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SUMMARY
When Jeff's sister lost her engagement ring in a five acre pasture hours before her wedding rehearsal, a rope, a grid, and a prayer turned an impossible search into a three minute miracle. In part four of the DadAwesome Multipliers series, that story becomes a blueprint for intentional fatherhood built on three things: a system that works, partners in the search, and faith in what you cannot yet see. Chad Johnson joins with a segment unpacking his Giant Five framework and why putting career first costs a man everything that matters.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Intentional dads need a system. Without one, you chase whatever is loudest instead of the people you love most.
- The Giant Five framework orders your priorities: faith, marriage, children, health, and work. Most men have that list upside down.
- You were never meant to search alone. Partners spot what you miss and call you higher when you drift.
- Love sometimes looks like challenge instead of comfort, especially when your kids are settling into ease.
- You don't have to search the whole field today. Move the rope a few feet and walk the line again.
QUOTES
"I really am okay with stirring the pot." (Chad Johnson)
"Live like a movie you'd want to watch with your children and grandchildren." (Chad Johnson)
"I call it turning success upside down." (Chad Johnson)
"Any fruit that anybody ever sees in my life is in spite of me." (Chad Johnson)
"Don't get overwhelmed with the entire field. One pass at a time." (Jeff Zaugg)
ABOUT CHAD JOHNSON
Chad Johnson is a father of eleven, an entrepreneur, and the creator of the Giant Five framework, a simple system for keeping faith, marriage, children, health, and calling in their right order. He is known for pushing his family toward character over comfort, including relocating them to Los Angeles for five months so his kids could work in his business facility. Chad previously joined DadAwesome for episodes 216 and 217.
ACTION STEPS
REFLECTION
Map your fields. Get a piece of paper and map your current life as a dad. Where does connection feel distant? Is there a child where things feel cold? Where could you raise your game in pursuing your wife or your time with God?
Be honest about the gap. Name what you are hoping for in each area. Without naming the hope, you cannot see the distance between where you are and where you want to be.
Run the Giant Five. Faith, marriage, children, health, work. Pray through which one is currently getting your leftovers. For many men it is work that needs to be turned upside down. For others it is the opposite, and career needs more drive because provision is the real need.
Celebrate one win. Look back and name one victory. Do not skip this part.
MULTIPLICATION
Name your partners. Who are the other dads in this adventure with you? Is there a rhythm of meeting? Is there a text thread already going? The field search never would have worked alone.
Get the free small group curriculum. Send a voice message with your name, where you are located, and your idea for a fall small group. You will get the three page PDF back.
Send a few texts. Invite two or three dads to listen to episode 446 so you are all working from the same framework.
Use the side door. Extend a tangible invitation: the Spartan race in Dallas on October 17, or the fall 100 mile running challenge.
ACTIVATION
Block the time. Put a block on your calendar this week for deeper work on the Giant Five. Do not just listen and move on.
Open Luke 15:3 through 7 with your family. Read the parable of the shepherd who leaves the 99, then tell your kids directly: this is how I feel about you. I will always come looking for you.
Pause and pray first. Before stepping into any of these areas, stop and pray, the same way Jeff and his sister did before they started the search.
Move the rope. Ask God for one area where you can move the rope seven or eight feet tomorrow. One pass at a time.
Keep celebrating. Look at what God has done and mark it.
Go deeper. DadAwesome Labs for Chapter 11 is linked below with additional activations and discussion questions.
LINKS MENTIONED
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Spartan Team DadAwesome, Dallas, Texas, October 17 https://givebutter.com/DallasSpartan
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DadAwesome 100 Mile Fall Running Challenge - https://givebutter.com/dadawesome100
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Leave a VOICEMAIL: https://www.speakpipe.com/DadAwesome
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Join Team Awesomeness (monthly support team) at any level from $7/month to $1000/month... We have 41 families committed to fueling the ministry DadAwesome as we head toward celebrating 9 years of AWESOMENESS this coming winter: https://www.dadawesome.org/give
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Join the DadAwesome Prayer Team: Text "pray" to (651) 370-8618
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Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
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7-Day Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
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DadAwesome Podcast: dadawesome.org/podcast
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Free Chapter + Intro Video Series: dadawesome.org/book
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Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text "Dad" to (651) 370-8618
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DADAWESOME book: dadawesome.org/book
- DadAwesome Labs, Chapter 11:
- Episode 216 with Chad Johnson: https://www.dadawesome.org/blog/216
- Episode 217 with Chad Johnson: https://www.dadawesome.org/blog/217
