35:01.920
six years and I was like, oh no, I don't
720
00:35:01.960 --> 00:35:02.960
even I don't even.
721
00:35:02.880 --> 00:35:04.320
Know how to put that in the past.
722
00:35:04.519 --> 00:35:07.599
Ye yeah, yeah, I know you would have like kids
723
00:35:07.599 --> 00:35:08.920
and animals, you're okay with them?
724
00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:10.639
She goes, yeah, yeah, yeah. I go Okay, we got
725
00:35:10.639 --> 00:35:12.400
to end this show right now. I gotta wrap it up.
726
00:35:14.800 --> 00:35:20.880
One one last question about your relationship. So you said
727
00:35:21.000 --> 00:35:24.760
he has he started performing as well. Okay, So here's
728
00:35:24.760 --> 00:35:26.880
what I'm gonna do. Here's a follow for him on
729
00:35:26.920 --> 00:35:31.639
Twitter at am I getting this right at Joyce stick Johnson. Yep, okay,
730
00:35:31.679 --> 00:35:33.920
I'll put his links in the episode description as well,
731
00:35:34.000 --> 00:35:35.880
just in case people want to reach out if you
732
00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:36.719
want that, if not.
733
00:35:36.760 --> 00:35:38.880
Let me know I won't.
734
00:35:39.360 --> 00:35:44.320
Did you have to overcome any of those feelings when
735
00:35:44.760 --> 00:35:48.039
he started performing or acting with another person or just
736
00:35:48.159 --> 00:35:51.719
in lifestyle in general? Sounds these questions don't even make
737
00:35:51.760 --> 00:35:53.519
sense as much because you were in the fat life
738
00:35:53.559 --> 00:35:56.039
community and this and that I'm trying to figure it out.
739
00:35:56.079 --> 00:35:59.880
We both agree the outside stigma and the way the
740
00:36:00.079 --> 00:36:04.400
quote unquote normal normal vanilla world works is we get
741
00:36:04.519 --> 00:36:07.039
jealous if our you know, person wants to go off
742
00:36:07.039 --> 00:36:09.079
and do anything. Did you just have it in your
743
00:36:09.119 --> 00:36:11.360
head or was it and I hate to bring it up,
744
00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:13.320
but was it coming out of that bad relationship where
745
00:36:13.320 --> 00:36:16.159
you almost went like we're gonna just try something totally
746
00:36:16.639 --> 00:36:17.639
new this time.
747
00:36:18.000 --> 00:36:21.800
Yeah. I think it was kind of both. So, like
748
00:36:21.840 --> 00:36:26.639
I said, he is so great when he he's like, hey,
749
00:36:27.880 --> 00:36:31.599
this is everything this person asks like he will always
750
00:36:31.679 --> 00:36:33.480
come find me. He's like, I have to run it
751
00:36:33.480 --> 00:36:36.639
by her because, like, you know, we're a team. Like
752
00:36:36.679 --> 00:36:40.000
that's that's just how it works. So there was an
753
00:36:40.039 --> 00:36:42.119
instance where I got jealous. I think of just like
754
00:36:42.199 --> 00:36:44.559
the way that somebody reached out to him, which now
755
00:36:44.639 --> 00:36:47.760
she's ironically amazing and I love her pieces, but I
756
00:36:47.800 --> 00:36:50.639
told her, like, you know, it's just a lot of
757
00:36:50.639 --> 00:36:54.119
emotion there. But instead of somebody saying like, hey, I'm
758
00:36:54.119 --> 00:36:56.840
a perform like hey, I do OnlyFans and like can
759
00:36:57.159 --> 00:36:59.599
would you be available or can you you know, do
760
00:36:59.679 --> 00:37:03.480
this for me, she was just like, hey, when you
761
00:37:03.480 --> 00:37:05.760
want to collab? And I'm like, you know, I don't
762
00:37:05.880 --> 00:37:09.840
think that she meant anything by it, but like I
763
00:37:09.960 --> 00:37:12.519
was just like, who is that? You know? It was
764
00:37:12.599 --> 00:37:16.840
just a little bit more casual than normal, and I'm like, well,
765
00:37:16.880 --> 00:37:20.000
maybe she just realizes that like men can only read
766
00:37:20.079 --> 00:37:22.320
about this much at a time and like process it
767
00:37:22.920 --> 00:37:25.760
or you know, She's just like that's just that's who
768
00:37:26.199 --> 00:37:29.280
her personality. And like I said, there was no nothing
769
00:37:29.360 --> 00:37:31.920
bad by it. It was just like whoa, Okay, who
770
00:37:32.000 --> 00:37:33.360
is this? Why does she want to sleep with you
771
00:37:33.440 --> 00:37:33.800
so bad?
772
00:37:33.920 --> 00:37:34.079
You know?
773
00:37:34.239 --> 00:37:39.880
Like and so I think that, but he's just really
774
00:37:40.039 --> 00:37:44.599
he's really careful around my feelings, and like I think
775
00:37:44.639 --> 00:37:47.840
that when he started filming, I don't think that I
776
00:37:47.880 --> 00:37:50.639
was necessarily like upset by it by any means, because
777
00:37:50.639 --> 00:37:53.199
like he was always mostly in my stuff, like if
778
00:37:53.239 --> 00:37:55.199
it was a threesome as me and somebody else or
779
00:37:55.239 --> 00:37:58.639
like a swap or and that's kind of how it started.
780
00:37:58.719 --> 00:38:01.400
So I don't think. I think maybe if it was
781
00:38:01.480 --> 00:38:03.639
just like him branching off and doing his own thing
782
00:38:03.760 --> 00:38:05.599
would have been a little bit harder for me to
783
00:38:05.639 --> 00:38:08.559
transition into. But like, you know, then he's like, oh,
784
00:38:08.599 --> 00:38:11.360
she wants to film you know, two males, and she
785
00:38:11.440 --> 00:38:13.440
asked me, and I'm like, go for it, you know,
786
00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:18.119
like yeah, absolutely, you're verified, you're respectful, and you have
787
00:38:18.119 --> 00:38:20.800
a nice stick, and like she needs you, so yeah,
788
00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:21.920
we help each other out.
789
00:38:22.599 --> 00:38:25.440
It's funny I think about it, and it really kind
790
00:38:25.440 --> 00:38:27.519
of goes back to love and it kind of goes
791
00:38:27.599 --> 00:38:30.960
back to our basic human instincts where this girl is
792
00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:34.079
eventually gonna fuck and suck your husband's dick and everything else.
793
00:38:34.320 --> 00:38:37.119
What really irked to us the way she said it
794
00:38:37.199 --> 00:38:40.960
wrong at the beginning, and I totally get that too. Again,
795
00:38:41.039 --> 00:38:43.440
someone else I spoke to this season in the Hot
796
00:38:43.480 --> 00:38:45.880
Wife Life and everything else and this and that she
797
00:38:46.000 --> 00:38:48.280
said when her husband got into it, she was like,
798
00:38:48.320 --> 00:38:50.440
I watched him fuck all these girls and get blown
799
00:38:50.480 --> 00:38:52.480
and I felt nothing. And then one girl kind of
800
00:38:52.519 --> 00:38:56.599
pushed his hair back, and I got rageful right there.
801
00:38:56.679 --> 00:39:00.960
I got angry, and it's like, yeah, I get it.
802
00:39:00.159 --> 00:39:03.920
Because I think you ask kind of what boundaries we have,
803
00:39:04.039 --> 00:39:06.920
and like I don't think that he's kissed a lot,
804
00:39:07.039 --> 00:39:09.880
Like he doesn't kiss women when he films, obviously, like
805
00:39:10.280 --> 00:39:12.840
it's just a more romantic thing. And I'm just like,
806
00:39:13.360 --> 00:39:14.880
I don't know how i'd feel if I look over
807
00:39:14.920 --> 00:39:17.079
and he's just like making out with some woman or somebody,
808
00:39:17.119 --> 00:39:19.199
be like, what what's happening here?
809
00:39:19.760 --> 00:39:21.119
And you have to understand.
810
00:39:21.119 --> 00:39:23.800
You have to understand why you're good, but God forbid
811
00:39:23.840 --> 00:39:24.760
you kiss him.
812
00:39:25.159 --> 00:39:25.960
What you have.
813
00:39:27.440 --> 00:39:29.719
To go back to your brain prior to this, and
814
00:39:29.760 --> 00:39:32.519
you have to understand how crazy it sounds to go,
815
00:39:32.960 --> 00:39:35.880
do not kiss him, Just suck his dick and swallow
816
00:39:35.920 --> 00:39:36.280
his load.
817
00:39:36.320 --> 00:39:39.719
Okay, just do that. You know your job. Don't kiss him.
818
00:39:39.920 --> 00:39:42.119
And then from the outside, I can kind of understand
819
00:39:42.119 --> 00:39:44.639
why the haters are kind of like, oh, that is odd.
820
00:39:45.079 --> 00:39:47.960
That is an odd thing when we really think about it.
821
00:39:47.960 --> 00:39:51.440
But I understand it because there's different forms of love
822
00:39:51.760 --> 00:39:55.719
and there's different ways we communicate love. It all goes
823
00:39:55.760 --> 00:39:59.480
back to communication. Like you said, you know you don't
824
00:39:59.480 --> 00:40:03.360
see your has been fucking some lady as necessarily communicating love,
825
00:40:03.480 --> 00:40:07.880
You're communicating sexuality or joy this and that, but not love.
826
00:40:08.159 --> 00:40:11.320
And the second he you know, she held this face
827
00:40:11.400 --> 00:40:14.119
and let him I'm gonna make you rageful right now
828
00:40:14.119 --> 00:40:17.079
and let him know like you are so wonderful to
829
00:40:17.159 --> 00:40:20.280
work with. Tempting Tina would just be like tempting Tina
830
00:40:20.360 --> 00:40:21.960
becomes fucking swinging Tina.
831
00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:22.920
At that point, all.
832
00:40:22.960 --> 00:40:25.960
Right, why she you back off.
833
00:40:27.400 --> 00:40:27.960
Nice to him?
834
00:40:28.239 --> 00:40:28.880
I'm just joking.
835
00:40:30.199 --> 00:40:33.000
Last question I have for you here, Tina, what are
836
00:40:33.719 --> 00:40:37.159
we doing in the future? Do you see this at
837
00:40:37.280 --> 00:40:40.719
Can I ask this personal question? Don't answer, don't answer details.
838
00:40:41.239 --> 00:40:43.480
Is this your husband's career now as well? Is he's
839
00:40:43.519 --> 00:40:45.239
still maintaining the day job.
840
00:40:45.039 --> 00:40:45.519
And then.
841
00:40:46.960 --> 00:40:49.639
We we do you know this on the side for him,
842
00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:51.159
but this is your job job.
843
00:40:51.719 --> 00:40:55.519
Yeah, he still has his career, gotcha, And I don't
844
00:40:55.519 --> 00:40:58.880
see that going anywhere for at least a long time.
845
00:40:58.920 --> 00:41:02.679
He loves his job and he works from home, so
846
00:41:02.760 --> 00:41:05.199
he like does a remote job and so he kind
847
00:41:05.199 --> 00:41:08.960
of makes his own schedule. It's like, so he still
848
00:41:09.039 --> 00:41:12.119
works like he's that person that wakes up for no
849
00:41:12.239 --> 00:41:14.679
reason at like five am and He's like, well, what
850
00:41:14.679 --> 00:41:16.440
am I going to do? Go bang somebody at five
851
00:41:16.480 --> 00:41:19.360
and you know, do this. But like he's he loves
852
00:41:19.400 --> 00:41:23.800
doing his job, and so yeah, I think that I
853
00:41:23.800 --> 00:41:24.679
think he's happy with her.
854
00:41:24.719 --> 00:41:24.960
He is.
855
00:41:25.119 --> 00:41:25.960
I think I think.
856
00:41:26.039 --> 00:41:29.760
My question to piggyback on that was more as you
857
00:41:29.800 --> 00:41:32.840
guys grow, as you guys become more successful, do you
858
00:41:34.000 --> 00:41:35.880
One of the best stories I ever heard was kat
859
00:41:35.920 --> 00:41:39.000
Karma Orgasmic. She's a girl that's been on every season
860
00:41:39.079 --> 00:41:39.440
so far.
861
00:41:39.599 --> 00:41:40.400
She's the only.
862
00:41:40.199 --> 00:41:42.840
Repeat guest I have because she's one of the first
863
00:41:42.840 --> 00:41:43.920
people I met in the industry.
864
00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:48.360
She's total sweetheart. It made me so happy to hear her.
865
00:41:48.480 --> 00:41:50.639
She was working a job, her husband was working a job,
866
00:41:51.039 --> 00:41:53.000
and one time I interviewed her and she said, we
867
00:41:53.079 --> 00:41:56.400
realized we were losing out on money by working day
868
00:41:56.480 --> 00:41:57.719
jobs because we could be.
869
00:41:57.719 --> 00:42:00.639
Home editing, we could be home posting this and that.
870
00:42:01.159 --> 00:42:03.800
And my hope is if he loves his job, that's fine,
871
00:42:03.800 --> 00:42:06.320
tell him to keep his job. But I would love
872
00:42:06.360 --> 00:42:08.400
for you to get to the point where it is
873
00:42:08.440 --> 00:42:11.159
so big you have to look at him and go like, dude,
874
00:42:11.239 --> 00:42:14.840
we're leaving so much money on the table, and for
875
00:42:14.960 --> 00:42:18.559
him to go fine, I will become a professional guy
876
00:42:18.639 --> 00:42:21.159
that fucks and film the guy.
877
00:42:22.159 --> 00:42:23.880
He's probably gonna be like, why'd you say I love
878
00:42:23.920 --> 00:42:26.679
my job that much? I leave them fuckers in an instant. No,
879
00:42:28.960 --> 00:42:30.960
He's like, do you see the women that we work with?
880
00:42:31.000 --> 00:42:36.199
Sometimes like by everybody? No, but I do. I mean
881
00:42:36.280 --> 00:42:40.039
he loves like he loves not only just like doing
882
00:42:40.119 --> 00:42:43.280
one thing. Like he's like he'll edit. I'll see him
883
00:42:43.280 --> 00:42:45.599
like watching videos about like how do you use this
884
00:42:45.639 --> 00:42:49.559
new editor or like whatever, and he he just he's
885
00:42:49.599 --> 00:42:52.199
so passionate about the stuff that he does. So he's like,
886
00:42:52.440 --> 00:42:55.159
you know, I'm not using cap cut. He's using you know,
887
00:42:55.639 --> 00:42:58.239
like this. We'll be watching shows and he's like, that's
888
00:42:58.280 --> 00:42:59.719
the same editing software.
889
00:42:59.320 --> 00:42:59.760
That I use.
890
00:43:00.199 --> 00:43:04.199
Like that's wild. You know that he learns these things
891
00:43:04.280 --> 00:43:07.440
so he I think he definitely would like he loves
892
00:43:07.440 --> 00:43:10.000
to edit. He loves to learn about like lighting and
893
00:43:10.039 --> 00:43:12.920
cameras and oh I'm going to need this, and like
894
00:43:14.199 --> 00:43:16.880
he's so excited and like of course he's he's definitely
895
00:43:16.880 --> 00:43:19.039
not mad when he gets double bow jobs or you
896
00:43:19.039 --> 00:43:22.559
know whatever. He's like, I'm not mad about this at all,
897
00:43:22.760 --> 00:43:25.280
you know, but sure, yeah, yeah, I.
898
00:43:26.800 --> 00:43:29.440
It sounds like he's a learner. Is what he likes
899
00:43:29.480 --> 00:43:29.760
to do?
900
00:43:29.760 --> 00:43:32.960
Does he like to like take on new challenges and tasks?
901
00:43:33.000 --> 00:43:35.159
And you know, some.
902
00:43:35.239 --> 00:43:36.960
Days he'll like wake up and he's like, I think
903
00:43:36.960 --> 00:43:38.920
I'm gonna learned how to develop pictures today?
904
00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:43.960
What for? Why just just just even shit we don't
905
00:43:44.079 --> 00:43:46.840
necessarily need anymore. He's like, I'm going to learn how
906
00:43:46.880 --> 00:43:48.840
to drive a horse and buggy and you go.
907
00:43:49.119 --> 00:43:52.599
Right like some crazy stuff, and I'm like, more power
908
00:43:52.639 --> 00:43:55.559
to you, because I don't have a mental capacity for
909
00:43:55.599 --> 00:43:57.920
half the shit I even need to learn. Like so
910
00:43:58.280 --> 00:44:00.599
you know that's why you know power cup all the way?
911
00:44:00.880 --> 00:44:02.039
Like I love it.
912
00:44:02.199 --> 00:44:04.320
So let me ask you what are you doing to
913
00:44:05.159 --> 00:44:09.559
improve yourself in the fields that you do handle within
914
00:44:09.599 --> 00:44:10.440
your business? Like?
915
00:44:11.239 --> 00:44:13.079
What is something you would want to improve?
916
00:44:13.159 --> 00:44:16.559
Do you want to get back on your you know,
917
00:44:16.679 --> 00:44:19.360
do you want to respond back to people faster? Do
918
00:44:19.400 --> 00:44:21.480
you want to get content out faster? Do you wanna
919
00:44:22.039 --> 00:44:24.480
you know, is there anything you can improve upon? Not
920
00:44:24.519 --> 00:44:28.280
even as a performer. You're beautiful, obviously you love sucking,
921
00:44:28.360 --> 00:44:33.320
apparently according to all of the posts I see, But
922
00:44:33.400 --> 00:44:35.800
is there anything you feel like you can improve on
923
00:44:36.039 --> 00:44:41.159
just as a as a general life thing related to business,
924
00:44:41.280 --> 00:44:42.000
Go ahead.
925
00:44:42.159 --> 00:44:47.320
Absolutely, i I'm like, really ocdo when it comes to, like,
926
00:44:47.679 --> 00:44:50.280
you know, organizing stuff, And it's just it's been so
927
00:44:50.599 --> 00:44:54.039
hard because there's just so much to organize. Like I'm
928
00:44:54.039 --> 00:44:56.360
always like, how can I make this better? Like when
929
00:44:56.400 --> 00:44:58.239
I look at a photo or a video, I want
930
00:44:58.280 --> 00:45:00.280
to know if I posted it on OnlyFans many of
931
00:45:00.280 --> 00:45:03.719
it's it's like there's so many different ways to do that.
932
00:45:04.840 --> 00:45:07.639
And I definitely think, you know, a lot of the
933
00:45:07.639 --> 00:45:10.039
Internet and stuff is very hard. Like I'm like, I
934
00:45:10.039 --> 00:45:13.239
don't understand what I can post on Instagram versus what
935
00:45:13.280 --> 00:45:16.159
I can post on Facebook or like. And he's he's
936
00:45:16.159 --> 00:45:19.079
always looking at like there are terms and policies and
937
00:45:19.119 --> 00:45:21.199
he's like, Okay, well this is what you can do.
938
00:45:21.320 --> 00:45:23.480
And like let's not even talk about Reddit and like
939
00:45:23.480 --> 00:45:25.760
the fact that there's twelve hundred subreddits and they all
940
00:45:25.760 --> 00:45:28.440
have different rules and I'm like, are you just trying
941
00:45:28.440 --> 00:45:33.480
to like make my brain explode or what? Like it's ridiculous.
942
00:45:33.519 --> 00:45:35.199
I just want you guys to see me sucking dick,
943
00:45:35.280 --> 00:45:37.159
and I don't know where I can even show you that.
944
00:45:37.519 --> 00:45:39.639
So like it's it's a lot, but I mean I
945
00:45:39.679 --> 00:45:46.039
definitely think that focusing more on like how to improve
946
00:45:46.079 --> 00:45:48.000
those things is definitely the goal.
947
00:45:49.320 --> 00:45:53.440
Well it's not. It's a big goal, but it's not unachievable,
948
00:45:53.679 --> 00:45:56.920
and I think you will get there. I personal unsolicited advice,
949
00:45:56.960 --> 00:45:58.960
which I've been screamed at one time off air for
950
00:45:59.199 --> 00:46:02.880
giving unsolicit advice. Let him do the admin, the terms
951
00:46:02.880 --> 00:46:06.840
and conditions, all of that. You are the easiest. Connect
952
00:46:07.119 --> 00:46:10.440
with other performers and see what other performers are doing,
953
00:46:10.760 --> 00:46:13.840
learn what they're doing, understand why this is more successful,
954
00:46:13.840 --> 00:46:16.079
why this is more beneficial than this, and then bring
955
00:46:16.079 --> 00:46:17.559
it back to them and go here. Now you do
956
00:46:17.639 --> 00:46:20.239
the hard work. But I figured out what routes we
957
00:46:20.360 --> 00:46:23.559
need to go down, and I mean that's how it works, right,
958
00:46:23.639 --> 00:46:25.880
That's that. That's how a partnership works. That's how good
959
00:46:25.880 --> 00:46:29.039
communication works. You are a strength of yours is not
960
00:46:29.400 --> 00:46:31.039
the terms and conditions in the editing.
961
00:46:31.400 --> 00:46:32.760
Figure out what your strengths are.
962
00:46:32.920 --> 00:46:39.679
I assume getting fucked is one of them.
963
00:46:39.719 --> 00:46:42.880
Just talking crap to a bunch of people, and those
964
00:46:42.880 --> 00:46:43.440
are my jobs.
965
00:46:43.519 --> 00:46:45.639
Usually will continue that.
966
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That's really yeah, I mean that's correct, absolutely.
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All right, ladies and gentlemen, my guess tempting Tina, there's
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two a's at the end.
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Can I ask why is there two a's at the end?
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Oh my gosh, I like this gush.
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I think it was just like, wait a minute, we
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have to post.
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We talked about your husband fucking other girls, double blow
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jumps at.
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You got a name in your name? You go excuse me,
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that's personal? No, go ahead, go ahead. No.
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I think I was like just really excited when I
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was making my name and held it down for a
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second too long, and I was like, oh, that's annoying
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to explain to everybody, but like two a's, I just
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I don't know.
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I was like, Tina, oh I got a good one, though,
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I got a good one, and how we could spind it.
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It's very nineties, very early two thousands, though, I have
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to ask this, and I apologize for such a blunt
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question at the end.
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Here do you do? And are you into anal?
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Uh? Yeah? With the right people. People just want to
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shove that thing in dry and I'm like, we are
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never trying this ever again.
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Okay.
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I was going to say if you were like, yes,
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I love it, I'm really into it. I go, that's
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what you tell them? The other a's for okay, anal,
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lazy and gentlemen, Tempting Tina. You find her on Twitter
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at Tempting Tina. Two a's at the end, and most importantly,
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payday rolls around. You got a little bit of cash,
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your kid comes up and goes, I need some money
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for a school trip, and here's what you tell them, No,
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I have shit I have to pay for. And that
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is signing up for Tempting Tina's only fans at Tempting Tina.
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I mean, you just made my day at the end
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here with that shake. If you're only listening to this,
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check out the video. Please make sure you support the
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content the creators that come on our show always. It's
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just it's important and it drives stories like this where
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you had a young girl here who sorry to bring
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it back and make it sound like a lifetime movie,
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but you went through a tough time in your life
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with somebody. You found somebody and it was just right
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and it just worked and it fits. And hopefully fifty
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years from now, you guys are still together and it
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still works and it still fits. But it's important to
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break yourself out of your negative prison, regardless of whether
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that's a bad relationship, Ajob, you hate whatever it is.
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You have one chance at life. Do it. You your
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husband are doing it, and I think that's very impressive.
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Ladies and gentlemen, tempting Tina, thank you so much for
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coming on with me today.
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Of course, thank you
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Do you watch some brand new faces.
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I'm your host, Matt, and I'm joined tonight by a
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very special guest, a girl I kept on hold for
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an hour, and we'll get into that bullshit later because
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it is never happened before, and I am shocked to death.
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She's still here. You find her on Twitter and only fans.
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I love when the name's magic gets me excited at
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tempting Tina with two a's on the end. So it's
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t I N A A. Ladies and gentlemen, My guests
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for the evening, the very lovely Tempting Tina. Do you
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go by Tina or tempting Tina.
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Tim or Tina's fine, Sorry.
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Tina's fine, Tina Tina. I have to start with the
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third RUTEUS question you can ask a woman. I apologize
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for it. The first RUDEUS question you can ask a woman.
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Don't answer the first. I had pitched it to a
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woman one time and she starts to answer, and I go, no, no, no,
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I don't want you to ask to answer all the
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rude questions. First route this is are you pregnant? Second
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one is how much do you weigh? Third question is
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and I hope this is not rough for you. Can
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I ask you how old you are?
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Thirty two?
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You look phenomenal for thirty two, Not that thirty two
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is anywhere near old, but I was gonna I was
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thinking twenty four to twenty five personally.
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Oh my gosh, we can't get married now if you want,
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that's fine, trust me. I thought I was like dying
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when I hit my thirties. I was like petrified. And
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I'm having more fun in my thirties than I did
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my twenties.
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So that's what I want to talk about, definitely, for sure.
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Let me ask you when did you make the crossover
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from vanilla world into whatever form of the adult entered
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aertainment industry you went into. Was it dancing? Was it camming?
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Was it what?
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Was it?
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Swinger parties?
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Like? When did you crossover? Not at all in a
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negative way. It almost sounds bad, like I'm going when
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did you lose your soul? But more more or less,
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when did you cross over into this world out of
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the vanilla world? And how did you decide to do it?
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And I want to delve deeper into that, but I
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don't want to cut you off on your story here.
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How did you decide to jump in.
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I don't know if I was ever vanilla in my life,
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but I definitely like started only fans, probably like the
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ending of the pandemic, so probably like twenty one ish. God,
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I can't believe it's been that long, but I I
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don't know. I was. I was not working because it
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was a shit time in the world, and I was like,
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you know what, I have a nice ass, let's post
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pictures on the internet. And it went well. And then
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I met my husband in twenty two and he was like,
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I love that you do this, like how I'm powering.
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I was sexy and like his ex wife kind of
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dabbled it in a little bit, but not to the
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not to the realm that we're in currently. And he
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had always like the hot wife scene and he's like, well, hey,
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you can go sleep with other people, and I'm like,
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sounds great to me. And then he's like, well, if
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you're doing it, you might as well record it. And
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then it kind of just stemmed from there. And then
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we found a group in Saint Louis that is called
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Life and Style and they're a swingers group. It's a
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huge community here. I was really surprised and like, we
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just it kind of just progressed from then. So we
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started out as kind of like a hot wife dynamic,
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and then we went into swingers probably like last year
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or the year before, and now I feel like we're
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like twenty one Olliver again, like discovering the world this season.
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All the interviews I've been doing this season have a
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really great theme where I've spoken to a lot of
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hot wive swingers, like the full gamut of that spectrum,
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and I have really learned so much about it from
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that now, not enough to convince my wife to ever
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do any of that, but I will say I have
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learned a lot of stuff about it that I had
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no idea about before work. Can we ask if you're
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comfortable with it? Can I ask what the dynamic of
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your relationship was when you first got into this. So
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it sounded like it was pitched like, hey, if you
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want to go do this, you're more than welcome to
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and you went say no more, boss, I'll go take
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care of it. But like were there were there were
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there boundaries set up in the beginning? Was it was
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there anything you guys maybe had to not push back on,
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But did either of you ever push back on anything?
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If you're comfortable talking about.
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Yeah.
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Absolutely. So my husband is like cool as a cucumber.
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That man is, like so he's so confident in our
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marriage and like who he is as a person. And
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you know, I've I've met a lot of people that
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are like monogamous. I mean, we're not polyamorous, but like
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we like I've met people that are like, how could
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you ever do that? Like how are you sure she's
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coming back? And he's like, we're best friends, Like I'm
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not concerned about that, and he's like, she just you know,
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likes to do certain things sexually that I might like
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or I might like something that she's not, you know,
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the biggest fan of and so and I was really
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surprised at that because you know, he was married before
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and I'm just like, how do you trust me so much?
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But it put a lot of trust to myself, like
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knowing that like he knows that I'm coming back. I
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know that I'm coming back, like I'm not doing anything wrong.
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And I mean we met on set life, so I
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mean we kind of knew that we were both freaks
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in the beginning, so we just kind of went with that.
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And now, like I said, he's kind of filmed with
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other people too, so he he definitely has his page,
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and like, if somebody needs a guy that you know
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they can trust, Like, I love that that's my husband,
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you know it, Like it turns me on even more
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and looks at him in such a different light, knowing that,
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like we are doing something that's harder for couples, and
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like you add content creation and swinging and all of
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this on top of it, and like we're we were
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both damaged when we came into the marriage, like we've
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been burned before, and we're just so comfortable with each other,
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and I I think it just makes us that much stronger.
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It really does.
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Funny, the outside stigma would look at this again, the
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same outside sigma that goes.
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Oh, these girls are so lazy. They just get up
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and fuck and go home and collect all their millions
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and millions of dollars. They're such a dumbess.
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Fuck yeah, do you understand what I would allow to
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happen to my ass if fucking it was as easy
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as that. Okay, my wife comes home, I'm limping. I
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just got to look a look, we can get the
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new patio. Okay, just let me sleep a little while.
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But what I am gathering information wise from this season
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is I am in the same boat, not negatively on
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the stigma side, but the thoughts would come into my mind,
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like if I let my wife go do something, she'll
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find something better.
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She'll leave me, she'll do this.
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What real love is and what I'm hearing from this
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community is there is such an immense trust there. Yeah,
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and that isn't that what love really is based on
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to begin with?
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Like if you hard though, how are you going to
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marry someone and do this and that?
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But in your head you go, well, I don't trust
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her to go talk to those guys over there, just
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in case it's like, well, I don't know that you
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fully one hundred percent love. Then now if you say
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I don't want my wife getting gang banged over there
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or dpe'ed, I go, you know what, I understand that.
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I'm not saying every man that doesn't want their wife
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in this lifestyle is a bad person. I just I
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don't like when dispersions are cast that, oh, this must
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mean these people feel this way, think this way, do this.
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No, No, it's a very you know.
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It's it's for the ones that are positive that I've
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seen and I've experienced and interviewed and talked to. It
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is kind of one of the most beautiful things in
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the world. It is an absolute trust where, yes, physically
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you might enjoy this person.
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Physically you might have one of the best nights of
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your life.
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Right I'm in the top three and the next who
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are you know the times you had over here? But
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I know at the end of the day you can
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come home, you can give me a kiss. We're gonna
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watch the same show as we always watch. We're gonna
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fucking rip on the people on TV. We're gonna talk
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about how dumb everyone is and how bad this writing is,
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and then we're gonna go to bed. And there is
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something that needs to be admired, at least for the
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level of love it seems like people in this community
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have for each.
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Other and for other people.
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Like I'm sure there's negatives and nasty stuff that goes
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on in this and behind the scenes and this and that,
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because there isn't anything but with this it almost sounds like, Hey,
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we're all just being open and honest and we're just
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telling you exactly what we want and how we feel.
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I think it's beautiful personally.
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Yeah, I mean, I was not a big communicator before. Before,
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like I was in a really abusive relationship, and like
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it was just like kind of the total opposite, Like
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how dare you wear leggings? You have a nice ass.
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I'm like that doesn't make any sense to me, but
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you know, and now, like we didn't talk, so now
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it's like I went through trauma. I mean, I went
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through trauma obviously for my last relationship, but I went
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through therapy. And like I realize now how much swinging
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and like the lifestyle and just content creation and stuff
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in general is so much communication. Like you have to
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be so honest with like yourself and others. Like conversations
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might be awkward, conversations might be like tense, but you
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have to have things you know, and it's it's like
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to the point that you know, going to parties, I'm like,
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when were you last tested? Like that's always my first question,
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and people are like, are you saying that I'm dirty?
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I'm like, no, this is my life, Like, this is
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my job, this is kind of like my livelihood, and
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you have to be safe and like you have to
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feel you have to know that everybody's comfortable in the
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same room or else, like it's going to be a
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bad experience and like that got that took me a
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long time to get there. Like I was just like, Okay,
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this is how I feel. I don't know how to
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say it correctly, but you know.
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I interviewed Jade Green, who is an author, which, by
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the way, folks, that was why I was late, not
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Jade's fault at all. I don't know time zones whatsoever.
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So tempting Tina. Hear two a's at the end, and
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that's where you can find her across all social media
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linked everything in the episode of description, but she was
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willing to stick it out and deal with my dumb
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face for a little bit. But the term I love
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that she used was cordially firm. Okay, I'm gonna be
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kind to you. I'm going to sweep, but I don't
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do this. It's just that I don't.
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I'm not gonna scream it. Yeah, I don't. Why would
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you even ask me that?
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It is all about communication, it feels like, and I
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find it so interesting. So the first time you decide,
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you both decide, hey, you're going to go do this?
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How is that set up? Do you are you.
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On fat life at that point, are you on another site?
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Are you looking for work? Are you looking for a
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guide that you can hook up with? Like what is
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the problem that?
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my husband, I was on OnlyFans. It wasn't like a
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bunch of platforms. I think it was just only Fans
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at that point. And like I thought at first, you know,
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I was like, oh, I'm just gonna post pictures of
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my butts and nudes and stuff. And I never knew
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it was going to be like this full, you know,
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porn scene. But how things transform as well. But he
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was just like, you know, I had a really good
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guy friend, and like we had been hooking up while
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we were both single, and like I we you know,
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when you get in a relationship you kind of talk
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about like flings and things. And he's like, well, if
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you want to go film with him? Like he's he's
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a black guy. You guys get a lot of like
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you get a lot of requests for black men, Like,
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no matter how hard I try, I'm not going to
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be black. So I might as well go find him,
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you know. And so we filmed and they're actually pretty
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good friends now, and like I just I I love
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you know how I came from a relationship that was
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like so much jealous, like I would spiral for days.
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If he's like, Wow, that girl's sexy as hell, I'd
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fuck the shit out of her. And I'm like, cool,
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I'm right here. But you know, with my husband, he
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very much is like he's just kind to everybody, Like
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it almost drives me crazy how like kind he is.
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I'm like, can't you just be like screwed?
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But he he really like he's like we have something
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in common. You think my wife's sexy as shit and
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want to sleep with her, and so do I Like
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there's a basis for a friendship, you know, Like it's
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it's just crazy. So I mean, I don't think that
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we ever had any like blips or anything, like we
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just kind of I was a hot wife for a
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long time. He loves to see, you know, the content.
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He loves to see me live in my best life.
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And then when we got into invited to the Life
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and Style party, he was like, so do you want
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am I allowed to? I'm like, yeah, you know whatever, like,
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and we've never had an issue, like We've been very
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fortunate to never have like a I can't believe you
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did that kind of situation.
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Can I ask, are there any hard boundaries set up?
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Or is everything in discussion, like as long as you're
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have you ever brought anything to him or has he
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ever brought anything to you where one or the other
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goes kind of like, I mean, let me think on that.
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I mean, I I think that I trust him so
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much because he's really transparent with things. You know, like
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my ex had a fet life, but like I didn't
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know about it, like it was so secret. And then
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you know, like my husband, he's he's like, if you
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need to see any conversation, like he always provides me
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that information up front. He's like, hey, I sent this
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other creator their stuff because he knows that I've been
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burned really bad and that I was, you know, that
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person that was like constantly checking phones and things because
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like I was put into that situation. So he's like,
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I never want you to feel inferior to another like
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woman or creator or whatever when it comes to me,
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like he's my biggest fan, and I think that's just incredible.
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Honestly, that's awesome. All Right, let's talk about some of
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the content.
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So, like you said earlier, you you know, people you
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get requests, Oh, we want to see you with black guys,
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or this and that. What are some of the other
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kinds of requests you've gotten that you know, I'm sure
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you could accomplish anything, but is there anything that you're
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looking to do where maybe you're thinking, oh, we have
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to just upgrade a little bit, either in terms of
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equipment or scheduling or this and that. Is there anything
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you're like, there's a plateau I want to hit. I
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want to hit this type of thing.
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Or are you good? Are you solid?
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Do you do everything within your means or do you
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guys learn things when you need to learn them. If
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you're like I really want to do this interesting camera shot,
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and husband's like, let me go watch some cinematography videos
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real quick and figure this shit out.
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Like I just where I think you live with us,
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I'm like, you know everything already. I'm like, you're spot
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on with the shows and spot on with this.
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I'm like, no, no, I think him and I are
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the same probably type of guy where I don't know
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for sure, but I know mine comes from being so
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exhausted with the world that you just start.
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Going, you know what, let it roll off my back, I'm.
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Gonna be cool about it. We'll jump into it whatever.
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And then privately with my wife it's a lot of
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fuck this. I hate this shit. This guy over here,
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fuck him, fuck her, blah blah blah.
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So uh yeah, yeah, yeah, all right.
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Is there is there anything like, are you guys moving
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towards something first? Something asks this, Let me let me
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recenter myself here. Is this currently your main career?
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It is? Yeah, I went full time last year last June. Okay,
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and it's been Oh my gosh, it's literally lit a here, gummy,
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that's exciting. But uh yeah, so it is, like you said,
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I think that I do try to, you know, if
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people have customs, I try to always like incorporate them
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because I'm like, it's something different, Like clearly somebody's telling
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me that they like, so, you know, it's something that
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I didn't think of. My husband is very People are
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probably gonna be so sick of hearing that at the
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end step as well. But he's very He's very excited
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when he like he's always looking for like new equipment.
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He just bought like a professional camera a couple months ago,
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and he's just he's so excited to learn about things
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like lighting and you know this, that and the other.
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Like he very much is the reason for like as
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good of content as I have, because I can't understand
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that side of things. I'm like, you just buy a
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trip on, throw your phone up, and you take pictures.
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But like he's he's so excited. He's also an engineer,
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so like that that explains a lot of it. But
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he's just always trying to learn new things. He's like,
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you know, writing this app for me about like how
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to how to manage my content on like my devices,
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and I'm just like I would have zero clue, like
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probably negative ideas on how to do something like that.
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So I mean, I really do feel like it's a
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joint effort for sure.
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You know, it's funny. It'd be funny.
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It'd be funny if he just always wished he went
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to film school. And he's like, I just gotta find
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one hot girl that'll fuck other guys block her in
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and then I can buy all the equipment I need
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to live through my dream.
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It's kind of crazy because he was married for sixteen
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years and I was his first aid after he got divorced,
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and like here we are, and I'm just like, I
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am very surprised that you were ready to have this
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much of a hot mess in your life.
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Not let me run through some of the likes and
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dislikes so we can give the people a little idea
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of maybe things they'll see they won't see. Can I ask,
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are you into girls? And have you always been into girls?
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If you are?
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Yeah, I think I was. I would think I was
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more into girls when I was younger than I than
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boys were. I was like, they're disgusting, they stink and
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they barely like I. I don't want them. I want
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this girl that has the beaded bracelets and all these
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colors on. Like it was just so there was so
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much more intriguing. Still love females, and like, I think
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that was another thing for my husband. He's like, I'm
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not a woman, Go sleep with all the women you want.
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I'm like, that is how I've always described it with
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a wife. Look with my wife.
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Look, I'm an apple. If you want a red apple,
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that's great, I'm a red apple. If you want to
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go fuck a green apple, I don't love that. You
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want to fuck an orange, I don't give a shit.
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I'm not an orange. By this term, women are oranges
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and men or apples.
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Here I go.
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I can't fulfill your citric needs in that sense, so
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please don't have your orange. Has there been any scenes
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or anything that you've walked in have they been pretty tame?
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And by that I mean you knew what you were
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coming into as you were doing it. My real question
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is has there been anything that when you've gotten to set,
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or you've been in the act or anything where it's
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like a little overwhelming You're where you maybe question yourself like,
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oh shit, was this a mistake?
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Oh no, Oh my gosh.
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It's really crazy that you ask me that, because I literally,
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at the end of May, I just had my first
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pro porn chewed and I'm really excited for it to
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come out. It was in Vegas, but like I kind
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of walked in and I, like you said, I had
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the oh shit, what is happening moment because like I
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don't know if I was, you know, that ready for
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like all the cameras and the lights and like you know,
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they're like I walk in and they're like, this is
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the scene, this is this is how you act. Like
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I don't know how to act at all. Like this
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is terrifying. I mean I know that porn is super cheesy,
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so when it comes out, I'm really cheesy in it.
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But yeah, it was just it was a lot, and
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you know, after after being on set for six and
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a half hours to get over a little over forty
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minutes of content is exhausting. I thought I was going
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to die the next day, Like I was like my
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thighs her jinas sore. I'm like, I am exhausted, and
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I'm like, you know, that's why it made me mad
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when all these people are like, oh, they don't do much,
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and it's like you have no idea, Like I'm ready
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to hire employees. I wish that I could do, Like
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it is a lot of work, like have four hundred
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people all need you at one time, and you're just like.
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Ah, going back to that outside stigma thing. It's always
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so funny they look, you know, and we're talking about
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the angry people, not all men. We're talking about the
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guys who will see a porn starn't immediately think local
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fook her da da da. But the idea is they're like, oh,
428
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she just doesn't feel like working. Now you quit an
429
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eight hour job most likely so you can start a
430
00:20:43.039 --> 00:20:46.960
sixteen hour job like where it's all about your personal
431
00:20:47.079 --> 00:20:50.000
brand and how much of yourself you're gonna put out
432
00:20:50.000 --> 00:20:53.480
there and how open and willing you'll be. Yeah, sure,
433
00:20:53.640 --> 00:20:56.759
lazy you go do it? Then, Okay, you go do
434
00:20:56.839 --> 00:20:59.319
it as you sit under your fluorescent lights in an office.
435
00:20:59.680 --> 00:21:02.000
If if that's what, Yeah, I just I wish I
436
00:21:02.039 --> 00:21:03.759
could have somebody to tell me what to do all
437
00:21:03.799 --> 00:21:07.200
the time, because I'm like with doing this, it's like, well,
438
00:21:07.200 --> 00:21:09.519
what do you think is best? And like we've had
439
00:21:09.519 --> 00:21:12.599
a couple of those scenarios where we're like, oh gosh,
440
00:21:12.640 --> 00:21:14.599
we don't know, and I'm like, let me pull out
441
00:21:14.599 --> 00:21:17.720
the Only Fans Handbook, Like no, you have to figure
442
00:21:17.720 --> 00:21:20.359
it out. And it's just like I'm very much like
443
00:21:20.960 --> 00:21:22.880
I am a people pleaser, so it is hard for
444
00:21:22.960 --> 00:21:25.680
me sometimes to be like no, I can't do that
445
00:21:25.799 --> 00:21:28.720
right now, or like I need to step away or
446
00:21:28.759 --> 00:21:33.799
you know whatever, and it's just it's extremely difficult.
447
00:21:33.880 --> 00:21:36.119
It's it's it's funny, that's the job.
448
00:21:36.319 --> 00:21:39.279
The job isn't fucking and having fun and you know
449
00:21:39.759 --> 00:21:44.240
gang the job, Yeah, the job. What you get paid
450
00:21:44.279 --> 00:21:48.200
for is the structuring things, the branding, how often you
451
00:21:48.240 --> 00:21:52.000
post communicating with people. It's not even about sex. It's
452
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about you are running a brand that is not Coca Cola.
453
00:21:56.920 --> 00:22:00.079
It is tempting Tina. You know, adi, you are the
454
00:22:00.119 --> 00:22:02.559
whole brand. Guess what tempting Tina is sick for a
455
00:22:02.599 --> 00:22:06.400
month and she's got a bad sinus infection. No tempting Tina.
456
00:22:06.720 --> 00:22:09.720
All right, there's no new content coming. See how terrible
457
00:22:09.759 --> 00:22:13.279
that would be. You are the brand, you are the company,
458
00:22:13.359 --> 00:22:16.440
you are everything. So I just always find it very,
459
00:22:16.839 --> 00:22:20.680
very impressive what you performers do. And again it might
460
00:22:20.720 --> 00:22:23.359
seem from the outside some guy being like, oh, he
461
00:22:23.519 --> 00:22:25.279
just wants to talk to porn stories about how they
462
00:22:25.319 --> 00:22:27.440
get fucked. Sure, I do want to hear about how
463
00:22:27.480 --> 00:22:31.200
you get fucked, But I also love diving into the
464
00:22:31.240 --> 00:22:34.039
personal aspect as well as much as people are willing
465
00:22:34.079 --> 00:22:38.519
to share about why this is so intriguing, why it
466
00:22:38.599 --> 00:22:41.319
draws them in. So let me ask you that we
467
00:22:41.400 --> 00:22:43.960
know the sex is fun you say you said in
468
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there too, not overwhelmed to the point where you can't
469
00:22:46.519 --> 00:22:48.599
do it, But you get hit with questions where you're
470
00:22:48.640 --> 00:22:51.160
kind of like, I don't I'm not positive on that.
471
00:22:51.400 --> 00:22:54.079
I gotta think on that, I gotta do whatever is
472
00:22:55.039 --> 00:22:59.720
this like I don't know how to word this properly.
473
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Is this the job you always want it at the
474
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end of the day, is there anything else If you
475
00:23:07.720 --> 00:23:10.480
could make the same money or better money doing other things,
476
00:23:10.559 --> 00:23:13.319
would you then pick up and do those other things instead?
477
00:23:13.960 --> 00:23:16.880
Or is this the thing that you're building because you
478
00:23:17.079 --> 00:23:19.720
realized deep down they is a passion of yours.
479
00:23:21.839 --> 00:23:26.039
I do love to do it. Uh So my main thing,
480
00:23:26.200 --> 00:23:28.440
Like when I was growing up and everything, I really
481
00:23:28.480 --> 00:23:31.039
wanted to be like a psychiatrist or like I wanted
482
00:23:31.079 --> 00:23:33.440
to do studies on people's brains and kind of find
483
00:23:33.440 --> 00:23:36.839
out why people do certain things or why why they
484
00:23:36.880 --> 00:23:40.240
turn out certain ways, you know. So I feel like
485
00:23:40.400 --> 00:23:43.440
this kind of creates still creates the space for me
486
00:23:43.519 --> 00:23:46.599
to find out things about people. Like you know, when
487
00:23:46.640 --> 00:23:48.400
you're standing in an elevator with somebody, you're not going
488
00:23:48.480 --> 00:23:52.160
to be like, so, what made you like BDSM? You know,
489
00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:54.640
like they're like, what the fuck are you talking about? Lady?
490
00:23:55.440 --> 00:23:58.680
But no, I mean like it's very intriguing because you
491
00:23:58.720 --> 00:24:00.480
don't have all the fluff of like like well, what's
492
00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:04.720
your favorite color, what's your favorite number, what's your dog's name?
493
00:24:04.759 --> 00:24:07.359
You know, like it's like, hey, this is what I like,
494
00:24:07.519 --> 00:24:10.240
and most people are like, oh, you're interested in why
495
00:24:10.279 --> 00:24:12.519
I like these things or you know, so I still
496
00:24:12.559 --> 00:24:14.559
get to pick people's brains. I mean, I get to
497
00:24:15.039 --> 00:24:18.000
talk to a bunch of people. It's I get to
498
00:24:18.160 --> 00:24:19.480
I get to sleep with a lot of people.
499
00:24:19.480 --> 00:24:19.920
I love that.
500
00:24:21.480 --> 00:24:25.200
And but I realized that it's it is a lot
501
00:24:25.240 --> 00:24:29.119
of things that weren't technically my strengths also, like you know,
502
00:24:29.160 --> 00:24:32.480
the decision making and like what do we do and
503
00:24:32.839 --> 00:24:35.079
you know, editing and things like that, and that's where
504
00:24:35.200 --> 00:24:37.559
like I am really grateful that I have my husband
505
00:24:37.640 --> 00:24:40.880
to do that those things also. But yes, I absolutely
506
00:24:40.880 --> 00:24:44.720
love doing this and I want to do it for
507
00:24:44.759 --> 00:24:45.519
as long as I can.
508
00:24:45.759 --> 00:24:48.400
Sure, do you have a release date on that mainstream
509
00:24:48.440 --> 00:24:53.640
scene yet or is that already? You said you shot.
510
00:24:53.759 --> 00:24:55.920
What is a Yeah, it'll be ready. I think they
511
00:24:55.920 --> 00:24:58.359
said it takes out two months to release it, but.
512
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:02.279
I won't announce it then. But can I ask what
513
00:25:02.319 --> 00:25:03.200
type of scene it was?
514
00:25:04.400 --> 00:25:06.559
It was just it was a BBC bord girl.
515
00:25:07.000 --> 00:25:09.480
Okay, all right, So I will ask you after the
516
00:25:09.519 --> 00:25:12.440
show who it is for so I can purchase a membership.
517
00:25:12.480 --> 00:25:15.839
Obviously, need to make sure to see that.
518
00:25:18.440 --> 00:25:21.480
I'll send it to you free. You're right, you're my people.
519
00:25:21.559 --> 00:25:25.559
Now, Oh, what are some Well, first question, what's your
520
00:25:25.599 --> 00:25:28.200
favorite color? No, I'm just kidding, going back to what
521
00:25:28.200 --> 00:25:30.119
he said about boring questions, I was gonna say, you
522
00:25:30.200 --> 00:25:32.000
fucking ruined my lightning round.
523
00:25:32.039 --> 00:25:34.920
Thank you? Favorite color go, favorite number go.
524
00:25:36.519 --> 00:25:39.599
But what are some of the requests you do get
525
00:25:39.799 --> 00:25:44.720
on only fans in terms of customs and how comfortable
526
00:25:44.799 --> 00:25:47.839
are you doing them? Like, what is your most requested
527
00:25:47.960 --> 00:25:48.839
type of custom?
528
00:25:49.000 --> 00:25:49.400
Do you know?
529
00:25:50.519 --> 00:25:54.799
I would say it's probably just like me solo masturating
530
00:25:54.880 --> 00:25:59.039
and like saying certain things or like using a certain
531
00:25:59.079 --> 00:26:01.400
toy or something that I want to see. So my
532
00:26:01.440 --> 00:26:06.799
customs right now, fingers crossed. They they're they're pretty easy
533
00:26:06.839 --> 00:26:09.440
as far as like how if I'm completing them or not.
534
00:26:10.119 --> 00:26:13.119
I do have certain people that are very particular about,
535
00:26:13.160 --> 00:26:14.920
you know, different things of like I want you to
536
00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:17.240
do this position for this long and then you switch
537
00:26:17.319 --> 00:26:19.799
to this and I'm like, okay, that's a lot. Let
538
00:26:19.839 --> 00:26:23.839
me try to remember. But I definitely, we definitely do
539
00:26:24.079 --> 00:26:27.119
try to do most people's requests. I mean, obviously there's
540
00:26:27.160 --> 00:26:30.759
things like I've had people ask me to do certain
541
00:26:30.759 --> 00:26:32.960
things with like animals, and I'm like, I'm not doing that.
542
00:26:33.079 --> 00:26:36.200
I'm not you know, we're not I love animals, not
543
00:26:36.279 --> 00:26:37.119
in that way like.
544
00:26:37.119 --> 00:26:39.400
I used to on the show.
545
00:26:39.480 --> 00:26:42.279
I used to call it sack And anytime I would ask,
546
00:26:42.319 --> 00:26:44.279
you would be like, what's a niche or a fetish?
547
00:26:44.319 --> 00:26:45.880
You just have no interest in pursuing.
548
00:26:46.440 --> 00:26:49.720
And every time, inevitably, and like the first season, people
549
00:26:49.759 --> 00:26:52.359
would go, well, like I don't want to fuck any animals.
550
00:26:52.480 --> 00:26:54.279
I go, oh, I know that, Like if you're on
551
00:26:54.400 --> 00:26:58.000
air with you, I'm gonna have to go if you
552
00:26:58.240 --> 00:27:00.920
if you are into that, so right, But a sack
553
00:27:01.039 --> 00:27:07.160
is my dog shit, animals and kids those obviously way off.
554
00:27:07.559 --> 00:27:10.839
Is there anything else sexually that maybe you're just not
555
00:27:10.880 --> 00:27:13.039
that you won't do it or but you're just like
556
00:27:13.240 --> 00:27:17.400
not into whatever this niche is, whatever this trend is,
557
00:27:17.519 --> 00:27:18.319
like it's not your.
558
00:27:18.200 --> 00:27:21.559
Favorite, but you know, are you are you in defeat
559
00:27:21.599 --> 00:27:23.400
at all? Do you mind doing foot stuff?
560
00:27:23.920 --> 00:27:29.440
I don't, ironically though I've had I've had six ankle surgeries,
561
00:27:29.480 --> 00:27:31.640
so feet stuff is not always the easiest for me.
562
00:27:33.319 --> 00:27:35.799
But other than that, I mean not that I really
563
00:27:35.880 --> 00:27:38.240
know of. I mean I'm not super big and like
564
00:27:38.799 --> 00:27:41.880
you know, urinating or videos. But like, I'm not going
565
00:27:41.920 --> 00:27:43.839
to yuck someone deal. If that's what you're into, I'll
566
00:27:43.880 --> 00:27:46.079
do it. It's just not something that I can really
567
00:27:46.160 --> 00:27:50.039
like relate to. So I'm like, am I doing this correctly? Like?
568
00:27:50.240 --> 00:27:51.319
Am I? You know?
569
00:27:51.440 --> 00:27:51.559
So?
570
00:27:51.920 --> 00:27:53.680
I always want to make sure that you know they
571
00:27:54.559 --> 00:27:57.799
they get what they pay for and that they are pleased, because,
572
00:27:57.839 --> 00:27:59.839
like I said, I'm definitely a people pleaser when you
573
00:27:59.920 --> 00:28:02.880
go to things, and I think that's why I'm very
574
00:28:02.960 --> 00:28:05.480
much you know why I do have some really loyal
575
00:28:05.519 --> 00:28:08.559
fans because they know that, like I really care to
576
00:28:08.640 --> 00:28:09.400
do a good job.
577
00:28:09.680 --> 00:28:13.400
Yeah, is there anything you turned down custom wise? Again,
578
00:28:13.720 --> 00:28:17.759
not anything illegal, but just because it makes you uncomfortable,
579
00:28:17.839 --> 00:28:20.559
like if someone if someone wants you to play like
580
00:28:20.599 --> 00:28:24.400
their mother or something, or their daughter or something like that.
581
00:28:24.880 --> 00:28:25.799
I have a.
582
00:28:25.759 --> 00:28:29.119
Great story the episode I did with brayavon Doom. She
583
00:28:29.319 --> 00:28:33.559
told the most insane fucking request I've ever heard, and
584
00:28:33.599 --> 00:28:35.960
I posted it as a short on YouTube and it
585
00:28:36.039 --> 00:28:39.400
got like one hundred and fifty views. She told me
586
00:28:40.039 --> 00:28:43.640
that she had a politician which she would not name on.
587
00:28:43.599 --> 00:28:45.720
Air, and she didn't name it off air. If I'm
588
00:28:45.720 --> 00:28:46.480
being honest with you.
589
00:28:46.400 --> 00:28:49.400
Either, but she had a politician who reached out and
590
00:28:49.680 --> 00:28:53.599
wanted her to pretend to be his daughter.
591
00:28:54.359 --> 00:28:58.799
Okay, but also to pretend to be drowning out in
592
00:28:58.880 --> 00:29:08.279
the pool. YO. First off, Fuck, I have questions, what
593
00:29:09.000 --> 00:29:12.000
is there anything you get that you are right?
594
00:29:12.079 --> 00:29:13.960
I understand what you're saying there, But is there do
595
00:29:14.039 --> 00:29:16.759
you think there would be anything again within the legal
596
00:29:16.799 --> 00:29:19.759
realm where you go, I'm not.
597
00:29:19.720 --> 00:29:22.279
Comfortable playing a mom. I'm not comfortable.
598
00:29:22.519 --> 00:29:26.279
Uncomfortable play your stepdaughter, but I'm not comfortable playing your daughter.
599
00:29:26.480 --> 00:29:29.160
Like is there any line you would draw in that sense?
600
00:29:30.400 --> 00:29:33.279
Yeah? I mean I definitely think there's there's things like
601
00:29:33.319 --> 00:29:35.599
that that, like, you know, I don't think of until
602
00:29:35.680 --> 00:29:37.160
something comes up and I'm like, oh, I don't. I
603
00:29:37.160 --> 00:29:40.880
don't think that I'm cool with that obviously, like age
604
00:29:40.880 --> 00:29:44.279
play with like pass fires and diapers. I'm just not
605
00:29:44.400 --> 00:29:48.279
comfortable doing because there is you know, a lot of
606
00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:50.880
panos and stuff out there and I'm just not, No,
607
00:29:51.000 --> 00:29:52.839
I don't want to be a part of that. But
608
00:29:53.519 --> 00:29:57.279
I think that, you know, some I think I've had
609
00:29:57.319 --> 00:30:00.759
people request me to like be rac and like say
610
00:30:00.759 --> 00:30:02.640
the N word. I'm like, I'm not going to do that,
611
00:30:02.960 --> 00:30:06.559
Like no. I just my thought is just be a
612
00:30:06.599 --> 00:30:09.759
decent human and like just roll with that, you know,
613
00:30:09.880 --> 00:30:12.119
if it makes you uncomfy, like the answer is now.
614
00:30:12.440 --> 00:30:12.880
Yeah.
615
00:30:12.960 --> 00:30:17.200
I've spoken to black male performers who have no issue
616
00:30:17.240 --> 00:30:18.799
with it. They're like, yeah, the race play that, I
617
00:30:18.799 --> 00:30:20.519
don't give a shit, I'm fucking I'm doing this and that.
618
00:30:20.640 --> 00:30:23.000
And then I've spoken to other black performers who are
619
00:30:23.039 --> 00:30:26.039
just like, yo, I'll swing on you like it's gonna
620
00:30:26.039 --> 00:30:28.119
be a fist bite, just so you know one side
621
00:30:28.200 --> 00:30:30.720
or the other. I totally get it, and I make
622
00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:34.839
no I cast no dispersions on women that do want
623
00:30:34.880 --> 00:30:38.079
to do that in private, because I don't. Maybe I'm wrong,
624
00:30:38.119 --> 00:30:40.279
maybe that maybe they have a racist thing to them,
625
00:30:40.559 --> 00:30:44.799
But my view is you're performing, you know you're performing.
626
00:30:44.880 --> 00:30:47.359
These people aren't actually bank roppers when you watch them
627
00:30:47.359 --> 00:30:50.440
in movies. This guy's not actually in the clan when
628
00:30:50.440 --> 00:30:53.599
you watch it in movies, like they are performing. So
629
00:30:54.559 --> 00:30:56.680
I never come down hard on people for that. But
630
00:30:56.720 --> 00:30:59.759
I totally and completely understand why you want't want to
631
00:30:59.839 --> 00:31:03.519
it of you out there topless saying certain words, right,
632
00:31:03.599 --> 00:31:10.640
it's just never great, all right, all right? So man,
633
00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:14.079
it's just I don't know. I have so much running
634
00:31:14.079 --> 00:31:17.680
through my head right now about this. It may be
635
00:31:17.720 --> 00:31:19.400
too personal and cut me off.
636
00:31:19.400 --> 00:31:19.880
If it is.
637
00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:22.880
I totally understand that, because I want to dive back
638
00:31:22.880 --> 00:31:27.039
into the lifestyle question real fast. But your husband and
639
00:31:27.200 --> 00:31:30.799
what you've experienced through this and that I am just
640
00:31:30.960 --> 00:31:33.319
learning for the first time, not during this episode, but
641
00:31:33.400 --> 00:31:34.200
during this season.
642
00:31:34.880 --> 00:31:36.119
Is your husband.
643
00:31:35.839 --> 00:31:39.599
Into any of the humiliation part or is it purely
644
00:31:39.680 --> 00:31:43.319
about watching not of your obviously, but like, does he
645
00:31:43.440 --> 00:31:46.160
ever like to be insulted by the guy or anything
646
00:31:46.200 --> 00:31:50.279
like that? You from the outside stigma, right, you need
647
00:31:50.359 --> 00:31:53.279
the term cuck again. Someone who has no concept of
648
00:31:53.319 --> 00:31:56.839
it would go cook, and you would go he probably
649
00:31:56.880 --> 00:31:59.160
likes to get kurs edad and.
650
00:31:59.240 --> 00:32:00.680
Told he sucked and this and that.
651
00:32:01.880 --> 00:32:04.200
Everyone I've interviewed this season goes, No, my husband's not
652
00:32:04.200 --> 00:32:06.119
a cook, Like he smiles in the corner as I'm
653
00:32:06.119 --> 00:32:08.200
getting fucked and blah blah blah and this and that.
654
00:32:08.480 --> 00:32:11.200
Is your husband that way or does he have specific
655
00:32:11.240 --> 00:32:12.319
things he liked?
656
00:32:12.960 --> 00:32:15.640
He definitely is that way. Like I said, he he's
657
00:32:15.720 --> 00:32:19.079
not a cook and like it kind of not necessarily
658
00:32:19.079 --> 00:32:22.319
like makes me mad, but I'm very quick to correct
659
00:32:22.400 --> 00:32:24.519
somebody if they say that, I'm like, no, no, he's not.
660
00:32:25.839 --> 00:32:29.079
But he just he loves to see me live my
661
00:32:29.119 --> 00:32:31.799
best life. And he's like, you know, we when we
662
00:32:31.880 --> 00:32:35.000
experience certain things, he's like, who the hell did I marry?
663
00:32:35.160 --> 00:32:38.759
Like wait a minute, I'm learning about her just and
664
00:32:38.880 --> 00:32:43.000
so I think that he's just like, you know, why
665
00:32:43.160 --> 00:32:44.960
eat this one ice cream for the rest of your
666
00:32:44.960 --> 00:32:48.039
life when your favorite flavor is like four of them?
667
00:32:48.279 --> 00:32:51.359
You know, He's just like you you live your best life.
668
00:32:51.359 --> 00:32:53.000
And most of the time he films for me, so
669
00:32:53.519 --> 00:32:57.119
like he's very much he did like watching stuff, and
670
00:32:57.160 --> 00:32:59.240
he's still like he tells me all the time that
671
00:32:59.240 --> 00:33:01.599
I'm his favorite porn sorry, and I'm like stop stop
672
00:33:01.640 --> 00:33:02.119
it right now.
673
00:33:02.160 --> 00:33:03.319
But like he.
674
00:33:03.279 --> 00:33:05.599
Loves to watch the videos. But now he's very much
675
00:33:05.720 --> 00:33:07.839
like I think he sees it as more of like
676
00:33:08.519 --> 00:33:11.480
I want to deliver great content to her fans, and
677
00:33:11.519 --> 00:33:13.319
like he that's more of what's going on his head
678
00:33:13.319 --> 00:33:15.720
than like, oh my god, she looks so sexy. Like
679
00:33:16.119 --> 00:33:18.039
he's just like, let me get this angle. I'm like,
680
00:33:19.480 --> 00:33:20.000
I love it.
681
00:33:20.519 --> 00:33:23.279
You're wrong. He's a secret film school boy. He went
682
00:33:23.319 --> 00:33:26.599
to engineering school. And ask him, I'm gonna be like he.
683
00:33:26.480 --> 00:33:29.359
Did engineering, because he goes, I gotta make some money somewhere.
684
00:33:29.480 --> 00:33:31.880
I gotta do something. People with film degrees probably just
685
00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:34.920
end up doing podcasts ten years later they do.
686
00:33:36.400 --> 00:33:39.519
But uh, he's a secret film guy. I can tell.
687
00:33:39.559 --> 00:33:41.599
I can. I can feel it on him that.
688
00:33:41.519 --> 00:33:45.279
He gets I I think so because he'll always like
689
00:33:45.720 --> 00:33:48.680
he's really good at quoting movies and stuff. And I
690
00:33:48.759 --> 00:33:50.799
people laugh when they find this out, But I'm really
691
00:33:50.839 --> 00:33:53.880
bad at like watching movies. Like when I was growing up,
692
00:33:53.920 --> 00:33:56.839
couldn't sit still long enough now can't sit so long enough.
693
00:33:56.880 --> 00:33:58.079
So like he'll like.
694
00:33:58.119 --> 00:34:00.160
Quote a movie or like be like, is this what's
695
00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:03.640
this actor? I'm like, I don't know if it's not
696
00:34:03.680 --> 00:34:07.839
like Mean Girls, Jurassic Park. I don't know if it's
697
00:34:07.839 --> 00:34:09.480
not these three movies. I got nothing.
698
00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:13.920
I'm so, oh God, maybe you do live in our
699
00:34:13.920 --> 00:34:15.039
house with us, you guys.
700
00:34:15.079 --> 00:34:17.039
I don't know. I need to go downstairs because I.
701
00:34:17.079 --> 00:34:19.400
Sit here with my wife and we'll watch a movie,
702
00:34:19.719 --> 00:34:22.039
and the whole time, I just go, is that that
703
00:34:22.079 --> 00:34:22.920
guy from that thing?
704
00:34:23.280 --> 00:34:23.760
How about this?
705
00:34:23.840 --> 00:34:25.559
I'll look it up, I'll pull it up, and the
706
00:34:25.639 --> 00:34:28.159
whole time we're watching a movie, I'm just going you see,
707
00:34:28.199 --> 00:34:30.119
so that was the guy he was in that other thing.
708
00:34:30.199 --> 00:34:32.559
We watch it and she's just sitting there going shut
709
00:34:32.679 --> 00:34:35.320
shut the fuck in her head. She's just quietly going
710
00:34:35.480 --> 00:34:38.360
shut the fuck up, please. So I get it.
711
00:34:38.760 --> 00:34:41.480
I literally just watched like Sandlot for the first time
712
00:34:41.599 --> 00:34:45.400
like three years ago. Like, okay, I'm I'm about like
713
00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:47.039
thirty years behind on movies.
714
00:34:47.199 --> 00:34:48.800
No, I understand, I understand.
715
00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:52.039
It's I interviewed a younger girl at some point who
716
00:34:52.119 --> 00:34:54.079
is a film person, and I was ready to dive
717
00:34:54.159 --> 00:34:56.000
into film, and I go, what are some of your
718
00:34:56.000 --> 00:34:58.199
favorite movies? And she names shit of the last like
719
00:34:58.360 --> 00:35:01.920
six years and I was like, oh no, I don't
720
00:35:01.960 --> 00:35:02.960
even I don't even.
721
00:35:02.880 --> 00:35:04.320
Know how to put that in the past.
722
00:35:04.519 --> 00:35:07.599
Ye yeah, yeah, I know you would have like kids
723
00:35:07.599 --> 00:35:08.920
and animals, you're okay with them?
724
00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:10.639
She goes, yeah, yeah, yeah. I go Okay, we got
725
00:35:10.639 --> 00:35:12.400
to end this show right now. I gotta wrap it up.
726
00:35:14.800 --> 00:35:20.880
One one last question about your relationship. So you said
727
00:35:21.000 --> 00:35:24.760
he has he started performing as well. Okay, So here's
728
00:35:24.760 --> 00:35:26.880
what I'm gonna do. Here's a follow for him on
729
00:35:26.920 --> 00:35:31.639
Twitter at am I getting this right at Joyce stick Johnson. Yep, okay,
730
00:35:31.679 --> 00:35:33.920
I'll put his links in the episode description as well,
731
00:35:34.000 --> 00:35:35.880
just in case people want to reach out if you
732
00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:36.719
want that, if not.
733
00:35:36.760 --> 00:35:38.880
Let me know I won't.
734
00:35:39.360 --> 00:35:44.320
Did you have to overcome any of those feelings when
735
00:35:44.760 --> 00:35:48.039
he started performing or acting with another person or just
736
00:35:48.159 --> 00:35:51.719
in lifestyle in general? Sounds these questions don't even make
737
00:35:51.760 --> 00:35:53.519
sense as much because you were in the fat life
738
00:35:53.559 --> 00:35:56.039
community and this and that I'm trying to figure it out.
739
00:35:56.079 --> 00:35:59.880
We both agree the outside stigma and the way the
740
00:36:00.079 --> 00:36:04.400
quote unquote normal normal vanilla world works is we get
741
00:36:04.519 --> 00:36:07.039
jealous if our you know, person wants to go off
742
00:36:07.039 --> 00:36:09.079
and do anything. Did you just have it in your
743
00:36:09.119 --> 00:36:11.360
head or was it and I hate to bring it up,
744
00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:13.320
but was it coming out of that bad relationship where
745
00:36:13.320 --> 00:36:16.159
you almost went like we're gonna just try something totally
746
00:36:16.639 --> 00:36:17.639
new this time.
747
00:36:18.000 --> 00:36:21.800
Yeah. I think it was kind of both. So, like
748
00:36:21.840 --> 00:36:26.639
I said, he is so great when he he's like, hey,
749
00:36:27.880 --> 00:36:31.599
this is everything this person asks like he will always
750
00:36:31.679 --> 00:36:33.480
come find me. He's like, I have to run it
751
00:36:33.480 --> 00:36:36.639
by her because, like, you know, we're a team. Like
752
00:36:36.679 --> 00:36:40.000
that's that's just how it works. So there was an
753
00:36:40.039 --> 00:36:42.119
instance where I got jealous. I think of just like
754
00:36:42.199 --> 00:36:44.559
the way that somebody reached out to him, which now
755
00:36:44.639 --> 00:36:47.760
she's ironically amazing and I love her pieces, but I
756
00:36:47.800 --> 00:36:50.639
told her, like, you know, it's just a lot of
757
00:36:50.639 --> 00:36:54.119
emotion there. But instead of somebody saying like, hey, I'm
758
00:36:54.119 --> 00:36:56.840
a perform like hey, I do OnlyFans and like can
759
00:36:57.159 --> 00:36:59.599
would you be available or can you you know, do
760
00:36:59.679 --> 00:37:03.480
this for me, she was just like, hey, when you
761
00:37:03.480 --> 00:37:05.760
want to collab? And I'm like, you know, I don't
762
00:37:05.880 --> 00:37:09.840
think that she meant anything by it, but like I
763
00:37:09.960 --> 00:37:12.519
was just like, who is that? You know? It was
764
00:37:12.599 --> 00:37:16.840
just a little bit more casual than normal, and I'm like, well,
765
00:37:16.880 --> 00:37:20.000
maybe she just realizes that like men can only read
766
00:37:20.079 --> 00:37:22.320
about this much at a time and like process it
767
00:37:22.920 --> 00:37:25.760
or you know, She's just like that's just that's who
768
00:37:26.199 --> 00:37:29.280
her personality. And like I said, there was no nothing
769
00:37:29.360 --> 00:37:31.920
bad by it. It was just like whoa, Okay, who
770
00:37:32.000 --> 00:37:33.360
is this? Why does she want to sleep with you
771
00:37:33.440 --> 00:37:33.800
so bad?
772
00:37:33.920 --> 00:37:34.079
You know?
773
00:37:34.239 --> 00:37:39.880
Like and so I think that, but he's just really
774
00:37:40.039 --> 00:37:44.599
he's really careful around my feelings, and like I think
775
00:37:44.639 --> 00:37:47.840
that when he started filming, I don't think that I
776
00:37:47.880 --> 00:37:50.639
was necessarily like upset by it by any means, because
777
00:37:50.639 --> 00:37:53.199
like he was always mostly in my stuff, like if
778
00:37:53.239 --> 00:37:55.199
it was a threesome as me and somebody else or
779
00:37:55.239 --> 00:37:58.639
like a swap or and that's kind of how it started.
780
00:37:58.719 --> 00:38:01.400
So I don't think. I think maybe if it was
781
00:38:01.480 --> 00:38:03.639
just like him branching off and doing his own thing
782
00:38:03.760 --> 00:38:05.599
would have been a little bit harder for me to
783
00:38:05.639 --> 00:38:08.559
transition into. But like, you know, then he's like, oh,
784
00:38:08.599 --> 00:38:11.360
she wants to film you know, two males, and she
785
00:38:11.440 --> 00:38:13.440
asked me, and I'm like, go for it, you know,
786
00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:18.119
like yeah, absolutely, you're verified, you're respectful, and you have
787
00:38:18.119 --> 00:38:20.800
a nice stick, and like she needs you, so yeah,
788
00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:21.920
we help each other out.
789
00:38:22.599 --> 00:38:25.440
It's funny I think about it, and it really kind
790
00:38:25.440 --> 00:38:27.519
of goes back to love and it kind of goes
791
00:38:27.599 --> 00:38:30.960
back to our basic human instincts where this girl is
792
00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:34.079
eventually gonna fuck and suck your husband's dick and everything else.
793
00:38:34.320 --> 00:38:37.119
What really irked to us the way she said it
794
00:38:37.199 --> 00:38:40.960
wrong at the beginning, and I totally get that too. Again,
795
00:38:41.039 --> 00:38:43.440
someone else I spoke to this season in the Hot
796
00:38:43.480 --> 00:38:45.880
Wife Life and everything else and this and that she
797
00:38:46.000 --> 00:38:48.280
said when her husband got into it, she was like,
798
00:38:48.320 --> 00:38:50.440
I watched him fuck all these girls and get blown
799
00:38:50.480 --> 00:38:52.480
and I felt nothing. And then one girl kind of
800
00:38:52.519 --> 00:38:56.599
pushed his hair back, and I got rageful right there.
801
00:38:56.679 --> 00:39:00.960
I got angry, and it's like, yeah, I get it.
802
00:39:00.159 --> 00:39:03.920
Because I think you ask kind of what boundaries we have,
803
00:39:04.039 --> 00:39:06.920
and like I don't think that he's kissed a lot,
804
00:39:07.039 --> 00:39:09.880
Like he doesn't kiss women when he films, obviously, like
805
00:39:10.280 --> 00:39:12.840
it's just a more romantic thing. And I'm just like,
806
00:39:13.360 --> 00:39:14.880
I don't know how i'd feel if I look over
807
00:39:14.920 --> 00:39:17.079
and he's just like making out with some woman or somebody,
808
00:39:17.119 --> 00:39:19.199
be like, what what's happening here?
809
00:39:19.760 --> 00:39:21.119
And you have to understand.
810
00:39:21.119 --> 00:39:23.800
You have to understand why you're good, but God forbid
811
00:39:23.840 --> 00:39:24.760
you kiss him.
812
00:39:25.159 --> 00:39:25.960
What you have.
813
00:39:27.440 --> 00:39:29.719
To go back to your brain prior to this, and
814
00:39:29.760 --> 00:39:32.519
you have to understand how crazy it sounds to go,
815
00:39:32.960 --> 00:39:35.880
do not kiss him, Just suck his dick and swallow
816
00:39:35.920 --> 00:39:36.280
his load.
817
00:39:36.320 --> 00:39:39.719
Okay, just do that. You know your job. Don't kiss him.
818
00:39:39.920 --> 00:39:42.119
And then from the outside, I can kind of understand
819
00:39:42.119 --> 00:39:44.639
why the haters are kind of like, oh, that is odd.
820
00:39:45.079 --> 00:39:47.960
That is an odd thing when we really think about it.
821
00:39:47.960 --> 00:39:51.440
But I understand it because there's different forms of love
822
00:39:51.760 --> 00:39:55.719
and there's different ways we communicate love. It all goes
823
00:39:55.760 --> 00:39:59.480
back to communication. Like you said, you know you don't
824
00:39:59.480 --> 00:40:03.360
see your has been fucking some lady as necessarily communicating love,
825
00:40:03.480 --> 00:40:07.880
You're communicating sexuality or joy this and that, but not love.
826
00:40:08.159 --> 00:40:11.320
And the second he you know, she held this face
827
00:40:11.400 --> 00:40:14.119
and let him I'm gonna make you rageful right now
828
00:40:14.119 --> 00:40:17.079
and let him know like you are so wonderful to
829
00:40:17.159 --> 00:40:20.280
work with. Tempting Tina would just be like tempting Tina
830
00:40:20.360 --> 00:40:21.960
becomes fucking swinging Tina.
831
00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:22.920
At that point, all.
832
00:40:22.960 --> 00:40:25.960
Right, why she you back off.
833
00:40:27.400 --> 00:40:27.960
Nice to him?
834
00:40:28.239 --> 00:40:28.880
I'm just joking.
835
00:40:30.199 --> 00:40:33.000
Last question I have for you here, Tina, what are
836
00:40:33.719 --> 00:40:37.159
we doing in the future? Do you see this at
837
00:40:37.280 --> 00:40:40.719
Can I ask this personal question? Don't answer, don't answer details.
838
00:40:41.239 --> 00:40:43.480
Is this your husband's career now as well? Is he's
839
00:40:43.519 --> 00:40:45.239
still maintaining the day job.
840
00:40:45.039 --> 00:40:45.519
And then.
841
00:40:46.960 --> 00:40:49.639
We we do you know this on the side for him,
842
00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:51.159
but this is your job job.
843
00:40:51.719 --> 00:40:55.519
Yeah, he still has his career, gotcha, And I don't
844
00:40:55.519 --> 00:40:58.880
see that going anywhere for at least a long time.
845
00:40:58.920 --> 00:41:02.679
He loves his job and he works from home, so
846
00:41:02.760 --> 00:41:05.199
he like does a remote job and so he kind
847
00:41:05.199 --> 00:41:08.960
of makes his own schedule. It's like, so he still
848
00:41:09.039 --> 00:41:12.119
works like he's that person that wakes up for no
849
00:41:12.239 --> 00:41:14.679
reason at like five am and He's like, well, what
850
00:41:14.679 --> 00:41:16.440
am I going to do? Go bang somebody at five
851
00:41:16.480 --> 00:41:19.360
and you know, do this. But like he's he loves
852
00:41:19.400 --> 00:41:23.800
doing his job, and so yeah, I think that I
853
00:41:23.800 --> 00:41:24.679
think he's happy with her.
854
00:41:24.719 --> 00:41:24.960
He is.
855
00:41:25.119 --> 00:41:25.960
I think I think.
856
00:41:26.039 --> 00:41:29.760
My question to piggyback on that was more as you
857
00:41:29.800 --> 00:41:32.840
guys grow, as you guys become more successful, do you
858
00:41:34.000 --> 00:41:35.880
One of the best stories I ever heard was kat
859
00:41:35.920 --> 00:41:39.000
Karma Orgasmic. She's a girl that's been on every season
860
00:41:39.079 --> 00:41:39.440
so far.
861
00:41:39.599 --> 00:41:40.400
She's the only.
862
00:41:40.199 --> 00:41:42.840
Repeat guest I have because she's one of the first
863
00:41:42.840 --> 00:41:43.920
people I met in the industry.
864
00:41:43.960 --> 00:41:48.360
She's total sweetheart. It made me so happy to hear her.
865
00:41:48.480 --> 00:41:50.639
She was working a job, her husband was working a job,
866
00:41:51.039 --> 00:41:53.000
and one time I interviewed her and she said, we
867
00:41:53.079 --> 00:41:56.400
realized we were losing out on money by working day
868
00:41:56.480 --> 00:41:57.719
jobs because we could be.
869
00:41:57.719 --> 00:42:00.639
Home editing, we could be home posting this and that.
870
00:42:01.159 --> 00:42:03.800
And my hope is if he loves his job, that's fine,
871
00:42:03.800 --> 00:42:06.320
tell him to keep his job. But I would love
872
00:42:06.360 --> 00:42:08.400
for you to get to the point where it is
873
00:42:08.440 --> 00:42:11.159
so big you have to look at him and go like, dude,
874
00:42:11.239 --> 00:42:14.840
we're leaving so much money on the table, and for
875
00:42:14.960 --> 00:42:18.559
him to go fine, I will become a professional guy
876
00:42:18.639 --> 00:42:21.159
that fucks and film the guy.
877
00:42:22.159 --> 00:42:23.880
He's probably gonna be like, why'd you say I love
878
00:42:23.920 --> 00:42:26.679
my job that much? I leave them fuckers in an instant. No,
879
00:42:28.960 --> 00:42:30.960
He's like, do you see the women that we work with?
880
00:42:31.000 --> 00:42:36.199
Sometimes like by everybody? No, but I do. I mean
881
00:42:36.280 --> 00:42:40.039
he loves like he loves not only just like doing
882
00:42:40.119 --> 00:42:43.280
one thing. Like he's like he'll edit. I'll see him
883
00:42:43.280 --> 00:42:45.599
like watching videos about like how do you use this
884
00:42:45.639 --> 00:42:49.559
new editor or like whatever, and he he just he's
885
00:42:49.599 --> 00:42:52.199
so passionate about the stuff that he does. So he's like,
886
00:42:52.440 --> 00:42:55.159
you know, I'm not using cap cut. He's using you know,
887
00:42:55.639 --> 00:42:58.239
like this. We'll be watching shows and he's like, that's
888
00:42:58.280 --> 00:42:59.719
the same editing software.
889
00:42:59.320 --> 00:42:59.760
That I use.
890
00:43:00.199 --> 00:43:04.199
Like that's wild. You know that he learns these things
891
00:43:04.280 --> 00:43:07.440
so he I think he definitely would like he loves
892
00:43:07.440 --> 00:43:10.000
to edit. He loves to learn about like lighting and
893
00:43:10.039 --> 00:43:12.920
cameras and oh I'm going to need this, and like
894
00:43:14.199 --> 00:43:16.880
he's so excited and like of course he's he's definitely
895
00:43:16.880 --> 00:43:19.039
not mad when he gets double bow jobs or you
896
00:43:19.039 --> 00:43:22.559
know whatever. He's like, I'm not mad about this at all,
897
00:43:22.760 --> 00:43:25.280
you know, but sure, yeah, yeah, I.
898
00:43:26.800 --> 00:43:29.440
It sounds like he's a learner. Is what he likes
899
00:43:29.480 --> 00:43:29.760
to do?
900
00:43:29.760 --> 00:43:32.960
Does he like to like take on new challenges and tasks?
901
00:43:33.000 --> 00:43:35.159
And you know, some.
902
00:43:35.239 --> 00:43:36.960
Days he'll like wake up and he's like, I think
903
00:43:36.960 --> 00:43:38.920
I'm gonna learned how to develop pictures today?
904
00:43:39.519 --> 00:43:43.960
What for? Why just just just even shit we don't
905
00:43:44.079 --> 00:43:46.840
necessarily need anymore. He's like, I'm going to learn how
906
00:43:46.880 --> 00:43:48.840
to drive a horse and buggy and you go.
907
00:43:49.119 --> 00:43:52.599
Right like some crazy stuff, and I'm like, more power
908
00:43:52.639 --> 00:43:55.559
to you, because I don't have a mental capacity for
909
00:43:55.599 --> 00:43:57.920
half the shit I even need to learn. Like so
910
00:43:58.280 --> 00:44:00.599
you know that's why you know power cup all the way?
911
00:44:00.880 --> 00:44:02.039
Like I love it.
912
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So let me ask you what are you doing to
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improve yourself in the fields that you do handle within
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your business? Like?
915
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What is something you would want to improve?
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Do you want to get back on your you know,
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do you want to respond back to people faster? Do
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you want to get content out faster? Do you wanna
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you know, is there anything you can improve upon? Not
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even as a performer. You're beautiful, obviously you love sucking,
921
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apparently according to all of the posts I see, But
922
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is there anything you feel like you can improve on
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just as a as a general life thing related to business,
924
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Go ahead.
925
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Absolutely, i I'm like, really ocdo when it comes to, like,
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you know, organizing stuff, And it's just it's been so
927
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hard because there's just so much to organize. Like I'm
928
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always like, how can I make this better? Like when
929
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I look at a photo or a video, I want
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to know if I posted it on OnlyFans many of
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it's it's like there's so many different ways to do that.
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And I definitely think, you know, a lot of the
933
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Internet and stuff is very hard. Like I'm like, I
934
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don't understand what I can post on Instagram versus what
935
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I can post on Facebook or like. And he's he's
936
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always looking at like there are terms and policies and
937
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he's like, Okay, well this is what you can do.
938
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And like let's not even talk about Reddit and like
939
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the fact that there's twelve hundred subreddits and they all
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have different rules and I'm like, are you just trying
941
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to like make my brain explode or what? Like it's ridiculous.
942
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I just want you guys to see me sucking dick,
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and I don't know where I can even show you that.
944
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So like it's it's a lot, but I mean I
945
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definitely think that focusing more on like how to improve
946
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those things is definitely the goal.
947
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Well it's not. It's a big goal, but it's not unachievable,
948
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and I think you will get there. I personal unsolicited advice,
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which I've been screamed at one time off air for
950
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giving unsolicit advice. Let him do the admin, the terms
951
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and conditions, all of that. You are the easiest. Connect
952
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with other performers and see what other performers are doing,
953
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learn what they're doing, understand why this is more successful,
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why this is more beneficial than this, and then bring
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it back to them and go here. Now you do
956
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the hard work. But I figured out what routes we
957
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need to go down, and I mean that's how it works, right,
958
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That's that. That's how a partnership works. That's how good
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communication works. You are a strength of yours is not
960
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the terms and conditions in the editing.
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Figure out what your strengths are.
962
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I assume getting fucked is one of them.
963
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Just talking crap to a bunch of people, and those
964
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are my jobs.
965
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Usually will continue that.
966
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That's really yeah, I mean that's correct, absolutely.
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All right, ladies and gentlemen, my guess tempting Tina, there's
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two a's at the end.
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Can I ask why is there two a's at the end?
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Oh my gosh, I like this gush.
971
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I think it was just like, wait a minute, we
972
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have to post.
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We talked about your husband fucking other girls, double blow
974
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jumps at.
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You got a name in your name? You go excuse me,
976
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that's personal? No, go ahead, go ahead. No.
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I think I was like just really excited when I
978
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was making my name and held it down for a
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second too long, and I was like, oh, that's annoying
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to explain to everybody, but like two a's, I just
981
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I don't know.
982
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I was like, Tina, oh I got a good one, though,
983
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I got a good one, and how we could spind it.
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It's very nineties, very early two thousands, though, I have
985
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to ask this, and I apologize for such a blunt
986
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question at the end.
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Here do you do? And are you into anal?
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Uh? Yeah? With the right people. People just want to
989
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shove that thing in dry and I'm like, we are
990
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never trying this ever again.
991
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Okay.
992
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I was going to say if you were like, yes,
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I love it, I'm really into it. I go, that's
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what you tell them? The other a's for okay, anal,
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lazy and gentlemen, Tempting Tina. You find her on Twitter
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at Tempting Tina. Two a's at the end, and most importantly,
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payday rolls around. You got a little bit of cash,
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your kid comes up and goes, I need some money
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for a school trip, and here's what you tell them, No,
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I have shit I have to pay for. And that
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is signing up for Tempting Tina's only fans at Tempting Tina.
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I mean, you just made my day at the end
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here with that shake. If you're only listening to this,
1004
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check out the video. Please make sure you support the
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00:48:26.320 --> 00:48:29.039
content the creators that come on our show always. It's
1006
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just it's important and it drives stories like this where
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you had a young girl here who sorry to bring
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it back and make it sound like a lifetime movie,
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but you went through a tough time in your life
1010
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with somebody. You found somebody and it was just right
1011
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and it just worked and it fits. And hopefully fifty
1012
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years from now, you guys are still together and it
1013
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still works and it still fits. But it's important to
1014
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break yourself out of your negative prison, regardless of whether
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that's a bad relationship, Ajob, you hate whatever it is.
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You have one chance at life. Do it. You your
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husband are doing it, and I think that's very impressive.
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Ladies and gentlemen, tempting Tina, thank you so much for
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coming on with me today.
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Of course, thank you
