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Welcome to the Optimizing Beyond podcast. I'm
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Josh Negron, and this show's all about sharing
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lessons, ideas, and strategies that sharpen your
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thinking, strengthen your habits, and push you
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to grow beyond comfort zones. Let's dive in.
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We live in a strange time. We're overstimulated,
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underslept, and under -recovered. The spare time
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we once have had... decades ago that might have
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been consumed by TV, are now gobbled up by screen
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time, arguably even worse. We're pounding caffeine
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to keep pushing through, scrolling to distract
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from a stress or anxiety problem, and weekend
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warriors in short bursts when things reach critical.
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It's no wonder we feel like we're in a hamster
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wheel. Here's the truth I wish someone had told
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me sooner. Energy isn't created, it's managed.
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Of course, that's a law of physics we all learned
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in grade school, but I've come to understand
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that this applies to so many other areas as well.
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Daily vitality isn't a mystery. It's disciplined
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stewardship over four pillars in a simple hierarchy.
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The first one is sleep. It's the master regulator,
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and it is the foundation of the health pyramid.
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The next one is the circadian rhythm, which is
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timing, light, and consistency. The third one
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is inputs. What's your food, movement, and even
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audio -visual consumption that affects your energy?
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And last, recovery, the rhythms that refill what
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you spend. When you honor the body God entrusted
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to you, it gives you back clarity, strength,
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and focus. When you don't, it politely sends
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you invoices like fatigue, anxiety, brain fog,
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injury risk, and irritability, and so much more.
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Today, we'll explore methods and strategies you
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can implement one at a time, no matter where
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you find yourself. We'll talk stories, science,
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and practical application. Today's goal is to
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give you some things you can implement as soon
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as today and start stacking when you see progress.
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We know our bodies will treat us as well as we
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treat them, so let's explore some ways we can
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leverage that for our benefit. Let's get into
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it. As a cereal optimizer and recovering perfectionist,
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I've tried many things over the years. With just
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fuel, as an example, I've tried many crazy diets
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like vegan, carnivore, keto, gluten -free, all
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for specific purposes and goals in mind. I was
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trying to learn what fuel and routines actually
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made me feel clear and steady. For diet, specifically,
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sadly, it's no one -size -fits -all, which is
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Extremely frustrating. What makes one person
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feel like a million dollars might make another
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person feel sluggish and worthless. When I went
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plant -based for a year, it was perhaps the most
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disruptive, difficult diet I've ever done. But
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it did not have the positive effect on me that
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it has on some, and that's why I stopped doing
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it. But I did keep the habit of incorporating
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more plants into my diet and some of those lessons
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I learned along the way. I would say I eat more
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balanced now more than ever. Through these kinds
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of things, I discovered two things. One, inputs
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change outputs. Your body is like a high -performing
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machine. Cheap fuel and random timing equals
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unpredictable energy and performance. Number
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two is daily rhythm beats heroics. I love layering
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growth and tweaking one thing at a time. Of course.
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I want it all now, just like everyone else. But
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I realized early on that the all -or -nothing
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approach to life changes is often not sustainable.
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It feels productive in the moment, until the
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inevitable crash comes. What actually works is
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small, repeatable upgrades that compound over
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time. Anytime someone asks me for nutrition advice,
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for example, they always get annoyed when my
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suggestions steer them away from declarative
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statements like, I'm going to give up sweets
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for a year, or for good even. I believe that
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instead, small, sustainable habits beat massive
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overhauls and declarative statements every time.
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Today, I want to take you through my lived practice,
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coupled with helpful research while still keeping
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the tone simple. We're not just after today,
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but to help you win tomorrow too. Because health
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isn't something you can hustle to. It's finding
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rhythm, harmony, and rest. Good luck hustling
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your way to that. So I want to cover some common
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misconceptions and myths that I hear a lot around
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this topic. The first one is that discipline
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limits freedom. I used to believe that too. In
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reality, I believe that discipline and established
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habits expand freedom. When things like sleep
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and meals become rhythm and pre -decided, you
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actually free up mental bandwidth for your actual
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life. Freedom is the byproduct of accumulated
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discipline. Discipline doesn't have to be a cage.
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It's a friction removal that allows you to stick
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to your commitments more because you're already
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decided instead of leaving it up to the moment.
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Moments that, let's face it, are usually laced
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with more weakness and less resolve. Here's another
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myth. I sleep eight hours and still feel tired.
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Well, first off, great job. You're already ahead
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of most people. But I want to say two things.
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One, not everyone needs eight hours. We'll talk
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more about that later. And number two, regularity,
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timing, and quality. They matter a lot too. Is
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eight hours normal for you? If not... It's like
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trying to work out for four hours in one day
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instead of spreading it out throughout the week.
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We all know which one's going to produce results.
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So why would sleep be any different? You can't
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do terribly all week and expect one to two days
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of eight -plus -hour sleep sessions to make it
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all right. I tried to do this in the past, trust
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me, and it didn't work. And lastly, quality matters
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too. How's your sleep hygiene? Are you getting
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morning light? Do you have a cool room? Is it
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dim the last hour? Is your phone down an hour
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before bed? No TV in the bedroom? Do you have
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a wind -down sequence? A few weeks of practices
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like this usually changes the feeling of those
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eight hours. Another myth is that blue light
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blocking doesn't work. You know, statistics will
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show anything to prove your point, yet I believe
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that context matters. Morning versus evening
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split is basically the point. You don't have
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to be a cave person at 6pm, just dim the lights
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or turn on ones that are warmer over the last
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hour. That's a heavy hitter consistently over
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time. Some people might say, well, the all or
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nothing approach motivates me. Well, yeah, short
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term for sure. Long term, I've seen it crash
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and burn too many times. even with high performers.
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It's the best way to burn out something good
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you've got going. Try to use that fiery motivation
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to change just a few things, then start layering
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one habit at a time for keeps. What I love about
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this approach is the snowball effect. It creates
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confidence as you start to see increasing compound
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changes. Another one I've heard is that faith
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and fitness don't mix. Now this one's rarer,
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but I've heard it. Some people are concerned
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about vanity and pride, especially with fitness.
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Now, clearly, I disagree. An investment in your
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health is a version of stewardship, and stewardship
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is both spiritual and biological. Caring for
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your body is part of caring for the things you're
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responsible for in this world. When you honor
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this, I believe you compound clarity, peace,
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and purpose. So, let's start where you need...
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So, let's start with the foundation. Sleep is
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first. It is the master regulator. We've already
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let the cat out of the bag a little bit, which
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is the massive importance of sleep. If you only
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change one thing, let it be this. Let it be sleep.
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I'll be honest, this is one of the things that
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I dialed in much more recently than so many of
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my other habits. Sleep should be the foundation
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that makes the grind possible. But oftentimes,
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sadly, it's the last thing people tackle. This
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hit me hard in three different ways over the
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last five years, and fundamentally, they transformed
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my view on sleep. The first one was I was pushing
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my wake -up time earlier and earlier to continue
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beefing up my awesome morning routines. Five
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minutes here, ten minutes there, I just kept
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pushing my wake -up time earlier and earlier.
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At some point, I noticed cognitive decline. Things
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like consistent foggy mind, irritability, wild
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mood swings, increased anxiety, and more. It
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felt like I was on the edge and I didn't want
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to fall off. The only thing I had changed was
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decreasing my sleep. The beefed up morning routine
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was not worth the sleep sacrifice. The second
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time was when a dear friend, Trey Frisbee, critiqued
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me on how well I had so many areas of my life
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in line. And yet sleep and even hydration, two
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massive pillars of health, undisputedly so, were
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such low priorities for me. That challenge hit
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me hard and got me focusing on these habits even
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more. And finally, the last one was one of my
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mentors, superhuman Danelle Delgado, had a dear
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friend start to help her get her fitness and
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health in line. His approach was much different
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than mine, and he knew what an epic hustler she
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was and that she would likely crush her body
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into powder if he didn't pave this path correctly.
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He made some rules around sleep that really got
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me thinking. He said if you want to work and
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work out on the same day, you have to sleep at
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least eight hours the night before. Okay. And
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if she only slept seven hours, She only gets
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to do one. She has to choose between working
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or working out. And then lastly, if she gets
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six hours or less, she can't do either. Now,
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if you commit to that, that'll make you shift
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fast. This was the final step in reframing sleep
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in my mind forever. Sleep is what allows all
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other things to be possible. Now, sleep does
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so much we don't have time to discuss, but some
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of the major highlights that I want to talk about
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is... Firstly, hormones and mood. Now, listen
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up men considering TRT. I'm middle -aged, I'm
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nearing my 40s, and TRT is all the rage of the
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conversation of anyone even over 25 right now.
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Sleep quality quietly tunes your hormone panel,
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the stuff that affects stress tolerance, appetite,
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willpower, confidence, and patience. If your
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testosterone is low and your sleep is garbage,
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just... Think about that for just five minutes.
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I was able to double my testosterone with just
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getting my sleep in line, and that blew my mind.
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Number two is cognition. Attention, memory, decision
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quality all rise and fall with sleep quality
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more than most people realize, like I said earlier.
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And number three, training and recovery. You
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don't get stronger in the gym. You get stronger
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when you recover from the gym. Sleep is the runway
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to do that, fundamentally. When I used to steal
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sleep for early workouts with five or six hours
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of sleep, I thought I was being disciplined.
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But the ROI was backwards. More body breakdown,
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less gains, and more plateaus. What changed everything
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was a boring move. Adding 30 minutes of time
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in bed and protecting that hour before bedtime.
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Now, notice I said time in bed, not time asleep.
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Remember, we want to control what we can control.
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Time in bed is the number one metric you can
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control. So I committed to adding 30 minutes
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at a time for six month periods. Once my daily
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average was 30 minutes higher for several months
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at a time, I added another 30 minutes. I didn't
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overhaul my life. I just insisted on small progressive
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increases every few months until my baseline
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felt stable. My labs improved. Mood stabilized,
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energy evened out, and I started feeling better
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in many ways, and even my performance in the
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gym improved. Now, that wasn't without struggles.
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Like I said before, everyone is different. I
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know healthy people that don't need very many
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hours of sleep. My wife, for example, her Whoop
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and Oura Ring both tell her that she doesn't
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need much beyond six or six and a half hours
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of sleep, whereas the same devices tell me I
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need eight to nine hours of sleep. especially
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depending on how hard I push myself in the gym.
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And I push myself hard often. This caused some
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difficulty because when I'm needing to go to
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sleep, she's not even tired and she doesn't have
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to go to bed. But we worked hard to find a rhythm
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that can work daily for both of us. So think
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of your bedtime as a boundary with the future.
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You're not just going to bed. You're preparing
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for tomorrow the way you set out clothes for
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the night before. It's the most generous thing
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you can do for your future self. Aim first at
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consistency, like the same sleep window most
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nights. Make it feel good, switch to warm light
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in the last couple hours, dim the lights, reduce
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digital inputs that spike your brain. And create
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an anchor, things like configuring your phone
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to turn on DND after a set time, maybe the phone's
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parked in the kitchen after a certain time, lamps
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only after another time. or a good wind -down
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process like a shower, stretch, prayer, meditation,
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and then sleep. But Josh, I use my phone as an
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alarm. Okay, I know, this comes up a lot, but
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many of you already have wearables you can use
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as alarms, and if you don't, well, alarm clocks
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are super cheap nowadays, so you'll be fine.
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Don't get hung up on perfect techniques. Just
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change something in a proven way you can execute
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it. Let's take blue light, for example. People
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love to talk about what's best, glasses, phone
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settings, or special apps. It's less about the
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specific how and more about timing and intensity
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and ensuring you can execute daily. Morning bright
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light, late evening dim lights. There's so many
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ways you can explore how to do those things.
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Remember, you can always change or add more when
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you progress. Here's some way you can practice
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tonight. Pick one or two of the items mentioned
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in this section to commit to in the next seven
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nights. For example, schedule your sleep window
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like 10 to 6. Commit to parking your phone an
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hour before bed. Switch to dim lighting 60 minutes
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before you go to bed. Using an eye mask or listening
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to white noise. That's it. Commit and ship it
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for a week. Now, as far as timing and recovery,
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we've all got a 24 -hour internal clock that
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likes predictability. Picture two teammates,
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cortisol, which is daytime engagement, and melatonin,
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nighttime recovery. When we pass the baton cleanly,
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energy feels steady and clean. When they collide,
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energy feels scratchy and anxious. So here's
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some simple timing rules. In the morning, it
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benefits you to get some good outdoor lighting.
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Even 5 to 10 minutes helps. Move a little and
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hydrate. In the afternoon, if you train hard,
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plan a good protein -heavy meal with some carbs
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a few hours after training. And then in the evening,
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dim those lights, lower stimulation. Land your
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day with a wind down instead of a scroll down.
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And then temperature plays a role as well. A
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slightly cooler room for sleep. with a repeatable
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wind -down sequence, like we talked about earlier
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with shower, stretching, journal, praying, and
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lights out. If you go all gas, no brakes for
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a week, your body will schedule a recovery day
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by force. You'll get sick or just run out of
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gas. We've all been there. It's so frustrating.
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It feels like your body is betraying you, but
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remember, we betrayed it first. So it's better
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to plan it and own it. We can talk for hours
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on things that can negatively hurt sleep, but
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one that I eliminated years ago was alcohol.
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I started noticing that my sleep quality was
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horrible after just one small drink with dinner,
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and I thought to myself, I'm working so hard
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to get my sleep in line, and then just one drink
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that costs money on top of that is wrecking my
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progress. I'm out. And I just never looked back.
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Not telling you this has to be you, but this
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is just one small example of changes that I made
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in my life. It could just be that I'm getting
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older and less cool. Another practical application
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you can do with all this in mind, here's one
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thing you can try. Pick two nights this week
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to be your gold standard evenings for a great
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wind down routine. Things like we talked. Things
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like warm lights, light stretching. journaling,
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praying, and then lights out. Set reminders on
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your phone or your calendar and then see how
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it goes. All right, we've covered sleep and timing.
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Now let's wrap up with inputs like food and movement
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and recovery. Food is fuel, not entertainment.
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But modern fuel does not help with disciplined
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commitments to health. Most commercial food is
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optimized for profit and palatability, not your
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health or steady energy. If you ride the processed
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food rollercoaster all day, you will get spikes
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and crashes over time. Your health will likely
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decline in the process. If you anchor meals to
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protein, fiber, color, like fruits and veggies,
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you'll get stable energy and better decision
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quality later. Some easy ways to do this are
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defaults beat decisions. So have a go -to breakfast
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or a go -to lunch that are boringly dependable.
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This is me. I'm okay having the same repeatable
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meal. My wife is not, but that helps me stay
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consistent. Picking a protein anchor, adding
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two colors of produce, and then some fiber. If
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you're into using AI, you can prompt it. What
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are some ideas? Give me some variabilities. And
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then you can have that variability too if you're
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like my wife. Another one is plan to snack intentionally.
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This is what gets so many people. If you know
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you're a snacker, pick protein -forward or fruit
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-forward snacks. Plan for it and stay in control.
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And then hydration. Front load earlier in the
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day and then taper at night. Your kidneys actually
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respond to hormones that slow down their function
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as the day winds down. Otherwise, you'll be going
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to the bathroom seven times in the evening. So
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to help with that daily rhythm, front loading
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hydration is a good idea for so many reasons.
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As always, the goal isn't perfection, it's to
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be predictably steady. I know, how boring. And
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that applies to movement as well. I love... suggesting
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people to find their movement. I'm a fan of finding
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movement you enjoy to get the habit going. Once
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established, then you can seek out challenges
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to make you stronger and shore up your weaknesses
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for future health, especially in fitness. If
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you're not into movement at all, start with walking
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the dog or a game that's fun like pickleball
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or disc golf to get you out and moving. And as
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you get those established, start working in things
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like resistance training and different types
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of cardio. So when you're ready to add that in,
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resistance training can be two to four times
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a week. And honestly, longevity experts say the
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largest predictor of longevity is muscle mass.
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We're not talking bodybuilder stuff here. Keep
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it simple. Push, pull, hinge, squat, and carry
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to keep muscle mass up and work on your longevity.
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Next would be layering in low intensity cardio
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that you could hold a conversation during. A
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lot of people call this zone two. You can target
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this five to seven days a week. Think 30 to 60
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minutes, like a brisk walk, very light jog, biking,
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things like that. This builds your cardiovascular
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system significantly over time. And then finally,
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high intensity or variable cardio. This is things
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like what I do in CrossFit. And you can target
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two to four times a week. This pretty much always
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sucks, but has so many physical benefits as well
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as psychological benefits. So with things like
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this, we're going for the long game. Think that
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we're playing a season, not a single game. So
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find where you're at and start layering in things
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to make you better. So with that in mind, pick
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one or two of the things we discussed to execute
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this week. So in this section, you can write
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one default meal you'll eat four times this week.
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For me, breakfast is the easiest, but lunch can
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be a close second. Maybe it's deciding two training
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sessions this week or planning a non -negotiable
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walk. Or maybe join a local pickleball group
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on Facebook and find out when their free playtime
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is. Then put it on the calendar. Here's a pro
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tip. Community definitely helps, especially if
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you're the first starting out with these health
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habits. Tell a friend, have them join you, or
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find a way to have them help you. As we wrap
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up, I want to cover a practical playbook with
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seven plays to help you start. In the description
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of this episode, you'll find seven ways to turn
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ideas into energy. Feel free to swap anything
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in or out, and remember to keep it low friction
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and repeatable. You can always adjust later.
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Number one is pick your pillar and set your window.
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Choose one pillar, sleep, nutrition, movement,
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recovery, to schedule in your calendar this week,
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like scheduling your sleep window, pre -planning
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meals for the week, or reminders for wind -down
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cues. Number two is aiming to increase your time
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in bed by 30 minutes, for example. Add those
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30 minutes, don't overthink it, park your phone
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out of the bedroom, and give it a whirl. And
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if you want, add a five to 10 minute wind down,
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like with a light stretch, prayer, journal, gratitude,
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and then lights out. Number three is getting
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morning light and taking a walk. Five to 10 minutes
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of outdoor light earlier in the day, and then
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shoot for those 20, 30 minutes of zone two walking.
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Number four is planning your meals and having
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protein anchors. Eat a planned meal this week,
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for example, a protein with two colors and fiber
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without debating it. And also, hydrate earlier
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in the day so you're not chugging late. Number
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five is strength you can repeat. Find a fun movement
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activity to start this week. A simple full body
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like pushing, pulling, hinging, squatting, or
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carrying. It can be a single activity like a
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machine in the gym or a fun activity like the
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ones we talked about earlier or some good resistance
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training. And then don't forget to post -session
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fuel within a few hours with a good protein and
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carbs. Number six is target. Two gold standard
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evenings. Like we said earlier, choose two nights
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this week for a warm light, stretching, prayer,
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journaling, and lights out on time, and protect
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those like meetings with your future self. And
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number seven, gratitude fuel. Try practicing
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gratitude before bed. Write 10 things you're
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grateful for that day. And lastly, the bonus
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when life happens rule. When your day gets wrecked,
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and it will happen, hit your minimum viable habit
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you committed to. If that means a 10 -minute
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walk or parking your phone for at least 30 minutes
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of the day, don't fold and give up. Keep pushing
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to change one small thing. So let's zoom out.
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The reason people burn out on health isn't lack
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of information. It's lack of action, usually
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because there's so many options. If you see yourself
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as someone who's consistently catching up, You'll
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just choose catch -up behaviors. But if you change
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your mindset to being a steward of your energy,
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your choices can begin to change. We're looking
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to transform discipline into devotion, not deprivation.
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It's no longer punishment. It's protection for
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what matters most. And it's your systems that
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automate the basics, like sleep window, default
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meals, movement anchors, and so on. Your decision
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fatigue drops, your confidence rises, and paradoxically,
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you actually feel freer. That's the discipline
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-freedom loop. Now, you're going to have obstacles,
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and we need to work together to anticipate them.
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So you're going to hit speed bumps. So let's
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plan for them now. What if you have a late -night
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event? Keep the sleep window as close as you
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can and protect the next night like gold. Remember
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what James Clear says, never miss twice. What
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if you're traveling? Anchor your morning light
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and a walk. Focus on protein and a good color
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option without overthinking it. What if you're
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feeling sore or super run down? Then drop the
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training intensity. Hit up zone two, some low
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intensity cardio, get some light mobility done,
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and maybe an earlier bedtime. What about if you're
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hit with cravings? Try drinking water, delay
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10 minutes, and then if you're still super snacky,
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let's pick a protein forward option. And then
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the I blew it spiral. So often this leads to
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an effort mentality of just like, well, I've
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already messed up, so I'm just going to keep
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going crazy. You didn't. You had a normal human
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day. So let's locate the minimum variable habit
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that you can do tonight and keep going. Remember,
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we're going for change over time, not perfection.
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So let's review. Energy isn't created, it's managed.
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So let's explore ways to put sleep first. analyze
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our habits by good protein -anchored meals and
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daily movement to create steady power, recovery
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to protect our gains, and rhythms to beat willpower.
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Because we know that identity drives behavior.
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We're a steward of our energy. Remember to review
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the show notes in the description to review ideas
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that you can try today to tackle things like
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sleep, evening routine, your meals, and more.
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Do right by your body and it will do right by
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you. Thanks for listening to the Optimizing Beyond
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podcast. Remember, growth happens when you take
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action. So subscribe, share this with a friend,
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and most importantly, put what you learned into
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practice. Until next time, keep moving forward
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because daily anything changes everything.