Align with your Divine

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Welcome to authentic living with Roxanne, a
place where we have conscious conversations
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about things that really matter in our lives.
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And now here's your host, Roxanne Derhodge.
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Hi, everyone.
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It's, Roxanne Doorhart.
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Thanks so much for tuning in yet again this
week.
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Today, I have a friend, naturally, love that's
here with us today.
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And, Natalie brings, wealth of things that I
know I love to hear about, and naturally and I,
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I think it's almost close to a year now, have
shared some space at a as a at a wellness
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center here in Saint Catherine's.
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And, you know, it's that's one of the girls
that she she does, but she does so many other
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things.
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So welcome, Natalie.
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Thank you.
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Thank you so much.
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It's a pleasure to be here.
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Thanks for coming.
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So we're gonna talk.
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I'm gonna read a little bit about her
background, which is actually quite diverse.
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There's so many things that she does.
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And she recently published a book which is
we're gonna talk a lot more about.
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So I'm gonna just read her bio.
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She's She's has over a 15 years experience in
self development and body, mind, and spirit
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world.
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She's a metaphysical teacher.
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Spiritual life coach and holistic healer.
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She's discovered her gifts as a teen and made
her her life mission to help others.
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She's a re reiki master certified in 2010.
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Sorry.
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Oh, 3.
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No therapist in 2004.
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A metaphil physical minister in 2009, and she's
been hosting the monthly goddess circles in
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Ontario, Canada for over 10 years.
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She loves empowering inspiring and assisting
women to step into their power and embrace
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their divine feminine essence.
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Wow.
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That's amazing.
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I I can honestly say I don't know a lot about
the medical metaphysical ministry, so I'm very,
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very interested.
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In in that part of things, but, so, Natalie,
you've been you've been helping people a long
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time, but you said you started as a teenager.
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So tell me kind of what what brought you to
that place that made you think, you know, as a
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teenager, I you know, at that point, you're not
a hypnotherapist.
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You're not, you're not a minister.
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I'm gonna assume you probably start to help
people What was your path that as a team made
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you think?
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This is this is what I I need to show the world
that I do.
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Well, thank you.
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That's a very deep question.
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So I grew up in a household that didn't feel
safe.
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My mother was physically abused by my
stepfather who was an alcoholic I was bullied.
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So I didn't have a lot of confidence.
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I was like a a broken child.
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A very scared and secure.
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Witnessing my mother be abused for 10 years
with my stepfather.
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That was all in my program and I always felt
connected to something higher.
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I was a spiritual seeker going to different
churches trying to find my purpose, asking
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creator universe, why am I here?
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Why am I suffering like this?
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What is my calling?
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And seeing that, I realized that I don't want
that.
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I don't wanna have that pain.
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I don't wanna manifest that kind of love in my
life.
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So I wasn't allowed to go place some mother was
very controlling as a Latin American female.
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So I was stuck at home a lot.
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Couldn't do all the things other teenagers
could do.
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So what happened was late at night when I'm
doing homework and other teenagers are out
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partying.
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I was watching them from her show and who is on
an infomercial at that time?
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I'm 1718 and there's Tony Robbins with his big
smile.
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Talking and inspiring people and I just felt
this like connection and I thought, wow.
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Whatever he has I need to learn about.
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I want to dive deep in that.
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And that's how I started working within myself
and unraveling the pain, unraveling and
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emerging into the goddess I am.
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So everything I studied, I studied first to
heal myself, heal my inner child.
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So that's why I started the reiki 2003 at a
Hippo therapy in 2004 because I really had a
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lot of my own things in security, fears.
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I even had a fear of about 10 men because my
grandfather said, that's a man.
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I had a fear of separation to my greatness.
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So that's why I do what I do.
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So I knew my calling at a early age because I
wanted to help women so they do not put up with
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abuse.
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I wanted to help empower women so they can feel
stronger and realize their truth that they
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don't need to dim their light anymore.
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Wow.
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Wow.
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What a what a what a story, like, I'm not
unlike really our parallels in some way, me
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witnessing, violence when I was a kid also, you
know, so which I wrote in about in my book and,
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talked a little bit about some of my choices,
that I made, which was completely opposite
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because I recognized like you as a young, a
girl, I found my gifts and then I said, I will
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never live that kind of life because nobody
should ever endure pain, like I saw my mother
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endure, and I know I wanted to to, you know,
something different from myself in the world
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and then in turn, wanted to to teach people
what I had learned when I had gone to school,
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you know, for psychology.
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Wow.
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I love that that we have that connection.
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I'm gonna read your book.
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I just got it, so I'm gonna read it for sure.
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Thank you.
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And I also haven't read your.
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So so you obviously touch people in different
ways.
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You you do reiki.
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You do hypnotherapy in St.
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Catherine's.
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Those are the two areas that you do it in.
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You do goddess circles, which I'd I'd know I've
not you've invited me multiple times, and I
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haven't been and you also are you marry people.
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Like, I see that's, on your Instagram all the
time.
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So tell me let's talk a little bit about the
metaphysical because I think that's, you know,
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you're right.
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Like when things are dark, you know, we we try
to to find something.
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I remember when, you know, something I'll tell
you naturally that I did when I was having a
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tough time.
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I would walk for 4 hours.
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I would I live close to the parkway.
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I would literally get out and walk and walk.
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And walk.
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Like, you know, I say, okay.
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I'd go 2 hours up, and I'd walk 2 hours down.
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And I was like, it was like something bigger
than me telling me, okay.
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This pain is deep.
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But you can endure this.
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And, I mean, walking had been something I'd
done, but not to the extent that I'd done.
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And I did that for probably months when I was
having a tough time.
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So, you know, when you talk about the
metaphysical part, how is it that you help
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people, that come to you spiritually that are
maybe lost?
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Well, that's a good question.
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The first to touch on you walk in healing.
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That is so important because you're connecting
with the elements with the energies of mother
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nature and the fresh air and that all helps you
energize.
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So that's healing.
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So thank you for sharing.
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So metaphysical means beyond the physical which
means it's more than what you see with your
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physical eyes.
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We are more than this physical body here.
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And I believe we are spiritual beings in this
physical body and Wayne Dyer, that's what he
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says.
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We're spiritual beings in this physical form
and I honestly believe that a 100%.
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So sometimes when you're out and you meet
someone, and intuitively inside your body
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energetically, you feel a strong desire
connection to communicate with them.
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That is metaphysical experience.
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It's it's not in the physical.
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You just have his connection and vice versa.
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I walk in rooms and I could see someone and I
have a strong connection or I walk in another
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room and I know, oh, stay away from that person
because energy cords are not aligned.
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So when you're open to the metaphysical
sections of our human is.
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It helps you to make better decisions and
clears your mind to practice mindfulness
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techniques and realizing that the situation is
happening right now.
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If you take yourself out of it, it's not going
to it's like this too shall pass.
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It's not the end of the world.
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Like what am I learning from this experience
right now?
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That's when you live, metaphysically, you know
It's not just what you're seeing right here in
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front of you.
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Why is this painful experience happening to me?
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What are the lessons that the universe is
trying to teach me and how can I assist myself
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so then I can assist other people?
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And that to me is practicing metaphysical
spirituality is it's not something you turn off
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or on.
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It's something that you connect to all the
time.
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Makes a lot of sense, right?
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So from my perspective, when I coach or see
people, I try to slow their mind.
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I try to have them understand what's happening
for them, and you do it.
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Basically, it sounds parallel.
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So I'm I'm curious because I have a question,
and I wonder people listening might have the
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same.
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So sometimes, you might have those feelings of
what people that are close to you.
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So what what what guidance would you give
someone like that that comes to you
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metaphysically?
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Let's, you know, say It's a sibling.
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It's parents.
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Those types of things.
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What what how do you kind of work with someone
like that?
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To kind of use the energy or understand the
energy, and, you know, what step would that
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person kind of expect from you?
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Okay.
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So if if that person like a family member is
like more like negative or you don't feel
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connected to, Right.
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Right.
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That happens a lot in my gutter circles and
even with my one on one sessions and I have to
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really empower their client, the person who's
in front of me to be authentic and do what they
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could call to do without having to be a people
pleaser without having to rescue everyone
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because it's not our job to change people.
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Our job is not to try to pull people out of the
gutter.
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Our job is to shine our light and assist in
love, but also being in our power to know Hey,
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I need to put up a healthy boundary here
because I'm not going to tolerate this negative
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complaint every single day or this native of
judgment every day and be authentic.
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Be real.
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So something I talk about my goddess circles is
called authentic communication.
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So if you're having a a conversation with one
of those people in the family, trust me.
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I have them too.
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And then you feel like, okay, there's that
negative cord and it's like, to me, I'm a very
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visual.
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So it feels like a a jab in my heart sensor, my
heart chakra.
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So then I would feel that feeling, and I can't
deny that feeling.
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That's my body telling me, hey, hey, there's
something here not aligned.
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So then I pause, and I've teach this in my
circles and then I acknowledge my feelings
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right now I'm feeling hurt like I'm feeling I'm
not blaming you.
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I'm feeling hurt.
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When you said this to me, what was your
intention?
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What was your intention?
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When you ask them that it takes them out of
their whole autopilots complaint complaint
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negativity mindset.
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They're like, oh, what's my intention?
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And then say, I don't have benefited from this
experience right now, so I'm gonna choose to
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change a topic, or please do not talk like this
to me because I'm, you know, whenever it comes
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up like I'm working on healthy boundaries or
I'm not gonna accept this anymore.
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If you said this a hundred times, I'm done here
in this story I have other things to do and it
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takes time.
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It takes practice.
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The first step is being honest with yourself.
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How much are you tolerate it?
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So One is how you benefited from this
experience right now.
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How are you benefiting from allowing them to
throw this toxic energy into your being?
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If it's not benefiting you, then you need to
stand up for yourself.
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So I teach that a lot.
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That's why I love the goddess empowerment
movement because it's time for all of us to
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shine without having to be doormats
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You know, and that's so what an amazing thing.
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Right?
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Because people, some haphazardly, will go
through the world that are negative, be it
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family members or coworkers or, you know, you
know, suppliers, business partners, and and
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they willy nilly just kinda dispense this
negativity right, where to your point, you have
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to decide.
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It's almost like you have to siphon.
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I'm gonna take this in.
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No.
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I'm not gonna take this.
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I'm I'm I'm gonna repel this out.
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And it becomes a constant thing that you have
to do because you may be in a good frame and
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then you go to work, let's say, and we, by all,
we have lovely environments that we're in,
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which is healthy and and happy.
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But you I'm sure people listening go into
environments and they have to deal with people.
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So they really have to, I'm gonna use the use
the word inoculate or protect themselves almost
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like a bit of a barrier of positivity.
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Would you say that in order to go into some of
those environments?
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I agree a 100%.
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Because sometimes your people may not be able
to step up into their greatness and speak up to
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the manager boss because their life is on the
line.
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They could potentially get fired.
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So of course, in certain situations, you have
to, you know, watch and see how much of
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yourself are you going to stand up for and how
much are you gonna really realize to let that
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go.
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Let it go completely and know that it's not
you.
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It's them and practice not taking anything
personally and having some tools Maybe it's
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meditation.
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Maybe it's Ricky.
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Maybe it's mindfulness.
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Maybe it's some tools that you teach your
clients or what I teach my clients at anchoring
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where you surround yourself with this field of
protection and don't own it.
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Let us slip away.
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I like to visualize a a purple garbage bag on
my left.
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Anytime negativity comes away, I just gather it
and I visualize that.
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And that's the metaphysical.
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That's like, you know, it's beyond my physical,
but I know there's something there.
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And just clear it, and then you send it off to
the universe.
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But I mean, I'm sorry.
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No.
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No.
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No.
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So sorry.
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I didn't want to stop your thought because it's
I know you're finishing what you were saying.
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Oh, no.
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So I was gonna say that I made an acronym.
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I don't know if you heard about the acronym
ring which is very popular in that mind for
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this community.
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So when there's emotions coming up to practice
rain and that means recognize the feeling that
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you're having a allow it to be there and I
investigate where in my body and my holding
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this maybe it's for my deep wound as a child
and and non identifying with it.
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Detaching from it.
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So I made an acronym to go along with that and
it's called shine.
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So you have the vein and then you have the
shine and I never shared this except for in my
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my secret dotted circle.
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So as the spaciousness, you have to create the
spaciousness of around you.
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You open this so you can be vulnerable.
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Because shared vulnerability is really
important to do inner healing.
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H honesty.
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Always be aligned with yourself.
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Aligned with your, not someone else's version
of how you should handle it.
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I integrity and that goes the same with
honestly what what are you truly feeling?
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Because a lot of women feel the need to people,
please.
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So we need to stand up for yourself and
nourishing and nurturing your divine essence.
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Maybe you need to get a massage a manicure, a
pedicure, talk to someone, or go walk in nature
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like you shared, and an e is that existence or
the essence realizing that we are more than
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this physical body that our existence is the
collective field that we are all connected.
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So that's my shine that goes along with the
rain.
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So I just wanted to share that.
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Wow.
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And we're privileged.
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Did it?
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We get we're not even in the goddess circle.
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We get
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it.
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Yes.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Not gonna definitely have to come and,
experience that.
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So Is there a metaphysical school you got went
to?
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Like, how do you become a metaphysical
minister?
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So I did all my training at the metaphysical
School of Sedona which is awesome because you
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could do it long distance and you do it at your
pace Some people finish it in 1 year.
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For me, it took me 2 years and it's really good
because it has so much information.
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It talks about the chakras.
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It talks about yoga.
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It talks about mindfulness and meditation and
hypnosis, and it talks about Christ
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consciousness.
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So I'm a non denominational minister, which
means that I believe in a the the positive
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energy and a consciousness of goodness versus a
religion.
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So that's where I got my training to be able to
perform all the weddings that you see on
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Instagram.
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Okay.
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Because that's why I thought I thought I was
doing metaphysical school somewhere.
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Wow.
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Amazing.
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Of course.
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And, of course, it's Sedona.
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Right?
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Yeah.
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Exactly.
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I need to go there one day.
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We had the best
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Tell everyone about Volley.
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And and then I stopped because I know we're
gonna talk a little bit about manifestation.
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So you are the ultimate manifester.
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And, you know, I've for I've been privileged.
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Obviously, I see Natalie a lot and, our lives
are into find in our practices and stuff like
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that in various ways.
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And, actually, another thing she's doing, she's
She works.
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She's going to the Tony Robbins, and she's part
of the, big event tomorrow.
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She's there for 2 days, but Let's talk about
manifesting because I think that is something
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that we hear, and I believe truly.
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I understand it.
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I'm sure you understand.
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I'm sure a lot of people listening.
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Understand it, but when you actually talk about
the steps, right, and something.
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Let's use Bali.
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Bali's quantifiable.
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We can say, oh my goodness.
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In in a month, you're going to Bali.
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Right?
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That you manifested that.
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And I want you to tell that story because I
think that's something real that any of us to
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learn from And I actually, you know what?
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I don't even know that I know the actual steps
that you took, but I I know this probably would
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be a fantastic thing for people listening to to
hear what it took to manifest something like
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Valley, which I'm jealous.
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Oh, thank
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you.
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I I can't contain my stuff.
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I'm like, oh my god.
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I love sharing that story.
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Okay.
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So I'll tell you my story and then I'll tell
you the steps and how to manifest.
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So even as early as last year and the committee
years, I've been always drawn to Volley.
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But this year, since January, I've been
watching another sister of Miley.
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Someone who teaches god in circles, and she's
gonna embody.
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So Jen February March.
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I've been watching her live videos.
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So I've been watching, and I've been feeling
calm even more.
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I need to go to Pali So there was this energy,
like, I have to go.
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The possibility of me being there opened up
this year.
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This year's like, talking to my husband.
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You know what?
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I really wanna go visit my friend in Bali.
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She said it could come.
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Stay in her place.
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It's very affordable.
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Limander.
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And I've been, like, really, really feeling and
visualizing it happening.
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Like, I'm gonna see her.
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Maybe at the end of this year, I'm going to
Bali.
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And then she came here to Canada because she's
originally from Grimsby and she gave me this
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little president which was this oil only found
in Volley made by the special flowers only
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found in Volley.
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So she said put in your hair and when you put
in your hair, you could feel Volley to you.
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And so I put in my hair one day and I was doing
those ceremony for myself because I I love to
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take time to divine feminine.
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So I wear essential oils I smudged myself and
then I put the oil in my hair and when I put in
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my hair, I felt the essence of body.
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It was just this huge open and entrust the
universe.
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If this is for my highest good, please allow me
to go there.
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So I did that, but then I just let it go.
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I let it go completely.
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I wasn't obsessed with it.
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I just I believe if it's winter happened, it
will happen.
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Then I follow this other goddess sister
community and they're just having a 1 week
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fully paid for trip that includes a goddess
retreat and all the foods and and manicures and
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pedicures and bats and rose petals, all that in
a monkey sanctuary.
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For, like, free.
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If, you know, for one lucky winner, if you fill
up this one question and the question was, why
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do you want to win the Goddess retreats?
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So, of course, I'm like, I'm just open.
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We'll see.
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And I was offending.
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I would share my wife, and I shared from a
place of presence and leadership The reason why
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is because I teach gutter circles in my
community in Niagara region, and I'll be
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honored to go and learn from you so I could
bring your teachings into my community because
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when you raise your community, you raise the
world one sister at a time.
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That's basically what I wrote.
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It wasn't poor me.
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I'm a mother for.
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I needed to rip it.
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No.
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I was authentic and I was strong in my power
and then I released it.
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I completely forgot about it.
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Then 2 months later, I saw her live and she was
announcing the winner and I've assumed that I
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didn't win because she would have emailed me
and let me know that I won.
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So I assumed that her video was announced to
the winner and it wasn't me.
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Of course, you shouldn't make assumptions, but
anyway, so when I was watching the video, I was
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in total gratitude for the winner, and I
Honestly, I was watching it right before bed.
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It was 1 o'clock in the morning, and I'm like,
oh, let me see.
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I need to see.
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And she's like, you know, this is the winner
and if it wasn't you, it's not that you weren't
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worthy.
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I just was feeling hard to call for this
person.
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So at that time, I was like, I'm grateful for
that winner.
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Whoever want, I'm so grateful for them because
they need it.
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They deserve it.
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Total gratitude, nothing else and she said my
name.
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And when she said my name, I started crying.
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I had to watch a video, like, 5 or 6 times.
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I shared it on Facebook.
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I made a video of that whole story on Facebook,
like, with my my joy, like, just I could not,
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of course, I could believe it, but I I just it
was so surreal.
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And then I told my husband, I told him, I'm
going to Valley.
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I'm going to Valley.
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And then he was like, what?
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Where?
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You have 4 kids?
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How?
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Because that's what the universe wants.
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I want it.
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I'm going.
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It's happening, and I'm leaving it on October
18th.
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So I believe everyone needs a time to fill up
your love tank.
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And we as leaders in our community need to also
fill up our love tank.
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So that's my time to unplug from serving the
community and to start receiving all of that
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divine feminine energy that I always you know,
shine, but it's also time for me to just be me
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and learn and get a break.
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But, you know, I'm gonna bother.
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I'm gonna be happy.
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I'm gonna be bliss.
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And I will come back, though.
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Don't worry.
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I will.
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You got those 4 kids.
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Wait.
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Do you remember?
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Yes.
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Exactly.
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Know, I'm just thinking about what you're gonna
gain to be able to bring back to to Niagara,
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and we're so lucky to have you here to be able
to continue to give to women, right, because
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you are so right.
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I mean, nothing and, you know, are men of the
world, like, and I can say that there are are
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you know, and you have boys.
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I have a I have a boy, a young man, I should
say.
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And, you know, they learn from us.
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Right?
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So and you going and giving more to the
mothers, which are generally the keepers of the
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family still, they're gonna learn, right?
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They're gonna learn what it's like be a better
man in the world because of their mothers who
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are so much more connected, you know, and then
in turn, they're gonna treat their partners
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with time or their daughters or whatever with
the same, love and kindness that they're gonna
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be exposed to.
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Right?
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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I believe that 100%.
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00:25:20,734 --> 00:25:23,154
So I know I was gonna say the steps of a
manufacturer.
472
00:25:23,695 --> 00:25:24,195
Sure.
473
00:25:24,654 --> 00:25:27,440
So people are watching over, like, What are the
steps?
474
00:25:27,740 --> 00:25:28,240
Okay.
475
00:25:28,380 --> 00:25:35,244
So the first one is you your, visualization,
visualizing, believing it's possible, like,
476
00:25:35,325 --> 00:25:38,605
seeing yourself at your goal or whatever it is
you want to do.
477
00:25:38,605 --> 00:25:40,224
For that experience, it was Volley.
478
00:25:40,285 --> 00:25:45,929
So visualizing, believing, having faith and
knowing that yes, I am worthy of this.
479
00:25:45,929 --> 00:25:47,069
Why not me?
480
00:25:47,289 --> 00:25:51,849
You have to really work with any doubts because
if you have doubts, you sabotage that
481
00:25:51,849 --> 00:25:53,149
manifestation process.
482
00:25:53,545 --> 00:25:57,484
And then the third one is letting it go letting
it go.
483
00:25:57,545 --> 00:26:00,525
So it's like ordering from the universe in the
menu.
484
00:26:00,585 --> 00:26:01,644
I like this.
485
00:26:02,049 --> 00:26:02,289
Yeah.
486
00:26:02,289 --> 00:26:03,410
I believe it's good for me.
487
00:26:03,410 --> 00:26:04,289
And I let it go.
488
00:26:04,289 --> 00:26:05,650
Let the way to go get it.
489
00:26:05,650 --> 00:26:08,869
And and trust trust that's gonna come to you.
490
00:26:09,144 --> 00:26:12,345
And I well, I took in another step and I felt
it.
491
00:26:12,345 --> 00:26:14,684
I felt it because I'm a very visual person.
492
00:26:14,825 --> 00:26:15,804
So I visual.
493
00:26:16,105 --> 00:26:18,585
I love to use my senses so I can smell it.
494
00:26:18,585 --> 00:26:22,269
I can hear it by watching the videos and so on.
495
00:26:22,330 --> 00:26:27,049
So you create that environment that you know
that, yes, it's possible, and then you have to
496
00:26:27,049 --> 00:26:27,549
surrender.
497
00:26:27,654 --> 00:26:27,894
Yeah.
498
00:26:27,894 --> 00:26:33,595
They definitely let it go, but the last that
the people don't realize is taking action.
499
00:26:34,375 --> 00:26:39,059
So I can't just close my eyes and wish for a
$1,000,000 to come on my door front and, hey,
500
00:26:39,059 --> 00:26:39,860
come on, universe.
501
00:26:39,860 --> 00:26:40,820
Like, I'm a good person.
502
00:26:40,820 --> 00:26:41,700
Like, where is it?
503
00:26:41,700 --> 00:26:42,019
No.
504
00:26:42,019 --> 00:26:43,240
You didn't take the action.
505
00:26:43,444 --> 00:26:48,005
Maybe you get the ideas, the inspiration from,
you know, books in your mind and things.
506
00:26:48,005 --> 00:26:50,404
You need to take action and follow it and take
you.
507
00:26:50,404 --> 00:26:51,865
So my action was applying.
508
00:26:52,210 --> 00:26:57,009
I couldn't just manifest it without applying to
win it and that was just the universe's way of
509
00:26:57,009 --> 00:26:58,049
gifting it to me.
510
00:26:58,049 --> 00:27:00,525
You have to detach from the how?
511
00:27:01,065 --> 00:27:03,484
How is it possible for me to manifest this?
512
00:27:03,944 --> 00:27:04,265
How?
513
00:27:04,265 --> 00:27:06,480
But where is this extra money coming from?
514
00:27:06,559 --> 00:27:08,079
Well, where's this new job?
515
00:27:08,079 --> 00:27:12,980
Well, where's this new lover in my life, a new
relationship, a new car, and so on.
516
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,595
And then that's how you manifest it.
517
00:27:16,634 --> 00:27:17,115
Wow.
518
00:27:17,115 --> 00:27:17,615
Amazing.
519
00:27:17,835 --> 00:27:18,075
Right?
520
00:27:18,075 --> 00:27:19,835
So I think you're so right.
521
00:27:19,835 --> 00:27:19,994
Right?
522
00:27:19,994 --> 00:27:24,690
Cause a lot of people say, well, if I meditate
and all those things, But at some point, you
523
00:27:24,690 --> 00:27:31,454
gotta you gotta take this action step, whatever
it is, right, like to pick up the phone or you
524
00:27:31,454 --> 00:27:37,775
know, meet the new person if someone introduces
you or, you know, you know, go go to the gym if
525
00:27:37,775 --> 00:27:42,890
you want a different body or if you want a
different workplace or maybe different
526
00:27:42,890 --> 00:27:44,750
interaction, you're gonna have to risk.
527
00:27:45,369 --> 00:27:50,345
You can envision it, you know, and a lot of
people I think Like, I have I do vision boards.
528
00:27:50,345 --> 00:27:51,565
I don't know if you do.
529
00:27:51,785 --> 00:27:52,285
Yeah.
530
00:27:52,505 --> 00:27:58,184
You know, so but at at the end of the day, the
vision board reminds you and embodies what you
531
00:27:58,184 --> 00:28:03,150
want, but those steps have to be taken daily to
be able to achieve those goals.
532
00:28:03,210 --> 00:28:03,710
Exactly.
533
00:28:03,769 --> 00:28:06,535
They have to be taken because we have free
will.
534
00:28:06,695 --> 00:28:09,654
We have free will, so we have to take the
action.
535
00:28:09,654 --> 00:28:11,335
We had to ask for things.
536
00:28:11,335 --> 00:28:17,789
We had to push herself out there Like, I can't
get 40 weddings in 1 year, and I'm sitting at
537
00:28:17,789 --> 00:28:20,430
home in Obama bombs or watching Netflix all
day.
538
00:28:20,430 --> 00:28:21,470
I had to take the action.
539
00:28:21,470 --> 00:28:22,745
I had to put myself social media.
540
00:28:22,745 --> 00:28:23,945
I had to post every single day.
541
00:28:23,945 --> 00:28:25,164
I gotta use my hashtags.
542
00:28:25,305 --> 00:28:28,605
I gotta put myself out there, and that's how
they find me.
543
00:28:28,664 --> 00:28:31,725
So you definitely need to take action in
anything.
544
00:28:32,059 --> 00:28:34,400
In order to have a life that you desire.
545
00:28:35,259 --> 00:28:35,740
Absolutely.
546
00:28:35,740 --> 00:28:37,519
And and, you know, so let's talk.
547
00:28:38,059 --> 00:28:40,414
So we know about metaphysically what that
means.
548
00:28:40,414 --> 00:28:41,535
You do a lot of weddings.
549
00:28:41,535 --> 00:28:45,295
So if ever, but anybody ever wants to get
married, you can find naturally.
550
00:28:45,295 --> 00:28:48,174
And, you know, she can take care of you.
551
00:28:48,734 --> 00:28:51,369
And I know you do wedding in Toronto, Ontario.
552
00:28:51,369 --> 00:28:51,869
Right?
553
00:28:52,089 --> 00:28:52,570
Yes.
554
00:28:52,570 --> 00:28:57,529
Well, you know, my my furthest I would go to
will say is Toronto because the way the Niagara
555
00:28:57,529 --> 00:29:01,255
region, there's so much abundance of love and
weddings here.
556
00:29:01,315 --> 00:29:06,195
So I went to Cambridge this weekend, which was
like the furthest in Milton, which was furthest
557
00:29:06,195 --> 00:29:07,255
for me so far.
558
00:29:07,359 --> 00:29:08,799
But yeah, so I would go to
559
00:29:08,799 --> 00:29:10,019
the beachfront area.
560
00:29:10,559 --> 00:29:11,039
Okay.
561
00:29:11,039 --> 00:29:11,539
Okay.
562
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,660
So let's now talk about busyness.
563
00:29:15,695 --> 00:29:21,775
I I know everybody men included that are
listening, but women understand what it is to
564
00:29:21,775 --> 00:29:24,490
be busy if you you have jobs.
565
00:29:24,490 --> 00:29:26,349
You have you have 4 children.
566
00:29:26,650 --> 00:29:28,509
I I I need to enunciate 4.
567
00:29:29,130 --> 00:29:32,890
I have 1, and I know how busy my life gets.
568
00:29:32,890 --> 00:29:33,390
Right?
569
00:29:33,674 --> 00:29:37,375
And in there, we talked a little bit about,
obviously, you said manifestation.
570
00:29:38,474 --> 00:29:39,855
We talk about action.
571
00:29:41,490 --> 00:29:44,049
I want them I want you to tell them, do you
have a copy of your book
572
00:29:44,049 --> 00:29:45,509
there handy?
573
00:29:45,570 --> 00:29:46,230
I do.
574
00:29:46,369 --> 00:29:47,590
I do have it.
575
00:29:48,049 --> 00:29:49,644
Let's see where Hold on.
576
00:29:49,644 --> 00:29:50,384
Right back.
577
00:29:51,725 --> 00:29:58,980
So what Natalie's been able to do is she's been
able to produce a book in the last little while
578
00:29:58,980 --> 00:30:06,785
and, you know, thinking about context, you
know, I'm a goddess, and here it is.
579
00:30:06,845 --> 00:30:10,305
And, I know she's gonna be able to tell you
guys where to get it.
580
00:30:11,589 --> 00:30:13,690
She was able to do all those things.
581
00:30:15,750 --> 00:30:21,154
Be a minister, do her reiki, do do her
hypnotherapy, and then now she's put out of
582
00:30:21,154 --> 00:30:23,154
this book along with her goddess circle.
583
00:30:23,154 --> 00:30:27,154
So I want her to talk just a little bit a
little bit about the inspiration for the book
584
00:30:27,154 --> 00:30:34,359
and how you made it happen with the time, or
should I see the the lack of time that you have
585
00:30:34,359 --> 00:30:36,039
in your on your weeks and your months?
586
00:30:36,039 --> 00:30:36,539
So
587
00:30:37,065 --> 00:30:37,571
Thank you.
588
00:30:37,571 --> 00:30:38,105
Thank you.
589
00:30:38,105 --> 00:30:38,744
Let us know.
590
00:30:38,744 --> 00:30:43,085
Let us know how you created that book, which I
was I know I was there when it was all done.
591
00:30:43,384 --> 00:30:44,684
Thank you so much.
592
00:30:45,009 --> 00:30:50,929
Well, I'm a strong believer that if you have
ideas that you have to listen to it because I
593
00:30:50,929 --> 00:30:57,955
believe in dying without regrets, and this seed
of this book was planted in my mind since 2009
594
00:30:58,335 --> 00:31:00,575
and I didn't wanna be my deathbed and my a d c.
595
00:31:00,575 --> 00:31:02,015
Oh, I wonder what would have happened.
596
00:31:02,015 --> 00:31:03,394
So I just said, okay.
597
00:31:03,430 --> 00:31:06,710
I'm gonna dedicate some time every day because
this book is calling me.
598
00:31:06,710 --> 00:31:08,570
So of course, I have 4 children.
599
00:31:08,789 --> 00:31:13,275
Of course, I have, like, so many different
things to do, but If I don't make the time for
600
00:31:13,275 --> 00:31:18,174
me to write this, I will not feel satisfied
with my purpose.
601
00:31:18,234 --> 00:31:20,015
They came to me, so it's my purpose.
602
00:31:20,130 --> 00:31:25,269
So what I did was I put time slot 20 minutes
aside every day.
603
00:31:25,329 --> 00:31:26,150
Just write.
604
00:31:26,210 --> 00:31:28,555
And sometimes they, what am I gonna write
about?
605
00:31:28,634 --> 00:31:31,295
So what came to me was had an acronym.
606
00:31:31,755 --> 00:31:33,195
I'm an acronym goddess.
607
00:31:33,195 --> 00:31:34,575
I I just love that.
608
00:31:35,275 --> 00:31:37,375
So I made an acronym for the word goddess.
609
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,779
So every single letter is a chapter of my book.
610
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:42,420
Greatness.
611
00:31:43,119 --> 00:31:44,579
I talk about manifestations.
612
00:31:45,039 --> 00:31:49,164
I talk about the universe to with gratitude and
love.
613
00:31:49,705 --> 00:31:50,904
Oh, overcome it.
614
00:31:50,904 --> 00:31:56,119
I do share a story about witnessing physical
abuse and also overcoming all the limiting
615
00:31:56,179 --> 00:31:57,880
beliefs and fears I had.
616
00:31:58,339 --> 00:31:59,559
D, divine.
617
00:31:59,779 --> 00:32:06,384
I talk about having the divine connections with
the metaphysical outside beings like angels and
618
00:32:06,384 --> 00:32:10,085
past lives and our truth essence.
619
00:32:10,144 --> 00:32:16,309
The deserving and that's all filled with
inspiration that you are deserving of love and
620
00:32:16,309 --> 00:32:21,565
made an acronym to know which means new
opportunities and I mean, I can offer yes,
621
00:32:21,565 --> 00:32:23,505
which is you embracing source.
622
00:32:23,644 --> 00:32:28,525
So if you feel like saying no, remember, you're
giving yourself a new opportunity to be
623
00:32:28,525 --> 00:32:29,744
authentic with yourself.
624
00:32:30,259 --> 00:32:32,519
And then, an e embracing.
625
00:32:32,740 --> 00:32:38,845
I talk about embracing peace, embracing
finances, embracing love, and embracing health
626
00:32:38,845 --> 00:32:42,444
and so on and then sensuality and strength.
627
00:32:42,444 --> 00:32:47,710
And centrality is all about the sacredness of
the divine feminine and I do talk about sacred
628
00:32:47,710 --> 00:32:53,309
sexuality because it is important not to be shy
about that part of our humanness because, you
629
00:32:53,309 --> 00:32:58,115
know, we're supposed to experience pleasure and
then the strength is full of inspiration again.
630
00:32:58,255 --> 00:33:03,650
So what I did was I have 20 minutes a day to
write and I gave myself 20 minutes just to
631
00:33:03,650 --> 00:33:04,950
start the channel process.
632
00:33:05,089 --> 00:33:09,650
So I would clear my space, when the kids all
asleep in, I would say, okay, what did I wanna
633
00:33:09,650 --> 00:33:10,644
write about with the greatness?
634
00:33:10,644 --> 00:33:12,184
So you have a little sketch.
635
00:33:12,565 --> 00:33:14,484
This is my topic to each of this.
636
00:33:14,484 --> 00:33:16,085
So what does this mean to me?
637
00:33:16,085 --> 00:33:21,360
It's a bulletin and I bulletin point form list
went to sentences and went to sentences to a
638
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:25,600
point where some days I wrote 20 minutes and
that was it because, you know, I I'm that's all
639
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:30,035
I was feeling called 2 and other days I wrote
for 5 hours and I couldn't stop.
640
00:33:30,335 --> 00:33:33,855
So just allowing yourself to start is the
biggest thing.
641
00:33:33,855 --> 00:33:35,240
Even if it's 10 minutes.
642
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:36,359
That's all you have to do.
643
00:33:36,359 --> 00:33:40,700
Whatever it takes for you to follow your heart
and create anything you have in your mind.
644
00:33:40,919 --> 00:33:45,654
Just allow them the time and my biggest thing
is no excuses.
645
00:33:46,515 --> 00:33:47,414
Live life.
646
00:33:47,474 --> 00:33:48,775
You're way without excuses.
647
00:33:48,914 --> 00:33:50,515
Let me say what I'm a mother for.
648
00:33:50,515 --> 00:33:52,150
So I can't do this.
649
00:33:52,210 --> 00:33:52,529
No.
650
00:33:52,529 --> 00:33:52,769
No.
651
00:33:52,769 --> 00:33:52,929
No.
652
00:33:52,929 --> 00:33:53,429
No.
653
00:33:53,730 --> 00:33:57,809
I'm not saying that being a mother and only
being a mother is not a good thing.
654
00:33:57,809 --> 00:34:02,585
I know a lot of friends that that's their role,
and they're have to be a homemaker and mother
655
00:34:02,585 --> 00:34:04,045
and cook and do everything.
656
00:34:04,345 --> 00:34:10,590
And that's perfect and it's so beautiful to
witness but I know my role was more than just
657
00:34:10,590 --> 00:34:11,190
being a mother.
658
00:34:11,190 --> 00:34:12,929
I that's why I talk about archetypes.
659
00:34:13,150 --> 00:34:19,844
I own a lot of different archetypes the
warrior, the lover, the mother, the nun, and so
660
00:34:19,844 --> 00:34:20,344
on.
661
00:34:20,565 --> 00:34:23,784
So that's the steps I chose to make it happen.
662
00:34:23,924 --> 00:34:31,250
And then of course, how, how of idea to create
space, which is also for self publishing, and
663
00:34:31,250 --> 00:34:32,530
that way I could put on demand.
664
00:34:32,530 --> 00:34:34,234
So if anyone wants a copy of the book.
665
00:34:34,234 --> 00:34:39,674
They could just go to amazon.ca, and then they
search I am Goddess or Reverend Natalie here,
666
00:34:39,674 --> 00:34:40,815
and they'll find it.
667
00:34:41,329 --> 00:34:41,809
Wow.
668
00:34:41,809 --> 00:34:42,309
Wow.
669
00:34:42,929 --> 00:34:43,670
It's amazing.
670
00:34:43,730 --> 00:34:43,969
Right?
671
00:34:43,969 --> 00:34:48,210
Because time is such a commodity, and we're
always chasing it, but really, you know, it's
672
00:34:48,210 --> 00:34:50,164
about you know,
673
00:34:50,164 --> 00:34:55,444
I often say when I wrote my book, I felt like
it was a spiritual download myself because I
674
00:34:55,444 --> 00:34:59,880
had so much going on in my life, which was, you
know, separation and all those things.
675
00:35:01,220 --> 00:35:03,300
But within within 6 months, it was done.
676
00:35:03,300 --> 00:35:06,039
And I kept saying, this was bigger than me.
677
00:35:06,844 --> 00:35:10,924
I kept saying, you know, like, and I had said,
I remember 10 years prior, Nancy.
678
00:35:10,924 --> 00:35:14,764
I had said to someone, you know, I'm gonna
write a book 1, and he and and he looked at me
679
00:35:14,764 --> 00:35:15,744
and he goes, what?
680
00:35:16,349 --> 00:35:18,449
I think it was just a fleeting thought.
681
00:35:18,670 --> 00:35:21,469
I never truly said that I was gonna write a
book.
682
00:35:21,469 --> 00:35:25,155
And then, you know, 10 years later, the time,
the space.
683
00:35:25,155 --> 00:35:27,494
I, you know, I was in between jobs.
684
00:35:28,194 --> 00:35:31,074
I was separating, those types of things.
685
00:35:31,074 --> 00:35:34,230
And then within 6 months, boom, the book was
there.
686
00:35:34,610 --> 00:35:37,170
And, you know, so it's it's you're so right.
687
00:35:37,170 --> 00:35:38,550
You can have these ideas.
688
00:35:39,969 --> 00:35:44,594
Yeah, you know, like like you said, we all have
roles and I think what happens to a lot of
689
00:35:44,594 --> 00:35:46,614
women is they judge each other.
690
00:35:46,755 --> 00:35:48,755
Oh, you're judging me because you're an
entrepreneur.
691
00:35:48,755 --> 00:35:54,619
You're judging me because I'm a stay at home
It's not it's about recognizing what what
692
00:35:54,619 --> 00:36:00,315
essence am I wanting in the world and what what
do I what legacy do I want to leave behind?
693
00:36:00,315 --> 00:36:05,035
Like you said, you know, you have a bigger
purpose, right, to be able to give the world
694
00:36:05,035 --> 00:36:06,974
those these gifts that you have.
695
00:36:07,619 --> 00:36:08,179
Thank you.
696
00:36:08,179 --> 00:36:08,739
Thank you.
697
00:36:08,739 --> 00:36:09,860
Thank you so much.
698
00:36:09,860 --> 00:36:10,820
And it's true.
699
00:36:10,820 --> 00:36:14,824
And that's the one thing that a lot of females
need to let go of.
700
00:36:14,984 --> 00:36:21,501
It's a need for competition and their ego
mentality and and realize that being
701
00:36:21,577 --> 00:36:26,920
supportive, being happy for the people, is
actually a good thing for you because when you
702
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,059
clear yourself out, that's how you can manifest
to greatness.
703
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:35,234
If you're secretly watching someone's profile
and and spying and whatever they call it.
704
00:36:35,295 --> 00:36:37,375
And you're like, oh, I can't believe that's
what they're doing.
705
00:36:37,375 --> 00:36:39,875
And you're actually building up this repeller.
706
00:36:40,014 --> 00:36:45,449
It's like people and also opportunities are
gonna be like, oh, not for her, not for her.
707
00:36:45,449 --> 00:36:51,784
So it's for your benefit not to be jealous and
have that ego mindset.
708
00:36:51,925 --> 00:36:57,769
Of course, humans do that is something that we
were taught as a child to be competitive in
709
00:36:57,769 --> 00:37:04,750
sports and so on, but within our work and
unraveling that ego mindset, we realize, okay.
710
00:37:05,005 --> 00:37:09,664
Something I got from Wayne Dyer who was also
one of my heroes Tony Robbins Wayne Dyer.
711
00:37:09,724 --> 00:37:12,809
I call myself the Goddess version of Tony
Robbins.
712
00:37:12,809 --> 00:37:13,130
Okay?
713
00:37:13,130 --> 00:37:17,690
And Wayne Dyer, he was, like, my father figure
because I didn't grow up with a good father.
714
00:37:17,690 --> 00:37:21,949
So I attached to those 2 males because I needed
male energy in my life.
715
00:37:22,065 --> 00:37:26,985
So me taking action is me owning that masculine
energy that we all have.
716
00:37:26,985 --> 00:37:33,210
And the divine feminine energy is a loving
essential in this and it created my book and
717
00:37:33,210 --> 00:37:34,670
creating everything else.
718
00:37:34,809 --> 00:37:41,715
So what I was getting at was what Wayne Dyer
shared was if you had the eagle mind, like, I
719
00:37:41,715 --> 00:37:43,255
wish I had that new car.
720
00:37:43,315 --> 00:37:46,215
I wish I had that trip to Bali.
721
00:37:46,780 --> 00:37:47,980
Is acknowledging it.
722
00:37:47,980 --> 00:37:52,400
So I'm not saying to pretend it's not there
because then you're still sabotaging yourself.
723
00:37:52,539 --> 00:37:53,660
So you acknowledge that.
724
00:37:53,660 --> 00:37:54,160
Okay.
725
00:37:54,864 --> 00:37:55,585
There I go.
726
00:37:55,585 --> 00:37:56,885
Doing that thing I do.
727
00:37:57,025 --> 00:37:57,744
That's all.
728
00:37:57,744 --> 00:37:58,885
That's all he says.
729
00:37:59,664 --> 00:38:00,625
There I go.
730
00:38:00,625 --> 00:38:02,085
Doing that thing I do.
731
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:02,480
Yeah.
732
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:07,760
So you're not judging yourself because it's
just a thing that the human mind does, but then
733
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,535
you redirect It's like, you know what?
734
00:38:10,535 --> 00:38:13,894
I'm grateful for their experience, and I know
that it's possible for them.
735
00:38:13,894 --> 00:38:15,015
It's possible for me.
736
00:38:15,015 --> 00:38:15,815
What should I do?
737
00:38:15,815 --> 00:38:16,934
Maybe I should work on myself.
738
00:38:16,934 --> 00:38:18,394
Maybe I need a Ricky session.
739
00:38:18,630 --> 00:38:22,090
Maybe I really need to, you know, do something
for me.
740
00:38:22,309 --> 00:38:26,534
Well, of course, she won that trip because look
at all the good process that she's doing.
741
00:38:26,614 --> 00:38:28,214
Hey, I'm gonna start doing good stuff.
742
00:38:28,214 --> 00:38:33,034
Maybe I might volunteer in my community or or
learn about this stuff like that.
743
00:38:33,174 --> 00:38:38,320
So acknowledging it Thank you for sharing but
not giving it his power and redirecting and
744
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:42,500
that's how we work with the ego mind because we
cannot judge each other anymore.
745
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,815
This is time for to support each other and
uplift each other.
746
00:38:46,954 --> 00:38:52,255
And and I want to help women feel that secret
container, and that's why I do got the circles.
747
00:38:52,380 --> 00:38:57,739
So we can all feel supported and hold that
space because we need to open up and be
748
00:38:57,739 --> 00:38:58,239
vulnerable
749
00:38:58,779 --> 00:39:00,424
for sure and and about safety.
750
00:39:00,424 --> 00:39:05,353
I was watching something on Quincy Jones last
night, and he said the ego mind is the insecure
751
00:39:05,353 --> 00:39:08,150
mind dressed up.
752
00:39:08,869 --> 00:39:09,829
Who I like that.
753
00:39:09,829 --> 00:39:13,989
And I love that, you know, because here's a man
like that that has done.
754
00:39:13,989 --> 00:39:19,545
I mean, he's an icon in the world and He said
when he sees ego, that's what he thinks
755
00:39:19,545 --> 00:39:21,005
insecurity dressed up.
756
00:39:21,385 --> 00:39:22,025
I love that.
757
00:39:22,025 --> 00:39:23,065
Here's something like that.
758
00:39:23,065 --> 00:39:23,864
That's done.
759
00:39:23,864 --> 00:39:29,219
The pinnacle and and and it's an icon in in the
music industry, and he's eighty two years old,
760
00:39:29,219 --> 00:39:34,340
and he's talking about his path, which was, you
know, a pretty, rough path growing out in the
761
00:39:34,340 --> 00:39:35,400
south side of Chicago.
762
00:39:36,244 --> 00:39:40,484
You know, mentally ill mom, those types of
things, you know, so it shows you that.
763
00:39:40,484 --> 00:39:40,964
I'm gonna
764
00:39:40,964 --> 00:39:42,264
use that in my circle.
765
00:39:42,804 --> 00:39:43,844
That's so true.
766
00:39:43,844 --> 00:39:44,484
It is.
767
00:39:44,484 --> 00:39:45,144
It is.
768
00:39:45,230 --> 00:39:51,389
It's actually a show on on his life, which just
really struck me when I listen to his path and
769
00:39:51,389 --> 00:39:54,264
and how positive he is and, you know, all those
things.
770
00:39:54,344 --> 00:39:55,385
So it shows you.
771
00:39:55,385 --> 00:40:02,824
So it's really empowering people to drop their
guard because that's something that, you know,
772
00:40:02,824 --> 00:40:04,889
we go out in the world Right?
773
00:40:04,889 --> 00:40:09,369
And, you know, we have to put on a certain
amount of masks to some degree.
774
00:40:09,369 --> 00:40:09,610
Right?
775
00:40:09,610 --> 00:40:14,815
In our in our worlds, we can go walk around and
show who we are but a lot of different
776
00:40:14,815 --> 00:40:15,315
environments.
777
00:40:15,375 --> 00:40:16,655
People grew up being told.
778
00:40:16,655 --> 00:40:18,094
I have to be a certain way as a child.
779
00:40:18,094 --> 00:40:20,414
Like you said, I have to be like this at
church.
780
00:40:20,414 --> 00:40:22,015
I have to be like this at school.
781
00:40:22,015 --> 00:40:23,639
I have to be like this at sports.
782
00:40:24,099 --> 00:40:28,500
I have to be like this at at music, those types
of things, and people kinda get more
783
00:40:28,500 --> 00:40:31,799
disconnected as they go to who their authentic
self is.
784
00:40:32,385 --> 00:40:35,765
So then you put, you know, a bunch of women in
a in a group.
785
00:40:36,704 --> 00:40:37,204
Yes.
786
00:40:37,744 --> 00:40:38,144
And then
787
00:40:38,144 --> 00:40:40,644
the rule is do not give advice.
788
00:40:41,690 --> 00:40:42,650
That's one of the rules.
789
00:40:42,650 --> 00:40:46,110
When people share, you you cannot try to fix
each other.
790
00:40:46,250 --> 00:40:47,690
Your job is not to give advice.
791
00:40:47,690 --> 00:40:52,474
So I say straight up, the rules of this circle
is to hold space and allow accept the shine
792
00:40:52,474 --> 00:40:52,974
love.
793
00:40:53,034 --> 00:40:56,875
And if you hear someone share it, your job is
not to try to fix it.
794
00:40:56,875 --> 00:40:58,414
Your job is not to give advice.
795
00:40:58,635 --> 00:41:00,815
Your job is just to hold space and listen.
796
00:41:00,949 --> 00:41:03,289
And then we do lots of different interactive
activities.
797
00:41:03,589 --> 00:41:08,230
Some may include eye gaze in, some may include
writing lists, and some may include physical
798
00:41:08,230 --> 00:41:10,344
touch and someone in in massaging.
799
00:41:10,484 --> 00:41:12,025
It all depends on the topic.
800
00:41:12,484 --> 00:41:18,769
And, it is so important to share our
vulnerabilities because If not, we create
801
00:41:18,769 --> 00:41:22,789
disease in our own bodies because we don't feel
safe.
802
00:41:22,929 --> 00:41:28,815
Of course, having the card up helped us back in
the day when we were being hunted by lines, but
803
00:41:28,815 --> 00:41:31,074
now we're not being hunted by lines.
804
00:41:31,375 --> 00:41:35,250
So we had to realize, like, we're k, we're safe
to share vulnerabilities.
805
00:41:35,710 --> 00:41:37,650
You can witness the animal kingdom.
806
00:41:37,949 --> 00:41:41,710
They have, like, the butterflies with their
eyes on the wings and the fishes with the eyes
807
00:41:41,710 --> 00:41:42,589
on the belly.
808
00:41:42,589 --> 00:41:44,445
So predators don't catch them.
809
00:41:44,445 --> 00:41:49,344
So even in our animal kingdom, they are
designed to ward our predators and a human mind
810
00:41:52,989 --> 00:41:59,150
and the human action that we do, we're designed
to wear mask, wear mask, word off the the
811
00:41:59,150 --> 00:42:00,675
people that wanna hurt us.
812
00:42:00,835 --> 00:42:09,079
But this time in right now in 2018 and beyond,
it is a time to just open up all that masks you
813
00:42:09,079 --> 00:42:14,859
know, of course, you have to be aware, but at
the same time, it's okay to shine your truth
814
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,775
without having to wear a mask.
815
00:42:16,855 --> 00:42:21,654
I know some people that there are different
people for every different group, but then they
816
00:42:21,654 --> 00:42:28,130
make themselves crazy having to pretend the
best way to shine is by being you and their
817
00:42:28,130 --> 00:42:34,614
story and if people can't handle your greatness
and people are put off because what?
818
00:42:34,914 --> 00:42:37,554
Find the big tribe for you.
819
00:42:37,554 --> 00:42:38,355
That's it.
820
00:42:38,355 --> 00:42:40,514
Not everyone has to be your best friend.
821
00:42:40,514 --> 00:42:42,739
Not everyone has to like you.
822
00:42:42,820 --> 00:42:45,000
Just that you don't have to like everyone.
823
00:42:46,739 --> 00:42:47,239
Absolutely.
824
00:42:47,300 --> 00:42:52,614
Because they always the more connected you get
and I'm, you know, I know I can speak to my
825
00:42:52,614 --> 00:42:58,269
life, the more connected I became to the core
of who I was, the people that needed to stay
826
00:42:58,269 --> 00:43:02,030
stayed, the people that needed to be clear,
clear, and the people that I needed to attract
827
00:43:02,030 --> 00:43:07,714
naturally, I attracted because I said years
ago, you know, kind of when I made my shift and
828
00:43:07,714 --> 00:43:12,755
wrote my book and stuff, I said I wanted to be
connected to like minded.
829
00:43:12,755 --> 00:43:18,920
I said women, that were spiritually connected,
and to run-in those circles.
830
00:43:19,059 --> 00:43:23,824
And, you know, it's now I look back and talk
about manifestation you know, I hadn't thought
831
00:43:23,824 --> 00:43:28,545
about in those terms, but now I look at it and,
you know, I'm around speakers and I'm around
832
00:43:28,545 --> 00:43:33,739
authors and around spiritually connected
people, like, you know, you know, speaking,
833
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,639
traveling, all those things.
834
00:43:35,639 --> 00:43:37,880
The things that I was just a thought in my
mind.
835
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,135
I thought oh, I'm gonna write this book.
836
00:43:40,135 --> 00:43:41,674
That was the extent of it.
837
00:43:41,734 --> 00:43:42,234
Wow.
838
00:43:42,375 --> 00:43:48,739
And then, you know, years later, you know, 3, 4
years later, not without a lot of hard work as
839
00:43:48,739 --> 00:43:49,960
you know what it takes.
840
00:43:50,659 --> 00:43:53,799
But now I'm like looking around going,
interesting.
841
00:43:54,019 --> 00:43:56,599
Isn't this kind of what I thought I would like?
842
00:43:57,605 --> 00:44:02,485
You know, and then not just writing it down,
but you know, and did I like you, did I refer
843
00:44:02,485 --> 00:44:03,545
back to it often?
844
00:44:03,684 --> 00:44:04,184
No.
845
00:44:05,190 --> 00:44:09,670
But now I look back and then I go, wow, you
know, a couple years ago, this was just a
846
00:44:09,670 --> 00:44:10,650
thought for me.
847
00:44:11,030 --> 00:44:11,750
It's true.
848
00:44:11,750 --> 00:44:17,065
And then because you trusted it and you took
the action, It all involves entrusting yourself
849
00:44:17,065 --> 00:44:19,804
and taking the action knowing that you're
worthy of this.
850
00:44:19,945 --> 00:44:23,784
Because a lot of people, when they found out I
was writing a book was like, well, who are you
851
00:44:23,784 --> 00:44:26,329
and why do people wanna I'm like, it doesn't
matter.
852
00:44:26,329 --> 00:44:29,929
If one person loves it or a hundred people love
it, then it's not the point.
853
00:44:29,929 --> 00:44:32,744
The point is it's a story of my heart and I
need to share with others.
854
00:44:32,905 --> 00:44:37,485
And that's where your intention is just to be
real insurance and support others.
855
00:44:37,865 --> 00:44:40,585
So, yes, and look at you, and I don't know what
we did.
856
00:44:40,585 --> 00:44:46,230
You created that platform and then you go to
New York and you were working with less Brown.
857
00:44:46,369 --> 00:44:47,269
That's fantastic.
858
00:44:48,289 --> 00:44:48,789
Sure.
859
00:44:50,364 --> 00:44:50,764
Yeah.
860
00:44:50,764 --> 00:44:54,764
The opportunities come and now, you know, and
then speaking professionally as a Canadian
861
00:44:54,764 --> 00:44:57,484
professional speaker, that was another thing.
862
00:44:57,484 --> 00:45:02,250
And, you know, so before you know it, you know,
and, you know, you're just you're just putting
863
00:45:02,250 --> 00:45:06,410
one foot in front of each other, not unlike you
20 minutes a day and saying, okay.
864
00:45:06,410 --> 00:45:07,930
Well, what am I gonna do today?
865
00:45:07,930 --> 00:45:08,090
Right?
866
00:45:08,090 --> 00:45:11,195
Like, Violet you did that a bit at a time.
867
00:45:11,655 --> 00:45:13,675
Sometimes I wouldn't write for 20 minutes.
868
00:45:13,735 --> 00:45:19,019
You know, one time I went to the beach with
some friends and I took my laptop And the
869
00:45:19,019 --> 00:45:19,980
universe said, you know what?
870
00:45:19,980 --> 00:45:25,039
The I wrote for 40 minutes and the locked
laptop shut down.
871
00:45:26,195 --> 00:45:26,835
Oh, wow.
872
00:45:26,835 --> 00:45:31,094
And I said, you know, what I said to myself,
I'm not meant to be writing.
873
00:45:31,474 --> 00:45:33,815
I'm meant to be enjoying my friends and my son.
874
00:45:34,279 --> 00:45:35,179
At the beach.
875
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:40,699
And I said never never knew what those forty
pages were.
876
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:46,485
Lost it, and I just I just shut the laptop and
I said to myself, I'm not meant to be doing
877
00:45:46,485 --> 00:45:47,465
this right now.
878
00:45:48,085 --> 00:45:48,825
Thank you.
879
00:45:49,045 --> 00:45:51,380
And then I rewrote it at some other point.
880
00:45:51,380 --> 00:45:51,539
Right?
881
00:45:51,539 --> 00:45:54,739
So I think it's you're so you're so right when
you say it.
882
00:45:54,739 --> 00:45:55,059
Right?
883
00:45:55,059 --> 00:45:56,680
So, you know, what?
884
00:45:57,300 --> 00:46:02,775
For people listening and, you know, That said,
I've been in a I know I've been through a lot
885
00:46:02,775 --> 00:46:05,414
in my life and and I've made a lot of changes.
886
00:46:05,414 --> 00:46:06,614
I know you've seen stuff.
887
00:46:06,614 --> 00:46:11,380
I've seen stuff as children we both have not,
you know, not recognized because you and I had
888
00:46:11,380 --> 00:46:13,639
already never shared each other's stories.
889
00:46:15,619 --> 00:46:19,065
For someone out there that's kinda, you know,
they're stuck.
890
00:46:19,204 --> 00:46:22,804
Like, you know, they're they're like, yeah,
Natalia, I get what you're saying, blah blah
891
00:46:22,804 --> 00:46:24,344
blah, yeah, Roxanne, whatever.
892
00:46:24,485 --> 00:46:30,239
What kind of words would you reach out to
someone like that right now?
893
00:46:30,619 --> 00:46:31,119
Oh,
894
00:46:31,500 --> 00:46:33,440
so they know that they're not alone.
895
00:46:33,579 --> 00:46:35,199
The biggest is fine support.
896
00:46:35,744 --> 00:46:38,724
And maybe it's not gonna circle for you because
you may not feel comfortable.
897
00:46:38,945 --> 00:46:46,930
Maybe it's going to a counselor, a therapist, a
healer, psychologist, I need some support to
898
00:46:46,930 --> 00:46:50,804
assist you from being that state of mind.
899
00:46:50,804 --> 00:46:56,785
If you're feeling stuck or unworthy or
unlovable or or sad and so on.
900
00:46:56,925 --> 00:46:57,664
It's okay.
901
00:46:57,805 --> 00:47:02,945
Don't judge yourself, but always support
yourself with other people around you shared
902
00:47:03,190 --> 00:47:05,210
Don't be alone because you're not alone.
903
00:47:05,269 --> 00:47:06,809
You're meant to be supported.
904
00:47:07,190 --> 00:47:12,565
So find a connection that you feel a safe
person to support yourself with it starts
905
00:47:12,565 --> 00:47:12,885
small.
906
00:47:12,885 --> 00:47:14,804
Like, maybe you start with baby steps up.
907
00:47:14,804 --> 00:47:15,945
I'm gonna try meditating.
908
00:47:16,324 --> 00:47:20,324
There's so many apps I love Insight timer and I
use it all the time.
909
00:47:20,324 --> 00:47:21,315
What's it called?
910
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:23,380
Insights timer.
911
00:47:23,679 --> 00:47:24,179
Inside?
912
00:47:24,559 --> 00:47:24,880
Yeah.
913
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,599
Like, I n s I g h t.
914
00:47:27,599 --> 00:47:29,219
Insights timer.
915
00:47:29,875 --> 00:47:36,034
Single day, and you can click 15 to 20 minutes,
30 to 40 minutes, 5 to 10 minutes, and start
916
00:47:36,034 --> 00:47:36,775
with that.
917
00:47:36,994 --> 00:47:42,179
Being at past states, pausing And then that's
how you start getting unstuck.
918
00:47:42,179 --> 00:47:43,159
You need to pause.
919
00:47:43,619 --> 00:47:45,140
What am I feeling right now?
920
00:47:45,140 --> 00:47:50,385
And also the mindfulness and that a journey or
meditating and counts in your breaths.
921
00:47:50,605 --> 00:47:53,105
People think meditation is so hard, but no.
922
00:47:53,244 --> 00:47:54,465
We're born meditating.
923
00:47:54,605 --> 00:47:55,905
You know, you just to breathe.
924
00:47:56,050 --> 00:47:57,030
We get birthmeditated.
925
00:47:57,489 --> 00:48:02,789
I get birth with my son at home on my back
doing my self hypnosis, breathing deeply.
926
00:48:03,195 --> 00:48:09,215
So a meditation is just being mindful of what's
happening right now and breathe in deeply.
927
00:48:09,515 --> 00:48:14,219
And I also created a platform online because
there's a lot people that are writing me
928
00:48:14,219 --> 00:48:15,440
because I'm very social.
929
00:48:15,659 --> 00:48:20,300
I belong to many different groups and I've got
messages from people from Australia, from
930
00:48:20,300 --> 00:48:25,724
India, writing me asking for my spiritual
wisdom and questions about Reiki and angels and
931
00:48:25,724 --> 00:48:26,385
so on.
932
00:48:26,605 --> 00:48:30,779
So I knew that that was the year of just this
way of telling me I need to create a platform
933
00:48:31,159 --> 00:48:32,279
and I am a creature.
934
00:48:32,279 --> 00:48:39,605
I create all the time so I don't stop and I
just launched like literally last week a new
935
00:48:39,605 --> 00:48:46,345
platform so people all around the world can
have access to my guidance and support.
936
00:48:46,859 --> 00:48:54,139
So it's called the goddess utopia and it's a
monthly fee, a monthly fee of CAD50 and they
937
00:48:54,139 --> 00:49:00,255
get every week 1 hour live session with me and
I answer all the questions.
938
00:49:00,474 --> 00:49:03,519
You have the whole week to ask questions and I
answer it all.
939
00:49:03,519 --> 00:49:05,679
And it's always based on a different thing.
940
00:49:05,679 --> 00:49:10,320
And then we use like 10 minutes to meditate at
the end and then so every week, we'll have a
941
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:11,059
live session.
942
00:49:11,344 --> 00:49:17,505
And in every month of Ricky healing because
energy can travel just like pre travels energy
943
00:49:17,505 --> 00:49:18,005
travels.
944
00:49:18,144 --> 00:49:22,519
That's how we can bless the sisters in the
world and give blessings to other parts of the
945
00:49:22,519 --> 00:49:23,480
world that need it.
946
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:26,039
So we're all energetically able to do that.
947
00:49:26,039 --> 00:49:27,019
It's like a frequency.
948
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:34,815
So You get that 1 healing a month weekly
support daily guidance and worksheets to
949
00:49:34,815 --> 00:49:38,460
process on your own time because some people
like the visuals then some people need to write
950
00:49:38,460 --> 00:49:39,500
it down as well.
951
00:49:39,500 --> 00:49:45,180
So only for $50, which is amazing because 1
hour session with me is at least $80 or above
952
00:49:45,180 --> 00:49:46,994
for, like, the Ricky and so on.
953
00:49:47,075 --> 00:49:50,135
I want to be able to touch people that can't
come to seeing cafes.
954
00:49:50,355 --> 00:49:55,015
And for a monthly fee, you'll it's like having
a Goddess coach in your pocket.
955
00:49:55,559 --> 00:50:00,380
So if you can't catch the live, it's so fine
because you can watch watch the replay.
956
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,519
You can watch the replay next week.
957
00:50:02,519 --> 00:50:04,235
You don't have to be there on the live.
958
00:50:04,235 --> 00:50:05,835
Cause your questions are gonna be answered.
959
00:50:05,835 --> 00:50:07,934
So you just watch it when you can.
960
00:50:08,235 --> 00:50:16,780
And, so my goal was having 10 ladies and I have
15 ladies and I'm just so honored because I
961
00:50:16,780 --> 00:50:19,199
believe when you built it, it will come.
962
00:50:19,659 --> 00:50:20,639
And it's true.
963
00:50:20,780 --> 00:50:25,065
You have to be able to support people and
There's so many other different coaching
964
00:50:25,065 --> 00:50:25,385
groups.
965
00:50:25,385 --> 00:50:29,324
Like, I know people that paid $7000 for 3
months of mentorship.
966
00:50:29,704 --> 00:50:32,925
I didn't wanna be that person that was so
unattainable.
967
00:50:33,610 --> 00:50:36,510
I I didn't want you at this point in my life
saying $7000.
968
00:50:37,289 --> 00:50:44,275
I wanted to reach the people that really can't
invest $7000 and, you know, they wanna come see
969
00:50:44,275 --> 00:50:48,514
me for a 1 hour session, but instead of paying
$8 an hour, they're okay with paying 50 bucks
970
00:50:48,514 --> 00:50:51,849
for the month because I've been motivating them
every single week.
971
00:50:52,070 --> 00:50:56,789
I wanted to reach the mothers or the busy
people that don't have time to go for 1 hour
972
00:50:56,789 --> 00:50:58,730
session, but they can still work on themselves.
973
00:50:59,005 --> 00:50:59,324
Right.
974
00:50:59,324 --> 00:51:01,744
So that's why I created the goddess, utopia.
975
00:51:02,204 --> 00:51:08,369
So I believe that if you feel the idea to do
it, That means that you have to take action
976
00:51:08,369 --> 00:51:09,969
because there are people that need you.
977
00:51:09,969 --> 00:51:12,530
And if if my group stays at 15, that's amazing.
978
00:51:12,530 --> 00:51:14,849
And if it grows, that's even amazing too.
979
00:51:14,849 --> 00:51:18,784
I'm not attached to the outcome, I just listen
to the calling.
980
00:51:19,405 --> 00:51:19,905
Awesome.
981
00:51:20,364 --> 00:51:20,684
Awesome.
982
00:51:20,684 --> 00:51:26,289
What a nice, what what a nice gift to be giving
out there to women that would probably love to
983
00:51:26,289 --> 00:51:27,590
come and see you in person.
984
00:51:28,369 --> 00:51:32,369
But, you know, like you said, or even even if
they are in the region, it you know, that might
985
00:51:32,369 --> 00:51:34,949
be a bit much for people, and I recognize that.
986
00:51:35,235 --> 00:51:40,595
That you can give such a gift and be able to,
you know, go online, you know, if you're their
987
00:51:40,595 --> 00:51:44,615
life, like you said, or to be able to hear the
replays or just to be able to get the wisdom,
988
00:51:44,860 --> 00:51:47,660
you know, like that, like, that pep talk that
we all need.
989
00:51:47,660 --> 00:51:48,720
We all need accountability.
990
00:51:49,099 --> 00:51:49,340
Right?
991
00:51:49,340 --> 00:51:51,340
We all need that check-in.
992
00:51:51,340 --> 00:51:52,880
We need, am I doing okay?
993
00:51:53,355 --> 00:51:58,555
And, you know, I I the one I was watching
something with Oprah, and she said, the one
994
00:51:58,555 --> 00:52:03,340
question, the one statement she hears every
time someone was on her show is the first thing
995
00:52:03,340 --> 00:52:09,360
they said, said whether they it was Obama or my
aunt Angela was, how did I do?
996
00:52:11,574 --> 00:52:12,454
How did I do?
997
00:52:12,454 --> 00:52:16,934
She said they would the camera would click off
and the first thing they would say so, like,
998
00:52:16,934 --> 00:52:17,735
how did I do?
999
00:52:17,735 --> 00:52:24,610
And that is such an you know, a powerful thing
that someone of that, you know, magnitude still
1000
00:52:24,610 --> 00:52:26,789
wanted the feedback about how they did.
1001
00:52:27,045 --> 00:52:27,844
It's so true.
1002
00:52:27,844 --> 00:52:28,905
That's so powerful.
1003
00:52:29,364 --> 00:52:30,164
It is true.
1004
00:52:30,164 --> 00:52:31,704
Everyone wants to feel validated.
1005
00:52:32,244 --> 00:52:34,744
Everyone's their trips in the date of approval.
1006
00:52:35,444 --> 00:52:37,320
And, Yeah.
1007
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,760
Everyone wants to know, hey.
1008
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,539
Did I get the gold star today?
1009
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:41,960
And and it's okay.
1010
00:52:42,360 --> 00:52:43,739
It's one of the love languages.
1011
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:44,280
Right?
1012
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,484
And we could go on and on, but Yeah.
1013
00:52:46,644 --> 00:52:50,644
One of my favorite is words of affirmations,
and that's from Gary Chapman, the love
1014
00:52:50,644 --> 00:52:51,144
languages.
1015
00:52:51,445 --> 00:52:53,625
So of course, giving praise is important.
1016
00:52:53,940 --> 00:52:58,420
Because when they get faced with other people,
you give them that love that they desire and
1017
00:52:58,420 --> 00:53:00,760
they seek, and we all wanna feel loved.
1018
00:53:01,264 --> 00:53:04,005
So when the even experts say how did I do?
1019
00:53:04,144 --> 00:53:06,005
Is that always that they're insecure?
1020
00:53:06,144 --> 00:53:08,224
It's just that they want to feel the love.
1021
00:53:08,224 --> 00:53:09,364
It's like, you did fantastic.
1022
00:53:09,744 --> 00:53:11,989
There's a gold star in high 5.
1023
00:53:13,010 --> 00:53:14,289
But you embody that, though.
1024
00:53:14,289 --> 00:53:14,450
Right?
1025
00:53:14,450 --> 00:53:16,369
Like, I mean, I've I obviously know you.
1026
00:53:16,369 --> 00:53:18,930
So you it love comes off you, and you can feel
that.
1027
00:53:18,930 --> 00:53:24,164
So I can imagine in your goddess circles, what
people experience, you know, they they feel
1028
00:53:24,164 --> 00:53:27,684
that love from you in person or even online.
1029
00:53:27,684 --> 00:53:29,519
I mean, even us doing this.
1030
00:53:29,519 --> 00:53:33,139
It's I'm experiencing here, but I know it's
exactly who you are.
1031
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:39,765
So this has been such a such a gift you know,
I've I've learned so much about you.
1032
00:53:39,765 --> 00:53:43,445
It's so interesting that we've known each other
for so long, and I've learned so much more
1033
00:53:43,445 --> 00:53:43,945
today.
1034
00:53:45,980 --> 00:53:51,039
And I'm and I feel privileged to be, you know,
in your in your space and your path.
1035
00:53:52,215 --> 00:53:57,515
So what I want you to do is to tell everybody
how they can get a hold of you because I'm sure
1036
00:53:58,135 --> 00:54:04,599
people are gonna wanna reach out and get to
know more about if they wanted to join the the
1037
00:54:04,599 --> 00:54:07,960
goddess, utopia, or coach, or whatever.
1038
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,819
So where where can everybody reach you?
1039
00:54:10,224 --> 00:54:10,724
Okay.
1040
00:54:10,784 --> 00:54:18,244
So I have 3 different websites because I do so
much, and I didn't wanna confuse everyone.
1041
00:54:18,820 --> 00:54:23,400
So the one the goddess youtopia is for the
mentorship opportunity.
1042
00:54:24,180 --> 00:54:26,420
And I actually have someone from New Jersey.
1043
00:54:26,420 --> 00:54:29,244
I have someone and yet and even Australia in
there.
1044
00:54:29,304 --> 00:54:34,204
So, I feel very honored that I'm reaching that
parts of the world one sister at a time.
1045
00:54:34,264 --> 00:54:41,480
So, the goddess to children us for that the
Reverend or some reverend Natalie hate dotca is
1046
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:46,905
for the ministry work because my biggest
biggest mission is amplifying love.
1047
00:54:46,905 --> 00:54:47,864
Amplifying love.
1048
00:54:47,864 --> 00:54:48,925
My god is circles.
1049
00:54:48,985 --> 00:54:51,324
I amplify my love in the wedding ceremony.
1050
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:57,180
And I provide my love in my holistic practice,
which is called sacred breakthroughs.
1051
00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:02,575
So on Instagram, I use secrets for breakthrough
because I've been with sacred breakthroughs for
1052
00:55:02,575 --> 00:55:03,555
15 years.
1053
00:55:04,015 --> 00:55:10,239
Sacred means that sacred place within the
essence of who you are and breakthroughs means
1054
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:16,880
I'm assisting you in breaking through all that
self sabotage limiting beliefs, body, mind, and
1055
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,300
spirit with the rekey hypnosis and reflexology.
1056
00:55:20,344 --> 00:55:27,144
So to find me the quickest would be on
Instagram, sacred breakthroughs, or on
1057
00:55:27,144 --> 00:55:28,775
Facebook, sacred breakthroughs.
1058
00:55:29,610 --> 00:55:32,510
And then those 3 platforms depending on what
you're seeking.
1059
00:55:33,210 --> 00:55:33,710
Okay.
1060
00:55:33,769 --> 00:55:38,750
So if they just went, online also and just put
your name in Natalie Hague.
1061
00:55:38,809 --> 00:55:39,309
Yes.
1062
00:55:39,484 --> 00:55:40,445
There would be a fight.
1063
00:55:40,445 --> 00:55:40,925
Everything.
1064
00:55:40,925 --> 00:55:41,244
Okay.
1065
00:55:41,244 --> 00:55:41,405
I
1066
00:55:41,405 --> 00:55:45,405
even had a LinkedIn page, and I always love
that, but I just had to do it because everyone
1067
00:55:45,405 --> 00:55:46,125
said I needed it.
1068
00:55:46,125 --> 00:55:47,019
They're like, Okay.
1069
00:55:47,019 --> 00:55:48,559
I'm not gonna close the opportunity.
1070
00:55:48,859 --> 00:55:51,820
I'll put it everywhere and see what happens.
1071
00:55:51,820 --> 00:55:52,139
Right?
1072
00:55:52,139 --> 00:55:54,239
You gotta plant the season, open the doors.
1073
00:55:54,405 --> 00:55:55,704
For things who walk in.
1074
00:55:56,485 --> 00:55:59,224
Well, naturally, this has been a pleasure.
1075
00:56:00,565 --> 00:56:02,905
So what what did I gain today?
1076
00:56:02,965 --> 00:56:08,569
I gained a sense that be authentic, which, you
know, obviously, that you know that's my brand
1077
00:56:08,789 --> 00:56:10,710
is the only way to face the world.
1078
00:56:10,710 --> 00:56:12,409
It's the only way to face the world.
1079
00:56:12,855 --> 00:56:14,155
We all have a story.
1080
00:56:14,454 --> 00:56:16,075
We can rewrite that story.
1081
00:56:17,094 --> 00:56:22,660
And, we rewrite that story by just listening to
the universe but at the end of the day, we
1082
00:56:22,660 --> 00:56:23,960
gotta get up and do.
1083
00:56:24,099 --> 00:56:30,739
Whether it's 5 minutes a day, a minute a day,
or, and you build a bit at a time.
1084
00:56:30,739 --> 00:56:36,164
And once you do that, small steps, you know,
whether, like Natalie said, seeing a
1085
00:56:36,164 --> 00:56:41,880
psychotherapist or, psychologists at first, and
then you start to build that tribe around you
1086
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:48,515
that starts to reflect back that they they they
are in alignments, with where you are Then
1087
00:56:48,515 --> 00:56:53,574
before you know it, that attraction brings the
people that you need, the right people show up.
1088
00:56:53,875 --> 00:56:59,070
It's just about recognizing you gotta throw the
nets because if if you keep the net all kind of
1089
00:56:59,070 --> 00:57:03,309
bundled up in your garage, by literally, it's
gonna stay there.
1090
00:57:03,309 --> 00:57:09,215
You have to risk a bit at a time and we've only
got one go around it like I often say.
1091
00:57:09,215 --> 00:57:16,440
So, take that risk, pick up the phone, reach
out, reach out, to myself or to naturally for
1092
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:17,500
any of your needs.
1093
00:57:17,639 --> 00:57:24,264
If you're needing any more on, information on
me, you can go to Roxanne forward slash
1094
00:57:24,264 --> 00:57:28,984
blueprint where you have a free course, and, we
look forward to staying connected with you.
1095
00:57:28,984 --> 00:57:31,724
And thanks again, Natalie, for being on
1096
00:57:32,150 --> 00:57:33,690
Thank you for this opportunity.
1097
00:57:33,909 --> 00:57:35,289
It truly was a pleasure.
1098
00:57:35,429 --> 00:57:39,769
I know we were meaning to do this for the
summer, but today was the right time to do it.
1099
00:57:39,829 --> 00:57:41,849
It always happens in the right time.
1100
00:57:41,945 --> 00:57:46,045
So thank you for your patience and opportunity
to share and your tribe.
1101
00:57:46,744 --> 00:57:47,485
You're welcome.
1102
00:57:47,625 --> 00:57:47,945
Okay.
1103
00:57:47,945 --> 00:57:48,824
Take care, everyone.
1104
00:57:48,824 --> 00:57:49,545
We'll chat with you soon.
1105
00:57:49,545 --> 00:57:49,864
Have a
1106
00:57:49,864 --> 00:57:50,344
good day.
1107
00:57:50,344 --> 00:57:50,585
Okay.
1108
00:57:50,585 --> 00:57:51,085
Bye.
1109
00:58:00,704 --> 00:58:06,164
Thanks for tuning in to authentic living with
Roxanne, creating the space for positive
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00:58:06,224 --> 00:58:07,204
healthy chain.
1111
00:58:07,479 --> 00:58:14,199
Roxanne is a keynote speaker, psychotherapist,
and coach to work with Roxanne, visit Roxanne
1112
00:58:14,500 --> 00:58:16,105
Durhed dotcom/blueprint.
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00:58:17,765 --> 00:58:21,545
We'll see you next time on authentic living
with Roxanne.