You’re Built for This: The Intelligence Behind Who You Are

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But again, we're basing the possibilities of your future based on the current version of yourself.
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And if your soul knew that being a spiritual leader was part of your destination, don't you fucking think that it would set you up for success there too?
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Welcome to the Unity Code, where we explore what becomes possible when we stop keeping spirituality on the sidelines and start using our connection to spirit to actually change lives.
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I'm Nicole Pope, a medium teacher and former transformation corporate executive.
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I've spent more than 20 years obsessed with data, patterns, systems, and one question.
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What actually creates change?
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These days I'm asking that same question about energy, consciousness, the soul, and our connection to spirit.
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And no, we're not keeping this theoretical.
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On the podcast, we're going to teach it, test it, demonstrate it, play with it, and bring real people into the conversation.
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We'll explore mediumship, energetic, intuition, ancestral patterns, human potential, and some things I'm not even sure we have language for yet.
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Because the goal is bigger than becoming more spiritual.
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It's about discovering what you're capable of, using it to transform yourself, expand your life, and step into possibilities you couldn't access before.
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This is the Unity Code, where spirit meets experimentation, transformation, and a community curious enough to find out what else is possible.
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I'm so glad you're here.
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Is I am here to shift the perspective of what you think you know about you.
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And this is a direct revelation that I've had with myself.
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And it was so deep and so profound that of course I have to share the love with all of you.
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Of course I do, because there is one thing that I know certain about me.
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It is I have access to unlimited wisdom and downloads and knowledge from spirit, but only if I'm willing to share it, because that is my role here in this physical world.
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And so this episode today is talking about a deep fucking revelation I've had about myself.
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And I'm hoping, praying possibly, that you are receiving the same mind-blowing experience that I did when I went through this myself.
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And so let's start with a little bit of a challenge for all of you.
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What if the things about yourself that you have been trying for years to change aren't actually mistakes in your design?
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And I'm not talking about human design, I'm talking about soul design.
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What if your sensitivity, your weird strengths, right?
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These things that you are inexplicably drawn to, the lessons you can't escape, and probably even some of the contradictions that you have inside you.
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What if all of these are actually telling you something?
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Because it is so easy to get lost in the quagmire of the human experience, which is why, like you and me, we all talk and seek guidance from our spirit teams.
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But have you ever thought about going to the source?
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Have you ever thought about asking the intelligence of your soul why you're here and why you are the way that you are?
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Not asking your soul what job you should take, what are the next steps, when is that romance finally coming into your life?
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No, no, no, no, no.
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What if we actually met the intelligence that designed and selected you?
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Powerful, right?
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And I think this is a lot of the problem I'm seeing lately is I'm having a lot of conversations with people, with clients that, oh, it's interesting.
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I'm not going to go down that rabbit hole.
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We'll see if it comes up at all.
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That I think people don't use spirituality to its fullest potential because a lot of people are using spiritual connection to either talk with the dead or they are using spiritual connection to say, what's coming next?
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What do I do?
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What's the path for me?
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What is my purpose?
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Right.
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But there's such a bigger question at play.
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And I know that you hear me challenge this all the time because predicting the pute future is not necessarily predicting like what is going to happen to us.
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What is the path that we're walking down that is destiny that we have no choice in?
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It's shifting the conversation to be this life can be anything you want it to be.
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And if I'm totally gross in an analogy with all of you, but it's so true, and spirit keeps showing it to me.
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So I'm gonna, I'm gonna tell it to you, even though I think it's like, I don't know, there's probably better analogies out there, but we'll just go with it.
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Has anyone gone from having very short nails to having very long fingernails?
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I mean, I was an eternal typer, so I always had my fingernails really short in my corporate career, but as I don't need to type as much in this current amazing fucking dream role that I have, thanks to every single one of you, I've started to grow my nails out.
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And in growing my nails out, there's something really creepy that happened that was very unsettling for me.
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And that is the part of your nail that is connected to your skin, like that little lip that we normally like clean all the gunk out of, especially if you've been gardening.
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Did you know that when you start to grow your nails long, that little part of your skin starts to grow to support the longer nail?
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Yes, I am the geek that researched this.
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I am that nerd, everybody.
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Mainly because I was so unsettled that this additional part of my skin started growing attached to my nail underneath.
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And I was like, what is that thing?
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And I kept trying to like get the nail file and scrape it off because it was freaking me out.
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And then I finally just Googled it.
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And it turns out this is part of evolution of our bodies, where if we are growing our nails long, additional lengths of our skin, that sounds so disgusting, will grow under our nail to support the longer nail growth.
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And if this is not the most wildly odd, like metaphor for what spirit is and does for us, I don't know what is.
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Because what spirit does is chooses to support our journey, no matter who we are or what we do.
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And so part of this shifting conversation, away from thinking that there is one path and one path alone, and our job is to try to find it, it's so much bigger than that.
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It's so much bigger that our nails grow differently when we set different intentions, and spirit is the same way.
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And so, why do we think that the unlimited potential that we all have, the unlimited possibilities, the unlimited paths that we all have available and open to us?
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I'll give you a hint, that is just the beginning.
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And if we really go back to the beginning of this lifetime, if we truly can design whatever else we want in this lifetime, there is such intelligence in the middle of your path that allows everything to come become possible and be written into fruition.
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So why do we think this current moment is the only time that the intelligence is there to support our journey?
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Because if we go way back, way back into the rooms where our soul has developed this lifetime, has selected our bodies, has determined the most likely of the infinite paths of free will that is available to us.
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Can you imagine the level of intelligence that it takes at a soul level to do that?
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So, who are you at the soul level that has this vast, broad, limitless intelligence?
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Knowing all, seeing all, predicting all in the creation of your human life.
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And I think this is part of the problem, is that we look at spirituality with the limited means that we can possibly understand it because we spend in our physical reality so much time trying to understand the human version of ourselves, right?
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And I like even today, fantastic fucking clients love love you.
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And a lot of them are coming in with very human-based problems and asking to understand the why under it.
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And I like, yes, and like, yes, and it's so wonderful.
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And so a lot of us will look at the human version of ourselves and our experiences through personality tests, through attachment styles, through astrology, through human design, through therapy, through like our childhood trauma, our family systems, et cetera.
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So we will try to really uncover the why, excuse me, based on like the limited view that we have available, and also, you know, by the traditional views that everybody else around you is also looking at their life and assessing their life.
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And they're all beautiful and incredible and useful lenses to look at your journey.
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But if there's another question available, if you truly believe that consciousness extends for you beyond your one human lifetime that you're currently listening to me with, you better believe there is a version of you before this life that can give us a lot more information and answers that you didn't know possible.
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And so this is a really interesting conversation because I'm always in my sessions talking about the human level and the soul level, the human level and the soul level.
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And some of you may have heard the podcast from many moons ago that was talking about how if you see the unlimited potential in people, you're seeing people at the soul level, right?
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And and versus if you see people at the human level, that's where the ego comes in, that's where the judgment comes in, et cetera, right?
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And so it's really easy to judge yourself and your journey based on the very human experience that you've had, right?
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The traumatic childhood that you've had, the trauma-inducing events that you've been through, the abuse of possibly many forms, the neglect of possibly many forms, right?
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The self-doubt, the lack of trust.
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Yes, these are all very human-based experiences.
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But often when we look at those same experiences at a soul level, they tell a completely different story.
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Completely different.
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And if I'm, I would love to give you a client example from today.
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I'm hearing spirit say I don't have permission.
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I'm gonna honor and respect that.
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And so I'm gonna give you the probably very human version of my experience that you may have heard before, but just here to remind you, everybody, because I came into this life choosing a family that would force me to create my own dependence.
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Or sorry, independence.
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I did depend on myself.
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I guess that does count.
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And so I walked into this life with a support structure that did not look like what I wanted it to, right?
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With somebody who was unhealed trying to be my mother.
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Is she an amazing soul?
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Probably.
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Yes, yes, yes.
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I'm sitting there yell yelling at me in my head, yes, but her human was very unhealed.
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Her human went through a lot of trauma.
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And so I chose the version of my mom that was filled with trauma.
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And for the first 25, 30 years of my life, questioned, why would I do that?
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When everybody else had these loving, doting, amazing mothers.
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And it's not that my mother wasn't loving or doting, she just did it in her own way that she knew how, right?
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But coming to terms with what I wanted as an experience with my mother versus what the reality was.
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And that's not to say it could have been way worse.
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It certainly could have.
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But it was my version of what I needed in this lifetime.
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And so you can spend your entire life going through this experience of victim and why me, and why would I choose this and going to therapy, which by the way, I love therapy, totally valuable, but it was not valuable for me.
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Because my therapist said, you'll always be this way.
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And I think that was the statement that fucking broke me.
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I do think that was the statement that broke me.
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Because even in that very human experience of sitting in front of a professional, a professional that was known and renowned for narcissistic therapy, right?
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Even she had fucking given up on me.
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And even at a soul level, I had this deep, deep knowing and feeling like that's not right.
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No, that's wrong.
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There, it can change.
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I don't need to be this version of me.
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That's why I'm here for you to help me.
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And so I think this is the perfect example of like the human versus the soul level because the human was deeply fucking wounded.
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I could have spent my entire life continuing to be poor me in the victim and reorganizing my entire life around a childhood that I did not want that emotionally bruised and battered me.
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And I could continue to live that legacy for my kids, completely unhealed, very human experience.
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Or I can take a higher view, access my soul, and understand the why behind that journey.
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And for a long time that's what I did.
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I worked with myself, my spirit team.
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I went to reading after reading to understand the why behind the family that I chose.
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And my spirit team would step in, and my departed loved ones would step in, and I'd always hear these amazing answers.
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But I have to tell you what, until I was able to access and talk to my soul who made that decision.
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Man, that's when it really landed for me.
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That's when it landed for me.
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Like it landed in such an incredible way because that one question, that one question that I was honed in on, and all of these other metaphysical practice practitioners honed in on, that was one very small piece of a very big story of my life.
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And so my human was getting caught in the pain, but my soul could fly like an eagle and see the entire fucking picture of what was going to unfold for me in my lifetime.
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And so the possibility and the knowledge for me, it's not even a possibility, it's a reality, is that your soul chooses to shape all of the conditions through which you are going to walk through your life.
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And this is so deeply intelligent that the word intelligent does not even come close to being able to see and assess what the soul sees and assesses in establishing your lifetime.
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Because if we think about your soul and the beautiful god or goddess that you are, I really want you to think about everything it has to architect and design.
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It has to architect.
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Let's start with you and then we'll go to the lifetime around you because everybody likes to look at the lifetime around you and not necessarily you, but let's hone in on you as a human being because they have to choose your body.
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They have to choose your skin color, your eye color, your blood type, right?
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They get to choose the size of your body, the shape of your body, the strength or weakness of your body, the size of your foot.
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I could have used a smaller one.
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I have giant clown feet, everybody, right?
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The hair color, your hair color tendencies.
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And I know, sure, we can put this all down to DNA.
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Absolutely, yes.
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But when I met my soul and uncovered this, I saw the incredible fucking intelligence of my physical being for this lifetime.
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Right down to the size of my hips.
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And then your soul also chooses what timeline, what personality traits, where are your strengths in terms of your skills and abilities and knowledge, where are your weaknesses?
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And if you think about everything that I've just said, just about the physical body, the internal state, probably like down to the neurochemicals in your mind and your and in your brain, right?
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Like your propensity for getting sick, the likelihood that you're gonna develop an illness, like the genetics are playing in there too, like all of these different things.
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So if you think about your physical being and the completely unlimited number of options that are available, you start to just naturally question why for all of these things.
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Why did my soul choose all of these collections of physical, emotional God, personality traits?
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This collection of things that make me distinctly me.
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Because this is the perfect workhorse that I needed to become who I needed to become in this lifetime.
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My soul fucking chose this smart ass, sarcastic asshole energy that you all now get to love and enjoy because at some point we are over here doing rebel spirituality.
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And this is the exact body and personality and location and time and family that allows me to walk into this version of me that is, I'm gonna use the word inevitable, because that's what the soul does.
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The soul has knowledge for the unlimited paths that are available for you.
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And they know the path that they would like you to take.
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And they also know that free will plays a pretty big role here on planet Earth.
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And so they set everything up that they possibly can to lead you down the path of the most benefit, the path of the biggest lessons, the path of the highest impact, and the path of the most joy for who you are and who you will become.
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And I think it's interesting because it goes against everything we deem, I don't know, successful, prosperous in a human experience.
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Because if I told you I got to design my body, why wouldn't I be a 32C, five foot seven, like gorgeous long blonde hair, right?
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Perfect teeth would be great.
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Did not have the luxury of having money to pay for braces growing up.
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Yeah, didn't I would keep my skin color?
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I'm cool with that.
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Would love to be a little taller, maybe smaller on the shoe sides.
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That would be great, right?
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And so our human has a very different idea what perfection is.
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And, you know, stating the obvious, obviously, that idea of perfection is based on societal norms and expectations.
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Mm-hmm.
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And so you could look at yourself very differently and compare your physical body, your family attribute, be attributes, your location that you live, the life that you were born into, your family, et cetera.
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And you can look at all of these things and compare it to other people.
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And yeah, we could get into that perfectionism game for sure.
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But every single person walking around that you see has also perfectly designed their physical instrument for success.
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Because perfect is essentially being measured depending on what the path is that you have to walk with it.
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And so, I don't know, a Ferrari is not designed to be a moving sofa, is it, right?
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Right?
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The the moving truck is not meant to win Formula One.
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You cannot decide whether something is well designed without knowing what it was designed for.
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How many of you understand the assignment that you have on planet Earth?
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And so maybe the question instead of what I alluded to at the beginning of this episode is not what's wrong with me.
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Maybe it's the question of what was this built to do.
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And so when I went through this exercise to meet my soul and to uncover why my soul chose this body, I blew open a whole new understanding of myself.
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And please note everything that I'm about to say comes with unconditional love and appreciation for the body that my deem, my soul deemed perfect for this lifetime.
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And now I see it and I understand it at a new level.
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Because I don't know if you know this about me, I have a giant fucking bunion on my left foot.
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It is whoo, it's a doozy.
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It has been passed down through both sides of my lineage.
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It's another gift from the women in my family, everybody.
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And so my giant bunion on my left foot allows me more stability.
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And boy, don't you know I can do a tree pose in yoga like nobody else on my left foot.
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All right.
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Just gonna put that out there.
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But the wide foot provides me, and by the way, my giant fucking feet, they're not just wide, they're big.
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They're like a size nine.
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You'd never expect that because I'm five foot three.
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All of it is in my feet.
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And so this giant-footed version of me is literally designed to give me the biggest connection possible to planet Earth to ground my energy as much as I possibly can.
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God, now you can go and steal my identity, everybody.
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My own negative blood type, the universal donor, is because I'm here to support everybody in every way that I can.
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I'll admit this.
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I'll admit this.
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Pat it since I was a little kid.
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It's awkward being nine and having an ass that big, but it looks good as an adult, I'll tell you that.
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Is so that I fit into society, is so that people underestimate me, is so that I look palatable and unassuming.
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And my personality is the exact opposite of everything I just said.
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Because I don't play games.
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I'm not here for your rules, your logic, your expectations.
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I will go out of my way to prove you wrong with a vengeance every single time.
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Not like you personally, but like systems that hold people down, etc.
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And so isn't that a lethal fucking combination?
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Lethal combination that draws people in and then rips them to shreds.
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Hello, my body, everybody.
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Like, hello.
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Can't you just appreciate that so much?
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Right?
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And also it's it's so fucking ironic as well that literally the outside of me is so divine feminine in so many ways.
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Like, I even have really long fingernails, as I was saying at the beginning, like really long fingernails, naturally.
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The external of me is so divine feminine, yet the internal of me is so fucking divine masculine.
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Again, there's a polarity to me and my energy in every sense of the word.
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I can't see for shit, but I can sure see spirit well.
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And so doesn't this give you?
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Oh, by the way, hang on.
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They're just pointing out one more that I have to say.
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And they're like, notice my white skin, right?
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I fit into society well, whatever the fuck that means, right?
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But because I needed a platform that would go far, I chose a middle-class white girl from New England that swore like a fucking sailor because I'm entertaining and that will draw more of a crowd, again, for the sole purpose of expanding what I'm here to do, with maximizing the potential of what I'm here to do.
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And yes, it is deeply uncomfortable to say these things out loud, if I'm totally honest with you.
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I feel like I am like calling out my white privilege like nobody's business, but the reality is that my soul trolls my white privilege.
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I'm just here to abuse it for the greater good of humanity.
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I'm so sorry if anyone is offended.
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I do want to just make that statement.
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That was not my intention, but also that's the truth of who I am.
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Just like there is the truth of who you are as well.
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And so this is just like mind-blowingly good, right?
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Mind-blowingly good.
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When you start to see the tiny minutia and the small ways your soul has always been setting you up for success in this lifetime.
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And so you can start to change the conversation because again, the answer is so much bigger than one question.
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So instead of asking, why does this thing keep popping up in my life?
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Why is this so hard to learn?
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Why cannot, why I can't overcome this?
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Like, why can't I overcome this?
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You start to reframe yourself to understand that you are perfect, your lessons are perfect.
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And so you start to ask a very different question, which is what did I come equipped with that makes me capable of meeting this?
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And I think that's true.
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And just to kind of give you a little bit of an example, a lot of people are very surprised, none of you I know, to hear that I came from a very analytical background, that I came from a data analyst, transformation executive, private equity, financial services, all of all that jazz, right?
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And so, how could someone that is so analytical in nature be somebody that is so deeply connected to spirit?
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And I think the two are not opposites.
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I think there's purpose in that because now I challenge spirit.
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Now I uncover spirit.
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Now I notice the patterns that allow me to trust more, trust deeper, that allow me to question and challenge everything there is to know about the spirit world, which by the way is all to your benefit, right?
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Personality traits, maximizing output.
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Here we go.
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And so that actually makes me the analytical side of the house, actually makes me so much more proficient in spirit communication because I literally came from a job, from a career where my job was to solve impossible problems.
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Solve the problems no one else at the entire organization could solve.
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They gave me those projects.
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And so you bet your ass, I know that there's a solution to every single problem.
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And my Boston asshole will not stop until I find some of these answers that I know are out there.
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You know, I had to have like the blood of the Irish in me.
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Like you, you know, I had to, right?
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Like I chose the ancestry I belong to too, because we some pissed off Irish and Polish and German and Italian, pretty much every sort of immigrant in that was shunned and put in the corner, like, I'm it, friends, I'm it.
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So that is also perfectly by design as well.
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And so I think this raises maybe a little bit of a more interesting question.
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I'll be honest, this I'm I haven't treaded too much into this space yet.
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But I think it's a totally valid question because there's parts of my design I haven't even covered yet in terms of how important they are and how useful they are.
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I sure as fuck know all the things that I've uncovered up until this point that have allowed me to, you know, become the successful professionalslash now spiritual conduit that allows me to be who I am today.
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But but we will continue to learn and grow into the next version of us.
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And so there's definitely things I have yet to uncover that I haven't even used yet in my design.
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Because the current identity of who I am is not necessarily the full expression of what I came in with.
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Right.
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There are definitely things that I'm going to continue to learn, right?
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And there's definitely going to be things that I've dismissed or ignored from healing in the past that will come into fruition in the future.
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Because whatever these additional components of me are, I didn't need them in the version of me that existed before now.
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And so I'm actually really excited to continue the uncovering and learn more and more about the art of the possible for me as we go into the future and what else my soul has beautifully, deliciously orchestrated for me to become.
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And I think this is an interesting conversation because I meet and I read for a lot of spiritual professionals that have very lofty goals.
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I mean, y'all are going to the moon, everybody, every single one of you.
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And when I tell them, I see you on stage, I see you writing a book.
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Like inevitably it's deer and headlights.
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And they're like, Me, me?
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No, not me.
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I see you teaching.
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Nope, I hate teaching.
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That's not me.
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That's not for me.
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But again, we're basing the possibilities of your future based on the current version of yourself.
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And if your soul knew that being a spiritual leader was part of your destination, don't you fucking think that it would set you up for success there too?
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That they would bring you the right teachers, the right opportunities, the right, even like ideas and speaking spaces that allow you to prepare for what's to come.
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And the more that you are tapped into your soul instead of your human, the more that you can say yes to the opportunities that bring you there faster.
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And I think that's the interesting point, is because it's not, I don't know.
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Maybe it is, maybe I don't know.
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I think there's a version of us that is becoming because I think there's always things to learn along the way.
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But I think that we grossly underestimate how much is already available and ready to use within us.
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Because in today's day and age, we are always looking externally for more certifications, more classes, more teaching, more opportunities, more lessons.
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Well, maybe we're not looking for the lessons.
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But are you actually using the full power and potential that your soul chose for you in this lifetime?
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And so there's a version of you that knows why you are configured this way.
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Uh-huh.
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And I'll tell you what, did you know that they are easier to access than you ever thought?
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And I'm not talking about connecting to your soul to get guidance.
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I think we can absolutely do this.
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But I think that guidance comes from this idea based out of your nervous system of how do I best prepare for what's to come?
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And or how do I use this information to escape what I'm currently going through?
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And okay, we're human.
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That's gonna happen.
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That doesn't bother me, but I'm asking a much bigger question of can you meet the version of you that knows and loves your entire full fucking potential?
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Can you understand what all of this information, all of your life, all of your patterns, all your all of your beliefs, can you uncover what it was all for?
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And as you can imagine, I want this experience for all of you.
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I want you to fucking meet yourself at a soul level.
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And I truly think that everybody and any, everybody, every, every person, every single one of you can access your soul and understand some of the intelligence of why you're here and what you look like and what this means for your path.
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And so this is where I'm gonna let you know that this is the official opening into the Polaris program.
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I know, I know, I know, I've been waiting for this too, because Polaris was the name that my spirit team gave me.
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Maybe it was my soul, in the middle of the night one night, when I was laying in bed, half asleep, and literally the word Polaris tumbled out of my mouth out loud in the middle of the night, probably scared the shit out of my husband.
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And that's when I knew this is all about finding your true north.
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This is about finding your northern lights, finding the way back to you, the way back to your soul.
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Polaris is the program and set of classes that is going to lead you into a more soul-led living experience.
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And so I wanted to honor the start of this program by offering you the opportunity to meet who you are as a soul.
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Not theoretically, but I want to do a workshop with all of you that allows you to meet who you are at a soul level.
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Why this life?
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Why this version of me?
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What are you here to learn?
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Right?
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What came with me?
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What lessons do they want you to know right now?
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Because I'm telling you, you will see yourself completely differently when you see yourself through the eyes of your soul.
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And I want that for each and every one of you.
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Because when you see yourself through the unlimited wisdom, unlimited intelligence, unlimited love and patience and kindness, then you start to see yourself with the unlimited potential that you've always had.
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And any sort of limitations that you think you've had, fall away.
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It's like move out of your periphery because you start to understand you can have a soul-level experience while you're a human.
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And it will change the way you look at yourself and the world, the way you act with yourself and the world.
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And the way that you are able to live a reality that others think is impossible.
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And so if you're interested in joining us, it is a longer workshop.
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We'll be hosting it on Friday, October 2nd.
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I will include the link to sign up in the show notes.
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But if I see you there, great.
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If you don't, this will be available as a recording purchase as well if you're missing out.
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But I want you to know that the possibilities are endless for you.
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And I'm gonna challenge your soul to prove it to you.
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Thank you so much for being you, for choosing this lifetime, and for being exactly who you've always meant to be.
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Take care.
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This is the Unity Code.
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If something today made you think differently, sparked a question, or made you wonder what else you're capable of, come join us inside the Unity Code community.
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That's where experiments are going to continue, conversations are gonna get weirder, and you may even end up being part of the show.
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And if you're ready to take what we're exploring here and use it to create real change in your own life, you can always work with me directly by booking a session or attending a class right on my website at mediumnicole.com.
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Because knowing what's possible is only the beginning.
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The real magic is what you choose to do with it.
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I'll see you next time on the Unity Code.