SELLEST OSAST
Setting the boundary is one thing. Living with what happens after you set it is another.
In this episode of Goddess Rising, Dr. Kelly Kessler and I talk about what really happens when you stop people-pleasing, stop abandoning yourself, and start choosing you—even when it brings guilt, discomfort, grief, or the loss of relationships.
We explore why your nervous system can interpret boundaries as a threat, how to tell the difference between healthy guilt and conditioned guilt, and why losing certain relationships may actually be part of finding yourself again.
We dive into:
- Why boundaries can feel so uncomfortable
- People-pleasing and self-abandonment
- What guilt is really trying to tell you
- Listening to your body's yes and no
- The lonely “in-between” of becoming someone new
- Learning to stay loyal to yourself
Sometimes healing isn't about becoming someone new. It's about finally refusing to abandon who you already are.
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