Beyond Mindset Limits - Tisha Marie Cain JD, CHt August 26, 2026 The Wisdom Within

WEBVTT
1
00:00:01.879 --> 00:00:07.000
Welcome to Beyond Mindset Limits with Tisha Marie Cain. Here,
2
00:00:07.200 --> 00:00:10.820
we explore how unlocking your mindset can pave the way
3
00:00:10.849 --> 00:00:15.849
for unlimited success. Discover how to create opportunities through legal
4
00:00:15.910 --> 00:00:20.289
challenges and transform your business and life with effective public
5
00:00:20.329 --> 00:00:25.289
relations strategies. Get ready to elevate your journey and maximize
6
00:00:25.329 --> 00:00:30.149
your potential. Now, let's welcome your host, Tisha Marie Cain.
7
00:00:34.920 --> 00:00:39.240
Hello, you guys. Welcome back to Beyond Mindset Limits. This
8
00:00:39.329 --> 00:00:42.909
is where we go beyond the surface level thinking and
9
00:00:43.090 --> 00:00:46.950
into real transformation. The kind that changes your life if
10
00:00:46.990 --> 00:00:49.810
you want it. It can change your business and it
11
00:00:49.829 --> 00:00:53.920
can change who you become. I'm your host, Tisha Marie Kane.
12
00:00:54.299 --> 00:00:57.740
I'm the CEO and founder of Beyond Mindset Limits. I'm
13
00:00:57.799 --> 00:01:02.560
a publicist, publisher. I'm a transformational expert. I've gone from
14
00:01:02.600 --> 00:01:06.980
the courtroom to the microphone, helping people win in life,
15
00:01:07.519 --> 00:01:12.810
win in business and win beyond that. This platform is
16
00:01:12.859 --> 00:01:17.909
about elevating voices, expanding perspectives and bringing you the tools
17
00:01:17.989 --> 00:01:23.040
to truly step into your own power. And today. This
18
00:01:23.159 --> 00:01:26.060
conversation is personal to me, and I wanted to share
19
00:01:26.099 --> 00:01:31.189
today because today's show is pretty spectacular. It's my birthday,
20
00:01:31.310 --> 00:01:34.390
and I get to record on my birthday, August 26th.
21
00:01:34.590 --> 00:01:36.569
I was born in 1976, so that means I am
22
00:01:36.629 --> 00:01:46.269
Tisha 5.0 today, 1976, 2026. This is where I was
23
00:01:46.370 --> 00:01:49.530
a bicentennial baby, and I wanted to talk about something
24
00:01:49.569 --> 00:01:53.989
that's really, really special, okay? So let's start with a question.
25
00:01:54.590 --> 00:01:58.349
What if the wisdom you've spent your entire life searching
26
00:01:58.430 --> 00:02:04.420
for in books, in teachers, coaches, in relationships, successes, and
27
00:02:04.500 --> 00:02:08.699
in failures and other people's opinions has been living inside
28
00:02:08.759 --> 00:02:12.319
of you the entire time, but you've been too busy
29
00:02:12.819 --> 00:02:17.969
judging yourself to hear it? And here's an even bigger question.
30
00:02:18.530 --> 00:02:21.490
What might you discover about yourself if you committed to
31
00:02:22.030 --> 00:02:27.250
doing one meaningful thing for 100 days without quitting, without
32
00:02:27.289 --> 00:02:31.090
cheating yourself, and without requiring yourself to be good at
33
00:02:31.150 --> 00:02:36.750
it first? Because I've discovered something fascinating. And sometimes wisdom
34
00:02:36.810 --> 00:02:42.759
doesn't arrive as an answer. Sometimes wisdom arrives at a practice.
35
00:02:43.699 --> 00:02:46.960
Sometimes it looks like picking up a paintbrush and sometimes
36
00:02:47.060 --> 00:02:50.439
it looks like writing one page. Sometimes it looks like
37
00:02:50.900 --> 00:02:55.599
walking one mile or meditating 10 minutes, starting the business,
38
00:02:55.719 --> 00:03:00.689
having the conversation, practicing the piano or going to the gym.
39
00:03:01.849 --> 00:03:06.270
Keeping one promise to yourself over and over and over again.
40
00:03:06.310 --> 00:03:13.860
And somewhere inside that repetition, something extraordinary begins to happen. Eventually,
41
00:03:13.879 --> 00:03:18.750
the project you think you were working on begins working
42
00:03:19.210 --> 00:03:24.370
on you. And that's what today's show is about. The
43
00:03:24.490 --> 00:03:30.550
wisdom within. Okay, so let me preface this. Last year,
44
00:03:30.710 --> 00:03:34.900
I decided to undertake one of my greatest personal development
45
00:03:35.000 --> 00:03:38.719
experiences that I have ever done. And what it was
46
00:03:38.800 --> 00:03:43.310
is I committed to 100 days of art. every day
47
00:03:44.009 --> 00:03:47.870
creating something. And then my husband joins me. So I
48
00:03:47.909 --> 00:03:52.550
start painting trees and he sketched out German barns. Now
49
00:03:52.569 --> 00:03:56.430
that sounds sweet. Then I tell you the story, you know,
50
00:03:56.710 --> 00:04:00.719
after the fact, this was two people sitting together, creating
51
00:04:00.909 --> 00:04:04.699
art for a hundred days, but that's not exactly what
52
00:04:04.759 --> 00:04:10.919
happened internally because somewhere around the first few trees, another
53
00:04:11.379 --> 00:04:17.350
participant showed up And that was my inner critic. And she,
54
00:04:17.949 --> 00:04:22.870
she had opinions and she had big opinions. Things like,
55
00:04:23.269 --> 00:04:26.649
who do you think you are, Miss Tisha Marie Kane? Oh,
56
00:04:26.790 --> 00:04:30.829
you think you're an artist? Oh, that tree's terrible. That
57
00:04:30.870 --> 00:04:33.610
doesn't even look like a tree. You don't even know
58
00:04:33.649 --> 00:04:37.519
what you're doing. Other people could do this better. And
59
00:04:37.860 --> 00:04:40.740
there were trees I painted that I disliked so much
60
00:04:41.120 --> 00:04:45.829
that I threw them straight into the trash. Not metaphorically either.
61
00:04:45.850 --> 00:04:53.069
This was literally... I would paint, judge, trash, paint, judge, trash.
62
00:04:53.110 --> 00:04:56.089
And that was what I did. And my husband was
63
00:04:56.149 --> 00:04:59.610
having his own internal conversation while sketching those German barns.
64
00:04:59.629 --> 00:05:03.730
So suddenly we weren't simply making art together. We were
65
00:05:03.769 --> 00:05:06.810
getting a front row seat to the way we spoke
66
00:05:06.850 --> 00:05:12.029
to ourselves when we weren't immediately good at something. And
67
00:05:12.069 --> 00:05:14.740
that's when we created a rule for our household. And
68
00:05:14.750 --> 00:05:19.329
the rule is this. Produce first, judge later. So I
69
00:05:19.350 --> 00:05:24.139
want you to think about that. Produce first, judge later,
70
00:05:24.180 --> 00:05:27.139
because most people do the opposite like we did. We
71
00:05:27.180 --> 00:05:30.879
judge before we produced, we judge while we were producing.
72
00:05:31.240 --> 00:05:34.459
Sometimes we judge so quickly that we never produced anything
73
00:05:34.500 --> 00:05:38.560
at all. Someone says, I've always wanted to write a
74
00:05:38.579 --> 00:05:41.519
book and then immediately say, well, who's gonna read my
75
00:05:41.560 --> 00:05:45.240
book anyway? Or I've always wanted to paint, but I'm
76
00:05:45.319 --> 00:05:49.449
not real artistic. I've thought about, you know, starting a business,
77
00:05:49.470 --> 00:05:52.870
but then you go, I don't even know enough. Or
78
00:05:52.970 --> 00:05:54.689
I want to go back to school, but maybe I'm
79
00:05:54.730 --> 00:05:58.050
too old, right? All of that inner critic shows up.
80
00:05:58.980 --> 00:06:02.720
The creation never gets a chance to exist because judgment
81
00:06:03.240 --> 00:06:07.500
is killed in the womb. And that became my first
82
00:06:07.740 --> 00:06:10.540
great lesson. And I want to share it with you
83
00:06:10.579 --> 00:06:12.779
today because I'm a teacher and I'm a preacher and
84
00:06:12.839 --> 00:06:18.040
I do all the things. So write this down. You
85
00:06:18.100 --> 00:06:21.459
cannot discover what is inside you if you refuse to
86
00:06:21.500 --> 00:06:24.980
let it come out. Let me say that again. You
87
00:06:25.079 --> 00:06:28.740
cannot discover what is inside you if you refuse to
88
00:06:28.800 --> 00:06:31.819
let it come out. So one of my greatest mentors
89
00:06:31.899 --> 00:06:34.439
is Tony Robbins, right? He has changed so many lives.
90
00:06:34.480 --> 00:06:37.279
If you ever went to any of his retreats, It's,
91
00:06:37.620 --> 00:06:41.509
I mean, you can't beat him. This guy transforms lives
92
00:06:41.569 --> 00:06:45.149
just by being in the room. And Tony Robbins talks
93
00:06:45.290 --> 00:06:50.509
extensively about limiting beliefs, those external and internal stories about
94
00:06:50.829 --> 00:06:53.170
who we are and what we're capable of. And that's
95
00:06:53.250 --> 00:06:57.220
fascinating thing. And, and this, this limiting belief is what
96
00:06:57.240 --> 00:07:00.699
I teach my, my clients all the time that they have.
97
00:07:00.720 --> 00:07:03.199
They say, Oh, I'm not good enough. I'm like, well, okay, cool.
98
00:07:03.620 --> 00:07:04.870
When did you decide that?
99
00:07:05.110 --> 00:07:05.389
Right.
100
00:07:05.949 --> 00:07:09.410
It's a fascinating thing about limiting beliefs. is that they
101
00:07:09.689 --> 00:07:14.089
often masquerade as truth. I'm not an artist. That's not
102
00:07:14.129 --> 00:07:17.790
exactly a fact. It may simply mean I haven't developed
103
00:07:17.829 --> 00:07:20.589
the ability yet, right? And this is what I teach people.
104
00:07:21.329 --> 00:07:23.810
They say, I'm not disciplined. And I say, well, maybe,
105
00:07:23.939 --> 00:07:27.899
or perhaps you're simply never practiced discipline long enough to
106
00:07:27.980 --> 00:07:31.439
create evidence that you can trust yourself. Or they say,
107
00:07:31.819 --> 00:07:34.879
I'm not creative. And I say, well, how do you know?
108
00:07:35.699 --> 00:07:38.240
When was the last time you created something for a
109
00:07:38.480 --> 00:07:45.100
hundred consecutive days? We turn temporary evidence into permanent identity.
110
00:07:46.019 --> 00:07:49.379
One bad painting becomes, I can't paint. And that's exactly
111
00:07:49.420 --> 00:07:53.759
what happened to me. One unsuccessful business attempt becomes, I'm
112
00:07:53.839 --> 00:07:59.600
not an entrepreneur. One difficult relationship becomes, I'm bad at relationships.
113
00:08:00.459 --> 00:08:04.079
One rejection becomes, nobody wants me. No one likes me.
114
00:08:05.089 --> 00:08:09.009
But be very, very careful with that. An experience is
115
00:08:09.050 --> 00:08:12.250
not an identity. It's a result. A result is not
116
00:08:12.310 --> 00:08:17.360
an identity. A mistake is not an identity. It's all information.
117
00:08:17.399 --> 00:08:20.120
And I talk about this every week at Nauseam. It's
118
00:08:20.180 --> 00:08:23.560
just information. Don't make it bad and don't make it good.
119
00:08:23.980 --> 00:08:27.759
This is where the practice begins working on you.
120
00:08:27.779 --> 00:08:27.839
So.
121
00:08:30.180 --> 00:08:33.399
Discipline is a mirror so let me explain that people
122
00:08:33.460 --> 00:08:36.299
often think of discipline as punishment and it's not they
123
00:08:36.320 --> 00:08:40.070
hear a hundred days and immediately think that sounds exhausting
124
00:08:40.750 --> 00:08:45.350
but my experience was different i learned that discipline can
125
00:08:45.409 --> 00:08:48.289
become a mirror because when you commit to something for
126
00:08:48.309 --> 00:08:52.659
a long enough eventually all of your excuses have to
127
00:08:52.700 --> 00:08:56.860
come to the surface At first, you're excited. Day one,
128
00:08:56.919 --> 00:08:59.700
it's easy. Let's go. Day two, I'm excited. Day three,
129
00:08:59.940 --> 00:09:03.379
you're still taking pictures. You're telling everyone about your new project.
130
00:09:03.399 --> 00:09:06.759
This is my story. Then comes day 17 and day
131
00:09:06.759 --> 00:09:11.850
42 and day 63, and no one's clapping, and no
132
00:09:11.970 --> 00:09:16.330
one really cares. You're tired. You're busy. You don't feel
133
00:09:16.409 --> 00:09:20.230
particularly inspired by what you're doing anymore, and this is
134
00:09:20.269 --> 00:09:24.210
where the real practice begins. One of my favorite mentors
135
00:09:24.309 --> 00:09:28.129
is Jim Rome. He built most of his philosophy around
136
00:09:28.149 --> 00:09:33.580
the enormous power of simple disciplines practice consistently. And I
137
00:09:33.639 --> 00:09:39.639
love that because transformation often isn't dramatic and it's boring, right?
138
00:09:39.659 --> 00:09:44.330
I don't mean boring like negatively. I mean, like by
139
00:09:44.379 --> 00:09:47.470
its repetition, you have to do it again and again
140
00:09:47.529 --> 00:09:53.259
and again and until something compounds. We understand compounds financially,
141
00:09:53.759 --> 00:10:01.539
and we understand compound interest, but there's also compound interest. identity, right?
142
00:10:02.360 --> 00:10:05.700
Every time you keep a promise to yourself, you make
143
00:10:05.740 --> 00:10:10.320
a tiny deposit into self-trust. Day one, hey, I showed up.
144
00:10:11.039 --> 00:10:15.230
Day 17, hey, I showed up. Day 48, I didn't
145
00:10:15.269 --> 00:10:18.860
feel like it, but I showed up. Day 79, I
146
00:10:18.899 --> 00:10:22.539
want to quit, but I showed up. And then day 100,
147
00:10:22.539 --> 00:10:26.120
now I possess the evidence and I look for evidence
148
00:10:26.179 --> 00:10:30.470
in everything. I don't have to tell myself I'm disciplined.
149
00:10:30.929 --> 00:10:36.929
I have receipts. I showed myself. And that's very, very different. Right.
150
00:10:37.450 --> 00:10:39.549
And I tell my family and my friends all the time,
151
00:10:39.850 --> 00:10:43.740
Miss Tisha Marie Kane is very consistent. I show up
152
00:10:44.139 --> 00:10:47.700
every single time, you know, and I did a little
153
00:10:47.759 --> 00:10:50.629
social experiment because it's like every time my friends call,
154
00:10:50.669 --> 00:10:53.779
I'm always on the other side of the phone. I'm always,
155
00:10:53.820 --> 00:10:56.340
my family calls, I'm always going to pick up. And
156
00:10:56.360 --> 00:10:58.279
if I don't pick up immediately, I'm calling you back
157
00:10:58.299 --> 00:11:00.950
within five minutes. That's who I am. I just consistently
158
00:11:01.679 --> 00:11:05.110
show up for my family and friends. I'm that faithful friend,
159
00:11:05.149 --> 00:11:08.250
that faithful sister, who's always going to be there for you.
160
00:11:08.269 --> 00:11:10.549
And I did a little social experiment last week and
161
00:11:10.570 --> 00:11:12.409
I called two of my friends and I went right
162
00:11:12.429 --> 00:11:14.529
to voicemail and I didn't get calls back. But you
163
00:11:14.549 --> 00:11:16.570
know what? There was no judgment in it. And there
164
00:11:16.590 --> 00:11:19.049
was forgiveness in it. And you don't know that Life
165
00:11:19.110 --> 00:11:22.289
was lifing them. They were busy, but I do my
166
00:11:22.330 --> 00:11:25.769
life different, right? I do my life because I show
167
00:11:25.889 --> 00:11:33.139
up consistent and I'm very disciplined. Discipline creates evidence about
168
00:11:33.220 --> 00:11:36.559
who you are. And that evidence becomes so powerful. And
169
00:11:36.620 --> 00:11:40.440
in my life, it's become so powerful. Mel Robbins even
170
00:11:40.500 --> 00:11:46.279
teaches things that fits beautifully here. Her definition of confidence
171
00:11:46.340 --> 00:11:50.120
is essentially The willingness to try. So do you have
172
00:11:50.179 --> 00:11:53.980
the confidence? Do you have the willingness to try something new?
173
00:11:54.000 --> 00:11:57.190
Do you know how many people say, oh, I'm not
174
00:11:57.230 --> 00:12:01.750
an artist? Because I said that too last year. until
175
00:12:01.789 --> 00:12:05.389
I committed to this project, a hundred days of art, right?
176
00:12:05.750 --> 00:12:08.129
And then I decided, okay, I'm going to niche down, right?
177
00:12:08.169 --> 00:12:11.789
In the coaching space, people always say niche down. You know,
178
00:12:12.250 --> 00:12:14.370
if you're talking to everyone, you're talking to no one.
179
00:12:14.409 --> 00:12:16.230
So niche down. So I'm like, okay, I can do
180
00:12:16.250 --> 00:12:18.049
a hundred days of art or you know what? I'm
181
00:12:18.100 --> 00:12:20.960
going to do trees. And what I found in the
182
00:12:21.000 --> 00:12:25.220
process of painting these trees, I channeled in my Bob Ross,
183
00:12:25.259 --> 00:12:28.299
you know, he was the greatest tree painter. He was
184
00:12:28.340 --> 00:12:31.820
the one who said these happy little trees, right? And
185
00:12:32.279 --> 00:12:36.970
as I did this practice, this personal development practice over
186
00:12:37.019 --> 00:12:40.809
a hundred days of the wisdom of the trees, boy,
187
00:12:40.870 --> 00:12:43.809
did I get the confidence. Boy, did I get the
188
00:12:43.909 --> 00:12:47.940
wisdom from that, right? So the inner critic is not
189
00:12:48.340 --> 00:12:50.960
inner wisdom. And I want to make a distinction here.
190
00:12:51.740 --> 00:12:55.960
That is where I want to to really point it
191
00:12:56.059 --> 00:12:59.190
out for you. Not everything happening inside your head is
192
00:12:59.309 --> 00:13:03.370
wisdom because I thought it was, and it certainly was not.
193
00:13:03.669 --> 00:13:07.500
We use phrases like, listen to your inner voice, okay?
194
00:13:07.559 --> 00:13:12.629
Which one? Because there are several people talking in there sometimes, right?
195
00:13:12.649 --> 00:13:15.389
In my head, I'm like, okay, is this the legal mind?
196
00:13:15.570 --> 00:13:19.720
Is this the artistic mind? Is this the clinical hypnotherapist talking?
197
00:13:19.860 --> 00:13:24.159
Is this the coach talking? Is this the mom? We
198
00:13:24.279 --> 00:13:27.250
wear a lot of hats. What inner voice is inside
199
00:13:27.279 --> 00:13:30.269
me that's talking right now? Because there are several people
200
00:13:30.289 --> 00:13:34.840
that I have to distinguish. There's intuition. There's fear. On
201
00:13:34.899 --> 00:13:39.559
top of that, there's conditioning and memory and ego. There's embarrassment.
202
00:13:39.919 --> 00:13:43.279
There's your mom inside your head, your father, your teacher,
203
00:13:43.620 --> 00:13:45.629
the kid who made fun of you in seventh grade,
204
00:13:46.070 --> 00:13:51.690
your old boss, your ex lover, society, social media. And
205
00:13:51.769 --> 00:13:55.509
somewhere underneath all of that noise is something much quieter
206
00:13:55.529 --> 00:14:00.450
and it's wisdom. And I love wisdom because wisdom, I
207
00:14:00.509 --> 00:14:07.299
believe is education. Plus experience equals wisdom. The problem is
208
00:14:07.360 --> 00:14:13.039
that fear often screams why wisdom whispers. That internal critic says,
209
00:14:13.580 --> 00:14:18.720
you can't paint birds realistically, Tisha Marie Kane. My wisdom
210
00:14:18.759 --> 00:14:22.820
didn't scream back. Yes, I can. My wisdom was quieter.
211
00:14:23.320 --> 00:14:29.100
Wisdom said, paint the bird anyway. That distinction matters here
212
00:14:29.149 --> 00:14:32.639
for you guys because sometimes we think personal development means
213
00:14:32.740 --> 00:14:36.610
winning an argument with a negative voice. I don't think
214
00:14:36.769 --> 00:14:39.470
you necessarily need to win the argument. You can simply
215
00:14:39.529 --> 00:14:43.610
stop obeying it. Your mind says that bird looks weird. OK,
216
00:14:44.009 --> 00:14:46.289
paint another one. And that's exactly what I did. Some
217
00:14:46.330 --> 00:14:50.879
of my birds look demented and weird. But you know what?
218
00:14:51.539 --> 00:14:54.159
I kept going. I kept going. I went from the
219
00:14:54.200 --> 00:14:56.299
wisdom of the trees to the wisdom of the birds.
220
00:14:56.399 --> 00:14:58.759
And I produced two books in two years. And it
221
00:14:58.799 --> 00:15:03.230
was 100 days each of art. Right. And so I
222
00:15:03.269 --> 00:15:06.009
just kept going, paint another one. And then I heard
223
00:15:06.049 --> 00:15:09.159
in my voice, you're not an artist. And I said, okay, well,
224
00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:13.220
I'll paint another one. And eventually something strange happened. The
225
00:15:13.279 --> 00:15:19.740
voice realized that nobody was listening. And that's tremendous freedom.
226
00:15:20.500 --> 00:15:27.159
Joe Dispenza, he teaches about becoming conscious of the unconscious thoughts, behaviors,
227
00:15:27.299 --> 00:15:31.490
and emotion. In other words, you begin catching the program
228
00:15:31.509 --> 00:15:36.159
while it's running. And that is exactly what happened to me.
229
00:15:36.659 --> 00:15:41.480
The art created the circumstances necessary for me to hear
230
00:15:41.659 --> 00:15:45.960
my programming. If I hadn't painted the tree, I would
231
00:15:46.080 --> 00:15:49.620
not have never heard, you're not good enough. If I
232
00:15:49.679 --> 00:15:53.559
hadn't attempted the bird, I would not have heard, you're
233
00:15:53.600 --> 00:15:58.730
not an artist. The resistance revealed the belief. Think about
234
00:15:58.769 --> 00:16:02.700
your own life here. Sometimes people Everything you're avoiding contains
235
00:16:02.720 --> 00:16:06.139
a map to the belief that is holding you back.
236
00:16:06.940 --> 00:16:11.039
That conversation that you won't have. That business that you
237
00:16:11.080 --> 00:16:14.490
won't start. The camera that you won't turn on. The
238
00:16:14.519 --> 00:16:19.669
photograph that you won't post. Who cares anyway? Nobody cares, right?
239
00:16:19.950 --> 00:16:22.169
There's several posts out on my social media where I'm
240
00:16:22.190 --> 00:16:26.090
just running through the grass. And I'm like, three reasons
241
00:16:26.149 --> 00:16:29.500
to be wild and free. And I put number one, no.
242
00:16:30.419 --> 00:16:34.759
Number two, one. And number three, cares. No one cares.
243
00:16:35.299 --> 00:16:37.620
And the more you live in your joy, you go
244
00:16:37.659 --> 00:16:42.639
from happiness to joy to bliss. No one really cares anyway.
245
00:16:43.259 --> 00:16:46.710
Just do the art. Ask yourself, what do I believe
246
00:16:46.750 --> 00:16:50.769
would happen if I actually tried? And then now we're
247
00:16:50.789 --> 00:16:56.429
getting somewhere because the answer exposes the programming. Resistance often
248
00:16:56.570 --> 00:17:01.759
reveals the exact belief asking to be examined. I was
249
00:17:01.820 --> 00:17:06.880
sitting across the kitchen table from my husband and I
250
00:17:06.920 --> 00:17:11.529
was painting these little trees and all of the stuff
251
00:17:11.589 --> 00:17:14.650
coming up in my mind, in my head was all
252
00:17:14.730 --> 00:17:20.819
the trash. I'm like, I'm a personal transformational expert. I
253
00:17:20.859 --> 00:17:24.880
help people on their limiting beliefs every single day. I
254
00:17:24.920 --> 00:17:29.650
have helped thousands of clients shift out of these limiting beliefs.
255
00:17:29.730 --> 00:17:32.609
And here I was as a coach sitting at my
256
00:17:32.670 --> 00:17:37.990
kitchen table, listening to the trash inside my own head.
257
00:17:38.410 --> 00:17:44.390
And guess what? I just kept going. Just keep going, right?
258
00:17:44.859 --> 00:17:50.509
Something beautiful happened today. That 100 trees became the wisdom
259
00:17:50.710 --> 00:17:55.799
of the trees. And those trees needed companions, birds. So
260
00:17:55.859 --> 00:17:59.559
I started creating what exactly became the wisdom of the birds.
261
00:18:00.359 --> 00:18:03.200
But I wasn't the same woman who had started those
262
00:18:03.259 --> 00:18:07.880
first trees. And that's important. That repetition, that 100 nights
263
00:18:07.940 --> 00:18:12.289
of commitment, it changed me. It showed me how I
264
00:18:12.329 --> 00:18:15.190
could allow all of the trash to come up. I
265
00:18:15.250 --> 00:18:18.089
could deal with it. I can have it have self-aware.
266
00:18:18.569 --> 00:18:22.119
And then every stroke of the paintbrush became an act
267
00:18:22.180 --> 00:18:24.960
of love. I'm just going to sit here for three
268
00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:28.880
hours at the kitchen table after supper. And every stroke
269
00:18:28.920 --> 00:18:31.160
of this pen is going to be sent with love.
270
00:18:31.900 --> 00:18:34.259
And I tell you guys right now, after the hundred
271
00:18:34.279 --> 00:18:38.630
days of trees, I am so intimate with my book,
272
00:18:38.670 --> 00:18:42.049
The Wisdom of the Trees. And I'm very intimate with
273
00:18:42.089 --> 00:18:47.150
my book. I painted these hundred trees and thought, oh, OK,
274
00:18:47.490 --> 00:18:50.509
that was hard and fun. And now these little trees
275
00:18:50.549 --> 00:18:54.400
need little companions. And so they became birds. But I
276
00:18:54.480 --> 00:18:57.779
wasn't the same woman when I started painting the birds.
277
00:18:57.819 --> 00:19:02.000
And that's important. The repetition had changed who I was
278
00:19:02.059 --> 00:19:04.559
and how I was showing up. By the time I
279
00:19:04.660 --> 00:19:09.369
reached the birds, something had loosened in me. I wasn't
280
00:19:09.509 --> 00:19:14.690
gripping so tight. I wasn't demanding that every bird be perfect.
281
00:19:15.150 --> 00:19:19.150
And I began allowing the birds to arrive however they
282
00:19:19.230 --> 00:19:23.839
wanted to arrive. Some were beautiful. Some were playful. Some
283
00:19:23.880 --> 00:19:30.259
were cringe. Some were whimsical. Some probably didn't resemble anything
284
00:19:30.279 --> 00:19:34.180
that you could even recognize. And I started to love
285
00:19:34.259 --> 00:19:38.940
them more. Because I stopped asking, does this bird look correct?
286
00:19:39.619 --> 00:19:43.900
And I began asking, what wants to come through today?
287
00:19:44.140 --> 00:19:46.589
Some of my birds look like cartoons. Some of them
288
00:19:46.630 --> 00:19:49.930
look realistic. Some of them are crazy, weird and funny, right?
289
00:19:50.400 --> 00:19:53.880
And I allowed the bird to come through and express
290
00:19:54.000 --> 00:19:57.599
itself the way that it wanted to come through. And
291
00:19:57.640 --> 00:20:02.170
that's an entirely different creative relationship. I wasn't learning to
292
00:20:02.210 --> 00:20:06.789
paint birds. I was learning how to stop controlling myself.
293
00:20:06.849 --> 00:20:09.509
And that was huge. And I want you to get this.
294
00:20:10.529 --> 00:20:16.410
I was unraveling perfection in the discipline. And perfection is
295
00:20:16.589 --> 00:20:20.259
fascinating because we often dress it up with excellence and
296
00:20:20.279 --> 00:20:24.220
they're not the same. Excellence says, let me give this
297
00:20:24.319 --> 00:20:28.740
my best. And perfectionism says, my best is unacceptable unless
298
00:20:28.819 --> 00:20:37.440
it protects me from judgment. And excellence creates, perfectionism constricts.
299
00:20:38.369 --> 00:20:45.450
Excellence learns, and I'm committed to excellence. Perfectionism performs. Excellence
300
00:20:45.509 --> 00:20:51.359
can tolerate mistakes. Perfectionism often treats mistakes as identity threats.
301
00:20:52.140 --> 00:20:57.099
And the birds, ooh, I tell you, those birds, they
302
00:20:57.140 --> 00:21:02.119
taught me freedom. And that's why I say, the project
303
00:21:02.180 --> 00:21:06.700
you think you're working on begins working on you. And
304
00:21:06.779 --> 00:21:11.720
I thought, I'm creating a bird. But the bird was asking,
305
00:21:12.700 --> 00:21:16.900
Miss Tisha Marie Kane, can you release the control? Can
306
00:21:16.940 --> 00:21:21.420
you let me be imperfect? Can you stop turning creativity
307
00:21:21.599 --> 00:21:26.640
into an audition, right? Can you stop asking everyone else
308
00:21:26.680 --> 00:21:29.240
for permission? And I caught myself doing that. I would
309
00:21:29.279 --> 00:21:31.599
hold up my little bird and ask my husband, does
310
00:21:31.640 --> 00:21:34.180
he look cute? And I just love the little bird.
311
00:21:34.200 --> 00:21:37.700
And I just... I just wanted my husband to give
312
00:21:37.740 --> 00:21:40.759
me confirmation. And then I realized, Oh no, this bird
313
00:21:40.819 --> 00:21:43.319
is perfect. Exactly how it, how it is.
314
00:21:44.380 --> 00:21:44.599
Right?
315
00:21:44.660 --> 00:21:48.730
So the art, the practice, the discipline was, can you
316
00:21:48.849 --> 00:21:53.130
let this project be fun? Can you love something simply
317
00:21:53.190 --> 00:21:56.869
because you made it? Imagine bringing that into your life.
318
00:21:56.950 --> 00:22:03.410
Imagine approaching your business with more play. Your parenting, your marriage,
319
00:22:03.450 --> 00:22:06.849
your body, your spirituality, the writing, the dreams, all of it.
320
00:22:07.660 --> 00:22:12.660
When did adulthood convince us everything meaningful had to become serious?
321
00:22:13.339 --> 00:22:17.940
I think actually seriousness is the real pandemic here, right?
322
00:22:17.960 --> 00:22:22.680
It's like we're too serious. Can you allow yourself to play?
323
00:22:23.329 --> 00:22:29.089
Some of the deepest transformation I've ever experienced came while
324
00:22:29.410 --> 00:22:35.720
I was painting, while I was playing in the paint
325
00:22:35.859 --> 00:22:39.980
and doing art. Play can take you places that, that
326
00:22:40.019 --> 00:22:44.109
the force cannot. And I realized this through my hundred
327
00:22:44.140 --> 00:22:47.730
days of art and that hundred days of art was hard.
328
00:22:48.230 --> 00:22:52.289
But then I fast forward a year later, I was like, okay, let's, uh,
329
00:22:53.329 --> 00:22:58.009
let's continue doing to have this discipline practice, and let's
330
00:22:58.049 --> 00:23:02.049
put these birds out into the universe. Let's put them
331
00:23:02.170 --> 00:23:05.869
out for people to see and feel. And it became
332
00:23:05.930 --> 00:23:11.490
so amazing. And now guess what? I'm working on my
333
00:23:11.779 --> 00:23:15.599
third book, The Wisdom of the Fish, because I thought, okay,
334
00:23:15.799 --> 00:23:18.579
we've got the earth, we got the sky, and we
335
00:23:18.640 --> 00:23:22.130
definitely need the water. And I love saying that because
336
00:23:22.150 --> 00:23:24.930
I know something now that I didn't know when I
337
00:23:24.970 --> 00:23:29.720
first started painting that first tree. I don't know. I don't,
338
00:23:29.880 --> 00:23:33.769
I don't know. I didn't need to know exactly what
339
00:23:33.829 --> 00:23:36.250
the fish was going to teach me yet, but I
340
00:23:36.329 --> 00:23:39.619
know it's going to teach me wisdom. The tree taught
341
00:23:39.640 --> 00:23:43.920
me about growth, about roots, about patience. The birds taught
342
00:23:43.940 --> 00:23:47.269
me about freedom and expression. And now these little fish
343
00:23:47.289 --> 00:23:48.750
are going to come through and they're going to teach
344
00:23:48.809 --> 00:23:52.170
me to swim beneath the surface. So let me pause
345
00:23:52.289 --> 00:23:54.869
right there. And we're going to take a moment for
346
00:23:54.950 --> 00:23:56.970
our sponsors. And when we come back, I want to
347
00:23:57.109 --> 00:24:01.880
wrap a bow around this whole project of the wisdom within. Thanks, guys.
348
00:24:01.900 --> 00:24:07.359
Hold on right there. Did you know that most people
349
00:24:07.380 --> 00:24:10.500
spend thousands more than they need to on legal services and.
350
00:24:21.319 --> 00:24:24.640
Simply because they do not know they have options. The
351
00:24:24.680 --> 00:24:28.619
truth is, the right legal support can save you time, money,
352
00:24:29.029 --> 00:24:33.470
and unnecessary stress. At Keynes Legal Support, we have spent
353
00:24:33.589 --> 00:24:37.849
over 22 years helping individuals and families navigate the legal
354
00:24:37.890 --> 00:24:42.369
system with confidence, without the overwhelm, and without the inflated costs.
355
00:24:43.269 --> 00:24:47.690
Whether you are facing a divorce, custody battles, landlord-tenant issues,
356
00:24:48.230 --> 00:24:52.220
civil or criminal matters, or even small claims, we are
357
00:24:52.259 --> 00:24:55.259
here to guide you every step of the way. We
358
00:24:55.319 --> 00:25:00.859
specialize in document preparation, private mediation, and personalized legal support,
359
00:25:01.460 --> 00:25:03.619
giving you the tools you need to move forward with
360
00:25:03.660 --> 00:25:07.369
clarity and control. And we do not stop there. From
361
00:25:07.410 --> 00:25:11.410
notary services to wedding officiating, Keynes Legal Support is your
362
00:25:11.490 --> 00:25:15.130
full-service legal concierge, because your life does not fit in
363
00:25:15.150 --> 00:25:18.970
a box, and your legal support should not either. If
364
00:25:19.009 --> 00:25:21.670
you are ready for legal guidance that actually works for you,
365
00:25:22.829 --> 00:25:27.809
visit caneslegalsupport.com today. Justice for all, give us a call.
366
00:25:28.490 --> 00:25:30.559
That is caneslegalsupport.com.
367
00:25:31.140 --> 00:25:33.500
Have you ever wondered why you can know exactly what
368
00:25:33.539 --> 00:25:36.700
to do and still feel like something inside keeps pulling
369
00:25:36.740 --> 00:25:40.920
you back? You tell yourself, I'm done being angry. I'm
370
00:25:40.960 --> 00:25:44.880
done carrying sadness. I'm done feeling fear, guilt, shame, or
371
00:25:44.960 --> 00:25:48.430
not good enough. But no matter how strong, successful, or
372
00:25:48.519 --> 00:25:52.420
self-aware you are, the pattern keeps showing up. That is
373
00:25:52.480 --> 00:25:54.819
because most people are trying to change their life from
374
00:25:54.859 --> 00:25:58.480
the surface when the real programming lives in the subconscious mind.
375
00:25:59.539 --> 00:26:04.789
Meet Tisha Marie Kane, clinical hypnotherapist, NLP practitioner, and founder
376
00:26:04.849 --> 00:26:08.970
of Beyond Mindset Limits. Tisha helps people go directly to
377
00:26:08.990 --> 00:26:11.910
the root cause of the emotional patterns and limiting beliefs
378
00:26:12.289 --> 00:26:16.009
that have been running their lives behind the scenes. Hypnotherapy
379
00:26:16.069 --> 00:26:19.369
is not magic. It is not mind control. It is
380
00:26:19.450 --> 00:26:23.049
focused subconscious work that allows clients to bypass the noise,
381
00:26:23.569 --> 00:26:26.779
access the root, and begin transforming the belief where it
382
00:26:26.819 --> 00:26:32.900
was first created. Anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame, not good enough,
383
00:26:33.220 --> 00:26:37.640
not safe, not worthy, not lovable. These are not just emotions.
384
00:26:38.140 --> 00:26:41.309
They are often protective programs the mind created long ago.
385
00:26:42.430 --> 00:26:46.400
Through her 90-minute hypnotherapy sessions, Tisha guides clients into the
386
00:26:46.460 --> 00:26:49.460
subconscious mind to release what no longer belongs to them
387
00:26:49.920 --> 00:26:53.380
and begin installing a new way of thinking, feeling, and becoming.
388
00:26:54.380 --> 00:26:57.039
For many of her clients, one session creates a breakthrough
389
00:26:57.059 --> 00:26:59.980
they have been chasing for years. If you are ready
390
00:27:00.029 --> 00:27:02.829
to stop managing the pattern and finally transform it at
391
00:27:02.869 --> 00:27:07.470
the subconscious level, this is your invitation. Book your 90-minute
392
00:27:07.490 --> 00:27:12.609
hypnotherapy session with Tisha Marie Kane at BeyondMindsetLimits.com. Sessions are
393
00:27:12.650 --> 00:27:16.769
available in office on zoom or by private appointment because
394
00:27:16.809 --> 00:27:19.970
healing does not have to take forever. Sometimes you just
395
00:27:20.009 --> 00:27:24.289
need the right access point beyond mindset limits, go to
396
00:27:24.329 --> 00:27:27.400
the root, release the limits, become the version of you
397
00:27:27.420 --> 00:27:28.859
that was always waiting underneath.
398
00:27:40.619 --> 00:27:44.339
All right, you guys, we are back with Beyond Mindset Limits.
399
00:27:44.440 --> 00:27:47.160
I am your host, Tisha Marie Kane. You can find
400
00:27:47.200 --> 00:27:50.400
me on all platforms. You can go to my website
401
00:27:50.640 --> 00:28:00.950
at www.tishamariekane.com. And you can schedule an appointment with me there,
402
00:28:01.009 --> 00:28:03.809
whether you want to publish your book. I do hypnotherapy.
403
00:28:03.910 --> 00:28:07.470
I love hypnotherapy. It is the fast track to healing.
404
00:28:07.529 --> 00:28:11.099
And we are in a season of life right now.
405
00:28:11.279 --> 00:28:15.339
And today is my birthday. I just started a new book,
406
00:28:15.420 --> 00:28:17.619
a new book in my life. And I know there's
407
00:28:17.660 --> 00:28:22.000
a new season and a new opportunity to pause and
408
00:28:22.099 --> 00:28:26.240
reconnect and listen to our inner wisdom. And today's show
409
00:28:26.299 --> 00:28:31.220
is about the wisdom within today's show is helping you.
410
00:28:31.299 --> 00:28:32.700
If you want it, if you don't want it, I
411
00:28:32.740 --> 00:28:38.279
get it too. You Some people say I can't. And
412
00:28:38.579 --> 00:28:41.579
my family never uses that word, nor do we ever
413
00:28:41.640 --> 00:28:44.759
say we're sick. We never say we're sick. We always
414
00:28:44.799 --> 00:28:48.390
say our cells are rejuvenating themselves. My body is healing.
415
00:28:48.450 --> 00:28:51.450
We do not use these bad language words. We don't
416
00:28:51.509 --> 00:28:55.069
say we're sick and we never say we can't because
417
00:28:55.250 --> 00:28:59.730
we can. And so I'm giving you the medicine today.
418
00:28:59.779 --> 00:29:03.160
And I believe that love is medicine. And I'm coming
419
00:29:03.200 --> 00:29:06.720
in hot and heavy with teaching you and preaching to
420
00:29:06.779 --> 00:29:10.140
you that the wisdom is within. And we are in
421
00:29:10.200 --> 00:29:15.390
a season of life right now where things might feel uncertain.
422
00:29:15.829 --> 00:29:19.369
And I'm giving you the freaking cheat codes to get
423
00:29:19.470 --> 00:29:23.740
your life in order. Turn off the dang phone, quit
424
00:29:23.960 --> 00:29:27.859
doom scrolling and put it away. And I typically do
425
00:29:27.920 --> 00:29:30.660
social experiments. And the other night we went out to
426
00:29:30.700 --> 00:29:32.900
supper and I asked my family, I said, okay, so
427
00:29:32.940 --> 00:29:35.750
if my phone is sitting on the table at dinner,
428
00:29:35.789 --> 00:29:38.410
how does that make you feel? And they said, that's
429
00:29:38.450 --> 00:29:40.250
all they said. I said, well, if I take my
430
00:29:40.269 --> 00:29:44.299
phone and turn it upside down, At the dinner table.
431
00:29:44.720 --> 00:29:46.960
How does that make you feel? Oh, good, mom. I
432
00:29:47.019 --> 00:29:47.559
like that one.
433
00:29:47.599 --> 00:29:47.819
Cool.
434
00:29:48.140 --> 00:29:49.759
I said, what if I take my phone and I
435
00:29:49.880 --> 00:29:52.980
put it in my purse? And they're like, oh, yeah,
436
00:29:53.029 --> 00:29:55.869
that's great. You know, I know that you're fully here.
437
00:29:55.890 --> 00:29:59.109
You're not answering business calls. I said, what if I
438
00:29:59.190 --> 00:30:02.230
told you I would take my phone tonight? I'm just
439
00:30:02.259 --> 00:30:03.900
going to leave it in the car because I want
440
00:30:03.940 --> 00:30:08.660
to be extremely positive. present at this restaurant and I
441
00:30:08.799 --> 00:30:10.559
want to hear everything that you guys have to say
442
00:30:10.579 --> 00:30:12.289
and I want to have some good chats how would
443
00:30:12.309 --> 00:30:14.230
that make you feel and my family's like wow you
444
00:30:14.269 --> 00:30:15.789
would do that for us I said heck yeah let's
445
00:30:15.829 --> 00:30:18.589
do it now right so I'm giving you the tools
446
00:30:18.650 --> 00:30:22.309
the tips and the tricks as it gets noisy you
447
00:30:22.329 --> 00:30:27.440
guys on the outside turn down the noise and go
448
00:30:27.559 --> 00:30:32.809
to the wisdom within You have everything that you need
449
00:30:32.990 --> 00:30:36.250
inside of you. You don't even need me here on
450
00:30:36.309 --> 00:30:38.609
this radio show telling you what to do. But I'm
451
00:30:38.630 --> 00:30:43.490
so very blessed that God took me into the trenches
452
00:30:43.990 --> 00:30:48.049
of my life, into anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame, not
453
00:30:48.089 --> 00:30:51.339
good enough, because I had to work through all of
454
00:30:51.450 --> 00:30:54.640
that to get to where I am today at age five.
455
00:30:54.640 --> 00:30:58.900
50 because today is my birthday. And so we're here
456
00:30:59.059 --> 00:31:03.269
talking about the wisdom within. And principle number five is
457
00:31:03.650 --> 00:31:07.869
stop demanding the journey tell you its lesson before you
458
00:31:07.930 --> 00:31:12.049
agree to begin, right? So some lessons can only be
459
00:31:12.150 --> 00:31:17.549
understood from the other side. So let's get going, right?
460
00:31:17.869 --> 00:31:19.890
I always, my best friend tells me my theme song
461
00:31:20.089 --> 00:31:25.089
is Michael Jackson. You gotta be doing something. You gotta
462
00:31:25.109 --> 00:31:28.869
be doing something. And that's so my life. It's like, no,
463
00:31:28.910 --> 00:31:31.730
what are we creating? What are we giving birth to?
464
00:31:31.789 --> 00:31:37.579
And I really come into correction and revision and awareness
465
00:31:37.660 --> 00:31:41.440
around my life and who I am. And I just
466
00:31:41.480 --> 00:31:45.319
think 50 is a level. I'm at a different level
467
00:31:45.339 --> 00:31:47.819
than you. I'm at level 50, so let's go, right?
468
00:31:48.299 --> 00:31:54.250
And creating the discipline to turn down the noise. I
469
00:31:54.329 --> 00:31:57.829
want to challenge you here. OK, lean in for this.
470
00:31:58.349 --> 00:32:01.529
Reach over and turn up your radio dial. If you're
471
00:32:01.589 --> 00:32:05.599
traveling up the I-15 right now down Victorville and the bar.
472
00:32:05.630 --> 00:32:08.220
So I just came that way yesterday. If you're traveling,
473
00:32:08.339 --> 00:32:11.220
reach over and turn up the radio. And I want
474
00:32:11.240 --> 00:32:14.259
you to hear me for this moment. I want to
475
00:32:14.319 --> 00:32:20.109
challenge you because personal development can become another spectator sport.
476
00:32:20.829 --> 00:32:26.750
People read, watch videos, attend seminars, listen to podcasts, highlight books,
477
00:32:27.329 --> 00:32:32.529
save motivational posts, and they never actually practice it, right?
478
00:32:32.950 --> 00:32:39.430
Information without application can become sophisticated procrastination. And I say
479
00:32:39.490 --> 00:32:41.799
that all the time. And let me say that again,
480
00:32:41.839 --> 00:32:47.200
because you have your radio turned up loud. Information without
481
00:32:47.420 --> 00:32:53.549
application can become sophisticated procrastination. If you can hear the
482
00:32:53.630 --> 00:32:57.509
passion in my voice, come on, you guys. At some point,
483
00:32:57.930 --> 00:33:02.210
you gotta do something. And when do you do it?
484
00:33:02.660 --> 00:33:09.359
Don't cheat yourself. Go all in. Play full out. Because
485
00:33:09.440 --> 00:33:12.769
I believe you receive at the level at which you give.
486
00:33:13.480 --> 00:33:16.589
If you give 10% of yourself to the experiment, you
487
00:33:16.630 --> 00:33:20.910
may get 10% insight. If you practice only when it's convenient,
488
00:33:21.309 --> 00:33:25.450
you may learn what convenience can teach you. But what
489
00:33:25.549 --> 00:33:31.599
happens when you truly commit? Not obsess, not punish yourself,
490
00:33:32.380 --> 00:33:37.640
but just commit. And there's a difference. You commit to
491
00:33:37.640 --> 00:33:43.710
100 days. What would happen? Think about that mathematically. If
492
00:33:43.750 --> 00:33:48.829
you write one page every day for 100 days, you
493
00:33:48.910 --> 00:33:54.329
have 100 pages. And if you walk every day for
494
00:33:54.329 --> 00:34:00.619
100 days, imagine your relationship with movement. And if you
495
00:34:00.680 --> 00:34:07.220
meditate every day for 100 days, imagine your relationship with
496
00:34:07.259 --> 00:34:10.820
your thoughts. If you painted every day for 100 days,
497
00:34:10.880 --> 00:34:16.219
imagine your relationship. With creativity. What if you practice gratitude
498
00:34:16.280 --> 00:34:20.559
for 100 days? What happens to your attention? And I
499
00:34:20.699 --> 00:34:25.159
am big on this. What you focus on grows. And
500
00:34:25.179 --> 00:34:28.349
I was just having that conversation today at lunch. And
501
00:34:28.389 --> 00:34:31.449
I wish I would have recorded our conversation because what
502
00:34:31.590 --> 00:34:36.179
you focus on grows. If you're focusing out on all
503
00:34:36.239 --> 00:34:41.489
the doom and gloom of all the noise and not
504
00:34:41.630 --> 00:34:45.269
focused in and disciplined in on what you want to create,
505
00:34:45.590 --> 00:34:48.489
you're going to see all the baloney. So what do
506
00:34:48.530 --> 00:34:51.820
you want to focus on, right? What if you practice
507
00:34:51.929 --> 00:34:56.019
gratitude for a hundred days? Not only you, but then
508
00:34:56.059 --> 00:34:58.460
you get your partner involved and then you get your
509
00:34:59.360 --> 00:35:05.010
child involved and then you get your parent involved? What
510
00:35:05.050 --> 00:35:07.519
if you got four of you? Cause God says we're
511
00:35:07.559 --> 00:35:09.539
two or more come together. So it is. What if
512
00:35:09.579 --> 00:35:12.800
the four of you got together and you were laser
513
00:35:12.880 --> 00:35:17.019
focused on, okay, guess what? For the next 100 days,
514
00:35:17.360 --> 00:35:20.119
everything that we put in our mouth will not have
515
00:35:20.179 --> 00:35:25.300
sugar or whatever your commitment is. If you consciously compliment
516
00:35:25.340 --> 00:35:27.280
your spouse every day for a hundred days, guess what
517
00:35:27.320 --> 00:35:30.389
will happen to your marriage? If you spend 30 minutes
518
00:35:30.449 --> 00:35:33.860
developing your business every day for 100 days, what happens
519
00:35:33.900 --> 00:35:38.820
to your business? And here's the deeper question. What happens
520
00:35:38.900 --> 00:35:43.510
to you? That's the experiment. That's why I did this.
521
00:35:44.409 --> 00:35:48.949
Everyone focuses on the output, the pages, the painting, the pounds,
522
00:35:49.630 --> 00:35:53.789
the revenue, the followers, the skill. I'm asking you to
523
00:35:53.869 --> 00:36:01.460
watch the person emerging behind that output. What happened when
524
00:36:01.480 --> 00:36:04.659
you wanted to quit? What did you say to yourself?
525
00:36:05.159 --> 00:36:08.860
What excuse appeared repeatedly? You know, a lot of people,
526
00:36:08.900 --> 00:36:11.949
they tell me, oh, yeah, I want to be physically healthy.
527
00:36:11.969 --> 00:36:15.250
I want to be physically fit. I want to lose
528
00:36:15.250 --> 00:36:18.710
10 pounds. But then they go and drink a sugary
529
00:36:18.750 --> 00:36:23.889
Starbucks drink. OK, that's incongruent. That's not aligned with your values.
530
00:36:23.929 --> 00:36:26.309
And then I run their value system and their value
531
00:36:26.349 --> 00:36:29.420
system isn't health is not even in there. So they're
532
00:36:29.480 --> 00:36:33.380
out of congruence, right? Things start to become easier when
533
00:36:33.420 --> 00:36:38.059
you start listening to your inner wisdom. And that's what
534
00:36:39.199 --> 00:36:43.059
the real journal is when you start journaling, because you're
535
00:36:43.079 --> 00:36:47.659
not simply measuring, what can I create? You're observing, who
536
00:36:47.980 --> 00:36:53.260
am I becoming in this disciplined practice? So here's what
537
00:36:53.300 --> 00:36:56.239
I want you to do. Choose one thing, not 10, one.
538
00:36:58.380 --> 00:37:03.210
something that calls to you, something that's meaningful enough to matter,
539
00:37:03.590 --> 00:37:07.429
but playful enough that you'll engage with it. I committed
540
00:37:07.469 --> 00:37:10.699
to 100 days, right? So I committed to 100 Days
541
00:37:10.760 --> 00:37:13.849
of Trees. I published my book last year. And it's
542
00:37:13.889 --> 00:37:17.090
basically this book is so remedial. You guys, this book
543
00:37:17.170 --> 00:37:23.360
is so like basic kindergarten level. This is what I published.
544
00:37:23.820 --> 00:37:27.440
I got 100. Actually, I ended up doing like 135
545
00:37:27.440 --> 00:37:29.460
trees and I couldn't pick. So I just published all
546
00:37:29.460 --> 00:37:32.539
135 trees. And I put the art in there and
547
00:37:32.559 --> 00:37:35.500
then I called it the I am series, the wisdom
548
00:37:35.559 --> 00:37:40.059
of the trees, the I am series by Tisha Marie Kane.
549
00:37:40.099 --> 00:37:42.380
You can find it out on Amazon today. Just run
550
00:37:42.420 --> 00:37:48.289
my name. I'm a seven times gold medal winner. published author, artist,
551
00:37:48.449 --> 00:37:52.219
all the things. And this book is kindergarten level. Let's
552
00:37:52.260 --> 00:37:54.559
be real. What you do is you open the book
553
00:37:55.000 --> 00:37:56.960
and you say, you say a little prayer before you
554
00:37:57.019 --> 00:37:59.400
open the book and you say, thank you God for
555
00:37:59.440 --> 00:38:01.340
all the blessings I have in my life, right? Cause
556
00:38:01.360 --> 00:38:04.380
we're focusing on blessings and gratitude. Thank you God for
557
00:38:04.400 --> 00:38:06.239
all the blessings we have in life. And you take
558
00:38:06.280 --> 00:38:08.380
the little look book and you open up to any page.
559
00:38:09.139 --> 00:38:13.460
And I currently am uh, just opened up this book
560
00:38:13.480 --> 00:38:16.260
in front of me. I opened up to this beautiful
561
00:38:16.340 --> 00:38:19.360
art and it's one of my favorites, um, of these
562
00:38:19.480 --> 00:38:23.039
trees of this man standing in the forest. And it says,
563
00:38:23.340 --> 00:38:26.199
I am in harmony with the universe and boy, am
564
00:38:26.219 --> 00:38:29.039
I right. And then all day, because I opened the
565
00:38:29.059 --> 00:38:31.639
book in the morning all day, I'm looking for me
566
00:38:31.659 --> 00:38:35.559
being in harmony, not balanced, but harmony with the universe
567
00:38:36.119 --> 00:38:38.679
and using this look book. So I committed to a
568
00:38:38.719 --> 00:38:43.119
hundred trees of, of art and, For 100 days, publish
569
00:38:43.139 --> 00:38:46.000
this little lookbook, and it becomes a little purse guide.
570
00:38:46.059 --> 00:38:49.469
I open it every day. So I committed to 100 days.
571
00:38:50.070 --> 00:38:55.039
Your practice might be 100 days of writing, art, walking,
572
00:38:55.340 --> 00:39:00.650
strength training. meditation, prayer, photography, cooking, music, all the things
573
00:39:00.690 --> 00:39:05.409
you guys, studying something new, learning. Like right now, like
574
00:39:05.489 --> 00:39:09.000
if you've graduated from our public full system and now
575
00:39:09.039 --> 00:39:11.920
you graduated and now you're like, okay, I'm out of school.
576
00:39:12.420 --> 00:39:14.880
You still need to be learning something, right? Go to
577
00:39:14.940 --> 00:39:18.019
YouTube school or something, learn the AI. Like, don't just say, okay,
578
00:39:18.039 --> 00:39:20.670
my learning stops. No, we need to be, what if
579
00:39:20.690 --> 00:39:25.110
you committed to a hundred days of of free youtube
580
00:39:25.170 --> 00:39:32.570
shorts on how to develop and use AI? Imagine how
581
00:39:32.610 --> 00:39:34.829
you can create a little side business on the side
582
00:39:34.869 --> 00:39:37.329
and do postings for someone on the side and make
583
00:39:37.610 --> 00:39:41.030
an extra $ 300 a month. Right. I believe there's nothing
584
00:39:41.070 --> 00:39:44.190
more fantastic than this time right now being alive because
585
00:39:44.230 --> 00:39:46.349
there are more ways to make money than you could
586
00:39:46.449 --> 00:39:49.710
ever even dream of. I didn't even know the wisdom
587
00:39:49.769 --> 00:39:51.739
of the trees was going to make me money. I
588
00:39:52.599 --> 00:39:56.170
just committed to the project. I put the trees out,
589
00:39:56.329 --> 00:39:58.690
even though the itty bitty crappy committee in my head
590
00:39:58.750 --> 00:40:01.570
kept showing me all the things that I guess I
591
00:40:01.610 --> 00:40:03.860
needed to hear because I needed to clear up all
592
00:40:03.880 --> 00:40:06.599
of that stuff in my head. Right. And I didn't
593
00:40:06.639 --> 00:40:08.880
even know this project was going to make me money.
594
00:40:09.239 --> 00:40:12.239
I had sold so many books that I got to
595
00:40:12.280 --> 00:40:14.940
take a trip to Las Vegas on the book sales.
596
00:40:15.519 --> 00:40:18.769
So my husband and I drove from middle of California
597
00:40:19.190 --> 00:40:21.750
all the way to Las Vegas for a weekend on
598
00:40:21.789 --> 00:40:24.170
my book sales alone. And it wasn't even a project
599
00:40:24.210 --> 00:40:27.059
that I was even care. I didn't even care to
600
00:40:27.099 --> 00:40:30.250
make money. I was just wanting to be in the
601
00:40:30.329 --> 00:40:34.449
discipline and in the practice that, okay, at five o'clock,
602
00:40:34.929 --> 00:40:39.250
phone goes away. We have supper. We clear the supper table.
603
00:40:39.670 --> 00:40:42.570
And then from five, six, seven, eight, you know, two
604
00:40:42.610 --> 00:40:44.570
to three hours at the dinner table. I'm going to
605
00:40:44.590 --> 00:40:46.630
be painting my trees. I'm going to turn on some
606
00:40:46.670 --> 00:40:49.090
music and audio book. I'd read so many already or
607
00:40:49.199 --> 00:40:52.039
listened rather to so many audio books during that time.
608
00:40:52.079 --> 00:40:55.619
I was well-versed in a lot of things. That was my, my, uh,
609
00:40:55.800 --> 00:40:58.179
education and my art all in one. I love to
610
00:40:58.219 --> 00:40:59.699
have it stacked to make things easier.
611
00:40:59.739 --> 00:40:59.920
Right?
612
00:41:00.360 --> 00:41:04.800
So I did all of those things and I was like, Whoa, okay. Wow.
613
00:41:05.599 --> 00:41:07.679
It really made a difference. I didn't even know it
614
00:41:07.719 --> 00:41:11.039
was going to you know, give me extra money in
615
00:41:11.079 --> 00:41:18.050
my pocket. So one, let's revisit this. Rule one, produce first,
616
00:41:18.210 --> 00:41:22.489
judge later. Do not require today's work to be brilliant.
617
00:41:23.530 --> 00:41:29.139
Today's responsibility is to show up, right? Just show up. Right.
618
00:41:29.239 --> 00:41:32.239
If you say I am committed to releasing, we don't
619
00:41:32.420 --> 00:41:35.280
lose weight because if you lose weight, you can find it.
620
00:41:35.719 --> 00:41:38.780
We will shed weight or we will release weight. If
621
00:41:38.820 --> 00:41:42.559
you are committed to releasing 20 pounds, can you commit
622
00:41:42.940 --> 00:41:46.739
to 100 days of going to the gym? Right. Even
623
00:41:46.820 --> 00:41:49.369
if you don't even go in. get your butt in
624
00:41:49.409 --> 00:41:53.280
the car and drive to the gym. Just commit to
625
00:41:53.300 --> 00:41:56.590
getting your butt in the car and driving to the gym.
626
00:41:56.929 --> 00:41:59.800
And chances are you're probably going to go in, which
627
00:41:59.840 --> 00:42:02.380
is great. And I'll be over there cheerleading you. And
628
00:42:02.400 --> 00:42:06.539
you can send me an email. I'm like, I know. Right.
629
00:42:06.559 --> 00:42:10.519
Cause I've done it. Right. So just show up rule two.
630
00:42:11.139 --> 00:42:16.119
Don't cheat yourself. You choose the practice. You honor it.
631
00:42:16.699 --> 00:42:19.969
And remember, You don't need to impress anyone. No one
632
00:42:20.050 --> 00:42:23.789
may even know what you're doing. This is between you
633
00:42:24.630 --> 00:42:27.170
and you, right? No one even needs to know what
634
00:42:27.190 --> 00:42:30.679
you're doing. Can you commit, right? Do a secret commitment
635
00:42:30.719 --> 00:42:35.420
to yourself because the amount of pride, the amount of joy,
636
00:42:35.460 --> 00:42:41.699
the amount of evidence you get after that discipline practice, huge, right?
637
00:42:41.880 --> 00:42:45.510
I did. I first started out doing 75 day hard challenge.
638
00:42:47.800 --> 00:42:51.469
And then I did a 75-day soft challenge. And then
639
00:42:51.510 --> 00:42:55.170
I did a 75-day running challenge. And then I did
640
00:42:55.170 --> 00:42:59.019
100 days of painting trees. And then 100 days of
641
00:42:59.079 --> 00:43:01.659
painting birds. And now I'm on to 100 days of
642
00:43:01.679 --> 00:43:06.670
painting fish. And I tell you right now, there's something
643
00:43:06.809 --> 00:43:11.090
magical in the fact I think I have like 45
644
00:43:11.090 --> 00:43:13.989
or 46 little fish right now. And when I look
645
00:43:14.050 --> 00:43:18.409
at my art as a collective, I'm like, wow, this
646
00:43:18.469 --> 00:43:23.480
is not AI. This is my own intentions, my own design. Yes,
647
00:43:23.539 --> 00:43:28.030
I'll get a fish inspiration on one of the apps
648
00:43:28.110 --> 00:43:31.130
or internet or something, but I'll go about it on
649
00:43:31.150 --> 00:43:33.150
my own and just do the little fish. And so
650
00:43:33.210 --> 00:43:35.949
now I have this body of work that I'll be
651
00:43:36.030 --> 00:43:38.710
able to gift to my kids if they want it.
652
00:43:38.780 --> 00:43:43.460
If not, it might be worth millions of dollars after
653
00:43:43.559 --> 00:43:46.820
I go meet Jesus. You never know, right? I just
654
00:43:46.860 --> 00:43:48.659
do it because it's fun and I get to turn
655
00:43:48.679 --> 00:43:51.349
down the noise. I don't have to look outside of
656
00:43:51.369 --> 00:43:55.110
all of this nasty stuff happening. I don't, I don't
657
00:43:55.150 --> 00:43:57.030
see it. I don't see it anymore because I believe
658
00:43:57.449 --> 00:43:59.969
I'm living heaven on earth. I believe I'm living on
659
00:44:00.010 --> 00:44:04.059
the new earth and it's because I'm very disciplined. I'm
660
00:44:04.099 --> 00:44:07.900
disciplined in my heart. I'm disciplined in my mind. I'm
661
00:44:07.940 --> 00:44:12.889
disciplined in my spirit. I'm disciplined in my, my truth, right?
662
00:44:13.369 --> 00:44:18.090
So don't cheat yourself. The rule three, document the voice.
663
00:44:18.719 --> 00:44:22.800
When resistance appears, write it down. Write down. Okay, so
664
00:44:22.820 --> 00:44:24.639
you're like, okay, I know I'm disciplined, but right now
665
00:44:24.679 --> 00:44:27.639
I'm too tired. Write it down. This is stupid. I'm
666
00:44:27.679 --> 00:44:31.039
not good enough. Nobody cares anyway. Why am I doing this?
667
00:44:31.179 --> 00:44:35.429
I'm behind. I'm terrible at this. And don't immediately try
668
00:44:35.469 --> 00:44:38.610
to make it disappear. Just study it. So if you
669
00:44:38.630 --> 00:44:41.309
write down, I'm too tired, just study it. Okay, why?
670
00:44:41.369 --> 00:44:44.860
What's the secondary gain I get by telling myself I'm
671
00:44:44.880 --> 00:44:46.119
too tired? I get to be lazy.
672
00:44:46.260 --> 00:44:46.340
Oh.
673
00:44:47.050 --> 00:44:49.150
Oh, okay, so now I'm going to cheat myself and
674
00:44:49.190 --> 00:44:51.489
I'm not going to be disciplined, right? That's why I
675
00:44:51.510 --> 00:44:54.139
like to play little games with myself because there's no
676
00:44:54.300 --> 00:44:58.179
one more attuned to who I am than me because
677
00:44:58.219 --> 00:45:00.639
I'm like, okay, I'm harder. I was like that as
678
00:45:00.699 --> 00:45:02.780
a kid where any of you like this, like you
679
00:45:02.820 --> 00:45:04.420
would go to school and you'd mess up and you
680
00:45:04.440 --> 00:45:07.860
were harder on yourself than the teacher was. I'm that person, right?
681
00:45:08.239 --> 00:45:10.739
If I mess up, no one's, oh man, I'm going
682
00:45:10.760 --> 00:45:14.769
to be harder on myself. than anyone else. I had
683
00:45:14.789 --> 00:45:19.030
that happen to me last week. I filed all the
684
00:45:19.090 --> 00:45:21.670
legal documents for a client and the client came back
685
00:45:21.710 --> 00:45:23.969
and said, Hey, was this one supposed to be filed too?
686
00:45:23.989 --> 00:45:26.269
Because I didn't see that in the PDF that you
687
00:45:26.289 --> 00:45:30.150
sent over. And I'm like, Yeah, that one is normally
688
00:45:30.829 --> 00:45:33.829
supposed to be filed. And then I freaked out. I'm like,
689
00:45:33.889 --> 00:45:36.090
how did I miss that? You know, it comes from,
690
00:45:36.530 --> 00:45:39.090
you know, not good enough. Like I have a checklist
691
00:45:39.110 --> 00:45:41.750
for everything. Well, how did I miss that? OK, I
692
00:45:41.789 --> 00:45:44.030
missed it because what I did is I went into
693
00:45:44.090 --> 00:45:48.369
that county and that county's local court rules didn't require it.
694
00:45:48.420 --> 00:45:50.380
So I didn't miss it at all. But my client
695
00:45:50.400 --> 00:45:51.199
like freaked me out.
696
00:45:51.239 --> 00:45:51.500
Right.
697
00:45:51.900 --> 00:45:54.619
So I was like, I'm harder on myself than anybody else.
698
00:45:54.659 --> 00:45:58.500
So I just listened to that. Right. Don't immediately make
699
00:45:58.539 --> 00:46:03.460
it disappear. Study it. Become curious. Whose voice is that? Right.
700
00:46:03.519 --> 00:46:05.539
If they say when I was when I was doing
701
00:46:05.559 --> 00:46:07.760
a couple of these trees, I'm like, oh, my gosh,
702
00:46:08.159 --> 00:46:12.619
that's so ugly. I'm like, OK, whose voice is that? Oh,
703
00:46:13.090 --> 00:46:17.590
whose voice? Oh, that's that four year old, you know, self. Oh,
704
00:46:17.650 --> 00:46:20.909
that tree looks like it's demented. Oh, who's that? Oh,
705
00:46:20.929 --> 00:46:24.650
that's six year old, you know, bully, whatever. Right. And
706
00:46:24.690 --> 00:46:28.650
so I kept asking. getting curious and asking whose voice
707
00:46:28.710 --> 00:46:31.400
is that? And then I asked, when did I start
708
00:46:31.440 --> 00:46:35.019
believing that? Right? I was like, okay, when did I
709
00:46:35.059 --> 00:46:37.920
start believing that? Okay, that's a limiting belief. Disregard it.
710
00:46:38.599 --> 00:46:41.500
So rule number four is look for the lesson behind
711
00:46:41.539 --> 00:46:46.869
the activity. Every 10 days ask, What is this practice
712
00:46:46.949 --> 00:46:52.480
teaching me about myself? Not, am I better at painting? No. Ask,
713
00:46:53.079 --> 00:46:56.219
what am I learning about Tisha? That's what I said.
714
00:46:56.260 --> 00:46:59.179
What am I learning about Tisha? What am I learning
715
00:46:59.340 --> 00:47:04.510
about myself? Okay. I had to take a breath. Am
716
00:47:04.570 --> 00:47:06.789
I learning patience? Control?
717
00:47:06.809 --> 00:47:06.949
Control?
718
00:47:07.650 --> 00:47:12.030
I was very judgmental. I had tons of opinions about
719
00:47:12.090 --> 00:47:14.409
my art. And I kept saying, oh, you think you're
720
00:47:14.429 --> 00:47:18.219
an artist? Oh, yeah, right. Your tree looks disgusting. And
721
00:47:18.239 --> 00:47:22.039
then when I went out, I started learning about my
722
00:47:22.159 --> 00:47:24.820
worthiness and my confidence. And I'm like, every tree looks
723
00:47:24.860 --> 00:47:28.429
different out here on the natural, normal world. Why am
724
00:47:28.489 --> 00:47:32.429
I judging my trees in the art? Right. So rule five,
725
00:47:32.590 --> 00:47:36.769
play fool out. Don't go through the motions just to
726
00:47:36.829 --> 00:47:41.449
check the box. Bring yourself to it. You'll receive at
727
00:47:41.510 --> 00:47:46.050
the level of which you give, right? It's in the moments.
728
00:47:47.210 --> 00:47:49.889
And I just told my best friend this over the weekend.
729
00:47:49.929 --> 00:47:51.909
I leaned in and I just said, you know, I
730
00:47:51.969 --> 00:47:55.320
want you to have my full heart right now. If
731
00:47:55.590 --> 00:47:58.159
there's ever a moment in your life, you ever needed me,
732
00:47:58.639 --> 00:48:00.260
you know, you just have to call. And I just
733
00:48:00.300 --> 00:48:02.360
want to, I just want to say that to you
734
00:48:02.400 --> 00:48:05.239
because I'm turning 50 this And this is a moment
735
00:48:05.260 --> 00:48:08.500
in my life that I don't want to pass by.
736
00:48:08.519 --> 00:48:13.079
If I love you and you're important to me, I
737
00:48:13.179 --> 00:48:16.090
want you to know, like I have two biological sisters.
738
00:48:16.139 --> 00:48:19.250
I have two cosmic sisters. Like I have this group
739
00:48:19.289 --> 00:48:21.110
of people that I love and I just want to
740
00:48:21.630 --> 00:48:25.050
express it to you. I want to play full out
741
00:48:25.190 --> 00:48:28.349
in this life. I did not come to play a
742
00:48:28.510 --> 00:48:31.449
small game. And I think that's why about 10 years ago,
743
00:48:31.550 --> 00:48:34.480
I was in the trenches. Oh my gosh. It was
744
00:48:34.539 --> 00:48:36.860
the hardest part of my life. I was going through
745
00:48:36.880 --> 00:48:40.559
the family court. It was so disgusting and heart wrenching.
746
00:48:40.579 --> 00:48:44.429
And you can read that story in Radical Freedom and
747
00:48:44.989 --> 00:48:48.869
Radical Courage. I wrote those books and it's disgusting. But
748
00:48:48.889 --> 00:48:52.170
you know what? I know I was meant to go deep.
749
00:48:52.670 --> 00:48:56.659
I was meant to feel the pain. because I transmuted
750
00:48:56.699 --> 00:48:59.920
the pain and I alchemized the pain in order to
751
00:49:00.019 --> 00:49:03.119
help me help my family, help my community, help people.
752
00:49:03.440 --> 00:49:05.969
And this is what I do. This is my life's work.
753
00:49:06.409 --> 00:49:09.530
I bring my full self to the table. And that's
754
00:49:09.570 --> 00:49:12.909
why I get a little grumpy when someone says, Hey,
755
00:49:12.929 --> 00:49:16.429
can you give me a discount? No, I can't give
756
00:49:16.469 --> 00:49:19.849
you a discount because the reality is if I give
757
00:49:19.869 --> 00:49:22.260
you a discount, I'm still bringing my full self to
758
00:49:22.280 --> 00:49:25.849
the table. That don't make sense, right? I can't like, okay, yeah,
759
00:49:25.869 --> 00:49:28.090
I'll give you a discount and I'll just bring only
760
00:49:28.090 --> 00:49:31.570
75% of myself. No, that's not who I am. I
761
00:49:31.610 --> 00:49:34.769
play full out. You have me. I'm all in. I
762
00:49:35.030 --> 00:49:38.969
am pouring in to you. And I had a client.
763
00:49:39.269 --> 00:49:41.630
Oh my gosh. I was playing full out. I had
764
00:49:41.650 --> 00:49:45.289
a client. I'm going to read you this. She, hold
765
00:49:45.389 --> 00:49:49.690
on a minute. She messaged me. Not today, but yesterday.
766
00:49:50.489 --> 00:49:55.610
And you got to hear this message, okay? And she goes, hi,
767
00:49:55.610 --> 00:50:00.320
I know I've been avoiding you and I wasn't ready
768
00:50:00.360 --> 00:50:02.960
to change. And I've just been going through a hard
769
00:50:03.000 --> 00:50:06.539
time right now. And I'm stuck in that identity of
770
00:50:07.340 --> 00:50:09.980
going through the family court. And it hasn't been fair
771
00:50:10.059 --> 00:50:12.139
on me. And it hasn't been fair on my children.
772
00:50:12.630 --> 00:50:14.710
And my whole life is a wreck. And I should
773
00:50:14.750 --> 00:50:17.489
have paid attention to you three years ago. And I didn't.
774
00:50:18.039 --> 00:50:22.900
And now I'm ready. And I said, great, let's freaking go.
775
00:50:22.900 --> 00:50:25.059
Because I told her three years ago, I'm like, hey,
776
00:50:25.699 --> 00:50:27.780
if this doesn't get cleared up, this is going to happen.
777
00:50:27.800 --> 00:50:29.460
This is going to happen. This is going to happen
778
00:50:29.480 --> 00:50:30.679
like a fortune teller.
779
00:50:30.699 --> 00:50:31.199
Right.
780
00:50:31.519 --> 00:50:34.300
I was telling her, I mean, I have the experience
781
00:50:34.880 --> 00:50:38.300
and the education. So the wisdom came on and I
782
00:50:38.320 --> 00:50:41.980
was trying to save this girl from her suffering. But
783
00:50:42.519 --> 00:50:45.719
I also know you can't save people from their suffering,
784
00:50:45.739 --> 00:50:50.210
which totally sucks. because I really don't want humanity to suffer.
785
00:50:50.369 --> 00:50:53.369
I am a humanitarian. I'm here that I believe that
786
00:50:53.429 --> 00:50:57.199
love is medicine, right? Anything that's meant to divide us
787
00:50:57.380 --> 00:51:01.920
is not love, right? If it is division, that is
788
00:51:02.019 --> 00:51:04.760
not love. And I'm here to bring love and I'm
789
00:51:04.840 --> 00:51:11.059
here to play fool out. I wanna bring everything home.
790
00:51:12.480 --> 00:51:16.210
I created the wisdom of the trees. I created the
791
00:51:16.269 --> 00:51:19.429
wisdom of the birds. Both of these books are live
792
00:51:19.510 --> 00:51:23.369
now on Amazon. You can get one or both. I
793
00:51:23.409 --> 00:51:26.460
suggest you get both. And now I'm creating the wisdom
794
00:51:26.500 --> 00:51:33.420
of the fish outside of the creation of my four children. Okay.
795
00:51:33.940 --> 00:51:38.360
I've given birth to four beautiful children. Three of them
796
00:51:38.400 --> 00:51:41.460
I haven't seen in 10 years, but they'll come home someday.
797
00:51:41.519 --> 00:51:44.460
So if you're listening to this radio station, please hold
798
00:51:44.500 --> 00:51:47.269
that vision that one day, all four of my children
799
00:51:47.670 --> 00:51:50.030
will one day be at my supper table and it
800
00:51:50.170 --> 00:51:53.769
will be the most magnificent day in my whole entire life.
801
00:51:53.809 --> 00:51:57.449
That is my, my desire and my wish. But outside
802
00:51:57.750 --> 00:52:02.179
of that creation of my four children, these books represent
803
00:52:02.340 --> 00:52:11.329
something of the creation's of the proudest moments in my life.
804
00:52:11.989 --> 00:52:15.750
Not because every painting was perfect. Trust me, they weren't.
805
00:52:16.489 --> 00:52:19.320
Not because I woke up one morning and suddenly knew
806
00:52:19.420 --> 00:52:23.860
I was an artist, because I don't. I'm proud because
807
00:52:23.920 --> 00:52:27.739
I know what creating them required me to confront within myself,
808
00:52:28.440 --> 00:52:32.500
to keep going, keep going. Tisha Marie Kane and I
809
00:52:32.599 --> 00:52:35.860
showed up. And the thing that you thought you were
810
00:52:35.940 --> 00:52:40.630
creating was creating me, these trees and these birds. And
811
00:52:40.670 --> 00:52:44.150
I want to leave you with this. That wisdom is within.
812
00:52:45.769 --> 00:52:50.210
Search within, create a practice that you love, that you know,
813
00:52:50.570 --> 00:52:54.130
that will light the fire within your soul. I'm Tisha
814
00:52:54.150 --> 00:52:57.829
Marie Kane, and this is Beyond Mindset Limits. Until next time,
815
00:52:58.349 --> 00:53:01.329
the wisdom isn't somewhere out there waiting for you to
816
00:53:01.389 --> 00:53:05.139
find it. Sometimes you need to simply be quiet enough,
817
00:53:05.800 --> 00:53:10.179
curious enough, and disciplined enough to hear what has been
818
00:53:10.219 --> 00:53:13.369
inside of you all along. Have a good day, you guys.
819
00:53:18.949 --> 00:53:23.530
Thank you for joining Tisha Marie Cain for Beyond Mindset Limits.
820
00:53:23.909 --> 00:53:27.389
Tune in every Wednesday at 4 p.m. as the conversation
821
00:53:27.429 --> 00:53:32.039
continues around mindset, legal insight, and publishing as a strategic
822
00:53:32.079 --> 00:53:39.099
tool for business positioning. Visit TishaMarieCain.com or CainsLegalSupport.com for more
823
00:53:39.159 --> 00:53:42.239
information or to schedule your private appointment.
824
00:53:45.900 --> 00:53:47.670
Thank you.