SPECIAL : "The Uber Mega Guest Jackpot Show"

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Let me do my thing.
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Anybody else want to say it.
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This is the Broken Tiles podcast and we've got a crew Stace.
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We have a big crew.
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It's very exciting.
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Stace, can you go around the table and talk about our guests?
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Okay, we have our son Bailey.
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Hi hi I want to say bailey boy, you can say that you did already and his lovely partner yes, yes, that's me zach, how you play it in public.
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And our dear dear friend Ryan.
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Hello.
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And his amazing, beautiful wife and Brian's cousin, our cousin Megan, Hello.
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Fantastic, Our dear friend Ryan.
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That's my brother.
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Okay, that's true.
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And this is you heard it in the background already.
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My brother.
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Okay, that's true, and this is.
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You heard it in the background already and this is from a year ago Florida.
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One of our most popular episodes in Venezuela in the history of the podcast was Golden Doodles, our terrible podcasters.
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And that goddamn dog has come 3,000 miles to the beautiful Pacific Ocean which we're overlooking right now, and she's going to ruin another podcast and it we're overlooking right now Just to be on this podcast and she's going to ruin another podcast and it's going to be this one.
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She's committed.
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This is awesome, guys.
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It's fun.
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We always talk about having more guests because I think, for a million reasons, it adds something other than Stacey and I, as we did on our last one her new question game.
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You're supposed to be a foot away from each other and ask the questions into each other's eyes, yeah, which we kind of did, right, which?
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is going to happen at these short courts.
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That's a very good point.
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This is very, very intimate, and so I think we're going to play it.
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Stace, let's go right into it.
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We'll just play it like we normally do, and I'm not worried about time, you know.
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But we'll go through the questions and we'll, you know, ask the question.
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We'll kind of reverse it so you're not always on the button Bailey asking the first.
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You know answering the first question.
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So we'll just go, cause it is a question podcast.
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That's what Stacy does Drop it.
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Okay, you chose three red ones right away.
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Did you notice that?
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The green and yellow are for suckers.
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Okay, so we're going deep.
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Yeah, this table can handle it, yeah, right away.
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So I'm asking Bailey first.
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The table.
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Bailey's going to answer first.
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Okay, when was the last time you forgave someone?
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Oh, right out of the gate.
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Heavy, hmm, remember, try to get that mic when you answer everybody.
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Forgave someone.
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Remember what you did last time.
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You had a good strategy last time on this podcast.
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What was?
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that you passed and then came back Really.
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We should actually have a number right of passes, like how many?
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You only get one skip, mulligans.
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One skip.
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You do, bailey, get one skip and you can circle back around.
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You can burn it early.
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You can burn that mulligan on the first hole.
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No.
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I can come up with an answer, all right.
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Scooch closer to it when you're ready.
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I'd say, for most recently I've definitely had to put an effort, um to forgive myself.
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Just uh, since we've been here in california, I've been pretty unsuccessful in finding work, um, where that I wasn't pressing that.
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I do that when we get here.
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But after five months of looking it definitely became a problem, like more in my own head than in our own life.
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But the forgiving myself part more comes from understanding that it is okay, it doesn't affect our life in a negative way, and that the waiting for the right thing is better than jumping into something that would affect our life in a negative way.
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Right, it's not a reflection of who you are as a human.
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Right.
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And so that's a probably the first thing that comes to my head.
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Besides that, everyone else in my life the past few months have just been no, no reason to need to forgive everyone, anyone yeah, no right and yeah, it's hard to come up with someone else, so yeah and what we'll do is we'll pin it, remember it, and the easiest way to do it, as we do on this regularly, is we'll kind of go through and then that's okay.
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That's my stomach.
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Yeah, it's not even the dog there's a pterodactyl behind it.
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The dog it was a elephant bird.
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An elephant bird.
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An elephant bird, an elephant bird, an elephant bird.
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An elephant bird About a thousand AD.
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Approximately, approximately, but what we'll do is it's easiest to do it this way, so we can get through and you're on point with your answer and then after we'll open it up.
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Did any of that like strike you in a certain way?
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Did Bailey's answer like open up a conversation or a thought?
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So we'll just kind of keep moving, kenzie.
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So I've had a strained relationship with my dad for a very long time, um, and sometimes I take his shortcomings personally.
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I feel like it's a slight on me, um, but in the last few months, um, I feel like I have been doing a better job at forgiving him for things that he hasn't done to me.
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He was never doing those things to hurt me, he.
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Those were things that were happening you know in his life or that you know he was doing, but they were never against me.
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So, then really working hard on like forgiving him for those things.
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That's a good one, that that I have a pen, that that resonated Ryan Bernstein, my brother.
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I know it feels like everybody else is less than, but it's just the way.
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I feel, right now.
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I would say for me, I make kind of a conscious effort to forgive, often because I don't want to have a lot of conflict.
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Obviously, there's times when you need to run things to ground and you need to address issues, but a lot of things don't necessarily need to be talked through to to an extent where everything becomes a bit of a fight or an argument.
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So I I really try to just forgive often and let like let the little things go so that they don't manifest themselves into big problems.
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Obviously, again like there's certain things that you need to figure out and talk through yeah, but a lot of times, if you, just you know all right well, forgive them and move on.
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You can get on with your life, and no doubt just letting it go for yourself, in a way.
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Exactly that's smart.
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I told you to put a pin in it.
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That's actually, it's completely breaking the rules right there.
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I wanted to say something after Kenzie's.
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Did I?
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No, because I'm respecting the rules, the process this is a wild card but her voice is really cute.
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Well, you know that's the problem.
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That's why you let it go.
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I'm putting a pin in that one, forgive me.
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There you go.
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It's going to happen on live, my most recent time I forgive somebody.
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Six seconds ago, or apologize.
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It's going to be in about I don't know what 37 seconds.
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Go ahead, megan.
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So the thing that popped in my head was a challenging coworker that I think had I had told you guys a story about um.
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That's the thing.
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First thing that popped in my head Um and I know that we had a little conflict in this person like came to me the next morning and apologized, um, and I tried really hard to like okay, I'm going to forgive her.
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But she kept saying sorry, but, and so I had, and she told me something that was going on in life that was not good.
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It was like a really tough situation.
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So, I had to like listen to her and be like you know what she.
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She came to me, she apologized.
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I need to, you know, show her some grace.
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And that's the first thing that popped in my head was sometimes you have to, even if it's not a full apology, you have to maybe understand their situation and try to forgive them, even though you're like, oh it's frustrating.
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But just to kind of see their point of view, their perspective.
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Watch it.
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That's seriously close to an open discussion.
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Her voice is really cute as well.
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That's very close to an open discussion right there.
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I have a pin, too, for hers.
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I have a pin for yours.
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I have a pin for yours.
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I have a pin for yours, you're just great, nothing Perfect answer.
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That's a good one, but there's definitely a pin we'll come back to.
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Mine's been mine's fairly easy.
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I've been doing a tremendous amount of apologizing in the magazine industry lately and it's and it's.
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It's a very difficult situation because it's a clearly this is timely because in the last podcast, which was this podcast night before last, this one will be posted, so it's now.
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But is that it's putting a lot of stress and strain on it, two full-time kind of jobs, and I'm finding that way.
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And clearly, because the magazine is the secondary full-time commitment, it can't touch the landscaping full-time job, and so that's done in order not missing anything.
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So I'm missing things on the magazine side because something has to give.
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And so, as an owner, editor-in-chief, publisher, writer, all the things that I do Hold for applause.
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What's that Hold for applause?
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Why hold?
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I got the last podcast, which was the night before last, which this one's now, so that'll be yesterday, so this is the last one.
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I think I got a 23-second standing ovation on an answer.
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That's impressive.
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That's not easy.
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He's the only person that stood up.
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Oh yeah, you know what I screwed up?
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I didn't hit record on this.
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We haven't even started yet, is that?
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true, no.
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It was just mean what she just said.
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So I've been doing a tremendous amount.
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The apologizing it's been genuine but the apologies are done intentionally for it.
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To kind of come to the front of my mind Process, process, we need process, we need systems, the magazine, so it's for me.
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There's not much I can do about it right now, other than recognize that we're not doing it now and it's an intention.
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We're all doing this part-time thing.
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That's a full-time kind of obligation.
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But that's it, go ahead, it's my turn kind of.
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Actually.
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What I'm really feeling, though, isn't that it's this oh my goodness go ahead stacy wow, what did I do to deserve?
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that I'm sorry, the answer is about two seconds ago.
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I forgave you for what you did.
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How many times is that over 34 years?
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Oh, a lot.
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What's 365 times 34?
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I'm not here for that.
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What is it, baby?
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I know you got one.
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You have to have one.
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When you're six of six, you've got to have one.
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Actually really hard for me.
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Never made a mistake.
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No, that's not it at all.
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Never forgiven someone.
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No, that's not it either.
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I'm trying to figure out the most recent, and is it something that I want to say on a podcast?
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But that whole thing is like am I going to be affected?
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No, Then answer it.
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Is it going to hurt my feelings?
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Is it going to hurt my feelings?
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No.
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Answer it.
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Is it going to hurt somebody else's feelings?
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Yeah, maybe I don't know.
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Can you do it in I for the the purpose of the conversation, it's not it's not a confession.
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A family, it's not a confessional but even before you go there, forgive someone yeah, but you can even talk about it somebody.
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You can talk about it abstractly too yeah, okay, that's fine.
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So it was um during covid was, um during COVID, a really close family member and I had a a very rough conversation that I never fully understood the um, the beginnings of like how it got to that, and it was shocking for me and it really hurt my feelings.
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Um and I I just chose to be uh, kind of obstinate about it for a while and just kind of shut down, but then after a while I realized that, um, I think COVID was very hard for everybody and it probably really affected some people more so than others, and I think that was the case for this one individual.
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And.
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I just decided that it doesn't do any good to hold on to this, whether this person you know understands the impact they had or not.
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That's not really the point.
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It's about caring for somebody who is going through a hard time, so I let it go.
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Yeah, and then we'll open it up for pins now.
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Did anything really jump out at anybody from any other answers that they want to talk about?
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I got two.
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Go for it.
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Okay, my first one was Kenzie's and I think it's very interesting about.
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I'm always fascinated by the evolution of a child into an adult as they view their parents, as they either are leveling up or going by their parent size.
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That hit me with that, because that's interesting, because I think you have two paths, two paths is you become an adult, even a teenager adult, and I think that one path is possible resentment and the other one is forgiveness, because, because there's a, there's a lot of resentment when you start seeing your parents as not just idolized parents, you start kind of like processing it, like going like, oh, you're, you're a fallible human and you and you're just a person.
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Yes, and that's weird for a kid.
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It's weird for a kid to say, oh, my mom and dad have this and that.
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And I think the first instinct isn't forgiveness, it's like confusion, it could be confusion so that's what I thought, even a little bit of anger, I think that anger probably where, like some of those feelings, um harsh feelings that I had kind of came from, but as I'm kind of coming into my like real big girl job and um becoming like more and more of an independent adult, all I can think is how easy it is to go down paths that would lead me to similar decisions that he's made, so I understand more and more.
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Is that actually what you get when you finish pants?
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It says, you can now go get a big girl job.
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Yes.
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It says you qualify.
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That's what my master's degree says.
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Big girl job approved.
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Big girl job, yes.
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It says you qualify.
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That's what my master's degree.
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Big girl job approved big girl job and then yours.
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If I heard you right now, maybe I didn't, but I because I don't listen, it's um I'm joking, but I think from yours it sounded like you.
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You basically moved on by forgiving her for without necessarily talking to her, and forgiving her verbally.
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No, so she did come to me.
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She came to you she came to me so I gave her like I was like, okay, that was hard for her to do.
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Right.
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You know things happened after that.
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Right.
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As well, which made it, you know.
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Now it's like we're kind of back to where we started, but I guess did the word leave your mouth.
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I forgive you, I'm just curious because-.
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Oh, yeah, let me think of okay.
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So she apologized and then said I'm sorry, but this happened yesterday.
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Yeah.
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Kind of like, almost like an excuse of why she treated me that way.
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Okay, and so I think, let me think no, but my pen says no.
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My pen's not putting you on point.
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My pen is more like thoughtful than that.
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It's like my thought is like.
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I think there's a really good human condition to possibly transitionally move on and truly forgive them.
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The words don't have to come out of your mouth, right?
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right right.
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I'm not saying I guess it's kind of a dick move if you don't, but there's going to be circumstances where they need to hear it.
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The other one is you need to move on.
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You need to move on from like that sort of like daily grind of obsessing over something and maybe you're just like I.
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You know that goes in this conversation.
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It's like that's super helpful If you can, like, in the quiet of your room, go, I'm going to forgive it and move on.
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Yeah, possibly.
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Well, I remember I can't I think I texted Ryan and was like, oh my gosh, I give her credit.
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She came to my room and said sorry.
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So I was like that I respected that she did that, even though it was, you know, maybe not what you expect.
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Like I'm sorry, you know it was it took some, you know, I gave her credit, took some courage for her to come do that and say that.
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So and I gave her a hug, and you know.
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Pins, pins, pins, yeah, yeah.
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Yeah, one for Bailey's for sure, cause I mean it can be a really powerful thing to be your own toughest critic and recognize where you have opportunities to be able to, you know, grow and be better in whatever capacity, as long as you have that second piece where you forgive yourself for whatever it is and then get out of your own way, because otherwise if you just wallow and you're just really hard on yourself all the time, you won't get anything done.
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But if you have both of those things it's a very powerful tool.
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So I'm happy to hear that.
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Yeah, yeah, thank you.
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You know, it's definitely a process, but the process is also a good thing, yeah.
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Yeah, it's one of the greatest pins of all time.
00:17:36.965 --> 00:17:46.469
Ryan, you're definitely leaving here feeling better about yourself.
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Hello, stacey.
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All right.
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I forgive you.
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Oh, this is a good point.
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I think you chose this one Like you really sought this one out.
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What is it?
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Why do you think you are here on planet earth?
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I?
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didn't.
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You'd think I did, but I didn't.
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All I did was I went to the red and I took every single one that wasn't a couple one.
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I took like five that I went, I just went through and everyone that wasn't couple I just randomly took them.
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Oh, this is the family edition.
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It should not be couple Like when's the last time we were most intimate?
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There's some in there where there was some sound like it was a couple to a couple one.
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I just went the first ones that were broader I took.
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It's very much a Brian question it sure is.
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So are we directing this to Kenzie?
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I think that's fair, or we can roll a dice or something.
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No, that's okay, I can answer first.
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Put your big girl pants on.
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Well, shockingly, it is going to come back to my big girl job.
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I think that I'm here to help people, and that always sounds a little cheesy Like.
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I work in health care, and I think it's a very common question when people are asked why do you do this job?
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It's because we all want to help people, of course, but I like to think that I do it at my job and I like to think that I do it in my personal life and I try and do it every chance that I get.
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It makes me happy and it makes me feel like I have purpose.
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So that's maybe what my purpose is.
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Wow, I like that, ryan.
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I mean, it's funny, I'm just being, I'm an announcer.
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It was a lack of eye contact when you said my name.
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You want one foot?
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Yeah, I'm getting closer Ryan.
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I would say this is too close.
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This is perfect.
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I would say along the same lines you know, to help and support friends, family, anybody you know close to you.
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Obviously, we've talked, we've all talked about it.
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I've recently lost my best friend and um I felt found a lot of purpose and just providing whatever, uh help and support I can for his family, which is little but it, you know, I think every little bit helps, um and you know things I can do for my wife and my parents and my siblings and just my close friends.
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I find a lot of purpose in that and so I mean it's definitely a very it's not a very grand view of it, but I don't know that I have a high purpose as far as what I can do for humanity.
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But I think, on a small scale, the people that are close to me can make an impact.
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I think that's really good.
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I got a pen.
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I also have a pen for that.
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I think we can only have one pen per.
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That's a lot of pens.
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You almost made Ryan spit out his water.
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I'm kind of the pen guy right now.
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To piggyback off of that.
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My first thought went to Ryan's good friend and his family.
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Just that we've stepped up and I do feel like we're making a huge difference and I feel like you know it's not a small impact?
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No, and that's my part of my pin.
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Exactly.
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Yeah, I think it makes a huge difference.
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And that was my first thought, and then my second thought was just my job and education and then my musical abilities I feel like, with my musical abilities, like just you know, helping anyone through their journeys of life.
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Could you know weddings, funerals, like any?
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Totally step of you know, good or bad, happy or sad, I feel like you can make a big impact with just music and it just speaks so much, sometimes more than words can.
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It just has a deeper impact.
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So those were mine.
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Pens.
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Best not be sending old pens around.
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Don't even think about a pen Stace.
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What's the question?
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Again, joking, because that would have made me clearly disconnected from three very good answers.
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I think where I've landed lately in a lot of it, I refer to this Berg's meditation.
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You know that I listen to every day and I'm not going to say that word for it.
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But I think where I'm landing is that it could be just.
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It's a word, it's a singular word I'm thinking of when this question is asked, and it's explore.
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But it sounds like that means means travel, and it does.
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I think it does mean explore, but explore relationships, explore boundaries, explore.
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I think we're here and we're very unique.
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This species is very unique that we have this cognitive thought and we're aware that we're here and that's a lot of pressure here and that's a lot of pressure.
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We have a lot more pressure than a hyena, you know.
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We have a lot more pressure than a pelican pretty easy fucking day out there, you know overall, an elephant bird that poor bird.
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Yeah, didn't do good for that bird didn't figure out their purpose I still can't figure out the logistics of that.
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No, it's not how it happened.
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Can we talk about it?
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Okay, put a pin in it no, no separate podcast it's kind of traumatizing.
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I told megan about how the elephant bird was made a thousand years ago.
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She did not like it, yeah she did not like it there's some movies where imagery there's some movie, there's some movies where I'm like, hey, ryan's like yeah, not for me, but that's it.
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I think it's.
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Um, I think I think the definition of that word is is is sort of possibly why we're here, which is feelings.
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I think you can use that word with all of it.
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I want to explore, you know, ireland.
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I want to explore my feelings, I want to explore new relationships.
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I want to explore somebody else's perspective.
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I think maybe that's.
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It is my answer.
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I think it's maybe, maybe that's.
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It is my answer.
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Mine might be similar to yours, but the the word I'm choosing is growth.
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So growing in so many different ways, but also supporting other people in growth, which is essentially what I do for work Right.
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There's so many different ways you can grow, and I think it's.
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We all have different growth rates and sometimes, like, what I'm trying to figure out right now is, um, I've always been sort of a striver, like really pushing myself a lot to grow in many different areas, and I have had to not do that at all so that I can heal.
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And now I'm trying to figure out, oh well, what's a good rate?
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to keep moving forward but not put myself in jeopardy again.
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That's really hard to balance, but I still can make some progress and grow in different ways.
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So I'm just trying to figure it out.
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It's kind of similar to explore.
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I know.
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It's Bailey's turn now.
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Everybody knew that.
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I think everyone shares a similar perspective and so there's similar answers coming from everyone, and mine's also in that same line of just.
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I think that the most important thing you can do is develop and maintain relationships with the people in your life.
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But people and also the things you care about, um, so that's just interests or or anything.
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Yeah, um, that's where I think most people find purpose is like ryan said, it's not like a grand plan, it's it.
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I think a lot of times it's.
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It's more fulfilling if you find, kind of in your small life, those things that matter um, and focus on those.
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That that's where you can find happiness and purpose and I loved it, that's a good one pins.
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I left it.
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That's a good one.
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Pins there was a pin.
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Pins.
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I raised my hand.
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Teacher, yes, sir, what do you got?
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No, I was just kind of what you said, Bailey, and also Ryan.
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I don't think what you do is small.
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I think when you said, oh, it doesn't have a bit, I think what you're doing to help your friend's family and what you're doing with your life, I think is bigger than you think.
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That was my first thought.
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I don't think you should minimize that, because I think it's a was my first thought, like I don't.
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Yeah, I don't think like you should minimize that, because I think it's like a huge it is yeah big thing in but it's hard to see that in the moment it's it's because you're just doing it right, is that?
00:26:53.483 --> 00:26:55.196
Is that the way you think about it's like it's just?
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yeah, it's almost.
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Uh, it almost feels like the bare minimum in some ways.
00:27:00.928 --> 00:27:01.635
Yeah, it's just.
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How could you not at least do whatever it is I am doing, whatever it is you are doing?
00:27:06.739 --> 00:27:08.522
Um, but it is it.
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It is from the outside, it is.
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It is a lot.
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I guess it's almost like a weird analogy.
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It's like a pro athlete.
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It's like that's what they would say.
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They would say I'm just doing my kind of like they a lot of those would be the bare minimum, but we're watch them going.
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That's amazing and it is.
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It's not a big, you know not to overdo it right now, but it is.
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It's meaningful and it's a lot.
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It is meaningful, not everybody will do that.
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It's totally.
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I mean, I think what you're doing is far more than what most people do.
00:27:39.468 --> 00:27:42.278
I mean, so many people say well, if you need something, call me.
00:27:42.278 --> 00:27:44.200
Well, nobody's going to call you.
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If you say that, I mean that is really disingenuine.
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People get uncomfortable.
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They don't know what else to say, but it's not necessarily meaningful, yeah.
00:27:59.734 --> 00:28:05.407
It's a lot because you have to, almost, like you know, for me it's like you know, I think of, like the most recent ones, my dad goes and you have an obligation to my mom from an emotional standpoint that wasn't there before.
00:28:05.407 --> 00:28:11.001
And then Gavin goes and you've got a new connection with you know, trent and Darren, but I have to literally put it in my phone.
00:28:11.001 --> 00:28:16.217
I mean, like the Trent and Darren I have to, you know, put in my phone, and I mean that in a loving way, because it's just there's.
00:28:16.317 --> 00:28:19.259
It's a lot of you know, it's that's just a once a month catch up call that.
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I try to do this month catch up call that I try to do.
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This is more same zip code kind of thing going on and my mom, we just handle with like FaceTimes, and so my point is it's not obvious and it's not easy to to literally carve out a piece of your uh weekly sort of schedule for someone else in that way.
00:28:40.919 --> 00:28:42.701
Um, it's pretty big thing and one sorry one more thing to add.
00:28:42.701 --> 00:28:58.329
To add um, this morning on our I think we were driving to get a new couch and we both said that hold for a pause 23 seconds and keep going.
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No, but we both said that we had texted our friend's wife and their daughter, like we had both separately not talking to like had both said like good morning and have fun at your volleyball tournament.
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It was like.
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Oh my gosh.
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And so I think we're making like a conscious effort to like contact them every single day and I do I?
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I I'm very proud of us for doing that, because I feel like we're.
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I think we're making a huge difference.
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And you're getting the thing about that.
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It's hard thing to say about it.
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You're probably getting a lot out of it, absolutely.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:29:29.635 --> 00:29:32.501
And that that's the, that's humanity, that's what we do.
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Yep, it's so true Happy some bills.
00:29:39.236 --> 00:29:42.385
International is creating the most beautiful airline in the world.
00:29:42.385 --> 00:29:43.549
Oh, fuck yeah.
00:29:43.549 --> 00:29:57.259
We hired Emilio Gucci to design our unit when reversible coats of almond, green and apricot space helmets to keep out the rain, red space suits and sometimes something a little more comfortable.
00:29:57.259 --> 00:30:00.042
And we hired Alexander Gerard to do our Alexander.
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Gerard, alexander, girard, we have blue planes, orange planes, yellow planes.
00:30:04.487 --> 00:30:07.871
You can fly with us seven times and never fly the same color twice.
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I'm with you.
00:30:10.896 --> 00:30:15.604
Shocking thing is this airline went out of business with that marketing plan.
00:30:15.604 --> 00:30:18.107
They had space helmets and there were space helmets in this commercial.
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I saw them.
00:30:18.929 --> 00:30:20.029
As a fashion girly.
00:30:20.029 --> 00:30:24.482
Yes, I really appreciate it and honestly I think it's missing in the flight industry today.
00:30:24.502 --> 00:30:25.345
I agree Totally.
00:30:25.345 --> 00:30:28.799
What just happened?
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Lightning round.
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I gotta explore these buttons there's a lot more going on here than the three we use.
00:30:45.675 --> 00:30:57.060
Okay, I liked the suggestion of lightning round, so I think this is gonna be a lightning round question and my idea of lightning round.
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You gotta stop saying it.
00:30:59.854 --> 00:31:04.502
It's gonna be a one-word answer, as fast as you can, and we're gonna just go around the circle.
00:31:05.076 --> 00:31:07.460
And what's this called again, lightning?
00:31:10.846 --> 00:31:13.220
Okay, and Ryan, you're going first.
00:31:13.220 --> 00:31:19.805
What is your definition of the good life?
00:31:23.174 --> 00:31:29.102
And it's only one word Jesus Time, time Ooh.
00:31:32.726 --> 00:31:33.266
Balance.
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Skip.
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You don't get the music for that one.
00:31:43.116 --> 00:31:43.738
I didn't play it.
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Connection.
00:31:51.664 --> 00:31:52.125
Family.
00:31:55.588 --> 00:31:56.209
Contentment.
00:31:59.271 --> 00:32:02.760
Shit, that was so fast.
00:32:02.760 --> 00:32:04.196
What is this?
00:32:04.196 --> 00:32:05.121
This a lightning round?
00:32:05.121 --> 00:32:15.584
I honestly don't even know what the question is anymore definition of the good life hmm, boy, this got me a little bit.
00:32:15.584 --> 00:32:24.949
You guys were really good at that definition of the good life one word is hard and somebody's already used balance, god damn it.
00:32:24.949 --> 00:32:31.547
Ainsley's calling.
00:32:31.547 --> 00:32:32.269
We should get it.
00:32:32.269 --> 00:32:37.523
Hold on, I think we can get it live on the air, ainsley.
00:32:37.523 --> 00:32:39.623
Taylor it's me.
00:32:39.623 --> 00:32:41.474
Hey, you're live on a podcast.
00:32:41.474 --> 00:32:42.258
What's going on?
00:32:42.258 --> 00:32:43.021
What do you guys need?
00:32:43.938 --> 00:32:45.845
No dice Everything is broken.
00:32:45.845 --> 00:32:48.001
Now the car won't even turn over.
00:32:49.398 --> 00:32:52.030
Guys, this is a breaking news update.
00:32:52.030 --> 00:32:52.954
This is Taylor in Colorado.
00:32:52.954 --> 00:32:54.396
They're broken on the side of Highway.
00:32:54.416 --> 00:32:56.520
What what are we?
00:32:56.520 --> 00:32:57.561
285.
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Highway 285.
00:32:58.903 --> 00:32:59.726
And they're broken down there.
00:32:59.726 --> 00:33:00.767
Do you have your U-Haul?
00:33:01.909 --> 00:33:05.759
I'm in the U-Haul down there and do you have your u-haul and?
00:33:05.778 --> 00:33:08.526
then the u-haul we put a cooler, we got a hotel, oh you didn't go to frank's.
00:33:08.546 --> 00:33:09.970
Well, we texted him and never heard back.
00:33:09.970 --> 00:33:12.056
Just said I, I just didn't want to.
00:33:12.056 --> 00:33:19.238
I felt like it would have been something he would have offered for a sleepover if their house like accommodated it, right?
00:33:19.238 --> 00:33:24.426
So I said, hey, we've been working on working on the car for an hour, no dice.
00:33:24.426 --> 00:33:32.487
So we're going to take you home back to Fair Play and find a place to camp or get a hotel or something.
00:33:32.487 --> 00:33:36.363
We haven't heard back yet and the hotel was like $120.
00:33:36.363 --> 00:33:39.423
Okay, and it's two queens and we could just like reset.
00:33:39.423 --> 00:33:40.479
We're all just so cold.
00:33:40.680 --> 00:33:41.021
Do that.
00:33:41.021 --> 00:33:45.960
We're going to go because we are podcasting right now, but I'm going to allow you guys to answer a question as you're driving right now.
00:33:45.960 --> 00:33:49.784
And the question is this and you guys all get answers.
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It's a lightning round.
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You only get one word for this answer.
00:33:52.446 --> 00:33:54.308
Who answers One word?
00:33:54.308 --> 00:34:00.795
Anybody individually, but the question is this Go ahead Stace.
00:34:00.795 --> 00:34:03.240
What is your definition of the good life?
00:34:03.240 --> 00:34:03.359
It's.
00:34:03.359 --> 00:34:04.804
What is your definition of the good?
00:34:06.528 --> 00:34:08.532
life and you have to answer in one word Family.
00:34:08.552 --> 00:34:09.838
Aww, good one.
00:34:10.219 --> 00:34:11.918
Okay, that's mine.
00:34:11.918 --> 00:34:13.143
Taylor says family.
00:34:13.143 --> 00:34:14.599
What do I do now?
00:34:15.335 --> 00:34:16.000
Answer the answers.
00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:21.864
She got ill because of the stress.
00:34:22.355 --> 00:34:24.041
Okay, do you guys want to pass on that?
00:34:24.041 --> 00:34:24.664
There's a skip.
00:34:24.664 --> 00:34:27.478
You guys are all sick.
00:34:27.478 --> 00:34:29.001
This is the One word.
00:34:29.081 --> 00:34:31.246
Yes, One word Peace.
00:34:31.246 --> 00:34:32.387
Oh, I like it.
00:34:32.655 --> 00:34:33.539
Oh man, that's good.
00:34:33.539 --> 00:34:34.603
Okay, we're hanging up on you guys.
00:34:34.603 --> 00:34:36.981
We'll call you when you get to the hotel.
00:34:36.981 --> 00:34:38.717
Wait, I love the answer.
00:34:38.717 --> 00:34:40.159
Oh, I thought she did not want to answer.
00:34:40.159 --> 00:34:40.960
My fault, I'm sorry.
00:34:41.021 --> 00:34:42.443
No, I was just calling.
00:34:42.503 --> 00:34:42.862
I love you.
00:34:42.862 --> 00:34:47.409
I'm sorry if there was a sound effect, I could use right now I would, but we're on the phone so I can't use them.
00:34:47.409 --> 00:35:01.664
Um community, oh, that's a good one.
00:35:01.724 --> 00:35:02.186
All right now.
00:35:02.186 --> 00:35:03.588
I'm hanging up on you done.
00:35:03.628 --> 00:35:05.411
Thanks, guys we'll call the hotel.
00:35:05.411 --> 00:35:05.550
Bye.
00:35:05.550 --> 00:35:06.411
That is a ban, sorry Gone.
00:35:06.411 --> 00:35:08.318
This podcast has gone to hell.
00:35:08.318 --> 00:35:09.561
Am I still on the clock?
00:35:09.742 --> 00:35:10.945
Yeah, you've been on the clock.
00:35:16.788 --> 00:35:24.967
I still don't have a real answer my definition of the good life Home.
00:35:25.086 --> 00:35:25.949
I like that yeah.
00:35:25.969 --> 00:35:26.411
Yeah Home.
00:35:28.077 --> 00:35:32.440
I liked how that lightning round went Do you have a pen, a pen.
00:35:32.800 --> 00:35:33.139
A pen.
00:35:33.521 --> 00:35:33.961
A pen.
00:35:34.641 --> 00:35:38.047
Oh, all you have to say is I want to put a pen in it and then say what you said.
00:35:38.387 --> 00:35:39.347
Oh sorry, yes.
00:35:40.028 --> 00:35:40.309
A pen.
00:35:41.110 --> 00:35:46.099
A pen, but not on anybody in particular, just on the lightning round okay, so you have a pin in the light.
00:35:46.099 --> 00:35:54.144
I'll accept your pin, go ahead wow um I I like the lightning round idea.
00:35:54.144 --> 00:35:55.507
It's the first time we've ever done that.
00:35:55.507 --> 00:35:56.916
We just made it up on the spot.
00:35:56.916 --> 00:36:04.318
Uh, because it really forced you to come up with something quick and meaningful, and everybody came up with something so good.
00:36:04.657 --> 00:36:06.920
Not so much me, well, except for Brian.
00:36:06.920 --> 00:36:08.282
Well, eventually you got there.
00:36:08.282 --> 00:36:09.804
I struggled, you got there.
00:36:10.105 --> 00:36:11.166
And then he said a bad word.
00:36:11.166 --> 00:36:14.630
Yeah, but one word is really hard for Brian.
00:36:14.650 --> 00:36:16.251
Did I swear yeah.
00:36:22.641 --> 00:36:23.181
How dare you?
00:36:23.181 --> 00:36:26.025
Are we on the last question now?
00:36:26.286 --> 00:36:26.766
No, I don't know.
00:36:26.766 --> 00:36:27.786
You have the questions.
00:36:28.527 --> 00:36:29.608
We're on the last question.
00:36:30.731 --> 00:36:31.371
We're doing pretty good.
00:36:33.239 --> 00:36:33.420
Okay then.
00:36:33.420 --> 00:36:34.021
All right.
00:36:34.021 --> 00:36:41.695
So, Megan, you're the first answerer for this one.
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What is the best way to get you to do something?
00:36:45.237 --> 00:36:46.320
You?
00:36:48.764 --> 00:36:49.224
don't want to do.
00:36:49.224 --> 00:36:50.387
I don't know the answer to this one.
00:36:54.394 --> 00:36:55.980
You're about to learn something really important for your marriage.
00:36:56.340 --> 00:36:57.965
This is where the podcast pays off, yeah.
00:36:59.215 --> 00:37:00.173
I'm pretty stubborn.
00:37:00.173 --> 00:37:01.378
What?
00:37:01.378 --> 00:37:12.920
Oh, you're very stubborn as well yeah, let's get real, that's right, can you read?
00:37:12.980 --> 00:37:20.277
it one more time what is the best way to get you to do something you do not want to do?
00:37:30.152 --> 00:37:40.326
might have to use my one skip it's hard no um skip that shit.
00:37:40.326 --> 00:38:02.911
I think I think, um, I need a lot of like a really good explanation, and maybe I need to see, like, what the outcome is going to be, or like believe in what the outcome will be and be invested in that If that makes sense.
00:38:03.211 --> 00:38:03.972
Yeah, totally does.
00:38:06.795 --> 00:38:07.536
Because I do get several.
00:38:07.536 --> 00:38:09.840
I'm'm just like I'm not doing this, that's it.
00:38:09.840 --> 00:38:19.420
So it's hard, um, it's hard for me to once I get to that point.
00:38:19.420 --> 00:38:25.329
It's hard for me to get out of that once I get to that point, if that makes sense as well.
00:38:26.335 --> 00:38:37.360
So I really think I have to see like the benefit of it, or believe in what you know is happening at the end, even if I don't want to do it.
00:38:37.360 --> 00:38:42.101
I need to see, like the, what good is going to come out of it, or is it beneficial?
00:38:42.101 --> 00:39:00.021
Or like the why, the why, and I'd also like I feel like I'm very, um, fair and loyal, and so if something I really don't want to do and I don't believe in it, then it's going to be really hard for me to to do that.
00:39:00.021 --> 00:39:26.599
Or if I don't I'm thinking about in terms of like people if I don't, um, agree with, like their values or something, and I I don't know why it's making me think of that, but yeah, I'm pretty like strong-willed in that sense where I'm like I'm I will not do that and I don't necessarily think that's like a bad thing, but I do think I can be stubborn and maybe something that is good, just because I don't want to do it.
00:39:27.936 --> 00:39:29.081
I'm going to put a pin in there.
00:39:29.856 --> 00:39:31.483
Ryan's got a big pin in there.
00:39:31.483 --> 00:39:33.501
Ryan just took six pins.
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Six pins.
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We don't have enough time.
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Does that mean that means me?
00:39:38.726 --> 00:39:39.757
Yeah?
00:39:40.018 --> 00:39:40.481
you're up.
00:39:41.516 --> 00:39:58.469
I think the best way for me is, if I can somehow turn it into, I really respond to competitiveness Like on some level and it doesn't have to be like win or lose, but on some level I do respond better a little bit.
00:39:58.469 --> 00:40:06.465
If it's and it can be industry competition, it can be I just want to be the best know, the, the best landscaper man you know, or, or magazine you know.
00:40:06.465 --> 00:40:12.164
I feel competitive that way and I think if I can turn it, then it's like I can't really sleep on that because I want to be the best at that.
00:40:12.164 --> 00:40:23.505
Um, and so I I think I responded turning it into a little bit of, uh, competition for myself I see that and the other way is do the opposite thing that you want, Stacey.
00:40:24.686 --> 00:40:26.188
And I get motivated to do it.
00:40:30.215 --> 00:40:30.635
For me.
00:40:30.635 --> 00:40:50.085
I would say I need time to think about it and have somebody ask me questions about why I'm thinking about it in a certain way and sort of prompt me to look at it in a different way and that will help me to see the other side of it.
00:40:50.085 --> 00:40:52.762
It's hard for me to get there on my own.
00:40:56.416 --> 00:41:10.585
I've always had a hard time trying to answer that question, but I'd say something I had learned to do and it might not be the best answer, but it puts me on a better path to the best answer.
00:41:10.585 --> 00:41:24.487
I would reframe the issue and not the outcome for myself, but how it can affect the people around me, and so finding motivation and something I don't want to do how that can better Kenzie's life.
00:41:24.487 --> 00:41:36.411
And that because I can have a hard time doing a lot of things for myself, but I can do easily anything for Kenzie or for the family or the dogs, even like this morning when we were freaking out.
00:41:38.096 --> 00:41:40.204
It's easy if I can reframe it like that.
00:41:40.204 --> 00:41:48.201
Like I said, that's not necessarily the best way to handle it, but it's better than it was before, and so that's something that's worked for me.
00:41:48.501 --> 00:41:50.518
Yeah, that's a good one.
00:41:51.081 --> 00:41:51.702
That is a good one.
00:41:51.702 --> 00:41:58.927
I am not stubborn and I am very easily convinced to do things.
00:41:58.927 --> 00:42:01.603
Just a little bit of gentle coaxing and I will.
00:42:01.603 --> 00:42:22.606
Yeah, I honestly like sometimes just like reassurance that I can do it or that it is helpful, just like um, and not getting like frustrated with me if I don't want to do something because that makes me want to do it even less.
00:42:22.606 --> 00:42:30.784
But just like gentle kind encouragement can get me to do a lot of things Even if I don't want to.
00:42:32.043 --> 00:42:35.905
I'll put a pin in that one too, you got a pen you have a pen.
00:42:36.608 --> 00:42:38.833
Yeah, oh yeah, have you answered?
00:42:39.153 --> 00:42:45.190
no, we're all waiting for this one oh yeah, you're going last, you're batting cleanup here we go.
00:42:45.271 --> 00:42:48.880
So I can be a bit of a procrastinator.
00:42:48.880 --> 00:42:58.054
So if I give myself a deadline, uh, or if there is a real deadline to get something, you know that I don't want to get done or don't want to do.
00:42:58.054 --> 00:43:01.766
If I've got a deadline and when it needs to get done, I can get it done.
00:43:01.766 --> 00:43:05.945
I just need to know when I need to do it and I'll get it done.
00:43:05.945 --> 00:43:15.786
So whether that's needs to be something I set for myself or there just is a you know is an end date on whatever it is, just having a deadline on that.
00:43:17.302 --> 00:43:18.204
Big motivator for me.
00:43:20.088 --> 00:43:20.447
Pins.
00:43:23.134 --> 00:43:26.786
Okay, let's see if I can remember what I was going to say.
00:43:26.860 --> 00:43:28.005
It was a minute and eight seconds ago.
00:43:30.282 --> 00:43:31.728
Oh yeah, I remember what I was going to say.
00:43:31.728 --> 00:43:42.215
I love what you described because I feel like many, many people in the world are, uh, think the same way.
00:43:42.215 --> 00:44:08.789
So, like what I was thinking about when you were sharing your process and, um, I was really thinking about behavior change and how so many people are not even in the pre-contemplation stage, which means they're not even thinking about the fact that a health behavior change needs to happen.
00:44:08.789 --> 00:44:13.411
Say, somebody with high cholesterol, for instance.
00:44:13.411 --> 00:44:18.047
They don't want to make a change in the way they eat, or they're just not thinking about it.
00:44:18.047 --> 00:44:22.469
They're not getting their blood work done or anything like that.
00:44:22.489 --> 00:44:24.673
She's pointing to Brian it's a pizookie.
00:44:27.860 --> 00:44:40.235
But it's sort of that you've got to really not only be aware of what the issue is, but how might things be better if you make a change?
00:44:40.235 --> 00:44:43.590
And I just think the way you described it is just so real.
00:44:43.590 --> 00:44:48.862
I think a lot of people feel that very same way and it doesn't mean.
00:44:48.862 --> 00:44:54.766
I think you started almost saying that you're stubborn, but I think that's just human nature.
00:44:56.072 --> 00:44:56.653
Yours was good.
00:44:56.653 --> 00:44:59.023
It was like it was tough for you a little bit, like you kind of worked.
00:44:59.023 --> 00:45:03.166
You know it was a good way, but you worked your way through, which I think was interesting to hear.
00:45:03.166 --> 00:45:09.143
I like that because it's fun when you get in the high weeds and you're the red light's on and you're saying it.
00:45:09.143 --> 00:45:10.403
There's something kind of real about that.
00:45:10.403 --> 00:45:10.903
I like that.
00:45:12.204 --> 00:45:13.005
Pins.
00:45:13.005 --> 00:45:13.945
I had another pin.
00:45:13.945 --> 00:45:15.106
Can I do a second one?
00:45:15.106 --> 00:45:16.407
I haven't done any yet.
00:45:16.407 --> 00:45:17.027
Have I?
00:45:17.027 --> 00:45:19.469
I can't remember, I don't know.
00:45:19.469 --> 00:45:39.487
Kenzie, the way you described yourself reminds me of myself, and I, in therapy, have really come to realize I am a major people pleaser and while it's nice, it can also be really unhealthy.
00:45:39.487 --> 00:45:48.936
So I put myself in positions where I've got too big of a burden because I say yes to everything and that's not helpful.
00:45:48.936 --> 00:46:00.143
But at the same time, I love to help people and I want to make other people feel good, and when you say yes to something and you see their face light up, it's like, oh, I did the right thing.
00:46:00.143 --> 00:46:04.623
Until you know, a week later you're like, oh my God, when am I going to have time to do this thing?
00:46:04.623 --> 00:46:09.112
And so that's a, that's a challenge, and I think it just takes time.
00:46:09.112 --> 00:46:14.565
I've gotten better at it, but it took a lot of time to realize what I was doing to myself.
00:46:15.246 --> 00:46:18.280
Yeah, and it um, you know earlier I answered that kind.
00:46:18.280 --> 00:46:19.764
Of my purpose is to help people.
00:46:19.764 --> 00:46:22.710
Saying no to someone needs my help.
00:46:22.710 --> 00:46:24.333
Yeah, it seems weird.
00:46:24.579 --> 00:46:25.882
That's my nature.
00:46:25.943 --> 00:46:26.184
Yeah.
00:46:26.525 --> 00:46:28.409
So, yeah, but you're, you're very right.
00:46:28.409 --> 00:46:31.804
It can definitely go down a path where I end up with too much going on.
00:46:31.884 --> 00:46:39.402
Yeah, it's hard to find that line, that right line where it's too much, and yeah, it's difficult On the question.
00:46:39.422 --> 00:46:42.251
we're talking about something you don't want to do.
00:46:42.251 --> 00:46:50.014
From my perspective, watching you, if you spend a day doing things only you want to do, you don't find fulfillment at the end of the day.
00:46:50.014 --> 00:46:54.052
Only you want to do, you don't find fulfillment at the end of the day.
00:46:54.072 --> 00:46:58.443
Like you, you almost force yourself to seek out, either whether it's a chore or some sort of challenge Like you get a lot of just kind of.
00:46:58.905 --> 00:47:01.351
you need that to be able to relax at the end of the day.
00:47:02.201 --> 00:47:03.204
Like you've accomplished.
00:47:03.204 --> 00:47:04.246
Yeah, that's exactly.
00:47:04.246 --> 00:47:05.289
Yeah, oh yeah.
00:47:05.670 --> 00:47:07.521
So you do, and that that that's so far.
00:47:07.521 --> 00:47:12.313
The other side of the spectrum is me of like seeking out those things you don't want to do.
00:47:12.313 --> 00:47:17.684
It's a conversation you and I have a lot of times as we balance each other out with those kinds of perspectives.
00:47:17.684 --> 00:47:21.027
That's great, Like I 'll force you to do less and you'll force me to do more.
00:47:21.208 --> 00:47:23.686
But that's sweet.
00:47:24.409 --> 00:47:26.186
None of it's gonna make in the podcast what he just said.
00:47:26.186 --> 00:47:31.023
He didn't put a pin in it and that was great stuff.
00:47:31.023 --> 00:47:32.005
I was moved by it.
00:47:32.166 --> 00:47:33.128
Oh, my goodness.
00:47:33.148 --> 00:47:33.891
We got to cut it all.
00:47:34.501 --> 00:47:35.282
You and your rules.
00:47:35.282 --> 00:47:35.722
Let's see.
00:47:37.987 --> 00:47:42.355
What's happening?
00:47:42.355 --> 00:47:46.887
You don't listen to the podcast because I sneak in a hot take on me.
00:47:46.887 --> 00:47:49.460
Every single podcast, in some form or the other.
00:47:49.579 --> 00:47:50.103
No, I did not know.
00:47:50.103 --> 00:47:50.764
That's what this is.
00:47:50.784 --> 00:47:51.367
That's great then.
00:47:52.724 --> 00:47:54.148
That's actually 19 seconds.
00:47:54.148 --> 00:47:55.963
Yeah, still not there Now.
00:47:55.983 --> 00:47:58.311
I'm hearing it yeah, took a minute.
00:47:58.311 --> 00:48:03.427
Wow, there we go, and we actually have time for one more question I pulled up while we were talking.
00:48:03.427 --> 00:48:05.829
I haven't picked it yet, but it's just great.
00:48:05.829 --> 00:48:16.822
It says favorite ice Breakers, good way to find them.
00:48:16.822 --> 00:48:17.485
That's a pretty good question.
00:48:17.485 --> 00:48:19.009
Oh, that's a fun one.
00:48:19.009 --> 00:48:19.730
Let's start with you, stacey.
00:48:19.730 --> 00:48:20.773
It's kind of just a real fun one.
00:48:20.773 --> 00:48:23.867
What fictional world or place would you like to visit?
00:48:23.867 --> 00:48:25.132
That's a fun question.
00:48:25.132 --> 00:48:28.969
What fictional world or place would you like to visit Anywhere?
00:48:28.969 --> 00:48:29.811
Hogwarts.
00:48:30.713 --> 00:48:30.833
Oh.
00:48:31.161 --> 00:48:32.326
That came to my mind immediately.
00:48:32.326 --> 00:48:38.943
It was between that and Narnia you don't get a clap on this one.
00:48:38.983 --> 00:48:39.503
You suck.
00:48:39.503 --> 00:48:44.134
You've got to clap Pressure's on Bailey.
00:48:46.161 --> 00:48:46.985
What did you just say?
00:48:47.581 --> 00:49:00.050
If you can't say a fictional place that you'd want to visit and it doesn't get a crowd response, then I'm just putting a little stakes in the game here, Because it clearly is such a fantastical question.
00:49:00.050 --> 00:49:03.706
If you say one, we're like oh, that was okay, but I mean kind of a bummer.
00:49:04.699 --> 00:49:06.324
Everybody has their own fantasies.
00:49:06.704 --> 00:49:07.565
I've got two buttons.
00:49:10.793 --> 00:49:11.094
That one.
00:49:19.920 --> 00:49:20.000
Uh-oh.
00:49:20.019 --> 00:49:22.389
Or that Bailey, two buttons, that one, or pressures on that bailey, come on here, come on, I know it's hard, I overthink it.
00:49:22.389 --> 00:49:23.293
Yeah, totally, or you haven't used your skip.
00:49:23.293 --> 00:49:24.438
If you want time, you have not used your skip.
00:49:24.438 --> 00:49:26.384
It's a fun one no, I can come.
00:49:26.463 --> 00:49:31.460
I mean, I could say anything that's on my head no works um, I guess I don't know what you'd call it.
00:49:31.460 --> 00:49:42.527
I guess a galaxy far, far away, like I like that yeah, anywhere it's tattooing, yeah, yeah, exactly that's what I think, where I overthink.
00:49:42.527 --> 00:49:45.543
It's like that star wars, it's a, it's a war-ridden galaxy.
00:49:45.543 --> 00:49:50.842
I don't know if I actually want to be there, but that's yeah, that's uh overthinking it.
00:49:50.842 --> 00:49:52.585
Probably you were deliberate.
00:49:58.380 --> 00:49:58.742
I was hovering.
00:49:58.742 --> 00:50:01.726
It's Star Wars.
00:50:01.726 --> 00:50:03.197
You know where I was going, kenzer, where are we?
00:50:03.259 --> 00:50:05.326
going, we're going to Barbie World.
00:50:08.840 --> 00:50:17.208
Where everything is pink and beautiful Uh-oh, where everything is pink and beautiful Whoa Sounded like the other night when I had that answer.
00:50:18.121 --> 00:50:19.427
You didn't stand up this time.
00:50:20.501 --> 00:50:28.362
So far we're going to Hogwarts, star Wars Galaxy, far, far Away.
00:50:28.362 --> 00:50:29.266
Barbie World.
00:50:29.266 --> 00:50:30.931
Where are we going?
00:50:30.931 --> 00:50:32.637
Caribbean, pirate Ships, nice galaxy far, far away.
00:50:32.637 --> 00:50:32.735
Barbie world.
00:50:32.735 --> 00:50:32.994
Where are we going caribbean?
00:50:32.902 --> 00:50:38.856
pirate ships, all the pirates and and treasure and all that stuff.
00:50:38.896 --> 00:50:53.012
Yeah, clearly, clearly that's good answer my answer just came to me, though, megan I would like to go to the marvel world, so, like Iron man, avengers.
00:50:53.333 --> 00:50:53.434
Thor.
00:50:55.583 --> 00:50:56.768
I know, but they're fictional.
00:50:58.340 --> 00:51:02.710
But you'd want to be in a world where we're sitting right now and Iron man flies by.
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I like that one.
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I might not get a clap for this one, honestly, because it's so retro, but it came to me and I can't go back from it.
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I might even get myself, because it's going to be no one's going to know it.
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It's going to be the place I'd want to go is.
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It's a PC game I played way back called Myst, and it's one of the earliest platform PC games.
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Oh, I know what you're talking about.
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Yeah, yeah, and it was for me.
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It's ingrained in.
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I'll just get out of the way because it's it's not.
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95 of the people aren't going to know the answer, but that my answer is missed.
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I know exactly.
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I want these little islands in these.
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It's fantastical and it was something I'd never seen before.
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That's where I'd go no, I like that that one in sim city.
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Remember, like the early pcs games were those two it made me think of zelda, and I love zelda oh my god, 8-bit zelda.
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Yes, I want to change my answer.
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8-bit zelda.
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Does anybody want to redo or go backs or anything?
00:51:57.530 --> 00:52:05.202
It's like it's just open long I started thinking games um go ahead, it's open, I gotta find the blend game anyways, the skyrim game.
00:52:05.422 --> 00:52:12.494
It's just another fantasy world, but that's way more of a fun place to be than a random sand planet.
00:52:12.820 --> 00:52:22.092
Can I say our last question, the previous question about what is the best way to get you to do something you do not want to do.
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I think a funny rift on that would be to ask partners to answer for each other.
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Oh shit, I already told you.
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We're really up against time on this thing right now.
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So we are right on the button here for our okay.
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So we're going to do the blend game.
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The blend game is a little bit out, you guys will know enough.
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But if we play it and somebody picks a number and then we skip through our thing and then we decide if it's, it's gotta be one of the the six.
00:52:51.967 --> 00:52:55.199
It's like one of the six Bailey, kenzie, taylor, brian.
00:52:55.239 --> 00:52:56.806
Megan doesn't know what you're talking about, but I do, I do.
00:52:59.282 --> 00:53:05.936
Okay, so the first thing I need is a number between like 1 and 15, something fun 11.
00:53:05.936 --> 00:53:07.099
Okay, so now I get this.
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Jenna 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11.
00:53:15.088 --> 00:53:18.695
Okay, and then we just get to go around and say who, who are the?
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Who are the six with the speed scrubs?
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I'm, I'm, I'll go, I'll go, I'll guess first Taylor, yeah, taylor, taylor, taylor.
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Taylor.
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Taylor.
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Taylor.
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Taylor, yeah, and nobody else.
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I don't know what it is, and you know, the funny thing about this is like usually there's at least one other that's on a playlist.
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This is just.
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Taylor and Bumper on the night.
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I think we need to do one more.
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What's that?
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One different number?
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Let's do one more.
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Another blend Another blend Choose your number.
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Megan.
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Okay, wild card.
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What's the number?
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What's the number?
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between one and what, whatever Like 10.
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Okay.
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Nine.
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Do we know the song?
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Yeah.
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Stacey Run song Stacey.
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It's me, we're going again.
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It's me, that was easy.
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It's much easier when the person just said that, yes, sorry Three people.
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I was going to guess Taylor as well, because it sounds like a workout.
00:54:40.804 --> 00:54:41.527
What song is this?
00:54:41.527 --> 00:54:43.807
Bailey, tate me and Stacey.
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You have it too.
00:54:44.951 --> 00:54:45.880
It's Normani.
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Motivation.
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I don't know how the hell that got on my list.
00:54:49.101 --> 00:54:50.045
I've never heard this song.
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She's playing us out, guys.
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Thank you, that was awesome.
00:54:51.204 --> 00:54:51.644
That was so fun.
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Motivation.
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I don't know how the hell that got on my list.
00:54:53.793 --> 00:54:54.355
I've never heard this song.
00:54:54.355 --> 00:54:54.916
She's playing us out, guys.
00:54:54.916 --> 00:54:55.478
Thank you, that was awesome.
00:54:55.478 --> 00:54:58.722
That was so fun and that dog did not ruin the podcast.
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No, only the first couple minutes, see ya, wow, I didn't even think about it.