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Validation Detox

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Are you dating, or are you collecting proof that somebody wants you? This week I'll tackle two questions. The first is about how to not get too attached in the talking stage, and what to do if you keep getting ghosted after good dates. Before I get to those, I share some wicked perspectives on reality and how I cut off my own validation: no story views, no likes, no casual dating, no DMing. It's pretty wild that right now I don't have a single person I'm interested in. I might have ADHD, but I don't believe in it, and that's a good way to describe this episode.


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Chapters:

00:00 Moody In a Transition

02:04 Arguing About Purpose At A Dinner Table

18:16 Cutting Off The Validation

27:58 I Sat In Stillness

35:15 Talking Stage Without Getting Attached

50:36 Ghosted Even When The Date Was Good

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