Your Words Create Your Reality | Latha Jay | Everyday Is Friday 365 Podcast #170

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[SPEAKER_02]: Every day is Friday, and you live in my way.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Every day is Friday, every day is Friday.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Hello everybody, welcome back to every day's Friday 365.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm your host, Matthew, and remember to subscribe so you can join me in this journey where every day is Friday.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Today I have a really special guest joining us, Lata J.
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[SPEAKER_01]: She wrote a book called The 247 Manifestation Method.
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[SPEAKER_01]: She is a mindset coach and she helps people start working towards their dreams.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Let's get right into it.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm looking forward to this podcast.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Welcome to the show.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Thanks for having me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm really excited about this conversation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm really excited to be here.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And for the listeners that may not be familiar with your line of work yet, can you give us a quick rundown of who you are on what you do?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So like you said, my name is Latha J. I am a spiritual manifestation coach.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I now go by spiritual strategist things are kind of changing in the world of spirituality and manifesting.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I really teach people and empower them to be able to figure out what it is that they want in their life and then be able to actually achieve it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that's kind of the the baseline foundation and all work that I do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But a lot of times we're held back by past ideas, thoughts, or sometimes it's called shadows or limiting beliefs.
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[SPEAKER_00]: as to what we can do in our life in the current moment and what we can actually envision for ourselves happening for in our life for our future.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of the work that I do is based in really uncoupling that and to realize that regardless of what we've been through in our past, it doesn't determine what our future is going to hold for us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and of course there's a mix of spirituality and wellness and all of that in it as well because I have a very diverse background I actually went to medical school and I pursued Western medicine for many many years as that I stopped doing that and I pursued an Eastern medicine and studied in our Vedic Science and Integrative Medicine for a while as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've studied all different types of things and I support people and really bringing all of that together because what I've learned through
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're not just one aspect, human beings are super, super complex, you know, and I think a lot of times we try to separate our mind, body, and spirit into these individual categories, but the truth is that it's all connected.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So when we have an imbalance in one area, it reflects in the other areas as well.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Now for someone that may not know, what is manifestation?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, manifestation is
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so that if a station is really calling an idea into existence and that's probably the simplest way that I can say it when I was probably in the first grade I thought about manifestation as thinking of something with my heart if that makes sense and makes it any clearer But it's it's really having a thought or an idea goal in your life of what you want to create for yourself or in the world in general
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[SPEAKER_00]: and then putting energy and thought into it so that I can grow and come to fruition, you can see it in your reality.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a lot about seeing it in your mind and understanding that it's possible to be created and then putting action towards it to actually have to being created in your waking life.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I've learned that a lot of people just wish for good things to happen.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Why do you think you have to take action instead of just wishing?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I wish that you could just think about and wish for something to happen and then it would, but that's not actually how I found that things actually work.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What it is is that when you have a thought and you're clear about that idea of what you want to create, you have to take action towards that to actually have it come to real life, for you to see it in your actually waking life, the thing is,
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[SPEAKER_00]: action is required in any aspect because it shows that you're actually prepared to receive it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you're not in action towards something, so if I was wishing or if I was manifesting an elephant or giraffe as a pet, you know, and it happened instantaneously, I would probably be very overwhelmed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, because giraffe's eat a lot.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They also put a lot.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know what I feel like, how am I going to manage this?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It would be very overwhelming for me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Rather, if I was actually taking steps towards learning about the needs of a draft, creating a habitat that was appropriate to how is it, you know, doing all of the steps getting the licensure to actually have one, you're making sure that I had a proper vet, like doing all of the steps to make sure that when the blessing comes my way, I can actually hold it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, that's why you have to take action because you have to create the space in your life for that blessing to come in and then it does.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Can you peel this back one more layer for me?
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, a lot of people think like manifestation it's just like wishing for a million dollars.
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[SPEAKER_01]: What is it really?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not just wishing for a million dollars.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think that that's really just so surface level.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a thought, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Manifestation really happens when we are very clear on what it is that we're achieving.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So let's just say the million dollar goal.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, once we have that clear goal, we have to uncover all of the limiting beliefs that we might have about achieving that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And you might be surprised about the stuff that comes up.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's a thought from when you're a kid and you heard your parents saying, we don't have enough money to get through this month.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's a thought of someone telling you
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[SPEAKER_00]: Money doesn't grow on trees, you know, and it's like these thoughts are deep and embedded into us, and then we continue to function their everyday life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Even as an adult maybe with even a decent amount of money functioning in the same way because our default state or subconscious is functioning with those ideas with those limiting beliefs that are limiting us, you know, limiting us in our everyday life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So once we're able to actually identify what our limiting beliefs are, what those shadows are, then we can actually take another step into it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've actually have six steps that I follow a lot of times that I'm looking at a manifestation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So the first one was getting clear on what is this that we wanted.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We want a million dollars.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, great.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Second thing is addressing the limiting beliefs in the shadows.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, what's there for us?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What's that unconscious belief that we're have within us that might be holding us back?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Or when we think about having a million dollars, what actually comes up for us?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Is there anxiety and fear?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Is there a thought of, oh my god, I'm going to spend it all or is it a thought of relief?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like, what is that?
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[SPEAKER_00]: right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And the third thing is really creating some verbiage around this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've learned that words create our world and it's a such a powerful idea that when we are speaking, when we are writing, when we are creating, we are not only creating, you know, on paper or in voice, but we're creating our world.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and it's so much a powerful means of manifestation to actually be able to speak and write out our affirmations in a powerful way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it's encouraged people to create an affirmation around that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So for this one, for a million dollars, maybe it's something like, I'm so happy and grateful now that I have a million dollars in the bank.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I would be very careful on the words that I use.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I wouldn't just say, I'm so happy and grateful now that I have, um,
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[SPEAKER_00]: that I won a million dollars or that a million dollars came to me or something like that because just as quickly as you want it or it came to you, it can leave, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Sorry, I would personalists.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I would say something like I'm so happy and grateful now that I have a million dollars in the bank.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And the the fourth aspect of that is to really like bring in the emotions.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not just about wishing, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not just about just thinking about something.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But like I was saying when I was in the first grade, the way that I explained manifestation was thinking about something with your heart.
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[SPEAKER_00]: because the feelings are so impactful in this space, the feelings are the jet fuel of manifestation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And the top vibrational feelings that you really wanna tap into is happiness, it's love and it's gratitude.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes it's hard to fake the function for happiness and love, but you can always call up gratitude.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You can always find something in your life to be grateful for.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And maybe today, it's like, okay, I'm grateful that I have a shirt to wear.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I am grateful that I have an eyebrow.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm great, you know, like you can always think of something that you have got to do for.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But in that moment of really even considering that, you're changing your right racial state.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're increasing your right racial state, which is then making you a little bit more magnetic for your manifestation to come your way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The fifth thing is all about visualization.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Really seeing that in your life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So what does it look like for you to have a million dollars?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You want to actually see like a video of it in your mind, like a movie of it in your mind.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But it's not that you're watching yourself with a million dollars.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You are watching.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You are, you are the person with a million dollars, meaning you're looking at maybe yourself with your phone in your hand opening up your, your bank app and saying, wow, I haven't million dollars, but it's you, you are in it, you are looking at your hand there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not that you're watching you look at your phone.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You are in that, you are the main character, and it's really important to embody that energy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: but the visualization is so powerful because it really invokes this idea of muscle memory, and this idea of of um, psycho neuromoto rehearsal that's happening so that you're becoming more and more familiar with what it is that's in your life and it becomes, so it's like you're closing the gap between what it is that you wanted and you become so familiar with it, that gap becomes so close.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not like a, oh my gosh, it's like, oh yeah, duh, this is what it is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And the sixth step is all about action.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a lined action.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You have to be in a lined action towards that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, if your goal is for a million dollars, you might make a list of 200 ways that you can increase your income.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And maybe that's not everything.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We'll get you to a million dollars.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's a side hustle that gets you an extra $2,000 a month, or something like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Great.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's not about just, you know, only finding the things that's going to get you to that one million, but it's about seeing all the different opportunities in which abundance can come to you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And when you start to actually open that up for yourself, so many things can just kind of flow in.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, the words we use are very crucial because they call it spelling for a reason your cast and spells and you can do that in the wrong way or the right way.
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[SPEAKER_01]: How do the words we say out loud change our lives?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's very impactful.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, if you have ever noticed someone that kind of talks about, if you're say, like, hey, man, how are you today?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they go, I'm getting through it, or they say, like, I'm surviving.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, that's what they're continuing to create with your tongue.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's continuing what they're actually creating for themselves, continuing the state of survival, continuing the state of getting through it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Rather than when you're talking to someone and they're like, I'm doing amazing things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're going great, or I'm working on this, or this is what's happening in my life, is a different energy that you're putting forth into the world.
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[SPEAKER_00]: even when we're saying, you know, I'm kind of hyper vigilant about this sometimes because they know how powerful our words are in our life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So even things like, you know how people will say, like, oh, it's trial and error, trial and error until I'm going to keep working on this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's trial and error.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't even like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I just have a hear someone say that I always want to correct and say, okay, I always say trial till success.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to keep working on this until it's successful at it, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Instead of putting the focus in the error aspect of it, I'm putting
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[SPEAKER_00]: some of the other things that I've kind of changed around my own kind of vocabulary of what I how I speak is with um like the saying uh kill two birds with one stone.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't like the energy around that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've kind of shifted that to saying I'll feed two birds with one hand.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and that's kind of where I exist in in the space of creating a different energy around what it is that I'm going out to accomplish.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to put that energy that has negative vocabulary into it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want to always speak positivity into whatever it is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, those examples that I gave are still conveying the same message, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: The message is still the same.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're going to keep going until we figure this out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're going to be able to do this with this opportunity, but it's like a changes the energy of it
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[SPEAKER_00]: and you can even hear that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What I'm giving you these examples, you can hear from one example to the other, how different that is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, when we're continuing to create an energy of positivity and lightness in our, in our, in our words, we're creating that in our environment, and that's a ripple effect of everything that we are being able to encounter.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Our words are very, very powerful, and as we continue to speak power into our lives, into, into the lives of other people, into our prayers, it continues to have that ripple effect in our lives.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I can feel sometimes when I say or someone else says, I get out of my vocabulary a lot of the time that I can't you feel like you're a little bit lower vibration when you say that instead of saying like how can I I mean what's the difference between someone saying I can't and someone saying like how can I.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's a big difference there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you're saying I can't, you've already decided that nothing is going to shift there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Right.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you're asking how can I, that's that space of exploration that's had opening that you've created, how can I, it brings in a sense of curiosity.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's to what are the other options here?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What else can be done versus the statement of I can't this period?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a sentence.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I can't do it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: No, no other opportunity there and it closes it off.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It really like creates an end point for that without any further discussion, but in the space of thinking what can I do here or how can I change this or what's what is the opportunity here when we're asking those questions were actually changing the way that we're thinking we're not thinking of as an end point as a period.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're thinking as an open, as an open place in which we can be curious and we can acquire more and more.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A while ago, I really learned this idea, it actually came from Tony Robbins, so I want to give him credit for this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But it was that the quality of your questions determines the quality of your life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and it's so true.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I remember when I first heard that I was like, whoa, dude, that's so powerful because it's so true.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When we ask better questions, we absolutely have a better life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If we stop asking, why am I such a, why, why do I always mess up with this?
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[SPEAKER_00]: All right, I was going to say the effort.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know how, how you're listening to a little about this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But, you know, why do I always mess up with this thing?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Why can I ever do something right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Why am I so dumb?
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[SPEAKER_00]: When we're asking these questions, what are the responses
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[SPEAKER_00]: How can I shift this?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What am I creating externally?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What is the side hustle that I'm going to create to make an extra $2,000 a month when we're in the space of inquiry versus the space that I can't or this doesn't work or why do I always mess this up?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a different energy and our and our life energy flows in a different manner.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I've heard before that money has energy, you know, different like people put themselves in a car and they feel the leather, they smell the leather as well or they're they're pitching them, they're manifesting themselves driving the car.
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[SPEAKER_01]: If you could like give me some examples, I mean, what are some of the biggest mistakes people make when they're trying to manifest a big goal?
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[SPEAKER_00]: One of the biggest things that I see people making all the time, a mistake or a manifesting, is that they continue to hope.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I know we're talking about wishing and wishing and hoping is kind of on the same level there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They continue to hope that something is gonna happen.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I always say that hope is the killer of a manifestation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It absolutely is because hope is like a waffle.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hope it happens, but am I not.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hope, you know, it's like no, when we're in the space of manifesting, we have faith and faith is so different faith is so powerful and it's annoying that what it is that we're going for is happening, whether we can see it or not.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's almost as if we're climbing a mountain and we're looking up at the summit and there's clouds there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We can't necessarily see the summit but we know it's there so we're going to continue the walk up the mountain, the hike up the mountain and it's the same concept.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When we have a goal in our life we have to be able to see it and we have to have the faith that it is there and that we're just moving in a path towards it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And when we have that it really shifts things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Another thing that really kills manifestations is the not addressing of shadows and limiting beliefs.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When people just want to focus on the goal goal goal goal goal goal and not do any of the work underneath, it creates a faulty foundation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Because no matter how far they get, there's gonna be that shadow that pops up.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And maybe one or two times they're able to kind of deal with it directly, but at some point when they're having a rough day when things, you know, when you're kind of in your lowest vibe and then that shadow comes up for you again, sometimes it'll sweep you off your feet.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and it'll pull you down and it'll, and when it's saying you're not good enough for this, maybe that one day you'll believe it, because you haven't taken the time to address it and put that shadow in its place.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's not, you know, the idea of doing shadow work isn't the dismissal of this or getting rid of all of your limiting beliefs.
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[SPEAKER_00]: not at all but it's understanding what they are so that when they do come up you can identify them as such when you're going for that new role and and that limiting belief pops up for you and says don't go for that you'll never get that you're not good enough for that you can say ah that's my limiting belief I see limiting belief I'm gonna go for it anyways
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[SPEAKER_00]: you're able to identify it and then make your own choice.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But when we don't do that work initially, when we just continue to go towards something and just suppress all of those other ideas that are underlying within us, then there's going to be a time that that limiting beliefs pops up and just kind of punches you in the face and really gets you off of track extremely.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, you got to focus at the end of the day and start looking for the opportunities around the corner, one door closes another one will open it's it's very focused based.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Could you explain with the three six nine method is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, absolutely.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I love the three six nine method.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It basically continues to have the your manifestation in your mind throughout the day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So your writings and your your manifestation, your affirmation that you've created three times in the morning, six times in the afternoon and nine times at night.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that basically keeps the energy of your manifestation going throughout the day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, I created the 24 seven method.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that is kind of a play on exactly what I was
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[SPEAKER_00]: and merges neuroscience technology into it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, and I had a kind of mention my background in medicine and science and things like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So, when I really stepped into manifesting and teaching people how to really do this, I wanted to find a way that would be efficient and repeatable for people to do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Regardless of who you were, whether you were a CEO or a musician or a mom,
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[SPEAKER_00]: didn't matter, like you would be able to do the technique and get the results and really be able to rewrite the thoughts in your subconscious, because that's why we're at start.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Our thoughts really thought a lot of times will then influence a belief.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It will create a belief within us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I thought that lots of times creates a belief.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A belief then influences our actions and our actions is how we show up in the world and also how the world then reacts to us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's all connected.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, we're getting to the root cause of what is actually going on in our life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So with the 24-7 manifestation method, we're tapping into a period of time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a state of time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's called the hypnagogic state.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that's a state of time between rest and wakefulness.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it's the exact time from when you're sleeping, you're opening your eyes, that period of time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: is the hypnosis state.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now during this time, it also occurs at night right before you go to sleep.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it's between wakefulness and rest.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's that shift almost and it's in that shift that your subconscious becomes the most impressionable.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So with the 24-7 method, we are writing our affirmation 24 times in the morning and 24 times in the evening for seven consecutive days.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now by doing this, we are repeatedly
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[SPEAKER_00]: Impressing upon our subconscious, the idea that we're putting into it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it might be that, you know, we have X amount of income and might be that we've got the job, it might be whatever, but it's one statement that we're working on one affirmation, excuse me, one affirmation that we're working on repeatedly 24 times in the morning 24 times the evening continuously for seven days.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And what that does is it really impresses upon your subconscious, it really starts to become a default thought.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I've had people do this that retreats and different things that, you know, I've worked on in which we're together for seven days.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they kind of come in saying like, okay, I'll try it out because I'm here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, not really even believing it, but the beauty of it, the magic of it is that it's based in science.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So it's like, as you continue to do this, as you're continuing this repetition, your brain has it's going to believe it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're creating a new neuronal pathway with it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: inside of your mind that actually creates a new thought pattern for you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So whether you're believing it in the moment or not, it doesn't matter if you're doing the action and it's really you're just really like continuing with it for the seven days, it's creating that new thought.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now in the seven days magically does your does your manifestation come true.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes it does.
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[SPEAKER_00]: not always.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I'll say more times than not, it's just the shift that happens within us to then lay out the groundwork so that we can achieve our manifestation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I remember distinctly that it was one time at a retreat in Costa Rica.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We had a woman come in and she was like, you know, I really want to become debt-free.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want to get out of debt.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want to be financial stable, but I have no idea how to do this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I've been in debt for the past 47 years in debt.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I have no idea how to get out of ten.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was like, okay, the path forward doesn't necessarily matter, as long as you have a very clear idea of the goal.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You have to have faith that the path is going to be shown to you, but you just have to understand the goal very clearly.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So once we got really clear on the goal, she did the 21st seven method for the week, you know, the retreat end to everybody went home.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I got a message from hers, probably maybe about six months afterwards, and she said, hey, you're never going to believe this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I always laugh when I get messages like this, because I'm like, I bet you I would.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Well, I believe in a lot of things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I believe in miracles.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And when I got this message, she said, yeah, I'm on track to be completely dead free in the next two or three months.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, that's awesome.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's awesome.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's incredible.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it was just like the idea and the thoughts in her mind that she could never become that free, shifted.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And once that shifted, she saw a different opportunity opening up for her in her life, a different ways to save different ways to, you know, pay off debt to structure things and her life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It all just kind of opened up for her because she stepped away from the idea of, I don't know how to do this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I can't beat that free, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Because it had been her familiarity for her whole entire life of being in debt.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and once she shifted that in her subconscious, her whole life shifted.
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's almost as if you shift your identity.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I've heard of a lot of celebrities doing this like Michael Jackson.
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[SPEAKER_01]: He changed his identity to MJ or Kobe Bryant.
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[SPEAKER_01]: He changed his to the Black
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[SPEAKER_01]: they changed their identity into a different type of person, and that different person had a different types of goals.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And they left the old person behind because they became a new basically a new person at that point.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And when they go into the basketball court, when he goes on stage, or something like that, they become this new person at they called like new nickname, whatever it is,
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I know a lot of people out there that say like someone says like they don't think manifestation is like real or fake.
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[SPEAKER_01]: What would you say to someone that thinks manifestation is fake?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I would say then you're right for you, you know, if you believe in it, it's absolutely true.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But if you don't believe in it, it's the same forces that are working in your favor to prove to you that it doesn't work if that makes sense because we are creators of our life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We are conscious creators of our life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So when we are creating way for creating the idea that this doesn't work, then that's what we're going to continue to see in our life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If we're creating the idea that this does work,
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[SPEAKER_00]: that there is a shift here that things can happen in this manner and that's also what we're creating.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Just as we're creating our life and all the things around us, we're also creating the limits.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're creating those limits.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So once we can identify the limits and shift it, that's when things start to change in our life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So people that don't believe in manifestation, that's fine, but I kind of feel like that's a boring kind of sad way to live your life.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Well, I love that you have this.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You turn a bad moment into a lesson.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm always like the type of like my cup is half full.
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[SPEAKER_01]: The gratitude within the, there's always a good in the bad.
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[SPEAKER_01]: This is so bad, this has to be good type of attitude because you never know like your tire popped on the side of the road.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Maybe if that didn't happen, you would have been in a car accident.
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's things like that, so it'd be thankful for you still have a car.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Things like that.
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[SPEAKER_01]: be a good for a better day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's a great question.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I really believe that our problems are portals.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I believe that our problems are portals.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that essentially means that as we are encountering any kind of obstacle or difficulty challenge in our life, it's through that journey of actually interacting with that problem that we are growing, that we're shifting that identity that we're mentioning, that we are growing and evolving into a new version of ourselves.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're gaining more skills.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're becoming a different person.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're shifting our minds that we're changing the way
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[SPEAKER_00]: but it's in the interaction with that problem.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So anytime that a problem comes my way, I always kind of look at it and think, cool, how is it's going to shift to me?
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[SPEAKER_00]: How is it's going to, how am I going to evolve through this, you know, as is interaction?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that's not to say that every problem that you encounter it necessarily matters if it's in your mind a success or a failure at the end of the day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't matter.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's the interaction with the problem.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's the journey that we're going on through that issue that we're facing that changes us and that's actually where the real power, the real benefit of any of this comes from.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But it's an interaction.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's in the journey of our own growth.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I say this all the time on the podcast, but it's all about the journey, not the destination, but it's really about the personal development throughout the journey and there's something beautiful in that journey, you know, not the end goal, but the journey that getting there and after you get the end goal like the New York next, like they won the championship in the basketball.
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[SPEAKER_01]: and BA.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, it's over.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Now it's now to move on to the next season.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Already, you know, the drafts up.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Now that we're doing free agency and all this other stuff.
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[SPEAKER_01]: But that journey was something special when they were going for that championship.
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[SPEAKER_01]: The whole city was going, you know, getting behind them and the people were watching them.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And then it's all about that journey.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I want to ask you this as well because I know a lot of people that have fears and it's just not fears.
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's old fears.
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[SPEAKER_01]: What do you do when like an old fear or a bad memory pops up?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I want to touch on that that aspect of the journey before we get into that because I completely agree with you on that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think the journey is so powerful so much so that I actually created a community in school that is called journey and in it we are going on this journey together because that's so valuable.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It is so valuable for us to really.
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[SPEAKER_00]: be in it in this moment, rather than just the destination and continuing to focus, you know, just on what the destination is, but really identify our growth and what is shifting within us because like you're saying, yeah, you get the goal and it's fleeting.
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[SPEAKER_00]: All of a sudden, yeah, you win the award and then what, you know, you've been you've been going towards building this house and now it's built, now what, you know, it's like really understanding that the value of your life, your life is the journey and your part of that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I totally agree with you on that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And now that question that you're asking, can you repeat it one more time for me?
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[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, because I have a lot of people that I know that have fears and then a lot of old fears that pop up in their life that kind of holds them back.
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[SPEAKER_01]: What would you do when an old fear or bad memories pop up while you're trying to work on a big project or having a big goal?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, so this happens a lot of times, especially, and when I'm working with a client, there's so many different techniques that we can utilize, especially in the moment, one of my favorite things that's called EFT or emotional freedom technique is essentially tapping or tapping on different meridian points on your face and your chest and under your arms that actually helps to move.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and energy because sometimes when we are in the space of illuminating on something or we're thinking about a fear again and again as to what happened.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's some aspect of PTSD in there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's like the energy is stuck with in us and it can't quite move.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And tapping, I almost think of it like if you're saying on a line at a bank and you know, the teller saying next next, and the person for you not moving, it's stuck right there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Stacks are you tap on their shoulder and you're like, hey, can you move forward?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I always also always think about this, that the stuck energy I'm just tapping on it, but I'm tapping it on my head.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like,
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[SPEAKER_00]: get moving.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's one of the easiest ways, I think, to kind of move through a space of fear.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But in that moment, I think tapping is really helpful.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But long-term and even before that fear comes up again, EMDR is a technology that I really, really like, and I often tell people to kind of utilize to move through any kind of stuck
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[SPEAKER_00]: thoughts or or patterns of repeating patterns that they have in their life and to work with that therapists in regards to that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Another aspect is just really addressing those beliefs, the limitations, the shadows that are coming up for you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And shadows often can show up in our life in it in a couple of different way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yes, is limiting beliefs.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They can also show up as projections.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They can show up as us projecting an idea onto someone else.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They can show up as triggers.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Whatever is triggering us in the moment, there's a limiting belief underneath it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's that shadow that's popping up in that moment because whatever is going on in our life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And when we're working, doing the work to really address that, it's not gonna come up with such force again.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of times when we don't, it's in those moments,
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[SPEAKER_00]: you know that we really need to show upwards in that's moments that we feel the lowest that the shadow comes up and it really just ends up knocking us out because we haven't done that foundational work that's so necessary to keep it in check, to have the better understanding of our shadows and our limitations so that we can do better and do more in our lives and in the world.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I mean, figuring out how to fix that fear.
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[SPEAKER_01]: So it doesn't hold you back anymore.
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's very crucial because, you know, I'd like to think of things in the past like a wake of a boat.
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's behind you and you have to keep moving forward.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, absolutely.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Do you think the biggest limits we face are the ones other people put on us or the ones we put on ourselves?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's absolutely the ones that we put on ourselves.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Those are the loudest.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Those are the ones that do the closest to us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Those are the most critical.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Because we know everything about ourselves, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're here, we got it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So we know the things that are maybe the most sensitive.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We know the things that we feel the most shame and guilt about.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And we're super hyper critical about it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Sometimes the things that we say to ourselves we would never dare to speak to another human being or a friend of ours.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that's kind of where our limitations start.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If we can only just get out of our own way in things, everything opens up for us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not about the limitations that anyone else places on us, because externally there's always a workaround.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's internally, it's actually have to move out of the way to make things happen.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I want to dive on this part because you did you I got to ask you about your hundred miles across Spain.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Why did you decide to shave your head at the end of that when you did that?
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[SPEAKER_01]: And if you could explain to the audience what you did exactly.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Sure, yeah.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I love it was a wonderful experience.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I walk the El Camino.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So the El Camino is a trip.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's usually anywhere between 60 plus miles.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I did 100 miles.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I walked from one part of Spain to Santiago de Composela, which is like this place where there's a huge church and it's the end of this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And there's a different route that you can take to get to this point.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And this has been going on for hundreds and hundreds of years.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not just something that I started up very, you know, someone else has talked about is and thousands of people walk at every single day and over the year.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think it's almost a half a million people that walk at a year.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It is a essentially spiritual journey.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Some people do it for different reasons.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I did it essentially for my own spiritual journey because I really wanted to
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[SPEAKER_00]: A space of meditation and a space to actually think I could see these changes that were happening in my life and in my career, I just wanted this moment, and throughout this journey it was such a profound experience to be, you know, and I was walking a lot, and not only that, it was like, I think it was on day two of our track through the 100 miles that I actually got really hurt, I had a muscle split in my calf.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it was a really painful experience where out in the middle of Spain, you know, in the farmland of Spain.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was feeling like, oh my gosh, I'm so destitute here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know anybody in my cell phone doesn't have a service like what the heck am I going to do?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was such a beautiful experience of having to lean on other people, of having to just trust in the universe that everything was okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And ultimately it was, right, I got bandaged up, I had the help that I needed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: did my manifestation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I did the prayers that I needed and I continued on throughout the journey.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was able to complete it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But I'll tell you that maybe the day before I had gotten hurt, I could probably walk on my island easily 15, maybe strolling, doing 20 minutes after I got hurt.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was probably doing an hour for a mile.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was took me a lot longer to do it, but I completed it at the end of the day.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was able to walk the 100 miles.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It just took a lot longer than
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[SPEAKER_00]: Divine intervention because I think I really needed that time of that meditative steps that face that knowing that I was going to complete this Even enduring through the pain and just having this sense of like I know that I can do this I know that this is going to shift something for me and I absolutely did at the end of that walk I had this
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[SPEAKER_00]: moment where I realized like who I was in that moment was not who I had started that trip as right and I shared my head as the demarcation of that of the knowing that who I was moving forward in my life was not who I was previous to that and that has stood so true to me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was such a freeing and beautiful experience for me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hold it so so dear to my heart.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, for the listeners out there that want to try to accomplish something just like you, but a little bit smaller than that, uh, what can they do tomorrow morning that would like turn things around for them if they want to do something like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What I've learned is that having consistency in your life really makes a difference.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So even if we're saying a small task of big steps, it doesn't always have to be this epic thing that you do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You don't have to do set out to walk 100 miles and do this thing and do that thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't need to be that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you're looking to change your life, start with a small goal that is consistent.
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[SPEAKER_00]: One of the things that I often do in my own life is that when I wake up in the morning, it's from not doing a 20, 24, 7 manifestation method, I would just wake up and the first thing
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[SPEAKER_00]: Show me how good this day can get.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then I automatically think of five things that I'm grateful for.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I just run through the list very quickly in my mind.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, yeah, some grips with for my family and grips with for my home.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm grateful for my feet.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm grateful for my car.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That works.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm grateful for the opportunity to be on podcast and grips with for my book.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, like, I'll just rattle things off.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And every day I try to change it up.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You don't want to always say the same things, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You want to expand your levels of gratitude.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That is such a simple practice.
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[SPEAKER_00]: it is just being consistent with it that actually does a lot of work in your body in your mind.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's that consistent that makes a difference.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's the drops in the bucket, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a little things that we're doing continuously.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's going to fill our bucket.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Another thing that I love to do is really to just understand and ask better questions about any situation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And we kind of touched on this as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When something really crappy happens,
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, why is this going on?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll tell you a few months ago, my art, we have a big truck.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We used to live on a farm, so we have like a farmer's truck, big, big hefty truck.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And we were just like driving it in a parking lot, and one of the wheels fell off, and we're like, what the heck is going on?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, this could have been a very devastating situation on my children or in the car when I was driving the car, and luckily we were in a parking lot.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And immediately when this happened, I wasn't in the space of like, oh crap, now I got another truck like this all happened.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Immediately I was like, I am so grateful everybody's fine.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That was the only thought that I couldn't get crap about this truck, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was just like, my family is fine, my kids are okay, great.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then I was like, well, what is this trying to teach me here?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What am I trying to learn here?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What is the next step for us in this moment in this crappy situation that happened?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What is the next step for us here?
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[SPEAKER_00]: and things really change in that aspect.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When you're asking a different question, you get a different answer.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Your life changes based on the questions that you're asking.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not the focus of why did this happen?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Why is this falling apart?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Why did this happen again?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, this is that, no, step out of it and really focus on what it is that you're gonna be doing that and how we're gonna shift this and what this is showing you and what this is actually bringing to your attention here because I think that a lot of times when we have a problem
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[SPEAKER_00]: that's difficult.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's kind of an alert.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's trying to get our attention so that we can focus in an area of our life and see like, do I want to shift something here?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Is there something that I really want to want to alter and make a different step?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, even when we interact with things that we don't like, it gives us so much information, so much data is collected in that moment by us because we're very clear on what we don't want.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So knowing what you do want is great, but knowing what you don't want can be really powerful because it gives you guidance is what the next thing is going to be for you.
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[SPEAKER_01]: having that gratitude is so powerful in that, you know, situation or any situation you're in.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I've walked into rooms before and I've had some people have some very bad attitudes.
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[SPEAKER_01]: What is a trick or a technique to just let that go through you and just move on from that?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So one of the things that I love to do in any social situation, in sometimes you'll be going into a situation, you don't even know what the energy room is going to be.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But I always do a, I call it a guard or shield for myself, and it's a super simple.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you would just close your eyes and you would imagine a bubble forming from under your feet all the way up.
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[SPEAKER_00]: on your being like all around you like a bubble, you know when you're a kid they had those big bubbles that put over your kind of like that huge bubble around you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now you'd imagine that that then bubble was turning into the strongest thing that you know maybe it's like steel or that out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Teflon or something woven together whatever you can imagine on a super, super strong.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then you can imagine that it goes clear.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now in this moment I'd like you to think of a big X coming your way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And as it's approaching you it's approaching your bubble, it bounces off your
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[SPEAKER_00]: Right.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You can think of an arrow coming your way, shooting towards you bounces off the bubble and falls to the ground.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then I want you to think of a big yellow smiley face coming towards you always happiness and it comes through the bubble and you get to experience that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You want to imagine a heart coming to you, a heart coming to you, coming through the bubble and you get to experience that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Right.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you're creating this shield in this energy and you're setting the allowance of what can come into your space and what you can be in the environment but is not going to impact you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not going to stick to you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not going to be part of your experience.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's so simple.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It tastes like three seconds, maybe 30 seconds of the most.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's just this quick visualization.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do it with my kids, even, because it's so friendly.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a thought of imagination of energy around you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that immediately creates this shield.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It creates this intention in your mind as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: For when you're going out into the world, I'm only allowing love and happiness to come my way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Anything else is not mine.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's a gift I'm not taking.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I will not continue.
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[SPEAKER_00]: you know, with that energy towards me, but the love and happiness, I'll take with me, that's fine, and it really shifts things for you.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I love that because usually I just go, oh, I'm just going to let flow through me, but no, you know, I'm going to let it get to you.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You're just letting it stop at the bubble and then just like, you're going to love and happiness and gratitude, you know, control you, not some other people with the bad attitude, which I love the most because, you know, some people, they just have, they're just, they're just like that.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They're
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[SPEAKER_01]: They don't have the good attitude, like me and you, you know?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And, uh, let me tell you this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I wasn't always like this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was one of those people with the bad attitude.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was somebody that did not believe in any of this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was somebody that felt like the world was against me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I felt like everything was happening to me and I was the victim.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and I'll tell you that my life looked very much different than it does today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It was that shift that happened for me that I could understand that not everything is negative.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The world is an against me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Actually, things are happening for my favor and that evolution was really just phenomenal.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And now in the place that I exist and the understanding of that I know is that life isn't happening to me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yes, it might be happening for me, but really, it's happening through me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I am the creator of what it is that I'm getting to interact with.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I am the creator of all the things that are present in my environment, including the limitations.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And at first when you understand that, it can be a little drawing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I created this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I created my track, but then I real fall it off.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I created this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's like, what?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm creating all this shit in my life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But really the understanding then becomes, wait a second, if I can create this, I can create else.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I can create amazing things.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If I'm so powerful to create that, I can create this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then your life starts to open up for you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And you're like, whoa, here we go.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Here's this expansion that can happen for me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But it does, just because you're in that space, anybody does those things is just because you're a Debbie down to right now, doesn't mean that you have to be a Debbie down our next week.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You can change it up.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, where we create as humans, and we create our realities around us, and the biggest thing I could say for most people is like, when I went to work, a lot of people were like, oh, good morning, good morning, good morning, good morning, how are you doing?
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[SPEAKER_01]: Oh, good, you know, they all say good, good, good, good, it's like, no, I'm wonderful.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, people don't, they're not used to hearing stuff like that.
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[SPEAKER_01]: They're, they're, they're like throws them off.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Like, what do you mean you're wonderful?
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's like, no, I'm actually wonderful.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, I've gratitude for today.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm blessed.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm happy I got here.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I'm healthy, you know?
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[SPEAKER_01]: Um,
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[SPEAKER_01]: you know, it's mostly things like that.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And you talk about keeping a beginner mindset, which I think is super crucial and just learning.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Why do you think it's good to act like we are always a student?
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[SPEAKER_00]: because there's always something more to learn.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's always something more to learn.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I still study with other people, with other coaches.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want to learn from other people.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want to see what everybody is doing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's always going to be something to learn and that keeps life interesting.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When you're constantly in the space of curiosity, there's the opportunity for growth.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you sit in a space near like, I know this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I know everything, how boring is that?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You're not going to learn much of anything, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: But when you're stepping into that beginner mindset, in the space of curiosity as to, what more is there here?
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[SPEAKER_00]: What more can I learn?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And you're just really keeping your mind open so much more and flow to you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that's a fun way to live.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's an exciting way to live.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I love to learn.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know anybody out there that doesn't really like to learn.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And maybe not academic-wise in bookwise, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: But really to continue to learn something new, to learn a new cool fact to learn.
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[SPEAKER_00]: something.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's like so much excitement and growth in it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And that beginner mindset allows you to continue to do that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And what else it does is really it allows you to create new neuronal pathways in your brain and keeping things fresh and active and moving.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When we stop learning, well, that's the beginning of the end.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's when we're just like, okay, cool.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm checking out here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You want to continue to have that growth.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's happening.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You want to continue to make those amazing connections in your brain and continue to learn and grow.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's always more to learn.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I want to ask you this because, you know, people blow candles for a birthday and they make a wish.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And some people say it's bad luck to tell people what you wish for and all this, you know, other stuff.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And then, you know, is it bad to talk about your manifestation to other people?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll answer this like this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It depends.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It depends the environment that it's in.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, I like to think of it kind of like a seed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm a farmer farmer.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll say, so if you're planting a seed, right, you might have it in the greenhouse, you're taking care of it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, once that sprouts, I'm not just going to take that little sprout.
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[SPEAKER_00]: and put it into a torrential downpour.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to put it into an environment where there's high winds or wind.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, the setting isn't proper for it to actually grow.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to put it into a space where I know that it's going to get the nutrients, the sunlight.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's going to be guarded from animals.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's going to be able to grow and flourish.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to put it into a space that I know has what it needs so that it can be growing in power in itself.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then develop what it needs to be developing into with the tomato plant, tomatoes, whatever, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, the same thing with manifestations, if you have that nourishing environment, it has to put it out, put your manifestation into that space so we can continue to grow and flourish.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, a lot of people don't have that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A lot of people have that hailed hailstorm going on.
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[SPEAKER_00]: A lot of people have that tornado, that torrential downpour that's happening in their environment into their life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So when they take their beautiful manifestation, that they're growing, that is just starting to blossom in their life and they put it into this environment, it's destroyed.
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[SPEAKER_00]: because there's the naysayers that come up.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's all of these doubts that come into their mind.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's all of the stuff that's maybe environmental or has to do with other people around them, kind of poo pooing on their idea that they're still growing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And then that does even have the time to actually flourish and grow.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So if you have the manifestation that you're working on and you are still working on your face into it, if you're still working on, you know, working on your limiting beliefs around it and you're still actively putting energy into it for it to grow, maybe that's not the time to put it into the hurricane.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe that's the time to just continue to allow it to grow until it's strong enough to be able to withstand whatever environment it's placed into.
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[SPEAKER_00]: right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So really depends from person to person.
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[SPEAKER_00]: What kind of environment are you in?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And some of us don't have that supportive partner or that great environment to then speak our manifestations into.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe it's the space where every time you want to say an idea, it gets shut down.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's a crappy place to be, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Or maybe you're on the other side of things and your partner is incredible and the place that you work wants to support you and your ideas and your growth and things like that amazing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: but it really depends on where you're at in the type of environment that is surrounding you as if I would say to share your manifestations or not.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, a lot of people feel like they feel stuck.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And what is like one thing that when this episode ends, the second this episode ends, what's one thing that someone can do to not feel stuck and start chasing after or not chasing, going towards their manifestation?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, this might sound a little controversial, but I will say it anyways.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Anytime that you feel stuck, it's because you were focused on yourself.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I wanna kind of liken this, and I want people to understand this as if you're pumping water.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know how many people now have ever dealt with a hand pump.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'll tell you that every summer I spent in India with a lot of times we pump to water out of the ground to get our water.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now with a hand pump, you have to first pour in a little bit of water to then be able to pump it up for the water to actually come up out of the ground.
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[SPEAKER_00]: manifesting is the same kind of thing.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you're feeling stuck, that means you have not poured the water into this well for the flourishing water to come out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you need to shift something.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you're feeling stuck, you're focused on yourself and not on everything, the world around you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I would highly recommend that you go and you put your energy externally, meaning go and volunteer.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Go donate.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Put your mind and your energy externally.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Go tutor a little kid.
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[SPEAKER_00]: go do something external outside of yourself that immediately shifts your energy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's one of the quickest fixes that I found go and serve soup at a soup kitchen.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Allow something outside of you be in the energy of giving and that shifts everything for you.
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[SPEAKER_00]: shifting your stuckness is by shifting your energy of giving.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's, I mean, just going volunteer doesn't, I mean, yeah, I can be you donating money or doing whatever, find, but that can be thought of almost as passive, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Activate yourself by doing something, by serving in some manner, and you will see how that stuckness just disappears.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I love it.
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[SPEAKER_01]: It's a great point because a lot of people out there today are just scrolling social media, looking at other people, perfect lives, even though they're not even perfect, perfect lives, they're putting out there.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, that's how they mess up their own mindset because they see something like, oh, this person achieved it by doing this.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And you're not even chasing, you're not even going towards that type of dream yourself.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You're just sitting there scrolling a lot of the people.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And you gotta remember too, the things to see on the internet, it's the highlight real.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It is absolutely the highlight real of someone's life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I remember there's a big controversy, maybe not too even long ago.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There's a famous content creator who does cooking content, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's very beautiful.
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's cooking content.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And one day in one of her videos, you could see the reflection on a cooking bowl and a metal bowl as to the mess that
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[SPEAKER_00]: was on the other side, so many comments about this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I was thinking, what do you expect?
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[SPEAKER_00]: She's a mom, she's making this content.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, she's going to move the pile of junk to the side, so you don't see it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's like, people, all of a sudden think that, oh, because you're a creator because you're putting stuff on the internet, your life looks like this all the time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's like, no, my life looks like this for the 35 minutes that I was sitting, trying to film this video, that then I boil down into this space of showing it into 90 seconds so that you can watch it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's just, there's a huge disconnect there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Don't believe everything you see on the internet.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not really real life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Trust what you're seeing in your real life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Trust what you're creating in your life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That matters a lot more.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Do you think AI will help people manifest?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do, and I actually, and I know this is gonna be a controversial take too, because I don't,
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[SPEAKER_00]: I do believe that AI will help people manifest and some of the reasons that I do believe this is because it really allows people to see something when they maybe they can't see it in their own mind.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If I type out a vision and I'm asking it to create an image for me and that I'm immediately able to really create and see it in this way, that's really powerful.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of my clients use AI in this manner and it really does make a difference.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Now, I will say that I don't agree with master valence, I don't agree with, you know, these huge data centers that are going up in so many places.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think that there has to be a balance between what we can use creatively and how we can utilize technology and how we can actually live.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, at the end of the day, if there's no water, there's not going to be the space.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Is that going to matter if AI can help with your manifestation or not, you're going to be really thirsty?
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's going to be very, very different here.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I think that there's definitely a balance and I don't think that we can hit that space of balance yet between AI and human beings and being able to function in a way.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think that there has to be a lot more research that's done into it and also a lot more shifts that are made because everything that I read about AI is like, okay, in the next five years, actually I think it's in the next two or three years that it's gonna be five million times better than it is today.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Five million times better.
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[SPEAKER_00]: huge, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So if we're taking all of this time to create structural resources today, you know, that might not even be done in the next one to two to three years, takes time to build big data center and things like that.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It might be obsolete by the time that it actually comes around to be in use, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: So I think that there's there's some idea.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I have a lot of ideas about AI and I know that there's it's a very controversial as well.
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[SPEAKER_00]: But I just want to say I think that there's a
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I think that there's going to be a lot more open discussion about it, rather than people just saying no to AI or saying like, yeah, build all the data centers.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's not one or the other.
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[SPEAKER_00]: There has to be a middle ground that has to be open discussion about it, so that things can actually progress.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, something I realized about a lot of people out there, they have a lot of anxiety over social media and the TV's, you know, the news networks and all that, they can anxiety built up.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You mentioned it a little bit that you spent some time farming and working, you know, in the dirt.
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[SPEAKER_01]: If you could just unpack this for me for some of the people out there, you know, about trees and why does touching real soil feels different than just, you know, touching a phone screen, you know.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Because we're so connected to all of the things around us, to the natural earth, to the nature around us, to the seasons, to the rhythm, to the moon, to the lunar cycle.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're so connected to it, and I think sometimes there's a disconnect of people not really understanding that, but if you think about it,
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[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, everything is so deeply connected, and we are human beings.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're part of this greater environment, this greater living being that we call ours.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So when we are touching dirt, when we are going for a hike, when we are touching a tree or breathing in fresh air, that's doing what we're meant to be doing, we're functioning in our own zone of growth in that space.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And a lot of times, it can help us to relax, it can help us to reconnect.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's almost like we're returning to mother.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, when we think of mother or since exactly what it is returning to mother, if you think about a baby that's crying, you're trying to suit it, you're trying to do all the stuff.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Guess what?
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[SPEAKER_00]: You just pass that baby back to its mama.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's going to be a level of soothing that no one else can give it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's the same thing with us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When we are digging in the dirt, that's definitely that healing energy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's that grounding energy that's coming to us.
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[SPEAKER_00]: When we're spending time in nature, it's absolutely what's happening.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I mean, and I'm a big believer of really having that deep connection with nature.
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[SPEAKER_00]: My husband actually hosts a for-school.
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[SPEAKER_00]: He's one of the teachers at a for-school, in which he brings out children, you know, anywhere between ages of like 3 and 10 to maybe 12.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And they spend a day in the woods every single week, rain or shine.
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[SPEAKER_00]: They're just in the woods, digging the dirt, looking at leaves and mushrooms and different kind of things and just
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[SPEAKER_00]: being in the space of curiosity around nature and being able to connect to it more deeply and allowing for play to happen in this space.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's so, so powerful.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I think a lot of times we've forgotten that and there's been this huge disconnect from what we actually need and the nature that we need to connect to versus, you know, our phone screens, things that are with us all the time, our phone screens are weird.
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[SPEAKER_00]: We're touching constantly, right?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And it's like if you think about the last thing you touched dirt, you might be like, huh, maybe that was three years ago, maybe that was a time that I went on that hay ride, you know, it's like, man, the more that we're able to actually integrate natural resources and connection to nature around us, the healthier that we're going to actually be able to be.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know, a lot of people think we're like cyborgs out there because if we're missing our phone, we feel like we're missing a limb.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And sometimes it's just easier just to disconnect and guess what?
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[SPEAKER_01]: The news still happens.
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[SPEAKER_01]: The world still spins around and you get, you know, connected to nature.
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[SPEAKER_01]: There's a, there's a beauty inside of nature that not a lot of people are going towards anymore.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And we really have to get back to it, you know,
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[SPEAKER_01]: At this point in your life, what is the best piece of advice you can share at this point in your life?
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[SPEAKER_00]: At this point in my life, the best piece of advice that I would share is probably to be kind to anybody that you meet.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You don't know what they're going through.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You don't know where their mind is.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So you don't know what just happened to them or what they're
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[SPEAKER_00]: you and some rarely ever about you if you're getting into a disagreement with someone it has very very little to do with you in that moment.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Like we're talking about our shadows and our limiting beliefs in the space of projection, a lot of it is rooted in there.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So whenever you can give way, give kindness and keep in moving, it's just it's not worth the struggle, the battle, any of that and continue to just pursue your joy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: If you have a question as to what your life purpose is, what you should be doing next, feel into it and feel, where do I feel the most joy, where am I being led, where am I being pulled into in my life, what do I want to continue to do?
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I hope that that answer is always I want to continue to feel this level of joy.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want to feel this level of happiness and fulfillment.
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[SPEAKER_00]: That's what your life needs to be about.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I love that because lights are rollercoaster ride, everybody.
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[SPEAKER_01]: There's lots of green lights and red lights and you can hit those green lights and go go go and then you hit a red light and stop you and then you hit another red light and another red light.
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[SPEAKER_01]: You know and every day is a new beginning I like to say and that's what every day is Friday stands for.
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[SPEAKER_01]: The show is called every day is Friday and whether it's a special energy like it's new beginning, freedom or just feeling excitement.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I want to hear from you.
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[SPEAKER_01]: What does every day is Friday mean to you?
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[SPEAKER_00]: I love it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: As soon as we're talking about this, you know, I always think of like TGIF, I don't know if you grew up in the time or TGIF was really popular.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I was like, thank goodness it's Friday and Friday has always had such a cool energy to me because it's like this space of like, oh, it's the end of the work week we're going to have fun.
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[SPEAKER_00]: You know, Friday was always this this representation of this fun energy that we could do what we wanted to do.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And I think that that's what you're really creating with this podcast, we're having these incredible conversations in which there's this openness and this exploration without necessarily an agenda or something that we're, you know, moving towards what is just like having this open conversation.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I love it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I love the format.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I think the questions have been great.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And the conversation has been absolutely wonderful.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I hope your listeners get a lot out of it as well.
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[SPEAKER_01]: I've a lot of gratitude towards you sharing your stories and experiences and making the show special.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Where can the people follow and support your work?
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, so I had mentioned that I have a book coming out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's called the 247 manifestation method.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's actually coming out October 6, 2026.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I would love for people to be able to pre order it and to just have it set up so that it's going to be when it does come out.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's going to come right into your hands and then also a lot of people that are pre ordering it everybody that pre orders it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: is going to get access to a course that I'm creating about the 24-seven manifestation method as well as coaching calls.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I had like a whole thing of incredible bonuses because I really want to support people in this journey.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want people to be able to get the book and to have the support that really teaches them how to do this.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I want people to understand it's not about being able to manifest this one time.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's about really creating this in your life.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So your whole life can be incredible and that you can live in that space of the life that you desire.
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[SPEAKER_00]: The dreams that you have can be a reality and it really starts with us creating a pattern in it and creating that repetition.
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[SPEAKER_00]: So go and pre-order the book.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's coming out in October.
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[SPEAKER_00]: It's called the 24-7 manifestation method.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to definitely send along the links, which you can also search for it.
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[SPEAKER_00]: And you know, you get those incredible bonuses that come with that you can find those at my website as well.
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[SPEAKER_01]: everyone hit the link down in the description down below and thank you for sharing your stories and experiences.
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[SPEAKER_01]: This has been a great podcast.
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[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, thanks so much for having me.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I absolutely loved it.
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[SPEAKER_01]: And make sure if you enjoyed this everybody, make sure you follow, share, and keep that every day is Friday, mindset, going, stay inspired, and make every day feel like Friday.
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[SPEAKER_01]: Until next time, everybody.
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[SPEAKER_02]: Every day is Friday, every day is Friday