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Welcome to the Weekly Hotspot, your guide to non traditional
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relationships and female authority dynamics. I'm Mistress Olivia alongside Mistress Erica,
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and well, miss Erica, my friend, you are in the
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hot seat today and that seat is going to get
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even hotter when we actually break your girl on girl Cherry. Now,
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we've been talking about this for I don't know how long,
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but it's been a while, and I understand that a
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lot of people are asking you about this.
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What are they asking you while they're just kidding my mindset?
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You know?
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Are you excited? Is this something you want to do?
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You know?
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Michael Come Eating Man, Christy Jas just to name a few,
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are all very sitting on the edge of their seats
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about my girl Cherry.
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Okay, so Erica said it very gently and very diplomatically.
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I'm going to tell you the true story. Erica gets
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in my DMS and she goes. They're saying that we've
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been teasing this for years and they're wondering what it's
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going to actually happen. Well, Erica and I were on
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a podcast panel about girl a Girl Action. It's mss
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Becky's podcast Kinkology. Go and check it out and It
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is a panel of women from here about what we
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like about being with a woman. Now Erica has not
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been with a woman before, and so on that panel,
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I said to miss Becky, oh, do you want to
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help us pop mss Erica's girl Cherry. I didn't even
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get the question out of my mouth. And Miss Becky was,
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you know, standing up, waving her arms, squeezing her breast together,
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tweaking her nipples, going me, me, me, me, me me,
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I'm in.
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I what a fucking compliment? Thank you, Becky.
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It was thrilling. So uh, the question is did you
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do it yet? No? And don't you think that we
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would tell you if she had? What do you plan
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on doing once you've done it? You're going to tell people? Right? Oh?
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Of course we should make it a whole deal, shouldn't
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we like a podcast or something.
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We can't get the podcast being like exactly like a call, right,
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it can't be that explicit, right. I had to dream
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about you last feat. Yes, then dream was when I
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was standing behind you. Now you're a little bit shorter
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than I am. Neither of us were wearing heels, and
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I had one foot between your feet. I had my
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arm wrapped around your waist, so my tits were right
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on your bare back, and I just swept your hair
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to one side, and I was nibbling on your ear
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low and then gently kissing right down the side and
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your neck. And see, now we're getting very explicit. I'm
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about to dive into explicit stuff. But I have to
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tell you really enjoyed it.
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Oh my, I just enjoyed that. Just now. I sat
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here and I closed my eyes and I was like,
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I got a tingle right down my spine when down
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my right arm.
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Oh my lord, did it go to your root chakra?
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How my root chakra's going?
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Helow here?
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I am, come and get me.
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I want to ask you something. I know that you
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are multi orgasmic. Are you nervous about whether or not
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you have an orgasm with another woman? Like the female
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equivalent of performance anxiety for a man.
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Oh, that is a good question. I am. I am
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nervous about the unknown, but I think it's kind of
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in a good way. And I have developed a way
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to try to reduce the overwhelming factor of all these
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what if questions? Right, And I learned a long time
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ago anxiety and nervous comes from what ifs. Right, what
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if this? What if that? So I'm just trying to
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have and stay in the mindset just to explore and
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have fun. I mean, Olivia, I know you, I trust you.
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We've talked about this often, and it is just an
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experience with I don't want to have any expectations. I
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don't want you to have expectations of me other than
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the fact of just exploring and having fun. You can't
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go wrong with that. Then if things roll out and
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get heated and we have an orgasmic time, beautiful. If
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we don't, then it was something so wonderfully special that
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one of my very good friends wants me to experience.
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I mean, you can't go wrong. I change how I
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frame things to help calm those nerves. And honestly, my
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biggest concern is are we ever going to get to
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the good good? I mean we're just so goofy sometimes
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we're rolling around laughing worth anything else.
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Oh that's that's a very good point. Now, you know,
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when I'm playing in a fetish scene, oh my goodness,
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or some other situations that it was very inappropriate. I
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have to tell you I was at a funeral. I'm
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going to take us off on a funeral safari. Boy,
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that's a kill joy, isn't it a funeral? And someone
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that I was with looked over me and cracked a joke,
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and I started to get and because it was inappropriate setting,
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I started to giggle even more. So I'm sitting down
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on the church pews, looking down, my face completely covered up,
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my shoulders drips hard because I'm laughing, and the ushers
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came over and started handing me all sorts of cleanexes.
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So I think that that concern is a valid concern.
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But I think, knowing you and I, we're going to
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get back to the good, good quickly, similar to how
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I did. Right now. Now I have to ask a question.
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You talked about closing your eyes and just experiencing. Yes,
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if you get close to orgasm, but you're not there yet.
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Are you mind to fantasize about a cock?
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I didn't even think about that.
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Oh no, I planted that seed in your mind.
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I you know, I did not even think about that.
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But I don't think it will and only because well, hello,
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I know me, and when I'm in a sexual situation,
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I am hyper focused on feelings, breath, touch, I don't
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really fantasize during sex about anything else other than what's happening.
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I may fantasize, oh, I'm going to do this to
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this guy next right, or I'm going to do whatever,
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But I try to stay in the moment and stay
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focused on happening now.
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Yes, wow, So I carry the six thousand browser tabs
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open with me right into the bedroom. I might be fantasizing,
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I might be thinking about something else. I might be like,
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I'm in the moment, but there's a lot going on.
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Well, there might be a lot going on in my head,
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but I try to corral it and focus it on
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what I'm doing now.
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Similar like like you try and corral me. Good fucking
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luck with that, buddy, boy a girl.
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I know I can't control you, absolutely, I could only
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control my response to you.
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That's true. I have a concern. I'm a little bit concerned.
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What if you're like, oh, I really don't. I don't
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like this.
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Other than extreme things, I usually don't rush to judgment.
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I'll most instantaneously in my head I would say something like,
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this is feeling awkward. You've never done this before. Shut
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the fuck up, Erica, and focus. This is okay. It's
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okay to feel awkward. It's okay to feel weird, but
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just keep going, keep going forward, take another step, and
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just relax. And that's why, you know, during intimacy, I
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focus more on sensations, right, so I, Oh, that feels
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so good, this softness or whatever's happening. To keep those
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arrant thoughts out of my head, you.
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Know, I was thinking about that and with Becky and
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I and we're both experienced, we're both bisexual, and you
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can kind of be sort of experiencing us, yes, as
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we experience each other. Yes, right, so it's not going
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to be oh, two women are focused on on you, Erica,
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Did you come yet? Did you come yet? Did you
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come yet? You know because that have you ever had
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a man do that? Did you come yet? Did you
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come yet? And it's kind of like if you would
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just stop asking me, I think I can.
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Yeah, if you stop and you focus on the sensation,
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what's happening, you might be able to deduce that question
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on your own. Buddy, boy, But you're too worried about
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ram rotting.
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There will be no ram rotting from me or Becky.
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Gotcha.
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I've got a question though about them. I have so
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many questions for you about this. Do you want either
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of us to bring toys, vibrators, strap ons, you know
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my strap on les dot com site that I absolutely love.
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Or do you want us just to use hands, fingers, lips, legs, etc.
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Have you thought about that?
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I did not good question. I think having options is
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always a good thing. So whether or not we use
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the toys, it doesn't matter having them there in case
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things turn a different way. Maybe I need a different stimulation,
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or maybe it's really hot seeing you know Olivia hover
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over me and penetrate me with her girl cock. Who knows?
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Bring it. Just one caution. Vibrators. I don't really need them,
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maybe to warm up in other parts of the body.
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But if you want me to come in two point
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two seconds, put that vibrator right there and we'll be done. Yes,
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keep that in mind. All else. Vibrator.
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You know, I'm not a fan of vibrators either. Right
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on my clit. I like them, Oh gosh, yeah, exactly
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on the other parts of my body. Right there's some
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people that do the magic wand vibrator and they put
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it on the highest level and right on their clit,
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and oh that just ow. I mean, I don't want
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to yuck on somebody else's yum, so I shouldn't say that.
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So it's just not for me. But I think that
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kind of scene in porn leads to maybe some unreal expectations.
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Yes, absolutely, do.
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You have preconceived ideas based on and girl and girl
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porn that you've seen Lesbi Important, by the way, is
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by a large shop for.
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Men, right, absolutely? Well, Like I said, I'm trying not
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to have expectations. I'm trying to consider this as I've
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been told about a surprise birthday party that's going to
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be happening, and I'm supposed to not know about it,
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so I don't try to anticipate, And that's where I'm
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going to stay the happiest. That's why I'm going to
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stay the most open minded and go from there.
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You can tell I've been thinking about this.
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Yes, it makes me feel good, it's sexy, keep going.
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But why haven't you been thinking about this this much?
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I don't.
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I will help you quantify this much? How do you
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quantify this much? Because I would see because Olivia too.
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Part of what the reason this podcast works is because
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you are have a little bit of different energy than
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I do, and just because my energy level is just
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a little bit laid back a little bit more. I
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don't know what you call hippy dippy and let life
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be live? Does it? You know I have. I've been
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thinking about it. I've been thinking about it a lot,
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and how to handle my nerves, how to handle any challenges.
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Like you said, what if I go in there, I
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get the first hug and kiss and I'm like, oh, no, thanks.
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You know, I don't think that's going to happen. That's
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not going to happen. But you know all those things
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that go in your head. You see me after I've processed,
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I process alone and then I bring it forth. I
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don't process with others unless you have a big dick.
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Then you process. You process on that big dick. Right,
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So you know me better than Miss Becky, but both
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of us know Miss Becky. Yes, we talk about communication
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a lot on this podcast, and we talk about how
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to say what you want, how to communicate your needs, limits, boundaries,
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that kind of thing. But you're normally the one who
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is in charge and guiding the communication. Have you been
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thinking about what it's going to be like with you
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on the other side of the equation, the other side
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that you're not used to being.
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Oh, well, absolutely well. Not used to being in a
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relationship dynamic. I have been the student before, I have
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been open to instruction and exploration before, and that's how
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I'm seeing this right. I just need to open my
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mind and with the mindset of teach me instead of orchestrating,
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I absolutely can step back. I'm not as much of
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a control freak as some people may fin because this
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is the thing. If I'm out of my element, people
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see me in my element, confidence secure, Let's go, let's
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get this done. This is what I want you to do.
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But if I'm not in my element, I am totally
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open minded, and you know, I know my limits. You
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two are the sexy, experienced ladies, and I want to
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be like you.
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Oh. Now, a couple of people have asked me this,
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and I think I know the answer, but I'll pass
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on their question. Do you want Becky or me to
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dominate you?
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let's think about this class. Right, if we get down
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the brass tacks, even with Olivia and Becky in a
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guiding position and me learning and exploring, there's already a
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power differential already, So it's just a matter to what degree.
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What I know about myself is that I know I
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would not respond well with stricter, harsh domination from any
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sex Erica, you naughty little select get on your knees
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and crawl over and lick my feet. Yeah, no, that's
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not going to happen. However, with that degree, I do
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respond very well with teasing, suggestion requests. Oh, you would
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look so sexy if you did this. So being more
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open minded about engaging with women and boundaries of dominance,
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I know where my boundaries are with men, and maybe
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I was actually thinking, maybe it'll I'll turn out more
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like Janie right that I want to be talked by women,
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but I must rule over men.
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I like that. I like that a lot, and I
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love the way you talk about it in terms of
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a power differential or an energy differential. That's actually different
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from power exchange, because power exchange means you give your
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personal power to the other person. With us, and a
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power differential, it's more collegiate. I couldn't imagine trying to
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dominate you in terms of making you submissive. That just
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feels really odd for me. I just I couldn't imagine that.
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Absolutely, I hear you. I feel the same way.
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You are like me though in that I've often said
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that I like to be topped for sensation play. So
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you're going to be able to hear how this works
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in a real setting, because Erica is not going to
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be the submissive person. And well some well, yeah, I
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mean it can. The actions can look submissive, correct, you know, oh,
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kiss my nipples right like that? Yeah, Or I want
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you to move your hand down or you know whatever.
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It can look like I'm telling you to do things
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and you're in the submissive role. The actions sometimes don't
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accurately reflect the power dynamics.
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Right.
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Okay, So I've got another question from someone. I think
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it was Christy, but I've actually heard this from a
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couple of people. Do you think you'll go totally lesbian?
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Wouldn't that be a feather in these ladies caps. I'm
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no a lesbian fuck allcocks. Oh wait a minute, that's
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not being lesbian in is it.
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And remember, Becky and I neither of us are are lesbians.
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We're bisexual. Right, That's about it. Erica, you want to
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do this again and again. You have increased your potential
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sexual partners. You've doubled your potential sexual partners. Right when
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it goes into the category for twenty five percent more
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with no extra charge, you get.
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Oh, that's fantastic. Two boobs and a pussy.
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Yay exactly.
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Honestly, I don't think I would actually go totally lesbian.
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The best we can hope for is bisexual. I like
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talk too much.
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Come on me too. I'm definitely bisexual. And if I
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had and I don't want to do this, but if
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I had to choose only one sex, I can't give
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up the dick. Mm hm, you know it just can't. No,
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it's festive friendly and it's so much fun to play with. Yes,
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and you can put party hats on it. A party
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hat doesn't fit on a clip, No, it doesn't. Oh
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my god, Erica, you know exactly I can tell, and
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you know exactly what I'm thinking. I wonder if I
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could do tiny little party hat. You know, you're right.
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We are gonna be laughing part of this. We are
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absolutely going to be laughing part of this. Yes, Okay,
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So final thoughts, folks. Timing. We're recording with ms Becky
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next weekend and you will hear that podcast episode. What
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we do how we do it? I'm telling you this
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because you will need to pull over to the side
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of the road if you're driving. But remember it's not
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going to be as graphic as if we're in a
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private session. Right. Absolutely, do you have a final thought.
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I am just thrilled that we're all going on this
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ride together and that includes our listeners. So let's take
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a ride.
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Everyone, Save a cowgirl, No, save a horse, ride a cowgirl.
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I can't believe I messed that up. Okay, folks, get
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in touch. By the way, check out our podcast blog,
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It's Weeklyhotspot dot com. If you click on the contact
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can use to ask questions, leave comments. You don't have
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We appreciate your support or feel free to drop us
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an email. My email is Olivia at Popingirl cherry dot com.
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Oh wait, that's not my email, Olivia at in chantrics
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Empire dot com. Twitter is Mistress Olivia, One Blue Sky
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is Miss Olivia and the Socials them Dom podcast f
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E M D O M M E podcast. And my
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blog is Popingirl cherry dot com. No, that's not my blog,
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although it should be after this. My blog is Experienced
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Mistress dot com and.
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My email address is Erica E. R I K A
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and in chantrics Empire dot com, Twitter, Blue Sky Erica
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and Chantris. My blog is Intelligentphone Fantasy dot com and
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of course you can always hit us up and follow
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along on discord LDW Erica or LDW Olivia.
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I'm so excited. We will leave everyone with this thought.
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If you are a little nervous about any kind of
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a first experience, like Erica is, go with the flow, enjoy,
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and just savor the deliciousness of new erotic pleasure. Tell
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us about it or experience it with us, and you
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might inspire a future episode of the Weekly Hotspot.
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Bye bye,
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Welcome to the Weekly Hotspot, your guide to non traditional
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relationships and female authority dynamics. I'm Mistress Olivia alongside Mistress Erica,
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and well, miss Erica, my friend, you are in the
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hot seat today and that seat is going to get
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even hotter when we actually break your girl on girl Cherry. Now,
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we've been talking about this for I don't know how long,
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but it's been a while, and I understand that a
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lot of people are asking you about this.
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What are they asking you while they're just kidding my mindset?
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You know?
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Are you excited? Is this something you want to do?
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You know?
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Michael Come Eating Man, Christy Jas just to name a few,
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are all very sitting on the edge of their seats
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about my girl Cherry.
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Okay, so Erica said it very gently and very diplomatically.
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I'm going to tell you the true story. Erica gets
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in my DMS and she goes. They're saying that we've
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been teasing this for years and they're wondering what it's
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going to actually happen. Well, Erica and I were on
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a podcast panel about girl a Girl Action. It's mss
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Becky's podcast Kinkology. Go and check it out and It
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is a panel of women from here about what we
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like about being with a woman. Now Erica has not
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been with a woman before, and so on that panel,
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I said to miss Becky, oh, do you want to
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help us pop mss Erica's girl Cherry. I didn't even
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get the question out of my mouth. And Miss Becky was,
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you know, standing up, waving her arms, squeezing her breast together,
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tweaking her nipples, going me, me, me, me, me me,
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I'm in.
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I what a fucking compliment? Thank you, Becky.
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It was thrilling. So uh, the question is did you
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do it yet? No? And don't you think that we
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would tell you if she had? What do you plan
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on doing once you've done it? You're going to tell people? Right? Oh?
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Of course we should make it a whole deal, shouldn't
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we like a podcast or something.
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We can't get the podcast being like exactly like a call, right,
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it can't be that explicit, right. I had to dream
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about you last feat. Yes, then dream was when I
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was standing behind you. Now you're a little bit shorter
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than I am. Neither of us were wearing heels, and
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I had one foot between your feet. I had my
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arm wrapped around your waist, so my tits were right
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on your bare back, and I just swept your hair
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to one side, and I was nibbling on your ear
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low and then gently kissing right down the side and
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your neck. And see, now we're getting very explicit. I'm
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about to dive into explicit stuff. But I have to
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tell you really enjoyed it.
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Oh my, I just enjoyed that. Just now. I sat
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here and I closed my eyes and I was like,
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I got a tingle right down my spine when down
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my right arm.
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Oh my lord, did it go to your root chakra?
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How my root chakra's going?
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Helow here?
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I am, come and get me.
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I want to ask you something. I know that you
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are multi orgasmic. Are you nervous about whether or not
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you have an orgasm with another woman? Like the female
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equivalent of performance anxiety for a man.
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Oh, that is a good question. I am. I am
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nervous about the unknown, but I think it's kind of
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in a good way. And I have developed a way
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to try to reduce the overwhelming factor of all these
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what if questions? Right, And I learned a long time
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ago anxiety and nervous comes from what ifs. Right, what
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if this? What if that? So I'm just trying to
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have and stay in the mindset just to explore and
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have fun. I mean, Olivia, I know you, I trust you.
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We've talked about this often, and it is just an
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experience with I don't want to have any expectations. I
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don't want you to have expectations of me other than
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the fact of just exploring and having fun. You can't
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go wrong with that. Then if things roll out and
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get heated and we have an orgasmic time, beautiful. If
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we don't, then it was something so wonderfully special that
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one of my very good friends wants me to experience.
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I mean, you can't go wrong. I change how I
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frame things to help calm those nerves. And honestly, my
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biggest concern is are we ever going to get to
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the good good? I mean we're just so goofy sometimes
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we're rolling around laughing worth anything else.
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Oh that's that's a very good point. Now, you know,
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when I'm playing in a fetish scene, oh my goodness,
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or some other situations that it was very inappropriate. I
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have to tell you I was at a funeral. I'm
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going to take us off on a funeral safari. Boy,
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that's a kill joy, isn't it a funeral? And someone
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that I was with looked over me and cracked a joke,
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and I started to get and because it was inappropriate setting,
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I started to giggle even more. So I'm sitting down
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on the church pews, looking down, my face completely covered up,
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my shoulders drips hard because I'm laughing, and the ushers
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came over and started handing me all sorts of cleanexes.
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So I think that that concern is a valid concern.
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But I think, knowing you and I, we're going to
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get back to the good, good quickly, similar to how
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I did. Right now. Now I have to ask a question.
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You talked about closing your eyes and just experiencing. Yes,
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if you get close to orgasm, but you're not there yet.
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Are you mind to fantasize about a cock?
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I didn't even think about that.
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Oh no, I planted that seed in your mind.
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I you know, I did not even think about that.
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But I don't think it will and only because well, hello,
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I know me, and when I'm in a sexual situation,
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I am hyper focused on feelings, breath, touch, I don't
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really fantasize during sex about anything else other than what's happening.
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I may fantasize, oh, I'm going to do this to
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this guy next right, or I'm going to do whatever,
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But I try to stay in the moment and stay
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focused on happening now.
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Yes, wow, So I carry the six thousand browser tabs
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open with me right into the bedroom. I might be fantasizing,
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I might be thinking about something else. I might be like,
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I'm in the moment, but there's a lot going on.
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Well, there might be a lot going on in my head,
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but I try to corral it and focus it on
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what I'm doing now.
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Similar like like you try and corral me. Good fucking
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luck with that, buddy, boy a girl.
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I know I can't control you, absolutely, I could only
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control my response to you.
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That's true. I have a concern. I'm a little bit concerned.
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What if you're like, oh, I really don't. I don't
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like this.
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Other than extreme things, I usually don't rush to judgment.
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I'll most instantaneously in my head I would say something like,
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this is feeling awkward. You've never done this before. Shut
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the fuck up, Erica, and focus. This is okay. It's
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okay to feel awkward. It's okay to feel weird, but
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just keep going, keep going forward, take another step, and
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just relax. And that's why, you know, during intimacy, I
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focus more on sensations, right, so I, Oh, that feels
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so good, this softness or whatever's happening. To keep those
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arrant thoughts out of my head, you.
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Know, I was thinking about that and with Becky and
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I and we're both experienced, we're both bisexual, and you
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can kind of be sort of experiencing us, yes, as
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we experience each other. Yes, right, so it's not going
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to be oh, two women are focused on on you, Erica,
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Did you come yet? Did you come yet? Did you
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come yet? You know because that have you ever had
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a man do that? Did you come yet? Did you
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come yet? And it's kind of like if you would
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just stop asking me, I think I can.
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Yeah, if you stop and you focus on the sensation,
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what's happening, you might be able to deduce that question
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on your own. Buddy, boy, But you're too worried about
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ram rotting.
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There will be no ram rotting from me or Becky.
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Gotcha.
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I've got a question though about them. I have so
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many questions for you about this. Do you want either
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of us to bring toys, vibrators, strap ons, you know
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my strap on les dot com site that I absolutely love.
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Or do you want us just to use hands, fingers, lips, legs, etc.
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Have you thought about that?
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I did not good question. I think having options is
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always a good thing. So whether or not we use
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the toys, it doesn't matter having them there in case
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things turn a different way. Maybe I need a different stimulation,
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or maybe it's really hot seeing you know Olivia hover
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over me and penetrate me with her girl cock. Who knows?
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Bring it. Just one caution. Vibrators. I don't really need them,
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maybe to warm up in other parts of the body.
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But if you want me to come in two point
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two seconds, put that vibrator right there and we'll be done. Yes,
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keep that in mind. All else. Vibrator.
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You know, I'm not a fan of vibrators either. Right
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on my clit. I like them, Oh gosh, yeah, exactly
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on the other parts of my body. Right there's some
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people that do the magic wand vibrator and they put
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it on the highest level and right on their clit,
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and oh that just ow. I mean, I don't want
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to yuck on somebody else's yum, so I shouldn't say that.
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So it's just not for me. But I think that
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kind of scene in porn leads to maybe some unreal expectations.
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Yes, absolutely, do.
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You have preconceived ideas based on and girl and girl
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porn that you've seen Lesbi Important, by the way, is
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by a large shop for.
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Men, right, absolutely? Well, Like I said, I'm trying not
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to have expectations. I'm trying to consider this as I've
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been told about a surprise birthday party that's going to
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be happening, and I'm supposed to not know about it,
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so I don't try to anticipate, And that's where I'm
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going to stay the happiest. That's why I'm going to
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stay the most open minded and go from there.
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You can tell I've been thinking about this.
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Yes, it makes me feel good, it's sexy, keep going.
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But why haven't you been thinking about this this much?
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I don't.
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I will help you quantify this much? How do you
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quantify this much? Because I would see because Olivia too.
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Part of what the reason this podcast works is because
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you are have a little bit of different energy than
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I do, and just because my energy level is just
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a little bit laid back a little bit more. I
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don't know what you call hippy dippy and let life
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be live? Does it? You know I have. I've been
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thinking about it. I've been thinking about it a lot,
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and how to handle my nerves, how to handle any challenges.
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Like you said, what if I go in there, I
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get the first hug and kiss and I'm like, oh, no, thanks.
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You know, I don't think that's going to happen. That's
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not going to happen. But you know all those things
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that go in your head. You see me after I've processed,
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I process alone and then I bring it forth. I
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don't process with others unless you have a big dick.
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Then you process. You process on that big dick. Right,
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So you know me better than Miss Becky, but both
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of us know Miss Becky. Yes, we talk about communication
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a lot on this podcast, and we talk about how
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to say what you want, how to communicate your needs, limits, boundaries,
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that kind of thing. But you're normally the one who
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is in charge and guiding the communication. Have you been
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thinking about what it's going to be like with you
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on the other side of the equation, the other side
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that you're not used to being.
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Oh, well, absolutely well. Not used to being in a
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relationship dynamic. I have been the student before, I have
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been open to instruction and exploration before, and that's how
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I'm seeing this right. I just need to open my
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mind and with the mindset of teach me instead of orchestrating,
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I absolutely can step back. I'm not as much of
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a control freak as some people may fin because this
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is the thing. If I'm out of my element, people
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see me in my element, confidence secure, Let's go, let's
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get this done. This is what I want you to do.
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But if I'm not in my element, I am totally
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open minded, and you know, I know my limits. You
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two are the sexy, experienced ladies, and I want to
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be like you.
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Oh. Now, a couple of people have asked me this,
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and I think I know the answer, but I'll pass
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on their question. Do you want Becky or me to
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dominate you?
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The short answer is probably not no. But however, however,
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let's think about this class. Right, if we get down
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the brass tacks, even with Olivia and Becky in a
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guiding position and me learning and exploring, there's already a
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power differential already, So it's just a matter to what degree.
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What I know about myself is that I know I
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would not respond well with stricter, harsh domination from any
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sex Erica, you naughty little select get on your knees
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and crawl over and lick my feet. Yeah, no, that's
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not going to happen. However, with that degree, I do
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respond very well with teasing, suggestion requests. Oh, you would
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look so sexy if you did this. So being more
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open minded about engaging with women and boundaries of dominance,
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I know where my boundaries are with men, and maybe
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I was actually thinking, maybe it'll I'll turn out more
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like Janie right that I want to be talked by women,
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but I must rule over men.
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I like that. I like that a lot, and I
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love the way you talk about it in terms of
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a power differential or an energy differential. That's actually different
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from power exchange, because power exchange means you give your
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personal power to the other person. With us, and a
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power differential, it's more collegiate. I couldn't imagine trying to
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dominate you in terms of making you submissive. That just
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feels really odd for me. I just I couldn't imagine that.
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Absolutely, I hear you. I feel the same way.
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You are like me though in that I've often said
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that I like to be topped for sensation play. So
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you're going to be able to hear how this works
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in a real setting, because Erica is not going to
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be the submissive person. And well some well, yeah, I
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mean it can. The actions can look submissive, correct, you know, oh,
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kiss my nipples right like that? Yeah, Or I want
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you to move your hand down or you know whatever.
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It can look like I'm telling you to do things
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and you're in the submissive role. The actions sometimes don't
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accurately reflect the power dynamics.
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Right.
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Okay, So I've got another question from someone. I think
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it was Christy, but I've actually heard this from a
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couple of people. Do you think you'll go totally lesbian?
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Wouldn't that be a feather in these ladies caps. I'm
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no a lesbian fuck allcocks. Oh wait a minute, that's
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not being lesbian in is it.
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And remember, Becky and I neither of us are are lesbians.
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We're bisexual. Right, That's about it. Erica, you want to
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do this again and again. You have increased your potential
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sexual partners. You've doubled your potential sexual partners. Right when
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it goes into the category for twenty five percent more
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with no extra charge, you get.
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Oh, that's fantastic. Two boobs and a pussy.
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Yay exactly.
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Honestly, I don't think I would actually go totally lesbian.
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The best we can hope for is bisexual. I like
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talk too much.
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Come on me too. I'm definitely bisexual. And if I
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had and I don't want to do this, but if
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I had to choose only one sex, I can't give
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up the dick. Mm hm, you know it just can't. No,
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it's festive friendly and it's so much fun to play with. Yes,
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and you can put party hats on it. A party
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hat doesn't fit on a clip, No, it doesn't. Oh
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my god, Erica, you know exactly I can tell, and
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you know exactly what I'm thinking. I wonder if I
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could do tiny little party hat. You know, you're right.
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We are gonna be laughing part of this. We are
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absolutely going to be laughing part of this. Yes, Okay,
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So final thoughts, folks. Timing. We're recording with ms Becky
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next weekend and you will hear that podcast episode. What
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we do how we do it? I'm telling you this
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because you will need to pull over to the side
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of the road if you're driving. But remember it's not
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going to be as graphic as if we're in a
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private session. Right. Absolutely, do you have a final thought.
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I am just thrilled that we're all going on this
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ride together and that includes our listeners. So let's take
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a ride.
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Everyone, Save a cowgirl, No, save a horse, ride a cowgirl.
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I can't believe I messed that up. Okay, folks, get
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in touch. By the way, check out our podcast blog,
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It's Weeklyhotspot dot com. If you click on the contact
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We appreciate your support or feel free to drop us
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an email. My email is Olivia at Popingirl cherry dot com.
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Oh wait, that's not my email, Olivia at in chantrics
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Empire dot com. Twitter is Mistress Olivia, One Blue Sky
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is Miss Olivia and the Socials them Dom podcast f
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E M D O M M E podcast. And my
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blog is Popingirl cherry dot com. No, that's not my blog,
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although it should be after this. My blog is Experienced
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Mistress dot com and.
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My email address is Erica E. R I K A
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and in chantrics Empire dot com, Twitter, Blue Sky Erica
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and Chantris. My blog is Intelligentphone Fantasy dot com and
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of course you can always hit us up and follow
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along on discord LDW Erica or LDW Olivia.
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I'm so excited. We will leave everyone with this thought.
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If you are a little nervous about any kind of
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a first experience, like Erica is, go with the flow, enjoy,
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and just savor the deliciousness of new erotic pleasure. Tell
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us about it or experience it with us, and you
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might inspire a future episode of the Weekly Hotspot.
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Bye bye,
